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Spice Your Sex Life With<br />
Sexual Naughtiness<br />
From time to time, sexual relationship can hit a lull in<br />
the bedroom. Housewives need to reignite passion if<br />
their sex life has been anything but sizzling. They<br />
have to do this even when they are not feeling the<br />
need to or not in the mood especially, if the men are<br />
game. True, this is the time to heat things up with a<br />
little creativity, and one of the funniest ways to do this,<br />
is to give an element of surprise to your mate with<br />
something he just never saw coming but has always<br />
wanted.<br />
Ladies should learn to initiate sex because with<br />
some couples, it’s always the man’s job to get things<br />
started. If you belong to this group, then it is time to<br />
switch the tables. You can make this move when<br />
you’re both alone and having some quiet time.<br />
It is really cool to go bottomless at home if you are<br />
alone, or the children have gone to bed, or if they<br />
have gone away for the weekend. Actually, some<br />
guys yearn to see their women go topless. It can be a<br />
turn on for majority of them coupled with the fact that<br />
he knows exactly what is coming next. So ladies, get<br />
sexy and enjoy yourselves.<br />
Try giving a good reason to get up before his<br />
normal time in the morning by waking him with your<br />
mouth-a blow job first thing in the day. A lot of guys if<br />
not all of them, would never turn down this morning<br />
act. If you’ve never startled your spouse with this<br />
treat before, you’ve probably never seen the happiest<br />
man alive on planet earth. But note that oral sex does<br />
not have to be prelude to intercourse. Do not be lazy<br />
about it, as he can just decide to return the favour.<br />
Slowly wake him up in the middle of the night and<br />
then, gradually and affectionately have sex. However,<br />
if he is the type that value his sleep, then don’t do this<br />
for any reason. Instead, you can stimulate areas other<br />
than his manhood. There are lots of other nerve<br />
endings on the male body that needs your attention<br />
too. Your love making should be explorative, let your<br />
hands and mouth also stimulate his other erogenous<br />
zones such as the nipples, ears, throat and the inner<br />
thighs. Every touch is going to feel more arousing and<br />
pleasurable.<br />
Introduce sex toys into the other room because<br />
toys are fun. They are there to enhance sex and not<br />
to replace anyone. Pick a simple toy like a cock ring<br />
to prolong his orgasm as well as making it explosive.<br />
A bullet vibrator can help to stimulate those<br />
erogenous zones earlier discussed above. It is<br />
important for you to first get a gauge of his reaction<br />
and only use it with his consent.<br />
It could be fun to wear costumes, dress up as a<br />
slutty maid, flight attendant, nurse, dancer, whatever<br />
you’ve noticed him looking at and lusting after. Wear<br />
something outlandishly provocative to get his reaction<br />
and if he bursts out laughing, you laugh too. Just<br />
make it light, nothing too serious.<br />
Show a preview of your body when you and your guy<br />
are just relaxing in bed watching TV. Startle him by<br />
unexpectedly stripping while he watches. He will be<br />
so excited that before you say Jack, he will probably<br />
pounce on you before you get to finish undressing.<br />
Round this up by gently blindfolding your lover to lie<br />
down and run an ice cube, don’t linger for too long so<br />
that you can let him apply the ice cube on you too<br />
which could lead to a whole new level of arousal for<br />
both parties.<br />
With a bit of creativity, you can turn any boring day<br />
into a sexual adventure by inviting him for a weekend<br />
gate-away. Volunteer to drive, take a wrong turn or<br />
the longest route on a secluded road, pull over and<br />
seduce him in the car. This may be risky because of<br />
the poor security in the country right now but if you<br />
are sure of your security, you can give it a shot.<br />
If your man happens to be the type that likes to<br />
hear dirty talk but you’ve always been a little<br />
uncomfortable about it, this is the perfect time to let go<br />
of your inhibitions by coming out of your comfort zone.<br />
Start by leaving him a note or text message about all<br />
the filthy things you want to do with him. Work your<br />
way up to sexy voicemails to his personal phone that<br />
no other person have access to apart from him and<br />
eventually, start talking or at least whispering dirty<br />
things to him in bed. The end result of dirty<br />
talking is to stimulate the brain, the biggest<br />
organ that keeps things sexy during<br />
playtime.<br />
Startle your better half with quickie, this<br />
can be fun, playful, and full of passion.<br />
Being a quick does not necessarily mean<br />
it cannot be amazing. You can still get into<br />
your favourite sex positions during quickie.<br />
If your sex life has become a little dull<br />
lately, it’s time to try something new and<br />
make your love life sparkle again. Strike<br />
up a sexual conversation, attentively listen<br />
to your significant other about his sexual<br />
desires/ fantasies and patiently take turns<br />
to talk about yours.<br />
Agree to try something new; new<br />
sexual position, role play, or something<br />
else you’ve never done before. In a<br />
relationship, it is actually easy for partners<br />
to fall into sexual patterns. which can<br />
make copulation feel like the same all the<br />
time. It does not have to be. Keep things<br />
exciting by taking things easy, it is that<br />
simple and all of these could be fun for<br />
you as well.<br />
HAPPY BELATED FATHER’S DAY !<br />
Talk<br />
SPOT<br />
By - Rita Okoye<br />
What some of your favourite<br />
celebrities said and we listened.<br />
“If my husband cheats, I’ll<br />
forgive him and you say if<br />
your own cheats you won’t<br />
forgive. Okay, it’s fine. It is<br />
not like we are married to<br />
the same man. Why do<br />
you want to force me not<br />
to forgive my own<br />
husband? Am I forcing<br />
you to forgive your own?<br />
Do what works for you. If<br />
you move to the next man<br />
and he cheats, you’ll still<br />
leave him to the next and<br />
keep moving like that,”<br />
Mizwanneka’s stand<br />
on infidelity.<br />
“In life disappointments will<br />
come, friends will stab you in the<br />
back, the people you love will<br />
hate you, some hustle no go pay,<br />
you’ll ask & you’ll not receive, you<br />
may go broke sometimes, but<br />
you must keep believing & keep<br />
going. Life never gets easier.<br />
YOU HAVE TO GET TOUGHER,”<br />
Yul Edochie’s life nugget.<br />
“The story has gone beyond<br />
rape. You have manipulated the<br />
justice system to fit your selfish<br />
interest. You have broken the<br />
law on multiple counts, and you<br />
deserve to be CANCELLED.<br />
Dbanj should be stripped of his<br />
endorsements, and his awards<br />
should be retracted to send a<br />
message to all bullies that<br />
believe they are above the law”,<br />
Mocheddah’s reaction to<br />
D’banj’s rape saga.<br />
“Foolish people marry<br />
because all their mates are<br />
marrying. Wise people marry<br />
because they are ready for<br />
marriage. Marriage is like<br />
football. Because a person<br />
married before you does not<br />
mean they have defeated<br />
you”, Reno Omokri’s<br />
advice on marriage.<br />
<strong>June</strong> <strong>28</strong>, <strong>2020</strong> / 7
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