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<strong>BelongLife</strong><br />
WINTER 2016<br />
Newcastle MP and Mayor tour renovation<br />
projects bringing town’s heritage back to life<br />
See pages 8 -9<br />
In this issue... Belong staff crowned winners at prestigious award<br />
events: see pages 6 & 7<br />
Plus...<br />
• A customer’s view<br />
• Memory lane<br />
• 60 second interview<br />
• Village news<br />
Belong Crewe residents<br />
have a ball at Great<br />
Gatsby party Page 5<br />
Belong Warrington staff<br />
help resident to pop the<br />
question Page 10<br />
Belong Wigan unveil<br />
new remembrance<br />
garden Page 14
Belong Life Winter 2016<br />
Word from<br />
the team<br />
As we enter 2017, we reflect on another tremendously<br />
successful year for Belong and look forward to enhancing our<br />
services further over the year ahead.<br />
We are ever thankful for the hard work and dedication of all<br />
of our staff and their unyielding commitment to providing the<br />
very best care for our customers.<br />
I am delighted to see that, in the last few months alone, Belong<br />
and its people have been recognised with a number of accolades<br />
at the Great North West Care Awards, with three winners<br />
going through to the Great British Care Awards national finals<br />
next year.<br />
Pictured above: Belong<br />
Crewe’s Belong at Home<br />
Manager, Laura Evans<br />
outside the village.<br />
2017 looks set to be another fantastic year, and will see<br />
the opening of one of our newest villages, currently under<br />
construction, Belong Morris Feinmann, in Didsbury, Manchester.<br />
The village is on track to open in summer 2017 and we are<br />
excited to welcome members of the Jewish community to<br />
the Belong family. The opening of the village will also see<br />
the unveiling of our remembrance garden, created with the<br />
help of award-winning garden designer Carolyn Hardern to<br />
commemorate victims of the Holocaust. We were delighted<br />
when the garden took home a prestigious silver-gilt medal<br />
from the Royal Horticultural Society at the RHS Tatton flower<br />
show in summer last year.<br />
2017 will also be a crucial period in the development of Belong<br />
Newcastle-under-Lyme which, thanks to a £1.8m grant from<br />
the Heritage Lottery Fund, will see historic building and former<br />
Newcastle nightspot, ‘Maxims’, transformed into the Belong<br />
Heritage Gallery. This will become an integral part of a brand<br />
new Belong care village, scheduled to open in 2018.<br />
Development of the village is now underway and we have<br />
been working closely with Brampton Museum and the New Vic<br />
Theatre to encourage community engagement with the new<br />
village and gallery and create a true reflection of Newcastle’s<br />
rich cultural heritage.<br />
I hope you all had an enjoyable and restful holiday period and,<br />
from all at Belong, we wish you the very best for 2017.<br />
Belong Crewe has become the only<br />
provider of home care services in<br />
Cheshire and one of only a handful in<br />
the UK to be rated as ‘Outstanding’ by<br />
the Care Quality Commission (CQC) for<br />
its Belong at Home domiciliary service.<br />
CQC found that Belong at Home Crewe as<br />
‘exceptionally caring’ and that ‘without<br />
exception, staff went the extra mile to<br />
ensure that people were safe and happy<br />
within their lives.’<br />
Crewe becomes Cheshire’s first<br />
home care service to be rated<br />
‘Outstanding’<br />
It commended its emphasis on recruiting staff with<br />
shared values and beliefs in order to provide high quality<br />
care and noted that staff were strongly committed to<br />
making a difference, speaking passionately and proudly<br />
about the people they supported.<br />
Belong Macclesfield have also received a ‘Good’ rating:<br />
In a separate inspection, the CQC found that Belong at<br />
Home Macclesfield was ‘safe, person centred, sensitive<br />
and compassionate.’<br />
Customers commented that the service is their lifeline<br />
and staff members feel like an extended family.<br />
Pictured left to right are members of the Belong at Home<br />
team in Macclesfield: Fiona Swailes, Tomas Zahorka,<br />
Sarah Vare, Liz Dyson, Janet Blackmore, Ruth Gazeley,<br />
Belong at Home Manager Karen Burgess, Marlene<br />
Oultram, Gail Davidson.<br />
Nick Dykes, Chief Executive<br />
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Belong Life Winter 2016<br />
Memory Lane...<br />
Mary Robinson<br />
For 92-year-old Belong Atherton resident<br />
and former teacher, Mary Robinson, charity<br />
work has always been of top importance.<br />
A whole lot of history<br />
Pictured left to right: Sharon Bull, Sandra Walley, Mandy James, Josephine<br />
Mollison, Michelle Bell, Sarah Hilton, Tiffany Fletcher and Katie Bennion<br />
(front centre).<br />
Bistro and Catering Manager, Katie<br />
Bennion, with Resident, Vicki King.<br />
Born in 1924, Mary Robinson spent her youth living in<br />
Pennington, near Leigh, before attending Crewe College in<br />
Cheshire, where she trained to be a history teacher. Mary also<br />
took on teaching PE, inspired by her keen interest in sport that<br />
stemmed from her days playing tennis in her youth. She taught<br />
at Manchester Road School and then Leigh Church of England<br />
School, later gaining a position in Tyldsley Girls’ school, which<br />
merged with the boy’s school and became Fred Longworth<br />
High School. She taught at the high school for many years,<br />
becoming a pastoral mistress, in charge of pupils’ welfare.<br />
As well as looking after her daughter Trish, who was born in<br />
1955, alongside her teaching career, Mary took part in a lot of<br />
charity work and volunteered at the Family Planning service<br />
weekly from 1960. After she retired at age 60, she took on<br />
numerous charitable roles including: working for both the<br />
Leigh and Atherton Citizen’s Advice Bureau and at the Leigh<br />
Infirmary, where she volunteered until the age of 85. As a<br />
reward for her tireless community work, Mary was invited<br />
to a garden party at Buckingham Palace, where she met the<br />
Queen, Prince Charles and Prince Phillip.<br />
Familiar faces<br />
Mary Robinson first experienced Belong when she received<br />
care through the Belong at Home domiciliary service, whilst<br />
living in Atherton. She then began to attend Experience Days<br />
in 2016 and took part in village activities including games<br />
afternoons and coffee mornings.<br />
A real surprise occurred when at her first Experience Day,<br />
Mary came across support worker Renee Whittingham who<br />
recognised Mary as her former Fred Longworth high school<br />
teacher! Renee recalls that Mrs Robinson, who was her history<br />
teacher in 1966, was very kind and gentle and always took<br />
time to help pupils who struggled in school.<br />
Now a Belong resident, having moved<br />
into Atherton’s Tyldsley household last<br />
July, Mary enjoys socialising with fellow<br />
residents, especially at the village’s<br />
weekly Songs of Praise viewing session.<br />
She spends a lot of time in the garden<br />
where she helps to grow tomatoes and<br />
cucumbers and she also enjoys being<br />
pampered at the village’s hair salon<br />
and therapy rooms. Mary receives<br />
regular visits from her daughter and two<br />
grandchildren; Emma and Jonathan, who<br />
all live locally and says she feels very<br />
happy and very safe in the village.<br />
Both Mary and her daughter have seen<br />
Belong as a ‘home for life’ that caters<br />
to all stages of life and believe that<br />
using Belong at Home and Experience<br />
Days helped Mary to adjust to living<br />
permanently in the village.<br />
Mary says: “I met a lot of people at the<br />
Experience Days and staff members<br />
made sure that the things that I had<br />
enjoyed and friends that I had made<br />
stayed the same once I moved from<br />
being a day visitor to permanent resident<br />
at the village.”<br />
Belong Crewe residents have a ball at<br />
the Great Gatsby Party<br />
Residents and staff members at Belong Crewe, started their<br />
Christmas celebrations in style at a Great Gatsby themed ball.<br />
Party guests donned 1920s’ style outfits, sipped champagne<br />
and enjoyed learning routines from a ballroom dancing<br />
instructor.<br />
The highlight of the party was the entertainment; a professional<br />
ballroom dancing instructor invited residents to the dance floor<br />
to learn routines and show off their dance moves. The village<br />
management team also took to the stage dressed as 1920s’<br />
‘flappers’ and gangsters and sang well-known songs from<br />
the era. The old-time music acted as a form of reminiscence<br />
therapy, proven to be particularly beneficial for people living<br />
with dementia, stimulating cognitive ability as well as being<br />
therapeutic.<br />
Residents embraced the spirit of the event by sporting flapper<br />
headdresses that they had created at an arts and crafts session<br />
earlier in the week. Craft sessions such as these also provide<br />
sensory therapy that has been found to decrease agitation<br />
and restlessness, which can be common for people living with<br />
dementia.<br />
Michelle Bell, Belong Crewe’s General Manager, said:<br />
“Everybody had a wonderful time at our Great Gatsby ball!<br />
Everyone really got into the spirit of the event and it was lovely<br />
to see residents dancing and singing along to familiar songs. It<br />
was a perfect start to the festive season.”<br />
Pictured left to right (back row): Belong Crewe staff, Nicole Griffiths, Amie<br />
Adams, Emma Palin and Julie Barr, with residents (front centre), Cath Scott,<br />
Ann Jones, and Margaret Maden.<br />
Partygoers were also treated to canapés<br />
and cakes in The Venue in the village,<br />
which was decorated in the style of an<br />
opulent Gatsby party and featured a<br />
photo-booth and props.<br />
Pictured left to right: Sharon Bull, Experience<br />
Coordinator, Eileen Ankers, Resident, Michelle Bell,<br />
General Manager, Brenda Gosnell, Resident.<br />
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Belong staff crowned winners at<br />
the Great North West Care Awards<br />
Three Belong registered nurses have been crowned winners at<br />
the Great North West Care Awards, and will now go forward<br />
to the national finals of the Great British Care Awards. Belong<br />
Macclesfield’s Kate Jauffur won the ‘Care Trainer Award’<br />
and John Summerton was awarded the ‘Good Nurse Award’<br />
whilst Belong Atherton lead nurse, Nicola Johnstone, won<br />
the ‘Palliative Care Award’. The awards seek to recognise and<br />
celebrate people who provide excellent care for older people.<br />
Practice Development Facilitator, Kate Jauffur, has shown great<br />
success in tailoring her training to suit the needs of different<br />
learners and has introduced innovative training schemes to<br />
the village, which has led to improved care for residents. Kate<br />
has also instigated a ‘Buddy Scheme’ to encourage a learning<br />
exchange between the village and the East Cheshire Hospice<br />
and has recently introduced Namaste training for care teams,<br />
so that they can provide one-to-one sensory therapy for people<br />
with dementia at the end of their life.<br />
Lisa receives her trophy from<br />
Boyzone singer Keith Duffy.<br />
Belong Warrington Experience Coordinator<br />
‘Activity Coordinator of the Year’<br />
John Summerton and Kate Jauffur are pictured<br />
with their awards outside Belong Macclesfield.<br />
Nicola Johnstone is pictured, 3rd from the left,<br />
with her colleagues (left to right), Andy Sheild,<br />
Claire Bibby, Gill Kelly, Christine Thomas and<br />
Michaela Heaton.<br />
John Summerton was inspired to make the switch from his NHS<br />
management position to joining Belong after experiencing the<br />
village as a relative. He is passionate about ensuring a ‘person<br />
first’ approach and puts any nursing interventions in the context<br />
of the person’s whole life - in terms of ‘being with’ not ‘doing to’.<br />
Atherton’s Nicola Johnstone has previously received recognition<br />
for her work, winning two awards in the recent ‘Hospice in your<br />
Care Home Awards’, run by Wigan and Leigh Hospice. Earlier<br />
this year, she also led the village to achieve the Gold Standard<br />
Framework for care at end-of-life, for which Belong Atherton<br />
received a rating of ‘Commended’ for its outstanding approach.<br />
She supports household staff and families to sensitively discuss<br />
difficult, but necessary end-of-life decisions, and leads her team<br />
in providing emotional as well as practical support.<br />
Phil Orton, Head of People at Belong, said: “All staff members<br />
at Belong work tirelessly to ensure that the best care possible is<br />
provided to our customers and I am delighted that the dedication<br />
of three members of our team has been recognised by winning<br />
these awards and going forward as finalists in the prestigious,<br />
national Great British Care Awards. We wish them the very best<br />
of luck in the final stage of this competition!”<br />
The national award winners will be announced at a gala dinner<br />
on 31st March 2017, after attending the final round of interviews.<br />
Belong Warrington Experience Co-ordinator, Lisa McLaughlin,<br />
has been named ‘Activity Co-ordinator of the year’ at the<br />
prestigious National Care Awards, receiving her trophy from<br />
Boyzone singer Keith Duffy at a Gala Night at the Hilton<br />
London Metropole Hotel.<br />
The award celebrates a person working within a care home<br />
service who has made an exceptional contribution to the<br />
quality of life, health and happiness of the people they support<br />
through the activities they provide.<br />
Commenting on Lisa’s impact on the village, competition<br />
judges said that “Lisa’s ability to create a whole team approach<br />
to deliver personalised activity provision is exceptional, and<br />
her inter-generational approach to dementia awareness as a<br />
champion, demonstrated through her local school links, set her<br />
apart in a strong field.”<br />
Lisa is known within the village for being a true ‘people person,’<br />
with an enthusiasm for providing a diverse and inclusive<br />
programme of events and activities tailored to the needs and<br />
interests of individual people. She is also active in the wider<br />
community, working with local schools and scout groups,<br />
training almost 450 Dementia Friends to improve awareness<br />
and understanding of living with dementia.<br />
Lisa takes time to enhance her<br />
understanding of dementia by reading<br />
widely on the subject, alongside<br />
undertaking formal training and her<br />
approach has helped to inspire the<br />
staff team to engage customers in<br />
meaningful occupation using a range of<br />
techniques. She regularly runs activities<br />
with a physical or sensory element,<br />
such as gardening, exercise, dance and<br />
monthly themed events.<br />
Belong Warrington General Manager,<br />
Janine Curwell, said: “I am delighted that<br />
Lisa’s hard work has been recognised by<br />
being named ‘Activity Co-ordinator of<br />
the year’ by industry expert judges. She<br />
is sensitive and aware of people’s needs<br />
and moods, and resourceful in adapting<br />
her activities and strategies to cater for<br />
these.”<br />
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“The Belong Heritage Gallery<br />
will include Sammy Bell’s Tea<br />
Rooms, the Old Pomona Inn, a<br />
reminiscence gallery, hair salon<br />
and timeline to commemorate<br />
the site’s past.”<br />
Newcastle MP and mayor tour renovation<br />
projects bringing town’s heritage back to life<br />
Guests are pictured outside St. Giles Church<br />
which they visited as part of the tour.<br />
Guests discuss the plans for the new Belong<br />
Newcastle-under-Lyme village.<br />
The site of the former Maxims nightclub was the starting<br />
point of a tour of a number of exciting projects underway to<br />
transform life in Newcastle-under-Lyme, thanks to funding from<br />
the Heritage Lottery Fund (HLF).<br />
MP Paul Farrelly and the Mayor of Newcastle, Councillor Ian<br />
Wilkes, were among VIP guests on a heritage tour which included<br />
the new Belong community village taking shape on the site of the<br />
former nightclub.<br />
The Belong village centre will be open to the public and incorporate<br />
a heritage gallery with a range of facilities linked to the site’s<br />
heritage. These include Sammy Bell’s tea rooms, the recreated<br />
Old Pomona Inn, a reminiscence gallery and timeline charting the<br />
history of the building from its origins as a 17th century home,<br />
through to its development as Newcastle’s first pottery, a staging<br />
coach inn and most recently the iconic Maxims nightclub.<br />
The next stop was St Giles Church, which has recently landscaped<br />
its churchyard to showcase the heritage once obscured by the<br />
unsightly ‘mound’ and launched the St Giles Heritage Trail app as<br />
an interactive way for people to access the site’s history.<br />
Representatives from Community<br />
Investment Company, Sporting<br />
Communities, also highlighted<br />
their project to engage young<br />
people in the Roman history of<br />
Chesterton following a ‘Young<br />
Roots’ grant from the HLF.<br />
MP Paul Farrelly said: “It’s great<br />
to see the wide range of projects<br />
underway and the significant<br />
impact they are already having to<br />
improve the town and the lives<br />
of people in it. There are some<br />
fabulous ideas being shared to<br />
develop these facilities and I hope<br />
people will be inspired to identify<br />
more opportunities to increase<br />
people’s awareness of Newcastle’s<br />
history and take pride in the local<br />
area.”<br />
The Belong Heritage Gallery will provide<br />
the setting for a wide range of activities<br />
and reminiscence sessions for people<br />
with dementia and establish a dementia<br />
centre of excellence in the town.<br />
It will open when the village launches<br />
early in 2018, creating over 140 jobs<br />
and providing accommodation for 100 older people, either<br />
in independent living apartments or households providing<br />
24-hour care. The village is being developed by specialist<br />
healthcare property company, Prime, and will be operated by<br />
Belong.<br />
Mayor of Newcastle, Councillor Ian Wilkes, commented:<br />
“The Borough Council welcomes the contribution of the<br />
Heritage Lottery Fund in working with local organisations to<br />
support regeneration of the town, both in terms of its physical<br />
transformation and activities to engage the community in our<br />
shared heritage.<br />
“We would really encourage people to make the most of<br />
opportunities created by these projects, as well as to put<br />
forward ideas for new ones.”<br />
OPENS 2018<br />
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Residents Adrian and Avril Cohen<br />
Belong Life Winter 2016<br />
Belong Warrington staff<br />
help resident to<br />
‘ Pop the question’<br />
Brenda Jenkinson<br />
Experience Day Support Worker<br />
60 SECOND INTERVIEW<br />
How did you first get into the care sector?<br />
Staff at Belong Warrington, have helped a resident<br />
to ‘propose’ to his wife on the anniversary of the day<br />
that they got engaged, to revive a tradition that he had<br />
embraced every year until becoming wheelchair bound<br />
which prevented him from performing his romantic<br />
gesture in the way he used to.<br />
Resident Adrian Cohen has built a close relationship with gym<br />
instructor Sian Ryland, who works with him in Belong’s specialist<br />
exercise studio on a personalised fitness programme to help build<br />
his strength and enable him to stand up out of his wheelchair.<br />
Adrian’s wife, Avril, has lived in an adjacent room to her husband<br />
on Threlfall household for the past two years, and they spend<br />
most of their days together. Avril also attends gym sessions to<br />
improve her mobility.<br />
Hearing that Adrian ‘re-proposed’ to his wife of 54 years each<br />
year, Sian realised that since he had become wheelchair bound,<br />
Adrian was no longer able to get down on one knee and<br />
continue his tradition. She endeavoured to find another way of<br />
helping Adrian to re-create the proposal and went out to buy Avril’s<br />
favourite flowers and chocolates so that Adrian could present the<br />
gifts to his wife, asking for her hand in marriage again.<br />
Belong gym instructor, Sian, said:<br />
“Mr and Mrs Cohen are such a lovely<br />
couple - they are never without each<br />
other and it’s wonderful to see them<br />
living independently whilst remaining<br />
so close at Belong. It was a pleasure to<br />
help Adrian with this surprise, it was<br />
all worth it for the look on Avril’s face;<br />
she was thrilled and reduced to tears<br />
of happiness!”<br />
“Mr and Mrs Cohen are such<br />
a lovely couple - they are<br />
never without each other<br />
and it’s wonderful to see<br />
them living independently<br />
whilst remaining so close<br />
at Belong.”<br />
I started my caring career as a domestic assistant in a hospital in<br />
1985. I then worked as a home carer and later moved into working<br />
in a social work capacity. After retiring in September 2015 I found<br />
that I really missed working in care, so a couple of months later I<br />
applied for the role at Belong Warrington.<br />
What’s your favourite aspect of the job?<br />
I love being able to dedicate myself to providing a service and<br />
creating a stimulating environment - it’s wonderful to be able to<br />
provide a sense of fun to customers. Most of all, though, I love<br />
that the Experience Day service is tailored to meet customer<br />
needs, rather than the customer having to fit in with the service’s<br />
needs and what they offer; it makes for a much more personal<br />
and engaging experience.<br />
What are its hidden challenges?<br />
The good most definitely outweighs the bad, but the trickiest<br />
part is making sure that, in a group setting, everyone is treated<br />
as an individual and that their needs are catered for. We want<br />
everybody to feel included, comfortable and happy, so ensuring<br />
that the environment remains stimulating for everybody can be<br />
a challenge.<br />
What makes working for Belong unique?<br />
Compared to many other care settings, there is much more<br />
freedom at Belong to provide a high level of service with<br />
passion, commitment and enthusiasm - that’s what I’m all<br />
about! Also, the staff really are second to none.<br />
At every level, they work tirelessly<br />
to provide the absolute best service,<br />
which makes it a really wonderful<br />
place to work.<br />
What’s your favourite way to<br />
relax after a long day (or night)<br />
at work?<br />
I enjoy gardening, meeting up with<br />
friends and family and I also go to the<br />
gym two or three times a week. I also<br />
enjoy a tipple or two at the weekend,<br />
because why not!<br />
Brenda is pictured with Belong<br />
Warrington Resident, Peggy Gordon.<br />
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A Customer’s View<br />
Nothing is more important<br />
to Belong than its customers,<br />
which is why we love hearing<br />
about their experiences. For<br />
this issue we spoke to Lisa<br />
Greenhall and Joanne Wilks,<br />
daughters of Belong Wigan<br />
Beech Household resident<br />
Sandra Hudson, who recently,<br />
sadly passed away.<br />
Sandra is pictured (2nd from left) with some of the<br />
support workers on Beech House during a party.<br />
FORGET ME NOT<br />
by Joanne<br />
Dementia is a thief!<br />
You stole our mum's memory<br />
You stole our mum's mobility<br />
You stole our mum's ability to cook<br />
You stole our mum's dignity<br />
You stole our mum's recognition<br />
You stole our mum's liberty<br />
You stole our mum's intelligence<br />
Belong Life Winter 2016<br />
Local rugby hero visits<br />
Belong Atherton<br />
Residents and staff at Belong Atherton,<br />
enjoyed an afternoon with Wigan<br />
Warriors rugby club star, Dom Manfredi,<br />
who took a day off from training to join<br />
their annual Christmas fayre.<br />
Sandra first experienced Belong when she<br />
received daily help in her home to administer<br />
medicine, through the Belong at Home service.<br />
She soon began attending Belong Experience<br />
Days and following a deterioration in her<br />
health, went on to move into an independent<br />
Belong Wigan apartment.<br />
In October 2014, after receiving respite care in<br />
the village, Sandra moved into Elm Household.<br />
Lisa and Joanne recall: “Moving mum into the<br />
household was a very difficult decision; we really<br />
wanted her to continue to live independently<br />
but felt that she needed more frequent help<br />
from the staff. Sandra enjoyed living in the<br />
household and was well known amongst<br />
guest entertainers and support workers who<br />
commented that ‘there was no such thing as a<br />
party unless Sandra was there.’<br />
Towards the end of her life, Sandra was cared<br />
for by the Belong household team. Joanne<br />
commented: “Somehow, Belong managed to<br />
turn such a sad situation into a positive one.<br />
They kept our spirits high and we all continued<br />
to laugh and smile right until the end, which<br />
is exactly what mum would have wanted. The<br />
team were very conscious of mum as a person<br />
and took into account her personality that they<br />
knew so well, despite us feeling like we had lost<br />
her. [This experience inspired Joanne to write a<br />
poem about dementia, printed on page opposite.]<br />
“They went above and beyond the call of duty to<br />
ensure that Lisa, myself and our families had all<br />
the guidance that we needed, whilst providing<br />
mum with excellent and dignified care. They<br />
even allowed us to stay for a week in mum’s<br />
room and looked after us with regular meals<br />
and comforting words.”<br />
Lisa added: “Since mum passed away, Belong<br />
have continued to support us and our families.<br />
We’ve visited the village regularly to catch up<br />
with the staff and we are still invited to all of<br />
the activities that we attended with mum. Marie<br />
Calderbank, Wigan’s experience coordinator,<br />
made a lovely gesture on Remembrance Day;<br />
she invited us to plant a poppy in remembrance<br />
of mum in the village garden.<br />
“We will be eternally grateful to the Belong team<br />
for the support that they provided for our mum<br />
from when she first used Belong at Home, right<br />
up until her final days on the household.”<br />
If you would like to contribute to the<br />
next ‘A Customer’s View’ column,<br />
please pass on your details to a<br />
member of staff or email the editor<br />
at: tracy.brookes@belong.org.uk<br />
You stole our mum's ability to<br />
recognize who her two daughters were<br />
You stole our mum's grandchildren<br />
of their grandma<br />
You stole our mum's personality<br />
You stole our mum's body<br />
You stole our mum's brain<br />
You stole our mum's voice<br />
You stole our mum's sunshine<br />
You stole our mum<br />
How dare you dementia!<br />
What did our mum ever do to you?<br />
Our mum won many battles with illness<br />
Why could she not defeat you?<br />
You are not very nice<br />
You turn people into nothing<br />
You robbed our children of their<br />
grandma<br />
You robbed us of our mum<br />
She didn't deserve this<br />
Why can't you go away and leave<br />
people alone?<br />
You stole our mum's sunshine<br />
Let's hope one day someone steals you<br />
You did not steal her laugh and sense<br />
of humour<br />
Dom Manfredi of Wigan warriors and Apartment<br />
tenant Linda Wright.<br />
One of the community stall holders<br />
The Christmas fayre included 5 stalls<br />
and a Santa’s grotto and raised £700 for<br />
activities at the village.<br />
The highlight of the fayre was the top raffle<br />
prize of a signed Wigan Warriors shirt,<br />
which was presented by Manfredi himself.<br />
The player spent the rest of the afternoon<br />
visiting Belong Atherton’s households and<br />
meeting fans, with whom he shared rugby<br />
stories and jokes.<br />
Gemma Willetts, Experience Coordinator<br />
at Belong Atherton, said: “We all had a<br />
great time at our Christmas fayre! Dom<br />
Manfredi’s presence in the village had<br />
such a positive impact - he really engaged<br />
with everyone and spent a long time<br />
getting to know our residents.”<br />
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Noticeboard<br />
Lisa Greenhall and Joanne Wilks,<br />
daughters of Belong Wigan Beech<br />
Household resident Sandra Hudson,<br />
who recently, sadly passed away.<br />
Belong Wigan reveal their<br />
new ‘remembrance garden’<br />
Residents and staff members at Belong Wigan, marked<br />
Remembrance Day with a poignant ceremony to open their<br />
new ‘remembrance garden,’ that has been designed with 102<br />
hand-crafted red poppies; a touching tribute to the 100th year<br />
anniversary of the Battle of the Somme and two Belong Wigan<br />
bereavements.<br />
The remembrance garden will remain permanently outside the<br />
village, with forget-me-not flowers being added in the spring.<br />
Special guests at Belong Wigan’s remembrance day included<br />
veterans from the village; Private Walter Morris, Private John<br />
Heaton, Corporal Bill Sievewright and Private John Rothwell<br />
who were all introduced by name and army rank to guests<br />
and took part in the ceremony by laying wreaths. The garden<br />
opening was followed by an afternoon tea in The Venue, with a<br />
1940s themed entertainer.<br />
Belong Warrington festive craft session<br />
Belong Warrington residents<br />
celebrate Forget-Me-Not day<br />
Residents at Belong Warrington, enjoyed a craft session<br />
with volunteers from Priestley College, to celebrate<br />
national Forget-Me-Not Day, which encourages people<br />
to reminisce memories shared with loved ones.<br />
Residents at the village were supplied with colourful craft<br />
materials such as paint, buttons and textured fabrics and<br />
together made a range of items, including felt flower<br />
badges and pictures, as gifts for family and friends. As<br />
well as being a creative and engaging activity, handling<br />
the materials acted as sensory therapy, that has been<br />
found to decrease agitation and restlessness, which can<br />
be common for people living with dementia.<br />
Good luck Doreen<br />
Staff and residents bid farewell to<br />
popular volunteer, Doreen Handley,<br />
as she left the village for pastures<br />
new after 4 years of volunteering<br />
her time as a member of the<br />
village’s Experience Days team.<br />
Doreen is pictured here with the<br />
village’s Experience Coordinator,<br />
Gina Moorjani, who presented<br />
Doreen with a hand-written poem<br />
and her very own replica of the<br />
‘Experience Days Team of the Year’<br />
trophy which the team won at the<br />
Star Awards 2015. We would like to<br />
thank Doreen for her hard work and<br />
commitment and wish her the very<br />
best of luck for the future.<br />
Belong Warrington residents enjoyed a festive<br />
craft session with members of the St. Elphin’s<br />
girl guides in December. Everyone enjoyed<br />
creating Christmas cards, personalised baubles<br />
and miniature Christmas trees.<br />
The village’s Experience Coordinator, Lisa<br />
McLaughlin, said; “It was lovely to see both<br />
generations interacting and chatting about<br />
Christmas traditions. Lots of the residents were<br />
involved in the Brownies and Guides in years<br />
gone by so having them visit evoked lots of<br />
lovely memories and great stories too.”<br />
TREE OF LIGHT<br />
Staff, residents and visitors at Belong Crewe enjoyed a<br />
festive performance by the pupils from Vine Tree School Staff and residents at Belong<br />
on Tuesday 13 December. The children donned their Macclesfield placed messages to<br />
Christmas jumpers and hats as they sang a selection of loved ones near and far at a tree<br />
popular Christmas carols, enjoyed by all.<br />
of light ceremony in the village<br />
Read the full version of our noticeboard articles on the latest news pages<br />
gardens recently; the tree remained<br />
on our website; visit www.belong.org.uk/news<br />
lit throughout the festive period.<br />
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Resident Janet Huxley-Jones with members<br />
of St. Elphin’s Guides.