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VOL. 3 NO. 6<br />
JUNE 2005<br />
Pride Follies<br />
Tranny Love<br />
Waterspor ts<br />
Oyaya! Angelique<br />
Rock N’ Roll<br />
Starscopes<br />
Bear Necessities<br />
MEN‘S FASHION
3 Libertine Ball<br />
4 <strong>Passional</strong> Sports<br />
5 <strong>Passional</strong> Fitness<br />
6 Men‘s Fashion<br />
9 <strong>Passional</strong> Music<br />
10 Women‘s Pride<br />
11 <strong>Passional</strong> Music<br />
12 Event Calendar<br />
14 Passion 101<br />
June 2005<br />
CONTENTS<br />
15 <strong>Passional</strong> Art:<br />
Matt Verbinnen<br />
16 <strong>Passional</strong> Adventures<br />
17 Starscopes<br />
18 Sexual Healing<br />
19 Tranny Love<br />
20 Bearly Dressed<br />
22 Classifieds<br />
PASSIONAL <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
704 South 5th St..<br />
Philadelphia, PA 19147<br />
www.passionalmagazine.com<br />
Publisher:<br />
KMD Enterprises<br />
Editrix:<br />
Kali Morgan<br />
editrix@passional.net<br />
Advertising:<br />
267.970.1139<br />
editrix@passional.net<br />
Photography:<br />
Jesse Berryman<br />
Additional Photography<br />
Work:<br />
Sandy Ramirez<br />
Graphic Designer:<br />
Michael Horbachuk<br />
Stylist:<br />
Jesse Berryman<br />
New Male Logo<br />
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AC, Here we come! Voyaging east<br />
this summer for the firs time ever, twoday<br />
Libertine Ball Weekend in Atlantic<br />
City, NJ, one great ticket price gives you<br />
an “in” to Libertine events and offers all<br />
weekend long, turning what was once<br />
a simply fabulous party into a fantasy<br />
vacation at the seashore! The Libertine<br />
Ball is notorious as an annual (costumemandatory)<br />
extravaganza of dancing and<br />
debauchery that started on a Delaware<br />
River paddle boat in 1999. Each year the<br />
Ball features killer deejays, body painters,<br />
exotic entertainers, adult “playspace,”<br />
interactive performance demos and other<br />
fun surprises, but this year promises more<br />
fun than ever.<br />
Libertine Weekend: Thanks to the<br />
smorgasbord of facilities available at the<br />
shore in the summer, this year’s Libertine<br />
Ball will feature more options than ever!<br />
The parties start with a “Naughty singalong”<br />
mixer with snacks and drink specials<br />
LIBERTINE BALL<br />
Voyage To Atlantis City<br />
in the hotel piano bar on Friday night<br />
followed by complimentary admission<br />
to your choice of local clubs and parties.<br />
Saturday afternoon, a special latex and<br />
lace pool party happens on the hotel deck<br />
where libertines can splash around, play<br />
pool games and sunbathe in their sexiest<br />
lingerie and latex “swimwear” including<br />
thongs (with nipple covers for females),<br />
teddies, shorts and bras!<br />
The main event: Libertine Ball<br />
starts bouncing promptly at 8 pm with<br />
clothing check for commuters from<br />
other hotels who need to change into<br />
their costumes (benefits The Woodhull<br />
Freedom Foundation). The entire facility<br />
of Club Tru in Atlantic City is Libertine<br />
domain. The Lost City dance floor and<br />
theater will pump beats starting at 8 pm<br />
and topping off with a host of <strong>fashion</strong>able<br />
performances at 11, Neptune’s Playground<br />
in the lower level rocks from 8 pm -11:30<br />
and the outdoor Syren’s Dance Deck is<br />
Libertine Ball VII<br />
Voyage to Atlantis<br />
July 22-23, 2005<br />
Atlantic City, NJ<br />
exclusive to Libertines who want to play<br />
outdoors from 8 pm - 2 am. After 2 am<br />
guests may choose to dance all night for<br />
no extra charge at Club Tru, or meander<br />
off to a host of private after-parties.<br />
Tickets: You must be 21 years old<br />
by July 22 to purchase a ticket or attend<br />
any Libertine event. Tickets are officially<br />
on sale June 1. Ticket Prices are $25.00<br />
until June 30, $35 until July 20th or $45<br />
at the door from www.LibertineBall.<br />
com or from PASSSIONAL (www.<br />
passionalboutique.com). Your ticket gives<br />
you an “in” to Libertine events and offers<br />
(aside from private parties in the rooms of<br />
Surfside guests) all weekend long for one<br />
low price. www.libertineball.com<br />
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Team Philadelphia held their first<br />
SportsWeek in 1992 as a way to increase<br />
the visibility of local LGBT Sports.<br />
The purpose of the event was to foster<br />
cooperation between the LGBT Sporting<br />
Organizations as well as to provide fund<br />
raising efforts for Team Philadelphia’s<br />
preparation for participation in Gay Games<br />
IV.<br />
Thirteen years later, Team<br />
Philadelphia is proud to be able to<br />
present a new, improved week of quality<br />
participatory and spectator events in a<br />
variety of venues to the Philadelphia<br />
community.<br />
SportsWeek opens on Monday 6<br />
June 2005 with the Spartan Wrestling<br />
Club’s Open House. This event,<br />
running from 7 – 9 pm, takes place in<br />
the Philadelphia Room of the William<br />
Way Community Center, 1315 Spruce<br />
Street in Philadelphia. The club will be<br />
demonstrating practice warm-ups and<br />
drills, wrestling skills, and situation bouts.<br />
Wrestling is a demanding contact sport<br />
and only those in good physical condition<br />
will be permitted on the mats. Spectators<br />
are permitted at the same $5.00 fee as the<br />
wrestlers. Wrestlers must wear T-shirt/<br />
shorts or singlet and wrestling shoes. Preregistration<br />
required (see end of article).<br />
Tuesday 7 June 2005 is a full night<br />
beginning with a Self - Defense Seminar<br />
led by Spirit of the Leopard school founder<br />
and 5th Degree Black Belt Master Teresa<br />
Galetti. This event takes place from 7 – 9<br />
PM also in the Philadelphia Room of the<br />
William Way Community Center. Master<br />
Galetti will instruct in self – defense<br />
and self-empowerment benefits<br />
martial arts study. There is a $5.00<br />
fee to participate in this event.<br />
The second Tuesday night<br />
4<br />
event, Bill-iards with Bill, takes<br />
place at the Bike Stop’s Short<br />
Stop sports bar on the 2nd floor.<br />
PASSIONAL SPORTS<br />
Bill-iards begins around 9:15 pm. The<br />
evening’s format is simple-join Team<br />
Philadelphia for a relaxing evening<br />
playing billiards, watching the end of the<br />
Phillies/Pittsburgh game, or just quaffing<br />
various and sundry libations served up by<br />
our boy Bill . The event begins around<br />
9:15 PM, and lasts until the lights are<br />
turned off. The Bike Stop is located at<br />
206 South Quince Street.<br />
Two SportsWeek events take place<br />
on Wednesday 8 June 2005. The first event,<br />
which takes place in the Philadelphia<br />
Room of the William Way Center, is a<br />
Gay Games VII Question and Answer<br />
Session. You could almost subtitle this<br />
event as “Everything You Wanted to Know<br />
About the Gay Games but Were Afraid to<br />
Ask”. The event will consist of a brief but<br />
informative presentation about the fastapproaching<br />
Gay Games VII, Chicago,<br />
followed by a question and answer<br />
session. This FREE event begins at 7<br />
pm and concludes at 9 pm. The William<br />
Way Community Center is located at 1315<br />
Spruce Street. For more information about<br />
this event, e-mail Rick at RLVT1@aol.<br />
com.<br />
Wednesday’s second offering is<br />
hosted by the Philadelphia Tricksters<br />
Volleyball Team. The event, which takes<br />
place at the Benjamin Franklin High<br />
School at Broad and Greene Streets in<br />
Philadelphia, is a fast, fun-filled night of<br />
pick-up volleyball. This FREE event goes<br />
from 7 – 9 PM. For more information<br />
about the Philadelphia Tricksters, give<br />
Tony a call at 215-851-0584.<br />
Thursday 9 June 2005 finds us<br />
pool side for the 2005 FINS Swim. This<br />
FREE event takes place at the Friends<br />
Select School, 16th and Race Streets in<br />
Philadelphia from 7 – 8:30 PM. This<br />
event will be an organized, coached<br />
workout open to swimmers of all abilities.<br />
Pool entrance is on 16th Street between<br />
Race and Cherry Streets. Pre registration<br />
required. For more information contact<br />
Dennis Clegg email: dpc19147@yahoo.<br />
com, Telephone: 267-972-7721<br />
Sportsweek activities resume on<br />
Saturday 11 June 2005, beginning with<br />
a Fun Walk/Run with the Front Runners<br />
Philadelphia. At 9 AM. , participants will<br />
meet at the beginning of Boathouse Row<br />
on Kelly Drive, in front of Lloyd Hall for<br />
a 1 mile to 5 mile accompanied walk/run<br />
on the banks of the Schuylkill River, to be<br />
followed by breakfast at a local restaurant.<br />
FREE preregistration required.<br />
The Philadelphia Falcons Soccer<br />
Club and their supporters will be found<br />
at 11 AM on Franklin Field on the<br />
University of Pennsylvania Campus to<br />
cheer the Falcons as they compete against<br />
the Washington DC Federal Triangles in<br />
a 2 - hour scrimmage. This FREE event<br />
starts at 11 AM and ends at 1 PM<br />
The Lott Tennis Courts on the<br />
University of Pennsylvania Campus at<br />
33rd and Walnut Streets is the venue for
the Philly Tennis Round Robin Team<br />
Tournament. This event will showcase<br />
tennis Gay Philly style, designed for<br />
optimal mix of brotherly love and friendly<br />
competition. The tournament starts at 11<br />
am and ends at 3 pm. The registration fee<br />
is $20.00. This event will fill up fairly<br />
quickly, so we encourage interested parties<br />
to pre-register.<br />
Of course no SportsWeek would<br />
be complete without a fund raising<br />
event! Pass the Buck is the Annual<br />
Team Philadelphia Fund raising Event<br />
taking place during SportsWeek. Team<br />
Philadelphia members are found at<br />
various bars in the Gayborhood soliciting<br />
dollars from support-minded patrons.<br />
Team Philadelphia will host a<br />
Bar Night on Saturday 11 June 2005,<br />
7 pm - Midnight in the Short Stop, the<br />
Sports Bar at the Bike Stop. Yes, Team<br />
Philadelphia members will be manning<br />
bars as guest bartenders to raise funds.<br />
Look for thrills, chills, and spine-tingling<br />
adventure while our heroes and heroines<br />
discover the intricacies of mixology. Rest<br />
assured a good time will be had by all!<br />
E-mail RLVT1@aol.com if you have any<br />
questions.<br />
Finally, join Team Philadelphia<br />
and all of Philadelphia in the Philadelphia<br />
Pride Parade and Festival, which starts at<br />
noon and runs until 6:00 PM Sunday June<br />
12. www.phillypride.org<br />
TO REGISTER for participation in<br />
any official Sportsweek Events, visit<br />
http://www.waygay.org/sw/index.htm.<br />
Register NOW as there may be space<br />
limitations for participation in certain<br />
events.<br />
Big O Quiz Question!<br />
Until the twentieth century, Egyptian<br />
men preferred not to deflower their<br />
brides with intercourse; instead they:<br />
A. Used penis shaped objects to<br />
deflower them<br />
B. Used their fingers to “cleanse” the<br />
inner vagina 1st<br />
C. Performed a clitoridectomy<br />
D. Paid servants to deflower them<br />
Answer: B<br />
PASSIONAL Fitness<br />
Aqua Fitness<br />
By Judith Hershman<br />
Now that summer is just around the corner it is fun to change up your routine<br />
and get fit in the pool. There are a variety of exercises one can do in the pool, and<br />
the beauty is that in most cases you will be getting a cardiovascular and resistive<br />
workout all at the same time. Swimming is a great workout for the whole body.<br />
The Four major strokes are Freestyle, Breast Stroke, Back Stroke, and Butterfly.<br />
To increase your upper body workout and increase your heart rate, you can wear<br />
webbed gloves on your hands while swimming. You can also target just your<br />
lower body by doing either a Flutter or Frog Kick with a kickboard. Another<br />
added benefit of swimming is that there is little to no stress on the joints.<br />
Another aquatic form of exercise is Water Walking. This can be done in<br />
either deep or shallow water, but if done in deep water you will need an aqua belt<br />
or noodle. At either depth, do your water walking forwards and backwards, to use<br />
both front and back muscle groups.<br />
There are a wide variety of aquatics classes, and some pools have specially<br />
organized Water Aerobic Classes. Some are geared to resistance work while<br />
some are more cardiovascular. Make sure you choose the class that is best suited<br />
to your needs. You can wear the webbed gloves in cardio classes for a more<br />
challenging workout.<br />
Besides the benefit of minimal joint stress, aquatics workouts are easily<br />
tailored to different fitness levels. Basically, the more you put into it, the more<br />
you get out of it. A 20 year old marathon runner can be in the same class as an 80<br />
year old grandmother, and they can both get a great workout.<br />
If you are exercising in an outdoor pool, don’t forget your sunscreen!<br />
For information on Personal Training, Swim Lessons, and CPR & First Aid<br />
Certifications call Judith at 215.901.2576<br />
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PASSIONAL Music<br />
Angelique:<br />
Burining up the World Cafe Live in University City was Angelique<br />
Kidjo touring in support of her new CD Oyaya! (which is the word<br />
for “joy” in Yoruba, Kidjo’s native language).<br />
Oyaya! is the third part in a trilogy that previously explored African<br />
roots in music from the United States (Oremi) and Brazil (Black<br />
Ivory Soul). Oyaya! fuses African and French lyrics to music that<br />
draws upon musical traditions of the Caribbean Diaspora. With<br />
her husband, Jean Hebrail, Kidjo penned 13 original songs in a<br />
variety of indigenous Caribbean styles, including salsa, calypso,<br />
meringue and ska. Kidjo sings the numbers in English, French,<br />
and the African languages Yoruba and Fon.<br />
And accordingly, The World Cafe Live audience was not<br />
disapponted as Kidjo had everyone in attendance on their feet<br />
and moving right along with her into a polyrhythmic-world that<br />
revealed how similar we all are to each other...and that folks ain’t<br />
so bad at all.<br />
In The CD Player: Skip Heller: Out of Time, Alice Coltrane:<br />
Priceless Jazz Collection, Tin Machine: Tin Machine, Ruin: He-<br />
Ho (I will never get sick of either Ruin or The Cult), Chukimai:<br />
Plastic Chair with Anji Bee, Ann Magnuson: The Luv Show, Clock<br />
DVA: Thirst, Temple of Bon Matin: Cabin in The Sky, The Cult:<br />
LOVE, KASH: The ABC’s of Kinky Sex!<br />
Long live Rock n’ Roll<br />
Whoever said rock n’ roll was dead never saw The Mars Volta,<br />
from El Paso, TX. They have built the most rock-solid bridge<br />
between avant-garde prog rock and punk/noise since Sonic Youth<br />
“Daydreamed”, their masterpiece of late 80’s noise-punk.<br />
Their new album, Frances the Mute (Label: Universal) is<br />
inspired by a stranger’s diary allegedly found by late bandmate<br />
Jeremy Ward. These guys essenitally tie up any loose ends they<br />
left behind on their 1st CD as well the loose ends of whoever came<br />
before them, including Sonic Youth (achieving the impossible). The<br />
Mars Volta are are story tellers akin to an improved Syd Barrett<br />
style of story telling a la modern day noise-rock-free-freakout. This<br />
ain’t metal and it sure ain’t indie-rock. and it is clearly way darker<br />
and a ton heavier than most psychedelic retro - stoner rock.<br />
This music is a unique blend of control and chaos dancing<br />
with a playful take on a sort of danger that can’t be bottled up<br />
or made predictable in as much as it is experienced live and in<br />
the flesh. And this sort of danger is always measured in decibels,<br />
guitar shrieks and furious drumming that is both delerious<br />
and precise with inhuman yowls that propel the listener<br />
into a world where your expectations for music end up<br />
burning in flames, right in front of you.<br />
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PASSIONAL Events in Bold<br />
LGBTI Events in Purple<br />
ASBURY PARK,<br />
New Jersey Pride<br />
parade and fest-<br />
- bring a chair and<br />
cooler! www.jerseypride.org<br />
Phlly Pride Parade<br />
and Fest www.<br />
phillypride.org<br />
Fast Cheap amateur go-go<br />
night at Fluid Nightclub, 4th<br />
& Kater, Every<br />
Sunday,<br />
10 pm - 2 pm<br />
Big O Quiz Show<br />
at Pure Night Club,<br />
1221 St.. James<br />
St.. Win $200 in<br />
Sex Toys!<br />
9 pm - 12 am<br />
www.osintimates.com<br />
Every Sunday.<br />
NEW YORK CITY:<br />
Heritage of Pride<br />
BIG and DIVERSE!<br />
www.hopinc.org<br />
NEW YORK:<br />
Metropolitan<br />
Museum of Art<br />
retrospective of<br />
surrealist artist Max Ernst.<br />
April 7th - July 10th<br />
13th : A great day to<br />
buy Libertine tickets<br />
and save 10% OFF<br />
an outfit for the<br />
Ball! www.libertineball.com<br />
Just Desserts Vegan<br />
Cooking Lessons.<br />
6:30 pm at Whole<br />
Foods South St..<br />
215.733.9788<br />
Just Desserts Vegan<br />
Cooking Lessons.<br />
6:30 pm at Whole<br />
Foods Callowhill<br />
215.557.0015<br />
Big O Quiz Show<br />
at Cheers To You,<br />
South and Passyunk<br />
Ave. Win $200 in<br />
Sex Toys! 9 pm - 12 am<br />
www.osintimates.com<br />
Every Tuesday.<br />
Ties that Bind<br />
Us Leather AA<br />
Meeting in S.<br />
Philadelphia,<br />
800.581.7883, Every<br />
Tuesday.<br />
Bachelorette Bash:<br />
<strong>Passional</strong> can help<br />
plan a party you will<br />
never forget. www.<br />
phillybachelorette.com<br />
Ties that Bind<br />
Us Leather AA<br />
Meeting in S.<br />
Philadelphia,<br />
800.581.7883, Every<br />
Tuesday.
AIDS Education<br />
Month Opening<br />
Reception, Radisson<br />
Plaza, Warwick<br />
Hotel, 1701 Locust Street.<br />
5:30 pm - 7:30 pm<br />
www.fight.org/aem<br />
215.985.4448<br />
Big O Quiz Show<br />
at Trago‘s Lounge,<br />
38 S. 19th St.. Win<br />
$200 in Sex Toys!<br />
9pm-12am<br />
www.osintimates.com<br />
Every Wednesday.<br />
Philly Jacks safe<br />
sex party for men<br />
18 and over, 1st and<br />
3rd Wednesdays,<br />
3rd Sunday.<br />
www. philadelphiajacks.com<br />
Big O Quiz Show<br />
at Trago‘s Lounge,<br />
38 S. 19th St.. Win<br />
$200 in Sex Toys!<br />
9pm-12am<br />
www.osintimates.com<br />
Every Wednesday.<br />
The Cocktail Hour<br />
at Glam, 52 S.<br />
2nd St.., Every<br />
Wednesday.<br />
Nocturne at<br />
Shampoo,<br />
9 pm - 2 am.<br />
VIVA! The Red Carpet<br />
Variety Show<br />
Saturday, June 4th<br />
7 pm - 10:30 pm<br />
$15 Cover<br />
Drink Specials Galore<br />
Erotic on Pride by<br />
Matt Verbinnen,<br />
Aphrodite Gallery,<br />
704 S. 5th St.,<br />
Philadelphia PA. Open<br />
Sundays 2 pm - 6<br />
pm, Reception<br />
June 10, 7 pm - 9<br />
pm. See pg. 14.<br />
Despondant Heaven<br />
at Ulana‘s, 9 pm.<br />
Every Thursday.<br />
Drag Night at Bob<br />
and Barbara‘s.<br />
Every Thursday.<br />
NEW YORK:<br />
Black Pride 2005<br />
REBIRTH<br />
June 23-26<br />
www.blackpridenyc.com<br />
Big O Quiz Show<br />
at Copa University<br />
City. 40th and<br />
Spruce. Win $200<br />
in Sex Toys! 9 pm - 12 am<br />
www.osintimates.com<br />
Every Thursday<br />
Vesago replaces<br />
SHOCK! Therapy<br />
Fetish Party First<br />
Fridays at Tribecca.<br />
www.vesago.com<br />
SEXPEDITIONS<br />
Femme Footsie<br />
Frensy Tour leaves<br />
PASSIONAL 6:30<br />
(see p.14)<br />
Opening Reception<br />
Aphrodite Gallery<br />
(see p. 15)<br />
The Playground at<br />
Ulana‘s, 2nd and<br />
Bainbridge, 9 pm - 2<br />
am, casual dress.<br />
PASSION 101: STRAP ON<br />
SEX with Kali<br />
Morgan. See pg.<br />
15.<br />
PASSION 101:<br />
“Bondage without<br />
Knots” with John<br />
Elfrink. See pg. 15.<br />
Your Prescription:<br />
Book Release Party for Kelli<br />
Dunham & Staci Smith.<br />
June 10, 7 pm at the<br />
Mutter Museum, 19 South<br />
22nd Street, 215.563.3737<br />
ext.. 211.<br />
Peekaboo Revue<br />
at The Five Spot<br />
215.574.0070<br />
New York:<br />
SMack! and Vesago.com<br />
Present:<br />
FutureSex !<br />
8th Annual<br />
Philadelphia Dyke<br />
March 4:00 pm<br />
Kahn Park at 11th<br />
and Pine St..<br />
www.phillydykemarch.org<br />
NEW YORK:<br />
Leather Pride Night<br />
www.leather<br />
pridenight.org<br />
Ebony Nude Fashion Show<br />
and After Party, 9 pm - 2 a.m<br />
452-60 N. 9th St.<br />
215-629-3939 ext.. 12.<br />
PASSION 101:<br />
“Bondage Around<br />
the House” with<br />
John Elfrink. See<br />
pg. 15
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frequently used in lower - end,<br />
completely unregulated sex<br />
toys. PASSIONAL’s new line<br />
of soft, elastomer toys from<br />
Japan are very lifelike and<br />
phaylate-free.<br />
Learn more of the “ins, outs,<br />
and -ons” of using dildos<br />
– for all genders, sizes, and<br />
purposes, Friday June 17th at<br />
Kali’s class, in which everyone<br />
gets fitted and strapped!<br />
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All Toys available at<br />
www.passionalboutique.<br />
com<br />
PASSION 101<br />
Sex Education At PASSIONAL<br />
www.fantasyworkshops.com<br />
Friday June 3rd<br />
Losing (to) Your Senses with Saeri Batiste<br />
Learn arts of sensory deprivation, overload, and isolation.<br />
Play in a class intended for both beginners as well as the<br />
more experienced - there is something for everyone to enjoy<br />
regardless of skill level. This class is designed to introduce<br />
the student to blindfolds, gags, stockings, scarves, and other<br />
various implements.<br />
Friday June 10 6:15 - 10:30 pm<br />
Sexpeditions: The Femme Foot Fetish Tour<br />
For ladies with pretty feet and those that worship them.<br />
Meet at <strong>Passional</strong>, then depart for a nail salon (where the<br />
ladies get pedicured and their devotees get trained in foot<br />
reflexology), a high-end footwear boutique, and private<br />
play party in a House of Domination replete with foot fetish<br />
demonstrations by local Dommes. $99/couple includes all<br />
services. footwear purchase not included. Limit 10 couples.<br />
We will try to find “mates” for singles interested in touring;<br />
discount registrations prior to June 1.<br />
Friday, June 17<br />
Strap On Sex with Kali Morgan<br />
Learn the ins and outs of playing with reliable, ever-ready<br />
tools and tool belts! Women will learn how to introduce<br />
male or female partners to the joys of an assortment of<br />
dildos (See pictures on this page). Men will learn how to<br />
become double penetrators. Everyone will get familiar with<br />
harnesses and toys created especially for lip service, thigh<br />
humping and more! Students will receive $35 off any strap<br />
on toy purchases of $100 or more.<br />
Friday, June 24<br />
“Bondage without Knots” with John Elfrink<br />
If you have ever said “I can’t do rope bondage. I am no<br />
good with knots.” then this class is for you. Come learn how<br />
to bind someone without ever having to use a single knot.<br />
Topics include basic wrist ties, harnesses, and positions.<br />
Saturday, June 25 2 pm - 4 pm<br />
“Bondage Around the House” with John Elfrink<br />
This class will focus on bondage that can be done with<br />
everyday household furniture. Come learn how to tie<br />
somebody to chairs, tables, door frames, bedposts, and other<br />
household items. People are encouraged to already know at<br />
how to tie a slipknot and at least one kind of rope cuff. See<br />
John’s site: http://kinkyropes.com<br />
All PASSION 101 workshops are taught on Friday evenings from 7 pm - 9 pm, limited to the<br />
first 12 registrants and cost $35/person 0r $60/kissing couple unless otherwise noted. Advance<br />
registration is required either in person at PASSIONAL or via www.fantasyworkshops.com
PASSSIONAL Art<br />
Aphrodite Gallery: Matt Verbinnen<br />
“Provocative Illusions”<br />
June 1 to June 30, 2005<br />
Opening Reception: June 1, 7:00-9:30 p.m.<br />
WASHINGTON DC “Provocative Illusions”, an exhibit of 20+<br />
photographs by DC artist Sophia Piellusch, opens June 1 at<br />
Soho Coffee and Tea at 2150 P Street NW.<br />
Piellusch depicts Drag Kings and Burlesque Dancers who<br />
seduce from the stage with old-world cabaret gravitas and newschool<br />
attitude. These dramatic, powerful photographs present<br />
an unflinching and compassionate look at the public lives and<br />
private acts of some individual queer men and women who<br />
celebrate life on the fringe.<br />
Big O Quiz Question!<br />
“Erotic on Pride”<br />
Oil painting and “cut-out” paper art<br />
Born to artist parents, Matt has long had a passion for art<br />
but it is only recently that his life journey has led him to pursue<br />
this passion seriously. Primarily a portrait and figure artist,<br />
Matt will join in this years Pride celebration with his first ever<br />
solo showing of selected erotic works.<br />
Educated in Boston, Matt and his partner of 25 years<br />
moved to Philadelphia three years ago and subsequently<br />
opened a private art studio. It is here that Matt has been able to<br />
indulge most of his creative vigor, producing a flurry of work<br />
in oil as well as paper (a technique referred to as “Chinese<br />
paper cuts”.<br />
In addition to these beautiful works, Matt also has<br />
commissioned several art pieces that are now hanging in<br />
private homes throughout the northeast. Matt also designed<br />
the logo design for the “Society Organized Against Racism<br />
in Higher Education” and several graphic art pieces for<br />
Community Change in Boston at Brown University.<br />
True or False: Deep Throat made so much money that mobsters who controlled the 1972 film didn’t count the cash<br />
- they weighed it!<br />
Answer: True<br />
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June is LGBT pride month – but fear not, well behaved straightidentified<br />
people, we welcome you to our parade, as long as you<br />
promise not to rain on it. Frankly, pride festivities are so much<br />
damn fun even heterosexuals have been known to enjoy them. For<br />
example, you can:<br />
•Observe queer <strong>fashion</strong>, which illustrates with truly breathtaking<br />
depth what the phrase “the good, the bad and the ugly” actually<br />
means.<br />
•Play “spot the piercing” bingo. Note: “Prince Albert” is always<br />
the middle square.<br />
•Giggle at all the spelling, grammar, and punctuation errors that<br />
the anti-gay protestors from Repent America have made on their<br />
signs.<br />
•Dress up in your best kink duds and experience what 25 pounds<br />
of leather feels like in the June sun. Who needs an actual scene for<br />
intense sensation?<br />
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<strong>Passional</strong> AdventureS<br />
•Guess where the local Democrat political candidates are<br />
in their campaign, based on their pride behavior. Hint: The<br />
front-runner usually sends a message of congratulations,<br />
the person who is second in the polls appears on the main<br />
stage and reads a dignified, prepared statement about the<br />
importance of gay rights, and the person most desperate<br />
Pride Follies<br />
By Kelli Dunham<br />
for votes appears in a rainbow colored boa and participates in the<br />
“spanking for charity” booth.<br />
Kelli Dunham (www.kellidunham.com) is a dyke stand-up comic<br />
who has attended more queer events than even the closeted folks<br />
at Repent America. This month you can catch her performing at<br />
the Baltimore, Rhode Island and Toronto Prides and in August<br />
she’ll be in Provincetown, performing with Famous Lesbian<br />
Comedy Road Show (www.famouslesbiansnotincluded.com)<br />
Join the discussion list:<br />
Gay<strong>Passional</strong>-subscribe@yahoogroups.com<br />
Big O Quiz Question!<br />
A Tibetan monk invented which of the<br />
following?<br />
A. The genital whip<br />
B. The French Tickler<br />
C. The anal plug<br />
D. Anal beads<br />
Answer: Play The Big O Quiz Show to<br />
find out! Dates on calendar page.
Aries (March 20-April 19)<br />
Like all babies, you think the world revolves<br />
around you. And that’s true; the world does<br />
revolve around you. But it revolves around<br />
the rest of us, too. Here’s your Mantra of<br />
the Month, Aries: “I am special and unique.<br />
Just like everybody else!”<br />
Taurus (April 19-May 20)<br />
Take care not to be too tight-fisted<br />
moneywise this month, Taurus, or you’ll<br />
start to remind yourself of your parents<br />
(again)! The 20th brings a small and<br />
pleasant surprise in the financial realm.<br />
Gemini (May 20-June 20)<br />
A romance you’ve been a grooming for<br />
several months takes a turn for the better<br />
around the 3rd week of the month, Gemini.<br />
Make sure to show your nicer twin for best<br />
results.<br />
Cancer (June 20-July 22)<br />
Rest easy this month, Cancer. Too much<br />
worry and not enough play make, well,<br />
you’ve heard the saying. One can never be<br />
too thin, too rich, nor nap too much, crabby<br />
one, so be sure to get your zzz’s in!<br />
Leo (July 22-Aug 22)<br />
This month you should focus on taking<br />
care of business or weeding out bad stuff in<br />
your life or something... I just say what the<br />
little voices in my head (and this old crystal<br />
ball) are telling me to tell you.<br />
Virgo (Aug 22-Sept 22)<br />
Make sure your pant zipper’s up, Virgo.<br />
I don’t know why I said that. It just came<br />
out.<br />
Libra (Sept 22-Oct 23)<br />
Who says you need a big party for the<br />
costume affair of your dreams, Libra? Get<br />
the feather masks out, invite a few friends,<br />
and have a (relatively) quiet night in.<br />
Towards the 22nd is best for this type of<br />
shindig.<br />
Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov 21)<br />
What’s a fun outdoor adventure that you<br />
haven’t done yet, Scorpio? Hang-gliding?<br />
Rock climbing? Sky-diving? Whatever it<br />
is, find a local supplier, and have at it!<br />
StarScopes<br />
By Cassendre Xavier<br />
Sagittarius (Nov 21-Dec 21)<br />
A natural-born lover of travel, you’re antsy<br />
to get on the move this month, Sag. Pals<br />
and lover(s) aren’t that interested, tho’, so<br />
you may be on the road solo. Bring the<br />
proper “tools o’ the trade” and make your<br />
sojourn really count!<br />
Capricorn (Dec 21-Jan 20)<br />
This month, Capricorn, pay more than the<br />
usual attention to work or office-related<br />
problems. “Nipping at the bud” takes on<br />
new meaning around the 18th, when peer<br />
and professional jealously reaches a new<br />
high. Things turn around for the better<br />
around the 26th of the month, and friends<br />
are a constant support.<br />
Aquarius (Jan 19-Feb 18)<br />
Welcome to a bright new day, Aquarius!<br />
June marks truly an “out with the old, in<br />
with the new” mindset, complete with<br />
changes in relationships as well as business.<br />
Take a week or so to relax towards the end<br />
of the month. The 15th thru 19th bring<br />
particular challenges, tho’ none that ye old<br />
water bearin’ soul can’t handle.<br />
Pisces (Feb 18-March 20) You make<br />
good on your promises this June, Pisces.<br />
Friends and family know they can count on<br />
you this month, melting away all memories<br />
of past uncoolnesses. Rewards are in order<br />
for your patience and tenacity. A surprise<br />
sweetness rears its pretty head around the<br />
3rd to 5th of the month.<br />
Multi-talented Starscopes author Cassendre<br />
Xavier’s acclaimed Collection Vol 1<br />
musical CD is sold at www.passional.net.<br />
Her books & natural body products are<br />
available at www.cassendrexavier.com.<br />
GEMINI GOODIES:<br />
Chickie Twins: The Rock-Chick has a<br />
unique shape specifically designed for<br />
exquisite vaginal “G” spot and clitoral<br />
stimulation. And it vibrates if you<br />
stuff the secret little waterproof bullet<br />
into the bottom! A multi-orgasmic<br />
combination that will have both of your<br />
dual personalities colliding in rapturous<br />
ecstasy. Hand crafted from soft, hypoallergenic<br />
silicone, the Rock-Chick is<br />
cleverly designed fit the contours of a<br />
woman’s body, stimulating both the<br />
clitoris and G spot with every movement.<br />
But the Rock-Chick can also be used<br />
for effective prostate stimulation by<br />
anybody for precise stimulation,<br />
creating an intense sensation from a<br />
gentle rocking of your or your partner’s<br />
hand (note: extra lube around the clitty<br />
bumps if you decide to use this anally).<br />
Small enough to throw into your toy box<br />
(see p. 14) and subtle enough to fool<br />
even the most discerning eye. To suit<br />
your moods heat up your wand with hot<br />
tap water (1-2 minutes) for comforting<br />
warmth or cool it down in the freezer<br />
for an icy chill on hot summer nights.<br />
Boy Toys: You want it all – secure<br />
restraint and complete freedom. Now,<br />
you can have both, it all in a choice<br />
from a rainbow of dyed leather that is<br />
completely adjustable. The<br />
snap-off D - ring pulls tightly<br />
the jewels or the magic stick or<br />
the whole package – until you<br />
are throbbing and ready for<br />
instant release, it’s as easy as<br />
a snap!
Ask Nurse Justine<br />
Dear Nurse Justine: When I get erect, my penis bends really<br />
far to the left and practically wraps itself around my leg...this<br />
makes intercourse a challenge when I am trying to aim. Is there<br />
an exercise I can do or a way to fix this problem?<br />
– Twisted Lover<br />
Most penises have a slight curve or bend to them when erect<br />
like a banana, approximately a 25 degree curve. However, If<br />
your penis bends or curves more than this when erect you may<br />
be a victim of Peyronie’s Disease – a condition where the penis<br />
becomes painfully crooked when erect, making intercourse<br />
painful if not impossible. Approximately one in one hundred<br />
men of all ages have Peyronie’s Disease, in varying degrees of<br />
severity. It is caused by the thickening of the fibrous of the penis<br />
on one side, keeping one side of the penis from lengthening or<br />
bending. The direction of the bend depends on the side and size<br />
of the thickening, which can be felt as lumps when the penis is<br />
limp. Will it go away? Perhaps. In 20% of cases the penis will<br />
go back to normal on it’s own, without any treatment. It does<br />
however occur more often in smokers.<br />
Treatments: Cocoa Butter - If massaged into the thickened area<br />
on the penis it seems to make the mass more pliable and therefore<br />
less painful when erect.<br />
Vitamin E - For this treatment You will need a prescription from<br />
your doctor for 800 mg potassium aminobenzoate, to be taken<br />
daily. This drug seems to help reduce the thickening and increase<br />
blood flow.<br />
Surgery - Surgery is an option for this and other penile<br />
aberrations, but it is not a cure-all. In these operations, the<br />
surgeon cuts some of the tissue from the opposite side to<br />
balance out the thickened area. There is another type of<br />
operation where a surgeon to cuts a slit in the thickened area<br />
and inserts tissue, usually a piece of vein from the groin or<br />
ankle. This makes the area more flexible and does not reduce<br />
the length of the erect penis, however 10 to 15 percent of men<br />
still have marked difficulty obtaining an erection after this<br />
procedure.<br />
Comments?<br />
Questions?<br />
Email the<br />
Nurse at<br />
editrix@<br />
passional.net.<br />
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Sexual Healing<br />
Pant Prison<br />
By Sanguine Bliss<br />
One of the sexiest things in the world is seeing the outline<br />
of a man’s erect cock pressed up against the material of his<br />
trousers.<br />
It’s just so hot.<br />
Any fabric works for this delightful treat: denim, corduroy,<br />
cotton... pvc or leather. And if the guy isn’t wearing underwear,<br />
even better. Is there anything sexier than being able to trace the<br />
full, unrestricted outline of a hard cock through a pair of jeans<br />
with no underwear in between? I think not...<br />
I love that the material ends up being a type of mini-prison for<br />
him, his cock aching to get out from behind the `bars’ of the<br />
his trousers. Seeing that bulge that unrestricted growing shape,<br />
battling for space in the trouser department - is like a drug... it<br />
gets me off that the fabric of his clothes prevents my<br />
having immediate access ... it makes me want him all the more.<br />
To know, to see, to feel, that a guy is hard, but not be able to<br />
immediately touch him - flesh to flesh -against me, makes me<br />
crazy.<br />
When a guy looks down at his crotch smiling, showing me<br />
his hard form; or he presses himself against me, so I can feel his<br />
hardness; or he takes my hand and gently presses it against his<br />
growing bulge, well, I just can’t help myself!
Tranny Love<br />
Sex and Love Advice for the Gender Variant<br />
By Tina/Tony T.<br />
The world invests<br />
an awful lot lot of time<br />
and energy into dictating<br />
exactly how “males” and<br />
“females” are expected to<br />
look, speak, and behave.<br />
These expectations are<br />
impossible to fulfill for<br />
those who deviate from the<br />
norm, which, ironically,<br />
is everyone. But there are<br />
special prejudices. People<br />
whose personal biology or<br />
psychology doesn’t fit into<br />
the unimaginative, socially<br />
manufactured constructs<br />
bear the brunt of social<br />
disapproval, and in some<br />
of the worst cases, even<br />
dehumanizing hatred. It<br />
is more important than<br />
ever to reclaim the right<br />
of all human beings, and<br />
to behave in a way that is natural to the<br />
individual, providing no harm is done. So<br />
don’t let shame, poor body image or low<br />
self esteem ruin even an hour of one day of<br />
your life from here on out!<br />
Love yourself. No matter who<br />
you are: butch, femme, male, female,<br />
transitioning, intersex, transgendered,<br />
funny, serious, creative, handy, nerdy,<br />
artsy, dramatic. Do not be ashamed of<br />
how you were born, who you<br />
were, who you have become<br />
or who you will be. Nobody<br />
can love you better than you,<br />
and really, nobody should.<br />
Love your body. Love<br />
what it was, what it has<br />
become, and love what<br />
you envision it to be in the<br />
future. It is futile, frustrating,<br />
and downright debilitating to<br />
hate. Your body has taken care<br />
of you your whole life and can<br />
make your journey with you in<br />
the future, but only if you take<br />
care of it, allow it pleasure in<br />
whatever its current form,<br />
and nurture it as you shape its<br />
abilities and aesthetics.<br />
1.)<br />
2.) 4.)<br />
5.)<br />
T‘s Favorite Goodies<br />
The Man-go Packer (#5) lets people without the standard penis<br />
stand up to pee at urinals. Take some practice shots in the shower<br />
and soon you will be able to go where the boys are without<br />
raising an eyebrow ($79.99 from www.passionalboutique.com)<br />
Padded Panties (#1) plump up the posterior and Gaffes (#4)<br />
tuck tell-tale lumps away (push the danglies up inside before<br />
you flatten yourself into this one) so you can fill those sexy jeans<br />
and skirts like you know you should (Gaffes and panties $29.99<br />
from passionalboutique.com).<br />
Silicone Outplants (#2) make baby boobs bigger with a natural<br />
look and feel that can be shown off nicely with a black see-thru<br />
pocket-bra (#1), and perhaps a breezy see-through summer<br />
shirt. (Ouplants $159.99/pr, pocket-bra $39.99 from www.<br />
passionalboutique.com)<br />
3.)<br />
Go where you want to<br />
go. If you have always<br />
wanted to piss at a urinal,<br />
go for it! Grab yourself<br />
a Man-Go Packer (#5),<br />
practice your aim at<br />
home, then take the show<br />
on the road. Always<br />
wanted to powder your<br />
nose in the little girls’<br />
room? Do it! Just put on<br />
your favorite panties (the<br />
padded ones (#4) will<br />
make you look fluffier),<br />
adjust your implants or<br />
outplants (#2 and #3) and<br />
get into the groove! The<br />
binary bullshit won’t end<br />
until people challenge it<br />
– so when ya gotta pee,<br />
why not use whatever<br />
restroom has an empty<br />
toilet regardless of those<br />
stupid signs!<br />
Do yourself like you have always dreamed<br />
about getting done. Play with the equipment<br />
you have, the toys you have acquired, and<br />
dream about the goodies you’ll get. Learn how<br />
to pleasure every inch of your body and every<br />
electron in your brain, then get ready to teach<br />
somebody else how to do it for you!<br />
Invite those who care about you to get<br />
to know you and your amazing history,<br />
your failures and successes.<br />
They will love you for it.<br />
Find like minded people and<br />
organizations to support you<br />
in this amazing quest called<br />
living. You are not alone,<br />
unless you choose to be.<br />
Gender support resources:<br />
www.ren.org<br />
www.gendertalk.com<br />
www.gendergibe.org<br />
www.robynochs.com<br />
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PASSIONAL’s summer collection<br />
of well-endowed men’s leathers.<br />
Special thanks to our models<br />
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CLASSIFIEDS<br />
Rainbowimmin: news &<br />
events for womyn-lovingwomyn<br />
of all colors in &<br />
around Greater Philadelphia.<br />
Humor, movies, dinner<br />
and other fun outings for<br />
Les/Bi-onic women! Join<br />
us at www.groups.yahoo.<br />
com/group/rainbowimmin<br />
Call for Submissions &<br />
Feature Readers: The<br />
Women’s Writing &<br />
Spoken Word Series hosted<br />
by Louise Bierig. www.<br />
groups.yahoo.com/group/<br />
WomensWritingSeries or<br />
write to: Women’s Writing<br />
Series, POB 30204,<br />
Philadelphia, PA 19103-<br />
8204.<br />
Making of a Woman/Artist<br />
and other books & CDs by<br />
Cassendre Xavier. Available<br />
at Giovanni’s Room,<br />
Robin’s, and other local<br />
independent bookstores.<br />
www.cassendrexavier.com<br />
Gayety-queer humor open<br />
mic. June 15th, July 20th<br />
7:30pm $2 Joe Coffee Bar<br />
11th & Walnut 215-592-<br />
7384 Gayety: Comedy just<br />
like your mom made, if your<br />
mom was really really gay.<br />
www.KelliDunham.com<br />
Call for Submissions:<br />
Vendors, volunteers, paid<br />
performers wanted for<br />
Philadelphia’s 3rd annual<br />
Black Women’s Arts<br />
Festival Oct/Nov 2005<br />
at UPenn. Info: www.<br />
groups.yahoo.com/group/<br />
BWAFphilly<br />
If you would like to place an<br />
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for up to 10 words including<br />
contact info + $1 for each<br />
additional word. You must<br />
prepay for advertising by<br />
calling 877.U.CORSET or in<br />
person at PASSIONAL Boutique<br />
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