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the Mokena Messenger | June 14, 2018 | 17<br />
Social snapshot<br />
Top 10 Web Stories<br />
From MokenaMessenger.com as of<br />
Monday, June 11<br />
1. Secret to successful self-defense:<br />
recycle<br />
2. Photos: So long, junior high; hello, high<br />
school<br />
3. Mokena Community Park District seeks<br />
public input<br />
4. ‘Mr. Mokena’ leaves behind lasting<br />
legacy: Longtime trustee John<br />
Mazzorana passes away May 27<br />
5. School boards weigh putting new sales<br />
tax on ballot: 1 percent increase would<br />
fund facilities, maintenance in Will<br />
County<br />
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Lincolnway Special Recreation Association<br />
posted this June 5:<br />
“It is with sadness we share the passing of<br />
LWSRA Wheelchair Softball player Ricky<br />
Salinas. Ricky was a well known face on<br />
the diamond in the summer always enjoying<br />
the competition and camaraderie within<br />
the adapted sports community. He will be<br />
missed on and off the field. Our thoughts<br />
are with his family, friends and teammates.<br />
#RS19”<br />
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“Freshmen, finished [their] first week on a great<br />
note!!! Proud of you guys!!!”<br />
@lwcfootball, on June 7.<br />
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Remind dad what he means to you this Father’s Day<br />
Amanda Stoll<br />
a.stoll@22ndcenturymedia.com<br />
I<br />
think that most holidays<br />
are meant as nothing<br />
more than a yearly reminder<br />
of things we should<br />
really do every day.<br />
The more cynical might<br />
say it is a money-making<br />
scheme designed by card<br />
companies or chocolate<br />
shops or something of the<br />
sort to make money, but that<br />
is beside the point.<br />
We have birthday celebrations,<br />
anniversary celebrations,<br />
religious holidays,<br />
bank holidays and just about<br />
every other holiday you can<br />
think of, but what does it all<br />
mean?<br />
Sometimes it honestly<br />
gets overwhelming for me<br />
because it starts to feel like<br />
a never-ending to-do list of<br />
obligatory events.<br />
But, that is exactly the<br />
reason we should take the<br />
time for all the good times.<br />
Why let the rest of our crazy-busy<br />
lives get in the way<br />
of the holidays and celebrations<br />
that revolve around the<br />
people we love?<br />
While it pains me to say<br />
it, but things like National<br />
Taco Day — which is, by<br />
the way, on Oct. 4 — are<br />
not real holidays. I know,<br />
that hurt me to say as well.<br />
But really, the holidays<br />
that are less serious need<br />
to make way for the really,<br />
truly important ones like<br />
birthdays, anniversaries,<br />
Mother’s Day and Father’s<br />
Day.<br />
Those holidays are so<br />
special because they are<br />
about people, and what are<br />
we without the people we<br />
love and care about and<br />
who love and care about<br />
us?<br />
Gift-giving can be hard,<br />
but it is something I think<br />
most of us feel obligated<br />
to do even if the budget is<br />
tight. Sometimes it seems<br />
like we are all just giving<br />
gifts for the sake of giving<br />
gifts — which is totally not<br />
the point.<br />
For example, my dad has<br />
pretty much every tool he<br />
could ever want, and the<br />
ones he does not have are<br />
certainly out of my budget.<br />
He does not need any more<br />
clothes or sunglasses or<br />
knick-knacks.<br />
My parents live more<br />
than 1,000 miles away, so<br />
I think it is safe to say they<br />
will not be reading this.<br />
Otherwise I might risk my<br />
Don’t just<br />
list your<br />
real estate<br />
property...<br />
dad seeing this before I<br />
show up for a surprise visit<br />
this weekend.<br />
I will not be bearing any<br />
big, expensive gifts, but<br />
with my parents living so<br />
far away I know he will<br />
enjoy having me down for<br />
an all-too-infrequent visit.<br />
And I’m sure he will also<br />
appreciate my box- and<br />
furniture-carrying abilities<br />
as they are also moving<br />
into their new place this<br />
weekend. Good thing I’ve<br />
been working out more<br />
lately.<br />
Moving boxes in the<br />
Florida heat and humidity is<br />
not exactly going to be fun,<br />
but as long as there is a cold<br />
beer waiting for us at the<br />
end of the day, I am confident<br />
it will be a successful<br />
Father’s Day.<br />
So, what makes Father’s<br />
Day special for you?<br />
Instead of agonizing over<br />
what to get dad for Father’s<br />
Day, why not make it about<br />
more than the money and<br />
the gifts?<br />
Play a round of golf, do<br />
some yard work or just<br />
take a drive around town.<br />
Whatever you do, let’s make<br />
Father’s Day about the time<br />
spent together.<br />
“Time is money,” and,<br />
although that common<br />
phrase probably was not<br />
originally meant in the same<br />
context, I think this would<br />
be an appropriate time to<br />
take it out-of-context for the<br />
greater good.<br />
In reality, your time<br />
is worth more than your<br />
money in so many ways,<br />
and that is what holidays<br />
like Father’s Day should<br />
really be about.<br />
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