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Bell from Bow<br />

Celine Bell reflects on September's hidden<br />

opportunity for change<br />

Every January we see the same tired ‘New<br />

Year: New You’ messaging. It pushes us to<br />

get to the gym, to change jobs, to start a<br />

new chapter, to turn over a fresh leaf. It’s an<br />

outpouring of clichés to an audience that<br />

is still hungover and broke from Christmas,<br />

getting back into the swing of the commute<br />

and the day job after mince pies and too<br />

much Baileys.<br />

How many of those new year resolutions<br />

are cast off by grey February? And how<br />

much harder is it to get back into the swing<br />

of work, with its deadlines and targets and<br />

spreadsheets and meetings, when you’ve got<br />

the added pressure of a gym class to fit in<br />

around the supermarket list, finding missing<br />

mittens and taking the cat to the vet?<br />

For me, it’s not a time to start afresh. For a start, it’s too cold and dark. I want to hunker down with<br />

Netflix, eat hearty warming foods and stay at home. It’s infinitely preferable to polishing my CV or taking<br />

a HIIT class. And besides, there are still the dregs of Baileys to finish off.<br />

September has a very different vibe. This year my son starts school. I remember my mother dreading<br />

the August scramble round Woolworths to get new stationary, the trip to Clark's for shiny new shoes and<br />

the new haircut that ensured you looked slightly startled in front of the school gates. With Woolworths<br />

long gone and the Ocado order bringing pencil cases as well as pizza and pineapples, it’s a less stressful<br />

end to the summer, and I intend to enjoy the preparation with my excited four-year-old.<br />

After the love-bomb of the royal wedding, a hot, hot summer and the excitement of the oh-so-near<br />

football, it’s probably time for a new schedule. The school run will become the new norm, and bring with<br />

it new faces. My son will try new sports, and learn an instrument. And perhaps I should take his lead and<br />

try something new.<br />

Parenting gets you stuck in a rut. Everything changes with the arrival of a first baby, and it’s easy to lose<br />

spontaneity. This back-to-school season let the browning of the leaves inspire you to make your own<br />

changes.<br />

Best of luck from all at LoveEAST to all those<br />

starting on new school adventures in September!<br />

ABOUT CELINE<br />

Mum from bow, gin addict, perma-knackered, fan of food,<br />

coffee and cheese. Follow Celine for more adventures in<br />

parenting:<br />

@bell_from_bow<br />

@bell_from_bow<br />

bellfrombow.com<br />

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