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<strong>De<strong>Sales</strong>World</strong><br />
Pillars<strong>of</strong><br />
Gentle<br />
<strong>St</strong>rength<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> and<br />
Our Ministries<br />
in the News<br />
…Fr. Mark Hushen was<br />
a keynote speaker at the<br />
“Let the Oppressed Go<br />
Free: Breaking the Bonds<br />
<strong>of</strong> Addiction” Conference,<br />
hosted by Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia<br />
Cardinal Justin Rigali in<br />
November. The conference<br />
brought national attention to<br />
the need to care for people<br />
living with addictions.<br />
Fr. Hushen is presi<strong>de</strong>nt<br />
and CEO <strong>of</strong> Fr. Martin’s<br />
Ashley, an internationally<br />
known alcohol and chemical<br />
addiction treatment center<br />
near Havre <strong>de</strong> Grace, MD.<br />
…Bro. Michael O’Neill<br />
McGrath was honored<br />
with the Catholic Press<br />
Association’s Award for<br />
Design and Production at its<br />
most recent convention for<br />
his Mysteries <strong>of</strong> the Rosary<br />
book. His latest book, <strong>St</strong>.<br />
Cecilia’s Orchestra, a children’s<br />
book to teach youngsters<br />
about the beauty <strong>of</strong> the<br />
church music, is available<br />
through www.beestill.org.<br />
…Fr. Kevin Nadolski<br />
was honored with the<br />
National Religious Vocation<br />
Conference Service Award<br />
at NRVC’s biennial convocation<br />
in Cleveland, Ohio.<br />
The award recognized his<br />
seven years <strong>of</strong> vocation<br />
ministry to the <strong>Oblates</strong> and<br />
the church through his<br />
participation in various<br />
projects and publications<br />
that promoted religious<br />
vocations throughout the<br />
United <strong>St</strong>ates.<br />
…Fr. Alexan<strong>de</strong>r Pocetto<br />
recently published a new<br />
book, A Lenten Journey with<br />
Jesus Christ and <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong><br />
<strong>Sales</strong>, in which the saint can<br />
accompany the rea<strong>de</strong>r on the<br />
Lenten journey to travel with<br />
Jesus through his life, <strong>de</strong>ath<br />
and resurrection. This new<br />
publication inclu<strong>de</strong>s a short<br />
biography <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong><br />
<strong>Sales</strong> along with a Gospel<br />
reading, selection from<br />
De<strong>Sales</strong>’ writings, reflection,<br />
and prayer for every day <strong>of</strong><br />
Lent. It can be or<strong>de</strong>red at<br />
www.<strong>de</strong>salesresource.org or<br />
by calling 1-800-782-2270.<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> Of st. francis <strong>de</strong> sales<br />
Wilmington–Phila<strong>de</strong>lPhia Province<br />
“I don’t know where my family or me<br />
would be without Fr. Tom and Hands<br />
Together,” said Junior Nelson, a stu<strong>de</strong>nt<br />
from Haiti spending his senior year at<br />
<strong>Sales</strong>ianum School.<br />
The authenticity <strong>of</strong> Junior’s account <strong>of</strong><br />
life in Haiti, alongsi<strong>de</strong> a presentation<br />
at a concert held on January 8 at<br />
<strong>Sales</strong>ianum School outlining Oblate<br />
Fr. Tom Hagan’s ministry there, inspired<br />
more than 230 people to raise more than<br />
$44,000 for his Hands Together ministry<br />
in this Third World country. Marking<br />
the one-year anniversary <strong>of</strong> the tragic<br />
earthquake, the Hope for Haiti Concert<br />
featured Sean Reilly, a nationally known<br />
Sinatra-style entertainer and <strong>Sales</strong>ianum<br />
graduate who donated his performance.<br />
“Listening to Junior Nelson speak, I<br />
was impressed by both the way he was<br />
obviously thriving in a new environment<br />
and the generosity that brought him<br />
to the United <strong>St</strong>ates and <strong>Sales</strong>ianum,”<br />
said Tom Briese <strong>of</strong> Cam<strong>de</strong>n, New Jersey.<br />
“Hearing Fr. Tom’s words [from a letter he wrote for the event] and<br />
watching the vi<strong>de</strong>o <strong>de</strong>picting both the <strong>de</strong>vastation in Haiti wrought<br />
by the earthquake and the work done by Helping Hands, it really<br />
awoke in me a sense <strong>of</strong> what service is about: people confronting a<br />
great need and their own fears and responding with open generosity.<br />
You can’t help but be moved by that.”<br />
Beginning in the summer, the <strong>Oblates</strong>’ <strong>de</strong>velopment <strong>of</strong>fice gathered<br />
a number <strong>of</strong> friends to plan the concert to coinci<strong>de</strong> with the first<br />
anniversary <strong>of</strong> the earthquake that killed more than 230,000 people<br />
and reversed the <strong>de</strong>velopment that Haiti had accomplished in<br />
building schools, roads, hospitals, and other necessary infrastructural<br />
advances to ease the dire poverty in the nation. The recent<br />
Hurricane Tomas and cholera outbreak have further<br />
complicated rebuilding efforts and caused<br />
even more <strong>de</strong>aths.<br />
“Now more than ever did we need<br />
to do something to help our<br />
neighbors in Haiti,” Thomas<br />
P. Sweeney, Wilmington<br />
community lea<strong>de</strong>r and<br />
attorney, who served as an<br />
honorary co-chair for the<br />
event. “Fr. Tom’s Hands<br />
Together ministry is such a<br />
worthwhile cause.”<br />
“I was impressed by how long<br />
Hands Together has been there<br />
in Haiti,” Julie Ritter <strong>of</strong> Wilmington,<br />
Delaware, said. “I felt so badly that they<br />
[Hands Together] had built so much, and it is<br />
just astonishing as to how quickly—just in seconds—that it<br />
all en<strong>de</strong>d, just crumbled. But, Hands Together has ma<strong>de</strong> a huge<br />
difference. I am amazed at how much they have been able to rebuild<br />
when you hear about other groups not having such success.”<br />
Fr. Tom was overwhelmed by the success <strong>of</strong> the event. “This is<br />
won<strong>de</strong>rful,” he wrote after learning <strong>of</strong> the amount <strong>of</strong> funds raised.<br />
He assured organizers that there is great need for their gift and will<br />
discern the greatest need among many. “When we have an<br />
emergency feeding to the people in Cite Solei, we usually reach out<br />
to the most <strong>de</strong>prived and the most <strong>de</strong>stitute. We can <strong>of</strong>ten provi<strong>de</strong><br />
as many as 250,000 meals at a cost <strong>of</strong> a little over $10,000 US.<br />
Praesidium Accreditation publicly <strong>de</strong>monstrates that the Wilmington-<br />
Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia Province <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> has achieved the<br />
highest industry standards in abuse prevention and response.<br />
Pillars<strong>of</strong> Gentle <strong>St</strong>rength<br />
Fall 2010/Winter 2011 • Volume 23, Number 2<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> and Wilmington Friends Raise Thousands<br />
for Haiti Relief at Concert<br />
By Fr. Kevin Nadolski, OSFS<br />
Junior Nelson, a Haitian friend <strong>of</strong> Fr. Tom Hagan completing his high<br />
school education at <strong>Sales</strong>ianum School, speaks to guests at the Hope<br />
for Haiti Concert.<br />
With the money you raised, we could do<br />
at least four—if not five—<strong>of</strong> these major<br />
feedings. We can use it [the donation<br />
from the concert] to purchase the food<br />
that we need each day for the schools<br />
and for the el<strong>de</strong>rly. We could also use it<br />
to purchase much nee<strong>de</strong>d school books,<br />
computers for the high school. What is<br />
nee<strong>de</strong>d is funding to provi<strong>de</strong> seed money<br />
to people here to start a small business.”<br />
“This week we have been working with<br />
an individual to help him start a breadmaking<br />
bakery. In or<strong>de</strong>r to get this<br />
going we will need to pay for the rental<br />
<strong>of</strong> a building, pay for the construction<br />
<strong>of</strong> an oven and pay for all the materials<br />
nee<strong>de</strong>d. We will be able to employ nine<br />
people, which is a great project. I know<br />
that it will cost about $40,000 US. Or,<br />
$45,000 US would be about what we<br />
need to pay each month in salaries to our<br />
teachers. These are some <strong>of</strong> the ways we<br />
will be able to use it,” he wrote.<br />
In addition to raising funds for Hands<br />
Together, the concert united two religious communities’ ministries in<br />
the Diocese <strong>of</strong> Wilmington. In addition to Tom Sweeney, Capuchin<br />
Friar Ronald Giannone, OFM Cap., foun<strong>de</strong>r and lea<strong>de</strong>r <strong>of</strong> the<br />
extensive, outreaching Ministry <strong>of</strong> Caring, served as honorary<br />
co-chair. “I have long been impressed with the work <strong>of</strong> Fr. Tom in<br />
Haiti. He is truly lifting people up from the throes <strong>of</strong> poverty and<br />
injustice,” said Brother Ronald, as the priest is commonly known.<br />
“The concert was a great opportunity for us to gather with people<br />
in the Wilmington-Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia area to express compassion for our<br />
neighbors in Haiti, especially as we marked the first anniversary <strong>of</strong><br />
the tragedy,” Fr. James Greenfield, OSFS, provincial, said. “And, I<br />
was excited that we <strong>Oblates</strong> joined with our Capuchin brothers, who<br />
are so esteemed in this area for their work among<br />
the poor. Both the church and religious life<br />
are strengthened when we are working<br />
together. I hope that we will<br />
continue to join forces in our<br />
efforts to help those in need.”<br />
The concert, held at the<br />
school’s Centenary Hall,<br />
began with cocktails and<br />
hors d’ouevres, followed by<br />
two sets <strong>of</strong> Sean Reilly’s<br />
performance. Between<br />
the acts <strong>of</strong> entertainment,<br />
the program featured Junior<br />
Nelson; a presentation by Fr.<br />
Chris Beretta, <strong>Sales</strong>ianum School<br />
principal, who has visited Haiti and<br />
worked with Fr. Tom; and a nine-minute<br />
vi<strong>de</strong>o <strong>de</strong>tailing his work and the efforts <strong>of</strong> Hands<br />
Together after the earthquake. A portion <strong>of</strong> the vi<strong>de</strong>o highlighted<br />
the ministry’s building <strong>of</strong> water wells that had helped to fortify<br />
portions <strong>of</strong> infrastructure in the poorest areas <strong>of</strong> the nation. The<br />
presentation showed both the <strong>de</strong>vastation to some <strong>of</strong> these wells and<br />
the quick response to rebuild them.<br />
As the room was <strong>de</strong>corated to simulate a nightclub atmosphere to<br />
accommodate the entertainment, empty water pitchers sat on each<br />
table to remind guests <strong>of</strong> the <strong>de</strong>arth <strong>of</strong> water in Haiti. During the<br />
presentation, they were invited to place pledge cards in the pitchers,<br />
an effort that raised more than $10,000.<br />
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Vision <strong>St</strong>atement<br />
The members <strong>of</strong> the Wilmington/Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia Province<br />
are a group <strong>of</strong> priests, brothers, and seminarians who live in<br />
community, gather once a year as a whole to pray, study, and<br />
learn; embrace <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality as our mission; serve as<br />
representatives <strong>of</strong> the Catholic Church who preach and teach<br />
well; welcome at least two postulants a year; and <strong>de</strong>liberately<br />
commit ourselves to Catholic social teaching.<br />
De<strong>Sales</strong> World<br />
Editor<br />
Rev. Kevin Nadolski, OSFS<br />
Director <strong>of</strong> Development and<br />
Communications<br />
2200 Kentmere Parkway<br />
Wilmington, DE 19806<br />
302-656-8529<br />
knadolski@oblates.org<br />
In Memoriam<br />
Rev. Joseph A.Beattie, OSFS<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Born: September 20, 1937<br />
First Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 12, 1956<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: October 11, 1959<br />
Ordination: October 30, 1965<br />
Died: August 15, 2010<br />
Rest in Peace<br />
Rev. John T. Doyle, OSFS<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Born: November 29, 1924<br />
First Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: May 7. 1944<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: May 7, 1947<br />
Ordination: June 7, 1952<br />
Died: February 14, 2011<br />
Rest in Peace<br />
Rev. John F. Harvey, OSFS<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Born: April 14, 1918<br />
First Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 8, 1937<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 8, 1940<br />
Ordination: June 3, 1940<br />
Died: December 27, 2010<br />
Rest in Peace<br />
Rev. Andrew Robert McGilvray,<br />
OSFS<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Born: August 2, 1933<br />
First Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 8, 1954<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 12, 1957<br />
Ordination: July 22, 1962<br />
Died: June 12, 2010<br />
Rest in Peace<br />
Rev. Willard J. Rucinski, OSFS<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Born: August 16, 1937<br />
First Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: September 12, 1956<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession: October 11, 1959<br />
Ordination: December 18, 1965<br />
Died: October 28, 2010<br />
Rest in Peace<br />
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all <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> the prayer requests we receive from our<br />
web page. You are welcome to benefit from the prayers<br />
<strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> through this ministry found on our home<br />
page, www.oblates.org.<br />
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De<strong>Sales</strong> World is published by the Office <strong>of</strong> Communications <strong>of</strong><br />
the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> to share with our friends the<br />
news, events, and spirit <strong>of</strong> our Wilmington-Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia Province.<br />
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Dear Friends,<br />
From the Desk <strong>of</strong> the Provincial<br />
www.oblates.org<br />
<strong>De<strong>Sales</strong>World</strong><br />
Thank you for the great response you <strong>of</strong>fered to the Spring/Summer issue <strong>of</strong> De<strong>Sales</strong> World. Many <strong>of</strong><br />
you were generous in writing us comments and <strong>of</strong>fering donations through the Will You Help envelope.<br />
I sense that your response to that newsletter had much to do with the stories on our ministry in Haiti, as<br />
well as our feature centerspread on the closing <strong>of</strong> Northeast Catholic High School. I thought you might<br />
appreciate an update on matters related to these important stories.<br />
First, our ministry in Haiti continues to rivet us. With the recent outbreak <strong>of</strong> cholera there, our <strong>Oblates</strong><br />
are reporting multiple <strong>de</strong>aths among the communities they serve. The words <strong>of</strong> Fr. Tom Hagan speak<br />
with painful accuracy; he recently wrote to me in an email:<br />
There seems to be a real epi<strong>de</strong>mic here now in Port au Prince. All our stu<strong>de</strong>nts<br />
in all our schools are washing their hands in Clorox before eating. We have been<br />
working hard to <strong>de</strong>liver clean fresh water. In our one clinic, there were six <strong>de</strong>aths.<br />
We have schools in the North <strong>of</strong> Haiti—Gonaives—and the word I am getting<br />
today is that there are many <strong>de</strong>aths. The tragedy is that the recovery from the<br />
quake has been very slow. Hurricanes and epi<strong>de</strong>mics are making the recovery all<br />
the more difficult. These poor people never seem to get a break! I too have been<br />
struggling since Saturday with what appears to be malaria. I am either sweating<br />
or experiencing chills. Hope to see a doctor today if there is one around.<br />
You, our friends and benefactors, were especially generous in our appeal to help the people <strong>of</strong> Haiti, especially<br />
Fr. Tom’s mission, Hands Together. In total, we raised more than $350,000 dollars to the assist<br />
the needs <strong>of</strong> the people there. As you can hear through Fr. Tom’s words, the hardships are intensifying:<br />
Nature is <strong>of</strong>fering no relief; we must. The <strong>Oblates</strong> hosted a Hope for Haiti Concert on January 8<br />
to mark the one-year anniversary <strong>of</strong> the <strong>de</strong>vastating earthquake that threatened an already vulnerable<br />
nation. While no one would have thought that one year later, the country would be fighting further<br />
battles—with more natural disasters and epi<strong>de</strong>mics that continue to claim lives, our commitment to<br />
help <strong>de</strong>epens.<br />
As you will read in this issue, the concert, held at <strong>Sales</strong>ianum School in Wilmington, Delaware, featured<br />
the Sinatra-style music <strong>of</strong> Sean Reilly, a nationally known entertainer. We raised more than $44,000 for<br />
Fr. Tom’s mission, Hands Together. While the concert has en<strong>de</strong>d, if you would like to help us support<br />
this cause, please feel free to use the Will You Help envelope.<br />
Second, as part <strong>of</strong> our response to the closing <strong>of</strong> Northeast Catholic High School, where we <strong>Oblates</strong><br />
served for 84 years, we are leading a feasibility study to <strong>de</strong>termine whether there is sufficient need<br />
and support for a Cristo Rey-mo<strong>de</strong>l school to serve stu<strong>de</strong>nts from economically challenged families in<br />
Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia. As we mentioned in the last issue <strong>of</strong> the De<strong>Sales</strong> World, this type <strong>of</strong> school requires stu<strong>de</strong>nts<br />
in gra<strong>de</strong>s 9-12 to attend classes four days a week and work the fifth day in a pr<strong>of</strong>essional setting,<br />
with their salaries going directly to the school for their tuition. With 24 Cristo Rey schools in the nation,<br />
we have learned that the earnings from the stu<strong>de</strong>nts’ work comprise more than 70 percent <strong>of</strong> the school’s<br />
operating budget.<br />
The study is going well, and the planning team is focusing on two key objectives: i<strong>de</strong>ntifying foundational<br />
sponsors and locating a site for the new school. Progress is advancing, <strong>de</strong>spite challenges that inclu<strong>de</strong><br />
learning whether $6 million can be raised and seeking a religious co-endorser. We are working closely<br />
with the Sisters, Servants <strong>of</strong> the Immaculate Heart <strong>of</strong> Mary from Immaculata, Pennsylvania, to learn<br />
whether we <strong>Oblates</strong> might partner with them to help lead the school, along with a lay board that would<br />
own the school. Another challenge <strong>of</strong> the study is how it parallels a type <strong>of</strong> strategic planning that resembles<br />
a process that suggests that a school is, in fact, going to open.<br />
Ample work remains to be completed for the study, including interviewing 40 community lea<strong>de</strong>rs and<br />
surveying 100 parents and 300 stu<strong>de</strong>nts in the areas surrounding which site is i<strong>de</strong>ntified for the possible<br />
school. While we are working hard on the study, we are working equally hard to be realistic and transparent<br />
about the <strong>de</strong>mands to complete the study itself, prior to any sort <strong>of</strong> commitment about a school. We<br />
remain optimistic, yet we do ask for your prayers for this project. Catholic education in struggling urban<br />
settings is a priority for the Church, and we <strong>Oblates</strong> hope to help.<br />
I am happy that you will read in this issue about five <strong>of</strong> our parishes that serve many people in our Church<br />
along the shoreline <strong>of</strong> the East Coast. Our commitment to ministering in the local church remains strong.<br />
We minister in 29 parishes, as our men work in this ministry with a strong <strong>de</strong>sire to preach and teach in<br />
the example <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>. As you know, our patron found the pulpit to be a privileged place to<br />
advance the message <strong>of</strong> Jesus’ gentleness and humility. The five parishes featured in this issue, like all <strong>of</strong><br />
the churches where we serve, are fine examples <strong>of</strong> our parish ministry. Perhaps you are a member <strong>of</strong><br />
one <strong>of</strong> them, or just visit while on vacation. Regardless, we are grateful that your prayers continue to<br />
sustain us.<br />
As always, our efforts to help our neighbors from Haiti and our stu<strong>de</strong>nts and parishioners here in the<br />
<strong>St</strong>ates rely on the prayerful and generous support <strong>of</strong> our friends and benefactors. I assure you <strong>of</strong> our<br />
gratitu<strong>de</strong> for your kindness and our prayers for you and those you love.<br />
Gratefully,<br />
Very Reverend James J. Greenfield, OSFS<br />
Provincial
Two Oblate Parishes Collaborate with Other Religious<br />
In the beginning chapters <strong>of</strong> his most popular publication, Introduction to the Devout<br />
Life, <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> ma<strong>de</strong> the following observation: “When he created things, God<br />
comman<strong>de</strong>d plants to bring forth fruits, each one according to its kind; in like manner,<br />
God commands Christians – the living plants <strong>of</strong> the Church – to bring forth the fruits<br />
<strong>of</strong> <strong>de</strong>votion, each according to one’s position and vocation. Devotion must be exercised<br />
in different ways by the nobleman, the worker, the servant, the prince, the widow, the<br />
young girl, and the married woman. Not only is this true, but the practice <strong>of</strong> <strong>de</strong>votion<br />
must also be adapted to the strengths, activities and duties <strong>of</strong> each particular person”<br />
(Introduction I, 3).<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> believed that we have one thing in common: God wants us all <strong>of</strong><br />
us to be sources <strong>of</strong> life, love, justice, and peace in the lives <strong>of</strong> others. However, no two<br />
<strong>of</strong> us will do this in exactly the same way. By extension, this is the attitu<strong>de</strong> that the<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> bring to all <strong>of</strong> their ministries, an approach that might<br />
be <strong>de</strong>scribed as both incarnational and collaborative:<br />
Incarnational: People and places matter. There is no such thing as a “onesize-fits-all”<br />
approach to ministry. No two apostolates are the same. Each<br />
community has its own unique needs, dynamics, and challenges that impact<br />
upon the methods and means with which the Gospel is preached and lived;<br />
Collaborative: It takes a village. No one person can do it all. Effective<br />
ministry is a team effort. Everybody has something to bring to the table when<br />
it comes to doing God’s work, one person – one day – at a time.<br />
This reality is poignantly and powerfully illustrated by examining two very unique<br />
parishes in which the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> have the privilege to live and<br />
work: Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel in<br />
Vienna, Virginia and Immaculate<br />
Conception Cathedral in Cam<strong>de</strong>n,<br />
New Jersey. While these churches are<br />
vastly different, they both provi<strong>de</strong> their<br />
communities an experience <strong>of</strong> <strong>Oblates</strong><br />
collaborating with members <strong>of</strong> other<br />
religious or<strong>de</strong>rs as a way to serve the<br />
needs <strong>of</strong> their local communities.<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel Church in<br />
Vienna, Virginia<br />
The <strong>Oblates</strong> have been associated with<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel virtually<br />
since its inception in the 1950s. As it<br />
located just outsi<strong>de</strong> the beltway west <strong>of</strong><br />
Washington, DC, the majority <strong>of</strong> the<br />
parishioners are middle-class pr<strong>of</strong>essionals<br />
who work in the private sector,<br />
the fe<strong>de</strong>ral government, or the military.<br />
Some families here are second- and<br />
third-generation members <strong>of</strong> OLGC,<br />
as it is commonly known. Others are<br />
recent arrivals who have come because<br />
<strong>of</strong> job moves or post/base transfers.<br />
Fr. William Metzger, OSFS is in his sixth year as pastor. He says that one <strong>of</strong> the<br />
ongoing challenges <strong>of</strong> his ministry is both to affirm the generosity <strong>of</strong> those who have<br />
much and invite them to continue to share their bounty.<br />
“The vast majority <strong>of</strong> parishioners here enjoy an abundance <strong>of</strong> blessings. We invite<br />
them to share their blessings – their good fortunes – with others,” Fr. Metzeger said.<br />
Throughout the year we provi<strong>de</strong> formal and informal opportunities for folks to give<br />
<strong>of</strong> their time, talent, and treasure to help others. As Jesus says, ‘From those who have<br />
been given much, much is expected.’ The faith community at OLGC is very generous.”<br />
Sr. Sharon Cahill, H.M., is the director <strong>of</strong> liturgy at Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel. As<br />
a member <strong>of</strong> the Sisters <strong>of</strong> the Humility <strong>of</strong> Mary, a community that started in France<br />
during the reign <strong>of</strong> Napoleon II and came to the United <strong>St</strong>ates in 1864, she is no<br />
stranger to <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality. Their congregation’s foundational documents<br />
explicitly cite <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> life as a mo<strong>de</strong>l for ministry.<br />
“As someone who grew up in and who has ministered over the years in the area<br />
surrounding Youngstown, Ohio, a region <strong>de</strong>vastated by the collapse <strong>of</strong> the steel<br />
industry in the late 1970s, it took me a while to adjust to the social and economic<br />
affluence <strong>of</strong> Northern Virginia,” Sr. Sharon said. “Now in my second year, I think<br />
parishioners are attracted to the parish’s <strong>Sales</strong>ian hallmarks: clergy and staff are<br />
ordinary, down-to-earth people who put a premium on welcoming others in a compassionate,<br />
friendly, non-judgmental, and inclusive way. Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel<br />
goes out <strong>of</strong> its way to create a climate and culture in which people feel accepted and<br />
respected. I know I do!”<br />
Cathedral <strong>of</strong> the Immaculate Conception in Cam<strong>de</strong>n, New Jersey<br />
Located directly opposite Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia, PA, along the east bank <strong>of</strong> the Delaware River,<br />
the plight <strong>of</strong> Cam<strong>de</strong>n, New Jersey could not stand in more graphic contrast with<br />
Northern Virginia. Separated by 160 miles along the I-95 corridor, their situations<br />
– and the nature <strong>of</strong> their needs – are worlds apart.<br />
Fr. Matt Hillyard, OSFS is halfway through his third year as the first Oblate pastor<br />
at Immaculate Conception Cathedral Church, that serves largely a Spanish-speaking<br />
population. Now the host site for three recently-consolidated parishes, Fr. Hillyard,<br />
who is originally from Northern Virginia, paints a grim picture.<br />
“People’s needs here couldn’t be basic: food, shelter, safety. Be they long-standing<br />
resi<strong>de</strong>nts or newly-arrived immigrants, parishioners are looking for good jobs, safe<br />
By Fr. Michael Murray, OSFS<br />
schools, and rudimentary healthcare in one <strong>of</strong> the most dangerous cities in the<br />
country,” Fr. Matt said. “So many people here attempt to just get by on a day-today<br />
basis. Instances <strong>of</strong> crime and violence are <strong>of</strong>f the charts, and we just lost half <strong>of</strong> our<br />
police force and one-third <strong>of</strong> our firefighters due to drastic budget shortfalls.”<br />
While <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> is not known for his ministry to the materially poor the way his<br />
namesake from Assisi was, the spirituality <strong>of</strong> the French bishop is taking root in the<br />
economically challenged Cam<strong>de</strong>n parish whose city was recently <strong>de</strong>clared the second<br />
most violent city in the nation.<br />
“We meet people where they are. We practice what I call ‘the spirituality <strong>of</strong> imperfection.’<br />
We’re all human; we’re all in this together. When we’re not providing sandwiches<br />
every day and canned goods once a week, we try to create a space in which people feel<br />
safe, in which they have at least one place where they can experience some modicum<br />
<strong>of</strong> normalcy. We’re simply here for – and with – them,” Fr. Matt said.<br />
Sr. Helen Cole, SSJ, a Sister <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. Joseph <strong>of</strong> Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia, is a licensed clinical social<br />
worker who has served as director <strong>of</strong> Guadalupe Family Services since 1995 in an area<br />
served by the now-combined parish boundaries <strong>of</strong> Immaculate Conception Cathedral<br />
Church. In addition to working with families whose lives have been affected—and<br />
frequently shattered—by violent crime, she and her mo<strong>de</strong>st cadre <strong>of</strong> staff, including<br />
De <strong>Sales</strong> Service Works volunteer Tim Gallagher and Fr. Michael McCue, OSFS,<br />
director, work with children and teens in providing drug and violence prevention<br />
programs, in addition to <strong>of</strong>fering countless opportunities for service.<br />
“The drug use/abuse, violence and crime associated with such abject poverty and<br />
hopelessness threaten the very fabric <strong>of</strong> what it means to be human,” Sr. Helen said.<br />
“<strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality provi<strong>de</strong>s many<br />
<strong>of</strong> our people with an explicit experience<br />
<strong>of</strong> some basic human needs that<br />
many people take for granted: the<br />
need to be accepted, the need to<br />
be welcomed, the need for a place<br />
called ‘home.’”<br />
Sr. Claire Sullivan, IHM, is a Sister<br />
<strong>of</strong> the Immaculate Heart <strong>of</strong> Mary.<br />
Until the merger <strong>of</strong> the three parishes<br />
into the Cathedral, she had been<br />
director <strong>of</strong> religious formation for<br />
five years at Holy Name Church in<br />
Cam<strong>de</strong>n, one <strong>of</strong> the merged churches.<br />
Before coming to Cam<strong>de</strong>n, she served<br />
for 30 years as a missionary in South<br />
America. Sr. Claire <strong>de</strong>scribes<br />
the <strong>Oblates</strong> who work among their<br />
people as “simple, real, down-toearth,<br />
and approachable.”<br />
“They are humble, joyful, and open<br />
men whose approach to service has<br />
helped tremendously with the<br />
merging <strong>of</strong> three parishes. <strong>Sales</strong>ian<br />
spirituality brings a warmth and welcome <strong>de</strong>sperately nee<strong>de</strong>d in the city <strong>of</strong> Cam<strong>de</strong>n,”<br />
Sr. Claire said<br />
Sr. Claire Sullivan, IHM, is flanked by her gar<strong>de</strong>ning partners during a neighborhood beautification project in Cam<strong>de</strong>n. Oblate<br />
Novices Ryan Cronshaw and Bob Killion joined De<strong>Sales</strong> Service Works volunteers Mike Montavon and Tim Gallagher.<br />
One Common Thread<br />
These two apostolates in which the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> serve benefit from<br />
the collaboration with other religious communities in attempting to meet the spiritual<br />
or temporal needs <strong>of</strong> their parishioners. In<strong>de</strong>ed, the settings are tremendously different.<br />
Yet, one characteristic is clearly common to both: The practice <strong>of</strong> “gentleness.”<br />
Srs. Sharon, Helen, and Claire each cited the efforts to be a “gentle presence” as their<br />
Oblate colleagues’ gift when it comes to their unique approach to ministry. Perhaps<br />
<strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> himself said it best: “There is nothing to strong as gentleness; nothing<br />
so gentle as real strength.”<br />
In the words <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>, “God’s will is found in serving both poor and<br />
rich…God’s will lies in exercising restraint amid consolations and in practicing<br />
patience in tribulation” (Treatise IX, 4). How blessed are the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong><br />
<strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> in having<br />
the opportunity to<br />
partner with so many<br />
others, especially<br />
other religious communities,<br />
in helping<br />
to meet the needs<br />
<strong>of</strong> the good people<br />
<strong>of</strong> both Immaculate<br />
Conception<br />
Cathedral Church<br />
and Our Lady <strong>of</strong><br />
Good Counsel parish,<br />
in consolations,<br />
in tribulations, and<br />
in all the situations<br />
in between.<br />
Sr. Sharon Cahill, HM, a Sister <strong>of</strong> the Humility <strong>of</strong> Mary, works as the director <strong>of</strong> liturgy at<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel Church. Here, she assists Fr. Bill Metzger, OSFS, pastor, at<br />
a daily Mass.<br />
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3
For those along the North and Mid-Atlantic coastal towns there comes an October<br />
morning when abruptly—and with little charity—the season ends. Resi<strong>de</strong>nts awaken<br />
to the sound <strong>of</strong> the North wind relentlessly attacking from across the bay. The surf,<br />
which during the summer sparkled reflecting the July sun, now appears sullen<br />
and angry.<br />
Look quickly at the bridge to the mainland and see the taillights <strong>of</strong> the last visitors’<br />
cars, packed to the ro<strong>of</strong>line with bikes and beach chairs,<br />
returning to the real world <strong>of</strong> the mainland.<br />
The season is over. But what is life like for those who<br />
call the seashore home year round? Surely, they do not<br />
hibernate till spring.<br />
Further down the coast, the arrival <strong>of</strong> October heralds<br />
the end <strong>of</strong> a Florida summer – “Like living on the surface<br />
<strong>of</strong> the sun,” some have said. The cool, dry breezes take<br />
many <strong>of</strong> the retirees who live there back to an autumn<br />
day on a long-ago college campus.<br />
October also <strong>de</strong>livers the first “snowbirds,” people from<br />
the North and Midwest, feeling winter in their souls and<br />
turning their faces and autos southward. It is the beginning<br />
<strong>of</strong> The Season in Florida. East Coast or Gulf Coast,<br />
the out-<strong>of</strong>-state license plates tell the story <strong>of</strong> “in-season<br />
life” along the coasts <strong>of</strong> Florida. As the season begins,<br />
how do the year-round resi<strong>de</strong>nts feel as they emerge from<br />
a long, hot, air-conditioned summer?<br />
The <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> are honored to be pastors to parishes along the<br />
Atlantic Coast, several <strong>of</strong> them in the most popular vacation spots in the Country.<br />
To learn more about life in parishes and towns that have significant seasonal and<br />
vacation populations, the pastors <strong>of</strong> three parishes have provi<strong>de</strong>d a snapshot <strong>of</strong> life<br />
in- and out-<strong>of</strong>-season: Fr. Frank Danella, OSFS, Our Lady <strong>St</strong>ar <strong>of</strong> the Sea, Cape May,<br />
New Jersey; Fr. Bill Walsh, OSFS, Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by the Sea, Kitty Hawk (Outer<br />
Banks), North Carolina; and Fr. Mike Vannicola, OSFS, <strong>St</strong>. Ann, Naples, Florida.<br />
Our Lady <strong>St</strong>ar <strong>of</strong> the Sea Church in Cape May, New Jersey<br />
Cape May, New Jersey is the southernmost point <strong>of</strong> the Gar<strong>de</strong>n <strong>St</strong>ate. Many <strong>of</strong> its<br />
buildings resi<strong>de</strong> on the National Historical Register. It is consi<strong>de</strong>red to hold one <strong>of</strong><br />
the best and largest collections <strong>of</strong> Victorian architecture on the East Coast.<br />
Congress Hall Hotel, facing the Atlantic Ocean, once hosted Abraham Lincoln. In<br />
the Gil<strong>de</strong>d Era at the end <strong>of</strong> the 19th century, a train line brought entire households,<br />
including servants, horses and carriages, to the seasi<strong>de</strong> resort to avoid the oppressive<br />
Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia summer.<br />
Our Lady <strong>St</strong>ar <strong>of</strong> the Sea Church sits at the very head <strong>of</strong> the Washington <strong>St</strong>reet<br />
Mall, the town square <strong>of</strong> Cape May. Fr. Frank Danella, OSFS, has been leading<br />
the parish since March 2010, when he and Fr. Tom McGee OSFS, parochial vicar,<br />
arrived at the church.<br />
Fr. Danella sees little difference between life in-season and out-<strong>of</strong>-season. “There is<br />
no real clear <strong>de</strong>lineation between in-season and <strong>of</strong>f-season here. Because the town<br />
is so successful in promoting special weekends, such as Victorian Weekend, Jazz<br />
Weekend, Christmas Weekend, etc., our season really continues well into January.<br />
As a matter <strong>of</strong> fact, Jazz Weekend in November found our church absolutely packed,”<br />
he said.<br />
“We have about 1,400 households registered in the parish,” Father Frank continued.<br />
“At this time, it is difficult to say exactly how many live here year round, just come<br />
for the season, or leave for Florida for the winter. We do adjust our Mass schedule<br />
during the season, celebrating eleven Masses each weekend in-season, and six during<br />
the <strong>of</strong>f-season months.”<br />
4<br />
<strong>De<strong>Sales</strong>World</strong><br />
Oblate Seasi<strong>de</strong> Parishes Building the Church in All Seasons…<br />
By Pete McCarthy<br />
The stained glass windows near the baptismal font <strong>of</strong> Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by<br />
the Sea Church <strong>de</strong>picts the seasi<strong>de</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong> the Outer Banks in which the<br />
parish is located.<br />
While the <strong>Oblates</strong> are new to staffing the parish, the people are quite familiar with<br />
the members <strong>of</strong> the province. “Because <strong>of</strong> our location as a Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia vacation<br />
<strong>de</strong>stination, I am always <strong>de</strong>lighted to meet North Catholic and Father Judge grads<br />
at Mass or on the mall. It is more surprising, yet not that uncommon, to meet grads<br />
from Oblate schools from all over the country who are vacationing here in Cape May<br />
County,” he said.<br />
Despite the activity <strong>of</strong> the town during the fall and winter,<br />
a certain tone is noted when the traditional vacationers<br />
<strong>de</strong>part. “It is a mixed reality after the high point <strong>of</strong><br />
the summer,” Fr. Danella said. “I have friends who are<br />
glad to see the crowds leave and an equal number who<br />
thoroughly enjoy the weather and activities that are part<br />
<strong>of</strong> our summer life here. As for me, I love it here all the<br />
time. Even now, in February, with the mall virtually<br />
empty, there is great beauty here.”<br />
This year lea<strong>de</strong>rs <strong>of</strong> the Diocese <strong>of</strong> Cam<strong>de</strong>n <strong>de</strong>ci<strong>de</strong>d<br />
to use the tranquility <strong>of</strong> Cape May for a Lenten Day<br />
<strong>of</strong> Reflection. “Those in attendance will be invited to<br />
walk the beaches, and visit the bird sanctuary and other<br />
parks throughout Cape May. Later, we will return to the<br />
Church to reflect, as a community, on the magnificent<br />
power and beauty <strong>of</strong> God’s work. And, in Cape May, it is<br />
all around us every day,” said Fr. Danella, whose previous<br />
assignment was to lead the diocesan retreat center.<br />
Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by the Sea Church in Kitty Hawk, North Carolina—<br />
The Outer Banks<br />
Fr. Bill Walsh, OSFS, pastor <strong>of</strong> Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by the Sea Parish, is not shy about<br />
reporting about discussing life on the Outer Banks.<br />
“Let me tell you about luck, liturgy, and life on a sandbar!” he said. “Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer<br />
by the Sea Parish on the Outer Banks <strong>of</strong> North Carolina is a perfect incarnation <strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong>’s statement, ‘We pray best before beauty.’ Whether a visitor during the<br />
lush summer sunshine, or a ‘local’ remin<strong>de</strong>d by a stark winter wind storm <strong>of</strong> God’s<br />
power, our surroundings <strong>of</strong>fer a constant call to prayer.”<br />
Like its Cape May counterpart, this Outer Banks parish bulges with worshippers during<br />
the height <strong>of</strong> the vacation season. “We have to double our number <strong>of</strong> Masses<br />
from Memorial Day to Labor Day to accommodate as many as 8,000 worshippers per<br />
weekend. Many <strong>of</strong> our full-time parishioners—some 900 households—started out<br />
as regular visitors to the area. The welcome we received as vacationers or part-time<br />
parishioners, we now extend to the thousands <strong>of</strong> people who populate our pews—<br />
and roads, and supermarkets, and restaurants—during these summer months,”<br />
Fr. Walsh said.<br />
The great increase in guests to the parish is no problem for the staff or its regular<br />
parishioners; in fact, they view it as a gift. “Our new parish church, <strong>de</strong>dicated in<br />
2001, was built large enough to be a spiritual home to these thousands <strong>of</strong> visitors.<br />
Our full-time parishioners enjoy seeing the church full to overflowing for these summer<br />
months. Of course, special planning and hard work allow us to accommodate so<br />
many people. For instance, our pre-Mass announcements and welcome actually begin<br />
at the scheduled start time <strong>of</strong> the Mass, to allow those who might have had to park<br />
and hike a chance to be seated by the end <strong>of</strong> the opening hymn.”<br />
The architecture <strong>of</strong> the church building reflects the historic work <strong>of</strong> the Wright<br />
Brothers who were “first in flight,” the state’s motto, in Kitty Hawk where the parish is<br />
located. The high angled ro<strong>of</strong>s point sharply into the sky, suggesting the lift-<strong>of</strong>f <strong>of</strong> a<br />
plane as well as the transcen<strong>de</strong>nt trajectory to heaven.<br />
Certainly, the gift <strong>of</strong> the vacationers enhances the spirit <strong>of</strong> the community. “The<br />
influx <strong>of</strong> visitors adds a multigenerational presence at our liturgies, and the visitors’<br />
enthusiasm reignites our appreciation <strong>of</strong> our surroundings. We all count our blessings<br />
together, and so many visitors speak <strong>of</strong> the day when they too can be here full-time.<br />
The combination <strong>of</strong> physical beauty and the commitment to ‘work’ at relaxing makes<br />
for a unique openness in our worshippers, setting up the perfect conditions for a
transformative spiritual experience. Visitors<br />
are so interactive and responsive, <strong>of</strong>ten an<br />
indication that celebration <strong>of</strong> the liturgy at<br />
Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by the Sea Parish sets the tone<br />
for the whole vacation. They are happy not<br />
just to be on vacation, but to be here, now, in<br />
this present moment. How <strong>Sales</strong>ian!”<br />
Despite the <strong>de</strong>light <strong>of</strong> so many visitors, the<br />
permanent parish community does enjoy the<br />
quiet months when the vacation season ends.<br />
“We love our visitors when they come, but we<br />
also love our time alone here after they go.<br />
Those winter months allow us to restore and<br />
refresh ourselves so we can be ready to welcome<br />
our friends back, some as early as Easter.<br />
The visitors we share our home with are in a<br />
sense coming to a great place to share their<br />
‘good space’ – that special vacation mentality<br />
that makes it easy to give and take, to laugh,<br />
and to begin or build traditions,” he said.<br />
The <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> have<br />
staffed the parish since 2003. Fr. Bill Walsh,<br />
OSFS, the first Oblate pastor, still fills that<br />
role, and Fr. Ed Fitzpatrick, OSFS, joins<br />
him in serving this community as parochial<br />
vicar. Both priests spent a good number <strong>of</strong><br />
years serving as educators at Bishop Ireton<br />
High School and Paul VI High School in the<br />
Northern Virginia area, whose resi<strong>de</strong>nts<br />
frequently vacation at the Outer Banks.<br />
“So many visitors have had Oblate experiences<br />
in their past—some are graduates <strong>of</strong><br />
Oblate high schools including Father Judge,<br />
North Catholic, and Bishop Ireton, and they<br />
always comment on how satisfying it is to visit<br />
and worship in an Oblate parish. Conversely,<br />
Oblate priests missioned to parishes from which our visitors come are always happy<br />
to hear what a highlight their parishioners’ experience at Holy Re<strong>de</strong>emer by the Sea<br />
Parish was, is, and God willing, shall continue to be!” he ad<strong>de</strong>d.<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Ann Church in Naples, Florida<br />
Travelling down the coast to the <strong>Oblates</strong>’ southernmost parish, vacationers pray in the<br />
beautiful setting <strong>of</strong> Naples, Florida. Only two short blocks from the Gulf <strong>of</strong> Mexico,<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Ann Church brings the beauty <strong>of</strong> the beach with remarkable prayerful elements<br />
insi<strong>de</strong> the octagonal worship space, whose rich teal blues and sharp whites recall the<br />
nearby elegance <strong>of</strong> water and sand, colors appropriate for a parish named in honor <strong>of</strong><br />
the mother <strong>of</strong> Mary.<br />
“I like that our parish is named for<br />
Jesus’ grandmom because there are<br />
so many grandparents living in the<br />
parish, and I <strong>de</strong>light in seeing their<br />
compassion as they care for others,”<br />
Fr. Mike Vannicola, pastor, said.<br />
“The young families bring an energy<br />
to a group <strong>of</strong> people who are largely<br />
retirees. When people come to<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Ann’s, they see the joy <strong>of</strong> the<br />
children. Especially for those who<br />
miss their grandchildren, it is<br />
won<strong>de</strong>rful to see them excited by<br />
the youngsters.”<br />
Such excitement is not limited to<br />
the grandparent population <strong>of</strong> the<br />
parish. All the parishioners exu<strong>de</strong><br />
a <strong>de</strong>light in their church. “One<br />
thing that has impressed me is the<br />
outstanding hospitality <strong>of</strong> the year-<br />
…in Cape May, NJ; Outer Banks, NC; and Naples, FL<br />
Our Lady <strong>St</strong>ar <strong>of</strong> the Sea stands prominently on the mall in the heart <strong>of</strong> Cape May, NJ.<br />
Led by the altar servers at <strong>St</strong>. Ann Church in Naples, Florida, Fathers Mike Vannicola, Tom Gillespie, and <strong>St</strong>eve Shott recess<br />
after a parish Mass. In an effort to integrate the beauty <strong>of</strong> the nearby Gulf <strong>of</strong> Mexico, the processional candles and cross<br />
feature the aquamarine and coral colors that are prominently highlighted in the altar, floor tile, ambo, tabernacle, and other<br />
elements throughout the church building.<br />
round parishioners to the seasonal parishioners.<br />
They welcome everyone. Visitors<br />
become part <strong>of</strong> the community almost immediately.”<br />
And, many vacationers come to enjoy this<br />
old section <strong>of</strong> Naples. “In season, we have<br />
six Masses every weekend, and five during<br />
the <strong>of</strong>f-season. Our attendance increases<br />
by about 1,000 during the high season from<br />
Christmas to Easter,” he continued. “Our<br />
membership grows from about 1,400 to 2,400,<br />
and that inclu<strong>de</strong>s only those who are registered<br />
in the parish.<br />
The increase in worshippers provi<strong>de</strong>s an certain<br />
change to both Naples and the parish<br />
community in which it is located. “In season,<br />
the town and parish are bustling. We are<br />
able to see our good friends who come here<br />
seasonally and look forward to their arrival.<br />
In the summer, the community has a smalltown<br />
feel. It becomes a different place. There<br />
are many blessings to this, but the intense<br />
Florida summer sun keeps many insi<strong>de</strong> enjoying<br />
the benefits <strong>of</strong> air conditioning. In some<br />
ways, while those in the North hibernate<br />
insi<strong>de</strong> during the winter, our hibernation<br />
period is during the heat <strong>of</strong> the summer. It<br />
does provi<strong>de</strong> the parish staff the opportunity<br />
to get caught up on special projects that they<br />
are unable to attend to in the hectic pace <strong>of</strong><br />
the season,” Fr. Vannicola said.<br />
One commitment that the staff views as a<br />
responsibility is to connect the natural beauty<br />
<strong>of</strong> its neighborhood to the experiences <strong>of</strong><br />
the church itself. From the quality <strong>of</strong> the<br />
liturgy to the environment in which it<br />
occurs, the staff is <strong>de</strong>dicated to ensuring a rich experience insi<strong>de</strong> the church that is<br />
parallel to their restorative moments outsi<strong>de</strong>.<br />
“We are aware <strong>of</strong> God’s beauty. When we baptize babies we give the families a sea<br />
shell to remind them that God’s creation is a connection to their own baptism,”<br />
Fr. Vannicola said.<br />
As parochial vicars, Oblate Fathers <strong>St</strong>eve Shott and Tom Gillespie assist in the pastoral<br />
lea<strong>de</strong>rship <strong>of</strong> the church. Well known for his lea<strong>de</strong>rship <strong>of</strong> Teaching Tuesdays,<br />
an adult catechesis program, Fr. Shott has transitioned well from his years <strong>of</strong> teaching<br />
to make great contributions to parish life. Fr. Gillespie takes the lead <strong>of</strong> the pastoral<br />
care <strong>of</strong> Catholics healing in nearby NCH<br />
Downtown Naples Hospital.<br />
On behalf <strong>of</strong> their respective communities,<br />
Frs. Danella, Walsh, and Vannicola<br />
each reflected the sentiments <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>.<br />
<strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> about the role <strong>of</strong> beauty<br />
in the spiritual life. The settings <strong>of</strong> all<br />
three parishes fuel this experience, for life<br />
in these seasi<strong>de</strong> parishes is much like the<br />
ocean itself. Crowds grow and diminish;<br />
streets are packed, then<br />
emptied; seasons change and through it<br />
all, the spirit <strong>of</strong> the parishes grows <strong>de</strong>eper.<br />
Devotion to God and commitment to the<br />
parish are nurtured in the <strong>of</strong>f-season, then<br />
shared with visitors during high-season.<br />
In-season or out, these tranquil yet vibrant<br />
parishes are worthy <strong>of</strong> a visit. If your<br />
own journey takes you near one <strong>of</strong> these<br />
churches, stop in, say hello, and say a<br />
prayer. You’ll be glad that you did.<br />
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<strong>De<strong>Sales</strong>World</strong><br />
De<strong>Sales</strong> Hall Formation Community Shares Its Spirit with Area School Lea<strong>de</strong>rs<br />
For most high school teachers, the end <strong>of</strong> January marks the end <strong>of</strong> the first semester,<br />
a busy time <strong>of</strong> composing and grading exams, preparing for the next term, and<br />
helping stu<strong>de</strong>nts transition through their courses. This was not the case for some 20<br />
faculty and administrators from the three area <strong>Sales</strong>ian high schools who <strong>de</strong>ci<strong>de</strong>d to<br />
spend a January Saturday with the <strong>Oblates</strong> at their De<strong>Sales</strong> Hall Formation House in<br />
Washington, DC, for a day <strong>of</strong> reflection on their common patron.<br />
“As we prepare for a new semester, it’s important for us to take time to slow down, to<br />
reflect on what is happening in our lives, and to take the time to see what new<br />
opportunities our Lord may be inviting us to consi<strong>de</strong>r,” said Bro. Ed Og<strong>de</strong>n OSFS,<br />
the facilitator for the event.<br />
Planned as “A Day with De<strong>Sales</strong>” the event was filled with a variety <strong>of</strong> presentations,<br />
group discussions, and prayer experiences that helped the lea<strong>de</strong>rs <strong>of</strong> the communities<br />
from Bishop Ireton High School in Alexandria, VA; Paul VI Catholic High School<br />
in Fairfax, VA; and Georgetown Visitation Preparatory School in Washington, DC,<br />
prepare for the coming months <strong>of</strong> ministry. For many, the highlights <strong>of</strong> the day<br />
were the two presentations on <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality given by <strong>Oblates</strong> Ed Og<strong>de</strong>n and<br />
Tim McIntyre.<br />
In his presentation entitled “The Six Tenants <strong>of</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>ian Spirituality,” Bro. Ed<br />
illustrated how <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> <strong>of</strong>fers us a very practical method for staying present<br />
in a hectic world. He invited the participants to examine all the facets <strong>of</strong> their<br />
lives and find places where relationships with themselves, others, and God could be<br />
improved.<br />
“I was reinforced in the appreciation that <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality is something that can<br />
and must be practiced in all aspects <strong>of</strong> our daily lives. It is both challenging and<br />
uplifting to know that everything I do, personally and pr<strong>of</strong>essionally, is a gift from and<br />
to God,” said Rebecca Borman, <strong>de</strong>an <strong>of</strong> faculty at Bishop Ireton.<br />
By Ryan Cronshaw<br />
Oblate Novice Jeff Edmonds enjoys a conversation on <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality as part <strong>of</strong> the “Day with De<strong>Sales</strong>” with members <strong>of</strong> the staff <strong>of</strong> Washington<br />
DC’s Georgetown Visitation Preparatory School: Amy Devere, Department <strong>of</strong> Athletics; Kristen Hosmer, Department <strong>of</strong> Guidance; and Kathleen Looney,<br />
Director <strong>of</strong> Christian Service.<br />
Alex Boeitmayer and Molly<br />
McDowell were among the many<br />
guests who enjoyed an evening<br />
<strong>of</strong> dancing that followed a brief<br />
live auction. Proceeds totaled<br />
more $106,000 to help support<br />
Oblate ministries throughout the<br />
province.<br />
Pictures From The Province<br />
November’s Black Tie for White Collars Annual Gala held at the Chase Center in Wilmington,<br />
DE, gathered more than 330 friends <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> for this festive dinner dance. Here,<br />
Fr. James Greenfield, OSFS, stands with David and Tracy Goorland, chairs, as David joins<br />
his family’s traditional Jewish blessing <strong>of</strong> the meal, in Hebrew, after Fr. Jim <strong>of</strong>fered the<br />
prayer over the dinner.<br />
In the second presentation <strong>of</strong> the day, Tim McIntire spoke about maintaining a<br />
<strong>Sales</strong>ian approach to prayer. He remin<strong>de</strong>d the group that <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> <strong>de</strong>sired<br />
each person to <strong>de</strong>velop a practice <strong>of</strong> having “heart-to-heart” conversations with God.<br />
“<strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality is all about trying to be constantly aware <strong>of</strong> God’s presence,” said<br />
Bob Killion, an Oblate seminarian who is completing his novitiate year. “If we want<br />
to continue to be effective ministers in our schools, we first need to be willing to <strong>of</strong>fer<br />
ourselves and our actions to God.”<br />
The presentation conclu<strong>de</strong>d with an <strong>of</strong>fering <strong>of</strong> practical ways that De<strong>Sales</strong> invites us<br />
to consi<strong>de</strong>r for enhancing our prayer lives, prompting one group to discuss how they<br />
could help their stu<strong>de</strong>nts refine their prayer lives.<br />
One unique aspect <strong>of</strong> the schedule for the day was the incorporation <strong>of</strong> periods for<br />
silent reflection. “Sometimes we get so caught up in our routines, that we neglect to<br />
take the time to just sit and be present to God and our surroundings,” Bro. Ed said.<br />
Several participants agreed that having just 30 minutes gave them a chance to reflect<br />
on the topics <strong>of</strong> the day.<br />
The day <strong>of</strong> recollection conclu<strong>de</strong>d with a Mass celebrated by Fr. Richard DeLillio,<br />
OSFS, fresh from his sabbatical in Australia. In his homily, Fr. DeLillio expressed the<br />
point that <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> would encourage the participants not to worry about<br />
doing great things in the course <strong>of</strong> our day, but to focus on all the small opportunities<br />
we have to spread God’s love. As a closing remark, he remin<strong>de</strong>d the group, “You don’t<br />
have to do it all. Remember, God will help, we just have to ask him to fill in what we<br />
can’t do ourselves.”<br />
While <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality has long been central to these three schools, this event<br />
marks the first time in recent years that the three schools have joined together for such<br />
an event. “We can all benefit from knowing we are part <strong>of</strong> something much larger than<br />
ourselves, and sharing the many ways and means we all have <strong>of</strong> bringing our spirituality<br />
to life,” Tim Hamer, principal <strong>of</strong> Bishop Ireton, said.<br />
The event was also particularly significant to the<br />
representatives from Bishop Ireton and Paul VI, which,<br />
at one time, were both staffed by the <strong>Oblates</strong>. While the<br />
faculty works tirelessly at preserving the school’s <strong>Sales</strong>ian<br />
heritage, many find it difficult to do so without the resources<br />
that traditionally would have been provi<strong>de</strong>d by the Oblate<br />
community. Tom Opfer, <strong>de</strong>an <strong>of</strong> aca<strong>de</strong>mics at Paul VI, thinks<br />
that events like this “Day with De<strong>Sales</strong>” may provi<strong>de</strong> a venue<br />
to help alleviate this.<br />
“I hope that we will continue to plan these days and that the<br />
schools are able to attract their newer teachers who need to<br />
un<strong>de</strong>rstand and recognize the role <strong>of</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality in our<br />
school communities,” Tom said.<br />
Having three <strong>Sales</strong>ian schools in the Washington area has<br />
already had a tremendous impact in spreading the spirituality<br />
<strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> among the larger metropolitan<br />
community. Both the lea<strong>de</strong>rs <strong>of</strong> the school and the <strong>Oblates</strong><br />
look forward to hosting activities like “A Day with De<strong>Sales</strong>” to<br />
promote collaboration among the <strong>Sales</strong>ian schools and Oblate<br />
communities to strengthen <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality in the local<br />
churches <strong>of</strong> Washington, DC, and Arlington, Virginia for<br />
many years to come.<br />
The <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> are members <strong>of</strong> the National Catholic Development Conference.<br />
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Our Mother <strong>of</strong> Consolation Church,<br />
an Oblate parish in Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia,<br />
blessed a new statue <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong><br />
<strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> on January 23, one day<br />
prior to the saint’s feast. Through<br />
the generosity <strong>of</strong> parishioners, a<br />
graduate <strong>of</strong> Northeast Catholic High<br />
School Class <strong>of</strong> ‘34 and his wife, the<br />
statue was commissioned by the parish<br />
in recognition and appreciation <strong>of</strong><br />
the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
who have ministered at Our Mother<br />
<strong>of</strong> Consolation since 1999. The statue<br />
is sculpted in wood by the Demetz<br />
Art <strong>St</strong>udio <strong>of</strong> Ortisei Italy.
Like the origins <strong>of</strong> names for an infant, how parishes come to be known by a certain<br />
saint or a title or event in the life <strong>of</strong> the Lord or Mary may be a fascinating piece <strong>of</strong><br />
history. Sometimes there is an event in the church that coinci<strong>de</strong>s with the year <strong>of</strong> a<br />
parish’s founding, such as a Marian year. With others, it is because <strong>of</strong> the patron <strong>of</strong> the<br />
religious community who will staff the church. In the case <strong>of</strong> Holy Infant Parish in<br />
Durham, North Carolina, generous laypeople selected this name to honor <strong>de</strong>votion to<br />
the Infant <strong>of</strong> Prague.<br />
As the Catholic population in Durham grew, diocesan <strong>of</strong>ficials took land originally<br />
<strong>de</strong>signated for a high school to become a new parish, but the resources were not<br />
available to build the church. Mr. and Mrs. John Gaetano <strong>of</strong>fered a substantial gift to<br />
build the church, asking for its name to honor their favorite <strong>de</strong>votion.<br />
Forty years later, Holy Infant’s conception from the generosity <strong>of</strong> two laypeople<br />
continues to stand as a driving force for its<br />
ongoing growth and ministry. As the laity named<br />
the parish, they continue to give it life.<br />
“One <strong>of</strong>ten hears that Holy Infant is not a place<br />
but a people. The people take ownership <strong>of</strong> the<br />
parish community and the call to be church to<br />
each other and to the broa<strong>de</strong>r community,”<br />
Fr. Joe Brennan, pastor, said as he highlighted<br />
the foundational role that the laity serve in<br />
the parish.<br />
“It’s my church,” said Eric Tanuan, 10-year parishioner<br />
and member <strong>of</strong> the music ministry, after the<br />
parish celebrated its 40 th anniversary. “It’s the first<br />
parish that I feel is mine and not just a generic<br />
place to pray and worship.”<br />
Holy Infant planned a number <strong>of</strong> celebrations<br />
to mark the milestone, including two community<br />
Masses, a reception, and a picnic banquet<br />
in October. One anniversary Mass welcomed<br />
Most Rev. Michael Burbidge, diocesan bishop <strong>of</strong><br />
Raleigh, Very Rev. James J. Greenfield, OSFS, provincial<br />
<strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>, who<br />
have led the parish since its foundation, and former<br />
Oblate pastors and parochial vicars who have<br />
served at the church. The celebration echoed the<br />
importance <strong>of</strong> the people in the parish.<br />
“A glance again at your parish bulletin gives<br />
evi<strong>de</strong>nce that Holy Infant Parish serves as a spiritual,<br />
educational, and social hub for so many <strong>of</strong><br />
you,” Fr. Greenfield said in his homily. “For your<br />
members, past and present, this parish has been<br />
the most important part <strong>of</strong> the Catholic Church,<br />
your primary experience <strong>of</strong> the Church, existing<br />
not for itself, but for the mission <strong>of</strong> Christ.”<br />
Holy Infant Parish Celebrates 40 Years<br />
By Fr. Kevin Nadolski, OSFS<br />
At Holy Infant, this mission <strong>of</strong> Christ was begun by the hard work <strong>of</strong> the people with<br />
the lea<strong>de</strong>rship <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong>. The early, hard-working parishioners talk easily about<br />
those first years. “We really had so little. We had a ‘kitchen shower’—something like<br />
a bridal shower—because we had no supplies,” Barbara Conklin, founding parishioner,<br />
said. “We even went with Fr. Friel to pick out furniture for the parish center,” she said<br />
<strong>of</strong> the founding pastor.<br />
“It was tough doing all those spaghetti dinners in those early days. We started when<br />
it was dirt, but we got it going together,” Jon Costabile said as he stood with his wife,<br />
Eleanor, after the anniversary Mass.<br />
Members <strong>of</strong> the “Foun<strong>de</strong>rs Club” gather after the 40th Anniversary Mass at their Holy Infant Church:<br />
(from left to right) Barbara and Ross Conklin, Irene and Don Dunbar, Carol and Jerry Egan,<br />
Ginny Rah<strong>de</strong>rt, and John and Eleanor Costabile.<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> who have served at Holy Infant gather with Bishop Michael Burbidge and Provincial<br />
Fr. Jim Greenfield, OSFS, at the 40th Anniversary Mass (L-R): Frs. Joe Brennan, Jim Turner,<br />
John McGee, Joe Zuschmidt, and Mike McCue.<br />
Pictures From The Province<br />
Fr. James Greenfield, OSFS, provincial, is pictured with Cardinal Donald Wuerl, archbishop <strong>of</strong> Washington,<br />
and Archbishop Pietro Sambi, apostolic nuncio to the United <strong>St</strong>ates, at the annual benefit for <strong>St</strong>. Luke Institute,<br />
a ministry <strong>of</strong> healing for religious women and men in Silver Spring, MD. The <strong>Oblates</strong> support the work <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>.<br />
Luke to help our nation’s religious heal from health challenges that impact their ministries.<br />
Eleven years after the <strong>de</strong>dication <strong>of</strong> the church, a serious fire on Saturday, August 8,<br />
1981, almost returned it to the dirt from which it started. Yet, <strong>de</strong>spite the loss <strong>of</strong> their<br />
worship space, Jim Behan, OSFS, pastor, led the people in an outdoor celebration <strong>of</strong><br />
the next day’s Sunday Eucharist, which inclu<strong>de</strong>d the baptism <strong>of</strong> an infant, Justin Roth.<br />
His well-remembered words from the homily that morning are documented in the parish’s<br />
annals: “The church is the people, not the building.” Again, the people respon<strong>de</strong>d<br />
with tireless energy to rebuild what had been lost. After a little more than a year, a<br />
re<strong>de</strong>signed church was re<strong>de</strong>dicated on November 21, 1982 by Bishop Joseph Gossman.<br />
Holy Infant’s embrace <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> was warm and fast from<br />
the start and continues through today. “The people’s enthusiasm for the spirituality <strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> and in living out his teachings in their day-to-day lives is humbling<br />
and evi<strong>de</strong>nt in a number <strong>of</strong> ways, but perhaps none more than the love and support<br />
given to the <strong>Oblates</strong> who have served here<br />
over the past 40 years,” Fr. Brennan said.<br />
“The <strong>Oblates</strong> have been great, and my wife<br />
and I are so grateful for them and the spirit<br />
they bring to our parish,” Eric Tanuan said.<br />
“Each <strong>of</strong> them is very different, but they all<br />
have a common spirit that allows us to be at<br />
ease and comfortable in approaching them<br />
and the church. This is a real gift.”<br />
The <strong>Oblates</strong> have served in North Carolina<br />
since 1966, when Fr. Joseph Maule, OSFS,<br />
became pastor <strong>of</strong> <strong>St</strong>. Barnabas Church in<br />
Ar<strong>de</strong>n. Presently, they serve in 11 parishes<br />
across the two dioceses, Raleigh and<br />
Charlotte. Their ministry at Our Lady <strong>of</strong> the<br />
Highways in Thomasville and Holy Infant<br />
marks the two longest-served apostolates by<br />
the community in the state, both begun in<br />
1970. The former parish was foun<strong>de</strong>d by the<br />
diocese in 1953.<br />
For a parish known for lay empowerment, its<br />
marriage to <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality that<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong> <strong>de</strong>signed for lay people<br />
in his Introduction to the Devout Life, Holy<br />
Infant’s investment in the Oblate community<br />
and its spirit is both strong and evi<strong>de</strong>nt.<br />
“The people really linked up with what it<br />
means to be a hospitable people. This is at<br />
the heart <strong>of</strong> <strong>Sales</strong>ian spirituality,” Fr. John<br />
McGee, OSFS, pastor from 1995-2007, said.<br />
“Holy Infant has a living embrace <strong>of</strong> the spirit<br />
<strong>of</strong> De<strong>Sales</strong>. His key virtues <strong>of</strong> gentleness,<br />
humility, and kindness enable the parish to<br />
be hospitable. Their hospitality is uniquely<br />
<strong>Sales</strong>ian, and this is their core <strong>of</strong> living<br />
Jesus,” he said <strong>of</strong> his former church.<br />
Averring to this central i<strong>de</strong>ntity, Fr. Greenfield conclu<strong>de</strong>d his homily at the anniversary<br />
Mass with a quote from Baltimore’s Archbishop Edwin O’Brien: “No American<br />
institution has endured throughout our national life as firmly as the parish. It is a<br />
haven and a home, a stamp <strong>of</strong> spiritual i<strong>de</strong>ntity.”<br />
The archbishop may in<strong>de</strong>ed be correct about the endurance <strong>of</strong> the parish, in general.<br />
If he ever visits Holy Infant in Durham, he will certainly be convinced, for its spirit<br />
suggests that it will endure to celebrate countless anniversaries in the future.<br />
Fr. Harry Schlight, OSFS, a 93-year-old Oblate missionary in South Africa for the past 63<br />
years, recently ma<strong>de</strong> a historic visit to Lawndale, PA, his hometown, where he was the first<br />
Eagle Scout in its Troop 226, in 1935. During his visit to the troop’s headquarters, he saw a<br />
plaque that named the second Eagle Scout, Bill Hawley, whom Fr. Harry hadn’t seen in more<br />
than 60 years. After some research, Fr. Harry learned that his old scouting friend was in a<br />
Phila<strong>de</strong>lphia nursing home where they enjoyed a long reunion. Fr. Harry is pictured here with<br />
his Eagle Scout sash presented to him by Troop 226.<br />
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Pillars<strong>of</strong><br />
Gentle<br />
<strong>St</strong>rength<br />
Let us keep<br />
firm hold <strong>of</strong> the<br />
merciful hand <strong>of</strong><br />
our good God,<br />
for he wishes<br />
to draw us to<br />
himself.<br />
--<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Francis</strong><br />
<strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> <strong>of</strong> Saint <strong>Francis</strong> <strong>de</strong> <strong>Sales</strong><br />
Office <strong>of</strong> Communications<br />
P.O. Box 87<br />
Childs, MD 21916-0087<br />
Address Service Requested<br />
65 years<br />
Rev. John J. Dennis, OSFS<br />
50 years<br />
Rev. Thomas J. Gillespie, OSFS<br />
25 years<br />
Rev. Robert G. Mulligan, OSFS<br />
Jubilees<br />
65 years 55 years<br />
Rev. John V. DiFilippo, OSFS<br />
50 years<br />
Rev. Peter J. Harvey, OSFS<br />
25 years<br />
Rev. John W. Lyle, OSFS<br />
Rev. Alexan<strong>de</strong>r T. Pocetto, OSFS<br />
40 years<br />
Rev. Lewis S. Fiorelli, OSFS<br />
25 years<br />
Rev. Vincent E. Smith, OSFS<br />
Mark Your Calendar<br />
Perpetual Pr<strong>of</strong>ession <strong>of</strong> Vows<br />
Connelly Chapel <strong>of</strong> the Sacred Heart<br />
De<strong>Sales</strong> University<br />
Center Valley, PA<br />
June 22, 2011<br />
Please join us in prayer as<br />
Mike Castrilli and Mike Vogt<br />
pr<strong>of</strong>ess their vows as <strong>Oblates</strong> for life.<br />
Oblate Memorial Mass<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Light Chapel<br />
Childs, MD<br />
Sunday, May 1, 2011<br />
Live Jesus! 2011:<br />
Jesus, Busyness and Me<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Good Counsel Church<br />
Vienna, VA<br />
Saturday, April 2, 2011<br />
50 years<br />
Rev. Hugh E. Duffy, OSFS<br />
40 years<br />
Rev. John J. Mokluk, OSFS<br />
In this Fall 2010/Winter 2011 Issue<br />
<strong>of</strong> the De<strong>Sales</strong> World, we honor those<br />
men who celebrated their jubilees<br />
throughout 2010. Please join us in<br />
wishing them well and continuing to<br />
pray for blessings upon their ministry.<br />
Black Tie for White Collars<br />
Chase Center on the Riverfront<br />
Wilmington, DE<br />
Saturday, October 29, 2011<br />
Oblate Convocation 2011<br />
De<strong>Sales</strong> University<br />
Center Valley, PA<br />
June 20-24, 2011<br />
Please join us in prayer<br />
as all <strong>Oblates</strong> gather<br />
for prayer, fellowship,<br />
and planning.<br />
Memorial Mass for<br />
Fr. John Harvey, OSFS<br />
<strong>St</strong>. John the Beloved Church<br />
6420 Linway Terrace<br />
McLean, VA<br />
Saturday, April 19<br />
11:00 am<br />
50 years<br />
Rev. James P. Byrne, OSFS<br />
40 years<br />
Rev. Edward J. Roszko, OSFS<br />
Contact: Sandy Clark at sclark@oblates.org or (302) 656-8529 for information.<br />
Please reference event in email subject line.<br />
Bill Mittendorf, a former seminarian with the <strong>Oblates</strong> from the 1960s, has organized a reunion <strong>of</strong> men who once studied for the<br />
<strong>Oblates</strong> before discerning a call to another vocation. The gathering will be held September 8-9, 2011 at Camp De<strong>Sales</strong>, Brooklyn, MI.<br />
Contact Bill Mittendorf at mittlaw@live.com for more <strong>de</strong>tails.