2017 Mid-Year Special Edition V4

There are a few myths and misconceptions behind
the mystical taboo of Anal Sex. Don't let the
misinformed forbid you from what could be a most
exhilarating experience. Embrace the dark side.
Let's
Put These Myths
Behind Us
Shall We?
THE MYTH: IT WILL HURT.
The truth: Anal sex doesn't have to hurt. It's often just done incorrectly.
Many women and men find it incredibly pleasurable, and some even report
having orgasms with them.
THE MYTH: ONCE IT HURTS, IT WILL ALWAYS HURT.
The truth: So you tried it once and insertion hurt really bad. Most of these
experiences have to do with not adhering to the following instructions: be relaxed,
go slow, graduate in size and use lube.
THE MYTH: YOUR MAN OR WOMAN WON'T RESPECT YOU LATER.
The truth: Most men/women are modern enough to see anal sex as just one component
of a healthy sex life. And because of the taboo of anal sex, it might actually help you feel
closer and more emotionally bonded to your partner.
THE MYTH: YOUR ANUS WILL GET ALL STRETCHED OUT.
The truth: Just like the myth that the vagina gets irreparably stretched out from
childbirth, this is also a misconception. We all know that the vagina accommodates a
wide range of penises, the anus can too — with the right introduction.
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Your Back Door Requires
Connection - The connection between two
people before play – make sure you both are
mentally, emotional & physical ready. Both C.L.E.A.R.
the Receiver and Giver must communicate
during play at all times.
Lubrication - There is no natural lubrication in the back door whatsoever. A
lubricated condom, lubrication from the vagina or mouth, or water is NOT proper
lubrication. Beginners should look for a thicker water-based lubricant (there are
lubricants specifically made for anal play) while the more advanced can elect to
use a thinner silicone based lubricant.
Education - Do a little research on the subject before experimenting.
Knowledge is power, and will help you to relax.
Attitude - If you think this won’t go well, it probably won’t. Do research, have
patience, take your time and communication is the key.These are the things that
make a good anal experience.
Relaxation - Take your time. Relax. Receive a massage, nipple and/or clitoral play,
cuddling. If you feel pain, stop - go slower, let the relaxation take hold of you.
Communication