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QC Family Focus: March 2016

In this issue: Explaining Taxes to Children; What Kids Should Know Before Entering Kindergarten; A Checklist for First-Time Home Buyers; Promoting Healthy Dating Among Teens and Young Adults; Aging and Hearing Loss

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The Warning Signs of Teen Depression<br />

Kate Lempke, LMHC<br />

Therapist, <strong>Family</strong> Resources<br />

Depression is an agonizing and often debilitating<br />

mental illness that affects millions of people. While<br />

experiencing and suffering from depression can be difficult<br />

at any age, many are not aware of the devastating impact it<br />

has on teens specifically. It is a very serious problem that<br />

impacts every aspect of the teen’s life and can have serious<br />

consequences.<br />

Depression in teens is more than just a “bad mood”<br />

or a “phase” that teens go through. While it is normal to<br />

experience occasional bad moods, sadness or mood swings,<br />

true depression in teens is much more complicated. Teens<br />

often do not want to reach out for help. They want to<br />

feel “normal” and often, believe that if they ignore their<br />

symptoms and attempt to hide their pain from others, those<br />

symptoms will eventually disappear.<br />

As with true mental illness, however, there is no<br />

simply wishing it away or burying it deep enough so that it is<br />

no longer a problem. What can occur is that these symptoms<br />

manifest and surface in a variety of other ways, which may<br />

include drug/alcohol use, eating disorders, apathy, isolation<br />

from others, problems at school, physical pain and other<br />

risky behaviors in which the teen may engage.<br />

The stigma regarding mental illness makes young<br />

adults less likely to reach out for help. That is why it is<br />

very important to be aware of warning signs that a teen<br />

could be suffering from much more than the moody blues.<br />

Warning signs may include (this is not an inclusive list):<br />

● Sadness/hopelessness<br />

● Anger/severe irritability<br />

● Changes in mood/behaviors that are not typical for the<br />

teen<br />

● Withdrawing from friends/family<br />

● Losing interest in activities they once enjoyed<br />

● Changes in eating and sleeping<br />

● Lacking motivation<br />

● Feeling worthless or guilty<br />

● Thoughts of death or suicide<br />

● Being tearful or frequently crying<br />

What should you do if you believe a teen you<br />

know is suffering from depression or another mental<br />

illness?<br />

Say something! Share your concerns with the teen<br />

in a caring manner. Let them know why you are worried<br />

and what you have noticed. Addressing your concerns<br />

will not put new ideas into their head, and ignoring the<br />

problem is not the answer. Offer support and assistance<br />

in working through what they are going through, or help<br />

them get hooked up with a professional who can. For<br />

more information on teen depression and therapy services,<br />

please call <strong>Family</strong> Resources at (563) 445-0557.<br />

<strong>QC</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Focus</strong> - <strong>March</strong> <strong>2016</strong> 23

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