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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
SUMMER LOOKBACK<br />
Photo Montage of Southwood<br />
Summer Events<br />
small groups:<br />
reflections from members<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> | southwood.org<br />
why employment?<br />
reconciliation through Jobs for Life
SOUTHWOOD<br />
overview<br />
<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
DESIGNER Phillip Lackey<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
Will Spink<br />
Sarah Niemitz<br />
Anna Babin<br />
Aaron Shaffer<br />
Martha Brady<br />
Vinit Mahesh<br />
Doug Roberts<br />
Joseph Holland<br />
Skeets Simonis<br />
PHOTOS<br />
Phillip Lackey<br />
Winnie Winford<br />
Southwood Members<br />
FEEDBACK!<br />
We want to hear from you! Please send<br />
your suggestions and comments to<br />
branches@southwood.org<br />
1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />
(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />
COVER PHOTO<br />
Relaxing at the <strong>2016</strong> Ice Cream Sunday<br />
CHURCH STAFF<br />
NIÑA BANTA Director of Children's Ministry<br />
RITA CLARDY Executive Assistant<br />
SHANNON CLARK Administrative Assistant<br />
RON CLEGG Director of Shepherding<br />
JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />
KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />
TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />
TREY GORDON Summer Youth Intern<br />
PHILLIP LACKEY Graphic Designer<br />
SARAH NIEMITZ Director of Community Development/Assimilation<br />
JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />
PETER RENDER Director of Youth/Families<br />
ANGELA SIERK Assistant Director/Children's Ministry<br />
WILL SPINK Senior Pastor<br />
WINNIE WINFORD Assistant Director/High-Life<br />
CONTENTS<br />
3 pastor's note<br />
4 why employment?<br />
Reconciliation through Jobs for Life<br />
6 summer lookback<br />
Photo Montage of Summer Events<br />
8 general assembly <strong>2016</strong><br />
Key Issues That Affect Us All<br />
10 leadership training<br />
Attending This Fall's Class<br />
11 small groups<br />
Reflections from Members<br />
UPCOMING EVENTS<br />
Sunday School Spotlight<br />
<strong>August</strong> 7<br />
Kids Leadership Training<br />
<strong>August</strong> 7<br />
Leadership Training Class Begins<br />
<strong>August</strong> 17<br />
Family Movie Night<br />
<strong>August</strong> 19<br />
Men's Retreat<br />
September 16 & 17<br />
NEW<br />
STAFF<br />
Please Welcome the<br />
Newest Members of Southwood's Staff!<br />
Pictured Left: Peter Render and Ron Clegg<br />
Pictured Right: Rita Clardy, Angela Sierk and Shannon Clark<br />
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PASTOR’S NOTE<br />
A Postcard in Late Summer<br />
The excitement of a new school year is<br />
building rapidly at the Spink home these days.<br />
Conversations about connecting with old and<br />
new friends, plans to purchase needed clothes<br />
or supplies, and agonizing over which activities<br />
to participate in are now daily occurrences.<br />
While we are sad to see the flexibility of<br />
summer end, there is a lot to look forward to<br />
as well.<br />
You’ll notice in this issue of Branches that the<br />
same “new year” excitement and transition is<br />
happening at Southwood, too. You may take<br />
advantage of opportunities to invest in old<br />
and new relationships through a small group,<br />
you may wrestle with whether to serve with<br />
the Children’s Ministry here at Southwood or<br />
with Jobs for Life in the community, or you may<br />
consider a deeper study of God’s Word and<br />
Biblical theology in the Leadership Training<br />
Class. If you haven’t been doing so already,<br />
I’d urge you to pray (no really, stop and<br />
actually pray!) about where God would have<br />
you engage intentionally for the sake of his<br />
kingdom during this season.<br />
When I was growing up, the excitement and<br />
anticipation began a little later in <strong>August</strong><br />
(seriously, “Back-to-School” sales in June and<br />
July?!), but I remember in addition to all the<br />
things I mentioned earlier waiting anxiously<br />
for a particular postcard every year. It was the<br />
note from my new teacher that informed me<br />
she would be the one walking through the<br />
next year with me and instructing me week in<br />
and week out. Now I don’t expect you all feel<br />
the anticipation of a new sermon series the<br />
way the pastor does, but I hope God’s Word<br />
always remains exciting to us. If you’ll pardon<br />
the rough analogy to a “new teacher” and the<br />
presumption of putting my own words into the<br />
pen of a biblical author, this is that postcard<br />
for you:<br />
“Dear Southwood, I’m so excited to have you<br />
in my class this year! I’ve been working hard<br />
researching and planning to teach you about<br />
the life of Jesus—true stories about miracles<br />
he performed, parables he taught, who he<br />
was, and what all of that means for our lives. I<br />
know that many of you had Professor Paul and<br />
Prophet Daniel the past couple of years and<br />
that they, too, have taught you a lot about Jesus<br />
(we’re kinda hung up on him around here!).<br />
But our class this year will be a different angle<br />
where we walk carefully through his life here on<br />
earth—from the promise and announcement<br />
of his birth to his public ministry and eventually<br />
his death and resurrection. I want you to know<br />
all about what really happened and particularly<br />
to have your hearts inspired and transformed<br />
by meeting Jesus himself and knowing him<br />
better. He really is ‘good news of great joy for<br />
all people,’ so I expect it will be a life-changing<br />
year for all of us! See you at the first day of<br />
school—<strong>August</strong> 7! Your teacher, Dr. Luke.”<br />
I know, I know… Some of you were hoping to<br />
get Mrs. Chronicles this year. I’m so sorry! Part<br />
of the excitement, though, is that we’re all in<br />
this same class together! So, grab a spouse,<br />
grab your children, grab a friend and join us<br />
as we begin this journey through the Gospel<br />
of Luke. I’ve had the privilege of doing some<br />
“summer reading” and studying ahead, and<br />
I can’t wait to join you in learning from this<br />
particular portion of God’s Word. See you<br />
Sunday!<br />
Will Spink<br />
Senior Pastor<br />
If you would like to contact<br />
Will, use the following:<br />
will.spink@southwood.org<br />
@WillSpink<br />
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WHY<br />
EMPLOYMENT?<br />
JOBS FOR LIFE: A MINISTRY OF RECONCILIATION<br />
by Sarah Niemitz<br />
Christians can quickly point to biblical commands to preach<br />
the gospel, feed the hungry, clothe the naked, and shelter the<br />
homeless. These ministries are a beautiful, important reflection of<br />
the caring love God has shown us in Christ. It is no surprise then<br />
that over 60% of churches have some kind of food ministry, just a<br />
few less have a clothing ministry, and just a few less participate in<br />
the ministry of shelter.<br />
If these commands are so biblically clear, then why is Southwood<br />
concerned with a ministry of employment and job preparedness?<br />
Where is our commanding verse?<br />
Well, I do not have one. That’s right; I can point to no verse that<br />
clearly commands the people of God to prepare and equip others<br />
for meaningful employment. However, what I can point to is God’s<br />
pattern of reconciliation throughout all of Scripture and Paul’s<br />
clear instruction in 2 Cor. 5:18 that we, the people of God, have<br />
been given this same ministry of reconciliation. Colossians 1:20<br />
declares that in Christ God has chosen to “reconcile to Himself<br />
all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the<br />
blood of his cross.”<br />
in God’s design even his perfect creation needed Adam and Eve’s<br />
care and attention. Through tending the garden or naming the<br />
animals, Adam and Eve were going to learn more about the God<br />
who made them and more about His purpose for their lives.<br />
If this is true, then as the Church pursues our God-given<br />
ministry of reconciliation, offering people the<br />
opportunity to learn more about<br />
their Creator and His purpose<br />
in their lives would<br />
be an important<br />
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What is God reconciling? ALL things. Remember in<br />
the garden Adam and Eve’s relationship with God<br />
was severed, their relationship with each other was<br />
broken, their ability to multiply and fill the earth<br />
became painful, and their ability to work the ground<br />
as God commanded became toilsome. Every<br />
aspect of their lives cracked, and suddenly the<br />
ground grew weeds, disease took over bodies,<br />
and love turned to fear and manipulation. But<br />
God says that through Christ He is not only<br />
reconciling men and women to God, but He<br />
is reconciling ALL THINGS to Himself.<br />
Business<br />
Non-Profit<br />
All things includes work. Remember, God<br />
gave Adam and Eve work before the fall,<br />
as an opportunity for them to reflect His<br />
authority and creativity in creation. Work<br />
was to be a beautiful act of worship, and<br />
Church<br />
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ministry! When we pursue ministry that helps others find and<br />
keep meaningful employment, we offer them opportunities for<br />
reconciliation in three ways.<br />
1. An opportunity to be reconciled to their Heavenly Father<br />
and to learn more about His purpose for their lives. Believers<br />
and non-believers share the same identity as image bearers<br />
of God with innate gifts for meaningful use. The church has<br />
the chance to share God’s intention for work, as well as His<br />
promise of reconciling all things to himself in Christ, in an<br />
accessible context.<br />
2. An opportunity to be reconciled to themselves and to those<br />
around them. Work provides dignity, and statistics show that<br />
when individuals and communities lack work, violence and<br />
abuse increase dramatically. “Hurt people hurt people” is<br />
a common counseling phrase, and it bears out in the world<br />
of unemployment. When we offer people a real path<br />
back to employment we offer them dignity,<br />
which not only benefits them but<br />
their spouses, children, and<br />
communities.<br />
3. An opportunity to be reconciled to their communities and<br />
the world around them, becoming contributors instead<br />
of consumers of benevolence. No one thinks that feeding,<br />
clothing, and sheltering the same people indefinitely is<br />
sustainable or empowering, and most individuals involved in<br />
these ministries would say a stable job is the only path to selfsufficiency<br />
for their clients. But currently only 2% of churches<br />
are dedicated to helping people find those jobs! What if we<br />
spent the same resources on employment ministry that we<br />
spend to feed people—doesn’t it seem possible that we<br />
could begin spending less on food as people are empowered<br />
to provide for themselves?<br />
This is why Jobs For Life challenges churches to “flip the list”<br />
and work to provide individuals real paths toward life-giving<br />
employment. Flipping the list does not mean ignoring hunger; it<br />
means dedicating more resources to helping people find jobs so<br />
that they no longer face chronic hunger. If we truly believe jobs<br />
are the most sustainable and empowering way out of poverty for<br />
our neighbors, then our ministries, our budgets, and our time<br />
ought to reflect that belief. Imagine if churches worked with nonprofits,<br />
the local business community, and even the city to help<br />
individuals find and keep meaningful jobs. It is happening, right<br />
here in Huntsville!! Southwood is partnering with The CornerStone<br />
Initiative, Huntsville Housing Authority, and Westside Community<br />
Church to hold our second Jobs For Life class this fall, and we<br />
need you! Consider joining our Jobs For Life family this fall and<br />
participating with us in this powerful ministry of reconciliation.<br />
Church<br />
Business<br />
DETAILS:<br />
Classes run Monday & Thursday evenings,<br />
September 12 through November 10th<br />
5:30-8pm (dinner from 5:30-6pm)<br />
Classes held at The Oscar Mason Center,<br />
located at 149 Mason Court,<br />
Huntsville, AL 35805<br />
Non-Profit<br />
City<br />
Ways you can serve:<br />
• Provide a meal<br />
• Join our prayer team<br />
• Join our business network<br />
• Volunteer with childcare<br />
• Help with resume writing &<br />
interview skills<br />
Champions<br />
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Churchwide<br />
BBQ Picnic<br />
Ice cream<br />
sunday<br />
SUMM<br />
LOOKB
ER<br />
ACK<br />
youth summer<br />
events<br />
vacation<br />
bible school
SOUTHWOOD<br />
A Pastor Looks Back at<br />
General Assembly <strong>2016</strong><br />
Key Issues that Impact All of Us<br />
Not many Southwood members think of<br />
sitting through committee meetings and<br />
assembly meetings at the annual meeting<br />
of the Presbyterian Church in America<br />
(PCA) as a highlight of their summer<br />
vacation. But that doesn’t mean the issues<br />
dealt with there aren’t important and<br />
helpful to all of us. I’ll highlight a couple<br />
of particular things for us to consider, but<br />
as always it is encouraging to remember<br />
that God is continuing to build his<br />
Church (unlike most denominations in<br />
our country, the PCA grew numerically<br />
this year). We should be encouraged<br />
by many issues we are not debating<br />
because the PCA continues—even in our<br />
disagreements—to be committed to the<br />
authority and inerrancy of God’s Word,<br />
a biblically driven theology and mission,<br />
and the priority of sharing the good news<br />
of Jesus with all people.<br />
Repentance and Racial<br />
Reconciliation<br />
The most significant issue dealt with at this<br />
year’s Assembly was racial reconciliation.<br />
I mean this not merely in terms of a<br />
statement approved but particularly in<br />
the relationships developing across racial<br />
lines in the denominational leadership,<br />
the spirit of excitement surrounding<br />
future ministry among minorities in<br />
our communities, the development<br />
of the African American Presbyterian<br />
Fellowship, and the tenor of discussion<br />
in many seminars and meals organized<br />
around this theme.<br />
One of the fruits of this general movement<br />
of the Spirit in the PCA was the approval<br />
of the statement included in full alongside<br />
this article that expresses corporate<br />
repentance over past and present racial<br />
sins and commits to ongoing gospeldriven<br />
racial reconciliation. I shared<br />
by Will Spink<br />
about this at some length in my July 3<br />
sermon from Daniel 9 entitled “Corporate<br />
Confession.” This is a vital issue at this<br />
time in the life of our denomination and<br />
our nation, and we need to consider it<br />
in our own hearts, lives, and churches<br />
as well as in the broader denomination.<br />
Social change in general and racial<br />
reconciliation in particular are not the<br />
gospel in themselves, but the gospel of<br />
Jesus Christ has always impacted society<br />
in both word and deed, and the reality of<br />
the gospel at work always breaks down<br />
barriers that divide us from each other by<br />
uniting us together in our bond in Christ.<br />
Much has been done in this state alone<br />
in the name of Christ that denies the<br />
biblical truth of all people being made in<br />
God’s image and treated as worthy and<br />
valuable because of that. It is, therefore,<br />
incumbent upon us to consider what<br />
repentance needs to look like for us and<br />
what the fruit of repentance would look<br />
like in our own lives and our own church.<br />
Since we are prone to blind spots in<br />
regard to our own sin, this often begins<br />
with listening and seeking to understand<br />
the pain and experiences of others.<br />
I’ve been listening for the past year to<br />
some of our minority members here at<br />
Southwood in an effort to put myself in<br />
their shoes as they experience being a<br />
part of the family here. We could all be<br />
more intentional about listening to our<br />
friends and neighbors and learning from<br />
them as well.<br />
When God gives us a vision of his kingdom<br />
in Revelation, it is a multi-colored kingdom<br />
made up of people from every tribe,<br />
language, people, and nation. Perhaps<br />
since we often pray, “Thy kingdom come<br />
on earth as it is in heaven,” we should ask<br />
ourselves if our current relationships reflect<br />
the longing for God’s kingdom that should<br />
be in our hearts. In 20 years God may intend<br />
Southwood to be a minority white church. He<br />
also may not—there are many factors that<br />
could impact that reality. But for now, I know<br />
He would call my friendships, the people I<br />
invite into my home, and the people I learn<br />
from, to be more colorful than they are today.<br />
This would be one fruit of true repentance<br />
for me and for many of us. Even if we feel<br />
generations preceding us were guilty of<br />
more outwardly grievous racial sins than we<br />
have been, we need to consider the reality of<br />
what those sins have produced in our hearts,<br />
in our cities, in our social systems, and in the<br />
ministries of our churches. I believe we will<br />
find much to confess.<br />
I also believe the gospel frees us to confess.<br />
The Bible says it is the kindness of God<br />
that leads us to repentance (Romans 2:4).<br />
Because we are confident in his mercy<br />
and forgiveness, we are safe to own our<br />
sin and brokenness. One of the primary<br />
things I believe has sparked this renewal<br />
and repentance in the PCA is the way our<br />
African-American brothers and sisters<br />
have patiently modeled the merciful and<br />
forgiving heart of God to us. They have<br />
been unrelenting in their work for justice<br />
and equally unrelenting in their gracious<br />
commitment to forgiveness!<br />
In addition to the statement made, the<br />
denomination as a whole took some<br />
practical steps as fruits of repentance by<br />
approving the establishment of a “Unity<br />
Fund” to help finance the training of<br />
minority pastors as well as a multi-ethnic<br />
study committee to continue advising us on<br />
racial realities as we move forward. Please<br />
pray for God’s continued work in these<br />
areas and particularly for the members<br />
of this committee: Kevin Smith, Carl Ellis,<br />
Alexander Jun, Sean Lucas, Jonathan Seda,<br />
Richie Sessions, and Alex Shipman; advisory<br />
members Sylvester Brown, Otis Pickett, and<br />
Russ Whitfield.<br />
Women in the<br />
Church Study Committee<br />
In regard to the Bible’s teaching on gender<br />
issues and marriage, the PCA has always<br />
held a complementarian position. This<br />
means that we believe God designed<br />
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"Pursuing Racial Reconciliation<br />
and the Advance of the Gospel"<br />
Be it Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church<br />
in America does recognize, confess, condemn and repent of corporate and<br />
historical sins, including those committed during the Civil Rights era, and<br />
continuing racial sins of ourselves and our fathers such as the segregation of<br />
worshipers by race; the exclusion of persons from Church membership on the<br />
basis of race; the exclusion of churches, or elders, from membership in the<br />
Presbyteries on the basis of race; the teaching that the Bible sanctions racial<br />
segregation and discourages inter-racial marriage; the participation in and<br />
defense of white supremacist organizations; and the failure to live out the gospel<br />
imperative that “love does no wrong to a neighbor” (Romans 13:10); and<br />
Be it Further Resolved, that this General Assembly does recognize, confess,<br />
condemn and repent of past failures to love brothers and sisters from minority<br />
cultures in accordance with what the Gospel requires, as well as failures to<br />
lovingly confront our brothers and sisters concerning racial sins and personal<br />
bigotry, and failing to “learn to do good, seek justice and correct oppression”<br />
(Isaiah 1:17); and<br />
Be it Further Resolved, that this General Assembly praises and recommits<br />
itself to the gospel task of racial reconciliation, diligently seeking effective courses<br />
of action to further that goal, with humility, sincerity and zeal, for the glory of<br />
God and the furtherance of the Gospel; and<br />
Be it Further Resolved, that the General Assembly urges the congregations<br />
and presbyteries of the Presbyterian Church in America to make this resolution<br />
known to their members in order that they may prayerfully confess their own<br />
racial sins as led by the Spirit and strive towards racial reconciliation for the<br />
advancement of the gospel, the love of Christ, and the glory of God; and<br />
Be it Further Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly call the attention<br />
of churches and presbyteries to the pastoral letter1 contained in Overture 55 as<br />
an example of how a presbytery might provide shepherding leadership for its<br />
churches toward racial reconciliation; and<br />
Be it Further Resolved, that the 44th General Assembly remind the<br />
churches and presbyteries of the PCA that BCO 31-2 and 38-1 provide potent<br />
and readily available means for dealing with ones who have sinned or continue<br />
to sin in these areas.<br />
WATCH GA WORSHIP SERVICES<br />
Video recordings of worship services (and sermons) are at:<br />
http://livestream.com/accounts/8521918/PCAGA<strong>2016</strong><br />
Tuesday—Sermon by Jim Wert, Retiring Moderator<br />
Wednesday—Worship by Keith & Kristyn Getty; Sermon by Tim Keller<br />
Thursday—Sermon by Thurman Williams on Racial Reconciliation<br />
unique roles for men and women as well as<br />
that both genders need each other for the<br />
appreciation and reflection of the image<br />
of God and the beauty of his body, the<br />
Church. While there is broad agreement on<br />
many fundamental issues here, the practice<br />
in regard to how that works out in the local<br />
church is varied through the denomination.<br />
As a result, the General Assembly approved<br />
a study committee on the role of women<br />
in the ministry of the church to report back<br />
next year with direction as to how we can<br />
best engage our women in many different<br />
ways. Thankfully, we are including our<br />
women in this conversation as several will<br />
participate on this study committee, whose<br />
members are as follows: Irwyn Ince, Jeffrey<br />
Choi, Ligon Duncan, Kathy Keller, Mary Beth<br />
McGreevy, Bruce O’Neil, and Harry Reeder;<br />
advisory members Nikisha Alcindor, Leon<br />
Brown, Dan Doriani, Kimberly Jones, Lani<br />
Jones, and Roy Taylor.<br />
There has been some controversy surrounding<br />
the committee’s direction and composition<br />
during and following the General Assembly.<br />
So, please pray for the members of this<br />
committee, for God’s direction on their work<br />
and recommendations, and for unity and<br />
charity for our denomination as we approach<br />
these issues.<br />
New PCA Logo<br />
Finally and on a lighter note, for the first time<br />
in its 43-year history, the PCA has an official<br />
denominational logo. This may eventually<br />
be of help in identifying sister churches on<br />
the internet or on the road in other cities,<br />
but for now it’s making headlines for other<br />
reasons. The newly approved logo (pictured<br />
on this page) features an open Bible and<br />
a cross, but the third element is less clear<br />
and has been mentioned as<br />
picturing the world and<br />
thus our mission as the<br />
Church. Apparently to<br />
many, however, it is<br />
more recognizable as<br />
a Star Wars character,<br />
which even The<br />
Washington Times<br />
has pointed out in a<br />
recent article.<br />
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LEADERSHIP<br />
TRAINING<br />
...A CLASS FOR<br />
ANYONE AND<br />
EVERYONE<br />
CLASS<br />
by Anna Babin<br />
I had the privilege of getting to attend the<br />
Leadership Training Class with my husband in the<br />
Fall of 2014. We had only been married for a few<br />
months when we went through the training, and the conversations<br />
between us that the class sparked were such a blessing to our<br />
marriage. God used this training to help me have a better and<br />
deeper understanding of the Gospel.<br />
The class really helped me to understand why I believe what<br />
I believe, and I now understand the Gospel in a much deeper,<br />
sweeter, and more complete way. It helped me more fully realize<br />
just how sinful I am, which is never super fun to admit or think<br />
about, but it helped me to more clearly understand my need<br />
for a savior. This has led me to love Jesus more and to view His<br />
holiness, perfection, and mercy in a more accurate light. Through<br />
this training I was encouraged to ask myself hard questions about<br />
my faith and to examine Scripture for answers.<br />
I grew up in the Methodist church without much knowledge about<br />
theology, and I never really had great answers for why we believed<br />
what we believed. This leadership training class was the first time<br />
I had heard of a church really going deep into what they believe<br />
and working through the theology behind it. I am amazed by the<br />
care Southwood takes to educate and provide a foundation of<br />
theology to anyone who is interested, and I love the transparency<br />
it shows through the teaching. Every topic we discussed was<br />
backed up with tons of Scripture, and everything that we went<br />
through was filled with the gospel.<br />
I know I am now much better equipped to experience and<br />
express grace because of this class, and so I highly recommend<br />
you go through it when it's offered this fall. It’s not just for people<br />
interested in becoming officers of the church—it’s for everyone!<br />
Michael and I both plan on attending again this year because it<br />
was just that good. I hope we'll see you there!<br />
FOR CLASS INFORMATION<br />
OR TO SIGN-UP, GO TO<br />
SOUTHWOOD.ORG/LEADERSHIP<br />
FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT<br />
Friday, Aug. 19 • 6pm<br />
At the Lodge<br />
Popcorn & Grilled Hot Dogs<br />
$4 per person<br />
$15 per family (four or more)<br />
a lightning fast & fun<br />
rsvp to kim.delchamps@southwood.org<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
smallGROUPS<br />
Mixed Group<br />
Women's Group<br />
Men's Group<br />
by Aaron Shaffer by Martha Brady by Vinit Mahesh<br />
My wife, Christen, and I<br />
have been married a little<br />
over a year now. One<br />
of the things that was<br />
really important for us<br />
was getting into a couples' small group.<br />
We were really excited to be placed with<br />
some amazing couples—some of which we<br />
already knew, others whom we didn’t. But<br />
I could tell from the first time we met that<br />
these were people that could be honest<br />
with one another. I remember my wife and I<br />
talking after small group, thankful that God<br />
had provided this group. Little did we know<br />
how much we would need them.<br />
Several months after being in our small<br />
group I got the tragic news that my brother<br />
died suddenly and unexpectedly. The first<br />
person to come sit with me while I cried<br />
was an Elder in our small group, while<br />
many others prayed and checked in on us.<br />
Over the course of the next couple weeks<br />
our small group showed up for us in many<br />
different ways—cooking meals, providing<br />
comfort and just giving us a place where I<br />
could just be myself. I remember having<br />
no energy and not wanting to socialize at<br />
all (surprising if you know me), but I found<br />
myself looking forward to small group. Our<br />
small group has taken the summer off, but I<br />
can't wait to start back up in the fall.<br />
I believe there is a lot of power in being in<br />
community and I’ve witnessed first-hand<br />
what a small group can offer. I would highly<br />
encourage others to join small groups<br />
and maybe even consider volunteering to<br />
facilitate small groups too.<br />
Small groups of women<br />
over the years have been<br />
invaluable! How can you<br />
put a price on friendship<br />
that is deeper than trite<br />
pleasantries passed on a Sunday morning?<br />
For me, Thursday mornings at Southwood<br />
involve getting to know women of all ages<br />
around GOD's Word as we study, discuss,<br />
learn, encourage each other and pray for<br />
heart needs. It involves a group of small<br />
groups that meet together with nursery<br />
provided. Our age range is from 20-90!<br />
We moved here 3 years ago. I was newly<br />
retired from nursing, only knowing our<br />
daughter and her family. As a result of<br />
Thursdays, I have a variety of friends in a<br />
new church, that have helped me become<br />
part of this place I now call home.<br />
Each year has brought growth for me in<br />
new directions. Each year has also brought<br />
its share of new challenges. I observe<br />
that most of the women in mixed groups<br />
here don't engage in the same way as the<br />
women only groups. Honest questions<br />
come more freely, prayers tend to be more<br />
open, vulnerability is more present.<br />
Come join us on Thursday mornings this<br />
Fall as we grow together, studying Hebrews<br />
with Nancy Guthrie's study guide HOPING<br />
FOR SOMETHING BETTER: Refusing to<br />
Settle for Life as Usual.<br />
I have been in a men’s<br />
small group for about<br />
7 years. Over the years,<br />
we have learned to trust<br />
one another to the point<br />
that we can be bluntly honest about our<br />
personal struggles with life and sin. Having<br />
the accountability of brothers in Christ<br />
who love, learn, and pray together is such<br />
a crucial part of my ability to navigate<br />
through life’s complexities. I wish every man<br />
in the church was in such a group!<br />
The co-leader, Curt, and I are in our mid-<br />
50’s, and the other guys in our group are in<br />
their 20’s and 30’s. We typically start with a<br />
meal and then transition to a Bible study,<br />
and it has been exciting to comprehensively<br />
study Old and New Testament books<br />
over the years. We end each meeting by<br />
praying for one another and have shared<br />
experiences of new marriages, deaths of<br />
parents, marital issues, births of children,<br />
and job and career changes. The group has<br />
allowed me both to grow in Christ, and to<br />
speak into the lives of younger brothers.<br />
want to<br />
connect in a<br />
BIG WAY?<br />
Next Wave:<br />
Small Groups<br />
Sign up TODAY at<br />
southwood.org/<br />
growingsmall<br />
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at DeSoto State Park<br />
September 16 & 17<br />
Sign-up today at<br />
southwood.org/mensretreat<br />
"What a good time to get together with other men in<br />
the Church. It was encouraging to have men from many<br />
different age groups interacting and getting to know one<br />
another better. I found it to be a good time to learn what<br />
God is doing in the lives of other brothers."<br />
—Doug Roberts<br />
"Unfortunately, we men often 'neglect to meet together'<br />
(Heb. 10:25). The Men’s Retreat is an incredible time to<br />
make connections and begin 'encouraging one another.'<br />
Hope to see you there!"<br />
—Joseph Holland<br />
"Last year's Men's Retreat was great. I was able to hang<br />
out with some old friends and make some new ones. I look<br />
forward to attending again this year."<br />
—Skeets Simonis