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<strong>OP</strong>Prairiedaily.com sound off<br />
the orland park prairie | November 27, 2019 | 13<br />
Social snapshot<br />
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From opprairie.com as of Friday, Nov. 22<br />
1. Homer Glen: Shorewood Home & Auto<br />
has groundbreaking for future 159th<br />
Street facility<br />
2. Hope Covenant pastor takes case for<br />
shelter to Orland Park Village Board<br />
3. Police looking for three people who<br />
committed two armed robberies<br />
4. Home of the Week: 68 Silo Ridge<br />
Road East<br />
5. Church continues with shelter in face<br />
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Orland Park Public Library on Friday, Nov.<br />
22, asked, “What is the title of one book<br />
that you would read again that you read in<br />
school?”<br />
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“Thank you @StaggHighSchool<br />
#KeyClub students for #volunteering<br />
at our #ThriftStore helping to support<br />
the free programs offered to local<br />
teens. #TeenService #SupportsTeens<br />
#TheBridge #Thankyou”<br />
@TheBridgeTC — Bridge Teen Center on<br />
Friday, Nov. 22<br />
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Poetry in <strong>OP</strong><br />
‘Puppy<br />
Love’<br />
Lin Peterson<br />
Orland Park resident<br />
My puppy, it seems,<br />
Has us very welltrained<br />
She insists on walks<br />
Except when it rains<br />
She’ll never eat dogfood<br />
If chicken is around.<br />
And never eat chicken<br />
If treats can be found.<br />
Couches she’ll abide<br />
If laps can’t be slept in.<br />
And sometimes her own<br />
bed,<br />
That her toys are kept<br />
in.<br />
She has her routines<br />
Which she absolutely<br />
insists on<br />
Eat, sleep; eat, sleep<br />
Then a walk by the<br />
pond<br />
Rides in the car<br />
And visiting friends<br />
Then back home to nap<br />
As the day ends<br />
One last trip outside<br />
And wash up her feet<br />
Then curl up in our bed<br />
The sandman to meet<br />
As long as we do<br />
Whatever she’s bidding<br />
We’re allowed to live<br />
here<br />
And pay for her living.<br />
From the Editor<br />
Great + Attitude =<br />
BILL JONES<br />
bill@opprairie.com<br />
You can’t have<br />
gratitude without<br />
attitude.<br />
OK, that might initially<br />
sound clever verbally but<br />
the notion falls apart in<br />
print when you realize,<br />
“Hey, ‘attitude’ has too<br />
many Ts to fit inside of<br />
‘gratitude.’”<br />
You are correct.<br />
It is also just a bogus<br />
philosophy. A show of<br />
appreciation tends to ring<br />
truer when one humbles<br />
oneself a bit and expresses<br />
what difference those<br />
things that warranted the<br />
thanks made, on a personal<br />
level.<br />
I bring up this bad example,<br />
though, to show how<br />
things differ depending on<br />
how you say something —<br />
in this case, writing versus<br />
speech.<br />
Many of us are about to<br />
be sitting around a table<br />
with family somewhere,<br />
and some might be prompted<br />
to share what they’re<br />
thankful for. Many a teen<br />
will mumble. Some will<br />
default to the meal before<br />
them as a stock answer. An<br />
aunt will likely remind everyone<br />
that being together<br />
is what’s most important.<br />
Thursday, your Facebook<br />
feeds will be inundated<br />
with lengthy posts<br />
Gratitude<br />
reflecting on similar things.<br />
Your Twitter feeds beset<br />
by debates over the merit<br />
of the holiday. Many will<br />
just be gearing up for the<br />
shopping extravaganza that<br />
follows.<br />
That it is all so predictable<br />
is part of the problem<br />
when it comes to this day<br />
of giving thanks.<br />
And it got me thinking<br />
again about Bill Nicholson,<br />
who I interviewed a few<br />
weeks back for our cover<br />
story about his World War<br />
II history. It was mentioned<br />
to me that Nicholson had<br />
shown some appreciation<br />
recently by writing thank<br />
you notes, and no one does<br />
that anymore. That small<br />
show of effort left a real<br />
impression on someone.<br />
At some point, thank<br />
you notes might have been<br />
commonplace. But today,<br />
we’re content to simply like<br />
a comment, send a “TY”<br />
or “thnx” by email, or offer<br />
a verbal “thanks” without<br />
even thinking about it.<br />
Don’t get me wrong —<br />
any show of thanks feels<br />
better than nothing. And<br />
I’m not advocating for<br />
every “thank you” to be<br />
submitted in writing.<br />
But there is something<br />
about a personal touch to<br />
a thank you — something<br />
that shows a bit of effort —<br />
that makes that gratitude<br />
stand out in a sea of autoresponses.<br />
That means taking the<br />
time to craft a handwritten<br />
note, actually telling<br />
your family what they<br />
mean to you rather than<br />
simply acknowledging that<br />
you are sitting at a table<br />
with them, or reminding<br />
that retail worker that you<br />
come to that shop because<br />
of her great recommendations,<br />
because she always<br />
remembers your name and<br />
she takes care to get your<br />
orders right — and you<br />
appreciate her for that.<br />
And when you inevitably<br />
take your thanks to<br />
social media, maybe reach<br />
out to the people who are<br />
important to you rather<br />
than simply directing all<br />
attention to the wall of you,<br />
the thankful. Think not<br />
about how you’re a thankful<br />
person but rather what<br />
you want your gratitude<br />
to make someone else fee.<br />
Then, take the effort to<br />
make it so.<br />
K? thx<br />
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