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Mrs. Sidney S. Blake. Jr., of Philadelphia, and Sidney, III. She borrowed this<br />
antique cradle from her sister, who shopped four months before finding it.<br />
What Ever Became<br />
ofthe Cradle? By THOMAS J. NAUGHTON<br />
The author and his family at his home in Old ^aybrook. Conn. His mother-inlaw,<br />
Mrs. J, Seelye Bixkr, rocks her youngest grandchild, .Alexander Naughton.<br />
Once it was a must in every nursery.<br />
And there's still nothing like<br />
a cradle for rocking baby.<br />
So why did it ever go out of fashion?<br />
Not long ago, after three or four nights of floor-walking with<br />
a sleepless new member of the family, I got to wondering<br />
why we didn't have a eradle. For almost any other routine<br />
performance, it seemed to me, we had some helpful gadget;<br />
for giving him bis batb or taking him riding in the car we<br />
had up-to-date eontrivanees whose ingcniiity amazed his<br />
grandmotber. But when he was holding out against going<br />
to sleep, nothing we bad was any use; back we went to the<br />
Stone Age and daddy's shoulder and daddy's weary feet.<br />
The situation plainly called for a eradle. Where was it?<br />
At the breakfast table I asked my wife about it. Her<br />
eyes widened in surprise. (Continued on Page 115)
April 28, 195G<br />
What Ever Became ofthe Cradle?<br />
CConlinued from Page 42)<br />
"Why, I don't know," she said. "It<br />
sounds like a good idea to me. Let's just<br />
see what the book says."<br />
The book, at our house, includes some<br />
half a dozen volumes on baby care.<br />
Among them they tell you everything<br />
you could want to know about almost<br />
any infant question you can think of—except<br />
cradles. About the cradle the book.<br />
Dr. Benjamui Spock and his worthy colleagues,<br />
said nothing. It's all right to<br />
rock a child—in fact, the book recommends<br />
it. How you rock him is up to you.<br />
So, I went out to get a cradle. I found<br />
out why we didn't have one. The reason<br />
is simple: there aren't any. Three of the<br />
biggest department stores in New York<br />
haven't had a cradle in stock for years<br />
and have no idea where to get one. Sears,<br />
Roebuck and Montgomery Ward catalogues<br />
list cradles for dolls, but not for<br />
children. Catalogues of major makers of<br />
children's furniture show cribs, bassinets<br />
and dozens of other things, but no<br />
cradles. The Department of Health.<br />
Education, and Welfare, the Gesell Institute<br />
of Child Development at New<br />
Haven, the Child Study Association of<br />
America—none of them could teli me<br />
where to get a cradle.<br />
This, now, was puzzling. Where did it<br />
go? Was it possible [hat there was something<br />
wrong with it, that it was somehow<br />
bad fora child? In view of what the book<br />
said about rocking, that didn't seem<br />
likely, but Î looked into it anyway. Department<br />
of H., E,. and W., Chüd Study<br />
Association, Gesell—none of them has<br />
ever heard of any study showing that a<br />
cradle is bad for a child. They don't know<br />
of anything wrong with it. And on rocking,<br />
they're with the book ali the way.<br />
One young pediatrician told me of his<br />
first visit to the children's ward of a large<br />
hospital whose staff he had just joined,<br />
a couple of years ago. It was a new<br />
ward—fresh, gleaming cribs ranked precisely<br />
along the sides, big windows,<br />
everything the latest and best to be had.<br />
And right in the middle of its rubber-<br />
.•unnered aisle stood an old, somewhatbeat-up<br />
rocking chair. What for? To rock<br />
the babies in and soothe them when they<br />
got fussy. Science, for all its wonders, has<br />
yet to devise a crib that can do that, A<br />
cradle, of course, could i" ' it beautifully.<br />
Very likely the ward would have had a<br />
cradle in it, instead of the rocking chair,<br />
if anybody could have found one.<br />
When something becomes extinct,<br />
there ought to be a reason. The buffalo<br />
herds and the passenger pigeon were done<br />
to death for sport and money, the oil<br />
lamp and the buggy were replaced by<br />
things that did their jobs better. But nobody<br />
could have made money by exterminating<br />
the cradle, and it hasn't been<br />
replaced by anything that will do its<br />
job better or that will do its job at all. In<br />
the place where stood the cradle now<br />
stands nothing. Presto! Like a magic<br />
trick, with not even a puff of smoke to<br />
mark where it used to be.<br />
And the most curious thing i.s that it<br />
was not only useful but for hundreds of<br />
years practically universal. It is by far the<br />
oldest and most widely familiar piece of<br />
infant furniture ever known. In olden<br />
days everybody had one—king or commoner,<br />
lord or ]out, if you had a baby<br />
you had a cradle to rock it in, as a matter<br />
of course. In colonial America no parents<br />
would have dreamed of trying to get along<br />
without one. Even in the deepest backwoods,<br />
where diapers had to be made out<br />
of mamma's old petticoats; in the days<br />
when the bath water, if any, had to be<br />
warmed up in the cabin fireplace, papa<br />
took his ax to a tree and banged together<br />
some kind of cradle. It wasn't a convenience,<br />
it was a necessity. And now—poof !<br />
Gone.<br />
Vet every parent still knows how<br />
quickly a gentle swaying motion will<br />
bewitch a tired child to sleep. A ride in a<br />
car will do it, but that's a little unhandy at<br />
three o'elock of a winter's morning. Walking<br />
him in your arms will do it, but the<br />
catch is this: unless you want to walk all<br />
night you have to put him down, and then<br />
he wakes up. Sometimes jiggling his crib<br />
will do it, but you need luck for that.<br />
Cribs aren't realiy built for it, and usually<br />
you're more likely to rattle him<br />
awake than you are to quiet him. They're<br />
all pretty poor substitutes, obviously, for<br />
the little rocking bed that isn't there.<br />
Some cradles, of course, in the showier<br />
homes, were so elaborately carved that<br />
nobody could keep them clean. But none<br />
of that was any fault of the cradle. Essentially<br />
the cradle was simple and strictly<br />
functional. Good ones, well made along<br />
spare, pleasing lines, were handsome as<br />
well. They lasted for generation after generation.<br />
Some from colonial times are<br />
still around now. People who favor early-<br />
American decoration often have them,<br />
They use them for holding firewood. The<br />
baby, if there is one, sleeps somewhere<br />
else—and if it doesn't sleep, its father<br />
walks the floor with it.<br />
What happened? There are two answers,<br />
both right. One comes from the<br />
furniture makers. A leading maker of<br />
children's furniture, Mr. Walter L, Beaman,<br />
president of the Gem Crib and<br />
Cradle Company, of Gardner, Massachusetts,<br />
dates the death knell of the cradle<br />
at forty-Iwo years ago. Up to that time,<br />
he says, his company was making cradles,<br />
bul in ¡9!4 it switched to wheeled cribs,<br />
the advantage of these being that a<br />
mother could keep the baby in its bed and<br />
yet move it around the house easily, to<br />
have it under her eye. The innovation,<br />
says Mr, Beaman, was a great success.<br />
Others started doing the same thing, and<br />
that, as far as the cradle was concerned,<br />
was the end. "I believe no one will deny."<br />
he says, "that we probably had more to<br />
do with putting the old cradle out of<br />
commission than anyone else."<br />
Child-care authorities, however, think<br />
that's only part of the story. The real<br />
cause of the cradle's demise, they believe,<br />
was a theory of child rearing that rose up<br />
whose watchword was "science" and<br />
whose docirine, generally speaking, was<br />
that anything parents normally thought<br />
was good for a child was probably bad,<br />
Many people, including some of the<br />
younger child-care authorities themselves,<br />
associate this school of thought<br />
mainly with the i92Ü's. but. in fact, it<br />
goes back long before that^and before<br />
1914, too—to around 1900. Breast feeding<br />
was bad, partly because ofthe quality<br />
of the food^which was produced in a<br />
deplorably unscientific way—but mostly<br />
because it involved sensations of affection.<br />
Showing alTection was coddling,<br />
and was terrible—warp the child's personality.<br />
There was a list of Don'ts that<br />
covered nearly everything: Don't pick<br />
your baby up; don't do this; don't do<br />
that. And high on the list was Don't<br />
Rock It.<br />
(jrrandmothers and great-grandmothers,<br />
including our baby's, remember the<br />
Don't-Rock business well. Rocking could<br />
cause insomnia, ruin eyesight, impair the<br />
sense of balance, to name just a few of<br />
its dangers. None of the "scientists" ever<br />
proved, of course, that rocking actually<br />
did do any of these things, but. on the<br />
other hand, it was hard to prove it<br />
wouldn't, and with all the dire talk going<br />
on, parents, understandably, preferred<br />
not to take a chance. Iron cribs had begun<br />
coming in many years earlier. They<br />
came in at first, presumably, because they<br />
were cheap, but well before 1914 a great<br />
many parents who could easily have afforded<br />
cradles were using fi,\ed cribs of<br />
wood or iron instead, because they were<br />
afraid rocking might be harmful.<br />
That's what did the cradle in. The<br />
wheeled crib added its bit. all right, but<br />
had it not been for the Don't-Rock Fever,<br />
there would have been nothing to prevent<br />
parents from having a wheeled crib<br />
for daytime convenience and a cradle for<br />
peace at night. Instead, they abandoned<br />
thecradlealtogether. By the 192O's. when<br />
the Don't-Rock school burst forth in a<br />
final eruption of publicity, the cradle had<br />
already disappeared. And, incidentally,<br />
the rocking chair hud disappeared too.<br />
In modern pédiatrie opinion, of course,<br />
the whole Hands-Off theory was nonsense.<br />
Breast feeding is back, generally<br />
recognized today as just about the best<br />
thing a mother can do, not only for herself<br />
but for her child. Showing normal<br />
afl'ection is not only condoned but recommended,<br />
urged, and sometimes actually<br />
prescribed—seen now as probably the<br />
surest way there is to avoid warping a<br />
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child's personality. If your baby wants to<br />
be picked up, go ahead and pick it up.<br />
And if it's fussy, rock it.<br />
Since old-established custom—not to<br />
mention Nature—became respectable<br />
again, the rocking chair has been winning<br />
its way back. In the past few years it has<br />
begun reappearing in its tradition-honored<br />
places—on the porch, in the living<br />
room. More and more parents—like the<br />
nurses and doctors in that children's<br />
ward—have been finding it very useful in<br />
the nursery. But the cradle is still out In<br />
the cold. Probably the reason is that during<br />
the long years of its banishment our<br />
homes changed so much that now, in many<br />
of them, there's no place to put it. It's<br />
good for only a few months of a child's<br />
life—up to about the end of his first<br />
year—after which the child goes into a<br />
crib anyway and the cradle must be<br />
stored. In the days when houses had<br />
space to spare, that didn't make any difference;<br />
today it does. For many parents<br />
it's easier to get along without a cradle for<br />
those few months, whether daddy needs<br />
the exercise or not. than it is to find room<br />
for it between times. Sadder stiil, it's been<br />
away so long that most young parents,<br />
having never seen a cradle with a child in<br />
it. don't even think of it.<br />
And so, it's gone and more than half<br />
forgotten. Celebrated in song, poem and<br />
story—Rocked in the Cradle of the<br />
Deep; Down Will Come Baby, Cradle<br />
and All; When From the Cra'dle to the<br />
Grave I Look—not today. Faneuil Hall<br />
in Boston is called the Cradle of Liberty;<br />
if we were starting the American Revolution<br />
now. we'd have to call it a crib or a<br />
bassinet. The Hand That Rocks the<br />
Cradle is the Hand That Rules the Worid.<br />
The hand is out of practice, with nothing<br />
to rock—and look at the shape the<br />
world's in.<br />
There is a chance that the cradle will<br />
come back, "it may not be too long before<br />
manufacturers begin to put them<br />
out," wrote the lady ofthe Department of<br />
Health. Education, and Welfare, "as<br />
pediatricians arc now lauding them."<br />
Beat the drum and clang the cymbal, welcome<br />
home the exile, wrongfully convicted.<br />
It shouldn't be very hard to figure<br />
out a design for a cradle that would convert<br />
to a crib, say, or for one that could<br />
fold up into not much more space than a<br />
suitcase or a bridge table. Ingenious<br />
Do-It-Yourselfers could have a field day<br />
with it.<br />
At least for a while, though, I won't<br />
have to bother; for the time being, my<br />
problem is solved. One of our neighbors,<br />
it turned out. had an antique cradle. He<br />
was fairly amazed when I talked to him<br />
about it, but he's a good-natured fellow,<br />
and he lent it to us. It's wonderful. Just a<br />
little troughlike thing, about three feet<br />
long, with simple wooden rockei^s. We<br />
keep it in the baby's room, for naps and<br />
nighttime, and it works like magic. It<br />
works so well that my wife's mother was<br />
a little scared of it. at Hrst, Now that she's<br />
used to it, she's quite bitter about those<br />
Don't-Rock people who kept her from<br />
ever having one for her four children. The<br />
baby's great-grandmother is delighted—<br />
takes her back, she says, to when she was<br />
a little girl, and she wishes she hadn't<br />
paid any attention to the Don't-Rock<br />
talk either, [hough that's all a long time<br />
ago now. Our pediatrician thinks it's<br />
great, and I haven't done any night floorwalking<br />
in weeks. My wife was saying the<br />
other day it's the best idea she ever had.<br />
It's such a success, in fact, that several<br />
people around us want to borrow it. in<br />
turn, after our boy outgrows it. The<br />
neighbor who lent it to us in the first<br />
place. I think, almost wishes now he<br />
hadn't. If this keeps up, he won't get it<br />
back for years. And what will he do with<br />
his firewood? THE END