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<strong>OP</strong>Prairiedaily.com sound off<br />

the orland park prairie | November 27, 2019 | 13<br />

Social snapshot<br />

Top Web Stories<br />

From opprairie.com as of Friday, Nov. 22<br />

1. Homer Glen: Shorewood Home & Auto<br />

has groundbreaking for future 159th<br />

Street facility<br />

2. Hope Covenant pastor takes case for<br />

shelter to Orland Park Village Board<br />

3. Police looking for three people who<br />

committed two armed robberies<br />

4. Home of the Week: 68 Silo Ridge<br />

Road East<br />

5. Church continues with shelter in face<br />

of violations cited, court proceedings<br />

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Orland Park Public Library on Friday, Nov.<br />

22, asked, “What is the title of one book<br />

that you would read again that you read in<br />

school?”<br />

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“Thank you @StaggHighSchool<br />

#KeyClub students for #volunteering<br />

at our #ThriftStore helping to support<br />

the free programs offered to local<br />

teens. #TeenService #SupportsTeens<br />

#TheBridge #Thankyou”<br />

@TheBridgeTC — Bridge Teen Center on<br />

Friday, Nov. 22<br />

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Poetry in <strong>OP</strong><br />

‘Puppy<br />

Love’<br />

Lin Peterson<br />

Orland Park resident<br />

My puppy, it seems,<br />

Has us very welltrained<br />

She insists on walks<br />

Except when it rains<br />

She’ll never eat dogfood<br />

If chicken is around.<br />

And never eat chicken<br />

If treats can be found.<br />

Couches she’ll abide<br />

If laps can’t be slept in.<br />

And sometimes her own<br />

bed,<br />

That her toys are kept<br />

in.<br />

She has her routines<br />

Which she absolutely<br />

insists on<br />

Eat, sleep; eat, sleep<br />

Then a walk by the<br />

pond<br />

Rides in the car<br />

And visiting friends<br />

Then back home to nap<br />

As the day ends<br />

One last trip outside<br />

And wash up her feet<br />

Then curl up in our bed<br />

The sandman to meet<br />

As long as we do<br />

Whatever she’s bidding<br />

We’re allowed to live<br />

here<br />

And pay for her living.<br />

From the Editor<br />

Great + Attitude =<br />

BILL JONES<br />

bill@opprairie.com<br />

You can’t have<br />

gratitude without<br />

attitude.<br />

OK, that might initially<br />

sound clever verbally but<br />

the notion falls apart in<br />

print when you realize,<br />

“Hey, ‘attitude’ has too<br />

many Ts to fit inside of<br />

‘gratitude.’”<br />

You are correct.<br />

It is also just a bogus<br />

philosophy. A show of<br />

appreciation tends to ring<br />

truer when one humbles<br />

oneself a bit and expresses<br />

what difference those<br />

things that warranted the<br />

thanks made, on a personal<br />

level.<br />

I bring up this bad example,<br />

though, to show how<br />

things differ depending on<br />

how you say something —<br />

in this case, writing versus<br />

speech.<br />

Many of us are about to<br />

be sitting around a table<br />

with family somewhere,<br />

and some might be prompted<br />

to share what they’re<br />

thankful for. Many a teen<br />

will mumble. Some will<br />

default to the meal before<br />

them as a stock answer. An<br />

aunt will likely remind everyone<br />

that being together<br />

is what’s most important.<br />

Thursday, your Facebook<br />

feeds will be inundated<br />

with lengthy posts<br />

Gratitude<br />

reflecting on similar things.<br />

Your Twitter feeds beset<br />

by debates over the merit<br />

of the holiday. Many will<br />

just be gearing up for the<br />

shopping extravaganza that<br />

follows.<br />

That it is all so predictable<br />

is part of the problem<br />

when it comes to this day<br />

of giving thanks.<br />

And it got me thinking<br />

again about Bill Nicholson,<br />

who I interviewed a few<br />

weeks back for our cover<br />

story about his World War<br />

II history. It was mentioned<br />

to me that Nicholson had<br />

shown some appreciation<br />

recently by writing thank<br />

you notes, and no one does<br />

that anymore. That small<br />

show of effort left a real<br />

impression on someone.<br />

At some point, thank<br />

you notes might have been<br />

commonplace. But today,<br />

we’re content to simply like<br />

a comment, send a “TY”<br />

or “thnx” by email, or offer<br />

a verbal “thanks” without<br />

even thinking about it.<br />

Don’t get me wrong —<br />

any show of thanks feels<br />

better than nothing. And<br />

I’m not advocating for<br />

every “thank you” to be<br />

submitted in writing.<br />

But there is something<br />

about a personal touch to<br />

a thank you — something<br />

that shows a bit of effort —<br />

that makes that gratitude<br />

stand out in a sea of autoresponses.<br />

That means taking the<br />

time to craft a handwritten<br />

note, actually telling<br />

your family what they<br />

mean to you rather than<br />

simply acknowledging that<br />

you are sitting at a table<br />

with them, or reminding<br />

that retail worker that you<br />

come to that shop because<br />

of her great recommendations,<br />

because she always<br />

remembers your name and<br />

she takes care to get your<br />

orders right — and you<br />

appreciate her for that.<br />

And when you inevitably<br />

take your thanks to<br />

social media, maybe reach<br />

out to the people who are<br />

important to you rather<br />

than simply directing all<br />

attention to the wall of you,<br />

the thankful. Think not<br />

about how you’re a thankful<br />

person but rather what<br />

you want your gratitude<br />

to make someone else fee.<br />

Then, take the effort to<br />

make it so.<br />

K? thx<br />

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