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Letter
From The
Editor in Chief
And we are off to the
tracks....yes Derby
145th is upon us and
it is an exhilarating
time at the tracks.
This few minutes spectacle is viewed
all around the world has become
not only a global phenomenon but
something to look forward to. As a
Nigerian, I find it fascinating because
I’ve never attended such an event
that is centered around horses. I
never phantom that a whole culture,
event, community, sporting brand
can be built around horses or horse
back riding. Coming to America and
moving to Kentuckiana certainly
changed that perception. I remember
attending my very first Oaks and
Derby events and going to the tracks
with friends. This was many years
ago but it was so much fun: it was
fun to people-watch, the fashion was
on point, the race was nerve-wrecking
but beautiful and because I had
such a great time, I’ve made it a point
to attend almost every year since
my first encounter. I wonder what
this year’s Derby has in stock. I’m
prepped and ready to experience the
biggest horse race in the US. Will I see you at the tracks? Will you
be at this year’s events? Well, don’t be shy....make sure to say hello.
Oremeyi Kareem
Editor-in-Chief and Publisher
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Tynesha Bishop-Thomas & Teandra Bishop both sisters & entrepreneurs
in the hair industry both knew at an early age that they wanted not only
to become hairstylists and own their own businesses but to give back to
the community and inspire other entrepreneurs within the industry.
Tynesha Bishop-Thomas hairstylists of 22 years had established her career in 2012
as VersaStyles. Tynesha is the vice president of the Mary Alyce foundation , founder
of Shop Talk and the Artistry Gala.
Teandra Bishop hairstylist and entrepreneur for 18 years established her career
in the early 2000’s as “The best of Re’Neahs ( hair salon) which later in February,
2019 joined her sister as VersaStyles. Teandra is a board member of the Mary Alyce
Foundation and the founder of the Artistry Gala as well.
The Mary Alyce foundation is a family foundation that has been established for nine
years. Throughout the year the foundation has dedicated time to give back to the
homeless, provide prom dresses/ tux’s for any student(s) and give a scholarship to
any aspiring student within the hair and beauty industry given at the Artistry Gala.
Tynesha and Teandra not only want the Artistry Gala to be dedicated to the industry
but to inspire students who want to further their careers and may need financial
assistance towards their tuition.
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TONY WILSON
hats and fascinators
Drawing inspiration from the women in his church who wore hats as a natural addition to their attire,
Tony used his talent and natural ability to create hats for women that radiated feminine charm
and were as unique as the women themselves. This hobby led to a business venture, Designs by
Tony. His hats and fascinators are not only one of a kind, they are individually inspired. His original
creations come from a God-given inner talent that flows through his fingers as naturally as breath
flows through our nostrils. Tony feels there is nothing else that makes a woman stand out in a crowd like a beautiful
hat.
Tony’s hats and fascinators are sought by some of the best-dressed women who attend the Oaks
and the Kentucky Derby. One of his original designs was worn by none other than actress Angela
Basset for the 2015 Kentucky Derby. A feature article in the Churchill Downs Magazine in 2015
acknowledged Tony’s hats as distinctively different. One of Tony’s creations graced the front cover of
Today’s Woman Magazine in 2016 and has been featured in the same magazine since 2013. In addition,
his hats have been highlighted in Martha Stewart Living, Ebony, and Mogul Magazine. So, if you
want to be that well-dressed woman who draws the attention of those who appreciate good taste
and unique style, call on “the Hat man”, Designs by Tony.
2019 Derby
style guide
Model:
India Marks
Fitz Fitzgerald
Photographer:
Denisha McCauly
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Celebrating Black
Excellence:
BLACK GIRL MAGIC SERIES
Eden
Bridgeman &
The Trifecta Gala
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Eden Bridgeman:
by Nikayla Edmindson
A Glimpse at the Trifecta’s Reigning Queen.
Eden Bridgeman Skelnar is the daughter
of businessman and former NBA
Guard Ulysses Lee “Junior” Bridgeman.
Eden is the chief marketing officer
at Manna Inc., a restaurant franchising
company built by her father. Manna Inc.
has over 400 restaurants – some internationally
recognized, like Chili’s and Wendy’s, and some
local preferences like The Napa Valley Grill and
Mark’s Feed Store. Her work ethic and leadership
got her recognized by Louisville Business
First as an “enterprising woman to watch,” it’s
no wonder she has an entrepreneurial minds.
Eden also is the chief marketing officer for The
Trifecta. The philanthropic and entrepreneurial
mindset runs in the family. Alongside her
brothers, Justin and Ryan, Eden is reigning over
Derby Eve’s most sought after, star-studded
charity gala. Their father turned the Trifecta
Gala over to them in 2017 transitioning it from
a private, celebrity packed Derby Eve party to a
public phenomenon.
The Trifecta Gala benefits the local community
and impacts worldly research. The beneficiaries
are the University of Louisville Autism Center
and West End School of Louisville, Eden and
the Bridgeman family also added The V Foundation
for Cancer Research to this year’s list of
charities. Eden leads the family’s foundation and
the Trifecta Gala as it continues to spread its
wings, reaching far and wide building relationships
with other organization. This year Eden
and the Bridgeman family has donated Trifecta
Gala tickets to their newest partner, the Derby
Diversity Business and Summit (DDBS). DDBS
will be giving these tickets away to winners
of contest at two of their pre-Derby events
hosted throughout the week.
Eden and the Bridgeman family have shown
tremendous dedication to the community
and using their platform to create a Derby
experience that will impact the guest attending
and the community beyond. “Derby is a
magical time in Louisville and collaboration
is key to ensuring our guests have the best
experience afforded to them. Our family is
so blessed on many levels: financially, communally
and spiritually. We believe that to whom
much is given, much is expected.” Eden
Bridgeman said.
With worldly research and some experience,
Eden and her brothers will team with Millennium
Events to transform the YUM! Center
into the best possible space to host this
year’s extravagant Derby Eve Trifecta Gala.
The gala has R&B Superstar Usher performing
and expects Steve Harvey and other celebrity
guest to attend. As the gala continues
to evolve at Eden’s growth in the forefront,
we look forward to seeing its impact as it
kicks off Derby weekend this Friday.
We can look forward to the Trifecta Queen
giving us a memorable look, with inspiration
and a drawn from various celebrity experience
throughout the year, the same ones that
will impact the Gala’s design and decorum.
Eden’s attire from last year’s Gala hosted
at the Omni Hotel was inspired by the film
Black Panther. This year’s style is said to
be inspired by the Dolce & Gabbana Alta
Moda Show hosted last July, sporting hyper
feminine florals, with various textures and
lengths.
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Victoria
RusselL
Celebration of Black Excellence within the community has been the trend now for a long
time amongst other things, but Black Excellence has always existed. In centuries past,
there has always been many examples of those who used their gifts, talents, passion,
purpose, talent, knowledge, and hard work to design, create, inspire or clear the path
for others to follow. The Black Excellence trend coupled with Black Girl Magic is an
amazing sight to behold and it exists on a daily basis.
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Black women have
always dominated
every industry they’ve
stepped into when
giving the opportunity,
From fashion, sports,
arts, music, education,
etc, they’ve always had
the “It factor” but history
has not always done a good
job or recognizing or appreciating
the Black Girl Magic.
Seeing that there are many within
our communities who embody
such attributes, we decided to
showcase a few in this edition.
The first to be showcased is not
only beautiful and a brainiac, she is
also an executive with a large corporation.
She is Victoria Russell,
the Chief of Diversity, Equity &
Inclusion for Papa Johns International,
Inc.
In this exclusive piece featuring
Ms Russell, we delve a little bit
into her personal and professional
life and the many hats she wears.
In a piece she wrote recently, she
speaks about a cause that is near
and dear to her heart. Excerpts
below:
“Born & raised in Louisville, KY.
I’ve attended Ballard High School
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and went on to the University of
Kentucky where I received my BBA
in Management and MBA with a focus
in Marketing. I returned to Louisville
and had the honor of working for
amazing employers like Humana and
Brown-Forman, eventually landing at
Papa John’s for the past 13 years. I
adore my friends and family. I lost my
mother to cancer just last year. She
was survived by my father Leon, my
identical twin sister, Jacquelynn and
my older sister Adrienne (Crosby)
and her husband Jerry. I have an amazing
basketball star niece Noelle (13)
& newly published comic book author
nephew David (17)! In my free time
I enjoy traveling to warm tropical
places and am also a Zumba instructor!
Why I Support the American
Cancer Society
In May of 2018 after a two-year battle
with ovarian cancer, I lost my mother
and my life changed forever. Not in
the devastating way many would assume.
My mother was an extremely
tough lady led by her faith in God. She
used it as a testimony to uplift others
going through the same. She remained
extremely positive and optimistic
throughout the entire experience
and rarely complained. That type of
strength is rare and has completely
shaped my faith and outlook on life.
When this opportunity was shared
with me, I could not say no. If I have
the opportunity to shape and encourage
others through my own experience
and honor her legacy, then that
is exactly what I’ve been called to do.
I am excited to share my story and
honor my mother’s legacy through
the ResearcHERS campaign!
Funds raised support cancer patient
programs and groundbreaking
research that can help save lives. This
event also celebrates more than 15.5
million cancer survivors nationwide.
15.5 MILLION. That’s huge.”
In her professional life, she’s
had to make to make tough
decisions as well.
In a period where controversy
surrounded Papa Johns because
of the racial remark of the N
word made by the company’s
founder John Schnatter, Victoria
found herself at a crossroad
between quitting or staying with
the company. She talks about
how co-workers encouraged
her to remain so she can do her
part to change the culture. Even
though she felt very pained by
such remarks, she decided to
stay and do everything in her
power to effect change.
After taking on the new position
as the Chief of Diversity, Equity
& Inclusion with the company,
she immediately went to work
with the top executives of Papa
Johns to try to fix the problems.
Part of the initiatives was taking
on a “listening tour” to nine
cities to meet with executives
and franchise owners, to discuss
future steps to secure businesses
lost and gain back trust
and good reputation within the
community. One of such steps
was bringing on board Basketball
legend Shaquille O’Neil as
one of the Board members and
Brand Ambassadors for Papa
Johns international. As Victoria
continues to engage within the
community and speak on issues
such as diversity and inclusion,
we can only continue to expect
more changes that is truly reflective
of diversity and inclusion
of the Black community.
Article by: Oremeyi Kareem
Featured person:
Tawana Bain
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As a freelance stylist, image consultant, and owner of Foxy Feet Boutique
for ladies for the past 11 years, Tonya Godsey-Lowe specializes in red carpet
dressing, campaign, fashion editorial, and personal shopping. She brings style,
class, and elegance to the city by finding the most fierce shoes and accessories
from over 45 different buyers.
She styles individuals, brides for their wedding, and seniors for proms. Her goal
is to make them look fabulous on any budget.
Tonya developed an eye and love for fashion at an early age, she followed
trends in magazines, stars and have attended fashion classes in Las Vegas for
5 years to stay on top of the latest fashion colors and trends.
Whether it’s a high-profile celebrity for a red carpet event or a recent college
graduate looking to create herself, she gives each of her clients the same
amount of respect, attention, and honor making it easy to work with and love
her.
Mrs Godsey-Lowe was the exclusive shoe provider for Derby City Fashion week
from 2011-2016, and again this year 2019 creating relationships with designers
all over the United States. She’s proud to have been the exclusive shoe
provider for the 2019 Super Bowl Fashion Show.
She also takes personal styling classes to keep up with the very fluid fashion
industry. Her clients include News Personalities, Authors, and everyone in between.
Her personal styling clientele includes clients, in LA, New York, Texas,
Virginia, NC, DC, Seattle, Atlanta and adding more to her resume weekly.
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Growing up in Los Angeles, California as a young girl who was shy but charismatic, Tianna
Barnes used to try on her mother’s shoes, jewelry and makeup and strut around the house
pretending to be a fashion model. “Becasue of my slim frame, I was constantly approached by
model scouts, but my mom was very skeptical of scams and predators looking to take advantage
of us,” said Tianna. “My passion for fashion and catwalks really developed at Bennett College
where I met women from all over the world who slayed everyday going to class on campus.” Bennett College is a
Historical Black College for women that encourage their students to become leaders on and off campus, but also
dress for success in the classroom. “After Bennett, I knew I wanted to start an e-commerce business after learning
of the exponential growth in online stores. “I started in the industry as a model and learned the business side
working part-time managing a local boutique in New Albany,” said Tianna. Experienced and ready to step out on
faith, she decided to pursue her dream in the fashion industry by opening Dream Boutique.
Dream Boutique is a women’s clothing and accessory store that caters and styles with the sophisticated
woman in mind. Dreams’ style speaks to the ambitious woman that wants to build up her
range of office clothes, party wear, casual wear and formal gowns. Initially established in 2015 by
owner Tianna Barnes and Sheena Swift, the two opened a location in Downtown New Albany in
the Underground Station business center. The duo quickly developed a following and strong brand
throughout in the Kentuciana area, but decided to depart the New Albany location after two years
in business.
Tianna continued on with Dream Boutique and opened the Louisville location in January 2017,
where she focused on increasing the online presence and 1 on 1 personal styling. Dream Boutique
Louisville offers clients the opportunity to set up an appointment to come into the office and
receive personal attention from a stylist. Tianna says, “ My customers love the fact that they can call
their stylist and rest assure all details from their attire, hair, makeup, shoes, photography, and videography
will be handled. This business model works best for women who don’t have the time to shop
for an upcoming occasion or event and rather allow my team and I to handle the details.”
Dream is taking full-service boutique to the next level with their customized services at an affordable
price point. The goal of Dream is make every woman happy no matter the cost. Online
shopping is very popular today, however, many clients are skeptical to shop online due to negative
experience with receiving clothing from other countries that are too small or poor quality. Dream
works with only the best designers from the USA, Europe and Africa that use quality materials and
one of a kind designs. The Zuri African Collection offers custom blazers and formal gowns imported
from a designer in Zimbabwe. Other designers Dream has collaborated with include Aryea
Kolubah & Co. and Romanian designer Nissa whose Spring and Fall collection is previewed every
year during New York Fashion Week.
Another unique feature of Dream Boutique is the Modeling and Ambassador Program which offer
teens and women who aspire to grow their experience in modeling a chance to develop their
portfolio in a professional and trusted environment. “We develop our models through opportunities
to work with some of the best photographers in the city, hottest fashion shows, features in
local magazines, casting in movies, videos and commercials,” said Tianna. “What differentiate Dream
from other modeling agencies is that the models that sign with us actually get a variety of different
work opportunities and training through workshops to help build their skills. Parents trust their
daughters with me because they know they are in good hands.”
To connect with a Dream stylist or learn more about the Dream Modeling and Ambassador Program,
visit the website at LiveYourDreamBoutiqe.com or follow them on FB/IG @LiveYourDream-
Boutique.
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MUA: Makeup by Tiamao
Photographer:
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Model: Lily Smith
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Business &
Stewardship:
The Starks
As a 2nd generation company with over 28yrs
experience, G. Starks Realty has been making
a remarkable impact on the real estate industry.
The company was originally founded by
Geraldine Starks, a single mother with 5. With
the company located in the Westend of Louisville,
she took pride in helping individuals gain
the knowledge needed to become homeowners.
7 years ago, the company was passed down
to William D. Starks Jr. who’s determination
and ambition finished the vision of his mother,
which included hiring more real estate agents
along with creating a property management and
Commercial real estate department.
William D. Starks Jr., currently principal broker/owner
started out as a real estate investor.
Working with his father remodeling homes.
While creating passive income he was able to
start helping others by conducting classes on
how to create wealth through homeownership.
William has a passion for realestate that cannot
be measured. He understands the importance
of education and makes it a point to stay ahead
of the game. Also, teaching anyone who wants
to learn. He is a regular volunteer for the Junior
Achievement program, where he gives the
next generation the tools needed for Entrepreneurship
along with Personal Finance and Career
Success. He is also a member of the Professional
Standards Committee of the Greater
Louisville Association of Realtors. Currently, he
is a Councilman of the City of Coldstream. He
works alongside his wife of 29 years, Christine
A. Starks who manages the day to day operations
of Leverage Property Management.
G. Starks Realty now has a diverse group of
real estate agents who have built a reputation
for providing excellent customer experience.
While providing real estate services throughout
the entire state of Kentucky we have over
1000 real estate transactions. We continue to
build our management department and now
manage hundreds of single-family homes along
with small multiplex units and large apartment
buildings. The company has over 50 maintenance
vendors that we contract with on a
consistent basis to help with maintenance issues.
Currently, the company has a commercial
leasing department that manages over 100,000
square feet of office space throughout the Louisville
Metro area. The goal is to keep providing
a great customer experience while helping
people reach the dreams of owning a home and
providing space for those building a business.
INTERVIEW
VM: What will you like for people to
know about you first and foremost?
WS: I am William Starks Jr. a father of 5 kids and have
been married for 22 yrs to Christine Starks. After college
I started working for United Parcel Service where
I started buying investment property in my spare time.
After working for 24 years at UPS, I followed my mothers
foot steps and left UPS in 2014 and got into real
estate. I am now principal broker and owner of a 2nd
generation real estate company named G. Starks Realty.
The company was started about 25 years ago by
my mother Geraldine Starks. We now have a property
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management company that my wife Christine Starks runs
the day to day operation of. We also have residential
and commercial sales, along with commercial leasing. I
currently work with Junior Achievers, where I go into
the classrooms teaching kids Career Success, Personal
Finance as well as Entrepreneurship. I am also a Councilman
for the City of Cold Stream.
VM: How did you get started? What motivated
you to get started? What made you jump
from your 9-5 to owning your own company?
WS: My mother and father were the reason I got started.
My father was a contractor and built garages as his profession.
My mother was a real estate agent who eventually
became a broker and started her own company. I
remember going to showings with her. She knew a few
investors back in the early 90’s where at 22 years old
I purchased my first home. I was never satisfied with
working a 9-5 job. I felt like I could make my own money
and not settle for the same pay every week. I started
with a plan and started building up my networking circle.
Then after long consideration, I left my job to pursue my
dreams of Entrepreneurship.
VM: Do you feel that this is your purpose/
passion/calling?
WS: I feel like real estate is my passion. What I love is
the fact are so many different avenues to real estate such
as; property management, investments, sales and etc. So
far as my career goes, I wake up every morning ready to
see what and how I can take another step closer to my
goals.
VM: What challenges and successes have you
experienced so far?
passed away and to hear her say how proud she
was of me.
VM: Did you have any mentors who
helped to guide you, your beliefs and
company?
WS: As far as my knowledge of how a business is
supposed to run I would credit that part to my
former employees at UPS. However, my mother
and father where both self employed throughout
much of my life, so watching them pay employees
and work many late days and nights to make
a deadline prepared me to travel the hard roads
head. Before I was a real estate agent my mother
always talked about real estate and how to invest.
I also watched as she ran her company. So, in a
nutshell, everything that I do and the belief that I
have in the company has come from her and will
always be a part of her.
VM: what’s in store for the future?
Projects? Initiatives?
WS: We have become more involved in helping
more people become homeowners. We have created
a wealth building class to help our youth to
become homeowners and investors. We are partnering
up with several non profits to help revitalize
the downtown area. Stay tuned, with have more
to come this year.
William D. Starks Jr., Broker, GRI, ABR
G. STARKS REALTY
Office: 502.961.9313 option 0
Cell: 502.468.7031
www.gstarksrealty.com
WS: One of my first challenges was to find a way to help
my mother build her company up while working at my
job full time that I had for 24 yrs. I think one of my
biggest successes would have to be when I first started
working for my mothers real estate company and helping
her to see a new vision for the company that includes
more real estate agents along with adding different sister
companies and departments. Also, for my mother and
I to see the growth in the company before my mother
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Featured Model
Ify Whitefield
Most of my life I have
struggled with low selfesteem.
People who
know me would think this
statement is ludicrous,
because I am a very confident individual. I
can imagine them wondering, how can someone
who seems so bold, and confident have
low self-esteem? According to a 2016 article
found in Forbes Magazine, “Confidence is
a belief in your ability to succeed – a belief
that stimulates action. Self-esteem refers to
your opinion of yourself, how well you value
yourself, and the power you allow yourself
to have. Everything you think and say
and do affects your confidence and selfesteem”.
It’s not common that people who
struggle with low self-esteem have high selfconfidence,
but for me this is the case. I too
have often wondered how two diametrically
opposed beings, one a child who is unsure of
herself and the other a fierce strong women ready
to conquer the world, share the same headspace.
To understand how this is possibly I’ll share my
memories of what I believe led to this internal division.
As a British-Nigerian child growing up in a predominantly
Caucasian neighborhood in London, my dark skin, wide
nose, and big lips were seen as unattractive amongst my
peers. I was taunted for having “double rubber” lips, and
called racial slurs, so I quickly understood that in my present
society, being black was not something desirable, and
thus not beautiful. My perception of beauty, which was
what I would call “white washed”, was reinforced by the
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media. I was surrounded by the western ideology of
beauty on billboards, television shows, magazines,
and in my day to day life. The impact that had on my
subconscious mind is immeasurable. Stinging insults
from my peers were not only reinforced by what
the media was telling me about beauty standards,
but at home by my siblings and their friends. They
voted me the ugliest child in the house. I’ll never forget
standing there while they pointed at each school
picture hanging on the wall, and ranked me and my
sisters from prettiest to ugliest, which also coincidently
was in line with our skin tones from lightest
to darkest. As a child, it’s no wonder why, when it
came to beauty my opinion of myself was low.
There was one moment in my childhood that challenged
my opinion to this point, so much so that I
remember it vividly. I was standing on the corner
across the street from my favorite “chippie” (fish
and chip shop), and was flipping through a magazine
that just hit newsstands. It featured Alek Wek (a Sudanese
supermodel) and the moment I laid eyes on
her photograph, my immediate reaction was, “how
is she pretty?” Her looks didn’t fit my definition of
beauty. Alek wasn’t white, her nose was wide, her
lips were big, and she did not have long flowing hair.
I struggled to see her beauty because my subconscious
was so jolted by the fact that someone who
looked so “black” with typical African features was
actually being hailed as beautiful by the likes of Vogue.
This was eye-opening, and even though Alek’s looks
didn’t align with what I believed was beautiful, it gave
me hope that one day people would see me as beautiful,
and if this happened then I would see myself as
beautiful. I heard stories about women in the modeling
world who were taunted as children for being
too tall, too thin, ugly or just plain funny looking, and
now they were beautiful supermodels. Their stories
reminded me of “The Ugly Duckling” fairytale, so
I placated myself with the belief that, one day, I’d
transform from an ugly duckling to a beautiful swan.
I was convinced that this magical moment would
happen when I turned 16, so you can imagine my
surprise when I reached that golden age and my selfperception
did not magically change. Deep down
inside I still saw myself as the ugly awkward looking
girl the boys liked, but didn’t want to date.
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Things didn’t get much better in regards to how I viewed myself when I went to college. It was the first time in my
life I was around other black students in a large capacity and I appreciated the ease at which, culturally, I fit in. But I
wasn’t expecting another layer of rejection and criticism to be added to my lot in life. I quickly found that the experience
I had earlier in life (where I was ranked based on my skin tone) was a glimpse into the discrimination I would
receive within the black community. People would make statements like “you’re pretty, even though you’re dark
skinned-ded” or “girl you so dark!” I remember thinking that’s so strange because I grew up around White people
and they of course would never say such a thing to me so blatantly. By this point in my life, all of the negative criticism
I received had groomed and instilled a deep belief in my psyche that my looks were not desirable. So I accepted
the feedback and focused my energy elsewhere because even if I believed I was ugly, for me, being beautiful was not
the measurement for happiness and success in life. I had the confidence that, despite my looks, I would be successful.
By God’s grace, I have a strong personality and strong will, which I believe is what helped me to succeed regardless
of my silent self-hatred. I placed value on two things that I could control and do well, my intellect and athletic ability.
I was in National Honors Society, recruited by top institutions such as Howard and Columbia Universities, and
received a full scholarship to run track and field at the University of Louisville. I earned an MBA within five years, all
while maintaining multiple part-time jobs, being a graduate assistant and a record-holding collegiate athlete. I chose
to focus my attention where I knew I could win, and ignore what I believed to be a weakness.
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The unfortunate thing about my past perception of
beauty is that it was fueled by my acceptance of others
opinions. Instead of being anchored in something
of substance, pure love and compassion. It wasn’t until
I began to grow spiritually and think about what
I believe the definition of beauty is, that I began my
journey to changing my beliefs. I have always been able
to see the beauty in others regardless of their physical
appearance, because that is not what I find valuable in
an individual. The ability to see someone and appreciate
them beyond their physical appearance, can only
happen when you don’t judge them and view them
with “Christ-like” compassion and love. Yet, for myself
I did not have the same compassion and clarity. My
need for perfection blinded me from seeing myself as
others. I believed that I had to have high standards and
be my toughest judge. There were times I would look
in the mirror I didn’t like what I saw, and spiral into a
cycle of negative self-talk, which led to believing that I
wasn’t enough. I felt ashamed in a sense, and I lacked
compassion for myself. Now I realize love of self is the
key. I don’t need to be my toughest judge or biggest
critic, I need to be the number one fan of myself! Finally,
I am beginning to feel confident in who I am, because
I understand that having compassion for myself
is paramount. I work to control my thoughts because
I believe in the power of the mind and that positive
self-talk can make a big impact in changing deep rooted
false beliefs. Me not seeing myself as beautiful was
a symptom of not loving myself, and lack of self-love is
like a ticking time bomb waiting to self-destruct. It can
affect your family and even professional relationships,
rearing its ugly head as egotism or jealousy. So I work
hard to focus on biblical concepts like “you are what
you think about”, because I know how important it
is to be my own best friend. In your own life, regardless
of what people have told you about yourself, you
need to take inventory of all the amazing things you
have accomplished, and understand whose you are
and place value on what’s important. Most of all have
compassion for yourself so you are able to appreciate
all the beauty you bring in to this world. That is where
you will find confidence and your inner beauty will
shine bright for all to see.
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Women of Power
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Photographer: Eva Marie David
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LOUISVILLE BLACK BUSINESS
OWNERS COME TOGETHER!
NOIR Black Business Social Club, Inc. is
a new Louisville-based organization with
a mission to bring African and African-
American small business owners together to
network, collaborate, and strengthen their
businesses to give back to the community.
According to the U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA), entrepreneurship
within minority groups has increased, and data
from a 2016 SBA report indicates minorities own 29% of U.S.
businesses and that number more than doubled between 2002
and 2012. Unfortunately, minority-owned businesses still lack
access to financial and business resources as well as support.
NOIR was established in October of 2018 when Founder and
President, John Howard Shaw-Woo, realized there were no
existing organizations in Kentucky that specifically focus on
supporting small black businesses. Shaw-Woo is a self-proclaimed,
philantropreneur and has founded successful projects
in the nonprofit community including The West Louisville eco-
HUB Arts Community Inc. to support educational programming
for at-risk youth, and the Kentucky Poverty Initiative, Inc.
(formerly GFoundation, Inc.) with the mission of creating innovative
programs that uplift Kentuckians and break the cycle
of poverty.
Shaw-Woo, along with friends and colleagues created NOIR as
a networking platform where members meet monthly to learn
from special speakers and lecturers on specific business topics
ranging from marketing, social media, technology, financial
planning, accounting, business development, Human Resources
management, benefits providers, and many more.
Shaw-Woo stated, “Helping small businesses become Minority
Business Enterprise (MBE) [National Minority Supplier Development
Council] certified is one of the organization’s highest
priorities, followed by understanding the economic and political
landscape of Louisville and Kentucky in order to grow their
businesses.”
NOIR is governed by an Executive Board including Shaw-Woo
serving as President; Marcus Forward, Vice President and
the owner of Personal Options Healthcare the only Veteran
Healthcare services in Kentucky; Michelle Rae Hicks, Secretary
and owner of the Old Louisville Chili Bowl restaurant and
founder of Louisville Integrated Care a multi behavioral, mental,
and social health network
of services; and Blair Butler,
Treasurer, retired JCPS Assistant
Principal and founder of the
nonprofit Lovie’s House, Inc. for
young men aging out of foster
care in Kentucky.
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NOIR meets every third Thursday of the month in the evening
at a designated location to discuss and help solve issues
and to plan future activities. In addition, every quarter is a
social event with members and spouses.
NOIR signature events include a signature event called The
Black Ball and an Annual Members Trip. The Black Ball will
serve as an annual fundraising and friend-raising event to
showcase the organization, its mission, and activities. Proceeds
from the event will fund the NOIR Scholarship Fund
which will award financial benefits to non-college bound
students to further their non-traditional educational endeavors.
Membership into NOIR is by invitation but interested
businesses owners can send an email expressing interest
to info@noirky.com. Membership is limited to approximately
30 in 2019 unless there is a tremendous amount of interest,
and the annual cost of membership to NOIR is $250
per year, which helps defer the costs of lectures, meeting
spaces, and activities. Currently there are 11, active members
with more coming on board.
Why would a small black business what to join NOIR? Because
each member will gain ongoing business knowledge
through interactions with similar business owners that are
committed to assisting each other through support and
collaboration. Members will also be partnered with experienced
mentors that will provide one-on-one assistance that
will help the business owner reach their goals.
NOIR is in the process of establishing itself as a 501(c)3,
nonprofit organization, which will allow caring individuals,
corporations, and foundations to donate to the organization
to help hire an Executive Director to lead day to day
operations.
For more information about NOIR Black Business Social
Club or to Volunteer as a Speaker or Lecturer, please visit
www.noirky.com, call 502-599-5299
or email info@noirky.com.
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Little Miss Unity
By Jessica Foyah
Mission Statement
For young minority girls ages 8-14 years old, the goal of Little Miss Unity is to promote
positive growth and development for adolescent girls through faith & biblical learning,
education & scholarship, promotion of self-awareness, understanding and appreciation
of one’s own culture, community service, and team development in an effort to unite
young girls of different cultural backgrounds and promote self-empowerment.
The young ladies involved in the LMU program will be scored based on their stage/pageant performance
as well as their participation in the development in order to determine who will be
crowned Little Miss Unity.
Philosophy/Values
• Biblical Learning - Biblical learning in an effort to educate young girls about the word of God and
how to apply it to their own personal lives and how they treat others.
• Education & Scholarship – Educate young girls on the importance of gaining knowledge as it
relates to furthering their education and/or pursuing their future goals.
• Cultural Awareness – Educate young girls on their personal culture and the culture of their peers
in an effort to make them more aware of their cultural background, and the societal contributions of
women like them in order to build self-appreciation and self-love.
• Team Development – Educate the contestants on the importance unity amongst young
women through team development activities.
• Character Development – To help develop personal character in an effort to build self-em
powerment, self-love, and positive treatment of others.
photo credit: Hilton Siaffa
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Photographer: Mellek Photography
Location: Churchill Downs
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