Kidney Matters - Issue 3, Autumn 2018

Kayleigh Wakeling (33 years old)
I remember scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed and seeing a post which had been shared by my friend, which
originated from a lady who described how she had chronic kidney disease and needed a kidney to save her life. I just
thought ‘I can do that!’ and after speaking to my partner and my family, reading the materials shared, and doing further
researching online, I put myself forward for testing. It really was that black and white.
Louise responded that same day, and we immediately started what would continue to be
a really fun, open and honest relationship. We started by discussing the process and
requirements, but quickly moved on to who we were as people – what made us tick,
whether we would get on, what our families might think of the whole possibility
that I could be a donor, what it would mean for Louise. It really felt like the right
thing to do, and I was really keen to help if I could.
I went forward for the preliminary testing, which is a blood test to check
blood and tissue compatibility. The whole process was remarkably simple
and the staff at Guy’s Hospital were really reassuring and knowledgeable.
Louise came to meet me at the hospital, and from then on, we attended
every appointment together. Somehow, Louise made the process fun
and she always looked on the positive side. Through designing us cheesy
t-shirts, publicising about the process, and trying to make the best out of
the situation to raise more awareness, I knew Louise was going to value
my gift and do the best she could with it!
When I was told that I was a match for Louise I felt incredibly happy. I
wanted to share the news with her myself, so I asked the Kidney Coordinator
whether I could call Louise to tell her. It was such a brilliant moment being able
“after getting to the
hospital and seeing
Louise I felt pure
happiness, knowing
today was the start of
something special”
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Issue 3 Autumn 2018 www.kidneycareuk.org