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Welcome Home
Real Estate Expert
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to know about buying
a new home
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Meet the Man
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Soldier On
Let’s do more than
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One Talent
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Letter
Publisher
from the
“It only takes a spark to get a fire going. And soon all those around can warm up in it’s glowing…’’ is part of an old
hymn that I grew up singing so often at the church in Rentz, a small rural town in South Georgia where I was raised.
The words of that song, along with many lessons I learned during those early years, have stuck with me for life. I was
blessed to have grown up with a group of loving people who taught me the difference between just saying you care about
others and actually doing something to show them you care. I watched as Nana, my maternal grandmother baked pound
cakes, cut them into slices, and carefully wrapped up each piece as a small gift for me to distribute to the residents of a
local nursing home—a small, sweet reminder of home. While it may have seemed insignificant, the eyes of those loving
residents said otherwise. My paternal grandparents, Alvin and Cora, were simple farmers who grew up through the Great
Depression and knew the value of hard work, their faith, and the love of family. If others only knew, as I did, just how
generous they really were… not only with their time, but with the little resources they actually had. You were not going
to go hungry if Mrs. Cora knew anything about it, and Alvin, my hardworking grandfather, knew more about farming than
most people with Agricultural degrees; a self taught man who always planted extra crops so he would be able to share
with those in need.
What I learned from my Grandparents, and so many others, is that our actions do in fact speak louder than our
words. We would all like to end world hunger, homelessness, poverty, or find a cure for cancer, but for most of us, that is
highly unlikely and can seem a bit overwhelming at times. In the world we currently live in, there’s enough to be stressed
about already—the news media and periodicals are overflowing with stories of bad things going on everywhere, but little
effort is given to tell you about the good things and the wonderful people who are making a difference doing them.
My business partner, Mark Farah, and I have purposed to blaze new trails— to tell the stories here of ordinary
individuals, businesses, and organizations who are doing extraordinary things… and to inspire you to do whatever
you can, wherever you are, to make a difference in the world where you live. For some, that may mean buying a cup
of coffee for a stranger, volunteering to serve a meal at a homeless shelter, cutting the grass of an elderly neighbor, or
perhaps offering to provide childcare for single moms who need a helping hand. When you start to think about it, the
opportunities are endless for you to make a difference; especially in the lives of those who have no way to repay you.
What if we started counting our blessings each day instead of focusing on what we don’t have? What if we purposed to
put others needs ahead of our own, and do at least one thing every day to make a difference. I believe it will change both
you and the world around you.
Our biggest desire here is to inspire you to be the spark that gets that fire going! Personally, I’m inspired every
day by my loving wife, Marina, who has always believed in me, by our precious daughters Victoria, Laura, and Kaitlyn, and
by those lifelong friends who continue to mentor me and challenge me each day. I’m grateful for the new additions to our
family of friends and that we get to do life together. I’m inspired by, and grateful for, my business partner Mark who took
a leap of faith, believed both in me and in our mission, and who embraced change as never before. I’m inspired by those
who you will read about here on our pages— from homeless veterans who have endured tremendous hardships only to
rise again, to fortune 500 company leaders who sacrificially give of their time and talents to mentor our bright young
leaders of tomorrow. And finally, I’m especially grateful that you, our readers, are here, and I hope that you’ll come along
with us and help to fan the flames—the flames that were started with just one spark, and watch as they continue to grow
and transform lives—perhaps even yours!
We’re better together,
Royce Watson
Publisher & Editor-in-Chief
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CONTENTS
2 Letter from the Publisher
4 Table of Contents
6 Meet Our
Crossroads Family
DESIRE TO INSPIRE
16
One Talent
Founders, Jo Ann Allen
& Kamilah Burrow are
mentoring young girls to
be the leaders of tomorrow.
60
Hapeville Dwarf House
Where the dream began
and the legacy continues.
“
Alone
we can
do so
little;
together
much .
much .
we can do so
”
~ Helen Keller
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66
48
16
28
Everyday Gourmet
Tony Smith
Paula’s Donuts
10
Soldier On
One Talent
Health & Fitness
FOOD
22
Everyday Gourmet
Chef Charlotte Lute teaches
you how to make your everyday
meal gourmet and offers tips
on perfect wine pairings.
26
Oh, What a Brine
The delicious how’s
and why’s of brining.
COMMUNITY
10
Soldier On
Let’s do more than just thank
them for their service. Pace Tyson
saw a huge need among our
Veterans and did something
about it.
36
Roberto Castillo
See how this young man has been
embracing life’s challenges to keep
Making the Goal.
38
Soccer in the Streets
Local organization giving kids
a positive outlet.
HEALTH
28
Health & Fitness
Meet our health and fitness expert
Jamie Evans, learn what motivates
him, and see how you, too, can be
the very best you.
THE ARTS
66
Tony Smith
Meet the man behind
the caricatures.
72
Tatum Dance
Local entrepreneur strives
to share her passion for dance
with young and old.
HOME
54
Welcome Home
Real Estate expert Chrissie Kallio
shares everything you need
to know about buying a
new home.
TRAVEL
40
Buffalo, New York
More than snow! Fun, Friendly
and Rich in History!
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Paula’s Donuts
Find out why Paula is a ROCK STAR
in the donut world and why this
Buffalo institution is a MUST VISIT!
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Meet Our Crossroads Family . . .
We’re
Better
Togetherer
Pace Tyson is a Dublin, Georgia native with a passion for family, fellowship, and community
goodwill. He studied Business Management at Georgia Southwestern State University.
He has been published on several platforms that include books, essays, magazines,
and online articles. When Pace was 15, he started a non-profit called “Soldier On”
to help veterans in need with home essentials. He currently holds his certification in
grant writing through the University of Georgia. In his free time, Pace enjoys golf, go
to the cinema, exercise, and spend time with his nieces and nephews. He is currently
employed at Morris Bank as an electronic banking specialist where he works with the
newest banking technology and amazing people.
C harlotte
LUTE
Food & Gourmet
Special Contributor
P ace
TYSON
Special Features
Contributor
Currently resides in Hapeville, Georgia with her husband of 29 years,
she is fortunate enough to have grown up in Italy and Belgium and has traveled
extensively. She has 25 years experience in the food service industry, including
teaching Culinary Arts in an Arts high school and technical college. She has two
main passions — travel and food.
R oyce
WATSON
Publisher &
Editor-in-Chief
A storyteller at heart, Royce owned a successful
cake and catering business for over fifteen years
and for four years he was a featured Guest Chef
on WMAZ, the local CBS television station located in
Macon, Georgia where he shared his love for cooking
and entertaining.
He enjoys writing, photography, traveling, and taking the road
less traveled to discover new places and new friends.
Royce has been married to his wife, Marina, for 28 years and together they
have raised three beautiful daughters.
Mark graduated in 2005 from Georgia State University in Atlanta, Georgia with
a Bachelors Degree in Business Administration. He has worked as a Strategic
Sales Manager for a Fortune 500 company for the past ten years where he has
forged vital partnerships with his clients making it possible for them to grow their
business exponentially. Mark has an outstanding reputation for being a global
leader among sales professionals and is known for creating diverse, proven
marketing strategies that net results. In his free time, Mark enjoys spending time
with family and friends, likes to stay active and in shape by working out at his local
gym, cooking healthy dishes, relaxing on the beach, and enjoying as much time as
possible with his girlfriend, Susan, and their beloved dog, Maddie.
Mark
FARAH
Director of Sales
& Marketing
Born and raised in Norfolk, Virginia, Jamie served many years in the US Coast Guard as a
member of the Elite Special Forces. He now works an independent contractor continuing
to support our countries military interests overseas and is a fitness expert and personal
trainer who is passionate about eating healthy and taking care of your body. Jamie
is personally involved with Wishes for Warriors, a non profit organization that helps
combat soldiers who were injured reintegrate into outdoor activities they once enjoyed.
He is a competitive lifter, a motivational speaker, and personal life coach who enjoys
spending time with family, friends, and Hera, his loyal German Shepherd.
J o Ann
ALLEN
Director of
Community Relations
Chrissie has a Public Relations degree from the University of Southern Alabama where she
graduated cum laude. She is an affiliate of Atlanta Fine Homes, Sotheby’s International
Realty and an Associate Broker, member of the Atlanta Realtors ® Association, Graduate
of the Realtor Institute, EcoBroker Certified, Certified Distressed Property Expert and is
an EarthCraft Certified Real Estate Professional. She lives in town with her husband,
two sons and their dog Maggie Mae. Chrissie stays active running the roads and trails
of Georgia, listening to live music, and enjoying Atlanta’s neighborhood festivals and
restaurants with her family.
J amie
EVANS
Health & Fitness
Special Contributor
Jo Ann graduated from the prestigious Tuskegee University with a Bachelors Degree
in Art and Design. She worked as a Fashion Model, Designer, and as a Fashion
Merchandising Manager for several years before beginning her 28 year career in
Inflight Services with Delta Airlines. After retiring from Delta in 2007, Jo Ann went on
to work as the Board President for the South Fulton Affiliate of Habitat For Humanity
in Atlanta, GA and has since served on the Board of Directors for Sconiers Homeless
Prevention Organization, and as an Advisor to many other non profit groups. She
also serves as the General Manager and Director of Operations for Club E, a Business
Center for Entrepreneurs and is the Co-Founder of ONE TALENT, INC. a 501(c)(3) non
profit organization.
C hrissie
KALLIO
Home Matters
Special Contributor
Marina
WATSON
Creative
Director
After graduating with a Bachlor of Fine Arts degree from Sierra Nevada
College at Lake Tahoe, she continued with her Masters studies at Savannah
College of Art and Design which brought her to Savannah, Georgia
where she met and married her husband of twenty-eight years, Royce.
Her love for graphic design has served her well for over thrity years
bringing her here to Community Crossroads Magazine where
she has contributed her talents and heart to seeing her husband’s
dream manifest.
Roberto
CASTILLO
-NARVAEZ
Photo Journalist
Roberto is an aspiring photojournalist and contributing writer for Community
Crossroads Magazine. Prior to this, he worked as a sub-contractor for various
construction companies while studying for his General Equivalency Diploma, which
he completed in March of 2016. He enjoys playing soccer, photography, being in the
great outdoors and spending time in the company of family and friends.
See more of our staff on the next page.
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Mariya works for the Kazakhstan Foundation for Cultural Social and Educational
Development (Almaty, Kazakhstan) where she works on different social initiatives for
women from rural areas. She believes that women can thrive and become positive role
models for their own communities. Mariya is a Community Solutions Program fellow
which is the program sponsored by The Department Of States Bureau of Education and
Cultural Affairs and implemented by IREX*.
Mariya
ASSINSKAYA
Executive Intern
Los Mariachis
MEXICAN RESTAURANT
G ugen
NAVAMANI
Executive Intern
CEO, ANB Agro Trainers
Gugen has a background in working on the blue chip with Intel and Agilent,
in 2010. He is the founder of ANB Agro Trainers, a social enterprise up
in the north Malaysia focusing on the creation of sustainable livelihood
through agriculture for youth, single mothers and their children along with
senior citizens.
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Soldier On
By Pace Tyson
I stood in the back of the room and listened intently.
It was hard to believe what I was hearing. It was a hot July
day in 2009 in New Orleans, Louisiana. I had accompanied
my Mom to a week-long VA training session where serving
homeless veterans was the topic of discussion. To my dismay, I
had just learned that many veterans, after serving our country
and being released from a VA program, very often have to
begin with nothing. Even those who are able to find a job
and secure a place to live often have very little in the way of
furnishings, appliances and other household goods. I was sure
this was not the case back hometown of Dublin, Georgia.My
heart was racing on the plane ride back. I couldn’t wait to get
home and get started on this idea. What were the numbers
like back home? Did we have a homeless problem with our
veterans in Dublin? My mind kept running with questions as
we traveled back home.
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My heart was racing on the plane ride back. I
attics for items they no longer utilized. Soon the phone was
it to the small house where he lived. When the
couldn’t wait to get home and get started on an idea that
ringing, and the building began to fill with donated items.
volunteer returned, he pulled me aside. “Do you
kept racing through my mind. What were the numbers
After seeing one of the flyers, two veterans from our area
know what was in that man’s house?” he asked. I
like back home? Did we actually have a homeless problem
called and we met them at the storage building where they
had no idea. “What was in there?” I asked him. “A
among our veterans in Dublin— I was determined to find
were able to pick out some items. They were amazed that
blanket on the floor – that’s it,” he replied.
the answers.
After returning home, I made an appointment
with VA officials and talked with them about what I had
learned. They knew me as a volunteer at the VA, and
shared that, unfortunately, some veterans do in fact
‘fall through the cracks’ when they don’t have family
support or other assistance. While sitting in their
small office that day, I knew exactly what I had
to do.
Later that night, I called a family friend
who serves on the VA Secretary’s Advisory
Board for Homeless Veterans. I told him
how I wanted to help veterans in this area,
and he encouraged me to move forward
with my idea. “Soldier On”, a program
for veterans in need, was born. My
parents supported my project, and
my Mom approached her board of
directors at Georgia CHEP, Inc.
to inquire if the project could
become a component of their
non-profit corporation. They
readily agreed, and I was
excited. People who donated
would be able to get a tax
deduction. The next day
I went to the bank and
drew out some of my
savings in order to rent a
storage building.
it was free. “You served us, now people are donating
items to help you”, I explained. A cash donation
came in, and we were able to purchase a trailer
to better haul larger items. Several beds were
donated, along with appliances and a great
deal of clothing. We built clothing racks
and rented yet another building. One
day, a veteran brought his wife to the
storage facility; she had been living
with relatives while he was on
active duty. They were starting
over in the way of household
goods. When we rolled up
the storage facility doors,
she turned to me and
asked what she could
have. “Anything you need”, I
told her.
With tears streaming down her
face, she picked out a bed for herself
and her husband, twin beds for her
children, a dining room suite, a sofa, and
a few other odds and ends. I looked back
at my Mom and a volunteer and they were
also crying. I knew at that moment that
this would be a lifelong project for me. A bit
later, when we had our first official pick-up
day for veterans, I was nervous. We now had
four buildings full of items. What if
nobody came?
How could it be that a man or woman who
had served our country would only have a blanket
on the floor? As the day continued, we realized
that our veteran pick up day had been a success.
We had helped over 40 men, women, and families in
one single dayvall through the generous donations
of our local community.
While we celebrated the
success that night, I kept
thinking about the man with
nothing but a blanket on
the floor. My friends and
family had all participated
in this momentous day,
and everyone realized that
together we had solved
a problem that our local
veterans faced.
Shortly after, I began
to stay in contact with social workers
from the V.A. Medical System who help me understand
how their hands could easily be tied due to regulations set
by HUD, VASH, or by discharge rules. Our project could
work outside of those rules since we were an independent
non-profit group. The common issue that VA social workers
faced is that they while they could find a place for a veteran
to live, they often did not have the funding to provide living
essentials such as furniture, clothing and other
household items. Fortunately
we could and did.
In the time that the
project remained active (2009
– 2014), we were able to help
over 240 veterans. We raised
over $350,000 in donated
goods and monetary donations
and we had numerous sponsors
and local families who donated to our cause. I saw firsthand
how a community could come together for an ideal.
“Soldier On” eventually had to go on hiatus once I left
Dublin to further my education. I still receive phone calls,
however, from veterans asking if I can assist them. The
answer is always yes! Of course, my goal is to eventually
restart the project locally and also to partner up with the
We made flyers and
distributed them throughout
the area. My first donations
were heirloom quilts from
my Grandmother, and my
Mom donated a table, linens and
cookware. I also asked my friends to take a look in their
I needn’t have worried. We had advertised
that the event would last from 10:00 a.m. to
2:00 p.m. Veterans began to line up at 7:30 a.m.
The first in line was a disabled Vietnam Vet.
He picked out a refrigerator, a stove, a washing
machine, a bed, chest of drawers and some
blankets. One of our volunteers helped him haul
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V.A. hospitals across our nation to assist even more
of our veterans. If you’re interested in starting a
Soldier On outreach to veterans in your area, please
don’t hesitate to contact me. I’d be happy to help in
any way possible.
So, what did I learn from all of this? First of all,
I realized just how much can get accomplished when
one person decides to do something about a need
in our community. Most everyone knows someone
who is a veteran and we owe them a great deal of
gratitiude. I also learned how, as citizens, we all need
to contribute to the world around us. We’re not just
meant to just pay taxes and die… We’re meant to
participate in this wonderful nation’s opportunities
and to help our fellow Americans. Not everyone has
the resources to get through the next chapter in life
— everyone needs a helping hand at times.
Last, but not least, I saw how a simple idea
can affect hundreds of lives. Some ideas change
millions of lives. An idea can become a revolution
with a simple push. You could easily have an idea
that could save the world or save someone’s life.
I’m reminded of a quote from author and public
speaker, John C. Maxwell. I was at a conference in
Charlotte, North Carolina when John said: “God’s
gift to us is our potential, and our gift to God is what
we do with that potential.”
You may be at a cross roads in your life with
your potential. I assure you, wherever your heart
leads you, is where you are meant to go. If you have
an idea that you feel might change the world, or
make a difference in the world where you live... act
on it or you may wake up one day with regret asking,
“What if?”
Would you like to make a difference
in the lives of Veterans where you live?
For more information about starting
your own chapter of SOLDIER ON,
please contact Pace via email at
pace@CommunityCrossRoadsMagazine.com.
Pace is also available for motivational
speaking engagements and as a consultant
for non-profit organizations worldwide.
Find even more opportunities to help Veterans
and their families by logging onto our website
www.CommunityCrossRoadsMagazine.com
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One Talent
Spend at least one hour with Jo Ann Allen
and you’ll soon discover that she has far more than one talent.
by Royce Watson
Jo Ann’s vast array of experience comes to life
as she simultaneously takes a phone call to speak with
the head of a fortune 500 company, fields several other
questions regarding the day to day operations of Club E, an
entrepreneurs business and think tank office
complex in College Park, Georgia where
she serves as the Manager and Director of
Operations, and looks over her notes for
an upcoming meeting with the President
of an organization that is raising money to
help with pancreatic cancer research. To say
that Jo Ann is busy would certainly be an
understatement, yet she stays focused and
on task as she pushes through her day.
As I sat in her office
waiting for my turn to speak
with her, it didn’t take long
for me to realize that Jo Ann’s
real passion, what drives her
to get up in the wee hours of
the morning to take a group
of girls to visit Tuskegee
University in Alabama, is not
the many titles that follow
her name on the door, or
the number of organizations
where she serves as an advisor,
but the many young girls from
ONE TALENT, the non profit
organization that she, along
with her daughter, Kamilah Burrow, founded some ten years
ago, whose pictures and awards adorn the walls and desk of
her office. Most of these young girls, like Jo Ann, come from
humble beginnings. So many of them face the challenge of
living with a single parent, the lack of adequate
income to support the family, or have experienced
traumatic events in their early childhood. While
these girls do come from various backgrounds,
each one is searching for something similar; a
mentor— someone who will believe in them and
direct them, an opportunity to soar to
new heights, to rise above their current
circumstances, and to achieve their scholastic
dreams. In Jo Ann and Kamilia they have certainly
found what they so desperately needed.
Realizing that these young girls were falling through the cracks, Jo Ann and
Kamilah decided to do something about it ten years ago. The humble beginnings of
what would later become a fully operational non profit 501(c)3 organization began
with just a hand full of girls in the garage of her modest home and a whole lot of
passion. What began as an opportunity to pour into the lives of a few young ladies
with the hope of making a difference has grown into a worldwide organization
whose mission is to advance the gifts and talents of these young leaders of tomorrow
and to provide a platform for these young girls to showcase their skills and abilities
while also providing educational opportunities through workshops, specialized
course studies in technology, career development, sewing, financial literacy, health
and fitness, the art of music, and many, many more. “We were faithful to our
calling and to our mission” says Mrs. Allen who is quick to tell you that it
hasn’t always been easy to find resources to meet the needs of each one
who has come through their program. “Many times, as a matter of
fact, most all of the time in the beginning, the funds came
directly out of our own pockets which made things even
more precious when we saw the program, and our girls,
continue to grow and find success.”
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Kamilah Burrow
An exceptionally gifted teacher,
song writer, recording artist,
performer, musician, and playwright
Perhaps Jo Ann’s greatest
achievement to date is her daughter,
and co-founder of One Talent, Kamilah
Burrow. Kamilah, affectionately known
to those who work with and love her
Over the years, through handwork and dedication, the
organization has seen a large measure of success in both
participation and in those willing to donate their time and
resources through leadership volunteer opportunities. “One
of the things we are most proud of,
other than our girls,” says Jo Ann,
“is the number of people who are
willing to take the time needed to
invest in these bright young leaders
of tomorrow.” And Jo Ann certainly
knows how valuable time is when you’re working. Having
spent twenty eight years as a flight crew member for Delta
Air Lines and as the community relations director for Habitat
for Humanity she knows just how much these working
professionals have to offer in the way of guidance, career
development advice, and loving support. “We’re always
looking for an opportunity to partner with those workforce
leaders and successful entrepreneurs who are setting the bar
high and are able to teach our young ladies how to reach for
and obtain their goals” says Mrs. Allen.
as Milah, has achieved quite a bit so
far on her own. An exceptionally gifted
teacher, song writer, recording artist, performer, musician,
and playwright, Kamiliah proudly followed in her mother’s
footsteps and attended the prestigious Tuskegee University
where she earned a degree in Sales and Marketing. To
continue pursing her dreams, Kamilah attended graduate
school at Georgia State University in Atlanta where she
graduated at the top of her class from the J. Mack Robinson
College of Business with a Master’s Of Professional
Accountancy Degree. After graduation, Milah passed all parts
of the Certified Public Accountant board exams on her very
first attempt. With all of these talents, it’s easy to see how
privileged the young girls at ONE TALENT are to have Ms.
of the songs and score, for her very first play which she hopes
to see produced in the very near future. One thing is certain
when you meet Kamilah… she’s sure of her purpose in life
and of where her talent came from. “I give credit to God…
the one who gave me this talent and I want to honor Him and
that gift with my life” says Ms. Burrows. And with a songbook
of over one hundred fifty songs to her credit, countless
scores, and other manuscripts she’s certainly doing just that.
Kamiliah’s Believe CDs, a project near and dear to her heart,
is available on iTunes as well as on the One Talent website.
Proceeds from the sale of the Believe album go directly to
support the Believe Movement—a national anti-bullying
prevention campaign.
Burrows as a mentor and life coach. Kamiliah’s passion for
music, writing, teaching, and acting come to life even more
now as she has just completed the manuscript, as well as all
Find out more about the Believe Movement on the next page.
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What Is The
“BeLieve”
Movement?
The “BeLieve” Movement was established to bring awareness to bullying,
low self-esteem, and teenage suicide. The goal is to address community safety
issues in schools and neighborhoods. Through education advocacy, and servicelearning
projects, the “BeLieve” for Safer Communities Youth Council seeks to
increase awareness about the seriousness of bullying and violence and garner
community-wide support to address the issue.
The “BeLieve” Movement - National Bullying Prevention Campaign has a
goal of obtaining one-thousand (1,000) signed No Bullying pledges by the end
of 2017.
Moved by the stories of several young girls and having experienced bullying
herself, One Talent, Inc. Co-founder, Kamilah Burrow (aka Milah), wrote,
produced, and performed “Believe In Yourself” to encourage the youth and
adults to take a stand against bullying and violence.
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Everyday
Gourmet
By
Charlotte Lute
PHOTOS BY ROYCE WATSON
While Fall has finally arrived, and it may be
Brining is the technique they use to infuse moisture and
cooler in other parts of the country where you are, it’s still
flavor throughout the entire piece of meat. The salt relaxes
hot here in Atlanta. In the south, we use our grills all year
the protein strands, creating space for the liquid to move into
round and with football and tailgating season here, I thought
the meat. The acid from the wine also flavors and tenderizes
you would enjoy these fabulous dishes which you can grill
the meat. In this case, we are using garlic and red pepper
up and heat up your taste buds, not your kitchen. They also
flakes as additional flavors, but you could add any fresh
make a great menu tailgating, or just to enjoy for an easy
herbs, dried spices or other flavors that you enjoy.
dinner party.
There’s not much that is as disappointing as being
Grilled Corn & Avocado Salad
©2017 Royce Watson
ready to serve a great steak dinner, but then, when it is ready,
you take a bite and although it is seasoned on the outside,
the inside is bland or stringy and dry. It is possible, however,
to produce a fabulous steak dinner with little effort, that is
packed with flavor. All we need to do is follow in the steps
of our South American neighbors — the Argentinians and
Brazilians — who are famous for their steakhouses. Their
techniques have been used for centuries to produce flavorful
grilled meats over an open fire.
Charlotte Lute currently resides in
Hapeville, Ga. with her husband of 29 years.
She is fortunate enough to have grown up in Italy
and Belgium and has traveled extensively. She has
25 years’ experience in the food service industry,
including teaching Culinary Arts in an Arts high
school and technical college. She has two main
passions — travel and food. She enjoys going
to new places, experiencing the food scene and
figuring out how to recreate what she has found.
Teaching others about food is one of her favorite
things to do.
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Not much pairs with
Argentinian steak better
than a great Malbec
from the Mendoza
valley. Some my
favorites are from the
Catena Vineyards. For
this tasting, I selected
2 mid-range Malbecs,
both from the same
area, but the Alta Malbec
is planted at a higher
elevation.
The Malbec grape
varietal is originally from
France. Today, most of
the Malbec wines in
France are produced in
Cahors. It is a commonly
used grape for blending;
however it does have
poor resistance to pests
and weather. It was first
planted in the Mendoza
valley in 1868 by a French
botanist under the orders
of the mayor of that time.
The high elevations
provide hot days and
cold nights, which is
great for the grapes.
These Malbecs are
bold and rich, which
stands up well to the
flavors in our dishes.
They are fruity and
dry with notes of
blackberry, plum and
black cherry. The Alta
has hints of lavender
and violet, and is
slightly leathery. The
Classic also has hints
of blueberry and
sweet spices.
CHEERS!
Argentinian Flank or
Skirt Steak
For the brine:
1/2 Cup Kosher or sea salt
2+ cloves garlic (I like more!)
1 Cup hot water
1 tsp red pepper flakes
1 Cup dry red wine
Enough cold water to make 1 qt.
Dissolve the salt in the hot water. Add the rest
of the ingredients and allow to cool to room
temperature before adding your steak. Do not
marinate your steak in warm or hot liquid.
Be patient and plan ahead!
Prepare your steak:
TERM
EXTRA RARE
(BLUE)
RARE
DESCRIPTION
VERY RED
RED CENTER,
SOFT
TEMPERATURE
RANGE
115—120 F
125—130 F
MEDIUM RARE WARM, RED 130—140 F
MEDIUM
CENTER,
FIRMER
140—150 F
MEDIUM WELL PINK AND FIRM 150—155 F
WELL DONE
A BIT OF PINK
IN CENTER
2 1/2 pounds of flank or skirt steak
Remove from packaging, trip excess fat
and any silver skin.
30 minutes prior to grilling, remove the
steak from the brine, pat it dry with paper
towels that you can throw away, and let it
rest at room temperature while you heat
the grill to a medium high. This helps
the protein strands relax even more and
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when the steak hits the hot grill it will not seize up.
Because of the brine and the flavor in the sauce
below, you should season lightly, if desired, or wait
until after it is grilled to add additional salt. Spray
with vegetable oil and grill on both sides until
desired temperature is reached. See table below
for temperatures.
Do yourself a favor, purchase a decent digital
thermometer. Weber makes one for under $10 that
you can find in the grilling section.
I cooked this steak to a perfect 137 degrees. It was
about 1 ½ inches thick at the thickest end. I grilled
it on medium high for 6 minutes on one side and
5 on the other, keeping the lid closed when I was
not checking on it.
When the steak is at the proper temperature,
pull it off the grill and let it rest for 10 minutes or
so, this seals in the juices. Thinly slice it against
the grain and place on serving dish. Top with the
chimichurri sauce.
Chimichurri Sauce:
A staple in South American cuisine. Everyone has
their own take on it. Basically, you can change it up
any way you like, but this is a good, basic recipe:
In a blender or food processor combine:
½ Cup olive oil (please use a good one!)
¼ Cup lemon juice, lime juice, red wine vinegar
or any combination of these
½ Cup cilantro leaves packed
½ Cup parsley leaves packed
2 cloves of garlic
1 tsp sugar
1 tsp crushed red pepper
¼ tsp ground cumin
½ tsp salt
Blend until smooth. Taste and adjust seasoning!
Serve at room temperature.
Everyday Gourmet Tip:
Place your brine and steak in a gallon
size zip lock bag to marinate, and put
it in the refrigerator.
Grilled Corn &
Avocado Salad
2 ears of fresh, non GMO corn
1 Avocado, diced
1 ½ Cup cherry or grape tomatoes, cut in half
½ red onion, diced
¼ Cup chopped cilantro
Dressing:
Stir together
3 Tbs olive oil
2 Tbs lime juice
½ tsp cumin
½ tsp paprika
¼ tsp pepper
Sea salt to taste
To grill the corn:
Open husk, take off silk. Tie husk back
closed with butcher twine, place on grill and turn
occasionally for 15 minutes. Pull off and let sit until
it is cool enough to handle. Take husk all the way
off, brush with a little oil and put corn directly on
the grates of the grill. Turning frequently and allow
the corn to brown a bit, without burning it. When
it has some color (which equates to flavor) pull it
off and allow it to cool. When it is cool enough to
handle, use a knife to cut the kernels off of the cob.
Stir everything together. This is best served
right away.
Grilled Peaches
with Brandy &
Brown Sugar Glaze
One of my favorite things about Georgia is the
peaches! We are the Peach Capital. Peaches are a type
of “stone fruit”. Other stone fruits are nectarines,
plums and apricots. Any of which would work for this
recipe as well!
Peaches are classified as free stone, semi cling or
cling stone, based on how much the flesh of the fruit
attaches to the pit. Free stone peaches are easiest
for this recipe, as you do not have to work as hard to
remove the pit, so you reduce the chance of bruising
the peach.
4 peaches, cut in half pit removed
For the glaze:
¼ Cup brandy
2 Tbs brown sugar
2 Tbs melted butter
Stir together and coat
peaches, letting them sit
for at least 1 hour. Turn off
½ of your grill for indirect
grilling. You do not want to
put the fruit over a lit grill
as the brandy will catch on
fire. Grill 5 – 6 minutes, until
soft. While the peaches are
grilling, take the marinade
and reduce it on the stove
top until thickened, 4 – 5
minutes. Serve warm peaches
topped with good vanilla ice
cream and spoon some sauce
over it. Eat it immediately.
Everyday
Gourmet Tip:
If you have to hold
this salad for a little
while, keep the pit
of the avocado and
store it in the salad.
When you keep the
pit with it, it prevents
the fruit from
browning quickly.
Pre- grill your
peaches up to the
day before and
reduce the sauce.
When ready to serve,
heat them on the grill
and follow the rest of
the recipe.
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The More You Know...
Oh, What
1 2
1. Pour Gallon of water into a
container that has a lid and
enough space to hold the meat
you’re going to marinate.
Typically this continuer should
be about to hold about twice the
amount of liquid you are placing
into it.
A Brine
RECIPE & PHOTOS
BY ROYCE WATSON
Brine for
8-10 Pork Chops
3
2. Place the kosher salt into the cup
of hot water and stir to dissolve.
After salt has dissolved add to the
cold water in your container.
3. Add the Apple Cider Vinegar along
with the Apple Juice or Cider to
your liquid mixture and stir well.
Brining, a technique used to tenderize meat, and
an easy way to infuse lots of tremendous flavor, has been
debated among some of the best chefs and home cooks in
America. I’ve often thought it was a lot of work for little
return, but our Everyday Gourmet Sections Chef Charlotte
Lute inspired me to give it a try once again after tasting
the delicious steak that she had prepared for a photo shoot
one Saturday afternoon. Though it was already a good cut
of meat, I was surprised at how tender and juicy the steak
was—no guarantee just because of the higher price tag at
the market; preparation and good culinary technique, I have
learned, can make even a less expensive cut of meat taste
remarkably better.
family is aware when I’m up to something, such as testing a
recipe, but this particular evening I had managed to avoid
detection. I didn’t want to influence their opinions so I
refrained from commenting and chose to just wait and see
if my experiment had worked. What I did get were several
comments about the juiciness, tenderness, and wonderful
flavor of the pork chops. Everyone commented that I had
done a particularly good job with grilling the chops and
asked what I did differently…so there’s your confirmation—
Brine your meat! The payoff in taste and texture are worth
the extra effort! I’m a big fan and you, and those you cook
for, will be too!
1 cup of Kosher Salt
1 Gallon of Cold Spring Water
1 cup of Hot Water
½ cup of Apple Cider Vinegar
2 to 3 cups of Pure Apple Juice
or Cider
Several Cloves of freshly
peeled Garlic
Fresh or Dried Thyme
¼ cup of Black Peppercorns
4
4. Add the garlic, thyme, and
peppercorns (I like to place the
peppercorns in a plastic bag and
give them a good smash with a
heavy skillet or a rolling pin and
I do the same for the garlic and
herbs which help to release their
flavor into the brining liquid) and
stir well before adding the pork
chops to the brining solution.
5. Cover the container and place
into refrigerator for at least one
hour, and up to four hours, before
cooking. Take pork chops out of
liquid and discard brining solution.
Brining can be used for a vast array
of meats…not just for steak. Since grilled
pork chops were on the menu for dinner,
5
Be sure to pat the pork chops dry
before placing on grill. Grill as you
normally would and enjoy!
I decided that it would be a perfect time
to have my own test group and see if
anyone noticed a difference. I prepared
the pork chops as I normally would to
grill them with one exception—they had
been allowed to marinate in the brine
solution for approximately four hours
before I grilled them.
I was curious to see if anyone
would make a comment about the pork
chops during meal time. Usually my
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&
Health
Fitness
The Very
Best You . . .
Born and raised in Norfolk, Virginia, our fitness
expert and personal trainer, Jamie Evans, now makes his
home in San Antonio, Texas. Having served in the United
States Coast Guard for many years, and as a strategic
member of our military’s Elite Special Forces Team, Jamie
knows all too well the importance of eating well and staying
physically fit. Jamie’s body, as all those assigned to such a
dangerous detail, was one of his greatest assets. Often
pushed to the limits of physical and mental endurance,
members of the Elite Special Forces Team rely upon the
conditioning of their bodies to sustain them through
difficult missions and bring them safely home. Join us
now as we have a discussion with Jamie about his passion
for physical fitness, healthy eating, and learn how you, too, can
make the necessary changes in your own lifestyle to carry you
the distance.
By Royce Watson
in conversation with Jamie Evans
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RRoyce: Some people say it’s
RRoyce: What initially prompted your interest in
physical fitness?
JJamie: “I was always physically active through
high school, and even more so when I entered the
military. From my days serving in the Coast Guard,
to my years in Special Forces, physical fitness was
an integral part of my routine. Much like
most people gather around the coffee
maker each day at work, physical
training was something I looked
forward to. Staying in shape
was somewhat easier during
that time as it was something
that was expected of me as a
soldier. I didn’t give it a second
thought because it was simply a
part of the job requirement and
something that I enjoyed.”
RRoyce: Was there ever a time
when that changed, or did you continue
with your same routine once you retired from
active Jservice?
Jamie: “Oh no, that definitely changed.
I retired after being injured while on duty;
tore my rotator cuff which made it virtually
impossible to stay in the gym, especially with
the routine to which I had become accustomed.
The pain and rehabilitation from the injury were
gruesome. I found myself both severely depressed
and frustrated because I was wasn’t able to do the
things I loved. No longer among the brotherhood
of my military family, I felt isolated and alone;
struggling to find my footing. Marry that with
the challenge of overcoming a life altering injury,
the frustration of trying to figure out how to maintain my
body without the ability to workout, and you have a recipe
for disaster.”
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RRoyce: What do you mean exactly when you say
recipe for disaster?
J
Jamie: Most of us have challenges
that we have to deal with at some point
in our lives. For me personally, the
recipe for disaster I was referring
to was the fact that I felt isolated
and alone. Having transitioned
from a full-time career where I had
a support network of colleagues and friends to not
working at all while trying to cope with debilitating
pain was rather difficult. After some time of dealing
with, what seemed to be, never ending pain, I made
the mistake of mixing alcohol with prescription pain
medicine. As you can imagine, it wasn’t long before
I found myself spiraling down a very slippery slope.
Fortunately for me, I realized just how quickly
things could have taken a much different turn for
the worse.
RRoyce:
through
J
that difficult time in your life Jamie?
RRoyce: Were you able to see
immediate results?
J
What exactly helped you get
Jamie: I turned back to the one thing I loved
the most — the gym and exercise. You don’t
realize just how much you love something until
you can’t do it anymore, but I was determined to
push through the obstacles and reclaim my life.
Jamie: At first, I’ll be honest, it was
difficult, but I was motivated to get
my life back. I was tired of feeling
the way I had been since my injury
and I wanted more than the sedentary life that was trying to
claim my future. With each passing day, and workout, things
began to change — change for the better.
Rchanges J
you began to see?
R
Royce: What were some of the most noticeable
Jamie: First of all let me be absolutely clear about
something: while it was difficult to push my body to get back
into a routine of healthy eating and exercise, the benefits
were so worth the effort. Almost immediately I began to
physically feel better. When you’re exercising, you are
improving your circulation and getting necessary oxygen to
your muscles. The pain I was living with began to improve as
I pushed through to get my workouts in.
Royce: Other than the physical changes you saw,
what Jother benefits come from taking the time to eat healthy
and exercise?
Jamie: ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING!! Having more
energy, improved cardiovascular function, as well as an
increased metabolism. Also, endorphins are released when
you exercise which helps with your overall sense of happiness
and wellbeing and combats things like depression. Of course,
there were also the obvious improvements in my physical
appearance as I continued to follow a regular exercise
regimen as well which clearly makes anyone feel better
about themselves.
thoughts
J
on this, Jamie?
RRoyce: You make it sound so easy, Jamie. What
difference?
J
more expensive to eat healthier foods
or to pay for a gym membership or
personal trainer. What are your
Jamie: Think of it this way…The
fuel that you put into your body and
the time that you spend exercising
are an investment in you! You only
have one body to get through this
life with; taking care of yourself is an
investment in your future for many
years to come. Imagine if you were
going to buy one car knowing that the
one you select is going to have to last
you for 50 years; you would certainly
do everything you could to make sure
it would last you by changing the oil, keeping up with the
maintenance, and keeping it from being exposed to things
which could destroy the exterior and engine. Basically,
people treat their cars better than they do their own bodies
so often. We weren’t created to be dormant creatures so
it’s important to give your body the fuel it needs and to
stay active.
would you tell someone who hasn’t exercised or eaten very
health for years, but wants to start making better decisions?
What could they start doing right now that would make a
Jamie: “My very best advice would be to do what I
call “THE TRADE PROGRAM; trade something not good
for you for something that is good for you. Perhaps for you
it would be to trade out the soda you’re currently drinking
for water, give up that milkshake for a much healthier fruit
smoothie, or perhaps give up an hour of television watching
and trade that for an hour of exercise each day — a decision
you’ll never regret.” Just do the one thing and watch the
transformations begin.
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RRoyce: You spoke about trading out unhealthy foods
for some that are much healthier. Can you give us some
good Jexamples of foods that would be beneficial for us?
Jamie: Certainly. Oats and other whole grains, egg
whites, quinoa, fresh fruits and vegetables, nuts that grow
above ground (i.e. pecans, almonds, walnuts), as well
as berries of all kinds such as blueberries, blackberries,
and strawberries.
RRoyce: Are there foods that we should avoid?
JJamie: I certainly think so, especially if you are looking
for weight loss. Avoid a lot of dairy, pastas, breads, and
heavy carbohydrates. Timing is also very important. By that
I mean it’s important when you eat. You should always start
the day out with a healthy breakfast; it’s the fuel to start your
body and get it in revved up and ready for the day ahead.
You can’t run a car on an empty gas tank and you shouldn’t
try to run your body without putting some nutritional fuel
into it as well. A constant source of fuel is needed to get you
through the day and keep your mind and body functioning as
it should. The better nutritional fuel you put into your body,
the better your body is going to perform for you.
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RRoyce: People often say that eating healthy is more
expensive.
J
Would you agree with that assessment?
Jamie: I would agree that up front it appears to be
more expensive, but what you have to factor in is not only
the amount of money that you are spending when you go to
the market, but how much money are you saving over the
course of your lifetime by eating healthier. It might seem
more costly to purchase the healthier fruits and vegetables
than the chips, sodas, and prepared foods loaded with all
kinds of preservatives, but in the end your body will thank
you for doing so. As you eat healthier, your body lasts longer
and performs better. Your whole quality of life is better when
you are able to be active doing what you love to do both in
work and play. This directly affects your overall physical and
mental health. Think of it this way, there’s only one you…
you’re the absolute best commodity you have, so do all you
can do to take care of YOU!
RRoyce: You mentioned when we first met that you
are a personal trainer. What are the benefits of having a
personal trainer and when should someone considering
hiring one?
JJamie:
I think it’s
especially important to
consult a trainer when you’re
serious about making a
lifestyle change. In the same
way you would take your car to
a mechanic for an automobile
repair, or hire a contractor to
build your house, you should
also consult with a personal
trainer to help you map out
the exercise plan that’s right
for you. Licensed personal
trainers are typically easy
to locate through various
sources such as your local
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gym or by searching online for licensed personal trainers
in your area. These highly skilled professionals have
received lots of training in nutrition, exercise, and how the
body responds.
R
Royce: What should I look for when searching for a
personal trainer?
J
Jamie: I think that one of the most important things
you want to look for in a personal trainer is someone who
is interested in you. The last thing you want is a “drivethru”
trainer who just is there for the money or for their
own benefit. You should feel comfortable with his or her
approach to diet and exercise, skill level and experience, and
they should be genuinely interested in your overall health
and well being. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and arrange
to observe a session with the trainer and another one of
their clients. Most trainers worth their salt will be happy to
accommodate and welcome an opportunity to impress you.
R
Royce: What do you think about these lose weight
quick diets that are often seen advertised on television and
in Jother media sources?
Jamie: Personally I would never take part in them,
but perhaps some people need it as a jumping off place to
motivate them. I strongly suggest you do your own research
and consult a doctor or medical
professional before starting any kind
of fad diet. My only other thoughts
on those type of diets is that they
typically don’t give you any type of good
foundation or training about how to
eat or exercise properly and they often
promise results that are not normal for
most people. If what they are promising sounds
too good to be true, then it probably isn’t what you
can expect to achieve. Nothing beats the tried and true
method of healthy eating and daily exercise.
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RRoyce: You’ve certainly overcome some obstacles in
your own life, Jamie and really seem to be doing well. What
kind of work are you doing now and tell us a bit about other
things you’re involved with outside of work since retiring
J
from active military service?
Jamie: Having served in the Deployable Specialized
Forces in the Coast Guard, most of my experience was with
counter terrorism and anti-piracy, so it just seemed logical
to me after my injury healed to the point where I could work
again to accept a position as a private security contractor in
Afghanistan. This position allows me to still play an active
roll in providing the help this country needs to combat
threats to our military interests abroad while also pursing
some of my other passions back here at home.
R
Royce: Tell us about some of those passions, Jamie.
J
Jamie: I spend a lot of my free time speaking to
veterans groups across the nation. What I have learned
is that veterans often feel that they have no purpose after
suffering from a debilitating injury. Most are released from
active duty and just don’t know where to go from there
or what to do; the life they once knew suddenly changes.
Not only do they have to deal with the physical changes
due to their injury, but there are the mental and emotional
challenges that accompany such a life alternating event.
Suicide rates are incredibly high among disabled veterans;
the statistics are staggering. Veterans from World War II and
from Vietnam often suffer in silence because of the social
stigma are often attached to these conflicts.
I am personally involved with WISHES FOR
WARRIORS, a non profit organization that works diligently
to help reintegrate combat soldiers into outdoor activities
that they once enjoyed. A lot of these guys are dealing with
PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), depression, anxiety,
and a struggle with a loss of self worth after a traumatic
injury while on active duty. Many of them are amputees
and are struggling to find their way back to a normal life.
Wishes For Warriors takes these guys on hunting and fishing
trips by making its possible for them to experience the great
outdoors in a way that wouldn’t be possible without their
assistance. From outfitting a power wheel chair to navigate
the rugged terrain to skeet shoots organized to build
these guys self-esteem, Wishes for Warriors is making a
difference. I am honored to be a part of such an outstanding
organization.
Other than that I enjoy competitive lifting, working
out in my local gym, traveling as a motivational speaker,
and spending time with my family and with Hera, my
German shepherd.
You can reach Jamie with questions and inquires at:
jamie@crossroads-magazine.com
One of Jamie’s favorite healthy dishes.
CROCK POT CHILI
1 tbsp. vegetable oil
2 tsp. minced garlic
1 lb. lean ground beef
1 large onion, chopped
1 large bell pepper, chopped
6 stalks celery, chopped
1 package McCormick’s Chili Seasoning
1 cup water
1 15 oz. can Pinto Beans
1 15 oz. can dark red kidney beans, drained
1 15 oz. can RoTel Original
1 15 oz. can diced tomatoes
1 15 oz. can tomato sauce
Salt and pepper to taste
Minimum 6qt. Crock Pot
Instructions
• In a large skillet, heat vegetable oil until sizzling then
add ground beef, chopped onion, bell pepper, garlic
and celery. Chop up beef as it cooks.
• When onion starts to look translucent, add
McCormick’s Chili Seasoning stirring it into beef
mixture to thoroughly combined.
• In your crock pot, water, pinto & kidney beans, RoTel,
diced tomatoes and tomato sauce, as much
as will fit, and stir. Then add salt and pepper to taste.
• Place lid on crock pot. Set temperature to medium
and let cook for at least 4 hours.
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Roberto
Castillo...
Making the Goal
Making
BY ROYCE WATSON
The classroom was buzzing with excitement as seats were beginning
to fill up on the very first night of GED classes being offered at our local church.
My wife, Marina, and I had realized that there was a big need for someone
to teach classes for those who had not, for whatever reason, completed their
high school education, but who now wanted to earn their General Equivalence
the
Diploma. From young to old, our youngest was sixteen and our oldest was
74. Our 30 plus students all seemed excited to be there, but none were as
classroom doors just a few minutes before class began that cold winter evening.
It was in that classroom where we first met Roberto Castillo-Narvaez. From
the very first moment, he seemed different — perhaps he had taken a wrong
turn into our classroom while searching for one of the college classes being
passionate and determined as one young man who walked through those
Goal
offered down the hallway. He was well spoken, nicely dressed, and most sure
that he was in fact in the right place. I wondered, as we sat looking over our
new sea of students, what had brought each of them to this place. What had
happened in life that had made it difficult for them to finish high school. As
a way to get to know them better, and to assess their writing skills, I asked
the entire class to write a story explaining who they were, why they had
not finished high school, what made them decide to pursue their GED, and
anything else they wanted to share with us. Some students struggled greatly
with this assignment; especially those who had not been in a classroom or
written a paper for decades. Roberto, however, sat quietly in the back corner
of the classroom diligently writing. I thought that he, too, might be struggling
with what to write as so many others had, but when I collected his paper at
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the end of our first session, I learned that
the only struggle he had encountered was
that he almost didn’t have enough paper to
complete his story.
While the other students filed back
into the classroom after a short break, I
began to read Roberto’s paper. As I read
the account of what brought him to our
class that night, I had to step out into
the hallway — his transparency about
the mistakes he had made earlier in his
life, along with his determination to right
those wrongs and complete his education
moved me to tears. It was obvious he had
a great love for soccer — a passion that
had taught Roberto so much about hard
work, determination, and making goals. I
didn’t want Roberto, or the others in the
class that night, to see just how much his
paper had affected me. When class was
over later that evening, I assured Roberto
that he was in the right place and that we
would do all we could to help him with
his studies and preparation to take the
GED exams. Roberto’s eyes beckoned
me to look deeper. There was obviously
so much more to this young man than
what appeared at first glance — And that’s
where our journey together began…
Read more about Roberto, and our
journey together, in the next issue of
Community CrossRoads Magazine. You
can also connect with Roberto directly
by contacting him through email at
Roberto@CrossRoads-Magazine.com
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BUFFA LO
New York
BY ROYCE WATSON
It was a balmy thirty five
degrees in Buffalo, New York on a mid
spring day in March as I made my way out of
the airport and waited for my friend and tour guide
for the day, Don Hagner, to pick me up for my very first visit to this beautiful
city. Having left Atlanta, Georgia where the sun was brightly shining and the
temperatures were already in the upper seventies at 8:30am, I had not even
considered bringing anything more than a light sweater with me for the trip.
I’m a hot natured person anyway, so the cooler temperatures, so I thought,
would be a welcome change. The skies had a vaguely familiar grayish white
hue, only vaguely familiar to a boy raised in the south because we rarely see
enough snow clouds to even remember what they look like, but just familiar
enough to realize that something different than what I was accustomed to
was most certainly going on.
The Edward M. Cotter Fireboat
is considered to be the oldest active fireboat in the world
and was designated a National Historic Landmark in 1996.
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Buffalo City Hall
Buffalo Wings
originated at
Anchor Bar in
dowtown Buffalo
Niagra Falls
OR
MORE than SNOW! FUN, FRIENDLY
“It looks like it may snow
today” I tell Don as he quickly whisks
me away to begin showing me around this
city where he was born, and has called home
for many years. Like most Buffalonians, a name
Buffalo residents wear with great pride, anything
less than two feet of snow on the ground is considered
nothing more than a light flurry. Don is proud to tell me
just how much he is in love with this city, and why it must
simply be the best place on earth to live.
Nicknamed the “City of Good Neighbors,” Buffalo, a
major metropolitan city located in the western part of New
York state, and on the eastern shores of Lake Erie, sits at
the head of the Niagara River, and hails as the states second
most populated city. Having grown up in the Southern part
of the United States, I must admit that so often our views of
New York state, and the cities that make up this culturally
rich state, are often skewed. Many people, like myself, have
thought through the years that all of the major metropolitan
cities in the New York state area are somehow closely
connected and that they must all resemble the iconic New
York City. Surprisingly enough, we have been mistaken all
along. It was interesting to discover as I traveled throughout
the remarkable neighborhoods which are rich in history that
there are hardly any similarities between the Big Apple and
Buffalo, and that the two cities are, in fact, geographically
several hours away from each other with far more differences
than with things they share in common.
As we make our way along the canal side near
downtown, a familiar smell wafts through the air. Don rolls
down the windows of his car and invites me to close my
eyes and concentrate on the wonderful smell permeating
the entire area. “Smell familiar?” Don asks. With a bit
of hesitation, I commented that “It smells like toasted
Cherrios.” “EXACTLY!” Don exclaimed. The General Mills
plant bakes Cherrios, and at other times a couple other
breakfast cereals, at their plant location near downtown
and you can smell it throughout the city…something no one
complains about. At the turn of the 20th century, Buffalo
stood out as a leader in the industrial movement of the
United States due primarily because of the number of grain
mills, automotive builders, and other specialized industrial
goods manufacturers that were located in the region. These
local mills provided much needed jobs for the western part
of the state, and were the first to benefit from hydroelectric
power generated by the Niagara River many years ago.
This earned Buffalo the name “City of Lights” due to the
widespread usage of electrical lighting that was viewable for
miles around.
and RICH in HISTORY!
While the city owes
much of its initial prosperity to the success
of the industrial movement during the time, Buffalo has
many other things that have equally contributed to making this
opulent river city an absolute must visit destination for your
travel itinerary. From the regal skyscrapers that so gracefully
overlook this cities most eclectic neighborhoods, as well as offer
breathtaking views of both Lake Erie and the Buffalo River, this
city has much to offer anyone who is looking for an adventure
or who has a few days to explore the diverse architecture that
has framed the foundation for Buffalo for hundreds of years. The
city is full of beautiful parks, cemeteries, and historic buildings for those
who like to take their time and stroll through landmarks which are filled
with opportunities to glean even more facts about this culturally diverse
area. From the Darwin D. Martin National Historic Landmark, a house
designed by Frank Lloyd Wright which was built between 1903-1905 and
considered to be one of his greatest works, to the Buffalo History Museum—
the sole surviving building that once served as the New York State pavilion at the
Pan AM Exposition (1901 World’s Fair) that sits on the northeast corner of Delaware
Park, and is the location where President William McKinley, the 25th President of the
United States was assassinated, Buffalo has so much to offer those willing to spend a little
time there.
Holy Angels Church
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Our Lady of Victory Basilica
Old Post Office
Peace Bridge
Theatre District
Any trip to
Buffalo simply would not be
complete without an opportunity to visit to one of the most
recognizable landmarks in the world — Niagara Falls! Not
realizing just how short of a drive it would be to get there
from our downtown Buffalo outing, Don almost laughed out
loud when I asked if there would be any possible way that
we might find the time to make our way to the falls…a place
that I had only ever seen on television morning shows or
in magazines, but had dreamed of visiting since I sat in Mr.
Willie Edmonds Social Studies classes as a young seventh
grader daydreaming of the moment I would one day get see
one of the worlds greatest wonders in person. Today would
be that day!
As we made our way closer to the falls, the skies seemed
to turn even more gray as if to offer a glimpse of what was
to come in the few hours ahead. Like a kid on Christmas
morning, I was bubbling with excitement and could hardly
wait to arrive and see what surprise awaited me only a short
drive from the Canadian border.
After parking the car, we began the short
trek to the riverfront walkway. I was amazed just how
close we were able to get to the edge of this powerful body
of water. I had already began to regret not having brought
a much heavier coat or gloves with me as the temperature
had dropped at least ten degrees. As we got even closer to
the actual falls, the mist that filled the air from the turbulent
waters below began to freeze and create what resembled
snow. Ice crystals covered the walkways and guard rails as
well as my hair and face. Most people, at least those who had
prepared well, had on fur lined hats, gloves, and an overcoat
that provided a warm haven from the bitter cold that seemed
to only get more intense as we approached the actual falls. A
few carefully decisive steps more and we had finally arrived
at the top of the Falls. Don, who grew up in the area and
had visited the falls countless times quickly made his way
to the lookout point much faster than I did. Not only was
he familiar with exactly where to go, but he was intimately
familiar with how to get there without falling on the slippery
ice covered walkways; a skill most Buffalonians seem to
have mastered over the years. I wasn’t taking any chances
so I carefully continued on past the white capped, turbulent
waters to the picturesque vantage point on the American
Side of the falls. As I looked up to see the rushing water
cascading over the top of the falls, I was overcome with raw
emotion. I burst into tears as I stood and took in the majesty,
splendor, and intensity of the raging water that was just a few
short yards from where I stood. I had never seen anything so
beautiful and yet so very powerful.
Niagara Falls is collectively made up of three separate
waterfalls that straddle the border between Canada and the
United States. The Horseshoe Falls, the American Falls, and
the Bridal Veil Falls. The American Falls are completely on
the United States side of the border, the Horseshoe Falls
lies on the border between the United States and Canada,
and the smaller Bridal Veil Falls is also on the American side
separated by Luna island from the American Falls. After
exploring the museum and information center at the Niagara
Falls State Park, the oldest continually operating state park
in the United States, we decided to stop on the way to the
airport before my return trip back to Atlanta, Georgia at
Anchor Bar—the birthplace of what have since taken the
nation, and perhaps the world, by storm…Buffalo Wings.
Many years ago Buffalo set its sites on becoming a city
whose food culture would be second to none. Just ask Don,
or anyone from Buffalo, and they will assure you it’s a fact.
Well, it seems
countless others apparently
agree. Buffalo has in fact become
all the rage in the world of foodies with its
extensively diverse culture and vast selection of
restaurants featuring everything from up and coming
gastro pubs to world class Italian cuisine. Buffalo also plays
host to “Taste of Buffalo”— one of the regions signature
events and the largest two day food festival in the United
States with over 450,000 guests in attendance this past July
sampling foods from five wineries and over 55 restaurants.
This is a must attend event for those who enjoy tasting
unbelievable foods and wines from various places all over
the world. And of course Don, who is quick to remind me
that there are a few other must haves when it comes to food
synonymous with Buffalo such as the Beef on Weck sandwich,
sponge candy, and according to Don, the only place to buy
pizza is in Buffalo. After having some, I may be inclined to
agree. Seems he might have something there too! To end our
day, we stopped by Paula’s Donuts, an iconic donut shop
and bakery, just a few block away. Read more about Paula and
those famous donuts in her story that follows, but just know
I left with several dozen to bring home and, after sharing
with others on the way, I arrived home with only two dozen.
They were clearly a big hit!
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Interestingly enough, I have made several trips
back to Buffalo since my very first visit and have had
the opportunity to explore many other areas of this
majestic city. Along the way, I have fallen in love with
the people there — they are friendly, loyal, spirited,
and are truly a “City of Good Neighbors.” Buffalo is
one of the most beautiful places I’ve visited recently.
There’s lots to do and see, many opportunities for
recreational activities, there are national sports teams,
ice skating rinks, and of course, this little thing called
The Falls. Should you get a chance to go, tell them
Royce sent you! They’ll be glad to see you!
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STORY & PHOTOS BY
BY ROYCE WATSON
While visiting Buffalo, New York a
recreational activities, I decided
few months ago a friend who had graciously
that spending any time at all being
offered to pick me from the airport decided
concerned about what I would eat
that he would also pick up some breakfast for
for breakfast was simply not important.
us in order to save more time for sightseeing. I was
only planning to be in town for the day and I wanted to see
as much of Buffalo as possible in the short time I had there.
While I used to get up with the chickens, as Southerners say,
I haven’t been an early riser in quite a few years, so having
to arrive at the airport at 5:00am for a 7:00am flight requires
all the focus and energy I have just to make it to the airport
on time. Preparing breakfast simply isn’t ever a part of my
agenda when I have to be up before the sun is required to be.
Were it not for the love and compassion of my sweet wife
who has for the past fifteen years made my first cup of coffee
would make it. As my
plane landed just a few
minutes drive from
downtown Buffalo, I
looked out through
my window seat to
see reminders of the
snow storm that had
just blanketed the
area the week before.
“
As long as coffee would be available I knew I
There’s something uniquely
different about our donuts”
says Paula Huber,
the founder and
visionary for
Paula’s Donuts,
“our donuts are
and brought it to me in bed, I would rarely arrive anywhere
Southern folks rarely
that requires me to be out of the door pre-dawn on time. Yes,
everyone, I’m spoiled and I know it!!!
As I settled into my seat for my flight
to Buffalo, my only focus was
on my plans for the day
ahead. Visiting a city
like Buffalo, with
all of it’s culture,
opportunities
for historical
sightseeing,
fine dining, and
see snow, so I was
excited to find that it
looked as if someone had
carefully painted snow
on the trees, rooftops,
and pristine yards all
“
throughout the city. It would have made a picture perfect shot
for an old Saturday Evening Post magazine cover, I remember
thinking. Since the weather in Atlanta was a mild 74 degrees
when I departed earlier that morning, I had only brought
along a lightweight sweater with me. Besides, I thought, I’m
a hot natured southern boy who rarely needs anything more
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than a long sleeved shirt during the
typical Georgia winters. Why should I bring
anything warmer than that? Well, the moment I stepped out
of the airport and into the cold, brisk March winds of Buffalo,
I discovered why I should have rethought that decision. It
was cold — really cold!
Don, a friend who grew up in Buffalo, and is considered
to be an expert in all things Buffalo, at least by him, ( just
kidding, he’s very knowledgeable
about the area), arrived
at the pick-up area and
quickly ushered me into
his warm van. When I
told him how cold I was,
he laughed. “This isn’t
cold!” Don exclaimed,
with that infectious
laugh of his. “This is
just a mild day with a few
snow flurries!” he said as he
laughed on! As we drove away, Don
offered me a cup of freshly brewed coffee he had picked up
from a local bakery. It was still piping hot—a welcome sight
on this particularly frigid day. “Thanks!” I said to Don as we
continued towards our first stop on my Buffalo adventure.
Don had arrived just a few minutes later than expected to
pick me up from the airport, but since he had coffee waiting
for me I hardly saw reason to
complain, and I thanked him again for
being so thoughtful. “Well the coffee isn’t the best part” Don
remarked—I have something really special — I have some
Paula’s Donuts for you.
Absolutely the best donut
I’ve ever tasted!!!
Now, in case you were wondering, and I’m sure you
were, who is Paula and why are her donuts so special? My
exact question to my foodie friend Don as well. “They’re
only the best donuts in the world!”
Don remarked as he placed
a white paper bag with
Paula’s Donuts printed
on the outside. If you
know Don, everything
he likes is the best in the
world, especially if its
from Buffalo, NY so I’m
not always convinced
that everything Don likes
is going to be the best and
something I’m going to love. It’s
akin, on occasion, to those fish stories that we guys have
been known to tell, you know, the one that was so big he got
away! But it was 10:30am, and I was a bit hungry by then, so
I decided to be a gracious guest and enjoy one of the donuts
that Don had taken time to get for me. I am a “raised right
Southern Boy” after all; it would have been an insult to my
host not to at least try one. Thankfully
I have coffee I thought to myself as I
reached into the bag to pull out what I
was sure was going to be yet another
dry, blissfully horrible attempt to make
a donut that would be moist, delicious,
and tasty. At least my coffee would
wash it down, I though. Having grown
up in a family of fabulous bakers, and
having ran a successful bakery and
catering business for twenty years,
I am no stranger to what a great
cake, donut, or pasty item should
taste like. Needless to say, my expectations were not
very high that this experience would be any different than
countless others.
From the retro looking bag, I pulled out the first of my
two donuts — a red velvet. I almost chuckled as I thought to
myself, “Wow, someone NOT from the south attempting to
make a RED VELVET DONUT, that’s brave.” Having eaten
and baked hundreds and hundreds of Red Velvet Cakes in
my career, I was sure this was going to be something I’d
laugh out loud about and tease Don about for decades to
come. Don was deep in conversation telling me about all
the landmarks we were passing by as we drove on into the
city as I took my very first bite. My cup of coffee was in my
hand at the ready as my mouth filled with… wait for it…
ABSOLUTELY THE BEST DONUT I’ve ever tasted!!! I’m
sure I heard an angelic choir singing the Hallelujah Chorus
somewhere in the background as I consumed the entire
Red Velvet masterpiece and moved on to the Peanut Log,
a chocolate cake donut shaped like a log and coated with
chopped peanuts. These were not just any donuts… they
were ROCK STARS of the bakery world. I literally screamed
“Stop the car!” to Don as I savored my last bite of my Red
Velvet donut. Worried that something was truly wrong, Don
quickly stopped the car and frantically began to question me
about what was wrong. Was I in pain, was I chocking, should
he call he paramedics??? “No! I exclaimed to Don, “The only
thing wrong is that there are no more of these donuts and
we’ve got
to quickly
make our way
over to where they are
and get some more!” How had I lived 50 years and not had
one of these unbelievably delicious Paula’s Donuts was the
question. And the answer — I had not yet truly lived!
Don, always happy to be right, was excited that I, too,
had discovered what thousands of Buffalonians already are
privy to — there’s just nothing like a Paula’s Donut. They’ve
been waking up with Paula’s Donuts for over two decades
and the lines often wrapped around any one of her three
stores located in the quaint neighborhoods surrounding
Buffalo as a testament to their love and loyalty to a place
that has been making these, and a vast selection of other
delightful pastries, since 1996. “There’s something uniquely
different about our donuts,” says Paula Huber, the founder
and visionary for Paula’s Donuts. “Our donuts are made with
love!” And it’s easy to agree with Paula as I walked into the
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“One of the things I’m most
happy about is that I get to do what
I love and do it with those I love the most
— my family!” says Paula.
like family. Several employees are manning
the counters and bustling about with boxes
in their hands as they go about their job
of filling them with everyones favorites.
I was surprised at how quickly they were
able to get everyone taken care of, and
even more surprised, that they already
knew what some customers wanted —
seems the regular customers aren’t known
just by name, but also by the donuts they are so
fond of.
Sheridan Drive store located in Tonawanda, New York, just a
Smiles abound as I tell a few in line that this is my
few minutes drive from downtown Buffalo. The cases are full
very first visit to Paula’s Donuts. “It won’t be your last!”
of every kind of donut imaginable. From traditional glazed
one exquisitely dressed young lady tells me as she quickly
donuts, to jelly filled, Bavarian cream filled, Angel Pastry
gathers up her three boxes of donuts to take back with her
Cream filled donuts, chocolate glazed, peanut logs in several
to the office as a treat for her fellow employees. Paula, who
variations, cinnamon rolls, apple fritters and my new favorite
once studied ballet in New York City, did not complete her
— the KEY LIME donut; a yeast donut filled with key lime
dreams of dancing with a professional ballet company, but
pie filling and topped with angel cream and toasted coconut!
instead got married and began to raise a family. Her most
There goes that heavenly choir singing again! There was a
important task was being a great Mom so she, like many
sea of people ahead of me in line, each one waiting eagerly to
others, put her dreams on the shelf to focus on raising her
select their favorites. As I made my way to the front, I asked
children and providing a stable home life. Paula worked as
a few people in line for recommendations. Each person had
Bakery Manager for a large retail grocery chain for years
their favorites and a story to go with them. One lady, a weekly
where she gained a lot of experience in doing things on a
regular patron, shared with me that she simply can’t visit her
large scale, but not always the way I thought they should
grandchildren on the weekends without taking a mixed dozen
have been done Paula is quick to point out. Paula’s husband,
of Paula’s Donuts with her and another
Chuck, along with his family owned and operated two
loyal customer shares with me
Duncan Donut stores in the area so Paula and her mother-inlaw
attended a donut university, a series of classes required
that he comes everyday to
have his favorite donut, a cup
to own and operate a Duncan Donuts franchise at the time.
of coffee, and a hug from
“I can just remember thinking,” says Paula, that I wanted
the employees there
to do so much more, to make the donuts taste better, to
who treat him
fill them with more tasty filling, not less.” Paula struggled
with the idea of some national chains idea of always cutting
costs, “which meant cutting quality and flavor,” said Paula, so
when the opportunity arose to purchase her own bakery, she
decided to take a leap of faith and go for it! Over twenty years
later, hundreds of thousands of donuts, countless satisfied
customers, and a reputation of being one of the most
generous people ever (Paula donuts provides to countless
organizations, special events, and families with loved ones in
the hospital each year), Paula’s decision has clearly paid off.
“One of the things I’m most happy about is that I get
to do what I love and do it with those I love the most… my
family!” says Paula. Her husband Chuck Huber, a graduate
of the prestigious Culinary Institute of New York at Hyde
Park, as well as her daughters Lisa Hoppel and Christy
Worthington, who both have Masters Degrees, all work in
the family business. “The 170 employees who have faithfully
come to work each day for many years to make the handcut
donuts and pastries are also our family,” says Paula, “as
are the thousands of customers we see each week.” From
Texas sized donuts to donut platters stacked several tiers
high for weddings, Paula’s Donuts are a staple of the Buffalo
landscape and it shows among the many people who may
have moved away, but always make time to stop by for a
donut and a memory when they are back in town.
As I prepare to leave, I’m perplexed about which donuts
I should take home. That sweet wife of mine who brings my
coffee to me in bed each morning most certainly deserves
to enjoy some, as do a few other family and friends. My list
started to add up, and, after adding a couple dozen to share
with new friends I always meet when I’m traveling, I left
the store with seven, that’s right, seven dozen of Paula’s
delightful treats. Several hours later, a trek through two
airports, a plane ride home where someone actually offered
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me five dollars for one of Paula’s Donuts, (that would have
been a pretty good business deal as Paula’s Donuts were at
the time only $12.00 per dozen), and I arrived at the airport
in Atlanta with only two dozen. I could have made some
good money that day peddling off my newfound bounty, but
I opted instead to be an ambassador of good will to several
passengers on my plane trip home, to watch as they giggled
with delight while enjoying one of Paula’s Donuts. Finally, as
I made my way out of the airport, I stepped onto the elevator
with two very nice Delta Airlines flight attendants who had
just arrived from a long two day trip filled with bad weather.
The look in their eyes as I was telling them about my trip
to Buffalo, and the treasures I had brought back with me,
left me no choice but to bless them with one of the last two
remaining dozen donuts. They looked as if they had just won
the lottery, and they had — the donut lottery! As I walked
through the door at home, I handed my wife the
last dozen donuts and gave her a hug.
I’m surprised you didn’t bring more
home she said. “Me too!” I
chuckled as I made my way to
my favorite recliner. “I’ll
get more next time!”
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Chrissie Kallio
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TThere are few life events that put
you at more of a crossroads than
buying or selling a house. Figuring
out where you will lay down roots
for your family, starting over in a
new city, selling your family home
and looking to new beginnings.
It is a process, often fueled by
conflicting emotions, a financial
goal, a personal need. We as
Realtors have the privilege of
guiding you through this process.
And believe you me, it is a process.
This is an era of information
overload. Of millions of websites
dedicated to providing you, the
consumer, with information to
assist you in making one of the
most important financial decisions
of your life: what the interest rate
is today, what the status of a
particular house is today, what
you need to do to get your house
ready to sell, how to save money
by using an incentive-based or
no-fee broker, what your credit
score is.
Welcome
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The internet is absolutely the logical place to start this process. It
is where we start everything these days. And of course as a Realtor, I
am going to advocate that it is equally important to consult legitimate, local
professionals to help guide you through the process. Because there truly are
things only your Realtor can provide that you cannot get on the internet:
local market knowledge, what the contract that changes once
year actually says, the best recommendations for a lender,
a home inspector, a surveyor or local contractors.
These partner relationships are invaluable in
helping you get a full understanding of
what you are about to take on, or how
much you should really be repairing in a
sale negotiation.
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BY CHRISSIE KALLIO
HERE
or twice a
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I can’t tell you the number of times I
hear from a client: I’m interested in 123
Oak Lane – it’s perfect! And I go to search
it in the MLS only to find it sold 3 months ago,
but that popular consumer facing site is not
updated to give them the best information.
In most markets, it is a competitive time to
be a buyer. You want to see the house the day
it comes on the market, not 24-48 hours later
when it syndicates to the national sites. It
can be the difference between getting a shot
at it or not. Aligning with a professional who
is watching new listings like a hawk on your
behalf, will get you through the door that
much faster.
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Or, I want to sell my house, and the
internet says it is worth $300,000. And
I run comparables only to find that there isn’t a true
comp that an appraiser can use to support that price,
and it is actually only worth $260,000. The internet
does not know that your house backs up to the train
tracks which may detract from the value, or is one block
from the Beltline, adding to the value. It runs a formula,
without factoring location, condition, true size, and
other criteria we utilize to arrive at a market value.
The value in its current condition may vary vastly from
what it would be worth with proper preparation for the
market. A Realtor, in your house, helping you make a list
to get it ready, is the very best way to know where to
spend your money and where to save it.
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Consumers will check their credit
score online, and then speak to a
lender only to find that it is 30 points
less. Mortgage companies run your FICO
score, which is more sensitive to higher
credit card balances than online sites. So
you may be biding your time, waiting for
the perfect house to come along, and when
it does you are not qualified to move on it
because your credit score is not actually
where the internet told you it was. A good,
professional mortgage lender can help
you bridge that gap quickly, by making
recommendations to get your score up, so
that when the time comes you are ready
and can get approved for that perfect
house. Talk to a lender early in the process, even a year before you
are ready. Because they can give you a road map to make corrections
should you need it – and you will be ready when the time comes. I
always recommend a good local lender – they know the pulse of the
local market and often can make things happen on your behalf more
quickly than a larger national bank.
There are so many options available to you as a consumer
and without a doubt I recommend doing your research. But
consider the internet as one of your resources, not your only resource.
When looking for a professional, talk to your friends. If they loved their
Realtor, or their lender, they will rave about them, and tell you why. If
they hated them, you know you will hear that even more resoundingly.
And then talk to the professionals you are considering working with,
and make sure they listen to you, ask the right questions about your
needs, and focus on how they can help you achieve your goals.
Most of us live and breathe this adventure we call real estate and
relish the opportunity to help you meet your goals in
buying or selling, whatever that may be driven by.
Having passionate, dedicated professionals on your
side will make all the difference in your next real
estate crossroads.
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Come, Meet Chrissie
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Chrissie Kallio Real Estate ~
Community-driven Real Estate,
Intown & Beyond
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Chrissie Kallio decided to transition her years of
experience in sales, marketing and negotiation in the corporate
world into a career in real estate after she bought her own Intown
Atlanta home in 2003. That singular experience sparked a true
love for the neighborhoods of Atlanta and the goal to assist people
with their real estate dreams with the respect and professionalism
she experienced.
Chrissie is passionate about the direction Atlanta is taking
developmentally, and how the real estate market aligns with
growing Atlanta into the world-class city it is absolutely poised
to be. Having the opportunity to work with people in finding
their real estate success stories in this great town, whether they
are buying, selling, or growing an investment portfolio, is truly an
honor.
With the formation of Chrissie Kallio Real Estate, Chrissie’s
team has grown to better serve her clients and consistently exceed
expectations with expert guidance and unsurpassable customer
service. She delivers million-dollar service with a down to earth
approach.
Chrissie is an affiliate of Atlanta Fine Homes, Sotheby’s
International Realty and is an Associate Broker, a member of the
Atlanta Realtors ® Association, a Graduate of the Realtor Institute,
EcoBroker Certified, a Certified Distressed Property Expert and is
an EarthCraft Certified Real Estate Professional. She stays up to
speed with the Intown market, current real estate contracts and is
also very familiar with conventional, FHA, short sale, foreclosure
and investment guidelines. Chrissie values continuing education
and considers it of high importance to continue expanding her
knowledge base as the market evolves in order to guide her clients
through the ever-changing Atlanta real estate market.
Chrissie has a public relations degree from the University of South
Alabama and graduated cum laude. She lives Intown with her husband, two
sons and their dog Maggie Mae. Chrissie stays active running the roads and
trails of Georgia, listening to live music, and enjoying Atlanta’s neighborhood
festivals and restaurants with her family.
Where the dream began . . .
Dwarf
Hapeville
House
BY ROYCE WATSON
PHOTOS BY ROYCE WATSON
& ROBERTO CASTILLO
Dwarf Grill - 1946
From humble beginnings, and a heart to serve others, Truett
Cathy, along with his brother Ben, opened their very first restaurant, The
Dwarf Grill, (which would later be renamed The Dwarf House) on May
23, 1946 in Hapeville, Georgia. Believing that great customer service was
as important, if not even more so, than the sumptuous food they served,
Truett and his brother set about the task of opening a restaurant that
would be open 24 hours a day, six days each week — a
small diner with only four tables
and ten stools at the counter.
The Ford Motor Company had
an assembly plant just across the
street from the restaurant at the
time. Truett saw this as a good
opportunity to open a small diner
that would hopefully be successful.
The employees needed a good place
to eat and the Cathy brothers needed
a steady flux of potential customers,
so it appeared to be a good
opportunity. With
hard work and determination, their business quickly grew
as those assembly workers, along with countless others who
either lived in or passed through Hapeville, discovered that
the Cathy brothers hadn’t simply built a restaurant… they
had built a place where everyone felt like they were family.
Truett and Ben worked tirelessly, each one taking a
12 hour shift to man the grill each of the six days that they
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Truett Cathy
Renamed Dwarf House
in 1959
We’ll leave the lights on
for you 24 hours a day,
six days a week.
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And the legacy lives on . . .
were open. They were both already well acquainted with
the value of hard work —having grown up, along with their
other siblings, during the Great Depression, these two
brothers received the training they needed from their parents
to sustain them for years to come. Cathy’s mother ran a
boarding house and was responsible for cooking two meals
each day for her guests and the Cathy family all pitched in
to help with the daily operations. The bathrooms had to be
cleaned, the floors moped, the peas and butter beans had to
be shelled, and the dishes washed… Cathy and his siblings
all pitched in to help with what needed to be done. It was a
time of growth, sacrifice, and often hardships during those
lean times. Truett and his brother also worked and helped
contribute to the family’s needs by having a paper route.
Though their father was an insurance salesman, the
challenging times of those Great Depression years
soon led to the Cathy family moving into Techwood
Homes, the nations very first federally subsidized
housing project. Those particularly lean years,
along with the partnership formed with his
brother Ben, forged the foundation of
the business that they would later build
together. Neither realized at the time
just how much of an impact the values they
embraced would have on future generations.
Loyal customers returned time after time to this happy
little diner where the owner remembered their names and
they felt like everyone treated them like they were a part
of the family. Things were going great until one Saturday
afternoon in 1949, Truett’s brother Ben and his older
brother, Horace, both licensed pilots, flew a small plane to
Chattanooga, Tennessee. It was a moment Truett would
never forget. Tragically, he lost both brothers when their
plane crashed in Dalton, Georgia that day. Not only had he
lost both brothers, but he had also lost his business partner
as well. For some, this could have been a devastating blow
that could have crippled their business. While it wasn’t easy
pressing on without Ben, Truett felt that he could best honor
his brothers memory by pressing on and fulfilling his mission
to make a difference in the lives of those who patronized
their restaurant and worked so hard for to help them build
their business.
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Olivia Brown, Marketing Director and the
famous Chick-Fil-A Cow out on the town
delivering much welcomed food to a group
of kids and volunteers who had driven down
from South Carolina for a summer outreach.
From the very beginning, Truett gained a reputation for
having an incredibly big heart for his employees. He treated
each one like they were a part of his family and felt that it
was important that each employee have time to spend with
their families. How could you do that if you were working
seven days every week? Not very easily Truett decided so
one of the greatest ways he thought he could show how
much he valued his employees, as well as his commitment
to his faith, would be close on Sundays. This would give each
employee, and himself, a day they knew they could rely on to
spend with family and friends, to rest, and to worship as they
desired. As business grew even stronger, the small restaurant,
that would one day be regarded as the birthplace of a highly
esteemed leader in the corporate world, became a place
where employees loved to work and where they built lifetime
friendships with other coworkers and the customers they
grew to love as well.
With Truett’s invention of the now famous Chick-Fil-A sandwich — a secret
recipe he developed using a fried chicken sandwich with two pickles on a toasted
butter in 1964 — his business and that of the Dwarf House continued to thrive.
Through the years there have been several additions to the structure that started
out as the small diner and they have served hundreds of thousands of meals over
the decades. What many first time visitors to the Hapeville Dwarf House may not
know is that, unlike the 2,000 other Chick-Fil-A restaurants located across 46
states, the original, the one that people drive hours to visit, or to be sure to stop by
on their way through Atlanta, Georgia is open 24 hours a day six days a week and
features a full service dining area, a full service counter complete with bar stools,
and a menu featuring their world famous chicken, one of the best steaks you’ll
get anywhere east of Texas, and breakfast is served all day long. It isn’t too hard
to find either… just look for the lines of cars wrapped around the building as they
place their orders in the drive through, the smiling faces as they
make a dash into the front door waiting to order their favorite
meal, or the many people taking pictures with the bronze
statue of Mr. Truett Cathy that sits on a bench just in front
of the Dwarf House welcoming each visitor as they pass him
by. Mr. Cathy passed away in 2014, but the dreams that he
had of building a place where people are important and the
food is great live on in the lives of each of the customers and
employees who grace the doors of the
Hapeville Dwarf House.
Charlene Purmort Burr says
her father and Truett were fishing
buddies, and though she now lives in
Texas, she always stops by the Dwarf
House, the place where she was hired
by Truett for her first job as
a waitress, when she’s in town.
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Kevin Moss, the current General Manager
of the Hapeville Dwarf House, had the great
privilege of getting to work directly with Mr.
Cathy. “There have only been three managers
of this fine restaurant since it opened and I
have the great honor of being the third,” says
Kevin. Mr. Cathy set the bar high, but it’s so
easy to see that the employees, many who
have worked there for over twenty-five years,
are some of the most dedicated and loyal
employees anywhere. I am fortunate that I
live close enough to visit the Dwarf House
often and on the day my crew and I visited to
conduct some interviews and take photos with some of the
staff for a few features we are working on for later issues,
we met some folks who were stopping by for a meal on their
way to their vacation destination; not an unusual find on
your average day in the Dwarf house. Their laughter was
contagious, and their excitement to be there was obvious,
so I made my way over and introduced myself to them.
Kevin Moss
Current General Manager
One of Truett’s Classic Cars
Two hours, and countless laughs later, our staff had fallen
in love with this group of school teachers from Kingston,
Tennessee so much so that we offered them an opportunity
to work together on a project we’re currently developing for
our magazines YouTube channel. Keep your eyes posted for
this group as they will keep you laughing; something I think
would make Truett so very happy.
His legacy lives on and the smiles
are abundant in the little diner
where it all began…
the Hapeville Dwarf House.
Brian and Julie Stout &
Missy and Tad Newman
Our new friends from
Kingston Tennessee
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The
While exploring downtown Hapeville, Georgia you can enjoy these
butterfly installations and many others as part of the revitilization project.
Arts
Tony
Smith
...What a Caricature!
STORY & PHOTOS BY
ROYCE WATSON
With just a few strokes of his marker,
the image on the pad of paper carefully attached to the
easel before him quickly comes to life. With a gleam in his
eye, Tony Smith engages in light hearted conversation
with the person sitting in front of him as they anxiously
await to see what this master of the arts has created.
It’s hard to imagine, especially for someone like me who
has absolutely no ability to draw anything remotely
recognizable, how anyone can put pen to paper and
create something that not only resembles the model
before him, but so keenly capture the essence of their
character— and Tony seems to do so with complete
and total ease. A session spent with him, which
typically takes no more than five to ten minutes
for his black and white drawings, is more akin
to a conversation with a best friend you haven’t
seen in a long while.
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To learn more about
Award Winning Artist
Tony Smith
and to view his online portfolio
let us connect you
by CLICKING on the link
in his feature article.
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Tony’s ability to make you feel
that he’s known you for years and
help you relax as he crafts an original
masterpiece is only one of the many
skills he has developed in his tenure
as a gifted and highly respected
caricature artist.
The art of drawing individuals
as caricatures can be traced back
hundred of years. From monarchs
who were humorously depicted as
disconnected political figures with
extremely exaggerated features to
those that were simply drawn for
entertainment purposes, caricatures
have stood the test of time and have
continued to grace the covers of
countless magazines, newspapers, and
other well known periodicals. In some
we find humor…in others a political
statement, but in all we find a common
thread—talent flowing freely from the
artist who rendered them. This most
certainly rings true when speaking of
Tony Smith who realized early in his
childhood just how much he enjoyed
drawing. A standout among his peers
at a very early age, Tony pursued
his education in Visual Arts at the
prestigious Art Institute of Pittsburgh.
While attending school at the Art Institute Tony took classes in portrait
and caricature drawing…a decision which greatly impacted the rest of
his career as it was in those classes where Tony discovered his passion
for portrait artistry and caricature illustration.
Since those humble beginnings in school Tony has drawn literally
thousands of fine portraits and caricature illustrations. His work adorns
the offices and lobbies of famous hotels, fortune 500 companies, and
gracefully hangs in countless homes throughout the United States.
“I’ve literally made thousands of people smile” says Tony, “which really
makes me happier than anything”—and people smiling is certainly
what you will see when you attend an event where Tony is the
featured artist.
The art
of drawing individuals as
caricatures
can be traced back
hundreds
of years.
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A bit about Tony Smith...
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Born in 1963 in Chicago, Illinois, Tony has been drawing
as long as he can remember. His first commission was at the
tender age of five, which was a four foot tall Santa Claus for
his elementary school’s bulletin board! He’s come a long way
since then!
Tony first started drawing caricatures back in 1992
at the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. He attended a caricature
workshop, where he was chosen by his professor to represent
the school at the Three Rivers Arts Festival. Tony and ten
other students drew for 17 days straight! Tony’s inspiration
from those 17 days — He took great joy in making
people smile.
In 2001, Tony entered his first major art competition
at the International Society of Caricature Artists (ISCA)
Convention and Competition in Atlanta, Georgia where he
competed internationally against hundreds of the world’s
best caricature artists. He placed second for Best Black and
White Technique. In the years since, he has won several firstplace
awards to include Caricature of the Year!
Well, here it is, years later, and over 500,000 BIG smiles
captured, Tony Smith couldn’t be a happier caricaturist. He
has met some amazing people along the way. His unique
realistic style of caricature sets him apart from other artists
along with his reputation for drawing FAST black and
whites in only three to four minutes, as well as fantastic
color renditions in only a couple more, is know throughout
Atlanta and beyond. He currently draws for some of Atlanta’s
premier restaurants, theaters, five star hotels, and leading
country clubs where his work adorns the walls of some of
these magnificent establishments as well as the homes of
their famous and not so famous patrons.
The father of five, three beautiful daughters of his own,
and a wonderful son and daughter from his former wife,
he now lives with his
treasured wife, Kinyahnah
in Atlanta, Georgia. He is
also an ordained minister
of the Gospel of Christ
and loves to travel. A
little know secret, Tony
is also a big comic book
fan, especially Marvel,
to includes
their movies!
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Tatum Dance
BY ADRIENNE M. TATUM
PHOTOS BY ROYCE WATSON &
ROBERTO CASTILLO
Adrienne M. Tatum
Dancer, teacher, entrepreneur who has
been known for bursting into spontaneous
dancing anywhere and everywhere.
Q: Tell our readers about Tatum Dance…
Tatum Center for Dance Excellence is a new studio
located in historic, downtown Hapeville. It’s a beautiful,
newly renovated space. My favorite part of the renovation
was the flooring. Our sub-floor and orthopedic padding
pamper both dancer and teacher. Before I decided to
open the studio, I primarily operated as
an on-site or mobile dance instruction
company, Tatum Dance Collective. Going
on 13 years, the Collective brings the
arts working parents or schools where
dance programs don’t exist or have been
eliminated. I am humbled to see the studio
continue to grow in such a short amount of
time. In our first year, we have grown from
about 30 students to almost 100. Our onsite
locations serve about 160 children and
counting all over metro-Atlanta.
There are a few important
rules at Tatum Dance. The first is,
‘never say, “I can’t”.’ Equally important is rule
number two and three, ‘leave your worries outside
the studio doors and believe you are beautiful.’
Q: Tell us about these rules. What brought
you to them?
I have always thought these rules were important, but
didn’t realize the full impact they had until I overheard
two of my students talking while I had stepped out of
the room. One my seven-year old dancers was practicing
a pirouette and couldn’t quite get it. Frustrated,
I overhead her say, ‘I can’t do it.’ Her dance-mate
channeled our rules, and shouted, “You aren’t supposed
to say that. Say, you will try, try again!”
‘Try again.’ These words are
particularly poignant to me
right now. Operating business
hasn’t always been easy- even when
you’re doing something you love and feel
passionate about. I am grateful for all that time I spent
in the studio during my formative years trying again,
it gave me the discipline and tenacity to ride out two
recessions, a divorce, a business name change and a
plethora of other challenges that come along with being
in business for yourself. Dance has always been like a
compass for me. Life can get
messy. Without dance, I think
things could have been a lot
harder. I have veered off of my
path a few times, but dance
has always brought me
back. Giving up isn’t an
option. I also wanted to
instill a sense of peace,
positivity and focus
inside the studio and
each on-site classroom.
The world we live in now
is increasingly tumultuous.
Our youth are hearing and
seeing negative messages
all around them through
politics, terrorism,
bullying, depression
and poverty to name
a few. The dance
studio is safe
space
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where body positivity is encouraged, modesty
Q: What do you notice change about the kids that you
how many dance, art and music programs were being
Are you going to offer classes for adults?
is still appreciated, diversity is necessary and
accepted and hard work and discipline
is expected.
Q: What do insiders know about dance?
teach from the first day of class to the last day of class?
My favorite age group to teach has always been preschool
(ages 2.5-4). It’s rewarding to see the many milestones
in coordination, confidence and memorization.
eliminated from public schools. Many of my colleagues
weren’t able to find full time dance teaching jobs and
some who did waited years
to find a position.
Adult dance classes are much needed in our area. I
am thrilled to kick off adult ballroom class on Friday
nights! You don’t need a partner but next time you go to
a wedding, party or want to impress your date, you can
Preschoolers are honest little creatures and you never
I decided to fully focus on my small business.
wow them with your fox trot and swing skills. Of course,
know what they are going to say. For many little ones,
It started small; two on site locations and about
wine and tapas will make this class even more fun. Visit
dance class is the first time they have socialized without
14 students. 13 years later, Tatum Dance Collective is
www.tatumdance.com for class schedules
a parent. I really like to see their independence grow
still thriving and in five years I am going to
and registration.
First and foremost,
dance is a useful tool. In almost
every stage of my life I have been
able to use my training.
From being intrinsically
motivated, to working in a group,
staying healthy, interviewing
for jobs or new accounts
with confidence to the way
I am aware of how I am
presenting myself in
social settings.
Most insiders also
from tears during parent drop off, to them to practically
shoving their parent out of the room exclaiming, “this is
my class mommy!”
Our preschool
classes are about fun,
whimsy and exploring
movement with imagination and creativity.
At the same time, we introduce the foundations of dance
technique preparing young dancers for a more formal
and focused class. The confidence our dancers gain is
clear to see at our end of year recital. It can be daunting
for anyone to get out in front of a large audience and
perform, but I am always amazed by how brave our little
ones become by the end of the year.
Q: How do you see yourself
in the dance world?
As a dancer, I always knew how rigorous and competitive
a performing career after college would have been. While
studying at University of Hawai’i at Monoa, I remember
the exact moment that I knew I wanted a lifetime career
of teaching. I knew it wasn’t going to be easy. Dance jobs,
especially well-paying ones with benefits are scarce.
start paving the way toward franchising my
on-site programs.
The dance world is a diverse place and there are
many places one could settle in. Most people have
seen or heard of the show, ‘Dance Moms’ and form
their opinions about dance based on that show. Tatum
Dance is a recreational studio for kids age 18 months
to 18 years, but we also have a Jr. and Sr. Performing
Arts Competition Team, ‘PACT.’ I am happy to say we
don’t have moms that start fights at the studio or at
competitions, lobby for their children and interrupt class
and we also don’t allow our young dancers to twerk and
gyrate or parade around in bra tops and tiny bottoms. I
don’t mean offense to those studios who engage in the
above, I just firmly believe that there is an appropriate
age and time for all of that. I stand for excellence in
technique and staying true to my craft and education. I
also believe that it’s crucial to have
a talented and knowledgeable team who have studied
dance in college and perform professionally. Having
individuals like this ensures you are relevant in your
industry and teaching proper technique to your students.
Once we have our ballroom classes established,
I want to offer adult dance fitness classes including,
ballet barre fitness, yoga swing classes, and dance
bungee (yes, like the cord attached to the ceiling allowing
you to leap high, get vertical, rebound and perform many
exercises with less impact on joints and bones) It’s taking
time to put together an adult program, but I promise,
when it does happen — it’s going to be fun, and of course,
done with excellence.
know that dancers
Nonetheless, I knew the value and rarity of making a
Q: What kind of dance do you
are graceful and have wonderful facility on the dance
career out of something you love.
offer at the studio?
floor but are often klutzes off the dance floor!
When I moved to Atlanta, I simultaneously began
Right now, I am excited about
I would like to also note that the dance world and even
working on my Dance Education degree and started
adding acrobatics for dance to the
the arts world as a whole, is small. That’s why it is so
Tatum Dance (formerly I Love Dance!) in 2005.
studio schedule. I will complete the
important to represent your art form with integrity and
I thought my place was in a public or private, middle-
certification this summer. We of
dignity. Don’t plagiarize, steal or imitate too closely.
school classroom. After a few semesters of student
course offer, ballet, tap, creative
teaching in both environments and shadowing some very
movement, jazz, hip-hop, an all-
talented and hard-working dancer/educators, I realized I
boys tap and hip-hop class and our
didn’t truly belong there. Around this time, I was noticing
competitive dance program, PACT.
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FOR
UPCOMING
EVENTS
& CLASS
SCHEDULES
Adrienne prepares to teach in her studio.
Students perform at
Spring Recital.
A Young Adrienne
Mark and his girlfriend
Susan try their very first
ballroom dance.
VISIT OUR
WEBSITE AT
TATUMDANCE.COM
CALL OR EMAIL
ADRIENNE TATUM
AT 404-492-0136
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