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Hales - Counsellor & Psychotherapist - works extensively with Grief & Loss, Relationships, Mark Stress, Depression & Anxiety. As a Holistic Counsellor he's interested in helping people be at Addictions, best Spiritually, Mentally, Physically. He sees Counselling as a spiritual process where the whole their is acknowledged and cared for. In his work he ensures the Spirit is not left wanting. person often mistake Counselling as a Talk Therapy and not as a Spiritual Healing Practice - but as People of Holistic Counselling both Julia and Mark are examples of how care for the soul can propel "products" life change. In their understanding and application, Counselling is what you might call massive - viewing life and life experiences as part of the larger process of spiritual development, Transpersonal also works with organisations as their specialist Counsellor. He publishes short, insightful, self-help Mark like this one on Grief & Loss, regularly on his Facebook Page and Website... articles, more fully understand the experience of loss, it is helpful to understand it’s universality in ...to life. In a sense, we lose something along each step of life’s journey, from the concrete human of people, places and objects we have come to cherish, to the more immaterial but losses significant loss of our youth, dreams or ideals as we navigate life’s twists and turns, equally the inescapable transitions we undergo from childhood to old age diminish as well as Because us, it is important to recognise that all change involves loss, just as all loss requires enlarge is something we do as a natural response to loss. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to Grieving with grief; everyone experiences it in different ways. Often a person who is grieving will deal a wide array of emotions. The process isn’t linear, and doesn’t have a set time limit experience intensity. or grieving process is crucial to future happiness, emotional and social well-being and is part The the human experience, it is a journey through darkness that needs to happen. The pain of vital you prioritise looking after yourself. Give yourself the space to reflect and to explore It’s thoughts and feelings. Allow time to heal without setting unrealistic goals and deadlines your delay making major life decisions or changes. Being patient with the grieving process and and yourself to feel without the need to “get over it” or “move on” as time will inevitably allowing your level of distress. Seek support from friends and family, keep a journal or exercise ease creativity through painting, story writing. poetry or cooking. your you continue to struggle with grief and loss and the displacement that comes with it, it's If to your wellbeing to work with a Helper so you can find ways to express your grief and critical LOSS IS THE SHADOW OF ALL POSSESSIONS. living creatively and in alignment and resonance with your Soul and therefore Spirit. ups and downs. change. subsides and the soul is stronger when you allow grieving to take its course, however painful. work with your pain. Let Mark help you or visit www.counsellinginmanly.com.au p. 05
HOW HEALING WORKS HARD WORK DOESN'T HAVE TO MAKE YOU MISERABLE THIS IS HARD WORK...says just about everyone who is If you are experiencing a life problem or physical ailment, doing their inner work. Yes, it takes time, patience, the Spiritual Understanding is that it is already happening courage, love, self-belief and stamina to go the at the Spiritual Level. And it is at the Spiritual Level that distance, but when you do, nothing will be the same we work first - to bring what is out of Spiritual Alignment again. back into Lokahi or Unity with the Higher Being. If anything is preventing this alignment, it needs to be The Kupuna, the old people, will tell you that healing is resolved and removed. both a spiritual & a mental discipline. We must have the mental discipline to say 'NO' to the old habits, patterns, What you do AFTER a healing session is PART of the hurts and grudges that we've carried for years and Healing Process. When healing has ocurred at the sometimes a lifetime. Spiritual Level it also has to be brought into the physical level, or realm, because that's where you are right now. Whenever someone comes to healing it's because You have to make the healing tangible in your own world they've reached that point, where intuitively they know so that you are living the Healing and not the Wounding. something's got to change. Taking the steps necessary This is a critical step in the process. to put an end to it once and for all takes a lot of courage, that's for sure. None of us know where it will Often after sessions, like Lomi Lomi or Ho'oponopono, a take us once we leap of the cliff into the "not knowing". recommendation is given for exactly this purpose. These after session tasks are the physical resolution to the But, even in the "not knowing' there's an inkling of problem and are designed to fortify your mental absolutely knowing that this is the thing you need to be discipline as well as be a container for Spirit and the doing. It's that level of self-trust that prompts you to Ancestors to continue guiding and working with you. follow your inner guidance. And that inner guidance is Think of it as your homework. evidence of your willingness to work with Spirit. Living the Healing takes practice because you have no Just about all Indigenous Cultures understand the experience of life without the pain or suffering you've SPIRIT, MIND, BODY process at great depth. They healed. And it takes courage as well to action the after understand how the Universe works and the interplay session tasks and resolutions, which show you what to of Universal Factors in the resolution of life problems do so that you have the greatest chance of success. The and the evolution of you as a Spiritual Energy - that's people who experience life change are the ones who do why all life problems are Spiritual Problems. the after work consistently and that's why they're the ones who get the results and rediscover their True Self. HEALING always occurs on the Spiritual Level first. It's Spirit and the Ancestors that are doing the healing So if you're not getting the traction you want after work. The Healer is the physical connection with them - healing, are you doing your homework? like a power cord into a socket. p. 06
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