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P<br />
R<br />
OJECT<br />
ON<br />
52 weeks of forming intentional habits that<br />
PURPOSE<br />
will take your life to the next level<br />
Dr. Ruth A. Hill
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Introduction<br />
Each year we are intentional about making resolutions because we want to<br />
have a better life than the year before. We all have good intentions. Often<br />
times those good intentions fall by the wayside because we don’t do those<br />
things we want to do on purpose. To do something on purpose involves<br />
planning and executing to achieve a particular result. In that habit is formed.<br />
The habit of acting intentionally or doing something on purpose is what you<br />
are trying to accomplish in order to improve your life.<br />
In order to really change your life, you have to develop habits or automatic<br />
behaviors that become part of your life style. According to common<br />
research, it takes about 21 days to adjust to a situation, which in turn forms<br />
a new habit. Some say it’s a myth and some say it depends on the situation.<br />
Using this book, you focus living out a certain aspect of your life from health<br />
and wellness to relationships for an entire month, 30-31 days. The idea is to<br />
focus our hearts and minds on doing things on purpose, habitually so that<br />
in the end we can accomplish our goals together.<br />
How to Use This Book<br />
There is a focus area for each month. With this focus area, you will write<br />
your plan of action and execute the plan all month long. It’s best to have an<br />
accountability partner to participate so you can share your ideas,<br />
experiences, and results. You will need someone to help keep you<br />
motivated and not lose sight. It’s also great to see someone else’s goals<br />
manifest. You purposefully do everything you write out on the "Daily Habits<br />
For Each Week" and the "Action Plan" roadmaps. This is how it works:<br />
1. Develop a plan for the month by completing the goal and action steps<br />
section of the "Action Plan".<br />
2. In each weekday of the "Daily Habits For each Week", write down an<br />
action or step that you will do on purpose when that day of the week comes<br />
around that month. These habits don't change week to week. This is how<br />
you establish your routine to get you to your goal. For example, Sundays<br />
might include a review of your action plan or mediation exercise.<br />
3. At the end of the month, complete the reflection section on your "Action<br />
Plan".<br />
4. Repeat these steps with a different focus for each month.<br />
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BE<br />
AFFIRMATIVE<br />
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Your self-talk creates your<br />
reality. It's your job to create<br />
a positive one.<br />
Self-talk works to make your thoughts your reality. The<br />
relationship you have with yourself impacts the<br />
relationships you have with others. If you change your<br />
thoughts, you will change the way you see and experience<br />
the world. Those things that you give your thoughts and<br />
attention to the most are the things that you will attract<br />
more of into your life. "I Am" is your true being because no<br />
one else can say "I Am" for you. Only you can say "I A"m<br />
with conviction and it becomes what you are and what you<br />
have. When you say “I am _______”, whatever you fill in<br />
the blank becomes your reality. The power of the great "I<br />
Am" is that you determine and make your own destiny based<br />
on the things which you attach to that "I AM". What<br />
positive things do you need to start telling yourself? Focus<br />
on what you want, not what you don’t want. For the next<br />
months, you will focus on specific ways to live on purpose.<br />
Every day within each month, speak positive affirmations.<br />
List your great “I Am”:<br />
1. I am __________________________________ (health)<br />
2. I am ________________________ (physical attraction)<br />
3. I am __________________________________ (work)<br />
4. I am_________________________________(mentally)<br />
5. I am _____________________________ (emotionally)<br />
6. I am ____________________________ (relationships)<br />
7. I am ________________________________ (spiritual)<br />
8. I am __________________________ (fill in the blank)<br />
9. I am __________________________ (fill in the blank)<br />
10. I am _____________________________(fill in blank)<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE<br />
COOL<br />
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Increasing your ability to remain calm<br />
and cool is like allowing the dirt to<br />
settle out of the water; you can see<br />
what's really going on.<br />
More than likely, you have heard that meditation is good for<br />
you. More than likely, you've tried but you just don't quite<br />
get it. More than likely, you are still wondering why is<br />
mediation supposedly good for you. According to scientific<br />
research, there are 76 benefits of mediation. (What a great<br />
habit to have? Right! Google it!) If you start meditating<br />
today, you will increase your happiness, health,<br />
performance, and energy. This month, focus on improving<br />
your mood, emotional intelligence, and mental strength. Take<br />
10-20 minutes each day, to get in touch with the positives in<br />
life.<br />
Find a quiet place and start your guided meditation session,<br />
"Positive Thinking Meditation: Endorphin Meditation with<br />
Positive Affirmations", by Linda Hall on www.youtube.com.<br />
Be calm on purpose. Tell yourself not to get upset when<br />
faced with stressful situations. Talk yourself off the ledge.<br />
Try the following steps when faced with challenges:<br />
1. Imagine yourself shedding the stress off of you.<br />
2. Inhale and exhale slowly about five times.<br />
3. Ask yourself, "Is this the main thing in my life?" "Does it<br />
really matter?" "Will I die?"<br />
4. Shake it off.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE<br />
HEALTHY<br />
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Your body is your temple. Nourish<br />
with quality, cleanse it with care, and<br />
build it of brick. After all, it houses the<br />
God in you. Protect your body. Protect<br />
your soul.<br />
To be healthy is to be beautiful. It's not the other way<br />
around. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and so does<br />
health. What is your definition of health and beauty? Is it<br />
based on how you see you or how you believe other people<br />
see you? This month, forget about losing weight as your main<br />
thing; focus your attention on developing a healthy selfimage<br />
and a healthy lifestyle by exercising and eating right.<br />
You may shed a few pounds in the process, but the focus is<br />
to develop healthy habits that help you get your mind right<br />
when you see a reflection of your self, literally and<br />
metaphorically.<br />
Here is what you will need to do this month:<br />
1. Drink more water, 2-3 liters a day. That's 8-10 glasses.<br />
2. Exercise everyday. Take the stairs. Take up a sport. Do it!<br />
3. Eat bright color fruits and veggies.<br />
4. No artificial sugary desserts. No white carbs. Nada.<br />
5. Eat portion sized meals and snacks: 3 meals/3 snacks.<br />
6. Eat 6 times a day.<br />
7. Breathe often. Smile more.<br />
8. Purge negative people.<br />
9. Hang out with positive people.<br />
10. Make a playlist that makes you feel nothing less than<br />
beautiful. Listen to it daily.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE<br />
DEBT<br />
FREE<br />
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When you break free from<br />
debt; you raise your standard<br />
of living.<br />
Debt is not sin but it sure isn't a normal way of life. Get that out of your<br />
head. To be stress free aka spiritually free you must have some a sense<br />
of financial freedom. Then you can live out your moment peacefully and<br />
look forward to planning your future. According to Dave Ramsey,<br />
the "Smart Money Management" guru, people who overcome stress do<br />
so by handling their money differently and making lifestyle changes.<br />
This month is all about the money. The challenge is to pay off your<br />
smallest debt. Do not acquire any other debt. After you've paid that<br />
debt off, use the monthly payments towards your next smallest debt<br />
until it's paid off. Continue the process until you have paid off all of<br />
your debt. That may take a a few years but you can do it. It's been<br />
done. Don't worry. Trust the process.<br />
This month's action steps to help you pay off your smallest debt:<br />
1. Don't use your credit cards or take a loan this month.<br />
2. Pay your mortgage, utilities, car note, insurance and make the<br />
minimum payments on all credit card bills.<br />
3. Set your weekly spending budget at $100 cash. This includes your<br />
weekly gas purchase and all things you might be tempted to purchase.<br />
4. Make sacrifices: No eating out! No movies! Live like a minimalist.<br />
5. Find ways to reduce your monthly expenses.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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Be Fierce<br />
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The way you walk in what you<br />
wear is your first form of<br />
communication. What say you?<br />
To be fierce you must exude this level of intense confidence<br />
that clearly is reflection of your inner and outer self. If you<br />
are not comfortable in what you wear, it will make a big<br />
difference in how you wear it. Fashion is the focus for this<br />
month. Do you have 31 outfits that you can wear with such<br />
confidence that when you walk by a mirror you turn around<br />
and look at yourself? That's the goal for this month. Create<br />
the image you want to present to the world.<br />
You can do this by:<br />
1. Consulting with a stylist or image consultant.<br />
2. Building a repertoire of outfits from your current<br />
wardrobe.<br />
3. Using a color wheel to mix and match colors that match<br />
your personality or mood.<br />
4. Creating a style board of images that represent your<br />
personal style: theme, fabrics, prints, colors, pieces, and etc.<br />
5. Analyzing your lifestyle and matching those actives with<br />
outfits.<br />
6. Decluttering your closet. Get rid of the clothes that you<br />
would not want to spend your last day on earth wearing.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE<br />
SMART<br />
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The secret to keeping fear<br />
away is to learn something<br />
new every day.<br />
What is it that you've always wanted to learn how to do but<br />
just haven't put the time in to learn it? Another language?<br />
Dance? Swim? This month take the time to research and<br />
learn something new. You might choose to explore and learn<br />
about different topics as you search the internet but avoid<br />
random things and try to learn something on purpose that<br />
will be useful to you. Or take lessons to learn a new hobby<br />
or how to start your own business. As your friend to show<br />
you how to do something that he or she is good at doing.<br />
Seize the opportunity to learn something new.<br />
Consider learning more about:<br />
1. How the stock market works<br />
2. How to cook healthier meals<br />
3. How to swim, ski, or rock climb<br />
4. How to crochet, sew, paint<br />
5. How to find your relatives or ancestors<br />
5. How to start your own business<br />
6. How to memorize popular phrases in other languages<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE ADVENTUROUS<br />
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Your adventure begins each<br />
time you step out the door.<br />
Where will you go today?<br />
God gave us the world to explore. Like no other<br />
creatures created, we can walk, run, crawl, swim,<br />
fly, and even teleport in some cases. Why not take<br />
an adventure? Why not do something you haven't<br />
done before? You don't have to go out of town or on<br />
a lavish vacation; go somewhere you haven't been.<br />
Focus this month on venturing off to places you<br />
haven't been before: restaurants, parks,<br />
neighborhoods, towns, cities, states, countries,<br />
anywhere. Go! Explore.<br />
Here are some adventurous activities to try out.<br />
1. Zipling<br />
2. Caving<br />
3. Hiking<br />
4. Fishing<br />
5. Exotic car driving<br />
6. Snow tubing<br />
7. Camping<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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Be the Boss<br />
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You can't get rich on a salary. But<br />
you can achieve wealth by turning<br />
your pleasure into profit.<br />
You've heard the saying that if you enjoy what you<br />
do, then you will never work a day in your life. The<br />
logic is if you enjoy it, it doesn't feel tiresome like<br />
work. But what is it that you enjoy doing? How can<br />
you make it into something someone would pay for?<br />
The concept is simple: identify your skill, find the<br />
audience that needs it, and fill the gap. You've got<br />
31 days to work out your business plan. Keep it<br />
simple. Make it marketable. Change the game!<br />
Here's how you can come up with a business idea:<br />
1. Find a gap and fill it.<br />
2. Analyze a current product and develop the<br />
"What's next?" for it.<br />
3. Provide your own solution for what irks you.<br />
4. Replicate an existing product or services for a<br />
less expensive price point.<br />
5. Market your skill. It's unique. Find your niche.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BEan<br />
INVESTOR<br />
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Enrich your life by investing with<br />
your time, talent, and money.<br />
W h a t d o y o u i n v e s t i n ? N a m e b r a n d c l o t h e s ? W i g s ?<br />
T r a v e l ? G o s s i p ? C a b l e T . V . ? W e a l l h a v e d i f f e r e n t<br />
t h i n g s w e i n v e s t o u r t i m e , t a l e n t , a n d m o n e y i n<br />
w i t h o u t s e e i n g a r e t u r n o r p r o f i t . L e t ' s t u r n t h a t<br />
b a d h a b i t i n t o a p r o f i t a b l e o n e . T h i s m o n t h y o u w i l l<br />
f o c u s o n i n v e s t i n g i n y o u r s e l f . S t a r t w i t h i n v e s t i n g<br />
y o u r m o n e y i n t o a s a v i n g s a c c o u n t t h a t h a s a h i g h<br />
i n t e r e s t r a t e . R e s e a r c h o n l i n e b a n k s ; t h e y s e e m t o<br />
h a v e h i g h e r i n t e r e s t r a t e s t h a n t h e t r a d i t i o n a l<br />
b a n k ' s m o n e y m a r k e t a c c o u n t s . A l s o , r e s e a r c h t h e<br />
s t o c k m a r k e t a n d / o r t a l k t o a f i n a n c i a l a d v i s o r .<br />
F o c u s y o u r t i m e a n d e n e r g y o n i n v e s t i n g t o o i n y o u r<br />
o w n s e l f - i m p r o v e m e n t a n d y o u r o w n b u s i n e s s . B u y<br />
b o o k s , r e a d t h e m , a n d a p p l y t h e p r i n c i p a l s .<br />
D o y o u r r e s e a r c h o n t h i s l i s t o f i n v e s t m e n t s :<br />
1 . S c o t t r a d e f o r $ 7 a t r a d e<br />
2 . O n l i n e h i g h y i e l d s a v i n g s a c c o u n t s<br />
3 . P e e r l e n d i n g c l u b s<br />
4 . S t a r t y o u r o w n b u s i n e s s<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE<br />
SUPPORTIVE<br />
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Be the person who claps for<br />
someone who is getting up off<br />
the ground.<br />
We support celebrities, designers, artists, and people<br />
we may never meet but for some strange reason we<br />
don't intentionally seek out the same services in<br />
support of the people we know. Spend time this month<br />
supporting your friend, cousin, neighbor. Support can<br />
come in many ways, showing up at an event for them,<br />
sending them words of encouragement, purchasing<br />
their product or service, spending time with them, and<br />
just simply being a friend.<br />
What can you do to be supportive?<br />
1. Advertise for them on your social media accounts.<br />
2. Subscribe to their blogs, newsletters, or YouTube.<br />
3. Offer business advice for free.<br />
4. Connect them to your network or place of<br />
employment.<br />
5. Give them a platform to conduct business.<br />
6. Invest in their business.<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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BE ADVENTURO<br />
S<br />
beBOLD<br />
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Don't ever hold back. Speak<br />
up for your dreams. Put your<br />
faith in front of the fear.<br />
Boss moves require boldness not bitchiness. When you are bold<br />
you work hard without fear and you ask with the expectation<br />
of receiving. This month, don't be afraid of hearing "No". Turn<br />
a "No" into "Go" harder. Think about your career or business.<br />
What's the game changer for you? Renegotiating your salary?<br />
A raise? A promotion? A title reclassification? An office?<br />
Ability to work remotely? Go after it by initiating the meeting<br />
with your boss or potential business partner. You have nothing<br />
to lose. Sheryl Sandberg, the author of Lean In, gives us the<br />
best advice that you should reflect on and act on all this<br />
month: "We hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by<br />
lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by<br />
pulling back when we should be leaning in."<br />
Make these boss moves:<br />
1. Fantasize: What do you want to do?<br />
2. Calculate: What are the risks? What are the questions?<br />
3. Plan It: What steps do you need to take?<br />
3. Act On It: Schedule the meeting. Make it happen.<br />
4. Reflect: What's your next move?<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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Be<br />
FAMILY<br />
FOCUSED<br />
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Family is not just another thing.<br />
It's the only thing in life that<br />
matters.<br />
D o y o u s t r u g g l e w i t h h a v i n g b a l a n c e b e t w e e n w o r k a n d l i f e ?<br />
A r e y o u a l l w o r k a n d n o p l a y ? W h e n i t b o i l s t o t h e y o u r t r u e<br />
s e n s e o f h a p p i n e s s , w h e n a r e y o u m o s t h a p p y ? A t w o r k ? W i t h<br />
y o u r f a m i l y ? I m a g i n e , i f y o u s p e n t t h e s a m e a m o u n t t i m e , 8 - 1 2<br />
h o u r s , a d a y e x p e r i e n c i n g l i f e w i t h y o u r f a m i l y . T h i s m o n t h , b e<br />
i n t e n t i o n a l a b o u t e n j o y i n g f a m i l y t i m e a n d l o v i n g o n y o u r<br />
f a m i l y t h i s m o n t h . W a t c h t h e m o v i e . T a l k . S c h e d u l e t h e p l a y -<br />
d a t e s . P u t t h e c e l l p h o n e a w a y a n d g i v e t h e m y o u r u n d i v i d e d<br />
a t t e n t i o n .<br />
H e r e a r e s o m e f a m i l y - f o c u s e d i d e a s :<br />
1 . F a m i l y b u c k e t l i s t<br />
2 . F a m i l y v i s i o n b o a r d<br />
3 . N o T V d a y<br />
4 . F a m i l y d i n n e r n i g h t s<br />
5 . N o c o s t f a m i l y o u t i n g s : t a l k w a l k s , p l a y s p o r t s i n t h e p a r k ,<br />
b i k e r i d e s , j o y r i d e s<br />
6 . G a m e n i g h t<br />
7 . H a n d w r i t t e n l e t t e r s<br />
8 . P l a y i n t h e r a i n<br />
9 . S c i e n c e e x p e r i m e n t s<br />
1 0 . D o I t Y o u r s e l f p r o j e c t s<br />
1 1 . F a m i l y A r t w o r k : B a s q u i a t , P i c a s s o , V a n G o g h<br />
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ACTION PLAN THE MONTH OF________<br />
Goal:<br />
What is my goal for this month?<br />
Action Steps:<br />
1. What must I do to accomplish this goal?<br />
2. What will I do on purpose each day?<br />
3. What are the things I need to avoid<br />
doing?<br />
4. What's the who, when, and how in the<br />
formula to achieve my goal?<br />
Reflection:<br />
5. What did I accomplish this month?<br />
6. What will I continue doing to next<br />
month to work towards this goal?<br />
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MONDAYS<br />
TUESDAYS<br />
ON<br />
PURPOSE<br />
D A I L Y<br />
H A B I T S<br />
F O R E A C H<br />
W E E K<br />
NOTE TO SELF<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
THURSDAYS<br />
WEDNESDAYS<br />
FRIDAYS<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
ham<br />
Smoked<br />
and toast<br />
omelette<br />
SUNDAYS<br />
noodle soup<br />
Wonton<br />
apple and<br />
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P<br />
ROJECT<br />
ON<br />
Ruth Hill, Ph.D. by profession is an educational leader,<br />
teacher, visionary, and coach. She is a teacher of teachers<br />
PURPOSE<br />
and a leader of leaders for thousands of educators,<br />
students, and parents around the world. She has been given<br />
the spiritual gift of teaching and entrusted with the task of<br />
breaking down what the Bible says, what it means, and how<br />
we can to apply it to our lives. Dr. Hill ministers a powerful<br />
message of faith and living a purpose driven life. She and<br />
her two sons live in Atlanta, Georgia. Connect with her on<br />
Twitter @DrAlishaHill or www.drruthalishahill.com.<br />
Dr. Ruth A. Hill