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<strong>Violence</strong> and Silence<br />

Jac<strong>in</strong>ta Price<br />

Before I beg<strong>in</strong> today I want to acknowledge that I would not be<br />

here without <strong>the</strong> support of my husband who encourages me<br />

to always speak <strong>the</strong> truth.<br />

As many have been aware, Australian citizens are dy<strong>in</strong>g<br />

at alarm<strong>in</strong>gly high rates because of family violence. These Australian<br />

citizens are Aborig<strong>in</strong>al women and <strong>the</strong>ir children, who are this country’s<br />

most marg<strong>in</strong>alised people.<br />

Many of you are aware of <strong>the</strong> statistics follow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> police<br />

commissioners report and <strong>the</strong>re are those of us who have known <strong>the</strong><br />

Aborig<strong>in</strong>al family violence crisis has been play<strong>in</strong>g out for a very long<br />

time and yet has never been properly addressed.<br />

I have known about this crisis all my life. I recall an <strong>in</strong>cident at<br />

Christmas <strong>in</strong> our family home when I was about n<strong>in</strong>e. The husband of<br />

a woman <strong>in</strong> my family became violent and aggressive after consum<strong>in</strong>g<br />

alcohol. He and <strong>the</strong> woman began to argue as <strong>the</strong>y both became<br />

<strong>in</strong>toxicated. It escalated to <strong>the</strong> po<strong>in</strong>t where my fa<strong>the</strong>r ordered <strong>the</strong> man<br />

to leave our house.<br />

As he left, he took a fist full of his 18-month-old son’s hair and<br />

lifted him by his scalp until his arm was fully extended to <strong>the</strong> side of<br />

his body. He flung <strong>the</strong> toddler about <strong>in</strong> front of us all — <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g<br />

his three-year-old daughter. He threatened to kill his son if his wife<br />

cont<strong>in</strong>ued to disobey him.<br />

I remember <strong>the</strong> blank look <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> boy’s eyes … he didn’t cry out. He<br />

just dangled silently from his hair.<br />

It was blatantly obvious this toddler had endured violence such as<br />

this many times and he had become desensitized to it.<br />

My parents acted swiftly to call <strong>the</strong> police to arrest <strong>the</strong> man.<br />

However follow<strong>in</strong>g this <strong>the</strong>re were many more <strong>in</strong>cidents, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g one<br />

where he broke his wife’s jaw, ano<strong>the</strong>r two when he had put her <strong>in</strong>to<br />

ICU; and on one of those occasions she was close to death.<br />

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