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March 7, 2021<br />
Ways To<br />
Style Mint<br />
Green<br />
Trend<br />
Int’l Women’s<br />
Day: When<br />
Patriarchal<br />
Leadership Is<br />
No Longer In<br />
Vogue<br />
kemi And<br />
Dolapo Shabi<br />
#AFreeUnion Winners
6<br />
6<br />
3<br />
IN THIS ISSUE<br />
email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />
HAPPINESS<br />
4 Cover: Kemi And Dolapo<br />
Shabi; #AFreeUnion Winners<br />
6 Sexmatics: Handling Meddling<br />
In-Laws (2)<br />
8 Instagram Moments<br />
WELCOME...<br />
It’s been several decades since<br />
women took their destiny in their hands<br />
to march against the systemic<br />
inequalities they face on a daily basis.<br />
This struggle, which has taken different<br />
forms since 1848 when Elizabeth Cady<br />
Stanton organised the Seneca Falls<br />
Convention where she was the first to<br />
call for women’s right to vote, simply<br />
seeks equal rights and opportunities<br />
and greater personal freedom for<br />
women allover the world.<br />
In 1995, the United Nations threw<br />
its weight behind women’s agitation for<br />
gender equality by hosting the largest gathering of women in<br />
Beijing, China.<br />
The efforts by the UN at advancing gender equality has led to<br />
the world body arming women with two landmark documents to<br />
fight; the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action, and the<br />
Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination<br />
against Women, CEDAW.<br />
The results are pouring in.This year alone, the United States<br />
of America produced her first Female and first black Vice-<br />
President, Kamala Harris, while Nigeria’s Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-<br />
Iweala took her place as the first female, first black Director<br />
General of the World Trade Organization, WTO.<br />
As the world celebrates International Women’s Day, IWD,<br />
tomorrow, a new challenge is thrown at them with the theme:<br />
“Women in leadership: Achieving an equal future in a COVID-19<br />
world.” Like many mountains women have surmounted, that<br />
brought by the COVID-19 pandemic would not be an exception<br />
as examples of women in leadership who are doing well in spite<br />
of the pandemic, already abound.<br />
While Josephine Agbonkhese, reports that men’s leadership<br />
is no longer in vogue. Pg 7, read up other exciting stories on our<br />
new column Billboard. Pg 8.<br />
As we raise our glass to celebrate<br />
all women, we especially congratulate<br />
J . E<br />
our cover bride, Kemi Shabi, and her<br />
Jemi Ekunkunbor<br />
hubby, Dolapo, winners of<br />
lookposh2017@gmail.com<br />
#AFreeUnion.<br />
08052201126<br />
Have a great week!<br />
CELEBRATION<br />
3<br />
7<br />
Fashion : Ways To Style Mint Green<br />
Trend<br />
Feature : Int’l Women’s Day: When<br />
Patriarchal Leadership Is No Longer<br />
In Vogue<br />
8<br />
Quotes<br />
“No man wanted me. Rapists<br />
would tap me on the<br />
shoulder and say ‘Seen any<br />
girls?’.” - Joan Rivers<br />
“They say men enjoy<br />
shaving - it’s the one time<br />
each day they get to look<br />
in the mirror and say ‘Hey<br />
there, you handsome devil’.”<br />
- Helen Gurley Brown<br />
“The freer that women<br />
become, the freer will men<br />
be. Because when you<br />
enslave someone, you are<br />
enslaved.”<br />
- Louise Nevelson<br />
“Laziness may appear<br />
attractive but work gives<br />
satisfaction.”<br />
- Anne Frank<br />
EDITOR<br />
JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />
ASST. EDITOR<br />
YEMISI SULEIMAN<br />
REPORTER<br />
Josephine Agbonkhese<br />
COPY EDITOR<br />
DODOIYI WILLIAM-WEST<br />
PHOTO<br />
OSCAR OCHIOGU<br />
(08034746487)<br />
07 MARCH 2021<br />
TEAM<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
LINDA ORAJEKWE<br />
ADESUWA<br />
EWOIGBOKHAN<br />
BAMIYO ISELEMA EMINA<br />
LAYOUT / DESIGN<br />
OLAYIWOLA AJAGBE<br />
HEAD OF PRODUCTION<br />
CHARLES KAMMA<br />
HEAD MARKETING<br />
JANET NAJOMOH<br />
(08037156911)<br />
Printed and published by Vanguard Media Ltd<br />
Vanguard Avenue Kirikiri Canal; P.M.B 1007<br />
Apapa, Lagos.
Ways<br />
to Style<br />
FASHION<br />
Mint Green Trend<br />
by - Temitope Ojo<br />
A softer shade of turquoise and green, mint fashion is<br />
everywhere, from accessories to clothing and makeup to<br />
nail polish. Flattering on almost all skin tones and a great<br />
match with peach, white, black, beige and navy, just to<br />
name a few; what’s not to love?<br />
Consider these options on how to wear mint green.<br />
MINT SHIRT<br />
Looking to change<br />
up your work<br />
attire? Try a mint<br />
green shirt or<br />
blouse. Pair it with<br />
a tailored black<br />
pencil skirt, black<br />
pumps and simple<br />
jewelry for an<br />
understated, yet<br />
chic, look.<br />
MINT<br />
SHORTS<br />
For a fresh,<br />
feminine look,<br />
you need to try<br />
a pair of mint<br />
shorts. Cute,<br />
simple and sweet,<br />
mint green shorts<br />
make for a great<br />
look when paired<br />
with a white top,<br />
white sneakers or<br />
sandals and gold<br />
accessories. They<br />
make a stunning<br />
option for casual<br />
outings.<br />
MINT GREEN<br />
PANTS<br />
Suitable for<br />
casual weekend<br />
outings, chic and<br />
sophisticated work<br />
outfits and almost<br />
everything in<br />
between, mint green<br />
pants are as versatile<br />
as they are stylish.<br />
Pair your tailored<br />
mint pants with a<br />
white blouse or an<br />
off-the-shoulder top<br />
and pumps for a<br />
look that’s suitable<br />
for professional<br />
settings. Or, if you’re<br />
after something<br />
more casual, try mint<br />
jeans, a white singlet<br />
and sneakers.<br />
MINT GREEN DRESS<br />
A mint dress will have heads turn.<br />
This colour is a stunning look for a<br />
night date. You can also choose this<br />
shade for a feminine and romantic<br />
bridesmaid look. To really stand out,<br />
finish off your ensemble with rose<br />
gold accessories.<br />
linda ikeji<br />
March 7, 2021 / 3
INTERVIEW<br />
Kemi And Dolapo<br />
Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners<br />
The couple<br />
Words By - Funso Coker<br />
On the 5th of February, just nine days to Valentine’s Day, Union Bank announced plans to bankroll #AFreeUnion,<br />
encompassing an all-expenses-paid dream wedding for one lucky couple, and a breathtaking proposal for another<br />
couple. The entire concept was organised in partnership with Africa’s top wedding blog – BellaNaija Weddings.<br />
The task was simple: the winning couple had to submit a strong entry expressing their love for each other and stating<br />
why they deserved the all-expenses-paid wedding. In addition, they also had to be ready to tie the knot on Valentine’s Day!<br />
Out of almost 190 entries received in total, Dolapo Shabi and Kemi Amusan emerged winners of the free wedding,<br />
while Chibuzor Obiora got to propose to his sweetheart, Notey Akpotive, at the exclusive luxury beach house, Sencillo!<br />
With four days to go, Dolapo and Kemi were informed that they had been selected to receive #AFreeUnion, and then<br />
the race began to give them the wedding of their dream, working with top wedding planners and vendors.<br />
In this exclusive chat, the lucky newlyweds talk about the power of dreaming and how they received the freedom to live<br />
their dreams, thanks to Union Bank and BellaNaija Weddings.<br />
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with their parents<br />
Photography: Shutterwave<br />
Make-Up: Bimpe Onakoya<br />
Congratulations to you both on winning<br />
#AFreeUnion, courtesy Union Bank and<br />
BellaNaija Weddings! Would you please introduce<br />
yourselves?<br />
Kemi: Thank you very much. It all still feels like<br />
a dream – but certainly a very nice one!! Up until the<br />
14th of February, I was Miss Kemi Amusan; I’m now<br />
Mrs. Kemi Shabi! I am a 28-year-old graduate of<br />
Accounting from Yaba College of Technology. I now<br />
work as a model and hairstylist.<br />
Dolapo: I am Dolapo Shabi; Kemi’s husband. I<br />
am a graduate of History and Strategic Studies from<br />
the University of Lagos, but these days I earn a living<br />
as a fashion designer and fashion entrepreneur.<br />
We’d love to hear your love story. Tell us how you<br />
met and was it love at first sight? How long have<br />
you been dating?<br />
Kemi: It all started on my birthday in August<br />
2018. Dolapo sent me a DM on Instagram, wishing<br />
me a happy birthday and asking me to connect with<br />
him. I checked out his page, was impressed by what<br />
I saw, and then I accepted his invitation to connect.<br />
The next day, he sent me a message asking for my<br />
phone number, and for the first time, I did not hesitate<br />
to give out my number on Instagram. Oddly enough,<br />
he didn’t call me until months later; in October to be<br />
precise. But when he did, he made sure we met the<br />
same day, and I’d say the journey began from there!<br />
Dolapo: I loved what I saw when we met for the<br />
first time. Her beauty struck me and I remember my<br />
first thoughts were “Wow! She should be in Milan or<br />
Paris modelling!” (another dream coming to life soon).<br />
Kemi: On the very first day, we had a long<br />
conversation about our careers and aspirations.<br />
It wasn’t anything about love the first day; he just<br />
seemed very mature and was very sweet, which<br />
made us click immediately. We also realised we had a<br />
lot of things in common. He, being a fashion designer<br />
and a fashion entrepreneur, and me being a model<br />
and a hairstylist made things interesting for us.<br />
The same month was Lagos Fashion Week and<br />
I invited him to the show as I was one of the models<br />
that walked the runway. And that was where he asked<br />
me to be his girlfriend. Of course, I had been waiting<br />
for that question because I had been getting fond of<br />
him since the first time we met.<br />
Dolapo: Although she played hard to get for like a<br />
month, we eventually became lovers and on the 1st<br />
of January 2020, I proposed and asked her to spend<br />
forever with me. It was a “YES” of course. A yes to<br />
forever with the love of my life.<br />
What was your idea of a dream wedding?<br />
Kemi: We had always wanted an intimate but<br />
classy wedding. We’ve never been keen on having a<br />
large crowd. We just wanted to say our vows<br />
and move to the reception for the party. That<br />
pretty much summed up our idea of a dream<br />
wedding.<br />
But I had big dreams about the venue<br />
for the ceremony and the ambience I hoped<br />
to have, though. I had fallen in love with<br />
Monarch Events Centre since the first time<br />
I saw it along the Lekki-Epe Expressway. I<br />
had also seen lovely pictures of weddings<br />
held at the Monarch – they all looked so<br />
dreamy.<br />
Also, as a vendor in the wedding<br />
industry, I’ve been a big fan of TrendyBee<br />
Event Planners for years. I’d secretly<br />
wished she could plan my wedding,<br />
even though I didn’t see how that could<br />
happen. Then Bimpe Onakoya is my<br />
dream makeup artist, she has worked<br />
on me as a model several times and I’d<br />
always wished she could make me up<br />
for my big day.<br />
I had all these tall dreams, but<br />
they didn’t quite connect to the reality. They were just<br />
dreams, which is why this has been an experience<br />
of a lifetime! I got everything I had always wished for,<br />
everything! All thanks to Union Bank and Bella Naija<br />
Weddings for giving us our dream wedding for free!<br />
Dolapo: I’ve always wanted her to have the<br />
wedding of her dreams because I knew how much<br />
our wedding would mean to her. I’m glad she got<br />
everything she wanted with ease. I will be forever<br />
grateful to Union Bank for making our dreams come<br />
true!<br />
What motivated you to put in your entry for<br />
#AFreeUnion and did you think you stood a<br />
chance of winning?<br />
Kemi: I saw the post on Union Bank’s Instagram<br />
page and on BellaNaija Weddings page too. I just<br />
knew anything that comes from these two brands<br />
would be worth the while.<br />
I told Dolapo about the opportunity to get<br />
#AFreeUnion but his response was “No, that’s<br />
ridiculous, how is it even possible to plan a wedding<br />
in just four days?” I tried to convince him for three<br />
whole days, but he didn’t budge, until a day before<br />
the entries were to close. I told him that we stood a<br />
chance to get a ‘yes’ only if we applied, and that if we<br />
INTERVIEW<br />
didn’t apply, it was a 100% ‘no’. That was when he<br />
agreed to make the entry video with me.<br />
All the while, I had been following updates on<br />
#AFreeUnion on Instagram and was generally being<br />
positive about it. In fact, while I was still trying to<br />
convince him, Dolapo had asked what I wanted<br />
for Valentine’s and I’d said “Oh! Do you mean our<br />
wedding day?” He just shook his head at me. He just<br />
didn’t see this happening!<br />
There’s a common saying that ‘Luck happens<br />
when preparation meets opportunity’; would you<br />
say you were prepared for this opportunity? Did<br />
you have wedding plans in the pipeline already?<br />
Kemi: Yes, we were the lucky ones, but we were<br />
ready for this because we were engaged already<br />
and we’d had our family introduction ceremony in<br />
December, so the next thing in line for us was a<br />
wedding; even though we didn’t know how to go<br />
about it at all, especially in these tough times.<br />
Dolapo: Each time we tried discussing the<br />
wedding topic, it just always seemed impossible.<br />
We just didn’t know where to begin! But here we are<br />
today, we got the wedding of our dreams without<br />
paying a dime. Thanks to Union Bank and Bella Naija<br />
Weddings, we got the freedom to live our dreams.<br />
How did your family and friends react when<br />
they heard you’d won this once-in-a lifetime<br />
opportunity? And how did they react to hearing<br />
your wedding was happening in 3 days?<br />
Kemi: My parents did not believe me when I<br />
called them over the phone to share the news with<br />
them. My Dad kept saying, “Kemi, you mean your<br />
wedding is in three days?!” And then he’d ask in<br />
utter disbelief – “You mean we are not paying for<br />
anything?!” They were so excited! It was a little easier<br />
with Dolapo’s parents because we went to their house<br />
to share the news with them in person. Their shouts of<br />
joy and their prayers are still so fresh in our minds.<br />
On a scale of 1 – 10, how did #AFreeUnion<br />
experience align with the picture you had in mind<br />
for your dream wedding? What was running<br />
through your minds that day?<br />
Kemi: I would rate this entire experience as an<br />
11/10 if that is possible, because we got everything<br />
we wanted and even more.<br />
What did you take out from this entire<br />
experience?<br />
Dolapo: Your dreams are valid; don’t be scared<br />
to dream because anything is truly possible if you<br />
believe.<br />
So, what’s next for you both as you build your<br />
union? What other big plans are you dreaming<br />
into existence?<br />
Kemi: We are looking forward to having a happy<br />
and fulfilled marriage, living our lives to the fullest, and<br />
achieving all we want in our careers and from life in<br />
general. We will be working more on our brands; I am<br />
taking my hair brand to the next stage and looking out<br />
for collaborations that can take me to the next level.<br />
Dolapo: I also have plans to expand my fashion<br />
business, to set up a factory and showroom and<br />
increase my ability to do more. I am also open to<br />
collaborations that will support my dreams.<br />
If there’s one lesson we have learnt from this<br />
entire experience, it’s to never stop believing! Just two<br />
weeks ago, I was convinced I wanted to marry Kemi<br />
the love of my life, but I had no idea how. And today<br />
look at us!<br />
Congratulations once again!! We wish you every<br />
happiness as you begin your life together.<br />
March 7, 2021 / 5
...CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS WEEK<br />
with Adesuwa 07052403531 | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />
HANDLING MEDDLING IN-LAWS (2)<br />
S<br />
etting healthy boundaries are the<br />
foundations of any healthy<br />
relationship and the core of your<br />
self-respect. Let your significant<br />
other know what terms/<br />
boundaries you have and also give them the<br />
space they need to make their own in return. At<br />
the end of which, you both will clearly define<br />
and enforce reasonable boundaries with your<br />
respective relatives, rather than holding<br />
grudges against them. Be honest with them in<br />
a respectful, yet firm manner. Do not allow any<br />
kind of behavior or habit that you don’t want to<br />
live with for the rest of your marriage life to<br />
start.<br />
While you can’t stop your parents from<br />
trying to do what they want, calmly refusing to<br />
go along with them is a choice you must make.<br />
Refuse to be manipulated; the more you try to<br />
change their mind or behavior, the more power<br />
you give them in your life. They may test you to<br />
see if you will back down by throwing tantrums,<br />
hanging the phone on you, threatening you, or<br />
storming out of your house. It is really important you<br />
maintain your stand even if they feel offended by<br />
your healthy behaviour. It’s okay to grieve their<br />
choice, manage your hurt and move on.<br />
Sometimes, the above things are done and there<br />
will still be animosity between your spouse and your<br />
parents. Learn to let go of that idea of one big<br />
happy family, there is no need to choose between<br />
them in order to have a happy married life.<br />
Although your spouse may never want to<br />
have anything to do with your family, you<br />
can still be in contact with them, and it is<br />
okay to visit them alone.<br />
You will just have to adjust your<br />
expectations about when and how you see<br />
them, while protecting your marriage at the<br />
same time. Drop your end of the rope and<br />
stop trying to make everyone get along.<br />
Don’t force the friendship. The two parties<br />
can always change their position over time.<br />
Get to be on the same team with your<br />
spouse and know that you cannot change<br />
your family’s behavior; only your response<br />
to it. So, make sure to always give clear<br />
and united response that supports your<br />
marriage. Be careful about what is okay to<br />
share about your marriage with your<br />
parents since you know them better than<br />
any other person. Be smart not to betray<br />
your spouse’s confidence or vulnerability.<br />
Always tell them about the positive aspects<br />
of your spouse and marriage. Let their<br />
relationship be as easy as possible.<br />
Although not all in-laws are bad or<br />
created the same, learn to spot the toxic<br />
ones. The signs are not very easy<br />
to spot; though they always<br />
manifest in damaging ways. It is<br />
only when the signs are spotted on<br />
time that you can effectively put a<br />
stop to it. So, try not to make a bad<br />
situation in your marriage and limit<br />
the effect before it tears your world<br />
apart.<br />
At the end of the day, accept<br />
your man with all his flaws and<br />
qualities; take it that his family may<br />
never change. Try making things<br />
better by finding solutions and<br />
improve yourself. If all else fails,<br />
move on.<br />
purple<br />
PINK: Is associated with love and kindness. It also boosts creativity.<br />
GREY: Brings comfort and warmth. Completely versatile. Timeless and<br />
classic in lighter shades.<br />
YELLOW: It captures the joy of sunshine and it communicates<br />
happiness.<br />
BRIGHT WHITE: Brings calming effects. Makes the room feel more<br />
open and spacious.<br />
Beautiful Colour Scheme<br />
Ideas For Your Bedroom<br />
I will be the first to admit that waking up early and leaving a cozy<br />
bed isn’t always fun, but creating a bedroom that’s energizing and<br />
mood-boosting can make it a whole lot easier. Since colours and<br />
light affect our mood, there’s a strong case for a colourful bedroom.<br />
Whether you introduce these pops of colour with paint, bedding, or<br />
artwork, you’ll find something to emulate in the examples below:<br />
GREEN: Shade of green is fitting for the environment; it has a calming<br />
effect and relieves stress.<br />
BLUE: A soothing soft blue feels like a breath of fresh air when you walk<br />
into a room. It lowers blood pressure.<br />
PURPLE: Rich sophistication for darker purples. Relaxation for lighter<br />
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BLACK, as an edge: Best used in small doses as an accent. Grounds<br />
your colour scheme and gives depth.<br />
The above colours should be soft and calmer shades.<br />
COLOURS TO<br />
AVOID IN YOUR<br />
BEDROOM:<br />
*Orange is a bright<br />
colour of energy that<br />
directly contradicts the<br />
relaxing mood of your<br />
bedroom.<br />
*Pastel blue can<br />
become unpleasantly<br />
chilly on the walls,<br />
especially in a room that<br />
receives little natural<br />
light.<br />
*Red in brighter<br />
shades can be a bit too<br />
severe.
Zuzana<br />
Čaputová<br />
(Slovakia)<br />
Sahle-Work Zewde<br />
(Ethiopia)<br />
Jacinda Ardern<br />
(New Zealand)<br />
Int’l Women’s Day:<br />
When Patriarchal Leadership<br />
Is No Longer In Vogue<br />
By - Josephine Agbonkhese<br />
Tomorrow, March 8,<br />
2021, Nigeria will join<br />
the rest of the world to<br />
celebrate the annual<br />
International Women’s<br />
Day. A day set aside to celebrate<br />
women and examine progress<br />
made in specific spheres.<br />
This year’s global theme,<br />
“Women in Leadership:<br />
Achieving an Equal Future in a<br />
COVID-19 World,” celebrates the<br />
tremendous efforts by women<br />
and girls around the world in<br />
shaping a more equal future,<br />
and recovery from the COVID-19<br />
pandemic.<br />
Indeed, the exemplary<br />
efforts of women at curtailing the<br />
pandemic, as well as its effects<br />
on livelihoods since its emergence, has been<br />
nothing short of classic. Most spectacular is<br />
the exemplary leadership style of women heads<br />
of countries which, above everything, ridiculed<br />
the perceived superiority or supremacy of male<br />
leadership.<br />
Of all the countries reported and proven<br />
to have done well in tackling the pandemic,<br />
women-led countries came first even when the<br />
US, Brazil, Russia, Mexico, UK, Spain, Italy<br />
and others were still foundering. The unrivalled<br />
truthfulness of Germany’s Angela Merkel, as well<br />
as her transparent leadership style, for example,<br />
prepared her people’s minds and, accordingly,<br />
the effort resulted in the lowest of COVID-19<br />
cases and death in the entire developed world,<br />
for many months.<br />
Katrín<br />
Jakobsdóttir<br />
(Iceland)<br />
Sanna Marin<br />
(Finland)<br />
Mette Frederiksen<br />
(Denmark)<br />
Heads of Government in Denmark (Mette<br />
Frederiksen), Ethiopia (Sahle-Work Zewde),<br />
Finland (Sanna Marin), Iceland (Katrín<br />
Jakobsdóttir), New Zealand (Jacinda Ardern)<br />
and Slovakia (Zuzana Čaputová) have also been<br />
widely recognised for the rapidity, decisiveness<br />
and effectiveness of their national response<br />
to COVID-19, as well as the compassionate<br />
communication of fact-based public health<br />
information.<br />
Meanwhile, from the onset, the acclaimed<br />
Giant of Africa was also confused as to how<br />
best to tackle the pandemic. Recall Nigeria<br />
did not institute border closure and mandatory<br />
institutional quarantine and testing for international<br />
returnees to the country, until much later— March<br />
23, 2020, precisely. This is not to mention the<br />
ignorance expressed by a state governor on the<br />
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existence of COVID-19, almost one year after<br />
the virus entered Nigeria and in spite of the many<br />
evidences and deaths recorded; thereby slowing<br />
down decision-making as far as COVID-19 is<br />
concerned in that state.<br />
This, again, brings to bare the dire need for<br />
more women leaders, in all facets of our national<br />
life.<br />
Currently, women constitute a meagre 4.17<br />
per cent of those elected into public office in<br />
Nigeria. This is despite five national elections<br />
that have been held in the country since 1999.<br />
Yet, only a handful of women have ever held<br />
public office and the figures have also continued<br />
to decline.<br />
In 2003, just three percent of people elected<br />
to public office in 2003 were women. By 2007,<br />
that figure increased to about seven per cent, but<br />
declined in 2015 to 5.6 percent.<br />
This is a strange state of affairs, given that<br />
Nigeria is Africa’s most populous country and<br />
elsewhere on the continent, significant gains<br />
have been made in this area. For example,<br />
four of the world’s top 10 countries in terms of<br />
women’s political representation in parliament,<br />
can be found in sub-Saharan Africa: Rwanda,<br />
Seychelles, Senegal and South Africa.<br />
The consequences of this imbalance,<br />
however, can be clearly seen in all areas of our<br />
national life— from security breakdown to lack of<br />
transparency, indecisiveness in leadership, lack<br />
of commitment to citizen’s welfare and foundering<br />
economy.<br />
This imbalance is most pronounced when<br />
men are left to debate and legislate on matters<br />
concerning the development and<br />
livelihoods of women and girls.<br />
A classical example was<br />
when in March 2016, a<br />
female senator for Ekiti South,<br />
Abiodun Olujimi, presented a<br />
bill— the Gender and Equal<br />
Opportunity Bill— seeking<br />
gender equality and women<br />
empowerment, as well as the<br />
protection of women’s<br />
land rights, an end to<br />
gender discrimination<br />
in education and<br />
employment, and an<br />
end to gender-based<br />
violence.<br />
However, that<br />
bill was thrown out<br />
by a number of male<br />
senators in 2016 and<br />
again in 2018 on<br />
religious and cultural<br />
grounds. The same<br />
Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala<br />
bill was re-introduced in<br />
2019 and though it scaled<br />
second reading, only God<br />
knows its fate.<br />
The role of women in progressive decisionmaking<br />
cannot be undermined. Even the world<br />
recognises this and has embraced women-led<br />
leadership. As we mark this year’s International<br />
Women’s Day tomorrow, it is important to reflect<br />
on how best to address the gender-imbalance in<br />
leadership in Nigeria.<br />
If the World Trade Organisation, WTO, could,<br />
at a trying economic time such as this, entrust in<br />
the hands of a woman its leadership, in person<br />
of Nigeria’s Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, then we<br />
too must discard, as a matter of urgency, our<br />
patriarchal notion of leadership which has only<br />
succeeded in robbing us of true progress since<br />
1960.<br />
March 7, 2021 / 7
FRSC Celebrates Women-in-Uniform<br />
As the world celebrates excelling women around the<br />
globe, in commemoration of 2021 UN International Women’s<br />
Day, the Federal Road Safety Corps, Lagos State Command,<br />
in partnership with #sisterART Global Visual Arts<br />
Community, is set to host the maiden edition of WOMEN-IN-<br />
UNIFORM.<br />
Billed to hold tomorrow at the Adeyemi Bero Auditorium,<br />
Alausa Secretariat, Lagos, wife of the Lagos State Governor,<br />
Dr. Ibijoke Sanwo-Olu, will speak on this year’s theme<br />
“Women in Leadership: Achieving an equal future in a<br />
Covid-19 world,”<br />
The event, according to Chairman of the Planning<br />
Committee, Assistant Corps, Commander Emma Fekoya,<br />
Unit Commander Ikeja Command, is put together<br />
to acknowledge and appreciate the efforts of all the<br />
women working with different Military and Paramilitary<br />
organisations in Lagos.<br />
Commending the women, she said,<br />
“The gallant efforts of these women in keeping<br />
their home-front together while serving in different<br />
capacities in their various organizations especially in<br />
this era of the pandemic cannot be overemphasized.”<br />
Blessing Okagbare Makes<br />
Guinness Book of Records<br />
Nigeria’s track and field queen, Blessing<br />
Okagbare, was recently inducted into the<br />
Guinness Book of Records for the most<br />
appearances in Diamond League meetings. For<br />
the award-winning athlete who revealed this<br />
on her Facebook page, this is a dream made a<br />
reality through God’s grace and determination.<br />
The certificate reads: “The most appearances<br />
in Diamond League meetings by an athlete is<br />
67 and was achieved by Blessing Okagbare<br />
(Nigeria) between 3 July 2010 and 31 August<br />
2018”. The certificate was branded ‘OFFICIALLY<br />
AMAZING.’<br />
Okagbare, who recently set two new personal<br />
indoor records at the Doyle Sports Management<br />
Meeting, won an Olympic silver medal at the<br />
2008 Games as a 19-year-old in the Long Jump.<br />
She has also won a World Championships<br />
Silver, and is the current African record holder<br />
in the 200m and in the 4x200m with the Nigerian<br />
team.<br />
Stories by - Yemisi Suleiman<br />
Tara Fela-Durotoye<br />
Tara Fela-Durotoye and<br />
Temi Giwa-Tunbosun make<br />
LeadHERs List<br />
As part of its celebration of International<br />
Women’s Month, Facebook announced the<br />
launch of LeadHERs: Life Lessons From<br />
African Women, a collection of beautifully<br />
inspired stories and life advice from 19<br />
women who are breaking boundaries<br />
in fields such as; media, entertainment,<br />
politics, education and business.<br />
Temi Giwa-Tunbosun<br />
Among the women across Africa<br />
whose stories are being told in<br />
the book are two Nigerian women,<br />
Tara Fela-Durotoye, CEO, House of<br />
Tara International, and Temi Giwa-<br />
Tunbosun, Founder/CEO, LifeBank,<br />
a technology and logistics company<br />
based in Lagos, set up to tackle the<br />
problem of blood shortage in Nigeria.<br />
The company now also operates in<br />
Kenya and Ethiopia, has saved over<br />
14,000 lives till date. These women,<br />
among others, were selected for their<br />
ground-breaking achievements in their<br />
choosen fields.<br />
Available for free in digital and<br />
physical formats, the book provides<br />
inspirational real-life stories for future<br />
generations and young leaders is<br />
aimed at encouraging, inspiring and<br />
guiding the reader, no matter the<br />
background, age or ambition.<br />
Okonjo-Iweala breaks<br />
the norm with her<br />
style<br />
The resumption of Nigeria’s former<br />
Minister of Finance and the Economy,<br />
Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, last Monday,<br />
as the new Director-General of the<br />
World Trade Organisation, WTO,<br />
resonated across the globe.<br />
More significantly however, was<br />
her outfit at her first day at work; she<br />
ditched the formal skirt suit for the<br />
traditional Ankara skirt and blouse<br />
and her famous head tie, breaking the<br />
norm of the formal dress code.<br />
The 66-year-old who is the first<br />
woman, and the first African, to<br />
occupy the position, is fiercely patriotic<br />
with her dress sense and is famous<br />
for flaunting her African identity in her<br />
African-print tailored outfits, no matter<br />
the occasion; a divergence which<br />
signals her fashion autonomy, which<br />
has been accepted as her identity<br />
world over.