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as a<br />

Agri-preneurship<br />

to unemployment<br />

solution<br />

AN EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW WITH AN AGRI-PRENUER, MONICA KANGURU & MORE<br />

I S S U E N O . 1<br />

M A Y 2 0 1 8<br />

Teen Network<br />

A Monthly Magazine for Youths and Teens<br />

Relationships<br />

Relationships and<br />

sex, well many<br />

believe that this<br />

two must go<br />

together hand in<br />

hand<br />

Unemployment is a great issue facing youths .<br />

Here we try to get solutions and options that the<br />

youths can choose from. Read to this interview


Network<br />

When I dared to be<br />

Editor's Note<br />

Take 11 with Kavoxx<br />

different<br />

Letters<br />

Monica Kang’uru spoke<br />

Get to know young talented<br />

Featured<br />

exclusively to Tonny Brian<br />

musicians around your city.<br />

Stories<br />

and David Mwenda on a wide<br />

range of issues<br />

Sex and Teenies<br />

uncut<br />

ON THE COVER<br />

what’s the catch<br />

Nameless and Wahu are a<br />

Relationships and sex, well<br />

famous couple with a long<br />

Monica Kanguru a<br />

living relationship of more than<br />

many believe that this two<br />

young agrepreneur<br />

must go together hand in<br />

a decade with their meeting<br />

and 2nd in the<br />

hand . Well is this true? Must<br />

point being on a campus<br />

BYOB<br />

there be sex for a relationship<br />

function and their uncut story<br />

delivering two kids.<br />

to be considered a success?<br />

teen network magazine<br />

+254721722084<br />

teennetworkmagazine.com<br />

admin@teennetworkmagazine<br />

Nairobi


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Note<br />

Editor’s<br />

to our May Issue. Putting this together was no simple task. I have done this 7<br />

Welcome<br />

and every<br />

times<br />

time I cringe at the amount of work it is to put this together. The amount of<br />

single<br />

you have to<br />

people<br />

involve.<br />

makes you go ahead to pick out new challenges. No one wants to stay at the same<br />

Life<br />

for a long<br />

place<br />

you get too comfortable. This is why I have decided to move to another position at<br />

time<br />

Teen the<br />

Magazine.<br />

Network<br />

celebrating culture last month we saw it fit to let you know a bit about<br />

After<br />

Relationships<br />

relationships.<br />

a bit complicated and it can be a lot of different things. Handling relationships,<br />

are<br />

with the<br />

dealing<br />

that come up and to work your way around them is important.<br />

pressures<br />

won’t bore you with a lot of details. So here is to relationships! Scratch that here is to<br />

I<br />

good<br />

relationships.<br />

Mwenda– Out going Editor In Chief<br />

David<br />

M A Y 2 0 1 8 | I S S U E<br />

EDITO<br />

RS N O T E


Teenies, sex and relationships<br />

what sex means to your relationship


Y O U T H , T E E N S<br />

R E L A T I O N S H I P<br />

A N D S E X<br />

B Y F A T I M A M U S T A F A<br />

and sex, well<br />

Relationships<br />

believe that this two<br />

many<br />

go together hand in hand<br />

must<br />

Well is this true? Must there<br />

.<br />

sex for a relationship to be<br />

be<br />

a success? This got<br />

considered<br />

thinking, can't two people<br />

me<br />

the opposite sex be<br />

of<br />

in a relationship and<br />

together<br />

close, very close without<br />

be<br />

in sex.<br />

engaging<br />

randomly asked some<br />

I<br />

friends from my<br />

teenage<br />

and found out<br />

neighborhood<br />

men see sex as a proof<br />

that<br />

they are being loved and<br />

that<br />

by their partners, Zack<br />

trusted<br />

call him that to hide his<br />

we<br />

said, " In this current<br />

identity<br />

of life you can't be sure<br />

state<br />

Sara who recently finished<br />

her form four and is yet to<br />

join college to further her<br />

studies said "According to<br />

me and speaking for the<br />

girl child, sex shouldn't be a<br />

thing maybe until you get<br />

married, but most of us<br />

ladies do it not because we<br />

want to, but just to please<br />

those we love. This, most of<br />

us come to regret later".<br />

Sara is currently a mother,<br />

not because she planned to<br />

be one this early but<br />

because she got caught up<br />

in the sweet waves of<br />

intimacy and sex while still<br />

in high school.<br />

it is tricky to get<br />

alone,<br />

to love you and be<br />

someone<br />

you, so according to me<br />

with<br />

a girl agrees to go to bed<br />

when<br />

me it shows that she<br />

with<br />

loves me and is in for a<br />

really<br />

These made me look deep<br />

into the teenage and sex<br />

issue, well there has been<br />

no official statistics<br />

showing the number of<br />

under ages engaging in sex.<br />

that your partner is yours<br />

serious relationship."


getting themselves in real<br />

Though estimates have been made<br />

to try to put this into record it is<br />

troubling situations than they can<br />

handle. Or should I say their"<br />

estimated that 1 in 30 persons gets<br />

Monkey see Monkey do kind of<br />

In this case, there is a percentage<br />

married before having sex. 4 out of<br />

life". They want to be seen as being<br />

6 boys have sex before the age of<br />

of the young community that will<br />

18 where as 2 in 4 girls get involved<br />

shy from getting into relationships<br />

westernized little do they know<br />

because of fear of the effects of<br />

in the same before 18. The reason<br />

that what they see is just some set<br />

getting into the wrong kind of<br />

cast that was meant for<br />

as to where no official record is<br />

because many of this activities<br />

entertainment and nothing much<br />

relationship. Many parents may<br />

also advise their teenagers against<br />

happen secretly, not many of them<br />

Some relationships break when<br />

either of the partners feel that they<br />

getting into relationships that may<br />

would like to disclose their<br />

"private" life.<br />

are not given all they hoped to find<br />

lead to sexual exploitation at their<br />

early age. But is this really the case,<br />

Coming to think of it, the number<br />

in relationships. This mostly<br />

of sexually active teenagers in this<br />

happens in teenage type of<br />

does sex put relationships tight<br />

relationships where the persons<br />

and on the safe side?<br />

case I mean those from 16 years of<br />

involved are not ready for<br />

age and below has rapidly<br />

.<br />

increased compared to the past.<br />

commitments.<br />

This I believe is because of the<br />

Sex can also bring about situations<br />

exposure that they get from the<br />

that can't be handled by this<br />

social media and the likes, this<br />

teenagers like early pregnancies<br />

growing persons will try to emulate<br />

and parenting, sexually<br />

so and so from the TV<br />

transmitted diseases like HIV and<br />

AIDS.


h a t g e n r e d o y o u l i s t e n t o ?<br />

w<br />

e t s g e t t o h e a r a<br />

l<br />

music<br />

production<br />

W E A L L L O V E S W E E T M U S I C .<br />

B U T H O W M U C H D O Y O U K N O W<br />

T H E U P C O M I N G M U S I C I A N S<br />

G E T T O R E L A T E W I T H Y O U R<br />

F A V O R I T E M U S I C I A N<br />

b i t a b o u t k a v o x w h o i s a g o s p e l a r t i s t<br />

T H E R E L A T I O N S H I P<br />

I S S U E


takes you through 11 things you<br />

Kavoxx<br />

didn't know about him. Here goes<br />

probably<br />

start with, a lot of youths would love to know<br />

To<br />

age; how old are you?<br />

your<br />

am 22 years old<br />

I<br />

is your role model, and why?<br />

Who<br />

Vee the spice And Daddy Owen because they<br />

Mr.<br />

to the content and they are very humble<br />

stick<br />

me about a project or accomplishment<br />

Tell<br />

you consider to be the most significant in<br />

that<br />

career as a musician.<br />

your<br />

my funs with good and Quality Music<br />

Surprising<br />

us about a time when things didn't go the<br />

Tell<br />

you presumed?<br />

way<br />

celebrities you believe are the most<br />

Which<br />

in Kenya and why?<br />

influential<br />

because he is very Hardworking, And<br />

Bahati<br />

Humble<br />

inspires you to do what you do?<br />

What<br />

, God<br />

do you believe you are known for?<br />

What<br />

Servant of God through my music<br />

A<br />

the most interesting thing about you<br />

What’s<br />

we would only learn from you?<br />

that<br />

your word of advice to the youths out<br />

What’s<br />

who don’t believe in pursuing their<br />

there<br />

should know that talent pays and it can<br />

They<br />

someone very fur.<br />

take<br />

a youth, what things would you propose to<br />

As<br />

this unemployment among fellow youths?<br />

end<br />

we concentrate with our talents we can<br />

If<br />

the number of unemployment in our<br />

reduce<br />

inspiring statement or quote would you<br />

What<br />

to our youths out there?<br />

give<br />

.They should trust in God, always be<br />

First<br />

be hardworking, be humble always.<br />

prayerful,<br />

When my parents passed<br />

I am very, caring and hardworking<br />

talents?<br />

country.


YOUTUBE<br />

Get to see his music currently<br />

available on youtube and<br />

support his great talent.


AGRIPRENUERSHIP<br />

Y O U T H I N D E P E N D E N T P O C K E T S<br />

T A K I N G A<br />

L I F E<br />

C H A N G I N G<br />

S T E P


ones who dare to be different<br />

The<br />

stand out. It is not my quote<br />

always<br />

it is one of my favorite sayings at<br />

but<br />

The story of Monica Nyawira<br />

times.<br />

says all that and much more.<br />

Kang’uru<br />

journey to stardom and possibly<br />

Her<br />

success was given a big boost<br />

financial<br />

her participation in the BLAZE Be<br />

by<br />

Own Boss Season 2.<br />

Your<br />

granted us this interview after a<br />

She<br />

consultations with her time. Her<br />

few<br />

schedule did not allow a one on<br />

busy<br />

but she got to answer our<br />

one<br />

for this interview.<br />

questions<br />

21 year old student currently<br />

The<br />

as a 3rd Year student of<br />

working<br />

in the University of Nairobi<br />

Economics<br />

herself as an Agriprenuer;<br />

describes<br />

main interest being beef farming.<br />

her<br />

ask her why she chose agriculture as<br />

I<br />

line of business. Something even I<br />

her<br />

not consider doing in any way.<br />

would<br />

was very particular, “My drive has<br />

She<br />

being able to differentiate myself<br />

been<br />

venturing into a business that has<br />

and<br />

stable and unsaturated market.”<br />

a<br />

I ask if she thinks other youths<br />

When<br />

be willing to join the agriculture<br />

will<br />

She is so positive and thinks<br />

sector.<br />

has achieved a goal of being a<br />

she<br />

of inspiration for many youths<br />

source<br />

join Agriculture.<br />

to<br />

kick things up a notch when I ask<br />

We<br />

about her joining the BYOB and<br />

her<br />

the first runners up for<br />

becoming<br />

She feels great even though she<br />

Blaze.<br />

not win the money. She chooses to<br />

did<br />

positive. She thinks BYOB is a<br />

stay<br />

platform for mentoring the<br />

great<br />

and it was a wonderful<br />

youth<br />

experience.<br />

I ask her the biggest lessons she<br />

When<br />

learnt from Blaze BYOB and she<br />

has<br />

to talk about time. To her she<br />

decided<br />

that time is not a limit. Some of<br />

learnt<br />

challenges they would pull them<br />

the<br />

within 48 hours. To her time<br />

off<br />

not be something as an excuse<br />

should<br />

a hindrance. To her Do it and do it<br />

or<br />

now.<br />

BEEF FARMER WHO<br />

DARED TO DREAM; MEET<br />

MONICA KAGURU<br />

DARE TO BE DIFFERENT<br />

By David Mwenda and Tonny Brian


our government doing enough to support<br />

Is<br />

in Agriculture? I ask her. Frankly no. she<br />

youths<br />

She adds, the government still has a lot<br />

replies.<br />

do when it comes to improvement and<br />

to<br />

and providing support especially<br />

empowering<br />

to youths and agriculture. This will<br />

financially,<br />

a long way in encouraging more youths to<br />

go<br />

into agriculture.<br />

venture<br />

think about the business challenges and the<br />

I<br />

she has faced. One thing finances;<br />

challenges<br />

has been unable to scale up due to lack of<br />

she<br />

However she also mentions the<br />

funding.<br />

and business support from Blaze will<br />

funding<br />

a long way to help her and give her what she<br />

go<br />

as a positive boost.<br />

describes<br />

goals five years to come business wise and<br />

Her<br />

she is reflective and ambitious. She<br />

personally<br />

to keep 1000 animals in a year in her<br />

wants<br />

Personally she seems to have a Masters<br />

farm.<br />

and a good footing in her career in<br />

Degree<br />

Analysis. She wants to follow up on<br />

Financial<br />

career.<br />

her<br />

advice to people who might want to join<br />

Her<br />

agriculture sector? Go for it. The market is<br />

the<br />

Seek mentorship in your journey as it<br />

ready.<br />

go a long way and goes on to wish you the<br />

will<br />

our government doing enough to support<br />

Is<br />

in Agriculture? I ask her. Frankly no.<br />

youths<br />

replies. She adds, the government still<br />

she<br />

a lot to do when it comes to<br />

has<br />

and empowering and<br />

improvement<br />

support especially financially, to<br />

providing<br />

and agriculture. This will go a long<br />

youths<br />

in encouraging more youths to venture<br />

way<br />

agriculture.<br />

into<br />

think about the business challenges and<br />

I<br />

challenges she has faced. One thing<br />

the<br />

she has been unable to scale up<br />

finances;<br />

to lack of funding. However she also<br />

due<br />

the funding and business support<br />

mentions<br />

Blaze will go a long way to help her and<br />

from<br />

her what she describes as a positive<br />

give<br />

boost.<br />

goals five years to come business wise<br />

Her<br />

personally she is reflective and<br />

and<br />

She wants to keep 1000 animals<br />

ambitious.<br />

a year in her farm. Personally she seems to<br />

in<br />

a Masters Degree and a good footing in<br />

have<br />

career in Financial Analysis. She wants to<br />

her<br />

up on her career.<br />

follow<br />

advice to people who might want to join<br />

Her<br />

agriculture sector? Go for it. The market<br />

the<br />

ready. Seek mentorship in your journey as<br />

is<br />

will go a long way and goes on to wish you<br />

it<br />

Agri-preneurship as a<br />

lasting solution to<br />

unemployment<br />

very best.<br />

the very best.


is a beef farmer<br />

She<br />

auditioned late at the Blaze BYOB competition but still got the part<br />

She<br />

aspires to keep 1000 animals in the next 5 years<br />

She<br />

is a student of Economics at Nairobi University<br />

She<br />

final quote to<br />

Her<br />

youth Dare to be<br />

the<br />

Simple;<br />

different.<br />

simple like that.<br />

very<br />

question you<br />

Any<br />

you need her to<br />

felt<br />

you<br />

answer<br />

she<br />

personally<br />

you to<br />

encourages<br />

a chat with her<br />

have<br />

on social media.<br />

Instagram: Monica_Kanguru<br />

Twitter: Monica_Kanguru<br />

Facebook: Monica Kang’uru<br />

Facts about Monica Kang’uru<br />

She is 21 years old


R U L E T H E S T R E E T :<br />

G E T Y O U R C A R I N S H A P E


are steps given by Kevin<br />

Here<br />

on how to improve your car<br />

Muthomi<br />

its performance<br />

and<br />

automobile companies<br />

Most<br />

vehicles for the<br />

manufacture<br />

Joe’s expectations and<br />

average<br />

Cars may be altered for<br />

conditions.<br />

reputation in terms of<br />

excellent<br />

safety and better fuel<br />

reliability,<br />

Perfect layout and built to<br />

economy.<br />

feel is not an exception for<br />

last<br />

looks. Here are some of the<br />

stylish<br />

to modify your jalopy to feel<br />

parts<br />

look like a new whip.<br />

and<br />

GET YOUR CAR IN SHAPE<br />

BY KELVIN MUTHOMI<br />

Engine tuning<br />

An engine consists of a setup of mechanical<br />

and electronic elements and most engines<br />

employ the use of new technologies to provide<br />

the best balance between performance and<br />

emissions through the use of ECM (Engine<br />

Control Unit). The OBD (On-Board Diagnosis) is<br />

a communication protocol mostly used for<br />

self-diagnosis can be modified via ‘mapping’<br />

Mapping can be performed through<br />

reprogramming the ECU (Electronic Control<br />

Unit) or feeding false data through plug in<br />

hardware. You can add power to the<br />

mechanical components by using<br />

turbochargers or superchargers. Engine tuning<br />

needs to be done by an expert to avoid<br />

premature failure.


tuning<br />

Suspension<br />

function of suspension system in a<br />

The<br />

is to provide a comfortable ride to<br />

car<br />

passengers by isolating the road<br />

the<br />

and to improve the road<br />

irregularities<br />

capacity of a vehicle thereby<br />

holding<br />

safety. This process involves<br />

providing<br />

the shock absorbers, sway<br />

modifying<br />

Tires<br />

vehicle holding capacity of a car is<br />

The<br />

related to the tire-road<br />

directly<br />

The tires transfer the<br />

contact.<br />

and vertical forces acting on<br />

horizontal<br />

vehicle as a result of steering,<br />

the<br />

and driving in combination<br />

braking<br />

possible road disturbances or<br />

with<br />

disturbances like aerodynamic<br />

external<br />

due to crosswinds. For safety<br />

forces<br />

and fuel efficiency it’s good for<br />

reasons<br />

driver to inflate to the correct PSI.<br />

the<br />

example Bugatti partnered with<br />

For<br />

to provide suitable tires for<br />

Michelin<br />

Body tuning<br />

Body tuning not only improves the physical<br />

looks of the car but also the aerodynamic<br />

performance of a vehicle. This is an important<br />

bars or other related component<br />

aspect as it can convert your whip into a<br />

widow maker. The spoilers and body kit help in<br />

generation of down force, cornering speeds<br />

and tire adhesion but this often increases drag.<br />

For example, fire extinguishers, reinforced<br />

bucket seats, seat harnesses and other items.<br />

Audio systems can be powered to get quality<br />

sound. This mostly depends on the owners<br />

the Chiron that could handle its speed.


“FASHION IS PART OF THE DAILY AIR<br />

AND IT CHANGES ALL THE TIME, WITH<br />

ALL THE EVENTS. YOU CAN EVEN SEE<br />

THE APPROACHING OF A REVOLUTION<br />

IN CLOTHES. YOU CAN SEE AND FEEL<br />

EVERYTHING IN CLOTHES.”<br />

D I A N A V R E E L A N D


P A S T E L<br />

This is the pantone colour of the season.<br />

Lilac, lavender, mauve, baby blue and pink<br />

are the hues that shouldn't miss in your<br />

closet. They are soft, warm, soothing and<br />

delicately sweet.<br />

G I N G H A M / C H E C K<br />

For a classy or an edgy look, this will<br />

definitely take you places. It's a must have.<br />

R A F F I A /<br />

S T R A W B A G S<br />

picture (courtesy of Pinterest)<br />

Now these bags are something. If you could<br />

have told me to carry these bags 5 years<br />

ago I wouldn’t. However right now they are<br />

the trendiest things on earth right now.<br />

C L E A R /<br />

P L A S T I C<br />

T R E N D<br />

We have seen the clear or rather plastic<br />

shoes on the runways and now the trend<br />

has shifted to bags, hats and even dresses.


T H I N<br />

S U N G L A S S E S<br />

The current climatic conditions don't really<br />

call for sunglasses but these thin<br />

sunglasses are absolutely trendy and add<br />

the extra to your outfit.<br />

(courtesy Ebay.co.uk)<br />

W E I R D<br />

S N E A K E R<br />

T R E N D<br />

Most people call it ugly but there is just<br />

something about these sneakers that<br />

makes them weirdly gorgeous. Gucci,<br />

Balenciaga and Luis Vuitton made way with<br />

them. If paired with some nice dress or<br />

pants then you've absolutely nailed it.<br />

(Courtesy eu.Luisvuitton.com)<br />

P A T C H E D<br />

D E N I M<br />

So this look is all about having a denim<br />

outfit with patches from different denim<br />

fabrics. It's such a playful look fit for any<br />

outfit from pants to denim skirts, shirts or<br />

even rompers. The look has this unique<br />

touch and it's just amazing.<br />

(Courtesy Misiny.com)<br />

S E Q U I N S<br />

Call it sparkly, the trend is absolutely<br />

amazing. This outfit full of sparkles and<br />

glitters makes you feel like a super star. It's<br />

a wardrobe essential.<br />

(Courtesy of aliexpress.com)


MY FAVORITE<br />

HANGOUT JOINT IN<br />

THE CITY<br />

Manhattan<br />

FITS YOUR POCKET<br />

JUST TRY IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS


streets, the corners; so many<br />

The<br />

too many roads; after a<br />

turns;<br />

walk my tired feet needed a<br />

long<br />

.l landed in a familiar place<br />

rest<br />

only place I knew Archives;<br />

the<br />

not really knew because I<br />

okay<br />

know how I got there but I<br />

didn't<br />

. My tired hungry self sat<br />

did<br />

on some stone bench looks<br />

down<br />

I was not the only one who<br />

like<br />

a rest. After about 20<br />

needed<br />

my eyes looked around I<br />

minutes<br />

to feed my grumbling<br />

had<br />

Galitos was the first to<br />

stomach.<br />

my attention but my purse<br />

grab<br />

not flow with the idea.<br />

did<br />

that did not hinder my<br />

However<br />

from dragging me there.<br />

legs<br />

the lane was Chicken House<br />

Along<br />

a fancy so I told myself I’ll<br />

such<br />

MY<br />

JOINT<br />

MANHATTAN<br />

I am drained thirsty<br />

Here<br />

tired. Yes I was<br />

and<br />

up in Nairobi I<br />

raised<br />

schooled so close to<br />

even<br />

CBD but that did not<br />

the<br />

anything.<br />

change<br />

difference between<br />

The<br />

and someone who<br />

me<br />

stepped into Nairobi<br />

had<br />

Nairobi is a<br />

large city with<br />

many hangout<br />

joints where<br />

you can have a<br />

quick lunch, but<br />

there is<br />

something<br />

interesting<br />

about this place<br />

for the first time was nil.<br />

pass next came Manhattan.


chicken and soda and went upstairs to fill my empty<br />

I did not notice the<br />

name actually what<br />

stomach. I must say for two hundred shillings the meal<br />

was totally worth it .With time this has become a favourite<br />

captured my attention<br />

food joint for me and some friends it really saves a penny<br />

was the cost of their fast<br />

food. Two hundred<br />

for us broke fellas. But still I can't get over the chicken<br />

pieces from chicken<br />

shillings only in town<br />

well I did not expect<br />

that. Excited; I got in.<br />

Chicken pieces from chicken house. Well spiced more of a<br />

heavy touch and for such a cheap price. I can't quite tell<br />

The place was a bit<br />

flocked but then what do<br />

which is better between the two fast food joints so i<br />

basically juggle between both.<br />

you expect after such a<br />

great offer. After a few<br />

minutes I placed my<br />

order fries,


We travel not to<br />

us.<br />

B Y A N O N Y M O U S<br />

escape<br />

escape life but<br />

for life not to<br />

The Uncut:<br />

Nameless and<br />

Wahu love for each<br />

other


THE<br />

UNCUT<br />

Written by BRAMWELL KONANA,<br />

Nameless and Wahu are a famous<br />

couple with a long lasting<br />

relationship of more than a decade<br />

with their meeting point being on a<br />

campus function and their Uncut<br />

story delivering two kids.<br />

Kenyan celebrated music stars, David<br />

Mathenge alias Nameless and<br />

Rosemary Wahu Kagwi alias Wahu are<br />

one of the most famous couples in<br />

the Kenyan music industry. They have<br />

been in a longtime relationship of<br />

unique love and romance story which<br />

have lasted for more than a decade.<br />

Both are artistes with top charting<br />

hits across East Africa.<br />

Nameless and Wahu are two of the<br />

select group of Kenyan celebrities<br />

who have managed to etch their<br />

footprints on the music industry. The<br />

music power couple met in 1998 at a<br />

campus event at Grand Regency<br />

through one of their mutual friends.<br />

Their first official date was on a<br />

Boxing Day where they had lunch at<br />

the Wimpy restaurant in Corner<br />

House. After their meal they took a<br />

nice long walk across the city, just<br />

talking and getting to know each<br />

other.


While the two are grateful for their<br />

‘Our courtship was lots of fun. We were<br />

young and carefree. We didn’t do very<br />

careers and various awards and<br />

recognition they have received in the<br />

complicated things. We really enjoyed<br />

each other’s company, no matter the<br />

industry, what they are most proud<br />

of is being parents. They have two<br />

settings. We would go on a rave, picnics,<br />

camping, watching movies and just the<br />

kids who are both girls, Tumiso, who<br />

was born in 2006 and Nyakio born in<br />

normal girlfriend/boyfriend thing.’ Wahu<br />

told the magazine. The Salary hit maker<br />

2013.<br />

Rosemary Wahu Kagwi was born on<br />

just knew that for the first two years of<br />

dating, they were meant to be together<br />

22nd March 1980 and she is a<br />

songwriter, former fashion model,<br />

but they dated for around seven years<br />

before he proposed for her. The two got<br />

actress and entrepreneur. She has<br />

also won a couple of awards on her<br />

married on September 10, 2005.<br />

Their wedding was simple and a<br />

music journey and also had a leading<br />

role in the television series Tazama.<br />

meaningful ceremony on the shores of<br />

Lake Naivasha. Wahu said that before the<br />

David Mathenge “Nameless” is 41<br />

years old and he is an architect<br />

wedding day, she was really stressed up<br />

and she could think that the D-day won’t<br />

besides music. He graduated from<br />

the University of Nairobi. He is<br />

go on well, in short, she was nervous<br />

regarded as one of modern music<br />

wreck. But fortunately the wedding came<br />

out to be successful and beautiful.<br />

pioneers in Kenya.<br />

The couple has been getting one on<br />

Just after two years of marriage that the<br />

couple found their love rhythm. With this,<br />

one with controversies about their<br />

love affairs with particular persons<br />

‘Voloyoom’ singer came to discover that<br />

the first two years of marriage was a total<br />

each and every moment. It was once<br />

alleged that their second born child<br />

confusion. They were trying to get<br />

was not from Nameless and this<br />

through ups and downs which tried to<br />

break them but they got to navigate very<br />

really created a heated conversation<br />

between the two lovebirds. But still<br />

choppy waters. Gratefully, with the help<br />

of counseling and talking the issues out<br />

Nameless overcame the situation<br />

positively and continued solidifying<br />

themselves, they were able to shun out<br />

negative publicity. Over the years, they<br />

their marriage despite the negative<br />

views from the public.<br />

came to know that fame and popularity<br />

always brings you to the mouths of<br />

bloggers and public negatively. To<br />

compliment it, the sweet love hit maker,<br />

said the negativities draws them even<br />

closer together instead.


oth say that no one gets angered up whenever one of them<br />

They<br />

on stage with the opposite feminine with love songs making<br />

is<br />

as if falling for each other. All they know is that music for<br />

them<br />

is business and so they respect it that way. They really love<br />

them<br />

other and their sweet love affair has never faded till now and<br />

each<br />

find it being a beautiful marriage. This is because they never<br />

they<br />

publicity into their live but God and themselves thus making<br />

allow<br />

living story uncut since.<br />

their<br />

counselors, Mr. and Mrs. Mathenge advice young couples to<br />

As<br />

their expectations, learn to listen to each other, give<br />

manage<br />

for individuality in their unions, respect each other and<br />

space<br />

each other’s points of view. They also advocate for<br />

understand<br />

counseling because it helps put things in perspective<br />

marriage<br />

in the early years.<br />

especially


UNTAMED<br />

TALKS


is fucked up I swear. Well forgive<br />

Life<br />

French today. Anyway I recently<br />

my<br />

to think about our relationships<br />

got<br />

and the more I thought<br />

nowadays<br />

it the more it itched me to write<br />

about<br />

this.<br />

about<br />

what is a common definition of a<br />

So<br />

This is the first thing that<br />

relationship?<br />

needed to understand first before I<br />

I<br />

about this. a relationship is a<br />

wrote<br />

where two people are<br />

state<br />

Anyway that is what Mr.<br />

connected.<br />

told me that is but let’s paint<br />

Google<br />

picture with our age demographic.<br />

the<br />

a couple decides they wanna try a<br />

So<br />

It starts simple, they text<br />

relationship.<br />

other every day, talk to each other<br />

each<br />

for 1 hour. They then move on to<br />

call<br />

and dinner mostly lunch because<br />

lunches<br />

can’t walk in darkness. Anyway she<br />

she<br />

trusts him enough and she lets him<br />

finally<br />

into his pants. So they occasionally<br />

get<br />

sex. From there things get boring<br />

have<br />

they might end up breaking up. Once<br />

and<br />

relationship ends they branch out to<br />

the<br />

side chick or side guy who looked like<br />

the<br />

could be main material and the cycle<br />

they<br />

continues.<br />

has made me do the following article<br />

This<br />

is really observations of our<br />

which<br />

UNTAMED<br />

TALKS<br />

Utamed Talks:<br />

A thorough look into our relationships<br />

by David Mwenda<br />

Photos edited by pnail<br />

relationships today.


COMMUNITY<br />

PROJECTS<br />

Basically we are in situationships as<br />

S o i n s h o r t o u r r e l a t i o n s h i p s a r e l i k e<br />

Mwalimu Rachel calls them. We move<br />

to situationships that make us feel<br />

c o m m u n i t y p r o j e c t s o r w h a t I c a l l<br />

m r e n g o s . T h e y g o r o u n d , t h i s g u y i s<br />

good about ourselves. It is not a<br />

d a t i n g f o u r t o f i v e g i r l s a n d i n t u r n<br />

matter of being in a relationship to<br />

s h e i s s e e i n g f o u r t o f i v e p e o p l e .<br />

T h o s e 5 p e o p l e m i g h t o c c a s i o n a l l y<br />

share the good and bad. At the sight<br />

of trouble we run away quicker than<br />

k n o w e a c h o t h e r .<br />

thunder.|<br />

T h e r e i s o r d e r o f i m p o r t a n c e i n t h o s e<br />

p e o p l e . T h e m o s t i m p o r t a n t h a s t h e<br />

t i t l e m a i n c h i c k w h i l e t h e r e s t a r e<br />

j u s t s i d e c h i c k s a n d p l a n B ’ s .


everything. When I mean<br />

money. That’s a whole other<br />

topic. I am talking about<br />

provider. However ladies need<br />

relationship. I mean it is a<br />

relationship? Is sex the reason<br />

The man is the source of<br />

everything<br />

Sex matters but it is what<br />

mostly ends a relationship<br />

Apparently the man is<br />

Trust issues always<br />

supposed to provide for<br />

The most interesting thing<br />

Most relationships end because<br />

everything I don’t mean<br />

about our relationships we are<br />

there are trust issues. You are<br />

not the conventional sex is for<br />

always popping into your<br />

married people. However we<br />

partner’s phone for some shady<br />

literally everything. He is the<br />

are practically the most<br />

business he is doing. I know<br />

sexually active age bracket<br />

one to provide stories, suggest<br />

that is what you think I’ll say<br />

places to go and eat and<br />

anyway.<br />

next well shock on you. The<br />

literally any idea it is the guy.<br />

reason we never trust each<br />

Sex is mostly can make a<br />

You can tell me I am wrong but<br />

other is really simple. We<br />

it is something I have observed<br />

relationship or is it<br />

normally think we have a value<br />

situationships is what makes<br />

with most people do this in<br />

system and we are better than<br />

most of our relationships.<br />

relationships stand I think.<br />

the other.<br />

Think of it this way how many<br />

Well it is not a bad thing the<br />

times is sex the number one<br />

It is true. How many times do<br />

reason you get into a<br />

man is supposed to be the<br />

you catch her/ him cheating<br />

and you will be like well I don’t<br />

you got to break away with<br />

to also contribute in<br />

that it was so disgusting while<br />

your partner? (Circumstances<br />

your last relationship ended<br />

matter here). Also ask yourself<br />

relationship not a reality show<br />

because you cheated. All I am<br />

and your boyfriend is not the<br />

this if you and your partner<br />

producer.<br />

saying you might have been<br />

were not having sex would you<br />

caught your just mad you<br />

still be together? Food for<br />

caught him because he/she was<br />

thought and be real.<br />

stupid to get caught bottom<br />

line trust issues are a non issues<br />

in our situationships nowadays.<br />

I am not saying relationships<br />

are a bad thing however there is<br />

a lot to think about. We need to<br />

think about our moral fabric<br />

and what we know in our<br />

relationships.


WE ARE<br />

GONNA<br />

NEED MORE<br />

WINE<br />

By Bwari Mitchelle


✒ 3 strawberries (sliced)<br />

✒ 1 oz milk<br />

✒ 4 of goose vodka<br />

cocktail. Comes along with a I'm not just<br />

✒ sparkling water<br />

✒ orange juice<br />

Here's to Nairobi's first ever Wine Week and Festival which was a huge success. I don't know<br />

what's better than tasting wine samples from different countries. Nothing tickles my fancy<br />

than a glass or bottle of wine at a discount! This event kicked off with a lot of glam and pomp.<br />

If you are a wine enthusiast, connoisseur or a fellow kalewa 'drunkard' on a light touch, the<br />

past weekend was a dream come true.<br />

If you missed out on this event no biggie, we having our fingers crossed for the next one.<br />

Today I present to you a few wine hacks and cocktail recipes easy that will blow your mind<br />

literally:<br />

Mimosa<br />

I love everything about this brunch<br />

Chocolate Strawberry Martini<br />

good you need to take 20 glasses feeling.<br />

Ingredients<br />

Ingredients<br />

Add sparkling water to a measure of<br />

✒ 2 oz chocolate liqueur<br />

orange juice, serve .<br />

✒ oversized martini glass<br />

Bellini<br />

If you thought a mimosa was the<br />

bomb..you haven't met Bellini your Bff<br />

when having light omelettes,white meat or<br />

•Muddle the strawberries and milk. Add the<br />

fish.<br />

other ingredients. Fill with ice. Shake and<br />

serve<br />

E V E R Y D A Y G R A P H I C | 1 3 8<br />

It's made out of pureed white peaches and<br />

champagne.


✒ 50ml of vodka<br />

✒ 50ml lemon juice<br />

✒ I tbspn sugar<br />

✒ lemonade<br />

up the ingredients well<br />

Shake<br />

the lemonade. Top up<br />

except<br />

the lemonade once you've<br />

with<br />

the mixture to your<br />

poured<br />

✒ 25 ml peach schnapps<br />

✒ 25 ml vodka<br />

✒ 50ml cranberry juice<br />

them together. Add the<br />

Mix<br />

peach and cranberry<br />

vodka,<br />

respectively. Serve<br />

✒ 200ml cranberry juice<br />

✒ 100ml orange juice<br />

✒ 75ml vodka<br />

✒ 75ml peach schnapps<br />

all ingredients, serve over<br />

Mix<br />

Add alcohol first that way it<br />

ice.<br />

go out with your friends<br />

You<br />

fail to finish a bottle<br />

perhaps<br />

wine, your favorite wine<br />

of<br />

sold out ,you settled for<br />

was<br />

you don't really like and<br />

one<br />

complete it etc This<br />

couldn't<br />

where the kalimotxo comes<br />

is<br />

the rescue make this<br />

to<br />

of pouring the left<br />

instead<br />

wine or waiting for it to<br />

over<br />

✒ Left over dry red wine<br />

✒ Cola soda<br />

✒ Lemon juice<br />

equal amount of dry red<br />

Mix<br />

and Cola soda. Serve<br />

wine<br />

with a slice of of orange<br />

iced<br />

lemon or<br />

of the best for a hot<br />

One<br />

day<br />

sunny<br />

none non alcoholic cocktail<br />

A<br />

come in handy when you<br />

can<br />

LEMON<br />

DROP<br />

Lemon drop<br />

glass, serve chilled.<br />

Woo Woo<br />

KALMOTXO<br />

(Pronounced as cal-ee-mocho<br />

)<br />

go sour .<br />

More than the drink, I love<br />

Sex on the Beach<br />

this name ...it's fun listening<br />

to different people<br />

The Eye Candy simply.<br />

pronouncing it. (insert<br />

favourite mothertongue<br />

accent at your discretion)<br />

What do we do with left over<br />

wine?<br />

Y O U T H M A G A Z I N E | T E E N M A G A Z I N E<br />

won't float.<br />

want to unwind


1/2 cup of fresh lime juice<br />

4 teaspoons of agave<br />

1/3 cup of sparkling water<br />

Virgin Watermelon Margarita<br />

Medium seedless watermelon<br />

Add lime and agave to pureed<br />

watermelon chunks. Top with sprinkling<br />

water.<br />

Enjoy<br />

X X .


DENNIS MENEZ:<br />

BECAUSE<br />

WHEN YOU<br />

CATCH HIM<br />

CHEATING<br />

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p. 35


Because when you<br />

catch him cheating<br />

By Menez<br />

He will hold your hand in public. He will<br />

go down on you in the bedroom. He will<br />

give you bucket loads of attention to<br />

make up for his neglect in the past and<br />

to lessen his guilt.<br />

When he gets caught cheating, he will<br />

return to acting like the perfect<br />

boyfriend. It will remind you of the way<br />

he used to act back when you first<br />

started dating. He will buy you gifts. He<br />

will plan out dates. He will call you<br />

beautiful every chance he sees. He will<br />

make you feel special. He will lure you<br />

into a false sense of security.<br />

After you catch him cheating, there will<br />

be a timeframe where you feel like you<br />

did the right thing by staying. Weirdly,<br />

you will feel like your relationship is<br />

doing better than ever before.<br />

But after some time passes, it will get worse<br />

again. He will come home late, you will<br />

question where he was because you're<br />

worried he was with another girl, and he<br />

will make a comment about how it's been<br />

so long since he cheated and he thought he<br />

earned your trust back by now.<br />

When he gets caught cheating, he is<br />

going to promise you it meant<br />

nothing. It was only sexual. It was<br />

only one time. It only happened<br />

when he was drunk. He is going to<br />

make the biggest betrayal possible<br />

sound like it was an accident, no big<br />

deal, something you should not<br />

hold over his head forever.<br />

When he gets caught cheating, he is<br />

going to swear that he will change.<br />

He is going to convince you that he<br />

deserves another chance because<br />

cheating on you made him realize<br />

how much he loves you and how<br />

much he would hate himself for<br />

losing you. He will beg you to give<br />

him one more chance and promise<br />

he will not screw it up because you<br />

mean everything to him.<br />

When he gets caught cheating, he<br />

will go overboard when it comes to<br />

'doing the right thing'. He will make<br />

a show of deleting every single<br />

woman on his phone in front of<br />

you. He will take a break from<br />

social media. He will give you the<br />

passwords to his phone and social<br />

media accounts. He will take great<br />

lengths to make you feel like you<br />

have nothing to worry about.<br />

When he gets caught cheating, he<br />

will go out of his way to make you<br />

feel like you're his only one. He will<br />

be more affectionate.<br />

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He will get annoyed by the questions you have a<br />

right to ask. He will get angry when you seem<br />

suspicious of him, even though it's his own fault.<br />

When you catch him cheating, your entire<br />

dynamic will change. When he so much as<br />

mentions another woman's name, you will wonder<br />

whether he's thought about sleeping with her.<br />

Meanwhile, you'll feel like you have the right to<br />

flirt with other men because he touched another<br />

woman so what you are doing is tame in<br />

comparison.<br />

You won't think of him as the person who would<br />

never hurt you, because you already know he's<br />

capable of hurting you. You won't think of him as<br />

the love of your life, because if he really loved you,<br />

could he have betrayed you like this?<br />

After you catch him cheating, do yourself a favor<br />

and leave him, because the relationship is never<br />

going to be the same. You are never going to feel as<br />

safe and loved as you used to when he walked into<br />

the room.<br />

When you catch him cheating, your deepest<br />

insecurities will rise to the surface. A part of you<br />

will want to lose weight to impress him because if<br />

he cheated, he must have stopped being attracted<br />

to you. Another part of you will want to cheat on<br />

him to make him feel the way that you now feel<br />

every single day when you glance into the mirror.<br />

When you catch him cheating, you will run<br />

through the past in your head, trying to figure out<br />

when he was talking to her, when he was seeing<br />

her, when he was kissing her. You will see how<br />

many lies you can count off the top of your head.<br />

Happy memories will become tainted with what<br />

ifs.<br />

What if he saw her the night he claimed he was<br />

sick with the flu? What if he was thinking about her<br />

the last time you had sex? What if he's still seeing<br />

her now even though he swore he would never<br />

contact her again?<br />

When you catch him cheating, your mind will<br />

never leave you alone. It will torture you from the<br />

moment you wake up until the moment your head<br />

hits the pillow at night.<br />

Worst of all, after you catch him cheating and<br />

forgive him; he might feel like he's free to cheat<br />

again. He might assume you will forgive him the<br />

next time too. He might even be sneakier next<br />

time. He might learn from his mistakes. He might<br />

know what he did wrong in the past and fix it.<br />

Even if he keeps his promise and remains faithful<br />

for the rest of your relationship, after you catch<br />

him cheating the first time, your entire opinion of<br />

him will change.


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