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Living Messages<br />
For Family Life and Christian Living<br />
<strong>Issue</strong> #1<br />
FEATURING<br />
A Disciplined Christian..............3<br />
Waiting On The Lord...................5<br />
My Amazing Story ......................8<br />
Our Children and Our Teens.....10<br />
Dear Teenager..........................12<br />
Let’s Start A Revival! ...............13<br />
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“A DISCIPLINED<br />
CHRISTIAN”<br />
(I Cor. 9:24-27)<br />
The dictionary definition of DISCIPLINE is “training<br />
that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties<br />
or moral character.” When parents properly discipline<br />
their children they are giving them a type of training<br />
that CORRECTS, MOLDS, AND PERFECTS THEM<br />
MENTALLY AND MORALLY.<br />
Self-discipline, however, is the unpleasant task<br />
of disciplining ourselves by correcting ourselves,<br />
even when we hate to be wrong. In other words, we<br />
actually force ourselves to change our will and our<br />
ways, even when we don’t feel like it. There is a severe<br />
lack of SELF-DISCIPLINE in our society. Everywhere<br />
we look, people are seeking escape from trouble,<br />
opposition, work, and responsibility. The trend today is<br />
to seek the easy way out.<br />
The great patriot Patrick Henry said, “I know not<br />
what course others may take but, as for me, GIVE ME<br />
LIBERTY OR GIVE ME DEATH!” That’s courage,<br />
determination, and discipline. General Douglas Mac<br />
Arthur was disciplined and courageous when he said:<br />
“There is no substitute for victory!”<br />
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Abraham Lincoln, one of our greatest praying<br />
presidents, failed in business twice, was defeated 8<br />
times in politics, and among other disappointments,<br />
he suffered a nervous breakdown. He endured a total<br />
of 30 years of heartache and failure before becoming<br />
President of the United States. However, he made<br />
it a TOP PRIORITY and, with much discipline, HE<br />
FINALLY DID WIN!<br />
SELF-DISCIPLINE<br />
In our text, the apostle Paul is referring to the games<br />
and sporting events of Greece. This particular event<br />
was celebrated every four years near Corinth, Greece.<br />
It included five exercises of leaping, discus throwing,<br />
racing, boxing, and wrestling. I Cor. 9:26 specifically<br />
speaks of running/racing and fighting/boxing. During<br />
the ten months leading up to this event, the athletes<br />
would be in continuous training and keep themselves<br />
under strict discipline. Participants would sacrifice<br />
comfort and pleasure in hopes of winning the special<br />
wreath crown of honor.<br />
In this passage, the apostle Paul also describes<br />
the life of A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN. If we, as<br />
Christians, do not practice self-discipline, we may find<br />
ourselves being disorganized, even unstable, unfaithful,<br />
and undependable. We will usually try to get our own<br />
way, be easily offended, and unable to successfully face<br />
opposition without fussing, arguing, or complaining.<br />
If you are not a disciplined Christian, you may find<br />
yourself blaming others for your difficulties. You may<br />
even blame God. You may find yourself giving up on<br />
your financial responsibilities, blaming your wife or<br />
husband for your problems, and even calling it quits<br />
on your marriage. You may become critical of other<br />
Christians or critical of your church. It takes strict<br />
discipline to go against the temptation to be critical of<br />
others and refrain from talking about others.<br />
You may be a good person, read religious books,<br />
you may have listened to many sermons, served on<br />
church committees, and you may feel religious or quite<br />
spiritual. However, unless you add self-discipline to<br />
every aspect of your Christian life, you will not keep<br />
your spiritual victory and joy, and you will not be able<br />
to be a contented, disciplined Christian!!<br />
RUNNING TO WIN<br />
Notice that verse 24 says, “So run that you may<br />
obtain” or run in such a way as to receive the prize. The<br />
attitude of such a Christian is as one running a race.<br />
He is running to win the prize. Spiritual Christians will<br />
always be running in the direction of spiritual growth.<br />
Their underlying motivation is to live right and to<br />
please the Lord in all that they do.<br />
Verse 25 says that he “is temperate or has selfcontrol<br />
in all things.” Self-control is a fruit of the spirit,<br />
but it will not be a part of our Christian lives without<br />
self-discipline. A disciplined Christian keeps himself<br />
under strict training. There will be times when he must<br />
deny himself of all personal comfort and ease. He must<br />
be ready to go against any unspiritual tendency and be<br />
determined to not compromise with even the smallest<br />
of sins.<br />
Verse 25 also says that athletes are disciplined<br />
to receive a crown that will not last or one that is<br />
corruptible. However, we bring our bodies under<br />
subjection to receive a crown that is incorruptible, that<br />
will last forever. In the athletic competitions of Paul’s<br />
day, the winner of a race would receive a perishable<br />
wreath crown. We, as Christians, must run our spiritual<br />
race with a determination to receive our imperishable<br />
spiritual crown in heaven and hear our Lord say, “Well<br />
done, thou good and faithful servant.”<br />
There are many church-attending Christians who<br />
have never experienced a real salvation experience<br />
resulting in a supernatural assurance of one’s sins being<br />
forgiven. Our salvation was paid for by the death of<br />
Jesus on the cross and confirmed by His resurrection<br />
from the dead. We are all born as sinners and must<br />
place our faith in Jesus as our own personal Savior by<br />
asking Jesus to forgive us of our sins.<br />
Jesus said, “If any man will come after me, let<br />
him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and<br />
follow me.” (Luke 8:23) It takes self-denial and selfdiscipline<br />
to humbly admit that we are sinners and to<br />
humbly surrender to Jesus as the Lord and Master of<br />
our lives. However, once we accept Jesus as our Savior<br />
and surrender our hearts and lives to Him, He will give<br />
us the Holy Spirit with the power and strength to live<br />
happy and successful Christian lives.<br />
DAILY DEVOTIONS<br />
Do you have a meaningful quiet time or devotions<br />
every day? It requires self-discipline to spend quality<br />
time in prayer and in God’s Word everyday. We<br />
must discipline ourselves to spend time in QUIET<br />
THANKFULNESS AND PRAYER. Every day, we<br />
must also READ THE WORD OF GOD, STUDY IT,<br />
FEED ON IT, LIVE BY IT IN EVERY ASPECT OF<br />
OUR LIVES, AND BE WILLING TO EVEN DIE<br />
FOR OUR FAITH IN GOD’S WORD!<br />
In verse 26, Paul was running toward a desired goal.<br />
Paul had an overpowering goal to deny his natural<br />
tendencies and, instead, yield to God’s Spirit and obey<br />
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God’s Word. Without self-discipline in our Christian<br />
lives, we will not grow spiritually and accomplish our<br />
spiritual goals.<br />
RULING OUR OWN SPIRIT<br />
A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN must also learn to<br />
CONTROL OR RULE HIS OR HER OWN SPIRIT OR<br />
ATTITUDE. In Proverbs 25:28 we read, “He that has<br />
no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken<br />
down and without walls.” In Old Testament times,<br />
most cities had a large wall around them as a defense<br />
against the enemy. Are you like a city without walls<br />
of defense? Do the circumstances and the pressures of<br />
your life rule over you? Or do you stand strong in your<br />
faith and effectively use the Bible as your shield of faith<br />
against the adverse circumstances of life? Do you know<br />
the Bible well enough to stand on the promises of God<br />
and effectively use God’s Word as your spiritual sword<br />
against the temptations of your flesh to sin?<br />
In Proverbs 16:32 we read, “He that is slow to anger<br />
is better than the mighty, and he that rules his spirit [or<br />
controls his temper] than he that takes a city.” It is not<br />
easy to be in control of our own spirit. If we would<br />
begin to discipline ourselves by taking control of our<br />
mind and emotions in the same way that the athletes<br />
discipline their bodies, we would become strong and<br />
well-disciplined Christians.<br />
Earl Britain, my friend and mentor, was one of three<br />
most influential men in my Christian life. In World War<br />
I, he experienced being under continuous shellfire for<br />
97 days in “the hundred day offensive” which included<br />
the battle of the Argonne Forest near Bantheville,<br />
France. Years later, he wrote the following words:<br />
“When everyone else is ANGRY, that’s the time for<br />
you to KEEP SWEET. When everyone else is running,<br />
that’s the time for you to watch your feet.<br />
When everyone else is excited, that’s the time for you<br />
to keep calm. When everyone else shows their hatred,<br />
that’s the time for you to show love.<br />
When everyone else looks at earthly things, that’s the<br />
time for you to look above.<br />
When everyone else shows their selfishness,<br />
that’s the time for you to give.<br />
When everyone else is perishing,<br />
You will be just beginning to live!!!”<br />
A GOOD SOLDIER<br />
The apostle Paul said to Timothy in II Tim. 2:3,<br />
“Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of<br />
Jesus Christ.” What is a good soldier? A good soldier<br />
is well-trained, well-disciplined, ready to serve, and<br />
ready for battle. Are you willing to endure criticism and<br />
opposition? Sometimes it will come from your wife,<br />
your husband, your parents, or your family. Sometimes<br />
it will come from church members or from those on<br />
your job. It’s all part of ENDURING HARDNESS! It’s<br />
all part of becoming A GOOD SOLDIER in the Lord.<br />
Discipline takes time. It must be learned and practiced.<br />
We must go against our selfish tendencies and our<br />
fleshly temptations. We must go against our pride and<br />
our ego. We must obey God’s Word. We must place<br />
the Lord and the Lord’s work first in our lives. We<br />
must place our mates and our family before ourselves.<br />
Sometimes it will require us to step on our pride and<br />
humble ourselves in our relationship with our wife or<br />
husband, even when we think we are right.<br />
CONTROLLING OUR BODIES<br />
Verse 27 says, “I keep under my body and bring it<br />
into subjection.” He kept the natural appetites of his<br />
body under his control. A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN<br />
not only stays in control of his or her spirit but also<br />
their body. The apostle Peter admonishes us in I Pet.<br />
2:11 to “Abstain from fleshly lusts which war against<br />
the soul.” Do you indulge when you should abstain?<br />
Just watching T.V. or the internet can easily activate<br />
fleshly lusts and increase our love and our desire for the<br />
things of the world more than the things of God. John<br />
Wesley’s mother said, “anything which increases the<br />
authority of the body over the mind is an evil thing.”<br />
Paul practiced self-discipline on a daily basis. May God<br />
help us to follow Paul’s example. We, as Christians,<br />
can be victorious and more than conquerors if we, on a<br />
daily basis, deny ourselves and discipline ourselves.<br />
In I Pet. 5:5-10, the apostle Peter advises us to<br />
“be clothed with humility.” He tells us to “humble<br />
ourselves under the mighty hand of God.” He warns<br />
us to “be sober” and to “resist the devil.” Lastly, he<br />
reminds us that “after we have suffered awhile” by selfdenial<br />
and self-discipline, God will “perfect us” and He<br />
“will establish us, strengthen us, and settle us”!<br />
Norm Swensen, who was pastor of a large church<br />
for many years, suffered a stroke, became paralyzed<br />
on one side and was placed in a nursing home. Every<br />
time that I have visited him, he was often anxious for<br />
the Lord to heal him so that he could return to active<br />
ministry. However, during this last visit he said to me,<br />
“Phil, I now know why I am here.” I said, “Really, why<br />
are you here?” He, very seriously said, “the Lord wants<br />
me to learn patience.” Imagine that! A great man of<br />
God in his 80’s is realizing he is in need of gaining<br />
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more patience in his Christian life. Pastor Norm had to<br />
discipline himself to accept this verdict from the Lord.<br />
We, likewise, are in need of spiritual growth until we<br />
arrive in Heaven.<br />
If we are active, disciplined Christians, our<br />
testimony can be the same as Paul’s when he said, “I<br />
can do all things through Christ which strengthens<br />
me.” (Php. 4:13) Our final testimony can be the same<br />
as Paul’s when he said, “I have fought a good fight, I<br />
have finished my course, I have kept the faith” 2 Tim.<br />
4:7.<br />
If we want God’s blessing on our lives, our<br />
marriages, our families, and on our churches, we must<br />
become disciplined Christians who trust in God every<br />
day of our lives.<br />
P.C.<br />
“STAYING IN TUNE”<br />
12 STEPS FOR DAILY<br />
DEVOTIONS<br />
1. Pray and ask for forgiveness of your sins in<br />
thought, word, or action.<br />
2. Thank the Lord for His forgiveness and any<br />
answered prayers.<br />
3. Pray for others.<br />
4. Ask the Lord to feed you by His Word and to<br />
fill you with the power of His Holy Spirit.<br />
5. Ask the Lord to give you wisdom and to guide<br />
your day in His will.<br />
6. Read and study the Word of God with a study<br />
Bible or commentary.<br />
7. Allow God to speak to your heart, not just your<br />
mind.<br />
8. Allow God to feed and inspire you by what<br />
you read.<br />
9. Be ready to obey God’s Word.<br />
10. Lean on the Lord’s strength more than your<br />
ability and strength.<br />
11. Commit yourself to a Bible believing church<br />
and serve in that church as unto the Lord.<br />
12. You will be learning to stay in tune with God!<br />
*Note: Whatever it takes for you to get alone with<br />
God and His Word, do it with all your heart! If you<br />
fail in any of these steps, try starting again from<br />
step #1! ~ P.C.<br />
“WAITING ON<br />
THE LORD”<br />
(Isaiah 40:28-31, Joshua 14:5-14)<br />
T<br />
he great New England preacher Phillips Brooks<br />
was usually calm and relaxed during times of<br />
crisis. His intimate friends, however, knew that he also<br />
suffered moments of frustration and irritability. One<br />
day a friend saw him pacing the floor like a caged lion.<br />
“What is the trouble Dr. Brooks?” asked the friend. Dr.<br />
Brooks replied, “The trouble is that I’m in a hurry, but<br />
God isn’t!” (From “Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations”<br />
#7l34, by Paul Lee Tan, Assurance Publishers)<br />
SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH<br />
Does our text say, “They that wait upon the Lord…<br />
shall have all their problems solved?” “They that wait<br />
upon the Lord…shall escape all tragedy and trouble?”<br />
No, a thousand times no! “But they that wait upon the<br />
Lord SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH!” God will<br />
give us RENEWED STRENGTH during any trouble or<br />
tragedy if we learn to patiently wait on Him and trust<br />
Him in spite of the adverse circumstances in our lives.<br />
There will be times we will have to wait for the<br />
will of God. Abraham had to wait for Isaac the son of<br />
promise. Moses had to wait forty years on the backside<br />
of the desert. It was said of Moses that he was the<br />
meekest man on earth. He must have learned many<br />
lessons in life in order to produce such meekness.<br />
Sometimes we learn and grow most in our spiritual<br />
lives while patiently WAITING ON THE LORD on the<br />
backside of a deserted, lonely time of our lives.<br />
In our scripture reading of Joshua 14, the Israelites<br />
were dividing the land of Canaan. Caleb was 40 years<br />
old when he received the promise of his inheritance,<br />
but he had to WAIT ON THE LORD until age 85 to<br />
see the promise fulfilled. When we pray for something,<br />
sometimes God says YES, sometimes God says NO,<br />
but sometimes God says WAIT ON ME. God may not<br />
answer your prayer when you want. However, God is<br />
always on perfect timing if we obey His Word and learn<br />
to patiently WAIT ON HIM.<br />
In verse 11, we read that Caleb’s strength at 85 was<br />
as good as it was when he was 40. Caleb had to WAIT<br />
ON THE LORD until the time came for the fulfillment<br />
of God’s promise to him. But God renewed Caleb’s<br />
strength continuously through those 45 years of his<br />
WAITING ON THE LORD until he was 85. Likewise,<br />
God will renew your emotional and spiritual strength<br />
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also as you wait on Him!<br />
Caleb, after waiting many years, was ready as ever<br />
to enter God’s plan for his life. He didn’t say, “It’s too<br />
late” or “I’m too old.” Caleb said in verse 12, “...if so<br />
be the Lord will be with me, then I shall be able…as the<br />
Lord said.”<br />
Caleb was saying to Joshua, “It’s time for me to<br />
stake my claim! I’ve waited long enough! I’m ready to<br />
defeat the enemy! I want to live on this mountain!”<br />
Caleb was saying, I have FULLY FOLLOWED<br />
THE LORD. I have BECOME A MAN OF FAITH AND<br />
A MAN OF PATIENCE. I have patiently WAITED ON<br />
THE LORD, and THE LORD HAS FOUND DELIGHT<br />
IN ME. I AM READY TO CLAIM GOD’S PROMISE.<br />
Therefore, GIVE ME THIS MOUNTAIN!<br />
If you will patiently WAIT ON THE LORD, then,<br />
in due season and in God’s timing, you will be able<br />
to say in faith like Caleb, “Give me this mountain!”<br />
Perhaps it’s time for you to say, “With God all things<br />
are possible,” “If God be for us who can be against us?”<br />
“The Lord is the strength of my life.” Perhaps it’s time<br />
for you to say, “I can do all things through Christ who<br />
strengthens me.”<br />
God is looking for men, women, teens, boys, and<br />
girls who have learned to not give in to hardship or<br />
discouragement. He is looking for those who will take<br />
a stand for God and stay in the battle right to the end<br />
against all opposition by the world, the flesh, and the<br />
devil. Will you be among them? In verses 13 and 14<br />
we read that Joshua gave the land to Caleb because “he<br />
completely followed the Lord.” If we want to completely<br />
follow the Lord, we must spend time everyday in prayer<br />
and in God’s Word and put God first in our lives by<br />
obeying His Word. Are you ready to completely follow<br />
the Lord and go all out for God? You can do it, and you<br />
should do it right away!<br />
WITH WINGS AS EAGLES<br />
Back to our passage of Isaiah 40:31: They that wait<br />
upon the Lord shall not only “renew their strength,” but,<br />
secondly, “THEY SHALL MOUNT UP WITH WINGS<br />
AS EAGLES!”<br />
When a mother eagle makes a nest for her eggs, she<br />
also gathers sharp objects like sticks and thorns and then<br />
covers them with soft material like hay or fur. When<br />
the eggs hatch and the eaglets grow, eventually the<br />
mother eagle encourages them to get out of the nest and<br />
begin to fly. She stirs up the nest and slowly removes<br />
all the comfortable material from the nest so that the<br />
young eagles begin to feel uncomfortable. Eventually,<br />
it works, and the young eagles leave the nest and learn<br />
to fly.<br />
Perhaps God is stirring up your nest. He wants to<br />
bring you to the place of being in an uncomfortable<br />
situation so that you will grow strong in your Christian<br />
life and “mount up with wings as eagles” and rise<br />
above your problem. Eagles fly high above to get an<br />
aerial view of their sources of food as well as seeing<br />
hidden dangers. If we wait upon the Lord, we will<br />
rise up with spiritual wings as eagles and see our lives<br />
with a broader view and from a wider perspective. We<br />
will live without expecting God to bail us out of every<br />
problem. We will not demand that God answer our<br />
every question as to why this or why not that. Instead,<br />
we will have the testimony of David in Psalm 119:75:<br />
“Thou, in faithfulness has afflicted me.”<br />
RUN AND NOT BE WEARY<br />
Thirdly, “They shall run and not be weary.” Joseph<br />
was another man of faith and patience. (You can read<br />
his story in Genesis 37-50.) He had to learn patience<br />
and to WAIT ON THE LORD for many years until he<br />
saw the fulfillment of his dreams. Your dreams may<br />
have to wait also. Joseph’s brothers sold him and he<br />
became a slave, he was falsely accused of immorality,<br />
put in prison, and left there. He felt forgotten by man<br />
and God. But Joseph had slowly, but surely, become A<br />
MAN OF PATIENCE. He had to wait for God’s time.<br />
Finally, at age thirty, Joseph became the head of Egypt<br />
under Pharaoh.<br />
But how did Joseph learn to “run and not be weary”?<br />
What did he do while waiting patiently? Did he wallow<br />
in self-pity? Did he continually think hatred toward his<br />
brothers who sold him as a slave? No! Joseph said to<br />
his brothers, “You thought evil against me, but God<br />
meant it for good.” God meant it all for Joseph’s good<br />
and for the good of his family and his nation.<br />
FRUITFUL DURING WAITING<br />
Joseph’s time of WAITING ON THE LORD was his<br />
time of training. Joseph KEPT BUSY and was always<br />
involved with meeting the needs of others. Joseph<br />
said, “God has made me FRUITFUL IN THE LAND<br />
OF MY SUFFERING.” God can make us fruitful in the<br />
land of our suffering and during our time of WAITING<br />
ON GOD.<br />
How about you? What are you doing for others?<br />
Are you serving in your church? Are you bearing good<br />
fruit in the land of your suffering? Are you heartily<br />
serving the Lord in spite of the adverse circumstances<br />
of your life? Do you keep focused on serving the Lord<br />
in spite of your troubles? Are you, like Joseph, fruitful<br />
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in the land of your suffering?<br />
Our passage does not say, “They that wait upon the<br />
Lord shall automatically win in all the races of their<br />
lives.” However, it does say, “They that wait upon<br />
the Lord shall...RUN AND NOT BE WEARY”! What<br />
wonderful promises we have if we learn to WAIT ON<br />
THE LORD AND TRUST IN GOD!<br />
In Hebrews 12:1-2, the apostle Paul regards us as<br />
runners in the race of the Christian life: “Let us run<br />
with patience the race that is set before us.” When<br />
God gives us patience, that patience will be filled with<br />
endurance to keep us from growing weary and worn.<br />
Our faith will be renewed with positive anticipation<br />
and assurance that all will be well in the big picture,<br />
regardless of what happens in our lives day by day.<br />
WALKING WITHOUT FAINTING<br />
Lastly, “they that wait upon the Lord…shall walk<br />
and not faint.” We usually have to wait longer than we<br />
want, but God reminds us to continue to pray and trust<br />
Him. He would say to us, “Don’t give up! Don’t quit!<br />
Keep your vision in focus! Keep your faith strong! Be<br />
ready to take action when it’s time to take action!”<br />
Perhaps, in some situation of your life, you have<br />
tried to take action prematurely and failed because you<br />
were ahead of God. Keep in mind that great men and<br />
women of the Bible like Abraham and Sarah, Isaac,<br />
Jacob, and David failed, also. But, because they waited<br />
on the Lord, in spite of their failings, they were not<br />
failures. They became great men and women of God!<br />
You can do the same!<br />
Are you unfulfilled in your Christian life? Trust<br />
Jesus as your Savior and surrender or re-surrender your<br />
will to Him and make Him the Lord of your life. You<br />
will not be truly happy until you do! Are you weary of<br />
your life? Do you desire God to change your situation?<br />
Are you asking God to reveal His will for your life?<br />
Are you asking God for healing? Are you seeking<br />
more suitable employment? Are you asking God to<br />
give you a Christian wife or husband? Are you asking<br />
God to change your wife or husband? Are you seeking<br />
fulfillment in your spiritual life? Do you have a desire<br />
to serve God more effectively? Then, it’s time to WAIT<br />
ON THE LORD.<br />
Our Father knows what is best for us. He knows<br />
when to say YES to our prayers. He knows when to say<br />
NO to our prayers. He also knows when to say WAIT<br />
to our prayers! Remember, God is not finished with us<br />
yet.<br />
God wanted Joseph to grow spiritually before he<br />
changed his difficult circumstances. God may want<br />
you to grow spiritually in some area of your life before<br />
He changes your difficult circumstances, your job or<br />
financial situation, your frustrating marriage, or your<br />
dysfunctional family.<br />
Are you fruitful in the land of your suffering and<br />
hardship? Are you LEARNING TO SERVE GOD<br />
FAITHFULLY during your time of waiting? Are you<br />
learning to walk and not faint?<br />
Let me conclude with this true story: George<br />
Mueller, the famous 19th century orphanage founder,<br />
had to WAIT ON THE LORD. He strongly desired<br />
to be a foreign missionary. He tried five times to<br />
enter the mission field, but each time God said no.<br />
George Mueller had to learn to BECOME A MAN OF<br />
PATIENCE. He had to give up his own will and what<br />
he desired. In spite of his disappointments, he decided<br />
to go all out and fully surrendered to God’s will.<br />
During the time of George Mueller’s WAITING ON<br />
THE LORD, this man of faith and patience built five<br />
orphan houses, fed and clothed over 10,000 orphans,<br />
taught over 120,000 children at schools and Sunday<br />
schools, circulated almost two million Bibles and Bible<br />
portions, millions of books and tracts, and assisted<br />
several hundred missionary laborers. Think of it! In<br />
the 1800’s, he received donations of over 7 million<br />
dollars without ever asking for offerings! (Note: Actual<br />
in British pounds. The equivalent in today’s value is<br />
estimated at 75 million dollars)<br />
But this is not the end of the story. Finally, at age<br />
70, after all these great accomplishments, instead of<br />
retiring, George Mueller, in God’s timing, became a<br />
foreign missionary in Europe, America, Asia, Africa,<br />
and Australia and continued as such for 17 years, until<br />
he was 87 years old. There is no telling what God may<br />
do WITH US AND THROUGH US as we learn to<br />
WAIT ON THE LORD! (Source: George Muller, The<br />
Man of Faith, by Basil Miller/Zondervan)<br />
“But they that wait upon the Lord shall RENEW<br />
THEIR STRENGTH; they shall MOUNT UP WITH<br />
WINGS AS EAGLES; they shall RUN AND NOT<br />
BE WEARY; they shall WALK AND NOT FAINT.”<br />
Amen!<br />
P.C.<br />
“WHEN FACED WITH A BUSY DAY,<br />
SAVE PRECIOUS TIME BY SKIPPING<br />
YOUR DAILY DEVOTIONS.”<br />
SATAN<br />
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“MY AMAZING STORY<br />
AS A SOLDIER IN<br />
WORLD WAR I”<br />
“A SOLDIER’S PRAYER”<br />
(Found on the body of an<br />
American Soldier killed in action)<br />
Look, God, I have never spoken to you before<br />
But now I want to say “How do you do.”<br />
You see, God, they told me you didn’t exist<br />
And like a fool I believed all this.<br />
Last night from a shell hole I saw your sky,<br />
I figured right then they had told me a lie.<br />
Had I taken time to see things you made<br />
I’d have known they weren’t calling a spade a spade.<br />
I wonder God if you’d shake my hand,<br />
Somehow I feel that you will understand.<br />
Funny I had to come to this hellish place<br />
Before I had time to see your face.<br />
Well I guess there isn’t much more to say,<br />
But I am sure glad, God, I met you today.<br />
I guess the zero hour will soon be here.<br />
I am not afraid since I know you are here.<br />
The signal! Well God, I’ll have to go.<br />
I like you lots, this I want you to know.<br />
Look now this will be a horrible fight,<br />
Who knows, I may come to your house tonight?<br />
Though I wasn’t friendly to you before,<br />
I wonder God, if you’d wait at your door.<br />
Look, I am crying! Me shedding tears!<br />
I wish I had known you these many years.<br />
Well I have to go now, God goodbye!<br />
Since I met you, I am not afraid to die.<br />
“MY AMAZING STORY”<br />
By: E. H. Britain<br />
This poem THE SOLDIER’S PRAYER came to us<br />
many years ago during World War II, and I never<br />
could read it without letting the tears flow. It is so like<br />
my own experience on the battlefield during World War I,<br />
and I wonder how many thousands of soldiers, men of all<br />
nations, have had a like experience on battlefields all over<br />
the world. Douglas McArthur said, “There are no atheists<br />
in fox holes,” and it may be true.<br />
Before the war, I thought I was an atheist. I didn’t<br />
think about God, heaven, hell, and religion, and I saw so<br />
much hypocrisy and sham among professing Christians, I<br />
had no confidence in it.<br />
But there on the battle field, living every day in that<br />
hell of carnage and destruction, seeing men being blown<br />
to pieces, dead and dying men scattered everywhere,<br />
the thunder of artillery fire pounding in my ears, shells<br />
exploding overhead and on the ground all around me.<br />
Sometimes, I was enveloped with dense gas fumes so that<br />
I had to wear the gas mask for hours at a time with that<br />
respirator in my mouth so that I could not close my mouth<br />
to swallow the saliva, and had to let it run down my chin,<br />
and seep out through the gas mask. Yet I knew that to take<br />
it off meant slow but sure death from gas burning.<br />
When I did have time to think, I saw many things in<br />
an entirely different light than I ever had before. I came<br />
to know that there certainly is a supreme intelligence<br />
somewhere who knows and governs all things. I did<br />
not know his name, whether it was God, Confucius, or<br />
Mohammed but I did know that there certainly is an<br />
Almighty One, who is over and above man. I attempted to<br />
become reconciled to the will of that Almighty One. I was<br />
not consciously talking to God but said in my musings,<br />
“Since there certainly is a Supreme One who rules and<br />
governs all things, I must resign myself to that One, and<br />
be content in whatever might befall me. If it is His will<br />
that I be killed over here in this war, OK. If it is His will<br />
that I go back home, OK.” I did not know it then, but that<br />
is the most effective prayer one could possibly pray.<br />
From that time on, I never had any fear of death.<br />
Many times I was in such terrible bombings and shell fire<br />
that I didn’t see how any one could possibly live another<br />
five or ten minutes. Shells exploded so close to my body<br />
that my body was lifted from the ground and slammed<br />
down again by the concussion.<br />
On the morning of Nov. 1st, 1918, in the Argonne<br />
Forest near Bantheville, France, our outfit endured for two<br />
hours of the most horrific bombardment and concentrated<br />
barrage that had ever been previously recorded in history.<br />
What had been a forest the night before was reduced<br />
to ragged stumps and snags of splintered trees with the<br />
ground torn up as a plowed field with our radio antenna<br />
repeatedly shot down by pieces of shrapnel. The six<br />
men of the Radio Detail, of which I was the sergeant,<br />
were all decorated with the gold star for putting it up<br />
again and again under heavy bombardment so that<br />
communication could be kept between our Regiment and<br />
Corp Headquarters. There was no darkness during that<br />
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night bombardment. One could have read a newspaper<br />
by the light of exploding shells around him. Time after<br />
time, the candles in our dugout were snuffed out by the<br />
concussion and high explosive gas (which the gas masks<br />
do not effect) so filled the air of the dugout our tongues<br />
got so thick we could hardly talk. The noise was so that to<br />
talk to anyone, you had to get right in his ear and then yell<br />
just one word at a time.<br />
At daybreak we went over the top, and began taking<br />
German prisoners immediately, and they too had been<br />
through something! With their “coal scuttle” helmets, they<br />
no longer looked like human beings, but their terrified<br />
eyes stared at you like ghostly apparitions. I saw one<br />
German prisoner walking who had evidently been just<br />
wounded. His mouth and chin were shot away, leaving<br />
his windpipe just dangling under those scared eyes. You<br />
will say that it cannot be, but I saw it! No doubt he did<br />
not live but a few seconds, but I met him face to face and<br />
never will forget that sight.<br />
Some who read this story may remember that<br />
morning, but perhaps not. There are not many of them<br />
living now! After I had made my dedication to God, I<br />
never knew what fear was. I had no dread of death. I was<br />
not converted, for I did not yet believe in the Lord Jesus<br />
Christ, and without the shedding of His blood, one cannot<br />
be converted. But I was under his protection. I was a<br />
soldier and was fighting for Uncle Sam, but I belonged to<br />
the Almighty One.<br />
My honorable discharge shows that I was under<br />
shellfire for 97 days, and never received a scratch. But<br />
I cannot say that I was not affected by the experiences. I<br />
came home and tried to fit myself back into civilian life.<br />
I found that THE WAY BACK is not as simple and easy<br />
as it seems. Being in a semi shell-shocked condition, I<br />
lived in that nightmare of war all the time. Whether asleep<br />
or awake, I could see long lines of marching soldiers<br />
marching to a point before me, and dropping into eternity.<br />
I could not wipe that view from my eyes. With them<br />
open it was there. With them closed it was still there. On<br />
a foggy morning while we lived on a farm in Kansas, I<br />
stepped out the door of my house and could see down the<br />
slope those flashing guns, hear the rat-tat-tat of machine<br />
guns, and hear the roar of cannon. I knew it wasn’t so, but<br />
there it was! I knew I was losing my mind, but I could not<br />
help it. I lived in constant fear of going berserk, as I read<br />
of so many ex-soldiers doing and killing a lot of people.<br />
When I would feel myself slipping and knew I might lose<br />
my bearings, I would leave the house and go out in an<br />
open field or down in the pasture. There, I would fight it<br />
out, until I knew I had myself under control.<br />
I will not bore you with the details of that long battle<br />
I was fighting, from 1919 until I was converted in 1937,<br />
sometimes getting out of bed in the night and walking<br />
miles and miles just as hard as I could walk, to get myself<br />
under control and wear my body out so that I could get a<br />
few hours sleep.<br />
You will not understand that, I am sure. I had dedicated<br />
my life to the Almighty One there on the battle field, and<br />
that delivered me from all fear, but I was still mentally<br />
disturbed, confused, and unsettled, trying to get back to<br />
normal thinking and living.<br />
Then I heard the story of Jesus; at first and for many<br />
years, I rejected it. I had been searching for something<br />
solid, something real. I had studied many religions and<br />
rejected them all. I became a Mason and studied Masonic<br />
literature searching for something I could not find.<br />
Then came the experience of my conversion. That was<br />
a wonderful night when I knelt beside the bed, and prayed<br />
to Jesus and asked him to manifest himself to me. The<br />
Holy Spirit dealt with me all that night and all the next<br />
day, until I came to believe that there is just a possible<br />
chance of the story being true. I determined to go to the<br />
altar every night for six months and seek the Lord. Of<br />
course, I was converted that night, and it only took about<br />
fifteen seconds, and I knew it! I knew that for the first<br />
time in my life, I stood clear and clean before God. My<br />
life of sin was blotted out, and I was the happiest person<br />
you ever saw. I wasn’t ashamed of those tears, which<br />
flowed so freely.<br />
From that moment the nightmare of war left me, and<br />
I was back to normal thinking. My body, which had been<br />
with tense nerves all those years, relaxed, and I was free!<br />
I had been under the care of an Osteopathic physician<br />
who said to me, “I can feel your nerves in your back as<br />
tight as fiddle strings, and I can’t do a thing for you. If<br />
you could relax, I could help you.” I said, “Doc, if I could<br />
relax, I wouldn’t need you!”<br />
My next visit after my conversion, the doctor talked<br />
to my wife as I put on my clothes, and he asked her what<br />
had happened to me. He said, “He is as relaxed as a baby,<br />
and I can manipulate his body just any way I want to.”<br />
She told him of my conversion, and he said that must be<br />
it. That was the last treatment I needed from him!<br />
He surely did manifest Himself to me! And I knew He<br />
was and is real! No wonder that since that day my whole<br />
life has been given to trying to help other believers and<br />
unbelievers to dedicate their lives to Jesus, and let him be<br />
real in their lives, also.<br />
(E. H. Britain was one of my three mentors. P.C., editor)<br />
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WHO IS E. H. BRITAIN?<br />
E. H. Britain wrote and published “Abundant Life<br />
Messages.” In 1948, he and his wife Emma bought a 29-<br />
acre hilltop in Fletcher, MO and called it “Little Mount<br />
Zion.” The “Abundant Life Messages” continued to<br />
be published monthly until 1972 when Brother Britain<br />
retired. The messages have circled the globe impacting<br />
lives and churches. Some were published in foreign<br />
languages.<br />
Brother and Sister Britain hosted 23 Christian camp<br />
meetings through 1971. Pauline and I first met them<br />
in the summer of 1969 at one of their camp meetings.<br />
From then on we became close friends. We visited them<br />
in their homes in Missouri and Michigan where they<br />
retired with Sister Britain’s sister until they went to be<br />
with the Lord. Through the years, we corresponded<br />
regularly. Pauline and I loved them very much, and<br />
I consider Brother Britain to be one of my three<br />
“mentors.” The other two were Dan Detweiler a pastor<br />
in Burton, Ohio and Herman Strong, a pastor in Flint,<br />
Michigan. They and their wives are now in heaven, and<br />
I am very indebted to all three of these wonderful men<br />
of God.<br />
OUR CHILDREN AND<br />
OUR TEENS<br />
One man said, “Before I got married I had six theories<br />
about bringing up children. Now, I have six children<br />
and no theories.”<br />
A young counselor gave a lecture called “Ten<br />
Commandments for Parents.” After getting married and<br />
having one child he changed the lecture to 10 Hints for<br />
parents, after two children he changed the lecture to 10<br />
Suggestions for parents. After 3 children he stopped<br />
lecturing. I admit that I was never a perfect Christian<br />
parent; I did many things wrong but have learned a lot<br />
and am still learning.<br />
PRAYER<br />
The #1 responsibility of Christian parents is to bring up<br />
their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord<br />
(Eph. 6:1-4). Nurture = Godly discipline or correction;<br />
admonition = Godly rebuke or warning. In order to obey<br />
that scripture, a parent must begin with prayer. It is our<br />
responsibility as Christian parents to pray for our children<br />
and teenagers. Do you pray for your children and teens<br />
every day? If not, then it’s time to begin. This includes<br />
grandparents, also.<br />
Don’t wait until your child becomes a problem<br />
teenager before you pray for your children. My children<br />
are all married, but I still pray for each one of them,<br />
their mates, and their children by name everyday. We<br />
need to be praying for our children’s and grandchildren’s<br />
PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL HEALTH, but, above all,<br />
we should be praying about their SALVATION and their<br />
SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.<br />
Your children and teens not only need you to pray<br />
FOR them, but they also need you to be praying WITH<br />
them! As children get into their teens, they should learn to<br />
PRAY PRIVATELY as well as WITH THEIR PARENTS.<br />
It is such a blessing to know that your child or teen prays<br />
while they are alone. The best way to get them started is<br />
have them hear you pray for them and with them.<br />
My children would fuss at times when I would get them<br />
together for some family prayer time, but I am sure they<br />
now look back on those times as precious and rewarding.<br />
I believe it helped give them a conscience to have family<br />
prayer time with their children, also. Prayer is the most<br />
important aspect in parenting children and teens. If you<br />
are not praying for and with your children or teenagers<br />
regularly, then, you, as a Christian parent, need to begin<br />
right away.<br />
THE WORD<br />
Next, we have the instruction of God’s Word to help<br />
us as parents. In Proverbs 22:6 we read, “Train up a child<br />
in the way he should go and when he is old he will not<br />
depart from it.” Notice, that it does not only read “teach”<br />
but “train.” You can be teaching a child correctly but<br />
you may not be TRAINING them properly. Each child is<br />
different and only the Holy Spirit can give us the wisdom<br />
we need with each child. We can teach our children to be<br />
religious, but we can train them to be spiritual Christians<br />
by leading them to Jesus through God’s Word and by the<br />
example of our own lives before them.<br />
The time for God’s Word to be planted in the heart is<br />
when one is a child. If children memorize scripture, they<br />
will be more apt to grow up to be obedient Christians.<br />
The Psalmist said, “Thy Word have I hid in my heart that<br />
I might not sin against Thee.”<br />
I realize life is hectic these days with parents and teens<br />
working and everyone running in different directions, but<br />
family devotions should and must take top priority over<br />
all other family activities. Sometimes five or ten minutes<br />
of Bible reading and prayer together may be sufficient.<br />
If you are not regularly reading the Bible to your<br />
children or teens, then you, as a Christian parent, need to<br />
begin right away. Billy Sunday said, “We wait too long.<br />
We wait until they stagger home drunk before we teach<br />
them to ‘Look not upon the wine when it is red’ says the<br />
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scriptures. We wait until swearing and cursing fall from<br />
their mouth before we teach them, ‘Thou shall not take<br />
the name of the Lord thy God in vain.’ We wait until they<br />
are on the way to prison before we teach them, ‘Thou<br />
shall not steal.’ It’s too late to take swimming lessons<br />
after the ship begins to sink. It’s too late to insure your<br />
house after the flames burst through the roof.” (From<br />
“Saved by Grace…for Service” page 308-309, by Robert<br />
L. Sumner)<br />
Statistics reveal that 87% of all people who receive<br />
Christ as their Savior do so before the age of 12. That<br />
means that when a child reaches 13 yrs of age, there is<br />
only a slim chance of them becoming a Christian. The<br />
great evangelist D. L. Moody was asked, “How many<br />
converts did you have last night?” He answered, “Two<br />
and one half.” “You mean two adults and a child?” “No,”<br />
he replied. “Two children and one adult. A child converted<br />
is an entire life converted.” (“Illustrations for Biblical<br />
Preaching” page 45, by Michael P. Green)<br />
You are committing a sin against God and against<br />
your child if you do not have regular family devotions of<br />
prayer and Bible reading, and, as much as possible, bring<br />
them to Sunday school and church every week!<br />
WORK<br />
Another important key in becoming successful<br />
Christian parents is training children and teens to actually<br />
enjoy work. The Biblical principle is “If a person doesn’t<br />
work neither let them eat.” (II Th. 3:10) Many children<br />
and teenagers have too much spare time today. Many<br />
have a lack of responsibilities and duties. Do you require<br />
your children and teens to do household and yard chores?<br />
Your children and teens need to be learning to work,<br />
perhaps learning to play an instrument, and earning money<br />
and saving it for a particular item and even for college<br />
expenses. Teach them responsibility and appreciation by<br />
earning their own way through life. Having goals and<br />
learning to work will do wonders for children and teens.<br />
At age 10, my family moved to Vermont, and I started<br />
mowing lawns and working on a nearby farm. Beside<br />
the usual duties of farm work, I helped the farmer cut<br />
cord wood for his customers and empty trashcans on his<br />
rubbish route. At age 15, I was an apprentice barber in<br />
my father’s barbershop. Most of the money I earned went<br />
toward new clothes or things I needed. Our children and<br />
teens need to experience, on a daily basis, the fulfillment<br />
that comes from good old-fashioned work!<br />
RULES<br />
Another key in becoming successful Christian<br />
parents is establishing RULES for our children and teens.<br />
If a child or teenager is without sufficient rules, they will<br />
lack direction in their lives and will be governed by their<br />
feelings and impulses instead of Christian values and<br />
common sense.<br />
It has been said, “We’ve been soft when we should<br />
have been tough. Permissive when we should have<br />
cracked down. Generous when we should have been<br />
stingy. Non-involved when we should have been up to<br />
our ears.” (Source unknown)<br />
Parents should always know where their children and<br />
teens are, where they are going, and what they are doing<br />
while there. They should know who is driving, when<br />
they are going, and when they will be returning home.<br />
Perhaps most important is WHO THEY ARE GOING<br />
TO BE WITH! You may allow your child or teenager<br />
to stay over night with some other Christian family,<br />
but are you sure that you can trust the parents who are<br />
supposed Christians? Can you trust the other children or<br />
teens who may live there or may be visiting there? Most<br />
child molestation today goes unreported to any parents or<br />
authorities.<br />
It is never safe for you to assume that your teenager<br />
is old enough and capable to make proper judgments or<br />
to take care of themselves. Don’t allow your teens to<br />
be vague about their plans. If they say they are going<br />
to watch a movie, ask them which movie. You might<br />
be shocked at what they are watching when you are not<br />
looking. Also, be open for alternatives when you don’t<br />
like their plans. At times, it may be better to allow them<br />
to invite a friend over instead of them going out with<br />
friends. It might be better for them to “hang-out” at your<br />
house than elsewhere.<br />
If your child or teen is changing in their attitudes or in<br />
their habits and routines you need to do some checking.<br />
You must find who they talk and text to and who they<br />
hang around with. Don’t be afraid to be a detective and<br />
find out what is going on! After your teen gets seduced<br />
into sexual activity or drugs, it is too late!<br />
The most difficult years of my life were between the<br />
ages of 13 and 17. I had already learned the importance<br />
and satisfaction of working and earning money for my<br />
own needs, but my parents did not carry through with<br />
sufficient rules. They could not keep tabs on me enough<br />
of the time and being with the wrong friends helped me to<br />
get off course.<br />
My parents were good Christians, however, my<br />
feelings and my emotions were mostly developed by the<br />
songs of the 1950’s, which were based on the physical<br />
contact and activity between a boy and a girl. Body<br />
chemistry was mistaken for love.<br />
The two most powerful influences that kept me from<br />
becoming a Christian were #1 - The rhythm and blues,<br />
rock n roll music of the 50’s with it’s emphasis on the<br />
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oy-girl relationship being centered on physical contact,<br />
and #2 - the influence of non-Christian friends at school.<br />
Soon my main objective was to just “live it up.”<br />
I graduated high school in Springfield, Vermont at age<br />
17. I immediately went to live on my own in N.Y.C. I<br />
rented a room in Brooklyn and found a job in Manhattan<br />
training as a clerk-teletype operator with Western Union.<br />
After a few months of training, they placed me in a nice<br />
office in the Times Square Broadway show area on 52nd<br />
Street and Broadway. I wanted to “live it up,” and that is<br />
just what I did.<br />
However, at age 19, I had a real salvation-conversion<br />
experience and have been living for the Lord for the past<br />
55 years. Teenagers, take it from me! Save your romance<br />
and your body for your future Christian husband or<br />
Christian wife! Don’t play around with the world and its<br />
ways. Stay right with the Lord, and God will bless your<br />
life.<br />
EXAMPLE<br />
PRAYER, THE WORD OF GOD, WORK, AND<br />
RULES are of utmost importance in becoming successful<br />
Christian parents, and so is EXAMPLE. You must be a<br />
proper EXAMPLE. Don’t expect your child or teenager<br />
to be something that you are not. If you don’t abstain<br />
from smoking, drinking, swearing, lying, being critical,<br />
gossiping, always complaining, etc., don’t expect your<br />
child or teenager to abstain either.<br />
Are you a true Christian? Do you pray regularly each<br />
day? Do you read and study the Bible everyday? Do you<br />
attend church and church events consistently? Do you<br />
unselfishly give of yourself to others, the church, and<br />
spiritual activities?<br />
The most powerful way to train your child or teenager<br />
is by EXAMPLE. Years ago Dear Abby wrote the<br />
following:<br />
A PARENT’S PRAYER<br />
“Oh, Heavenly Father, make me a better parent. Teach<br />
me to understand my children, to listen patiently to what<br />
they have to say, and to answer all their questions kindly.<br />
Keep me from interrupting or contradicting them. Make<br />
me as courteous to them as I would have them be to me.<br />
Forbid that I should ever laugh at their mistakes, or resort<br />
to shame or ridicule when they displease me. May I never<br />
punish them for my own selfish satisfaction or because I<br />
am angry.<br />
Let me not tempt my child to lie or steal. And guide<br />
me hour by hour that I may demonstrate by all I say and<br />
do that honesty produces happiness. Reduce, I pray, the<br />
meanness in me. And, when I am out of sorts, help me, O,<br />
Lord, to hold my tongue.<br />
May I ever be mindful that my children are children<br />
and I should not expect of them judgment as adults. Let<br />
me not rob them of the opportunity to wait on themselves<br />
and to make some decisions on their own. Bless me with<br />
the bigness to grant them all their reasonable requests,<br />
and the courage to deny them privileges I know will do<br />
them harm.<br />
Make me fair and just and kind. And fit me, Oh Lord,<br />
to be loved and respected and imitated by my children.<br />
Amen.”<br />
(From “A Parent’s Prayer” - “Dear Abby”-The Day, New<br />
London, CT., Oct. 25, 1971, Vol. 91, No. 95, pg. 14)<br />
As Christian parents, it’s time for us to train our<br />
children and teens in the ways of the Lord and in the way<br />
they should go; through PRAYER, THE WORD, WORK,<br />
RULES, AND, BY EXAMPLE!<br />
Our children and teens are the only earthly possessions<br />
we can take with us to heaven! Let’s make double sure<br />
they will be with us!<br />
May God bless you and your family is my prayer.<br />
P.C.<br />
ADVICE FROM MARTIN LUTHER<br />
There was a saying Martin loved to quote: “Let<br />
the wife make her husband glad to come home and<br />
let him make her sorry to see him leave.”<br />
DEAR TEENAGER<br />
A teenager wrote the following:<br />
“The Cry of the Teens”<br />
“I am here, but I don’t know where I am.<br />
I know where I came from, but I don’t<br />
Know where I’m going.<br />
I know my name, but I don’t know who I am.<br />
I’m living the ‘happiest days of my life’<br />
And I’m crying!” (Author unknown)<br />
Christian teenager, are you happy? Are you satisfied<br />
with your life? Do you feel accepted by those around<br />
you? Have you been trying to act in ways that will make<br />
your friends accept you? Perhaps you have been copying<br />
and imitating your friends. If you have, then you are not<br />
really being yourself.<br />
Teenagers, I plead with you to be determined not to<br />
give in to what the crowd around you seems to be doing.<br />
Be determined to wait for your wedding night to have<br />
your first sexual experience. You will be glad that you<br />
can present yourself as a virgin to your future wife or<br />
husband! “But,” you may be saying, “it is too late. I have<br />
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already given in.” God still loves you. Just ask Him to<br />
forgive you. Then stop giving in to it from now on and<br />
save your body for your wife or husband and them alone!<br />
You ask, “Why should I wait until I am married?” One<br />
big reason is that God demands it. “For this is the will<br />
of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain<br />
from fornication.” (I Thess. 4:3) “…Be not deceived…<br />
neither fornicators…nor adulterers…shall inherit the<br />
kingdom of God” (or they will not go to Heaven!) (I Cor.<br />
6:9-10)<br />
In other words, you are not a Christian but are on your<br />
way to an eternal hell if you are guilty of continuing to<br />
commit the sin of fornication or sex outside of marriage.<br />
I did not get saved until I was nineteen years old. I<br />
will never forget that day! For the first time in my life I<br />
experienced a peace and a joy that I never had before; I<br />
knew I was saved!<br />
Teenager, what about you??? Are you really saved?<br />
Are you sure that you would go to Heaven if you died in<br />
an auto accident today?<br />
Teenager, you may question God and religion but<br />
you can never stop God from loving you. The Bible<br />
guarantees that God loves you and has a desired plan for<br />
your life.<br />
If you will surrender your heart and yield your life<br />
to Jesus Christ, you will find what your heart is truly<br />
searching for!<br />
P.C.<br />
LET’S START A REVIVAL!<br />
II Chronicles 7:14<br />
What exactly do we mean by the word REVIVAL?<br />
According to Webster, the word REVIVE means<br />
to “to return to consciousness or life; to become active<br />
or flourishing again; to restore from a depressed,<br />
inactive, or unused state.”<br />
The Christian church of today needs a revival! Your<br />
church needs a revival! You and I need a revival!<br />
WHEN DO WE NEED REVIVAL?<br />
“WE NEED REVIVAL when we have little or no<br />
desire for prayer; when we make little effort to witness<br />
to the lost; when we have time for sports, recreation,<br />
and entertainment, but not for Bible study and prayer;<br />
when God’s people are more concerned about their jobs<br />
and their careers, than about the Kingdom of Christ and<br />
the salvation of the lost; when we are more concerned<br />
about what others think about us than what God thinks<br />
about us; when believers can be at odds with each other<br />
and not feel compelled to pursue reconciliation; when<br />
our children are growing up to adopt worldly values,<br />
secular philosophies, and ungodly lifestyles; when we<br />
are more concerned about our children’s education and<br />
their athletic activities than about the condition of their<br />
souls.<br />
When we will watch things on television and movies<br />
that are not holy; when we are bored with worship;<br />
when people have to be entertained to be drawn to<br />
church; when our music and dress become patterned<br />
after the world; when we start fitting into and adapting<br />
to the world, rather than calling the world to adapt to<br />
God’s standards of holiness; when we are unconcerned<br />
about our neighbors, our business associates, and our<br />
acquaintances who are lost and without Christ; when<br />
our prayers lack fervency; when the fire has gone out in<br />
our hearts, our marriages, and our church; when we are<br />
blind to the extent of our need and don’t think we need<br />
revival.”<br />
(Adapted from “When Do We Need Revival?” by<br />
Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth of Revive Our Hearts –<br />
used by permission)<br />
I would like to add some thoughts regarding “What<br />
is Revival?” Revival is when Christians begin to get<br />
closer to God. Revival is when more praying is done<br />
by each Christian at home than at the church. Revival<br />
is when we find ourselves broken before the Lord in<br />
daily repentance of sin in thought, word, or action.<br />
Revival is when we ask the Lord for forgiveness of not<br />
being loving and considerate of our wives or husbands,<br />
our parents, our children, or other Christians. Revival<br />
is when we forgive people we don’t like or people<br />
who have hurt or offended us. Revival is when we<br />
spend time talking with someone at church who we<br />
don’t like or we feel uncomfortable with. Revival<br />
is when we love and obey God’s Word and do what<br />
we know we should do even when we don’t feel like<br />
doing it. Revival is having regular daily devotions<br />
and daily prayer for others. Revival is when we are<br />
anxious to give of ourselves and serve in our church.<br />
Revival is when Christians invite one another over<br />
for meals together and when they enjoy praying and<br />
fellowshipping together. Revival is when Christians are<br />
filled with love for the unsaved and they give out tracts<br />
and try to talk about Jesus. Revival is when Christians<br />
invite the unsaved to church and even give them a ride<br />
to church - PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND PRAYING<br />
CHURCHES.<br />
II Chronicles 7:14, is a cry from the very heart of<br />
God. God is yearning and waiting for us, as individuals<br />
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and as a church, to humble ourselves more than we<br />
have ever humbled ourselves before. He is yearning<br />
and waiting for us to pray more wholeheartedly than<br />
ever before. Do you have meaningful private daily<br />
devotions? If not, then you need a revival in your<br />
heart and soul! Do you have a desire to pray with<br />
other Christians? If not, then you need a revival in<br />
your soul! PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND PRAYING<br />
CHURCHES.<br />
If you have not yet admitted it, then it is time to<br />
admit it: YOU NEED A REVIVAL! All of us need to<br />
become PRAYING CHRISTIANS as never before and<br />
our church needs to become a PRAYING CHURCH<br />
as never before! Only then will we experience a<br />
SUPERNATURAL REVIVAL in our personal lives, in<br />
our families and in our churches! Only then will we<br />
see people saved and delivered from drugs, smoking,<br />
drinking, pornography, immorality, bitterness, gossip,<br />
and every conceivable sin! May God severely convict<br />
us so that we become PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND<br />
PRAYING CHURCHES!<br />
All through scripture, we are commanded to pray.<br />
While speaking of the end times, Jesus said, “Watch<br />
ye therefore, and PRAY ALWAYS...” (Luke 21:36)<br />
The Apostle Paul told the church of the Ephesians to<br />
be “PRAYING ALWAYS.” (Eph. 6:18-20) He told the<br />
church of the Thessalonians to “PRAY WITHOUT<br />
CEASING.” (I Th. 5:17) Paul exhorted the church<br />
of the Philippians to pray about everything when he<br />
said, “In everything by prayer and supplication with<br />
thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto<br />
God.” (Php. 4:6)<br />
TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET<br />
Here are four scriptural reasons why we need to<br />
pray. The first reason is TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET.<br />
We will be unable to start a revival unless we pray to<br />
have our needs met. Philippians 4:19 reads, “But my<br />
God shall supply all your need according to His riches<br />
in glory by Christ Jesus.” Take note that it says “all<br />
your need.” That means all your spiritual, emotional,<br />
physical, and material needs in their proper perspective<br />
and priority. Keep in mind that Paul had just finished<br />
telling them in verse 6 to let their “requests be made<br />
known unto God” through prayer. James 4:2, reads,<br />
“You have not because you ask not.” It is evident<br />
that God wants us to HAVE OUR NEEDS MET BY<br />
ASKING. Jesus said, “Ask and ye shall receive.” (John<br />
16:24)<br />
When you’re all wrong and willing to admit it,<br />
you’re alright!<br />
HOLY SPIRIT POWER<br />
A second reason why we need to pray is for HOLY<br />
SPIRIT POWER. A primary role of the Holy Spirit is<br />
for the conviction of sin. In John 16:8 we read that the<br />
power of the Holy Spirit will reprove and convict all of<br />
us of sin. We, as Christians, all too often, are walking<br />
around with sins that are not forgiven. We need to get<br />
right with God and stay right with God. It’s time to<br />
obey God’s Word. It’s time to turn from every sinful<br />
way.<br />
E.M. Bounds said, “An old fashioned revival is<br />
the medicine for these times. Such a revival is not a<br />
momentary outburst of excitement, not a temporary<br />
manipulated stir, not a mere reformation, but a real<br />
awakening, a profound and awful conviction of sin by<br />
the eternal Spirit of God. For such a revival we ought to<br />
pray with our whole souls; pray like Jacob till the day<br />
dawns and the blessing comes; pray like Elijah, till the<br />
answer by fire comes, till heaven is unlocked and pours<br />
out its treasures.” (“Spirit of Revival-Anniversary<br />
Edition” - Life Action Ministries)<br />
We also need to pray for Holy Spirit power so that<br />
we do not give in to the lusts of the flesh, the lust of the<br />
eyes, and the pride of life. (I John 2:15-17) Television<br />
and movie watching will tend to increase our motivation<br />
to live for the lusts of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and<br />
the pride of life. We need Holy Spirit power to be able<br />
to fulfill Gal. 5:16 in our lives: “Walk in the Spirit and<br />
you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.”<br />
OVERCOMING SATAN<br />
Another reason why we need Holy Spirit power is<br />
to overcome the power of Satan, the devil. The Bible<br />
says that the devil is “as a roaring lion seeking whom<br />
he may devour.” (I Peter 5:8) We are admonished in<br />
Ephesians 6:11-18 to put on the whole armor of God<br />
and be praying always “that we will be able to stand<br />
against the wiles of the devil.” The only way we can put<br />
on God’s armor is through reading and obeying God’s<br />
Word with serious daily prayer!<br />
FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD<br />
Not only do we need to pray in order TO HAVE<br />
OUR NEEDS MET SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY,<br />
PHYSICALLY, AND MATERIALLY, and HAVE<br />
HOLY SPIRIT POWER in our lives. But, thirdly, we<br />
need to pray so that we can HAVE FELLOWSHIP<br />
WITH GOD. (John 15:7) We need our prayer times to<br />
include fellowship with God.<br />
In the story of Mary and Martha, we have a contrast<br />
of SERVICE FOR GOD VERSUS FELLOWSHIP<br />
AND COMMUNION WITH GOD. Martha was busy<br />
serving the Lord while her sister Mary sat at Jesus feet<br />
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and heard His Word. Actually, Martha was too busy<br />
to spend time with Jesus. Jesus rebuked Martha but<br />
commended Mary for her desire for fellowship and<br />
communion with Him. (Luke 10:38-42) Don’t get busy<br />
FOR GOD until you spend sufficient time WITH GOD<br />
in daily prayer and daily Bible reading and study!<br />
PRAYING FOR OTHERS<br />
The last reason that we need to pray is to PRAY<br />
FOR OTHERS AS WE OUGHT TO PRAY. That is<br />
called intercession. (I Tim. 2:1-4) We should pray for<br />
our president and for his salvation more than we speak<br />
critically of him. If you have unsaved loved ones, pray<br />
for their salvation everyday with all your heart.<br />
Pray daily and fervently for your family. The very<br />
heart of God is expressed in Deut. 5:29, “O that there<br />
were such an heart in them, that they would fear me,<br />
and keep all my commandments always, that it may be<br />
well with them and with their children for ever.”<br />
Pray that God may mightily use your children<br />
and grandchildren. “George McCluskey was a man<br />
of prayer. When he married and started a family, he<br />
decided to invest one hour a day in prayer, because he<br />
wanted his children to follow Christ. After a time, he<br />
expanded his prayers to include his grandchildren and<br />
great-grandchildren. Every day between 11 a.m. and<br />
noon, he prayed for the next three generations.<br />
As the years went by, his two daughters committed<br />
their lives to Christ and married men who went into<br />
full-time ministry. The two couples produced four girls<br />
and one boy. Each of the girls married a minister, and<br />
the boy became a pastor. The first two children born to<br />
this generation were both boys. Upon graduation from<br />
high school, the two cousins chose the same college and<br />
became roommates. During their sophomore year, one<br />
boy decided to go into the ministry. The other didn’t. He<br />
undoubtedly felt some pressure to continue the family<br />
legacy, but he chose instead to pursue his interest in<br />
psychology. He earned his doctorate and eventually<br />
wrote books for parents that became bestsellers. He<br />
started a radio program heard on more than a thousand<br />
stations each day. The man’s name was James Dobson.<br />
Through his prayers, George McCluskey affected far<br />
more than one family.” (Fresh Illustrations pg. 165,<br />
Leadership Journal)<br />
Charles Spurgeon who preached to his church of<br />
thousands, had hundreds of volunteer intercessors<br />
praying before and during the church services in the<br />
basement of the church. Pastor Jim Cymbala of the<br />
Brooklyn Tabernacle has volunteer intercessors praying<br />
in a separate room before and during the service. They<br />
have a PRAYING CHURCH, and they have continuous<br />
revival. Charles Spurgeon said, “Among all the<br />
formative influences that go to make up a man honored<br />
of God in the ministry, I know of none more mighty<br />
than the intercession of his parishioners. Without it, he<br />
will most likely be a failure!” (Daily Bread-Apr.24)<br />
How much time do you spend praying for the<br />
people of your church and your pastor? It has been said,<br />
“There will be more POWER in the pulpit when there<br />
is more PRAYER in the pew!”<br />
We need to pray TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET,<br />
TO HAVE HOLY SPIRIT POWER, TO HAVE<br />
COMMUNION AND FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD,<br />
AND, TO PRAY EFFECTIVELY FOR OTHERS. WE<br />
NEED TO PRAY!<br />
WE NEED A REVIVAL just like the lukewarm,<br />
backslidden church of the Laodiceans needed a revival,<br />
especially because they didn’t think they needed a<br />
revival.<br />
WE NEED A FRESH VISION just like Isaiah<br />
needed a fresh vision. Then, we will respond like<br />
Isaiah did when he said in repentance, “Woe, is me,<br />
for I am undone. I am a man of unclean lips.” We will<br />
also respond with a surrender of our lives and say as he<br />
said, “Here I am, Lord, send me!”<br />
WE NEED A BURDEN just like Nehemiah needed<br />
a burden. He saw the need, he felt the burden and then<br />
he did something about his burden.<br />
WHAT DO OUR CHURCHES NEED? WE NEED<br />
A REVIVAL! WE NEED A VISION! WE NEED A<br />
BURDEN! WE NEED TO PRAY!<br />
God is saying to us today, “If my people, which are<br />
called by my name, will humble themselves and pray,<br />
and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways,<br />
then I will hear from Heaven and heal their land.” (II<br />
Chr. 7:14) And let me add that He will heal our hearts,<br />
our lives, our marriages, our families, and our churches!<br />
LET’S START A REVIVAL!!!<br />
P.C.<br />
SAID THE ROBIN TO THE SPARROW<br />
Said the Robin to the Sparrow,<br />
“I would surely like to know,<br />
Why these anxious human beings<br />
Rush about and worry so.”<br />
Said the Sparrow to the Robin,<br />
“Friend I think that it must be,<br />
That they have no Heavenly Father,<br />
Such as cares for you and me.”<br />
-- Elizabeth Cheny<br />
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THE GRUMBLE FAMILY<br />
by Anonymous<br />
There's a family nobody likes to meet;<br />
They live, it is said, on Complaining Street<br />
In the city of Never-Are-Satisfied,<br />
The River of Discontent beside.<br />
They growl at that and they growl at this;<br />
Whatever comes, there is something amiss;<br />
And whether their station be high or humble,<br />
They are all known by the name of Grumble.<br />
The weather is always too hot or cold;<br />
Summer and winter alike they scold.<br />
Nothing goes right with the folks you meet<br />
Down on that gloomy Complaining Street.<br />
They growl at the rain and they growl at the sun;<br />
In fact, their growling is never done.<br />
And if everything pleased them, there isn't a doubt<br />
They'd growl that they'd nothing to grumble about!<br />
But the queerest thing is that not one of the same<br />
Can be brought to acknowledge his family name;<br />
For never a Grumbler will own that he<br />
Is connected with it at all, you see.<br />
The worst thing is that if anyone stays<br />
Among them too long, he will learn their ways;<br />
And before he dreams of the terrible jumble<br />
He's adopted into the family of Grumble.<br />
And so it were wisest to keep our feet<br />
From wandering into Complaining Street;<br />
And never to growl, whatever we do,<br />
Lest we be mistaken for Grumblers, too.<br />
Let us learn to walk with a smile and a song,<br />
No matter if things do sometimes go wrong;<br />
And then, be our station high or humble,<br />
We'll never belong to the family of Grumble!