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SAUDA Magazine is the Solution!….Our desire was to create a platform that provided a ‘home’ of self-love, self-respect, and high esteem of women of color

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TABLE OF CONTENTS<br />

Welcome<br />

8 The Birth of a New Movement<br />

12 Raising Kane<br />

14 Her Blessings in Essence is Amazing<br />

17 They Hate You Because You Love You<br />

20 Jason Adams<br />

22 Keedy Black<br />

26 Kristina Halloway<br />

28 Rebuilding Trust After an Affair<br />

34 Artistic Freedom<br />

Tashandra Poullard<br />

Co-Founder<br />

“Tarbaby!” “Jiggaboo!” “Blanca!” “Dark and Ugly” are just some of the<br />

names I was called as a child. Not by White Children, but by black children.<br />

Kids who looked like me. The joke often spread was that if I took a bath<br />

I could make choclate milk because I was so black. And that the naps in<br />

my ‘kitchen’ or the back of my neck could be used as buckshots in a pellet<br />

gun. My hair was long and natural, and at times referred to as a ‘rats nest’<br />

because it wasn’t long and loose like the girls who would get relaxers.<br />

I find that I’m more than just my hair, lips, hips, ass and thighs. I’m Neosoul<br />

and classic jazz with a side order of rhythm and blues, old school funk and<br />

deep (Afro) house. But I can shake it up by dancing to some classic rock, and<br />

break it down the Wheels of Steel with some old school hip hop. I’m everything<br />

that encompasses being a woman of body, mind and spirit. A woman of peace,<br />

love and light. A woman that serves the community yet doesn’t forget to uplift herself – and other sisters in<br />

the process. I am an advocate for social justice, peace and change. I stand with my brothers and sister on the<br />

front lines combating police brutality, unjustifiable homicides and social-economic injustice. I stand for the<br />

abolishment of modern day slavery and human trafficking. And I love mother earth. With each breath that I<br />

take, inhaling the birth right of clean air, I exhale the hope that Mother Earth will be healed. Her vibrations will<br />

be balanced and her children become one with her energy.<br />

I seek to mind the wounds of slavery for women of color in the African diaspora. I realized throughout my<br />

travels in the military, that in every country I’ve visited, all the people of color (or a darker complexion) were<br />

economically disenfranchised, socially ostracized and spiritually broken. Thus I created <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine in<br />

the hopes of showing my people (all of God’s people) that being dark doesn’t equate to being ugly. Kinky hair<br />

can be (and is) attractive. May you be a size 2 or 22, you can be (and are) beautiful.<br />

I lived through all of this the majority of my life. Abuse from members in my community, often, so called<br />

friends and even family who felt that my complexion was unappealing. I had a young man refer to me as a<br />

primate that he refused to be associated with by simply sitting next to me on the bus.<br />

“The only way that the value of a Black woman will be restored to its rightful state of<br />

Queendom, and the degradation of our worth will be combated is when we as Black women,<br />

from a global perspective, take our power back. When we are able to recognize, appreciate<br />

and celebrate the beauty that all of us uniquely share, we’ll start moving in the direction of<br />

reconciliation within self and feminine righteousness.”<br />

All these things where hurtful. And for quite some time left me emotionally bitter and scared.<br />

Even now my 13 year old niece often questions her features, simply because she’s as dark as I am. She looks<br />

the physical (Eurocentric) features of characters in Animation, because she believes they’re a definition of what<br />

constitutes beauty.<br />

The Solution to these ‘traditional standards’ of beauty would be to create a platform that provided a<br />

‘home’ of self-love, self-respect, and high esteem of women of color. So women and young girls like<br />

my niece can see women who look like them in beautiful, elaborate colors and fashion. In efforts<br />

to combat the desire by so many women from a global perspective to be seen as more European in<br />

features, and not fully embracing African heritage<br />

Graphic Design by<br />

Erline Germain<br />

erlinegermain.com<br />

Thus, we decided to introduce to the world “<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine”.<br />

Ms. Tashandra Poullard, Owner/Co-Founder<br />

6 December <strong>2017</strong><br />

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The Birth of A New<br />

Movement!<br />

Inspiration comes from some of the most unlikely places and<br />

in some of the most unfortunate circumstances. For decades,<br />

black women and young girls have had to socially combat the<br />

many emotional, mental and psychological attacks that have<br />

been waged against the very essence of their overall being.<br />

From the “tigon laws” that required a black woman to wear<br />

head wraps that reduced the attention drawn to elaborate hair<br />

styles in the French Quarters of Louisiana, to the portrayals<br />

of black women in today’s hip hop music and Reality T.V.<br />

as jezebels. Women who share Afro-heritage have always<br />

been subjected to negative stereotypes and superstitions<br />

that have demeaned and demoralized who we really are.<br />

For decades, being dark or having natural hair was seen as<br />

‘bad’ and meant you looked like a slave. Bleaching Creams,<br />

weaves, wigs and colored contacts are used by many women<br />

to escape the realism of seeing their dark skin as a curse.<br />

Subconsciously removing themselves from the possibility of<br />

being subjected to unattractive perceptions of darker skin,<br />

thick lips, a wide nose and natural hair. However, none of<br />

these bleaching creams, weaves, wigs and color contacts<br />

serve as effective methods of non-surgical augmentations,<br />

when the woman within lacks a healthy image of self.<br />

As a result of this desire to be seen as more European in<br />

features, and not fully embracing African heritage, we<br />

decided to introduce to the world “<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine”.<br />

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<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is the Solution! Our desire was to<br />

create a platform that provided a ‘home’ of self-love, selfrespect,<br />

and high esteem of women of color. So women<br />

and young girls like your niece can see women who look<br />

like them in beautiful, elaborate colors and fashion.<br />

What is <strong>SAUDA</strong>?<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is owned by House Of Virgo<br />

Entertainment, LLC a woman and black owned<br />

multimedia entertainment company based in<br />

Houston, TX; that pride itself on providing positive<br />

imagery, restoring honor and integrity to multimedia<br />

markets geared towards minority consumers.<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is available in both print<br />

and digital (online) platforms that features:<br />

High end, high quality fashion<br />

Modeling talent<br />

Afro Style<br />

Fashion and beauty tips for women of color<br />

The primary focus of the magazine is to highlight the diverse<br />

beauty of women who both share and embrace African<br />

heritage, as we plan to utilize the multi-dimensional platform<br />

(Film, Photography, Digital Print and Physical Graphics) of<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine to launch the careers of Afro-Models,<br />

Fashion/Accessory and Cosmetic designers who’re seeking<br />

to break into the Fashion industry; while demonstrating the<br />

For decades, being dark<br />

or having natural hair was<br />

seen as ‘bad’ and meant<br />

you looked like a slave.<br />

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classical beauty and uniqueness of non- traditional fashion.<br />

We’re seeking to break the mold that enforces the unrealistic<br />

standards of Euro-centric beauty. Highlighting fashion from<br />

the various countries; with a heavy concentration upon creating<br />

business ventures between African Nationals and African<br />

Americans who work in the fashion and film making industries.<br />

This magazine will place the diverse beauty of women<br />

who both share and embrace African heritage front<br />

and center in the Fashion Industry and on the Global<br />

Runways. <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine will be used as a platform to<br />

launch the careers of ethnic Fashion Designers seeking to<br />

break into the Fashion industry; while demonstrating the<br />

classical beauty and uniqueness of non- traditional fashion.<br />

“<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine understands that the objectification<br />

of Black women via various media platforms is not only<br />

disturbing, but disheartening, especially when it’s our<br />

brothers assisting with the perpetuation of the negative<br />

portrayals of us. There must come a time when the<br />

global community must step forward and do something<br />

to curtail the continued assault on black femininity.”<br />

Model participation in these film festivals combined with<br />

modeling for <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine increases professional<br />

experience, global exposure and industry connections.<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is working diligently to host a model<br />

and talent search titled “The Magnificent Motherland”<br />

that will feature stops in Southwest Asia, The Middle<br />

East and throughout Africa come 2018, to include<br />

our Muslim Sisters and their fashionable beauty.<br />

The Main Objective<br />

The Core Principle of <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is to use it as<br />

a launching pad for the modeling careers of women<br />

who share and embrace their African lineage by<br />

highlighting the natural beauty of Black women from<br />

all walks of life, of varying hues, and of all shapes and<br />

sizes. We will showcase how the diverse beauty of<br />

a black woman’s hair, skin color and physical build<br />

should be celebrated, but can never be duplicated.<br />

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Raising<br />

Kane<br />

By Tashandra Poullard<br />

12 December <strong>2017</strong><br />

Abibatou Kane<br />

Who Is She?<br />

She exudes class, beauty, style and elegance. Confident<br />

and bold are the word we use to describe Abibatou “Aby”<br />

Kane. As a Project Specialist at Simier Partners LLC, an<br />

international executive coaching firm based in Manhattan,<br />

she specializes in cross-cultural coaching by facilitating<br />

the firm’s transition from one field of clients to another.<br />

Assisting with communicating and meeting the need<br />

of both client and service provider. Her core focus is<br />

business development and spearheading ongoing efforts to<br />

increase the firm’s leadership capacity. While providing a<br />

comprehensive understanding of just how important it is<br />

to incorporate diversity in the company’s services offered.<br />

Education:<br />

Aby received her B.A. in Political Science and Sociology<br />

from Hunter College City University of New York. While<br />

in attendance, she was actively involved in the African<br />

Students Union (ASU), and served as member of the ASU<br />

eBoard; which lead to a key role as a Project Specialist.<br />

Current Works:<br />

Aby is currently on the board(s) of multiple independent<br />

projects and successful start-up businesses. Example:<br />

Pathway Global Learning, an African-Owned business that<br />

aids students outside the United States in the application<br />

process of enrollment into prestigious colleges and<br />

universities. “Sesame Funds” a lucrative crowd-funding<br />

organization that connects potential business owners with<br />

the capital and initial (financial) investments necessary to<br />

kickstart their business.<br />

She’s also served as Communications Expert for District 9,<br />

City Council Candidate, Mamadou Drame.<br />

In Her Spare Time:<br />

Aby pens a collection of soon-to-be published short<br />

stories, loves to read mystery novels and bring watches<br />

“The Office”.<br />

Future Goals:<br />

To become a published author and international business<br />

owner. Mainly one that uses her influence to provide much<br />

needed goods, services and life saving necessities through<br />

out the African diaspora.<br />

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Her Blessings In Essence Is<br />

Simply Amazing!<br />

It’s a very interesting story in regards to how this beautiful<br />

little wonder was brought to our attention. I happened<br />

to save her picture to my phone in another forum that I<br />

often frequent – in efforts to get fresh ideas for our feature<br />

magazine layout. And when I saw her image I immediately<br />

saved her picture, because I felt she would fit perfectly into<br />

our idea of diverse Black beauty. A few weeks later my<br />

PR Representative - Ms. La’Rika Marshall - sends me her<br />

picture and biography, stating that she knows this young<br />

woman and her family personally. And that it would be an<br />

awesome idea to do a feature on her in <strong>SAUDA</strong>.<br />

Let me tell you a little bit about this extremely precious<br />

child. Her name is Amazing! (Represented by CarVer<br />

Communications). She was born in Maryland and is a<br />

5-year old aspiring model of Nigerian heritage. She loves<br />

to sing, dance and she plays violin. Not to mention the<br />

fact that this beautiful creation is bilingual – she speaks<br />

English and French fluently.<br />

She’s currently perfecting her skills at the “Star Maker<br />

Academy” out of Bowie, MD – where she specializes in<br />

Ballet, Tap and Jazz. And has been able to conduct casting<br />

calls in New York City, to include gracing the catwalk with<br />

her style and class at various Fashion Shows throughout<br />

Baltimore, MD. Her unique beauty accompanied by her<br />

bubbly personality will for sure lead to her taking the<br />

modeling and fashion industry by storm.<br />

We’re honored to feature her with <strong>SAUDA</strong> and are looking<br />

forward to following her career accomplishments, as she<br />

continues her successful career.<br />

Much love and respect to you Amazing!<br />

The Houston 2018 “Kissed By The Sun”<br />

Search: Will be held in Houston, TX - January<br />

3 – 13 2018, and is produced by House Of<br />

Virgo Entertainment, LLC. We are currently<br />

seeking beautiful Black women from the<br />

United States that may also become a part of<br />

our first launch edition in 2018. Our goal, is to<br />

continue being dedicated to embracing and<br />

promoting the beauty of Black women with<br />

class, dignity and respect. We are seeking<br />

to promote, support, increase and heighten<br />

interest and awareness of models here in the<br />

Houston regions, while providing them the<br />

opportunity to be discovered by international<br />

filmmakers, screenwriters, producers and<br />

directors in the entertainment industry.<br />

Most importantly throughout the Diaspora.<br />

We’re seeking modeling talent from the<br />

continent of Africa, the United States,<br />

Central and South America, The Caribbean,<br />

Asian Pacific, And through Out Europe to<br />

be featured in our 2018 editions. We’re also<br />

seeking to feature the many great works of<br />

aspiring fashion, shoe, handbag and accessory<br />

makers, hairstylist and makeup artist to<br />

feature their products in our magazine.<br />

My spirit cried with joy, because all the content I’d been<br />

seeking to make this magazine as diversely beautiful<br />

as possible was finding its way to me. And when such<br />

instances happen, you know for a fact that the all mighty<br />

has his hand in it.<br />

14 December <strong>2017</strong><br />

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“They Hate You Because<br />

You Love You”<br />

By Tashandra Poullard<br />

16 December <strong>2017</strong><br />

Matthew 5:44<br />

But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you<br />

Psalm 16:8<br />

I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.<br />

Romans 8:28<br />

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love<br />

him, who have been called according to his purpose.<br />

“You want to become more aware of your thoughts and choose your thoughts carefully.<br />

Because you are the masterpiece of your own life.” Dr. Joe Vitale – “The Secret”<br />

“The first step to the secret of manifestation is to ask the Universe for what you want. Make a command<br />

to the Universe! Let the Universe know what you desire and allow it to respond to your thoughts. The<br />

second step is to believe! Believe that its already yours via an unwavering faith (believing in the unseen),<br />

which will bring you to the last and finally step of receiving. Start feeling how you will feel once what<br />

you’ve asked for has manifested itself into your life (because it will).” Lisa Nichols – “The Secret”<br />

I started off this segment with some positive energy and words<br />

of inspiration.<br />

I give you these scriptures and pearls of wisdom, because it<br />

is my strong belief that most of the chaos we are witnessing<br />

transpire in the world is as a result of a spiritual shift that’s<br />

taking place. Many people are finding themselves under<br />

attack because they’re experiencing an awakening, or a<br />

transformation into what I call “higher self”. While Mother<br />

Earth is working diligently to stabilize the polarizing energies<br />

of positive and negative, into a more harmonic balance, a<br />

paradigm of thought that is exponentially gaining momentum<br />

amongst the newly conscious – is leading both power and<br />

wealth that has been stored and exploited by the wicked to be<br />

shifted unto the righteous and meek whom shall inherit the<br />

earth (and all her riches).<br />

People who were once emotionally broken, fiscally<br />

disenfranchised and in psychological despair are waking up<br />

for the first time in their lives and facing their biggest fears.<br />

The fear of doubt, lack, depression and hopelessness is being<br />

destroyed by a shift from negative to positive, that’s being<br />

transmitted by those who’ve been broken. They’re finding the<br />

courage to step out on faith – while gaining the understanding<br />

that this reality we live is really a dream inside of a dream. In<br />

other words, they’re learning that our current state of being is<br />

as a result of our thoughts. We’re starting to see people fully<br />

understand that our (current state) waking lives are merely<br />

a reflection of the manifestations of our subconscious mind<br />

that (in most cases) is always bringing us our biggest obstacles<br />

and fears. These people are no longer focusing upon what they<br />

don’t want and are starting to focus more upon manifesting<br />

what they do desire.<br />

Example include:<br />

A change in the justice system<br />

Effective advocacy for victims<br />

A transference of wealth<br />

A shift in social reform<br />

Addressing the need for global nutrition and suitable living<br />

So many people are starting to understand that in order to<br />

overcome these obstacles, and to grow spiritually, we must<br />

experience a shift of consciousness. And it’s giving life to<br />

advocacy and activism in many forms. Many of us are starting<br />

to learn the importance of operating in a new mentality that<br />

refuses to be locked inside of a box of conventional wisdoms,<br />

social construct and brainwashed rhetoric.<br />

And this is what’s making some people in your immediate<br />

circle uncomfortable with the new and improved version<br />

of you. Your optimism is a blinding light of truth that they<br />

cannot live in. The more awakened you become the more<br />

opposition you’ll face from the people around you who prefer<br />

darkness. You will find that the attacks you experience will be<br />

more so based upon their inability to understand, appreciate<br />

and accept the shift from the old you (that was bitter, jaded<br />

and locked in despair) to the new version of you that sees the<br />

good in all things and how they are all being used for selfimprovement.<br />

For many of us who are experiencing this shift in higher<br />

thought, we’re learning the hard way that some people want<br />

to stay in a metaphorical stage of continuous “sleep”.<br />

While you are learning the beauty in raising your transmissions<br />

(vibrations) to a level of higher thought and consciousness,<br />

you have arrived at specific points in your lives (higher calling)<br />

that will lead you to greater purpose. But! Understand that<br />

in doing so it will be a challenge to assist with facilitating<br />

the awakening process with others. Most importantly, know<br />

that it will be even more difficult for those you attempt to<br />

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enlighten with self-knowledge to accept your new version of<br />

higher self.<br />

Why? Well, some people lack the emotional capacity needed<br />

to receive your greatness.<br />

Some people are mad at you simply because of the choices<br />

you’ve made in life to do better. You have officially stepped<br />

outside of the box they’ve placed you in – while calling their<br />

love for you “unconditional”. Meaning they only love or like<br />

you as long as you don’t exceed the expectations they have set<br />

for you. They are upset with you because you have made the<br />

choice to live right, eat right and take better care of yourself.<br />

A few necessary steps towards change that they lack the will<br />

power to make. They hate the fact that you have chosen<br />

to further educate yourself and set goals for future success.<br />

And every step that you take towards self-improvement (or<br />

small goals that you accomplish) reminds them of where<br />

they could be if they chose to expend the same amount of<br />

time and energy that you dedicate towards self-improvement<br />

upon themselves. These people don’t understand that in<br />

every second we spend alive, we are making choices that help<br />

determine what future paths we will take. And regardless<br />

of which choice we make, we will always find another fork<br />

in the road ahead of us with more decisions to make. But<br />

the difference between the awakened people and those who<br />

prefer “sleep” is that awakened people A. Don’t give up when<br />

presented with forks and obstacles and B. Don’t allow the<br />

forks and obstacles to stop us from striving for greatness.<br />

Awaken people enjoy the journey of learning, growth and<br />

golden wisdom gleaned from personal experience.<br />

Awakened people understand and embrace the fact that each<br />

time you choose a new path more options become available,<br />

with the knowledge that all options will inevitably lead you<br />

back to the original soul contract that you agreed to prior<br />

to incarnation. Your purpose was determined in life before<br />

Mother Earth birthed you. What you endure in life is her way<br />

of leading you too it! No matter what happens, you know and<br />

understand that all things work together for the good – and<br />

will lead to you ultimately walking into what has already been<br />

predestined (or your reason for being). Once awakened, you<br />

learn how strategic planning will assist you with using the<br />

miscalculations, mishaps and wrong choices you’ve made in<br />

life to grow you into a better, more wise and self-aware being.<br />

These lessons teach you the importance of honesty, integrity,<br />

humility and honor in one’s words and deeds.<br />

Everything you need to become your predestined self is within.<br />

And everything you endure assist you with fine tuning your<br />

gifts, talents, and sharpening the skills that you use effortlessly<br />

– when learning who you are and how you will be used in<br />

the grand scheme of life. Those of us who have undergone an<br />

awakening understand that we must be ok with whatever the<br />

universe brings us, because it’s the universes way of clearing<br />

the pathway to self-discovery. It’s a cleaving process that<br />

removes certain people, changes a specific through process<br />

that was imprinted in our psyche by others and helps us to<br />

heal from past trauma.<br />

Example,<br />

They assist with learning to combat emotional damages<br />

experienced by the principalities placed upon us via the<br />

transgressions of others. They are the reason why you<br />

(unknowingly) do some of the things you do. Life experiences<br />

demonstrates to us how important it is to acknowledge that<br />

these dark spirits are ever-present in our sub-conscious, and<br />

how they must be overcome by learning the importance of<br />

forgiveness. These demons are not yours! They have been left<br />

behind by the people who have hurt you. And you can’t get<br />

rid of these spirits until you learn to forgive the one(s) who<br />

gave them to you.<br />

The emotional blinders that hinders our ability to see when<br />

and where we are wrong and how we have wronged others<br />

must be removed. There comes a time in everyone’s life when<br />

we must start fixing what’s broken within self. The mistakes<br />

we make in life assist with making our imperfections present<br />

and clear, in order to pin-point the origins of our own<br />

dysfunction. Sometimes you must keep repeating the same<br />

mistakes in order to become more open to honestly addressing<br />

the issues that you chose to ignore (i.e. admitting when you<br />

are wrong). The reoccurring issues are used as a teaching<br />

mechanism that incorporates an “In Your Face” method of<br />

demonstration. Showing you that you can’t fix what’s broken<br />

if you are not willing to admit that you ARE the main source<br />

of most of your problems (i.e. your thinking, your behaviors<br />

and attitudes affect your quality of life).<br />

The awakened know and understand that each milestone<br />

in life is assisting with molding our future self, and will<br />

continue to guide use on our life path. We take joy in the<br />

things we learn along the way. We understand that the heart<br />

aches, heartbreaks, disappointments, set back, triumphs<br />

and tragedies are the “breadcrumb” clues that God and the<br />

Universe leaves for us to find our way to back to “self”. The<br />

predetermined destiny that was set before we took our first<br />

breath.<br />

While people who are still asleep are unable to see the beauty<br />

in both trouble and triumph.<br />

They are mad at you because they can’t figure out how no<br />

matter what you have gone through in life, no matter<br />

what they have tried to do to you or the snares they have<br />

implemented to obstruct; you still have your peace. You know<br />

who you are and who’s you are (in priesthood with the most<br />

high), because you understand that you have a higher calling.<br />

You live by the “This too shall pass” mantras because you have<br />

seen the power of positive thinking. You understand that<br />

trouble is only temporary.<br />

You are on a mission and nothing they can do or say will stop<br />

you. They hate the fact that no matter what happens you still<br />

show love. You still speak when you see them. You radiate love,<br />

peace and light in the mist of darkness. You are a beacon to<br />

spiritual balance. And you have great compassion for all forms<br />

of life because you are genuinely a very optimistic person. You<br />

understand the principles of the laws of attraction and are<br />

very careful what energy you put out into the universe.<br />

You understand that love is the greatest force on the planet.<br />

Thus, take joy in knowing that the attacks you face from<br />

people are based upon the fact that you are a “soldier” in the<br />

awakening process. You are influencing more people than<br />

they could ever imagine, just by simply being yourself and<br />

accepting your purpose by following the path that God and<br />

the Universe has set you on.<br />

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December <strong>2017</strong> 19


20 December <strong>2017</strong><br />

JASON ADAMS<br />

Legend in the Making<br />

SOCIAL MEDIA<br />

www.meanrecords.com<br />

Facebook: facebook.com/Jason.Adams<br />

YouTube: youtube.com/MeanRecords<br />

Twitter: @MeanRecords<br />

CONTACT INFORMATION<br />

Physical Address:<br />

2104 24th st<br />

Gulfport,MS,39501<br />

Main Phone Number:<br />

(769)233-9958<br />

MEAN RECORDS CUSTOMER SERVICE<br />

Jadams@meanrecords.com<br />

Over the past 40 years Hip Hop has taken a drastic turn. The craft<br />

itself has been compromised and the platform that once launched<br />

such legendary greats as LL Cool J, Erick B and Rakim, KRS-1<br />

and Guru; is now playing host to luke-warm artist that incorporate<br />

mumble-rap over reconfigured trap hooks. The lyrics are laced with<br />

misogynistic undertones, promotion of domestic violence and rape<br />

culture; to include irresponsible behavior and risky promiscuity.<br />

Jason Adams is here to change all of that!<br />

His Mission:<br />

Jason is here to provide an opportunity for marginalized populations<br />

to spin the promotion of negative lifestyles and stereotypes – into<br />

positive platforms and lucrative business opportunities for the<br />

talented disenfranchised. This desire to help this demographics<br />

birth forward Mean Records. An organization that he’s the CEO of.<br />

Background:<br />

Jason (who goes by the name “jadams”) was born in Jackson,<br />

Mississippi. He grew up in a drug-infested and crime riddled<br />

neighborhood, that soon lead to him becoming a product of his<br />

environment. Like many who fall victim to the fast money and<br />

flashy life style, he thought it was an easy way out of the unfortunate<br />

circumstances out of his control. But he soon learned (the hard<br />

way) just how high the stakes involved in this life style really are<br />

when he landed a conspiracy charge that lead to jail time.<br />

While incarcerated, he had an epiphany. He started to see<br />

things a lot clearer and understood that it was time that he<br />

rethink his life, his actions and create a new avenue that would<br />

assist not only himself, but his community with overcoming<br />

the every day struggles of fiscally broken and socially rejected.<br />

The Conduit to Success:<br />

The best way to reach the “lost tribe” (his people) was through<br />

his passion for music. He had a love affair with music every since<br />

the age of 12, in which this passion was inspired by his father<br />

who was a touring gear manager for numerous music bands. He<br />

lives, eats, breaths and sleeps music. Engaging in lyrical therapy<br />

during the earliest and impressionable stages of life assisted<br />

with him developing craft and musical artistry. And opened<br />

doors for him to becoming gainfully employed/heavily<br />

involved in various projects. Thus, it was only natural that<br />

all of his work in music would be combined as one – and<br />

create the final orchestrated concept of Mean Records - a<br />

full scale recording label and studio in Gulfport Mississippi.<br />

In High Demand:<br />

When the mandate of making entertainment always<br />

noticeable’ became apparent, Mean Records (as a label)<br />

became home to a roster of seven notable artist, as well as<br />

a full-service provider to multiple emerging artist. Various<br />

genres are catered to in efforts to create a musical culture<br />

that changes lives. Running the gambit of musical spectrum,<br />

while mixing and mastering the development of artist careers,<br />

their talents and brand. Mean Records provides a comfortable<br />

environment for development that’s more than a boutique<br />

service. The staff assists with graphic design for album cover<br />

development, distribution and recording services, a “brick<br />

and mortar” building for business deals to transpire to<br />

include creating the media outlet needed to launch successful<br />

music careers. There’s even licensing, manufacturing<br />

photography and marketing services available for those<br />

who’re in need of the “total package” of product promotion.<br />

“Through connections to the label, we have all the<br />

necessary commodities that are needed to complete the<br />

total package. We focus on the artist regardless of the<br />

level, for we emphasize on the passion that you bring to<br />

Mean Records. Whether you are in the beginning stages of<br />

entering into the industry and need strengthening training<br />

for your vocals, song writing mentorship, would like to<br />

learn a new instrument, or simply need fine-tuning of<br />

your current skills; we facilitate and cater to your needs.<br />

Making Entertainment Always Noticeable”<br />

Additional Accomplishments:<br />

But there’s more than one “rabbit” in Jadams hat. He’s also<br />

an accomplished writer, having published a one-year labor<br />

of love project titled: “Mixingology”, a book that serves as<br />

a definitive guide to what artist need to know about the<br />

music industry prior to signing a legally binding contract.<br />

We send nothing but the highest prayers of peace, success<br />

and breakthrough to our brother Jason Adams. We will<br />

make sure to keep a look out for future projects and artist<br />

being birth forward from this empowering and positive label.<br />

“Being responsible for all aspects<br />

of the label, I am involved in every<br />

facet of the label. Mean Records has<br />

a high emphasis standards in getting<br />

music artist out there, personifying<br />

there dreams and working alongside<br />

(aspiring) artist in the making of their<br />

goals. We make their dreams a living<br />

reality! As we cover a wide range of music<br />

genres from R&B, Neo-Soul, Reggae, Hip<br />

Hop, Pop, Gospel, Jazz and much more.”<br />

December <strong>2017</strong> 21


KEEDY BLACK<br />

The Queen and Her NOLA Court!<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Contributing Author<br />

Keedy Black is a A Female Rap Artist, Motivational<br />

Speaker, Mentor, Community Activist, Owner Of<br />

M.M.M, LLC. And The Founder Of KB Foundation.<br />

Ms. Keedy Black has burning the NOLA airwaves up with<br />

her music, songs namely HAMMER, Rock My World<br />

which contains a small sample of the late great Michael<br />

Jackson, Rock Then Lean in addition her new single Rock<br />

The Boat (produced by Mr. Hanky) which is currently<br />

getting airplay in New Orleans FM, surrounding areas<br />

& Internet stations. Rock Then Lean Featuring the late<br />

Magnolia Shorty who released her first popular album<br />

on the Cash Money Records Label as far back as 1997.<br />

Keedy is features on a couple of other popular songs.<br />

to experience at a young age. Drawing turned into<br />

poetry, then poetry turned into music. Keedy Black<br />

started Rapping at the tender age of 8 yrs. She began<br />

performing at talent shows. She performed at School<br />

dances, church, block parties etc.... along with her<br />

cousin (The Late) Magnolia Shorty who rapped<br />

with Cash Money Records. Keedy had a strong stage<br />

presence, even at a young age she stood out from others.<br />

She would get the party started and before you knew<br />

it, she’s doing a thirty-five or forty- five-minute set.<br />

The passing of Magnolia Shorty forced Keedy<br />

to focus even harder on mastering her own craft<br />

and develop her own brand. While developing<br />

her brand Keedy decided that she should use<br />

her celebrity to help others. Keedy Black<br />

Foundation local citywide campaign to help<br />

STOP THE VIOLENCE that has overtaken<br />

her city and claimed the life of so many,<br />

including her sons father & her beloved cousin,<br />

Magnolia Shorty (Who was killed by gun fire).<br />

She also has a youth program (Keedy Black<br />

Dolls) mentoring young girls ages 7-18 yrs.<br />

Now Keedy is currently working on her<br />

untitled debut album. So be on the lookout<br />

and GET READY FOR THE NEXT BIG<br />

THANG & LATEST RISING STAR From NoL<br />

Today Keedy is pushing several popular songs and<br />

enjoying the benefits of such, as she gets to perform<br />

paid shows. Keedy opened up shows for jazz fest, Nola<br />

Hip Hop Awards, NoLa Summer Jam, A3C (Atlanta),<br />

SXSW (Austin), Core Dsj’s Retreat & Conference<br />

(Atlanta), Virdiko Conference (Dallas) Salute The<br />

Dj Awards (Atlanta), Peace Fest. (N.O) Nola Expose<br />

Magazine fashion show & appeared on front cover of<br />

other magazines as well. Performance continues, etc.<br />

She’s opened shows for artists such as Trina, Mia X, Jay<br />

Electronica, Ghetto Twins, Big Freedia, 2Chainz, Meek<br />

Mill, Rick Ross , Juvenille, Hot Boy Turk , Rich Homie<br />

Quan, Ymcmb Lil Chuckie., Kevin Gates , Tank, Master<br />

P, Young Greatness, Shamarr Allen & The Band, DejLoaf,<br />

Hot 8 Brass Band, Genuine and more. She is starred<br />

as an actress in The Rap pack video “Black women”<br />

which premiered on 106&Park & Big Dawg (Movie).<br />

Keedy Black Is a Motivation to many (old<br />

& young) In The city of New Orleans, she<br />

Is Currently Traveling on school tour speaking to the youth.<br />

Speaking at Church engagements, community Events, etc.<br />

Hailing from the Magnolia public housing development,<br />

that has given birth to some of New Orleans most<br />

notable music greats such as, Turk, Juvenile, Soulja<br />

Slimm, Wacko and Jay Electronica, just to name a few,<br />

in addition to a few others. Being the latest prodigy<br />

to come from the Nolia is Keshawn Harris, also<br />

known as, Keedy Black. Keedy was influenced early<br />

on by then popular recording artist Foxy Brown. She<br />

was also motivated by a New Orleans living legend<br />

and first female on The N.o Limit label Mia X.<br />

Coming up in a troubled household Keedy started<br />

drawing to escape the anger & pain that she had<br />

On the behalf of <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine staff, I would like<br />

to say that Keedy Black’s biography is remarkable.<br />

The many successes that she has accomplished in<br />

her life time is nothing short of amazing. As a female<br />

artist and industry professional, we here at <strong>SAUDA</strong><br />

Magazine understand the many obstacles she has been<br />

forced to overcome; especially in a male dominated<br />

career field. And her biography of excellence<br />

demonstrates a spirit of excellence and tenacity that’s an<br />

inspiration to all who will be blessed by her testimony.<br />

With that being said, let’s get started with the interview:<br />

Q. When did you know (within yourself) that a<br />

career in music was what you wanted to pursue?<br />

I was born with the gift, but I never took it seriously<br />

until I lost my cousin (Magnolia Shorty). She was<br />

murdered in 2010. It was more of her passion &<br />

I continue to carry on strong to keep her alive.<br />

Then I begin to take my place as a full-time artist.<br />

Q. When and where did you meet Mr. Hanky?<br />

I met Mr. Hanky through Young Money Cash Money<br />

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Former artist Lil Chuckie (in Atlanta, Ga. 2012)<br />

Q. What artist would you say has had the<br />

biggest influence on your music career?<br />

The Late Magnolia Shorty (cash money rec. former artist)<br />

Q. Tell us a little about your experience living<br />

in the Magnolia public housing development;<br />

and how it helped form not only your character?<br />

Living in the Magnolia Housing Development<br />

taught me how to survive, it showed me my strengths<br />

through my struggles, I overcame a lot of obstacles.<br />

Q. Are you willing to speak candid upon your past<br />

(your childhood) that encouraged you to develop your<br />

artistic talents and eventually lead you to music?<br />

Absolutely!! I’m an open book. God gave me the<br />

mountain to show ppl. From near & far It can be<br />

Moved. So, I am willing & ready to encourage others &<br />

to tell them what encouraged me & helped me develop<br />

Q. You’re spearheading a city-wide campaign<br />

to help “Stop the Violence” can you speak<br />

on the motivation behind that movement?<br />

I lost my oldest son father 2015 & I lost my cousin<br />

2010 both to Violence & it left me broken hearted<br />

for years to come. I grieved for years. I began to look<br />

around & see other ppl. Going through in their own<br />

way, while others got comfortable with the murder<br />

stats. I established a foundation & I started a Annual<br />

Stop The Violence March, Rally & motivational<br />

conferences to help raise awareness & to educate my city<br />

were, until I started getting positive feedback. Sharing<br />

my story & experience empower & inspire many.<br />

Q. Tell us about M.M.M, LLC and KB Foundation?<br />

KB Foundation (Non profit) My Community<br />

Services. My mentoring program (KB Dolls), School<br />

Tour, My Stop The Violence Movement, Xmas, Back<br />

to school & Book Giveaways under one umbrella.<br />

Q. Tell us about your traveling school tour that has<br />

open the doors needed for you to reach the youth?<br />

I have been touring schools for years. I use my platform<br />

to perform & speak to the kids. I encourage them to<br />

stay focus, the importance of reading, to get ready<br />

for Leap, to love, respect & motivate themselves, etc.<br />

Q. What are some future projects you’re working<br />

on or artist that you would like to work within the<br />

future, that you would like to share with our readers?<br />

I am working on more inspirational music to help<br />

someone over obstacles, to move mountains & to keep<br />

Making Major Moves. We all are going through or have<br />

been through. It easy for me to party & dance with them,<br />

I wanna face real life situations with them, encourage<br />

& inspire them to live & Be blessed above measures.<br />

You can follow Keedy Black at<br />

@iamkeedyblack on Instagram<br />

Search for her on Facebook by Keedy<br />

Black (or KeedyBlakk)<br />

Q. So, I’m in love with your “Keedy Black Dolls”<br />

young woman’s mentoring campaign. What lead<br />

you to start this campaign and what has changed<br />

in you while mentoring these young women?<br />

I Love Kids. I love to teach them, I have always been a<br />

giver since my child hood. When I see a lot of younger<br />

ages 5-18yrs. That Have lack of guidance, respect,<br />

love & education I think about myself when I was<br />

their age. I give them everything I wanted from my<br />

mom, a mentor or my teacher. If I can’t provide those<br />

services I find someone who can provide. I educate,<br />

mentor & teach them dance. This upcoming year<br />

KB Dolls is headed in a bigger & better direction.<br />

Q. Speaking of mentorship what lead<br />

you to become a motivational speaker?<br />

I been speaking for years, but I never noticed the impact<br />

I had on ppl. & how powerful my life experiences<br />

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A Stellar Stunner!<br />

As the daughter of a Pastor, Kristina discovered her<br />

musical gift at a young age. Her power-house vocals<br />

are nothing short of heavenly, as she grooves into a<br />

modern message (and evolved traditional Gospel artform)<br />

that reaches all ages and Christian genera’s.<br />

Back in 2013 Halloway released her 13 track debut<br />

album titled “Free” – which included her hit single<br />

“It’s Only You”. The anointing of this album gave<br />

Kristina the elevation she needed to earn a BET<br />

nomination. In which she was able to sing her hit for<br />

the President Of Entertainment for BET Steven Hill.<br />

Kristina’s single Peaked at the Billbord Top 100<br />

single Charts as #11.. Also in Canada Top 20 as #17<br />

on the charts.. In 2011 she took home the Stellar<br />

Award for New Artist of the Year. To include the<br />

fact that Kristina was awarded a Situation from<br />

Homeland Security for being such a Great Rolemodel<br />

in the community.<br />

This sister is on fire for faith! Dedicated to giving the<br />

living waters of the word to the world. Quenching<br />

the ‘thirst’ of those desperate for salvation. Her<br />

discography is impressive. Ms. Halloway’s Credits<br />

include:<br />

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• Singing background for platinum singer/<br />

Songwriter Lil’ Mo<br />

• Sharing the stage with such Greats as Toby Mac,<br />

Vickie Winans, Jars Of Clay, Castings Crowns,<br />

John Cook, Dave Hollister and Many others<br />

• She was produced by multiple Emmy Award<br />

winner Ed Weinberger.<br />

BUT SHE’S ALSO AN ACTRESS!<br />

She has shined for an acting role in “The Greatest<br />

Love Story Ever Told” Sharing the stage with<br />

Richard Roundtree, Anna Marie Harsford, Clifton<br />

Davis, Miguel Nunez, Guy Torry, Tommy Davidson,<br />

Tatyana Ali and Hezekiah Walker. And it doesn’t<br />

stop there…..<br />

Kristina Halloway has her sights set on acquiring<br />

her dreams one accomplishment at time, Inspiring<br />

our youth that with God all things are possible,<br />

Uplifting Our Leaders and become a revered force in<br />

the Gospel/Christian Community. Kristina released<br />

her single “Faith On A Thousand” last year 2016.<br />

And she’s currently working on recording her<br />

Upcoming EP..<br />

Award Winning Gospel<br />

Artist | Song Writer<br />

Kristina Halloway<br />

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Rebuilding Trust<br />

after an Affair<br />

By Tashadnra Poullard<br />

A woman wrote into a blog column by author Guy Finley,<br />

a spiritual advisor that provides relationships advice<br />

from time to time, seeking guidance on how to get over<br />

her husband’s infidelity. Of course she was distraught,<br />

and even went so far as to blame herself for his actions.<br />

And for me personally, the advice given to this woman<br />

in regards to how to deal with the pain of her husband’s<br />

affair was some of the best advice that I’ve witnessed.<br />

The column reads:<br />

“Please keep me anonymous…I’m trying to apply your advice to<br />

a light crisis I’m facing, caused by my husband’s infidelity. And<br />

I’m trying to not allow fear or pain to tell me what to do. I realize<br />

that I can only trust God, and that I am perfect in His eyes, but<br />

my question is, how can I not be in pain at the loss of trust and<br />

intimacy with my husband?<br />

Wasn’t that what I was supposed to gain through marriage?”<br />

Guy’s perfect response reads:<br />

“It’s never easy when we find ourselves in these kinds of painful<br />

situations. And I hope that the following words of advice and<br />

encouragement will assist with making some sense of the situation,<br />

even if not right away. And that in the days…weeks…and<br />

months ahead you’ll receive the help they’re intended to bring.”<br />

First things first, your pain is not to be denied, but rather used<br />

by you. Meaning instead of allowing it to use you ‘up’ with<br />

useless self-condemnation, or raging regret and resentment<br />

towards your husband, learn to use it.<br />

How is that done?<br />

Start by realizing that your sense of loss is as great as it is<br />

because you wrongly believed that you could find the<br />

wholeness your heart longs for in the eyes, heart and<br />

mind of another human being. Yes! a good relationship<br />

can and should bring us happiness, joy and a sense of<br />

love, these are good things and are a part of the simple<br />

pleasure of being human. But the real reason for our<br />

relationships with others is for an altogether different<br />

reason. Which is of a higher order that can be stated<br />

as such: relationships (whatever the nature) are there<br />

for us to learn the truth about ourselves through them.<br />

Your husband’s actions are not a reflection of<br />

your character or anything you’ve done wrong<br />

unless you insist on seeing yourself that way.<br />

Now, I add (me Tashandra) that any woman or man in<br />

such a situation should take this time of reflection to<br />

look within yourselves to figure out what constitutes<br />

happiness for you vs. seeking it in other people.<br />

Guy goes onto say that he advises she not allow this<br />

unfortunate situation to cause her heart be overcome with<br />

bitterness, and lead her into the belief that real love doesn’t<br />

exist. Because it does but the lesson instead should be<br />

that she (and everyone else) should learn to look for love<br />

in the right paces. Whenever we discover (as we always<br />

eventually do) that everything, even the best of things is<br />

only temporary, it is then that we’re on the right path to<br />

finding what is everlasting and that already lives within us.<br />

Here’s some DO’s and Don’ts of Getting Past An<br />

Extra-marital Affair<br />

To better understand extra-marital affairs, Christian Post<br />

Guest columnist Joe Beam Breaks down how it affects<br />

those involved:<br />

The Short-Lived Affair: Last from one night to several<br />

months and is primarily about sex. Subcategories include<br />

revenge affairs. Were you’re trying to get back at your<br />

spouse. These are the affairs of opportunity (at the right<br />

place…at the right time and doing the wrong thing)<br />

and are often called “self-esteem booster” affairs. I have<br />

some friends who’ve confided in me that they’ve had the<br />

self-esteem booster affairs, were they’ve found someone<br />

who’s accepted their looks, their weight/size or made<br />

them feel better about themselves in exchange for sex or<br />

to provide a comfort that they lack from their spouse.<br />

The Allowed Affair: this is an interesting one because<br />

it has become more prevalent with the graying of what<br />

constitutes marriage. Once referred to as ‘swinging’ or<br />

open marriage is now called “the life style” by willing<br />

participants. Were one spouse (or both) are allowed to<br />

have girlfriends/boyfriends and/or sleep with other people.<br />

The most difficult kind of affair to overcome is...<br />

The Relationship Affair: This affair typically starts<br />

as a friendship that evolves into shared emotions and<br />

eventually shared bodies. These in Relationship Affairs<br />

usually are in love with one another and in some cases<br />

madly in love and unable to stop the affair. Thus the reason<br />

so many relationship affairs lead to separation or divorce<br />

because no matter how strongly you attempt to break<br />

away from the union or how much work the abandoned<br />

spouse puts effort into trying to save the marriage, the<br />

affair never ends. And in such unforeseen circumstances<br />

such passages as Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 are<br />

incorporated by the church to grant the offended spouse<br />

the right to start a new life with a new mate, and few<br />

ill blame him or her for moving on with their life.<br />

So how do you save these marriages?<br />

I’ve found some suggestions that people have provided<br />

to men and women facing a pending divorce as are result<br />

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of an affair. Some of which I agree with and disagree<br />

with - and I’ll say why (my answers are written in red).<br />

The councilor suggested advice was given in relation<br />

to healing for the abandoned spouse during an affair:<br />

Believe that an affair, even an exceptionally strong<br />

Relationship/Love Affair, is not necessarily the end of a<br />

marriage. Many advise that the abandoned spouse not<br />

give up on the marriage and to keep praying and doing<br />

the right things, no matter how hopeless it may seem.<br />

Speaking for myself, I agree and disagree with this statement.<br />

For the simple fact that it’s not about you praying for their<br />

change in heart, because that means nothing if he or she<br />

doesn’t desire to make a change and fix what’s broken within<br />

themselves – while communicating resolve with the spouse<br />

they’ve abandoned. Instead pray that you find the courage<br />

within self to listen to what God and the Universe is telling you<br />

in regards to what step you should take next in this situation.<br />

Yes- I do agree that you must pray God gives them<br />

peace, most importantly that God provides peace for<br />

yourself; but I honestly wouldn’t pray they eventually<br />

‘see the light’ and do what’s right. Particularly for<br />

women (and some men) who’re in abusive unions.<br />

Don’t beg or attempt to manipulate the adulterer. She or he is<br />

already emotionally on edge, and emotional actions from you<br />

exacerbate the situation. Be firm, but always loving and calm.<br />

I’ve been in this situation before. I’ve witnessed women<br />

in my family be in this situation before. And I personally<br />

advise that your remove yourself from a potentially<br />

hostile environment and do not allow yourself to<br />

be subjected to his or her emotional instability and<br />

abuse. Because no matter how clam you are (as the one<br />

being cheated on) he or she is not in a place of mental<br />

stability. Which threatens your safety and well-being.<br />

Don’t try to convince him or her that the extra lover<br />

(or lovers) is a bad person or is primarily responsible<br />

for the affair. This tactic may work in a Short-Lived<br />

Affair. However, it typically causes a person in a<br />

Relationship Affair to develop an “us against the world”<br />

union with the lover and strengthening their bond.<br />

In other words, it’s not the other person (or people) who<br />

made them cheat he or she did so because they choose<br />

to do so. Thus I…MEANING ME PERSONALLY<br />

wouldn’t waste breath or time on a clock trying to make<br />

the other person look like a villain. If anything I’ll help<br />

you out by packing my bags and moving on myself.<br />

I DO NOT agree with this one!<br />

Drag out any divorce proceedings as long as<br />

possible. Relationship experts state that the intense<br />

emotions involved with being “madly in love” with the<br />

extra-marital spouse last anywhere from six to thirty-six<br />

months. Though the straying spouse may become angry<br />

and try to manipulate the abandoned spouse into divorce<br />

(e.g. “I’ll make things tougher for you if you don’t go<br />

along with me ...”), the abandoned spouse should be<br />

strong and endure the other’s wrath by dragging out the<br />

divorce process as long as possible. There is a very real<br />

possibility that the abandoning spouse will eventually lose<br />

the intensity of desire to be with the lover. Don’t give up!<br />

I’m sorry! But if you feel what you’ve found in the other<br />

woman or man is better than what you thought you have<br />

or had in me, or even possibly would have in me…. let<br />

me help you out chief! We’ll sign them papers and keep<br />

it moving. Again…I love my life…and I love me. Life is<br />

too short and tomorrow is never promised. So I’m not<br />

going to allow myself to spend extra money and energy<br />

trying to make you miserable so you can come back to me.<br />

It’s just not that serious.<br />

The abandoned spouse should demonstrate his or her ability<br />

to survive and prosper without the abandoning spouse. He<br />

or she must concentrate on physical, mental, emotional,<br />

and spiritual health. This accomplishes two things. 1)<br />

The abandoned spouse needs this for him- herself. 2) The<br />

abandoning spouse often is drawn back to the abandoned<br />

spouse when He or She continues to be strong and self-sufficient.<br />

I agree and disagree with this statement. I agree that you<br />

should do exactly as this statement says, but do it for you!<br />

And not for them. Do it for your child(ren) in efforts to<br />

build a better life for them and yourselves. Now if ol’ boy<br />

or ol girl want to be in the lives of the kids….DO NOT<br />

stop them from doing so. But do not go out and attempt<br />

to do the right things for the wrong reasons…trying to<br />

show someone else up who’s not even thinking about you.<br />

In fervent prayer ask that God to bring chaos, financial<br />

distress, and anything else He will do to cause pain as a<br />

result of the sinner’s actions and to create circumstances so<br />

that it is difficult for him or her to continue in the affair.<br />

NO SIR! NO MA’AM! YOU DO NOT pray for the worst<br />

over anyone. If anything you pray for the best…pray that<br />

God has mercy on them (understanding that vengeance is<br />

the lords and not yours) and most importantly you pray<br />

that God gives you the grace and mercy in your heart to<br />

find the courage to forgive them for their transgressions,<br />

so you don’t be foolish enough to make the next man<br />

or woman pay for what he/she did. Holding onto<br />

bitterness towards those who’ve hurt you by praying the<br />

worst for them is not of God! If anything thank God for<br />

exposing to you who they really are, and keep it moving.<br />

The abandoned spouse should procure an attorney that<br />

will protect his or her rights, finances, and the like.<br />

The attorney should make the divorce as painful<br />

as possible - financially and otherwise - to the<br />

abandoning spouse while still protecting the interests<br />

of the abandoned spouse. Expect the abandoning<br />

spouse to react with anger. However, making sin have<br />

strong negative consequences is the right thing to do.<br />

Yes and No. Hire an attorney that will protect your<br />

assets and interest - but again do not waste time nor<br />

energy trying to make someone miserable. It’s not your<br />

place or right to make them suffer for their actions.<br />

The church should practice discipline, though in<br />

our day and age that hasn’t nearly the effect it had in<br />

biblical times. It’s so easy now to walk down the street<br />

and go to another church. However, if done in love<br />

and compassion, it still may have the needed effect.<br />

He advises that the church ‘chastens’ the unfaithful<br />

spouse, but I don’t agree with that either, because<br />

in many cases that I’ve witnessed personally, the<br />

cheating spouse isn’t into church. So not only is that<br />

a waste of advice, but again a waste of time. And it’s<br />

no one’s business what’s going on in your marriage.<br />

And DO NOT bring other people into your personal<br />

affairs. That includes family, because that’s none of<br />

their business and these people will still be judging<br />

your spouse for their transactions (as if he/she did<br />

something to them personally) after you’ve moved on<br />

and have forgiven them. And do know that you’ll look<br />

really stupid and untrustworthy to your spouse when<br />

you’re trying to mend broken fences if it gets back to<br />

him or her that you’ve told everyone their business.<br />

Convince the straying spouse to take one last action before<br />

ending the marriage. Sometimes the abandoned spouse<br />

does this by offering a concession such as, “I’ll give on this<br />

point in the divorce if you do this.” Sometimes a friend,<br />

church leader, or even the person’s child may convince<br />

him or her that, for conscience sake, he or she should do<br />

one more thing to see if there is any hope for the marriage.<br />

I’m sorry, I can’t do this and I won’t advise anyone else do<br />

it. If he or she wants to leave, again don’t stop them. I’m<br />

not going to bargain with anyone and make compromises<br />

with someone who’ve proven they can’t stay faithful.<br />

IN closing, when the man I (thought) I loved left me for<br />

another woman, it was the best thing that could have ever<br />

happened to me. While I was in the relationship with<br />

him I couldn’t see him for who and what he really was.<br />

I was what a call “In love with the idea of being in<br />

love” that I couldn’t see that he didn’t love me as much<br />

as I loved him. We all have our perceptions of what the<br />

perfect match looks like for us. And he was my idea of<br />

“perfect” for me at that particular stage in my life. What<br />

I didn’t know (nor care to see) at that time was that:<br />

A. I wasn’t emotionally and psychologically ready for<br />

a marriage: I thought marriage was what I wanted<br />

because everyone was telling me that was the next step<br />

in my life. I was educated, I had a successful career in<br />

the military and I was ready for a family – but it was<br />

all a vision that others had passed to me, based upon<br />

their ideas of gender-roles, the traditional family unit<br />

and their definition of success. I couldn’t see that I<br />

still had some emotional baggage from past traumas<br />

(my childhood) that need to be resolved before I could<br />

build a foundation for marriage with anyone. And had<br />

I married the man I thought I loved then, I assure this<br />

Column would have been addressing my marriage.<br />

B. I didn’t understand how hard marriage really is:<br />

It’s not easy being married! Everyone I speak with<br />

that’s married all tell me that marriage by far is one of<br />

the hardest things they’ve ever done. It’s not for the faint<br />

at heart. It takes time to build a stable foundation of<br />

love, trust, humility, honor, integrity and respect in a<br />

union. Especially I today’s age of superficial expectations<br />

and selfish fulfillment. If you’re not will to make just<br />

as many sacrifices as you demand your spouse make for<br />

you, it won’t’ work. Because you can’t get anything more<br />

out of marriage than what you’re willing to put into it.<br />

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December <strong>2017</strong> 31


Black Dollars and the Jack Pot: A Call<br />

to Potential Investors<br />

Back in 2013, I conducted a survey of Black women<br />

in the state of Florida, mainly within the City Limits<br />

of Miami, FL. Where I simply showed them pictures<br />

of some of the women highlighted in our magazine<br />

prototype. And I asked if they would be willing to<br />

purchase a magazine that featured said women, but was<br />

also inclusive of women of Afro-Latino/Hispanic/Mexican,<br />

Caribbean, Southwest Asian and Pacific Islander heritage.<br />

The answer was overwhelmingly yes by at least 98%!<br />

Many of the women were ready to purchase the magazine<br />

on the spot because they thought it was currently for sale.<br />

No other magazine is doing this! There’s isn’t a magazine<br />

in the United States that’s taking their mission of Black<br />

feminine empowerment to women in other countries,<br />

and combining it with black empowerment here in the<br />

U.S. to include Multimedia Business opportunities.<br />

We are marketable and accessible to all women! Affordable<br />

and inclusive! Other magazines may feature stories<br />

on models from other lands, but they’re not actually<br />

traveling to these locations and doing an entire edition<br />

on these women their beauty, culture and heritage.<br />

The Buying Power of The Black Dollar<br />

As Black buying power continues to increase, rising from its<br />

$1 trillion level to a forecast between $1.3 to $1.5 trillion<br />

by the end of <strong>2017</strong>. Black buying power has seen an 86<br />

percent increase since 2000 - and accounts for 8.7 percent<br />

of the nation’s total. The growth in black buying power<br />

stems in part from an increase in the number of blackowned<br />

businesses as well as from an increase in education<br />

among the African-American population, which leads to<br />

higher incomes. Despite historically high unemployment<br />

rates, Blacks or people of African heritage have shown<br />

resiliency in their ability to persevere as consumers. African-<br />

Americans continue to be significant consumers and heavy<br />

influencers of goods and services purchased in the United<br />

States. As an entrepreneur, the (real) challenge is determining<br />

how to successfully tap into this significant amount of<br />

purchasing power to provide value and make a profit.<br />

<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is working diligently to<br />

commandeer roughly half of this market!<br />

Our Advantage<br />

We have what’s called a “Distinctive Competence” meaning<br />

we have a competitive advantage because we are not just<br />

U.S. based. No other magazine for Black women caters to all<br />

women of the African diaspora. What (well known) media<br />

outlet can say focuses on the beauty needs of Black women in<br />

Spain, to the South of France, much less travel to Norway and<br />

Mexico to feature the beauty of women who share African<br />

heritage in these regions? That’s a completely different market<br />

and demographics that is ripe for harvesting. We are breaching<br />

boarders while pulling from international resources creating:<br />

International Investment Potential: Our investors here in<br />

the U.S. have the option to engage in various business ventures<br />

that would transpire from doing business with various media<br />

companies and platforms overseas. <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is an<br />

international brand that serves as a conduit between U.S.<br />

(Black owned) backed dollars and investments that can become<br />

a launching pad for potential investments with our partners<br />

overseas. Especially as it pertains to fashion and mechanizing,<br />

multimedia platforms and the entertainment industry.<br />

If I had to break it down, these are the main components we<br />

offer an investor:<br />

We Assist With Finding the Money – We can provide<br />

digital media that will assist our investors with becoming<br />

more ‘appealing’ to potential business partners – building<br />

an international brand for our customers and clients. We<br />

are working diligently to utilize our connections to the<br />

film industry - assist with hunting down product investors,<br />

and providing film incentives via product placement,<br />

even announcement of pre-sales via our magazine.<br />

Distribution - Building relationships with global<br />

sales agents in other countries, film festival<br />

organizers and producer reps assist our investors with<br />

making additional connections in sales and film.<br />

Casting – Some of our models could<br />

become the new face of your product!<br />

Audience Research - You might not have the resources<br />

of a studios marketing dept. but we can assist with<br />

that by producing the media needed to reach your<br />

targeted demographics and broadcasting your brand.<br />

Monetary Funnels – We scratch our investors back<br />

and they scratch ours. Our magazine could serve<br />

as an additional financial outlet (via print, digital<br />

media and film) that can convert our domestic<br />

investors brands into an international brand.<br />

Aesthetic Taste/Production Value – Via our<br />

advertisement department we can create the<br />

visual look and appeal of the investment brand that<br />

can be later incorporated into independent films, via<br />

the company website, press kits and printing material.<br />

Giving Back To the Community<br />

We are seeking to employ TSU, University of Houston,<br />

The Art Institute of Houston, Houston Baptist University,<br />

Rice and Houston Community College and international<br />

college graduates as not just interns, but our PAID staff!<br />

We want students to have JOBS as soon as they graduate in<br />

Public Relations<br />

Commercial Advertisement<br />

Business Sales and Acquisition<br />

Graphic Design<br />

Website Development<br />

Video Production<br />

And Photography<br />

TV and Radio Broadcasting<br />

Journalism<br />

Fashion Design/Interior Decorating<br />

Copy Writing<br />

Business Law<br />

Publishing<br />

Not only will our potential partners be investing building<br />

the foundation for <strong>SAUDA</strong>, but they’re assisting us with<br />

create opportunities for Black models and college graduates,<br />

while creating job opportunities in the Houston, New<br />

York, Washington D.C., Miami, FL, Los Angeles, CA,<br />

Chicago, IL and area(s)! To include our future offices in<br />

London England, Ghana Africa, Dubai and Singapore.<br />

I repeat, you are assist with creating jobs for college graduates!<br />

To learn more about this potential, connect with<br />

Ms. Tashandra (Tasha) Poullard at 346.917.9992 or<br />

Mrs. Erline Germain at germain.erline@gmail.com.<br />

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December <strong>2017</strong> 33


Artistic Freedom<br />

Being an artist in this day and age seems relative as everyone<br />

is labeling themselves as an artist. So what does it mean to<br />

be an artist? An artist in my opinion is a creator. They are<br />

in touch with their emotions deep enough to share with<br />

others the inner rhythms that drive them. I use art as a form<br />

of expression and artistic freedom. In addition to painting,<br />

I enjoy writing essays, poetry, screenplays, books and<br />

expressing creativity around the house. It is something that<br />

I am not something that I do. Art is a part of me as much as<br />

my eyes. I was born with it and have found it hard to express<br />

in this world. Please feel free to enjoy some of my work<br />

and know that it comes from a place of artisitic freedom.<br />

-Erline<br />

Erline Germain is a breakout visual artist. Her color and abstract<br />

driven paintings are inspired from the innate representations of her<br />

emotions, dreams, and life experiences. Her original works stem from<br />

a vivid imagination based on capturing the essence of bold, strong,<br />

and vivid colors. Her comprehensive works are heavily influenced by<br />

the Abstract Expressionism movement present in the 1940’s and 50’s<br />

as well as the works of Frida Kahlo, Salvador Dali, and Pablo Picasso.<br />

Erline uses movement, shape, color, floral schematics, and abstract<br />

insights to reveal a once silenced voice. She started painting when<br />

there seemed to be nothing left to live for. Her life took a tragic turn<br />

as her all her relationships crumbled and her spirit was broken. This<br />

caused her life force to become severely depressed. Erline was born<br />

in Haiti and battled with her identity and voice as she grew up in<br />

America. She experienced the multiple societal standards of both<br />

cultures and never understood how to fit into their molds. As Erline<br />

turned to the colors of paint they revived something within her heart<br />

and led to her truth of existence. All she needed was to be- Erline.<br />

Erline seeks to create emotional expressions in the observer. This response<br />

personalizes her work, ultimately leaving an imprint on one’s spirit.<br />

Check out Erline Germain’s work erlineart.com and design work<br />

germain.erline@gmail.com.<br />

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December <strong>2017</strong> 35


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36 December <strong>2017</strong>

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