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HOW TO HEAL YOURSELF FROM EMOTIONAL UPHEAVAL THROUGH WRITING<br />

North Forest Today May 10, 2018 Page 11<br />

Are you dealing with an emotionally difficult situation, like the loss of a relationship or stress on the job?<br />

Try writing about it, says Dr. James W. Pennebaker. Your immune system may be strengthened, you may start sleeping better, and you<br />

may increase your social connections, among other positive improvements.<br />

“When people are given the opportunity to write about emotional upheavals, they often experience improved health,” says Dr. Pennebaker.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>y go to the doctor less. <strong>The</strong>y have changes in immune function. If they are first-year college students, their grades tend to go up.<br />

People will tell us months afterward that it’s been a very beneficial experience for them.”<br />

Dr. Pennebaker is a professor in the Department of Psychology at <strong>The</strong> University of Texas at Austin. He is a pioneer in the study of using<br />

expressive writing as a path to healing, and he is the author of Opening Up and Writing to Heal.<br />

“Emotional upheavals touch every part of our lives,” Dr. Pennebaker says. “You don’t just lose a job, you don’t just get divorced. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

things affect all aspects of who we are — our financial situation, our relationships with others, our views of ourselves, our issues of life<br />

and death. Writing helps us focus and organize the experience.”<br />

Why introverts write<br />

Writing isn’t just for introverts, but many introverts enjoy writing because it’s a solitary activity, and it allows them to delve into their inner<br />

world of thoughts, feelings, and ideas.<br />

“Writing is something you do alone,” writes John Green, the author of the award-winning novel <strong>The</strong> Fault in Our Stars. “It’s a profession<br />

for introverts who want to tell you a story but don’t want to make eye contact while doing it.”<br />

“Writing is utter solitude,” writes novelist Franz Kafka, “the descent into the cold abyss of oneself.”<br />

Why it works<br />

Our minds are designed to make sense of our experiences, and when we undergo a traumatic event, our minds have to work overtime to<br />

process what happened to us. <strong>The</strong>se thoughts may keep us awake at night, we may become distracted at work, or we may feel less connected<br />

to our friends, family, or significant other. Writing about a difficult experience forces us to translate it into words, making it easier<br />

for our minds to grasp that experience.<br />

Other health benefits of writing<br />

Writing has other health benefits, too. It may help our working memory improve, which is basically the ability to think about more than one<br />

thing at a time. As we release our thoughts and emotions through writing, we may be able to focus on other people afterward, which will<br />

improve our relationships.<br />

It’s not just Dr. Pennebaker who has documented the healing benefits of writing. A study on the emotional and physical health benefits of<br />

expressive writing found that participants who wrote about traumatic, stressful, or emotional events for just 15–20 minutes on 3–5 occasions<br />

showed improvements in both physical and psychological health.<br />

Writing may even make physical wounds heal faster. In one study, 49 healthy adults aged 64-97 years old wrote about either upsetting<br />

events or neutral daily activities for 20 minutes, three days in a row. Researchers then waited two weeks, to make sure any negative<br />

feelings stirred up by recalling stressful events had passed, and biopsied the subjects’ arms. <strong>The</strong>y used photographs to track the patients’<br />

healing over 21 days. On the 11th day, 76 percent of the group that did expressive writing about upsetting events had fully healed as compared<br />

with 42 percent of the control group, which wrote about neutral activities.<br />

“We think writing about distressing events helped participants make sense of the events and reduce distress,” says Elizabeth Broadbent,<br />

professor of medicine at the University of Auckland in New Zealand and co-author of the study.<br />

Don’t overdo it<br />

But be careful not to overdo it, warns Dr. Pennebaker.<br />

“I’m not convinced that having people write every day is a good idea,” he says. “I’m not even convinced that people should write about a<br />

horrible event for more than a couple of weeks. You risk getting into a sort of navel gazing or cycle of self-pity. But standing back every<br />

now and then and evaluating where you are in life is really important.”<br />

Also, don’t write about traumatic events that have happened recently, or write about more than you think you can handle at the moment.<br />

<strong>The</strong> effects of expressive writing can be powerful.<br />

<strong>The</strong> biggest payoff<br />

What kind of writing was related to the biggest healing payoff? Writing that transformed the messy thoughts, feelings, and events of the<br />

emotional upheaval into story form.<br />

“People who are able to construct a story, to build some kind of narrative over the course of their writing seem to benefit more than those<br />

who don’t,” Pennebaker says. “In other words, if on the first day of writing, people’s stories are not very structured or coherent, but over<br />

the three or four days they are able to come up with a more structured story, they seem to benefit the most.”<br />

Telling the story from someone else’s perspective also was related to healing:<br />

“So one day they may be talking about how they feel and how they see it,” Dr. Pennebaker says, “but the next day they may talk about<br />

what’s going on with others, whether it’s their family or a perpetrator or someone else. Being able to switch back and forth [among other<br />

people’s perspectives] is a very powerful indicator of how they progress.”<br />

Dr. Pennebaker’s writing assignment

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