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The Progressive School Vol 02 Issue 04

The Progressive School is a quarterly magazine for school owners, leaders and principals. It will continue to address vital issues that impact the emerging challenges in the design, administration and growth of schools in all its dimension.

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Better agrees, “Digital connectivity<br />

cannot replace physical connectivity.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is nothing better than personal<br />

face to face talk. You cannot rely on<br />

the social media to replace personal<br />

interactions.”<br />

• Limit digital media for your<br />

youngest family members: Avoid<br />

digital media for toddlers younger<br />

than 18 to 24 months other than<br />

video chatting. For children between<br />

18 to 24 months, watch digital media<br />

with them because they learn from<br />

watching and talking with you. Limit<br />

screen use for preschool children,<br />

ages 2 to 5, to just 1 hour a day of<br />

high-quality programming, and<br />

watch it with them so you can help<br />

them learn from what they’re seeing.<br />

Similarly, certain controls need to<br />

be kept for your teenager in terms<br />

of putting time limits for use and<br />

knowing what they are doing online<br />

when using technological devices.<br />

Kanika Khandelwal Ahuja a Professor<br />

of Sociology at Lady Shri Ram<br />

College New Delhi says, “Kids are<br />

chained to their phones these days.<br />

It is obvious that they have picked<br />

this up from watching adults. It is<br />

becoming tough to separate people<br />

from their smart phones, ultimately,<br />

impacting our everyday behaviour<br />

and conversations”. In the words of<br />

Amrit Bhasin, Sociologist, “Spending<br />

more than seven hours a day on your<br />

gadgets will lead to the breakdown<br />

of cognitive abilities, akin to having<br />

a severe head injury.” Social media<br />

commentator Chetan Deshpande<br />

feels, we are a mobile zombie<br />

generation. “Staring at our phone<br />

24 x7 has given rise to unpredictable<br />

behaviours cybersickness, facebook<br />

depression and internet addition<br />

disorder.”<br />

• Create tech-free zones: Keep family<br />

mealtimes, other family and social<br />

gatherings, and children’s bedroom’s<br />

screen free. Turn off televisions<br />

that you aren’t watching, because<br />

background TV can get in the way<br />

of face-to-face time with children.<br />

Recharge devices overnight—outside<br />

your child’s bedroom to help children<br />

avoid the temptation to use them<br />

when they should be sleeping. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

changes encourage more family<br />

time, healthier eating habits, and<br />

better sleep, all critical for children’s<br />

wellness.<br />

• Don’t use technology as an<br />

emotional pacifier: Media can be<br />

very effective in keeping children<br />

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calm and quiet, but it should not be<br />

the only way they learn to calm down.<br />

Children need to be taught how to<br />

identify and handle strong emotions,<br />

come up with activities to manage<br />

boredom, or calm down through<br />

breathing, talking about ways to<br />

solve the problem, and finding other<br />

strategies for channelling emotions.<br />

• It’s OK for your child to be online:<br />

Online relationships are part of typical<br />

adolescent development. Social media<br />

can support teens as they explore and<br />

discover more about themselves and<br />

their place in the grown-up world.<br />

Just be sure your child is behaving<br />

appropriately in both the real and<br />

online world. Many children need to<br />

be reminded that a platform’s privacy<br />

settings do not make things actually<br />

“private” and that images, thoughts,<br />

and behaviours children share online<br />

will instantly become a part of their<br />

digital footprint indefinitely. Keep<br />

lines of communication open and let<br />

them know you’re there if they have<br />

questions or concerns.<br />

• Warn children about the<br />

importance of privacy and the<br />

dangers: Children need to know<br />

that once content is shared with<br />

others, they will not be able to delete<br />

or remove it completely, and this<br />

includes sharing of inappropriate<br />

pictures. <strong>The</strong>y may also not know<br />

about or choose not to use privacy<br />

settings, and they need to be warned<br />

that sex offenders often use social<br />

networking, chat rooms, e-mail, and<br />

online gaming to contact and exploit<br />

children.<br />

• Remember that children will be<br />

children: Kids will make mistakes<br />

using media. Try to handle errors<br />

with empathy and turn a mistake<br />

into a teachable moment. But some<br />

indiscretions, such as bullying, or<br />

posting self-harm images, may be a<br />

red flag that hints at trouble ahead.<br />

You must observe carefully your<br />

children’s behaviour and, if needed,<br />

enlist supportive professional help.<br />

Responding to your child’s changing<br />

needs can be the toughest part<br />

of parenting. What’s important is to<br />

remember that good parenting is about<br />

unconditional support and love. You<br />

don’t have to know everything they’re<br />

doing to still be the major influence in<br />

their life. Children need to develop their<br />

independence, take risks and find their<br />

own ways to cope with things. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

comes a point when it isn’t possible to<br />

keep track of what your child does. You’ll<br />

be relying on things you taught them<br />

early on, and doing everything you can<br />

to make sure they know you’re there if<br />

they need you. Media and digital devices<br />

are an integral part of our world today<br />

and the benefits of these devices, if used<br />

moderately and appropriately, can be<br />

great, but excessive use can be damaging<br />

too. In the end, we need to remember that<br />

face-to-face time with family, friends,<br />

and teachers plays a pivotal role in<br />

promoting children’s learning and healthy<br />

development.<br />

To conclude, in the words of Chetan<br />

Despande, “To be pragmatic, gadgets,<br />

per se, are not bad; it is our dependance<br />

on them that is harmful. It has become<br />

imperative to incorporate cyber<br />

mindfulness (being aware of your online<br />

activities and your digital behaviour) in<br />

our lives. We must consciously choose<br />

to disconnect, for some time at least, as<br />

a daily ritual.”<br />

JUL-AUG-SEP 2018<br />

THE PROGRESSIVE SCHOOL<br />

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