SAUDA MAGAZINE DEC 2017
SAUDA Magazine is the Solution!….Our desire was to create a platform that provided a ‘home’ of self-love, self-respect, and high esteem of women of color
SAUDA Magazine is the Solution!….Our desire was to create a platform that provided a ‘home’ of self-love, self-respect, and high esteem of women of color
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TABLE OF CONTENTS<br />
Welcome<br />
8 The Birth of a New Movement<br />
12 Raising Kane<br />
14 Her Blessings in Essence is Amazing<br />
17 They Hate You Because You Love You<br />
20 Jason Adams<br />
22 Keedy Black<br />
26 Kristina Halloway<br />
28 Rebuilding Trust After an Affair<br />
34 Artistic Freedom<br />
Tashandra Poullard<br />
Co-Founder<br />
“Tarbaby!” “Jiggaboo!” “Blanca!” “Dark and Ugly” are just some of the<br />
names I was called as a child. Not by White Children, but by black children.<br />
Kids who looked like me. The joke often spread was that if I took a bath<br />
I could make choclate milk because I was so black. And that the naps in<br />
my ‘kitchen’ or the back of my neck could be used as buckshots in a pellet<br />
gun. My hair was long and natural, and at times referred to as a ‘rats nest’<br />
because it wasn’t long and loose like the girls who would get relaxers.<br />
I find that I’m more than just my hair, lips, hips, ass and thighs. I’m Neosoul<br />
and classic jazz with a side order of rhythm and blues, old school funk and<br />
deep (Afro) house. But I can shake it up by dancing to some classic rock, and<br />
break it down the Wheels of Steel with some old school hip hop. I’m everything<br />
that encompasses being a woman of body, mind and spirit. A woman of peace,<br />
love and light. A woman that serves the community yet doesn’t forget to uplift herself – and other sisters in<br />
the process. I am an advocate for social justice, peace and change. I stand with my brothers and sister on the<br />
front lines combating police brutality, unjustifiable homicides and social-economic injustice. I stand for the<br />
abolishment of modern day slavery and human trafficking. And I love mother earth. With each breath that I<br />
take, inhaling the birth right of clean air, I exhale the hope that Mother Earth will be healed. Her vibrations will<br />
be balanced and her children become one with her energy.<br />
I seek to mind the wounds of slavery for women of color in the African diaspora. I realized throughout my<br />
travels in the military, that in every country I’ve visited, all the people of color (or a darker complexion) were<br />
economically disenfranchised, socially ostracized and spiritually broken. Thus I created <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine in<br />
the hopes of showing my people (all of God’s people) that being dark doesn’t equate to being ugly. Kinky hair<br />
can be (and is) attractive. May you be a size 2 or 22, you can be (and are) beautiful.<br />
I lived through all of this the majority of my life. Abuse from members in my community, often, so called<br />
friends and even family who felt that my complexion was unappealing. I had a young man refer to me as a<br />
primate that he refused to be associated with by simply sitting next to me on the bus.<br />
“The only way that the value of a Black woman will be restored to its rightful state of<br />
Queendom, and the degradation of our worth will be combated is when we as Black women,<br />
from a global perspective, take our power back. When we are able to recognize, appreciate<br />
and celebrate the beauty that all of us uniquely share, we’ll start moving in the direction of<br />
reconciliation within self and feminine righteousness.”<br />
All these things where hurtful. And for quite some time left me emotionally bitter and scared.<br />
Even now my 13 year old niece often questions her features, simply because she’s as dark as I am. She looks<br />
the physical (Eurocentric) features of characters in Animation, because she believes they’re a definition of what<br />
constitutes beauty.<br />
The Solution to these ‘traditional standards’ of beauty would be to create a platform that provided a<br />
‘home’ of self-love, self-respect, and high esteem of women of color. So women and young girls like<br />
my niece can see women who look like them in beautiful, elaborate colors and fashion. In efforts<br />
to combat the desire by so many women from a global perspective to be seen as more European in<br />
features, and not fully embracing African heritage<br />
Graphic Design by<br />
Erline Germain<br />
erlinegermain.com<br />
Thus, we decided to introduce to the world “<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine”.<br />
Ms. Tashandra Poullard, Owner/Co-Founder<br />
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The Birth of A New<br />
Movement!<br />
Inspiration comes from some of the most unlikely places and<br />
in some of the most unfortunate circumstances. For decades,<br />
black women and young girls have had to socially combat the<br />
many emotional, mental and psychological attacks that have<br />
been waged against the very essence of their overall being.<br />
From the “tigon laws” that required a black woman to wear<br />
head wraps that reduced the attention drawn to elaborate hair<br />
styles in the French Quarters of Louisiana, to the portrayals<br />
of black women in today’s hip hop music and Reality T.V.<br />
as jezebels. Women who share Afro-heritage have always<br />
been subjected to negative stereotypes and superstitions<br />
that have demeaned and demoralized who we really are.<br />
For decades, being dark or having natural hair was seen as<br />
‘bad’ and meant you looked like a slave. Bleaching Creams,<br />
weaves, wigs and colored contacts are used by many women<br />
to escape the realism of seeing their dark skin as a curse.<br />
Subconsciously removing themselves from the possibility of<br />
being subjected to unattractive perceptions of darker skin,<br />
thick lips, a wide nose and natural hair. However, none of<br />
these bleaching creams, weaves, wigs and color contacts<br />
serve as effective methods of non-surgical augmentations,<br />
when the woman within lacks a healthy image of self.<br />
As a result of this desire to be seen as more European in<br />
features, and not fully embracing African heritage, we<br />
decided to introduce to the world “<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine”.<br />
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<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is the Solution! Our desire was to<br />
create a platform that provided a ‘home’ of self-love, selfrespect,<br />
and high esteem of women of color. So women<br />
and young girls like your niece can see women who look<br />
like them in beautiful, elaborate colors and fashion.<br />
What is <strong>SAUDA</strong>?<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is owned by House Of Virgo<br />
Entertainment, LLC a woman and black owned<br />
multimedia entertainment company based in<br />
Houston, TX; that pride itself on providing positive<br />
imagery, restoring honor and integrity to multimedia<br />
markets geared towards minority consumers.<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is available in both print<br />
and digital (online) platforms that features:<br />
High end, high quality fashion<br />
Modeling talent<br />
Afro Style<br />
Fashion and beauty tips for women of color<br />
The primary focus of the magazine is to highlight the diverse<br />
beauty of women who both share and embrace African<br />
heritage, as we plan to utilize the multi-dimensional platform<br />
(Film, Photography, Digital Print and Physical Graphics) of<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine to launch the careers of Afro-Models,<br />
Fashion/Accessory and Cosmetic designers who’re seeking<br />
to break into the Fashion industry; while demonstrating the<br />
For decades, being dark<br />
or having natural hair was<br />
seen as ‘bad’ and meant<br />
you looked like a slave.<br />
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classical beauty and uniqueness of non- traditional fashion.<br />
We’re seeking to break the mold that enforces the unrealistic<br />
standards of Euro-centric beauty. Highlighting fashion from<br />
the various countries; with a heavy concentration upon creating<br />
business ventures between African Nationals and African<br />
Americans who work in the fashion and film making industries.<br />
This magazine will place the diverse beauty of women<br />
who both share and embrace African heritage front<br />
and center in the Fashion Industry and on the Global<br />
Runways. <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine will be used as a platform to<br />
launch the careers of ethnic Fashion Designers seeking to<br />
break into the Fashion industry; while demonstrating the<br />
classical beauty and uniqueness of non- traditional fashion.<br />
“<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine understands that the objectification<br />
of Black women via various media platforms is not only<br />
disturbing, but disheartening, especially when it’s our<br />
brothers assisting with the perpetuation of the negative<br />
portrayals of us. There must come a time when the<br />
global community must step forward and do something<br />
to curtail the continued assault on black femininity.”<br />
Model participation in these film festivals combined with<br />
modeling for <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine increases professional<br />
experience, global exposure and industry connections.<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is working diligently to host a model<br />
and talent search titled “The Magnificent Motherland”<br />
that will feature stops in Southwest Asia, The Middle<br />
East and throughout Africa come 2018, to include<br />
our Muslim Sisters and their fashionable beauty.<br />
The Main Objective<br />
The Core Principle of <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is to use it as<br />
a launching pad for the modeling careers of women<br />
who share and embrace their African lineage by<br />
highlighting the natural beauty of Black women from<br />
all walks of life, of varying hues, and of all shapes and<br />
sizes. We will showcase how the diverse beauty of<br />
a black woman’s hair, skin color and physical build<br />
should be celebrated, but can never be duplicated.<br />
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Raising<br />
Kane<br />
By Tashandra Poullard<br />
12 December <strong>2017</strong><br />
Abibatou Kane<br />
Who Is She?<br />
She exudes class, beauty, style and elegance. Confident<br />
and bold are the word we use to describe Abibatou “Aby”<br />
Kane. As a Project Specialist at Simier Partners LLC, an<br />
international executive coaching firm based in Manhattan,<br />
she specializes in cross-cultural coaching by facilitating<br />
the firm’s transition from one field of clients to another.<br />
Assisting with communicating and meeting the need<br />
of both client and service provider. Her core focus is<br />
business development and spearheading ongoing efforts to<br />
increase the firm’s leadership capacity. While providing a<br />
comprehensive understanding of just how important it is<br />
to incorporate diversity in the company’s services offered.<br />
Education:<br />
Aby received her B.A. in Political Science and Sociology<br />
from Hunter College City University of New York. While<br />
in attendance, she was actively involved in the African<br />
Students Union (ASU), and served as member of the ASU<br />
eBoard; which lead to a key role as a Project Specialist.<br />
Current Works:<br />
Aby is currently on the board(s) of multiple independent<br />
projects and successful start-up businesses. Example:<br />
Pathway Global Learning, an African-Owned business that<br />
aids students outside the United States in the application<br />
process of enrollment into prestigious colleges and<br />
universities. “Sesame Funds” a lucrative crowd-funding<br />
organization that connects potential business owners with<br />
the capital and initial (financial) investments necessary to<br />
kickstart their business.<br />
She’s also served as Communications Expert for District 9,<br />
City Council Candidate, Mamadou Drame.<br />
In Her Spare Time:<br />
Aby pens a collection of soon-to-be published short<br />
stories, loves to read mystery novels and bring watches<br />
“The Office”.<br />
Future Goals:<br />
To become a published author and international business<br />
owner. Mainly one that uses her influence to provide much<br />
needed goods, services and life saving necessities through<br />
out the African diaspora.<br />
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Her Blessings In Essence Is<br />
Simply Amazing!<br />
It’s a very interesting story in regards to how this beautiful<br />
little wonder was brought to our attention. I happened<br />
to save her picture to my phone in another forum that I<br />
often frequent – in efforts to get fresh ideas for our feature<br />
magazine layout. And when I saw her image I immediately<br />
saved her picture, because I felt she would fit perfectly into<br />
our idea of diverse Black beauty. A few weeks later my<br />
PR Representative - Ms. La’Rika Marshall - sends me her<br />
picture and biography, stating that she knows this young<br />
woman and her family personally. And that it would be an<br />
awesome idea to do a feature on her in <strong>SAUDA</strong>.<br />
Let me tell you a little bit about this extremely precious<br />
child. Her name is Amazing! (Represented by CarVer<br />
Communications). She was born in Maryland and is a<br />
5-year old aspiring model of Nigerian heritage. She loves<br />
to sing, dance and she plays violin. Not to mention the<br />
fact that this beautiful creation is bilingual – she speaks<br />
English and French fluently.<br />
She’s currently perfecting her skills at the “Star Maker<br />
Academy” out of Bowie, MD – where she specializes in<br />
Ballet, Tap and Jazz. And has been able to conduct casting<br />
calls in New York City, to include gracing the catwalk with<br />
her style and class at various Fashion Shows throughout<br />
Baltimore, MD. Her unique beauty accompanied by her<br />
bubbly personality will for sure lead to her taking the<br />
modeling and fashion industry by storm.<br />
We’re honored to feature her with <strong>SAUDA</strong> and are looking<br />
forward to following her career accomplishments, as she<br />
continues her successful career.<br />
Much love and respect to you Amazing!<br />
The Houston 2018 “Kissed By The Sun”<br />
Search: Will be held in Houston, TX - January<br />
3 – 13 2018, and is produced by House Of<br />
Virgo Entertainment, LLC. We are currently<br />
seeking beautiful Black women from the<br />
United States that may also become a part of<br />
our first launch edition in 2018. Our goal, is to<br />
continue being dedicated to embracing and<br />
promoting the beauty of Black women with<br />
class, dignity and respect. We are seeking<br />
to promote, support, increase and heighten<br />
interest and awareness of models here in the<br />
Houston regions, while providing them the<br />
opportunity to be discovered by international<br />
filmmakers, screenwriters, producers and<br />
directors in the entertainment industry.<br />
Most importantly throughout the Diaspora.<br />
We’re seeking modeling talent from the<br />
continent of Africa, the United States,<br />
Central and South America, The Caribbean,<br />
Asian Pacific, And through Out Europe to<br />
be featured in our 2018 editions. We’re also<br />
seeking to feature the many great works of<br />
aspiring fashion, shoe, handbag and accessory<br />
makers, hairstylist and makeup artist to<br />
feature their products in our magazine.<br />
My spirit cried with joy, because all the content I’d been<br />
seeking to make this magazine as diversely beautiful<br />
as possible was finding its way to me. And when such<br />
instances happen, you know for a fact that the all mighty<br />
has his hand in it.<br />
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“They Hate You Because<br />
You Love You”<br />
By Tashandra Poullard<br />
16 December <strong>2017</strong><br />
Matthew 5:44<br />
But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you<br />
Psalm 16:8<br />
I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.<br />
Romans 8:28<br />
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love<br />
him, who have been called according to his purpose.<br />
“You want to become more aware of your thoughts and choose your thoughts carefully.<br />
Because you are the masterpiece of your own life.” Dr. Joe Vitale – “The Secret”<br />
“The first step to the secret of manifestation is to ask the Universe for what you want. Make a command<br />
to the Universe! Let the Universe know what you desire and allow it to respond to your thoughts. The<br />
second step is to believe! Believe that its already yours via an unwavering faith (believing in the unseen),<br />
which will bring you to the last and finally step of receiving. Start feeling how you will feel once what<br />
you’ve asked for has manifested itself into your life (because it will).” Lisa Nichols – “The Secret”<br />
I started off this segment with some positive energy and words<br />
of inspiration.<br />
I give you these scriptures and pearls of wisdom, because it<br />
is my strong belief that most of the chaos we are witnessing<br />
transpire in the world is as a result of a spiritual shift that’s<br />
taking place. Many people are finding themselves under<br />
attack because they’re experiencing an awakening, or a<br />
transformation into what I call “higher self”. While Mother<br />
Earth is working diligently to stabilize the polarizing energies<br />
of positive and negative, into a more harmonic balance, a<br />
paradigm of thought that is exponentially gaining momentum<br />
amongst the newly conscious – is leading both power and<br />
wealth that has been stored and exploited by the wicked to be<br />
shifted unto the righteous and meek whom shall inherit the<br />
earth (and all her riches).<br />
People who were once emotionally broken, fiscally<br />
disenfranchised and in psychological despair are waking up<br />
for the first time in their lives and facing their biggest fears.<br />
The fear of doubt, lack, depression and hopelessness is being<br />
destroyed by a shift from negative to positive, that’s being<br />
transmitted by those who’ve been broken. They’re finding the<br />
courage to step out on faith – while gaining the understanding<br />
that this reality we live is really a dream inside of a dream. In<br />
other words, they’re learning that our current state of being is<br />
as a result of our thoughts. We’re starting to see people fully<br />
understand that our (current state) waking lives are merely<br />
a reflection of the manifestations of our subconscious mind<br />
that (in most cases) is always bringing us our biggest obstacles<br />
and fears. These people are no longer focusing upon what they<br />
don’t want and are starting to focus more upon manifesting<br />
what they do desire.<br />
Example include:<br />
A change in the justice system<br />
Effective advocacy for victims<br />
A transference of wealth<br />
A shift in social reform<br />
Addressing the need for global nutrition and suitable living<br />
So many people are starting to understand that in order to<br />
overcome these obstacles, and to grow spiritually, we must<br />
experience a shift of consciousness. And it’s giving life to<br />
advocacy and activism in many forms. Many of us are starting<br />
to learn the importance of operating in a new mentality that<br />
refuses to be locked inside of a box of conventional wisdoms,<br />
social construct and brainwashed rhetoric.<br />
And this is what’s making some people in your immediate<br />
circle uncomfortable with the new and improved version<br />
of you. Your optimism is a blinding light of truth that they<br />
cannot live in. The more awakened you become the more<br />
opposition you’ll face from the people around you who prefer<br />
darkness. You will find that the attacks you experience will be<br />
more so based upon their inability to understand, appreciate<br />
and accept the shift from the old you (that was bitter, jaded<br />
and locked in despair) to the new version of you that sees the<br />
good in all things and how they are all being used for selfimprovement.<br />
For many of us who are experiencing this shift in higher<br />
thought, we’re learning the hard way that some people want<br />
to stay in a metaphorical stage of continuous “sleep”.<br />
While you are learning the beauty in raising your transmissions<br />
(vibrations) to a level of higher thought and consciousness,<br />
you have arrived at specific points in your lives (higher calling)<br />
that will lead you to greater purpose. But! Understand that<br />
in doing so it will be a challenge to assist with facilitating<br />
the awakening process with others. Most importantly, know<br />
that it will be even more difficult for those you attempt to<br />
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enlighten with self-knowledge to accept your new version of<br />
higher self.<br />
Why? Well, some people lack the emotional capacity needed<br />
to receive your greatness.<br />
Some people are mad at you simply because of the choices<br />
you’ve made in life to do better. You have officially stepped<br />
outside of the box they’ve placed you in – while calling their<br />
love for you “unconditional”. Meaning they only love or like<br />
you as long as you don’t exceed the expectations they have set<br />
for you. They are upset with you because you have made the<br />
choice to live right, eat right and take better care of yourself.<br />
A few necessary steps towards change that they lack the will<br />
power to make. They hate the fact that you have chosen<br />
to further educate yourself and set goals for future success.<br />
And every step that you take towards self-improvement (or<br />
small goals that you accomplish) reminds them of where<br />
they could be if they chose to expend the same amount of<br />
time and energy that you dedicate towards self-improvement<br />
upon themselves. These people don’t understand that in<br />
every second we spend alive, we are making choices that help<br />
determine what future paths we will take. And regardless<br />
of which choice we make, we will always find another fork<br />
in the road ahead of us with more decisions to make. But<br />
the difference between the awakened people and those who<br />
prefer “sleep” is that awakened people A. Don’t give up when<br />
presented with forks and obstacles and B. Don’t allow the<br />
forks and obstacles to stop us from striving for greatness.<br />
Awaken people enjoy the journey of learning, growth and<br />
golden wisdom gleaned from personal experience.<br />
Awakened people understand and embrace the fact that each<br />
time you choose a new path more options become available,<br />
with the knowledge that all options will inevitably lead you<br />
back to the original soul contract that you agreed to prior<br />
to incarnation. Your purpose was determined in life before<br />
Mother Earth birthed you. What you endure in life is her way<br />
of leading you too it! No matter what happens, you know and<br />
understand that all things work together for the good – and<br />
will lead to you ultimately walking into what has already been<br />
predestined (or your reason for being). Once awakened, you<br />
learn how strategic planning will assist you with using the<br />
miscalculations, mishaps and wrong choices you’ve made in<br />
life to grow you into a better, more wise and self-aware being.<br />
These lessons teach you the importance of honesty, integrity,<br />
humility and honor in one’s words and deeds.<br />
Everything you need to become your predestined self is within.<br />
And everything you endure assist you with fine tuning your<br />
gifts, talents, and sharpening the skills that you use effortlessly<br />
– when learning who you are and how you will be used in<br />
the grand scheme of life. Those of us who have undergone an<br />
awakening understand that we must be ok with whatever the<br />
universe brings us, because it’s the universes way of clearing<br />
the pathway to self-discovery. It’s a cleaving process that<br />
removes certain people, changes a specific through process<br />
that was imprinted in our psyche by others and helps us to<br />
heal from past trauma.<br />
Example,<br />
They assist with learning to combat emotional damages<br />
experienced by the principalities placed upon us via the<br />
transgressions of others. They are the reason why you<br />
(unknowingly) do some of the things you do. Life experiences<br />
demonstrates to us how important it is to acknowledge that<br />
these dark spirits are ever-present in our sub-conscious, and<br />
how they must be overcome by learning the importance of<br />
forgiveness. These demons are not yours! They have been left<br />
behind by the people who have hurt you. And you can’t get<br />
rid of these spirits until you learn to forgive the one(s) who<br />
gave them to you.<br />
The emotional blinders that hinders our ability to see when<br />
and where we are wrong and how we have wronged others<br />
must be removed. There comes a time in everyone’s life when<br />
we must start fixing what’s broken within self. The mistakes<br />
we make in life assist with making our imperfections present<br />
and clear, in order to pin-point the origins of our own<br />
dysfunction. Sometimes you must keep repeating the same<br />
mistakes in order to become more open to honestly addressing<br />
the issues that you chose to ignore (i.e. admitting when you<br />
are wrong). The reoccurring issues are used as a teaching<br />
mechanism that incorporates an “In Your Face” method of<br />
demonstration. Showing you that you can’t fix what’s broken<br />
if you are not willing to admit that you ARE the main source<br />
of most of your problems (i.e. your thinking, your behaviors<br />
and attitudes affect your quality of life).<br />
The awakened know and understand that each milestone<br />
in life is assisting with molding our future self, and will<br />
continue to guide use on our life path. We take joy in the<br />
things we learn along the way. We understand that the heart<br />
aches, heartbreaks, disappointments, set back, triumphs<br />
and tragedies are the “breadcrumb” clues that God and the<br />
Universe leaves for us to find our way to back to “self”. The<br />
predetermined destiny that was set before we took our first<br />
breath.<br />
While people who are still asleep are unable to see the beauty<br />
in both trouble and triumph.<br />
They are mad at you because they can’t figure out how no<br />
matter what you have gone through in life, no matter<br />
what they have tried to do to you or the snares they have<br />
implemented to obstruct; you still have your peace. You know<br />
who you are and who’s you are (in priesthood with the most<br />
high), because you understand that you have a higher calling.<br />
You live by the “This too shall pass” mantras because you have<br />
seen the power of positive thinking. You understand that<br />
trouble is only temporary.<br />
You are on a mission and nothing they can do or say will stop<br />
you. They hate the fact that no matter what happens you still<br />
show love. You still speak when you see them. You radiate love,<br />
peace and light in the mist of darkness. You are a beacon to<br />
spiritual balance. And you have great compassion for all forms<br />
of life because you are genuinely a very optimistic person. You<br />
understand the principles of the laws of attraction and are<br />
very careful what energy you put out into the universe.<br />
You understand that love is the greatest force on the planet.<br />
Thus, take joy in knowing that the attacks you face from<br />
people are based upon the fact that you are a “soldier” in the<br />
awakening process. You are influencing more people than<br />
they could ever imagine, just by simply being yourself and<br />
accepting your purpose by following the path that God and<br />
the Universe has set you on.<br />
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December <strong>2017</strong> 19
20 December <strong>2017</strong><br />
JASON ADAMS<br />
Legend in the Making<br />
SOCIAL MEDIA<br />
www.meanrecords.com<br />
Facebook: facebook.com/Jason.Adams<br />
YouTube: youtube.com/MeanRecords<br />
Twitter: @MeanRecords<br />
CONTACT INFORMATION<br />
Physical Address:<br />
2104 24th st<br />
Gulfport,MS,39501<br />
Main Phone Number:<br />
(769)233-9958<br />
MEAN RECORDS CUSTOMER SERVICE<br />
Jadams@meanrecords.com<br />
Over the past 40 years Hip Hop has taken a drastic turn. The craft<br />
itself has been compromised and the platform that once launched<br />
such legendary greats as LL Cool J, Erick B and Rakim, KRS-1<br />
and Guru; is now playing host to luke-warm artist that incorporate<br />
mumble-rap over reconfigured trap hooks. The lyrics are laced with<br />
misogynistic undertones, promotion of domestic violence and rape<br />
culture; to include irresponsible behavior and risky promiscuity.<br />
Jason Adams is here to change all of that!<br />
His Mission:<br />
Jason is here to provide an opportunity for marginalized populations<br />
to spin the promotion of negative lifestyles and stereotypes – into<br />
positive platforms and lucrative business opportunities for the<br />
talented disenfranchised. This desire to help this demographics<br />
birth forward Mean Records. An organization that he’s the CEO of.<br />
Background:<br />
Jason (who goes by the name “jadams”) was born in Jackson,<br />
Mississippi. He grew up in a drug-infested and crime riddled<br />
neighborhood, that soon lead to him becoming a product of his<br />
environment. Like many who fall victim to the fast money and<br />
flashy life style, he thought it was an easy way out of the unfortunate<br />
circumstances out of his control. But he soon learned (the hard<br />
way) just how high the stakes involved in this life style really are<br />
when he landed a conspiracy charge that lead to jail time.<br />
While incarcerated, he had an epiphany. He started to see<br />
things a lot clearer and understood that it was time that he<br />
rethink his life, his actions and create a new avenue that would<br />
assist not only himself, but his community with overcoming<br />
the every day struggles of fiscally broken and socially rejected.<br />
The Conduit to Success:<br />
The best way to reach the “lost tribe” (his people) was through<br />
his passion for music. He had a love affair with music every since<br />
the age of 12, in which this passion was inspired by his father<br />
who was a touring gear manager for numerous music bands. He<br />
lives, eats, breaths and sleeps music. Engaging in lyrical therapy<br />
during the earliest and impressionable stages of life assisted<br />
with him developing craft and musical artistry. And opened<br />
doors for him to becoming gainfully employed/heavily<br />
involved in various projects. Thus, it was only natural that<br />
all of his work in music would be combined as one – and<br />
create the final orchestrated concept of Mean Records - a<br />
full scale recording label and studio in Gulfport Mississippi.<br />
In High Demand:<br />
When the mandate of making entertainment always<br />
noticeable’ became apparent, Mean Records (as a label)<br />
became home to a roster of seven notable artist, as well as<br />
a full-service provider to multiple emerging artist. Various<br />
genres are catered to in efforts to create a musical culture<br />
that changes lives. Running the gambit of musical spectrum,<br />
while mixing and mastering the development of artist careers,<br />
their talents and brand. Mean Records provides a comfortable<br />
environment for development that’s more than a boutique<br />
service. The staff assists with graphic design for album cover<br />
development, distribution and recording services, a “brick<br />
and mortar” building for business deals to transpire to<br />
include creating the media outlet needed to launch successful<br />
music careers. There’s even licensing, manufacturing<br />
photography and marketing services available for those<br />
who’re in need of the “total package” of product promotion.<br />
“Through connections to the label, we have all the<br />
necessary commodities that are needed to complete the<br />
total package. We focus on the artist regardless of the<br />
level, for we emphasize on the passion that you bring to<br />
Mean Records. Whether you are in the beginning stages of<br />
entering into the industry and need strengthening training<br />
for your vocals, song writing mentorship, would like to<br />
learn a new instrument, or simply need fine-tuning of<br />
your current skills; we facilitate and cater to your needs.<br />
Making Entertainment Always Noticeable”<br />
Additional Accomplishments:<br />
But there’s more than one “rabbit” in Jadams hat. He’s also<br />
an accomplished writer, having published a one-year labor<br />
of love project titled: “Mixingology”, a book that serves as<br />
a definitive guide to what artist need to know about the<br />
music industry prior to signing a legally binding contract.<br />
We send nothing but the highest prayers of peace, success<br />
and breakthrough to our brother Jason Adams. We will<br />
make sure to keep a look out for future projects and artist<br />
being birth forward from this empowering and positive label.<br />
“Being responsible for all aspects<br />
of the label, I am involved in every<br />
facet of the label. Mean Records has<br />
a high emphasis standards in getting<br />
music artist out there, personifying<br />
there dreams and working alongside<br />
(aspiring) artist in the making of their<br />
goals. We make their dreams a living<br />
reality! As we cover a wide range of music<br />
genres from R&B, Neo-Soul, Reggae, Hip<br />
Hop, Pop, Gospel, Jazz and much more.”<br />
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KEEDY BLACK<br />
The Queen and Her NOLA Court!<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Contributing Author<br />
Keedy Black is a A Female Rap Artist, Motivational<br />
Speaker, Mentor, Community Activist, Owner Of<br />
M.M.M, LLC. And The Founder Of KB Foundation.<br />
Ms. Keedy Black has burning the NOLA airwaves up with<br />
her music, songs namely HAMMER, Rock My World<br />
which contains a small sample of the late great Michael<br />
Jackson, Rock Then Lean in addition her new single Rock<br />
The Boat (produced by Mr. Hanky) which is currently<br />
getting airplay in New Orleans FM, surrounding areas<br />
& Internet stations. Rock Then Lean Featuring the late<br />
Magnolia Shorty who released her first popular album<br />
on the Cash Money Records Label as far back as 1997.<br />
Keedy is features on a couple of other popular songs.<br />
to experience at a young age. Drawing turned into<br />
poetry, then poetry turned into music. Keedy Black<br />
started Rapping at the tender age of 8 yrs. She began<br />
performing at talent shows. She performed at School<br />
dances, church, block parties etc.... along with her<br />
cousin (The Late) Magnolia Shorty who rapped<br />
with Cash Money Records. Keedy had a strong stage<br />
presence, even at a young age she stood out from others.<br />
She would get the party started and before you knew<br />
it, she’s doing a thirty-five or forty- five-minute set.<br />
The passing of Magnolia Shorty forced Keedy<br />
to focus even harder on mastering her own craft<br />
and develop her own brand. While developing<br />
her brand Keedy decided that she should use<br />
her celebrity to help others. Keedy Black<br />
Foundation local citywide campaign to help<br />
STOP THE VIOLENCE that has overtaken<br />
her city and claimed the life of so many,<br />
including her sons father & her beloved cousin,<br />
Magnolia Shorty (Who was killed by gun fire).<br />
She also has a youth program (Keedy Black<br />
Dolls) mentoring young girls ages 7-18 yrs.<br />
Now Keedy is currently working on her<br />
untitled debut album. So be on the lookout<br />
and GET READY FOR THE NEXT BIG<br />
THANG & LATEST RISING STAR From NoL<br />
Today Keedy is pushing several popular songs and<br />
enjoying the benefits of such, as she gets to perform<br />
paid shows. Keedy opened up shows for jazz fest, Nola<br />
Hip Hop Awards, NoLa Summer Jam, A3C (Atlanta),<br />
SXSW (Austin), Core Dsj’s Retreat & Conference<br />
(Atlanta), Virdiko Conference (Dallas) Salute The<br />
Dj Awards (Atlanta), Peace Fest. (N.O) Nola Expose<br />
Magazine fashion show & appeared on front cover of<br />
other magazines as well. Performance continues, etc.<br />
She’s opened shows for artists such as Trina, Mia X, Jay<br />
Electronica, Ghetto Twins, Big Freedia, 2Chainz, Meek<br />
Mill, Rick Ross , Juvenille, Hot Boy Turk , Rich Homie<br />
Quan, Ymcmb Lil Chuckie., Kevin Gates , Tank, Master<br />
P, Young Greatness, Shamarr Allen & The Band, DejLoaf,<br />
Hot 8 Brass Band, Genuine and more. She is starred<br />
as an actress in The Rap pack video “Black women”<br />
which premiered on 106&Park & Big Dawg (Movie).<br />
Keedy Black Is a Motivation to many (old<br />
& young) In The city of New Orleans, she<br />
Is Currently Traveling on school tour speaking to the youth.<br />
Speaking at Church engagements, community Events, etc.<br />
Hailing from the Magnolia public housing development,<br />
that has given birth to some of New Orleans most<br />
notable music greats such as, Turk, Juvenile, Soulja<br />
Slimm, Wacko and Jay Electronica, just to name a few,<br />
in addition to a few others. Being the latest prodigy<br />
to come from the Nolia is Keshawn Harris, also<br />
known as, Keedy Black. Keedy was influenced early<br />
on by then popular recording artist Foxy Brown. She<br />
was also motivated by a New Orleans living legend<br />
and first female on The N.o Limit label Mia X.<br />
Coming up in a troubled household Keedy started<br />
drawing to escape the anger & pain that she had<br />
On the behalf of <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine staff, I would like<br />
to say that Keedy Black’s biography is remarkable.<br />
The many successes that she has accomplished in<br />
her life time is nothing short of amazing. As a female<br />
artist and industry professional, we here at <strong>SAUDA</strong><br />
Magazine understand the many obstacles she has been<br />
forced to overcome; especially in a male dominated<br />
career field. And her biography of excellence<br />
demonstrates a spirit of excellence and tenacity that’s an<br />
inspiration to all who will be blessed by her testimony.<br />
With that being said, let’s get started with the interview:<br />
Q. When did you know (within yourself) that a<br />
career in music was what you wanted to pursue?<br />
I was born with the gift, but I never took it seriously<br />
until I lost my cousin (Magnolia Shorty). She was<br />
murdered in 2010. It was more of her passion &<br />
I continue to carry on strong to keep her alive.<br />
Then I begin to take my place as a full-time artist.<br />
Q. When and where did you meet Mr. Hanky?<br />
I met Mr. Hanky through Young Money Cash Money<br />
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Former artist Lil Chuckie (in Atlanta, Ga. 2012)<br />
Q. What artist would you say has had the<br />
biggest influence on your music career?<br />
The Late Magnolia Shorty (cash money rec. former artist)<br />
Q. Tell us a little about your experience living<br />
in the Magnolia public housing development;<br />
and how it helped form not only your character?<br />
Living in the Magnolia Housing Development<br />
taught me how to survive, it showed me my strengths<br />
through my struggles, I overcame a lot of obstacles.<br />
Q. Are you willing to speak candid upon your past<br />
(your childhood) that encouraged you to develop your<br />
artistic talents and eventually lead you to music?<br />
Absolutely!! I’m an open book. God gave me the<br />
mountain to show ppl. From near & far It can be<br />
Moved. So, I am willing & ready to encourage others &<br />
to tell them what encouraged me & helped me develop<br />
Q. You’re spearheading a city-wide campaign<br />
to help “Stop the Violence” can you speak<br />
on the motivation behind that movement?<br />
I lost my oldest son father 2015 & I lost my cousin<br />
2010 both to Violence & it left me broken hearted<br />
for years to come. I grieved for years. I began to look<br />
around & see other ppl. Going through in their own<br />
way, while others got comfortable with the murder<br />
stats. I established a foundation & I started a Annual<br />
Stop The Violence March, Rally & motivational<br />
conferences to help raise awareness & to educate my city<br />
were, until I started getting positive feedback. Sharing<br />
my story & experience empower & inspire many.<br />
Q. Tell us about M.M.M, LLC and KB Foundation?<br />
KB Foundation (Non profit) My Community<br />
Services. My mentoring program (KB Dolls), School<br />
Tour, My Stop The Violence Movement, Xmas, Back<br />
to school & Book Giveaways under one umbrella.<br />
Q. Tell us about your traveling school tour that has<br />
open the doors needed for you to reach the youth?<br />
I have been touring schools for years. I use my platform<br />
to perform & speak to the kids. I encourage them to<br />
stay focus, the importance of reading, to get ready<br />
for Leap, to love, respect & motivate themselves, etc.<br />
Q. What are some future projects you’re working<br />
on or artist that you would like to work within the<br />
future, that you would like to share with our readers?<br />
I am working on more inspirational music to help<br />
someone over obstacles, to move mountains & to keep<br />
Making Major Moves. We all are going through or have<br />
been through. It easy for me to party & dance with them,<br />
I wanna face real life situations with them, encourage<br />
& inspire them to live & Be blessed above measures.<br />
You can follow Keedy Black at<br />
@iamkeedyblack on Instagram<br />
Search for her on Facebook by Keedy<br />
Black (or KeedyBlakk)<br />
Q. So, I’m in love with your “Keedy Black Dolls”<br />
young woman’s mentoring campaign. What lead<br />
you to start this campaign and what has changed<br />
in you while mentoring these young women?<br />
I Love Kids. I love to teach them, I have always been a<br />
giver since my child hood. When I see a lot of younger<br />
ages 5-18yrs. That Have lack of guidance, respect,<br />
love & education I think about myself when I was<br />
their age. I give them everything I wanted from my<br />
mom, a mentor or my teacher. If I can’t provide those<br />
services I find someone who can provide. I educate,<br />
mentor & teach them dance. This upcoming year<br />
KB Dolls is headed in a bigger & better direction.<br />
Q. Speaking of mentorship what lead<br />
you to become a motivational speaker?<br />
I been speaking for years, but I never noticed the impact<br />
I had on ppl. & how powerful my life experiences<br />
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December <strong>2017</strong> 25
A Stellar Stunner!<br />
As the daughter of a Pastor, Kristina discovered her<br />
musical gift at a young age. Her power-house vocals<br />
are nothing short of heavenly, as she grooves into a<br />
modern message (and evolved traditional Gospel artform)<br />
that reaches all ages and Christian genera’s.<br />
Back in 2013 Halloway released her 13 track debut<br />
album titled “Free” – which included her hit single<br />
“It’s Only You”. The anointing of this album gave<br />
Kristina the elevation she needed to earn a BET<br />
nomination. In which she was able to sing her hit for<br />
the President Of Entertainment for BET Steven Hill.<br />
Kristina’s single Peaked at the Billbord Top 100<br />
single Charts as #11.. Also in Canada Top 20 as #17<br />
on the charts.. In 2011 she took home the Stellar<br />
Award for New Artist of the Year. To include the<br />
fact that Kristina was awarded a Situation from<br />
Homeland Security for being such a Great Rolemodel<br />
in the community.<br />
This sister is on fire for faith! Dedicated to giving the<br />
living waters of the word to the world. Quenching<br />
the ‘thirst’ of those desperate for salvation. Her<br />
discography is impressive. Ms. Halloway’s Credits<br />
include:<br />
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• Singing background for platinum singer/<br />
Songwriter Lil’ Mo<br />
• Sharing the stage with such Greats as Toby Mac,<br />
Vickie Winans, Jars Of Clay, Castings Crowns,<br />
John Cook, Dave Hollister and Many others<br />
• She was produced by multiple Emmy Award<br />
winner Ed Weinberger.<br />
BUT SHE’S ALSO AN ACTRESS!<br />
She has shined for an acting role in “The Greatest<br />
Love Story Ever Told” Sharing the stage with<br />
Richard Roundtree, Anna Marie Harsford, Clifton<br />
Davis, Miguel Nunez, Guy Torry, Tommy Davidson,<br />
Tatyana Ali and Hezekiah Walker. And it doesn’t<br />
stop there…..<br />
Kristina Halloway has her sights set on acquiring<br />
her dreams one accomplishment at time, Inspiring<br />
our youth that with God all things are possible,<br />
Uplifting Our Leaders and become a revered force in<br />
the Gospel/Christian Community. Kristina released<br />
her single “Faith On A Thousand” last year 2016.<br />
And she’s currently working on recording her<br />
Upcoming EP..<br />
Award Winning Gospel<br />
Artist | Song Writer<br />
Kristina Halloway<br />
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Rebuilding Trust<br />
after an Affair<br />
By Tashadnra Poullard<br />
A woman wrote into a blog column by author Guy Finley,<br />
a spiritual advisor that provides relationships advice<br />
from time to time, seeking guidance on how to get over<br />
her husband’s infidelity. Of course she was distraught,<br />
and even went so far as to blame herself for his actions.<br />
And for me personally, the advice given to this woman<br />
in regards to how to deal with the pain of her husband’s<br />
affair was some of the best advice that I’ve witnessed.<br />
The column reads:<br />
“Please keep me anonymous…I’m trying to apply your advice to<br />
a light crisis I’m facing, caused by my husband’s infidelity. And<br />
I’m trying to not allow fear or pain to tell me what to do. I realize<br />
that I can only trust God, and that I am perfect in His eyes, but<br />
my question is, how can I not be in pain at the loss of trust and<br />
intimacy with my husband?<br />
Wasn’t that what I was supposed to gain through marriage?”<br />
Guy’s perfect response reads:<br />
“It’s never easy when we find ourselves in these kinds of painful<br />
situations. And I hope that the following words of advice and<br />
encouragement will assist with making some sense of the situation,<br />
even if not right away. And that in the days…weeks…and<br />
months ahead you’ll receive the help they’re intended to bring.”<br />
First things first, your pain is not to be denied, but rather used<br />
by you. Meaning instead of allowing it to use you ‘up’ with<br />
useless self-condemnation, or raging regret and resentment<br />
towards your husband, learn to use it.<br />
How is that done?<br />
Start by realizing that your sense of loss is as great as it is<br />
because you wrongly believed that you could find the<br />
wholeness your heart longs for in the eyes, heart and<br />
mind of another human being. Yes! a good relationship<br />
can and should bring us happiness, joy and a sense of<br />
love, these are good things and are a part of the simple<br />
pleasure of being human. But the real reason for our<br />
relationships with others is for an altogether different<br />
reason. Which is of a higher order that can be stated<br />
as such: relationships (whatever the nature) are there<br />
for us to learn the truth about ourselves through them.<br />
Your husband’s actions are not a reflection of<br />
your character or anything you’ve done wrong<br />
unless you insist on seeing yourself that way.<br />
Now, I add (me Tashandra) that any woman or man in<br />
such a situation should take this time of reflection to<br />
look within yourselves to figure out what constitutes<br />
happiness for you vs. seeking it in other people.<br />
Guy goes onto say that he advises she not allow this<br />
unfortunate situation to cause her heart be overcome with<br />
bitterness, and lead her into the belief that real love doesn’t<br />
exist. Because it does but the lesson instead should be<br />
that she (and everyone else) should learn to look for love<br />
in the right paces. Whenever we discover (as we always<br />
eventually do) that everything, even the best of things is<br />
only temporary, it is then that we’re on the right path to<br />
finding what is everlasting and that already lives within us.<br />
Here’s some DO’s and Don’ts of Getting Past An<br />
Extra-marital Affair<br />
To better understand extra-marital affairs, Christian Post<br />
Guest columnist Joe Beam Breaks down how it affects<br />
those involved:<br />
The Short-Lived Affair: Last from one night to several<br />
months and is primarily about sex. Subcategories include<br />
revenge affairs. Were you’re trying to get back at your<br />
spouse. These are the affairs of opportunity (at the right<br />
place…at the right time and doing the wrong thing)<br />
and are often called “self-esteem booster” affairs. I have<br />
some friends who’ve confided in me that they’ve had the<br />
self-esteem booster affairs, were they’ve found someone<br />
who’s accepted their looks, their weight/size or made<br />
them feel better about themselves in exchange for sex or<br />
to provide a comfort that they lack from their spouse.<br />
The Allowed Affair: this is an interesting one because<br />
it has become more prevalent with the graying of what<br />
constitutes marriage. Once referred to as ‘swinging’ or<br />
open marriage is now called “the life style” by willing<br />
participants. Were one spouse (or both) are allowed to<br />
have girlfriends/boyfriends and/or sleep with other people.<br />
The most difficult kind of affair to overcome is...<br />
The Relationship Affair: This affair typically starts<br />
as a friendship that evolves into shared emotions and<br />
eventually shared bodies. These in Relationship Affairs<br />
usually are in love with one another and in some cases<br />
madly in love and unable to stop the affair. Thus the reason<br />
so many relationship affairs lead to separation or divorce<br />
because no matter how strongly you attempt to break<br />
away from the union or how much work the abandoned<br />
spouse puts effort into trying to save the marriage, the<br />
affair never ends. And in such unforeseen circumstances<br />
such passages as Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 are<br />
incorporated by the church to grant the offended spouse<br />
the right to start a new life with a new mate, and few<br />
ill blame him or her for moving on with their life.<br />
So how do you save these marriages?<br />
I’ve found some suggestions that people have provided<br />
to men and women facing a pending divorce as are result<br />
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of an affair. Some of which I agree with and disagree<br />
with - and I’ll say why (my answers are written in red).<br />
The councilor suggested advice was given in relation<br />
to healing for the abandoned spouse during an affair:<br />
Believe that an affair, even an exceptionally strong<br />
Relationship/Love Affair, is not necessarily the end of a<br />
marriage. Many advise that the abandoned spouse not<br />
give up on the marriage and to keep praying and doing<br />
the right things, no matter how hopeless it may seem.<br />
Speaking for myself, I agree and disagree with this statement.<br />
For the simple fact that it’s not about you praying for their<br />
change in heart, because that means nothing if he or she<br />
doesn’t desire to make a change and fix what’s broken within<br />
themselves – while communicating resolve with the spouse<br />
they’ve abandoned. Instead pray that you find the courage<br />
within self to listen to what God and the Universe is telling you<br />
in regards to what step you should take next in this situation.<br />
Yes- I do agree that you must pray God gives them<br />
peace, most importantly that God provides peace for<br />
yourself; but I honestly wouldn’t pray they eventually<br />
‘see the light’ and do what’s right. Particularly for<br />
women (and some men) who’re in abusive unions.<br />
Don’t beg or attempt to manipulate the adulterer. She or he is<br />
already emotionally on edge, and emotional actions from you<br />
exacerbate the situation. Be firm, but always loving and calm.<br />
I’ve been in this situation before. I’ve witnessed women<br />
in my family be in this situation before. And I personally<br />
advise that your remove yourself from a potentially<br />
hostile environment and do not allow yourself to<br />
be subjected to his or her emotional instability and<br />
abuse. Because no matter how clam you are (as the one<br />
being cheated on) he or she is not in a place of mental<br />
stability. Which threatens your safety and well-being.<br />
Don’t try to convince him or her that the extra lover<br />
(or lovers) is a bad person or is primarily responsible<br />
for the affair. This tactic may work in a Short-Lived<br />
Affair. However, it typically causes a person in a<br />
Relationship Affair to develop an “us against the world”<br />
union with the lover and strengthening their bond.<br />
In other words, it’s not the other person (or people) who<br />
made them cheat he or she did so because they choose<br />
to do so. Thus I…MEANING ME PERSONALLY<br />
wouldn’t waste breath or time on a clock trying to make<br />
the other person look like a villain. If anything I’ll help<br />
you out by packing my bags and moving on myself.<br />
I DO NOT agree with this one!<br />
Drag out any divorce proceedings as long as<br />
possible. Relationship experts state that the intense<br />
emotions involved with being “madly in love” with the<br />
extra-marital spouse last anywhere from six to thirty-six<br />
months. Though the straying spouse may become angry<br />
and try to manipulate the abandoned spouse into divorce<br />
(e.g. “I’ll make things tougher for you if you don’t go<br />
along with me ...”), the abandoned spouse should be<br />
strong and endure the other’s wrath by dragging out the<br />
divorce process as long as possible. There is a very real<br />
possibility that the abandoning spouse will eventually lose<br />
the intensity of desire to be with the lover. Don’t give up!<br />
I’m sorry! But if you feel what you’ve found in the other<br />
woman or man is better than what you thought you have<br />
or had in me, or even possibly would have in me…. let<br />
me help you out chief! We’ll sign them papers and keep<br />
it moving. Again…I love my life…and I love me. Life is<br />
too short and tomorrow is never promised. So I’m not<br />
going to allow myself to spend extra money and energy<br />
trying to make you miserable so you can come back to me.<br />
It’s just not that serious.<br />
The abandoned spouse should demonstrate his or her ability<br />
to survive and prosper without the abandoning spouse. He<br />
or she must concentrate on physical, mental, emotional,<br />
and spiritual health. This accomplishes two things. 1)<br />
The abandoned spouse needs this for him- herself. 2) The<br />
abandoning spouse often is drawn back to the abandoned<br />
spouse when He or She continues to be strong and self-sufficient.<br />
I agree and disagree with this statement. I agree that you<br />
should do exactly as this statement says, but do it for you!<br />
And not for them. Do it for your child(ren) in efforts to<br />
build a better life for them and yourselves. Now if ol’ boy<br />
or ol girl want to be in the lives of the kids….DO NOT<br />
stop them from doing so. But do not go out and attempt<br />
to do the right things for the wrong reasons…trying to<br />
show someone else up who’s not even thinking about you.<br />
In fervent prayer ask that God to bring chaos, financial<br />
distress, and anything else He will do to cause pain as a<br />
result of the sinner’s actions and to create circumstances so<br />
that it is difficult for him or her to continue in the affair.<br />
NO SIR! NO MA’AM! YOU DO NOT pray for the worst<br />
over anyone. If anything you pray for the best…pray that<br />
God has mercy on them (understanding that vengeance is<br />
the lords and not yours) and most importantly you pray<br />
that God gives you the grace and mercy in your heart to<br />
find the courage to forgive them for their transgressions,<br />
so you don’t be foolish enough to make the next man<br />
or woman pay for what he/she did. Holding onto<br />
bitterness towards those who’ve hurt you by praying the<br />
worst for them is not of God! If anything thank God for<br />
exposing to you who they really are, and keep it moving.<br />
The abandoned spouse should procure an attorney that<br />
will protect his or her rights, finances, and the like.<br />
The attorney should make the divorce as painful<br />
as possible - financially and otherwise - to the<br />
abandoning spouse while still protecting the interests<br />
of the abandoned spouse. Expect the abandoning<br />
spouse to react with anger. However, making sin have<br />
strong negative consequences is the right thing to do.<br />
Yes and No. Hire an attorney that will protect your<br />
assets and interest - but again do not waste time nor<br />
energy trying to make someone miserable. It’s not your<br />
place or right to make them suffer for their actions.<br />
The church should practice discipline, though in<br />
our day and age that hasn’t nearly the effect it had in<br />
biblical times. It’s so easy now to walk down the street<br />
and go to another church. However, if done in love<br />
and compassion, it still may have the needed effect.<br />
He advises that the church ‘chastens’ the unfaithful<br />
spouse, but I don’t agree with that either, because<br />
in many cases that I’ve witnessed personally, the<br />
cheating spouse isn’t into church. So not only is that<br />
a waste of advice, but again a waste of time. And it’s<br />
no one’s business what’s going on in your marriage.<br />
And DO NOT bring other people into your personal<br />
affairs. That includes family, because that’s none of<br />
their business and these people will still be judging<br />
your spouse for their transactions (as if he/she did<br />
something to them personally) after you’ve moved on<br />
and have forgiven them. And do know that you’ll look<br />
really stupid and untrustworthy to your spouse when<br />
you’re trying to mend broken fences if it gets back to<br />
him or her that you’ve told everyone their business.<br />
Convince the straying spouse to take one last action before<br />
ending the marriage. Sometimes the abandoned spouse<br />
does this by offering a concession such as, “I’ll give on this<br />
point in the divorce if you do this.” Sometimes a friend,<br />
church leader, or even the person’s child may convince<br />
him or her that, for conscience sake, he or she should do<br />
one more thing to see if there is any hope for the marriage.<br />
I’m sorry, I can’t do this and I won’t advise anyone else do<br />
it. If he or she wants to leave, again don’t stop them. I’m<br />
not going to bargain with anyone and make compromises<br />
with someone who’ve proven they can’t stay faithful.<br />
IN closing, when the man I (thought) I loved left me for<br />
another woman, it was the best thing that could have ever<br />
happened to me. While I was in the relationship with<br />
him I couldn’t see him for who and what he really was.<br />
I was what a call “In love with the idea of being in<br />
love” that I couldn’t see that he didn’t love me as much<br />
as I loved him. We all have our perceptions of what the<br />
perfect match looks like for us. And he was my idea of<br />
“perfect” for me at that particular stage in my life. What<br />
I didn’t know (nor care to see) at that time was that:<br />
A. I wasn’t emotionally and psychologically ready for<br />
a marriage: I thought marriage was what I wanted<br />
because everyone was telling me that was the next step<br />
in my life. I was educated, I had a successful career in<br />
the military and I was ready for a family – but it was<br />
all a vision that others had passed to me, based upon<br />
their ideas of gender-roles, the traditional family unit<br />
and their definition of success. I couldn’t see that I<br />
still had some emotional baggage from past traumas<br />
(my childhood) that need to be resolved before I could<br />
build a foundation for marriage with anyone. And had<br />
I married the man I thought I loved then, I assure this<br />
Column would have been addressing my marriage.<br />
B. I didn’t understand how hard marriage really is:<br />
It’s not easy being married! Everyone I speak with<br />
that’s married all tell me that marriage by far is one of<br />
the hardest things they’ve ever done. It’s not for the faint<br />
at heart. It takes time to build a stable foundation of<br />
love, trust, humility, honor, integrity and respect in a<br />
union. Especially I today’s age of superficial expectations<br />
and selfish fulfillment. If you’re not will to make just<br />
as many sacrifices as you demand your spouse make for<br />
you, it won’t’ work. Because you can’t get anything more<br />
out of marriage than what you’re willing to put into it.<br />
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Black Dollars and the Jack Pot: A Call<br />
to Potential Investors<br />
Back in 2013, I conducted a survey of Black women<br />
in the state of Florida, mainly within the City Limits<br />
of Miami, FL. Where I simply showed them pictures<br />
of some of the women highlighted in our magazine<br />
prototype. And I asked if they would be willing to<br />
purchase a magazine that featured said women, but was<br />
also inclusive of women of Afro-Latino/Hispanic/Mexican,<br />
Caribbean, Southwest Asian and Pacific Islander heritage.<br />
The answer was overwhelmingly yes by at least 98%!<br />
Many of the women were ready to purchase the magazine<br />
on the spot because they thought it was currently for sale.<br />
No other magazine is doing this! There’s isn’t a magazine<br />
in the United States that’s taking their mission of Black<br />
feminine empowerment to women in other countries,<br />
and combining it with black empowerment here in the<br />
U.S. to include Multimedia Business opportunities.<br />
We are marketable and accessible to all women! Affordable<br />
and inclusive! Other magazines may feature stories<br />
on models from other lands, but they’re not actually<br />
traveling to these locations and doing an entire edition<br />
on these women their beauty, culture and heritage.<br />
The Buying Power of The Black Dollar<br />
As Black buying power continues to increase, rising from its<br />
$1 trillion level to a forecast between $1.3 to $1.5 trillion<br />
by the end of <strong>2017</strong>. Black buying power has seen an 86<br />
percent increase since 2000 - and accounts for 8.7 percent<br />
of the nation’s total. The growth in black buying power<br />
stems in part from an increase in the number of blackowned<br />
businesses as well as from an increase in education<br />
among the African-American population, which leads to<br />
higher incomes. Despite historically high unemployment<br />
rates, Blacks or people of African heritage have shown<br />
resiliency in their ability to persevere as consumers. African-<br />
Americans continue to be significant consumers and heavy<br />
influencers of goods and services purchased in the United<br />
States. As an entrepreneur, the (real) challenge is determining<br />
how to successfully tap into this significant amount of<br />
purchasing power to provide value and make a profit.<br />
<strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is working diligently to<br />
commandeer roughly half of this market!<br />
Our Advantage<br />
We have what’s called a “Distinctive Competence” meaning<br />
we have a competitive advantage because we are not just<br />
U.S. based. No other magazine for Black women caters to all<br />
women of the African diaspora. What (well known) media<br />
outlet can say focuses on the beauty needs of Black women in<br />
Spain, to the South of France, much less travel to Norway and<br />
Mexico to feature the beauty of women who share African<br />
heritage in these regions? That’s a completely different market<br />
and demographics that is ripe for harvesting. We are breaching<br />
boarders while pulling from international resources creating:<br />
International Investment Potential: Our investors here in<br />
the U.S. have the option to engage in various business ventures<br />
that would transpire from doing business with various media<br />
companies and platforms overseas. <strong>SAUDA</strong> Magazine is an<br />
international brand that serves as a conduit between U.S.<br />
(Black owned) backed dollars and investments that can become<br />
a launching pad for potential investments with our partners<br />
overseas. Especially as it pertains to fashion and mechanizing,<br />
multimedia platforms and the entertainment industry.<br />
If I had to break it down, these are the main components we<br />
offer an investor:<br />
We Assist With Finding the Money – We can provide<br />
digital media that will assist our investors with becoming<br />
more ‘appealing’ to potential business partners – building<br />
an international brand for our customers and clients. We<br />
are working diligently to utilize our connections to the<br />
film industry - assist with hunting down product investors,<br />
and providing film incentives via product placement,<br />
even announcement of pre-sales via our magazine.<br />
Distribution - Building relationships with global<br />
sales agents in other countries, film festival<br />
organizers and producer reps assist our investors with<br />
making additional connections in sales and film.<br />
Casting – Some of our models could<br />
become the new face of your product!<br />
Audience Research - You might not have the resources<br />
of a studios marketing dept. but we can assist with<br />
that by producing the media needed to reach your<br />
targeted demographics and broadcasting your brand.<br />
Monetary Funnels – We scratch our investors back<br />
and they scratch ours. Our magazine could serve<br />
as an additional financial outlet (via print, digital<br />
media and film) that can convert our domestic<br />
investors brands into an international brand.<br />
Aesthetic Taste/Production Value – Via our<br />
advertisement department we can create the<br />
visual look and appeal of the investment brand that<br />
can be later incorporated into independent films, via<br />
the company website, press kits and printing material.<br />
Giving Back To the Community<br />
We are seeking to employ TSU, University of Houston,<br />
The Art Institute of Houston, Houston Baptist University,<br />
Rice and Houston Community College and international<br />
college graduates as not just interns, but our PAID staff!<br />
We want students to have JOBS as soon as they graduate in<br />
Public Relations<br />
Commercial Advertisement<br />
Business Sales and Acquisition<br />
Graphic Design<br />
Website Development<br />
Video Production<br />
And Photography<br />
TV and Radio Broadcasting<br />
Journalism<br />
Fashion Design/Interior Decorating<br />
Copy Writing<br />
Business Law<br />
Publishing<br />
Not only will our potential partners be investing building<br />
the foundation for <strong>SAUDA</strong>, but they’re assisting us with<br />
create opportunities for Black models and college graduates,<br />
while creating job opportunities in the Houston, New<br />
York, Washington D.C., Miami, FL, Los Angeles, CA,<br />
Chicago, IL and area(s)! To include our future offices in<br />
London England, Ghana Africa, Dubai and Singapore.<br />
I repeat, you are assist with creating jobs for college graduates!<br />
To learn more about this potential, connect with<br />
Ms. Tashandra (Tasha) Poullard at 346.917.9992 or<br />
Mrs. Erline Germain at germain.erline@gmail.com.<br />
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Artistic Freedom<br />
Being an artist in this day and age seems relative as everyone<br />
is labeling themselves as an artist. So what does it mean to<br />
be an artist? An artist in my opinion is a creator. They are<br />
in touch with their emotions deep enough to share with<br />
others the inner rhythms that drive them. I use art as a form<br />
of expression and artistic freedom. In addition to painting,<br />
I enjoy writing essays, poetry, screenplays, books and<br />
expressing creativity around the house. It is something that<br />
I am not something that I do. Art is a part of me as much as<br />
my eyes. I was born with it and have found it hard to express<br />
in this world. Please feel free to enjoy some of my work<br />
and know that it comes from a place of artisitic freedom.<br />
-Erline<br />
Erline Germain is a breakout visual artist. Her color and abstract<br />
driven paintings are inspired from the innate representations of her<br />
emotions, dreams, and life experiences. Her original works stem from<br />
a vivid imagination based on capturing the essence of bold, strong,<br />
and vivid colors. Her comprehensive works are heavily influenced by<br />
the Abstract Expressionism movement present in the 1940’s and 50’s<br />
as well as the works of Frida Kahlo, Salvador Dali, and Pablo Picasso.<br />
Erline uses movement, shape, color, floral schematics, and abstract<br />
insights to reveal a once silenced voice. She started painting when<br />
there seemed to be nothing left to live for. Her life took a tragic turn<br />
as her all her relationships crumbled and her spirit was broken. This<br />
caused her life force to become severely depressed. Erline was born<br />
in Haiti and battled with her identity and voice as she grew up in<br />
America. She experienced the multiple societal standards of both<br />
cultures and never understood how to fit into their molds. As Erline<br />
turned to the colors of paint they revived something within her heart<br />
and led to her truth of existence. All she needed was to be- Erline.<br />
Erline seeks to create emotional expressions in the observer. This response<br />
personalizes her work, ultimately leaving an imprint on one’s spirit.<br />
Check out Erline Germain’s work erlineart.com and design work<br />
germain.erline@gmail.com.<br />
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