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Reach Out April 2018

Information about tuberous sclerosis and news from Tuberous Sclerosis Australia. This issue includes a special focus on siblings.

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<strong>Reach</strong><br />

<strong>Out</strong><br />

Remembering<br />

Loren & Tonya<br />

Fundraising – p21<br />

Can you help?<br />

p22<br />

APRIL <strong>2018</strong> ISSUE 107<br />

Our Sibling<br />

Stories p12<br />

www.tsa.org.au


TSA News<br />

Contents<br />

Editorial................................................................................................. 3<br />

President’s Report................................................................................. 4<br />

Proposed Constitutional Changes...................................................... 5<br />

Notice of Annual General Meeting.................................................... 5<br />

Meet Kate - TSA’s Fundraising Lead................................................... 6<br />

TSC Global Awareness Day - #Tatts4TSC.......................................... 7<br />

Celebrations - Back to School...........................................................8-9<br />

Sibling Stories................................................................................. 10-15<br />

Siblings: The Longest Relationship.............................................. 16-18<br />

A New Resource to Explain TSC to Children..................................19<br />

Life Expectancy for People with TSC................................................19<br />

Research News...............................................................................20-21<br />

Remembering Loren & Tonya...........................................................21<br />

Fundraising Snapshot...................................................................22-23<br />

Our cover image is of Lachlan and Cooper Herbert. You can read Cooper’s story on page 11. Thank you to<br />

Christy and Scott for sharing this photo of your beautiful boys.<br />

Tuberous Sclerosis Complex (TSC) affects more than 2000<br />

individuals in Australia and thousands more carers, families and<br />

friends who live with the impact of the disease.<br />

TSC tumours can grow in any organ of the body, commonly affecting<br />

the brain, skin, heart, lungs and kidneys. TSC can cause epilepsy,<br />

developmental delay and autism. There is no known cure for TSC, but<br />

with appropriate support most people with TSC can live fulfilling lives.<br />

Tuberous Sclerosis Australia<br />

Works to connect, inform and empower people affected by tuberous<br />

sclerosis complex as we work towards a cure for TSC.<br />

TSA was established in 1981 as a volunteer organisation to connect families<br />

living with TSC. We have hundreds of members including people with TSC and<br />

their families along with health, education and caring professionals.<br />

Our priorities<br />

1. Ensure Australians with TSC have access to the best possible healthcare<br />

2. Provide up to date and accurate information to all Australians with TSC<br />

3. Support individuals and families affected by so no one has to face the<br />

challenges of TSC alone<br />

4. Champion an active research program in Australia that works towards<br />

a cure for TSC<br />

President Debbie Crosby<br />

Vice President Vacant<br />

Committee Members<br />

Treasurer Patrick Norris<br />

Secretary Alison McIvor<br />

Adish Chandra<br />

Georgina Schilg<br />

Michael Jones<br />

Michelle Purkiss<br />

Public Officer Debbie Crosby<br />

Medical Advisory Board Dr David Mowat,<br />

Clinical Geneticist<br />

General Manager<br />

Fundraising and<br />

Communications<br />

Dr John Lawson,<br />

Paediatric Neurologist<br />

Dr Sean Kennedy<br />

Paediatric Nephrologist<br />

Clare Stuart<br />

Kate Garrard<br />

The TSC Information Service<br />

Visit our website for extensive information about TSC for individuals, their families and<br />

professionals www.tsa.org.au<br />

Call or email us to speak to one of our volunteers. We have regional contacts throughout Australia<br />

who can meet face to face and connect you with local services<br />

1300 733 435 info@tsa.org.au<br />

Not in Australia or New Zealand?<br />

TSA is a founding member of Tuberous Sclerosis Complex International,<br />

a worldwide association of TSC organisations. The TSCi website<br />

contains a directory of TSC organisations around the world<br />

www.tscinternational.org<br />

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TSA News<br />

Editorial<br />

Teresa Llewellyn-Evans<br />

This edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> highlights what<br />

it is like to be a sibling of a brother<br />

of sister with tuberous sclerosis complex<br />

(TSC). Five siblings - Clare, Cooper,<br />

Belinda, Danny and Elise - share their<br />

stories of having a brother or sister with<br />

TSC from page 10. Their stories show the<br />

profound effect their sibling with TSC has had<br />

on them, and continues to have, even after they<br />

may have passed away. I know that I experienced a<br />

range of emotions when I read these stories. Your response<br />

will depend on your own family’s story and you may find their<br />

stories, in turn, confronting, moving, reassuring or inspiring.<br />

Our sibling stories are followed by an interview with<br />

Kate Strohm, Director of Siblings Australia. Kate helps us<br />

understand the most common emotions which come up<br />

fairly regularly in her work with siblings. Parents can let their<br />

children know it is ok to have a mix of feelings towards their<br />

brother and sister. Parents can encourage and help siblings<br />

express their mix of complicated thoughts and feelings. In the<br />

same way that parents find it helpful to have contact with other<br />

parents who understand, many siblings find it helpful to make<br />

contact with other siblings. Information is also important and<br />

siblings need information at a level appropriate to their age and<br />

development. The article also identifies a range of supports for<br />

siblings, including Facebook groups, access to mental health<br />

plans through GPs and other helpful resources, but services for<br />

siblings on the whole are still very ‘hit and miss’.<br />

President Debbie Crosby reflects on Rare Diseases Day and<br />

the pressing need for the TSC community to work together<br />

with TSA to secure our long term financial future. Businesses<br />

and individuals donate to organisations because<br />

they are inspired to help the people directly<br />

impacted by their work. We need your<br />

help to help secure TSA’s ability to deliver<br />

services and fund important research<br />

projects such as the early intervention<br />

project for babies with TSC.<br />

We meet Kate Garrad, TSA’s<br />

Fundraising Lead, on page 6. Kate believes<br />

that the biggest opportunities for support<br />

will come from inside our TSC community and<br />

shares some practical ways you can help.<br />

TSA’s Annual General Meeting (AGM) will occur<br />

on 22 September. Read about the proposed changes to TSA’s<br />

constitution that will be voted on at the AGM on page 5. We<br />

also remember two incredible health professionals who made<br />

their mark on the global TSC community, Loren Leciezio and<br />

Tonya Kara, on page 5.<br />

We celebrate children starting back at school this year<br />

on pages 8 to 9. TSA has been working on some exciting<br />

new information resources. Read about the little book<br />

Tuberous Sclerosis Complex for primary school children and<br />

information pages on Life Expectancy for People with TSC on<br />

page 19. Clare has also compiled the latest in research news<br />

on page 20 including how to make a diagnosis of TSC before<br />

seizures, Everolimus for younger children with TSC, and how<br />

much people with TSC really know about the kidney issues<br />

in TSC.<br />

We thank everyone who has contributed stories or photos<br />

for this edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>, and those who fundraise for the<br />

work of TSA. Your stories and efforts inspire and inform others<br />

who live with TSC, as well as health professionals and the<br />

wider community.<br />

<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> Official Journal of Tuberous Sclerosis<br />

Australia, Inc.<br />

18 Central Rd, Beverly Hills NSW 2209<br />

Telephone: 1300 733 435<br />

Website: www.tsa.org.au<br />

Email: info@tsa.org.au<br />

ABN 20 681 174 734<br />

Incorporation no. Y 07116-42<br />

Registered Charity CC25313<br />

<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> Editor: Teresa Llewellyn-Evans<br />

reachout@tsa.org.au<br />

Disclaimer<br />

The opinions expressed in this journal are those of the<br />

authors and are not official pronouncements of TSA Inc.<br />

Permission<br />

Permission must be sought from the authors or publishers<br />

to reproduce in any way articles or information contained<br />

in this journal. Once permission is received the source must<br />

be acknowledged.<br />

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TSA News<br />

President’s Report<br />

Debbie Crosby, President<br />

Welcome to another amazing<br />

edition of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>. I am<br />

writing this on Rare Disease Day and<br />

am reminded why it is important to<br />

have days like today to acknowledge the<br />

many people who live with rare diseases.<br />

Even though these diseases are classified<br />

as rare, they affect approximately two<br />

million Australians. Tuberous sclerosis<br />

complex (TSC) is one of 8,000 known<br />

rare diseases and is estimated to affect<br />

2,500 people in Australia. Tuberous<br />

Sclerosis Australia (TSA) has been<br />

involved in shaping the Fair for Rare<br />

campaign from Rare Voices Australia<br />

that articulates six strategic priorities:<br />

research, access to services, access to<br />

treatments, coordinated care, data<br />

collection and diagnosis. TSA’s work, in<br />

partnership with our TSC Professionals<br />

Network, addresses many of these<br />

priorities. We look forward to being part<br />

of continued collaborations that will<br />

improve the lives of all people living with<br />

rare diseases.<br />

Over the last few years TSA has<br />

achieved a lot, including supporting<br />

TSC research, running education events<br />

around Australia and providing quality<br />

TSC information to thousands of people.<br />

Much of this has been the result of the<br />

wonderful support and dedicated efforts<br />

of our TSC community. But there is so<br />

much more we want to do to tackle the<br />

challenges of TSC.<br />

We are working hard to secure<br />

funding and grants from a variety of<br />

sources, but this is difficult for a small<br />

organisation like ours. Now, more than<br />

ever, we are calling on you to work with<br />

us. It is your stories and your connections<br />

that can open doors for us. Businesses<br />

and individuals donate to organisations<br />

because they are inspired to help the<br />

people directly impacted by their work.<br />

We need your help to inspire people<br />

to support our work. We can’t do this<br />

without you. We want TSA to be around<br />

for the long term, continuing to support<br />

you and your families well into the<br />

future, so we ask that we come together<br />

to help TSA help you.<br />

We are working<br />

hard to secure funding and<br />

grants from a variety of<br />

sources, but this is difficult<br />

for a small organisation<br />

like ours.<br />

One of the projects we are working<br />

hard to fund is a research project on<br />

early interventions for babies with TSC.<br />

This study will examine how we can<br />

reduce the most harmful effects of TSC<br />

for every one of the 50 babies born in<br />

Australia every year. There are some<br />

exciting opportunities for TSA to invest<br />

in this ground breaking research here in<br />

Australia but we need your help to make<br />

this happen.<br />

We are so thankful to all of our<br />

wonderful supporters and fundraisers<br />

from around Australia. If you have been<br />

inspired by their efforts and would like<br />

to help raise the much needed funds<br />

for TSA, please contact us on 1300<br />

733 435 or email our fundraising and<br />

communications lead at kate.garrard@<br />

tsa.org.au<br />

I would like to acknowledge the<br />

fantastic fundraising efforts of two<br />

of our committee members, Alison<br />

McIvor and Georgina Schilg. Not only<br />

do they volunteer and give their time<br />

as committee members, they also<br />

raised much needed funds for TSA.<br />

Alison completed the City2Sea run<br />

in November, her first ever fun run<br />

and, thanks to her friends, family and<br />

workmates, raised $3,100. Georgina<br />

ran in the Burnie 10 event in Tasmania<br />

and raised just over $2,000. These were<br />

amazing efforts and we very much<br />

appreciate their support.<br />

We are currently planning education<br />

and fundraising events for the rest of<br />

the year, so please look out for this<br />

information in this issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>,<br />

in our newsletters and through our<br />

website. I would also like to thank all<br />

of the families who shared their stories<br />

and photos in this issue, particularly<br />

the brothers and sisters of people with<br />

TSC. Sharing your story inspires and<br />

informs others who live with TSC, as<br />

well as health professionals and the wider<br />

community.<br />

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TSA News<br />

Proposed Constitutional Changes<br />

At the next AGM there will be several proposed changes to TSA’s<br />

constitution. A copy of the draft constitution will be available<br />

on www.tsa.org.au at least one month before the meeting.<br />

The proposed changes are:<br />

• Minor wording changes to align more closely with the<br />

Australian Charities and Not-for-Profits Commission (ACNC)<br />

guidelines in declaring our purpose (“ACNC Charitable<br />

Purpose”)<br />

• Removing the requirement for the position of Vice President<br />

to be a member of TSA for at least three years<br />

• Adding flexibility so that either the sitting President or Vice<br />

President can have a lived experience of TSC<br />

• Changing the term of committee members from 12 months<br />

to three years.<br />

Why are these changes important?<br />

These proposed changes are designed to best manage an<br />

appropriate balance of committee members with a lived<br />

experience of TSC and those without a lived experience of TSC.<br />

Those with a lived experience of TSC provide a crucial<br />

insight and direction to TSA on how best to serve you, our<br />

members. They have a clear understanding of the experience<br />

of living with TSC. As TSC is a rare disease, it also means there<br />

is a small pool of people from the TSC community who could<br />

and may want to be involved with the governance of TSA.<br />

In contrast, there is a larger pool of people, without a<br />

lived experience of TSC, who can bring different skills to the<br />

governance of TSA. These people can help grow TSA with key<br />

industry and technical skills while learning from and working<br />

with those on the committee with a lived experience of TSC.<br />

The changes to terms of committee members is largely to<br />

move in line with governance best practice and also minimise<br />

unnecessary administration and reporting on a yearly basis.<br />

What does this mean for you, our members?<br />

The TSA committee is committed to getting people with skills<br />

that match the needs of TSA. These proposed changes will<br />

allow us the flexibility to get the right mix of people – those<br />

with a lived experience of TSC and those with experience<br />

governing and growing the organisation. This means we will<br />

continue to grow TSA as a well governed organisation so that<br />

we can provide more services for the TSC community.<br />

Please contact us if you have any questions on these<br />

proposed changes.<br />

Notice of Annual<br />

General Meeting<br />

The Annual General Meeting (AGM) of Tuberous Sclerosis<br />

Australia Incorporated (TSA) will be held in Sydney<br />

on Saturday 22 September at 2.00pm as a part of our<br />

Understanding TAND education event. Our guest speakers will<br />

include Professor Petrus de Vries. We encourage all members<br />

of TSA and interested parties to attend. Visit our www.tsa.org.<br />

au for more information closer to the event.<br />

We’re bringing<br />

South African TSC expert<br />

Professor Petrus de Vries<br />

to Adelaide, Melbourne<br />

and Sydney in August and<br />

September.<br />

Check the back cover of<br />

<strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> for more.<br />

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TSA News<br />

Meet Kate<br />

Interview with TSA’s Fundraising Lead, Kate Garrard<br />

Q. Why do you like being a fundraiser?<br />

I love my job – it’s that buzz you get when someone believes in<br />

what you are doing and says they will give you a donation. It<br />

feels really good knowing I am helping people.<br />

Q. What are you passionate about?<br />

My family – I have two children and a gorgeous dog who make<br />

me very happy. I live in Sydney’s Royal National Park and love<br />

spending time with my family in the bush and at the beach. I am<br />

passionate about enjoying a good work life and trying to do good<br />

where I can. I am also passionate about good coffee and wine!<br />

Q. How are you enjoying being part of the TSA team?<br />

I’m really enjoying it. Six months has flown by! The TSA team has<br />

been so welcoming and helpful. I’ve learnt so much about TSC and<br />

met some really wonderful people.<br />

Q. What have you discovered after six months in the<br />

TSC community?<br />

I’ve discovered the TSC community is incredibly supportive and<br />

generous, despite many people facing difficult circumstances.<br />

Fundraising is a tough gig, but my approaches and asks have<br />

been received really well which is motivating and inspiring. I am<br />

learning the biggest opportunities for support will come from<br />

inside our TSC community, from the very people whose lives<br />

have been impacted by the disease and by TSA’s help.<br />

Q. What’s one of the challenges you are facing as a<br />

fundraiser for TSA?<br />

TSA doesn’t receive donations from large companies because<br />

the disease is so rare and unknown–and we have pretty steep<br />

competition with big charities and more common diseases.<br />

Right now we lack connections to businesses and I’d love to<br />

have our TSC community open some doors for us to companies<br />

they work with, or know someone at, who I could make an<br />

approach to. Getting some major donors and corporate support<br />

would really help secure our future financially and ensure<br />

we have the funds to invest in all the projects we dream of to<br />

improve the lives of individuals affected by TSC.<br />

Q. What would you like the TSC community to know?<br />

Fundraising is all about connections and relationships – we<br />

need you to be the reason people and organisations support<br />

us. And also that I am here to support your fundraising and to<br />

follow up the leads you give us.<br />

Please understand there is a sense of urgency around our need<br />

for funding. Quite frankly we don’t have enough funds to continue<br />

to provide our services and invest in the research we know will<br />

improve health outcomes for our community beyond the next two<br />

to three years. Therefore, we need to rally our community to come<br />

together to ensure we will be here for the long term.<br />

There are so many different ways you can help. We’d love more<br />

people to: join our TSC Hero teams and seek donations from their<br />

family and friends, get their workplaces to donate, open doors<br />

with businesses so we can make approaches for corporate gifts, get<br />

schools to host collections for TSA, or host community fundraisers<br />

like trivia nights. The possibilities are endless. If you’re unsure,<br />

please pick up the phone and give me a call.<br />

This year we’ve<br />

decided not to organise<br />

picnic days in each state.<br />

If you’d like to host an<br />

event with your local TSC<br />

community in May or any<br />

other time, contact us<br />

and we can help you<br />

promote it.<br />

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#Tatts4TSC<br />

Do something fun and get a tattoo to raise awareness and<br />

funds for tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC).<br />

Don’t worry, they’re just temporary!<br />

You can join this year’s TSC Global Awareness Day celebrations by joining our<br />

#Tatts4TSC campaign.<br />

Getting involved is easy:<br />

Talk to your workplace about holding a gold coin morning tea on 15 May.<br />

You could also host an event at home, playgroup or school.<br />

1. Register your event at www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC or contact Kate on 0434 391 430.<br />

2. Send an email to your colleagues or friends letting them know what’s happening<br />

3. On May 15, decorate the event space with posters we will supply, take your collection tin and temporary tattoos and<br />

talk to your colleagues and friends about TSC and why we need their help.<br />

4. Donate the funds raised to TSA<br />

5. Everyone who registers an event gets 20 x free temporary tattoos to share with their supporters to raise awareness of<br />

TSC. Get in quick to secure yours.<br />

If the Cancer Council can raise millions each year through The Biggest Morning Tea – surely we can raise awareness of TSC<br />

and a few dollars too with some gold coin collections around Australia.<br />

Go social<br />

We’d love to see your events and your tatts on<br />

Instagram and Facebook. Use the #Tatts4TSC hashtag<br />

and tag us @AuTSC<br />

If organising an event is not your thing?<br />

You can still join us by purchasing a temporary tattoo.<br />

Visit www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC and select the buy it<br />

now option. Individuals tattoos are $10 including postage.<br />

Or buy 3 for $20.<br />

Why the wave?<br />

You’ll notice our temporary tattoo design<br />

features a wave. People living with TSC liken<br />

their journey to riding waves. There are highs<br />

and lows and unpredictable tides that threaten<br />

to tow you under. We believe that even though<br />

we often can’t control the TSC waves, we can<br />

learn to surf.<br />

Everyone who supports #Tatts4TSC can wear<br />

their temporary tattoo with pride, knowing<br />

they’ve helped someone with TSC learn to ride<br />

the waves.<br />

Thank you to the team at Geolyse who have already signed up to<br />

have a gold coin morning tea on May 15. We’re really grateful to<br />

all the team at Geolyse for raising awareness and funds for TSA.<br />

#Tatts4TSC is an initiative inspired by TSC Global Awareness Day. One million people<br />

worldwide have tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). There is no cure, but research is helping<br />

find new and better treatments. We won’t give up the fight until we have a cure. This year<br />

join the worldwide fight on Global Awareness Day, Tuesday 15 May.<br />

Your support will help us increase awareness of this rare genetic disease and raise vital funds to improve the<br />

lives of families facing the challenges of TSC.<br />

Visit our website to register now: www.tsa.org.au/Tatts4TSC or contact Kate on 0434 391 430.


Personal Stories<br />

Celebrations<br />

Back to school<br />

“Pictured here are Holly, Koby and Chloe heading back to school<br />

this year. Koby has TSC. Both girls have learnt to sign and love<br />

to help Koby learn new words and encourage him to try new<br />

things. Sometimes he will only go to the toilet or brush his teeth<br />

if his sisters help! Holly, the youngest, wants to be an occupational<br />

therapist when she grows up so she can help kids like Koby.”<br />

Fiona, QLD<br />

“Oliver started Year 1 at school this year. I was definitely<br />

celebrating and Oliver was happy to get back to routine.”<br />

Michelle, NSW<br />

Kye and Olivia started Year 3 and Year 5, respectively, this year.<br />

Both have TSC, autism and epilepsy and are in a support class.<br />

They have up to 30 seizures per day but they don’t let this stop<br />

them from being happy, beautiful and brave kids.<br />

Karen, NSW<br />

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Personal Stories<br />

“This is a photo of Josh (right) on his first day back at<br />

school this year with his brother, Nicholas, and their<br />

grandfather, Russell. Josh has tuberous sclerosis complex.<br />

He has recently started trampolining in a mainstream<br />

class. This is in addition to dancing, cricket, swimming<br />

and horse riding each week. We are busy!”<br />

Nicole, WA<br />

“Zarah started Year 1 this year and her younger sister,<br />

Juana, started Kindergarten. It is so exciting to see them<br />

go off to school together” Manoela, NSW<br />

Isabella started in Year 3 this year and we are so proud of how<br />

far she has come. Today she told me, “Mum, I’m just going to<br />

do some writing first and then I’ll come outside.” Later I had<br />

a sneak peak and she had written the numbers 1-10. This is a<br />

huge achievement for our TSC hero.<br />

Abby, VIC<br />

Want to share your achievements with the TSC community? Email reachout@tsa.org.au with your celebrations.<br />

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Personal Stories<br />

Sibling stories<br />

In each issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong> we ask the tuberous sclerosis complex<br />

(TSC) community to share their experiences with an aspect of life<br />

with TSC. In this issue we’ve asked people who have a brother or<br />

sister with TSC to share their stories.<br />

Clare’s story<br />

am really proud to present this series of sibling stories for<br />

I this issue of <strong>Reach</strong> <strong>Out</strong>. It has been an honour to interview<br />

each sibling and listen to their stories, their strength and their<br />

kindness. Each day I am motivated and informed in my work for<br />

TSA because of my own experience as Lizzie’s big sister. When I<br />

say it defined me, it still feels like an understatement!<br />

Lizzie was born when I was two years old. She was severely<br />

affected by TSC and polycystic kidney disease (PKD). She had a<br />

profound intellectual disability, never developed speech and went<br />

into kidney failure in her 20s. There was no family history and I<br />

travelled the journey of TSC and PKD along with Lizzie because of<br />

an unlucky draw from the genetic lottery. I think understanding<br />

the huge role luck or fortune plays in all our lives is the biggest<br />

difference I have always seen between myself and my peers.<br />

Whenever I read an article on siblings of people with<br />

disabilities I find I check most of the boxes. I was fairly mature<br />

and willingly contributed to the care Lizzie required. But I was<br />

also jealous of the huge amounts of free time some of my friends<br />

seemed to have. I loved Lizzie intensely with a simplicity I didn’t<br />

experience again until I had my own children. I was so proud of<br />

everything she accomplished. I knew my parents were busy and<br />

subconsciously didn’t turn to them for help in the same way my<br />

friends may have done to their parents. I defined myself as ‘the<br />

smart one’ and worked hard at school partly to get the recognition<br />

that came with that academic achievement. Being Lizzie’s sister<br />

made me strong and resilient, but also meant I had to learn slowly<br />

that sometimes it is ok to ask for help.<br />

I knew my parents were busy and<br />

subconsciously didn’t turn to them for<br />

help in the same way my friends may<br />

have done to their parents.<br />

Caring for her while she was sick and dying when we were both<br />

in our twenties brought its own set of challenges. It was like being<br />

attached to a piece of elastic. Sometimes I’d try to live my own<br />

life and not be too involved in what was happening at home. My<br />

parents made it clear there was no obligation or expectation on me<br />

Clare & Lizzie<br />

or my brothers. After a while, I would feel a pull to become more<br />

involved, being overwhelmed by the reality of her declining health<br />

and also the impact it was having on my parents and my youngest<br />

brothers. During this time I travelled and lived overseas but also felt<br />

uncomfortable that my sister didn’t have the freedom I had.<br />

Lizzie’s death came at a huge time of transition for me. She<br />

died a few months after my wedding and I gave birth to my first<br />

child just after her first anniversary. It is an ongoing sadness for<br />

me that my two children will never meet their aunty Lizzie and<br />

experience her wicked sense of humour, unconventional dancing<br />

and unconditional love. But I tell them about TSC, the work I do<br />

and why I do it. When I explain to new families with TSC that<br />

their child has the opportunities of earlier interventions and new<br />

treatments that no previous generation of children with TSC has<br />

had, I am genuinely proud to be able to say that, but I am also sad<br />

for what Lizzie missed out on.<br />

I hope you enjoy these sibling stories. Thank you to each of the<br />

siblings who volunteered to share them with us.<br />

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Personal Stories<br />

Cooper’s story<br />

am ten years old and since my brother was born, it’s been<br />

I a twisted life. Lachlan is now six years old and has tuberous<br />

sclerosis complex (TSC). He’s had brain surgery and also<br />

has autism.<br />

It’s not often that you get a good kind of Lachie, but I think<br />

you’ve got to love what you’ve got. We get to play games together,<br />

we love adventures and we love tickling each other.<br />

One of the hardest parts of being Lachie’s big brother is being<br />

woken up early in the morning to be played with. You don’t get<br />

much shut eye with Lachie in the house.<br />

I know that TSC means that Lachie sometimes doesn’t behave<br />

himself. Sometimes he’ll give kisses and hugs; other times he’ll<br />

smack or scratch. It’s his choice, but his brain makes different<br />

choices than our brains.<br />

I talk about Lachie and about how he’s had brain surgery and<br />

how tough it is with him sometimes. I explain that he’s the reason<br />

I don’t always get to school on time and don’t get to play with my<br />

friends a lot. Now that my friends understand, they do play with<br />

Lachie sometimes. I tell them to be careful when touching Lachie.<br />

When I play soccer Lachie sometimes interrupts the game. He<br />

screams out loud and claps. He joins in with our family activities.<br />

My teacher’s brother also has autism but he’s different to<br />

Lachie. I’ve learnt some new things about autism from chatting<br />

with my teacher, like how people with autism can learn things,<br />

but they may need to be shown something a lot of times for them<br />

to learn it.<br />

Having a difficult life means I get to learn how to cope. I get to<br />

teach Lachie things and he teaches me stuff back.<br />

Cooper & Lachlan<br />

One of the hardest parts of being Lachie’s big<br />

brother is being woken up early in the morning to be<br />

played with. You don’t get much shut eye with Lachie<br />

in the house.<br />

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Personal Stories<br />

Belinda’s story<br />

am in my 40s and live in Sydney. I am a wife, a mum to two<br />

I kids, and I work in the financial services industry. I have<br />

three siblings and two of my sisters, Christine and Maryanne,<br />

were born with tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC).<br />

Christine is five years older than me and lives in a group<br />

home with others with intellectual disabilities in Sydney. TSC<br />

has also affected her kidneys and she’s been on dialysis for<br />

the last two years. Growing up, I remember Christine was not<br />

able to do the things that Maryanne and I could and there’s a<br />

lot of sadness that comes with that. She did join in with family<br />

events and holidays but, there was always a lot we had to do, for<br />

Christine to be able to join us.<br />

I remember when we were children that there wasn’t as much of<br />

a difference. We’d play and listen to music together and do things, as<br />

you would with any sister. As we got older there was a realisation that<br />

she was different. Three of us went off to our school, but Christine<br />

went to a different school. We were all very protective of Christine.<br />

Kids could be very cruel and we stuck up for her.<br />

There’s a lot more information<br />

and awareness about TSC now and I find<br />

it much easier to support my sister and<br />

understand this disease.<br />

Christine moved out of our family home when she turned 18. I<br />

would visit her and take her out, making sure she had social events.<br />

As we both grew up and had our own families, Maryanne and I<br />

shared having her stay with us for weekends and coordinating her<br />

health care.<br />

Maryanne, my younger sister, also had TSC but this did not<br />

affect her mentally and we had a relationship similar to many<br />

sisters, including going to concerts and parties. After she was<br />

diagnosed with TSC, I did provide emotional and practical<br />

support for Maryanne. She struggled with the marks on her<br />

face, especially as a teenager. I also helped by taking her to<br />

medical appointments. Maryanne got married and had a son and<br />

everything was pretty normal.<br />

Three years ago Maryanne started having severe headaches.<br />

It took some time before we found out this was due to a large<br />

subependymal giant cell astrocytoma (SEGA) growing in the<br />

middle of her brain. In February 2015 Maryanne died from<br />

complications relating to this tumour. It has been a very difficult<br />

few years adjusting to life without her as well as supporting her<br />

husband and son.<br />

These days I play a significant role in Christine’s care, with<br />

most of this falling to me now that Maryanne has passed away.<br />

This includes coordinating her NDIS plan, her group home and<br />

Christine, Maryanne and Belinda<br />

her health care. For example, Christine’s in hospital right now and<br />

I have been visiting regularly and making sure she has some carers<br />

to spend time with her – juggling that along with my own work<br />

and family life.<br />

Things have changed a lot for TSC in recent years. When I<br />

was younger there wasn’t as much information available on TSC.<br />

I didn’t really know how to deal with different aspects of my<br />

sisters’ condition. Even when we went to medical appointments<br />

few doctors knew about TSC. There’s a lot more information and<br />

awareness about TSC now and I find it much easier to support my<br />

sister and understand this disease.<br />

When I think about how TSC has affected my life, I think<br />

I have more empathy than other people. I have more of an<br />

understanding and awareness of, not just TSC, but other<br />

conditions and issues as well.<br />

If I was giving advice to other siblings of people with TSC,<br />

I’d tell them to embrace it. We still had heaps of fun and life was<br />

mostly normal. Get as much information as you can about TSC – it<br />

is complicated! I learnt through our experience with Maryanne<br />

that keeping on top of TSC is crucial. Don’t become complacent<br />

with regular checks and tests.<br />

Tuberous Sclerosis Australia has a great website, and the<br />

Facebook group is really useful for connecting with others and<br />

asking questions (even if it’s very parent focussed sometimes).<br />

Becoming a part of the community reminds you that you’re<br />

not alone.<br />

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Georgina’s story<br />

am 23 and my younger brother Jacob is 21 and lives with<br />

I tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). I am studying at university,<br />

in my final year of music therapy, combining my love of<br />

music and psychology. Jacob works at Bedford Industries, an<br />

Australian disability enterprise, in their packaging team. We<br />

grew up in Ballarat and now live in Adelaide.<br />

Jacob is the life of our family. We’re generally a shyer group of<br />

people, but Jacob can make conversation with anyone. He brings<br />

so much joy and an almost child-like innocence that has stuck<br />

with him even as he’s grown up. Everyone thinks the world of<br />

Jacob and he makes friends really easily. Even though TSC has<br />

caused Jacob many challenges, we feel very blessed to have him.<br />

From knowing Jacob and his<br />

friends, I have a different perspective<br />

and am more natural with people who<br />

are different<br />

The major impact of TSC on Jacob’s life is his intellectual<br />

disability. He has some more advanced social skills, but isn’t able<br />

to read or write or do basic mathematics. Of course, he also has<br />

the physical signs of TSC and sees lots of doctors to monitor how<br />

the tumours throughout his body are growing. He had brain<br />

surgery about ten years ago, but everything else has been under<br />

control, which is great. Jacob takes it all in his stride.<br />

Although I have nothing else to compare it to, I think<br />

being Jacob’s sister has made me more understanding. From<br />

knowing Jacob and his friends, I have a different perspective<br />

and am more natural with people who are different. Jacob’s<br />

attitude is totally without judgement. I don’t know that he even<br />

comprehends disability at all. When I see this, it reminds me to<br />

be more like that.<br />

Growing up, I don’t think I really knew that our family was<br />

different until later in primary school. We’d be out in public and<br />

Jacob<br />

would<br />

just start<br />

singing. He’s<br />

Georgina & Jacob<br />

always been a free<br />

spirit. People would<br />

walk past and think it was bizarre,<br />

but we’d just think, “That’s Jacob and he’s having a great time.”<br />

I can remember being with a large group of friends from our<br />

church and Jacob decided he was going to get up and perform a<br />

song, possibly not the most appropriate song choice of, ‘Don’t cha<br />

wish your girlfriend was hot like me’. Everyone knew Jacob well<br />

and, although it caught everyone off guard, we generally just let<br />

Jacob be Jacob and all enjoyed his singing and dancing.<br />

Of course, life wasn’t always singing and dancing. One of the<br />

hardest things is when my patience is challenged. Jacob can be<br />

very fixated on things, such as his current obsession with flags. It’s<br />

just so intense and relentless and it’s been an obsession for the last<br />

ten years. It’s harmless enough, but it does get tiring.<br />

I can’t ever remember feeling like my parents gave Jacob<br />

too much attention or that they didn’t help me enough. If Jacob<br />

needed someone with him, it was often Mum with him and Dad<br />

would spend more time with me. My grandparents also played a<br />

big role and if Jacob needed both Mum and Dad then I would have<br />

a great time with Grandmother and Grandad. They’d also check<br />

in with me regularly and make sure I was ok. Even if there was a<br />

physical distance, calling and having a chat showed me they were<br />

thinking of me and they loved me.<br />

I know everyone is affected differently, but if I had to offer<br />

advice to someone else with a brother or sister with TSC, I’d tell<br />

them to be open to what their sibling can teach them. For me,<br />

Jacob reminds me to enjoy the small things, to not be too quick<br />

to judge, and to be more loving. Even though it does come with<br />

many challenges, there are definitely gems that you can grab out<br />

of your situation.<br />

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Danny’s story<br />

My name is Danny and I am 13 years old.<br />

I live in New Zealand and enjoy hockey,<br />

swimming and playing computer games. My younger<br />

sister Rylee has tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC). We<br />

found out when she was two days old and I was three years<br />

old. I didn’t really understand at the time but I knew that Mum<br />

and Dad were very worried.<br />

TSC means that Rylee’s brain works differently. She takes<br />

longer to learn new things and gets really grumpy when she’s not<br />

happy. When she was younger she would sometimes get so angry<br />

that she would hurt me, but it’s been better recently. She also used<br />

to wake me up in the middle of the night when she had trouble<br />

sleeping. She just couldn’t understand why I did not want to get<br />

up and play at 3 o’clock in the morning and shake me until I got<br />

upset and my Mum came. These days she knows that she has to<br />

stay in bed and play by herself until it’s time to get up.<br />

Having a sister with TSC has meant I have learnt to do many<br />

things differently. I had to learn how to play differently with<br />

Rylee. For example, when we play hide and seek I can’t go and find<br />

If I had to give advice to other kids<br />

who have a brother or sister with TSC it<br />

would be to accept them the way they<br />

are. You can learn heaps from those who<br />

are different.<br />

her straight away. I have to pretend to take longer even when I<br />

know where she is hiding. I don’t mind doing this as it makes her<br />

enjoy the game more and it is cool to see her happy and laughing<br />

while I pretend to look for her. We do enjoy being together and<br />

I’ve even taught her how to play Minecraft, a computer game<br />

where you mine for materials and then build things. We have<br />

our own Minecraft virtual world where we play together and she<br />

builds some really crazy things! This is one game that she can play<br />

by herself and I don’t have to worry about her not knowing what<br />

to do. I find it a really special thing to share.<br />

Because we go to a small school, Rylee and I are in the same<br />

class. This is ok, because a lot of the time she’s doing her own work<br />

separately from the rest of us. But if Rylee gets hurt then people do<br />

ask me for help. Sometimes this worries me as I won’t be at school<br />

next year and I won’t be there to help her. I explain to the kids at<br />

Danny<br />

school that Rylee learns differently and that she has a bad temper.<br />

Some kids understand it, but others, especially the younger kids,<br />

don’t. I have two best friends who really do understand Rylee and<br />

enjoy playing with her. We even share our Minecraft world with<br />

her and give Rylee her own space to build in. It is important that<br />

my friends accept Rylee for who she is. I don’t think we would be<br />

friends if they were mean to her like other kids are sometimes.<br />

At school last year, I gave a speech about what it was like<br />

growing up with Rylee and her TSC. I told the story of how she<br />

made up her own words to New Zealand’s national anthem.<br />

Instead of singing ‘God of nations at thy feet’ she would sing<br />

‘Mother nature, 1, 2, 3’! That got a few laughs from the audience.<br />

It also felt good to share with people how tough it can be for my<br />

sister and that they should walk a mile in her shoes. I am very<br />

lucky I don’t have TSC.<br />

Sometimes I do feel left out because of Rylee’s TSC. When<br />

Mum and Dad took her to Brisbane for a hospital stay I went to<br />

stay with my grandmother. I didn’t like feeling left out of their<br />

trip. But generally Mum and Dad do a good job of treating us<br />

both the same. There is one exception – because Rylee doesn’t<br />

understand money yet she doesn’t have to save up to buy things<br />

like I do. When I buy something with my money Rylee often gets<br />

something bought for her. This annoys me a bit.<br />

I think being Rylee’s brother has made me more<br />

understanding of how people can be different. There are two<br />

other kids at our school with learning disabilities and lots of kids<br />

leave them out or get angry with them. I know they are different<br />

and I am much more patient with them. If I had to give advice<br />

to other kids who have a brother or sister with TSC it would be<br />

to accept them the way they are. You can learn heaps from those<br />

who are different.<br />

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Elise’s story<br />

am 15 and in Year 10 at school in Brisbane. I have two<br />

I younger sisters, Dayna and Evie. Dayna has tuberous<br />

sclerosis complex (TSC). In my spare time I enjoy dancing<br />

and reading.<br />

TSC has a big impact on Dayna’s life. She needs to be helped<br />

with everyday tasks such as showering, dressing and eating.<br />

She attends a special school that is 45 minutes’ drive from our<br />

house. Dayna was very slow to walk and crawled for a long time.<br />

Even now she can’t walk for long periods and is still in a stroller.<br />

She has around 40 seizures each day, most of them minor. Her<br />

epilepsy medication means she has problems controlling her<br />

temperature, so we always need to have air conditioning. If she<br />

gets too hot Dayna can get really angry and also start having<br />

seizures. That’s stressful for everyone.<br />

One of the biggest impacts on my life is that I don’t like being<br />

away from home for very long. When I was younger and went on<br />

a sleepover I would start panicking and worry that Dayna may<br />

need to go to hospital and I wouldn’t be there to help. These days<br />

I can be away from home, but I manage by staying in frequent<br />

contact and reminding myself that, even if something happened,<br />

there wouldn’t be too much I could do. My friends are very<br />

understanding. Most of them have met Dayna and love her –<br />

everyone usually does!<br />

Dayna is really happy 95% of the time. She’s fairly easy<br />

going. I am one of her favourite people and she’s always hugging<br />

me. We like watching TV and going to the park together. She’s<br />

my best friend.<br />

Dayna has a group of friends that she’s made at school over the<br />

years. I have met some of their families and I enjoy talking to the<br />

other brothers and sisters in that group who understand what it is<br />

like to have a sibling with a disability.<br />

For our family, it can be hard for all of us to go somewhere<br />

together. If Dayna is upset, then all or some of us may have to leave<br />

wherever we are to look after her. This is a contrast to my friends,<br />

who talk about going out somewhere together as a whole family.<br />

I think being Dayna’s sister means I have more initiative. I help<br />

Dayna with medication and showering each day. That might sound<br />

like a lot of work, but I enjoy doing this and Dayna is easy to hang<br />

out with.<br />

Dayna & Godric<br />

A few years ago we decided to get a dog for our family because<br />

we thought Dayna would be really good with a dog. My Dad took<br />

all three of us to the rescue shelter. While we were there Dayna had<br />

a meltdown. Everyone else in the shelter was staring and glaring<br />

at us, not understanding what was going on. I took Dayna’s hand,<br />

picked her up and took her over to the cage to give her something<br />

to hold on to. The one dog that was not barking at Dayna came<br />

straight up to her and licked her hand. Dayna calmed down<br />

completely. That dog is now called Godric and he’s a much loved<br />

member of our family.<br />

If I was talking to other people who have a brother or sister<br />

with TSC, I’d tell them to focus on trying to understand their<br />

brother or sister. Everyone with TSC is different and they all have<br />

their own likes and dislikes. Taking notice of these things and<br />

figuring out what can upset them can be really useful.<br />

I think it’s important for parents to look out for siblings<br />

who don’t have TSC. It takes a lot of time and effort to look after<br />

someone with a disability and I know kids can feel left out when<br />

they don’t get that attention. My parents encouraged my sister Evie<br />

and me to do activities outside school that they can go with us to.<br />

Evie does gymnastics and I dance.<br />

When I think about the future I hope I will never be far away<br />

from Dayna. I know that she’s going to be ok.<br />

I think it’s important for parents to look out for siblings<br />

who don’t have TSC. It takes a lot of time and effort to look<br />

after someone with a disability and I know kids can feel left out<br />

when they don’t get that attention.<br />

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Information<br />

Siblings: the Longest<br />

Relationship<br />

From an interview with Kate Strohm, Director, Siblings Australia<br />

Why are brothers and sisters of children with a disease<br />

like tuberous sclerosis complex important?<br />

Siblings are important for two main reasons. First, as children,<br />

they may be experiencing a lot of stress at an age when they don’t<br />

have the skills to manage this stress. This can lead to them feeling<br />

isolated and not able to understand what is happening within<br />

their family. Research also tells us that, without support, siblings<br />

have higher rates of depression and anxiety.<br />

Second, siblings are likely to have the longest relationship<br />

of any with the person with TSC. Nurturing and strengthening<br />

the relationship between siblings can have many benefits. These<br />

benefits can be for the siblings themselves, for the social and<br />

emotional wellbeing of the person with TSC, for parents and for<br />

the wider community.<br />

What do we know about sibling experiences?<br />

Just like TSC affects each person differently, there is no ‘one’<br />

sibling experience. Some siblings experience a mutually satisfying<br />

relationship with the person with TSC, provide lifelong social and<br />

emotional support, and help to create a good life for the person<br />

with TSC. However, some siblings have a really difficult time<br />

and eventually move far away from their brother or sister with a<br />

disability as that relationship has broken down. The experience of<br />

siblings also changes over time. The experience of a four year old<br />

will be quite different to that of a 14, 34 or 54 year old sibling. There<br />

are also many different life changes that can impact the siblings.<br />

Some of the common emotions that siblings experience are:<br />

• Confusion about what is happening within the family<br />

• Isolation because they don’t know anyone else who is going<br />

through similar experiences and they don’t have anyone they<br />

can talk to about their challenges<br />

• Guilt about some of the feelings they have or about doing<br />

things that their brother or sister cannot<br />

• Grief for their brother or sister or for their parents and the<br />

challenges they face<br />

• Grief for themselves and the ‘normal’ brother or sister<br />

relationship that they do not have<br />

• Embarrassment, particularly at other people’s reactions to<br />

their brother or sister’s difficult behaviours<br />

• Feeling that they are missing out because of the extra<br />

attention or time given to their brother or sister<br />

• Feeling overly-responsible for their brother or sister or for<br />

their parents<br />

• Worry about the future, particularly as they get older.<br />

Not every sibling experiences all of these emotions and many<br />

siblings will experience other emotions too. Siblings Australia<br />

has done a lot of research on siblings and these are the common<br />

things that come up fairly regularly in our work.<br />

What are some of the strengths that siblings can have<br />

because of their experiences?<br />

Many siblings can show increased compassion, understanding<br />

of differences, increased maturity, and many are very skilled and<br />

capable at a very young age. But sometimes it is too simple to<br />

say that these are just strengths. It can be difficult to hear people<br />

talk of an eight year old sibling and describe her as very mature.<br />

Sometimes I think siblings are forced to grow up too fast.<br />

I am not surprised that your interviews have been very<br />

positive. Of course, as mentioned, some siblings do enjoy a<br />

wonderful relationship. However, many siblings will feel that<br />

they can’t say anything negative in an interview and that to<br />

do so would be disloyal to their family. Often we reward the<br />

good behaviour, saying, “Oh, you’re such a good sister,” and<br />

this can make it very difficult for the sibling to talk about their<br />

challenges, believing that people would think they are selfish if<br />

they did. Many adult siblings report that their major challenge<br />

is that they grew up squashing down those feelings that weren’t<br />

all positive.<br />

Siblings need to know that it is ok to have a mix of feelings.<br />

All brothers and sisters might love and hate each other at<br />

different times. When parents and others reinforce only the<br />

positives it can make children think they are bad children if they<br />

don’t feel positively about their brother or sister 100% of the<br />

time. We forget that siblings are often young children and may<br />

not have the skills to manage difficult emotions.<br />

I do know that many siblings have positive experiences and<br />

I am not diminishing those, but I think we have to acknowledge<br />

that many siblings can also have not quite so cheery feelings.<br />

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What can parents and other family members do to<br />

support siblings?<br />

The most important thing parents can do is to encourage and<br />

help siblings express their mix of complicated thoughts and<br />

feelings. One way to frame this is that any feeling is ok. Of<br />

course, not all behaviour is ok, and parents can help siblings<br />

learn ways to manage any difficult feelings.<br />

For example, the siblings may feel anger or resentment that<br />

the family picnic was cancelled. That’s ok, they’re a child and<br />

they were looking forward to the picnic. But there needs to be<br />

limits on the acceptable behaviour in response to that (e.g. they<br />

might be allowed to punch their pillow but not allowed to punch<br />

walls) depending on the rules within that family.<br />

It can be particularly difficult for parents when siblings<br />

voice concerns over not receiving as much attention or time as<br />

their brother or sister. It is especially important to accept these<br />

feelings and not become defensive. Aggressive and difficult<br />

behaviour by the child with the disability is another challenge.<br />

Siblings can be physically and emotionally hurt by aggressive<br />

behaviour and parents can support the siblings to be able to<br />

express their hurt while also understanding the limitations of<br />

their brother’s or sister’s disability.<br />

Information is also important. For children, the<br />

information needs to be at an appropriate level for the age of the<br />

child. Parents can find books at an appropriate level or seek the<br />

help of health professionals to explain the condition and answer<br />

questions. This knowledge will need to be expanded over time<br />

with the sibling.<br />

Learning to balance the amount of responsibility siblings<br />

have can help siblings to develop their own identity. The<br />

siblings may contribute in many ways and parents can<br />

acknowledge and appreciate this contribution, but having<br />

limits and saying things like, “That’s my job. You can go and<br />

play now,” can be really helpful.<br />

Thinking about the future for the person with a disability<br />

is also important. It is helpful to start exploring what future<br />

options might be available, earlier rather than later.<br />

In the same way that parents find it helpful to have contact<br />

with other parents who understand, many siblings find it<br />

helpful to make contact with other siblings. Siblings who can get<br />

together with other siblings really value the opportunity to share<br />

experiences and knowledge and, in the process, feel less alone.<br />

How does the sibling experience and the roles they<br />

play change over time as parents and the whole family<br />

gets older?<br />

Again there is a huge mix of adult sibling experiences.<br />

Sometimes it is very sad when the sibling has had a very<br />

stressful childhood and moves away and doesn’t have a strong<br />

relationship with their brother or sister.<br />

The key is to look at it from the perspective of developing<br />

a good life for the sibling and for their brother or sister with a<br />

disability. Some siblings take on a role similar to other brothers<br />

and sisters and spend social time together and support each<br />

other in a variety of ways. If the person with a disability is still<br />

living at home, the siblings may take on a caring role from<br />

time to time or support their parents continuing to play this<br />

role. Siblings can also have a role in advocacy, such as being<br />

one part of a circle of support for their brother or sister. It can<br />

make a difference whether there is only one sibling or if there<br />

are several. Sometimes siblings give up their own lives to care<br />

for a brother or sister but, in the longer term, this is often<br />

problematic for both. I do think it is important that siblings are<br />

not considered automatic carers, but are still seen as playing<br />

significant roles in the life of their brother or sister, contributing<br />

to their sibling’s social and emotional wellbeing.<br />

What role do you think gender plays in sibling issues?<br />

I hesitate to stereotype but, as children, boys tend to externalise<br />

their emotions more and girls tend to internalise more. This<br />

won’t apply to everyone, but boys may tend to act out while girls<br />

may be at higher risk of anxiety and depression. Girls may be<br />

more likely to take on the caring role for their brother or sister<br />

but also more likely to reach out for support. For example,<br />

Siblings Australia runs a Facebook group for adult siblings and<br />

there are many more female members than males.<br />

There is a lack of research in this area but much of this<br />

mirrors what we know of some of the general differences<br />

between the genders.<br />

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Personal Stories<br />

Another issue that comes up is about understanding<br />

the genetics of TSC. Siblings can often have questions<br />

and need help when they think about or start to<br />

move into a stage of their own lives that may include<br />

having children. What are your perspectives on this<br />

complexity?<br />

I remember supporting a young sibling who had a brother<br />

with Down syndrome. Her school teacher had shared some<br />

information about the genetics of Down syndrome and this<br />

didn’t match what the girl had understood from her experience<br />

with her brother. The sibling and I (at the request of the parent)<br />

went along to see a genetic counsellor who was able to explain<br />

the genetics of Down syndrome, as it applied to her family. The<br />

sibling was able to return to school and correct her teacher’s<br />

knowledge.<br />

I do see a role for genetic counsellors in supporting siblings<br />

to get answers to these questions, and in continuing to support<br />

them if there is a genetic risk for the sibling or their children.<br />

What supports are available to siblings in Australia?<br />

Siblings Australia has conducted mapping projects to identify<br />

sibling supports around Australia in 2009 and 2017. In 2009,<br />

we found that there was a clear lack of services and no national<br />

coordination or standards in place. In 2017, we found even fewer<br />

supports for siblings.<br />

Siblings Australia is a registered provider with the NDIS<br />

and available for one-on-one sessions to help parents support<br />

siblings. This process includes parents filling out a questionnaire<br />

and then spending time with me, either face to face or on Skype,<br />

to learn some strategies that can work for them.<br />

Sibworks is our program for primary school aged siblings<br />

that has been evaluated by researchers from the University of<br />

Adelaide. It consists of a facilitator manual and participant<br />

booklet. The information about this and our other resources is<br />

on our website.<br />

Siblings Australia also runs a closed Facebook group for<br />

adult siblings called SibChat, and co-facilitates one for teen<br />

siblings.<br />

A few disability providers and local community groups do<br />

run programs for siblings, but these have decreased in number<br />

with the transition away from block funding to the NDIS.<br />

Some support for siblings is available through young<br />

carer supports. While these can be useful for some, there are<br />

limitations in these programs. Many siblings do not take on a<br />

significant carer role and are still deserving of support. Also<br />

consider the dignity of the person with a disability when a<br />

sibling is considered their carer. I believe that siblings must be<br />

supported to also just be the brother or sister of the person with<br />

the disability, not just be their carer.<br />

Many siblings find support through mental health services.<br />

A mental health plan through a GP can be used to access publicly<br />

funded psychology services. Siblings may need to shop around to<br />

find the right therapist as some therapists don’t understand the<br />

sibling experience.<br />

There are also a few books available for parents, adult<br />

siblings and professionals, including mine which is called,<br />

Siblings: Brothers and Sisters of Children with Disability.<br />

One of the biggest challenges is that siblings aren’t<br />

specifically recognised in policy. Sibling issues are not seen as a<br />

mental health issue, a disability issue or anything else. Until this<br />

changes siblings will continue to be overlooked and services will<br />

continue to be ‘hit and miss’.<br />

Siblings Australia’s mission is ‘Siblings: Acknowledged,<br />

Connected, Resilient’. You can read more about their work,<br />

about issues surrounding siblings and available support services<br />

at www.siblingsaustralia.org.au<br />

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Information<br />

A new resource<br />

to explain TSC to<br />

children<br />

little book about Tuberous Sclerosis Complex has been written for primary school<br />

A children to explain this complex disease. In this book you’ll meet Tubee and learn<br />

about how tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) affects different people in different ways.<br />

We are planning to launch the book later this year and make it available to families living<br />

with TSC around Australia.<br />

Thank you to the fundraising efforts of our TSC Heroes for making this project possible.<br />

Life Expectancy for<br />

People with TSC<br />

oes someone with tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) have a<br />

“Dnormal life expectancy?”<br />

This can be one of the questions that people have when they<br />

hear about TSC for the first time. It remains, however, a difficult<br />

question to answer.<br />

The good news is that achievements in the last 20<br />

years of TSC research and health care mean that people<br />

with TSC have every reason to expect to live a long life.<br />

These include earlier diagnosis of TSC through prenatal<br />

testing, improved seizure control and new medicines<br />

for TSC signs and symptoms. Regular surveillance and<br />

active management of the various signs and symptoms<br />

of TSC are important to minimise the risks of early<br />

death in TSC.<br />

Tuberous Sclerosis Australia has recently added a new<br />

information page to our valuable online collection. We are<br />

the first English speaking TSC organisation to tackle this<br />

topic. Thank you to everyone who helped us with this new<br />

resource, including Hayley Hill, Debbie and Anthony Crosby<br />

and Dr Chirag Patel.<br />

We are regularly updating our information pages to reflect<br />

changing treatments and management approaches for TSC. You can<br />

read all our information pages at www.tsa.org.au/information<br />

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Research<br />

Research News<br />

Many recent journal publications have shared new understanding of how tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC)<br />

works and how best to use available treatment options. We’ve chosen just a few to summarise here.<br />

How to make the diagnosis of TSC before<br />

seizures start<br />

Slowinska, Jozwiak et al published a study that identified the most<br />

useful approach in making the diagnosis of TSC before seizure<br />

onset (Note: seizure onset is usually after four months of age).<br />

This is becoming more important in TSC because of increasing<br />

evidence that early monitoring with EEG can detect seizure onset<br />

and provide an opportunity for early treatment.<br />

The team examined 100 children with TSC from Poland and<br />

Italy who had suspected TSC because heart tumours (cardiac<br />

rhabdomyomas) had been found on prenatal ultrasound. Eightytwo<br />

of these children were diagnosed before four months of age.<br />

The most common clinical signs of TSC that were used to confirm<br />

their TSC were brain lesions (subependymal nodules, also known<br />

as SENs, and cortical dysplasias, also known as cortical tubers)<br />

and hypomelanotic macules (also known as white patches).<br />

Genetic testing was done for many babies with suspected TSC<br />

but, for most, results were not returned early enough to confirm a<br />

diagnosis of TSC before four months of age.<br />

Through their research, the team has proposed a diagnostic<br />

algorithm that specifies referrals and tests for a child with<br />

suspected TSC. This algorithm includes prenatal MRI, brain and<br />

abdominal MRI and skin exams. The researchers also recommend<br />

referral to TSC centres or specialists whenever these are available.<br />

This study is important as it offers a process for maternal and<br />

foetal medicine teams to follow that is informed by evidence. It<br />

confirms that clinical tests (such as MRIs and skin exams) are still<br />

the most useful for diagnosing TSC and are not able to be replaced<br />

by genetic testing.<br />

Słowiska, M., et al., Early diagnosis of tuberous sclerosis<br />

complex: A race against time. How to make the diagnosis before<br />

seizures? Orphanet Journal of Rare Diseases, <strong>2018</strong>. 13(1): p. 25.<br />

Everolimus for younger children with TSC<br />

Kuki et al reported results from using the mTOR inhibitor<br />

Everolimus to treat SEGA brain tumours in five children under<br />

12 months of age in Japan. They found that all children had at<br />

least a 50% reduction in the size of their SEGA. The majority did<br />

experience adverse events from using Everolimus including mouth<br />

ulcers and infections.<br />

The researchers conclude that mTOR inhibitors can be<br />

effective for younger children but adverse events should be<br />

closely monitored.<br />

Kuki, I., et al., Efficacy and safety of Everolimus in patients<br />

younger than 12 months with congenital subependymal giant cell<br />

astrocytoma. Brain Dev, <strong>2018</strong>.<br />

Knowledge of kidney issues in TSC<br />

Cockerell et al studied how much people with TSC and their<br />

parents know about the effects of TSC on the kidneys.<br />

The questionnaire study included 357 families across France<br />

and Norway.<br />

They found that the most common ways people learnt about<br />

TSC were in medical consultations and through their local<br />

TSC organisations. They found that people who knew more<br />

about kidney signs and symptoms were more likely to have the<br />

recommended regular imaging of their kidneys. The researchers<br />

were surprised that over 40% of people were not aware that<br />

kidney angiomyolipomas (AMLs) were at risk of bleeding. The<br />

researchers recommend that people with TSC who are over 15<br />

years of age, are told about the risk of kidney AMLs bleeding. They<br />

also recommend people with TSC are provided with information<br />

about their own risk. For example, for a younger person, their risk<br />

may be low because their AMLs are small.<br />

Thirty percent of people in the study had not had the<br />

recommended imaging of their kidneys every three years. A<br />

smaller number had never had any imaging of their kidneys.<br />

Ultrasound was the most common type of imaging.<br />

The researchers recommend that more is done to increase<br />

the knowledge that people with TSC have of AMLs and bleeding<br />

risk. They also recommend more is done to ensure regular<br />

monitoring of AML growth particularly through adolescence and<br />

early adulthood.<br />

Cockerell, I., et al., Renal manifestations of tuberous sclerosis<br />

complex: Patients’ and parents’ knowledge and routines for renal<br />

follow-up - a questionnaire study. BMC Nephrol, <strong>2018</strong>. 19(1): p. 39.<br />

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Research<br />

TAND study suggests natural clusters of<br />

neuropsychiatric disorders<br />

Leclezio et al have published their pilot study in the journal<br />

Pediatric Neurology and presented further findings at the 2017<br />

International Research Conference on TSC and LAM.<br />

The aim of this research was to find out if there were natural<br />

clusters, or subgroups, of how TSC associated neuropsychiatric<br />

disorders (TAND) affect people with TSC. TAND includes<br />

a wide range of neuropdevelopmental, psychiatric, learning<br />

and behavioural difficulties. People with TSC and their carers<br />

consistently report TAND as being one of the ways that TSC<br />

most severely impacts their lives. However the complexity and<br />

uniqueness of each individual’s TAND profile is one of the<br />

barriers to appropriate screening, diagnosis and treatment.<br />

Using data from over 450 TAND checklists, the team were<br />

able to define seven natural clusters of TAND: scholastic;<br />

neuropsychological; mood/anxiety; autism spectrum disorderlike;<br />

behaviours that challenge; hyperactive/impulsive; and<br />

eating/sleeping. The work suggests that each person with TSC may<br />

belong to one of these clusters.<br />

These clusters may provide a new way to understand how and<br />

why TAND effects each person with TSC differently. It would also<br />

provide a foundation for a broader understanding of the variability<br />

of other signs and symptoms of TSC. Future work may enable us<br />

to find new ways to look for TAND throughout the lifetime of a<br />

person with TSC and to identify treatments that are tailored to a<br />

specific TAND cluster.<br />

The pilot study included data<br />

collected in Australia. Thank<br />

you to the Australians with<br />

TSC who participated in<br />

the study.<br />

Leclezio, L., S.<br />

Gardner-Lubbe, and P.J.<br />

de Vries, Is It Feasible<br />

to Identify Natural<br />

Clusters of TSC-Associated<br />

Neuropsychiatric Disorders<br />

(TAND)? Pediatr Neurol,<br />

<strong>2018</strong>.<br />

Want to learn more?<br />

Come to our Understanding TAND<br />

education events in Adelaide, Brisbane<br />

and Sydney this year with our guest<br />

speaker, Professor Petrus de Vries. Visit<br />

www.tsa.org.au/TAND-<strong>2018</strong><br />

Remembering<br />

Loren<br />

and Tonya<br />

Clare Stuart, TSA General Manager<br />

Two health professionals who made their mark on the global<br />

tuberous sclerosis complex (TSC) community died recently.<br />

We offer our condolences to their family and friends and our<br />

heartfelt appreciation for their contribution to improving the<br />

lives of those affected by TSC.<br />

Loren Leclezio worked alongside Petrus de Vries at the<br />

University of Cape Town, South Africa. Loren has been<br />

instrumental in improving our understanding of TSC associated<br />

neuropsychiatric disorders (TAND) and developing the TAND<br />

checklist. Her work on identifying TAND clusters, which is still in<br />

progress, will take us even closer to a future where these aspects of<br />

TSC are well understood and their impacts are lessened.<br />

Loren also worked tirelessly to improve the health care<br />

available for people with TSC in South Africa and contributed<br />

to TSC International’s work in this area. We will remember her<br />

warmth and energy as well as her compassion.<br />

Tonya Kara was a nephrologist at Starship Children’s<br />

Hospital in Auckland and was much loved by her patients and<br />

their families. Tonya was part of the team who helped us to<br />

establish Tuberous Sclerosis Complex New Zealand (TSCNZ)<br />

and worked with TSCNZ to raise awareness of TSC and<br />

particularly the importance of lifelong surveillance.<br />

Helen Willacy, President of TSCNZ, reflects on Tonya’s<br />

contribution to the TSC community: “Tonya was one of our TSC<br />

champions. She was passionate about supporting her colleagues<br />

in nephrology and paediatrics, to provide the very best of care<br />

for their patients with TSC. No words can ever fully describe<br />

what she has done for the TSC community. She will be greatly<br />

missed and our hearts go out to her family and friends.”<br />

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Fundraising<br />

Snapshot<br />

Thank you to all our wonderful donors and fundraisers around Australia who<br />

support Tuberous Sclerosis Australia’s (TSA) essential information and support<br />

services. We need your help now more than ever.<br />

Over the last few years we have been receiving some grants that are no<br />

longer available to us. To keep going we depend on fundraising efforts from<br />

our community. If you would like to support TSA and get involved in raising<br />

funds we’d love to hear from you. Please call us on 1300 733 435 or email<br />

kate.garrard@tsa.org.au<br />

Surfside Caravan<br />

Park kids do<br />

some good<br />

in the school<br />

holidays<br />

group of children were<br />

A inspired by Kyah who<br />

has TSC, to raise some<br />

money for TSA. During<br />

the Christmas holidays at<br />

Surfside Caravan Park, on<br />

NSW’s South Coast, these<br />

terrific kids got together<br />

and held a food stall in the<br />

caravan park and raised $270 for TSA. What a<br />

great effort kids. Thank you so much!<br />

Surfside Caravan Park<br />

The Patriarchs and The Hard<br />

Loves rocked the night away<br />

for TSA<br />

TSC dad Elliott and his mates in the Patriarchs<br />

and The Hard Loves put on a fantastic show and<br />

raised over $2,500 for TSA in October last year at The<br />

Music Lounge in Brookvale. A massive thank you<br />

to these great bands for dedicating this night to help<br />

individuals with TSC. We look forward to the next one!<br />

Thanks to Lloyd in Darwin<br />

Lloyd’s daughter Katisha has TSC.<br />

Together, Lloyd and Katisha have donated<br />

over $1,000 to TSA by visiting local hotels in<br />

their area and collecting recyclable bottles<br />

and cans. The funds collected from the<br />

recycling plant are donated to TSA. What<br />

a creative and wonderful way to support<br />

TSA and help the environment. Thank<br />

you, Lloyd and Katisha.<br />

Katisha and Lloyd<br />

The Patriarchs and The Hard Loves<br />

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Melbourne joins the TSC hero action thanks to Alison<br />

Melbourne fun run, City2Sea was held on 12 November 2017. Alison, who is part<br />

of TSA’s management committee, raised over $3,100 for TSA. What a fantastic<br />

launch for TSC Heroes in Melbourne. Thank you to Alison, Nicole, Maria, Yvonne and<br />

Kelvin, and all their generous supporters.<br />

“Becoming a TSC hero was a really simple and fun way to support an organisation that is<br />

important to me, and I didn’t need to be a super fit athlete to participate. I just got involved<br />

in a local event, signed up online and picked TSA as my charity. When I told my friends<br />

and colleagues about it, many of them were happy to donate. It was really heart warming.<br />

I know the donations will make a big difference in the lives of people affected by TSC and<br />

I’m delighted to have been able to help. I hope you’ll join us next time,” says Alison.<br />

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Fundraising<br />

We now have a TSC Hero in Tassie<br />

Our first TSC Hero event took place in Tasmania in late 2017, thanks to Georgie<br />

from our management committee. Georgie’s daughter Sophie has TSC and this was<br />

Georgie’s first TSC Hero event to support TSA. Well done Georgie for raising over $2,000.<br />

What a fabulous effort. Thanks Georgie!<br />

Have you got a child<br />

at school?<br />

Schools are great at supporting<br />

their students by fundraising<br />

for organisations that are<br />

important to them. Could you<br />

speak to your child’s school about a<br />

possible collection for TSA? We have<br />

put together a helpful guide for<br />

how to go about it. For a full copy,<br />

visit our website or contact Kate.<br />

Georgie & kids<br />

Gifts of hope<br />

We are thrilled to have received just over $5,300 in<br />

donations towards creating a new diagnosis pack to<br />

better inform and support families through the challenges<br />

of a new diagnosis. Thank you to everyone who contributed<br />

to our ‘gift of hope’ Christmas appeal. We still need to raise<br />

another $4,700 to make this happen and we’d love your help.<br />

Thank you to<br />

all our supporters<br />

for your extraordinary<br />

help. YOU make a<br />

difference to people<br />

living with TSC.<br />

We couldn’t do it<br />

without you.<br />

Upcoming Fundraising Events<br />

27 May: TSC Heroes does Run for a Reason in Perth<br />

3 June: 5th annual Lizzie’s Lunch in Sydney<br />

Visit www.tsa.org.au/lizzies-lunch to buy your ticket<br />

21 July: Christmas in July<br />

The Padstow Bowling and Snooker Club in Sydney are<br />

hosting a Christmas in July function raising funds for<br />

us again this year. Contact us to join our TSA table.<br />

Over $12,000 was raised in 2017 and the night was<br />

lots of fun.<br />

12 August <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does City2Surf in Sydney<br />

26 August <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Bridge to Brisbane<br />

October: Comedy for a Cure event in Melbourne.<br />

Contact us for more information and to get involved.<br />

21 October <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Burnie 10 Fun Run<br />

in Tasmania<br />

2 Dec <strong>2018</strong> TSC Heroes does Ironman Bussleton in<br />

Western Australia<br />

Join our team of TSC Heroes<br />

Do you run, walk, swim or cycle? Our TSC Hero teams<br />

across Australia are raising vital funds to help people<br />

living with TSC. Contact us to sign up and secure your<br />

very own TSC Heroes t-shirt.<br />

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UNDERSTANDING TAND<br />

TSC Associated Neuropsychiatric Disorders<br />

INCLUDING LEARNING, BEHAVIOUR, AUTISM AND ANXIETY<br />

These educational events are<br />

for people with TSC, their family<br />

members and interested health<br />

professionals. TSA is also working<br />

with our TSC Professionals Network<br />

members to hold events specifically<br />

for health professionals to increase<br />

their understanding of TAND.<br />

PLANNED <strong>2018</strong> EDUCATION EVENTS<br />

ADELAIDE 26 AUGUST<br />

BRISBANE 8 & 9 SEPTEMBER<br />

SYDNEY 22 SEPTEMBER<br />

GUEST SPEAKER<br />

Professor Petrus de Vries<br />

Professor Petrus de Vries is a child and adolescent psychiatrist at the<br />

University of Cape Town, South Africa. He developed an interest in tuberous<br />

sclerosis complex (TSC) while training and working in the UK and has since<br />

become a clinical and research leader in the field. Petrus is the chair of the<br />

consensus conference panel that defined the term TAND to capture all of the<br />

neuropsychiatric aspects of TSC and developed the TAND checklist. Petrus<br />

will be in Australia for various meetings and projects this year and has kindly<br />

volunteered his time for these events.<br />

Limited travel funding may be available for the Brisbane meeting,<br />

pending grant outcomes.<br />

For more information, visit www.tsa.org.au/TAND-<strong>2018</strong><br />

THESE EVENTS CAN ONLY GO AHEAD WITH YOUR HELP.<br />

Do you know of a business who would consider sponsoring these events?<br />

Can you make a donation to these projects? Call Kate on 0434 391 430.

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