myvalentine2016

Recovery from
dysfunctional
Relationships
the past. In mediumship readings, with evidence of
their existence, I’ve brought through enough of these
parents in spirit to tell you that their child’s pattern
continues after the perpetrator’s death. Many of them
express regret of their behavior, and hope that the
son/daughter will stop repeating history. Since I’m not
a therapist, I recommend that the client sees one.
Sara Sachs is an Evidentiary Medium
in Pittsburgh with national and
international clientele.
412-298-4051
www.psychicsara.webs.com
As Valentines Day approaches, do you
feel sad to be single? Or, like me in the
past, view it as a day with the contempt
it deserves? Through self-searching, I’ve
realized the second reaction is a defense
mechanism for the first! As a psychic medium, many
of the issues around this day come up in readings.
There’s nothing like this holiday to bring up
ghosts of relationships past, or the sadness of
being in a bad one now! This is the shadow side
of a day others experience as romantic. People
who have a string of dysfunctional relationships
usually come from that kind of a family. For
example, someone who grew up with an abusive
alcoholic parent, is likely to be drawn to partners
who are the same! It’s his/her deep desire to
change that person in an attempt to go back to fix
Things get more complicated with those who use
romance to fill the void of childhood abandonment
issues. They often choose partners who won’t
commit. Ironically, this is how they try to ease the
pain of being ignored by the parent(s). This parental
unavailability comes in the form of addictions,
workaholism, etc. Again, partners are chosen on
that basis. Competition and jealousy come into the
picture with history of a sibling receiving a large
amount of attention over another, be it good or
bad! Friends, coworkers are seen as threats! They
are seen as that brother/sister. Again, in my work,
many of these deceased parents come through in
sittings. The sad thing is that, in most instances,
these neglectful, oblivious people don’t realize until
after death the harm they’ve done. They express their
amazement and remorse in their message. Again,
therapy is recommended. My job is to reveal, through
spirit, what’s happening. The sitter then chooses the
resolution. A suggestion for single people is to make
a partner manifestation diary, where qualities of the
ideal mate are written. It’s useful to give oneself
permission to make changes in this exercise over
time.
This could used in therapy to gain insights. I firmly
believe that the universe will produce that special
person in due time, if this project is done seriously.
A profile emerges as someone totally different from
former attractions. That’s where transformation occurs.
The older adrenaline choices no longer work.
The ultimate celebration of Valentine’s Day is
self-love. With that, the rest falls in place. Happy
Valentine’s Day, everyone!
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