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Living Messages<br />

For Family Life and Christian Living<br />

<strong>Issue</strong> #1<br />

FEATURING<br />

A Disciplined Christian..............3<br />

Waiting On The Lord...................5<br />

My Amazing Story ......................8<br />

Our Children and Our Teens.....10<br />

Dear Teenager..........................12<br />

Let’s Start A Revival! ...............13<br />

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“A DISCIPLINED<br />

CHRISTIAN”<br />

(I Cor. 9:24-27)<br />

The dictionary definition of DISCIPLINE is “training<br />

that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties<br />

or moral character.” When parents properly discipline<br />

their children they are giving them a type of training<br />

that CORRECTS, MOLDS, AND PERFECTS THEM<br />

MENTALLY AND MORALLY.<br />

Self-discipline, however, is the unpleasant task<br />

of disciplining ourselves by correcting ourselves,<br />

even when we hate to be wrong. In other words, we<br />

actually force ourselves to change our will and our<br />

ways, even when we don’t feel like it. There is a severe<br />

lack of SELF-DISCIPLINE in our society. Everywhere<br />

we look, people are seeking escape from trouble,<br />

opposition, work, and responsibility. The trend today is<br />

to seek the easy way out.<br />

The great patriot Patrick Henry said, “I know not<br />

what course others may take but, as for me, GIVE ME<br />

LIBERTY OR GIVE ME DEATH!” That’s courage,<br />

determination, and discipline. General Douglas Mac<br />

Arthur was disciplined and courageous when he said:<br />

“There is no substitute for victory!”<br />

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Abraham Lincoln, one of our greatest praying<br />

presidents, failed in business twice, was defeated 8<br />

times in politics, and among other disappointments,<br />

he suffered a nervous breakdown. He endured a total<br />

of 30 years of heartache and failure before becoming<br />

President of the United States. However, he made<br />

it a TOP PRIORITY and, with much discipline, HE<br />

FINALLY DID WIN!<br />

SELF-DISCIPLINE<br />

In our text, the apostle Paul is referring to the games<br />

and sporting events of Greece. This particular event<br />

was celebrated every four years near Corinth, Greece.<br />

It included five exercises of leaping, discus throwing,<br />

racing, boxing, and wrestling. I Cor. 9:26 specifically<br />

speaks of running/racing and fighting/boxing. During<br />

the ten months leading up to this event, the athletes<br />

would be in continuous training and keep themselves<br />

under strict discipline. Participants would sacrifice<br />

comfort and pleasure in hopes of winning the special<br />

wreath crown of honor.<br />

In this passage, the apostle Paul also describes<br />

the life of A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN. If we, as<br />

Christians, do not practice self-discipline, we may find<br />

ourselves being disorganized, even unstable, unfaithful,<br />

and undependable. We will usually try to get our own<br />

way, be easily offended, and unable to successfully face<br />

opposition without fussing, arguing, or complaining.<br />

If you are not a disciplined Christian, you may find<br />

yourself blaming others for your difficulties. You may<br />

even blame God. You may find yourself giving up on<br />

your financial responsibilities, blaming your wife or<br />

husband for your problems, and even calling it quits<br />

on your marriage. You may become critical of other<br />

Christians or critical of your church. It takes strict<br />

discipline to go against the temptation to be critical of<br />

others and refrain from talking about others.<br />

You may be a good person, read religious books,<br />

you may have listened to many sermons, served on<br />

church committees, and you may feel religious or quite<br />

spiritual. However, unless you add self-discipline to<br />

every aspect of your Christian life, you will not keep<br />

your spiritual victory and joy, and you will not be able<br />

to be a contented, disciplined Christian!!<br />

RUNNING TO WIN<br />

Notice that verse 24 says, “So run that you may<br />

obtain” or run in such a way as to receive the prize. The<br />

attitude of such a Christian is as one running a race.<br />

He is running to win the prize. Spiritual Christians will<br />

always be running in the direction of spiritual growth.<br />

Their underlying motivation is to live right and to<br />

please the Lord in all that they do.<br />

Verse 25 says that he “is temperate or has selfcontrol<br />

in all things.” Self-control is a fruit of the spirit,<br />

but it will not be a part of our Christian lives without<br />

self-discipline. A disciplined Christian keeps himself<br />

under strict training. There will be times when he must<br />

deny himself of all personal comfort and ease. He must<br />

be ready to go against any unspiritual tendency and be<br />

determined to not compromise with even the smallest<br />

of sins.<br />

Verse 25 also says that athletes are disciplined<br />

to receive a crown that will not last or one that is<br />

corruptible. However, we bring our bodies under<br />

subjection to receive a crown that is incorruptible, that<br />

will last forever. In the athletic competitions of Paul’s<br />

day, the winner of a race would receive a perishable<br />

wreath crown. We, as Christians, must run our spiritual<br />

race with a determination to receive our imperishable<br />

spiritual crown in heaven and hear our Lord say, “Well<br />

done, thou good and faithful servant.”<br />

There are many church-attending Christians who<br />

have never experienced a real salvation experience<br />

resulting in a supernatural assurance of one’s sins being<br />

forgiven. Our salvation was paid for by the death of<br />

Jesus on the cross and confirmed by His resurrection<br />

from the dead. We are all born as sinners and must<br />

place our faith in Jesus as our own personal Savior by<br />

asking Jesus to forgive us of our sins.<br />

Jesus said, “If any man will come after me, let<br />

him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and<br />

follow me.” (Luke 8:23) It takes self-denial and selfdiscipline<br />

to humbly admit that we are sinners and to<br />

humbly surrender to Jesus as the Lord and Master of<br />

our lives. However, once we accept Jesus as our Savior<br />

and surrender our hearts and lives to Him, He will give<br />

us the Holy Spirit with the power and strength to live<br />

happy and successful Christian lives.<br />

DAILY DEVOTIONS<br />

Do you have a meaningful quiet time or devotions<br />

every day? It requires self-discipline to spend quality<br />

time in prayer and in God’s Word everyday. We<br />

must discipline ourselves to spend time in QUIET<br />

THANKFULNESS AND PRAYER. Every day, we<br />

must also READ THE WORD OF GOD, STUDY IT,<br />

FEED ON IT, LIVE BY IT IN EVERY ASPECT OF<br />

OUR LIVES, AND BE WILLING TO EVEN DIE<br />

FOR OUR FAITH IN GOD’S WORD!<br />

In verse 26, Paul was running toward a desired goal.<br />

Paul had an overpowering goal to deny his natural<br />

tendencies and, instead, yield to God’s Spirit and obey<br />

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God’s Word. Without self-discipline in our Christian<br />

lives, we will not grow spiritually and accomplish our<br />

spiritual goals.<br />

RULING OUR OWN SPIRIT<br />

A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN must also learn to<br />

CONTROL OR RULE HIS OR HER OWN SPIRIT OR<br />

ATTITUDE. In Proverbs 25:28 we read, “He that has<br />

no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken<br />

down and without walls.” In Old Testament times,<br />

most cities had a large wall around them as a defense<br />

against the enemy. Are you like a city without walls<br />

of defense? Do the circumstances and the pressures of<br />

your life rule over you? Or do you stand strong in your<br />

faith and effectively use the Bible as your shield of faith<br />

against the adverse circumstances of life? Do you know<br />

the Bible well enough to stand on the promises of God<br />

and effectively use God’s Word as your spiritual sword<br />

against the temptations of your flesh to sin?<br />

In Proverbs 16:32 we read, “He that is slow to anger<br />

is better than the mighty, and he that rules his spirit [or<br />

controls his temper] than he that takes a city.” It is not<br />

easy to be in control of our own spirit. If we would<br />

begin to discipline ourselves by taking control of our<br />

mind and emotions in the same way that the athletes<br />

discipline their bodies, we would become strong and<br />

well-disciplined Christians.<br />

Earl Britain, my friend and mentor, was one of three<br />

most influential men in my Christian life. In World War<br />

I, he experienced being under continuous shellfire for<br />

97 days in “the hundred day offensive” which included<br />

the battle of the Argonne Forest near Bantheville,<br />

France. Years later, he wrote the following words:<br />

“When everyone else is ANGRY, that’s the time for<br />

you to KEEP SWEET. When everyone else is running,<br />

that’s the time for you to watch your feet.<br />

When everyone else is excited, that’s the time for you<br />

to keep calm. When everyone else shows their hatred,<br />

that’s the time for you to show love.<br />

When everyone else looks at earthly things, that’s the<br />

time for you to look above.<br />

When everyone else shows their selfishness,<br />

that’s the time for you to give.<br />

When everyone else is perishing,<br />

You will be just beginning to live!!!”<br />

A GOOD SOLDIER<br />

The apostle Paul said to Timothy in II Tim. 2:3,<br />

“Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of<br />

Jesus Christ.” What is a good soldier? A good soldier<br />

is well-trained, well-disciplined, ready to serve, and<br />

ready for battle. Are you willing to endure criticism and<br />

opposition? Sometimes it will come from your wife,<br />

your husband, your parents, or your family. Sometimes<br />

it will come from church members or from those on<br />

your job. It’s all part of ENDURING HARDNESS! It’s<br />

all part of becoming A GOOD SOLDIER in the Lord.<br />

Discipline takes time. It must be learned and practiced.<br />

We must go against our selfish tendencies and our<br />

fleshly temptations. We must go against our pride and<br />

our ego. We must obey God’s Word. We must place<br />

the Lord and the Lord’s work first in our lives. We<br />

must place our mates and our family before ourselves.<br />

Sometimes it will require us to step on our pride and<br />

humble ourselves in our relationship with our wife or<br />

husband, even when we think we are right.<br />

CONTROLLING OUR BODIES<br />

Verse 27 says, “I keep under my body and bring it<br />

into subjection.” He kept the natural appetites of his<br />

body under his control. A DISCIPLINED CHRISTIAN<br />

not only stays in control of his or her spirit but also<br />

their body. The apostle Peter admonishes us in I Pet.<br />

2:11 to “Abstain from fleshly lusts which war against<br />

the soul.” Do you indulge when you should abstain?<br />

Just watching T.V. or the internet can easily activate<br />

fleshly lusts and increase our love and our desire for the<br />

things of the world more than the things of God. John<br />

Wesley’s mother said, “anything which increases the<br />

authority of the body over the mind is an evil thing.”<br />

Paul practiced self-discipline on a daily basis. May God<br />

help us to follow Paul’s example. We, as Christians,<br />

can be victorious and more than conquerors if we, on a<br />

daily basis, deny ourselves and discipline ourselves.<br />

In I Pet. 5:5-10, the apostle Peter advises us to<br />

“be clothed with humility.” He tells us to “humble<br />

ourselves under the mighty hand of God.” He warns<br />

us to “be sober” and to “resist the devil.” Lastly, he<br />

reminds us that “after we have suffered awhile” by selfdenial<br />

and self-discipline, God will “perfect us” and He<br />

“will establish us, strengthen us, and settle us”!<br />

Norm Swensen, who was pastor of a large church<br />

for many years, suffered a stroke, became paralyzed<br />

on one side and was placed in a nursing home. Every<br />

time that I have visited him, he was often anxious for<br />

the Lord to heal him so that he could return to active<br />

ministry. However, during this last visit he said to me,<br />

“Phil, I now know why I am here.” I said, “Really, why<br />

are you here?” He, very seriously said, “the Lord wants<br />

me to learn patience.” Imagine that! A great man of<br />

God in his 80’s is realizing he is in need of gaining<br />

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more patience in his Christian life. Pastor Norm had to<br />

discipline himself to accept this verdict from the Lord.<br />

We, likewise, are in need of spiritual growth until we<br />

arrive in Heaven.<br />

If we are active, disciplined Christians, our<br />

testimony can be the same as Paul’s when he said, “I<br />

can do all things through Christ which strengthens<br />

me.” (Php. 4:13) Our final testimony can be the same<br />

as Paul’s when he said, “I have fought a good fight, I<br />

have finished my course, I have kept the faith” 2 Tim.<br />

4:7.<br />

If we want God’s blessing on our lives, our<br />

marriages, our families, and on our churches, we must<br />

become disciplined Christians who trust in God every<br />

day of our lives.<br />

P.C.<br />

“STAYING IN TUNE”<br />

12 STEPS FOR DAILY<br />

DEVOTIONS<br />

1. Pray and ask for forgiveness of your sins in<br />

thought, word, or action.<br />

2. Thank the Lord for His forgiveness and any<br />

answered prayers.<br />

3. Pray for others.<br />

4. Ask the Lord to feed you by His Word and to<br />

fill you with the power of His Holy Spirit.<br />

5. Ask the Lord to give you wisdom and to guide<br />

your day in His will.<br />

6. Read and study the Word of God with a study<br />

Bible or commentary.<br />

7. Allow God to speak to your heart, not just your<br />

mind.<br />

8. Allow God to feed and inspire you by what<br />

you read.<br />

9. Be ready to obey God’s Word.<br />

10. Lean on the Lord’s strength more than your<br />

ability and strength.<br />

11. Commit yourself to a Bible believing church<br />

and serve in that church as unto the Lord.<br />

12. You will be learning to stay in tune with God!<br />

*Note: Whatever it takes for you to get alone with<br />

God and His Word, do it with all your heart! If you<br />

fail in any of these steps, try starting again from<br />

step #1! ~ P.C.<br />

“WAITING ON<br />

THE LORD”<br />

(Isaiah 40:28-31, Joshua 14:5-14)<br />

T<br />

he great New England preacher Phillips Brooks<br />

was usually calm and relaxed during times of<br />

crisis. His intimate friends, however, knew that he also<br />

suffered moments of frustration and irritability. One<br />

day a friend saw him pacing the floor like a caged lion.<br />

“What is the trouble Dr. Brooks?” asked the friend. Dr.<br />

Brooks replied, “The trouble is that I’m in a hurry, but<br />

God isn’t!” (From “Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations”<br />

#7l34, by Paul Lee Tan, Assurance Publishers)<br />

SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH<br />

Does our text say, “They that wait upon the Lord…<br />

shall have all their problems solved?” “They that wait<br />

upon the Lord…shall escape all tragedy and trouble?”<br />

No, a thousand times no! “But they that wait upon the<br />

Lord SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH!” God will<br />

give us RENEWED STRENGTH during any trouble or<br />

tragedy if we learn to patiently wait on Him and trust<br />

Him in spite of the adverse circumstances in our lives.<br />

There will be times we will have to wait for the<br />

will of God. Abraham had to wait for Isaac the son of<br />

promise. Moses had to wait forty years on the backside<br />

of the desert. It was said of Moses that he was the<br />

meekest man on earth. He must have learned many<br />

lessons in life in order to produce such meekness.<br />

Sometimes we learn and grow most in our spiritual<br />

lives while patiently WAITING ON THE LORD on the<br />

backside of a deserted, lonely time of our lives.<br />

In our scripture reading of Joshua 14, the Israelites<br />

were dividing the land of Canaan. Caleb was 40 years<br />

old when he received the promise of his inheritance,<br />

but he had to WAIT ON THE LORD until age 85 to<br />

see the promise fulfilled. When we pray for something,<br />

sometimes God says YES, sometimes God says NO,<br />

but sometimes God says WAIT ON ME. God may not<br />

answer your prayer when you want. However, God is<br />

always on perfect timing if we obey His Word and learn<br />

to patiently WAIT ON HIM.<br />

In verse 11, we read that Caleb’s strength at 85 was<br />

as good as it was when he was 40. Caleb had to WAIT<br />

ON THE LORD until the time came for the fulfillment<br />

of God’s promise to him. But God renewed Caleb’s<br />

strength continuously through those 45 years of his<br />

WAITING ON THE LORD until he was 85. Likewise,<br />

God will renew your emotional and spiritual strength<br />

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also as you wait on Him!<br />

Caleb, after waiting many years, was ready as ever<br />

to enter God’s plan for his life. He didn’t say, “It’s too<br />

late” or “I’m too old.” Caleb said in verse 12, “...if so<br />

be the Lord will be with me, then I shall be able…as the<br />

Lord said.”<br />

Caleb was saying to Joshua, “It’s time for me to<br />

stake my claim! I’ve waited long enough! I’m ready to<br />

defeat the enemy! I want to live on this mountain!”<br />

Caleb was saying, I have FULLY FOLLOWED<br />

THE LORD. I have BECOME A MAN OF FAITH AND<br />

A MAN OF PATIENCE. I have patiently WAITED ON<br />

THE LORD, and THE LORD HAS FOUND DELIGHT<br />

IN ME. I AM READY TO CLAIM GOD’S PROMISE.<br />

Therefore, GIVE ME THIS MOUNTAIN!<br />

If you will patiently WAIT ON THE LORD, then,<br />

in due season and in God’s timing, you will be able<br />

to say in faith like Caleb, “Give me this mountain!”<br />

Perhaps it’s time for you to say, “With God all things<br />

are possible,” “If God be for us who can be against us?”<br />

“The Lord is the strength of my life.” Perhaps it’s time<br />

for you to say, “I can do all things through Christ who<br />

strengthens me.”<br />

God is looking for men, women, teens, boys, and<br />

girls who have learned to not give in to hardship or<br />

discouragement. He is looking for those who will take<br />

a stand for God and stay in the battle right to the end<br />

against all opposition by the world, the flesh, and the<br />

devil. Will you be among them? In verses 13 and 14<br />

we read that Joshua gave the land to Caleb because “he<br />

completely followed the Lord.” If we want to completely<br />

follow the Lord, we must spend time everyday in prayer<br />

and in God’s Word and put God first in our lives by<br />

obeying His Word. Are you ready to completely follow<br />

the Lord and go all out for God? You can do it, and you<br />

should do it right away!<br />

WITH WINGS AS EAGLES<br />

Back to our passage of Isaiah 40:31: They that wait<br />

upon the Lord shall not only “renew their strength,” but,<br />

secondly, “THEY SHALL MOUNT UP WITH WINGS<br />

AS EAGLES!”<br />

When a mother eagle makes a nest for her eggs, she<br />

also gathers sharp objects like sticks and thorns and then<br />

covers them with soft material like hay or fur. When<br />

the eggs hatch and the eaglets grow, eventually the<br />

mother eagle encourages them to get out of the nest and<br />

begin to fly. She stirs up the nest and slowly removes<br />

all the comfortable material from the nest so that the<br />

young eagles begin to feel uncomfortable. Eventually,<br />

it works, and the young eagles leave the nest and learn<br />

to fly.<br />

Perhaps God is stirring up your nest. He wants to<br />

bring you to the place of being in an uncomfortable<br />

situation so that you will grow strong in your Christian<br />

life and “mount up with wings as eagles” and rise<br />

above your problem. Eagles fly high above to get an<br />

aerial view of their sources of food as well as seeing<br />

hidden dangers. If we wait upon the Lord, we will<br />

rise up with spiritual wings as eagles and see our lives<br />

with a broader view and from a wider perspective. We<br />

will live without expecting God to bail us out of every<br />

problem. We will not demand that God answer our<br />

every question as to why this or why not that. Instead,<br />

we will have the testimony of David in Psalm 119:75:<br />

“Thou, in faithfulness has afflicted me.”<br />

RUN AND NOT BE WEARY<br />

Thirdly, “They shall run and not be weary.” Joseph<br />

was another man of faith and patience. (You can read<br />

his story in Genesis 37-50.) He had to learn patience<br />

and to WAIT ON THE LORD for many years until he<br />

saw the fulfillment of his dreams. Your dreams may<br />

have to wait also. Joseph’s brothers sold him and he<br />

became a slave, he was falsely accused of immorality,<br />

put in prison, and left there. He felt forgotten by man<br />

and God. But Joseph had slowly, but surely, become A<br />

MAN OF PATIENCE. He had to wait for God’s time.<br />

Finally, at age thirty, Joseph became the head of Egypt<br />

under Pharaoh.<br />

But how did Joseph learn to “run and not be weary”?<br />

What did he do while waiting patiently? Did he wallow<br />

in self-pity? Did he continually think hatred toward his<br />

brothers who sold him as a slave? No! Joseph said to<br />

his brothers, “You thought evil against me, but God<br />

meant it for good.” God meant it all for Joseph’s good<br />

and for the good of his family and his nation.<br />

FRUITFUL DURING WAITING<br />

Joseph’s time of WAITING ON THE LORD was his<br />

time of training. Joseph KEPT BUSY and was always<br />

involved with meeting the needs of others. Joseph<br />

said, “God has made me FRUITFUL IN THE LAND<br />

OF MY SUFFERING.” God can make us fruitful in the<br />

land of our suffering and during our time of WAITING<br />

ON GOD.<br />

How about you? What are you doing for others?<br />

Are you serving in your church? Are you bearing good<br />

fruit in the land of your suffering? Are you heartily<br />

serving the Lord in spite of the adverse circumstances<br />

of your life? Do you keep focused on serving the Lord<br />

in spite of your troubles? Are you, like Joseph, fruitful<br />

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in the land of your suffering?<br />

Our passage does not say, “They that wait upon the<br />

Lord shall automatically win in all the races of their<br />

lives.” However, it does say, “They that wait upon<br />

the Lord shall...RUN AND NOT BE WEARY”! What<br />

wonderful promises we have if we learn to WAIT ON<br />

THE LORD AND TRUST IN GOD!<br />

In Hebrews 12:1-2, the apostle Paul regards us as<br />

runners in the race of the Christian life: “Let us run<br />

with patience the race that is set before us.” When<br />

God gives us patience, that patience will be filled with<br />

endurance to keep us from growing weary and worn.<br />

Our faith will be renewed with positive anticipation<br />

and assurance that all will be well in the big picture,<br />

regardless of what happens in our lives day by day.<br />

WALKING WITHOUT FAINTING<br />

Lastly, “they that wait upon the Lord…shall walk<br />

and not faint.” We usually have to wait longer than we<br />

want, but God reminds us to continue to pray and trust<br />

Him. He would say to us, “Don’t give up! Don’t quit!<br />

Keep your vision in focus! Keep your faith strong! Be<br />

ready to take action when it’s time to take action!”<br />

Perhaps, in some situation of your life, you have<br />

tried to take action prematurely and failed because you<br />

were ahead of God. Keep in mind that great men and<br />

women of the Bible like Abraham and Sarah, Isaac,<br />

Jacob, and David failed, also. But, because they waited<br />

on the Lord, in spite of their failings, they were not<br />

failures. They became great men and women of God!<br />

You can do the same!<br />

Are you unfulfilled in your Christian life? Trust<br />

Jesus as your Savior and surrender or re-surrender your<br />

will to Him and make Him the Lord of your life. You<br />

will not be truly happy until you do! Are you weary of<br />

your life? Do you desire God to change your situation?<br />

Are you asking God to reveal His will for your life?<br />

Are you asking God for healing? Are you seeking<br />

more suitable employment? Are you asking God to<br />

give you a Christian wife or husband? Are you asking<br />

God to change your wife or husband? Are you seeking<br />

fulfillment in your spiritual life? Do you have a desire<br />

to serve God more effectively? Then, it’s time to WAIT<br />

ON THE LORD.<br />

Our Father knows what is best for us. He knows<br />

when to say YES to our prayers. He knows when to say<br />

NO to our prayers. He also knows when to say WAIT<br />

to our prayers! Remember, God is not finished with us<br />

yet.<br />

God wanted Joseph to grow spiritually before he<br />

changed his difficult circumstances. God may want<br />

you to grow spiritually in some area of your life before<br />

He changes your difficult circumstances, your job or<br />

financial situation, your frustrating marriage, or your<br />

dysfunctional family.<br />

Are you fruitful in the land of your suffering and<br />

hardship? Are you LEARNING TO SERVE GOD<br />

FAITHFULLY during your time of waiting? Are you<br />

learning to walk and not faint?<br />

Let me conclude with this true story: George<br />

Mueller, the famous 19th century orphanage founder,<br />

had to WAIT ON THE LORD. He strongly desired<br />

to be a foreign missionary. He tried five times to<br />

enter the mission field, but each time God said no.<br />

George Mueller had to learn to BECOME A MAN OF<br />

PATIENCE. He had to give up his own will and what<br />

he desired. In spite of his disappointments, he decided<br />

to go all out and fully surrendered to God’s will.<br />

During the time of George Mueller’s WAITING ON<br />

THE LORD, this man of faith and patience built five<br />

orphan houses, fed and clothed over 10,000 orphans,<br />

taught over 120,000 children at schools and Sunday<br />

schools, circulated almost two million Bibles and Bible<br />

portions, millions of books and tracts, and assisted<br />

several hundred missionary laborers. Think of it! In<br />

the 1800’s, he received donations of over 7 million<br />

dollars without ever asking for offerings! (Note: Actual<br />

in British pounds. The equivalent in today’s value is<br />

estimated at 75 million dollars)<br />

But this is not the end of the story. Finally, at age<br />

70, after all these great accomplishments, instead of<br />

retiring, George Mueller, in God’s timing, became a<br />

foreign missionary in Europe, America, Asia, Africa,<br />

and Australia and continued as such for 17 years, until<br />

he was 87 years old. There is no telling what God may<br />

do WITH US AND THROUGH US as we learn to<br />

WAIT ON THE LORD! (Source: George Muller, The<br />

Man of Faith, by Basil Miller/Zondervan)<br />

“But they that wait upon the Lord shall RENEW<br />

THEIR STRENGTH; they shall MOUNT UP WITH<br />

WINGS AS EAGLES; they shall RUN AND NOT<br />

BE WEARY; they shall WALK AND NOT FAINT.”<br />

Amen!<br />

P.C.<br />

“WHEN FACED WITH A BUSY DAY,<br />

SAVE PRECIOUS TIME BY SKIPPING<br />

YOUR DAILY DEVOTIONS.”<br />

SATAN<br />

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“MY AMAZING STORY<br />

AS A SOLDIER IN<br />

WORLD WAR I”<br />

“A SOLDIER’S PRAYER”<br />

(Found on the body of an<br />

American Soldier killed in action)<br />

Look, God, I have never spoken to you before<br />

But now I want to say “How do you do.”<br />

You see, God, they told me you didn’t exist<br />

And like a fool I believed all this.<br />

Last night from a shell hole I saw your sky,<br />

I figured right then they had told me a lie.<br />

Had I taken time to see things you made<br />

I’d have known they weren’t calling a spade a spade.<br />

I wonder God if you’d shake my hand,<br />

Somehow I feel that you will understand.<br />

Funny I had to come to this hellish place<br />

Before I had time to see your face.<br />

Well I guess there isn’t much more to say,<br />

But I am sure glad, God, I met you today.<br />

I guess the zero hour will soon be here.<br />

I am not afraid since I know you are here.<br />

The signal! Well God, I’ll have to go.<br />

I like you lots, this I want you to know.<br />

Look now this will be a horrible fight,<br />

Who knows, I may come to your house tonight?<br />

Though I wasn’t friendly to you before,<br />

I wonder God, if you’d wait at your door.<br />

Look, I am crying! Me shedding tears!<br />

I wish I had known you these many years.<br />

Well I have to go now, God goodbye!<br />

Since I met you, I am not afraid to die.<br />

“MY AMAZING STORY”<br />

By: E. H. Britain<br />

This poem THE SOLDIER’S PRAYER came to us<br />

many years ago during World War II, and I never<br />

could read it without letting the tears flow. It is so like<br />

my own experience on the battlefield during World War I,<br />

and I wonder how many thousands of soldiers, men of all<br />

nations, have had a like experience on battlefields all over<br />

the world. Douglas McArthur said, “There are no atheists<br />

in fox holes,” and it may be true.<br />

Before the war, I thought I was an atheist. I didn’t<br />

think about God, heaven, hell, and religion, and I saw so<br />

much hypocrisy and sham among professing Christians, I<br />

had no confidence in it.<br />

But there on the battle field, living every day in that<br />

hell of carnage and destruction, seeing men being blown<br />

to pieces, dead and dying men scattered everywhere,<br />

the thunder of artillery fire pounding in my ears, shells<br />

exploding overhead and on the ground all around me.<br />

Sometimes, I was enveloped with dense gas fumes so that<br />

I had to wear the gas mask for hours at a time with that<br />

respirator in my mouth so that I could not close my mouth<br />

to swallow the saliva, and had to let it run down my chin,<br />

and seep out through the gas mask. Yet I knew that to take<br />

it off meant slow but sure death from gas burning.<br />

When I did have time to think, I saw many things in<br />

an entirely different light than I ever had before. I came<br />

to know that there certainly is a supreme intelligence<br />

somewhere who knows and governs all things. I did<br />

not know his name, whether it was God, Confucius, or<br />

Mohammed but I did know that there certainly is an<br />

Almighty One, who is over and above man. I attempted to<br />

become reconciled to the will of that Almighty One. I was<br />

not consciously talking to God but said in my musings,<br />

“Since there certainly is a Supreme One who rules and<br />

governs all things, I must resign myself to that One, and<br />

be content in whatever might befall me. If it is His will<br />

that I be killed over here in this war, OK. If it is His will<br />

that I go back home, OK.” I did not know it then, but that<br />

is the most effective prayer one could possibly pray.<br />

From that time on, I never had any fear of death.<br />

Many times I was in such terrible bombings and shell fire<br />

that I didn’t see how any one could possibly live another<br />

five or ten minutes. Shells exploded so close to my body<br />

that my body was lifted from the ground and slammed<br />

down again by the concussion.<br />

On the morning of Nov. 1st, 1918, in the Argonne<br />

Forest near Bantheville, France, our outfit endured for two<br />

hours of the most horrific bombardment and concentrated<br />

barrage that had ever been previously recorded in history.<br />

What had been a forest the night before was reduced<br />

to ragged stumps and snags of splintered trees with the<br />

ground torn up as a plowed field with our radio antenna<br />

repeatedly shot down by pieces of shrapnel. The six<br />

men of the Radio Detail, of which I was the sergeant,<br />

were all decorated with the gold star for putting it up<br />

again and again under heavy bombardment so that<br />

communication could be kept between our Regiment and<br />

Corp Headquarters. There was no darkness during that<br />

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night bombardment. One could have read a newspaper<br />

by the light of exploding shells around him. Time after<br />

time, the candles in our dugout were snuffed out by the<br />

concussion and high explosive gas (which the gas masks<br />

do not effect) so filled the air of the dugout our tongues<br />

got so thick we could hardly talk. The noise was so that to<br />

talk to anyone, you had to get right in his ear and then yell<br />

just one word at a time.<br />

At daybreak we went over the top, and began taking<br />

German prisoners immediately, and they too had been<br />

through something! With their “coal scuttle” helmets, they<br />

no longer looked like human beings, but their terrified<br />

eyes stared at you like ghostly apparitions. I saw one<br />

German prisoner walking who had evidently been just<br />

wounded. His mouth and chin were shot away, leaving<br />

his windpipe just dangling under those scared eyes. You<br />

will say that it cannot be, but I saw it! No doubt he did<br />

not live but a few seconds, but I met him face to face and<br />

never will forget that sight.<br />

Some who read this story may remember that<br />

morning, but perhaps not. There are not many of them<br />

living now! After I had made my dedication to God, I<br />

never knew what fear was. I had no dread of death. I was<br />

not converted, for I did not yet believe in the Lord Jesus<br />

Christ, and without the shedding of His blood, one cannot<br />

be converted. But I was under his protection. I was a<br />

soldier and was fighting for Uncle Sam, but I belonged to<br />

the Almighty One.<br />

My honorable discharge shows that I was under<br />

shellfire for 97 days, and never received a scratch. But<br />

I cannot say that I was not affected by the experiences. I<br />

came home and tried to fit myself back into civilian life.<br />

I found that THE WAY BACK is not as simple and easy<br />

as it seems. Being in a semi shell-shocked condition, I<br />

lived in that nightmare of war all the time. Whether asleep<br />

or awake, I could see long lines of marching soldiers<br />

marching to a point before me, and dropping into eternity.<br />

I could not wipe that view from my eyes. With them<br />

open it was there. With them closed it was still there. On<br />

a foggy morning while we lived on a farm in Kansas, I<br />

stepped out the door of my house and could see down the<br />

slope those flashing guns, hear the rat-tat-tat of machine<br />

guns, and hear the roar of cannon. I knew it wasn’t so, but<br />

there it was! I knew I was losing my mind, but I could not<br />

help it. I lived in constant fear of going berserk, as I read<br />

of so many ex-soldiers doing and killing a lot of people.<br />

When I would feel myself slipping and knew I might lose<br />

my bearings, I would leave the house and go out in an<br />

open field or down in the pasture. There, I would fight it<br />

out, until I knew I had myself under control.<br />

I will not bore you with the details of that long battle<br />

I was fighting, from 1919 until I was converted in 1937,<br />

sometimes getting out of bed in the night and walking<br />

miles and miles just as hard as I could walk, to get myself<br />

under control and wear my body out so that I could get a<br />

few hours sleep.<br />

You will not understand that, I am sure. I had dedicated<br />

my life to the Almighty One there on the battle field, and<br />

that delivered me from all fear, but I was still mentally<br />

disturbed, confused, and unsettled, trying to get back to<br />

normal thinking and living.<br />

Then I heard the story of Jesus; at first and for many<br />

years, I rejected it. I had been searching for something<br />

solid, something real. I had studied many religions and<br />

rejected them all. I became a Mason and studied Masonic<br />

literature searching for something I could not find.<br />

Then came the experience of my conversion. That was<br />

a wonderful night when I knelt beside the bed, and prayed<br />

to Jesus and asked him to manifest himself to me. The<br />

Holy Spirit dealt with me all that night and all the next<br />

day, until I came to believe that there is just a possible<br />

chance of the story being true. I determined to go to the<br />

altar every night for six months and seek the Lord. Of<br />

course, I was converted that night, and it only took about<br />

fifteen seconds, and I knew it! I knew that for the first<br />

time in my life, I stood clear and clean before God. My<br />

life of sin was blotted out, and I was the happiest person<br />

you ever saw. I wasn’t ashamed of those tears, which<br />

flowed so freely.<br />

From that moment the nightmare of war left me, and<br />

I was back to normal thinking. My body, which had been<br />

with tense nerves all those years, relaxed, and I was free!<br />

I had been under the care of an Osteopathic physician<br />

who said to me, “I can feel your nerves in your back as<br />

tight as fiddle strings, and I can’t do a thing for you. If<br />

you could relax, I could help you.” I said, “Doc, if I could<br />

relax, I wouldn’t need you!”<br />

My next visit after my conversion, the doctor talked<br />

to my wife as I put on my clothes, and he asked her what<br />

had happened to me. He said, “He is as relaxed as a baby,<br />

and I can manipulate his body just any way I want to.”<br />

She told him of my conversion, and he said that must be<br />

it. That was the last treatment I needed from him!<br />

He surely did manifest Himself to me! And I knew He<br />

was and is real! No wonder that since that day my whole<br />

life has been given to trying to help other believers and<br />

unbelievers to dedicate their lives to Jesus, and let him be<br />

real in their lives, also.<br />

(E. H. Britain was one of my three mentors. P.C., editor)<br />

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WHO IS E. H. BRITAIN?<br />

E. H. Britain wrote and published “Abundant Life<br />

Messages.” In 1948, he and his wife Emma bought a 29-<br />

acre hilltop in Fletcher, MO and called it “Little Mount<br />

Zion.” The “Abundant Life Messages” continued to<br />

be published monthly until 1972 when Brother Britain<br />

retired. The messages have circled the globe impacting<br />

lives and churches. Some were published in foreign<br />

languages.<br />

Brother and Sister Britain hosted 23 Christian camp<br />

meetings through 1971. Pauline and I first met them<br />

in the summer of 1969 at one of their camp meetings.<br />

From then on we became close friends. We visited them<br />

in their homes in Missouri and Michigan where they<br />

retired with Sister Britain’s sister until they went to be<br />

with the Lord. Through the years, we corresponded<br />

regularly. Pauline and I loved them very much, and<br />

I consider Brother Britain to be one of my three<br />

“mentors.” The other two were Dan Detweiler a pastor<br />

in Burton, Ohio and Herman Strong, a pastor in Flint,<br />

Michigan. They and their wives are now in heaven, and<br />

I am very indebted to all three of these wonderful men<br />

of God.<br />

OUR CHILDREN AND<br />

OUR TEENS<br />

One man said, “Before I got married I had six theories<br />

about bringing up children. Now, I have six children<br />

and no theories.”<br />

A young counselor gave a lecture called “Ten<br />

Commandments for Parents.” After getting married and<br />

having one child he changed the lecture to 10 Hints for<br />

parents, after two children he changed the lecture to 10<br />

Suggestions for parents. After 3 children he stopped<br />

lecturing. I admit that I was never a perfect Christian<br />

parent; I did many things wrong but have learned a lot<br />

and am still learning.<br />

PRAYER<br />

The #1 responsibility of Christian parents is to bring up<br />

their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord<br />

(Eph. 6:1-4). Nurture = Godly discipline or correction;<br />

admonition = Godly rebuke or warning. In order to obey<br />

that scripture, a parent must begin with prayer. It is our<br />

responsibility as Christian parents to pray for our children<br />

and teenagers. Do you pray for your children and teens<br />

every day? If not, then it’s time to begin. This includes<br />

grandparents, also.<br />

Don’t wait until your child becomes a problem<br />

teenager before you pray for your children. My children<br />

are all married, but I still pray for each one of them,<br />

their mates, and their children by name everyday. We<br />

need to be praying for our children’s and grandchildren’s<br />

PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL HEALTH, but, above all,<br />

we should be praying about their SALVATION and their<br />

SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.<br />

Your children and teens not only need you to pray<br />

FOR them, but they also need you to be praying WITH<br />

them! As children get into their teens, they should learn to<br />

PRAY PRIVATELY as well as WITH THEIR PARENTS.<br />

It is such a blessing to know that your child or teen prays<br />

while they are alone. The best way to get them started is<br />

have them hear you pray for them and with them.<br />

My children would fuss at times when I would get them<br />

together for some family prayer time, but I am sure they<br />

now look back on those times as precious and rewarding.<br />

I believe it helped give them a conscience to have family<br />

prayer time with their children, also. Prayer is the most<br />

important aspect in parenting children and teens. If you<br />

are not praying for and with your children or teenagers<br />

regularly, then, you, as a Christian parent, need to begin<br />

right away.<br />

THE WORD<br />

Next, we have the instruction of God’s Word to help<br />

us as parents. In Proverbs 22:6 we read, “Train up a child<br />

in the way he should go and when he is old he will not<br />

depart from it.” Notice, that it does not only read “teach”<br />

but “train.” You can be teaching a child correctly but<br />

you may not be TRAINING them properly. Each child is<br />

different and only the Holy Spirit can give us the wisdom<br />

we need with each child. We can teach our children to be<br />

religious, but we can train them to be spiritual Christians<br />

by leading them to Jesus through God’s Word and by the<br />

example of our own lives before them.<br />

The time for God’s Word to be planted in the heart is<br />

when one is a child. If children memorize scripture, they<br />

will be more apt to grow up to be obedient Christians.<br />

The Psalmist said, “Thy Word have I hid in my heart that<br />

I might not sin against Thee.”<br />

I realize life is hectic these days with parents and teens<br />

working and everyone running in different directions, but<br />

family devotions should and must take top priority over<br />

all other family activities. Sometimes five or ten minutes<br />

of Bible reading and prayer together may be sufficient.<br />

If you are not regularly reading the Bible to your<br />

children or teens, then you, as a Christian parent, need to<br />

begin right away. Billy Sunday said, “We wait too long.<br />

We wait until they stagger home drunk before we teach<br />

them to ‘Look not upon the wine when it is red’ says the<br />

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scriptures. We wait until swearing and cursing fall from<br />

their mouth before we teach them, ‘Thou shall not take<br />

the name of the Lord thy God in vain.’ We wait until they<br />

are on the way to prison before we teach them, ‘Thou<br />

shall not steal.’ It’s too late to take swimming lessons<br />

after the ship begins to sink. It’s too late to insure your<br />

house after the flames burst through the roof.” (From<br />

“Saved by Grace…for Service” page 308-309, by Robert<br />

L. Sumner)<br />

Statistics reveal that 87% of all people who receive<br />

Christ as their Savior do so before the age of 12. That<br />

means that when a child reaches 13 yrs of age, there is<br />

only a slim chance of them becoming a Christian. The<br />

great evangelist D. L. Moody was asked, “How many<br />

converts did you have last night?” He answered, “Two<br />

and one half.” “You mean two adults and a child?” “No,”<br />

he replied. “Two children and one adult. A child converted<br />

is an entire life converted.” (“Illustrations for Biblical<br />

Preaching” page 45, by Michael P. Green)<br />

You are committing a sin against God and against<br />

your child if you do not have regular family devotions of<br />

prayer and Bible reading, and, as much as possible, bring<br />

them to Sunday school and church every week!<br />

WORK<br />

Another important key in becoming successful<br />

Christian parents is training children and teens to actually<br />

enjoy work. The Biblical principle is “If a person doesn’t<br />

work neither let them eat.” (II Th. 3:10) Many children<br />

and teenagers have too much spare time today. Many<br />

have a lack of responsibilities and duties. Do you require<br />

your children and teens to do household and yard chores?<br />

Your children and teens need to be learning to work,<br />

perhaps learning to play an instrument, and earning money<br />

and saving it for a particular item and even for college<br />

expenses. Teach them responsibility and appreciation by<br />

earning their own way through life. Having goals and<br />

learning to work will do wonders for children and teens.<br />

At age 10, my family moved to Vermont, and I started<br />

mowing lawns and working on a nearby farm. Beside<br />

the usual duties of farm work, I helped the farmer cut<br />

cord wood for his customers and empty trashcans on his<br />

rubbish route. At age 15, I was an apprentice barber in<br />

my father’s barbershop. Most of the money I earned went<br />

toward new clothes or things I needed. Our children and<br />

teens need to experience, on a daily basis, the fulfillment<br />

that comes from good old-fashioned work!<br />

RULES<br />

Another key in becoming successful Christian<br />

parents is establishing RULES for our children and teens.<br />

If a child or teenager is without sufficient rules, they will<br />

lack direction in their lives and will be governed by their<br />

feelings and impulses instead of Christian values and<br />

common sense.<br />

It has been said, “We’ve been soft when we should<br />

have been tough. Permissive when we should have<br />

cracked down. Generous when we should have been<br />

stingy. Non-involved when we should have been up to<br />

our ears.” (Source unknown)<br />

Parents should always know where their children and<br />

teens are, where they are going, and what they are doing<br />

while there. They should know who is driving, when<br />

they are going, and when they will be returning home.<br />

Perhaps most important is WHO THEY ARE GOING<br />

TO BE WITH! You may allow your child or teenager<br />

to stay over night with some other Christian family,<br />

but are you sure that you can trust the parents who are<br />

supposed Christians? Can you trust the other children or<br />

teens who may live there or may be visiting there? Most<br />

child molestation today goes unreported to any parents or<br />

authorities.<br />

It is never safe for you to assume that your teenager<br />

is old enough and capable to make proper judgments or<br />

to take care of themselves. Don’t allow your teens to<br />

be vague about their plans. If they say they are going<br />

to watch a movie, ask them which movie. You might<br />

be shocked at what they are watching when you are not<br />

looking. Also, be open for alternatives when you don’t<br />

like their plans. At times, it may be better to allow them<br />

to invite a friend over instead of them going out with<br />

friends. It might be better for them to “hang-out” at your<br />

house than elsewhere.<br />

If your child or teen is changing in their attitudes or in<br />

their habits and routines you need to do some checking.<br />

You must find who they talk and text to and who they<br />

hang around with. Don’t be afraid to be a detective and<br />

find out what is going on! After your teen gets seduced<br />

into sexual activity or drugs, it is too late!<br />

The most difficult years of my life were between the<br />

ages of 13 and 17. I had already learned the importance<br />

and satisfaction of working and earning money for my<br />

own needs, but my parents did not carry through with<br />

sufficient rules. They could not keep tabs on me enough<br />

of the time and being with the wrong friends helped me to<br />

get off course.<br />

My parents were good Christians, however, my<br />

feelings and my emotions were mostly developed by the<br />

songs of the 1950’s, which were based on the physical<br />

contact and activity between a boy and a girl. Body<br />

chemistry was mistaken for love.<br />

The two most powerful influences that kept me from<br />

becoming a Christian were #1 - The rhythm and blues,<br />

rock n roll music of the 50’s with it’s emphasis on the<br />

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oy-girl relationship being centered on physical contact,<br />

and #2 - the influence of non-Christian friends at school.<br />

Soon my main objective was to just “live it up.”<br />

I graduated high school in Springfield, Vermont at age<br />

17. I immediately went to live on my own in N.Y.C. I<br />

rented a room in Brooklyn and found a job in Manhattan<br />

training as a clerk-teletype operator with Western Union.<br />

After a few months of training, they placed me in a nice<br />

office in the Times Square Broadway show area on 52nd<br />

Street and Broadway. I wanted to “live it up,” and that is<br />

just what I did.<br />

However, at age 19, I had a real salvation-conversion<br />

experience and have been living for the Lord for the past<br />

55 years. Teenagers, take it from me! Save your romance<br />

and your body for your future Christian husband or<br />

Christian wife! Don’t play around with the world and its<br />

ways. Stay right with the Lord, and God will bless your<br />

life.<br />

EXAMPLE<br />

PRAYER, THE WORD OF GOD, WORK, AND<br />

RULES are of utmost importance in becoming successful<br />

Christian parents, and so is EXAMPLE. You must be a<br />

proper EXAMPLE. Don’t expect your child or teenager<br />

to be something that you are not. If you don’t abstain<br />

from smoking, drinking, swearing, lying, being critical,<br />

gossiping, always complaining, etc., don’t expect your<br />

child or teenager to abstain either.<br />

Are you a true Christian? Do you pray regularly each<br />

day? Do you read and study the Bible everyday? Do you<br />

attend church and church events consistently? Do you<br />

unselfishly give of yourself to others, the church, and<br />

spiritual activities?<br />

The most powerful way to train your child or teenager<br />

is by EXAMPLE. Years ago Dear Abby wrote the<br />

following:<br />

A PARENT’S PRAYER<br />

“Oh, Heavenly Father, make me a better parent. Teach<br />

me to understand my children, to listen patiently to what<br />

they have to say, and to answer all their questions kindly.<br />

Keep me from interrupting or contradicting them. Make<br />

me as courteous to them as I would have them be to me.<br />

Forbid that I should ever laugh at their mistakes, or resort<br />

to shame or ridicule when they displease me. May I never<br />

punish them for my own selfish satisfaction or because I<br />

am angry.<br />

Let me not tempt my child to lie or steal. And guide<br />

me hour by hour that I may demonstrate by all I say and<br />

do that honesty produces happiness. Reduce, I pray, the<br />

meanness in me. And, when I am out of sorts, help me, O,<br />

Lord, to hold my tongue.<br />

May I ever be mindful that my children are children<br />

and I should not expect of them judgment as adults. Let<br />

me not rob them of the opportunity to wait on themselves<br />

and to make some decisions on their own. Bless me with<br />

the bigness to grant them all their reasonable requests,<br />

and the courage to deny them privileges I know will do<br />

them harm.<br />

Make me fair and just and kind. And fit me, Oh Lord,<br />

to be loved and respected and imitated by my children.<br />

Amen.”<br />

(From “A Parent’s Prayer” - “Dear Abby”-The Day, New<br />

London, CT., Oct. 25, 1971, Vol. 91, No. 95, pg. 14)<br />

As Christian parents, it’s time for us to train our<br />

children and teens in the ways of the Lord and in the way<br />

they should go; through PRAYER, THE WORD, WORK,<br />

RULES, AND, BY EXAMPLE!<br />

Our children and teens are the only earthly possessions<br />

we can take with us to heaven! Let’s make double sure<br />

they will be with us!<br />

May God bless you and your family is my prayer.<br />

P.C.<br />

ADVICE FROM MARTIN LUTHER<br />

There was a saying Martin loved to quote: “Let<br />

the wife make her husband glad to come home and<br />

let him make her sorry to see him leave.”<br />

DEAR TEENAGER<br />

A teenager wrote the following:<br />

“The Cry of the Teens”<br />

“I am here, but I don’t know where I am.<br />

I know where I came from, but I don’t<br />

Know where I’m going.<br />

I know my name, but I don’t know who I am.<br />

I’m living the ‘happiest days of my life’<br />

And I’m crying!” (Author unknown)<br />

Christian teenager, are you happy? Are you satisfied<br />

with your life? Do you feel accepted by those around<br />

you? Have you been trying to act in ways that will make<br />

your friends accept you? Perhaps you have been copying<br />

and imitating your friends. If you have, then you are not<br />

really being yourself.<br />

Teenagers, I plead with you to be determined not to<br />

give in to what the crowd around you seems to be doing.<br />

Be determined to wait for your wedding night to have<br />

your first sexual experience. You will be glad that you<br />

can present yourself as a virgin to your future wife or<br />

husband! “But,” you may be saying, “it is too late. I have<br />

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already given in.” God still loves you. Just ask Him to<br />

forgive you. Then stop giving in to it from now on and<br />

save your body for your wife or husband and them alone!<br />

You ask, “Why should I wait until I am married?” One<br />

big reason is that God demands it. “For this is the will<br />

of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain<br />

from fornication.” (I Thess. 4:3) “…Be not deceived…<br />

neither fornicators…nor adulterers…shall inherit the<br />

kingdom of God” (or they will not go to Heaven!) (I Cor.<br />

6:9-10)<br />

In other words, you are not a Christian but are on your<br />

way to an eternal hell if you are guilty of continuing to<br />

commit the sin of fornication or sex outside of marriage.<br />

I did not get saved until I was nineteen years old. I<br />

will never forget that day! For the first time in my life I<br />

experienced a peace and a joy that I never had before; I<br />

knew I was saved!<br />

Teenager, what about you??? Are you really saved?<br />

Are you sure that you would go to Heaven if you died in<br />

an auto accident today?<br />

Teenager, you may question God and religion but<br />

you can never stop God from loving you. The Bible<br />

guarantees that God loves you and has a desired plan for<br />

your life.<br />

If you will surrender your heart and yield your life<br />

to Jesus Christ, you will find what your heart is truly<br />

searching for!<br />

P.C.<br />

LET’S START A REVIVAL!<br />

II Chronicles 7:14<br />

What exactly do we mean by the word REVIVAL?<br />

According to Webster, the word REVIVE means<br />

to “to return to consciousness or life; to become active<br />

or flourishing again; to restore from a depressed,<br />

inactive, or unused state.”<br />

The Christian church of today needs a revival! Your<br />

church needs a revival! You and I need a revival!<br />

WHEN DO WE NEED REVIVAL?<br />

“WE NEED REVIVAL when we have little or no<br />

desire for prayer; when we make little effort to witness<br />

to the lost; when we have time for sports, recreation,<br />

and entertainment, but not for Bible study and prayer;<br />

when God’s people are more concerned about their jobs<br />

and their careers, than about the Kingdom of Christ and<br />

the salvation of the lost; when we are more concerned<br />

about what others think about us than what God thinks<br />

about us; when believers can be at odds with each other<br />

and not feel compelled to pursue reconciliation; when<br />

our children are growing up to adopt worldly values,<br />

secular philosophies, and ungodly lifestyles; when we<br />

are more concerned about our children’s education and<br />

their athletic activities than about the condition of their<br />

souls.<br />

When we will watch things on television and movies<br />

that are not holy; when we are bored with worship;<br />

when people have to be entertained to be drawn to<br />

church; when our music and dress become patterned<br />

after the world; when we start fitting into and adapting<br />

to the world, rather than calling the world to adapt to<br />

God’s standards of holiness; when we are unconcerned<br />

about our neighbors, our business associates, and our<br />

acquaintances who are lost and without Christ; when<br />

our prayers lack fervency; when the fire has gone out in<br />

our hearts, our marriages, and our church; when we are<br />

blind to the extent of our need and don’t think we need<br />

revival.”<br />

(Adapted from “When Do We Need Revival?” by<br />

Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth of Revive Our Hearts –<br />

used by permission)<br />

I would like to add some thoughts regarding “What<br />

is Revival?” Revival is when Christians begin to get<br />

closer to God. Revival is when more praying is done<br />

by each Christian at home than at the church. Revival<br />

is when we find ourselves broken before the Lord in<br />

daily repentance of sin in thought, word, or action.<br />

Revival is when we ask the Lord for forgiveness of not<br />

being loving and considerate of our wives or husbands,<br />

our parents, our children, or other Christians. Revival<br />

is when we forgive people we don’t like or people<br />

who have hurt or offended us. Revival is when we<br />

spend time talking with someone at church who we<br />

don’t like or we feel uncomfortable with. Revival<br />

is when we love and obey God’s Word and do what<br />

we know we should do even when we don’t feel like<br />

doing it. Revival is having regular daily devotions<br />

and daily prayer for others. Revival is when we are<br />

anxious to give of ourselves and serve in our church.<br />

Revival is when Christians invite one another over<br />

for meals together and when they enjoy praying and<br />

fellowshipping together. Revival is when Christians are<br />

filled with love for the unsaved and they give out tracts<br />

and try to talk about Jesus. Revival is when Christians<br />

invite the unsaved to church and even give them a ride<br />

to church - PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND PRAYING<br />

CHURCHES.<br />

II Chronicles 7:14, is a cry from the very heart of<br />

God. God is yearning and waiting for us, as individuals<br />

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and as a church, to humble ourselves more than we<br />

have ever humbled ourselves before. He is yearning<br />

and waiting for us to pray more wholeheartedly than<br />

ever before. Do you have meaningful private daily<br />

devotions? If not, then you need a revival in your<br />

heart and soul! Do you have a desire to pray with<br />

other Christians? If not, then you need a revival in<br />

your soul! PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND PRAYING<br />

CHURCHES.<br />

If you have not yet admitted it, then it is time to<br />

admit it: YOU NEED A REVIVAL! All of us need to<br />

become PRAYING CHRISTIANS as never before and<br />

our church needs to become a PRAYING CHURCH<br />

as never before! Only then will we experience a<br />

SUPERNATURAL REVIVAL in our personal lives, in<br />

our families and in our churches! Only then will we<br />

see people saved and delivered from drugs, smoking,<br />

drinking, pornography, immorality, bitterness, gossip,<br />

and every conceivable sin! May God severely convict<br />

us so that we become PRAYING CHRISTIANS AND<br />

PRAYING CHURCHES!<br />

All through scripture, we are commanded to pray.<br />

While speaking of the end times, Jesus said, “Watch<br />

ye therefore, and PRAY ALWAYS...” (Luke 21:36)<br />

The Apostle Paul told the church of the Ephesians to<br />

be “PRAYING ALWAYS.” (Eph. 6:18-20) He told the<br />

church of the Thessalonians to “PRAY WITHOUT<br />

CEASING.” (I Th. 5:17) Paul exhorted the church<br />

of the Philippians to pray about everything when he<br />

said, “In everything by prayer and supplication with<br />

thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto<br />

God.” (Php. 4:6)<br />

TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET<br />

Here are four scriptural reasons why we need to<br />

pray. The first reason is TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET.<br />

We will be unable to start a revival unless we pray to<br />

have our needs met. Philippians 4:19 reads, “But my<br />

God shall supply all your need according to His riches<br />

in glory by Christ Jesus.” Take note that it says “all<br />

your need.” That means all your spiritual, emotional,<br />

physical, and material needs in their proper perspective<br />

and priority. Keep in mind that Paul had just finished<br />

telling them in verse 6 to let their “requests be made<br />

known unto God” through prayer. James 4:2, reads,<br />

“You have not because you ask not.” It is evident<br />

that God wants us to HAVE OUR NEEDS MET BY<br />

ASKING. Jesus said, “Ask and ye shall receive.” (John<br />

16:24)<br />

When you’re all wrong and willing to admit it,<br />

you’re alright!<br />

HOLY SPIRIT POWER<br />

A second reason why we need to pray is for HOLY<br />

SPIRIT POWER. A primary role of the Holy Spirit is<br />

for the conviction of sin. In John 16:8 we read that the<br />

power of the Holy Spirit will reprove and convict all of<br />

us of sin. We, as Christians, all too often, are walking<br />

around with sins that are not forgiven. We need to get<br />

right with God and stay right with God. It’s time to<br />

obey God’s Word. It’s time to turn from every sinful<br />

way.<br />

E.M. Bounds said, “An old fashioned revival is<br />

the medicine for these times. Such a revival is not a<br />

momentary outburst of excitement, not a temporary<br />

manipulated stir, not a mere reformation, but a real<br />

awakening, a profound and awful conviction of sin by<br />

the eternal Spirit of God. For such a revival we ought to<br />

pray with our whole souls; pray like Jacob till the day<br />

dawns and the blessing comes; pray like Elijah, till the<br />

answer by fire comes, till heaven is unlocked and pours<br />

out its treasures.” (“Spirit of Revival-Anniversary<br />

Edition” - Life Action Ministries)<br />

We also need to pray for Holy Spirit power so that<br />

we do not give in to the lusts of the flesh, the lust of the<br />

eyes, and the pride of life. (I John 2:15-17) Television<br />

and movie watching will tend to increase our motivation<br />

to live for the lusts of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and<br />

the pride of life. We need Holy Spirit power to be able<br />

to fulfill Gal. 5:16 in our lives: “Walk in the Spirit and<br />

you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.”<br />

OVERCOMING SATAN<br />

Another reason why we need Holy Spirit power is<br />

to overcome the power of Satan, the devil. The Bible<br />

says that the devil is “as a roaring lion seeking whom<br />

he may devour.” (I Peter 5:8) We are admonished in<br />

Ephesians 6:11-18 to put on the whole armor of God<br />

and be praying always “that we will be able to stand<br />

against the wiles of the devil.” The only way we can put<br />

on God’s armor is through reading and obeying God’s<br />

Word with serious daily prayer!<br />

FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD<br />

Not only do we need to pray in order TO HAVE<br />

OUR NEEDS MET SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY,<br />

PHYSICALLY, AND MATERIALLY, and HAVE<br />

HOLY SPIRIT POWER in our lives. But, thirdly, we<br />

need to pray so that we can HAVE FELLOWSHIP<br />

WITH GOD. (John 15:7) We need our prayer times to<br />

include fellowship with God.<br />

In the story of Mary and Martha, we have a contrast<br />

of SERVICE FOR GOD VERSUS FELLOWSHIP<br />

AND COMMUNION WITH GOD. Martha was busy<br />

serving the Lord while her sister Mary sat at Jesus feet<br />

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and heard His Word. Actually, Martha was too busy<br />

to spend time with Jesus. Jesus rebuked Martha but<br />

commended Mary for her desire for fellowship and<br />

communion with Him. (Luke 10:38-42) Don’t get busy<br />

FOR GOD until you spend sufficient time WITH GOD<br />

in daily prayer and daily Bible reading and study!<br />

PRAYING FOR OTHERS<br />

The last reason that we need to pray is to PRAY<br />

FOR OTHERS AS WE OUGHT TO PRAY. That is<br />

called intercession. (I Tim. 2:1-4) We should pray for<br />

our president and for his salvation more than we speak<br />

critically of him. If you have unsaved loved ones, pray<br />

for their salvation everyday with all your heart.<br />

Pray daily and fervently for your family. The very<br />

heart of God is expressed in Deut. 5:29, “O that there<br />

were such an heart in them, that they would fear me,<br />

and keep all my commandments always, that it may be<br />

well with them and with their children for ever.”<br />

Pray that God may mightily use your children<br />

and grandchildren. “George McCluskey was a man<br />

of prayer. When he married and started a family, he<br />

decided to invest one hour a day in prayer, because he<br />

wanted his children to follow Christ. After a time, he<br />

expanded his prayers to include his grandchildren and<br />

great-grandchildren. Every day between 11 a.m. and<br />

noon, he prayed for the next three generations.<br />

As the years went by, his two daughters committed<br />

their lives to Christ and married men who went into<br />

full-time ministry. The two couples produced four girls<br />

and one boy. Each of the girls married a minister, and<br />

the boy became a pastor. The first two children born to<br />

this generation were both boys. Upon graduation from<br />

high school, the two cousins chose the same college and<br />

became roommates. During their sophomore year, one<br />

boy decided to go into the ministry. The other didn’t. He<br />

undoubtedly felt some pressure to continue the family<br />

legacy, but he chose instead to pursue his interest in<br />

psychology. He earned his doctorate and eventually<br />

wrote books for parents that became bestsellers. He<br />

started a radio program heard on more than a thousand<br />

stations each day. The man’s name was James Dobson.<br />

Through his prayers, George McCluskey affected far<br />

more than one family.” (Fresh Illustrations pg. 165,<br />

Leadership Journal)<br />

Charles Spurgeon who preached to his church of<br />

thousands, had hundreds of volunteer intercessors<br />

praying before and during the church services in the<br />

basement of the church. Pastor Jim Cymbala of the<br />

Brooklyn Tabernacle has volunteer intercessors praying<br />

in a separate room before and during the service. They<br />

have a PRAYING CHURCH, and they have continuous<br />

revival. Charles Spurgeon said, “Among all the<br />

formative influences that go to make up a man honored<br />

of God in the ministry, I know of none more mighty<br />

than the intercession of his parishioners. Without it, he<br />

will most likely be a failure!” (Daily Bread-Apr.24)<br />

How much time do you spend praying for the<br />

people of your church and your pastor? It has been said,<br />

“There will be more POWER in the pulpit when there<br />

is more PRAYER in the pew!”<br />

We need to pray TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET,<br />

TO HAVE HOLY SPIRIT POWER, TO HAVE<br />

COMMUNION AND FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD,<br />

AND, TO PRAY EFFECTIVELY FOR OTHERS. WE<br />

NEED TO PRAY!<br />

WE NEED A REVIVAL just like the lukewarm,<br />

backslidden church of the Laodiceans needed a revival,<br />

especially because they didn’t think they needed a<br />

revival.<br />

WE NEED A FRESH VISION just like Isaiah<br />

needed a fresh vision. Then, we will respond like<br />

Isaiah did when he said in repentance, “Woe, is me,<br />

for I am undone. I am a man of unclean lips.” We will<br />

also respond with a surrender of our lives and say as he<br />

said, “Here I am, Lord, send me!”<br />

WE NEED A BURDEN just like Nehemiah needed<br />

a burden. He saw the need, he felt the burden and then<br />

he did something about his burden.<br />

WHAT DO OUR CHURCHES NEED? WE NEED<br />

A REVIVAL! WE NEED A VISION! WE NEED A<br />

BURDEN! WE NEED TO PRAY!<br />

God is saying to us today, “If my people, which are<br />

called by my name, will humble themselves and pray,<br />

and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways,<br />

then I will hear from Heaven and heal their land.” (II<br />

Chr. 7:14) And let me add that He will heal our hearts,<br />

our lives, our marriages, our families, and our churches!<br />

LET’S START A REVIVAL!!!<br />

P.C.<br />

SAID THE ROBIN TO THE SPARROW<br />

Said the Robin to the Sparrow,<br />

“I would surely like to know,<br />

Why these anxious human beings<br />

Rush about and worry so.”<br />

Said the Sparrow to the Robin,<br />

“Friend I think that it must be,<br />

That they have no Heavenly Father,<br />

Such as cares for you and me.”<br />

-- Elizabeth Cheny<br />

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THE GRUMBLE FAMILY<br />

by Anonymous<br />

There's a family nobody likes to meet;<br />

They live, it is said, on Complaining Street<br />

In the city of Never-Are-Satisfied,<br />

The River of Discontent beside.<br />

They growl at that and they growl at this;<br />

Whatever comes, there is something amiss;<br />

And whether their station be high or humble,<br />

They are all known by the name of Grumble.<br />

The weather is always too hot or cold;<br />

Summer and winter alike they scold.<br />

Nothing goes right with the folks you meet<br />

Down on that gloomy Complaining Street.<br />

They growl at the rain and they growl at the sun;<br />

In fact, their growling is never done.<br />

And if everything pleased them, there isn't a doubt<br />

They'd growl that they'd nothing to grumble about!<br />

But the queerest thing is that not one of the same<br />

Can be brought to acknowledge his family name;<br />

For never a Grumbler will own that he<br />

Is connected with it at all, you see.<br />

The worst thing is that if anyone stays<br />

Among them too long, he will learn their ways;<br />

And before he dreams of the terrible jumble<br />

He's adopted into the family of Grumble.<br />

And so it were wisest to keep our feet<br />

From wandering into Complaining Street;<br />

And never to growl, whatever we do,<br />

Lest we be mistaken for Grumblers, too.<br />

Let us learn to walk with a smile and a song,<br />

No matter if things do sometimes go wrong;<br />

And then, be our station high or humble,<br />

We'll never belong to the family of Grumble!

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