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<strong>BelongLife</strong><br />

WINTER 2016<br />

Newcastle MP and Mayor tour renovation<br />

projects bringing town’s heritage back to life<br />

See pages 8 -9<br />

In this issue... Belong staff crowned winners at prestigious award<br />

events: see pages 6 & 7<br />

Plus...<br />

• A customer’s view<br />

• Memory lane<br />

• 60 second interview<br />

• Village news<br />

Belong Crewe residents<br />

have a ball at Great<br />

Gatsby party Page 5<br />

Belong Warrington staff<br />

help resident to pop the<br />

question Page 10<br />

Belong Wigan unveil<br />

new remembrance<br />

garden Page 14


Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Word from<br />

the team<br />

As we enter 2017, we reflect on another tremendously<br />

successful year for Belong and look forward to enhancing our<br />

services further over the year ahead.<br />

We are ever thankful for the hard work and dedication of all<br />

of our staff and their unyielding commitment to providing the<br />

very best care for our customers.<br />

I am delighted to see that, in the last few months alone, Belong<br />

and its people have been recognised with a number of accolades<br />

at the Great North West Care Awards, with three winners<br />

going through to the Great British Care Awards national finals<br />

next year.<br />

Pictured above: Belong<br />

Crewe’s Belong at Home<br />

Manager, Laura Evans<br />

outside the village.<br />

2017 looks set to be another fantastic year, and will see<br />

the opening of one of our newest villages, currently under<br />

construction, Belong Morris Feinmann, in Didsbury, Manchester.<br />

The village is on track to open in summer 2017 and we are<br />

excited to welcome members of the Jewish community to<br />

the Belong family. The opening of the village will also see<br />

the unveiling of our remembrance garden, created with the<br />

help of award-winning garden designer Carolyn Hardern to<br />

commemorate victims of the Holocaust. We were delighted<br />

when the garden took home a prestigious silver-gilt medal<br />

from the Royal Horticultural Society at the RHS Tatton flower<br />

show in summer last year.<br />

2017 will also be a crucial period in the development of Belong<br />

Newcastle-under-Lyme which, thanks to a £1.8m grant from<br />

the Heritage Lottery Fund, will see historic building and former<br />

Newcastle nightspot, ‘Maxims’, transformed into the Belong<br />

Heritage Gallery. This will become an integral part of a brand<br />

new Belong care village, scheduled to open in 2018.<br />

Development of the village is now underway and we have<br />

been working closely with Brampton Museum and the New Vic<br />

Theatre to encourage community engagement with the new<br />

village and gallery and create a true reflection of Newcastle’s<br />

rich cultural heritage.<br />

I hope you all had an enjoyable and restful holiday period and,<br />

from all at Belong, we wish you the very best for 2017.<br />

Belong Crewe has become the only<br />

provider of home care services in<br />

Cheshire and one of only a handful in<br />

the UK to be rated as ‘Outstanding’ by<br />

the Care Quality Commission (CQC) for<br />

its Belong at Home domiciliary service.<br />

CQC found that Belong at Home Crewe as<br />

‘exceptionally caring’ and that ‘without<br />

exception, staff went the extra mile to<br />

ensure that people were safe and happy<br />

within their lives.’<br />

Crewe becomes Cheshire’s first<br />

home care service to be rated<br />

‘Outstanding’<br />

It commended its emphasis on recruiting staff with<br />

shared values and beliefs in order to provide high quality<br />

care and noted that staff were strongly committed to<br />

making a difference, speaking passionately and proudly<br />

about the people they supported.<br />

Belong Macclesfield have also received a ‘Good’ rating:<br />

In a separate inspection, the CQC found that Belong at<br />

Home Macclesfield was ‘safe, person centred, sensitive<br />

and compassionate.’<br />

Customers commented that the service is their lifeline<br />

and staff members feel like an extended family.<br />

Pictured left to right are members of the Belong at Home<br />

team in Macclesfield: Fiona Swailes, Tomas Zahorka,<br />

Sarah Vare, Liz Dyson, Janet Blackmore, Ruth Gazeley,<br />

Belong at Home Manager Karen Burgess, Marlene<br />

Oultram, Gail Davidson.<br />

Nick Dykes, Chief Executive<br />

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Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Memory Lane...<br />

Mary Robinson<br />

For 92-year-old Belong Atherton resident<br />

and former teacher, Mary Robinson, charity<br />

work has always been of top importance.<br />

A whole lot of history<br />

Pictured left to right: Sharon Bull, Sandra Walley, Mandy James, Josephine<br />

Mollison, Michelle Bell, Sarah Hilton, Tiffany Fletcher and Katie Bennion<br />

(front centre).<br />

Bistro and Catering Manager, Katie<br />

Bennion, with Resident, Vicki King.<br />

Born in 1924, Mary Robinson spent her youth living in<br />

Pennington, near Leigh, before attending Crewe College in<br />

Cheshire, where she trained to be a history teacher. Mary also<br />

took on teaching PE, inspired by her keen interest in sport that<br />

stemmed from her days playing tennis in her youth. She taught<br />

at Manchester Road School and then Leigh Church of England<br />

School, later gaining a position in Tyldsley Girls’ school, which<br />

merged with the boy’s school and became Fred Longworth<br />

High School. She taught at the high school for many years,<br />

becoming a pastoral mistress, in charge of pupils’ welfare.<br />

As well as looking after her daughter Trish, who was born in<br />

1955, alongside her teaching career, Mary took part in a lot of<br />

charity work and volunteered at the Family Planning service<br />

weekly from 1960. After she retired at age 60, she took on<br />

numerous charitable roles including: working for both the<br />

Leigh and Atherton Citizen’s Advice Bureau and at the Leigh<br />

Infirmary, where she volunteered until the age of 85. As a<br />

reward for her tireless community work, Mary was invited<br />

to a garden party at Buckingham Palace, where she met the<br />

Queen, Prince Charles and Prince Phillip.<br />

Familiar faces<br />

Mary Robinson first experienced Belong when she received<br />

care through the Belong at Home domiciliary service, whilst<br />

living in Atherton. She then began to attend Experience Days<br />

in 2016 and took part in village activities including games<br />

afternoons and coffee mornings.<br />

A real surprise occurred when at her first Experience Day,<br />

Mary came across support worker Renee Whittingham who<br />

recognised Mary as her former Fred Longworth high school<br />

teacher! Renee recalls that Mrs Robinson, who was her history<br />

teacher in 1966, was very kind and gentle and always took<br />

time to help pupils who struggled in school.<br />

Now a Belong resident, having moved<br />

into Atherton’s Tyldsley household last<br />

July, Mary enjoys socialising with fellow<br />

residents, especially at the village’s<br />

weekly Songs of Praise viewing session.<br />

She spends a lot of time in the garden<br />

where she helps to grow tomatoes and<br />

cucumbers and she also enjoys being<br />

pampered at the village’s hair salon<br />

and therapy rooms. Mary receives<br />

regular visits from her daughter and two<br />

grandchildren; Emma and Jonathan, who<br />

all live locally and says she feels very<br />

happy and very safe in the village.<br />

Both Mary and her daughter have seen<br />

Belong as a ‘home for life’ that caters<br />

to all stages of life and believe that<br />

using Belong at Home and Experience<br />

Days helped Mary to adjust to living<br />

permanently in the village.<br />

Mary says: “I met a lot of people at the<br />

Experience Days and staff members<br />

made sure that the things that I had<br />

enjoyed and friends that I had made<br />

stayed the same once I moved from<br />

being a day visitor to permanent resident<br />

at the village.”<br />

Belong Crewe residents have a ball at<br />

the Great Gatsby Party<br />

Residents and staff members at Belong Crewe, started their<br />

Christmas celebrations in style at a Great Gatsby themed ball.<br />

Party guests donned 1920s’ style outfits, sipped champagne<br />

and enjoyed learning routines from a ballroom dancing<br />

instructor.<br />

The highlight of the party was the entertainment; a professional<br />

ballroom dancing instructor invited residents to the dance floor<br />

to learn routines and show off their dance moves. The village<br />

management team also took to the stage dressed as 1920s’<br />

‘flappers’ and gangsters and sang well-known songs from<br />

the era. The old-time music acted as a form of reminiscence<br />

therapy, proven to be particularly beneficial for people living<br />

with dementia, stimulating cognitive ability as well as being<br />

therapeutic.<br />

Residents embraced the spirit of the event by sporting flapper<br />

headdresses that they had created at an arts and crafts session<br />

earlier in the week. Craft sessions such as these also provide<br />

sensory therapy that has been found to decrease agitation<br />

and restlessness, which can be common for people living with<br />

dementia.<br />

Michelle Bell, Belong Crewe’s General Manager, said:<br />

“Everybody had a wonderful time at our Great Gatsby ball!<br />

Everyone really got into the spirit of the event and it was lovely<br />

to see residents dancing and singing along to familiar songs. It<br />

was a perfect start to the festive season.”<br />

Pictured left to right (back row): Belong Crewe staff, Nicole Griffiths, Amie<br />

Adams, Emma Palin and Julie Barr, with residents (front centre), Cath Scott,<br />

Ann Jones, and Margaret Maden.<br />

Partygoers were also treated to canapés<br />

and cakes in The Venue in the village,<br />

which was decorated in the style of an<br />

opulent Gatsby party and featured a<br />

photo-booth and props.<br />

Pictured left to right: Sharon Bull, Experience<br />

Coordinator, Eileen Ankers, Resident, Michelle Bell,<br />

General Manager, Brenda Gosnell, Resident.<br />

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Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Belong staff crowned winners at<br />

the Great North West Care Awards<br />

Three Belong registered nurses have been crowned winners at<br />

the Great North West Care Awards, and will now go forward<br />

to the national finals of the Great British Care Awards. Belong<br />

Macclesfield’s Kate Jauffur won the ‘Care Trainer Award’<br />

and John Summerton was awarded the ‘Good Nurse Award’<br />

whilst Belong Atherton lead nurse, Nicola Johnstone, won<br />

the ‘Palliative Care Award’. The awards seek to recognise and<br />

celebrate people who provide excellent care for older people.<br />

Practice Development Facilitator, Kate Jauffur, has shown great<br />

success in tailoring her training to suit the needs of different<br />

learners and has introduced innovative training schemes to<br />

the village, which has led to improved care for residents. Kate<br />

has also instigated a ‘Buddy Scheme’ to encourage a learning<br />

exchange between the village and the East Cheshire Hospice<br />

and has recently introduced Namaste training for care teams,<br />

so that they can provide one-to-one sensory therapy for people<br />

with dementia at the end of their life.<br />

Lisa receives her trophy from<br />

Boyzone singer Keith Duffy.<br />

Belong Warrington Experience Coordinator<br />

‘Activity Coordinator of the Year’<br />

John Summerton and Kate Jauffur are pictured<br />

with their awards outside Belong Macclesfield.<br />

Nicola Johnstone is pictured, 3rd from the left,<br />

with her colleagues (left to right), Andy Sheild,<br />

Claire Bibby, Gill Kelly, Christine Thomas and<br />

Michaela Heaton.<br />

John Summerton was inspired to make the switch from his NHS<br />

management position to joining Belong after experiencing the<br />

village as a relative. He is passionate about ensuring a ‘person<br />

first’ approach and puts any nursing interventions in the context<br />

of the person’s whole life - in terms of ‘being with’ not ‘doing to’.<br />

Atherton’s Nicola Johnstone has previously received recognition<br />

for her work, winning two awards in the recent ‘Hospice in your<br />

Care Home Awards’, run by Wigan and Leigh Hospice. Earlier<br />

this year, she also led the village to achieve the Gold Standard<br />

Framework for care at end-of-life, for which Belong Atherton<br />

received a rating of ‘Commended’ for its outstanding approach.<br />

She supports household staff and families to sensitively discuss<br />

difficult, but necessary end-of-life decisions, and leads her team<br />

in providing emotional as well as practical support.<br />

Phil Orton, Head of People at Belong, said: “All staff members<br />

at Belong work tirelessly to ensure that the best care possible is<br />

provided to our customers and I am delighted that the dedication<br />

of three members of our team has been recognised by winning<br />

these awards and going forward as finalists in the prestigious,<br />

national Great British Care Awards. We wish them the very best<br />

of luck in the final stage of this competition!”<br />

The national award winners will be announced at a gala dinner<br />

on 31st March 2017, after attending the final round of interviews.<br />

Belong Warrington Experience Co-ordinator, Lisa McLaughlin,<br />

has been named ‘Activity Co-ordinator of the year’ at the<br />

prestigious National Care Awards, receiving her trophy from<br />

Boyzone singer Keith Duffy at a Gala Night at the Hilton<br />

London Metropole Hotel.<br />

The award celebrates a person working within a care home<br />

service who has made an exceptional contribution to the<br />

quality of life, health and happiness of the people they support<br />

through the activities they provide.<br />

Commenting on Lisa’s impact on the village, competition<br />

judges said that “Lisa’s ability to create a whole team approach<br />

to deliver personalised activity provision is exceptional, and<br />

her inter-generational approach to dementia awareness as a<br />

champion, demonstrated through her local school links, set her<br />

apart in a strong field.”<br />

Lisa is known within the village for being a true ‘people person,’<br />

with an enthusiasm for providing a diverse and inclusive<br />

programme of events and activities tailored to the needs and<br />

interests of individual people. She is also active in the wider<br />

community, working with local schools and scout groups,<br />

training almost 450 Dementia Friends to improve awareness<br />

and understanding of living with dementia.<br />

Lisa takes time to enhance her<br />

understanding of dementia by reading<br />

widely on the subject, alongside<br />

undertaking formal training and her<br />

approach has helped to inspire the<br />

staff team to engage customers in<br />

meaningful occupation using a range of<br />

techniques. She regularly runs activities<br />

with a physical or sensory element,<br />

such as gardening, exercise, dance and<br />

monthly themed events.<br />

Belong Warrington General Manager,<br />

Janine Curwell, said: “I am delighted that<br />

Lisa’s hard work has been recognised by<br />

being named ‘Activity Co-ordinator of<br />

the year’ by industry expert judges. She<br />

is sensitive and aware of people’s needs<br />

and moods, and resourceful in adapting<br />

her activities and strategies to cater for<br />

these.”<br />

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Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

“The Belong Heritage Gallery<br />

will include Sammy Bell’s Tea<br />

Rooms, the Old Pomona Inn, a<br />

reminiscence gallery, hair salon<br />

and timeline to commemorate<br />

the site’s past.”<br />

Newcastle MP and mayor tour renovation<br />

projects bringing town’s heritage back to life<br />

Guests are pictured outside St. Giles Church<br />

which they visited as part of the tour.<br />

Guests discuss the plans for the new Belong<br />

Newcastle-under-Lyme village.<br />

The site of the former Maxims nightclub was the starting<br />

point of a tour of a number of exciting projects underway to<br />

transform life in Newcastle-under-Lyme, thanks to funding from<br />

the Heritage Lottery Fund (HLF).<br />

MP Paul Farrelly and the Mayor of Newcastle, Councillor Ian<br />

Wilkes, were among VIP guests on a heritage tour which included<br />

the new Belong community village taking shape on the site of the<br />

former nightclub.<br />

The Belong village centre will be open to the public and incorporate<br />

a heritage gallery with a range of facilities linked to the site’s<br />

heritage. These include Sammy Bell’s tea rooms, the recreated<br />

Old Pomona Inn, a reminiscence gallery and timeline charting the<br />

history of the building from its origins as a 17th century home,<br />

through to its development as Newcastle’s first pottery, a staging<br />

coach inn and most recently the iconic Maxims nightclub.<br />

The next stop was St Giles Church, which has recently landscaped<br />

its churchyard to showcase the heritage once obscured by the<br />

unsightly ‘mound’ and launched the St Giles Heritage Trail app as<br />

an interactive way for people to access the site’s history.<br />

Representatives from Community<br />

Investment Company, Sporting<br />

Communities, also highlighted<br />

their project to engage young<br />

people in the Roman history of<br />

Chesterton following a ‘Young<br />

Roots’ grant from the HLF.<br />

MP Paul Farrelly said: “It’s great<br />

to see the wide range of projects<br />

underway and the significant<br />

impact they are already having to<br />

improve the town and the lives<br />

of people in it. There are some<br />

fabulous ideas being shared to<br />

develop these facilities and I hope<br />

people will be inspired to identify<br />

more opportunities to increase<br />

people’s awareness of Newcastle’s<br />

history and take pride in the local<br />

area.”<br />

The Belong Heritage Gallery will provide<br />

the setting for a wide range of activities<br />

and reminiscence sessions for people<br />

with dementia and establish a dementia<br />

centre of excellence in the town.<br />

It will open when the village launches<br />

early in 2018, creating over 140 jobs<br />

and providing accommodation for 100 older people, either<br />

in independent living apartments or households providing<br />

24-hour care. The village is being developed by specialist<br />

healthcare property company, Prime, and will be operated by<br />

Belong.<br />

Mayor of Newcastle, Councillor Ian Wilkes, commented:<br />

“The Borough Council welcomes the contribution of the<br />

Heritage Lottery Fund in working with local organisations to<br />

support regeneration of the town, both in terms of its physical<br />

transformation and activities to engage the community in our<br />

shared heritage.<br />

“We would really encourage people to make the most of<br />

opportunities created by these projects, as well as to put<br />

forward ideas for new ones.”<br />

OPENS 2018<br />

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Residents Adrian and Avril Cohen<br />

Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Belong Warrington staff<br />

help resident to<br />

‘ Pop the question’<br />

Brenda Jenkinson<br />

Experience Day Support Worker<br />

60 SECOND INTERVIEW<br />

How did you first get into the care sector?<br />

Staff at Belong Warrington, have helped a resident<br />

to ‘propose’ to his wife on the anniversary of the day<br />

that they got engaged, to revive a tradition that he had<br />

embraced every year until becoming wheelchair bound<br />

which prevented him from performing his romantic<br />

gesture in the way he used to.<br />

Resident Adrian Cohen has built a close relationship with gym<br />

instructor Sian Ryland, who works with him in Belong’s specialist<br />

exercise studio on a personalised fitness programme to help build<br />

his strength and enable him to stand up out of his wheelchair.<br />

Adrian’s wife, Avril, has lived in an adjacent room to her husband<br />

on Threlfall household for the past two years, and they spend<br />

most of their days together. Avril also attends gym sessions to<br />

improve her mobility.<br />

Hearing that Adrian ‘re-proposed’ to his wife of 54 years each<br />

year, Sian realised that since he had become wheelchair bound,<br />

Adrian was no longer able to get down on one knee and<br />

continue his tradition. She endeavoured to find another way of<br />

helping Adrian to re-create the proposal and went out to buy Avril’s<br />

favourite flowers and chocolates so that Adrian could present the<br />

gifts to his wife, asking for her hand in marriage again.<br />

Belong gym instructor, Sian, said:<br />

“Mr and Mrs Cohen are such a lovely<br />

couple - they are never without each<br />

other and it’s wonderful to see them<br />

living independently whilst remaining<br />

so close at Belong. It was a pleasure to<br />

help Adrian with this surprise, it was<br />

all worth it for the look on Avril’s face;<br />

she was thrilled and reduced to tears<br />

of happiness!”<br />

“Mr and Mrs Cohen are such<br />

a lovely couple - they are<br />

never without each other<br />

and it’s wonderful to see<br />

them living independently<br />

whilst remaining so close<br />

at Belong.”<br />

I started my caring career as a domestic assistant in a hospital in<br />

1985. I then worked as a home carer and later moved into working<br />

in a social work capacity. After retiring in September 2015 I found<br />

that I really missed working in care, so a couple of months later I<br />

applied for the role at Belong Warrington.<br />

What’s your favourite aspect of the job?<br />

I love being able to dedicate myself to providing a service and<br />

creating a stimulating environment - it’s wonderful to be able to<br />

provide a sense of fun to customers. Most of all, though, I love<br />

that the Experience Day service is tailored to meet customer<br />

needs, rather than the customer having to fit in with the service’s<br />

needs and what they offer; it makes for a much more personal<br />

and engaging experience.<br />

What are its hidden challenges?<br />

The good most definitely outweighs the bad, but the trickiest<br />

part is making sure that, in a group setting, everyone is treated<br />

as an individual and that their needs are catered for. We want<br />

everybody to feel included, comfortable and happy, so ensuring<br />

that the environment remains stimulating for everybody can be<br />

a challenge.<br />

What makes working for Belong unique?<br />

Compared to many other care settings, there is much more<br />

freedom at Belong to provide a high level of service with<br />

passion, commitment and enthusiasm - that’s what I’m all<br />

about! Also, the staff really are second to none.<br />

At every level, they work tirelessly<br />

to provide the absolute best service,<br />

which makes it a really wonderful<br />

place to work.<br />

What’s your favourite way to<br />

relax after a long day (or night)<br />

at work?<br />

I enjoy gardening, meeting up with<br />

friends and family and I also go to the<br />

gym two or three times a week. I also<br />

enjoy a tipple or two at the weekend,<br />

because why not!<br />

Brenda is pictured with Belong<br />

Warrington Resident, Peggy Gordon.<br />

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A Customer’s View<br />

Nothing is more important<br />

to Belong than its customers,<br />

which is why we love hearing<br />

about their experiences. For<br />

this issue we spoke to Lisa<br />

Greenhall and Joanne Wilks,<br />

daughters of Belong Wigan<br />

Beech Household resident<br />

Sandra Hudson, who recently,<br />

sadly passed away.<br />

Sandra is pictured (2nd from left) with some of the<br />

support workers on Beech House during a party.<br />

FORGET ME NOT<br />

by Joanne<br />

Dementia is a thief!<br />

You stole our mum's memory<br />

You stole our mum's mobility<br />

You stole our mum's ability to cook<br />

You stole our mum's dignity<br />

You stole our mum's recognition<br />

You stole our mum's liberty<br />

You stole our mum's intelligence<br />

Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Local rugby hero visits<br />

Belong Atherton<br />

Residents and staff at Belong Atherton,<br />

enjoyed an afternoon with Wigan<br />

Warriors rugby club star, Dom Manfredi,<br />

who took a day off from training to join<br />

their annual Christmas fayre.<br />

Sandra first experienced Belong when she<br />

received daily help in her home to administer<br />

medicine, through the Belong at Home service.<br />

She soon began attending Belong Experience<br />

Days and following a deterioration in her<br />

health, went on to move into an independent<br />

Belong Wigan apartment.<br />

In October 2014, after receiving respite care in<br />

the village, Sandra moved into Elm Household.<br />

Lisa and Joanne recall: “Moving mum into the<br />

household was a very difficult decision; we really<br />

wanted her to continue to live independently<br />

but felt that she needed more frequent help<br />

from the staff. Sandra enjoyed living in the<br />

household and was well known amongst<br />

guest entertainers and support workers who<br />

commented that ‘there was no such thing as a<br />

party unless Sandra was there.’<br />

Towards the end of her life, Sandra was cared<br />

for by the Belong household team. Joanne<br />

commented: “Somehow, Belong managed to<br />

turn such a sad situation into a positive one.<br />

They kept our spirits high and we all continued<br />

to laugh and smile right until the end, which<br />

is exactly what mum would have wanted. The<br />

team were very conscious of mum as a person<br />

and took into account her personality that they<br />

knew so well, despite us feeling like we had lost<br />

her. [This experience inspired Joanne to write a<br />

poem about dementia, printed on page opposite.]<br />

“They went above and beyond the call of duty to<br />

ensure that Lisa, myself and our families had all<br />

the guidance that we needed, whilst providing<br />

mum with excellent and dignified care. They<br />

even allowed us to stay for a week in mum’s<br />

room and looked after us with regular meals<br />

and comforting words.”<br />

Lisa added: “Since mum passed away, Belong<br />

have continued to support us and our families.<br />

We’ve visited the village regularly to catch up<br />

with the staff and we are still invited to all of<br />

the activities that we attended with mum. Marie<br />

Calderbank, Wigan’s experience coordinator,<br />

made a lovely gesture on Remembrance Day;<br />

she invited us to plant a poppy in remembrance<br />

of mum in the village garden.<br />

“We will be eternally grateful to the Belong team<br />

for the support that they provided for our mum<br />

from when she first used Belong at Home, right<br />

up until her final days on the household.”<br />

If you would like to contribute to the<br />

next ‘A Customer’s View’ column,<br />

please pass on your details to a<br />

member of staff or email the editor<br />

at: tracy.brookes@belong.org.uk<br />

You stole our mum's ability to<br />

recognize who her two daughters were<br />

You stole our mum's grandchildren<br />

of their grandma<br />

You stole our mum's personality<br />

You stole our mum's body<br />

You stole our mum's brain<br />

You stole our mum's voice<br />

You stole our mum's sunshine<br />

You stole our mum<br />

How dare you dementia!<br />

What did our mum ever do to you?<br />

Our mum won many battles with illness<br />

Why could she not defeat you?<br />

You are not very nice<br />

You turn people into nothing<br />

You robbed our children of their<br />

grandma<br />

You robbed us of our mum<br />

She didn't deserve this<br />

Why can't you go away and leave<br />

people alone?<br />

You stole our mum's sunshine<br />

Let's hope one day someone steals you<br />

You did not steal her laugh and sense<br />

of humour<br />

Dom Manfredi of Wigan warriors and Apartment<br />

tenant Linda Wright.<br />

One of the community stall holders<br />

The Christmas fayre included 5 stalls<br />

and a Santa’s grotto and raised £700 for<br />

activities at the village.<br />

The highlight of the fayre was the top raffle<br />

prize of a signed Wigan Warriors shirt,<br />

which was presented by Manfredi himself.<br />

The player spent the rest of the afternoon<br />

visiting Belong Atherton’s households and<br />

meeting fans, with whom he shared rugby<br />

stories and jokes.<br />

Gemma Willetts, Experience Coordinator<br />

at Belong Atherton, said: “We all had a<br />

great time at our Christmas fayre! Dom<br />

Manfredi’s presence in the village had<br />

such a positive impact - he really engaged<br />

with everyone and spent a long time<br />

getting to know our residents.”<br />

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Belong Life Winter 2016<br />

Noticeboard<br />

Lisa Greenhall and Joanne Wilks,<br />

daughters of Belong Wigan Beech<br />

Household resident Sandra Hudson,<br />

who recently, sadly passed away.<br />

Belong Wigan reveal their<br />

new ‘remembrance garden’<br />

Residents and staff members at Belong Wigan, marked<br />

Remembrance Day with a poignant ceremony to open their<br />

new ‘remembrance garden,’ that has been designed with 102<br />

hand-crafted red poppies; a touching tribute to the 100th year<br />

anniversary of the Battle of the Somme and two Belong Wigan<br />

bereavements.<br />

The remembrance garden will remain permanently outside the<br />

village, with forget-me-not flowers being added in the spring.<br />

Special guests at Belong Wigan’s remembrance day included<br />

veterans from the village; Private Walter Morris, Private John<br />

Heaton, Corporal Bill Sievewright and Private John Rothwell<br />

who were all introduced by name and army rank to guests<br />

and took part in the ceremony by laying wreaths. The garden<br />

opening was followed by an afternoon tea in The Venue, with a<br />

1940s themed entertainer.<br />

Belong Warrington festive craft session<br />

Belong Warrington residents<br />

celebrate Forget-Me-Not day<br />

Residents at Belong Warrington, enjoyed a craft session<br />

with volunteers from Priestley College, to celebrate<br />

national Forget-Me-Not Day, which encourages people<br />

to reminisce memories shared with loved ones.<br />

Residents at the village were supplied with colourful craft<br />

materials such as paint, buttons and textured fabrics and<br />

together made a range of items, including felt flower<br />

badges and pictures, as gifts for family and friends. As<br />

well as being a creative and engaging activity, handling<br />

the materials acted as sensory therapy, that has been<br />

found to decrease agitation and restlessness, which can<br />

be common for people living with dementia.<br />

Good luck Doreen<br />

Staff and residents bid farewell to<br />

popular volunteer, Doreen Handley,<br />

as she left the village for pastures<br />

new after 4 years of volunteering<br />

her time as a member of the<br />

village’s Experience Days team.<br />

Doreen is pictured here with the<br />

village’s Experience Coordinator,<br />

Gina Moorjani, who presented<br />

Doreen with a hand-written poem<br />

and her very own replica of the<br />

‘Experience Days Team of the Year’<br />

trophy which the team won at the<br />

Star Awards 2015. We would like to<br />

thank Doreen for her hard work and<br />

commitment and wish her the very<br />

best of luck for the future.<br />

Belong Warrington residents enjoyed a festive<br />

craft session with members of the St. Elphin’s<br />

girl guides in December. Everyone enjoyed<br />

creating Christmas cards, personalised baubles<br />

and miniature Christmas trees.<br />

The village’s Experience Coordinator, Lisa<br />

McLaughlin, said; “It was lovely to see both<br />

generations interacting and chatting about<br />

Christmas traditions. Lots of the residents were<br />

involved in the Brownies and Guides in years<br />

gone by so having them visit evoked lots of<br />

lovely memories and great stories too.”<br />

TREE OF LIGHT<br />

Staff, residents and visitors at Belong Crewe enjoyed a<br />

festive performance by the pupils from Vine Tree School Staff and residents at Belong<br />

on Tuesday 13 December. The children donned their Macclesfield placed messages to<br />

Christmas jumpers and hats as they sang a selection of loved ones near and far at a tree<br />

popular Christmas carols, enjoyed by all.<br />

of light ceremony in the village<br />

Read the full version of our noticeboard articles on the latest news pages<br />

gardens recently; the tree remained<br />

on our website; visit www.belong.org.uk/news<br />

lit throughout the festive period.<br />

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Resident Janet Huxley-Jones with members<br />

of St. Elphin’s Guides.

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