Grace Point! November 2016

November 2016 Volume 2 ~Issue 11
eMagazine of Philippi Prospect Ministries TM
Forgive & Forget

Table of Contents
3~Notes from Rebecca
4~PrayerWorks
8-9~FruitWorks
page 5 Restoration & Renewal
10-11~Namesakes
22-23~ScrollWorks
page 15 In the Potting Shed
25~Seller of Purple
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page 20 JourneyWorks
page 6 Remarkables
page 14 Herbs of the Field
page 24 BoardWorks
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Hello to all readers!
First, I want to thank you for clicking on the link that brought you to
this magazine.
Notes
from
Rebecca
New this issue:
The theme for November, Forgive & Forget, hits hard in a lot of places that we would
rather not go. It is too painful. But, forgiveness is necessary to move forward in life, so
I hope you find something soothing in this issue.
The article, ClassWorks, has been published previously, but I decided it was most
appropriate for this issue. Have a look, and see for yourself.
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my photos will have © StillWorks Imagery by Rebecca Matthews at the bottom. If I have
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name of my art gallery.
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Scripture from the Hebrew perspective, and how it comes alive when studying the
language God used to write it. The purpose of this magazine is for help, hope and
encouragement toward our fellow man. We are our brother’s keeper!
Our prayer is that there will be a blessing for each reader among these pages. God bless
each and every one! Shalom.
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Avinu Shebashamayim, I pray that anyone who needs forgiveness will seek it,
and anyone who needs to forgive will do so, and turn loose of their hurt
and pain. I pray that the past will be totally forgotten, by all concerned,
with no more grudges held, and all things can be started new and afresh.
In the name of Yeshua.
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A Journey to
Pain and injury inflicted on us when we are
young can, almost always, leave us brittle and
broken as we get older. The anger that burns
inside, that we are sometimes unaware of, can eat
like a cancer to the very core of our soul,
poisoning our hearts and minds. Out of that
anger, we lash out at those around us, and
continue the cycle, instead of breaking it.
The only thing that breaks a cycle such as this,
where the past keeps rising up to take charge over
us, is to forgive the perpetrator(s). It is one of the
hardest things we will ever do. But, only way to
break the chains of abuse, molestation, addiction,
and other evils, is to forgive.
As long as the pain is present in our minds, the
act against might as well still be happening.
Forgiveness is about being freed from the burden
of the pain -- something we do for ourselves.
Forgetting is the next step. But, what is
involved in ‘forgetting’? Having been
through the pain that childhood
molestation myself, those who flippantly
throw out ‘forgive it and forget it’ do not
know what they are saying.
The key to the ‘forgetting’ isn’t about
erasing it from memory as a way of not
dealing with it. ‘Forgetting’ is about
dealing with whatever issues arises out of
the pain, putting that pain behind us, and
starting life afresh. It can no longer
consume our minds, and make our hearts
hard in bitterness and anger.
Only when we are fully healed can we
help others go through the same
much-needed healing.
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There is
a nobility in compassion,
a beauty in empathy,
a grace in forgiveness.
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Remark ables
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a closer look at the fruits of the Spirit
Forgiveness
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In Galatians 5:22-23, we are given a list of the fruits of
the Spirit. They are the guidelines to which we conduct
ourselves in our daily walk. These are nine different
aspects of Godliness that we must adhere to in order to
live to our fullest spiritual potential. They vary slightly,
depending on the translation, but the foundational fruits
of the Spirit are: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,
goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
While at first glance, these all look the same, a closer
look reveals small differences in their meanings, which
translates to differences in their application and
implementation. This article is meant to shed light on
each of these nine characteristics of holiness, to explore
their nuances and minute differences. Forgiveness falls
under the category of Kindness.
What is it? What does it look like? The modern definition for this word is most often linked to
apologizing, or accepting an apology. But, what does this word really mean? How do we apply it?
And, is there a Scriptural model?
The dictionary describes hope in the following
way:
1. act of forgiving; state of being forgiven.
2. disposition or willingness to forgive.
Hebrews 9:22
According to the Law, nearly everything is
cleansed with blood, for apart from shedding
of blood there is no forgiveness.
When Qayin killed Habel, and his blood cried
from the ground, it was the preempt to the
concept of ‘only blood can cleanse blood’. A
life for a life. In blood is life, so the only
sacrifice to give life is through shed blood.
Every time someone donates blood (a blood
‘sacrifice’) to the Red Cross, they are giving
life to someone in need. Yeshua did that very
thing on the grandest scale possible.
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Hebrews 10:14-18
For by one offering he has perfected forever
those who are being sanctified. Ruach HaKodesh
also testifies to us, for after saying, "This is the
covenant that I will make with them: 'After
those days,' says the Lord, 'I will put my laws on
their heart, I will also write them on their
mind;'" then he says, "I will remember their sins
and their iniquities no more." Now where
forgiveness is, there is no more offering for sin.
This verse speaks volumes about our state of
grace, after being forgiven and set free by
Yeshua. So many believe false religious
denominational lies, such as being able to ‘lose’
our salvation, and that He is still on the cross, in
a perpetual state of sacrifice. Both are lies
straight from hell, and those that believe them
are grossly deceived. The verse above make it
abundantly clear that, when we are forgiven, our
past is just that: the past. And not only is it
forgiven, but it is also forgotten by Him that
forgave. Only the enemy brings up our past to
try to use it against us, and defeat YHVH’s
purpose in our lives. And, anyone who judges us
because of our past is working for the enemy. No
matter who they are.
Psalm 130:3-4
If you, Yah, kept a record of sins, YHVH, who
could stand? But there is forgiveness with you,
that you may be feared.
We all have come short, and have messed up
royally at some point in our lives. Some of us
every day. But, as David puts it, who of us could
ever feel free from our wrongdoings if they were
held against us by YHVH Himself? Instead, He
forgives us, so that we may have a reverential
fear, which is ultimate respect, for Him. It is
raising Him up for all to see who leads us and, in
return, He will also raise us up in honor and
respect among our peers.
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Manasseh
Causing to Forget
Our names are more than just what we are called.
God gave names, or changed names, in Scripture,
in the lives of those whose names were changed. Do
up to the character of that name? Or, do you feel
Hebrew Transliteration: Menashsheh
מְנַשֶּׁה Spelling: Hebrew
Anyone with the name “Manasseh” can look very
much like his namesake in Scripture. Here are a few
examples of the characteristics of the name.
Genesis 41:51
Joseph called the name of the firstborn
Manasseh, "For," he said, "Elohim has made
me forget all my toil, and all my father's
house."
Many times when we are taken, or sent, to a
place that is physically, mentally and
emotionally draining, we don’t want to
remember the ‘good’ place we were in before.
For, to remember it would be to keep looking
into the past, longing and yearning for it,
and not concentrating on the work we were
sent there to do. Just like Joseph, who was
rewarded with getting his family back, after
the reason for his going to Egypt was
established, we, too, can be hopeful in being
reunited with loved ones, knowing it all was
a part of His plan from the beginning.
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They can reveal a lot about our character. When
it signified that a change was about to take place
you have a Scripture-based name? Are you living
a name-change is in order?
Genesis 48:5-6
Now your two sons, who were born to you in the land of
Egypt before I came to you into Egypt, are mine; Ephraim
and Manasseh, even as Reuben and Simeon, will be mine.
Your issue, who you become the father of after them, will be
yours. They will be called after the name of their brothers in
their inheritance.
In the symbolism of Jacob taking Manasseh (and
Ephraim) as his own also speaks to us as someone of a
higher authority taking on the thing(s) that make us
unhappy, thereby freeing us of a tainted past, so that we
can start again afresh.
2 Kings 21:9
But they didn't listen: and Manasseh seduced them to do
that which is evil more than did the nations whom Yahweh
destroyed before the children of Israel.
There is a negative side the name “Manasseh,” as the verse
above indicates. He was king over Israel, but was the most
evil king in biblical history. He made the people “forget”
who YHVH was, and led them astray to worship other gods.
So, a Manasseh can help us forget, and move on from, an
unhappy past, or a Manasseh can cause us to forget the
right way to live, and cause us to fall into a level of
disobedience that can take generations to come out of.
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A famous baboon
once said, "The
past can hurt. But
the way I see it,
you can either run
from it or you can
learn from it."
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Forgiveness is hard regardless of the situation. If you are
needing to forgive someone, then that means you have been
hurt in some way. Ephesians 4:32 says: Be kind and
compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as
in Christ God forgave you.
This is obviously easier said than done. It took me years to
get over some of the things in my past. But after I had my
son, I felt like these feelings were holding me back from
being the mother I was capable of being. So one day, I
decided I was done feeling that way. Because the truth is,
the other person(s) probably aren't losing sleep because of
the way they made you feel. I bowed my head, closed my
eyes, and asked God to just lift this burden from me and give
me peace. I stated out loud that I forgive these people for
things that had happened in my childhood and adolescence.
I just let it go. And by the time I opened my eyes, I had this
sense of relief. I felt so much better. Now I have better
relationships with my family and I don't dwell on the past or
hold grudges. I'm not going to lie, some days are still hard
and there are still things I struggle with forgiving and
letting go. And that day will come. But until then, I will just
continue praying and asking God for his mercy.
Forgiveness is a very powerful thing. There are so many
great examples of forgiveness, but there has been one story
that has always stuck with me ever since I saw the video of
it. Some of you may have heard of Gary Ridgway, better
known as "The Green River Killer." During his sentencing,
the families of the victims had a chance to come to the stand
and say some words to the murderer. Everyone wished him a
painful death and showed nothing but hatred. But that last
man that came up to the stand was Mr. Robert Rule and he
left a lasting impression. His words left the killer sobbing.
"Mr. Ridgway, there are people here that hate you. I'm not
one of them. I forgive you for what you have done. You've
made it difficult to live to what I believe, and what God says
to do, and that is to forgive. And He doesn't say to forgive
certain people. He says to forgive all. So you are forgiven,
sir."
We could all learn a lot from Mr. Rule and from Jesus. Even
as he was being nailed to the cross, Jesus cried out "Forgive
them Father for they know not what they do." We are only
human, but if we can ask God to forgive us for our sins, then
we can forgive others for their wrongdoings upons us. You
will lead a much healthier and happier life. Try it. You'll see.
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Psalm 104:14
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In the Potting Shed
by Rebecca Matthews
What type of
Flower
Are You?
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Yeshayahu 40:6-8
The voice of one saying, "Cry!"
One said, "What shall I cry?"
"All flesh is like grass,
and all its glory is like the flower of the field.
The grass withers, the flower fades,
because Yahweh's breath blows on it.
Surely the people are like grass.
The grass withers, the flower fades;
but the word of our God stands forever."
1 Kefa 1:22-25
Seeing you have purified your souls in your obedience
to the truth through the Spirit in sincere brotherly affection,
love one another from the heart fervently:
having been born again, not of corruptible seed,
but of incorruptible, through the word of Elohim,
which lives and remains forever.
For, "All flesh is like grass,
and all of man's glory like the flower in the grass.
The grass withers, and its flower falls;
but the word of Elohim endures forever."
And this is the Word, announced as Good News to you.
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Some members of society have many layers attributed to them. Layers
such as royalty, social responsibility, dignity, honor and integrity, from a
place of high-standing and position among their peers and colleagues.
People in this category are almost always in the public eye, and are
scrutinized to see if they make a mistake.
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Some members of society are deemed ‘exotic’ by others, and surmised to
be hard to approach and high maintenance. They are thought too ‘showy’
for the ‘common’ person and, therefore, are shied away from by other
members of society that think themselves unable to measure up to
someone such as this.
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Some members of society like to group together, only associating with
their own ‘kind.’ While being beautiful for a season, if diversity is not
taken on, then they soon become so closely joined at the root that they
can no longer grow. No growth means there is no longer blooms, and
they just blend into the background with all the other greenery.
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Some members of society are beautiful in their simplicity, but grow off
the beaten track, where not many venture. They like to grow in large
groups but, unlike other types, these blossom when grouped together,
because their seed is dispersed by the wind. When they are seen en
masse, their beauty is a sight to behold.
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Some members of society are deemed ‘weeds’ because they pop up
everywhere. They are the most undesired person in a manicured society.
But, if their label was removed, their valuable qualities would become
apparent. Not only that, but a little investigation would reveal they have
skills that are embraced by other cultures.
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Some members of society should not be touched at all. These are
poisonous to everyone except their own kind, and live on the periphery
of society, just waiting for anyone to venture by unaware of the poison
they contain. They come boldly into our backyards, where the innocent
play, and it seems their poison can adhere to anyone just by looking at it.
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There is Freedom in Forgiveness
After being on the road for almost 3* years, God has brought us back to the small town that
we started out in. Throughout the last several months, the Lord has had me present him with
all the pain and anger from my past. Last year, I overcame the molestation of my childhood
and the poor relationship I had with my dad, among many other things.
From 1995 to 2008, I was in a relationship with a man who put me through the most difficult
period in my life thus far. During that time, I was both physically and emotionally abused,
attempted suicide, and lost all my self-worth. I measured myself by his standard, and it has all
come out in anger toward my present husband, who is completely innocent of any of my pain.
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Three weeks ago, after a bout of anger rose up in me, and I went for a drive to clear my head.
It was 3 miles to the main road, and before I had gotten halfway there, the Holy Spirit
directed me to go to the man I had had a relationship with for over 13 years. I had to tell him
that I forgave him of all the pain that he had caused.
I then proceeded to ‘do a Gideon’, and say God, if this is You, then have him be out in town
where I can see him when I get there. Knowing this man as well as I did, I knew he never left
his little farm unless he absolutely had to, so I had resigned myself to going to his house, even
though there were so many bad memories.
Looking down at the gas needle, I knew I wouldn’t go very much farther without fuel, so I
made my way to a gas station I usually use. As I passed by a local eatery, I saw a truck that I
thought looked like his. I drove on, got fuel, and drove back toward the small restaurant. My
plan was to park across the street and wait and see who came out to occupy the truck. As I
approached, there was someone in the driver’s seat, with the door open.
It was a cloudy day, and it had been lightly raining off and on throughout the day. This man
was rolling his window up, since it had started to sprinkle. When he began to exit the vehicle,
I saw it was who God had sent me to talk to. So, I parked right beside his truck and tapped
the horn. He had begun to walk back toward the restaurant, but turned around at the sound
of the horn.
When he saw me, he grinned wide. It had been over 4 years since we had seen one another, and
all those old feelings of hate and anger were gone. He asked for a hug, and I gave him one. In
our 20 minute conversation, I told him what I had been sent to say. It was a tremendous
relief.
In the last 2 weeks, my husband, and all the people around me, have noticed a marked
difference in my overall attitude. I feel like the weight of the world has been taken from me.
So, for anyone who reads this that might be in a similar position that I was in: forgive!! Don’t
go for years holding it in like I did, then venting it on innocent people. Give it to God, and let
him deal with it. You will feel a lot better for it!
There is freedom in forgiveness!
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Therefore I tell you,
her sins, which are
many, are forgiven,
for she loved much.
But to whom little is
forgiven, the same
loves little."
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Luke
7:47
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