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Goldentimes<br />
Mar/Apr 2017<br />
Your FREE guide to active living for the over 50s in EAST SUSSEX<br />
IN THIS MONTH'S ISSUE:<br />
Local Events, Fashion & Beauty, Live Music Guide, Lifestyle &<br />
Opinion Pieces, Creative Writing, Gardening Advice, Reader's<br />
Photography, & Much More Inside !<br />
To advertise in Golden Times call Debby on 01424 429139 or email debby@goldentimes.co.uk 1
Goldentimes<br />
In this issue we mark the passing of our regular<br />
contributor, Frank, who sadly died at the end of last<br />
year. An obitury can be found on page 4.<br />
The arrival of the March/April edition of Golden Times<br />
can mean only one thing - winter is officially over and<br />
spring has begun! The weather might have other ideas<br />
of course, but the daffodils, croci, snowdrops, bluebells<br />
and fruit blossoms will all be cheering up the county.<br />
In this issue you'll find no shortage of events and activities<br />
to help you emerge from your winter hibernation and<br />
spring into life. Thanks to all of our contributors and<br />
advertisers for helping us put the magazine together, I<br />
hope all our readers enjoy every page! - Jason<br />
CONTENTS<br />
04. Local walk guide<br />
04. Obituary - Frank Harland<br />
06. Event listings<br />
08. Gladys gallivants - the search continues<br />
10. Julia Meanwell - involuntary estrangement<br />
12. Living the Alexander way of life with Liz Jeffries<br />
14. Tricia's Easter column<br />
16. Local clubs & associations<br />
17. Gardening tips for early spring<br />
18. Sussex Housing & Care advertisement feature<br />
20. Creative writing corner<br />
22. A change will do you good with Michele Duke<br />
24. Scenic Sussex<br />
26. Event listings<br />
26. Sea bream in garlic butter - recipe from Faz Razeen<br />
27. Local & live with Mike Raxworthy<br />
The Golden Times Team:<br />
Jason - Editor Debby - Director Mike - Live Music Tricia - Columnist Liz - Columnist Michèle - Fashion Julia - Lifestyle<br />
Faz - Cookery<br />
No part of this magazine, including advertisements, may be reproduced in part or in whole, without explicit permission from the editor.<br />
The opinions expressed within the magazine are not necessarily those of the publishers but those of the individual contributors. The<br />
greatest of care is taken to ensure that all information published in this magazine is correct at the time of going to print. Readers should<br />
be aware that the Publishers cannot be held responsible for errors, omissions or inaccuracies. Please check details of all events with the<br />
organisers before attending.<br />
Golden Times Magazine, 78 Elphinstone Rd, Hastings, TN34 2BS tel: 01424 429139 email : jason@goldentimes.co.uk
Frank Harland - Obituary<br />
Regular readers of Golden<br />
Times will know that Frank<br />
has written a column for us<br />
since the very first issue. It's<br />
with great sadness we must<br />
announce that Frank passed<br />
away just before Christmas<br />
2016. Frank had been ill for<br />
much of 2016 and spoke<br />
of his gratitude for the care<br />
he'd received from the NHS during his last column in<br />
Golden Times.<br />
Frank was born in Belfast in 1936 to a very large family,<br />
and by the age of 15 had begun his boy’s service with<br />
the Army. He went on to serve in The Royal Engineers<br />
for 26 years, becoming a Warrant Officer and seeing<br />
a large part of the world, including Aden, Australia,<br />
Borneo, Malaya and Singapore, which is where he met<br />
his first wife, Jean with whom he had 3 daughters.<br />
Frank loved his military career and had a huge<br />
number of tales and anecdotes from his time serving<br />
his country. After retiring from the Army, Frank<br />
worked for Canada Dry for a time before becoming<br />
a publican, running pubs in Lincolnshire for several<br />
years. Sadly, his wife Jean passed away in 1991 and,<br />
as he wrote about in his Golden Times column, he<br />
went on to become a Holiday Rep for the Over 50’s<br />
in the Canary Islands. He had a whale of a time, the<br />
sunshine and sociable nature of the job suiting him<br />
perfectly, and he made a lot of friends during these<br />
years. After spending the late 90's and early 00's<br />
living in southern Spain, Frank relocated to Hastings<br />
in 2008.<br />
Frank grew to love East Sussex, he was an active part<br />
of local walking groups, becoming a walk leader and<br />
making many friends along the way. He was hugely<br />
supportive and helpful during the launch of Golden<br />
Times and delivered many thousands of magazines<br />
during the first few years. As much as he loved the<br />
place he called home, he never lost his urge to travel.<br />
Well into his 70's he was backpacking accross Asia<br />
and Australia with his grandson, Matthew.<br />
The Frank I knew was a man who lived life to the full,<br />
he never tired of seeking out new experiences or<br />
travelling to new places. He was incredibly proud of his<br />
family, his 7 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren<br />
were his pride and joy. Each of them benefited from<br />
his warmth, his kindness and his wisdom.<br />
I'm sure many of our readers will have met Frank, and<br />
he will be sorely missed by all who knew him.<br />
Frank Harland - March 1936 - December 2016.<br />
Walking for Health - Your local weekly walk diary<br />
Walking is a fantastic way to stay fit, and a great way to get out and meet new people while enjoying some fresh air!<br />
EAST SUSSEX HEALTH WALKS :<br />
MONDAYS:<br />
Hastings Old Town: Meet at 2pm opposite the Jenny Lind pub,<br />
High Street.<br />
Hastings: Mindfulness walk, 2nd and 4th Monday each month at<br />
1pm, Alexandra Park Cafe.<br />
Rye: Starting at 10am at Gibbets Marsh car park, Udimore<br />
Road.<br />
Sidley: Meet at 11am on Sidley Green.<br />
Ticehurst: Meet at 10.30am Pickford Lane car park.<br />
Pevensey Bay: at 9.45am outside Pevensey Bay library. Suitable<br />
for older walkers.<br />
TUESDAYS:<br />
St. Leonards: Meet at 11am, inside the WRVS centre, South<br />
Street.<br />
Robertsbridge: Meet 9.30am, outside the Youth Centre, The<br />
Grove.<br />
Hampden Park, Eastbourne: 10.30am outside Lakeside tea<br />
chalet, Hampden Park Drive.<br />
WEDNESDAYS:<br />
Alexandra Park: 12 noon at the Cafe in the Park.<br />
Ashdown House: 1pm meet outside E-floor reception,<br />
Sedlescombe Road North, St Leonards.<br />
Heathfield: 10am at the clock tower on the High Street.<br />
THURSDAYS:<br />
Hastings Town Centre: Starting at 2pm outside Rye Bay Kitchen,<br />
Robertson Street.<br />
Hailsham healthy walk: 10.30-11.30<br />
Setting off from the war memorial on the High Street.<br />
FRIDAYS:<br />
Battle: 10am opposite Battle Abbey on The Green.<br />
Church Wood: Starting at 10.30am at Church in the Wood car<br />
park, Church Wood Drive, Hollington.<br />
Bexhill: 11am, in the foyer of the De La Warr Pavilion.<br />
Eastbourne Shinewater:<br />
Meet at 10.30am outside the Co-Op on Milfoil Drive.<br />
SATURDAYS:<br />
Ore Health Walk: Meet at 10.30am outside Ore Community<br />
Centre, Old London Road.<br />
Contact Paula Hubens - 07740 899 559<br />
WORKOUT WALKS FROM THE BEACH PAD:<br />
TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS:<br />
St Leonards: Meet at 1.15pm outside the beach cafe side of Azur<br />
at Marina Pavilion. Half an hour of power walking, breathing,<br />
stretching & strength exercises with Debi Arnold, health coach<br />
and personal trainer. www.thebeachpad.com<br />
EASTBOURNE AGE CONCERN, WALKING FOR WELLNESS:<br />
MONDAYS:<br />
Eastbourne: Seafront walk starting at 10.30am at the Lifeboat<br />
Museum opposite Carlisle Road.<br />
WEDNESDAYS:<br />
Hampden Park: Starting at 10.30am, at the Lakeside Tea Chalet.<br />
THURSDAYS:<br />
Sovereign Harbour, Eastbourne: Starting at 10.30am outside<br />
Bright Ideas in Sovereign Harbour. Three mile circular walk<br />
finishing at a cafe.<br />
Age concern also run monthly, seasonal walks find out more<br />
from Liz Maxtead - 01323 638474<br />
FURTHER INFORMATION:<br />
www.walkingforhealth.org.uk www.ageconcerneastbourne.co.uk<br />
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Event Listings<br />
1066 Music Month<br />
14th Feb to 17th March<br />
A wide range of live<br />
music at various venues.<br />
visit1066country.com/<br />
whats-on/music-month<br />
'Natures charm'<br />
floral demonstration<br />
9th Mar, 7.30pm<br />
Heathfield community<br />
centre, Sheepsetting Ln.,<br />
Heathfield.<br />
Presented by Horam<br />
and Heathfield floral<br />
Society. Refreshments,<br />
raffle, sales table, all<br />
welcome £5 Tel. 01435<br />
408605<br />
Skincare & Make Up<br />
for over 50's<br />
11th March 11am<br />
St Leonards<br />
An interactive and fun<br />
workshop where you<br />
can learn and practice.<br />
Lots of tips and advice<br />
and free samples. Call<br />
Michèle on 07801<br />
621310 for more info.<br />
Ale & Arty<br />
17th & 18th Mar.<br />
De La Warr Pavilion,<br />
Bexhill.<br />
Live music, real ale and<br />
cider, all for a good<br />
cause. For full details<br />
visit:<br />
bexhillbeerfestival.com<br />
Cancer Research<br />
Coffee morning<br />
18th Mar 10-12noon<br />
Little Common<br />
Community Centre,<br />
Shepherds Close, TN39<br />
4SQ admission £1.<br />
Hastings Half<br />
Marathon<br />
19th Mar.<br />
Finish line on Hastings<br />
Seafront, cheer along<br />
the runners in the UK's<br />
top half marathon.<br />
www.hastings-half.co.uk<br />
Deanland<br />
Traditional Jazz Club<br />
Jazz Night<br />
21st Mar, from 7pm<br />
Inn on the Park,<br />
Deanland Rd,<br />
BN27 3RN<br />
Featuring Sussex Jazz<br />
Kings. Free parking,<br />
dance floor, raffle,<br />
brolly parade, guest<br />
ales, light meals,<br />
admission £10<br />
01825 872406<br />
Streets of Battle<br />
25th Mar, Midday-4pm<br />
Top quality street arts<br />
come to Battle with odd,<br />
intriguing and hilarious<br />
performances around<br />
town. All for free.<br />
Spring Beach Clean<br />
25th Mar, 10am-1pm<br />
Meet Rye Harbour<br />
village car park TN31<br />
7TX.<br />
Look out for the first<br />
wheatears and sand<br />
terns of the year while<br />
helping to remove<br />
rubbish blown in by<br />
winter storms. Bring<br />
work gloves if you have<br />
them.<br />
Hastings & Rother<br />
Gay Helpline Over<br />
50’s Meet.<br />
30th Mar 2.30pm to<br />
4.30pm<br />
Meet in the private cafe<br />
at Southwater Area<br />
Community Centre<br />
Stainsby Street, St.<br />
Leonards on Sea.<br />
New Members<br />
Welcome.<br />
Tel 07941 014 013<br />
hargh@live.co.uk<br />
www.hargh.weebly.com<br />
The Flying Scotsman<br />
at Kent & E Sussex<br />
Railway<br />
From 1st April.<br />
Tenterden Station,<br />
Tenterden.<br />
"Bricks Britania"<br />
exhibition opens with<br />
the centrepiece an 8<br />
metre long logo model<br />
of the iconic "Flying<br />
Scotsman". For full<br />
details, visit:<br />
www.kesr.org.uk<br />
Eastbourne's Got<br />
Talent<br />
1st Apr, 7.30pm<br />
Under ground theatre,<br />
Grove Rd, Eastbourne.<br />
Local entertainers put<br />
on a show to raise<br />
money for Macmillan<br />
Cancer Support. Great<br />
fun for all, tickets £5.<br />
Tel 0843 2891980<br />
undergroundtheatre.<br />
co.uk<br />
Beatles Day 18<br />
2nd Apr, 11.30am.<br />
White Rock Theatre,<br />
Hastings.<br />
Over 90 acts on 3<br />
stages play the music of<br />
this much loved band,<br />
in aid of Macmillan<br />
cancer support.<br />
hastingsbeatlesday.org.<br />
uk<br />
Eastbourne’s Tea<br />
Dance<br />
4th Apr, 2pm to 5pm<br />
Winter Gardens,<br />
Compton St, E'bourne.<br />
Three hours of ballroom<br />
magic with live music<br />
from Chris Mannion. £6<br />
(inc. tea & biscuit)<br />
eastbournetheatres.<br />
co.uk<br />
Model Railway<br />
Display Weekend<br />
Bexhill Museum.<br />
8th-9th Apr, 11am-<br />
5pm.<br />
Up to eight guest<br />
model railway and tram<br />
layouts in a variety of<br />
gauges will be working<br />
throughout the building.<br />
bexhillmuseum.co.uk<br />
Tel: 01424 222058<br />
Arlington Bluebell<br />
Walks<br />
8th Apr-14th May,<br />
10am to 5pm daily.<br />
Bates Green Farm,<br />
Tye Hill Rd, Arlington,<br />
Polegate.<br />
7 interesting walks (1<br />
wheelchair accessible)<br />
over 3 working farms<br />
through spectacular<br />
bluebell woods.<br />
bluebellwalk.co.uk<br />
Skincare & Make Up<br />
for over 50's<br />
10th April 7.30pm<br />
St Leonards<br />
An interactive and fun<br />
workshop where you<br />
can learn and practice.<br />
Lots of tips and advice<br />
and free samples. Call<br />
Michèle on 07801<br />
621310 for more info.<br />
Music for Holy week<br />
from the Downland<br />
Singers 13th Apr,<br />
3pm.<br />
Trinity Church,<br />
Willingdon, Eastbourne.<br />
SINGERS, the Downland<br />
singers are looking for<br />
new members, all choir<br />
singers welcome. To<br />
find out more – you can<br />
visit:<br />
downlandsingers.<br />
webplus.net<br />
Tel: 01323 484189<br />
Battle Marbles<br />
Matches<br />
14th Apr, 10am-<br />
12noon<br />
Battle Abbey Green,<br />
Battle.<br />
Annual competition<br />
dating back to 1945.<br />
Flick off at 10am.<br />
Tel 01424 775169<br />
If you have an event<br />
you'd like us to mention<br />
in the May/June<br />
edition, please email<br />
deatails to me at :<br />
jason@goldentimes.co.uk<br />
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GLADYS GALLIVANTS - The search continues<br />
“Hi folks, you realise it is obligatory that you can carry a<br />
20 lb bag of flour over your shoulder !” were the cheery<br />
opening remarks of the presenter. I had attended a<br />
Franchise Fair in Brisbane and secured a place on a<br />
seminar run by a well known coffee shop chain. “That<br />
would not be possible for me,” I informed the panel,<br />
“due to a back injury.” I was dropped on my head in a<br />
gym class at age 12 and have suffered the consequences<br />
and the bad jokes ever since.<br />
With that disclosure, a member of the team<br />
unceremoniously escorted me out of the gathering. The<br />
atmosphere of relief in the room was palpable with one<br />
hopeful franchisee commenting to his partner, “One less<br />
in competition for this venture.” So I fell at the first<br />
hurdle.<br />
While in Brisbane I took the opportunity to explore the<br />
river on one of the tourist catamaran taxis, the guide<br />
was proud to show us the upmarket homes and give<br />
us the latest on the South Bank Cultural Centre. One<br />
of the first times I saw the triangular shade sails used<br />
extensively over swimming pools or patios was at the<br />
Opera House alfresco cafe while enjoying an ice cream.<br />
“Keep your hats on until you are inside the theatre,” the<br />
responsible teacher was insisting. I noted that all the<br />
children wore peak caps with a piece down the back for<br />
added sun protection.<br />
The Botanical Gardens was next, a wondrous sight so<br />
lush and the beds beautifully planted, the flamboyant<br />
colours outstanding. While sitting under a huge tree<br />
No one likes thinking about their own death. But death<br />
is inevitable and making a will isn’t a morbid thing to<br />
do. It’s a loving thing and a practical thing that ensures<br />
the ones you care for get what you want them to have<br />
with the least argument.<br />
Of course, many people are afraid of the cost of making<br />
a will. Or think they can do it themselves with a kit<br />
from a shop. Lawyers tend to spend more time<br />
sorting out badly drawn up amateur wills<br />
than making good ones.<br />
The safest way to make a will is to get a<br />
solicitor to do it for you- and throughout<br />
April Stephen Rimmer LLP solicitors<br />
along with a few other solicitor firms in<br />
Hastings* will be doing it more or less for<br />
free.<br />
On Friday 24th April 1987, at approximately<br />
3pm, St Michael’s Hospice was officially opened<br />
by Her Royal Highness the Duchess of Kent, marking<br />
the beginnings of an invaluable asset in Hastings and<br />
Rother. In recognition of this momentous occasion,<br />
the Hospice will be celebrating its 30th anniversary<br />
throughout 2017.<br />
Since opening its doors, the Hospice has welcomed<br />
thousands of patients, providing excellent holistic care<br />
and support for all those throughout Hastings and Rother<br />
affected by a progressive life-limiting illness or bereavement.<br />
Over the past 30 years, the services have developed to offer<br />
high standards of palliative care and support, including<br />
Hospice at Home care, Bereavement Services and the<br />
award-winning Hospice Neighbours scheme.<br />
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St Michael’s Make a Will Month<br />
Celebrating<br />
with my sandwich, I heard a familiar<br />
accent. Two gardeners were discussing<br />
a new section. “Waar kom jy vandaan<br />
?” (Where do you come from ?) I asked<br />
in my best Afrikaans. “From Pretoria<br />
where I qualified in horticulture and now I<br />
am so happy in my new job and country,”<br />
came the enthusiastic answer. “I’m also<br />
trying to relocate and am searching for a business,“ I<br />
divulged.<br />
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“Here are my friends details in Toowoomba, they’ve<br />
been over here a few years and can introduce you to a<br />
new South African group of entrepreneurs.” I hired a<br />
car and headed up the Warrego Highway. Toowoomba<br />
is 125 kms west of Brisbane on the crest of the Great<br />
Divide Range, some 2,300 ft above sea level.<br />
“Kom binne, (Come in,) take your shoes off, there is a<br />
basket of socks if you want to use a pair,” my host said<br />
as she introduced me round. Their home was all white<br />
tiled floors !<br />
By the end of the evening I had contacts and information<br />
regarding a salad packing establishment and a post<br />
office with house included. The South African grapevine<br />
had begun working for me, my name on the email list for<br />
new opportunities on the market.<br />
Back in Cairns, I secured the services of an Accountant<br />
to research and verify any prospective business that I<br />
found and booked a south bound bus ticket to continue<br />
my search. Down the East Coast...<br />
In recognition of the 30th Anniversary and in order to<br />
raise funds, Stephen Rimmer LLP and other Hastings<br />
Solicitors* will draw up a will for you and charge you<br />
nothing. The usual charge would be £150 for one basic<br />
will and £200 for a pair for a married couple. In return<br />
you would simply be invited to make a donation to St<br />
Michael’s Hospice in lieu of payment: you can either<br />
match these charges, give more, or indeed less.<br />
The Hospice is looking to celebrate its 30th<br />
anniversary with the residents of Hastings<br />
and Rother by holding 30 events in 30<br />
places, including Celebratory Teas in six<br />
locations.<br />
Celia Pyke-Lees, Chief Executive at the<br />
Hospice, said “We will be welcoming and<br />
encouraging everyone in Hastings and<br />
Rother to be a part of our 30th anniversary<br />
events and celebrations. The community plays a<br />
vital role in the work they do, and without the support<br />
of those who generously give their time or donations,<br />
they simply wouldn’t be able to provide the specialist<br />
care and support.”<br />
30 years<br />
If you would like to find out more about Hospice events<br />
in 2017, please visit www.stmichaelshospice.com or<br />
www.facebook.com/stmichaelshospice<br />
To arrange an appointment for a will please call 01323<br />
434414 or email enquiries@stephenrimmer.com<br />
*The Solicitors taking part are Stephen Rimmer LLP, Gaby Hardwick,<br />
Janet Sinden & Co, Percy Walker & Co and EMD Law LLP
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Involuntary estrangement - a living bereavement? - by Julia Meanwell<br />
The very painful matter of<br />
family estrangement is one<br />
that is sadly close to my<br />
heart. I find it astonishing<br />
to comprehend that in the<br />
UK the current estimation<br />
of grandparents being<br />
denied access to their<br />
grandchildren is one<br />
million. This heart-rending<br />
statistic is usually as a result<br />
of family breakdown or<br />
bereavement.<br />
So many questions, how did<br />
this happen, why did this<br />
happen? Feelings of anger,<br />
pain, helplessness and<br />
confusion are overflowing<br />
at finding yourself in this<br />
situation. The heartbreak of<br />
being kept away from your<br />
grandchildren is undeniable<br />
but sadly with fragmented<br />
families on the increase it is<br />
becoming more common.<br />
Grandparent estrangement<br />
does not benefit the wellbeing<br />
of the grandchildren<br />
unless of course there is<br />
good reason such as the<br />
presence of violence or<br />
abuse.<br />
I have noticed several<br />
articles recently about<br />
celebrity family rifts. The<br />
singer Olly Murs and his<br />
twin brother Ben have<br />
not spoken for several<br />
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Boxer Amir Khan’s wife has<br />
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Over the last couple of years<br />
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they need a course on this<br />
for their survival in this hectic<br />
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and people do appear to gain<br />
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Stopping and thinking has<br />
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my mobile phone. Why does<br />
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There are real benefits to<br />
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Being mindful, or present,<br />
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Two years ago, as a result<br />
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The Alexander Technique<br />
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Tricia's column - Springtime: Eggs-actly what I needed<br />
I<br />
came across a wonderful quote attributed to<br />
Margaret Atwood today - "In the springtime,<br />
at the end of the day, you should smell like<br />
dirt". Now I hope she was suggesting that<br />
we should all be out walking in the woods, or<br />
gardening, rather than mud wrestling<br />
or anything strange like that, but<br />
whatever earthy fun takes your fancy,<br />
it's good advice. It's certainly advice<br />
that the younger members of my<br />
family take to heart, digging things<br />
up (sometimes things I've spent hours<br />
planting) capturing muddy, wriggly<br />
things in jam jars and poking things<br />
with sticks. It has dawned on me lately<br />
that, in the five and a bit years I've<br />
been writing about being a grandma<br />
in Golden Times, the grandchildren<br />
have all done a lot of growing up.<br />
Even the littlest one is now at "big school" and at<br />
the other end of the scale the oldest are entering<br />
their twenties. High time they started producing<br />
some great-grandchildren really, or before you<br />
know it, I might end up with some peace and<br />
quiet on my hands.<br />
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yes I have been<br />
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So while they're still young I'd better round up<br />
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everyone over 30 wince.<br />
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471726 or Elizabeth Wright<br />
01323 503952<br />
Arlington Arts Group<br />
Thu eves, Arlington Village<br />
hall<br />
www.arlingtonartsgroup.co.uk<br />
Battle Lions Club<br />
battlelionsclub@gmail.com<br />
Tel : 0845 8335826<br />
Battle Rotary Club<br />
01424-774447<br />
battlerotary.org.uk<br />
Battle Writers Group<br />
Tel. Roy Chapman;<br />
01424870520<br />
www.battlewriters.co.uk<br />
Bexhill Club of Past<br />
Rotarians<br />
Meets 2pm, 1st Wed each<br />
month,<br />
Northern Hotel, Sea Rd,<br />
Bexhill.<br />
Bexhill Down Afternoon<br />
Townswomen’s Guild<br />
Meets 2nd Weds each month<br />
2pm<br />
Tel: 01424 216150 or<br />
844639<br />
Bexhill Diabetes Support<br />
Group.<br />
www.bexhill-diabetes.co.uk<br />
01424 732878 or 214103<br />
Bexhill Harmony Ladies<br />
Choir<br />
Meets Thursday evenings<br />
7pm<br />
Little Common Methodist<br />
Church, Church Hill Ave.<br />
TN39 4SG<br />
01424 844639<br />
www.bexhillharmony.co.uk<br />
Bexhill Hanoverian Study<br />
Group<br />
Local history club meets 3rd<br />
Tues each month 01424<br />
212932<br />
Bexhill International Folk<br />
Dance Group<br />
1st & 3rd Thurs of each<br />
month 01424 222382<br />
Bexhill & District Probus<br />
Club<br />
Meets 4th Thursday each<br />
month<br />
Tel : 01424 552872<br />
Bexhill Lions Club<br />
www.bexhill-lions.org<br />
Tel : 0845 8330591<br />
Bexhill Model Railway Club<br />
Meets weekly bexhillmrc.<br />
org.uk<br />
Tel :01424 225043<br />
Bexhill Marina<br />
Townswomen's Guild Tel:<br />
01424 211140<br />
Bexhill Over 55 Club<br />
45 Eversley Rd. Bexhill<br />
Tel : 01424 212911<br />
Bexhill Rotary Club<br />
01424 843975<br />
bexhill.rotaryweb.org<br />
Bexhill Royal Air Forces<br />
Assoc.<br />
01424 212916 or 01424<br />
532697<br />
bexhillrafa.co.uk<br />
Bexhill Royal British Legion<br />
bexhillroyalbritishlegionclub.<br />
co.uk 01424 212215<br />
Bexhill Sailing Club<br />
Tel: 01424 212906<br />
bexhillsc.co.uk<br />
Bexhill Theatre Supporters<br />
Club Tel: 01424 213981<br />
Meets 1st Friday in the<br />
month.<br />
Breathe Easy Bexhill<br />
Supporting people with lung<br />
conditions 077616 98423<br />
Cercle Francais d’Eastbourne<br />
once a month on Friday<br />
7.15pm Tel: 01323 504262<br />
www.cf-eastbourne.com<br />
Cooden Beach Sports & Social<br />
Club<br />
Tel: 01424 844810<br />
cbssc.co.uk<br />
Crafts 4 U Meets 1st<br />
Thursday of each month, St<br />
Marthas Church Hall, Little<br />
Common. 01424 216242 or<br />
853847<br />
Cuckmere Valley Petanque<br />
Club<br />
Sundays, Tues & Weds<br />
Tel: 01323 645120<br />
Diabetes UK, Hastings &<br />
Rother Voluntary Group<br />
Tel: 07974 356653<br />
Eastbourne AM Rotary Club<br />
www.eastbourneamrotary.org<br />
Eastbourne Angling Club<br />
eastbourneanglingclub.com<br />
Eastbourne Area Epilepsy<br />
Grp<br />
eaeg.org.uk 01323 504893<br />
Eastbourne Association of<br />
Sussex Folk 3rd Monday each<br />
month St Saviours Church<br />
Hall, South Street 7.30pm.<br />
Tel: 01323 763163 or<br />
737073<br />
Eastbourne Lions Club<br />
www.eastbournelions.net<br />
Tel : 0845 8332705<br />
Eastbourne Dickens<br />
Fellowship<br />
7pm, 2nd Mon of each<br />
month at Arlington Arms,<br />
Seaside.<br />
01323 646659 or 471615<br />
Eastbourne Gilbert &<br />
Sullivan Society<br />
www.eastbournegands.com<br />
01323 767193<br />
Eastbourne & District Old<br />
Time Dancing Club 7.30<br />
each Weds<br />
Summerheath Hall Hailsham<br />
01323 728332<br />
Eastbourne & District<br />
Osteoporosis Support Group<br />
2nd Tues of each month excl.<br />
Jan, Feb & Aug., 2.30pm,<br />
Victoria Baptist Curch, Eldon<br />
Rd, Ebourne<br />
Tel : 07591637753<br />
Local Clubs & Associations<br />
Eastbourne Model Powerboat<br />
Club www.empbc.org.uk<br />
01323 764220<br />
Eastbourne Photographic<br />
Society<br />
epscameraclub.co.uk<br />
Eastbourne & District Philatelic<br />
Soc.<br />
Meets each Thu at 7.30pm<br />
St John Ambulance Brigade<br />
HQ, Bourne St, Eastbourne.<br />
www.eastbournestampclub.<br />
co.uk<br />
Eastbourne Parkinsons'<br />
Assoc. Meet 4th Tues each<br />
month at Christ the King<br />
Catholic Church, Princes Rd<br />
Tel : 01273 512204<br />
Eastbourne Rotary Club<br />
eastbournerotary.org.uk<br />
Eastbourne Seniors Club<br />
Tel: 01323 728157<br />
eastbourneseniorsclub.org.uk<br />
Eastbourne Seniors Forum<br />
Tel: 01323 656455<br />
esf.online.org<br />
Eastbourne & District Trade<br />
Union Club<br />
48 Seaside, 01323 727703<br />
East Sussex Townswomen's<br />
Guild Tel: 01424 753108 or<br />
01424 213207<br />
Eastbourne and District<br />
Soroptimists (Women’s<br />
Organisation) 2nd and 4th<br />
Monday of the month<br />
01323 769004 sigbi.org.uk<br />
Friends of the Old People<br />
Cafe for over 50s, food,<br />
bingo, outings. Middle Street,<br />
Hastings Tel: 07886 796929.<br />
Friends of the E'bourne<br />
Hospital<br />
Tel: 01323 438236<br />
www.esht.nhs.uk/friends/<br />
eastbourne<br />
The Green Lawn Tennis Club.<br />
68-70 Tower Rd West, St<br />
Leonards. Tennis for all ages.<br />
www.thegreenltc.co.uk or<br />
Phillip on 01424 422025<br />
Hailsham & District<br />
University of the Third Age<br />
U3ASites.org.uk/Hailsham<br />
Hailsham Horticultural Soc.<br />
hailshamhorticulturalsociety.<br />
blogspot.uk<br />
Harbour Friends<br />
Wednesdays at the Sovereign<br />
Harbour Yacht Club<br />
harbourfriend@googlemail.<br />
com<br />
www.harbourfriends.co.uk<br />
Hastings Central<br />
Townswomen's Guild. 4th<br />
Friday of each month<br />
Unitarian Church, South<br />
Terrace, Hastings, 01424<br />
754591<br />
Hastings & E Sussex<br />
Philatelic Society<br />
1st & 3rd Thu of each month<br />
at The John Taplin Centre, St<br />
Leonards. Tony Calton 01424<br />
434496 Chris Dadswell<br />
01424 44477<br />
Hastings Model Railway Club<br />
hastingsmrc.org.uk<br />
01424 754962 or 01424<br />
753684<br />
Hastings and St Leonards<br />
Association of National Trust<br />
Members<br />
Contact: Janet Parr<br />
Telephone: 01424 752935<br />
Hastings & St. Leonards<br />
Country Dance Club<br />
Meets every Tuesday 7.45pm<br />
St. Matthew’s Church Centre<br />
hastingscountrydanceclub.<br />
org.uk<br />
Tel. 01424 753684<br />
Hastings & St. Leonards<br />
Ladies Miniature Golf Club<br />
Tues pm. White Rock Gdns.<br />
Liz 01424 718698<br />
Hastings Rotary Club<br />
hastingsrotary@outlook.com<br />
01424 752630<br />
Hastings Scottish Country<br />
Dance Club<br />
Thursdays, 7.30pm, Arthur<br />
Easton Centre, St Michaels<br />
Hospice.<br />
Hastings & Rother University<br />
of the 3rd Age<br />
Tel : Laura Wright<br />
initialenquiries.hru3a@gmail.<br />
com<br />
01424 719080<br />
Hastings & St Leonards<br />
Angling Association<br />
Tel: 01424 431923<br />
hstlaa.webs.com<br />
Hastings & St Leonards<br />
Royal Air Forces Association<br />
Tel: 01424 430250<br />
rafahastings.co.uk<br />
Hastings & St Leonards<br />
Seniors Forum<br />
01424 424693 hssf.org.uk<br />
Hastings & St.Leonards<br />
Veterans Association (HSVA)<br />
1st Sat each month 10:30<br />
White Rock Hotel 01424<br />
420541<br />
bob.marden@btinternet.com<br />
Hastings WW Social Club<br />
Meet at EHSAA on the<br />
stade Thu eves 8pm, Eunice<br />
Britten, Secretary - 01424<br />
428694<br />
Heathfield & District<br />
Horticultural Society.<br />
heathfieldhorticultural.org.uk<br />
01435 830725<br />
Hooe Open Group (Ladies<br />
Club) Tel Edna Wallis on<br />
01424 842591<br />
Ladies Friendship Club<br />
Meet 1st Wed of the Month<br />
Tel: 01424 848746<br />
Lions Club of Hastings<br />
Tel: 01424 435564<br />
hastingslions.org.uk<br />
Little Common Horticultural<br />
Society Meets 2nd Friday<br />
Each month. Visit: www.lchs.<br />
co.uk<br />
Little Common Morning<br />
Townswomens Guild<br />
4th Thurs each month<br />
Tel 01424 843163<br />
Little Common Village Flower<br />
Club<br />
Meets Community Centre,<br />
2.15pm 4th Fri of the month.<br />
01424 213638<br />
Little Common Bridge Club<br />
Thu afternoon 01424 216746<br />
Little Common Probus Club<br />
Meets 2nd Tuesday each<br />
month. 01424 892428<br />
Old Hastings Club<br />
39a High St, Hastings.<br />
01424 43194<br />
Polegate Painting/Sketching<br />
Group Meets Mon 7pm and<br />
Tues 9.45am Tel: 01323<br />
484568 or 487510<br />
Pett Royal British Legion<br />
Meets at Fairlight Lodge<br />
Hotel, Fairlight 1st Tue each<br />
month at 12noon<br />
Tel: 01424 814866<br />
Polegate Twinning Assoc.<br />
Participate in visits to France<br />
& Germany & other social<br />
events.<br />
Tel : 01323 486921<br />
Rotary Club of Senlac<br />
Meet every Wednesday 7.00<br />
for 7.30 at Cooden Beach<br />
Hotel<br />
Contact 01424 272012<br />
Website www.senlacrotary.org<br />
Rother Valley Design & Fine<br />
art Soc.<br />
Meet every 3rd Monday in the<br />
Month at 2.00pm<br />
01424 425099 or 07737316<br />
183<br />
Rother Seniors Forum<br />
01424 870801<br />
rotherseniorsforum.org.uk<br />
Royal Signals Assoc.<br />
Meet 2nd Thurs each month<br />
8pm at TA centre on Seaside,<br />
Eastbourne. 01424 851701<br />
Royal Voluntary Service:<br />
Isabel Blackman Club,<br />
South Street, St Leonards.<br />
Tel: 01424 426090<br />
Rye & District Day Centre<br />
Tues & Weds each week<br />
01797 226535<br />
Rye & District Lions Club<br />
0845 8332825<br />
Rye Royal British Legion<br />
Tel: 01797 222564<br />
ryebritishlegion.org.uk<br />
Sidley Friendship Club<br />
3rd Monday of each month at<br />
All Saints Church Hall, Sidley.<br />
For over 50s. Tel 01424<br />
730961<br />
Silverhill Townswomens<br />
Guild. 1st Monday of each<br />
month, St Matthews Church<br />
Hall, Silverhill, St Leonards<br />
Tel 01424 436483<br />
Sovereign Polyphony<br />
Eastbourne's female harmony<br />
choir.www.sovereignpolyphony.<br />
com<br />
Sussex Community<br />
Development Association<br />
Isabel Blackman Centre,<br />
Winding Street, Hastings.<br />
Tel: 01424 446428<br />
Sussex Opera and Ballet<br />
Society Tel: 01323 640067<br />
www.sussexoperaandballetsociety.<br />
org.uk
Immaculate 11 acre<br />
garden in Ticehurst<br />
Special Events<br />
including<br />
TULIP<br />
FESTIVAL<br />
<br />
Gardens, Café with<br />
Terrace, Gift Shop<br />
and Sculpture & Art<br />
Exhibitions open<br />
from 1st April<br />
Visiting Pashley Manor Gardens<br />
In late April/early May Pashley Manor’s spectacular Tulip<br />
Festival sees this garden, on the border of Sussex and Kent,<br />
carpeted with over 30,000 tulips, creating stunning scenes<br />
for visitors to enjoy. Tulips are followed by over 100 varieties<br />
of roses through June, hundreds of scented lilies, the kitchen<br />
garden showcasing an abundance of produce and a blaze of<br />
colour provided by hundreds of dazzling dahlias, during the<br />
Dahlia Days event in early September.<br />
Complemented by a fantastic café with a beautiful terraced<br />
seating area, exhibitions of sculpture and art and a lovely<br />
gift shop Pashley is a great destination for a day out in 2017.<br />
Open from 1st April to 30th September, Tuesday to Saturday,<br />
Bank Holiday Mondays and Special Event Days from 10am to<br />
5pm (NB closed on Good Friday 14th April).<br />
Tulip Festival - Friday 21 April every day up to and including<br />
Saturday 6 May, 10am - 5pm<br />
Over one hundred varieties of tulip are planted in colour<br />
themed garden ‘rooms’. Yet more tulips are on display as<br />
cut flowers in the Bloms Bulbs marquee. Bloms, winners of<br />
sixty five Chelsea Gold Medals, are on hand throughout the<br />
Festival to share their knowledge of these beautiful bulbs and<br />
to take orders from those inspired by the spectacle.<br />
01580 200888<br />
pashleymanorgardens.com<br />
Gardening tips for mid-late Winter<br />
by Phoenix Gardening<br />
It only seems like yesterday it was Christmas. If you like<br />
a real Christmas tree, one thing to bear in mind is you<br />
can always chop it up as finely as possible and use it<br />
as an ericaceous mulch around plants such as azaleas,<br />
rhododendrons and camellias. Let’s start with the veg<br />
patch, apply manures where necessary, you can plant<br />
onion sets and shallots, sow early crops under some<br />
fleece to give them some protection, if you have cloches<br />
these are good for warming up the soil at the same time<br />
as protecting plants. ‘Chit’ seed potatoes.<br />
We can sow hardy annuals, in milder areas these should<br />
be fine in situ in colder areas you might need to keep<br />
one eye on the weather and protect them a little, or<br />
start them off indoors. Sow sweet peas, Feed and mulch<br />
beds. Plant summer bulbs, buy seeds and bulbs if you<br />
haven’t already done so. As temperatures start to rise<br />
keep an eye out for pests and diseases as these can<br />
multiply with the temperatures.<br />
Moving into mid spring, once the potatoes have ‘chitted’<br />
sufficiently and the soil is a little warmer we can<br />
Phoenix Gardening<br />
All aspects of garden maintenance - pruning, planting beds & borders,<br />
grass cutting, weeding, clearance, veg plots & allotments<br />
plus shed maintenance & patio\deck cleaning<br />
Reasonable rates - per hour\day\job. Always happy to quote.<br />
Registered Waste Licence Holder<br />
neilsgarden@yahoo.com<br />
Call Neil 07958 408667<br />
Covering Hastings, St Leonards, Bexhill,<br />
Battle, Fairlight, Rye<br />
plant them now. Plant container grown shrubs, plant<br />
herbaceous plants, for those tall herbaceous plants put<br />
some stakes in early.<br />
If you’ve planted some seeds in trays or pots now is the<br />
time to pick them out and pot them up. If you have a<br />
pond now is a good time to plant aquatics before growth<br />
is advanced. If you have a greenhouse or a free window<br />
sill in the conservatory try taking some leaf cuttings of<br />
streptocarpus or Begonias. It’s a good way of increasing<br />
your stock.<br />
Want strawberries and ice cream for summer? plant<br />
some now. A good way to plant strawberries if you have<br />
a little space is in a propped up pallet keeps the fruit off<br />
the ground.<br />
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Sussex Housing & Care<br />
HELPING PEOPLE LIVE LATER LIFE TO THE FULL<br />
Sussex Housing & Care is a not<br />
for profit Housing Association<br />
providing high quality, affordable<br />
housing, support and care<br />
services for older people in<br />
Sussex.<br />
The organisation was formed<br />
in 1946 by a group of local<br />
Seaford residents working in<br />
senior positions within health<br />
and housing, with a commitment<br />
to providing high quality<br />
accommodation and services<br />
to older people across Sussex.<br />
This vision remains to this day<br />
with Sussex Housing & Care’s 4<br />
care homes and 25 sheltered,<br />
retirement and independent<br />
living schemes across Sussex,<br />
providing accommodation to over<br />
800 residents.<br />
New at the top<br />
Sussex Housing & Care have<br />
recently appointed a new all<br />
women senior management<br />
team headed up by Tracy Evans<br />
as Chief Executive. Tracy has<br />
over 30 years of housing and<br />
regulatory experience. Joining<br />
her are Sarah Roebuck as Finance<br />
Director who has held a number<br />
of senior posts; including<br />
healthcare, education, banking<br />
and social housing. New Director<br />
of Housing and Care, Amanda<br />
Hodge, completes the team at the<br />
end of February. Amanda joins<br />
the organisation from Wealden<br />
District Council, and has nearly<br />
30 years housing experience<br />
including the development of new<br />
retirement living and extra care<br />
accommodation.<br />
Tracy says;<br />
“I am delighted to have been<br />
appointed as Sussex Housing &<br />
Care’s Chief Executive. It is a<br />
privilege to lead the organisation<br />
and build on its successes including<br />
the recent ‘Good’ ratings of our<br />
care homes by the Care Quality<br />
Commission (CQC). We are<br />
looking forward to working with our<br />
residents, our staff, our board and<br />
L to R Amanda Hodge, Tracy Evans and Sarah Roebuck at Cheneys Lodge, Seaford<br />
all our stakeholders in Sussex to<br />
provide high quality services to our<br />
current and future residents. Our<br />
organisational focus is on older<br />
people’s services in Sussex, and we<br />
are well placed to build on the 70<br />
years of success already achieved<br />
by Sussex Housing & Care.”<br />
CQC rated ‘Good’ all round<br />
The organisation were pleased to<br />
announce that all 4 residential<br />
care homes have all been rated<br />
as ‘Good’ by the Care Quality<br />
Commission (CQC), a much<br />
coveted standard in the care sector.<br />
The homes based in Haywards<br />
Heath (Oakwoood Court), Battle<br />
(Saxonwood), Bexhill on Sea<br />
(Ardath) and Crowborough<br />
(Woodlands) received glowing<br />
feedback from not only CQC<br />
Inspectors but friends, relatives<br />
and the residents themselves.<br />
Care staff and management<br />
were praised for their caring,<br />
professional yet friendly<br />
approach and for taking time to<br />
communicate with the residents<br />
at all times. This was particularly<br />
evident at Oakwood Court care<br />
SHC care homes managers and staff at Oakwood Court care home, Haywards Heath<br />
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home in Haywards Heath, the<br />
report found;<br />
“There was a friendly, warm and<br />
comfortable atmosphere and people<br />
were cared for by staff that were kind<br />
and caring” (Oakwood Court report<br />
2016, www.cqc.org.uk)<br />
Sussex Housing & Care strive<br />
to deliver the highest quality,<br />
person centred care tailored to<br />
the needs of the individual. An<br />
informal and family-like culture<br />
is promoted in all 4 of the<br />
organisations residential care<br />
settings, so residents are made<br />
to feel at home and comfortable.<br />
Daily activities are planned to<br />
maintain their physical and<br />
mental wellbeing as well as<br />
encourage social inclusion.<br />
For full details of Sussex Housing<br />
& Care’s residential care homes<br />
and to make an enquiry, please<br />
call 01323 875240 or visit the<br />
website at www.sussexhousing.<br />
org.uk/residential<br />
Community centred sheltered<br />
schemes<br />
Sussex Housing & Care also<br />
provide sheltered, retirement<br />
and independent housing for<br />
older people across Sussex;<br />
with rented and leasehold<br />
properties situated in the Rother,<br />
Wealden, Lewes and Brighton<br />
regions. These properties offer<br />
Residents at Oakwood Court care home, Haywards Heath enjoy a ‘Pink Day’<br />
in aid of Breast Cancer Awareness<br />
quality accommodation, Scheme<br />
Manager support, communal<br />
lounges and gardens, laundry<br />
facilities and on site hair dressing<br />
salons. A lot of schemes are<br />
grouped into small communities,<br />
adjacent to our care homes or<br />
near the local town or village<br />
which allows residents to remain<br />
connected with surrounding<br />
neighbourhoods. Scheme<br />
Managers also organise regular<br />
coffee mornings as well as other<br />
social activities for the residents;<br />
such as wine tasting, writing<br />
circles and film nights.<br />
Features and facilities vary from<br />
scheme to scheme to suit the<br />
differing needs of residents;<br />
applications are subject to<br />
meeting certain eligibility criteria.<br />
For full details of our schemes<br />
and to make an enquiry, please<br />
call on 01323 875240 or check<br />
the website at :<br />
www.sussexhousing.org.uk/properties<br />
Cheneys Lodge, Seaford, rented and leasehold scheme.<br />
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Creative Writing Corner<br />
"When is a cheat not a cheat"<br />
by AJ Hudson<br />
Gloria sat resting on the sofa, a well-earned rest was in order<br />
after the long slog of hoovering and polishing the house into<br />
pristine condition.<br />
Kate had asked her mother to come over to help clean the<br />
house whilst she busied herself with tonight’s ‘meeting’ as Joe<br />
had put it! Well it was Joe’s boss who had asked to come over<br />
for dinner this evening actually. Joe had worked hard in the<br />
accounts department for 4 years now and hopefully a promotion<br />
was on the cards. There was a higher grade job up for grabs and<br />
Joe wanted the job. “Well, there’s nothing concrete” Joe told his<br />
wife.<br />
Gloria had a few unvoiced misgivings “It could be bad news as<br />
well as good.” she worried to herself.<br />
“Dough Balls are ready to go into the oven later. Oh mum!<br />
I’m so worried as to why Mr Blake wants to come over tonight!”<br />
Kate’s nervous voice called from the kitchen. “I do wish Joe<br />
would ring, he said he would if he heard anything. I’m a bag of<br />
nerves and I feel so sick!” Kate said.<br />
“I’m sure it will be fine, dear. Now deep breaths, worrying won’t<br />
make a jot of difference will it? Now get on and make those<br />
meringues” Gloria said as she tried to reassure her daughter.<br />
“Yes, you’re right.” She agreed.<br />
“Eggs whisked and sugar folded – do it right and you won’t be<br />
scolded.” Kate recited the words her mother had taught her all<br />
those years ago.<br />
“Have you got the flour etc. ready for the pastry for the ‘Boeuf<br />
Wellington’? I’ll rub it in for you if you like! Gloria offered. “The<br />
pastry is all ready and waiting in the fridge.” Kate said. Gloria<br />
opened the fridge door and saw the pre-made packet of pastry.<br />
“You’ve got shop bought, Kate!” “Mum, its 2017, shop bought is<br />
fine, the Beef is shop bought too. I didn’t have to go to the farm<br />
and walk it home on a lead, you know!” Kate laughed. “The eggs<br />
are shop bought too and the sugar and the….” “Ok, I get the<br />
picture!” Gloria felt defeated. “Mum, I know you have taught me<br />
to do things properly but once in a while it’s ok to cheat. Besides,<br />
I’m so flustered, I can’t be messing about with ingredients.<br />
Anyway, I will have made the pastry.” Gloria raised an eyebrow<br />
“Well I will have rolled it out and cooked it!” They laughed.<br />
Just then Joe opened the front door. “Hi Kate! Hi mum! The<br />
boss is bringing the Champers later!” “The Champers?” Kate<br />
questioned. “Oh Yes, I’m sorry I couldn’t phone, I got caught up<br />
with Blakesy” Joe said excitedly as he added, “because! I’ve got<br />
the job!” “You what!” Kate and Gloria said in unison. “What are<br />
you like? You could have rung on your way home!” Kate said.<br />
She didn’t know whether to laugh or cry, instead she threw up<br />
“And, by the way I’m expecting a baby!” She announced.<br />
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A CHANGE WILL DO YOU GOOD by Michele Duke<br />
I had such a great reaction to<br />
my last article. So many women<br />
contacted me and came to see<br />
me. Many of them said, “I’ve<br />
been reading your column<br />
for ages but I was always too<br />
shy and afraid to contact you<br />
before. I’m so glad I plucked<br />
up the courage this time.” I<br />
think it was the promise of the<br />
magic new skincare device that<br />
did it! Thank you to all of you<br />
who did overcome that fear –<br />
it’s been great fun getting to<br />
know you and I’m delighted<br />
to be meeting many of you<br />
at my various events. Those<br />
who have been trialling or<br />
have purchased the Arbonne<br />
Genius Ultra are already seeing<br />
amazing results and realise it<br />
was worth making that leap of<br />
faith.<br />
So let’s talk about courage.<br />
Yes, I know this is a fashion<br />
and beauty page, but I believe<br />
overcoming our fears and<br />
inhibitions is key to making<br />
decisions about how we present<br />
ourselves to the world. It’s so<br />
easy to “play it safe” and do<br />
what you’ve always done. The<br />
same hair colour and style.<br />
Always a trouser and top outfit.<br />
A favourite cardigan is always<br />
the first choice. Perhaps you’re<br />
still wearing the same makeup<br />
you did in your twenties. Or<br />
you tell yourself that using<br />
the same old skin care is fine,<br />
despite the fact that it’s doing<br />
nothing for your wrinkles.<br />
Making changes is hard. Our<br />
brains don’t like it so we shy<br />
away and retreat back to the<br />
familiar. But change is what<br />
keeps us youthful and vibrant.<br />
Change stimulates our senses<br />
and invigorates our minds. With<br />
spring just around the corner,<br />
now is a great time to consider<br />
what you could do differently.<br />
How about a lovely new coat?<br />
Something that makes you feel<br />
glamorous and sprightly every<br />
time you step out of the house.<br />
Maybe it’s time to update your<br />
accessories. A new necklace<br />
or earrings or a watch for the<br />
men. How about a new hair<br />
style – try going to a different<br />
stylist and ask their advice.<br />
And, of course, a makeover<br />
to show you how to use the<br />
latest natural make-up to look<br />
fabulous every day. Nothing<br />
rings the changes like a bright<br />
new lipstick.<br />
Research shows that changing<br />
our habits and stepping out<br />
of our “comfort zone” causes<br />
changes in the brain. Our<br />
brains are able to actually<br />
“rewire” and start building new<br />
connections which is why, when<br />
we start something new it feels<br />
very uncomfortable but after a<br />
few times it gets easier until<br />
eventually it becomes a habit.<br />
That old adage “you can’t<br />
teach an old dog new tricks”<br />
may be true for dogs but it<br />
certainly isn’t true for people.<br />
Which is why the lovely ladies<br />
who overcame their inhibitions<br />
and came along to my events<br />
for over 50’s are finding they<br />
can wear different colours and<br />
styles and that the new antiageing<br />
skin treatments do work<br />
for them. Why not make up<br />
your mind to take a small step<br />
to changing your old habits?<br />
Let me show you how.<br />
xxx<br />
I am Michèle Duke and I<br />
help women look and feel<br />
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Call me on 07801 621310 for<br />
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SCENIC SUSSEX<br />
Another cracking batch of photos this month, all featuring the sun fairly low in the sky,<br />
whether setting or rising. In the background is a snap I took on Hastings Pier in February, the<br />
sunsets really are spectacular along the East Sussex coastline during winter.<br />
I hope you'll all keep taking great pictures this spring and sending them to me at:<br />
jason@goldentimes.co.uk.<br />
"Balmy winters day" at Issenhurst<br />
by Paul Stevens.<br />
Sunrise at Beachy Head<br />
by Ashley Hemsley<br />
Twilight at Bexhill on Sea<br />
by Gareth Davies.<br />
Sunset over St Leonards Beach<br />
By Amelia Hilsdon.<br />
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For over 15 years I have been involved<br />
in running a group activity. The first<br />
was 'The Academy Photographic Group'<br />
based in Erith, Kent. The second is<br />
'Camera 1066 Club' based in Rye East<br />
Sussex. The successful formula used<br />
for both clubs is that an activity occurs<br />
at each meeting. (The reason for going.)<br />
The activities vary. (Retains Interest.) At<br />
Rye, we hold one club room meeting<br />
and one location meeting each month.<br />
This keeps costs down to one room<br />
hire fee per month. These costs can be<br />
covered by membership fees.<br />
Each of my photographic groups has<br />
been self-funding, and as each group<br />
became established; it has attracted<br />
external funding. To obtain external<br />
funding the group needs to present<br />
a set of profitable accounts, to show<br />
that it is viable. Also it has to be nonpolitical,<br />
non religious and not run<br />
for profit. (The organiser receives no<br />
payment.) Importantly; the group will<br />
be a benefit to the community. i.e.<br />
People will meet like minded people to<br />
share their interest. They can also learn<br />
something. (This attracts educational<br />
funding, because it is seen as a benefit<br />
to the individual.) The club room<br />
meeting also allows the success of the<br />
last location meeting to be discussed<br />
and to decide where the next location<br />
RUNNING A GROUP ACTIVITY by John Wylie<br />
meeting to be. The location visits<br />
consist of a wander around a place<br />
of interest, and the members taking<br />
photographs using various makes of<br />
cameras. It is then followed by visiting<br />
the nearby café or pub, and enjoying a<br />
drink, a cake, and everybody having a<br />
good natter; showing photographs etc.,<br />
which can run late into the afternoon!<br />
(This is the important social side of<br />
the group when everybody gets to know<br />
each other.)<br />
To attract members free advertising is<br />
needed, this can be articles in the local<br />
Photograph by John Wylie<br />
paper, magazines, and word of mouth.<br />
Facebook (Camera1066club) and a<br />
website (camera1066clubryeuk.btck.<br />
co.uk/) is a must. The club will also need<br />
to put a constitution together, stating<br />
the clubs aims and objectives, and the<br />
role of each committee member.<br />
The U3A is a good source of finding like<br />
minded people and they will also help<br />
you to form a group from its members.<br />
Importantly; if it is arranged through<br />
the U3A, the new group will have public<br />
liability insurance from the start. It is<br />
only when the group becomes bigger<br />
that room hire becomes financially<br />
viable.<br />
I was lucky when we moved to Rye;<br />
because having a proven history of<br />
running a successful group, I was able<br />
to start the 'Camera 1066 Club' having<br />
been granted independent funding.<br />
Finally, it is important to have a club<br />
name that can be registered online,<br />
obtain an email and website address,<br />
Facebook page etc., to publicise the<br />
group. Remember; the group should be<br />
fun... it keeps members!<br />
John Wylie is a retired professional photographer,<br />
who also lectured at various universities etc for<br />
over 30 years on both photography and model<br />
making . John runs 'Camera 1066 club' which is<br />
now in its 4th year.<br />
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Event Listings<br />
Charity Boot Fair<br />
17th Apr, 7am-2pm<br />
Jempsons Superstore,<br />
Peasmarsh.<br />
Free admission and<br />
parking for visitors,<br />
raising money for Rye<br />
Bonfire Society.<br />
Deanland Traditional<br />
Jazz Club Jazz Night<br />
18th Apr, from 7pm<br />
Inn on the Park,<br />
Deanland Rd, BN27 3RN<br />
Featuring Andy Woon<br />
& his vintage 5. Free<br />
parking, dance floor,<br />
raffle, brolly parade,<br />
guest ales, light meals,<br />
admission £10<br />
01825 872406<br />
Liane Carroll and<br />
Mike Hatchard<br />
23rd Apr, 11a.m.<br />
St Mary in the Castle,<br />
Hastings. A morning<br />
of jazz classics from<br />
Hastings two eminent<br />
musicians. £10 in<br />
advance from St Mary's<br />
Cafe. Tel 01424442601<br />
Hastings & Rother<br />
Gay Helpline Over<br />
50’s Meet.<br />
27th Apr 2.30pm to<br />
4.30pm<br />
Meet in the private cafe<br />
at Southwater Area<br />
Community Centre<br />
Stainsby Street, St.<br />
Leonards on Sea.<br />
New Members Welcome.<br />
Tel 07941 014 013<br />
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Streets of Battle<br />
29th Apr, Midday-4pm<br />
Top quality street arts<br />
come to Battle with odd,<br />
intriguing and hilarious<br />
performances around<br />
town. All for free.<br />
Ancient Crafts Festival<br />
30th April – 1st May<br />
Michelham Priory, Upper<br />
Dicker, Hailsham.<br />
Brief details: Hands-on<br />
activities for all the family<br />
from flint knapping to<br />
early weaving<br />
www.sussexpast.co.uk<br />
Jack in the Green<br />
Festival<br />
28th Apr-1st May<br />
Hastings Old Town.<br />
A celebration of Morris<br />
dancing and traditional<br />
merriment. Live music,<br />
refreshments and much<br />
more, for full details,<br />
visit:<br />
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Magnificent Motors at<br />
Western Lawns<br />
29th-30th Apr.<br />
Western Lawns,<br />
Eastbourne.<br />
The biggest, free<br />
motoring spectacular on<br />
the south coast. Over<br />
600 vintage and classic<br />
cars, motorbikes, buses,<br />
steam traction engines<br />
and military vehicles.<br />
Plus live entertainment,<br />
fairground rides and<br />
drive in movie night.<br />
Spring Garden<br />
and Leisure Show<br />
Sun 30th Apr & Mon 1st May<br />
South of England Showground,<br />
Ardingly RH17 6TL<br />
Join us for a day of family fun<br />
and say ‘hello’ to spring this may<br />
bank holiday weekend. Reconnect<br />
with the great outdoors with lots<br />
of interactive entertainment,<br />
gardening advice & plants to buy,<br />
animals to meet and heaps of<br />
shopping, food & drink to enjoy.<br />
Adults £10 seniors/students £8;<br />
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01444 892700<br />
www.seas.org.uk/Spring-show<br />
Sea Bream with Garlic Lemon Butter Sauce - Recipe by Faz Razeen<br />
Seabream is also known as<br />
Orata, Dorada and Dorade<br />
Royale. There are several fish<br />
that come under the title of<br />
'Bream' but the Mediterranean<br />
gilt-head Bream is without<br />
question the tastiest. They have<br />
a succulent, white flesh that is<br />
ideal for grilling, baking and<br />
frying either whole or as fillets.<br />
Ingredients:<br />
2 Seabream (350-500g)<br />
2 tbsps. unsalted Butter<br />
8 medium size potatoes<br />
400 Frozen French beans<br />
4-5 garlic cloves<br />
Salt and black pepper<br />
Small packet of fresh Rosemary<br />
Ingredients for Garlic Butter Sauce<br />
4 cloves garlic, crushed<br />
60g (2oz) unsalted butter<br />
Juice of 1 lemon<br />
Method<br />
Prepare fish by cutting fins and remove scales by<br />
scraping with a sharp knife, clean the fish under<br />
running cold water. Slash the seabream diagonally<br />
to allow the garlic and seasoning to infuse it.<br />
Put a generous amount of the rosemary into<br />
the pockets, heat two<br />
tablespoonsful of butter in a<br />
frying over a medium-high heat<br />
Season the fish on both sides<br />
with salt, freshly ground black<br />
pepper and sprinkle lemon<br />
juice.<br />
Fry the fish for 5 minutes each<br />
side on medium heat until the<br />
skin is crisp and golden-brown.<br />
Cook the potatoes in salted<br />
water until just tender, in the meantime boil the<br />
French beans for approx. 6 minutes until cooked<br />
almost al dente. Drain each and keep ready to add<br />
to the fried garlic pan.<br />
Gently fry the garlic with butter in a frying pan<br />
until softened, then add the potatoes and the<br />
French beans to the fried garlic frying pan and<br />
season with black pepper and salt, cook for further<br />
3 minutes.<br />
Method for Garlic Lemon Butter Sauce.<br />
In a small saucepan, gently melt the butter. When<br />
it starts, sizzling add the crushed garlic and let it<br />
sizzle for a minute or two, allowing the garlic to<br />
infuse the butter. Lower the heat to the minimum<br />
setting, add the lemon juice, stir and let it heat<br />
through.<br />
Drizzle over the Seabream before serving.<br />
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with<br />
MIKE RAXWORTHY<br />
I thought this month I’d look at our local theatres - The<br />
White Rock in Hastings especially are providing (with the<br />
help of promoters and bands) a great selection of local<br />
talent, original artists and a percentage of tribute acts.<br />
Playing live on Monday March 27th is Georgie Fame. If<br />
you’ve never been to one of his concerts please give it a<br />
try - he’s a legend with a string of hits. He’ll most probably<br />
be performing with his sons, one on drums and the other on<br />
guitar. George will be on his much-loved Hammond Organ<br />
on which he with expertly plays the bass lines with his feet! It’ll<br />
be a very special intimate evening and you’ll be treated<br />
MIKE to not only RAXWORTHY<br />
a host of his hits but personal stories about his<br />
incredible career. Well worth a night out!<br />
Still at the White Rock, on Sunday 2nd April, everyone can<br />
enjoy The 18th Beatles Day! It’s in aid of Macmillan Cancer<br />
Support and has raised thousands of pounds over the years.<br />
Starting at 11am and running for approx 12 hours, you can<br />
plan your visit with the help of an excellent programme.<br />
There’s no set seating, you’re free to come and go as<br />
you please enjoying the various bars and the restaurant.<br />
This year the event is celebrating 50 years of Sgt.Peppers<br />
Lonely Hearts with Club Band, and features 97 acts with over 500<br />
performers, on 3 different stages. Tickets are excellent value<br />
MIKE RAXWORTHY<br />
at £15 (children under 14: £7.50) but if you go as a family<br />
you’ll make a good saving on booking 4 tickets at once.<br />
It’s a musical Beatles marathon - but it’s for a great cause<br />
and remember - everyone involved is performing for free,<br />
so please support it if you can - you’ll love it!<br />
Also coming up at the White Rock on June 15th is ‘From the<br />
Jam and Secret Affair” billed as a Mod Special. Last year<br />
at Chidfest our band, Soul X Press, supported From the<br />
Jam, and even with a replacement for Paul Weller they were<br />
brilliant - good to hear those classic jam hits from the guys<br />
that originally played on them!<br />
St Mary in the Castle on Hastings Seafront continues with<br />
a strong programme of concerts and events. On Thursday<br />
23rd March and Friday 24th March they present 400 East<br />
Sussex Music students from Hastings & Rother Area Music<br />
Centre performing two celebration concerts.<br />
Spring Concert 1 will include nearly 150 musicians and<br />
singers and will feature the Hastings & Rother Area Youth<br />
Wind Orchestra, Jazz & Blues Band, Youth Singers, Wind<br />
Band, Percussion Ensemble and the Hastings & Rother Area<br />
Music Centre’s Samba Band. Spring Concert 2 will include<br />
nearly 200 musicians and will feature Hastings Area Youth<br />
Guitar Orchestra, Gold Violin Ensembles, Recorder Consort,<br />
Vivaldi String Orchestra and the Hastings & Rother Area<br />
Youth Symphony Orchestra. Tickets £9, Concessions £6.<br />
If that wasn’t something completely different, how about a<br />
‘Musical’? On Thursday 6th, Friday 7th and Saturday 8th April<br />
2017 - Renaissance Theatre will be performing the wonderful<br />
classic Rodgers and Hammerstien's musical SOUTH PACIFIC!<br />
Doors open at 7:00pm for a 7:30pm start. All proceeds go to<br />
St Michaels Hospice, and tickets will be available at Hastings<br />
Tourist Information Centre from March 1st.<br />
The next edition of Golden Times will be hitting<br />
the shelves in early May, and will have a<br />
submissions deadline of Thursday, 13th April.<br />
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SYMPHONIC SUMMER<br />
Thursday 1 June, 7.30pm<br />
De La Warr Pavilion, Bexhill<br />
ROSSINI La Scala di Seta Overture<br />
FAURÉ Pavane<br />
TCHAIKOVSKY Piano Concerto No.1<br />
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