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The Parish Magazine July and August 2021

Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye since 1869

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feature — 2<br />

It began with a vicar who was<br />

willing to listen on his<br />

telephone — now there<br />

are 20,000 listeners!<br />

'In an emergency the citizen turns to the telephone<br />

<strong>and</strong> dials 999. <strong>The</strong>re ought to be an emergency number<br />

for suicidal people, I thought.' So said Chad Varah in<br />

the summer of 1953. His thought led to the founding<br />

of Samaritans, the crisis telephone service for anyone<br />

contemplating suicide.<br />

Chad's lowly stipend was barely enough to pay his<br />

secretary, so this meant he had to subsidise his income<br />

by sitting up into the early hours of the morning drawing<br />

cartoons <strong>and</strong> writing scripts. <strong>The</strong>n he was offered the<br />

incumbency of St Stephen's Church in the City of London.<br />

Now he could spend the early hours doing something about<br />

his idea for an emergency number for people considering<br />

suicide. On 2 November 1953 he took his first call <strong>and</strong><br />

Samaritans was born!<br />

Like many of today's social services, hospitals, schools<br />

<strong>and</strong> adoption agencies, that were originally started by<br />

Christians, Samaritans has become an integral part of daily<br />

life, not just for Christians, but for everyone whatever their<br />

faith — or none. <strong>The</strong>y are always there, if you need them.<br />

116 123<br />

Although Chad was a little sceptical about passing his<br />

listening ear on to volunteers, he soon discovered they<br />

were often better equipped than him to help. Today there<br />

are over 20,000 listening volunteers in 201 branches in the<br />

UK <strong>and</strong> the Republic of Irel<strong>and</strong>. Every day, they respond to<br />

about 10,000 calls for help.<br />

Chad died in Basingstoke in 2007 <strong>and</strong> left behind him a<br />

charitable organisation that today still plays a vital role in<br />

helping suicidal people who can contact volunteer listeners,<br />

anonymously, <strong>and</strong> free of charge from any l<strong>and</strong>line or<br />

mobile phone. <strong>The</strong> Samaritans' number, 116 123, will not<br />

appear on the caller's phone bill.<br />

According to Felicity Varah, Chad's daughter: '<strong>The</strong><br />

challenge now is to look to the future. As the way<br />

people choose to communicate changes over time, we<br />

need to continue to evolve, combining technology with<br />

compassion, to reach people who still so desperately need<br />

our help.'<br />

To enable this, Samaritans is investing in new<br />

communications technology such as an instant messaging<br />

service, all of which, of course, needs to be financed from<br />

donations.<br />

JULY AWARENESS MONTH<br />

To raise awareness of Samaritans <strong>and</strong> the work they<br />

do, each year they run a month long campaign in <strong>July</strong>.<br />

This year the theme is 'Talk to Us. <strong>The</strong>y are asking people<br />

to give their time for 60 seconds, creating the UK’s largest<br />

conversation. Samaritans’ branches up <strong>and</strong> down the<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>July</strong>/<strong>August</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 17<br />

Chad Varah who founded Samaritans in 1953<br />

samaritans.org<br />

country will be popping up in local towns <strong>and</strong> cities to<br />

let people know that they are there, round the clock <strong>and</strong><br />

that they provide a safe space for them to talk <strong>and</strong> be<br />

themselves.<br />

Throughout <strong>July</strong>, Samaritans is running several social<br />

media campaigns encouraging support for the work they<br />

do. People up <strong>and</strong> down the country can get involved by<br />

simply texting ‘SUPPORT’ to 70080 to make a £4 donation<br />

which is the cost to the charity of answering one call for<br />

help.<br />

A focus for the awareness month will be the 'Big Listen<br />

Day' on 24 <strong>July</strong> which aims to encourage us all to become<br />

better listeners.<br />

READING SAMARITANS<br />

<strong>The</strong> nearest Samaritans' branch to our parish is in<br />

Reading where there are 150 dedicated volunteers who<br />

all play a vital part in supporting callers — whether<br />

by phone, text, email, in person at a local branch or at<br />

community events across Berkshire.<br />

Last year Reading Samaritans answered more than<br />

40,000 calls. If you think you can help them to continue<br />

Chad's dream of being there for others in a crisis, a good<br />

starting place is to visit their website at:<br />

https://www.samaritans.org/support-us/volunteer/<br />

Anyone can contact Samaritans FREE any time<br />

from any phone on 116 123,<br />

even a mobile without credit.<br />

This number won’t show up on your phone bill.<br />

Or email: jo@samaritans.org<br />

Or visit http://www.samaritans.org

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