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the New Lenox Patriot | September 14, 2017 | 5<br />

fore the group participated<br />

in an educational presentation<br />

geared toward helping<br />

someone at risk of suicide.<br />

A different kind of therapy<br />

Some of the organizations<br />

in attendance, like the<br />

K-9 Comfort Dog Ministry<br />

through Lutheran Church<br />

Charities, may have a more<br />

indirect effect on most of the<br />

people they serve as far as suicide<br />

prevention is concerned.<br />

Louis Vician, a Tinley<br />

Park resident who has been a<br />

handler for the K-9 division<br />

of Lutheran Church Charities<br />

for about five years, said<br />

he and Darlin, an 11-yearold<br />

golden retriever, have<br />

brought comfort to many<br />

people in disaster situations<br />

around the country, as well<br />

as close to home.<br />

The two have been to natural<br />

disaster areas like the<br />

aftermath of the Washington,<br />

Illinois tornado, as well<br />

as funerals of police officers<br />

where there was a lot of grief<br />

and loss.<br />

One visit he recalled was<br />

when his wife and Darlin<br />

traveled to a school that had<br />

just experienced a traumatic<br />

loss of a student, and one<br />

boy in particular had not left<br />

the library or talked to anyone<br />

in response.<br />

Vician said his wife<br />

brought Darlin in, and although<br />

the boy didn’t talk<br />

with his wife, he did talk to<br />

Darlin.<br />

“Pretty soon, after a while,<br />

he was talking to [Darlin]<br />

and petting her,” Vician said.<br />

“And, just that kind of interaction<br />

was good for him to<br />

bring him out of the very difficult<br />

situation he was in.”<br />

As part of the organization,<br />

most of the dogs are<br />

owned by a church and have<br />

multiple handlers, but they<br />

still primarily live with one<br />

person or family. In Darlin’s<br />

case, she lives with Vician<br />

and his wife.<br />

On a more regular schedule,<br />

the dogs visit nursing<br />

homes and other places they<br />

can provide comfort to those<br />

in need of it.<br />

“Just petting a dog — and<br />

this dog is a ‘pet me’ machine.<br />

She loves to be petted.<br />

— in and of itself will<br />

lower your blood pressure,”<br />

Vician said.<br />

Another Tinley Park resident,<br />

Jim Morrison, serves<br />

on staff at Lutheran Church<br />

Ministries where he coordinates<br />

their Kare-9 Military<br />

Ministry.<br />

“We serve active military<br />

veterans [and] active duty<br />

military men and women by<br />

visiting hospitals and veterans<br />

centers [and] attending<br />

veterans events,” Morrison<br />

said. “...Any place that there<br />

are veterans, and there are<br />

veterans everywhere.”<br />

The Kare-9 Military Ministry<br />

dogs, like Morrison’s<br />

canine partner Brutus, are all<br />

outfitted with camouflaged<br />

vests, and their handlers are<br />

all veterans — Morrison included.<br />

“Veterans communicate<br />

with veterans much better<br />

than non-veterans,” Morrison<br />

said. “We speak a common<br />

language; we’ve all been<br />

through the same kinds of<br />

things. So, it works out well.”<br />

Morrison said the dogs<br />

can help calm veterans who<br />

are struggling with PTSD<br />

and related mental health<br />

conditions, and the dogs<br />

give them a way to express<br />

how they are feeling.<br />

“We exist to bring people<br />

comfort, mercy and compassion,<br />

and it happens when<br />

they’re with the dog,” he<br />

said. “They feel better. The<br />

other thing is, these dogs are<br />

completely confident. You<br />

can tell Brutus anything you<br />

want, [and] he won’t tell anybody.<br />

He can keep a secret.”<br />

While Morrison said the<br />

handlers and their dogs<br />

aren’t trained counselors or<br />

called to crisis-level suicide<br />

situations, the dogs can provide<br />

much-needed therapy<br />

and comfort for people who<br />

are hurting.<br />

“We are a ministry of<br />

presence,” he said. “There<br />

are many, many guys and<br />

women who have suffered<br />

pretty horrible experiences<br />

Gia Washington, of Sertoma Centre Inc., leads a QPR class.<br />

QPR, or Question, Persuade, Refer, is known as the CPR of<br />

mental health.<br />

during their military time,<br />

and the dog helps them to<br />

deal with that.”<br />

Combatting substance abuse<br />

On a more serious and less<br />

furry front, Heroin Epidemic<br />

Relief Organization helps<br />

people who may have turned<br />

to drugs because of depression<br />

or are experiencing<br />

depression because of drug<br />

abuse.<br />

Even Mayor Tim Baldermann,<br />

who worked in narcotics<br />

for many of his years<br />

as a police officer, said he<br />

learned a lot while touring<br />

the HERO drug education<br />

trailer.<br />

“There were a dozen<br />

things that I had never seen<br />

before, and I did that for a<br />

living,” Baldermann said<br />

as he addressed the group<br />

before the panel discussion.<br />

“It’s an ever-evolving situation<br />

that we need to stay on<br />

top of.”<br />

Baldermann, who was 25<br />

when his own brother committed<br />

suicide, thanked all<br />

the organizations involved<br />

in the event and the Safe<br />

Community Coalition for all<br />

they do to help people in the<br />

community and vowed the<br />

Village would continue to<br />

support that cause as well.<br />

“We tackle these issues<br />

head on,” Baldermann said.<br />

“We don’t think just because<br />

we live in a nice community<br />

that we’re not plagued with<br />

drug abuse, that we’re not<br />

plagued with mental health<br />

issues. We are. We have that<br />

happening like every community<br />

does, and we won’t<br />

just pretend that it doesn’t...<br />

We’re going to keep fighting<br />

the good fight and giving<br />

support to those that need<br />

it.”<br />

Martin said New Lenox<br />

is currently the only certified<br />

“Safe Community” in<br />

Illinois, which is a long process<br />

of certification through<br />

the National Safety Council.<br />

Since being originally<br />

accredited in 2010, he said<br />

New Lenox was recertified<br />

last year.<br />

The designation shows<br />

that New Lenox studies data<br />

collected from emergency<br />

services, the coroner’s office<br />

and local hospitals like Silver<br />

Cross Hospital to create<br />

a plan to decrease injuries<br />

and deaths in the community.<br />

In addition to the NSC<br />

certification, the Village is<br />

also recognized by the World<br />

Health Organization Collaborating<br />

Centre for safety,<br />

which gives Martin and others<br />

involved in the coalition<br />

the opportunity to network<br />

and learn from people from<br />

around the world.<br />

“It’s just a great network<br />

of injury prevention specialists<br />

that work very hard to<br />

try to prevent injuries and<br />

deaths in their communities,”<br />

Martin said.<br />

Training to help<br />

Following the panel discussion<br />

with survivors and<br />

experts, Gia Washington<br />

from Sertoma Centre taught<br />

a class on QPR — considered<br />

the CPR of mental<br />

health.<br />

The acronym stands for<br />

question, persuade and refer<br />

and leads people through the<br />

process of helping someone<br />

who may be at risk of causing<br />

harm to themselves.<br />

While the 90-minute training<br />

is helpful for professional<br />

caregivers, emergency<br />

responders, religious leaders,<br />

people who work with<br />

teens and social service volunteers,<br />

the training is also<br />

good for everyday people to<br />

know in case they are ever in<br />

a situation that calls for it.<br />

The training is geared to<br />

create “gatekeepers” in the<br />

community — defined in the<br />

course handout as “anyone<br />

in a position to recognize a<br />

crisis and warning signs that<br />

someone may be contemplating<br />

suicide.”<br />

A room full of community<br />

members received the training<br />

Thursday night at the<br />

Village Hall, but it wasn’t<br />

the first time there has been<br />

a training in New Lenox.<br />

Martin estimated that the<br />

Village has trained 400 or<br />

500 residents in QPR in recent<br />

years.<br />

“A lot of times, someone<br />

will encounter someone like<br />

this, maybe someone who<br />

appears to be a little depressed,<br />

[or] they appear to<br />

be exhibiting some of these<br />

symptoms,” Martin said.<br />

“But, sometimes, they don’t<br />

know how to approach them,<br />

and they don’t know how to<br />

help.”<br />

Michele Batara, executive<br />

director of Crisis Line<br />

serving Will and Grundy<br />

Counties, echoed those same<br />

sentiments and said the QPR<br />

approach is very similar to<br />

the much lengthier, 36-hour<br />

training that volunteer and<br />

interns manning the hotline<br />

receive.<br />

Crisis Line is one of many<br />

United Way Agency Partners<br />

that is funded through donations<br />

and largely supported<br />

by volunteers. In addition to<br />

being a suicide crisis hotline<br />

for people to call when they<br />

need help, they supply many<br />

other kinds of assistance, as<br />

well, including counseling<br />

and can connect people to<br />

resources for food or medical<br />

assistance.<br />

“Research has shown that<br />

the more a person is able to<br />

talk about it, reach out and<br />

feel supported, they decrease<br />

those risks,” Batara said.<br />

“Anybody can help somebody<br />

who is feeling at that<br />

point [of suicide]. It’s scary.<br />

And, that’s why a lot of<br />

people aren’t sure, and they<br />

don’t know what to do. They<br />

feel like it’s more complicated<br />

than it really is, and it’s<br />

really just letting that person<br />

know that you support them,<br />

that you care about them,<br />

that you’re there.”<br />

For more information<br />

about the New Lenox Safe<br />

Communities America Coalition<br />

or any of the services<br />

provided through the<br />

coalition, contact Martin at<br />

dmartin@newlenox.net or<br />

(815) 462-6493.<br />

If you or someone you<br />

know are suffering from<br />

mental illness or contemplating<br />

suicide, call the New<br />

Lenox Crisis Line number<br />

at (815) 485-7366 or visit<br />

www.willfinduhelp.org.<br />

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