Reach Out April 2018
Information about tuberous sclerosis and news from Tuberous Sclerosis Australia. This issue includes a special focus on siblings.
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<strong>Reach</strong><br />
<strong>Out</strong><br />
Remembering<br />
Loren & Tonya<br />
Fundraising – p21<br />
Can you help?<br />
p22<br />
APRIL <strong>2018</strong> ISSUE 107<br />
Our Sibling<br />
Stories p12<br />
www.tsa.org.au
TSA News<br />
Contents<br />
Editorial................................................................................................. 3<br />
President’s Report................................................................................. 4<br />
Proposed Constitutional Changes...................................................... 5<br />
Notice of Annual General Meeting.................................................... 5<br />
Meet Kate - TSA’s Fundraising Lead................................................... 6<br />
TSC Global Awareness Day - #Tatts4TSC.......................................... 7<br />
Celebrations - Back to School...........................................................8-9<br />
Sibling Stories................................................................................. 10-15<br />
Siblings: The Longest Relationship.............................................. 16-18<br />
A New Resource to Explain TSC to Children..................................19<br />
Life Expectancy for People with TSC................................................19<br />
Research News...............................................................................20-21<br />
Remembering Loren & Tonya...........................................................21<br />
Fundraising Snapshot...................................................................22-23<br />
Our cover image is of Lachlan and Cooper Herbert. You can read Cooper’s story on page 11. Thank you to<br />
Christy and Scott for sharing this photo of your beautiful boys.<br />
Tuberous Sclerosis Complex (TSC) affects more than 2000<br />
individuals in Australia and thousands more carers, families and<br />
friends who live with the impact of the disease.<br />
TSC tumours can grow in any organ of the body, commonly affecting<br />
the brain, skin, heart, lungs and kidneys. TSC can cause epilepsy,<br />
developmental delay and autism. There is no known cure for TSC, but<br />
with appropriate support most people with TSC can live fulfilling lives.<br />
Tuberous Sclerosis Australia<br />
Works to connect, inform and empower people affected by tuberous<br />
sclerosis complex as we work towards a cure for TSC.<br />
TSA was established in 1981 as a volunteer organisation to connect families<br />
living with TSC. We have hundreds of members including people with TSC and<br />
their families along with health, education and caring professionals.<br />
Our priorities<br />
1. Ensure Australians with TSC have access to the best possible healthcare<br />
2. Provide up to date and accurate information to all Australians with TSC<br />
3. Support individuals and families affected by so no one has to face the<br />
challenges of TSC alone<br />
4. Champion an active research program in Australia that works towards<br />
a cure for TSC<br />
President Debbie Crosby<br />
Vice President Vacant<br />
Committee Members<br />
Treasurer Patrick Norris<br />
Secretary Alison McIvor<br />
Adish Chandra<br />
Georgina Schilg<br />
Michael Jones<br />
Michelle Purkiss<br />
Public Officer Debbie Crosby<br />
Medical Advisory Board Dr David Mowat,<br />
Clinical Geneticist<br />
General Manager<br />
Fundraising and<br />
Communications<br />
Dr John Lawson,<br />
Paediatric Neurologist<br />
Dr Sean Kennedy<br />
Paediatric Nephrologist<br />
Clare Stuart<br />
Kate Garrard<br />
The TSC Information Service<br />
Visit our website for extensive information about TSC for individuals, their families and<br />
professionals www.tsa.org.au<br />
Call or email us to speak to one of our volunteers. We have regional contacts throughout Australia<br />
who can meet face to face and connect you with local services<br />
1300 733 435 info@tsa.org.au<br />
Not in Australia or New Zealand?<br />
TSA is a founding member of Tuberous Sclerosis Complex International,<br />
a worldwide association of TSC organisations. The TSCi website<br />
contains a directory of TSC organisations around the world<br />
www.tscinternational.org<br />
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TSA News<br />
Editorial<br />
Teresa Llewellyn-Evans<br />
This edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> highlights what<br />
it is like to be a sibling of a brother<br />
of sister with tuberous sclerosis complex<br />
(TSC). Five siblings - Clare, Cooper,<br />
Belinda, Danny and Elise - share their<br />
stories of having a brother or sister with<br />
TSC from page 10. Their stories show the<br />
profound effect their sibling with TSC has had<br />
on them, and continues to have, even after they<br />
may have passed away. I know that I experienced a<br />
range of emotions when I read these stories. Your response<br />
will depend on your own family’s story and you may find their<br />
stories, in turn, confronting, moving, reassuring or inspiring.<br />
Our sibling stories are followed by an interview with<br />
Kate Strohm, Director of Siblings Australia. Kate helps us<br />
understand the most common emotions which come up<br />
fairly regularly in her work with siblings. Parents can let their<br />
children know it is ok to have a mix of feelings towards their<br />
brother and sister. Parents can encourage and help siblings<br />
express their mix of complicated thoughts and feelings. In the<br />
same way that parents find it helpful to have contact with other<br />
parents who understand, many siblings find it helpful to make<br />
contact with other siblings. Information is also important and<br />
siblings need information at a level appropriate to their age and<br />
development. The article also identifies a range of supports for<br />
siblings, including Facebook groups, access to mental health<br />
plans through GPs and other helpful resources, but services for<br />
siblings on the whole are still very ‘hit and miss’.<br />
President Debbie Crosby reflects on Rare Diseases Day and<br />
the pressing need for the TSC community to work together<br />
with TSA to secure our long term financial future. Businesses<br />
and individuals donate to organisations because<br />
they are inspired to help the people directly<br />
impacted by their work. We need your<br />
help to help secure TSA’s ability to deliver<br />
services and fund important research<br />
projects such as the early intervention<br />
project for babies with TSC.<br />
We meet Kate Garrad, TSA’s<br />
Fundraising Lead, on page 6. Kate believes<br />
that the biggest opportunities for support<br />
will come from inside our TSC community and<br />
shares some practical ways you can help.<br />
TSA’s Annual General Meeting (AGM) will occur<br />
on 22 September. Read about the proposed changes to TSA’s<br />
constitution that will be voted on at the AGM on page 5. We<br />
also remember two incredible health professionals who made<br />
their mark on the global TSC community, Loren Leciezio and<br />
Tonya Kara, on page 5.<br />
We celebrate children starting back at school this year<br />
on pages 8 to 9. TSA has been working on some exciting<br />
new information resources. Read about the little book<br />
Tuberous Sclerosis Complex for primary school children and<br />
information pages on Life Expectancy for People with TSC on<br />
page 19. Clare has also compiled the latest in research news<br />
on page 20 including how to make a diagnosis of TSC before<br />
seizures, Everolimus for younger children with TSC, and how<br />
much people with TSC really know about the kidney issues<br />
in TSC.<br />
We thank everyone who has contributed stories or photos<br />
for this edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>, and those who fundraise for the<br />
work of TSA. Your stories and efforts inspire and inform others<br />
who live with TSC, as well as health professionals and the<br />
wider community.<br />
<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> Official Journal of Tuberous Sclerosis<br />
Australia, Inc.<br />
18 Central Rd, Beverly Hills NSW 2209<br />
Telephone: 1300 733 435<br />
Website: www.tsa.org.au<br />
Email: info@tsa.org.au<br />
ABN 20 681 174 734<br />
Incorporation no. Y 07116-42<br />
Registered Charity CC25313<br />
<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> Editor: Teresa Llewellyn-Evans<br />
reachout@tsa.org.au<br />
Disclaimer<br />
The opinions expressed in this journal are those of the<br />
authors and are not official pronouncements of TSA Inc.<br />
Permission<br />
Permission must be sought from the authors or publishers<br />
to reproduce in any way articles or information contained<br />
in this journal. Once permission is received the source must<br />
be acknowledged.<br />
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TSA News<br />
President’s Report<br />
Debbie Crosby, President<br />
Welcome to another amazing<br />
edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>. I am<br />
writing this on Rare Disease Day and<br />
am reminded why it is important to<br />
have days like today to acknowledge the<br />
many people who live with rare diseases.<br />
Even though these diseases are classified<br />
as rare, they affect approximately two<br />
million Australians. Tuberous sclerosis<br />
complex (TSC) is one of 8,000 known<br />
rare diseases and is estimated to affect<br />
2,500 people in Australia. Tuberous<br />
Sclerosis Australia (TSA) has been<br />
involved in shaping the Fair for Rare<br />
campaign from Rare Voices Australia<br />
that articulates six strategic priorities:<br />
research, access to services, access to<br />
treatments, coordinated care, data<br />
collection and diagnosis. TSA’s work, in<br />
partnership with our TSC Professionals<br />
Network, addresses many of these<br />
priorities. We look forward to being part<br />
of continued collaborations that will<br />
improve the lives of all people living with<br />
rare diseases.<br />
Over the last few years TSA has<br />
achieved a lot, including supporting<br />
TSC research, running education events<br />
around Australia and providing quality<br />
TSC information to thousands of people.<br />
Much of this has been the result of the<br />
wonderful support and dedicated efforts<br />
of our TSC community. But there is so<br />
much more we want to do to tackle the<br />
challenges of TSC.<br />
We are working hard to secure<br />
funding and grants from a variety of<br />
sources, but this is difficult for a small<br />
organisation like ours. Now, more than<br />
ever, we are calling on you to work with<br />
us. It is your stories and your connections<br />
that can open doors for us. Businesses<br />
and individuals donate to organisations<br />
because they are inspired to help the<br />
people directly impacted by their work.<br />
We need your help to inspire people<br />
to support our work. We can’t do this<br />
without you. We want TSA to be around<br />
for the long term, continuing to support<br />
you and your families well into the<br />
future, so we ask that we come together<br />
to help TSA help you.<br />
We are working<br />
hard to secure funding and<br />
grants from a variety of<br />
sources, but this is difficult<br />
for a small organisation<br />
like ours.<br />
One of the projects we are working<br />
hard to fund is a research project on<br />
early interventions for babies with TSC.<br />
This study will examine how we can<br />
reduce the most harmful effects of TSC<br />
for every one of the 50 babies born in<br />
Australia every year. There are some<br />
exciting opportunities for TSA to invest<br />
in this ground breaking research here in<br />
Australia but we need your help to make<br />
this happen.<br />
We are so thankful to all of our<br />
wonderful supporters and fundraisers<br />
from around Australia. If you have been<br />
inspired by their efforts and would like<br />
to help raise the much needed funds<br />
for TSA, please contact us on 1300<br />
733 435 or email our fundraising and<br />
communications lead at kate.garrard@<br />
tsa.org.au<br />
I would like to acknowledge the<br />
fantastic fundraising efforts of two<br />
of our committee members, Alison<br />
McIvor and Georgina Schilg. Not only<br />
do they volunteer and give their time<br />
as committee members, they also<br />
raised much needed funds for TSA.<br />
Alison completed the City2Sea run<br />
in November, her first ever fun run<br />
and, thanks to her friends, family and<br />
workmates, raised $3,100. Georgina<br />
ran in the Burnie 10 event in Tasmania<br />
and raised just over $2,000. These were<br />
amazing efforts and we very much<br />
appreciate their support.<br />
We are currently planning education<br />
and fundraising events for the rest of<br />
the year, so please look out for this<br />
information in this issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>,<br />
in our newsletters and through our<br />
website. I would also like to thank all<br />
of the families who shared their stories<br />
and photos in this issue, particularly<br />
the brothers and sisters of people with<br />
TSC. Sharing your story inspires and<br />
informs others who live with TSC, as<br />
well as health professionals and the wider<br />
community.<br />
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TSA News<br />
Proposed Constitutional Changes<br />
At the next AGM there will be several proposed changes to TSA’s<br />
constitution. A copy of the draft constitution will be available<br />
on www.tsa.org.au at least one month before the meeting.<br />
The proposed changes are:<br />
• Minor wording changes to align more closely with the<br />
Australian Charities and Not-for-Profits Commission (ACNC)<br />
guidelines in declaring our purpose (“ACNC Charitable<br />
Purpose”)<br />
• Removing the requirement for the position of Vice President<br />
to be a member of TSA for at least three years<br />
• Adding flexibility so that either the sitting President or Vice<br />
President can have a lived experience of TSC<br />
• Changing the term of committee members from 12 months<br />
to three years.<br />
Why are these changes important?<br />
These proposed changes are designed to best manage an<br />
appropriate balance of committee members with a lived<br />
experience of TSC and those without a lived experience of TSC.<br />
Those with a lived experience of TSC provide a crucial<br />
insight and direction to TSA on how best to serve you, our<br />
members. They have a clear understanding of the experience<br />
of living with TSC. As TSC is a rare disease, it also means there<br />
is a small pool of people from the TSC community who could<br />
and may want to be involved with the governance of TSA.<br />
In contrast, there is a larger pool of people, without a<br />
lived experience of TSC, who can bring different skills to the<br />
governance of TSA. These people can help grow TSA with key<br />
industry and technical skills while learning from and working<br />
with those on the committee with a lived experience of TSC.<br />
The changes to terms of committee members is largely to<br />
move in line with governance best practice and also minimise<br />
unnecessary administration and reporting on a yearly basis.<br />
What does this mean for you, our members?<br />
The TSA committee is committed to getting people with skills<br />
that match the needs of TSA. These proposed changes will<br />
allow us the flexibility to get the right mix of people – those<br />
with a lived experience of TSC and those with experience<br />
governing and growing the organisation. This means we will<br />
continue to grow TSA as a well governed organisation so that<br />
we can provide more services for the TSC community.<br />
Please contact us if you have any questions on these<br />
proposed changes.<br />
Notice of Annual<br />
General Meeting<br />
The Annual General Meeting (AGM) of Tuberous Sclerosis<br />
Australia Incorporated (TSA) will be held in Sydney<br />
on Saturday 22 September at 2.00pm as a part of our<br />
Understanding TAND education event. Our guest speakers will<br />
include Professor Petrus de Vries. We encourage all members<br />
of TSA and interested parties to attend. Visit our www.tsa.org.<br />
au for more information closer to the event.<br />
We’re bringing<br />
South African TSC expert<br />
Professor Petrus de Vries<br />
to Adelaide, Melbourne<br />
and Sydney in August and<br />
September.<br />
Check the back cover of<br />
<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> for more.<br />
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TSA News<br />
Meet Kate<br />
Interview with TSA’s Fundraising Lead, Kate Garrard<br />
Q. Why do you like being a fundraiser?<br />
I love my job – it’s that buzz you get when someone believes in<br />
what you are doing and says they will give you a donation. It<br />
feels really good knowing I am helping people.<br />
Q. What are you passionate about?<br />
My family – I have two children and a gorgeous dog who make<br />
me very happy. I live in Sydney’s Royal National Park and love<br />
spending time with my family in the bush and at the beach. I am<br />
passionate about enjoying a good work life and trying to do good<br />
where I can. I am also passionate about good coffee and wine!<br />
Q. How are you enjoying being part of the TSA team?<br />
I’m really enjoying it. Six months has flown by! The TSA team has<br />
been so welcoming and helpful. I’ve learnt so much about TSC and<br />
met some really wonderful people.<br />
Q. What have you discovered after six months in the<br />
TSC community?<br />
I’ve discovered the TSC community is incredibly supportive and<br />
generous, despite many people facing difficult circumstances.<br />
Fundraising is a tough gig, but my approaches and asks have<br />
been received really well which is motivating and inspiring. I am<br />
learning the biggest opportunities for support will come from<br />
inside our TSC community, from the very people whose lives<br />
have been impacted by the disease and by TSA’s help.<br />
Q. What’s one of the challenges you are facing as a<br />
fundraiser for TSA?<br />
TSA doesn’t receive donations from large companies because<br />
the disease is so rare and unknown–and we have pretty steep<br />
competition with big charities and more common diseases.<br />
Right now we lack connections to businesses and I’d love to<br />
have our TSC community open some doors for us to companies<br />
they work with, or know someone at, who I could make an<br />
approach to. Getting some major donors and corporate support<br />
would really help secure our future financially and ensure<br />
we have the funds to invest in all the projects we dream of to<br />
improve the lives of individuals affected by TSC.<br />
Q. What would you like the TSC community to know?<br />
Fundraising is all about connections and relationships – we<br />
need you to be the reason people and organisations support<br />
us. And also that I am here to support your fundraising and to<br />
follow up the leads you give us.<br />
Please understand there is a sense of urgency around our need<br />
for funding. Quite frankly we don’t have enough funds to continue<br />
to provide our services and invest in the research we know will<br />
improve health outcomes for our community beyond the next two<br />
to three years. Therefore, we need to rally our community to come<br />
together to ensure we will be here for the long term.<br />
There are so many different ways you can help. We’d love more<br />
people to: join our TSC Hero teams and seek donations from their<br />
family and friends, get their workplaces to donate, open doors<br />
with businesses so we can make approaches for corporate gifts, get<br />
schools to host collections for TSA, or host community fundraisers<br />
like trivia nights. The possibilities are endless. If you’re unsure,<br />
please pick up the phone and give me a call.<br />
This year we’ve<br />
decided not to organise<br />
picnic days in each state.<br />
If you’d like to host an<br />
event with your local TSC<br />
community in May or any<br />
other time, contact us<br />
and we can help you<br />
promote it.<br />
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#Tatts4TSC<br />
Do something fun and get a tattoo to raise awareness and<br />
funds for tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC).<br />
Don’t worry, they’re just temporary!<br />
You can join this year’s TSC Global Awareness Day celebrations by joining our<br />
#Tatts4TSC campaign.<br />
Getting involved is easy:<br />
Talk to your workplace about holding a gold coin morning tea on 15 May.<br />
You could also host an event at home, playgroup or school.<br />
1. Register your event at www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC or contact Kate on 0434 391 430.<br />
2. Send an email to your colleagues or friends letting them know what’s happening<br />
3. On May 15, decorate the event space with posters we will supply, take your collection tin and temporary tattoos and<br />
talk to your colleagues and friends about TSC and why we need their help.<br />
4. Donate the funds raised to TSA<br />
5. Everyone who registers an event gets 20 x free temporary tattoos to share with their supporters to raise awareness of<br />
TSC. Get in quick to secure yours.<br />
If the Cancer Council can raise millions each year through The Biggest Morning Tea – surely we can raise awareness of TSC<br />
and a few dollars too with some gold coin collections around Australia.<br />
Go social<br />
We’d love to see your events and your tatts on<br />
Instagram and Facebook. Use the #Tatts4TSC hashtag<br />
and tag us @AuTSC<br />
If organising an event is not your thing?<br />
You can still join us by purchasing a temporary tattoo.<br />
Visit www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC and select the buy it<br />
now option. Individuals tattoos are $10 including postage.<br />
Or buy 3 for $20.<br />
Why the wave?<br />
You’ll notice our temporary tattoo design<br />
features a wave. People living with TSC liken<br />
their journey to riding waves. There are highs<br />
and lows and unpredictable tides that threaten<br />
to tow you under. We believe that even though<br />
we often can’t control the TSC waves, we can<br />
learn to surf.<br />
Everyone who supports #Tatts4TSC can wear<br />
their temporary tattoo with pride, knowing<br />
they’ve helped someone with TSC learn to ride<br />
the waves.<br />
Thank you to the team at Geolyse who have already signed up to<br />
have a gold coin morning tea on May 15. We’re really grateful to<br />
all the team at Geolyse for raising awareness and funds for TSA.<br />
#Tatts4TSC is an initiative inspired by TSC Global Awareness Day. One million people<br />
worldwide have tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). There is no cure, but research is helping<br />
find new and better treatments. We won’t give up the fight until we have a cure. This year<br />
join the worldwide fight on Global Awareness Day, Tuesday 15 May.<br />
Your support will help us increase awareness of this rare genetic disease and raise vital funds to improve the<br />
lives of families facing the challenges of TSC.<br />
Visit our website to register now: www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC or contact Kate on 0434 391 430.
Personal Stories<br />
Celebrations<br />
Back to school<br />
“Pictured here are Holly, Koby and Chloe heading back to school<br />
this year. Koby has TSC. Both girls have learnt to sign and love<br />
to help Koby learn new words and encourage him to try new<br />
things. Sometimes he will only go to the toilet or brush his teeth<br />
if his sisters help! Holly, the youngest, wants to be an occupational<br />
therapist when she grows up so she can help kids like Koby.”<br />
Fiona, QLD<br />
“Oliver started Year 1 at school this year. I was definitely<br />
celebrating and Oliver was happy to get back to routine.”<br />
Michelle, NSW<br />
Kye and Olivia started Year 3 and Year 5, respectively, this year.<br />
Both have TSC, autism and epilepsy and are in a support class.<br />
They have up to 30 seizures per day but they don’t let this stop<br />
them from being happy, beautiful and brave kids.<br />
Karen, NSW<br />
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Personal Stories<br />
“This is a photo of Josh (right) on his first day back at<br />
school this year with his brother, Nicholas, and their<br />
grandfather, Russell. Josh has tuberous sclerosis complex.<br />
He has recently started trampolining in a mainstream<br />
class. This is in addition to dancing, cricket, swimming<br />
and horse riding each week. We are busy!”<br />
Nicole, WA<br />
“Zarah started Year 1 this year and her younger sister,<br />
Juana, started Kindergarten. It is so exciting to see them<br />
go off to school together” Manoela, NSW<br />
Isabella started in Year 3 this year and we are so proud of how<br />
far she has come. Today she told me, “Mum, I’m just going to<br />
do some writing first and then I’ll come outside.” Later I had<br />
a sneak peak and she had written the numbers 1-10. This is a<br />
huge achievement for our TSC hero.<br />
Abby, VIC<br />
Want to share your achievements with the TSC community? Email reachout@tsa.org.au with your celebrations.<br />
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Personal Stories<br />
Sibling stories<br />
In each issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> we ask the tuberous sclerosis complex<br />
(TSC) community to share their experiences with an aspect of life<br />
with TSC. In this issue we’ve asked people who have a brother or<br />
sister with TSC to share their stories.<br />
Clare’s story<br />
am really proud to present this series of sibling stories for<br />
I this issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>. It has been an honour to interview<br />
each sibling and listen to their stories, their strength and their<br />
kindness. Each day I am motivated and informed in my work for<br />
TSA because of my own experience as Lizzie’s big sister. When I<br />
say it defined me, it still feels like an understatement!<br />
Lizzie was born when I was two years old. She was severely<br />
affected by TSC and polycystic kidney disease (PKD). She had a<br />
profound intellectual disability, never developed speech and went<br />
into kidney failure in her 20s. There was no family history and I<br />
travelled the journey of TSC and PKD along with Lizzie because of<br />
an unlucky draw from the genetic lottery. I think understanding<br />
the huge role luck or fortune plays in all our lives is the biggest<br />
difference I have always seen between myself and my peers.<br />
Whenever I read an article on siblings of people with<br />
disabilities I find I check most of the boxes. I was fairly mature<br />
and willingly contributed to the care Lizzie required. But I was<br />
also jealous of the huge amounts of free time some of my friends<br />
seemed to have. I loved Lizzie intensely with a simplicity I didn’t<br />
experience again until I had my own children. I was so proud of<br />
everything she accomplished. I knew my parents were busy and<br />
subconsciously didn’t turn to them for help in the same way my<br />
friends may have done to their parents. I defined myself as ‘the<br />
smart one’ and worked hard at school partly to get the recognition<br />
that came with that academic achievement. Being Lizzie’s sister<br />
made me strong and resilient, but also meant I had to learn slowly<br />
that sometimes it is ok to ask for help.<br />
I knew my parents were busy and<br />
subconsciously didn’t turn to them for<br />
help in the same way my friends may<br />
have done to their parents.<br />
Caring for her while she was sick and dying when we were both<br />
in our twenties brought its own set of challenges. It was like being<br />
attached to a piece of elastic. Sometimes I’d try to live my own<br />
life and not be too involved in what was happening at home. My<br />
parents made it clear there was no obligation or expectation on me<br />
Clare & Lizzie<br />
or my brothers. After a while, I would feel a pull to become more<br />
involved, being overwhelmed by the reality of her declining health<br />
and also the impact it was having on my parents and my youngest<br />
brothers. During this time I travelled and lived overseas but also felt<br />
uncomfortable that my sister didn’t have the freedom I had.<br />
Lizzie’s death came at a huge time of transition for me. She<br />
died a few months after my wedding and I gave birth to my first<br />
child just after her first anniversary. It is an ongoing sadness for<br />
me that my two children will never meet their aunty Lizzie and<br />
experience her wicked sense of humour, unconventional dancing<br />
and unconditional love. But I tell them about TSC, the work I do<br />
and why I do it. When I explain to new families with TSC that<br />
their child has the opportunities of earlier interventions and new<br />
treatments that no previous generation of children with TSC has<br />
had, I am genuinely proud to be able to say that, but I am also sad<br />
for what Lizzie missed out on.<br />
I hope you enjoy these sibling stories. Thank you to each of the<br />
siblings who volunteered to share them with us.<br />
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Cooper’s story<br />
am ten years old and since my brother was born, it’s been<br />
I a twisted life. Lachlan is now six years old and has tuberous<br />
sclerosis complex (TSC). He’s had brain surgery and also<br />
has autism.<br />
It’s not often that you get a good kind of Lachie, but I think<br />
you’ve got to love what you’ve got. We get to play games together,<br />
we love adventures and we love tickling each other.<br />
One of the hardest parts of being Lachie’s big brother is being<br />
woken up early in the morning to be played with. You don’t get<br />
much shut eye with Lachie in the house.<br />
I know that TSC means that Lachie sometimes doesn’t behave<br />
himself. Sometimes he’ll give kisses and hugs; other times he’ll<br />
smack or scratch. It’s his choice, but his brain makes different<br />
choices than our brains.<br />
I talk about Lachie and about how he’s had brain surgery and<br />
how tough it is with him sometimes. I explain that he’s the reason<br />
I don’t always get to school on time and don’t get to play with my<br />
friends a lot. Now that my friends understand, they do play with<br />
Lachie sometimes. I tell them to be careful when touching Lachie.<br />
When I play soccer Lachie sometimes interrupts the game. He<br />
screams out loud and claps. He joins in with our family activities.<br />
My teacher’s brother also has autism but he’s different to<br />
Lachie. I’ve learnt some new things about autism from chatting<br />
with my teacher, like how people with autism can learn things,<br />
but they may need to be shown something a lot of times for them<br />
to learn it.<br />
Having a difficult life means I get to learn how to cope. I get to<br />
teach Lachie things and he teaches me stuff back.<br />
Cooper & Lachlan<br />
One of the hardest parts of being Lachie’s big<br />
brother is being woken up early in the morning to be<br />
played with. You don’t get much shut eye with Lachie<br />
in the house.<br />
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Belinda’s story<br />
am in my 40s and live in Sydney. I am a wife, a mum to two<br />
I kids, and I work in the financial services industry. I have<br />
three siblings and two of my sisters, Christine and Maryanne,<br />
were born with tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC).<br />
Christine is five years older than me and lives in a group<br />
home with others with intellectual disabilities in Sydney. TSC<br />
has also affected her kidneys and she’s been on dialysis for<br />
the last two years. Growing up, I remember Christine was not<br />
able to do the things that Maryanne and I could and there’s a<br />
lot of sadness that comes with that. She did join in with family<br />
events and holidays but, there was always a lot we had to do, for<br />
Christine to be able to join us.<br />
I remember when we were children that there wasn’t as much of<br />
a difference. We’d play and listen to music together and do things, as<br />
you would with any sister. As we got older there was a realisation that<br />
she was different. Three of us went off to our school, but Christine<br />
went to a different school. We were all very protective of Christine.<br />
Kids could be very cruel and we stuck up for her.<br />
There’s a lot more information<br />
and awareness about TSC now and I find<br />
it much easier to support my sister and<br />
understand this disease.<br />
Christine moved out of our family home when she turned 18. I<br />
would visit her and take her out, making sure she had social events.<br />
As we both grew up and had our own families, Maryanne and I<br />
shared having her stay with us for weekends and coordinating her<br />
health care.<br />
Maryanne, my younger sister, also had TSC but this did not<br />
affect her mentally and we had a relationship similar to many<br />
sisters, including going to concerts and parties. After she was<br />
diagnosed with TSC, I did provide emotional and practical<br />
support for Maryanne. She struggled with the marks on her<br />
face, especially as a teenager. I also helped by taking her to<br />
medical appointments. Maryanne got married and had a son and<br />
everything was pretty normal.<br />
Three years ago Maryanne started having severe headaches.<br />
It took some time before we found out this was due to a large<br />
subependymal giant cell astrocytoma (SEGA) growing in the<br />
middle of her brain. In February 2015 Maryanne died from<br />
complications relating to this tumour. It has been a very difficult<br />
few years adjusting to life without her as well as supporting her<br />
husband and son.<br />
These days I play a significant role in Christine’s care, with<br />
most of this falling to me now that Maryanne has passed away.<br />
This includes coordinating her NDIS plan, her group home and<br />
Christine, Maryanne and Belinda<br />
her health care. For example, Christine’s in hospital right now and<br />
I have been visiting regularly and making sure she has some carers<br />
to spend time with her – juggling that along with my own work<br />
and family life.<br />
Things have changed a lot for TSC in recent years. When I<br />
was younger there wasn’t as much information available on TSC.<br />
I didn’t really know how to deal with different aspects of my<br />
sisters’ condition. Even when we went to medical appointments<br />
few doctors knew about TSC. There’s a lot more information and<br />
awareness about TSC now and I find it much easier to support my<br />
sister and understand this disease.<br />
When I think about how TSC has affected my life, I think<br />
I have more empathy than other people. I have more of an<br />
understanding and awareness of, not just TSC, but other<br />
conditions and issues as well.<br />
If I was giving advice to other siblings of people with TSC,<br />
I’d tell them to embrace it. We still had heaps of fun and life was<br />
mostly normal. Get as much information as you can about TSC – it<br />
is complicated! I learnt through our experience with Maryanne<br />
that keeping on top of TSC is crucial. Don’t become complacent<br />
with regular checks and tests.<br />
Tuberous Sclerosis Australia has a great website, and the<br />
Facebook group is really useful for connecting with others and<br />
asking questions (even if it’s very parent focussed sometimes).<br />
Becoming a part of the community reminds you that you’re<br />
not alone.<br />
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Georgina’s story<br />
am 23 and my younger brother Jacob is 21 and lives with<br />
I tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). I am studying at university,<br />
in my final year of music therapy, combining my love of<br />
music and psychology. Jacob works at Bedford Industries, an<br />
Australian disability enterprise, in their packaging team. We<br />
grew up in Ballarat and now live in Adelaide.<br />
Jacob is the life of our family. We’re generally a shyer group of<br />
people, but Jacob can make conversation with anyone. He brings<br />
so much joy and an almost child-like innocence that has stuck<br />
with him even as he’s grown up. Everyone thinks the world of<br />
Jacob and he makes friends really easily. Even though TSC has<br />
caused Jacob many challenges, we feel very blessed to have him.<br />
From knowing Jacob and his<br />
friends, I have a different perspective<br />
and am more natural with people who<br />
are different<br />
The major impact of TSC on Jacob’s life is his intellectual<br />
disability. He has some more advanced social skills, but isn’t able<br />
to read or write or do basic mathematics. Of course, he also has<br />
the physical signs of TSC and sees lots of doctors to monitor how<br />
the tumours throughout his body are growing. He had brain<br />
surgery about ten years ago, but everything else has been under<br />
control, which is great. Jacob takes it all in his stride.<br />
Although I have nothing else to compare it to, I think<br />
being Jacob’s sister has made me more understanding. From<br />
knowing Jacob and his friends, I have a different perspective<br />
and am more natural with people who are different. Jacob’s<br />
attitude is totally without judgement. I don’t know that he even<br />
comprehends disability at all. When I see this, it reminds me to<br />
be more like that.<br />
Growing up, I don’t think I really knew that our family was<br />
different until later in primary school. We’d be out in public and<br />
Jacob<br />
would<br />
just start<br />
singing. He’s<br />
Georgina & Jacob<br />
always been a free<br />
spirit. People would<br />
walk past and think it was bizarre,<br />
but we’d just think, “That’s Jacob and he’s having a great time.”<br />
I can remember being with a large group of friends from our<br />
church and Jacob decided he was going to get up and perform a<br />
song, possibly not the most appropriate song choice of, ‘Don’t cha<br />
wish your girlfriend was hot like me’. Everyone knew Jacob well<br />
and, although it caught everyone off guard, we generally just let<br />
Jacob be Jacob and all enjoyed his singing and dancing.<br />
Of course, life wasn’t always singing and dancing. One of the<br />
hardest things is when my patience is challenged. Jacob can be<br />
very fixated on things, such as his current obsession with flags. It’s<br />
just so intense and relentless and it’s been an obsession for the last<br />
ten years. It’s harmless enough, but it does get tiring.<br />
I can’t ever remember feeling like my parents gave Jacob<br />
too much attention or that they didn’t help me enough. If Jacob<br />
needed someone with him, it was often Mum with him and Dad<br />
would spend more time with me. My grandparents also played a<br />
big role and if Jacob needed both Mum and Dad then I would have<br />
a great time with Grandmother and Grandad. They’d also check<br />
in with me regularly and make sure I was ok. Even if there was a<br />
physical distance, calling and having a chat showed me they were<br />
thinking of me and they loved me.<br />
I know everyone is affected differently, but if I had to offer<br />
advice to someone else with a brother or sister with TSC, I’d tell<br />
them to be open to what their sibling can teach them. For me,<br />
Jacob reminds me to enjoy the small things, to not be too quick<br />
to judge, and to be more loving. Even though it does come with<br />
many challenges, there are definitely gems that you can grab out<br />
of your situation.<br />
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Danny’s story<br />
My name is Danny and I am 13 years old.<br />
I live in New Zealand and enjoy hockey,<br />
swimming and playing computer games. My younger<br />
sister Rylee has tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). We<br />
found out when she was two days old and I was three years<br />
old. I didn’t really understand at the time but I knew that Mum<br />
and Dad were very worried.<br />
TSC means that Rylee’s brain works differently. She takes<br />
longer to learn new things and gets really grumpy when she’s not<br />
happy. When she was younger she would sometimes get so angry<br />
that she would hurt me, but it’s been better recently. She also used<br />
to wake me up in the middle of the night when she had trouble<br />
sleeping. She just couldn’t understand why I did not want to get<br />
up and play at 3 o’clock in the morning and shake me until I got<br />
upset and my Mum came. These days she knows that she has to<br />
stay in bed and play by herself until it’s time to get up.<br />
Having a sister with TSC has meant I have learnt to do many<br />
things differently. I had to learn how to play differently with<br />
Rylee. For example, when we play hide and seek I can’t go and find<br />
If I had to give advice to other kids<br />
who have a brother or sister with TSC it<br />
would be to accept them the way they<br />
are. You can learn heaps from those who<br />
are different.<br />
her straight away. I have to pretend to take longer even when I<br />
know where she is hiding. I don’t mind doing this as it makes her<br />
enjoy the game more and it is cool to see her happy and laughing<br />
while I pretend to look for her. We do enjoy being together and<br />
I’ve even taught her how to play Minecraft, a computer game<br />
where you mine for materials and then build things. We have<br />
our own Minecraft virtual world where we play together and she<br />
builds some really crazy things! This is one game that she can play<br />
by herself and I don’t have to worry about her not knowing what<br />
to do. I find it a really special thing to share.<br />
Because we go to a small school, Rylee and I are in the same<br />
class. This is ok, because a lot of the time she’s doing her own work<br />
separately from the rest of us. But if Rylee gets hurt then people do<br />
ask me for help. Sometimes this worries me as I won’t be at school<br />
next year and I won’t be there to help her. I explain to the kids at<br />
Danny<br />
school that Rylee learns differently and that she has a bad temper.<br />
Some kids understand it, but others, especially the younger kids,<br />
don’t. I have two best friends who really do understand Rylee and<br />
enjoy playing with her. We even share our Minecraft world with<br />
her and give Rylee her own space to build in. It is important that<br />
my friends accept Rylee for who she is. I don’t think we would be<br />
friends if they were mean to her like other kids are sometimes.<br />
At school last year, I gave a speech about what it was like<br />
growing up with Rylee and her TSC. I told the story of how she<br />
made up her own words to New Zealand’s national anthem.<br />
Instead of singing ‘God of nations at thy feet’ she would sing<br />
‘Mother nature, 1, 2, 3’! That got a few laughs from the audience.<br />
It also felt good to share with people how tough it can be for my<br />
sister and that they should walk a mile in her shoes. I am very<br />
lucky I don’t have TSC.<br />
Sometimes I do feel left out because of Rylee’s TSC. When<br />
Mum and Dad took her to Brisbane for a hospital stay I went to<br />
stay with my grandmother. I didn’t like feeling left out of their<br />
trip. But generally Mum and Dad do a good job of treating us<br />
both the same. There is one exception – because Rylee doesn’t<br />
understand money yet she doesn’t have to save up to buy things<br />
like I do. When I buy something with my money Rylee often gets<br />
something bought for her. This annoys me a bit.<br />
I think being Rylee’s brother has made me more<br />
understanding of how people can be different. There are two<br />
other kids at our school with learning disabilities and lots of kids<br />
leave them out or get angry with them. I know they are different<br />
and I am much more patient with them. If I had to give advice<br />
to other kids who have a brother or sister with TSC it would be<br />
to accept them the way they are. You can learn heaps from those<br />
who are different.<br />
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Elise’s story<br />
am 15 and in Year 10 at school in Brisbane. I have two<br />
I younger sisters, Dayna and Evie. Dayna has tuberous<br />
sclerosis complex (TSC). In my spare time I enjoy dancing<br />
and reading.<br />
TSC has a big impact on Dayna’s life. She needs to be helped<br />
with everyday tasks such as showering, dressing and eating.<br />
She attends a special school that is 45 minutes’ drive from our<br />
house. Dayna was very slow to walk and crawled for a long time.<br />
Even now she can’t walk for long periods and is still in a stroller.<br />
She has around 40 seizures each day, most of them minor. Her<br />
epilepsy medication means she has problems controlling her<br />
temperature, so we always need to have air conditioning. If she<br />
gets too hot Dayna can get really angry and also start having<br />
seizures. That’s stressful for everyone.<br />
One of the biggest impacts on my life is that I don’t like being<br />
away from home for very long. When I was younger and went on<br />
a sleepover I would start panicking and worry that Dayna may<br />
need to go to hospital and I wouldn’t be there to help. These days<br />
I can be away from home, but I manage by staying in frequent<br />
contact and reminding myself that, even if something happened,<br />
there wouldn’t be too much I could do. My friends are very<br />
understanding. Most of them have met Dayna and love her –<br />
everyone usually does!<br />
Dayna is really happy 95% of the time. She’s fairly easy<br />
going. I am one of her favourite people and she’s always hugging<br />
me. We like watching TV and going to the park together. She’s<br />
my best friend.<br />
Dayna has a group of friends that she’s made at school over the<br />
years. I have met some of their families and I enjoy talking to the<br />
other brothers and sisters in that group who understand what it is<br />
like to have a sibling with a disability.<br />
For our family, it can be hard for all of us to go somewhere<br />
together. If Dayna is upset, then all or some of us may have to leave<br />
wherever we are to look after her. This is a contrast to my friends,<br />
who talk about going out somewhere together as a whole family.<br />
I think being Dayna’s sister means I have more initiative. I help<br />
Dayna with medication and showering each day. That might sound<br />
like a lot of work, but I enjoy doing this and Dayna is easy to hang<br />
out with.<br />
Dayna & Godric<br />
A few years ago we decided to get a dog for our family because<br />
we thought Dayna would be really good with a dog. My Dad took<br />
all three of us to the rescue shelter. While we were there Dayna had<br />
a meltdown. Everyone else in the shelter was staring and glaring<br />
at us, not understanding what was going on. I took Dayna’s hand,<br />
picked her up and took her over to the cage to give her something<br />
to hold on to. The one dog that was not barking at Dayna came<br />
straight up to her and licked her hand. Dayna calmed down<br />
completely. That dog is now called Godric and he’s a much loved<br />
member of our family.<br />
If I was talking to other people who have a brother or sister<br />
with TSC, I’d tell them to focus on trying to understand their<br />
brother or sister. Everyone with TSC is different and they all have<br />
their own likes and dislikes. Taking notice of these things and<br />
figuring out what can upset them can be really useful.<br />
I think it’s important for parents to look out for siblings<br />
who don’t have TSC. It takes a lot of time and effort to look after<br />
someone with a disability and I know kids can feel left out when<br />
they don’t get that attention. My parents encouraged my sister Evie<br />
and me to do activities outside school that they can go with us to.<br />
Evie does gymnastics and I dance.<br />
When I think about the future I hope I will never be far away<br />
from Dayna. I know that she’s going to be ok.<br />
I think it’s important for parents to look out for siblings<br />
who don’t have TSC. It takes a lot of time and effort to look<br />
after someone with a disability and I know kids can feel left out<br />
when they don’t get that attention.<br />
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Siblings: the Longest<br />
Relationship<br />
From an interview with Kate Strohm, Director, Siblings Australia<br />
Why are brothers and sisters of children with a disease<br />
like tuberous sclerosis complex important?<br />
Siblings are important for two main reasons. First, as children,<br />
they may be experiencing a lot of stress at an age when they don’t<br />
have the skills to manage this stress. This can lead to them feeling<br />
isolated and not able to understand what is happening within<br />
their family. Research also tells us that, without support, siblings<br />
have higher rates of depression and anxiety.<br />
Second, siblings are likely to have the longest relationship<br />
of any with the person with TSC. Nurturing and strengthening<br />
the relationship between siblings can have many benefits. These<br />
benefits can be for the siblings themselves, for the social and<br />
emotional wellbeing of the person with TSC, for parents and for<br />
the wider community.<br />
What do we know about sibling experiences?<br />
Just like TSC affects each person differently, there is no ‘one’<br />
sibling experience. Some siblings experience a mutually satisfying<br />
relationship with the person with TSC, provide lifelong social and<br />
emotional support, and help to create a good life for the person<br />
with TSC. However, some siblings have a really difficult time<br />
and eventually move far away from their brother or sister with a<br />
disability as that relationship has broken down. The experience of<br />
siblings also changes over time. The experience of a four year old<br />
will be quite different to that of a 14, 34 or 54 year old sibling. There<br />
are also many different life changes that can impact the siblings.<br />
Some of the common emotions that siblings experience are:<br />
• Confusion about what is happening within the family<br />
• Isolation because they don’t know anyone else who is going<br />
through similar experiences and they don’t have anyone they<br />
can talk to about their challenges<br />
• Guilt about some of the feelings they have or about doing<br />
things that their brother or sister cannot<br />
• Grief for their brother or sister or for their parents and the<br />
challenges they face<br />
• Grief for themselves and the ‘normal’ brother or sister<br />
relationship that they do not have<br />
• Embarrassment, particularly at other people’s reactions to<br />
their brother or sister’s difficult behaviours<br />
• Feeling that they are missing out because of the extra<br />
attention or time given to their brother or sister<br />
• Feeling overly-responsible for their brother or sister or for<br />
their parents<br />
• Worry about the future, particularly as they get older.<br />
Not every sibling experiences all of these emotions and many<br />
siblings will experience other emotions too. Siblings Australia<br />
has done a lot of research on siblings and these are the common<br />
things that come up fairly regularly in our work.<br />
What are some of the strengths that siblings can have<br />
because of their experiences?<br />
Many siblings can show increased compassion, understanding<br />
of differences, increased maturity, and many are very skilled and<br />
capable at a very young age. But sometimes it is too simple to<br />
say that these are just strengths. It can be difficult to hear people<br />
talk of an eight year old sibling and describe her as very mature.<br />
Sometimes I think siblings are forced to grow up too fast.<br />
I am not surprised that your interviews have been very<br />
positive. Of course, as mentioned, some siblings do enjoy a<br />
wonderful relationship. However, many siblings will feel that<br />
they can’t say anything negative in an interview and that to<br />
do so would be disloyal to their family. Often we reward the<br />
good behaviour, saying, “Oh, you’re such a good sister,” and<br />
this can make it very difficult for the sibling to talk about their<br />
challenges, believing that people would think they are selfish if<br />
they did. Many adult siblings report that their major challenge<br />
is that they grew up squashing down those feelings that weren’t<br />
all positive.<br />
Siblings need to know that it is ok to have a mix of feelings.<br />
All brothers and sisters might love and hate each other at<br />
different times. When parents and others reinforce only the<br />
positives it can make children think they are bad children if they<br />
don’t feel positively about their brother or sister 100% of the<br />
time. We forget that siblings are often young children and may<br />
not have the skills to manage difficult emotions.<br />
I do know that many siblings have positive experiences and<br />
I am not diminishing those, but I think we have to acknowledge<br />
that many siblings can also have not quite so cheery feelings.<br />
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What can parents and other family members do to<br />
support siblings?<br />
The most important thing parents can do is to encourage and<br />
help siblings express their mix of complicated thoughts and<br />
feelings. One way to frame this is that any feeling is ok. Of<br />
course, not all behaviour is ok, and parents can help siblings<br />
learn ways to manage any difficult feelings.<br />
For example, the siblings may feel anger or resentment that<br />
the family picnic was cancelled. That’s ok, they’re a child and<br />
they were looking forward to the picnic. But there needs to be<br />
limits on the acceptable behaviour in response to that (e.g. they<br />
might be allowed to punch their pillow but not allowed to punch<br />
walls) depending on the rules within that family.<br />
It can be particularly difficult for parents when siblings<br />
voice concerns over not receiving as much attention or time as<br />
their brother or sister. It is especially important to accept these<br />
feelings and not become defensive. Aggressive and difficult<br />
behaviour by the child with the disability is another challenge.<br />
Siblings can be physically and emotionally hurt by aggressive<br />
behaviour and parents can support the siblings to be able to<br />
express their hurt while also understanding the limitations of<br />
their brother’s or sister’s disability.<br />
Information is also important. For children, the<br />
information needs to be at an appropriate level for the age of the<br />
child. Parents can find books at an appropriate level or seek the<br />
help of health professionals to explain the condition and answer<br />
questions. This knowledge will need to be expanded over time<br />
with the sibling.<br />
Learning to balance the amount of responsibility siblings<br />
have can help siblings to develop their own identity. The<br />
siblings may contribute in many ways and parents can<br />
acknowledge and appreciate this contribution, but having<br />
limits and saying things like, “That’s my job. You can go and<br />
play now,” can be really helpful.<br />
Thinking about the future for the person with a disability<br />
is also important. It is helpful to start exploring what future<br />
options might be available, earlier rather than later.<br />
In the same way that parents find it helpful to have contact<br />
with other parents who understand, many siblings find it<br />
helpful to make contact with other siblings. Siblings who can get<br />
together with other siblings really value the opportunity to share<br />
experiences and knowledge and, in the process, feel less alone.<br />
How does the sibling experience and the roles they<br />
play change over time as parents and the whole family<br />
gets older?<br />
Again there is a huge mix of adult sibling experiences.<br />
Sometimes it is very sad when the sibling has had a very<br />
stressful childhood and moves away and doesn’t have a strong<br />
relationship with their brother or sister.<br />
The key is to look at it from the perspective of developing<br />
a good life for the sibling and for their brother or sister with a<br />
disability. Some siblings take on a role similar to other brothers<br />
and sisters and spend social time together and support each<br />
other in a variety of ways. If the person with a disability is still<br />
living at home, the siblings may take on a caring role from<br />
time to time or support their parents continuing to play this<br />
role. Siblings can also have a role in advocacy, such as being<br />
one part of a circle of support for their brother or sister. It can<br />
make a difference whether there is only one sibling or if there<br />
are several. Sometimes siblings give up their own lives to care<br />
for a brother or sister but, in the longer term, this is often<br />
problematic for both. I do think it is important that siblings are<br />
not considered automatic carers, but are still seen as playing<br />
significant roles in the life of their brother or sister, contributing<br />
to their sibling’s social and emotional wellbeing.<br />
What role do you think gender plays in sibling issues?<br />
I hesitate to stereotype but, as children, boys tend to externalise<br />
their emotions more and girls tend to internalise more. This<br />
won’t apply to everyone, but boys may tend to act out while girls<br />
may be at higher risk of anxiety and depression. Girls may be<br />
more likely to take on the caring role for their brother or sister<br />
but also more likely to reach out for support. For example,<br />
Siblings Australia runs a Facebook group for adult siblings and<br />
there are many more female members than males.<br />
There is a lack of research in this area but much of this<br />
mirrors what we know of some of the general differences<br />
between the genders.<br />
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Personal Stories<br />
Another issue that comes up is about understanding<br />
the genetics of TSC. Siblings can often have questions<br />
and need help when they think about or start to<br />
move into a stage of their own lives that may include<br />
having children. What are your perspectives on this<br />
complexity?<br />
I remember supporting a young sibling who had a brother<br />
with Down syndrome. Her school teacher had shared some<br />
information about the genetics of Down syndrome and this<br />
didn’t match what the girl had understood from her experience<br />
with her brother. The sibling and I (at the request of the parent)<br />
went along to see a genetic counsellor who was able to explain<br />
the genetics of Down syndrome, as it applied to her family. The<br />
sibling was able to return to school and correct her teacher’s<br />
knowledge.<br />
I do see a role for genetic counsellors in supporting siblings<br />
to get answers to these questions, and in continuing to support<br />
them if there is a genetic risk for the sibling or their children.<br />
What supports are available to siblings in Australia?<br />
Siblings Australia has conducted mapping projects to identify<br />
sibling supports around Australia in 2009 and 2017. In 2009,<br />
we found that there was a clear lack of services and no national<br />
coordination or standards in place. In 2017, we found even fewer<br />
supports for siblings.<br />
Siblings Australia is a registered provider with the NDIS<br />
and available for one-on-one sessions to help parents support<br />
siblings. This process includes parents filling out a questionnaire<br />
and then spending time with me, either face to face or on Skype,<br />
to learn some strategies that can work for them.<br />
Sibworks is our program for primary school aged siblings<br />
that has been evaluated by researchers from the University of<br />
Adelaide. It consists of a facilitator manual and participant<br />
booklet. The information about this and our other resources is<br />
on our website.<br />
Siblings Australia also runs a closed Facebook group for<br />
adult siblings called SibChat, and co-facilitates one for teen<br />
siblings.<br />
A few disability providers and local community groups do<br />
run programs for siblings, but these have decreased in number<br />
with the transition away from block funding to the NDIS.<br />
Some support for siblings is available through young<br />
carer supports. While these can be useful for some, there are<br />
limitations in these programs. Many siblings do not take on a<br />
significant carer role and are still deserving of support. Also<br />
consider the dignity of the person with a disability when a<br />
sibling is considered their carer. I believe that siblings must be<br />
supported to also just be the brother or sister of the person with<br />
the disability, not just be their carer.<br />
Many siblings find support through mental health services.<br />
A mental health plan through a GP can be used to access publicly<br />
funded psychology services. Siblings may need to shop around to<br />
find the right therapist as some therapists don’t understand the<br />
sibling experience.<br />
There are also a few books available for parents, adult<br />
siblings and professionals, including mine which is called,<br />
Siblings: Brothers and Sisters of Children with Disability.<br />
One of the biggest challenges is that siblings aren’t<br />
specifically recognised in policy. Sibling issues are not seen as a<br />
mental health issue, a disability issue or anything else. Until this<br />
changes siblings will continue to be overlooked and services will<br />
continue to be ‘hit and miss’.<br />
Siblings Australia’s mission is ‘Siblings: Acknowledged,<br />
Connected, Resilient’. You can read more about their work,<br />
about issues surrounding siblings and available support services<br />
at www.siblingsaustralia.org.au<br />
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Information<br />
A new resource<br />
to explain TSC to<br />
children<br />
little book about Tuberous Sclerosis Complex has been written for primary school<br />
A children to explain this complex disease. In this book you’ll meet Tubee and learn<br />
about how tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) affects different people in different ways.<br />
We are planning to launch the book later this year and make it available to families living<br />
with TSC around Australia.<br />
Thank you to the fundraising efforts of our TSC Heroes for making this project possible.<br />
Life Expectancy for<br />
People with TSC<br />
oes someone with tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) have a<br />
“Dnormal life expectancy?”<br />
This can be one of the questions that people have when they<br />
hear about TSC for the first time. It remains, however, a difficult<br />
question to answer.<br />
The good news is that achievements in the last 20<br />
years of TSC research and health care mean that people<br />
with TSC have every reason to expect to live a long life.<br />
These include earlier diagnosis of TSC through prenatal<br />
testing, improved seizure control and new medicines<br />
for TSC signs and symptoms. Regular surveillance and<br />
active management of the various signs and symptoms<br />
of TSC are important to minimise the risks of early<br />
death in TSC.<br />
Tuberous Sclerosis Australia has recently added a new<br />
information page to our valuable online collection. We are<br />
the first English speaking TSC organisation to tackle this<br />
topic. Thank you to everyone who helped us with this new<br />
resource, including Hayley Hill, Debbie and Anthony Crosby<br />
and Dr Chirag Patel.<br />
We are regularly updating our information pages to reflect<br />
changing treatments and management approaches for TSC. You can<br />
read all our information pages at www.tsa.org.au/information<br />
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Research<br />
Research News<br />
Many recent journal publications have shared new understanding of how tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC)<br />
works and how best to use available treatment options. We’ve chosen just a few to summarise here.<br />
How to make the diagnosis of TSC before<br />
seizures start<br />
Slowinska, Jozwiak et al published a study that identified the most<br />
useful approach in making the diagnosis of TSC before seizure<br />
onset (Note: seizure onset is usually after four months of age).<br />
This is becoming more important in TSC because of increasing<br />
evidence that early monitoring with EEG can detect seizure onset<br />
and provide an opportunity for early treatment.<br />
The team examined 100 children with TSC from Poland and<br />
Italy who had suspected TSC because heart tumours (cardiac<br />
rhabdomyomas) had been found on prenatal ultrasound. Eightytwo<br />
of these children were diagnosed before four months of age.<br />
The most common clinical signs of TSC that were used to confirm<br />
their TSC were brain lesions (subependymal nodules, also known<br />
as SENs, and cortical dysplasias, also known as cortical tubers)<br />
and hypomelanotic macules (also known as white patches).<br />
Genetic testing was done for many babies with suspected TSC<br />
but, for most, results were not returned early enough to confirm a<br />
diagnosis of TSC before four months of age.<br />
Through their research, the team has proposed a diagnostic<br />
algorithm that specifies referrals and tests for a child with<br />
suspected TSC. This algorithm includes prenatal MRI, brain and<br />
abdominal MRI and skin exams. The researchers also recommend<br />
referral to TSC centres or specialists whenever these are available.<br />
This study is important as it offers a process for maternal and<br />
foetal medicine teams to follow that is informed by evidence. It<br />
confirms that clinical tests (such as MRIs and skin exams) are still<br />
the most useful for diagnosing TSC and are not able to be replaced<br />
by genetic testing.<br />
Słowiska, M., et al., Early diagnosis of tuberous sclerosis<br />
complex: A race against time. How to make the diagnosis before<br />
seizures? Orphanet Journal of Rare Diseases, <strong>2018</strong>. 13(1): p. 25.<br />
Everolimus for younger children with TSC<br />
Kuki et al reported results from using the mTOR inhibitor<br />
Everolimus to treat SEGA brain tumours in five children under<br />
12 months of age in Japan. They found that all children had at<br />
least a 50% reduction in the size of their SEGA. The majority did<br />
experience adverse events from using Everolimus including mouth<br />
ulcers and infections.<br />
The researchers conclude that mTOR inhibitors can be<br />
effective for younger children but adverse events should be<br />
closely monitored.<br />
Kuki, I., et al., Efficacy and safety of Everolimus in patients<br />
younger than 12 months with congenital subependymal giant cell<br />
astrocytoma. Brain Dev, <strong>2018</strong>.<br />
Knowledge of kidney issues in TSC<br />
Cockerell et al studied how much people with TSC and their<br />
parents know about the effects of TSC on the kidneys.<br />
The questionnaire study included 357 families across France<br />
and Norway.<br />
They found that the most common ways people learnt about<br />
TSC were in medical consultations and through their local<br />
TSC organisations. They found that people who knew more<br />
about kidney signs and symptoms were more likely to have the<br />
recommended regular imaging of their kidneys. The researchers<br />
were surprised that over 40% of people were not aware that<br />
kidney angiomyolipomas (AMLs) were at risk of bleeding. The<br />
researchers recommend that people with TSC who are over 15<br />
years of age, are told about the risk of kidney AMLs bleeding. They<br />
also recommend people with TSC are provided with information<br />
about their own risk. For example, for a younger person, their risk<br />
may be low because their AMLs are small.<br />
Thirty percent of people in the study had not had the<br />
recommended imaging of their kidneys every three years. A<br />
smaller number had never had any imaging of their kidneys.<br />
Ultrasound was the most common type of imaging.<br />
The researchers recommend that more is done to increase<br />
the knowledge that people with TSC have of AMLs and bleeding<br />
risk. They also recommend more is done to ensure regular<br />
monitoring of AML growth particularly through adolescence and<br />
early adulthood.<br />
Cockerell, I., et al., Renal manifestations of tuberous sclerosis<br />
complex: Patients’ and parents’ knowledge and routines for renal<br />
follow-up - a questionnaire study. BMC Nephrol, <strong>2018</strong>. 19(1): p. 39.<br />
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Research<br />
TAND study suggests natural clusters of<br />
neuropsychiatric disorders<br />
Leclezio et al have published their pilot study in the journal<br />
Pediatric Neurology and presented further findings at the 2017<br />
International Research Conference on TSC and LAM.<br />
The aim of this research was to find out if there were natural<br />
clusters, or subgroups, of how TSC associated neuropsychiatric<br />
disorders (TAND) affect people with TSC. TAND includes<br />
a wide range of neuropdevelopmental, psychiatric, learning<br />
and behavioural difficulties. People with TSC and their carers<br />
consistently report TAND as being one of the ways that TSC<br />
most severely impacts their lives. However the complexity and<br />
uniqueness of each individual’s TAND profile is one of the<br />
barriers to appropriate screening, diagnosis and treatment.<br />
Using data from over 450 TAND checklists, the team were<br />
able to define seven natural clusters of TAND: scholastic;<br />
neuropsychological; mood/anxiety; autism spectrum disorderlike;<br />
behaviours that challenge; hyperactive/impulsive; and<br />
eating/sleeping. The work suggests that each person with TSC may<br />
belong to one of these clusters.<br />
These clusters may provide a new way to understand how and<br />
why TAND effects each person with TSC differently. It would also<br />
provide a foundation for a broader understanding of the variability<br />
of other signs and symptoms of TSC. Future work may enable us<br />
to find new ways to look for TAND throughout the lifetime of a<br />
person with TSC and to identify treatments that are tailored to a<br />
specific TAND cluster.<br />
The pilot study included data<br />
collected in Australia. Thank<br />
you to the Australians with<br />
TSC who participated in<br />
the study.<br />
Leclezio, L., S.<br />
Gardner-Lubbe, and P.J.<br />
de Vries, Is It Feasible<br />
to Identify Natural<br />
Clusters of TSC-Associated<br />
Neuropsychiatric Disorders<br />
(TAND)? Pediatr Neurol,<br />
<strong>2018</strong>.<br />
Want to learn more?<br />
Come to our Understanding TAND<br />
education events in Adelaide, Brisbane<br />
and Sydney this year with our guest<br />
speaker, Professor Petrus de Vries. Visit<br />
www.tsa.org.au/TAND-<strong>2018</strong><br />
Remembering<br />
Loren<br />
and Tonya<br />
Clare Stuart, TSA General Manager<br />
Two health professionals who made their mark on the global<br />
tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) community died recently.<br />
We offer our condolences to their family and friends and our<br />
heartfelt appreciation for their contribution to improving the<br />
lives of those affected by TSC.<br />
Loren Leclezio worked alongside Petrus de Vries at the<br />
University of Cape Town, South Africa. Loren has been<br />
instrumental in improving our understanding of TSC associated<br />
neuropsychiatric disorders (TAND) and developing the TAND<br />
checklist. Her work on identifying TAND clusters, which is still in<br />
progress, will take us even closer to a future where these aspects of<br />
TSC are well understood and their impacts are lessened.<br />
Loren also worked tirelessly to improve the health care<br />
available for people with TSC in South Africa and contributed<br />
to TSC International’s work in this area. We will remember her<br />
warmth and energy as well as her compassion.<br />
Tonya Kara was a nephrologist at Starship Children’s<br />
Hospital in Auckland and was much loved by her patients and<br />
their families. Tonya was part of the team who helped us to<br />
establish Tuberous Sclerosis Complex New Zealand (TSCNZ)<br />
and worked with TSCNZ to raise awareness of TSC and<br />
particularly the importance of lifelong surveillance.<br />
Helen Willacy, President of TSCNZ, reflects on Tonya’s<br />
contribution to the TSC community: “Tonya was one of our TSC<br />
champions. She was passionate about supporting her colleagues<br />
in nephrology and paediatrics, to provide the very best of care<br />
for their patients with TSC. No words can ever fully describe<br />
what she has done for the TSC community. She will be greatly<br />
missed and our hearts go out to her family and friends.”<br />
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Fundraising<br />
Snapshot<br />
Thank you to all our wonderful donors and fundraisers around Australia who<br />
support Tuberous Sclerosis Australia’s (TSA) essential information and support<br />
services. We need your help now more than ever.<br />
Over the last few years we have been receiving some grants that are no<br />
longer available to us. To keep going we depend on fundraising efforts from<br />
our community. If you would like to support TSA and get involved in raising<br />
funds we’d love to hear from you. Please call us on 1300 733 435 or email<br />
kate.garrard@tsa.org.au<br />
Surfside Caravan<br />
Park kids do<br />
some good<br />
in the school<br />
holidays<br />
group of children were<br />
A inspired by Kyah who<br />
has TSC, to raise some<br />
money for TSA. During<br />
the Christmas holidays at<br />
Surfside Caravan Park, on<br />
NSW’s South Coast, these<br />
terrific kids got together<br />
and held a food stall in the<br />
caravan park and raised $270 for TSA. What a<br />
great effort kids. Thank you so much!<br />
Surfside Caravan Park<br />
The Patriarchs and The Hard<br />
Loves rocked the night away<br />
for TSA<br />
TSC dad Elliott and his mates in the Patriarchs<br />
and The Hard Loves put on a fantastic show and<br />
raised over $2,500 for TSA in October last year at The<br />
Music Lounge in Brookvale. A massive thank you<br />
to these great bands for dedicating this night to help<br />
individuals with TSC. We look forward to the next one!<br />
Thanks to Lloyd in Darwin<br />
Lloyd’s daughter Katisha has TSC.<br />
Together, Lloyd and Katisha have donated<br />
over $1,000 to TSA by visiting local hotels in<br />
their area and collecting recyclable bottles<br />
and cans. The funds collected from the<br />
recycling plant are donated to TSA. What<br />
a creative and wonderful way to support<br />
TSA and help the environment. Thank<br />
you, Lloyd and Katisha.<br />
Katisha and Lloyd<br />
The Patriarchs and The Hard Loves<br />
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Melbourne joins the TSC hero action thanks to Alison<br />
Melbourne fun run, City2Sea was held on 12 November 2017. Alison, who is part<br />
of TSA’s management committee, raised over $3,100 for TSA. What a fantastic<br />
launch for TSC Heroes in Melbourne. Thank you to Alison, Nicole, Maria, Yvonne and<br />
Kelvin, and all their generous supporters.<br />
“Becoming a TSC hero was a really simple and fun way to support an organisation that is<br />
important to me, and I didn’t need to be a super fit athlete to participate. I just got involved<br />
in a local event, signed up online and picked TSA as my charity. When I told my friends<br />
and colleagues about it, many of them were happy to donate. It was really heart warming.<br />
I know the donations will make a big difference in the lives of people affected by TSC and<br />
I’m delighted to have been able to help. I hope you’ll join us next time,” says Alison.<br />
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Fundraising<br />
We now have a TSC Hero in Tassie<br />
Our first TSC Hero event took place in Tasmania in late 2017, thanks to Georgie<br />
from our management committee. Georgie’s daughter Sophie has TSC and this was<br />
Georgie’s first TSC Hero event to support TSA. Well done Georgie for raising over $2,000.<br />
What a fabulous effort. Thanks Georgie!<br />
Have you got a child<br />
at school?<br />
Schools are great at supporting<br />
their students by fundraising<br />
for organisations that are<br />
important to them. Could you<br />
speak to your child’s school about a<br />
possible collection for TSA? We have<br />
put together a helpful guide for<br />
how to go about it. For a full copy,<br />
visit our website or contact Kate.<br />
Georgie & kids<br />
Gifts of hope<br />
We are thrilled to have received just over $5,300 in<br />
donations towards creating a new diagnosis pack to<br />
better inform and support families through the challenges<br />
of a new diagnosis. Thank you to everyone who contributed<br />
to our ‘gift of hope’ Christmas appeal. We still need to raise<br />
another $4,700 to make this happen and we’d love your help.<br />
Thank you to<br />
all our supporters<br />
for your extraordinary<br />
help. YOU make a<br />
difference to people<br />
living with TSC.<br />
We couldn’t do it<br />
without you.<br />
Upcoming Fundraising Events<br />
27 May: TSC Heroes does Run for a Reason in Perth<br />
3 June: 5th annual Lizzie’s Lunch in Sydney<br />
Visit www.tsa.org.au/lizzies-lunch to buy your ticket<br />
21 July: Christmas in July<br />
The Padstow Bowling and Snooker Club in Sydney are<br />
hosting a Christmas in July function raising funds for<br />
us again this year. Contact us to join our TSA table.<br />
Over $12,000 was raised in 2017 and the night was<br />
lots of fun.<br />
12 August <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does City2Surf in Sydney<br />
26 August <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Bridge to Brisbane<br />
October: Comedy for a Cure event in Melbourne.<br />
Contact us for more information and to get involved.<br />
21 October <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Burnie 10 Fun Run<br />
in Tasmania<br />
2 Dec <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Ironman Bussleton in<br />
Western Australia<br />
Join our team of TSC Heroes<br />
Do you run, walk, swim or cycle? Our TSC Hero teams<br />
across Australia are raising vital funds to help people<br />
living with TSC. Contact us to sign up and secure your<br />
very own TSC Heroes t-shirt.<br />
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UNDERSTANDING TAND<br />
TSC Associated Neuropsychiatric Disorders<br />
INCLUDING LEARNING, BEHAVIOUR, AUTISM AND ANXIETY<br />
These educational events are<br />
for people with TSC, their family<br />
members and interested health<br />
professionals. TSA is also working<br />
with our TSC Professionals Network<br />
members to hold events specifically<br />
for health professionals to increase<br />
their understanding of TAND.<br />
PLANNED <strong>2018</strong> EDUCATION EVENTS<br />
ADELAIDE 26 AUGUST<br />
BRISBANE 8 & 9 SEPTEMBER<br />
SYDNEY 22 SEPTEMBER<br />
GUEST SPEAKER<br />
Professor Petrus de Vries<br />
Professor Petrus de Vries is a child and adolescent psychiatrist at the<br />
University of Cape Town, South Africa. He developed an interest in tuberous<br />
sclerosis complex (TSC) while training and working in the UK and has since<br />
become a clinical and research leader in the field. Petrus is the chair of the<br />
consensus conference panel that defined the term TAND to capture all of the<br />
neuropsychiatric aspects of TSC and developed the TAND checklist. Petrus<br />
will be in Australia for various meetings and projects this year and has kindly<br />
volunteered his time for these events.<br />
Limited travel funding may be available for the Brisbane meeting,<br />
pending grant outcomes.<br />
For more information, visit www.tsa.org.au/TAND-<strong>2018</strong><br />
THESE EVENTS CAN ONLY GO AHEAD WITH YOUR HELP.<br />
Do you know of a business who would consider sponsoring these events?<br />
Can you make a donation to these projects? Call Kate on 0434 391 430.