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March 7, 2021<br />

Ways To<br />

Style Mint<br />

Green<br />

Trend<br />

Int’l Women’s<br />

Day: When<br />

Patriarchal<br />

Leadership Is<br />

No Longer In<br />

Vogue<br />

kemi And<br />

Dolapo Shabi<br />

#AFreeUnion Winners


6<br />

6<br />

3<br />

IN THIS ISSUE<br />

email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />

HAPPINESS<br />

4 Cover: Kemi And Dolapo<br />

Shabi; #AFreeUnion Winners<br />

6 Sexmatics: Handling Meddling<br />

In-Laws (2)<br />

8 Instagram Moments<br />

WELCOME...<br />

It’s been several decades since<br />

women took their destiny in their hands<br />

to march against the systemic<br />

inequalities they face on a daily basis.<br />

This struggle, which has taken different<br />

forms since 1848 when Elizabeth Cady<br />

Stanton organised the Seneca Falls<br />

Convention where she was the first to<br />

call for women’s right to vote, simply<br />

seeks equal rights and opportunities<br />

and greater personal freedom for<br />

women allover the world.<br />

In 1995, the United Nations threw<br />

its weight behind women’s agitation for<br />

gender equality by hosting the largest gathering of women in<br />

Beijing, China.<br />

The efforts by the UN at advancing gender equality has led to<br />

the world body arming women with two landmark documents to<br />

fight; the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action, and the<br />

Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination<br />

against Women, CEDAW.<br />

The results are pouring in.This year alone, the United States<br />

of America produced her first Female and first black Vice-<br />

President, Kamala Harris, while Nigeria’s Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-<br />

Iweala took her place as the first female, first black Director<br />

General of the World Trade Organization, WTO.<br />

As the world celebrates International Women’s Day, IWD,<br />

tomorrow, a new challenge is thrown at them with the theme:<br />

“Women in leadership: Achieving an equal future in a COVID-19<br />

world.” Like many mountains women have surmounted, that<br />

brought by the COVID-19 pandemic would not be an exception<br />

as examples of women in leadership who are doing well in spite<br />

of the pandemic, already abound.<br />

While Josephine Agbonkhese, reports that men’s leadership<br />

is no longer in vogue. Pg 7, read up other exciting stories on our<br />

new column Billboard. Pg 8.<br />

As we raise our glass to celebrate<br />

all women, we especially congratulate<br />

J . E<br />

our cover bride, Kemi Shabi, and her<br />

Jemi Ekunkunbor<br />

hubby, Dolapo, winners of<br />

lookposh2017@gmail.com<br />

#AFreeUnion.<br />

08052201126<br />

Have a great week!<br />

CELEBRATION<br />

3<br />

7<br />

Fashion : Ways To Style Mint Green<br />

Trend<br />

Feature : Int’l Women’s Day: When<br />

Patriarchal Leadership Is No Longer<br />

In Vogue<br />

8<br />

Quotes<br />

“No man wanted me. Rapists<br />

would tap me on the<br />

shoulder and say ‘Seen any<br />

girls?’.” - Joan Rivers<br />

“They say men enjoy<br />

shaving - it’s the one time<br />

each day they get to look<br />

in the mirror and say ‘Hey<br />

there, you handsome devil’.”<br />

- Helen Gurley Brown<br />

“The freer that women<br />

become, the freer will men<br />

be. Because when you<br />

enslave someone, you are<br />

enslaved.”<br />

- Louise Nevelson<br />

“Laziness may appear<br />

attractive but work gives<br />

satisfaction.”<br />

- Anne Frank<br />

EDITOR<br />

JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />

ASST. EDITOR<br />

YEMISI SULEIMAN<br />

REPORTER<br />

Josephine Agbonkhese<br />

COPY EDITOR<br />

DODOIYI WILLIAM-WEST<br />

PHOTO<br />

OSCAR OCHIOGU<br />

(08034746487)<br />

07 MARCH 2021<br />

TEAM<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

LINDA ORAJEKWE<br />

ADESUWA<br />

EWOIGBOKHAN<br />

BAMIYO ISELEMA EMINA<br />

LAYOUT / DESIGN<br />

OLAYIWOLA AJAGBE<br />

HEAD OF PRODUCTION<br />

CHARLES KAMMA<br />

HEAD MARKETING<br />

JANET NAJOMOH<br />

(08037156911)<br />

Printed and published by Vanguard Media Ltd<br />

Vanguard Avenue Kirikiri Canal; P.M.B 1007<br />

Apapa, Lagos.


Ways<br />

to Style<br />

FASHION<br />

Mint Green Trend<br />

by - Temitope Ojo<br />

A softer shade of turquoise and green, mint fashion is<br />

everywhere, from accessories to clothing and makeup to<br />

nail polish. Flattering on almost all skin tones and a great<br />

match with peach, white, black, beige and navy, just to<br />

name a few; what’s not to love?<br />

Consider these options on how to wear mint green.<br />

MINT SHIRT<br />

Looking to change<br />

up your work<br />

attire? Try a mint<br />

green shirt or<br />

blouse. Pair it with<br />

a tailored black<br />

pencil skirt, black<br />

pumps and simple<br />

jewelry for an<br />

understated, yet<br />

chic, look.<br />

MINT<br />

SHORTS<br />

For a fresh,<br />

feminine look,<br />

you need to try<br />

a pair of mint<br />

shorts. Cute,<br />

simple and sweet,<br />

mint green shorts<br />

make for a great<br />

look when paired<br />

with a white top,<br />

white sneakers or<br />

sandals and gold<br />

accessories. They<br />

make a stunning<br />

option for casual<br />

outings.<br />

MINT GREEN<br />

PANTS<br />

Suitable for<br />

casual weekend<br />

outings, chic and<br />

sophisticated work<br />

outfits and almost<br />

everything in<br />

between, mint green<br />

pants are as versatile<br />

as they are stylish.<br />

Pair your tailored<br />

mint pants with a<br />

white blouse or an<br />

off-the-shoulder top<br />

and pumps for a<br />

look that’s suitable<br />

for professional<br />

settings. Or, if you’re<br />

after something<br />

more casual, try mint<br />

jeans, a white singlet<br />

and sneakers.<br />

MINT GREEN DRESS<br />

A mint dress will have heads turn.<br />

This colour is a stunning look for a<br />

night date. You can also choose this<br />

shade for a feminine and romantic<br />

bridesmaid look. To really stand out,<br />

finish off your ensemble with rose<br />

gold accessories.<br />

linda ikeji<br />

March 7, 2021 / 3


INTERVIEW<br />

Kemi And Dolapo<br />

Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners<br />

The couple<br />

Words By - Funso Coker<br />

On the 5th of February, just nine days to Valentine’s Day, Union Bank announced plans to bankroll #AFreeUnion,<br />

encompassing an all-expenses-paid dream wedding for one lucky couple, and a breathtaking proposal for another<br />

couple. The entire concept was organised in partnership with Africa’s top wedding blog – BellaNaija Weddings.<br />

The task was simple: the winning couple had to submit a strong entry expressing their love for each other and stating<br />

why they deserved the all-expenses-paid wedding. In addition, they also had to be ready to tie the knot on Valentine’s Day!<br />

Out of almost 190 entries received in total, Dolapo Shabi and Kemi Amusan emerged winners of the free wedding,<br />

while Chibuzor Obiora got to propose to his sweetheart, Notey Akpotive, at the exclusive luxury beach house, Sencillo!<br />

With four days to go, Dolapo and Kemi were informed that they had been selected to receive #AFreeUnion, and then<br />

the race began to give them the wedding of their dream, working with top wedding planners and vendors.<br />

In this exclusive chat, the lucky newlyweds talk about the power of dreaming and how they received the freedom to live<br />

their dreams, thanks to Union Bank and BellaNaija Weddings.<br />

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with their parents<br />

Photography: Shutterwave<br />

Make-Up: Bimpe Onakoya<br />

Congratulations to you both on winning<br />

#AFreeUnion, courtesy Union Bank and<br />

BellaNaija Weddings! Would you please introduce<br />

yourselves?<br />

Kemi: Thank you very much. It all still feels like<br />

a dream – but certainly a very nice one!! Up until the<br />

14th of February, I was Miss Kemi Amusan; I’m now<br />

Mrs. Kemi Shabi! I am a 28-year-old graduate of<br />

Accounting from Yaba College of Technology. I now<br />

work as a model and hairstylist.<br />

Dolapo: I am Dolapo Shabi; Kemi’s husband. I<br />

am a graduate of History and Strategic Studies from<br />

the University of Lagos, but these days I earn a living<br />

as a fashion designer and fashion entrepreneur.<br />

We’d love to hear your love story. Tell us how you<br />

met and was it love at first sight? How long have<br />

you been dating?<br />

Kemi: It all started on my birthday in August<br />

2018. Dolapo sent me a DM on Instagram, wishing<br />

me a happy birthday and asking me to connect with<br />

him. I checked out his page, was impressed by what<br />

I saw, and then I accepted his invitation to connect.<br />

The next day, he sent me a message asking for my<br />

phone number, and for the first time, I did not hesitate<br />

to give out my number on Instagram. Oddly enough,<br />

he didn’t call me until months later; in October to be<br />

precise. But when he did, he made sure we met the<br />

same day, and I’d say the journey began from there!<br />

Dolapo: I loved what I saw when we met for the<br />

first time. Her beauty struck me and I remember my<br />

first thoughts were “Wow! She should be in Milan or<br />

Paris modelling!” (another dream coming to life soon).<br />

Kemi: On the very first day, we had a long<br />

conversation about our careers and aspirations.<br />

It wasn’t anything about love the first day; he just<br />

seemed very mature and was very sweet, which<br />

made us click immediately. We also realised we had a<br />

lot of things in common. He, being a fashion designer<br />

and a fashion entrepreneur, and me being a model<br />

and a hairstylist made things interesting for us.<br />

The same month was Lagos Fashion Week and<br />

I invited him to the show as I was one of the models<br />

that walked the runway. And that was where he asked<br />

me to be his girlfriend. Of course, I had been waiting<br />

for that question because I had been getting fond of<br />

him since the first time we met.<br />

Dolapo: Although she played hard to get for like a<br />

month, we eventually became lovers and on the 1st<br />

of January 2020, I proposed and asked her to spend<br />

forever with me. It was a “YES” of course. A yes to<br />

forever with the love of my life.<br />

What was your idea of a dream wedding?<br />

Kemi: We had always wanted an intimate but<br />

classy wedding. We’ve never been keen on having a<br />

large crowd. We just wanted to say our vows<br />

and move to the reception for the party. That<br />

pretty much summed up our idea of a dream<br />

wedding.<br />

But I had big dreams about the venue<br />

for the ceremony and the ambience I hoped<br />

to have, though. I had fallen in love with<br />

Monarch Events Centre since the first time<br />

I saw it along the Lekki-Epe Expressway. I<br />

had also seen lovely pictures of weddings<br />

held at the Monarch – they all looked so<br />

dreamy.<br />

Also, as a vendor in the wedding<br />

industry, I’ve been a big fan of TrendyBee<br />

Event Planners for years. I’d secretly<br />

wished she could plan my wedding,<br />

even though I didn’t see how that could<br />

happen. Then Bimpe Onakoya is my<br />

dream makeup artist, she has worked<br />

on me as a model several times and I’d<br />

always wished she could make me up<br />

for my big day.<br />

I had all these tall dreams, but<br />

they didn’t quite connect to the reality. They were just<br />

dreams, which is why this has been an experience<br />

of a lifetime! I got everything I had always wished for,<br />

everything! All thanks to Union Bank and Bella Naija<br />

Weddings for giving us our dream wedding for free!<br />

Dolapo: I’ve always wanted her to have the<br />

wedding of her dreams because I knew how much<br />

our wedding would mean to her. I’m glad she got<br />

everything she wanted with ease. I will be forever<br />

grateful to Union Bank for making our dreams come<br />

true!<br />

What motivated you to put in your entry for<br />

#AFreeUnion and did you think you stood a<br />

chance of winning?<br />

Kemi: I saw the post on Union Bank’s Instagram<br />

page and on BellaNaija Weddings page too. I just<br />

knew anything that comes from these two brands<br />

would be worth the while.<br />

I told Dolapo about the opportunity to get<br />

#AFreeUnion but his response was “No, that’s<br />

ridiculous, how is it even possible to plan a wedding<br />

in just four days?” I tried to convince him for three<br />

whole days, but he didn’t budge, until a day before<br />

the entries were to close. I told him that we stood a<br />

chance to get a ‘yes’ only if we applied, and that if we<br />

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didn’t apply, it was a 100% ‘no’. That was when he<br />

agreed to make the entry video with me.<br />

All the while, I had been following updates on<br />

#AFreeUnion on Instagram and was generally being<br />

positive about it. In fact, while I was still trying to<br />

convince him, Dolapo had asked what I wanted<br />

for Valentine’s and I’d said “Oh! Do you mean our<br />

wedding day?” He just shook his head at me. He just<br />

didn’t see this happening!<br />

There’s a common saying that ‘Luck happens<br />

when preparation meets opportunity’; would you<br />

say you were prepared for this opportunity? Did<br />

you have wedding plans in the pipeline already?<br />

Kemi: Yes, we were the lucky ones, but we were<br />

ready for this because we were engaged already<br />

and we’d had our family introduction ceremony in<br />

December, so the next thing in line for us was a<br />

wedding; even though we didn’t know how to go<br />

about it at all, especially in these tough times.<br />

Dolapo: Each time we tried discussing the<br />

wedding topic, it just always seemed impossible.<br />

We just didn’t know where to begin! But here we are<br />

today, we got the wedding of our dreams without<br />

paying a dime. Thanks to Union Bank and Bella Naija<br />

Weddings, we got the freedom to live our dreams.<br />

How did your family and friends react when<br />

they heard you’d won this once-in-a lifetime<br />

opportunity? And how did they react to hearing<br />

your wedding was happening in 3 days?<br />

Kemi: My parents did not believe me when I<br />

called them over the phone to share the news with<br />

them. My Dad kept saying, “Kemi, you mean your<br />

wedding is in three days?!” And then he’d ask in<br />

utter disbelief – “You mean we are not paying for<br />

anything?!” They were so excited! It was a little easier<br />

with Dolapo’s parents because we went to their house<br />

to share the news with them in person. Their shouts of<br />

joy and their prayers are still so fresh in our minds.<br />

On a scale of 1 – 10, how did #AFreeUnion<br />

experience align with the picture you had in mind<br />

for your dream wedding? What was running<br />

through your minds that day?<br />

Kemi: I would rate this entire experience as an<br />

11/10 if that is possible, because we got everything<br />

we wanted and even more.<br />

What did you take out from this entire<br />

experience?<br />

Dolapo: Your dreams are valid; don’t be scared<br />

to dream because anything is truly possible if you<br />

believe.<br />

So, what’s next for you both as you build your<br />

union? What other big plans are you dreaming<br />

into existence?<br />

Kemi: We are looking forward to having a happy<br />

and fulfilled marriage, living our lives to the fullest, and<br />

achieving all we want in our careers and from life in<br />

general. We will be working more on our brands; I am<br />

taking my hair brand to the next stage and looking out<br />

for collaborations that can take me to the next level.<br />

Dolapo: I also have plans to expand my fashion<br />

business, to set up a factory and showroom and<br />

increase my ability to do more. I am also open to<br />

collaborations that will support my dreams.<br />

If there’s one lesson we have learnt from this<br />

entire experience, it’s to never stop believing! Just two<br />

weeks ago, I was convinced I wanted to marry Kemi<br />

the love of my life, but I had no idea how. And today<br />

look at us!<br />

Congratulations once again!! We wish you every<br />

happiness as you begin your life together.<br />

March 7, 2021 / 5


...CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS WEEK<br />

with Adesuwa 07052403531 | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />

HANDLING MEDDLING IN-LAWS (2)<br />

S<br />

etting healthy boundaries are the<br />

foundations of any healthy<br />

relationship and the core of your<br />

self-respect. Let your significant<br />

other know what terms/<br />

boundaries you have and also give them the<br />

space they need to make their own in return. At<br />

the end of which, you both will clearly define<br />

and enforce reasonable boundaries with your<br />

respective relatives, rather than holding<br />

grudges against them. Be honest with them in<br />

a respectful, yet firm manner. Do not allow any<br />

kind of behavior or habit that you don’t want to<br />

live with for the rest of your marriage life to<br />

start.<br />

While you can’t stop your parents from<br />

trying to do what they want, calmly refusing to<br />

go along with them is a choice you must make.<br />

Refuse to be manipulated; the more you try to<br />

change their mind or behavior, the more power<br />

you give them in your life. They may test you to<br />

see if you will back down by throwing tantrums,<br />

hanging the phone on you, threatening you, or<br />

storming out of your house. It is really important you<br />

maintain your stand even if they feel offended by<br />

your healthy behaviour. It’s okay to grieve their<br />

choice, manage your hurt and move on.<br />

Sometimes, the above things are done and there<br />

will still be animosity between your spouse and your<br />

parents. Learn to let go of that idea of one big<br />

happy family, there is no need to choose between<br />

them in order to have a happy married life.<br />

Although your spouse may never want to<br />

have anything to do with your family, you<br />

can still be in contact with them, and it is<br />

okay to visit them alone.<br />

You will just have to adjust your<br />

expectations about when and how you see<br />

them, while protecting your marriage at the<br />

same time. Drop your end of the rope and<br />

stop trying to make everyone get along.<br />

Don’t force the friendship. The two parties<br />

can always change their position over time.<br />

Get to be on the same team with your<br />

spouse and know that you cannot change<br />

your family’s behavior; only your response<br />

to it. So, make sure to always give clear<br />

and united response that supports your<br />

marriage. Be careful about what is okay to<br />

share about your marriage with your<br />

parents since you know them better than<br />

any other person. Be smart not to betray<br />

your spouse’s confidence or vulnerability.<br />

Always tell them about the positive aspects<br />

of your spouse and marriage. Let their<br />

relationship be as easy as possible.<br />

Although not all in-laws are bad or<br />

created the same, learn to spot the toxic<br />

ones. The signs are not very easy<br />

to spot; though they always<br />

manifest in damaging ways. It is<br />

only when the signs are spotted on<br />

time that you can effectively put a<br />

stop to it. So, try not to make a bad<br />

situation in your marriage and limit<br />

the effect before it tears your world<br />

apart.<br />

At the end of the day, accept<br />

your man with all his flaws and<br />

qualities; take it that his family may<br />

never change. Try making things<br />

better by finding solutions and<br />

improve yourself. If all else fails,<br />

move on.<br />

purple<br />

PINK: Is associated with love and kindness. It also boosts creativity.<br />

GREY: Brings comfort and warmth. Completely versatile. Timeless and<br />

classic in lighter shades.<br />

YELLOW: It captures the joy of sunshine and it communicates<br />

happiness.<br />

BRIGHT WHITE: Brings calming effects. Makes the room feel more<br />

open and spacious.<br />

Beautiful Colour Scheme<br />

Ideas For Your Bedroom<br />

I will be the first to admit that waking up early and leaving a cozy<br />

bed isn’t always fun, but creating a bedroom that’s energizing and<br />

mood-boosting can make it a whole lot easier. Since colours and<br />

light affect our mood, there’s a strong case for a colourful bedroom.<br />

Whether you introduce these pops of colour with paint, bedding, or<br />

artwork, you’ll find something to emulate in the examples below:<br />

GREEN: Shade of green is fitting for the environment; it has a calming<br />

effect and relieves stress.<br />

BLUE: A soothing soft blue feels like a breath of fresh air when you walk<br />

into a room. It lowers blood pressure.<br />

PURPLE: Rich sophistication for darker purples. Relaxation for lighter<br />

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BLACK, as an edge: Best used in small doses as an accent. Grounds<br />

your colour scheme and gives depth.<br />

The above colours should be soft and calmer shades.<br />

COLOURS TO<br />

AVOID IN YOUR<br />

BEDROOM:<br />

*Orange is a bright<br />

colour of energy that<br />

directly contradicts the<br />

relaxing mood of your<br />

bedroom.<br />

*Pastel blue can<br />

become unpleasantly<br />

chilly on the walls,<br />

especially in a room that<br />

receives little natural<br />

light.<br />

*Red in brighter<br />

shades can be a bit too<br />

severe.


Zuzana<br />

Čaputová<br />

(Slovakia)<br />

Sahle-Work Zewde<br />

(Ethiopia)<br />

Jacinda Ardern<br />

(New Zealand)<br />

Int’l Women’s Day:<br />

When Patriarchal Leadership<br />

Is No Longer In Vogue<br />

By - Josephine Agbonkhese<br />

Tomorrow, March 8,<br />

2021, Nigeria will join<br />

the rest of the world to<br />

celebrate the annual<br />

International Women’s<br />

Day. A day set aside to celebrate<br />

women and examine progress<br />

made in specific spheres.<br />

This year’s global theme,<br />

“Women in Leadership:<br />

Achieving an Equal Future in a<br />

COVID-19 World,” celebrates the<br />

tremendous efforts by women<br />

and girls around the world in<br />

shaping a more equal future,<br />

and recovery from the COVID-19<br />

pandemic.<br />

Indeed, the exemplary<br />

efforts of women at curtailing the<br />

pandemic, as well as its effects<br />

on livelihoods since its emergence, has been<br />

nothing short of classic. Most spectacular is<br />

the exemplary leadership style of women heads<br />

of countries which, above everything, ridiculed<br />

the perceived superiority or supremacy of male<br />

leadership.<br />

Of all the countries reported and proven<br />

to have done well in tackling the pandemic,<br />

women-led countries came first even when the<br />

US, Brazil, Russia, Mexico, UK, Spain, Italy<br />

and others were still foundering. The unrivalled<br />

truthfulness of Germany’s Angela Merkel, as well<br />

as her transparent leadership style, for example,<br />

prepared her people’s minds and, accordingly,<br />

the effort resulted in the lowest of COVID-19<br />

cases and death in the entire developed world,<br />

for many months.<br />

Katrín<br />

Jakobsdóttir<br />

(Iceland)<br />

Sanna Marin<br />

(Finland)<br />

Mette Frederiksen<br />

(Denmark)<br />

Heads of Government in Denmark (Mette<br />

Frederiksen), Ethiopia (Sahle-Work Zewde),<br />

Finland (Sanna Marin), Iceland (Katrín<br />

Jakobsdóttir), New Zealand (Jacinda Ardern)<br />

and Slovakia (Zuzana Čaputová) have also been<br />

widely recognised for the rapidity, decisiveness<br />

and effectiveness of their national response<br />

to COVID-19, as well as the compassionate<br />

communication of fact-based public health<br />

information.<br />

Meanwhile, from the onset, the acclaimed<br />

Giant of Africa was also confused as to how<br />

best to tackle the pandemic. Recall Nigeria<br />

did not institute border closure and mandatory<br />

institutional quarantine and testing for international<br />

returnees to the country, until much later— March<br />

23, 2020, precisely. This is not to mention the<br />

ignorance expressed by a state governor on the<br />

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existence of COVID-19, almost one year after<br />

the virus entered Nigeria and in spite of the many<br />

evidences and deaths recorded; thereby slowing<br />

down decision-making as far as COVID-19 is<br />

concerned in that state.<br />

This, again, brings to bare the dire need for<br />

more women leaders, in all facets of our national<br />

life.<br />

Currently, women constitute a meagre 4.17<br />

per cent of those elected into public office in<br />

Nigeria. This is despite five national elections<br />

that have been held in the country since 1999.<br />

Yet, only a handful of women have ever held<br />

public office and the figures have also continued<br />

to decline.<br />

In 2003, just three percent of people elected<br />

to public office in 2003 were women. By 2007,<br />

that figure increased to about seven per cent, but<br />

declined in 2015 to 5.6 percent.<br />

This is a strange state of affairs, given that<br />

Nigeria is Africa’s most populous country and<br />

elsewhere on the continent, significant gains<br />

have been made in this area. For example,<br />

four of the world’s top 10 countries in terms of<br />

women’s political representation in parliament,<br />

can be found in sub-Saharan Africa: Rwanda,<br />

Seychelles, Senegal and South Africa.<br />

The consequences of this imbalance,<br />

however, can be clearly seen in all areas of our<br />

national life— from security breakdown to lack of<br />

transparency, indecisiveness in leadership, lack<br />

of commitment to citizen’s welfare and foundering<br />

economy.<br />

This imbalance is most pronounced when<br />

men are left to debate and legislate on matters<br />

concerning the development and<br />

livelihoods of women and girls.<br />

A classical example was<br />

when in March 2016, a<br />

female senator for Ekiti South,<br />

Abiodun Olujimi, presented a<br />

bill— the Gender and Equal<br />

Opportunity Bill— seeking<br />

gender equality and women<br />

empowerment, as well as the<br />

protection of women’s<br />

land rights, an end to<br />

gender discrimination<br />

in education and<br />

employment, and an<br />

end to gender-based<br />

violence.<br />

However, that<br />

bill was thrown out<br />

by a number of male<br />

senators in 2016 and<br />

again in 2018 on<br />

religious and cultural<br />

grounds. The same<br />

Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala<br />

bill was re-introduced in<br />

2019 and though it scaled<br />

second reading, only God<br />

knows its fate.<br />

The role of women in progressive decisionmaking<br />

cannot be undermined. Even the world<br />

recognises this and has embraced women-led<br />

leadership. As we mark this year’s International<br />

Women’s Day tomorrow, it is important to reflect<br />

on how best to address the gender-imbalance in<br />

leadership in Nigeria.<br />

If the World Trade Organisation, WTO, could,<br />

at a trying economic time such as this, entrust in<br />

the hands of a woman its leadership, in person<br />

of Nigeria’s Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, then we<br />

too must discard, as a matter of urgency, our<br />

patriarchal notion of leadership which has only<br />

succeeded in robbing us of true progress since<br />

1960.<br />

March 7, 2021 / 7


FRSC Celebrates Women-in-Uniform<br />

As the world celebrates excelling women around the<br />

globe, in commemoration of 2021 UN International Women’s<br />

Day, the Federal Road Safety Corps, Lagos State Command,<br />

in partnership with #sisterART Global Visual Arts<br />

Community, is set to host the maiden edition of WOMEN-IN-<br />

UNIFORM.<br />

Billed to hold tomorrow at the Adeyemi Bero Auditorium,<br />

Alausa Secretariat, Lagos, wife of the Lagos State Governor,<br />

Dr. Ibijoke Sanwo-Olu, will speak on this year’s theme<br />

“Women in Leadership: Achieving an equal future in a<br />

Covid-19 world,”<br />

The event, according to Chairman of the Planning<br />

Committee, Assistant Corps, Commander Emma Fekoya,<br />

Unit Commander Ikeja Command, is put together<br />

to acknowledge and appreciate the efforts of all the<br />

women working with different Military and Paramilitary<br />

organisations in Lagos.<br />

Commending the women, she said,<br />

“The gallant efforts of these women in keeping<br />

their home-front together while serving in different<br />

capacities in their various organizations especially in<br />

this era of the pandemic cannot be overemphasized.”<br />

Blessing Okagbare Makes<br />

Guinness Book of Records<br />

Nigeria’s track and field queen, Blessing<br />

Okagbare, was recently inducted into the<br />

Guinness Book of Records for the most<br />

appearances in Diamond League meetings. For<br />

the award-winning athlete who revealed this<br />

on her Facebook page, this is a dream made a<br />

reality through God’s grace and determination.<br />

The certificate reads: “The most appearances<br />

in Diamond League meetings by an athlete is<br />

67 and was achieved by Blessing Okagbare<br />

(Nigeria) between 3 July 2010 and 31 August<br />

2018”. The certificate was branded ‘OFFICIALLY<br />

AMAZING.’<br />

Okagbare, who recently set two new personal<br />

indoor records at the Doyle Sports Management<br />

Meeting, won an Olympic silver medal at the<br />

2008 Games as a 19-year-old in the Long Jump.<br />

She has also won a World Championships<br />

Silver, and is the current African record holder<br />

in the 200m and in the 4x200m with the Nigerian<br />

team.<br />

Stories by - Yemisi Suleiman<br />

Tara Fela-Durotoye<br />

Tara Fela-Durotoye and<br />

Temi Giwa-Tunbosun make<br />

LeadHERs List<br />

As part of its celebration of International<br />

Women’s Month, Facebook announced the<br />

launch of LeadHERs: Life Lessons From<br />

African Women, a collection of beautifully<br />

inspired stories and life advice from 19<br />

women who are breaking boundaries<br />

in fields such as; media, entertainment,<br />

politics, education and business.<br />

Temi Giwa-Tunbosun<br />

Among the women across Africa<br />

whose stories are being told in<br />

the book are two Nigerian women,<br />

Tara Fela-Durotoye, CEO, House of<br />

Tara International, and Temi Giwa-<br />

Tunbosun, Founder/CEO, LifeBank,<br />

a technology and logistics company<br />

based in Lagos, set up to tackle the<br />

problem of blood shortage in Nigeria.<br />

The company now also operates in<br />

Kenya and Ethiopia, has saved over<br />

14,000 lives till date. These women,<br />

among others, were selected for their<br />

ground-breaking achievements in their<br />

choosen fields.<br />

Available for free in digital and<br />

physical formats, the book provides<br />

inspirational real-life stories for future<br />

generations and young leaders is<br />

aimed at encouraging, inspiring and<br />

guiding the reader, no matter the<br />

background, age or ambition.<br />

Okonjo-Iweala breaks<br />

the norm with her<br />

style<br />

The resumption of Nigeria’s former<br />

Minister of Finance and the Economy,<br />

Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, last Monday,<br />

as the new Director-General of the<br />

World Trade Organisation, WTO,<br />

resonated across the globe.<br />

More significantly however, was<br />

her outfit at her first day at work; she<br />

ditched the formal skirt suit for the<br />

traditional Ankara skirt and blouse<br />

and her famous head tie, breaking the<br />

norm of the formal dress code.<br />

The 66-year-old who is the first<br />

woman, and the first African, to<br />

occupy the position, is fiercely patriotic<br />

with her dress sense and is famous<br />

for flaunting her African identity in her<br />

African-print tailored outfits, no matter<br />

the occasion; a divergence which<br />

signals her fashion autonomy, which<br />

has been accepted as her identity<br />

world over.

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