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Family Care Network Annual Report

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Foster-Adoption<br />

We became a State Licensed<br />

Adoption agency in 2014. Since this<br />

time, the agency has developed a<br />

strong adoption program focused on<br />

placing children with highly-trained<br />

families, adding an additional layer<br />

to our ongoing efforts to move our<br />

foster children and youth towards<br />

permanent family-based homes<br />

within their local community.<br />

2017-2018 Outcomes<br />

Children/Youth Served 1<br />

Successful<br />

Placement Days 100%<br />

Cora<br />

When Denise and Lee became adoptive foster parents, they were full of anticipation. While unsure of what to<br />

expect, they were excited to care for someone who truly needed them. That someone would turn out to be<br />

Cora—a nine year old girl who was placed in Emergency Shelter <strong>Care</strong> when her grandparents could no longer<br />

care for her. Without parents or other family, Cora was asked how she felt about being adopted. Cora answered<br />

that she had little hope. But little did she know who was waiting for her.<br />

At an FCNI event, Cora’s Shelter parents met Denise and Lee, and were taken by their compassion. After<br />

speaking with Cora’s social worker, the team decided to introduce the three. Their first meeting went so well,<br />

the team arranged for more meetings, and then overnight stays. A happy surprise came for everyone when<br />

Denise and Lee asked if they could foster-adopt Cora.<br />

With the adoption process started, Denise and Lee welcomed an excited Cora into their home. At first, Cora<br />

was her usual happy self, but soon she started acting out. At dinnertime and bedtime, she started tantruming,<br />

and she could no longer sleep through the night. Cora’s team recognized that in the comfort of her new home,<br />

Cora’s defenses lowered and she started displaying the effects of her past trauma. To meet the family’s and<br />

Cora’s immediate needs, FCNI provided the family additional support.<br />

The plan was to help Denise and Lee learn how to best support Cora while she learned how to cope more<br />

effectively as she healed. Cora started meeting with a therapist weekly, and an FCNI counselor a couple days a<br />

week. Cora and her counselor worked in Cora’s home, helping the whole family strengthen their communication<br />

and coping skills. Denise and Lee also started attending a weekly FCNI Foster Parent support group so they<br />

could learn from others in similar circumstances. And together, the three of them participated in family therapy<br />

sessions. Over the next several months, the new family grew stronger, bonding over their shared experiences,<br />

new skills, and their mutual love and trust.<br />

While Denise and Lee were happy to become adoptive foster parents, they never expected to encounter the<br />

growth, challenges and immeasurable love that they have. While nothing is ever perfect, they did find their “perfectfor-them”<br />

family when they adopted Cora. And because of Cora, they now have the skills, experience and hope to<br />

add more foster children into their lives—happy to face the new challenges of growing their family together.<br />

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