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POWER<br />

Within<br />

LIFE<br />

MADE<br />

SIMPLE<br />

PHYSICAL<br />

MENTAL<br />

EMOTIONAL<br />

STRATEGIES<br />

SIMPLIFIED<br />

12<br />

TACTICS<br />

FOR YOUR<br />

ABUNDANCE<br />

ACTIVE<br />

LIFE


initial compilation of the<br />

My<br />

& emotional strategies.<br />

physical,mental<br />

POWER WITHIN<br />

Physical Strategies<br />

Mental Strategies<br />

Emotional Strategies<br />

T E N T S N O C<br />

ground to<br />

Test<br />

your check<br />

3<br />

Editor's Note<br />

Spine<br />

p. 20<br />

Flexibility<br />

4<br />

Physical Strategies<br />

4 Art of listening to the body<br />

6 Physical Exercises:Basis<br />

8 Consistency:Success<br />

10<br />

Mental Strategies<br />

10 Mind Pendulum<br />

12 Mind Centre Point<br />

14 Mind Persistence<br />

16 Mind: Wandering<br />

18 Thoughts:Effects<br />

20 Mind:Comfort Zone<br />

22<br />

Emotional Strategies<br />

22 React vs Response<br />

24 External Reality<br />

26 Emotions:Memory<br />

12 compilations<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 2


A c t i v e l i f e<br />

Beyond 50s,60s &above<br />

What is the key for the happiness in life? Now, you have in your possession of all those<br />

things that you desired to have few years before. Now, you have bought your dream<br />

house, car, fancy gadgets, farmhouse etc. but somewhere deep inside you, you see<br />

emptiness. You are craving to get more in the pursuit of your happiness.<br />

My personal transformation has taught me some valuable lessons that drive my life in a<br />

meaningful & purposeful life. Here is the formula that gives a solution to your<br />

problem. First, understand your physical, mental & emotional energies & align those<br />

energies in identifying your true resource capabilities. Once that is done, you will see a<br />

proportionate growth in all the dimensions of the life i.e. your Health, Wealth,<br />

Relationships & spiritual development. This is what you lack right now. For example,<br />

you may be good in generating wealth but not in your Health or other two dimensions<br />

& so on.<br />

Here is my attempt in compiling all the mental, emotional & physical strategies that<br />

give the desired alignment that you sought in understanding your Power within.<br />

For Wellbeing of All<br />

S.Murali<br />

Murali<br />

E D I T O R ' S N O T E


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

ART OF<br />

LISTENING TO<br />

THE BODY<br />

SUMMARY<br />

a i n , h e a v i n e s s , warmness are<br />

P<br />

r o s s s e n s a t i o n s . T h r o b b i n g ,<br />

g<br />

i c k l i n g , p u l s a t i n g f e e l i n g s a r e t h e<br />

t<br />

u b t l e s e n s a t i o n s . A r t o f l i s t e n i n g i s<br />

s<br />

i mply tuning to the subtle<br />

s<br />

e n s a t i o n s i n t h e b o d y b y which<br />

s<br />

o u will gain access to your<br />

y<br />

n v o l u n t a r y s y s t e m ( a u t o p i l o t<br />

i<br />

mode).<br />

SIMPLE STRATEGY:<br />

L I S T E N T O Y O U R B O D Y<br />

"<br />

I R S T I N O R D E R F O R T H E<br />

F<br />

h e a r t o f l i s t e n i n g t o t h e b o d y g e t s<br />

T<br />

n h a n c e d b y t h e p r a c t i c e o f y o g a<br />

e<br />

B O D Y T O L I S T E N T O Y O U ”<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

mindfully.<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 4


strategy: The art of listening to the body gets enhanced by<br />

Simple<br />

practice of yoga mindfully.<br />

the<br />

ART OF LISTENING TO<br />

THE BODY<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

f you are into the endurance<br />

sports such as marathon running then<br />

you must be well aware of the level of<br />

injuries that the beginners agonize. It is a<br />

overwhelming 65% injury rate for the<br />

novices. The early enthusiasm that<br />

I<br />

one<br />

has in developing the endurance skill<br />

diminishes at the later stage due to the<br />

injury factor. One of the main reasons<br />

for the cause of injury is the inability to<br />

focus and listen to the warning signals<br />

that spring out from the body. Yes, body<br />

has an inbuilt intelligence that breeds<br />

warning signals when one surpasses his<br />

own resource capabilities.<br />

Mechanism:<br />

This process is not only transpires<br />

during the process of running but it is<br />

always there and can be witnessed for<br />

every normal happenings such as<br />

walking, sitting & sleeping.<br />

Levels:<br />

Ignoring the warning signals is the worst<br />

thing and one can cause harm to himself.<br />

Pain, heaviness, warmness are gross<br />

sensations. One should able to<br />

acknowledge & honour these gross<br />

sensations. Throbbing, tickling, pulsating<br />

feelings are the subtle sensations. These<br />

are the finer signals that keep you in<br />

close proximity to yourself.<br />

Pain, heaviness, warmness are<br />

gross sensations. Throbbing,<br />

tickling, pulsating feelings are the<br />

subtle sensations. Art of listening<br />

is simply tuning to the subtle<br />

sensations in the body by which<br />

you will gain access to your<br />

involuntary system (autopilot<br />

mode)<br />

So, it is a common recommendation in<br />

this arena to “listen to the body”. What<br />

exactly does it mean listening to the<br />

body? For example, you are trying to run<br />

much faster than what your limits are.<br />

Your breathing is the one that distresses<br />

first. You may start to breathe faster.<br />

Since, you consume lot of energy in the<br />

faster running; your body naturally calls<br />

for more of oxygen to burn. As a<br />

consequence, Lactic acid forms in the<br />

body when there is depletion of oxygen.<br />

This lactic acid induces fatigue & hence,<br />

the brain generates pain signal in order<br />

for you to stop or slow down the running<br />

process.<br />

When the distress occurs, the signals can<br />

be picked up at various levels such as<br />

breathing sensation, faster heart beat<br />

sensation, pain signals, heat sensations<br />

etc. These are the combinations of<br />

signals varying from the subtle to the<br />

gross sensations. Some of us feel the<br />

signals at the subtle level whereas others<br />

feel at the gross level. Some even ignores<br />

the signals.<br />

Power:<br />

Do increase the level of awareness & stay<br />

closer to you by tuning into the subtle<br />

sensations. By doing so, you will have the<br />

power to tap the whole gamut of the<br />

involuntary systems such as your<br />

respiratory, cardiovascular, nervous<br />

system etc. It is magical. It is the body<br />

intelligence that runs in an autopilot<br />

mode for which we have no control. Now<br />

, you get this power.This power changes<br />

the way you perceive your internal world.<br />

Obviously because of this same power,<br />

you start to experience your external<br />

world very differently.<br />

Techniques:<br />

There are multiple levels of techniques<br />

defined in the yoga culture that gives you<br />

an opportunity to tap this power. The art<br />

of listening to the body gets enhanced by<br />

the practice of these techniques<br />

mindfully.<br />

Summary:<br />

Pain, heaviness, warmness are gross<br />

sensations. Throbbing, tickling,<br />

pulsating feelings are the subtle<br />

sensations. Art of listening is simply<br />

tuning to the subtle sensations in the<br />

body by which you will gain access to<br />

your involuntary system (autopilot<br />

mode). Simple strategy: The art of<br />

listening to the body gets enhanced<br />

by the practice of yoga mindfully.<br />

TO YOUR<br />

"LISTEN<br />

FIRST IN<br />

BODY<br />

FOR THE<br />

ORDER<br />

TO LISTEN TO<br />

BODY<br />

YOU”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 5


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

PHYSICAL<br />

EXERCISES:<br />

BASIS<br />

SUMMARY<br />

a r t h r o t a t e s i n a n o r b i t & r e v o l v e s<br />

E<br />

n i t s a x i s . E a r t h g e n e r a t e s i t s<br />

o<br />

n e r g y b y t h e d i r e c t i o n a l movement<br />

e<br />

a l i g n ment of the earth.<br />

&<br />

S i mple strategy:<br />

the pattern of the earth and<br />

Mimic<br />

n s u r e t h a t t h e e x e r c i s e s d e l i v e r<br />

e<br />

i r e c t i o n a l movement & alignment<br />

d<br />

r r e s p e c t i v e o f t h e f o r m o f t h e<br />

i<br />

e x e r c i s e s t o g e n e r a t e e n e r g y<br />

D I R E C T I O N A L<br />

"<br />

O V E M E N T & A L I G N M E N T<br />

M<br />

N T H E E X E R C I S E S A R E<br />

I<br />

H E B A S I S F O R T H E<br />

T<br />

G E N E R A T I O N O F E N E R G Y ”<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 6


the pattern of the earth and ensure that the exercises deliver<br />

Mimic<br />

movement & alignment<br />

directional<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

PHYSICAL EXERCISES:BASIS<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

To have your ideal health & fitness level,<br />

you might be training your body using<br />

some exercise formats such as weight<br />

training, aerobics, running, swimming,<br />

cycling, yoga training etc. All these of<br />

trainings help in adding up your<br />

flexibility, agility, endurance level,<br />

stamina, strengthening your body etc.<br />

Energy Flow:<br />

Any format of exercise calls for the<br />

energy consumption and hence, there is<br />

a need to generate a proportionate<br />

energy for you to sustain through the<br />

different phases of an exercise. In other<br />

words, you have to become a medium<br />

for the energy transference to happen in<br />

this simulated condition effortlessly.<br />

Smartness lies in acting as a perfect<br />

medium that retains this equilibrium<br />

state throughout the phases of the<br />

simulated condition. Otherwise, we will<br />

burn out as we progress the different<br />

phases of the exercise. Our inability in<br />

gradually building resource to matchup<br />

to the requirement that is called upon is<br />

the key element for our failure in any<br />

format of exercise.<br />

Energy Generation:<br />

Energy generation is the source of your<br />

resource. The basis for the energy<br />

generation comprises of two elements.<br />

Directional movement<br />

Alignment<br />

Yes!! Directional movement & alignment<br />

during the physical exercise are the basis<br />

for the energy generation. Remember,<br />

earth rotates in an orbit and revolves on<br />

its axis. These movements require lot of<br />

energy. But, earth is not drawing energy<br />

from any external source. It is simply<br />

drawing the energy from its own<br />

directional movement & alignment along<br />

its axis.<br />

Human Body:<br />

Here are the two important elements of<br />

the body. Navel is the centre of mass for<br />

the body. Consider this as a centre point<br />

for the body. Spine is the axis and the<br />

entire central nervous system operates<br />

upon this axis. Consider this axis as a<br />

centre line.<br />

Any directional movement with respect<br />

to the centre point and /or centre line<br />

generates energy. For example, a<br />

forward & backward movement of the<br />

body generates energy, twisting the body<br />

along the spine generates energy & so<br />

on.<br />

Earth aligns by a degree along its axis as<br />

it revolves. Same way, for us the spine is<br />

the axis. How one stays in the neutral<br />

spine position determines the seamless<br />

flow of energy in the body. The perfect<br />

posture with the awareness to the spine<br />

plays crucial role in the generation of<br />

energy. This is absolutely true in all sorts<br />

of exercises such as running, horse<br />

riding, yoga, swimming etc.<br />

Earth rotates in an orbit &<br />

revolves on its axis. Earth<br />

generates its energy by the<br />

directional movement &<br />

alignment of the earth.<br />

Simple strategy:<br />

Mimic the pattern of the earth<br />

and ensure that the exercises<br />

deliver directional movement &<br />

alignment irrespective of the<br />

form of the exercises to generate<br />

energy<br />

"Directional<br />

&<br />

movement<br />

in the<br />

alignment<br />

are the<br />

exercises<br />

for the<br />

basis<br />

of<br />

generation<br />

energy”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 7


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

CONSISTENCY:<br />

SUCCESS<br />

SUMMARY<br />

o l e r e a s o n f o r n o t g e t t i n g t h e<br />

S<br />

e s i r e d r e s u l t i s t h e l a c k o f t h e<br />

d<br />

e g u l a r i t y i n r e p e a t i n g a n a c t i o n .<br />

r<br />

h i s i s s i g n i f i c a n t l y t r u e when it<br />

T<br />

o mes to the subject of lifestyle<br />

c<br />

modification.<br />

i mple strategy:Constantly<br />

S<br />

e p e a t i n g a n e w a c t i o n o n r e g u l a r<br />

r<br />

a s i s c r e a t e s a n e w h a b i t . N e w g o o d<br />

b<br />

a b i t s c r e a t e a N E W o f y o u .<br />

h<br />

C O N S I S T E N C Y C R E A T E S<br />

"<br />

O U ” Y<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 8


epeating a new action on regular basis creates a new<br />

Constantly<br />

good habits create a NEW of you.<br />

habit.New<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

CONSISTENCY:SUCCESS<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Our Definition:<br />

An action when it is repeated on regular<br />

basis becomes our habit. Our habit<br />

drives our behaviour. Our own definition<br />

is based on our behaviour. Such is the<br />

power of repetition and thus consistent<br />

actions when done on regular basis have<br />

the potential to give a new definition of<br />

you on long run.<br />

Wiring:<br />

We are automatically driven by our<br />

habits in an autopilot mode. It is<br />

subconsciously etched in our neural<br />

network and doesn’t require the<br />

association of our thinking brain. Habits<br />

are spontaneous & automatic. It is the<br />

easiest path in the neural network that<br />

can be activated without our conscious<br />

effort.<br />

Problem:<br />

This is where practicing yoga, or going to<br />

the gym on regular basis becomes<br />

offstage activity. It is simply because, it is<br />

new neural network that we need to<br />

form but the stronger old network is<br />

called upon automatically and<br />

restraining us to stay within our comfort<br />

zone.<br />

But, remember your consistency that<br />

shapes your new definition. If we need to<br />

change for good then we need to be<br />

consistent in our actions.<br />

Success pattern:<br />

Sole reason for not getting the desired<br />

result is the lack of the regularity in<br />

repeating an action. This is significantly<br />

true when it comes to the subject of<br />

lifestyle modification. Simple strategy:<br />

Constantly repeating a new action on<br />

regular basis creates a new habit. New<br />

good Habits create a NEW of you.<br />

Sole reason for not getting the<br />

desired result is the lack of the<br />

regularity in repeating an action.<br />

This is significantly true when it<br />

comes to the subject of lifestyle<br />

modification.<br />

Simple strategy:Constantly<br />

repeating a new action on<br />

regular basis creates a new<br />

habit.New good habits create a<br />

NEW of you.<br />

Our own programming and hence our<br />

own definition is the net results of<br />

consistent repeated actions that were<br />

executed in the past knowingly or<br />

unknowingly. In fact, we are a slave to<br />

our own old habits. All our old habits<br />

work in our comfort zone. We strive for a<br />

comfortable life & hence, we tend to live<br />

in the comfort zone driven by the old<br />

habits.<br />

It now becomes difficult to change the<br />

old habits or form a new habit as we are<br />

engulfed within the framework of the old<br />

habits. Your new actions that you want<br />

to follow have to be consistent. This is<br />

not going to be easy as we need to come<br />

out our own comfort zone and that<br />

requires effort & determination.<br />

"Consistency<br />

You”<br />

Creates<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 9


always dwells in the past &<br />

Mind<br />

u t u r e . Mind is like a pendulum that<br />

f<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND :<br />

PENDULUM<br />

SUMMARY<br />

s wings between past and future.<br />

y d e f a u l t , we live in the past or<br />

B<br />

u t u r e . S o , n a t u r a l l y , we tend to worry<br />

f<br />

o u r p a s t a n d f a n c y o u r f u t u r e .<br />

L I V E I N T H E P R E S E N T<br />

"<br />

O M E N T H E R E & N O W .<br />

M<br />

F U T U R E W I L L B E F I N E ”<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 0


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND : PENDULUM<br />

LIVE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT HERE & NOW.<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

ind is a powerful device gifted to<br />

the humankind by the evolutionary<br />

process. This device can be deployed for<br />

our own benefits provided we know<br />

preciously the method of handling of this<br />

device. The life experience<br />

M<br />

becomes<br />

frantic & hectic when one fails to manage<br />

this device.<br />

Pendulum:<br />

Mind movement is like a pendulum. It<br />

swings between the two opposite sides<br />

from the neutral position. The two sides<br />

are the “past” and the “future” and the<br />

neutral position is the “present”. So, the<br />

entire time mind moves towards the past<br />

and future while crossing the neutral<br />

state momentarily. This is especially true<br />

when we don’t have an important task at<br />

hand. Watch the movement of your mind<br />

in the situations like driving a car,<br />

brushing your teeth!! Naturally, mind<br />

dwells in the past or fantasises the<br />

future.<br />

Default Network:<br />

In neuroscience, scientists call this<br />

pendulum action as the default network<br />

of the brain. Nearly 49% of the time, the<br />

brain stays in the default network. We<br />

know that each of our thought generates<br />

an electric impulse. Considering this fact<br />

, we spend half the time wasting our<br />

energy by random thoughts. We tend to<br />

worry when mind thinks of the past<br />

experiences.. We fancy our future which<br />

is yet to happen. But, there is a way to<br />

make this mind lot more productive that<br />

generates better life experience.<br />

Leading a life:<br />

We have choices!! Either, we can think of<br />

our future life and compromise our<br />

present life or simply, lead the present<br />

life to the fullest. Most of us fall in the<br />

first category compromising this moment<br />

for the better future. But, the simple<br />

secret is that if we live and experience<br />

the present moment to its fullest, the<br />

future will be fine. This secret that I<br />

learned has directed my life for greater<br />

goodness.<br />

Present moment:<br />

What is the definition of living in the<br />

present moment? When I get involved in<br />

an activity or simply, when I experience a<br />

moment, the experience of space and<br />

time become void. This means that I<br />

would have spent thirty minutes<br />

experiencing an event but in my<br />

experience, it was like a minute.<br />

Remember those moments where you<br />

read your interesting book or watch<br />

movies for hours together but the hours<br />

fly in seconds. These are those “present<br />

moment” where you live in that moment.<br />

Future will be fine & very well secured<br />

for those who experience the present<br />

moment very often in life. It is simply<br />

because; how I live today that governs<br />

my future.<br />

Mind always dwells in the past &<br />

future. Mind is like a pendulum<br />

that swings between past and<br />

future.<br />

By default,we live in the past or<br />

future.So,naturally,we tend to<br />

worry our past and fancy our<br />

future.<br />

Summary:<br />

Mind always dwells in the past &<br />

future. Mind is like a pendulum that<br />

swings between past and future.<br />

By default,we live in the past or<br />

future.So,naturally,we tend to worry<br />

our past and fancy our future.<br />

IN THE<br />

"LIVE<br />

MOMENT<br />

PRESENT<br />

& NOW.<br />

HERE<br />

WILL BE<br />

FUTURE<br />

FINE”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 1


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND : CENTRE<br />

POINT<br />

SUMMARY<br />

always revolves around a<br />

Mind<br />

e n t r e p o i n t .<br />

c<br />

e n t r e p o i n t i s d e t e r mined by your<br />

C<br />

r i o r i t y & i n t e r e s t .<br />

p<br />

h e p r i o r i t y h a s a s t r o n g<br />

T<br />

s s o c i a t i o n o f e i t h e r n e g a t i v e o r<br />

a<br />

p o s i t i v e e motions.<br />

C H A N G E Y O U R P R I O R I T Y<br />

"<br />

O R G R E A T E R<br />

F<br />

O O D N E S S S A N D<br />

G<br />

H A N G E T H E D I R E C T I O N<br />

C<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 2<br />

O F T H E M I N D ”


your priority for greater goodnesss and change the direction<br />

Change<br />

the mind<br />

of<br />

of the<br />

direction<br />

mind”<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND : CENTRE POINT<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Centre Point:<br />

Consider the following two scenarios.<br />

When I am on an important task,<br />

naturally my mind revolves around that<br />

particular task. My thoughts at that<br />

moment are all related to the task in my<br />

hand. In a different scenario, when two<br />

persons are in a conversation and if one<br />

does not pay attention to the<br />

conversation, it is clear that this person<br />

mind is occupied with something which<br />

has higher importance than the<br />

conversation. In the above two<br />

examples, you may notice that the mind<br />

works on the priority or what is<br />

considered significant. Thought patterns<br />

are related to the event/action which is<br />

considered important.<br />

Emotional association:<br />

Mind revolves around the centre point<br />

which is nothing but our set priority or<br />

interest. This priority has an emotional<br />

component associated with it. The<br />

highest priority has a motivation to do<br />

the action because there is a strong<br />

bonding of emotion attached to it. This<br />

emotion could be positive type of<br />

emotions such as joy, love, happiness etc<br />

or negative type of emotions such as<br />

fear, worry, doubt etc.<br />

thoughts related to the important task<br />

in hand. Imagine a scenario in a situation<br />

where there is no demand for an action<br />

with higher importance. This is the time;<br />

mind is free to roam around with no<br />

centre point. Mind wanders when there<br />

is no pressing need.<br />

Direction of Mind:<br />

So, it is good to have a centre point so<br />

that mind has a direction to work on.<br />

Setting a higher goal in life & making it<br />

important that permits the mind to work<br />

in a direction. A positive emotion is<br />

tagged to this goal that styles the mind<br />

to work in our favour.<br />

In other words, if you see your life is not<br />

going the way that you always wanted<br />

then it is important to analyse those<br />

centre points. Eliminate those centre<br />

points based on worries & fears. Set the<br />

centre points with the goals based on the<br />

positive emotions for the greater<br />

goodness!!<br />

Mind always revolves around a<br />

centre point.<br />

Centre point is determined by<br />

your priority & interest.<br />

The priority has a strong<br />

association of either negative or<br />

positive emotions.<br />

Summary:<br />

If you see your life is not going the<br />

way that you always wanted then it is<br />

important to analyse those centre<br />

points. Eliminate those centre points<br />

based on worries & fears. Set the<br />

centre points with the goals based on<br />

the positive emotions for the greater<br />

goodness!!<br />

Thoughts:<br />

We prepare the action because, we<br />

worry/fear about something or we have<br />

some motivation such as reward that<br />

generates happiness. So, mind is simple<br />

equipment that aids in generating the<br />

your<br />

"Change<br />

for greater<br />

priority<br />

and<br />

goodnesss<br />

the change<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 3


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND:<br />

PERSISTENCE<br />

SUMMARY<br />

Mind : what you resist persists<br />

e s i s t a n c e : I d o n ' t want to see my<br />

R<br />

o s s , b<br />

d o n ' t want this project, I don't<br />

I<br />

this relationship... a wrong<br />

want<br />

s t a r t e g y .<br />

i g h t s t r a t g y : I want this project, I<br />

R<br />

this relationship... strategy<br />

want<br />

t h a t g i v e s d i r e c t i o n t o y o u r mind.<br />

F O C U S O N " W H A T Y O U<br />

"<br />

A N T " I N L I F E I N S T E A D<br />

W<br />

F F O C U S I N G O N " W H A T<br />

O<br />

O U D O N ' T W A N T " I N<br />

Y<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 4<br />

L I F E ”


focusing on "what<br />

of<br />

don't want" in<br />

you<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND:PERSISTENCE<br />

Mind : what you resist persists<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Persistence:<br />

Strength:<br />

Two simple questions!! What do you<br />

want? What you don’t want in life?<br />

Whatever the answers to both these<br />

questions, the answers persist in your<br />

mind. The persistence is much stronger<br />

and deeper for the negative question.<br />

Considering an example of building a<br />

new relationship. Now, you may say to<br />

yourself that you want to build a<br />

relationship with someone or you don’t<br />

want to build a relationship with that<br />

person. Both these ideas persist in your<br />

mind.<br />

Direction:<br />

When the answer is positive such as “I<br />

want to build a relationship” then you<br />

have set a direction. Mind works in tune<br />

with direction. It gives all the possibilities<br />

for you to take actions and whatever<br />

actions that you take will lead you in this<br />

set direction. So, there is a progress. But,<br />

when the answer is negative such as “I<br />

don’t want to build a relationship”, mind<br />

still gives all the possibilities for you to<br />

take the actions. But, you will be thrown<br />

with number of other alternatives too.<br />

Should you need to build relationship<br />

with yet another person? Should you be<br />

satisfied with the existing relationship?<br />

Should you need to strengthen the<br />

current relationship? Or simply think of<br />

something about your profession. So, the<br />

direction is lost here & hence, there is no<br />

progress.<br />

What you resist persists. I don’t want to<br />

see my boss very often. A very nature of<br />

a thought such as this creates a situation<br />

where you are forced to meet your boss<br />

very often. Instead, focus on “what you<br />

want “in life. You may want to meet the<br />

client who will help in assigning an order<br />

or you may want to meet your colleague<br />

who will help in your project. When, such<br />

thoughts become stronger then the<br />

situations created will work in your<br />

favour.<br />

Deeper Mind:<br />

Negative connotation has a different<br />

meaning at the deeper level of the mind.<br />

A thought such as “I don’t want to meet<br />

my boss” will be translated as “I want to<br />

meet my boss” at the subconscious level<br />

of the mind. So, focus on “What you<br />

want” in life instead of focussing on<br />

“what you don’t want” in life. By doing so,<br />

your direction is set.<br />

Mind : what you resist persists<br />

Resistance :I don't want to see<br />

my boss ,<br />

I don't want this project, I don't<br />

want this relationship... a wrong<br />

startegy.<br />

Right stratgy :I want this project, I<br />

want this relationship... strategy<br />

that gives direction to your mind.<br />

Summary:<br />

Mind : what you resist persists<br />

Resistance :I don't want to see my<br />

boss ,<br />

I don't want this project, I don't want<br />

this relationship... a wrong startegy.<br />

Right stratgy :I want this project, I<br />

want this relationship... strategy that<br />

gives direction to your mind.<br />

on "what you<br />

"Focus<br />

in life instead<br />

want"<br />

life”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 5


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND:<br />

WANDERING<br />

SUMMARY<br />

wanders in the absence of the<br />

Mind<br />

i r e c t i o n . d<br />

D i r e c t i o n c a n b e s e t b y t h e g o a l s .<br />

i mple strategy: Goals when knitted<br />

S<br />

the positive emotions give<br />

with<br />

i r e c t i o n t o t h e mind. Single stream<br />

d<br />

f t h o u g h t s s e t b y t h e g o a l i s<br />

o<br />

c o n t e mplation.<br />

T O S T O P T H E<br />

"<br />

A N D E R I N G M I N D , S E T<br />

W<br />

H E R I G H T L I F E G O A L S<br />

T<br />

N I T T E D W I T H T H E<br />

K<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 6<br />

P O S I T I V E E M O T I O N S ”


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND: WANDERING<br />

Mind wanders in the absence of the direction.<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Thought & physical reality:<br />

Random thoughts:<br />

Today, we enjoy & experience in the<br />

physical reality many such things as<br />

mobile phone, house, car etc. Earlier,<br />

these were then just in the form of<br />

thoughts or imaginations in someone<br />

mind. Our thoughts or imaginations that<br />

we have in this present time will<br />

manifest physically as things or products<br />

in near future. An intense thought or an<br />

idea in the mind will turn into an<br />

innovative product in future. Such is the<br />

power of thoughts from the mind.<br />

Imagine the thoughts are not cohesive in<br />

nature? We all have this experience in<br />

our daily life. No one is an exception to<br />

this experience. Only, the time &<br />

duration of this experience vary from<br />

person to person. When the thoughts are<br />

not cohesive and random in nature then<br />

we call that experience as “mind<br />

wandering”. If you open up the books of<br />

neuroscience, this is referred to as<br />

“Default network” of the brain.<br />

Reason:<br />

Why we switch to this random mode?<br />

Let us understand the characteristics of<br />

the mind. Mind always revolve around a<br />

centre point which is nothing but your<br />

important, interesting and significant<br />

idea. When you don’t have this, your<br />

mind loses its centre point. You can<br />

always witness this behaviour of the<br />

mind especially in a scenario where you<br />

have nothing important to do. This is a<br />

right opportunity for the mind to roam<br />

around.<br />

Every thought is an electric impulse in<br />

the brain. Now, the technology has<br />

evolved to an extent where one can able<br />

to read this signal from the brain. So,<br />

thought is a form of energy. If we<br />

generate random thoughts then we<br />

waste our energy. In fact, brain alone<br />

consumes 20% of the total energy.<br />

Organised thoughts:<br />

Organised thoughts occur when there is<br />

a strong presence of the centre point. If<br />

the centre point is based on negative<br />

emotions such as fear and worries then<br />

the thoughts are organised but work in a<br />

negative way. When the centre point is<br />

based on the positive emotion then the<br />

thoughts are again organised but work in<br />

a positive way.<br />

So, it is not only important to have a<br />

centre point but make sure that it has a<br />

positive emotion attached to it. Future<br />

can be imagined and planned as it is yet<br />

to happen. So, we have the liberty.to<br />

think. It is our choice. We have the choice<br />

to imagine positively. When we set our<br />

goal knitted with the positive emotions,<br />

mind gets organised & work towards the<br />

goal.<br />

So, here is my message!! Mind wanders<br />

in the absence of the direction. Direction<br />

can be set by the goals.<br />

Simple strategy:<br />

Goals when knitted with the positive<br />

emotions give direction to the mind.<br />

Single stream of thoughts set by the goal<br />

is contemplation.<br />

Mind wanders in the absence of<br />

the direction.<br />

Direction can be set by the goals.<br />

Simple strategy: Goals when<br />

knitted with the positive<br />

emotions give direction to the<br />

mind. Single stream of thoughts<br />

set by the goal is contemplation.<br />

stop the<br />

"To<br />

mind, set<br />

wandering<br />

right life goals<br />

the<br />

with the<br />

knitted<br />

positive emotionsy”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 7


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

THOUGHTS:<br />

EFFECTS<br />

SUMMARY<br />

h o u g h t g e n e r a t e s p h y s i c a l<br />

T<br />

e a c t i o n i n t h e b o d y .<br />

r<br />

h o u g h t g e n e r a t e s e motional<br />

T<br />

e s p o n s e a s well.<br />

r<br />

i mple strategy:<br />

S<br />

h o o s e y o u r t h o u g h t s t o c h a n g e<br />

C<br />

o u r c h e mical reactions in the<br />

y<br />

o d y . b<br />

h o u g h t s b a s e d o n t h e n e g a t i v e<br />

T<br />

motions addup toxin in the body.<br />

e<br />

B O D Y I S A C H E M I C A L<br />

"<br />

A C T O R Y . S A N I T I S E T H E<br />

F<br />

O D Y B Y G E N E R A T I N G<br />

B<br />

H O U G H T S B A S E D O N<br />

T<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 8<br />

T H E P O S I T I V E


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

THOUGHTS:EFFECTS<br />

Thoughts based on the negative emotions addup toxin in the body<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Energy:<br />

Every thought is a form of energy. In<br />

fact, modern science has proved beyond<br />

doubt that thought generates electrical<br />

impulse. This energy can be utilised<br />

productively or else it may get wasted.<br />

So, what do you think right now? It does<br />

matter a lot!!<br />

Feeling:<br />

Thought generates an associated feeling.<br />

Positive thought generates a positive<br />

feeling & negative thought generates a<br />

negative feeling. The emotion associated<br />

with a feeling creates a physical reaction<br />

in the body. One may experiences this as<br />

a bodily sensation. Also, every thought,<br />

every feeling and every associated<br />

reaction has a form of chemical reaction<br />

in the body.<br />

Chemical reaction:<br />

A thought that generates anger has an<br />

acidic effect in the body. This chemical<br />

reaction pumps up your heart beat &<br />

increases the blood pressure. In the<br />

extreme case, it creates even ulcer, an<br />

extreme acidic nature of the body. A<br />

serene thought with an associated<br />

positive emotion changes the chemical<br />

reaction in such a way that improves the<br />

immunity system of the body.<br />

acidity of the body. Thoughts based on<br />

joy, love, compassion, happiness set your<br />

body in the alkalinity. So, it important to<br />

maintain the PH balance of the body. our<br />

body becomes the breeding ground for<br />

many diseases when it is dominated by<br />

its acidic nature.<br />

Factors:<br />

There are obviously many other factors<br />

such the food, environment etc that<br />

determine the body chemical<br />

composition. But, the way we think about<br />

ourselves as well as our perception of<br />

our surroundings play a major role in<br />

deciding the balanced chemical<br />

composition for a healthy body.<br />

So, remember that the body is simply<br />

and purely a chemical factory. Do not<br />

pollute with the thoughts that have<br />

negative emotions. Instead, sanitise the<br />

body by generating the positive thoughts<br />

with the positive emotions.<br />

Thought generates physical<br />

reaction in the body.<br />

Thought generates emotional<br />

response as well.<br />

Simple strategy:<br />

Choose your thoughts to change<br />

your chemical reactions in the<br />

body.<br />

Thoughts based on the negative<br />

emotions addup toxin in the<br />

body..<br />

Balance:<br />

is a chemical<br />

"Body<br />

the<br />

factory.Sanitise<br />

PH is the balance of the alkalinity to the<br />

acidic nature of the body. The thought &<br />

the associated feeling changes the<br />

balance of the system. Thoughts based<br />

on fear, worries, frustration enhance the<br />

by generating<br />

body<br />

based on<br />

thoughts<br />

positive<br />

the<br />

emotions”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 1 9


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND:<br />

COMFORT ZONE<br />

SUMMARY<br />

is a protective mechanism that<br />

Mind<br />

e e p s y o u i n y o u r c o mfort zone by<br />

k<br />

d e f a u l t .<br />

r o wth means stepping into your<br />

G<br />

i s c o mfort zone.<br />

d<br />

i mple Strategy:<br />

S<br />

o s e e g r o wth in our life , we may<br />

T<br />

e e d t o work against our<br />

n<br />

o n d i t i o n e d mind & mindfully step<br />

c<br />

i n t o o u r d i s c o mfort zone.<br />

F O R Y O U R G R O W T H ,<br />

"<br />

T E P A B O V E T H E M I N D<br />

S<br />

O S T E P I N T O T H E<br />

T<br />

I S C O M F O R T Z O N E ”<br />

D<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 2 0


see growth in our life , we may need to work against our<br />

TTo<br />

mind & mindfully step into our discomfort zone.<br />

conditioned<br />

your growth,<br />

"For<br />

above the mind<br />

step<br />

MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

MIND:COMFORT ZONE<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

In general, conditioned mind is trained<br />

to pull you in the comfort zone. Here,<br />

you live and do things which are familiar<br />

to you. This way your safety is ensured.<br />

Security is of primarily significant for the<br />

survival. It is pretty much etched in our<br />

DNAs.<br />

Monotony is established when we start<br />

to live in the comfort zone for a<br />

prolonged period of time. This is<br />

because, we perform the same actions<br />

and lead the same kind of life that we<br />

lived a month/year before. We stagnate<br />

and that we don’t establish a path for<br />

our growth.<br />

Step out:<br />

To see growth, it is important to<br />

recondition the conditioned mind. Or<br />

otherwise, it is important to come out<br />

the conditioned mind to see our own<br />

pattern of the conditioned mind. Yes!!<br />

Stepping out the conditioned mind gives<br />

us an opportunity to see our own<br />

construct of the conditioned mind. After<br />

all, the conditioned mind operates based<br />

on the already stored database that has<br />

been accumulated by you as your<br />

experiences. It cannot think and act<br />

beyond this database.<br />

We need to have new experiences & new<br />

learning to move forward. For this, step<br />

above the conditioned mind.<br />

Once the reconditioning has happened,<br />

the mind starts to work in your favour<br />

for your own growth. Yes, the same mind<br />

that pulled you in the comfort zone<br />

earlier ,now pushes you to the<br />

discomfort zone.<br />

In other words, to win this game, it is<br />

important to keep the strength of your<br />

awareness far bigger than the strength<br />

of the conditioned mind. If the strength<br />

of our awareness is bigger & stronger<br />

then it gives an opportunity to mindfully<br />

step into the unknown zone. There is<br />

always a risk to move here and this is<br />

where many fail to develop the gradient<br />

in progressing through this zone. If you<br />

take a wide step then you will be thrown<br />

back to your start point because you<br />

exceed your resource capability. If you<br />

take a small step then that is not good<br />

enough to take you to your higher level.<br />

Mindful moderate steps are the key for<br />

the success and that can be achieved by<br />

heightening your awareness level.<br />

Summary:<br />

Mind is a protective mechanism that<br />

keeps you in the comfort zone. Growth<br />

means stepping into your discomfort<br />

zone. To see growth in our life, we may<br />

need to work against our conditioned<br />

mind & mindfully step into our<br />

discomfort zone.<br />

Mind is a protective mechanism<br />

that keeps you in your comfort<br />

zone by default.<br />

Growth means stepping into your<br />

discomfort zone.<br />

Simple Strategy:<br />

To see growth in our life , we may<br />

need to work against our<br />

conditioned mind & mindfully<br />

step into our discomfort zone.<br />

Awareness:<br />

Awareness plays a key role in<br />

reconditioning the conditioned mind.<br />

step into the<br />

to<br />

zone”<br />

discomfort<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 2 1


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

REACT VS<br />

RESPOND<br />

SUMMARY<br />

n l i k e o t h e r a n i mals, human is a<br />

U<br />

animal by nature.Can’t run<br />

weak<br />

f a s t , c a n ’ t f l y e x t r a .<br />

our brain is evolved to look<br />

Hence,<br />

o r t h e p o t e n t i a l d a n g e r s a l ways.<br />

f<br />

o , we react (emotionally out of<br />

S<br />

e a r & a n x i e t y ) . T h i s i s a n o u t d a t e d<br />

f<br />

in the safe world now<br />

mechanism<br />

r a c t i c e t o r e s p o n d i . e L e a r n t o<br />

P<br />

p a u s e b e f o r e r e a c t i n g .<br />

L E A R N T O " P A U S E "<br />

"<br />

I V E S A N O P P O R T U N I T Y<br />

G<br />

O " R E S P O N D " I N S T E A D<br />

T<br />

F " R E A C T " D U R I N G<br />

O<br />

N O M A D I C | 2 4<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 2 2<br />

A D V E R S A R Y ”


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

REACT VS RESPOND<br />

Practice to respond i.e Learn to pause before reacting.<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Design:<br />

If you open up the books of<br />

neuroscience, you’ll come to know at a<br />

very abstract level that we have three<br />

layers in the brain namely the brain<br />

stem, limbic & prefrontal cortex. In<br />

simple terms, these are called as the<br />

lower, mid & upper brains. Each section<br />

of the brain has a unique function. The<br />

lower brain is called the survival brain,<br />

mid brain is called as the emotional brain<br />

& the upper brain is called as the<br />

thinking brain.<br />

Evolution:<br />

Brain has evolved in few billion years. It<br />

starts with the survival first then with the<br />

emotions followed by the thinking ability.<br />

Considering the rate of growth of the<br />

brain, the brain has evolved very rapidly<br />

in the recent few million years. The size<br />

of the brain has increased to three fold<br />

during this period. The brain was five<br />

hundred grams few million years before<br />

and now it weighs one thousand five<br />

hundred grams. Most of this rapid<br />

development has happened in the upper<br />

section of the brain i.e. the thinking<br />

brain.<br />

Living condition:<br />

All these neurological systems in our<br />

brain are pretty much intact even in<br />

today’s living condition. We survive, we<br />

become emotional & we think and<br />

accordingly the respective brain section<br />

gets activated. Unlike other animals,<br />

Human is a weak animal by nature. We<br />

can’t fly; we can’t run fast & so on. We<br />

always live in the dangerous situations &<br />

hence, our brain is evolved to look for<br />

the potential threads.<br />

But in today’s scenario, we live in a very<br />

safe world in comparison to the living<br />

condition few million years before. So,<br />

the survival & emotional centres are<br />

slightly out dated mechanisms. The<br />

smartness rests in the way of how we<br />

utilise the recent development of the<br />

brain i.e. the thinking section of the<br />

brain.<br />

React:<br />

If I react to a situation or to an<br />

experience then it is a spontaneous<br />

action from my brain which uses the<br />

lower & mid sections of the brain. So, we<br />

react emotionally out of fear, worry &<br />

anxiety for the given situation & hence,<br />

we engage the survival & emotional<br />

centres of the brain. This is an out dated<br />

mechanism in today’s safe world.<br />

Response:<br />

Response is a simply a mechanism of<br />

giving a slight PAUSE before reacting<br />

during an experience. This pause brings<br />

the thinking brain into the equation.<br />

Once thinking brain comes into the play,<br />

it changes the way how you assign a<br />

meaning to an event and hence changes<br />

the very nature of our experience itself.<br />

This is the new way of leading the life<br />

using the newly developed part of the<br />

brain i.e the thinking brain.<br />

This habit if it developed then it changes<br />

the way one experiences the life. So,<br />

learn to “Pause” gives an opportunity to<br />

“Respond” instead of “React” during<br />

adversity.<br />

Unlike other animals, human is a<br />

weak animal by nature.Can’t run<br />

fast, can’t fly extra.<br />

Hence, our brain is evolved to<br />

look for the potential dangers<br />

always.<br />

So, we react (emotionally out of<br />

fear& anxiety). This is an out<br />

dated mechanism in the safe<br />

world now<br />

Practice to respond i.e Learn to<br />

pause before reacting.<br />

to "pause"<br />

"Learn<br />

an opportunity<br />

gives<br />

"Respond"<br />

to<br />

of "React"<br />

instead<br />

during adversary”<br />

P O W E R W I T H I N | 2 3


MX<br />

DIMENSION<br />

EXTERNAL<br />

REALITY<br />

SUMMARY<br />

x t e r n a l R e a l i t y i s t h e mirror image<br />

E<br />

f y o u r I n t e r n a l s t a t e .<br />

o<br />

life experience is limited to the<br />

Our<br />

x t e n t e<br />

f h o w well our internal world is<br />

o<br />

r o g r a mmed. (or)<br />

p<br />

life experience is simply a<br />

My<br />

o n s t r u c t c<br />

o f my conditioned mind.<br />

C H A N G E Y O U R<br />

"<br />

O N D I T I O N E D M I N D ,<br />

C<br />

C H A N G E Y O U R L I F E ”<br />

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DIMENSION<br />

EXTERNAL REALITY<br />

External Reality is the mirror image of your Internal state.<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Our life experience is limited to the<br />

extent of how well our internal world is<br />

programmed. If one starts to experience<br />

this truth, it is not only inspirational but<br />

very liberating too. Personally, this is my<br />

experience of life. Such an experiential<br />

knowledge changes the way how one<br />

perceives the life. There was a shift that<br />

happened within me during the process<br />

of my personal transformation. Today,<br />

after eight years, if I look at the kind of<br />

people whom I deal on day today basis in<br />

my current life with the set of people<br />

whom I moved with eight years before,<br />

they are totally two different set of<br />

tribes. This alone is a proof of how our<br />

internal programming determining the<br />

external reality.<br />

Intellectual base:<br />

Let me try to convince your rational<br />

brain to buy this idea. Consider a<br />

scenario of two friends taking a walk to<br />

the park in the neighbourhood. The<br />

experience of walk in the park is not the<br />

same for both of them even though the<br />

place & time of the visit are preciously<br />

the same. The experience of one person<br />

is completely different than the<br />

experience of another person.<br />

The above example demonstrates the<br />

different lenses that every one of us<br />

carries. Yes, we use filters while<br />

perceiving the events. This filter makes<br />

our experience different than the<br />

experiences of others.<br />

Filter:<br />

If your filter is good then you experience<br />

a wonderful life. If you experience<br />

hardship of the life then it is time to<br />

change this filter. What is this filter? Our<br />

past experiences of life are a set of<br />

collective database stored as our faith &<br />

belief structure. Our conditioned mind<br />

operates from this database which<br />

preciously acts as a filter. We say the<br />

mind is conditioned because it can’t act<br />

beyond the limits of this database.<br />

In other words, my life experience is<br />

simply a construct of my conditioned<br />

mind. In fact, this is our internal<br />

programming.<br />

Mind-Body Practice:<br />

So, changing your life experience is as<br />

simple as changing the way your<br />

conditioned mind works. This requires<br />

bit of regular mind-body practice. This<br />

practice makes you to become aware of<br />

the conditioned mind and hence get an<br />

opportunity to manage the conditioned<br />

mind.<br />

Experiential knowledge<br />

: Above, I have given an intellectual base<br />

to convince your thinking brain. So, you<br />

now know the value of such a belief. But,<br />

“knowing” is different than “owning”. If<br />

you want to own this then you need to<br />

integrate this belief experientially<br />

through mind-body practice or some<br />

other practical means.<br />

External Reality is the mirror<br />

image of your Internal state.<br />

Our life experience is limited to<br />

the extent<br />

of how well our internal world is<br />

programmed. (or)<br />

My life experience is simply a<br />

construct<br />

of my conditioned mind.<br />

Once when you experience this faith<br />

then you know that you are the architect<br />

of your reality. This faith is an immense<br />

power. The way how you perceive your<br />

life is no longer the same. You live like<br />

you never lived like this before!!<br />

Your<br />

"Change<br />

Mind,<br />

Conditioned<br />

Change Your <strong>Life</strong>”<br />

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DIMENSION<br />

EMOTIONS:<br />

MEMORY<br />

SUMMARY<br />

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DIMENSION<br />

EMOTIONS:MEMORY<br />

Mindful of the emotion that you attach to an event/experience.<br />

by Murali Sundaram<br />

Memory:<br />

Your memory to a particular event<br />

depends on how strong you attach<br />

emotions to that event. Your experience<br />

to an event is deeply stored in your<br />

memory when the emotion attached to<br />

that event is high. This emotion can be<br />

positive or negative but that doesn’t<br />

matter. What matter the most is the<br />

intensity of the emotion. Memory<br />

storage and retrieval are faster when the<br />

intensity of the emotion to an event is<br />

stronger.<br />

This is why; you could able to recollect<br />

your worst experiences of your life or the<br />

best happiest events of your life in a split<br />

of a second. The experiences would have<br />

happened twenty years before. But, it is<br />

still fresh in your mind as the emotion<br />

attached to the event is stronger.<br />

Construct:<br />

You are simply a construct of your past<br />

experiences. You do certain things and<br />

avoid other things in life. All these<br />

choices are primarily driven by your own<br />

past experiences. You and your<br />

behaviour are simply driven by your<br />

experiences to the events that<br />

accumulated over the years until now.<br />

Take away: Here is my take away to you<br />

based on the above two principles. The<br />

primary difference between human and<br />

animals is to thrive above your survival.<br />

Animals exist here to survive whereas<br />

human exist to thrive. Thriving means<br />

that we create something of our own.<br />

Remember, we exist here to CREATE.<br />

With this mind set, we can change our<br />

experience, our memory storage & hence<br />

our own definition.<br />

Personally, I was at my worst health<br />

condition at one point of time. Then, it<br />

was considered really bad. That<br />

desperate situation changed my<br />

experience of life & changed my own<br />

definition. The experience which was<br />

considered bad has given a new<br />

definition of me as a Health coach now.<br />

So, what was considered bad at one<br />

point of time has become good now.<br />

This is going to be true in your case also<br />

if you simply review your own<br />

experiences. What was bad for you a<br />

year before is now causing good in your<br />

life. Fundamentally, when we are here to<br />

CREATE and so, whatever good or bad<br />

events are primarily steering us in the<br />

path of creation. So, here onwards, do<br />

not worry when an experience appears<br />

to be bad. You now know now how to<br />

redefine this experience. This event is<br />

exposing you to something good. When<br />

the emotion attached to an event is<br />

always converted into positives, your<br />

memory bank is stored with positive data<br />

and eventually, that convert to a person<br />

who is here to THRIVE.<br />

Summary:<br />

“Stronger the emotional attachments to<br />

an experience better the memory<br />

storage/retrieval of that experience”.<br />

Experience is stored deeply in our<br />

memory when the emotion attached to<br />

that experience is stronger. Memory<br />

retrieval is easier for the high emotional<br />

stored content. Simple Strategy: Mindful<br />

of the emotion that you attach to an<br />

event/experience.<br />

Experience is stored deeply in<br />

our memory when the emotion<br />

attached to the expereince is<br />

stronger.<br />

Memory retrieval is easier for the<br />

high emotional stored content.<br />

Simple strategy:<br />

Mindful of the emotion that you<br />

attach to an event/experience.<br />

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"Stronger<br />

emotional<br />

to an<br />

attachment<br />

better<br />

experience<br />

memory<br />

the<br />

of<br />

storage/retrieval<br />

that experience”<br />

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