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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

SUMMER LOOKBACK<br />

Photo Montage of Southwood<br />

Summer Events<br />

small groups:<br />

reflections from members<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> | southwood.org<br />

why employment?<br />

reconciliation through Jobs for Life


SOUTHWOOD<br />

overview<br />

<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

DESIGNER Phillip Lackey<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

Will Spink<br />

Sarah Niemitz<br />

Anna Babin<br />

Aaron Shaffer<br />

Martha Brady<br />

Vinit Mahesh<br />

Doug Roberts<br />

Joseph Holland<br />

Skeets Simonis<br />

PHOTOS<br />

Phillip Lackey<br />

Winnie Winford<br />

Southwood Members<br />

FEEDBACK!<br />

We want to hear from you! Please send<br />

your suggestions and comments to<br />

branches@southwood.org<br />

1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />

(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />

COVER PHOTO<br />

Relaxing at the <strong>2016</strong> Ice Cream Sunday<br />

CHURCH STAFF<br />

NIÑA BANTA Director of Children's Ministry<br />

RITA CLARDY Executive Assistant<br />

SHANNON CLARK Administrative Assistant<br />

RON CLEGG Director of Shepherding<br />

JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />

KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />

TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />

TREY GORDON Summer Youth Intern<br />

PHILLIP LACKEY Graphic Designer<br />

SARAH NIEMITZ Director of Community Development/Assimilation<br />

JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />

PETER RENDER Director of Youth/Families<br />

ANGELA SIERK Assistant Director/Children's Ministry<br />

WILL SPINK Senior Pastor<br />

WINNIE WINFORD Assistant Director/High-Life<br />

CONTENTS<br />

3 pastor's note<br />

4 why employment?<br />

Reconciliation through Jobs for Life<br />

6 summer lookback<br />

Photo Montage of Summer Events<br />

8 general assembly <strong>2016</strong><br />

Key Issues That Affect Us All<br />

10 leadership training<br />

Attending This Fall's Class<br />

11 small groups<br />

Reflections from Members<br />

UPCOMING EVENTS<br />

Sunday School Spotlight<br />

<strong>August</strong> 7<br />

Kids Leadership Training<br />

<strong>August</strong> 7<br />

Leadership Training Class Begins<br />

<strong>August</strong> 17<br />

Family Movie Night<br />

<strong>August</strong> 19<br />

Men's Retreat<br />

September 16 & 17<br />

NEW<br />

STAFF<br />

Please Welcome the<br />

Newest Members of Southwood's Staff!<br />

Pictured Left: Peter Render and Ron Clegg<br />

Pictured Right: Rita Clardy, Angela Sierk and Shannon Clark<br />

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PASTOR’S NOTE<br />

A Postcard in Late Summer<br />

The excitement of a new school year is<br />

building rapidly at the Spink home these days.<br />

Conversations about connecting with old and<br />

new friends, plans to purchase needed clothes<br />

or supplies, and agonizing over which activities<br />

to participate in are now daily occurrences.<br />

While we are sad to see the flexibility of<br />

summer end, there is a lot to look forward to<br />

as well.<br />

You’ll notice in this issue of Branches that the<br />

same “new year” excitement and transition is<br />

happening at Southwood, too. You may take<br />

advantage of opportunities to invest in old<br />

and new relationships through a small group,<br />

you may wrestle with whether to serve with<br />

the Children’s Ministry here at Southwood or<br />

with Jobs for Life in the community, or you may<br />

consider a deeper study of God’s Word and<br />

Biblical theology in the Leadership Training<br />

Class. If you haven’t been doing so already,<br />

I’d urge you to pray (no really, stop and<br />

actually pray!) about where God would have<br />

you engage intentionally for the sake of his<br />

kingdom during this season.<br />

When I was growing up, the excitement and<br />

anticipation began a little later in <strong>August</strong><br />

(seriously, “Back-to-School” sales in June and<br />

July?!), but I remember in addition to all the<br />

things I mentioned earlier waiting anxiously<br />

for a particular postcard every year. It was the<br />

note from my new teacher that informed me<br />

she would be the one walking through the<br />

next year with me and instructing me week in<br />

and week out. Now I don’t expect you all feel<br />

the anticipation of a new sermon series the<br />

way the pastor does, but I hope God’s Word<br />

always remains exciting to us. If you’ll pardon<br />

the rough analogy to a “new teacher” and the<br />

presumption of putting my own words into the<br />

pen of a biblical author, this is that postcard<br />

for you:<br />

“Dear Southwood, I’m so excited to have you<br />

in my class this year! I’ve been working hard<br />

researching and planning to teach you about<br />

the life of Jesus—true stories about miracles<br />

he performed, parables he taught, who he<br />

was, and what all of that means for our lives. I<br />

know that many of you had Professor Paul and<br />

Prophet Daniel the past couple of years and<br />

that they, too, have taught you a lot about Jesus<br />

(we’re kinda hung up on him around here!).<br />

But our class this year will be a different angle<br />

where we walk carefully through his life here on<br />

earth—from the promise and announcement<br />

of his birth to his public ministry and eventually<br />

his death and resurrection. I want you to know<br />

all about what really happened and particularly<br />

to have your hearts inspired and transformed<br />

by meeting Jesus himself and knowing him<br />

better. He really is ‘good news of great joy for<br />

all people,’ so I expect it will be a life-changing<br />

year for all of us! See you at the first day of<br />

school—<strong>August</strong> 7! Your teacher, Dr. Luke.”<br />

I know, I know… Some of you were hoping to<br />

get Mrs. Chronicles this year. I’m so sorry! Part<br />

of the excitement, though, is that we’re all in<br />

this same class together! So, grab a spouse,<br />

grab your children, grab a friend and join us<br />

as we begin this journey through the Gospel<br />

of Luke. I’ve had the privilege of doing some<br />

“summer reading” and studying ahead, and<br />

I can’t wait to join you in learning from this<br />

particular portion of God’s Word. See you<br />

Sunday!<br />

Will Spink<br />

Senior Pastor<br />

If you would like to contact<br />

Will, use the following:<br />

will.spink@southwood.org<br />

@WillSpink<br />

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branches<br />

WHY<br />

EMPLOYMENT?<br />

JOBS FOR LIFE: A MINISTRY OF RECONCILIATION<br />

by Sarah Niemitz<br />

Christians can quickly point to biblical commands to preach<br />

the gospel, feed the hungry, clothe the naked, and shelter the<br />

homeless. These ministries are a beautiful, important reflection of<br />

the caring love God has shown us in Christ. It is no surprise then<br />

that over 60% of churches have some kind of food ministry, just a<br />

few less have a clothing ministry, and just a few less participate in<br />

the ministry of shelter.<br />

If these commands are so biblically clear, then why is Southwood<br />

concerned with a ministry of employment and job preparedness?<br />

Where is our commanding verse?<br />

Well, I do not have one. That’s right; I can point to no verse that<br />

clearly commands the people of God to prepare and equip others<br />

for meaningful employment. However, what I can point to is God’s<br />

pattern of reconciliation throughout all of Scripture and Paul’s<br />

clear instruction in 2 Cor. 5:18 that we, the people of God, have<br />

been given this same ministry of reconciliation. Colossians 1:20<br />

declares that in Christ God has chosen to “reconcile to Himself<br />

all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the<br />

blood of his cross.”<br />

in God’s design even his perfect creation needed Adam and Eve’s<br />

care and attention. Through tending the garden or naming the<br />

animals, Adam and Eve were going to learn more about the God<br />

who made them and more about His purpose for their lives.<br />

If this is true, then as the Church pursues our God-given<br />

ministry of reconciliation, offering people the<br />

opportunity to learn more about<br />

their Creator and His purpose<br />

in their lives would<br />

be an important<br />

Prayer Network<br />

City<br />

What is God reconciling? ALL things. Remember in<br />

the garden Adam and Eve’s relationship with God<br />

was severed, their relationship with each other was<br />

broken, their ability to multiply and fill the earth<br />

became painful, and their ability to work the ground<br />

as God commanded became toilsome. Every<br />

aspect of their lives cracked, and suddenly the<br />

ground grew weeds, disease took over bodies,<br />

and love turned to fear and manipulation. But<br />

God says that through Christ He is not only<br />

reconciling men and women to God, but He<br />

is reconciling ALL THINGS to Himself.<br />

Business<br />

Non-Profit<br />

All things includes work. Remember, God<br />

gave Adam and Eve work before the fall,<br />

as an opportunity for them to reflect His<br />

authority and creativity in creation. Work<br />

was to be a beautiful act of worship, and<br />

Church<br />

Students<br />

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ministry! When we pursue ministry that helps others find and<br />

keep meaningful employment, we offer them opportunities for<br />

reconciliation in three ways.<br />

1. An opportunity to be reconciled to their Heavenly Father<br />

and to learn more about His purpose for their lives. Believers<br />

and non-believers share the same identity as image bearers<br />

of God with innate gifts for meaningful use. The church has<br />

the chance to share God’s intention for work, as well as His<br />

promise of reconciling all things to himself in Christ, in an<br />

accessible context.<br />

2. An opportunity to be reconciled to themselves and to those<br />

around them. Work provides dignity, and statistics show that<br />

when individuals and communities lack work, violence and<br />

abuse increase dramatically. “Hurt people hurt people” is<br />

a common counseling phrase, and it bears out in the world<br />

of unemployment. When we offer people a real path<br />

back to employment we offer them dignity,<br />

which not only benefits them but<br />

their spouses, children, and<br />

communities.<br />

3. An opportunity to be reconciled to their communities and<br />

the world around them, becoming contributors instead<br />

of consumers of benevolence. No one thinks that feeding,<br />

clothing, and sheltering the same people indefinitely is<br />

sustainable or empowering, and most individuals involved in<br />

these ministries would say a stable job is the only path to selfsufficiency<br />

for their clients. But currently only 2% of churches<br />

are dedicated to helping people find those jobs! What if we<br />

spent the same resources on employment ministry that we<br />

spend to feed people—doesn’t it seem possible that we<br />

could begin spending less on food as people are empowered<br />

to provide for themselves?<br />

This is why Jobs For Life challenges churches to “flip the list”<br />

and work to provide individuals real paths toward life-giving<br />

employment. Flipping the list does not mean ignoring hunger; it<br />

means dedicating more resources to helping people find jobs so<br />

that they no longer face chronic hunger. If we truly believe jobs<br />

are the most sustainable and empowering way out of poverty for<br />

our neighbors, then our ministries, our budgets, and our time<br />

ought to reflect that belief. Imagine if churches worked with nonprofits,<br />

the local business community, and even the city to help<br />

individuals find and keep meaningful jobs. It is happening, right<br />

here in Huntsville!! Southwood is partnering with The CornerStone<br />

Initiative, Huntsville Housing Authority, and Westside Community<br />

Church to hold our second Jobs For Life class this fall, and we<br />

need you! Consider joining our Jobs For Life family this fall and<br />

participating with us in this powerful ministry of reconciliation.<br />

Church<br />

Business<br />

DETAILS:<br />

Classes run Monday & Thursday evenings,<br />

September 12 through November 10th<br />

5:30-8pm (dinner from 5:30-6pm)<br />

Classes held at The Oscar Mason Center,<br />

located at 149 Mason Court,<br />

Huntsville, AL 35805<br />

Non-Profit<br />

City<br />

Ways you can serve:<br />

• Provide a meal<br />

• Join our prayer team<br />

• Join our business network<br />

• Volunteer with childcare<br />

• Help with resume writing &<br />

interview skills<br />

Champions<br />

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Churchwide<br />

BBQ Picnic<br />

Ice cream<br />

sunday<br />

SUMM<br />

LOOKB


ER<br />

ACK<br />

youth summer<br />

events<br />

vacation<br />

bible school


SOUTHWOOD<br />

A Pastor Looks Back at<br />

General Assembly <strong>2016</strong><br />

Key Issues that Impact All of Us<br />

Not many Southwood members think of<br />

sitting through committee meetings and<br />

assembly meetings at the annual meeting<br />

of the Presbyterian Church in America<br />

(PCA) as a highlight of their summer<br />

vacation. But that doesn’t mean the issues<br />

dealt with there aren’t important and<br />

helpful to all of us. I’ll highlight a couple<br />

of particular things for us to consider, but<br />

as always it is encouraging to remember<br />

that God is continuing to build his<br />

Church (unlike most denominations in<br />

our country, the PCA grew numerically<br />

this year). We should be encouraged<br />

by many issues we are not debating<br />

because the PCA continues—even in our<br />

disagreements—to be committed to the<br />

authority and inerrancy of God’s Word,<br />

a biblically driven theology and mission,<br />

and the priority of sharing the good news<br />

of Jesus with all people.<br />

Repentance and Racial<br />

Reconciliation<br />

The most significant issue dealt with at this<br />

year’s Assembly was racial reconciliation.<br />

I mean this not merely in terms of a<br />

statement approved but particularly in<br />

the relationships developing across racial<br />

lines in the denominational leadership,<br />

the spirit of excitement surrounding<br />

future ministry among minorities in<br />

our communities, the development<br />

of the African American Presbyterian<br />

Fellowship, and the tenor of discussion<br />

in many seminars and meals organized<br />

around this theme.<br />

One of the fruits of this general movement<br />

of the Spirit in the PCA was the approval<br />

of the statement included in full alongside<br />

this article that expresses corporate<br />

repentance over past and present racial<br />

sins and commits to ongoing gospeldriven<br />

racial reconciliation. I shared<br />

by Will Spink<br />

about this at some length in my July 3<br />

sermon from Daniel 9 entitled “Corporate<br />

Confession.” This is a vital issue at this<br />

time in the life of our denomination and<br />

our nation, and we need to consider it<br />

in our own hearts, lives, and churches<br />

as well as in the broader denomination.<br />

Social change in general and racial<br />

reconciliation in particular are not the<br />

gospel in themselves, but the gospel of<br />

Jesus Christ has always impacted society<br />

in both word and deed, and the reality of<br />

the gospel at work always breaks down<br />

barriers that divide us from each other by<br />

uniting us together in our bond in Christ.<br />

Much has been done in this state alone<br />

in the name of Christ that denies the<br />

biblical truth of all people being made in<br />

God’s image and treated as worthy and<br />

valuable because of that. It is, therefore,<br />

incumbent upon us to consider what<br />

repentance needs to look like for us and<br />

what the fruit of repentance would look<br />

like in our own lives and our own church.<br />

Since we are prone to blind spots in<br />

regard to our own sin, this often begins<br />

with listening and seeking to understand<br />

the pain and experiences of others.<br />

I’ve been listening for the past year to<br />

some of our minority members here at<br />

Southwood in an effort to put myself in<br />

their shoes as they experience being a<br />

part of the family here. We could all be<br />

more intentional about listening to our<br />

friends and neighbors and learning from<br />

them as well.<br />

When God gives us a vision of his kingdom<br />

in Revelation, it is a multi-colored kingdom<br />

made up of people from every tribe,<br />

language, people, and nation. Perhaps<br />

since we often pray, “Thy kingdom come<br />

on earth as it is in heaven,” we should ask<br />

ourselves if our current relationships reflect<br />

the longing for God’s kingdom that should<br />

be in our hearts. In 20 years God may intend<br />

Southwood to be a minority white church. He<br />

also may not—there are many factors that<br />

could impact that reality. But for now, I know<br />

He would call my friendships, the people I<br />

invite into my home, and the people I learn<br />

from, to be more colorful than they are today.<br />

This would be one fruit of true repentance<br />

for me and for many of us. Even if we feel<br />

generations preceding us were guilty of<br />

more outwardly grievous racial sins than we<br />

have been, we need to consider the reality of<br />

what those sins have produced in our hearts,<br />

in our cities, in our social systems, and in the<br />

ministries of our churches. I believe we will<br />

find much to confess.<br />

I also believe the gospel frees us to confess.<br />

The Bible says it is the kindness of God<br />

that leads us to repentance (Romans 2:4).<br />

Because we are confident in his mercy<br />

and forgiveness, we are safe to own our<br />

sin and brokenness. One of the primary<br />

things I believe has sparked this renewal<br />

and repentance in the PCA is the way our<br />

African-American brothers and sisters<br />

have patiently modeled the merciful and<br />

forgiving heart of God to us. They have<br />

been unrelenting in their work for justice<br />

and equally unrelenting in their gracious<br />

commitment to forgiveness!<br />

In addition to the statement made, the<br />

denomination as a whole took some<br />

practical steps as fruits of repentance by<br />

approving the establishment of a “Unity<br />

Fund” to help finance the training of<br />

minority pastors as well as a multi-ethnic<br />

study committee to continue advising us on<br />

racial realities as we move forward. Please<br />

pray for God’s continued work in these<br />

areas and particularly for the members<br />

of this committee: Kevin Smith, Carl Ellis,<br />

Alexander Jun, Sean Lucas, Jonathan Seda,<br />

Richie Sessions, and Alex Shipman; advisory<br />

members Sylvester Brown, Otis Pickett, and<br />

Russ Whitfield.<br />

Women in the<br />

Church Study Committee<br />

In regard to the Bible’s teaching on gender<br />

issues and marriage, the PCA has always<br />

held a complementarian position. This<br />

means that we believe God designed<br />

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"Pursuing Racial Reconciliation<br />

and the Advance of the Gospel"<br />

Be it Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church<br />

in America does recognize, confess, condemn and repent of corporate and<br />

historical sins, including those committed during the Civil Rights era, and<br />

continuing racial sins of ourselves and our fathers such as the segregation of<br />

worshipers by race; the exclusion of persons from Church membership on the<br />

basis of race; the exclusion of churches, or elders, from membership in the<br />

Presbyteries on the basis of race; the teaching that the Bible sanctions racial<br />

segregation and discourages inter-racial marriage; the participation in and<br />

defense of white supremacist organizations; and the failure to live out the gospel<br />

imperative that “love does no wrong to a neighbor” (Romans 13:10); and<br />

Be it Further Resolved, that this General Assembly does recognize, confess,<br />

condemn and repent of past failures to love brothers and sisters from minority<br />

cultures in accordance with what the Gospel requires, as well as failures to<br />

lovingly confront our brothers and sisters concerning racial sins and personal<br />

bigotry, and failing to “learn to do good, seek justice and correct oppression”<br />

(Isaiah 1:17); and<br />

Be it Further Resolved, that this General Assembly praises and recommits<br />

itself to the gospel task of racial reconciliation, diligently seeking effective courses<br />

of action to further that goal, with humility, sincerity and zeal, for the glory of<br />

God and the furtherance of the Gospel; and<br />

Be it Further Resolved, that the General Assembly urges the congregations<br />

and presbyteries of the Presbyterian Church in America to make this resolution<br />

known to their members in order that they may prayerfully confess their own<br />

racial sins as led by the Spirit and strive towards racial reconciliation for the<br />

advancement of the gospel, the love of Christ, and the glory of God; and<br />

Be it Further Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly call the attention<br />

of churches and presbyteries to the pastoral letter1 contained in Overture 55 as<br />

an example of how a presbytery might provide shepherding leadership for its<br />

churches toward racial reconciliation; and<br />

Be it Further Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly remind the<br />

churches and presbyteries of the PCA that BCO 31-2 and 38-1 provide potent<br />

and readily available means for dealing with ones who have sinned or continue<br />

to sin in these areas.<br />

WATCH GA WORSHIP SERVICES<br />

Video recordings of worship services (and sermons) are at:<br />

http://livestream.com/accounts/8521918/PCAGA<strong>2016</strong><br />

Tuesday—Sermon by Jim Wert, Retiring Moderator<br />

Wednesday—Worship by Keith & Kristyn Getty; Sermon by Tim Keller<br />

Thursday—Sermon by Thurman Williams on Racial Reconciliation<br />

unique roles for men and women as well as<br />

that both genders need each other for the<br />

appreciation and reflection of the image<br />

of God and the beauty of his body, the<br />

Church. While there is broad agreement on<br />

many fundamental issues here, the practice<br />

in regard to how that works out in the local<br />

church is varied through the denomination.<br />

As a result, the General Assembly approved<br />

a study committee on the role of women<br />

in the ministry of the church to report back<br />

next year with direction as to how we can<br />

best engage our women in many different<br />

ways. Thankfully, we are including our<br />

women in this conversation as several will<br />

participate on this study committee, whose<br />

members are as follows: Irwyn Ince, Jeffrey<br />

Choi, Ligon Duncan, Kathy Keller, Mary Beth<br />

McGreevy, Bruce O’Neil, and Harry Reeder;<br />

advisory members Nikisha Alcindor, Leon<br />

Brown, Dan Doriani, Kimberly Jones, Lani<br />

Jones, and Roy Taylor.<br />

There has been some controversy surrounding<br />

the committee’s direction and composition<br />

during and following the General Assembly.<br />

So, please pray for the members of this<br />

committee, for God’s direction on their work<br />

and recommendations, and for unity and<br />

charity for our denomination as we approach<br />

these issues.<br />

New PCA Logo<br />

Finally and on a lighter note, for the first time<br />

in its 43-year history, the PCA has an official<br />

denominational logo. This may eventually<br />

be of help in identifying sister churches on<br />

the internet or on the road in other cities,<br />

but for now it’s making headlines for other<br />

reasons. The newly approved logo (pictured<br />

on this page) features an open Bible and<br />

a cross, but the third element is less clear<br />

and has been mentioned as<br />

picturing the world and<br />

thus our mission as the<br />

Church. Apparently to<br />

many, however, it is<br />

more recognizable as<br />

a Star Wars character,<br />

which even The<br />

Washington Times<br />

has pointed out in a<br />

recent article.<br />

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SOUTHWOOD<br />

branches<br />

LEADERSHIP<br />

TRAINING<br />

...A CLASS FOR<br />

ANYONE AND<br />

EVERYONE<br />

CLASS<br />

by Anna Babin<br />

I had the privilege of getting to attend the<br />

Leadership Training Class with my husband in the<br />

Fall of 2014. We had only been married for a few<br />

months when we went through the training, and the conversations<br />

between us that the class sparked were such a blessing to our<br />

marriage. God used this training to help me have a better and<br />

deeper understanding of the Gospel.<br />

The class really helped me to understand why I believe what<br />

I believe, and I now understand the Gospel in a much deeper,<br />

sweeter, and more complete way. It helped me more fully realize<br />

just how sinful I am, which is never super fun to admit or think<br />

about, but it helped me to more clearly understand my need<br />

for a savior. This has led me to love Jesus more and to view His<br />

holiness, perfection, and mercy in a more accurate light. Through<br />

this training I was encouraged to ask myself hard questions about<br />

my faith and to examine Scripture for answers.<br />

I grew up in the Methodist church without much knowledge about<br />

theology, and I never really had great answers for why we believed<br />

what we believed. This leadership training class was the first time<br />

I had heard of a church really going deep into what they believe<br />

and working through the theology behind it. I am amazed by the<br />

care Southwood takes to educate and provide a foundation of<br />

theology to anyone who is interested, and I love the transparency<br />

it shows through the teaching. Every topic we discussed was<br />

backed up with tons of Scripture, and everything that we went<br />

through was filled with the gospel.<br />

I know I am now much better equipped to experience and<br />

express grace because of this class, and so I highly recommend<br />

you go through it when it's offered this fall. It’s not just for people<br />

interested in becoming officers of the church—it’s for everyone!<br />

Michael and I both plan on attending again this year because it<br />

was just that good. I hope we'll see you there!<br />

FOR CLASS INFORMATION<br />

OR TO SIGN-UP, GO TO<br />

SOUTHWOOD.ORG/LEADERSHIP<br />

FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT<br />

Friday, Aug. 19 • 6pm<br />

At the Lodge<br />

Popcorn & Grilled Hot Dogs<br />

$4 per person<br />

$15 per family (four or more)<br />

a lightning fast & fun<br />

rsvp to kim.delchamps@southwood.org<br />

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anches<br />

SOUTHWOOD<br />

smallGROUPS<br />

Mixed Group<br />

Women's Group<br />

Men's Group<br />

by Aaron Shaffer by Martha Brady by Vinit Mahesh<br />

My wife, Christen, and I<br />

have been married a little<br />

over a year now. One<br />

of the things that was<br />

really important for us<br />

was getting into a couples' small group.<br />

We were really excited to be placed with<br />

some amazing couples—some of which we<br />

already knew, others whom we didn’t. But<br />

I could tell from the first time we met that<br />

these were people that could be honest<br />

with one another. I remember my wife and I<br />

talking after small group, thankful that God<br />

had provided this group. Little did we know<br />

how much we would need them.<br />

Several months after being in our small<br />

group I got the tragic news that my brother<br />

died suddenly and unexpectedly. The first<br />

person to come sit with me while I cried<br />

was an Elder in our small group, while<br />

many others prayed and checked in on us.<br />

Over the course of the next couple weeks<br />

our small group showed up for us in many<br />

different ways—cooking meals, providing<br />

comfort and just giving us a place where I<br />

could just be myself. I remember having<br />

no energy and not wanting to socialize at<br />

all (surprising if you know me), but I found<br />

myself looking forward to small group. Our<br />

small group has taken the summer off, but I<br />

can't wait to start back up in the fall.<br />

I believe there is a lot of power in being in<br />

community and I’ve witnessed first-hand<br />

what a small group can offer. I would highly<br />

encourage others to join small groups<br />

and maybe even consider volunteering to<br />

facilitate small groups too.<br />

Small groups of women<br />

over the years have been<br />

invaluable! How can you<br />

put a price on friendship<br />

that is deeper than trite<br />

pleasantries passed on a Sunday morning?<br />

For me, Thursday mornings at Southwood<br />

involve getting to know women of all ages<br />

around GOD's Word as we study, discuss,<br />

learn, encourage each other and pray for<br />

heart needs. It involves a group of small<br />

groups that meet together with nursery<br />

provided. Our age range is from 20-90!<br />

We moved here 3 years ago. I was newly<br />

retired from nursing, only knowing our<br />

daughter and her family. As a result of<br />

Thursdays, I have a variety of friends in a<br />

new church, that have helped me become<br />

part of this place I now call home.<br />

Each year has brought growth for me in<br />

new directions. Each year has also brought<br />

its share of new challenges. I observe<br />

that most of the women in mixed groups<br />

here don't engage in the same way as the<br />

women only groups. Honest questions<br />

come more freely, prayers tend to be more<br />

open, vulnerability is more present.<br />

Come join us on Thursday mornings this<br />

Fall as we grow together, studying Hebrews<br />

with Nancy Guthrie's study guide HOPING<br />

FOR SOMETHING BETTER: Refusing to<br />

Settle for Life as Usual.<br />

I have been in a men’s<br />

small group for about<br />

7 years. Over the years,<br />

we have learned to trust<br />

one another to the point<br />

that we can be bluntly honest about our<br />

personal struggles with life and sin. Having<br />

the accountability of brothers in Christ<br />

who love, learn, and pray together is such<br />

a crucial part of my ability to navigate<br />

through life’s complexities. I wish every man<br />

in the church was in such a group!<br />

The co-leader, Curt, and I are in our mid-<br />

50’s, and the other guys in our group are in<br />

their 20’s and 30’s. We typically start with a<br />

meal and then transition to a Bible study,<br />

and it has been exciting to comprehensively<br />

study Old and New Testament books<br />

over the years. We end each meeting by<br />

praying for one another and have shared<br />

experiences of new marriages, deaths of<br />

parents, marital issues, births of children,<br />

and job and career changes. The group has<br />

allowed me both to grow in Christ, and to<br />

speak into the lives of younger brothers.<br />

want to<br />

connect in a<br />

BIG WAY?<br />

Next Wave:<br />

Small Groups<br />

Sign up TODAY at<br />

southwood.org/<br />

growingsmall<br />

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at DeSoto State Park<br />

September 16 & 17<br />

Sign-up today at<br />

southwood.org/mensretreat<br />

"What a good time to get together with other men in<br />

the Church. It was encouraging to have men from many<br />

different age groups interacting and getting to know one<br />

another better. I found it to be a good time to learn what<br />

God is doing in the lives of other brothers."<br />

—Doug Roberts<br />

"Unfortunately, we men often 'neglect to meet together'<br />

(Heb. 10:25). The Men’s Retreat is an incredible time to<br />

make connections and begin 'encouraging one another.'<br />

Hope to see you there!"<br />

—Joseph Holland<br />

"Last year's Men's Retreat was great. I was able to hang<br />

out with some old friends and make some new ones. I look<br />

forward to attending again this year."<br />

—Skeets Simonis

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