RESTORATIVE PARTNERS COMES TO <strong>PASO</strong> The Language of Humanity Survive to Thrive CHAPTER 2 By Chuck Desmond Last month in <strong>PASO</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we explored the foundation of a relatively new program called RESTORATIVE PARTNERS. We'll now look at this important work being specifically done in Paso to help women suffering from addiction to rebuild their lives. I know you still have last month's issue so might I suggest you read (or re-read) that chapter beginning on page 40 before starting this one. Addiction doesn't play favorites. It's ruthless and it'll take whomever it can snare. Here in our county, it's hard to imagine there are women who are trafficked. It happens. Often to gain control over them, drugs are introduced and from then on, addiction owns its slaves until there is an intervention. And even then, it probably won't “hold” unless there are follow-on programs for the few who have a chance to break free. Children, soccer moms, stressed dads, the homeless, unemployed, the privileged and the not-so-luckys are all prone to drug and alcohol abuse that leads to escalating crimes. That's bad enough, but what is far worse is the ripping-apart of families — principally, children who are taken away and put into the foster system. Too often, the father in the picture is long gone and the moms are deemed unable to care for the children. They are so close to the edge that only a slight nudge can knock them spinning out of control. When these are piled up on the back of a 'usually younger' woman, it's simply being boxed in with nowhere to go and no way out. Awful! For everyone! And, it exists right here in our safe pueblo! Most people agree that humans are born with an innate hidden-gene to be good and caring. It's “life” that shapes the course of that path toward either end of the bell curve. Each of us undoubtedly knows folks on both ends. When Sister Theresa Harpin began Restorative Partners, one of the first things on the list was having children of the women she served, to be in reunited families. Fund-raising to pay for children's transportation is always on-going. Children-Jail-Addiction: three words that don't belong together, do they? How in the world does one get people coming out of jail for substance-abuse and a criminal lifestyle back together with their families and start over? Bigger still — how does one keep the cycle from Sister Theresa Harpin repeating itself — and, how are people and resources to be found who can put those programs together? As the committed-to-sobriety men and women are scheduled for release, they have to be ready and that requires help. The call for help went out. Everyone has uttered the words,“There but for the Grace of God, go I.” Soon, big-hearted, dedicated and caring people began to come out of the woodwork. Their saying became,“There but with the Grace go I.” Mentors, funds-raisers, retired professionals, community members, Cal-Poly faculty and interns signed on to help Sister Theresa and her work. Sister was much more at ease in her comfort zone of South SLO County. She knew her way around, knew the people and she knew the issues and challenges of her mission to 'get in the face of addiction's victims' and do something about it. Up here in Paso, it was foreign territory. Two homes in Los Osos — one for men and one for women — were acquired and began Restotative Partners is the work of many hands. Please see RESTORATIVE page 18 16 <strong>PASO</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, <strong>November</strong> <strong>2017</strong>
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