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20 | November 21, 2018 | The glencoe anchor faith<br />

glencoeanchor.com<br />

Faith Briefs<br />

In Memoriam<br />

Grace Dodge Fuller Kirk<br />

New Trier graduate Grace Dodge<br />

Fuller Kirk was born on Dec. 2,<br />

1926 and died Nov. 10. Kirk was<br />

a resident of Winnetka at the time<br />

of passing. She attended The Latin<br />

School of Chicago and New Trier<br />

High School, graduating with honors<br />

and Northwestern University<br />

graduating in the Alpha Lambda<br />

Delta Society with Honors. A memorial<br />

service will be held at 11<br />

a.m. Saturday, Nov. 24 at Lake Forest<br />

Place, 1100 Pembridge Drive,<br />

Lake Forest, IL 60045. In lieu of<br />

flowers, memorials may be made<br />

to: The Women’s Board of the Field<br />

Museum 1400 South Lake Shore<br />

Drive Chicago, IL 60605 American<br />

Cancer Society 225 North Michigan<br />

Avenue Chicago, IL 60601 Christ<br />

Church 470 Maple Street Winnetka,<br />

IL 60093 Info: or (847) 675-1990.<br />

North Shore Congregation Israel (1185<br />

Sheridan Road, Glencoe)<br />

North Shore Alateen Meeting<br />

Join the congregation for this<br />

meeting from 7-8 p.m. every<br />

Monday until Dec. 17.<br />

Study the Talmud with Rabbi<br />

Geffen - Fall Session<br />

Join Rabbi Geffen from 1-2<br />

p.m. Monday, Nov. 26, Dec. 3<br />

and Dec. 17, as we continue the<br />

study of Tractate Brachot. All<br />

are welcome!<br />

Florence Melton School of Adult<br />

Jewish Learning-Combined Core<br />

Year 1<br />

The Melton Core class provides<br />

a high-quality, meaningful<br />

adult Jewish learning opportunity.<br />

This class is held at<br />

the Board of Jewish Education<br />

Campus for Jewish Learning,<br />

Northbrook from 7-9:15<br />

on Tuesdays through April<br />

2019. To register contact Rolly<br />

Cohen at rolly@bjechicago.<br />

org.<br />

After Adult B’nei Mitzvah:<br />

Onward!<br />

Join the congregation from<br />

6:30-7:30 p.m. on Monday Nov.<br />

26 and Dec. 3 for this event,<br />

which is for adults who have<br />

already been called to the Torah<br />

as adult b’nei mitzvah in out<br />

NSCI Adult B’nei Mitzvah program,<br />

here is an opportunity to<br />

continue learning Hebrew and<br />

prayer with our beloved teacher<br />

Judy Weiss.<br />

Ritual in Our Lives<br />

From 7-8:30 p.m. Monday,<br />

Nov. 26, explore with Rabbi<br />

Greene opportunities to make<br />

times of joy and times of struggle,<br />

the great and the small,<br />

meaningful in a Jewish way.<br />

Taste of Judaism<br />

This engaging class from<br />

7-8:30 on Tuesday, Nov. 27,<br />

on Jewish spirituality, ethics<br />

and community is designed for<br />

the curious beginner. Taught by<br />

Rabbi Lisa Greene. Pre-registration<br />

is required. Contrat Joy<br />

Wasserman, jbwasserman@urj.<br />

com 872-256-1818<br />

New Member Night Out<br />

Explore the many opportunities<br />

NSCI has to offer you with<br />

clergy, staff and members of the<br />

board of trustees at an intimate<br />

dinner at 6:30 p.m. Wednesday,<br />

Nov. 28, at The Yummy Bowl<br />

(1908 Sheridan Road). The dinner<br />

is $20/person and make sure<br />

to register at nsci.org/event/<br />

newmembernightout.<br />

Am Shalom (840 Vernon Ave.)<br />

New Member Welcome Event<br />

Get to know Am Shalom’s<br />

clergy and other new members!<br />

Join the congregation for dessert<br />

and coffee at 7 p.m. Tuesday,<br />

Nov. 27, followed by a<br />

brief program.<br />

Raising Can-Do Kids: Navigating<br />

the Trials and Tribulations of<br />

Parenting<br />

Join JCC Chicago, The Chicago<br />

Early Engagement Initiative,<br />

directed by the Union for<br />

Reform Judaism and Coping<br />

Partners, for a special event just<br />

for parents to learn, laugh, mix<br />

and mingle. Be part of the conversation<br />

led by our partners,<br />

Coping Partners, and Dr. Leigh<br />

Weisz, Licensed Clinical Psychologist;<br />

Michelle Winterstein,<br />

LCSW; and Dr. Daniel Sorkin,<br />

Licensed Clinical Psychologist.<br />

Parents will learn: How to allow<br />

for and embrace children’s<br />

mistakes and failures; How to<br />

instill a growth mindset in your<br />

children; Why parents hover<br />

and how to step back; How to<br />

focus more on the process, not<br />

the outcome; How to implement<br />

chores in your household and<br />

why this is so crucial.<br />

This event is FREE, but<br />

RSVP is requested. Free copy<br />

of the book, “Raising Can-Do<br />

Kids: Giving Children the Tools<br />

to Thrive in a Fast-Changing<br />

World,” by Richard Renda,<br />

PhD. and Jen Prosek, will be<br />

given to every pre-registered<br />

guest.<br />

RSVP on the congregation’s<br />

website. Questions? Contact<br />

Jody Benishay at 847.835.0008<br />

or jbenishay@jccchicago.org.<br />

St. Elisabeth’s Episcopal Church (556 Vernon<br />

Ave.)<br />

Advent Wreath Making<br />

Come One, Come All to join<br />

for the annual holiday tradition<br />

of Advent Wreath Making at St.<br />

Elisabeth’s. This year’s gathering<br />

will be after the 10:00 a.m.<br />

service on Dec. 2. Children and<br />

adults can work together to create<br />

beautiful wreaths to be used<br />

in your homes during the season<br />

of Advent and on into Christmas.<br />

There will also be the opportunity<br />

to help create Advent<br />

wreaths for those who cannot be<br />

with us on Dec. 2 or would like<br />

help with their wreath-making.<br />

There is a sign-up sheet on the<br />

bulletin board in the hallway.<br />

Christian formation<br />

On Sunday mornings, drop<br />

your child off at the second<br />

floor rooms for Catechesis of the<br />

Good Shepherd at 9:50 a.m. This<br />

year, we are trying something<br />

new, having all children come<br />

at 9:50 a.m., and joining the<br />

congregation at the beginning<br />

of Holy Eucharist. After refreshments<br />

all children are welcomed<br />

back upstairs during the adult forum<br />

time. Childcare continues to<br />

be available for the younger ones<br />

in the nursery on the first floor.<br />

Of course, children of all ages<br />

are also invited to stay in church<br />

with their family.<br />

Submit information for The Anchor’s<br />

Faith page to m.wojtychiw@<br />

22ndcenturymedia.com.<br />

Stewart E. Kleinschmidt<br />

New Trier graduate Stewart E.<br />

Kleinschmidt died in November. He<br />

was a resident of Illinois at the time<br />

of passing. He graduated from New<br />

Trier High School in Winnetka,<br />

completed DeVry electronics training,<br />

attended Northwestern University<br />

in Evanston and was mentored<br />

by German immigrant machinists.<br />

Interment will be private.<br />

Have someone’s life you’d like to<br />

honor? Email Michael Wojtychiw at<br />

m.wojtychiw@22ndcenturymedia.<br />

com with information about a loved<br />

one who was part of the Glencoe<br />

community.<br />

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experiences also helped her enjoy<br />

and value what she learned<br />

from the culture and many people<br />

she met and lived with in Latin<br />

America.<br />

“I returned home with a more<br />

open mind about the people and<br />

what was important to them,”<br />

Chevalier said. “I learned about<br />

the danger of stereotypes. They<br />

are not necessarily wrong stories<br />

about a different culture, rather<br />

incomplete ones.”<br />

Chevalier was born in Paris,<br />

France, and lived in a small town<br />

outside the city until she was<br />

about 5 years old.<br />

“Some of my earliest memories<br />

are of living there,” she<br />

said. “When I came to the United<br />

States to live, it was culture<br />

shock and not just whether fork<br />

tines should be faced up or down<br />

when setting the table.”<br />

She listed some differences.<br />

“At mealtime, adults are<br />

served first,” Chevalier said.<br />

“Here it is children first. Children<br />

abroad seem to be more<br />

respectful. Sports teams are<br />

separate from schools. Many<br />

people outside the U.S. tend<br />

to view Americans as having a<br />

‘consumptive’ attitude. People<br />

must have more things — more<br />

clothes, more everything. People<br />

stand in long lines to get<br />

the latest iPhone when they<br />

already have a good or newer<br />

model.”<br />

Chevalier and her family lived<br />

in Chicago before moving to the<br />

North Shore.<br />

She attended Chicago’s<br />

French school when they first<br />

arrived. By third grade she was<br />

living in Wilmette and went to<br />

Central School.<br />

“It was difficult for me because<br />

I could speak English but<br />

not write it,” Chevalier said. “I<br />

had a hard time understanding<br />

why my peers used the word<br />

‘like’ so often in their speech.<br />

“My mother helped me<br />

through it all.”<br />

She attended Highcrest Middle<br />

School, which she credits for<br />

helping her learn Spanish. Wilmette<br />

Junior High School was<br />

where she spent seventh grade<br />

but she attended St. Francis<br />

Xavier for eighth.<br />

“I now think these experiences<br />

of the different schools enabled<br />

me to adapt to new places and<br />

meet people more easily,” she<br />

said. “The culture in Panama and<br />

Nicaragua is a different way of<br />

life. School is prioritized. Students<br />

wear uniforms to show a<br />

sense of equality. People watch<br />

out for each other and not just<br />

those with whom they are living.<br />

Family and friends do not fall by<br />

the wayside.”<br />

Chevalier said she keeps in<br />

touch with those she met in Panama<br />

and Nicaragua. She plans return<br />

visits once she finishes college<br />

at the University of British<br />

Columbia, where she is studying<br />

environmental sustainability and<br />

international relations.<br />

“These people in Panama and<br />

Nicaragua taught me what really<br />

is important in life,” she said.<br />

Find more info about Sophie<br />

Chevalier’s service trips to Panama<br />

and Nicaragua by emailing:<br />

schevalier1965@gmail.com.

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