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IV.<br />
It seems like a particularly gruesome thing to ask for doesn’t it? But after the trauma and terror of the crucifixion,<br />
perhaps Thomas needed, more than anything else, to see for himself that that Jesus also knew about those<br />
wounds. After all, in that moment, all Thomas knew for sure was that the world was a scary place, full of death<br />
and violence and bad news.<br />
And so, when Jesus appears again, this time to Thomas as well, the first thing that he shows Thomas are the nail<br />
wounds in his hands. The gaping wound in his side. And in doing so, Jesus shows Thomas that he understands<br />
the pain Thomas is going through too. He knows about hurt and about the wounds that don’t completely heal but<br />
mark you instead with scars that you will bear forever. He reminds Thomas that he too knows what it feels like to<br />
lose things that you love, people you love, a life that you love.<br />
Maybe today that is the kind of reassurance we need too. We don’t quite understand how people can see the risen<br />
Lord and then carry on with business as usual. And we don’t want the shiny exclamations of good news that don’t<br />
seem to take into account the scary reality we find ourselves in. So how do we too come to terms with Easter<br />
when there is still so much pain?<br />
V.<br />
In the movie ‘Shrek,’ an ogre named Shrek and his donkey friend are sent on a quest by the loathsome Lord<br />
Farquaad to rescue a princess from captivity. Though they don’t know it, the princess has been enchanted by a<br />
witch so that during the day she is a beautiful, human princess, but at night she changes into the gruesome form of<br />
an ogre. The witch’s curse says that only true love’s first kiss will release her from the enchantment and allow her<br />
to take on love’s truest form.<br />
Following the rescue of the princess from the highest room in the tallest tower, Shrek, the donkey, and Princess<br />
Fiona journey back to her intended groom, Lord Farquaard. And yet, as the journey unfolds, Shrek realizes that<br />
he has fallen in love with Fiona himself. So, on the day of the wedding, Shrek rushes into the ceremony to object<br />
to the union. His entrance stalls the proceedings long enough that the sun sets and the enchantment is revealed—<br />
Princess Fiona is an ogre!<br />
In the midst of the outrage that follows, Shrek and Fiona share true love’s first kiss and then she is released from<br />
the curse. Only, as it turns out, ‘love’s truest form’ is that of an ogre, that “seemingly ugly, terrible, undesirable<br />
form, and not the form of a human like Fiona had anticipated and hoped for. And yet, it is the form of an ogre<br />
that connects her most to the one she loves—it is the form that they share.<br />
As Kerri Clark has written, “It is not unimportant that the resurrected body of Jesus bears the scars of his<br />
suffering and death.” 1 But it is, perhaps, surprising. Maybe we would prefer a God who emerges victorious from<br />
the grave without any wounds or scars. And yet, Jesus instead takes on “love’s truest form”—the form he shares<br />
with us—when he appears after his resurrection. A form that is still wounded and human. For in doing so, Jesus<br />
shows us that the God we serve understands why we are the way we are. Believing and yet scared. Faithful but<br />
still needing reassurance. Sent and called but still hesitant and halting.<br />
VI.<br />
Jesus reminds Thomas, and us, that he understands the full gamut of emotions and experiences that we are<br />
grappling with in these days. And he has not left us alone to deal with any of it on our own. Instead, he has come<br />
to us, even behind our locked doors of fear. He has shown us that uncertainty can be hope’s next-door neighbor.<br />
He has revealed his own wounds and then asked us where we hurt. And this is love’s truest form—a God who<br />
put on flesh to dwell with us, who created us with bodies of all kinds and called us good, a God who shares our<br />
suffering so that we might share in resurrection. Gently and carefully, Jesus has told us that though the wounds<br />
“Footnotes”<br />
1 This connection to the movie Shrek was first mentioned to me by Kerri Clark, the pastor at Trinity Lutheran<br />
Church in Connellsville, Pennsylvania in reference to her sermon “Love’s Truest Form.”<br />
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