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the New Lenox Patriot | September 15, 2016 | 11<br />

suicide<br />

From Page 3<br />

spoken to his sister or father<br />

for 15 years, but the suicide<br />

helped bring his family<br />

back together.<br />

That fact was his “message<br />

of hope to anyone<br />

dealing with a loved one’s<br />

suicide.”<br />

“I told my wife I’m never<br />

letting these people go,<br />

ever, and we have had the<br />

most wonderful relationship<br />

because we fought for that,”<br />

he said, as he had been stoic<br />

while telling his story, but<br />

was at that point moved to<br />

tears. “Nothing is worth<br />

that separation, and we<br />

never know how much time<br />

we have left. My sister and<br />

I have never been closer,<br />

and my dad and I had the<br />

best relationship for 11<br />

years a guy could ever had<br />

with his father, because<br />

we took what was bad and<br />

made something good out<br />

of it.”<br />

Among the attendees of<br />

the event was Laura Wallace,<br />

of Schererville, Indiana,<br />

who has survived two<br />

suicide attempts. Wallace<br />

became depressed in the<br />

spring of 2007, three years<br />

after sustaining a traumatic<br />

brain injury when she was<br />

struck by a garbage truck.<br />

She was prescribed antidepressants,<br />

but the pharmaceuticals<br />

provided no<br />

relief.<br />

“I was just feeling like<br />

nothing’s going to change;<br />

I’m not going to get better,”<br />

she recalled. “I wanted it to<br />

be over; I wanted the pain<br />

to end. I had a hard time<br />

functioning.”<br />

After another bout with<br />

depression in 2014, Wallace<br />

was diagnosed as bipolar<br />

and was prescribed medication<br />

that worked, and she<br />

has been doing well since.<br />

Family members have told<br />

her she seems like a different<br />

person, she said.<br />

“I feel very fortunate and<br />

blessed that I’m still here,”<br />

she said.<br />

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