Brian Heflin 9 star on the rise. Karen Kreisler A bright new star who ...
Brian Heflin 9 star on the rise. Karen Kreisler A bright new star who ...
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If you ask <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Heflin</str<strong>on</strong>g> what makes him successful,<br />
DeceMber 2011<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> as a child growing<br />
up in South Central LA<br />
he’ll give you three answers: persistence,<br />
mentorship, and knowing <strong>the</strong> “why.”<br />
Persistence: Growing up in South Central<br />
Los Angeles is not easy, especially if you<br />
are an underprivileged black kid raised by<br />
a single mo<strong>the</strong>r. South Central is known<br />
for being a relatively rough neighborhood. Growing<br />
up, it wasn’t uncomm<strong>on</strong> for <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> to see squad<br />
cars arresting people <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> streets, or <strong>the</strong> occasi<strong>on</strong>al<br />
body being wheeled out of a home after a<br />
drug overdose. But <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g>’s mo<strong>the</strong>r’s greatest gift<br />
to her s<strong>on</strong> was showing him <strong>the</strong> value of persistence.<br />
Mabel worked two, and sometimes three,<br />
jobs to provide for <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> and his sister, T<strong>on</strong>da and<br />
Trina. Somehow, she was always able to keep a<br />
roof over <strong>the</strong>ir heads and clo<strong>the</strong>s <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir backs.<br />
Despite her hours, Mabel also managed to be a<br />
loving and disciplined parent: she kept her<br />
children <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> right track because she believed<br />
in <strong>the</strong>ir ability to become c<strong>on</strong>tributing members<br />
of society.<br />
Mabel recognized <strong>the</strong> limitati<strong>on</strong>s of living in<br />
South Central. She k<strong>new</strong> that she had to show her<br />
s<strong>on</strong> ano<strong>the</strong>r way of life. So she arranged for <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
to spend three m<strong>on</strong>ths in Chicago every summer,<br />
from <strong>the</strong> ages of 8 to 15 with <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g>’s great uncle<br />
<strong>who</strong> ran a successful business <strong>the</strong>re. For <strong>the</strong> first<br />
time in his life, <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> saw a man get up and put a<br />
suit <strong>on</strong> every day to go to work. He met o<strong>the</strong>r business<br />
owners. He saw that hard work could lead<br />
to financial security. <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> recognizes that his time<br />
in Chicago with his great uncle was life-changing.<br />
“My uncle would always tell me that I could be<br />
any<strong>on</strong>e <strong>who</strong> I wanted to be. So when I came back<br />
to Los Angeles, I would return to <strong>the</strong> same place I<br />
grew up, but I would speak differently, I would think<br />
differently. I would dream.”<br />
The possibility of a different life for himself and<br />
his mo<strong>the</strong>r became <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g>’s driving force. At <strong>the</strong><br />
age of 10, he went to work for his uncle’s friend at<br />
a stati<strong>on</strong>ery store. By high school, <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> was taking<br />
a 1.5 hour bus ride every day after varsity track<br />
and field practice to a Thrifty’s Drug Store in <strong>the</strong><br />
Valley. He wouldn’t get home until almost midnight<br />
by <strong>the</strong> time he was d<strong>on</strong>e. At this job, <str<strong>on</strong>g>Brian</str<strong>on</strong>g> got his<br />
first taste of <strong>the</strong> rewards of persistence: he worked<br />
his way up to <strong>the</strong> manager positi<strong>on</strong>.<br />
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