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celebrating the spirit within<br />
<strong>WOMEN'S</strong> <strong>FRONTLINE</strong><br />
<strong>Issue</strong> 19 <strong>October</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />
5 Questions to<br />
redefine your future<br />
lessons from<br />
ESTHER<br />
ON THE<br />
COVER<br />
DR.<br />
CONSTANCE<br />
COOPER<br />
God had set me up in such<br />
a way that here I am five<br />
years later, four degrees<br />
stronger and I did it all by<br />
faith!<br />
I W A S A<br />
M E S S<br />
and had to<br />
preach a<br />
sermon!<br />
magazine<br />
WOMEN&<br />
PASSION<br />
Moving against the<br />
current<br />
LOOSE THE<br />
COLT<br />
Has your destiny<br />
been tied up?<br />
Woman<br />
seed carrier, nurturer, mother<br />
BOLD &<br />
EXPLOSIVE<br />
she is the<br />
confident woman
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From the Editor<br />
I am excited to welcome you back to<br />
our <strong>18</strong>th edition of Women's<br />
Frontline Magazine. I have been on a<br />
much needed summer break. I<br />
deemed it necessary to go away and<br />
reevaluate the reason why I want to<br />
keep on publishing this magazine.<br />
Although I have had some challenges,<br />
I believe that this magazine creates a<br />
platform for ordinary people to share<br />
and get their stories published.<br />
I thoroughly enjoyed the grand<br />
season of sunshine and much needed<br />
family bonding and at the same time,<br />
I needed to find my oasis and drink<br />
from it. Indeed the bible says that<br />
''there is a time for everything under<br />
the sun.''<br />
I am thankful to God who is always<br />
ahead of me, working behind the<br />
scenes on my behalf. I have enjoyed<br />
barsking in his presence as he renews<br />
me and equips me for the days that<br />
lie ahead. It is always worthwhile to<br />
wait upon the Lord; and wait upon<br />
the promises that he has spoken over<br />
our life.<br />
Moving towards the last quarter of<br />
the year, I will let the Lord align my<br />
life as he makes necessary<br />
adjustments.<br />
I would like to say a big thank you to<br />
all our writers. I really appreciate you<br />
co-labouring with me to make this<br />
magazine a success.<br />
The theme for this month is Women<br />
& Passion. Though passion is an<br />
important ingredient to staying the<br />
course in ministry, work or wherever<br />
you might find yourself, the Lord<br />
reminded me, that it is his word that<br />
makes dreams come true. So, let us<br />
get back to reading and studying the<br />
word of God.<br />
Women's Frontline Magazine remains<br />
committed to publishing inspirational<br />
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Founder<br />
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IN THIS <strong>ISSUE</strong><br />
12 Never Give Up<br />
6<br />
16 5 Questions to redefine your passion<br />
22 <strong>Cover</strong> Story -Constance Cooper<br />
32 Woman<br />
38 I was a mess and had to preach a sermon<br />
44 Mistakes are not the ultimate<br />
50 Loose the colt<br />
54 Women & Passion<br />
58 What motivates and inspires you in life?<br />
62 Bold & Explosive, the confident woman<br />
66 Back to worship<br />
70 My testimony - Janelle Lopp
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PANEL OF WRITERS<br />
Anna McCarthy is a writer/speaker who decided to<br />
set her work aside to embark on a different kind of<br />
journey: just being a Jesus follower. After a few years<br />
of doing the Christian writing and speaking thing, I<br />
decided to take my ministry out of the church and<br />
into the world. Thus, I begun blogging.<br />
Joy Jallah is a Motivational Speaker and Teacher of<br />
dance and an Inspiring Author. Joy moves in the gifts of<br />
healing and miracles. She is also a minister of dance<br />
bring healing into the lives of many because of the<br />
anointing of God. Joy is the overseer of Fishers of<br />
People International<br />
Ministry.<br />
Shelly Wilson says,“Writing was never intentional. After<br />
the Lord came for me, I simply began to blog my<br />
longing for Him, my joy in Him, and my daily<br />
ponderings and lessons from my time with Him. I have<br />
fallen in love with writing. Writing of His tenderness<br />
and the beautiful ways He speaks to me. The fun loving<br />
ways He shows His nature and names..Elohim..El<br />
Roi…Adonai.<br />
Eric Otchere is passionate about spreading relevant<br />
knowledge to build personal capacities through his daily<br />
writings. He works full time with an NGO based in Ghana<br />
that is committed to raising the next generation of<br />
African Leaders and business executives through<br />
personal and professional development seminars and<br />
mentoring clubs. He is a product of the University of<br />
Ghana where he studied Psychology and Archaeology<br />
for his first degree.
Ms. Jennifer Pink, Single Mom Sage, is dedicated to<br />
aiding single moms to STOP Surviving and START<br />
THRIVING! She is the Chief Decision Maker at JVillage,<br />
Inc. where she oversees several companies including<br />
The P.I.N.K. Foundation, Sage Mentoring, Sage Network,<br />
The J’s Sandbox and JKids Boutique<br />
Mary Eisenacher is a minister, author and song writer,<br />
and Founder of Call of the Wild Ministries, Inc. - an<br />
Apostolic Revivalist Ministry with the Mission: “Helping<br />
Others Answer God’s Call.” Her mandate is to help<br />
others get prepared for The Great Commission. She is a<br />
speaker and minister, intercessor, worship leader, and<br />
modern-day psalmist who has the ability to tobring<br />
others into the throne room.<br />
apostolic/prophetic word can come forth to heal,<br />
BioNicolle is a single mother of two who is determined<br />
to make the best life for her and her children.<br />
Becoming a single parent was never in the plans for<br />
Janelle. . Her drive and determination proved so many<br />
wrong. She obtained her BFA degree in Fashion Design<br />
& Marketing within those four years and moved on<br />
with her life and her son<br />
Kudzie G Phiri (KGP) is a multi-talented prophetic<br />
voice in song. She felt the call for ministry at the<br />
tender age of four and has ever since sought to<br />
understand the extent of the call. She dabbled in<br />
different fields until the call for music ministry<br />
became too strong to ignore. She has a dynamic,<br />
creative and innovative musical mind and has astute<br />
sense and comprehension of the art of music.<br />
Ferdinard Senyo Lawson<br />
Ferdinard Senyo Lawson is a Creativity Award (CA-<br />
AWARD, 2015) Best Life Coach & Best Public<br />
Speaker Winner, True African Heritage Awards (BEST<br />
AUTHOR, 2015) and BEFFTA Award Winning Author,<br />
Founder & C.E.O of Ferdinard Lawson<br />
Empowerment & Inspirational Agency C.I.C<br />
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As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of<br />
Galilee, He saw two brothers, Simon<br />
called Peter and his brother Andrew.<br />
They were casting a net into the sea,<br />
for they were fishermen. “Come, follow<br />
Me, Jesus said, “and I will make you<br />
fishers of men.” And at once they left<br />
their nets and followed Him.…<br />
Mathew 4:19
NEVER<br />
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GIVE<br />
UP<br />
Let me start by saying that God will catch you no<br />
matter how low you fall. His love for us has no bounds. We just have to<br />
accept it! I accepted Jesus when I was 14. I have never lost sight of whose I<br />
am. I have faltered<br />
and fallen, but God always lifts me back up.<br />
When I was 20 I started a relationship with the man I thought I would<br />
spend my life with. After 9 ½ years of being lied to, I had my daughter.<br />
Through my daughter, God showed me I was on the wrong path. My<br />
daughter is a blessing from God in spite of my bad choices.<br />
When my daughter was 2, I met the man I would marry. My husband and I<br />
got married 4 years after we started dating. We were not equally yoked in<br />
any way. This caused a lot of heartache.
y Melanie Kinkade<br />
While my husband was an<br />
excellent father to my children, he<br />
was sexually and emotionally<br />
abusive to me. I finally had the<br />
strength to walk away after 6 years<br />
of marriage. There was no resolving<br />
what was going on behind closed<br />
doors.<br />
When I was 39 I rededicated my life<br />
to God. I accepted Jesus as my Lord,<br />
not just my Savior. A year later I<br />
became involved in the church I still<br />
attend. God brought me to a<br />
place in my life where I lost a lot, but<br />
appreciated everything. I learned to<br />
be content with what I had and no<br />
longer spent time grieving what I<br />
didn’t.<br />
At the age of 40, I had been<br />
unemployed for 2 years. I arrived at a<br />
point where I truly had to let go and<br />
let God. I took a step out on faith and<br />
was ready to start my own business.<br />
The very next day I received an offer<br />
of employment. I truly believe God<br />
was waiting for me to surrender.<br />
It wasn’t until this year that I felt<br />
ready to venture into a relationship. I<br />
once again fell into a relationship<br />
that wasn’t equally yoked. Also once<br />
again I went against what I know God<br />
wants for my life. I gave into the<br />
wants of my flesh instead of being<br />
strong in the protection of the Lord.<br />
I am thankful it only took 3 months to<br />
realize that I was once again on the<br />
wrong path.<br />
The relationship fell apart and the<br />
friendship we had prior is horribly<br />
broken. I have fallen back into my<br />
sinful nature from time to time since<br />
then. A week ago, I felt convicted and<br />
made the choice once and for all to<br />
turn away from my actions.<br />
Through my life I have survived many<br />
different abuses. I have been an<br />
addict and have survived that by the<br />
grace of God. I have survived a stroke<br />
with very little permanent damage.<br />
God’s grace throughout my life<br />
amazes me.
y Melanie Kinkade<br />
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never<br />
give<br />
up<br />
Now I would like to<br />
talk about what I have<br />
learned over the years. God<br />
has shown me so much and I<br />
want to encourage others<br />
with what I now know. Also, I<br />
want to make it clear that no<br />
one on this earth is perfect.<br />
That’s why God sent Jesus to<br />
us.<br />
It has become crystal clear to<br />
me that God has blessed me<br />
with the gift of discernment.<br />
I am able to hear the Holy<br />
Spirits voice regarding<br />
individuals and their actions.<br />
One of the hardest lessons<br />
for me to learn is that I need<br />
to always listen to that voice.<br />
Things go horribly wrong<br />
when I don’t.<br />
am going against the will of<br />
God for me. If I look back over<br />
my life, there are glaring<br />
examples of this.<br />
Another lesson I have learned<br />
is that if I let Him, God will<br />
use me to share his love.<br />
Through volunteering and<br />
sharing my testimony, I do<br />
just that. I don’t have a lot of<br />
money, but I have a heart<br />
filled with love for Jesus. I<br />
take every opportunity I can<br />
to<br />
share that love.<br />
A 3 rd lesson I have learned is<br />
that not everyone who claims<br />
to love God, actually does. As<br />
women, we need to guard<br />
ourselves against sheep in<br />
wolves clothing. Any man<br />
worthy of our love will lead<br />
us closer to God, not away<br />
from Him.<br />
A wise friend of mine<br />
recently taught me that any<br />
decision I make needs to fill<br />
me with peace. If I do not feel<br />
that peace, then I most likely
The Lord has shown me that I<br />
am a work in progress until the day I<br />
die. I know that I will fall many more<br />
times before He takes me home to<br />
Him. When we sin, we need to be<br />
quick to repent and not continue in<br />
it. If you learn nothing else from me,<br />
please believe that living in our<br />
sinful nature leads to many kinds of<br />
death. We suffer a death of Spirit,<br />
emotion and sometimes a physical<br />
death.<br />
My hope is that I can continue in<br />
God’s grace and help others to have<br />
hope in the face of darkness. Jesus<br />
came for us so that we may have a<br />
relationship with our Father.<br />
For me, God is the only Father I have.<br />
My goal in sharing my testimony<br />
with you is to show you that none of<br />
us is perfect. No<br />
matter how many times we fall, if we<br />
reach out He will pick us up and dust<br />
us off. If you let Him, He will use you<br />
or your situation to create<br />
something beautiful.<br />
Thank you for taking the time to<br />
read my story. I pray you find peace<br />
and fulfillment through the Lord. If<br />
you let Him, He will truly show you a<br />
love that surpasses all<br />
understanding.<br />
Be blessed my sisters!
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WOMAN LEADERS<br />
&<br />
PASSION<br />
5 Questions to<br />
redefine your passion...<br />
Lessons from<br />
Queen Esther<br />
by Eric Otchere<br />
what you do well, and do it better<br />
than anybody else.” Profound!<br />
The first<br />
time I read the Wikipedia version of<br />
explanation to Passion, I literally<br />
opened my mouth. It was serious.<br />
According to Wiki, the synonymous<br />
word for passion is suffer. Really?<br />
Yes! Its that serious. Throughout the<br />
thousands of books written about<br />
leadership and success stories,<br />
passion always stand tall on the list<br />
of qualities that makes people great.<br />
Founder of Papa John’s Pizza John<br />
Schnatter said that ;Concentrate on<br />
In 2013 when I became a oordinator<br />
for a national NGO in Ghana, I saw it<br />
as a job. I did it when I was told and<br />
got minimal results on my key result<br />
areas. Two years down the line, I<br />
had an attitude shift to that same<br />
work. I saw it more as a calling. I<br />
didn’t see the teeming people we<br />
help as statistics but real human<br />
beings who attend our personal<br />
development programmes with<br />
questions begging for answers to<br />
help them transform their lives.<br />
When it comes to women leadership<br />
and passion, there is no mystery to it.<br />
Passion is a common trait for both<br />
men and women leaders. You are<br />
either a leader with passion or a<br />
leader swimming in dormancy.
WOMAN LEADERS<br />
&<br />
PASSION<br />
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by Eric Otchere<br />
My passion at first was nothing<br />
to write home about but the latter<br />
had deep impact on my results.<br />
Passion is a game-changer in<br />
leadership. Here, I must issue a<br />
caution that my use of<br />
leadership means anyone who takes<br />
initiative to cause a change.<br />
I want us to use the life of Queen<br />
Esther in the Bible to answer 5<br />
questions that can help us to<br />
redefine our passion.<br />
WHAT DO YOU DO?<br />
The first question that arises from<br />
Esther's life is: What do you do?<br />
Esther was an Israeli captive who<br />
became a queen in a foreign land.<br />
What you do is your first point of call<br />
for passion. Esther was a queen in<br />
the palace. That was her work. Every<br />
work is connected with a big picture<br />
but Esther didn;t spot it from the<br />
beginning. Many of us are doing jobs<br />
that we see as normal.<br />
We almost always have a normal<br />
boring day. We have never asked<br />
ourselves: where is my passion going<br />
to come from? Here is my big lesson:<br />
God never gives passion to someone<br />
outside of their area of work or<br />
strength. Passion is always<br />
connected to what you do.<br />
WHO DO YOU HAVE?<br />
Knowing that what you do will bring<br />
you passion is not enough. Move on<br />
to the second question: who do you<br />
have? The people in your life will<br />
help you see through their own<br />
spectacles about how they see the<br />
world. For Esther, it was Mordecai,<br />
her uncle. He was nobody but he<br />
influenced the life of Esther to see<br />
the big picture for her work in the<br />
palace. That picture was fighting for<br />
her people. Seriously, for most of us,<br />
we will never know the true impact<br />
of people in our lives until we part<br />
ways with them.<br />
HOW DO YOU SEE?<br />
After Modechai spoke to Esther, all of<br />
a sudden she begun to see very<br />
differently. She saw that her purpose<br />
in life wasn;t about being just a<br />
queen but saving her people. How do<br />
you feel after you interact with the<br />
people in your life? Do you feel<br />
passionate or not? Are they energy<br />
boosters or drainers?
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WHAT DO YOU SAY?<br />
After the perspective of Esther had<br />
changed, she started talking<br />
differently. Her confession<br />
changed from I have a job to we<br />
have a job to free our people from<br />
hate. She had the support of her<br />
people. A life with passion speaks<br />
differently.<br />
WHAT DO YOU DO?<br />
After inspiring her people to seek<br />
the face of God, Queen Esther took a<br />
bold uncommon action to meet the<br />
king. It was dangerous but she risked<br />
her life for her people. It was not<br />
advisable but she did it. The proof of<br />
our passion is in our actions. Ralph<br />
Waldo Emerson said that, Who you<br />
are speaks so loudly I can't hear<br />
what you are saying?<br />
So there you have. Five questions to<br />
help you redefine your passion in<br />
whatever you are doing. Passion<br />
doesn’t just happen. It takes a<br />
deliberate effort to whip your<br />
interest to flame your passion in life.<br />
A passionate person can never be<br />
stopped. The man or woman without<br />
passion gives up whenever he or she<br />
faces challenges. The only way we<br />
can achieve our God-given dreams is<br />
to have a corresponding passion to<br />
fuel its success.<br />
Jesus was passionate about His<br />
cause of redemption. Paul was<br />
passionate about his cause of church<br />
planting and growing. David was<br />
passionate about political service.<br />
The disciples of Jesus were<br />
passionate about learning from the<br />
greatest man and doing what He did.<br />
Passion can bring a house down!
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"What is prayer?"<br />
The most basic definition of prayer<br />
is “talking to God.” Prayer is not<br />
meditation or passive reflection; it<br />
is direct address to God. It is the<br />
communication of the human soul<br />
with the Lord who created the soul.<br />
Prayer is the primary way for the<br />
believer in Jesus Christ to<br />
communicate his emotions and<br />
desires with God and to fellowship<br />
with God.
“Do not be anxious about anything,<br />
but in every situation, by prayer and<br />
petition, with thanksgiving, present<br />
your requests to God. And the peace<br />
of God, which transcends all<br />
understanding, will guard your<br />
hearts and your minds in Christ<br />
Jesus” (Philippians 4:6–7). Worry<br />
about nothing; pray about<br />
everything.
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who is she?<br />
Dr. Constance<br />
Cooper is an author,<br />
minister, motivational<br />
speaker and mother of four<br />
beautiful children. She is<br />
also a cosmetologist, make<br />
up artist by profession, she<br />
retails jewelry and a lover<br />
of fashion—she loves a one<br />
of a kind shoe and handbag.<br />
her<br />
accomplishments<br />
She has earned her A.A.<br />
degree in Biblical studies, a<br />
Bachelors degree in<br />
Theology, a Masters of Arts<br />
in Christian Counseling and<br />
a Doctorate degree in<br />
Theology.<br />
Constance cherishes the<br />
time she spends with God<br />
in His Word, His Presence,<br />
and His love. Among her<br />
other passions is family,<br />
wholeness and growing in<br />
His Word together and<br />
allowing Him to direct their<br />
paths through faith. “For<br />
without faith it is<br />
impossible to please God.”<br />
In her first book , The<br />
Chronicles of Connie, she<br />
shares about who she was<br />
and what God did for her.<br />
You will discover the ups,<br />
the downs, and the in<br />
between. Her message is<br />
that the Lord can be with us<br />
the whole time and you<br />
would never know if you<br />
don’t take the time to slow<br />
down, pray and listen for<br />
His voice. Through your own<br />
healing, you’re enabled to<br />
help someone else find<br />
theirs. When you believe in<br />
Him, His Word, and His<br />
power, you too can be<br />
healed, delivered and set<br />
free.<br />
her desires<br />
She desires to please God<br />
by being transparent in<br />
order to get the lost to<br />
believe and see that there is<br />
still hope for them. Through<br />
the testimony of “The<br />
Chronicles of Connie,” she<br />
endeavored to give hope to<br />
a lost and dying world-- that<br />
with Jesus we all have hope,<br />
because our hope is in Him<br />
and that they will be free<br />
just like her. “For whom the<br />
Son sets free, is free<br />
indeed.”
Dr. Constance Cooper<br />
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Welcome Doctor<br />
Cooper….We’ve<br />
Been Waiting on<br />
You<br />
Jeremiah 29:11<br />
For I know the plans I have for<br />
you, Declares the Lord, plans to<br />
prosper you and not to harm<br />
you. Plans to give you hope and<br />
a future.<br />
As I sit here and listen to<br />
worship music and I attempt to tell<br />
you about me, I am reminded of a<br />
moment in time when I was hurting so<br />
deeply. I had just went through a<br />
divorce my heart wascompletely<br />
broken. I was on my way to a<br />
women’s convention about an hour<br />
away from my home. I told the Lord,<br />
“ You said I was a doctor, You said I<br />
was a prophet, but God I don’t feel<br />
like any of them”!<br />
II mean, how am I all these things and<br />
I’m going through my second<br />
divorce?! How is it possible to be all<br />
these things and I haven’t even went<br />
to school? If You want me to go to<br />
school Lord You going to have to pay<br />
for it! I mean, You are going to have to<br />
show me what school to go to,<br />
Lord You have to do it for Your name<br />
sake Jesus!!<br />
Father I’m scared, and If You don’t do<br />
it Lord it won’t get done!! I’m tired and<br />
I’m ready to give up Lord I just can’t<br />
take it no more! If You don’t show up<br />
Lord I’m going to kill myself!! Just<br />
when I said that I started to cry so<br />
uncontrollably that by the time I got<br />
to the church my make up was gone<br />
and if anyone knows me then you<br />
know it was nobody but the Holy<br />
Ghost that told me before I left my<br />
house to grab my makeup bag lol!!.
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I originally went to the church to<br />
support a good friend of mine and it<br />
was his event. Not knowing that this<br />
would be another divine set up by<br />
God Himself. My first divine set up<br />
was with my editor who is now my<br />
spiritual mother. She became my<br />
unsolicited, one and only chief<br />
editor by default of old love<br />
interest.<br />
The Word of God is true when it says<br />
what the devil meant for bad God<br />
will turn it around to bless you.<br />
That relationship lasted about five<br />
years off and on before he<br />
introduced me tomomma Chris. She<br />
took me under her wing and has<br />
never let me go and truth be told I<br />
won’t let her go either.<br />
Now I know you may be saying<br />
where is she going with this story?<br />
I’ll tell you, the reason I was going<br />
to that conference was to support<br />
my friend but guess what I was<br />
looking for God to do something to<br />
change my situation and I needed it<br />
to change immediately.<br />
My very life<br />
depended on it, because at the time I<br />
was contemplating suicide.<br />
Yes, you heard me I really wanted to<br />
kill myself and I never listen to that<br />
voice but this time was different.<br />
See I was at my lowest point,<br />
divorced twice and struggling in my<br />
ministry. I had just published two<br />
books which were assignments, in<br />
which I said yes to. If you know what<br />
it’s like to give God a yes and expect<br />
Him to change your situation<br />
immediately just because you<br />
obeyed Him and He doesn’t. Then<br />
you understand my pain and my<br />
frustration.<br />
I went to the conference sat in the<br />
church got some of the word but<br />
what happened next was just what<br />
we always say….<br />
God You are amazing!!! See this big<br />
boned woman came out of nowhere<br />
and that my friend’s is what we call<br />
a divine set up.<br />
Her dress was a beautiful turquoise<br />
but what stood out the most was her<br />
physique, she was built in a<br />
beautiful almost<br />
kimono like dress. Her husband was<br />
working the table across from where<br />
my friend was doing<br />
registration for the conference.<br />
Their table had books, personalized<br />
towels and lap scarves that<br />
we ladies use in church to keep us<br />
covered below the knee.<br />
The next thing I know I’m in a<br />
conversation with her husband who<br />
says out of no where….”we<br />
got get back to Texas we start school<br />
on Monday and I all I could do is<br />
look up and say God You<br />
are so funny!! I have to tell you<br />
before I go any further what the<br />
conference title was… You<br />
ready???
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Tell me God doesn’t have a sense of<br />
humor. Yes I was next and yes I am<br />
still in awe of God and His plans, His<br />
ways. He always sees ahead of the<br />
storms and cares of life. If we would<br />
only just trust, believe and obey He<br />
will show a plan that you could only<br />
dream<br />
about. I sure had no idea that each<br />
one of my friendships would end up<br />
being blessings to my entire soul,<br />
mind and being!!<br />
God was always with me<br />
from start to finish,<br />
He actually answered each one of<br />
my questions before I even started<br />
making a plan. Make sense? If your<br />
anything like me you just sit in tears<br />
and say Lord I’m not worthy.<br />
I’m here to encourage you today ask,<br />
seek and knock, the door shall be<br />
opened unto you. Now if you think<br />
that is something let me give you<br />
some more icing on that cake. When I<br />
found out that ran a school I<br />
immediately went into prayer and<br />
asked the unthinkable. I didn’t have<br />
the full amount for the tuition but I<br />
did have clients lined up for that<br />
Tuesday the day that associates class<br />
would start which is where I would<br />
begin the “Journey Here”. The<br />
forthcoming book due for release in<br />
the early fall.
O N T H E C O V E R<br />
God had set me up in such a way<br />
that here I am five years later, four<br />
degrees stronger and I did it all by<br />
faith! God said He would do<br />
exceedingly and abundantly all you<br />
could ask or think.<br />
People of God I was hopeless, I was<br />
at the bottom of my life ready to<br />
either relapse or die. God said just<br />
give Me a try.<br />
I’m the girl from Richmond, Connie<br />
the overcomer, the delivered drug<br />
addict.<br />
The single mother of four beautiful<br />
children, the self employed stylist<br />
who was scared. Felt unworthy of<br />
love, who felt she couldn’t unlearn<br />
what she learned. How can God<br />
actually make tis young woman who<br />
gets no reconignition of any of her<br />
other accomplishments from her<br />
own family let alone her piers!? I<br />
was unsure of myself but I was<br />
confident that if God said that<br />
settles it!!<br />
If you think for one minute<br />
it was easy and a cake walk it was<br />
far from it. I remember I didn’t have<br />
money for three years into school<br />
but what I had was my word which<br />
was good. I owed money most of the<br />
time I was in school, God was right<br />
there working on the director of the<br />
school’s heart and guess what her<br />
husband always said… We believe in<br />
you just keep turning in your work<br />
and we will work with you.<br />
My last year of school was the most<br />
difficult but God said He would<br />
never leave me nor forsake me. It<br />
was time for thesis and all I know is I<br />
was not prepared but God, He had<br />
me writing all the time so it was<br />
crunch time ….literally, I was ready!!!<br />
I had two days to get in a 35,000<br />
word document turned in.<br />
I cried and I prayed and guess what I<br />
turned it in mailed it off and it<br />
arrived 3 hours before schedule.<br />
It was actually 37,500 words! God<br />
always said He would perfect all<br />
things that concern you, He also said<br />
that He Who began a good a work<br />
would see it finished until the<br />
coming of our Lord.<br />
My God from Zion, not only did I<br />
graduate, I graduated with my class<br />
all done with the help of the Lord. It<br />
was all His grace which held me up<br />
when I wanted to give up!! I went<br />
through tremendous warfare to get<br />
to this place and when I arrived,<br />
directly after graduation, I began to<br />
loose it again.<br />
Understand, that was a five year plan<br />
it even included all five books I had<br />
written and self published all done<br />
within those five years. I needed to<br />
start a new plan, set new goals for<br />
the<br />
next five years. I am a woman of<br />
action and I have a follow through<br />
finisher’s anointing. I start<br />
something I am determined to finish
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Trust me, His plan and His<br />
strategy to get to that<br />
place will surely blow<br />
your mind and make you<br />
say wow!!!
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I could go on and on about the<br />
journey here….Dr. Cooper, but I do<br />
know that none of this would have<br />
happened if it were not already His<br />
plan, It was already discussed in<br />
Heaven. Heaven had already<br />
settled the matter of my<br />
destination to Dr. Cooper.<br />
Nothing happens without Heaven<br />
having a conversation about you,<br />
me all of us. God has us on His<br />
mind and His plans are marvelous<br />
for you and I!<br />
He gives us His good and perfect<br />
gifts. He is Author and the Finisher<br />
of our faith! I have been writing<br />
and going to school so much that I<br />
almost forgot to enjoy my<br />
moments of accomplishments,<br />
achievements for the mere fact I<br />
couldn’t believe it myself.<br />
God is simply amazing and I would<br />
not be Doctor Cooper if it had not<br />
already been settled in Heaven.<br />
Stay in the race and run it at your<br />
own pace. This little girl from the<br />
ghetto of Richmond California not<br />
only got delivered from drugs and<br />
alcohol but she also broke<br />
generational curses. I also set the<br />
new standard for my family to<br />
know they could do all things<br />
through Christ Jesus who<br />
strengthens them.<br />
Habakkuk 2:2 says to write the<br />
vision and make it plain so that the<br />
runner may run and though the<br />
vision may tarry wait for it for it is<br />
for an expected time. This is our<br />
expected time. Run runner run,<br />
pace yourself and wait on the Lord<br />
when your strength is weak. Lean<br />
on and learn of Him.<br />
Trust me, His plan and His strategy<br />
to get you to that place will surely<br />
blow your mind and make you say<br />
wow!!!<br />
God is truly amazing!!!! He is the<br />
same God Who parted the Red Sea<br />
for the children of Israel, He will<br />
surely part your sea for you too!<br />
Thank you for your time in reading<br />
about little ole Connie. Keep God<br />
close in your heart let Him renew<br />
you mind…..it will all work out for<br />
your good.<br />
I am a living witness the prophecy,<br />
the dream will surely come to<br />
pass!!<br />
Dr. Constance Cooper
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Woman<br />
The<br />
subject of womanhood has attracted<br />
diverse opinions since their<br />
introduction. Different people have<br />
shared their thoughts on who<br />
women are, their strengths, role,<br />
weaknesses, etc. Some have argued<br />
and never come to an agreement on<br />
the complexity of who they are.<br />
Here is my take.<br />
Basically, a woman is a man who is<br />
endowed with a womb. You will<br />
understand this as you read further.<br />
A woman is a special creation of God<br />
who is given special abilities. These<br />
abilities range from being a carrier of<br />
the seed of a man, a nurturer as well<br />
as a nurse, etc.<br />
Let’s look at some of these special<br />
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The woman as an<br />
influence:<br />
The first woman to ever walk the<br />
earth known as Eve first introduced<br />
man to a tree that the man had been<br />
instructed by God not to eat of. This<br />
is definitely not a write-up to<br />
have a theological discussion on who<br />
did right or wrong; my interest is in<br />
the fact that though man had<br />
received instruction not to eat of<br />
that tree, he ended up eating<br />
because it was the woman who<br />
brought it to him. Though scripture<br />
explicitly states that the man was<br />
with her, (which I believe he knew<br />
where the fruit was coming from), he<br />
didn’t ask questions, but went ahead<br />
and ate it anyway.<br />
‘’And when the woman saw that the<br />
tree was good for food, and that it<br />
was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree<br />
to be desired to make one wise, she<br />
took of the fruit thereof, and did eat,<br />
and GAVE ALSO UNTO HER HUSBAND<br />
WITH HER; AND HE DID EAT. ‘’<br />
Genesis 3:6<br />
I believe therefore that the woman is<br />
endowed with a special grace to<br />
influence multitudes<br />
The woman as<br />
a seed carrier:<br />
The woman was specially designed<br />
by God to carry seed and produce<br />
another kind of human after a period<br />
of nine months. This she does when<br />
she consummates her love with<br />
her husband through sexual<br />
intercourse and conceives, thereby<br />
after receiving seed form the man in<br />
the form of a sperm, which goes to<br />
fertilize an ovary in her womb and<br />
subsequently causes the cycle of<br />
human creation in her womb.<br />
Her body undergoes a period of<br />
changes and like an elastic material,<br />
her womb protrudes and expands for<br />
a period of nine months, after which<br />
her sexual organ expands for another<br />
human being with a unique destiny,<br />
gifts, and other abilities to come out<br />
to join other existing humans.<br />
Though the experience of giving<br />
birth comes with pain, which has the<br />
capacity to rupture her heart, thereby<br />
resulting in the loss of her life, she is<br />
the only person endowed with the<br />
special grace of being the entrant for<br />
other human beings.<br />
‘’... in sorrow thou shalt bring forth<br />
children...’’<br />
[Genesis 3:16]
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The woman as a nursing<br />
mother, nurse and nurturer:<br />
The woman is endowed with the<br />
special grace to nurse and nurture.<br />
As a nursing mother, she feeds<br />
her children with breast milk, weans<br />
them of it, and feeds them gradually<br />
till their teeth grow and are able to<br />
chew meat and break bones. As a<br />
nurse, she treats wounds and hurts<br />
which are not just physical but<br />
emotional and psychological as well.<br />
She almost always knows how to find<br />
the place a person is hurting so she<br />
can administer carefully the right<br />
medicine to cure that ailment.<br />
nation. [ref. Dr. Kwegir Aggrey].<br />
Thus, when a woman is given the<br />
chance, she is able to direct people<br />
into what and where their passions<br />
lie so they don’t become frustrated<br />
adults in the long run.<br />
As people who nurture, they have<br />
special qualities like tenderness<br />
which are found in their arms,<br />
which don’t tire though their bodies<br />
mostly ache out of frequent carrying,<br />
loving ,kindness which is found in<br />
their hearts, and encouraging words<br />
which are found on their tongues.<br />
As nurturer, she is able to groom<br />
people to become responsible<br />
adults. Someone once said that if<br />
you educate a man, you educate an<br />
individual, but if you educate a<br />
woman, you end up educating a
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by Anna McCarthy<br />
I’M NEW.<br />
So, it’s been a hard week.<br />
Actually, hard doesn’t quite describe<br />
it.<br />
I’ve been through some stuff. Years<br />
ago, I was a medicated wreck. I was<br />
broken. I was (in many ways) ALL<br />
FREAKING DONE. But God invaded my<br />
life 10 years ago. And he healed me.<br />
In a severely powerful way.<br />
I’ve not been the same since.<br />
Like seriously.<br />
Over the past 5 years or so I’ve really<br />
seen that healing solidify. And have<br />
been amazed at how different I am.<br />
But then this week happened…<br />
I was confronted by a chapter of my<br />
life that I hadn’t looked at in a while.<br />
In a LONG WHILE. And , friends (we<br />
are friends aren’t we??) it gripped me.<br />
In a billion different ways, my heart<br />
was paralyzed.<br />
Unable to think. Everything was fuzzy.<br />
My brain raced a million different<br />
directions.<br />
My heart ached.
Deeply.<br />
Intensely.<br />
Ached.<br />
The thing is, I know this ache. Really<br />
well. We are old familiar friends.<br />
And because I recognized it, it<br />
terrified me.<br />
Because I remember what it has the<br />
capability of doing to me. I’ve lived<br />
that story. And I don’t want to go<br />
back. EVER.<br />
I was faced with two options:<br />
Run and hide.<br />
Or press into it.<br />
To be honest with you, I’ve fluctuated<br />
between the two. But, I keep<br />
choosing to press back in.<br />
And here’s why:<br />
Although I know the pain very well in<br />
this place, I know HIM in this place.<br />
I know what He can do with my pain.<br />
I know that story.<br />
I love that story.<br />
I would give my life for that story.<br />
Him.<br />
It’s been agonizing.<br />
It’s been terrifying.<br />
But, I trust Him.<br />
Because, I know what is waiting for<br />
me on the other side. As much as this<br />
pains me, I know if I let him clean this<br />
area of my heart out, He will heal it.<br />
And on the other side is gold.<br />
I have gold in so many other places of<br />
my heart. Priceless, valuable,<br />
cherishable gold. Gold that was once<br />
not. But now is.<br />
I want gold here.<br />
And I’m not stopping until He’s done.<br />
I trust Him.<br />
I choose Him.<br />
Of course as luck (or God’s perfect<br />
design) would have it, I was<br />
scheduled to preach Sunday.<br />
GAHHHH.<br />
For those of you who know me, you<br />
know I always teach from a very<br />
transparent place. But, this was taking<br />
that vulnerability to an ENTIRELY NEW<br />
LEVEL.<br />
So, as much as it killed me, I chose to<br />
press into every stinking layer of this<br />
thing and learn to breath in it with
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All last week when I should have<br />
been preparing, I was on the floor in<br />
my office listening to worship music<br />
begging God to heal me.<br />
Not even thinking about my sermon.<br />
I walked the sanctuary when no one<br />
was there DECLARING HIS GOODNESS<br />
OVER ME. Because I couldn’t do<br />
anything else.<br />
I had to stay in that place.<br />
Or else I would sink.<br />
And sometimes I did sink.<br />
hand and pull me onward. I knew the<br />
breakthrough would come. I knew it<br />
would. It just wasn’t there yet.<br />
And, then came Sunday…<br />
Mind you, I hadn’t slept much. I<br />
hadn’t eaten much. I was IN THE<br />
MIDDLE OF FREAKING HEART<br />
SURGERY WITH GOD.<br />
And from my mud pit, I bled out of<br />
me what he was teaching me.<br />
Here’s an excerpt of my<br />
message:<br />
But, he was quick to grab my shaky
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Again, I wasn’t walking in a healed<br />
place just yet. But, he was faithfully,<br />
steadily at work.<br />
A friend of mine was processing with<br />
me and said, “you haven’t cried about<br />
this yet, have you?” Now, my<br />
husband and everyone who knows<br />
me will quickly tell you, Anna doesn’t<br />
cry much.<br />
It’s true.<br />
10 years ago I felt like all of my tears<br />
came out. There just haven’t been<br />
much since. But, as she said those<br />
words I felt the swell grow in the<br />
back of my throat.<br />
I just couldn’t cry yet.<br />
But, I knew I needed to.<br />
Yesterday, I was driving in the car<br />
(kids were screaming, baby was<br />
throwing stuff, I had a million things I<br />
was trying to do – you get the<br />
picture) The ache resurfaced.<br />
I felt the pain and was like, Sweet<br />
Jesus you have to do something. I<br />
can’t stay in this place!<br />
I dropped the kids off at summer<br />
camp and immediately a song came<br />
on the radio I had never heard.<br />
It was “Be my rescue“, by Nicole<br />
Nordeman and the first lines were:<br />
Sunlit shoreline<br />
Where I was baptized<br />
This time dark skies<br />
Leave me capsized<br />
That did it<br />
The words couldn’t have been chosen<br />
more perfectly.<br />
This is the same place I was<br />
“baptized” (figuratively speaking) 10<br />
years ago.<br />
And when I look back on that time, it’s<br />
now a sunlit shoreline. The pain isn’t<br />
there anymore. I’m healed. I’m free.
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But, this time…it’s a new wound. A<br />
very old, deeply infected wound.<br />
And although I know these waters of<br />
pain with the Lord…the skies are<br />
dark.<br />
And in every possible way, I felt<br />
capsized.<br />
The next part said,<br />
This is the river where I went under<br />
This is the river where I come up new<br />
As I was driving, ENDLESS TEARS<br />
were flowing out of me.<br />
The ache was so deep. As I wiped my<br />
sunglasses from the sopping wet, I<br />
felt the relief starting to come.<br />
I felt HIM taking the ache…<br />
I was going under. Fully surrendering<br />
Him to take this and make something<br />
beautiful from it.<br />
No matter my history. No matter how<br />
many times I’ve failed. No matter<br />
how much I’ve walked in fear. I<br />
surrendered.<br />
The chorus went<br />
Oh, oh God, be my rescue<br />
Oh, oh God, be my rescue<br />
And save me from myself<br />
Save me from myself<br />
Oh, oh God be my rescue tonight<br />
It became my heart’s cry.<br />
I sat there weeping, literally<br />
clutching my chest with my hand. As<br />
if to remind my soul that it would be<br />
okay. That it would be healed. That it<br />
can trust Him here.<br />
The Bible talks a lot about speaking<br />
to your soul. David did it often. I<br />
understand now why….I had to force<br />
my spirit to be louder than my soul.<br />
Because my soul knows how to run<br />
and hide. It knows how to be alone. It<br />
knows how to wall off and shut<br />
everything out.<br />
It’s darn good at it.<br />
But, my spirit knows better. It<br />
understands there’s a better way. It<br />
knows the freedom that comes from<br />
letting him in and allowing him to<br />
press, to mold, to make new.<br />
When the song ended, I literally<br />
found it on my phone on youtube<br />
(sorry data usage) and played it on<br />
repeat 4 times. I wept the entire way<br />
home.
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When I got home, I parked and sat<br />
for a while.<br />
I recognized this place too…<br />
Instead of the ache, there was relief.<br />
I knew this place.<br />
It meant I had done it.<br />
I had exchanged the pain for the<br />
beginning of his beauty.<br />
The healing process isn’t complete<br />
yet, but we are making major<br />
strides. The last two nights I’ve slept<br />
great and the anxiety has been at<br />
bay.<br />
Halleluja.<br />
THIS IS THE GOSPEL I KNOW.<br />
IT’S THE ONE I WANT TO FOLLOW.<br />
THE ONE I WOULD LAY MY LIFE<br />
DOWN FOR.<br />
IT’S THAT GOOD.<br />
In the words of Nicole Nordeman,<br />
Watching the old me<br />
Slowly sinking<br />
Hope is rising up<br />
I can feel the rush<br />
I’m alive and I’m breathing<br />
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NOT THE<br />
ULTIMATE:<br />
LEARN, LIVE<br />
AND<br />
MOVE ON.<br />
Mistakes are part of human<br />
development. No one gets better in life<br />
without making any form of mistake. You are<br />
not the first and neither are you going to be<br />
the last to make mistakes in life. This means<br />
that many people have made serious mistakes<br />
or will be making one on their journey in life.<br />
The issue is not the mistakes but your attitude<br />
and the mindset you develop when you make<br />
mistakes is what will determine whether you<br />
a failure or not.
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MISTAKES ARE NOT ULTIMATE....<br />
Success is not air one breathes. It<br />
is in the activity we do and pursue<br />
regardless of the fears and<br />
challenges of failure. I have always<br />
said that, what you are afraid of, you<br />
can never become it; this implies that<br />
when you are afraid to make a<br />
mistake as you pursue success, you<br />
will find it difficult to attain that<br />
success. There are many hurdles and<br />
challenges in life. However, our<br />
ability to rise above them is what<br />
gets us into the flight of success.<br />
Making mistake is not failure.<br />
Mistakes rather make us grow and<br />
develop into what we had always<br />
wanted for ourselves. Great and<br />
successful men and women are<br />
people who have made serious and<br />
devastating mistakes in life and have<br />
used their lessons learnt to rebuild<br />
their personal life and success. A<br />
man who is afraid to fail will fail at<br />
trying. The only way to overcome<br />
failure and become a person of<br />
influence and significance is by<br />
learning from your mistake.<br />
Most at times, we think successful<br />
people do not make mistakes. That is<br />
a delusion people still have about<br />
themselves. They think making<br />
mistakes in life means you are a<br />
failure. No! No! No! What they don’t<br />
know is that, for one to have a<br />
successful story in whatever they do,<br />
they must have room for mistakes.<br />
What you do not prepare for will take<br />
you by a great surprise. We must<br />
learn to create room or have an open<br />
mind about mistakes. This prevents<br />
us from peri -arrest when failure hits<br />
us like a tornado or tsunami.<br />
Many people live their lives<br />
without preparing for mistake. They<br />
therefore get deflated and get into<br />
shock mode when they make a<br />
mistake. The question is: You made a<br />
mistake, so what? To become<br />
successful in the pursuit of your<br />
dreams, goals and aspirations; you<br />
should know that you will have to<br />
make mistakes, bearing in mind that ”<br />
no one is perfect” and therefore,<br />
making a mistake is another way of<br />
learning and developing into<br />
something greater than the mistake.<br />
However, you cannot learn from<br />
your mistakes when you try to deny<br />
it.<br />
Denying your mistakes only makes<br />
you a victim of failure.<br />
This is why it is very paramount that,<br />
you learn to accept your mistakes and<br />
open up for correction. Failure to do<br />
this will push you into depth of<br />
disappointment and heartaches.
y<br />
Ferdinard Senyo Lawson<br />
Women's Frontline<br />
Magazine<br />
Failing to accept that you have made<br />
a mistake will also prevent others<br />
from giving you the right and needful<br />
help to make you stronger and wiser.<br />
You must be ready to admit your<br />
mistakes all the time without feeling<br />
shy or shameful about it. This is how<br />
you get help and redirection.<br />
No driver in his or her rightful mind<br />
continues driving on the fastest road<br />
knowing very well that he or she has<br />
made the wrong turning. Life is a<br />
journey and mistakes are like the<br />
junctions of life. You never stop<br />
going or travelling on the road of life<br />
because of a mistake? So why then do<br />
you want to give up because you<br />
have made a mistake?<br />
Foolish people avoid mistakes but<br />
wise people learn from their<br />
mistakes.<br />
Learning from your mistakes will<br />
inspire you to desire to change and<br />
improve your life. You don’t learn<br />
from mistakes by avoiding it but<br />
embracing it. One thing I have<br />
personally learnt from my mistakes in<br />
life is that, they make me to OBSERVE,<br />
LEARN, DEVELOP, EDUCATE AND<br />
DECIDE on how to make my life better<br />
and inspire those around me (O.L.D.E.<br />
R mistakes should make you older).<br />
FIVE BENEFITS OF MISTAKES<br />
There are a lot of benefits we can all<br />
derive from our mistakes. These<br />
benefits help to reshape our attitudes<br />
in life and become successful and<br />
relevant in society.<br />
You become diligent.<br />
Mistakes bring out the best in us. We<br />
tend to work harder when we<br />
experience some level of mistakes.<br />
Most successful people get<br />
committed to what they have set<br />
before them and do everything<br />
possible to achieve it. Because they<br />
know how painful mistakes can be,<br />
they put all their efforts into<br />
everything they do when working on<br />
their ideas just to ensure that they<br />
achieve it. Mistake makes you<br />
diligent.
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by<br />
Ferdinard Senyo Lawson<br />
You learn to be patient.<br />
When you haven’t made a mistake in<br />
life, you think everything is about<br />
rush, rush and rush. You become<br />
hasty about life. However, when you<br />
make mistakes and learn from them,<br />
you become more cautious and<br />
careful about the way you carry<br />
yourself and live your life. You then<br />
appreciate that nothing is gained<br />
through rushing but through<br />
patience.<br />
You can microwave porridge but you<br />
cannot do that with success. I have<br />
always remembered this statement<br />
made by my late grandmother that,<br />
“A patient dog can only eat a fat<br />
bone”. This statement has thought<br />
me to be patient in life and never to<br />
rush to be rich overnight. With<br />
patience, success can be achieved.<br />
You become focus and<br />
determined.<br />
Successful individuals are more<br />
determined and focused to achieve<br />
something in life. This is because<br />
they have learnt from their mistakes<br />
and knew how to avoid repeating the<br />
some mistakes over and over again.<br />
Mistakes also help you to remain<br />
resolute, dedicated and determined<br />
by sticking to one thing particularly in<br />
life in your pursuit of success.<br />
It takes great efforts and<br />
determination to overcome these<br />
barriers of failure. This only becomes<br />
possible when you learn to identify,<br />
accept your mistake and have the<br />
mindset to learn. Be like the postage<br />
stamp on an envelope; you never<br />
come off the envelope even if you<br />
arrived at the wrong address. You<br />
stick until you reach your destination<br />
in life. For you to achieve success in<br />
life, you should be ready to be<br />
dedicated to pursue and improve<br />
upon yourself no matter the number<br />
of times you make mistakes. This is<br />
how your dreams and goals are<br />
achieved. Never allow anything or<br />
anyone to stand before you in the<br />
pursuit of your dreams.<br />
You learn to plan ahead.<br />
Another benefit of mistakes is that<br />
you become an effective planner.<br />
People who learn to plan are people<br />
who have learnt that, failing to plan<br />
will always result in failure and<br />
disappointment. Mistakes make us to<br />
be more proactive and organized. You<br />
don’t just take things for granted but<br />
develop the habit to plan, work<br />
towards your goals and become<br />
successful.
Women's<br />
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Nothing works and gets a man<br />
successful like planning. Plans help<br />
us to build internal confidence and<br />
belief in our abilities to achieve<br />
anything we set our minds to do.<br />
Sometimes, we lack boldness to try<br />
something simply because, we have<br />
filled our minds with negativity that<br />
we will fail and become a laughing<br />
stock. This stops us from believing<br />
our strengths but focus on our<br />
weaknesses just because, we do not<br />
want to be mocked or laughed at.<br />
Please, regardless of the number of<br />
times you have failed trying to be<br />
successful; you have the power to<br />
keep trying until you succeed. Don’t<br />
give up.<br />
Many people have failed more than<br />
you have failed yet, they have not<br />
given up so, why must you? I dare you<br />
to start changing your attitude to<br />
mistakes and see it as a stepping<br />
stone into your successful life. You<br />
will always make a mistake on your<br />
way to success but you have valuable<br />
lessons to learn if you faint not. Step<br />
up and keep up. You are destined to<br />
succeed through your mistakes.<br />
You may have made the mistake by<br />
picking the wrong shoe for<br />
boardroom dance, have gotten into<br />
the wrong transport or train to<br />
another destination; or even have<br />
made the wrong pizza order. What<br />
will you do? Would you have found<br />
another way to deal with it and learn<br />
a vital lesson from your mistake? Well<br />
this is life.<br />
Choose Your Friends Wisely<br />
Sometimes, we get into wrong<br />
associations or relationships with<br />
people we do not like or jobs we<br />
don’t even want to do. It does not<br />
mean we should give up and throw in<br />
the towel. Not everyone is lovable or<br />
caring. If you think you have made a<br />
mistake by getting into the wrong<br />
associations, you can only get out<br />
from it but it should not prevent you<br />
from trying another relationship that<br />
has had your best interest at heart.<br />
Know that you cannot change people<br />
but yourself. Never allow negative<br />
people to pollute your mind,<br />
environment and change the<br />
direction of your purpose in life.<br />
Live to learn and learn from your<br />
mistake.
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LOOSE THE COLT<br />
And it came to pass, when he was come nigh to<br />
Bethphage and Bethany, at the mount called the<br />
mount of Olives, he sent two of his disciples,<br />
Saying, Go ye into the village over against you; in<br />
the which at your entering ye shall find a colt tied,<br />
whereon yet never man sat: loose him, and bring<br />
him hither.<br />
And if any man ask you, Why do ye loose him? thus<br />
shall ye say unto him, Because the Lord hath need<br />
of him. And they that were sent went their way,<br />
and found even as he had said unto them. And as<br />
they were loosing the colt, the owners thereof said<br />
unto them, Why loose ye the colt? And they said,<br />
The Lord hath need of him.<br />
Luke 19:29-34
By Shelly Wilson<br />
As the preacher recounted<br />
the triumphant entry of Christ<br />
Sunday morning, a phrase began to<br />
capture me. Actually several phrases<br />
from this beautiful story in The<br />
Word. It simply would not let me go.<br />
I began to talk to the Lord about it<br />
and ask Him for insight into His<br />
heart. “loose the colt…” seemed so<br />
benign yet something hidden we<br />
could glean from. “bring him hither.”<br />
“The Lord is in need of them.” I<br />
thought it fascinating for in Matthew<br />
we see it states there is a donkey<br />
and a colt (a baby donkey). Does<br />
anyone but me find it amazing how<br />
Christ chose the baby donkey..the<br />
colt? One that had never been ridden<br />
it states…wouldn’t that mean it was<br />
surely an unbroken animal?… I mean<br />
when was the last time you tried to<br />
just hop up on a donkey…much less a<br />
baby one.<br />
Also, in comparison to the other<br />
donkey, it was the younger of the<br />
two, a mere colt…the short<br />
legged…the smaller in stature. Don’t<br />
you imagine if we were the Lord, we<br />
would have chosen a stallion? Isn’t it<br />
just like the Lord? The least likely<br />
again…<br />
colt” ….untie him….meaning he was<br />
tied up. (makes sure you do not miss<br />
the obvious here.) Let me ask you…”<br />
what has you tied up?” Because<br />
Christ is calling it to be untied. For He<br />
is in need of it. He is in need of YOU!<br />
Is your potential tied up? Has your<br />
gifting been tied up? Has your<br />
destiny been tied up? Have you been<br />
bound in some way? Have you tied<br />
up yourself or has someone else tied<br />
you up? Either way, Christ calls now<br />
to “loose the colts.” The body of<br />
Christ must release it’s people now.<br />
Untie them…BRING THEM HITHER!!<br />
for the Lord has need of them….<br />
Did Christ need that donkey? Of<br />
course not. But He chose that<br />
donkey…..a stubborn animal yet one<br />
ranchers and farmers know as<br />
protectors from scavengers such as<br />
coyotes. Perhaps you are a good<br />
protector of others…a shepherd….but<br />
you’ve been bound by tradition,<br />
bound by lies, and bound by what<br />
and who others think you should be.<br />
You’ve been tied up with all kinds of<br />
God given gifts and talents woven<br />
inside of you as He formed you….but<br />
Satan has slowly over the years….tied<br />
a nice little bow around you. He has<br />
restricted you…He went to work the<br />
moment you were born.<br />
He sent His disciples to “loose the
LOOSE THE COLT<br />
By Shelly Wilson<br />
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Your normal has become one of<br />
being bound….you are unsure what<br />
freedom really is even like…but<br />
you’ve always known there was<br />
more. There has always been a deep<br />
stirring maybe even at a young age<br />
of purpose. You may not have<br />
known what to call it but it was<br />
always nagging at you. A hunger for<br />
more…a longing that was never at<br />
rest.<br />
Also, let’s not miss that in the<br />
passage the Lord “sends His<br />
disciples” to loose the colt. Did He<br />
have to send his disciples? Of<br />
course not…the same voice that<br />
spoke the world into existence<br />
could certainly have untied the<br />
donkey Himself with a mere<br />
thought. But He chose to send His<br />
disciples..For those of us in church<br />
and ministry leadership. Those of us<br />
who have been graciously given a<br />
platform to speak of Christ…..He is<br />
sending us to “loose the colts.”<br />
Release those bound and let Christ<br />
show us how to “untie” them from<br />
all that hinders their purpose in the<br />
Kingdom.<br />
We must put our minds on the<br />
bigger picture. We must begin to<br />
multiply the Kingdom…multiply the<br />
disciples…multiply the workers. It<br />
will require us getting our hands<br />
dirty, untangling some knots for our<br />
brothers and sisters..and then<br />
bringing them to the Lord.<br />
Look for the short legged..the<br />
unknown..the young or simply<br />
younger! Look for the<br />
stubborn…you know the one<br />
you would never choose if you<br />
were God?!? We will have to<br />
learn to cease looking for the<br />
noble and those with a lineage<br />
of perfection….you won’t find it.<br />
Remember, Christ saw<br />
something in Paul….the very<br />
stubbornness and zealousness<br />
that murdered Christians is<br />
what Christ saw to be an asset<br />
for His Kingdom work when<br />
redirected by His Spirit!
Perhaps we have been trained to look for<br />
certain attributes, Personalities,track records of<br />
success, seminary degrees, financial status,<br />
denominational alliances, personal likenesses,<br />
heritage, race, or gender. But God sees none of<br />
these….we are all made ONE in Christ at the<br />
cross. Oh no….His eye is on the orphan girl, the<br />
least of the clan, the overlooked in the fields<br />
tending the sheep. Be careful who you set your<br />
eyes on…..make sure you have the eyes of<br />
Christ…or you likely will choose wrongly and<br />
the Kingdom work will be stifled.<br />
Go…..now….loose the colts….for the Lord has<br />
need of them..and when you find them tied<br />
up…bring them hither…Christ has a plan for<br />
them!<br />
“Loose the Colt”<br />
“Loose the colt” said the man<br />
“For tell me the reason please?”<br />
The Lord has sent a command<br />
And now the Lord needeth thee.<br />
Should the colt stay where it’s tied<br />
Never God’s plan would be seen<br />
So” loose” the colt dear man<br />
For now the Lord needeth thee.<br />
Go yonder for there is a colt!<br />
That’s never been ridden you see<br />
He’s waiting to be untied<br />
For now the Lord needeth thee.<br />
A colt that’s been set aside<br />
Whose captured the eyes of the King<br />
To bear up the name of The Christ<br />
O’ now the Lord needeth thee.<br />
Please “loosen the colts” Heaven<br />
rings!!!<br />
They’ve waited for years so it seems<br />
For chosen they are and redeemed<br />
It is time the Lord needeth thee.<br />
And when they drew nigh unto<br />
Jerusalem, and were come to<br />
Bethphage, unto the mount of Olives,<br />
then sent Jesus two disciples,<br />
2 Saying unto them, Go into the<br />
village over against you, and<br />
straightway ye shall find an ass tied,<br />
and a colt with her: loose them, and<br />
bring them unto me. 3 And if any man<br />
say ought unto you, ye shall say, The<br />
Lord hath need of them; and<br />
straightway he will send them.<br />
4 All this was done, that it might be<br />
fulfilled which was spoken by the<br />
prophet, saying,5 Tell ye the daughter<br />
of Sion, Behold, thy King cometh unto<br />
thee, meek, and sitting upon an ass,<br />
and a colt the foal of an ass. 6 And the<br />
disciples went, and did as Jesus<br />
commanded them…
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by Jennifer Pink<br />
Women's<br />
Frontline<br />
Magazine
Women are known to be<br />
the emotional ones of the human<br />
species; although I can assure you<br />
men are extremely emotional<br />
creatures. Women are known to lead<br />
with their heart which is why so many<br />
say we wouldn’t make good<br />
Presidents and Rulers of Countries;<br />
although some women have done<br />
these jobs just fine.<br />
I know I’d pick Michelle Obama to<br />
lead this country and a few others<br />
any day, but I digress. When you look<br />
up passionate you find it is an<br />
adjective that says showing or caused<br />
by strong feelings or a strong belief.<br />
I’m sure they wanted to put a<br />
woman’s picture next to that because<br />
that just about describes all women. I<br />
would argue that passionate and<br />
women are truly synonyms.<br />
Now, I personally don’t see anything<br />
wrong with the fact that we are<br />
passionate creatures, that we care,<br />
that we let our hearts lead us. This<br />
level of passion and caring for others<br />
had led to some of the greatest<br />
movements gaining great momentum<br />
and forcing some key men to take a<br />
stance and make some things happen.<br />
For example, the passionate women<br />
who weren’t completely brainwashed<br />
and bamboozled by fear really put a<br />
push on the abolition of slavery, there<br />
wasn’t a shortage of passionate<br />
women behind the women’s suffrage<br />
movement and if you look at the<br />
#BlackLivesMatter movement of<br />
today black women are truly standing<br />
on the front lines and pushing this<br />
movement to a higher level. So here<br />
is the question if we can easily<br />
become passionate about so many<br />
things how do we find OUR Passion?
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by Jennifer Pink<br />
I have my definition but sometimes<br />
I’ve been known to see things<br />
differently so I looked up the word<br />
passion and it says it is a noun<br />
meaning strong and barely<br />
controllable emotions; the suffering<br />
and death of Jesus. I’m glad Webster<br />
confirmed what I’ve been thinking,<br />
teaching and saying for quite some<br />
time now. Your true passion comes<br />
from your emotional reaction to the<br />
cross.<br />
Now for some people they think that<br />
stops at crying or falling out but in all<br />
honesty your passion should<br />
transform and change your life; once<br />
you tap into the passion that is<br />
within you things should NEVER be<br />
the same for you. Because of this I<br />
fully believe that your true passion is<br />
synonymous with your purpose.<br />
Let me explain.<br />
Your purpose by definition is the<br />
reason for which you were created;<br />
the reason you exist. God only has<br />
one purpose for His people for “All<br />
authority in heaven and on earth has<br />
been given to me.<br />
Therefore go and make disciples of all<br />
nations, baptizing them in the name<br />
of the Father and of the<br />
Son and of the Holy Spirit, and<br />
teaching them to obey everything I<br />
have commanded you. And surely I<br />
am with you always, to the very end<br />
of the age.” Mathew 28:1620.<br />
This is the underlining purpose for<br />
which God has created all of us to go<br />
out and bring others to the cross. Now<br />
here’s where so many get confused<br />
this is all of our purpose but he has<br />
created all of us uniquely in the way<br />
we are meant to carry out this<br />
purpose.<br />
We all serve as different pieces<br />
within the one purpose.<br />
So when God saw fit to put you<br />
together in your mother’s womb he<br />
designed you with a unique purpose<br />
to bring the world
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Now that I’ve made it clear what<br />
your passion and purpose are how<br />
do you go about uncoding your<br />
unique purpose to fulfill THE<br />
PURPOSE! Well, it’s truly a simple<br />
task of asking God and seeking Him<br />
first and foremost. Many will tell you<br />
your purpose is what you can’t stop<br />
doing no matter what, what you do<br />
for FREE, what you do without even<br />
thinking. All of that is completely<br />
true because it was what you were<br />
born to do without a shadow of a<br />
doubt. But if you want the truth<br />
you’ve got to go deeper, you’ve<br />
really got to spend some time with<br />
God and get a clear understanding<br />
of how it has to play out.<br />
I would challenge you to look at the<br />
areas of your life that you’ve had to<br />
overcome the most, the areas where<br />
you felt the biggest struggles. Now<br />
put those areas/problems side by<br />
side with what you do without any<br />
prompting and then see how God<br />
can be glorified within that. I<br />
promise you when you put all those<br />
three things together you will have<br />
the answer you’ve been seeking all<br />
along, you will find the thing that<br />
brings you to the Cross, the thing<br />
that you were made for, the thing<br />
that advances the Kingdom.<br />
You will find YOUR PASSIONATE<br />
PURPOSE for being created.<br />
As a single mom mentor<br />
I help women release the past,<br />
embrace the present and learn what<br />
and how<br />
to THRIVE in their future. The work<br />
we do helps them get clear and<br />
understand their passionate<br />
purpose in life. If you are looking to<br />
get clear, if you are ready to be all<br />
that He created you to be then<br />
let’s set up a discovery chat TODAY<br />
and start you on your journey to<br />
Stop Surviving and Start<br />
THRIVING!
y Joy Jallah<br />
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women's frontline<br />
magazine<br />
What inspires<br />
you and<br />
motivates you in<br />
life?
When you have a<br />
passion for something, it is only<br />
natural that you begin to pursue<br />
it. What is passion? Passion is the<br />
very thing that you love and think<br />
of all the time. It take courage and<br />
zeal to pursue what you love.<br />
The bible says, that<br />
all things are possible to them who<br />
believe. When we believe we can<br />
and we will do greater things.<br />
First we think it and than act upon<br />
what we think. Passion takes<br />
courage and faith and it takes<br />
more courage to get established<br />
in life. It takes a step of faith, to go<br />
after what we love and are<br />
passionate about in life.<br />
So many things try to get in the<br />
way of what we love. However, we<br />
must push and press forward to do<br />
the very thing we have confidence<br />
to do. We cannot be discouraged<br />
when we try and we fail. We just<br />
need to keep knocking on that door<br />
until an opportunity comes and<br />
gives us a breakthrough.<br />
I beleive that we must perservere<br />
and remain positive in order to<br />
make things happen.<br />
Timing is everything. Trusting in<br />
the greatness of a big God who is<br />
always doing exceedingly and<br />
above what we ask or imagine. It<br />
helps to set a time or goal to<br />
accomplish what we need to do in<br />
life. It keeps us on track as we stay<br />
focused.<br />
In your weakness, Christ's strength<br />
is made perfect. It truly takes a<br />
fighter spirit to do what you are<br />
passionate about in life. Nothing is<br />
impossible to them who believe. All<br />
things are possible through Christ<br />
who gives us strength.<br />
I am confident that our strength<br />
comes from God, and that makes<br />
me go after what I love. It requires<br />
pressing and pushing towards it all<br />
the time. Never give up on what<br />
you love and do not lose hope in<br />
life.
y Joy Jallah<br />
What inspires you<br />
and motivates you in life?<br />
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The very thing that seems so<br />
impossible to do in life, truly is the<br />
very thing that must be done. Keep<br />
pressing and pushing for what you<br />
deserve in life. You deserve the<br />
very best that God has for you.<br />
There is much ahead for you, just<br />
keep the faith alive. Do not be<br />
discouraged in the journey of life.<br />
When you fail, get back up and<br />
keep trying until something<br />
magical happens. It takes courage<br />
to keep pursuing purpose and<br />
passion in life. The more you keep<br />
trying, the more it gets better. We<br />
should trust in the will of God upon<br />
our life so that he helps us to<br />
accomplish it.<br />
Anything in life requires effort and<br />
time to do it. Always keep the fire<br />
of your passion burning.<br />
Sometimes it will take consistent<br />
effort to accomplish the task. When<br />
we have a clear picture in our mind<br />
of accomplishing our passion, than<br />
it motivates us to do work harder.<br />
Never let anyone make the fire in<br />
you die. Surround yourself with<br />
positive people that want to see<br />
you succeed to make your dream<br />
come true. The more you go after<br />
what you love, the more you will<br />
fulfill it.<br />
The end matter is better than the<br />
beginning. Faith is currency. Having<br />
faith to just do it regardless of what<br />
may come your way. Have faith in<br />
God. Before you call, God hears you<br />
and answers you. God is faithful to<br />
keep his promises through his<br />
word.<br />
It just takes the right time for<br />
whatever you are passionate about<br />
to come into establishment. Be<br />
strong and of good courage in this<br />
life journey. All things work<br />
together for good for those who<br />
love God and are called according<br />
to his purpose. God is making<br />
everything beautiful in its time.<br />
Push towards the mark of the high<br />
calling.<br />
Let those arround you know what<br />
you are passionate about, but<br />
remember that it take stime to<br />
develop . It takes practice in your<br />
daily life to be more effective and<br />
productive.<br />
What do you love?<br />
Pursue it daily and practice doing it<br />
on a daily basis. You will see how<br />
you will begin to develop in your<br />
ability to do what you are<br />
passionate about.<br />
Every effort counts to make<br />
something beautiful happen.<br />
Making something out of nothing,<br />
that's the beauty. Your end will be<br />
so much more better than your<br />
beginning. Always keep the faith<br />
alive and well. You can do anything<br />
you put your mind to do.
y Mary Eisenacher<br />
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Confident<br />
bold &<br />
woman<br />
explosive<br />
Bold and explosive!<br />
A mirror of the ministry of Jesus<br />
comes right out of the character of<br />
Jehovah God, emblazoned with the<br />
fire around the throne. As I look into<br />
those fiery eyes, my confidence is His<br />
confidence.<br />
Has that always been the case? No!<br />
Am I always flawless in my<br />
confidence? No! But, do I know -<br />
without a shadow of a doubt - that<br />
my confidence and strength comes<br />
from God! A resounding Yes! comes<br />
to mind.<br />
I am so confident in the blood of Jesus<br />
shed on the Cross to change any<br />
dynamic that I bring to The Father. The<br />
covenant that Jesus made for us by His<br />
finished work on the cross, his death,<br />
burial and resurrection, and His ascent<br />
to our Father has changed all those<br />
who have received Him as Savior. And<br />
yet, we see the lack of confidence and<br />
strength in so many women that seizes<br />
and cripples their call.<br />
Personally, I want to be strong in the<br />
Lord at every turn. I want to lean on<br />
Him when I need to do so. When I get<br />
into the wilderness, I want to come out<br />
leaning on my beloved Jesus. In the<br />
really good times when I’ve been<br />
blessed beyond measure, I want to be<br />
so grateful and thankful so as not to<br />
miss the blessing of being able to come<br />
back to God with my praise - as well as<br />
speak to others with my<br />
testimony.
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Is there a reason for all of this<br />
strength and confidence? Yes<br />
indeed, there are many reasons<br />
that I canemphatically proclaim it is<br />
so. It is all because I’ve been<br />
through some things. I have lived<br />
long enough, exercised faith on so<br />
many occasions, and seen the hand<br />
of God move on my behalf and<br />
others . . . that I am convinced that<br />
nothing can keep me from the love<br />
of God. He is faithful. He is just. He<br />
is merciful.<br />
Being a woman in this day and age<br />
still has some very severe<br />
consequences – especially for those<br />
of us in ministry. But, I’ve stood in<br />
the presence of others, been<br />
ordained and consecrated, and set<br />
apart for Him. I’ve pledged my love<br />
to God. And, I’ve never been sorry. I<br />
believe there is a confidence and<br />
strength that comes in a public<br />
confession to want to be God’s<br />
minister. For those who think that is<br />
not necessary, let me know how<br />
that might be working for you.<br />
There is power in having someone<br />
see your giftings and talents and<br />
having them stand with and for you<br />
before God to that testify to that<br />
fact. Now, some of you aren’t in the<br />
profession of ministry – but you too<br />
have those who have or will testify<br />
about your benefit to some type of<br />
work or calling. If you’ve ever<br />
received a paycheck, then you have<br />
someone’s approval. Right?
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My strength comes in<br />
knowing who I am and what purpose<br />
for my life has been fashioned by<br />
God. Knowing that each person has a<br />
plan, purpose, and destiny for their<br />
life helped to shape and transform<br />
my thinking.<br />
As I look back, I see the hand of God<br />
molding and shaping me for what I do<br />
today. The past was a formation for<br />
what I am doing now. There is a<br />
confidence when you hammer<br />
out these things in prayer. It is as if<br />
God wants to etch it out on stone for<br />
each of us so that we know the whys<br />
and wherefores.<br />
I’ve come to know that the more<br />
serious I become about approaching<br />
God and showing Him that I am<br />
interested to know His will for my<br />
life, the more revelation and<br />
understanding comes to me. Do I<br />
know it all? No! But, I do know that<br />
God orders the steps of the righteous;<br />
and therefore I can trust Him with my<br />
future.<br />
Sometimes there is hesitation,<br />
procrastination, and fear (if I<br />
really want to be honest). There are<br />
times when I have to pray and fast in<br />
order to have breakthrough. Many<br />
times, I need someone else to pray<br />
for me, prophesy to me, or give me<br />
wisdom in the area of need. I know I<br />
can’t do it all on my own, and that is<br />
ok. There is a confidence in knowing<br />
that God has sources here on Earth to<br />
help us, as well as His supernatural<br />
sources.
y Mary Eisenacher<br />
The Confident Woman<br />
God’s track record with<br />
me is one of perfectness. Did I<br />
always understand His ways? What<br />
do you think? There is always<br />
“more” of God. His protection and<br />
His plan of perfection can be<br />
counted on to all those who avail<br />
themselves. Again, it’s so worth it!<br />
Happiness comes in the process,<br />
because mistakes are corrected<br />
and healing and deliverance are<br />
part of the package deal.<br />
I find strength and confidence in<br />
fellowship with like-minded<br />
Christ followers. They come and<br />
go. Sometimes they pop back into<br />
my life quickly and bring what is<br />
needed. Some leave and move on.<br />
New ones come on the horizon<br />
frequently, both for a quick in and<br />
out - and some stay for a while.<br />
Only a few remain constant. It<br />
always amazes me - and sometimes<br />
confounds me - when I see it could<br />
only be the prompting from the<br />
Holy Spirit who orchestrates Spirit<br />
fellowship.<br />
I'm one of the blessed ones<br />
who has had a happy long-term<br />
marriage with children and now<br />
their families. There’s a quiet<br />
confidence in that fact, knowing<br />
that God has kept the covenant<br />
with us. Iknow not everyone has<br />
this blessing, so it makes me<br />
humble and compassionate toward<br />
others who have another scenario.<br />
God’s purposes are beyond my<br />
understanding, and I can be content<br />
with that.<br />
I suppose my testimony is<br />
that I am confident through God,<br />
and His strength is what I need and<br />
require.<br />
I praise Him for His goodness and<br />
seek His face for all that I need no<br />
matter what my circumstances.<br />
I smile when I see a strong,<br />
confident woman. I also know she<br />
has had times when she has been<br />
challenged just like myself. It is<br />
really through the good and the<br />
bad times that we get shored up to<br />
face the day and all that comes<br />
with it. I choose to be encouraged,<br />
and I am sure that I need to<br />
encourage myself. Our God is<br />
mighty! It’s through His love that<br />
you and I continue on down the<br />
path to run the good race to<br />
completion.
y Kudzie Phiri<br />
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by Kudzie<br />
Phiri<br />
Worship<br />
Growing<br />
up I found that I had a greater<br />
inclination towards worship. I found<br />
myself consumed by this desire to<br />
know God and to love Him. Through<br />
the years I have sought after his heart<br />
in song and everything that pertains<br />
to Him. I have often been told that<br />
people with a prophetic disposition<br />
find themselves drawn more towards<br />
worship. This is partly because<br />
worship activates the prophetic. After<br />
having often experienced it myself ; I<br />
will not argue with that! It is part of<br />
the reason why I sing and write<br />
prophetic praise and worship.<br />
However I have found that the reason<br />
I am a worshiper (besides the<br />
simplest explanation all man ought to<br />
worship) is because when I find God I<br />
find life and I find myself.<br />
Having been a born again and Holy<br />
Ghost filled Pentecostal most of my<br />
life, I have watched the different<br />
transitions within the body of Christ.<br />
It seems like nowadays we spend less<br />
and less time seeking the face of the<br />
father but back then we used to take<br />
time with God fellow-shipping with<br />
Him and hearing his plan for us and<br />
our nations. Now everything is so<br />
'structured' with outlined agendas<br />
and programs; but where is God’s<br />
agenda in all this? When we look at<br />
worship we now see it as the time we<br />
designate for songs to be sung; but<br />
worship goes beyond that which is<br />
designated.<br />
Worship is in everyday; everywhere I<br />
am and consistent expression of<br />
adoration of him and fellow-shipping<br />
with Him. It is you constantly and<br />
consistently being in the presence of<br />
the Lord : so even when we begin<br />
with prayer we worship; when we<br />
sing we worship and when we hear<br />
the word we worship! What has<br />
happened to that time of pure<br />
reflection in the presence of the Lord,<br />
that irrefutable moment when the<br />
Holy Spirit is at work within the<br />
corporate body and individually?
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We often dismiss the intangible as<br />
being of less importance because it<br />
appears not to exist in time and<br />
therefore to us it does not translate to<br />
anything real. We focus less on<br />
spending time in the presence of the<br />
Father because that seems to only<br />
grow the spirit, as if the physical is<br />
greater than the spiritual?<br />
Do not all things begin in the spirit<br />
realm before they manifest in the<br />
physical? Nowadays we seem to focus<br />
on what we call the development of<br />
the mind so as to attain some level of<br />
materialistic success whilst the<br />
spiritual things have been equated to<br />
the “spooky”. Infact , those that spend<br />
more time searching the heart of the<br />
father are said to be too spiritual with<br />
no earthly relevance.<br />
What has happened to the clear line<br />
between carnality and godliness?<br />
Without the fundamental principles of<br />
Christ we cannot fully develop the<br />
mind of man, for the word says “let<br />
this mind of Christ be in you”, what is<br />
the mind of Christ? Why do we need<br />
the mind of Christ? Without<br />
relationship and searching out his<br />
heart how can we then know the mind<br />
of Christ and how can that mind be in<br />
us? You become a lot like those you<br />
spend most of your time with...<br />
Okay, so Kudzie why are we talking<br />
about worship? This appears to be an<br />
issue of your Christian walk<br />
altogether? Hang in there and walk<br />
this out with me.<br />
Let us briefly examine the attributes of<br />
Worship. Worship takes you back to<br />
Eden, back to that place where man<br />
communed daily, fellow-shipped and<br />
walked with God. Why talk of Eden?<br />
Looking at the Eden model we<br />
understand that Eden was the<br />
intended environment for man. In it<br />
were all things pertaining to man's<br />
development and sustenance. Man<br />
walked with God daily and in Eden it is<br />
believed that there was a ladder<br />
between heaven and earth. So,<br />
imagine the spiritual atmosphere of<br />
Eden. Moreover, it is said that Adam<br />
could travel at the speed of thought.<br />
What is the relevance of all this?<br />
Worship creates the environment for<br />
heaven and earth to transact as well as<br />
open the mind of man to think on a<br />
God level.
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by kudzie Phiri<br />
So what is the role of Worship?<br />
Worship develops every aspect of a<br />
man. How? Worship moves your<br />
desire to the center of your<br />
affection; it gravitates towards God<br />
and that which pertains to Him.<br />
Worship opens spiritual portals that<br />
allow us to access not only the glory<br />
of God but also the brilliance of God.<br />
It was the idea all along; the Father’s<br />
original intent. Remember I said<br />
worship takes you back to Eden.<br />
Eden was the place where Adam<br />
could access the brilliance of the<br />
God in Him, he was truly like God.<br />
The environment was wired in a way<br />
that man could be like God and it<br />
was also activated and fueled by<br />
worship. Worship was and is a daily<br />
engagement in which man<br />
encounters God and seeks for<br />
intimacy with him.<br />
I believe the development of every<br />
man lies in man’s desire to seek after<br />
the creator and to become one with<br />
him. Worship brings that alignment<br />
from where you are and where He is.<br />
You become like what you worship!<br />
So where are we? What really is the<br />
source of our development? By all<br />
means let us teach development but<br />
let us not forsake the role spiritual<br />
engagement has in making us who<br />
we are supposed to be. Inventions<br />
are often accessed in a place of<br />
peace and serenity where one's soul<br />
is in alignment. That is the God<br />
environment; the super charged<br />
godly atmospheres that we often<br />
cannot explain. Yes, it is the very<br />
environment given to you to access<br />
brilliance and inventions. The life<br />
changing thoughts and ideas are<br />
often accessed in a realm beyond<br />
human reasoning and<br />
comprehension.<br />
Yet how do we access it all without<br />
worship? God is all knowing and all<br />
powerful surely when we tap into<br />
him we have the ability to do the<br />
impossible. It’s time to let go of the<br />
wisdom of man and grab on to the<br />
wisdom of God.<br />
Brothers and Sisters let us let go of<br />
worldly thoughts and ideologies<br />
forming the basis of our faith and<br />
belief systems. After all the most<br />
influential organisations in the world<br />
have very strong spiritual beliefs and<br />
most times their very basis is<br />
worship.<br />
Why do we allow the enemy to<br />
separate us from the gift that God<br />
gave to us to access the realms<br />
beyond our comprehension. In God<br />
there is everything, when you truly<br />
learn to worship God you access all<br />
that pertains to life and godliness. So<br />
why short change ourselves?<br />
LETS GO BACK TO WORSHIP!
My<br />
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So many<br />
times I wanted to give up because<br />
of the naysayers and worrying about<br />
the fact that I was not good enough<br />
and would be judged due to what I<br />
thought at the time was a<br />
circumstance.<br />
Most of the women in my family<br />
would continue this process. Living<br />
to work, working to live just to<br />
provide for their fatherless children.<br />
God gave them the strength to be<br />
our providers, but I did not just want<br />
to work to live and live to work to<br />
provide for my children. Don’t get<br />
me wrong I am grateful for their<br />
sacrifices but I want more for mine.<br />
accomplishing the things that I<br />
wanted to achieve in life such as:<br />
having children out of wedlock,<br />
which I would have done twice over,<br />
but not intentionally. From one<br />
generation to the next I would see<br />
this growing up.<br />
I had been warned about so many<br />
things that would stop me from
y Janelle Lopp<br />
Growing up with bible<br />
teaching mum-mum<br />
(grandmother) that thought that I<br />
could not do or be what I wanted<br />
was always short lived. She<br />
always taught me that God said<br />
“All things can be done through<br />
Christ who strengthens me.” Well<br />
I continue to trudge on. I can do<br />
all things through Christ who<br />
strengthens me, have and<br />
continue to. That meant finishing<br />
school despite of my so-called<br />
“situation”, becoming a home<br />
owner despite, starting my own<br />
business despite and so much<br />
more.<br />
I learned that God was<br />
giving me my strength through<br />
my children. When I thought it<br />
impossible my son being the first<br />
born and an only child for 11<br />
years was my determination, my<br />
rock to make me overcome the<br />
obstacles of I did and could not<br />
believe. I thank GOD for blessing<br />
me with him because through my<br />
son I knew that I had purpose<br />
other than just being a baby<br />
mama with child out of wedlock.<br />
I knew that God had given him to<br />
me for reasons beyond measure. I<br />
believe that one of those main<br />
reason was to give me strength<br />
where I was weak that I did not<br />
have and to accomplish<br />
everything that he put on my path.<br />
If not for the path God has chosen<br />
for me in having my children, I<br />
truly believe I would have been<br />
worse off. So much has been<br />
accomplished in my life and<br />
strength alone is one of the<br />
biggest things I am grateful for in<br />
all that has happened.<br />
Never give up on anything<br />
that you want to accomplish. It’s<br />
inevitable the things that God will<br />
do and give you if you just have<br />
faith, ask and wait.
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