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You Are a Badass at Making Mone - Jen Sincero

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have faith th<strong>at</strong> the Universe had something awesome in store for you, was there for you, and was, you know,<br />

smarter than you, you wouldn’t let go of your present truth.<br />

Faith strengthens your self-confidence. If you’re badass enough to leap off the edge of your present reality into<br />

the void, is there anything you can’t do? The answer: No. Nothing.<br />

Faith strengthens your abundance mindset. Faith in the unknown and the miraculous removes your focus from<br />

wh<strong>at</strong> you lack, and homes in on infinite possibility. Wh<strong>at</strong> you focus on you cre<strong>at</strong>e more of. Hence, faith =<br />

abundance mindset = you’re gonna need some bigger pockets.<br />

Let’s put faith into the context of stand-up comedy because it’s a gre<strong>at</strong> metaphor for the sort of grit<br />

it takes to put yourself all the way out on the edge. If you lob a joke out into the audience and all you<br />

hear is crickets, it’s just you up there with nowhere to turn, sucking on stage for all to see. <strong>You</strong> might<br />

as well just go ahead and do it naked to complete the nightmare. But when you nail a joke, all eyes<br />

are on you, all the laughter and glory is yours. It’s thrilling, it’s terrifying, it’s all or nothing, and it’s<br />

all you.<br />

When you go big and take the scary leaps you need to take to change your financial sitch—hire an<br />

expensive stylist, enroll in beauty school, write your book, buy a castle and turn it into a disco—<br />

you’re up there on stage with no idea wh<strong>at</strong>’s on the other side of those blinding lights, free-falling<br />

through space. But here’s the gre<strong>at</strong> news: If you nail it, party time! If you bomb, you now know wh<strong>at</strong><br />

didn’t work, so when you go out there and give it another shot, you get to do so with more info. Taking<br />

a leap of faith is a win/win. Treading w<strong>at</strong>er in your comfort zone for the rest of your life is a<br />

snore/yawn.<br />

Faith, like all other facets of our mindset, is a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. The<br />

bigger the leap, the stronger your faith muscle needs to be. Staying steady, focused, and fix<strong>at</strong>ed on<br />

your faith when the poop really hits the fan marks the difference between those who are successful<br />

and those who fail. It’s usually right after we think we literally cannot take one moment more of the<br />

uncertainty or the waiting or the pressure or the disappointments—Holy hellballs, are you trying to<br />

kill me over here?—th<strong>at</strong> the big investor comes through, or the counteroffer is accepted, or the soul<br />

m<strong>at</strong>e walks through the door.<br />

A test of faith is like playing chicken with the Universe.<br />

The Universe wants you to grow and bloom into the most glorious version of yourself. Growth<br />

happens through friction and challenge, and the lessons we learn through these experiences. Because<br />

the Universe is so excited for you to be all you can be, it is going to send you all the learning<br />

experiences you need: Here’s a fl<strong>at</strong> tire on your way to your wedding! Here’s a hurricane and a<br />

flood the day you open your new business! Here’s nowhere to park when you’re l<strong>at</strong>e for the job<br />

interview of your dreams! When you have faith th<strong>at</strong> everything happens as it’s meant to, you open<br />

yourself up to receive the lesson, to stay the course until you’re successful, and to not totally lose your<br />

shit.<br />

In the midst of the particularly trying lessons and growing experiences, you have to hang in there<br />

like your life depends on it. With the really big stuff, very often you’re required to get to the point<br />

where your faith is the only thing you’ve got left, because you’ve gone so far out to the edge th<strong>at</strong>

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