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Survival Tips <strong>for</strong> Moving <strong>to</strong> a Big City <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

First Time<br />

By Joshua Will<br />

Canberra University<br />

June, 26-06-2018<br />

Abstract - Moving <strong>to</strong> a <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>first</strong> <strong>time</strong> can be a genuinely exciting period in your life. In<br />

fact, <strong>the</strong>re are many things <strong>to</strong> be excited about, especially if you’re <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> from a small<br />

<strong>to</strong>wn. Here’s what <strong>to</strong> know be<strong>for</strong>e <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>first</strong> <strong>time</strong>.<br />

a) Do your <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> research in advance<br />

b) Get a job fast<br />

c) Move only <strong>the</strong> most essential things<br />

d) Budget <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> cost of living<br />

e) Make an ef<strong>for</strong>t <strong>to</strong> make new friends<br />

a) Do your <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> research in advance<br />

If you're thinking about picking up and <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a new <strong>city</strong>, you have a lot of research <strong>to</strong> do<br />

be<strong>for</strong>e you even begin looking <strong>for</strong> jobs <strong>the</strong>re. The average salary, rental or real estate prices,<br />

crime statistics, best and worst neighborhoods, transit situation—<strong>the</strong>y're all things you'll have<br />

<strong>to</strong> dig in<strong>to</strong> be<strong>for</strong>e you decide if a <strong>city</strong> is right <strong>for</strong> you. Here's how <strong>to</strong> make that research go<br />

quickly so you can go back <strong>to</strong> job hunting in what'll hopefully be your future home.<br />

Moving <strong>to</strong> a new <strong>city</strong> can go one of two ways: You can ei<strong>the</strong>r take a risk, throw everything <strong>to</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> wind, and see where you end up, or you can do your homework ahead of <strong>time</strong>, consider<br />

your options, and research extensively be<strong>for</strong>e you move.<br />

Most of us don't know <strong>the</strong> ins and outs of a <strong>city</strong> be<strong>for</strong>e we ponder <strong>moving</strong> <strong>the</strong>re—we just<br />

know we have friends in <strong>to</strong>wn, or family nearby, or maybe we like something we've heard<br />

about, like <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong>'s overall atmosphere or popular industries and companies nearby. If that's<br />

where you are, let's look at some <strong>to</strong>ols you can use <strong>to</strong> research a <strong>to</strong>wn through and through<br />

be<strong>for</strong>e you book plane tickets <strong>to</strong> go visit.<br />

Find and Explore <strong>the</strong> Best Neighborhoods<br />

Cities and <strong>to</strong>wns are <strong>big</strong> places, and you'll probably want an idea of where in <strong>to</strong>wn you<br />

should live be<strong>for</strong>e you even begin looking at stats, prices, and o<strong>the</strong>r data. We've offered some


great <strong>tips</strong> <strong>to</strong> help you pin <strong>the</strong>m down, including visiting sites like StreetAdvisor, which is<br />

entirely dedicated <strong>to</strong> neighborhood reviews and in<strong>for</strong>mation. We'd also suggest checking out<br />

neighborhood details on Foursquare or Yelp, even if you're not specifically looking <strong>for</strong><br />

nightlife or restaurants—both apps have a wealth of in<strong>for</strong>mation entered by locals <strong>for</strong> locals,<br />

and don't be fooled, <strong>the</strong>re are reviews <strong>for</strong> entire neighborhoods at Yelp, and some of <strong>the</strong>m are<br />

both hilarious and useful.<br />

Similarly, City Data offers a wealth of in<strong>for</strong>mation about <strong>the</strong> entire <strong>city</strong>, as well as specific<br />

neighborhoods. The site includes cost of living, average home prices, and even local<br />

attractions or famous destinations in <strong>the</strong> area. Plus, <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>for</strong>ums are an invaluable resource—<br />

a treasure trove of in<strong>for</strong>mation and locals who are willing <strong>to</strong> help you decide where in <strong>to</strong>wn<br />

you'd like <strong>to</strong> move, visit, or just learn more about. Similarly, Neighborhood Scout can help<br />

you learn more about specific neighborhoods once you've pinned down a few you'd like <strong>to</strong><br />

live in. You can start with a bird's eye view of a <strong>city</strong>, and <strong>the</strong>n zoom in on popular<br />

neighborhoods, up-and-coming ones, or test your luck with neighborhoods that are more<br />

af<strong>for</strong>dable but offer a more au<strong>the</strong>ntic and less glossy experience. Whatever you're looking<br />

<strong>for</strong>, both sites will help you find a few neighborhoods you might want <strong>to</strong> look in<strong>to</strong>.<br />

Research Rental/Real Estate Markets and <strong>the</strong> Cost of Living<br />

Once you have an idea where in a <strong>city</strong> you might want <strong>to</strong> live, your next step is <strong>to</strong> see how<br />

much it would cost you <strong>to</strong> actually live <strong>the</strong>re. Some of <strong>the</strong> previous sites will give you<br />

averages, like <strong>the</strong> average home price and average income in <strong>the</strong> vicinity, but <strong>the</strong>re's no<br />

substitute <strong>for</strong> looking at what's on <strong>the</strong> market or available <strong>to</strong> rent right now. Here are a couple<br />

of options:<br />

For home buyers, Trulia, Zillow, and Redfin all offer virtually every real estate listing in a<br />

given <strong>city</strong>. If you've bought a home in <strong>the</strong> past, you're familiar with <strong>the</strong>m, but if not, looking<br />

<strong>for</strong> home prices on <strong>the</strong> market in an area is as simple as typing in <strong>the</strong> zip code or name of <strong>the</strong><br />

area you're interested in. You'll see active listings, <strong>the</strong>ir asking prices, and even get <strong>to</strong> see<br />

pho<strong>to</strong>s of <strong>the</strong> home and <strong>the</strong> surrounding neighborhood. Obviously you're not putting in an<br />

offer just yet, but it's a great way <strong>to</strong> familiarize yourself with <strong>the</strong> real estate market in your<br />

preferred neighborhoods.<br />

For renters, Apartments.com, MyApartmentMap, Padmapper, and HotPads all collect <strong>the</strong> best<br />

of a <strong>city</strong>'s rental listings and make <strong>the</strong>m easy <strong>to</strong> browse. The real estate sites like Trulia and<br />

Zillow also offer rental listings, but go <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> source. These are some of our favorite<br />

apartment search sites <strong>for</strong> good reason. There's always Craigslist <strong>to</strong>o, but many of <strong>the</strong>se sites<br />

pull in Craigslist listings. Still, if you don't see <strong>the</strong>m, Craigslist has finally added maps, so<br />

<strong>the</strong>y're worth checking out. There's also Lovely, which also caters <strong>to</strong> <strong>to</strong>p-down<br />

neighborhood-browsing. In any event, <strong>the</strong> best feature of all of <strong>the</strong>se is that <strong>the</strong>y can help you<br />

figure out which neighborhoods have rentals you can af<strong>for</strong>d and amenities that you'd enjoy<br />

while you live <strong>the</strong>re, and <strong>the</strong>y do it all on a map that you can click and drag around (or drop<br />

down in<strong>to</strong> Google Street View with) easily. Many include in<strong>for</strong>mation on transit options,


walkability data (like how close a rental is <strong>to</strong> transit, shopping, dining, etc), and o<strong>the</strong>rs, like<br />

previously mentioned AutNo, helps you find transit friendly neighborhoods and rentals<br />

directly.<br />

Once you have an idea of how much it'll cost <strong>to</strong> rent or buy a home in a specific<br />

neighborhood, take a street view <strong>to</strong>ur of <strong>the</strong> neighborhood and look around. Check out what<br />

kinds of shops and restaurants are nearby. The more amenities like transit, dining, and retail<br />

are nearby, <strong>the</strong> higher you'll know <strong>the</strong> cost of living will probably be—but all of <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>ols<br />

we've mentioned will help you pin down exact numbers.<br />

Check Out <strong>the</strong> City's Crime Statistics<br />

A Google Street View <strong>to</strong>ur will help you determine whe<strong>the</strong>r a neighborhood looks a little<br />

rough or looks a little <strong>to</strong>o clean <strong>for</strong> your tastes, but <strong>the</strong>re's no replacement <strong>for</strong> real, public<br />

crime data and police blotter aggrega<strong>to</strong>rs <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> areas you're thinking about <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong>.<br />

Crime Reports is a great <strong>first</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p <strong>for</strong> in<strong>for</strong>mation on any <strong>city</strong> in <strong>the</strong> United States, and<br />

Family Watchdog lists convicted sex offenders. SpotCrime is ano<strong>the</strong>r great database of crime<br />

statistics and data, and signing up even gets you regular alerts from a neighborhood or <strong>to</strong>wn<br />

so you get <strong>to</strong> see what's going on <strong>the</strong>re be<strong>for</strong>e you even visit.<br />

Beyond online databases and search <strong>to</strong>ols, you can (and should) reach out <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> local police<br />

department <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong> you're thinking about <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> and ask <strong>the</strong>m <strong>for</strong> a crime report. You<br />

may have <strong>to</strong> find <strong>the</strong> precinct or district that covers <strong>the</strong> neighborhood you want <strong>to</strong> move <strong>to</strong>, or<br />

you may have <strong>to</strong> give <strong>the</strong> department a specific address <strong>to</strong> get a report of all activity within a<br />

given radius of that location, but it's worth doing. It's <strong>the</strong> only way you'll get completely<br />

accurate in<strong>for</strong>mation, and you'll be able <strong>to</strong> dig through <strong>the</strong> reports yourself and judge with<br />

your own eyes. Some police departments only provide aggregate data, so keep that in mind<br />

when you ask—but almost all of <strong>the</strong>m are willing <strong>to</strong> give you some in<strong>for</strong>mation so you can<br />

make an educated decision about <strong>moving</strong>.<br />

Investigate <strong>the</strong> City's Schools and Educational Data<br />

If you have children or are planning <strong>to</strong> start a family, you'll naturally want <strong>to</strong> find <strong>the</strong><br />

neighborhoods with <strong>the</strong> best schools—or at least with schools that are well regarded but are<br />

still af<strong>for</strong>dable <strong>to</strong> live in. A good <strong>first</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p is GreatSchools, a site that helps you find good<br />

schools in a specific area, or will guide you <strong>to</strong> schools within a certain vicinity. The site is<br />

more than a search engine: You'll find <strong>to</strong>ols that will walk you through defining "good" or<br />

"bad" schools look like, <strong>tips</strong> on how <strong>to</strong> assess a school, and even <strong>tips</strong> <strong>for</strong> navigating tricky<br />

school systems <strong>to</strong> get <strong>the</strong> in<strong>for</strong>mation or help you need.<br />

Similarly, Neighborhood Scout's school district ratings page can help you find <strong>the</strong> best public<br />

schools in any area, complete with aggregate data like test scores, class sizes, and student<br />

achievement. SchoolDigger is ano<strong>the</strong>r resource with free, complete metrics on school


districts and systems around <strong>the</strong> country. Be<strong>for</strong>e you start piling up statistics though, this old<br />

op-ed in <strong>the</strong> Washing<strong>to</strong>n Post, although some of its in<strong>for</strong>mation is specific <strong>to</strong> DC residents, is<br />

worth a read—it'll calm your nerves and help you focus on what's really important when<br />

picking a school system, especially since <strong>the</strong> competitive rush <strong>for</strong> exclusive private and<br />

charter schools can get out of hand in some cities.<br />

Learn about <strong>the</strong> Local Culture<br />

Finally, once you have <strong>the</strong> details you need <strong>to</strong> decide whe<strong>the</strong>r a neighborhood sounds like a<br />

good one, take a step fur<strong>the</strong>r and really dig in<strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> local culture, attractions, and atmosphere.<br />

City-Data's <strong>for</strong>ums are perfect <strong>for</strong> this, because you can probably find someone who's local <strong>to</strong><br />

where you'd like <strong>to</strong> live <strong>to</strong> speak with directly. Look at <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong> from this perspective: If you<br />

moved <strong>the</strong>re, what would you do <strong>for</strong> fun? The answer doesn't have <strong>to</strong> involve <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong>'s<br />

famous destinations or popular locales (although it certainly should—if you're <strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a<br />

new <strong>city</strong>, we have plenty of <strong>tips</strong> <strong>to</strong> help you get <strong>the</strong> lay of <strong>the</strong> land once you're <strong>the</strong>re), but it<br />

should also involve your own interests and passions. If you're a movie buff, look <strong>for</strong> movie<br />

<strong>the</strong>aters close <strong>to</strong> your preferred neighborhood, and check out which movie <strong>the</strong>aters are <strong>the</strong><br />

most popular and well loved by local movie fans.<br />

Ask yourself what <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong> is known <strong>for</strong>, cuisine-wise, and check Foursquare, Yelp, and<br />

Google Local <strong>for</strong> reviews and recommendations. Then think about your favorite foods, and<br />

check out where you can get <strong>the</strong>m near your future home. If you're a <strong>big</strong> fan of Japanese<br />

food, make sure you can find a decent restaurant somewhere nearby. If you find a half dozen<br />

and a couple of ramen shops <strong>to</strong> boot, you're in great shape. Repeat <strong>the</strong> process with your<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r interests, whe<strong>the</strong>r it's live music, nightlife, museums, even local festivals and block<br />

parties. Some neighborhoods even have <strong>the</strong>ir own Facebook pages, Twitter accounts, and<br />

websites designed <strong>to</strong> alert locals <strong>to</strong> events happening in <strong>the</strong>ir backyard. Pretend it's your<br />

backyard <strong>to</strong>o, at least <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>time</strong> being. Be<strong>for</strong>e long, you'll feel like a local.<br />

b) Get a job fast<br />

When you’ve decided you want <strong>to</strong> move <strong>to</strong> a new <strong>city</strong>, or you’re relocating <strong>for</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r reasons,<br />

it can be a challenge <strong>to</strong> figure out <strong>the</strong> best strategy <strong>for</strong> finding a new position. Should you<br />

move <strong>first</strong>? Or, should you try <strong>to</strong> line up a new job and <strong>the</strong>n relocate? What's <strong>the</strong> best way <strong>to</strong><br />

get hired when you're here and <strong>the</strong> jobs are <strong>the</strong>re?<br />

How <strong>to</strong> Decide When <strong>to</strong> Start a Job Search<br />

There isn’t one answer <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> question of when you should start job hunting if you want or<br />

need <strong>to</strong> move. One of <strong>the</strong> <strong>big</strong>gest fac<strong>to</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> consider is your finances. Can you af<strong>for</strong>d <strong>to</strong> go<br />

without a paycheck, pay <strong>for</strong> health insurance, and cover relocation expenses? If you have


cash reserves, it can be easier <strong>to</strong> move <strong>first</strong>, get settled, and <strong>the</strong>n start a job search. If you<br />

don’t, you will need <strong>to</strong> start looking <strong>for</strong> a job be<strong>for</strong>e you move.<br />

Consider your personal circumstances, as well. Do you have someone in <strong>the</strong> new location you<br />

could borrow a bed or a couch from? If so, you may want <strong>to</strong> consider <strong>moving</strong> <strong>first</strong>, finding a<br />

job second.<br />

Ano<strong>the</strong>r fac<strong>to</strong>r <strong>to</strong> consider is <strong>the</strong> type of job you’re looking <strong>for</strong>. It’s quicker and easier <strong>to</strong> get<br />

hired <strong>for</strong> lower level positions than it is <strong>for</strong> jobs fur<strong>the</strong>r up <strong>the</strong> career ladder. If you’re at a<br />

mid-career or higher level position, it’s going <strong>to</strong> take longer <strong>to</strong> get hired. You should plan<br />

your job hunt accordingly, and be prepared <strong>to</strong> conduct a long-distance job search. Keep in<br />

mind that you may be able <strong>to</strong> negotiate a start date that gives you <strong>the</strong> extra <strong>time</strong> you need <strong>to</strong><br />

move and get settled.<br />

Once you’ve decided when you want <strong>to</strong> start looking <strong>for</strong> a new job, <strong>the</strong> next step is <strong>to</strong> figure<br />

out how <strong>to</strong> get hired. Review <strong>the</strong>se <strong>tips</strong> <strong>for</strong> finding work when you’re relocating <strong>to</strong> get<br />

started.<br />

Top 10 Tips <strong>for</strong> Finding a Job in a New City<br />

1. Give Yourself Plenty of Time<br />

Job searching isn’t always as quick or as easy as you think it’s going <strong>to</strong> be. Even if you’re<br />

going <strong>to</strong> wait <strong>to</strong> start a job search, start organizing it ahead of <strong>time</strong>. Update your resume, start<br />

checking out job listings and companies you’re interested in working <strong>for</strong>, get a list of<br />

references ready <strong>to</strong> use, and have an interview outfit ready <strong>to</strong> wear. Here are 10 easy ways <strong>to</strong><br />

organize your job search.<br />

2. Think Local<br />

When you know <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong> where you want <strong>to</strong> work, you can target positions <strong>the</strong>re or within a<br />

radius of that location. Use advanced search options <strong>to</strong> find openings where you want <strong>to</strong><br />

work. In addition <strong>to</strong> using <strong>the</strong> job search engines, check Craigslist frequently - new jobs are<br />

posted on <strong>the</strong> site all <strong>the</strong> <strong>time</strong>.<br />

3. Sign Up <strong>for</strong> Job Alerts<br />

Save yourself a step and sign-up <strong>for</strong> email alerts <strong>to</strong> let you know when new jobs that match<br />

your criteria are listed. You’ll be able <strong>to</strong> set <strong>the</strong>m up directly on company websites <strong>for</strong> major<br />

employers, as well as on job listing sites. You’ll receive an email as soon as a listing is<br />

posted, and you’ll be able <strong>to</strong> get your application in right away.


4. Be Available <strong>to</strong> Interview<br />

It’s important <strong>to</strong> have <strong>the</strong> flexibility <strong>to</strong> be able <strong>to</strong> get <strong>the</strong>re quickly when you’re invited <strong>for</strong> an<br />

out-of-<strong>to</strong>wn interview. Most employers interview and hire on a tight schedule, and <strong>the</strong><br />

company may not be willing <strong>to</strong> wait. If you can’t get <strong>the</strong>re when interviews are scheduled,<br />

you may not be considered <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> job. Unless you’re being actively recruited, be prepared <strong>to</strong><br />

pay your own travel expenses. You may want <strong>to</strong> line up <strong>the</strong> best modes of transportation in<br />

advance, so you’re prepared <strong>to</strong> book travel when you get an email or call.<br />

5. Don’t Count on a Relocation Package<br />

Employer relocation packages can make a move go very smoothly. If you’re offered one as<br />

part of your compensation package, it may cover all <strong>the</strong> expenses <strong>moving</strong> entails. There may<br />

be even some extra cash included <strong>to</strong> help you get out of a lease or make a deposit on new<br />

housing. Whe<strong>the</strong>r you’ll get one, or not, depends on <strong>the</strong> company and <strong>the</strong> job you’re hired<br />

<strong>for</strong>. Here’s what is typically included in relocation packages and when employers offer <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

6. Get a Local Address<br />

A local address on your resume and cover letter can help your application get selected. Some<br />

employers don’t consider out-of-<strong>to</strong>wn candidates because <strong>the</strong> logistics can be complicated.<br />

7. Tap Your Connections<br />

Who do you know in <strong>the</strong> place you’re going? Do you have family, friends, professional or<br />

college connections <strong>the</strong>re? Everyone you know, and everyone <strong>the</strong>y know, may be able <strong>to</strong> help<br />

you job hunt. Put <strong>the</strong> word out, very quietly if you’re still employed, that you’re looking <strong>to</strong><br />

relocate <strong>to</strong> get job leads and o<strong>the</strong>r assistance. Here are some of <strong>the</strong> people who can assist:<br />

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Facebook Friends<br />

LinkedIn Connections<br />

College Alumni Network Contacts<br />

Networking Connections (attend as many in-person events as you can)<br />

Professional Associations and Contacts<br />

8. Take Your Job With You<br />

Do you love your job? There may be a chance that you can take it with you when you move.<br />

If your employer is thrilled with <strong>the</strong> work you do and would hate <strong>to</strong> lose you, <strong>the</strong>y may be<br />

willing <strong>to</strong> let you work remotely. That’s especially <strong>the</strong> case if you’re available <strong>to</strong> travel back<br />

<strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> office <strong>for</strong> meetings. Here’s how <strong>to</strong> ask your boss if you can work remotely.


9. Request a Transfer<br />

It’s obviously not feasible if you work <strong>for</strong> a small organization, but if you work <strong>for</strong> a large<br />

company with offices in your new location, transferring may be an option. You may be able<br />

<strong>to</strong> transfer <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> same or a similar job, or you may be able <strong>to</strong> get a different position with<br />

your current employer. Review <strong>the</strong>se <strong>tips</strong> <strong>for</strong> requesting a transfer and transfer request<br />

examples <strong>to</strong> guide you.<br />

10. Consider a Temp or Seasonal Job<br />

One work option <strong>for</strong> when you can’t wait <strong>to</strong> move is <strong>to</strong> consider working as a temp or taking<br />

a seasonal job until you can line up a permanent position. Depending on <strong>the</strong> <strong>time</strong> of year and<br />

location, <strong>the</strong>re may be plenty of short-term jobs you can do until you get hired full-<strong>time</strong>.<br />

c) Move only <strong>the</strong> most essential things<br />

Moving <strong>to</strong> a new home and trying <strong>to</strong> pack light <strong>for</strong> a few days? Maybe you’re relocating and<br />

hauling your worldly possessions across state lines, or you’re packing two suitcases <strong>for</strong> a<br />

flight be<strong>for</strong>e meeting movers at your new place. Or maybe you’re going <strong>to</strong> be camping out in<br />

your new home <strong>for</strong> a few weeks, doing some fix-ups, be<strong>for</strong>e <strong>the</strong> rest of your stuff catches up<br />

with you.<br />

Whatever <strong>the</strong> reason, how do you know which items are essential during your <strong>first</strong> few nights<br />

and what’s optional? What do you need <strong>to</strong> bring <strong>to</strong> your new home, and what can you leave<br />

behind without kicking yourself <strong>for</strong> it later? It may seem overwhelming <strong>to</strong> distill your entire<br />

household of possessions in<strong>to</strong> a few essential boxes, but it can be done. Here are 30 items you<br />

should definitely bring <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>first</strong> days in your new home:<br />

1. Keys<br />

Don’t laugh — we <strong>for</strong>get <strong>the</strong> obvious all <strong>the</strong> <strong>time</strong>, and you’ll be in real trouble without <strong>the</strong>se.<br />

2. A basic <strong>first</strong>-aid kit<br />

Moving heavy objects can result in a few nicks and scrapes. Be ready with Band-Aids, a<br />

<strong>the</strong>rmometer, an Ace bandage, some antiseptic wipes, tweezers, and a few ibuprofen.<br />

3. Chargers<br />

For all your essential electronics, such as your phone, lap<strong>to</strong>p, and tablet.<br />

4. A portable alarm clock


Be sure <strong>to</strong> bring one or install an alarm clock app on your phone. Moving is stressful enough<br />

on its own. You don’t want <strong>to</strong> be late <strong>for</strong> work, <strong>to</strong>o!<br />

5. Spare batteries<br />

For everything that’s not rechargeable.<br />

6. Sheets and a pillow<br />

Everyone <strong>for</strong>gets this one!<br />

7. Extra changes of clothing<br />

Include sleepwear and underwear.<br />

8. Toiletries<br />

Moving is dirty work. Remember <strong>to</strong> bring soap, shampoo, <strong>to</strong>othbrush and <strong>to</strong>othpaste,<br />

deodorant, moisturizing cream, plus <strong>to</strong>wels and washcloths <strong>for</strong> cleaning up.<br />

9. Shower curtain<br />

Ano<strong>the</strong>r often-<strong>for</strong>gotten item.<br />

10. Essential paper supplies<br />

Such as <strong>to</strong>ilet paper, paper <strong>to</strong>wels, tissues.<br />

11. Basic cleaning supplies<br />

After <strong>the</strong> dust has settled, you’ll need glass cleaner, multisurface cleaner, dish soap, rags, and<br />

a broom and dustpan.<br />

12. Enough plates, utensils, and cups<br />

And by “enough,” we mean enough <strong>for</strong> one meal <strong>for</strong> each person. You’ve got <strong>to</strong> reward all of<br />

your helpful movers after all.<br />

13. A flashlight or headlamp<br />

Make sure you’ve got new batteries in it (a la Essential No.5) in case of power failure, as well<br />

as candles and matches. (Matches can also come in handy if you have a gas s<strong>to</strong>ve that won’t<br />

light.)<br />

14. Sunblock<br />

You’ll probably be spending a lot of <strong>time</strong> outside <strong>moving</strong> boxes, running errands, or taking<br />

care of o<strong>the</strong>r tasks.<br />

15. Any medicine you take daily<br />

16. Easy-<strong>to</strong>-make meal staples


Move-in day isn’t <strong>the</strong> best <strong>time</strong> <strong>for</strong> a five-course meal. Bring food that doesn’t require much<br />

preparation, like pasta and sauce, cereal and milk, bread and peanut butter, canned soup, etc.<br />

17. Any basic cookware and gadgets<br />

You’ll need <strong>the</strong>se <strong>for</strong> those easy meals. Include a pot and pan, serving spoon, and can opener.<br />

18. Snacks<br />

Fruit, nuts, and granola bars are particular favorites, since <strong>the</strong>y require no refrigeration, no<br />

preparation, and no utensils.<br />

19. Beverages<br />

You’ll want bottled water if you won’t have immediate access <strong>to</strong> a filtration system.<br />

20. Instant coffee or tea bags<br />

If you need that morning caffeine fix … who are we kidding? WHEN you need that morning<br />

caffeine fix.<br />

21. Food and dishes <strong>for</strong> pets<br />

22. Radio <strong>for</strong> entertainment<br />

It’s <strong>time</strong> <strong>to</strong> go old school, particularly if your Wi-Fi won’t yet be set up, which means you<br />

can’t access Pandora or o<strong>the</strong>r Internet-based music stations.<br />

23. A small, portable <strong>to</strong>ol kit<br />

You’d be surprised how much you can do with basics like a hammer, screwdriver, and pliers.<br />

24. A sturdy pair of scissors<br />

For opening any boxes that are on <strong>the</strong>ir way <strong>to</strong> your new home, or packaged supplies you<br />

purchase <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> new home.<br />

25. Important identification cards and records<br />

Know where <strong>to</strong> find your driver’s license, passport, lease (if applicable), etc.<br />

26. Important contact phone numbers<br />

Including your lender, <strong>moving</strong> company, and your financial institutions.<br />

27. Pen and paper<br />

Make a list of all those <strong>to</strong>-dos you’re going <strong>to</strong> think of and all <strong>the</strong> extra stuff you’ll realize<br />

you need <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> new place.<br />

28. Cash/credit cards/checkbook


29. Duct tape<br />

Somehow, this always seems <strong>to</strong> come in handy, even at <strong>the</strong> most unexpected <strong>time</strong>s.<br />

30. A personal treat or two<br />

These will help you feel at home and relieve stress.<br />

Don’t underestimate <strong>the</strong> importance of that last point. If you always end <strong>the</strong> night with a glass<br />

of wine, bring a bottle <strong>to</strong> reward yourself at <strong>the</strong> end of your long <strong>first</strong> day. (Don’t <strong>for</strong>get <strong>the</strong><br />

wine opener and a wineglass.) If you’re an avid reader, bring a book you’ve been dying <strong>to</strong><br />

read <strong>to</strong> help you fall asleep at night. If you feel more refreshed or polished while you’re<br />

wearing makeup, bring a tube of mascara. You’re going <strong>to</strong> be working hard when you <strong>first</strong><br />

move in, so make sure you also allow yourself a bit of fun <strong>to</strong> make <strong>the</strong> transition as easy as<br />

possible.<br />

d) Budget <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong> cost of living<br />

Let’s say you have your sights set on a new <strong>city</strong> and you’re ready <strong>to</strong> pack your bags, get out<br />

of dodge, and start a new life in ano<strong>the</strong>r part of <strong>the</strong> country. (Or even <strong>the</strong> world!) Getting out<br />

of dodge is expensive, but it’s easy <strong>to</strong> get a ballpark idea of cost.<br />

Online <strong>to</strong>ols like <strong>the</strong> City <strong>to</strong> City <strong>moving</strong> calcula<strong>to</strong>r can help you break down <strong>the</strong> cost of<br />

<strong>moving</strong> <strong>to</strong> a new <strong>city</strong>, depending on <strong>the</strong> distance and a number of o<strong>the</strong>r fac<strong>to</strong>rs. Enter your<br />

old <strong>city</strong>, your new one, <strong>the</strong>n some details on how you’ll be living, and <strong>the</strong> calcula<strong>to</strong>r will tell<br />

you how much you can expect <strong>to</strong> spend. The <strong>to</strong>ol assumes you’ll drive ra<strong>the</strong>r than fly and use<br />

a service like PODs, which can make <strong>the</strong> move a lot more expensive.<br />

If you’re planning a move overseas, try this International Moving Cost calcula<strong>to</strong>r instead,<br />

which estimates what it will cost you <strong>to</strong> ship your belongings <strong>to</strong> ano<strong>the</strong>r country, whe<strong>the</strong>r it’s<br />

by sea or air.<br />

If you want <strong>to</strong> get a more cus<strong>to</strong>mized idea and do <strong>the</strong> math on your own, here are a few<br />

expenses <strong>to</strong> consider when you’re budgeting <strong>for</strong> a <strong>big</strong> move:<br />

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Transportation: The actual cost of carriage if you use a UHaul or delivery service.<br />

Gasoline: Don’t <strong>for</strong>get <strong>to</strong> fac<strong>to</strong>r in <strong>the</strong> cost of gas <strong>to</strong> haul your stuff from one <strong>city</strong> <strong>to</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> next, if applicable. If you’re driving yourself, Gas Buddy’s Trip Cost Calcula<strong>to</strong>r<br />

can help you save money by pinning <strong>the</strong> cheapest s<strong>to</strong>ps on your route.<br />

Packing material: Tape, boxes, popcorn — this stuff adds up, so it deserves its own<br />

line item in your budget. (Of course, you can score free <strong>moving</strong> boxes if you look in<br />

<strong>the</strong> right places, <strong>to</strong>o).<br />

The “Summer Premium”: If you’re <strong>moving</strong> between May and September, prices<br />

may be a bit more expensive. The calcula<strong>to</strong>r estimates it’s 20% more expensive <strong>to</strong><br />

move around this <strong>time</strong> of year.


This isn’t exactly related <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> cost of <strong>the</strong> move, but if you’re breaking your lease or you<br />

need <strong>to</strong> put a down payment on your new apartment in your new <strong>city</strong>, it’s helpful <strong>to</strong> fac<strong>to</strong>r<br />

that in as one of your <strong>moving</strong> expenses, <strong>to</strong>o.<br />

Finally, if you want <strong>to</strong> explore how much more expensive your day-<strong>to</strong>-day life will be in your<br />

new <strong>city</strong>, check out a Cost of Living calcula<strong>to</strong>r, like this one from Bank rate. The numbers<br />

will vary depending on your lifestyle, but it’s a good place <strong>to</strong> get started with a general idea<br />

of what you’ll pay.<br />

e) Make an ef<strong>for</strong>t <strong>to</strong> make new friends<br />

1. Reach out <strong>to</strong> friends of friends.<br />

Ask your current friends if <strong>the</strong>y know anyone in your new <strong>city</strong>. Get ahold of <strong>the</strong>ir contact info<br />

and reach out! Most people understand that <strong>big</strong> moves can be daunting and will be willing <strong>to</strong><br />

meet <strong>for</strong> dinner or a drink.<br />

2. Sign up <strong>for</strong> Meetup.<br />

Organize and join local, real-life "meetups" with people who share your interests. Download<br />

it <strong>for</strong> free here.<br />

3. Get a dog and download Meet My Dog.<br />

But, really. Dog parks = new friends. If that's not in <strong>the</strong> cards <strong>for</strong> you, borrow a dog.<br />

4. Go explore.<br />

It can be scary <strong>to</strong> go out on your own in a new <strong>city</strong>, but you're less intimidating when you're<br />

alone. Get a good book and wait <strong>for</strong> people <strong>to</strong> approach you, or go up <strong>to</strong> people yourself<br />

while you're out and about!<br />

5. Make an ef<strong>for</strong>t with co-workers.<br />

Start grabbing lunch with <strong>the</strong>m as much as possible. You'll get closer over <strong>time</strong> and start<br />

being invited <strong>to</strong> stuff outside of work.<br />

6. Look up local teams or running clubs.


Most cities have adult leagues you can sign up <strong>for</strong> and meet like-minded people. If team<br />

sports aren't your thing, think about joining a gym or yoga studio. If you go regularly, you're<br />

likely <strong>to</strong> see familiar faces.<br />

7. Take a continuing education class.<br />

Now is <strong>the</strong> <strong>time</strong> <strong>to</strong> take that French class you've always thought about. Or a cooking class so<br />

you're not *solely* ordering in. You just might meet a new BFF in <strong>the</strong> process!<br />

8. Search events on Nearify.<br />

While not a direct set up <strong>for</strong> meeting people, <strong>the</strong> more events you go <strong>to</strong>, <strong>the</strong> more likely you<br />

are <strong>to</strong> make friends in your new <strong>city</strong>. Download it here.<br />

9. Ask people on friend dates.<br />

Be <strong>for</strong>ward! Say, "I have a friend-crush on you, would you wanna go <strong>for</strong> coffee or something<br />

some<strong>time</strong>?" Mention that you're new <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>city</strong> and trying <strong>to</strong> explore.<br />

10. Meet new people over food with Supper Club.<br />

Eat, drink, and be merry with future BFFs. Download it here.<br />

11. Take pictures.<br />

If you're <strong>the</strong> one snapping lots of pictures at an event or party, it's super easy <strong>to</strong> get in <strong>to</strong>uch<br />

with people later. Just say: "Are you on Facebook? Or would you want me <strong>to</strong> email you a<br />

copy?" Hello, new contacts.<br />

12. Go <strong>to</strong> cultural events.<br />

It's usually af<strong>for</strong>dable and some<strong>time</strong>s even FREE. Concerts in <strong>the</strong> park, art exhibits, and plays<br />

are just <strong>the</strong> beginning. And you'll au<strong>to</strong>matically have things <strong>to</strong> talk about with <strong>the</strong> people in<br />

attendance.<br />

13. Open up!


Vulnerability plays a huge part in emotional bonds with friends. Especially early on in <strong>the</strong><br />

game, open up about yourself when meeting new people. If you keep things surface value, a<br />

friendship isn't likely <strong>to</strong> grow out of it.<br />

14. If you moved <strong>to</strong> a <strong>big</strong> <strong>city</strong>, check out City Socializer.<br />

It's also a great way <strong>to</strong> discover places you won't find in <strong>the</strong> guidebooks. Read more and sign<br />

up here.<br />

15. Do your best <strong>to</strong> say "YES!"<br />

Most of us enjoy Netflix on <strong>the</strong> couch. However, you're not going <strong>to</strong> meet anyone new from<br />

sitting in your apartment. Accept <strong>the</strong> invites you receive and get out <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

16. Volunteer somewhere you're passionate about.<br />

Make friends while making <strong>the</strong> world a better place? Win, win.<br />

17. Maintain budding friendships.<br />

Going <strong>to</strong> coffee with someone ~once~ is probably not going <strong>to</strong> cement a lifelong friendship.<br />

If you're looking <strong>for</strong> something real, commit! Plan bi-monthly brunch hangouts, or wine<br />

Wednesday get-<strong>to</strong>ge<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>the</strong> <strong>first</strong> of every month.<br />

Conclusion<br />

The truth is that if you do your homework in advance and play your cards right, you have a<br />

great chance of disproving all pessimists who like <strong>to</strong> think that cheap is almost always<br />

synonymous with poor quality.<br />

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