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Mrs Saraswathy's Memorial Book

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My dear Ammama...<br />

Ammama, I honestly don't know where to begin. There are a<br />

countless number of things I could say about you and the memories<br />

we share, as regardless of Shani and I living the farthest away from<br />

you, you still played a major role in my upbringing over the past 17<br />

years. Living on the opposite side of the world to ammama was not<br />

ideal to say the least as unlike our cousins, we only saw ammama once<br />

every two years or so. Despite this, ammama was always there when I<br />

needed her most, be it advice, motivation or even just to have<br />

someone to rant to.<br />

When I was younger, as some of you will probably recall, I was an<br />

extremely difficult child to deal with. I still remember the day Ragini<br />

Chitti went to pick up Shobi from school with Shani but left me at<br />

home because I was fast asleep. Needless to say, when I woke up to<br />

find that I had been left out of this small family gathering at Shobi's<br />

school, I was distraught. I ran downstairs in tears straight to ammama<br />

knowing I would find some comfort from sitting in her lap. As I cried<br />

my eyes out, she calmed me down by promising me that when Ragini<br />

Chitti came home, not only would she tell her off but she'd get into a<br />

little fist fight with her too if that would cheer me up. As promised,<br />

when Ragini Chitti came home, she got a small telling-off and within<br />

seconds ammama had me in hysterics, making her break character<br />

too and we just sat there laughing for what felt like hours. Her kind<br />

heart, ability to make me laugh and smile endlessly is something I will<br />

forever miss.<br />

In 2005, ammama lived with us for a few months in England. In<br />

ammama's presence, Shani and I would argue most days and the<br />

biggest argument of them all, was who could drink their milk the<br />

fastest. We took this competition very seriously in our household,<br />

only because of mine and Shani's mutual hatred for milk. Yet every<br />

single day Shani would finish hers in seconds whilst I took a solid half<br />

an hour to finish mine. Despite this, when I finally finished ammama<br />

would always back me up and tell amma and appa that I was the real<br />

winner. I guess what ammama was really trying to

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