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celebrating the spirit within<br />

<strong>WOMEN'S</strong> <strong>FRONTLINE</strong><br />

<strong>Issue</strong> 19 <strong>October</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

5 Questions to<br />

redefine your future<br />

lessons from<br />

ESTHER<br />

ON THE<br />

COVER<br />

DR.<br />

CONSTANCE<br />

COOPER<br />

God had set me up in such<br />

a way that here I am five<br />

years later, four degrees<br />

stronger and I did it all by<br />

faith!<br />

I W A S A<br />

M E S S<br />

and had to<br />

preach a<br />

sermon!<br />

magazine<br />

WOMEN&<br />

PASSION<br />

Moving against the<br />

current<br />

LOOSE THE<br />

COLT<br />

Has your destiny<br />

been tied up?<br />

Woman<br />

seed carrier, nurturer, mother<br />

BOLD &<br />

EXPLOSIVE<br />

she is the<br />

confident woman


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From the Editor<br />

I am excited to welcome you back to<br />

our <strong>18</strong>th edition of Women's<br />

Frontline Magazine. I have been on a<br />

much needed summer break. I<br />

deemed it necessary to go away and<br />

reevaluate the reason why I want to<br />

keep on publishing this magazine.<br />

Although I have had some challenges,<br />

I believe that this magazine creates a<br />

platform for ordinary people to share<br />

and get their stories published.<br />

I thoroughly enjoyed the grand<br />

season of sunshine and much needed<br />

family bonding and at the same time,<br />

I needed to find my oasis and drink<br />

from it. Indeed the bible says that<br />

''there is a time for everything under<br />

the sun.''<br />

I am thankful to God who is always<br />

ahead of me, working behind the<br />

scenes on my behalf. I have enjoyed<br />

barsking in his presence as he renews<br />

me and equips me for the days that<br />

lie ahead. It is always worthwhile to<br />

wait upon the Lord; and wait upon<br />

the promises that he has spoken over<br />

our life.<br />

Moving towards the last quarter of<br />

the year, I will let the Lord align my<br />

life as he makes necessary<br />

adjustments.<br />

I would like to say a big thank you to<br />

all our writers. I really appreciate you<br />

co-labouring with me to make this<br />

magazine a success.<br />

The theme for this month is Women<br />

& Passion. Though passion is an<br />

important ingredient to staying the<br />

course in ministry, work or wherever<br />

you might find yourself, the Lord<br />

reminded me, that it is his word that<br />

makes dreams come true. So, let us<br />

get back to reading and studying the<br />

word of God.<br />

Women's Frontline Magazine remains<br />

committed to publishing inspirational<br />

stories and provides quality content.<br />

Thank you to all our readers who<br />

have responded positively to our<br />

vision. I pray that you continue to<br />

share the magazine with your sphere<br />

of influence.<br />

I hope that you enjoy reading our<br />

content and follow us on our social<br />

media.<br />

Hildah Lunding<br />

Founder<br />

Women's Frontline Magazine


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back to worship<br />

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loose the colt


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the ultimate<br />

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women &<br />

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5 questions<br />

bold &<br />

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IN THIS <strong>ISSUE</strong><br />

12 Never Give Up<br />

6<br />

16 5 Questions to redefine your passion<br />

22 <strong>Cover</strong> Story -Constance Cooper<br />

32 Woman<br />

38 I was a mess and had to preach a sermon<br />

44 Mistakes are not the ultimate<br />

50 Loose the colt<br />

54 Women & Passion<br />

58 What motivates and inspires you in life?<br />

62 Bold & Explosive, the confident woman<br />

66 Back to worship<br />

70 My testimony - Janelle Lopp


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Francis Ocran<br />

,is a writer and a Ghanaian, Christian and minister of<br />

the Gospel. Francis loves to write, sing and teach on<br />

the Gospel.<br />

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PANEL OF WRITERS<br />

Anna McCarthy is a writer/speaker who decided to<br />

set her work aside to embark on a different kind of<br />

journey: just being a Jesus follower. After a few years<br />

of doing the Christian writing and speaking thing, I<br />

decided to take my ministry out of the church and<br />

into the world. Thus, I begun blogging.<br />

Joy Jallah is a Motivational Speaker and Teacher of<br />

dance and an Inspiring Author. Joy moves in the gifts of<br />

healing and miracles. She is also a minister of dance<br />

bring healing into the lives of many because of the<br />

anointing of God. Joy is the overseer of Fishers of<br />

People International<br />

Ministry.<br />

Shelly Wilson says,“Writing was never intentional. After<br />

the Lord came for me, I simply began to blog my<br />

longing for Him, my joy in Him, and my daily<br />

ponderings and lessons from my time with Him. I have<br />

fallen in love with writing. Writing of His tenderness<br />

and the beautiful ways He speaks to me. The fun loving<br />

ways He shows His nature and names..Elohim..El<br />

Roi…Adonai.<br />

Eric Otchere is passionate about spreading relevant<br />

knowledge to build personal capacities through his daily<br />

writings. He works full time with an NGO based in Ghana<br />

that is committed to raising the next generation of<br />

African Leaders and business executives through<br />

personal and professional development seminars and<br />

mentoring clubs. He is a product of the University of<br />

Ghana where he studied Psychology and Archaeology<br />

for his first degree.


Ms. Jennifer Pink, Single Mom Sage, is dedicated to<br />

aiding single moms to STOP Surviving and START<br />

THRIVING! She is the Chief Decision Maker at JVillage,<br />

Inc. where she oversees several companies including<br />

The P.I.N.K. Foundation, Sage Mentoring, Sage Network,<br />

The J’s Sandbox and JKids Boutique<br />

Mary Eisenacher is a minister, author and song writer,<br />

and Founder of Call of the Wild Ministries, Inc. - an<br />

Apostolic Revivalist Ministry with the Mission: “Helping<br />

Others Answer God’s Call.” Her mandate is to help<br />

others get prepared for The Great Commission. She is a<br />

speaker and minister, intercessor, worship leader, and<br />

modern-day psalmist who has the ability to tobring<br />

others into the throne room.<br />

apostolic/prophetic word can come forth to heal,<br />

BioNicolle is a single mother of two who is determined<br />

to make the best life for her and her children.<br />

Becoming a single parent was never in the plans for<br />

Janelle. . Her drive and determination proved so many<br />

wrong. She obtained her BFA degree in Fashion Design<br />

& Marketing within those four years and moved on<br />

with her life and her son<br />

Kudzie G Phiri (KGP) is a multi-talented prophetic<br />

voice in song. She felt the call for ministry at the<br />

tender age of four and has ever since sought to<br />

understand the extent of the call. She dabbled in<br />

different fields until the call for music ministry<br />

became too strong to ignore. She has a dynamic,<br />

creative and innovative musical mind and has astute<br />

sense and comprehension of the art of music.<br />

Ferdinard Senyo Lawson<br />

Ferdinard Senyo Lawson is a Creativity Award (CA-<br />

AWARD, 2015) Best Life Coach &amp; Best Public<br />

Speaker Winner, True African Heritage Awards (BEST<br />

AUTHOR, 2015) and BEFFTA Award Winning Author,<br />

Founder &amp; C.E.O of Ferdinard Lawson<br />

Empowerment &amp; Inspirational Agency C.I.C<br />

( FLEiA.CIC) in UK,<br />

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As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of<br />

Galilee, He saw two brothers, Simon<br />

called Peter and his brother Andrew.<br />

They were casting a net into the sea,<br />

for they were fishermen. “Come, follow<br />

Me, Jesus said, “and I will make you<br />

fishers of men.” And at once they left<br />

their nets and followed Him.…<br />

Mathew 4:19


NEVER<br />

12<br />

GIVE<br />

UP<br />

Let me start by saying that God will catch you no<br />

matter how low you fall. His love for us has no bounds. We just have to<br />

accept it! I accepted Jesus when I was 14. I have never lost sight of whose I<br />

am. I have faltered<br />

and fallen, but God always lifts me back up.<br />

When I was 20 I started a relationship with the man I thought I would<br />

spend my life with. After 9 ½ years of being lied to, I had my daughter.<br />

Through my daughter, God showed me I was on the wrong path. My<br />

daughter is a blessing from God in spite of my bad choices.<br />

When my daughter was 2, I met the man I would marry. My husband and I<br />

got married 4 years after we started dating. We were not equally yoked in<br />

any way. This caused a lot of heartache.


y Melanie Kinkade<br />

While my husband was an<br />

excellent father to my children, he<br />

was sexually and emotionally<br />

abusive to me. I finally had the<br />

strength to walk away after 6 years<br />

of marriage. There was no resolving<br />

what was going on behind closed<br />

doors.<br />

When I was 39 I rededicated my life<br />

to God. I accepted Jesus as my Lord,<br />

not just my Savior. A year later I<br />

became involved in the church I still<br />

attend. God brought me to a<br />

place in my life where I lost a lot, but<br />

appreciated everything. I learned to<br />

be content with what I had and no<br />

longer spent time grieving what I<br />

didn’t.<br />

At the age of 40, I had been<br />

unemployed for 2 years. I arrived at a<br />

point where I truly had to let go and<br />

let God. I took a step out on faith and<br />

was ready to start my own business.<br />

The very next day I received an offer<br />

of employment. I truly believe God<br />

was waiting for me to surrender.<br />

It wasn’t until this year that I felt<br />

ready to venture into a relationship. I<br />

once again fell into a relationship<br />

that wasn’t equally yoked. Also once<br />

again I went against what I know God<br />

wants for my life. I gave into the<br />

wants of my flesh instead of being<br />

strong in the protection of the Lord.<br />

I am thankful it only took 3 months to<br />

realize that I was once again on the<br />

wrong path.<br />

The relationship fell apart and the<br />

friendship we had prior is horribly<br />

broken. I have fallen back into my<br />

sinful nature from time to time since<br />

then. A week ago, I felt convicted and<br />

made the choice once and for all to<br />

turn away from my actions.<br />

Through my life I have survived many<br />

different abuses. I have been an<br />

addict and have survived that by the<br />

grace of God. I have survived a stroke<br />

with very little permanent damage.<br />

God’s grace throughout my life<br />

amazes me.


y Melanie Kinkade<br />

14<br />

never<br />

give<br />

up<br />

Now I would like to<br />

talk about what I have<br />

learned over the years. God<br />

has shown me so much and I<br />

want to encourage others<br />

with what I now know. Also, I<br />

want to make it clear that no<br />

one on this earth is perfect.<br />

That’s why God sent Jesus to<br />

us.<br />

It has become crystal clear to<br />

me that God has blessed me<br />

with the gift of discernment.<br />

I am able to hear the Holy<br />

Spirits voice regarding<br />

individuals and their actions.<br />

One of the hardest lessons<br />

for me to learn is that I need<br />

to always listen to that voice.<br />

Things go horribly wrong<br />

when I don’t.<br />

am going against the will of<br />

God for me. If I look back over<br />

my life, there are glaring<br />

examples of this.<br />

Another lesson I have learned<br />

is that if I let Him, God will<br />

use me to share his love.<br />

Through volunteering and<br />

sharing my testimony, I do<br />

just that. I don’t have a lot of<br />

money, but I have a heart<br />

filled with love for Jesus. I<br />

take every opportunity I can<br />

to<br />

share that love.<br />

A 3 rd lesson I have learned is<br />

that not everyone who claims<br />

to love God, actually does. As<br />

women, we need to guard<br />

ourselves against sheep in<br />

wolves clothing. Any man<br />

worthy of our love will lead<br />

us closer to God, not away<br />

from Him.<br />

A wise friend of mine<br />

recently taught me that any<br />

decision I make needs to fill<br />

me with peace. If I do not feel<br />

that peace, then I most likely


The Lord has shown me that I<br />

am a work in progress until the day I<br />

die. I know that I will fall many more<br />

times before He takes me home to<br />

Him. When we sin, we need to be<br />

quick to repent and not continue in<br />

it. If you learn nothing else from me,<br />

please believe that living in our<br />

sinful nature leads to many kinds of<br />

death. We suffer a death of Spirit,<br />

emotion and sometimes a physical<br />

death.<br />

My hope is that I can continue in<br />

God’s grace and help others to have<br />

hope in the face of darkness. Jesus<br />

came for us so that we may have a<br />

relationship with our Father.<br />

For me, God is the only Father I have.<br />

My goal in sharing my testimony<br />

with you is to show you that none of<br />

us is perfect. No<br />

matter how many times we fall, if we<br />

reach out He will pick us up and dust<br />

us off. If you let Him, He will use you<br />

or your situation to create<br />

something beautiful.<br />

Thank you for taking the time to<br />

read my story. I pray you find peace<br />

and fulfillment through the Lord. If<br />

you let Him, He will truly show you a<br />

love that surpasses all<br />

understanding.<br />

Be blessed my sisters!


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WOMAN LEADERS<br />

&<br />

PASSION<br />

5 Questions to<br />

redefine your passion...<br />

Lessons from<br />

Queen Esther<br />

by Eric Otchere<br />

what you do well, and do it better<br />

than anybody else.” Profound!<br />

The first<br />

time I read the Wikipedia version of<br />

explanation to Passion, I literally<br />

opened my mouth. It was serious.<br />

According to Wiki, the synonymous<br />

word for passion is suffer. Really?<br />

Yes! Its that serious. Throughout the<br />

thousands of books written about<br />

leadership and success stories,<br />

passion always stand tall on the list<br />

of qualities that makes people great.<br />

Founder of Papa John’s Pizza John<br />

Schnatter said that ;Concentrate on<br />

In 2013 when I became a oordinator<br />

for a national NGO in Ghana, I saw it<br />

as a job. I did it when I was told and<br />

got minimal results on my key result<br />

areas. Two years down the line, I<br />

had an attitude shift to that same<br />

work. I saw it more as a calling. I<br />

didn’t see the teeming people we<br />

help as statistics but real human<br />

beings who attend our personal<br />

development programmes with<br />

questions begging for answers to<br />

help them transform their lives.<br />

When it comes to women leadership<br />

and passion, there is no mystery to it.<br />

Passion is a common trait for both<br />

men and women leaders. You are<br />

either a leader with passion or a<br />

leader swimming in dormancy.


WOMAN LEADERS<br />

&<br />

PASSION<br />

<strong>18</strong><br />

by Eric Otchere<br />

My passion at first was nothing<br />

to write home about but the latter<br />

had deep impact on my results.<br />

Passion is a game-changer in<br />

leadership. Here, I must issue a<br />

caution that my use of<br />

leadership means anyone who takes<br />

initiative to cause a change.<br />

I want us to use the life of Queen<br />

Esther in the Bible to answer 5<br />

questions that can help us to<br />

redefine our passion.<br />

WHAT DO YOU DO?<br />

The first question that arises from<br />

Esther's life is: What do you do?<br />

Esther was an Israeli captive who<br />

became a queen in a foreign land.<br />

What you do is your first point of call<br />

for passion. Esther was a queen in<br />

the palace. That was her work. Every<br />

work is connected with a big picture<br />

but Esther didn;t spot it from the<br />

beginning. Many of us are doing jobs<br />

that we see as normal.<br />

We almost always have a normal<br />

boring day. We have never asked<br />

ourselves: where is my passion going<br />

to come from? Here is my big lesson:<br />

God never gives passion to someone<br />

outside of their area of work or<br />

strength. Passion is always<br />

connected to what you do.<br />

WHO DO YOU HAVE?<br />

Knowing that what you do will bring<br />

you passion is not enough. Move on<br />

to the second question: who do you<br />

have? The people in your life will<br />

help you see through their own<br />

spectacles about how they see the<br />

world. For Esther, it was Mordecai,<br />

her uncle. He was nobody but he<br />

influenced the life of Esther to see<br />

the big picture for her work in the<br />

palace. That picture was fighting for<br />

her people. Seriously, for most of us,<br />

we will never know the true impact<br />

of people in our lives until we part<br />

ways with them.<br />

HOW DO YOU SEE?<br />

After Modechai spoke to Esther, all of<br />

a sudden she begun to see very<br />

differently. She saw that her purpose<br />

in life wasn;t about being just a<br />

queen but saving her people. How do<br />

you feel after you interact with the<br />

people in your life? Do you feel<br />

passionate or not? Are they energy<br />

boosters or drainers?


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WHAT DO YOU SAY?<br />

After the perspective of Esther had<br />

changed, she started talking<br />

differently. Her confession<br />

changed from I have a job to we<br />

have a job to free our people from<br />

hate. She had the support of her<br />

people. A life with passion speaks<br />

differently.<br />

WHAT DO YOU DO?<br />

After inspiring her people to seek<br />

the face of God, Queen Esther took a<br />

bold uncommon action to meet the<br />

king. It was dangerous but she risked<br />

her life for her people. It was not<br />

advisable but she did it. The proof of<br />

our passion is in our actions. Ralph<br />

Waldo Emerson said that, Who you<br />

are speaks so loudly I can't hear<br />

what you are saying?<br />

So there you have. Five questions to<br />

help you redefine your passion in<br />

whatever you are doing. Passion<br />

doesn’t just happen. It takes a<br />

deliberate effort to whip your<br />

interest to flame your passion in life.<br />

A passionate person can never be<br />

stopped. The man or woman without<br />

passion gives up whenever he or she<br />

faces challenges. The only way we<br />

can achieve our God-given dreams is<br />

to have a corresponding passion to<br />

fuel its success.<br />

Jesus was passionate about His<br />

cause of redemption. Paul was<br />

passionate about his cause of church<br />

planting and growing. David was<br />

passionate about political service.<br />

The disciples of Jesus were<br />

passionate about learning from the<br />

greatest man and doing what He did.<br />

Passion can bring a house down!


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"What is prayer?"<br />

The most basic definition of prayer<br />

is “talking to God.” Prayer is not<br />

meditation or passive reflection; it<br />

is direct address to God. It is the<br />

communication of the human soul<br />

with the Lord who created the soul.<br />

Prayer is the primary way for the<br />

believer in Jesus Christ to<br />

communicate his emotions and<br />

desires with God and to fellowship<br />

with God.


“Do not be anxious about anything,<br />

but in every situation, by prayer and<br />

petition, with thanksgiving, present<br />

your requests to God. And the peace<br />

of God, which transcends all<br />

understanding, will guard your<br />

hearts and your minds in Christ<br />

Jesus” (Philippians 4:6–7). Worry<br />

about nothing; pray about<br />

everything.


22<br />

who is she?<br />

Dr. Constance<br />

Cooper is an author,<br />

minister, motivational<br />

speaker and mother of four<br />

beautiful children. She is<br />

also a cosmetologist, make<br />

up artist by profession, she<br />

retails jewelry and a lover<br />

of fashion—she loves a one<br />

of a kind shoe and handbag.<br />

her<br />

accomplishments<br />

She has earned her A.A.<br />

degree in Biblical studies, a<br />

Bachelors degree in<br />

Theology, a Masters of Arts<br />

in Christian Counseling and<br />

a Doctorate degree in<br />

Theology.<br />

Constance cherishes the<br />

time she spends with God<br />

in His Word, His Presence,<br />

and His love. Among her<br />

other passions is family,<br />

wholeness and growing in<br />

His Word together and<br />

allowing Him to direct their<br />

paths through faith. “For<br />

without faith it is<br />

impossible to please God.”<br />

In her first book , The<br />

Chronicles of Connie, she<br />

shares about who she was<br />

and what God did for her.<br />

You will discover the ups,<br />

the downs, and the in<br />

between. Her message is<br />

that the Lord can be with us<br />

the whole time and you<br />

would never know if you<br />

don’t take the time to slow<br />

down, pray and listen for<br />

His voice. Through your own<br />

healing, you’re enabled to<br />

help someone else find<br />

theirs. When you believe in<br />

Him, His Word, and His<br />

power, you too can be<br />

healed, delivered and set<br />

free.<br />

her desires<br />

She desires to please God<br />

by being transparent in<br />

order to get the lost to<br />

believe and see that there is<br />

still hope for them. Through<br />

the testimony of “The<br />

Chronicles of Connie,” she<br />

endeavored to give hope to<br />

a lost and dying world-- that<br />

with Jesus we all have hope,<br />

because our hope is in Him<br />

and that they will be free<br />

just like her. “For whom the<br />

Son sets free, is free<br />

indeed.”


Dr. Constance Cooper<br />

Women's Frontline<br />

Magazine


24<br />

Welcome Doctor<br />

Cooper….We’ve<br />

Been Waiting on<br />

You<br />

Jeremiah 29:11<br />

For I know the plans I have for<br />

you, Declares the Lord, plans to<br />

prosper you and not to harm<br />

you. Plans to give you hope and<br />

a future.<br />

As I sit here and listen to<br />

worship music and I attempt to tell<br />

you about me, I am reminded of a<br />

moment in time when I was hurting so<br />

deeply. I had just went through a<br />

divorce my heart wascompletely<br />

broken. I was on my way to a<br />

women’s convention about an hour<br />

away from my home. I told the Lord,<br />

“ You said I was a doctor, You said I<br />

was a prophet, but God I don’t feel<br />

like any of them”!<br />

II mean, how am I all these things and<br />

I’m going through my second<br />

divorce?! How is it possible to be all<br />

these things and I haven’t even went<br />

to school? If You want me to go to<br />

school Lord You going to have to pay<br />

for it! I mean, You are going to have to<br />

show me what school to go to,<br />

Lord You have to do it for Your name<br />

sake Jesus!!<br />

Father I’m scared, and If You don’t do<br />

it Lord it won’t get done!! I’m tired and<br />

I’m ready to give up Lord I just can’t<br />

take it no more! If You don’t show up<br />

Lord I’m going to kill myself!! Just<br />

when I said that I started to cry so<br />

uncontrollably that by the time I got<br />

to the church my make up was gone<br />

and if anyone knows me then you<br />

know it was nobody but the Holy<br />

Ghost that told me before I left my<br />

house to grab my makeup bag lol!!.


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I originally went to the church to<br />

support a good friend of mine and it<br />

was his event. Not knowing that this<br />

would be another divine set up by<br />

God Himself. My first divine set up<br />

was with my editor who is now my<br />

spiritual mother. She became my<br />

unsolicited, one and only chief<br />

editor by default of old love<br />

interest.<br />

The Word of God is true when it says<br />

what the devil meant for bad God<br />

will turn it around to bless you.<br />

That relationship lasted about five<br />

years off and on before he<br />

introduced me tomomma Chris. She<br />

took me under her wing and has<br />

never let me go and truth be told I<br />

won’t let her go either.<br />

Now I know you may be saying<br />

where is she going with this story?<br />

I’ll tell you, the reason I was going<br />

to that conference was to support<br />

my friend but guess what I was<br />

looking for God to do something to<br />

change my situation and I needed it<br />

to change immediately.<br />

My very life<br />

depended on it, because at the time I<br />

was contemplating suicide.<br />

Yes, you heard me I really wanted to<br />

kill myself and I never listen to that<br />

voice but this time was different.<br />

See I was at my lowest point,<br />

divorced twice and struggling in my<br />

ministry. I had just published two<br />

books which were assignments, in<br />

which I said yes to. If you know what<br />

it’s like to give God a yes and expect<br />

Him to change your situation<br />

immediately just because you<br />

obeyed Him and He doesn’t. Then<br />

you understand my pain and my<br />

frustration.<br />

I went to the conference sat in the<br />

church got some of the word but<br />

what happened next was just what<br />

we always say….<br />

God You are amazing!!! See this big<br />

boned woman came out of nowhere<br />

and that my friend’s is what we call<br />

a divine set up.<br />

Her dress was a beautiful turquoise<br />

but what stood out the most was her<br />

physique, she was built in a<br />

beautiful almost<br />

kimono like dress. Her husband was<br />

working the table across from where<br />

my friend was doing<br />

registration for the conference.<br />

Their table had books, personalized<br />

towels and lap scarves that<br />

we ladies use in church to keep us<br />

covered below the knee.<br />

The next thing I know I’m in a<br />

conversation with her husband who<br />

says out of no where….”we<br />

got get back to Texas we start school<br />

on Monday and I all I could do is<br />

look up and say God You<br />

are so funny!! I have to tell you<br />

before I go any further what the<br />

conference title was… You<br />

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Tell me God doesn’t have a sense of<br />

humor. Yes I was next and yes I am<br />

still in awe of God and His plans, His<br />

ways. He always sees ahead of the<br />

storms and cares of life. If we would<br />

only just trust, believe and obey He<br />

will show a plan that you could only<br />

dream<br />

about. I sure had no idea that each<br />

one of my friendships would end up<br />

being blessings to my entire soul,<br />

mind and being!!<br />

God was always with me<br />

from start to finish,<br />

He actually answered each one of<br />

my questions before I even started<br />

making a plan. Make sense? If your<br />

anything like me you just sit in tears<br />

and say Lord I’m not worthy.<br />

I’m here to encourage you today ask,<br />

seek and knock, the door shall be<br />

opened unto you. Now if you think<br />

that is something let me give you<br />

some more icing on that cake. When I<br />

found out that ran a school I<br />

immediately went into prayer and<br />

asked the unthinkable. I didn’t have<br />

the full amount for the tuition but I<br />

did have clients lined up for that<br />

Tuesday the day that associates class<br />

would start which is where I would<br />

begin the “Journey Here”. The<br />

forthcoming book due for release in<br />

the early fall.


O N T H E C O V E R<br />

God had set me up in such a way<br />

that here I am five years later, four<br />

degrees stronger and I did it all by<br />

faith! God said He would do<br />

exceedingly and abundantly all you<br />

could ask or think.<br />

People of God I was hopeless, I was<br />

at the bottom of my life ready to<br />

either relapse or die. God said just<br />

give Me a try.<br />

I’m the girl from Richmond, Connie<br />

the overcomer, the delivered drug<br />

addict.<br />

The single mother of four beautiful<br />

children, the self employed stylist<br />

who was scared. Felt unworthy of<br />

love, who felt she couldn’t unlearn<br />

what she learned. How can God<br />

actually make tis young woman who<br />

gets no reconignition of any of her<br />

other accomplishments from her<br />

own family let alone her piers!? I<br />

was unsure of myself but I was<br />

confident that if God said that<br />

settles it!!<br />

If you think for one minute<br />

it was easy and a cake walk it was<br />

far from it. I remember I didn’t have<br />

money for three years into school<br />

but what I had was my word which<br />

was good. I owed money most of the<br />

time I was in school, God was right<br />

there working on the director of the<br />

school’s heart and guess what her<br />

husband always said… We believe in<br />

you just keep turning in your work<br />

and we will work with you.<br />

My last year of school was the most<br />

difficult but God said He would<br />

never leave me nor forsake me. It<br />

was time for thesis and all I know is I<br />

was not prepared but God, He had<br />

me writing all the time so it was<br />

crunch time ….literally, I was ready!!!<br />

I had two days to get in a 35,000<br />

word document turned in.<br />

I cried and I prayed and guess what I<br />

turned it in mailed it off and it<br />

arrived 3 hours before schedule.<br />

It was actually 37,500 words! God<br />

always said He would perfect all<br />

things that concern you, He also said<br />

that He Who began a good a work<br />

would see it finished until the<br />

coming of our Lord.<br />

My God from Zion, not only did I<br />

graduate, I graduated with my class<br />

all done with the help of the Lord. It<br />

was all His grace which held me up<br />

when I wanted to give up!! I went<br />

through tremendous warfare to get<br />

to this place and when I arrived,<br />

directly after graduation, I began to<br />

loose it again.<br />

Understand, that was a five year plan<br />

it even included all five books I had<br />

written and self published all done<br />

within those five years. I needed to<br />

start a new plan, set new goals for<br />

the<br />

next five years. I am a woman of<br />

action and I have a follow through<br />

finisher’s anointing. I start<br />

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Trust me, His plan and His<br />

strategy to get to that<br />

place will surely blow<br />

your mind and make you<br />

say wow!!!


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I could go on and on about the<br />

journey here….Dr. Cooper, but I do<br />

know that none of this would have<br />

happened if it were not already His<br />

plan, It was already discussed in<br />

Heaven. Heaven had already<br />

settled the matter of my<br />

destination to Dr. Cooper.<br />

Nothing happens without Heaven<br />

having a conversation about you,<br />

me all of us. God has us on His<br />

mind and His plans are marvelous<br />

for you and I!<br />

He gives us His good and perfect<br />

gifts. He is Author and the Finisher<br />

of our faith! I have been writing<br />

and going to school so much that I<br />

almost forgot to enjoy my<br />

moments of accomplishments,<br />

achievements for the mere fact I<br />

couldn’t believe it myself.<br />

God is simply amazing and I would<br />

not be Doctor Cooper if it had not<br />

already been settled in Heaven.<br />

Stay in the race and run it at your<br />

own pace. This little girl from the<br />

ghetto of Richmond California not<br />

only got delivered from drugs and<br />

alcohol but she also broke<br />

generational curses. I also set the<br />

new standard for my family to<br />

know they could do all things<br />

through Christ Jesus who<br />

strengthens them.<br />

Habakkuk 2:2 says to write the<br />

vision and make it plain so that the<br />

runner may run and though the<br />

vision may tarry wait for it for it is<br />

for an expected time. This is our<br />

expected time. Run runner run,<br />

pace yourself and wait on the Lord<br />

when your strength is weak. Lean<br />

on and learn of Him.<br />

Trust me, His plan and His strategy<br />

to get you to that place will surely<br />

blow your mind and make you say<br />

wow!!!<br />

God is truly amazing!!!! He is the<br />

same God Who parted the Red Sea<br />

for the children of Israel, He will<br />

surely part your sea for you too!<br />

Thank you for your time in reading<br />

about little ole Connie. Keep God<br />

close in your heart let Him renew<br />

you mind…..it will all work out for<br />

your good.<br />

I am a living witness the prophecy,<br />

the dream will surely come to<br />

pass!!<br />

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The<br />

subject of womanhood has attracted<br />

diverse opinions since their<br />

introduction. Different people have<br />

shared their thoughts on who<br />

women are, their strengths, role,<br />

weaknesses, etc. Some have argued<br />

and never come to an agreement on<br />

the complexity of who they are.<br />

Here is my take.<br />

Basically, a woman is a man who is<br />

endowed with a womb. You will<br />

understand this as you read further.<br />

A woman is a special creation of God<br />

who is given special abilities. These<br />

abilities range from being a carrier of<br />

the seed of a man, a nurturer as well<br />

as a nurse, etc.<br />

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The woman as an<br />

influence:<br />

The first woman to ever walk the<br />

earth known as Eve first introduced<br />

man to a tree that the man had been<br />

instructed by God not to eat of. This<br />

is definitely not a write-up to<br />

have a theological discussion on who<br />

did right or wrong; my interest is in<br />

the fact that though man had<br />

received instruction not to eat of<br />

that tree, he ended up eating<br />

because it was the woman who<br />

brought it to him. Though scripture<br />

explicitly states that the man was<br />

with her, (which I believe he knew<br />

where the fruit was coming from), he<br />

didn’t ask questions, but went ahead<br />

and ate it anyway.<br />

‘’And when the woman saw that the<br />

tree was good for food, and that it<br />

was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree<br />

to be desired to make one wise, she<br />

took of the fruit thereof, and did eat,<br />

and GAVE ALSO UNTO HER HUSBAND<br />

WITH HER; AND HE DID EAT. ‘’<br />

Genesis 3:6<br />

I believe therefore that the woman is<br />

endowed with a special grace to<br />

influence multitudes<br />

The woman as<br />

a seed carrier:<br />

The woman was specially designed<br />

by God to carry seed and produce<br />

another kind of human after a period<br />

of nine months. This she does when<br />

she consummates her love with<br />

her husband through sexual<br />

intercourse and conceives, thereby<br />

after receiving seed form the man in<br />

the form of a sperm, which goes to<br />

fertilize an ovary in her womb and<br />

subsequently causes the cycle of<br />

human creation in her womb.<br />

Her body undergoes a period of<br />

changes and like an elastic material,<br />

her womb protrudes and expands for<br />

a period of nine months, after which<br />

her sexual organ expands for another<br />

human being with a unique destiny,<br />

gifts, and other abilities to come out<br />

to join other existing humans.<br />

Though the experience of giving<br />

birth comes with pain, which has the<br />

capacity to rupture her heart, thereby<br />

resulting in the loss of her life, she is<br />

the only person endowed with the<br />

special grace of being the entrant for<br />

other human beings.<br />

‘’... in sorrow thou shalt bring forth<br />

children...’’<br />

[Genesis 3:16]


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The woman as a nursing<br />

mother, nurse and nurturer:<br />

The woman is endowed with the<br />

special grace to nurse and nurture.<br />

As a nursing mother, she feeds<br />

her children with breast milk, weans<br />

them of it, and feeds them gradually<br />

till their teeth grow and are able to<br />

chew meat and break bones. As a<br />

nurse, she treats wounds and hurts<br />

which are not just physical but<br />

emotional and psychological as well.<br />

She almost always knows how to find<br />

the place a person is hurting so she<br />

can administer carefully the right<br />

medicine to cure that ailment.<br />

nation. [ref. Dr. Kwegir Aggrey].<br />

Thus, when a woman is given the<br />

chance, she is able to direct people<br />

into what and where their passions<br />

lie so they don’t become frustrated<br />

adults in the long run.<br />

As people who nurture, they have<br />

special qualities like tenderness<br />

which are found in their arms,<br />

which don’t tire though their bodies<br />

mostly ache out of frequent carrying,<br />

loving ,kindness which is found in<br />

their hearts, and encouraging words<br />

which are found on their tongues.<br />

As nurturer, she is able to groom<br />

people to become responsible<br />

adults. Someone once said that if<br />

you educate a man, you educate an<br />

individual, but if you educate a<br />

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by Anna McCarthy<br />

I’M NEW.<br />

So, it’s been a hard week.<br />

Actually, hard doesn’t quite describe<br />

it.<br />

I’ve been through some stuff. Years<br />

ago, I was a medicated wreck. I was<br />

broken. I was (in many ways) ALL<br />

FREAKING DONE. But God invaded my<br />

life 10 years ago. And he healed me.<br />

In a severely powerful way.<br />

I’ve not been the same since.<br />

Like seriously.<br />

Over the past 5 years or so I’ve really<br />

seen that healing solidify. And have<br />

been amazed at how different I am.<br />

But then this week happened…<br />

I was confronted by a chapter of my<br />

life that I hadn’t looked at in a while.<br />

In a LONG WHILE. And , friends (we<br />

are friends aren’t we??) it gripped me.<br />

In a billion different ways, my heart<br />

was paralyzed.<br />

Unable to think. Everything was fuzzy.<br />

My brain raced a million different<br />

directions.<br />

My heart ached.


Deeply.<br />

Intensely.<br />

Ached.<br />

The thing is, I know this ache. Really<br />

well. We are old familiar friends.<br />

And because I recognized it, it<br />

terrified me.<br />

Because I remember what it has the<br />

capability of doing to me. I’ve lived<br />

that story. And I don’t want to go<br />

back. EVER.<br />

I was faced with two options:<br />

Run and hide.<br />

Or press into it.<br />

To be honest with you, I’ve fluctuated<br />

between the two. But, I keep<br />

choosing to press back in.<br />

And here’s why:<br />

Although I know the pain very well in<br />

this place, I know HIM in this place.<br />

I know what He can do with my pain.<br />

I know that story.<br />

I love that story.<br />

I would give my life for that story.<br />

Him.<br />

It’s been agonizing.<br />

It’s been terrifying.<br />

But, I trust Him.<br />

Because, I know what is waiting for<br />

me on the other side. As much as this<br />

pains me, I know if I let him clean this<br />

area of my heart out, He will heal it.<br />

And on the other side is gold.<br />

I have gold in so many other places of<br />

my heart. Priceless, valuable,<br />

cherishable gold. Gold that was once<br />

not. But now is.<br />

I want gold here.<br />

And I’m not stopping until He’s done.<br />

I trust Him.<br />

I choose Him.<br />

Of course as luck (or God’s perfect<br />

design) would have it, I was<br />

scheduled to preach Sunday.<br />

GAHHHH.<br />

For those of you who know me, you<br />

know I always teach from a very<br />

transparent place. But, this was taking<br />

that vulnerability to an ENTIRELY NEW<br />

LEVEL.<br />

So, as much as it killed me, I chose to<br />

press into every stinking layer of this<br />

thing and learn to breath in it with


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All last week when I should have<br />

been preparing, I was on the floor in<br />

my office listening to worship music<br />

begging God to heal me.<br />

Not even thinking about my sermon.<br />

I walked the sanctuary when no one<br />

was there DECLARING HIS GOODNESS<br />

OVER ME. Because I couldn’t do<br />

anything else.<br />

I had to stay in that place.<br />

Or else I would sink.<br />

And sometimes I did sink.<br />

hand and pull me onward. I knew the<br />

breakthrough would come. I knew it<br />

would. It just wasn’t there yet.<br />

And, then came Sunday…<br />

Mind you, I hadn’t slept much. I<br />

hadn’t eaten much. I was IN THE<br />

MIDDLE OF FREAKING HEART<br />

SURGERY WITH GOD.<br />

And from my mud pit, I bled out of<br />

me what he was teaching me.<br />

Here’s an excerpt of my<br />

message:<br />

But, he was quick to grab my shaky


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Again, I wasn’t walking in a healed<br />

place just yet. But, he was faithfully,<br />

steadily at work.<br />

A friend of mine was processing with<br />

me and said, “you haven’t cried about<br />

this yet, have you?” Now, my<br />

husband and everyone who knows<br />

me will quickly tell you, Anna doesn’t<br />

cry much.<br />

It’s true.<br />

10 years ago I felt like all of my tears<br />

came out. There just haven’t been<br />

much since. But, as she said those<br />

words I felt the swell grow in the<br />

back of my throat.<br />

I just couldn’t cry yet.<br />

But, I knew I needed to.<br />

Yesterday, I was driving in the car<br />

(kids were screaming, baby was<br />

throwing stuff, I had a million things I<br />

was trying to do – you get the<br />

picture) The ache resurfaced.<br />

I felt the pain and was like, Sweet<br />

Jesus you have to do something. I<br />

can’t stay in this place!<br />

I dropped the kids off at summer<br />

camp and immediately a song came<br />

on the radio I had never heard.<br />

It was “Be my rescue“, by Nicole<br />

Nordeman and the first lines were:<br />

Sunlit shoreline<br />

Where I was baptized<br />

This time dark skies<br />

Leave me capsized<br />

That did it<br />

The words couldn’t have been chosen<br />

more perfectly.<br />

This is the same place I was<br />

“baptized” (figuratively speaking) 10<br />

years ago.<br />

And when I look back on that time, it’s<br />

now a sunlit shoreline. The pain isn’t<br />

there anymore. I’m healed. I’m free.


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But, this time…it’s a new wound. A<br />

very old, deeply infected wound.<br />

And although I know these waters of<br />

pain with the Lord…the skies are<br />

dark.<br />

And in every possible way, I felt<br />

capsized.<br />

The next part said,<br />

This is the river where I went under<br />

This is the river where I come up new<br />

As I was driving, ENDLESS TEARS<br />

were flowing out of me.<br />

The ache was so deep. As I wiped my<br />

sunglasses from the sopping wet, I<br />

felt the relief starting to come.<br />

I felt HIM taking the ache…<br />

I was going under. Fully surrendering<br />

Him to take this and make something<br />

beautiful from it.<br />

No matter my history. No matter how<br />

many times I’ve failed. No matter<br />

how much I’ve walked in fear. I<br />

surrendered.<br />

The chorus went<br />

Oh, oh God, be my rescue<br />

Oh, oh God, be my rescue<br />

And save me from myself<br />

Save me from myself<br />

Oh, oh God be my rescue tonight<br />

It became my heart’s cry.<br />

I sat there weeping, literally<br />

clutching my chest with my hand. As<br />

if to remind my soul that it would be<br />

okay. That it would be healed. That it<br />

can trust Him here.<br />

The Bible talks a lot about speaking<br />

to your soul. David did it often. I<br />

understand now why….I had to force<br />

my spirit to be louder than my soul.<br />

Because my soul knows how to run<br />

and hide. It knows how to be alone. It<br />

knows how to wall off and shut<br />

everything out.<br />

It’s darn good at it.<br />

But, my spirit knows better. It<br />

understands there’s a better way. It<br />

knows the freedom that comes from<br />

letting him in and allowing him to<br />

press, to mold, to make new.<br />

When the song ended, I literally<br />

found it on my phone on youtube<br />

(sorry data usage) and played it on<br />

repeat 4 times. I wept the entire way<br />

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When I got home, I parked and sat<br />

for a while.<br />

I recognized this place too…<br />

Instead of the ache, there was relief.<br />

I knew this place.<br />

It meant I had done it.<br />

I had exchanged the pain for the<br />

beginning of his beauty.<br />

The healing process isn’t complete<br />

yet, but we are making major<br />

strides. The last two nights I’ve slept<br />

great and the anxiety has been at<br />

bay.<br />

Halleluja.<br />

THIS IS THE GOSPEL I KNOW.<br />

IT’S THE ONE I WANT TO FOLLOW.<br />

THE ONE I WOULD LAY MY LIFE<br />

DOWN FOR.<br />

IT’S THAT GOOD.<br />

In the words of Nicole Nordeman,<br />

Watching the old me<br />

Slowly sinking<br />

Hope is rising up<br />

I can feel the rush<br />

I’m alive and I’m breathing<br />

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LEARN, LIVE<br />

AND<br />

MOVE ON.<br />

Mistakes are part of human<br />

development. No one gets better in life<br />

without making any form of mistake. You are<br />

not the first and neither are you going to be<br />

the last to make mistakes in life. This means<br />

that many people have made serious mistakes<br />

or will be making one on their journey in life.<br />

The issue is not the mistakes but your attitude<br />

and the mindset you develop when you make<br />

mistakes is what will determine whether you<br />

a failure or not.


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MISTAKES ARE NOT ULTIMATE....<br />

Success is not air one breathes. It<br />

is in the activity we do and pursue<br />

regardless of the fears and<br />

challenges of failure. I have always<br />

said that, what you are afraid of, you<br />

can never become it; this implies that<br />

when you are afraid to make a<br />

mistake as you pursue success, you<br />

will find it difficult to attain that<br />

success. There are many hurdles and<br />

challenges in life. However, our<br />

ability to rise above them is what<br />

gets us into the flight of success.<br />

Making mistake is not failure.<br />

Mistakes rather make us grow and<br />

develop into what we had always<br />

wanted for ourselves. Great and<br />

successful men and women are<br />

people who have made serious and<br />

devastating mistakes in life and have<br />

used their lessons learnt to rebuild<br />

their personal life and success. A<br />

man who is afraid to fail will fail at<br />

trying. The only way to overcome<br />

failure and become a person of<br />

influence and significance is by<br />

learning from your mistake.<br />

Most at times, we think successful<br />

people do not make mistakes. That is<br />

a delusion people still have about<br />

themselves. They think making<br />

mistakes in life means you are a<br />

failure. No! No! No! What they don’t<br />

know is that, for one to have a<br />

successful story in whatever they do,<br />

they must have room for mistakes.<br />

What you do not prepare for will take<br />

you by a great surprise. We must<br />

learn to create room or have an open<br />

mind about mistakes. This prevents<br />

us from peri -arrest when failure hits<br />

us like a tornado or tsunami.<br />

Many people live their lives<br />

without preparing for mistake. They<br />

therefore get deflated and get into<br />

shock mode when they make a<br />

mistake. The question is: You made a<br />

mistake, so what? To become<br />

successful in the pursuit of your<br />

dreams, goals and aspirations; you<br />

should know that you will have to<br />

make mistakes, bearing in mind that ”<br />

no one is perfect” and therefore,<br />

making a mistake is another way of<br />

learning and developing into<br />

something greater than the mistake.<br />

However, you cannot learn from<br />

your mistakes when you try to deny<br />

it.<br />

Denying your mistakes only makes<br />

you a victim of failure.<br />

This is why it is very paramount that,<br />

you learn to accept your mistakes and<br />

open up for correction. Failure to do<br />

this will push you into depth of<br />

disappointment and heartaches.


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Failing to accept that you have made<br />

a mistake will also prevent others<br />

from giving you the right and needful<br />

help to make you stronger and wiser.<br />

You must be ready to admit your<br />

mistakes all the time without feeling<br />

shy or shameful about it. This is how<br />

you get help and redirection.<br />

No driver in his or her rightful mind<br />

continues driving on the fastest road<br />

knowing very well that he or she has<br />

made the wrong turning. Life is a<br />

journey and mistakes are like the<br />

junctions of life. You never stop<br />

going or travelling on the road of life<br />

because of a mistake? So why then do<br />

you want to give up because you<br />

have made a mistake?<br />

Foolish people avoid mistakes but<br />

wise people learn from their<br />

mistakes.<br />

Learning from your mistakes will<br />

inspire you to desire to change and<br />

improve your life. You don’t learn<br />

from mistakes by avoiding it but<br />

embracing it. One thing I have<br />

personally learnt from my mistakes in<br />

life is that, they make me to OBSERVE,<br />

LEARN, DEVELOP, EDUCATE AND<br />

DECIDE on how to make my life better<br />

and inspire those around me (O.L.D.E.<br />

R mistakes should make you older).<br />

FIVE BENEFITS OF MISTAKES<br />

There are a lot of benefits we can all<br />

derive from our mistakes. These<br />

benefits help to reshape our attitudes<br />

in life and become successful and<br />

relevant in society.<br />

You become diligent.<br />

Mistakes bring out the best in us. We<br />

tend to work harder when we<br />

experience some level of mistakes.<br />

Most successful people get<br />

committed to what they have set<br />

before them and do everything<br />

possible to achieve it. Because they<br />

know how painful mistakes can be,<br />

they put all their efforts into<br />

everything they do when working on<br />

their ideas just to ensure that they<br />

achieve it. Mistake makes you<br />

diligent.


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by<br />

Ferdinard Senyo Lawson<br />

You learn to be patient.<br />

When you haven’t made a mistake in<br />

life, you think everything is about<br />

rush, rush and rush. You become<br />

hasty about life. However, when you<br />

make mistakes and learn from them,<br />

you become more cautious and<br />

careful about the way you carry<br />

yourself and live your life. You then<br />

appreciate that nothing is gained<br />

through rushing but through<br />

patience.<br />

You can microwave porridge but you<br />

cannot do that with success. I have<br />

always remembered this statement<br />

made by my late grandmother that,<br />

“A patient dog can only eat a fat<br />

bone”. This statement has thought<br />

me to be patient in life and never to<br />

rush to be rich overnight. With<br />

patience, success can be achieved.<br />

You become focus and<br />

determined.<br />

Successful individuals are more<br />

determined and focused to achieve<br />

something in life. This is because<br />

they have learnt from their mistakes<br />

and knew how to avoid repeating the<br />

some mistakes over and over again.<br />

Mistakes also help you to remain<br />

resolute, dedicated and determined<br />

by sticking to one thing particularly in<br />

life in your pursuit of success.<br />

It takes great efforts and<br />

determination to overcome these<br />

barriers of failure. This only becomes<br />

possible when you learn to identify,<br />

accept your mistake and have the<br />

mindset to learn. Be like the postage<br />

stamp on an envelope; you never<br />

come off the envelope even if you<br />

arrived at the wrong address. You<br />

stick until you reach your destination<br />

in life. For you to achieve success in<br />

life, you should be ready to be<br />

dedicated to pursue and improve<br />

upon yourself no matter the number<br />

of times you make mistakes. This is<br />

how your dreams and goals are<br />

achieved. Never allow anything or<br />

anyone to stand before you in the<br />

pursuit of your dreams.<br />

You learn to plan ahead.<br />

Another benefit of mistakes is that<br />

you become an effective planner.<br />

People who learn to plan are people<br />

who have learnt that, failing to plan<br />

will always result in failure and<br />

disappointment. Mistakes make us to<br />

be more proactive and organized. You<br />

don’t just take things for granted but<br />

develop the habit to plan, work<br />

towards your goals and become<br />

successful.


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Nothing works and gets a man<br />

successful like planning. Plans help<br />

us to build internal confidence and<br />

belief in our abilities to achieve<br />

anything we set our minds to do.<br />

Sometimes, we lack boldness to try<br />

something simply because, we have<br />

filled our minds with negativity that<br />

we will fail and become a laughing<br />

stock. This stops us from believing<br />

our strengths but focus on our<br />

weaknesses just because, we do not<br />

want to be mocked or laughed at.<br />

Please, regardless of the number of<br />

times you have failed trying to be<br />

successful; you have the power to<br />

keep trying until you succeed. Don’t<br />

give up.<br />

Many people have failed more than<br />

you have failed yet, they have not<br />

given up so, why must you? I dare you<br />

to start changing your attitude to<br />

mistakes and see it as a stepping<br />

stone into your successful life. You<br />

will always make a mistake on your<br />

way to success but you have valuable<br />

lessons to learn if you faint not. Step<br />

up and keep up. You are destined to<br />

succeed through your mistakes.<br />

You may have made the mistake by<br />

picking the wrong shoe for<br />

boardroom dance, have gotten into<br />

the wrong transport or train to<br />

another destination; or even have<br />

made the wrong pizza order. What<br />

will you do? Would you have found<br />

another way to deal with it and learn<br />

a vital lesson from your mistake? Well<br />

this is life.<br />

Choose Your Friends Wisely<br />

Sometimes, we get into wrong<br />

associations or relationships with<br />

people we do not like or jobs we<br />

don’t even want to do. It does not<br />

mean we should give up and throw in<br />

the towel. Not everyone is lovable or<br />

caring. If you think you have made a<br />

mistake by getting into the wrong<br />

associations, you can only get out<br />

from it but it should not prevent you<br />

from trying another relationship that<br />

has had your best interest at heart.<br />

Know that you cannot change people<br />

but yourself. Never allow negative<br />

people to pollute your mind,<br />

environment and change the<br />

direction of your purpose in life.<br />

Live to learn and learn from your<br />

mistake.


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LOOSE THE COLT<br />

And it came to pass, when he was come nigh to<br />

Bethphage and Bethany, at the mount called the<br />

mount of Olives, he sent two of his disciples,<br />

Saying, Go ye into the village over against you; in<br />

the which at your entering ye shall find a colt tied,<br />

whereon yet never man sat: loose him, and bring<br />

him hither.<br />

And if any man ask you, Why do ye loose him? thus<br />

shall ye say unto him, Because the Lord hath need<br />

of him. And they that were sent went their way,<br />

and found even as he had said unto them. And as<br />

they were loosing the colt, the owners thereof said<br />

unto them, Why loose ye the colt? And they said,<br />

The Lord hath need of him.<br />

Luke 19:29-34


By Shelly Wilson<br />

As the preacher recounted<br />

the triumphant entry of Christ<br />

Sunday morning, a phrase began to<br />

capture me. Actually several phrases<br />

from this beautiful story in The<br />

Word. It simply would not let me go.<br />

I began to talk to the Lord about it<br />

and ask Him for insight into His<br />

heart. “loose the colt…” seemed so<br />

benign yet something hidden we<br />

could glean from. “bring him hither.”<br />

“The Lord is in need of them.” I<br />

thought it fascinating for in Matthew<br />

we see it states there is a donkey<br />

and a colt (a baby donkey). Does<br />

anyone but me find it amazing how<br />

Christ chose the baby donkey..the<br />

colt? One that had never been ridden<br />

it states…wouldn’t that mean it was<br />

surely an unbroken animal?… I mean<br />

when was the last time you tried to<br />

just hop up on a donkey…much less a<br />

baby one.<br />

Also, in comparison to the other<br />

donkey, it was the younger of the<br />

two, a mere colt…the short<br />

legged…the smaller in stature. Don’t<br />

you imagine if we were the Lord, we<br />

would have chosen a stallion? Isn’t it<br />

just like the Lord? The least likely<br />

again…<br />

colt” ….untie him….meaning he was<br />

tied up. (makes sure you do not miss<br />

the obvious here.) Let me ask you…”<br />

what has you tied up?” Because<br />

Christ is calling it to be untied. For He<br />

is in need of it. He is in need of YOU!<br />

Is your potential tied up? Has your<br />

gifting been tied up? Has your<br />

destiny been tied up? Have you been<br />

bound in some way? Have you tied<br />

up yourself or has someone else tied<br />

you up? Either way, Christ calls now<br />

to “loose the colts.” The body of<br />

Christ must release it’s people now.<br />

Untie them…BRING THEM HITHER!!<br />

for the Lord has need of them….<br />

Did Christ need that donkey? Of<br />

course not. But He chose that<br />

donkey…..a stubborn animal yet one<br />

ranchers and farmers know as<br />

protectors from scavengers such as<br />

coyotes. Perhaps you are a good<br />

protector of others…a shepherd….but<br />

you’ve been bound by tradition,<br />

bound by lies, and bound by what<br />

and who others think you should be.<br />

You’ve been tied up with all kinds of<br />

God given gifts and talents woven<br />

inside of you as He formed you….but<br />

Satan has slowly over the years….tied<br />

a nice little bow around you. He has<br />

restricted you…He went to work the<br />

moment you were born.<br />

He sent His disciples to “loose the


LOOSE THE COLT<br />

By Shelly Wilson<br />

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Your normal has become one of<br />

being bound….you are unsure what<br />

freedom really is even like…but<br />

you’ve always known there was<br />

more. There has always been a deep<br />

stirring maybe even at a young age<br />

of purpose. You may not have<br />

known what to call it but it was<br />

always nagging at you. A hunger for<br />

more…a longing that was never at<br />

rest.<br />

Also, let’s not miss that in the<br />

passage the Lord “sends His<br />

disciples” to loose the colt. Did He<br />

have to send his disciples? Of<br />

course not…the same voice that<br />

spoke the world into existence<br />

could certainly have untied the<br />

donkey Himself with a mere<br />

thought. But He chose to send His<br />

disciples..For those of us in church<br />

and ministry leadership. Those of us<br />

who have been graciously given a<br />

platform to speak of Christ…..He is<br />

sending us to “loose the colts.”<br />

Release those bound and let Christ<br />

show us how to “untie” them from<br />

all that hinders their purpose in the<br />

Kingdom.<br />

We must put our minds on the<br />

bigger picture. We must begin to<br />

multiply the Kingdom…multiply the<br />

disciples…multiply the workers. It<br />

will require us getting our hands<br />

dirty, untangling some knots for our<br />

brothers and sisters..and then<br />

bringing them to the Lord.<br />

Look for the short legged..the<br />

unknown..the young or simply<br />

younger! Look for the<br />

stubborn…you know the one<br />

you would never choose if you<br />

were God?!? We will have to<br />

learn to cease looking for the<br />

noble and those with a lineage<br />

of perfection….you won’t find it.<br />

Remember, Christ saw<br />

something in Paul….the very<br />

stubbornness and zealousness<br />

that murdered Christians is<br />

what Christ saw to be an asset<br />

for His Kingdom work when<br />

redirected by His Spirit!


Perhaps we have been trained to look for<br />

certain attributes, Personalities,track records of<br />

success, seminary degrees, financial status,<br />

denominational alliances, personal likenesses,<br />

heritage, race, or gender. But God sees none of<br />

these….we are all made ONE in Christ at the<br />

cross. Oh no….His eye is on the orphan girl, the<br />

least of the clan, the overlooked in the fields<br />

tending the sheep. Be careful who you set your<br />

eyes on…..make sure you have the eyes of<br />

Christ…or you likely will choose wrongly and<br />

the Kingdom work will be stifled.<br />

Go…..now….loose the colts….for the Lord has<br />

need of them..and when you find them tied<br />

up…bring them hither…Christ has a plan for<br />

them!<br />

“Loose the Colt”<br />

“Loose the colt” said the man<br />

“For tell me the reason please?”<br />

The Lord has sent a command<br />

And now the Lord needeth thee.<br />

Should the colt stay where it’s tied<br />

Never God’s plan would be seen<br />

So” loose” the colt dear man<br />

For now the Lord needeth thee.<br />

Go yonder for there is a colt!<br />

That’s never been ridden you see<br />

He’s waiting to be untied<br />

For now the Lord needeth thee.<br />

A colt that’s been set aside<br />

Whose captured the eyes of the King<br />

To bear up the name of The Christ<br />

O’ now the Lord needeth thee.<br />

Please “loosen the colts” Heaven<br />

rings!!!<br />

They’ve waited for years so it seems<br />

For chosen they are and redeemed<br />

It is time the Lord needeth thee.<br />

And when they drew nigh unto<br />

Jerusalem, and were come to<br />

Bethphage, unto the mount of Olives,<br />

then sent Jesus two disciples,<br />

2 Saying unto them, Go into the<br />

village over against you, and<br />

straightway ye shall find an ass tied,<br />

and a colt with her: loose them, and<br />

bring them unto me. 3 And if any man<br />

say ought unto you, ye shall say, The<br />

Lord hath need of them; and<br />

straightway he will send them.<br />

4 All this was done, that it might be<br />

fulfilled which was spoken by the<br />

prophet, saying,5 Tell ye the daughter<br />

of Sion, Behold, thy King cometh unto<br />

thee, meek, and sitting upon an ass,<br />

and a colt the foal of an ass. 6 And the<br />

disciples went, and did as Jesus<br />

commanded them…


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by Jennifer Pink<br />

Women's<br />

Frontline<br />

Magazine


Women are known to be<br />

the emotional ones of the human<br />

species; although I can assure you<br />

men are extremely emotional<br />

creatures. Women are known to lead<br />

with their heart which is why so many<br />

say we wouldn’t make good<br />

Presidents and Rulers of Countries;<br />

although some women have done<br />

these jobs just fine.<br />

I know I’d pick Michelle Obama to<br />

lead this country and a few others<br />

any day, but I digress. When you look<br />

up passionate you find it is an<br />

adjective that says showing or caused<br />

by strong feelings or a strong belief.<br />

I’m sure they wanted to put a<br />

woman’s picture next to that because<br />

that just about describes all women. I<br />

would argue that passionate and<br />

women are truly synonyms.<br />

Now, I personally don’t see anything<br />

wrong with the fact that we are<br />

passionate creatures, that we care,<br />

that we let our hearts lead us. This<br />

level of passion and caring for others<br />

had led to some of the greatest<br />

movements gaining great momentum<br />

and forcing some key men to take a<br />

stance and make some things happen.<br />

For example, the passionate women<br />

who weren’t completely brainwashed<br />

and bamboozled by fear really put a<br />

push on the abolition of slavery, there<br />

wasn’t a shortage of passionate<br />

women behind the women’s suffrage<br />

movement and if you look at the<br />

#BlackLivesMatter movement of<br />

today black women are truly standing<br />

on the front lines and pushing this<br />

movement to a higher level. So here<br />

is the question if we can easily<br />

become passionate about so many<br />

things how do we find OUR Passion?


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by Jennifer Pink<br />

I have my definition but sometimes<br />

I’ve been known to see things<br />

differently so I looked up the word<br />

passion and it says it is a noun<br />

meaning strong and barely<br />

controllable emotions; the suffering<br />

and death of Jesus. I’m glad Webster<br />

confirmed what I’ve been thinking,<br />

teaching and saying for quite some<br />

time now. Your true passion comes<br />

from your emotional reaction to the<br />

cross.<br />

Now for some people they think that<br />

stops at crying or falling out but in all<br />

honesty your passion should<br />

transform and change your life; once<br />

you tap into the passion that is<br />

within you things should NEVER be<br />

the same for you. Because of this I<br />

fully believe that your true passion is<br />

synonymous with your purpose.<br />

Let me explain.<br />

Your purpose by definition is the<br />

reason for which you were created;<br />

the reason you exist. God only has<br />

one purpose for His people for “All<br />

authority in heaven and on earth has<br />

been given to me.<br />

Therefore go and make disciples of all<br />

nations, baptizing them in the name<br />

of the Father and of the<br />

Son and of the Holy Spirit, and<br />

teaching them to obey everything I<br />

have commanded you. And surely I<br />

am with you always, to the very end<br />

of the age.” Mathew 28:1620.<br />

This is the underlining purpose for<br />

which God has created all of us to go<br />

out and bring others to the cross. Now<br />

here’s where so many get confused<br />

this is all of our purpose but he has<br />

created all of us uniquely in the way<br />

we are meant to carry out this<br />

purpose.<br />

We all serve as different pieces<br />

within the one purpose.<br />

So when God saw fit to put you<br />

together in your mother’s womb he<br />

designed you with a unique purpose<br />

to bring the world


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Now that I’ve made it clear what<br />

your passion and purpose are how<br />

do you go about uncoding your<br />

unique purpose to fulfill THE<br />

PURPOSE! Well, it’s truly a simple<br />

task of asking God and seeking Him<br />

first and foremost. Many will tell you<br />

your purpose is what you can’t stop<br />

doing no matter what, what you do<br />

for FREE, what you do without even<br />

thinking. All of that is completely<br />

true because it was what you were<br />

born to do without a shadow of a<br />

doubt. But if you want the truth<br />

you’ve got to go deeper, you’ve<br />

really got to spend some time with<br />

God and get a clear understanding<br />

of how it has to play out.<br />

I would challenge you to look at the<br />

areas of your life that you’ve had to<br />

overcome the most, the areas where<br />

you felt the biggest struggles. Now<br />

put those areas/problems side by<br />

side with what you do without any<br />

prompting and then see how God<br />

can be glorified within that. I<br />

promise you when you put all those<br />

three things together you will have<br />

the answer you’ve been seeking all<br />

along, you will find the thing that<br />

brings you to the Cross, the thing<br />

that you were made for, the thing<br />

that advances the Kingdom.<br />

You will find YOUR PASSIONATE<br />

PURPOSE for being created.<br />

As a single mom mentor<br />

I help women release the past,<br />

embrace the present and learn what<br />

and how<br />

to THRIVE in their future. The work<br />

we do helps them get clear and<br />

understand their passionate<br />

purpose in life. If you are looking to<br />

get clear, if you are ready to be all<br />

that He created you to be then<br />

let’s set up a discovery chat TODAY<br />

and start you on your journey to<br />

Stop Surviving and Start<br />

THRIVING!


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magazine<br />

What inspires<br />

you and<br />

motivates you in<br />

life?


When you have a<br />

passion for something, it is only<br />

natural that you begin to pursue<br />

it. What is passion? Passion is the<br />

very thing that you love and think<br />

of all the time. It take courage and<br />

zeal to pursue what you love.<br />

The bible says, that<br />

all things are possible to them who<br />

believe. When we believe we can<br />

and we will do greater things.<br />

First we think it and than act upon<br />

what we think. Passion takes<br />

courage and faith and it takes<br />

more courage to get established<br />

in life. It takes a step of faith, to go<br />

after what we love and are<br />

passionate about in life.<br />

So many things try to get in the<br />

way of what we love. However, we<br />

must push and press forward to do<br />

the very thing we have confidence<br />

to do. We cannot be discouraged<br />

when we try and we fail. We just<br />

need to keep knocking on that door<br />

until an opportunity comes and<br />

gives us a breakthrough.<br />

I beleive that we must perservere<br />

and remain positive in order to<br />

make things happen.<br />

Timing is everything. Trusting in<br />

the greatness of a big God who is<br />

always doing exceedingly and<br />

above what we ask or imagine. It<br />

helps to set a time or goal to<br />

accomplish what we need to do in<br />

life. It keeps us on track as we stay<br />

focused.<br />

In your weakness, Christ's strength<br />

is made perfect. It truly takes a<br />

fighter spirit to do what you are<br />

passionate about in life. Nothing is<br />

impossible to them who believe. All<br />

things are possible through Christ<br />

who gives us strength.<br />

I am confident that our strength<br />

comes from God, and that makes<br />

me go after what I love. It requires<br />

pressing and pushing towards it all<br />

the time. Never give up on what<br />

you love and do not lose hope in<br />

life.


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What inspires you<br />

and motivates you in life?<br />

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The very thing that seems so<br />

impossible to do in life, truly is the<br />

very thing that must be done. Keep<br />

pressing and pushing for what you<br />

deserve in life. You deserve the<br />

very best that God has for you.<br />

There is much ahead for you, just<br />

keep the faith alive. Do not be<br />

discouraged in the journey of life.<br />

When you fail, get back up and<br />

keep trying until something<br />

magical happens. It takes courage<br />

to keep pursuing purpose and<br />

passion in life. The more you keep<br />

trying, the more it gets better. We<br />

should trust in the will of God upon<br />

our life so that he helps us to<br />

accomplish it.<br />

Anything in life requires effort and<br />

time to do it. Always keep the fire<br />

of your passion burning.<br />

Sometimes it will take consistent<br />

effort to accomplish the task. When<br />

we have a clear picture in our mind<br />

of accomplishing our passion, than<br />

it motivates us to do work harder.<br />

Never let anyone make the fire in<br />

you die. Surround yourself with<br />

positive people that want to see<br />

you succeed to make your dream<br />

come true. The more you go after<br />

what you love, the more you will<br />

fulfill it.<br />

The end matter is better than the<br />

beginning. Faith is currency. Having<br />

faith to just do it regardless of what<br />

may come your way. Have faith in<br />

God. Before you call, God hears you<br />

and answers you. God is faithful to<br />

keep his promises through his<br />

word.<br />

It just takes the right time for<br />

whatever you are passionate about<br />

to come into establishment. Be<br />

strong and of good courage in this<br />

life journey. All things work<br />

together for good for those who<br />

love God and are called according<br />

to his purpose. God is making<br />

everything beautiful in its time.<br />

Push towards the mark of the high<br />

calling.<br />

Let those arround you know what<br />

you are passionate about, but<br />

remember that it take stime to<br />

develop . It takes practice in your<br />

daily life to be more effective and<br />

productive.<br />

What do you love?<br />

Pursue it daily and practice doing it<br />

on a daily basis. You will see how<br />

you will begin to develop in your<br />

ability to do what you are<br />

passionate about.<br />

Every effort counts to make<br />

something beautiful happen.<br />

Making something out of nothing,<br />

that's the beauty. Your end will be<br />

so much more better than your<br />

beginning. Always keep the faith<br />

alive and well. You can do anything<br />

you put your mind to do.


y Mary Eisenacher<br />

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The<br />

Confident<br />

bold &<br />

woman<br />

explosive<br />

Bold and explosive!<br />

A mirror of the ministry of Jesus<br />

comes right out of the character of<br />

Jehovah God, emblazoned with the<br />

fire around the throne. As I look into<br />

those fiery eyes, my confidence is His<br />

confidence.<br />

Has that always been the case? No!<br />

Am I always flawless in my<br />

confidence? No! But, do I know -<br />

without a shadow of a doubt - that<br />

my confidence and strength comes<br />

from God! A resounding Yes! comes<br />

to mind.<br />

I am so confident in the blood of Jesus<br />

shed on the Cross to change any<br />

dynamic that I bring to The Father. The<br />

covenant that Jesus made for us by His<br />

finished work on the cross, his death,<br />

burial and resurrection, and His ascent<br />

to our Father has changed all those<br />

who have received Him as Savior. And<br />

yet, we see the lack of confidence and<br />

strength in so many women that seizes<br />

and cripples their call.<br />

Personally, I want to be strong in the<br />

Lord at every turn. I want to lean on<br />

Him when I need to do so. When I get<br />

into the wilderness, I want to come out<br />

leaning on my beloved Jesus. In the<br />

really good times when I’ve been<br />

blessed beyond measure, I want to be<br />

so grateful and thankful so as not to<br />

miss the blessing of being able to come<br />

back to God with my praise - as well as<br />

speak to others with my<br />

testimony.


Women's<br />

Frontline<br />

Magazine<br />

Is there a reason for all of this<br />

strength and confidence? Yes<br />

indeed, there are many reasons<br />

that I canemphatically proclaim it is<br />

so. It is all because I’ve been<br />

through some things. I have lived<br />

long enough, exercised faith on so<br />

many occasions, and seen the hand<br />

of God move on my behalf and<br />

others . . . that I am convinced that<br />

nothing can keep me from the love<br />

of God. He is faithful. He is just. He<br />

is merciful.<br />

Being a woman in this day and age<br />

still has some very severe<br />

consequences – especially for those<br />

of us in ministry. But, I’ve stood in<br />

the presence of others, been<br />

ordained and consecrated, and set<br />

apart for Him. I’ve pledged my love<br />

to God. And, I’ve never been sorry. I<br />

believe there is a confidence and<br />

strength that comes in a public<br />

confession to want to be God’s<br />

minister. For those who think that is<br />

not necessary, let me know how<br />

that might be working for you.<br />

There is power in having someone<br />

see your giftings and talents and<br />

having them stand with and for you<br />

before God to that testify to that<br />

fact. Now, some of you aren’t in the<br />

profession of ministry – but you too<br />

have those who have or will testify<br />

about your benefit to some type of<br />

work or calling. If you’ve ever<br />

received a paycheck, then you have<br />

someone’s approval. Right?


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bold &<br />

explosive<br />

My strength comes in<br />

knowing who I am and what purpose<br />

for my life has been fashioned by<br />

God. Knowing that each person has a<br />

plan, purpose, and destiny for their<br />

life helped to shape and transform<br />

my thinking.<br />

As I look back, I see the hand of God<br />

molding and shaping me for what I do<br />

today. The past was a formation for<br />

what I am doing now. There is a<br />

confidence when you hammer<br />

out these things in prayer. It is as if<br />

God wants to etch it out on stone for<br />

each of us so that we know the whys<br />

and wherefores.<br />

I’ve come to know that the more<br />

serious I become about approaching<br />

God and showing Him that I am<br />

interested to know His will for my<br />

life, the more revelation and<br />

understanding comes to me. Do I<br />

know it all? No! But, I do know that<br />

God orders the steps of the righteous;<br />

and therefore I can trust Him with my<br />

future.<br />

Sometimes there is hesitation,<br />

procrastination, and fear (if I<br />

really want to be honest). There are<br />

times when I have to pray and fast in<br />

order to have breakthrough. Many<br />

times, I need someone else to pray<br />

for me, prophesy to me, or give me<br />

wisdom in the area of need. I know I<br />

can’t do it all on my own, and that is<br />

ok. There is a confidence in knowing<br />

that God has sources here on Earth to<br />

help us, as well as His supernatural<br />

sources.


y Mary Eisenacher<br />

The Confident Woman<br />

God’s track record with<br />

me is one of perfectness. Did I<br />

always understand His ways? What<br />

do you think? There is always<br />

“more” of God. His protection and<br />

His plan of perfection can be<br />

counted on to all those who avail<br />

themselves. Again, it’s so worth it!<br />

Happiness comes in the process,<br />

because mistakes are corrected<br />

and healing and deliverance are<br />

part of the package deal.<br />

I find strength and confidence in<br />

fellowship with like-minded<br />

Christ followers. They come and<br />

go. Sometimes they pop back into<br />

my life quickly and bring what is<br />

needed. Some leave and move on.<br />

New ones come on the horizon<br />

frequently, both for a quick in and<br />

out - and some stay for a while.<br />

Only a few remain constant. It<br />

always amazes me - and sometimes<br />

confounds me - when I see it could<br />

only be the prompting from the<br />

Holy Spirit who orchestrates Spirit<br />

fellowship.<br />

I'm one of the blessed ones<br />

who has had a happy long-term<br />

marriage with children and now<br />

their families. There’s a quiet<br />

confidence in that fact, knowing<br />

that God has kept the covenant<br />

with us. Iknow not everyone has<br />

this blessing, so it makes me<br />

humble and compassionate toward<br />

others who have another scenario.<br />

God’s purposes are beyond my<br />

understanding, and I can be content<br />

with that.<br />

I suppose my testimony is<br />

that I am confident through God,<br />

and His strength is what I need and<br />

require.<br />

I praise Him for His goodness and<br />

seek His face for all that I need no<br />

matter what my circumstances.<br />

I smile when I see a strong,<br />

confident woman. I also know she<br />

has had times when she has been<br />

challenged just like myself. It is<br />

really through the good and the<br />

bad times that we get shored up to<br />

face the day and all that comes<br />

with it. I choose to be encouraged,<br />

and I am sure that I need to<br />

encourage myself. Our God is<br />

mighty! It’s through His love that<br />

you and I continue on down the<br />

path to run the good race to<br />

completion.


y Kudzie Phiri<br />

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Back to<br />

by Kudzie<br />

Phiri<br />

Worship<br />

Growing<br />

up I found that I had a greater<br />

inclination towards worship. I found<br />

myself consumed by this desire to<br />

know God and to love Him. Through<br />

the years I have sought after his heart<br />

in song and everything that pertains<br />

to Him. I have often been told that<br />

people with a prophetic disposition<br />

find themselves drawn more towards<br />

worship. This is partly because<br />

worship activates the prophetic. After<br />

having often experienced it myself ; I<br />

will not argue with that! It is part of<br />

the reason why I sing and write<br />

prophetic praise and worship.<br />

However I have found that the reason<br />

I am a worshiper (besides the<br />

simplest explanation all man ought to<br />

worship) is because when I find God I<br />

find life and I find myself.<br />

Having been a born again and Holy<br />

Ghost filled Pentecostal most of my<br />

life, I have watched the different<br />

transitions within the body of Christ.<br />

It seems like nowadays we spend less<br />

and less time seeking the face of the<br />

father but back then we used to take<br />

time with God fellow-shipping with<br />

Him and hearing his plan for us and<br />

our nations. Now everything is so<br />

'structured' with outlined agendas<br />

and programs; but where is God’s<br />

agenda in all this? When we look at<br />

worship we now see it as the time we<br />

designate for songs to be sung; but<br />

worship goes beyond that which is<br />

designated.<br />

Worship is in everyday; everywhere I<br />

am and consistent expression of<br />

adoration of him and fellow-shipping<br />

with Him. It is you constantly and<br />

consistently being in the presence of<br />

the Lord : so even when we begin<br />

with prayer we worship; when we<br />

sing we worship and when we hear<br />

the word we worship! What has<br />

happened to that time of pure<br />

reflection in the presence of the Lord,<br />

that irrefutable moment when the<br />

Holy Spirit is at work within the<br />

corporate body and individually?


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We often dismiss the intangible as<br />

being of less importance because it<br />

appears not to exist in time and<br />

therefore to us it does not translate to<br />

anything real. We focus less on<br />

spending time in the presence of the<br />

Father because that seems to only<br />

grow the spirit, as if the physical is<br />

greater than the spiritual?<br />

Do not all things begin in the spirit<br />

realm before they manifest in the<br />

physical? Nowadays we seem to focus<br />

on what we call the development of<br />

the mind so as to attain some level of<br />

materialistic success whilst the<br />

spiritual things have been equated to<br />

the “spooky”. Infact , those that spend<br />

more time searching the heart of the<br />

father are said to be too spiritual with<br />

no earthly relevance.<br />

What has happened to the clear line<br />

between carnality and godliness?<br />

Without the fundamental principles of<br />

Christ we cannot fully develop the<br />

mind of man, for the word says “let<br />

this mind of Christ be in you”, what is<br />

the mind of Christ? Why do we need<br />

the mind of Christ? Without<br />

relationship and searching out his<br />

heart how can we then know the mind<br />

of Christ and how can that mind be in<br />

us? You become a lot like those you<br />

spend most of your time with...<br />

Okay, so Kudzie why are we talking<br />

about worship? This appears to be an<br />

issue of your Christian walk<br />

altogether? Hang in there and walk<br />

this out with me.<br />

Let us briefly examine the attributes of<br />

Worship. Worship takes you back to<br />

Eden, back to that place where man<br />

communed daily, fellow-shipped and<br />

walked with God. Why talk of Eden?<br />

Looking at the Eden model we<br />

understand that Eden was the<br />

intended environment for man. In it<br />

were all things pertaining to man's<br />

development and sustenance. Man<br />

walked with God daily and in Eden it is<br />

believed that there was a ladder<br />

between heaven and earth. So,<br />

imagine the spiritual atmosphere of<br />

Eden. Moreover, it is said that Adam<br />

could travel at the speed of thought.<br />

What is the relevance of all this?<br />

Worship creates the environment for<br />

heaven and earth to transact as well as<br />

open the mind of man to think on a<br />

God level.


ack to worship<br />

by kudzie Phiri<br />

So what is the role of Worship?<br />

Worship develops every aspect of a<br />

man. How? Worship moves your<br />

desire to the center of your<br />

affection; it gravitates towards God<br />

and that which pertains to Him.<br />

Worship opens spiritual portals that<br />

allow us to access not only the glory<br />

of God but also the brilliance of God.<br />

It was the idea all along; the Father’s<br />

original intent. Remember I said<br />

worship takes you back to Eden.<br />

Eden was the place where Adam<br />

could access the brilliance of the<br />

God in Him, he was truly like God.<br />

The environment was wired in a way<br />

that man could be like God and it<br />

was also activated and fueled by<br />

worship. Worship was and is a daily<br />

engagement in which man<br />

encounters God and seeks for<br />

intimacy with him.<br />

I believe the development of every<br />

man lies in man’s desire to seek after<br />

the creator and to become one with<br />

him. Worship brings that alignment<br />

from where you are and where He is.<br />

You become like what you worship!<br />

So where are we? What really is the<br />

source of our development? By all<br />

means let us teach development but<br />

let us not forsake the role spiritual<br />

engagement has in making us who<br />

we are supposed to be. Inventions<br />

are often accessed in a place of<br />

peace and serenity where one's soul<br />

is in alignment. That is the God<br />

environment; the super charged<br />

godly atmospheres that we often<br />

cannot explain. Yes, it is the very<br />

environment given to you to access<br />

brilliance and inventions. The life<br />

changing thoughts and ideas are<br />

often accessed in a realm beyond<br />

human reasoning and<br />

comprehension.<br />

Yet how do we access it all without<br />

worship? God is all knowing and all<br />

powerful surely when we tap into<br />

him we have the ability to do the<br />

impossible. It’s time to let go of the<br />

wisdom of man and grab on to the<br />

wisdom of God.<br />

Brothers and Sisters let us let go of<br />

worldly thoughts and ideologies<br />

forming the basis of our faith and<br />

belief systems. After all the most<br />

influential organisations in the world<br />

have very strong spiritual beliefs and<br />

most times their very basis is<br />

worship.<br />

Why do we allow the enemy to<br />

separate us from the gift that God<br />

gave to us to access the realms<br />

beyond our comprehension. In God<br />

there is everything, when you truly<br />

learn to worship God you access all<br />

that pertains to life and godliness. So<br />

why short change ourselves?<br />

LETS GO BACK TO WORSHIP!


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Tesitmony<br />

Women's<br />

Frontline<br />

Magazine<br />

So many<br />

times I wanted to give up because<br />

of the naysayers and worrying about<br />

the fact that I was not good enough<br />

and would be judged due to what I<br />

thought at the time was a<br />

circumstance.<br />

Most of the women in my family<br />

would continue this process. Living<br />

to work, working to live just to<br />

provide for their fatherless children.<br />

God gave them the strength to be<br />

our providers, but I did not just want<br />

to work to live and live to work to<br />

provide for my children. Don’t get<br />

me wrong I am grateful for their<br />

sacrifices but I want more for mine.<br />

accomplishing the things that I<br />

wanted to achieve in life such as:<br />

having children out of wedlock,<br />

which I would have done twice over,<br />

but not intentionally. From one<br />

generation to the next I would see<br />

this growing up.<br />

I had been warned about so many<br />

things that would stop me from


y Janelle Lopp<br />

Growing up with bible<br />

teaching mum-mum<br />

(grandmother) that thought that I<br />

could not do or be what I wanted<br />

was always short lived. She<br />

always taught me that God said<br />

“All things can be done through<br />

Christ who strengthens me.” Well<br />

I continue to trudge on. I can do<br />

all things through Christ who<br />

strengthens me, have and<br />

continue to. That meant finishing<br />

school despite of my so-called<br />

“situation”, becoming a home<br />

owner despite, starting my own<br />

business despite and so much<br />

more.<br />

I learned that God was<br />

giving me my strength through<br />

my children. When I thought it<br />

impossible my son being the first<br />

born and an only child for 11<br />

years was my determination, my<br />

rock to make me overcome the<br />

obstacles of I did and could not<br />

believe. I thank GOD for blessing<br />

me with him because through my<br />

son I knew that I had purpose<br />

other than just being a baby<br />

mama with child out of wedlock.<br />

I knew that God had given him to<br />

me for reasons beyond measure. I<br />

believe that one of those main<br />

reason was to give me strength<br />

where I was weak that I did not<br />

have and to accomplish<br />

everything that he put on my path.<br />

If not for the path God has chosen<br />

for me in having my children, I<br />

truly believe I would have been<br />

worse off. So much has been<br />

accomplished in my life and<br />

strength alone is one of the<br />

biggest things I am grateful for in<br />

all that has happened.<br />

Never give up on anything<br />

that you want to accomplish. It’s<br />

inevitable the things that God will<br />

do and give you if you just have<br />

faith, ask and wait.


ALL RIGHTERS RESERVED<br />

<strong>WOMEN'S</strong> <strong>FRONTLINE</strong> <strong>MAGAZINE</strong>@<strong>October</strong>-<strong>2016</strong>

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