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Day 9<br />
Take a Woman on a Date<br />
A man has many roles in his life — leader, father, brother, friend, and so<br />
on. Yet there’s one name that fewer and fewer men may be called by: lover.<br />
Manliness is often ranked by how many random women a dude can bed.<br />
But one of the things that separates man from the beasts is the ability and<br />
desire to focus his romantic energies on one woman at a time. Being a lover<br />
and romancer is something that makes us human, and not just another<br />
mammal on the Discovery Channel.<br />
There is no better tool in the romantic man’s arsenal than the date.<br />
The date’s structure allows a man to show off his ability to woo a lady.<br />
Unfortunately, few men have been taking on the challenge of being lovers<br />
these days as our dating abilities have become infected with the plague of<br />
hanging out.<br />
Dating and the Single Man<br />
We’ve previously discussed the way in which “hanging out” has largely supplanted<br />
dating these days. Young people hang out in groups of friends and<br />
“friends with benefits” and rarely pair off for an official date. There’s nothing<br />
wrong with hanging out, but it’s not a substitute for dating. Dating is<br />
the way you find a woman you’d like to have an exclusive relationship with.<br />
Exclusive relationships are one-on-one affairs, so there has to come a point<br />
where you leave the comfort of the group and start getting to know women<br />
on a one-on-one basis.