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Contents <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />
THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />
THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />
— New youth worker, 7<br />
— STAY, 8-9<br />
— From the organ bench, 11<br />
— Christmas Rendezvous, 11<br />
— Claude's view from the pew, 13<br />
— From the editor's desk, 13<br />
— Gaza war prayers, 15-17<br />
FEATURES<br />
— Charvil Charity's Kings Award, 19<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Epiphany, 21<br />
—around the villages<br />
— Sonning School, 22-23<br />
— Remembrance at Avery, 23<br />
— Beavers learning experiences, 24<br />
— Rotary and Camp Mohawk, 24<br />
— Sonning Art Group, 25<br />
— Charvil singing, 25<br />
— Sonning RNLI, 25<br />
— Sonning Show, 25<br />
— WI Quiz, 25<br />
— Age Concern centre reopens, 26<br />
— Raising £1,000 in Charvil, 27<br />
— Christmas wrapping, 27<br />
— Revolting children wanted, 29<br />
— Arts and Craft Fair, 29<br />
— Charity Race, 29<br />
THE ARTS<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Shofar, 30<br />
— Poetry Corner, 30<br />
HEALTH<br />
— Dr Simon Ruffle, 31-33<br />
HOME AND GARDEN<br />
— Potatoes and strawberries, 33<br />
— Clarice Cliff, 33<br />
Awareness, 34<br />
This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />
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For the first time in living<br />
memory the St Andrew's<br />
Saltire was flown on the church<br />
tower for St Andrew's Day. <strong>The</strong><br />
last time this flag was flown<br />
was 50 years ago in Cathcart<br />
Old <strong>Parish</strong> Church, Glasgow.<br />
Picture: James Gilchrist who<br />
also provided the Saltire.<br />
EDITORIAL DEADLINE<br />
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of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is 12 noon on<br />
the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />
date of publication.<br />
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issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is:<br />
Saturday 6 <strong>January</strong><br />
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YEARS<br />
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CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />
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Services at<br />
St Andrew’s<br />
Sunday 7 <strong>January</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Service<br />
— 4.00pm Choral Evensong followed<br />
by Tea in the Ark<br />
Sunday 14 <strong>January</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />
STAY and Sunday Club<br />
Sunday 21 <strong>January</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30am Family Communion<br />
— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />
—Sunday 28 <strong>January</strong><br />
— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />
— 10.30pm <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />
STAY and Sunday Club<br />
— 5.45pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />
OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />
Morning Prayer is held in church<br />
every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />
Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />
held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />
and coffee follows the service.<br />
Home Communion at Sonning<br />
Garden Care Home is held on the first<br />
Monday of each month at 11.00am.<br />
FASHION<br />
— What to do in the New Year, 35<br />
THE SCIENCES<br />
— Power, love and self-control, 36<br />
history, 37<br />
BOOK REVIEWS, 37<br />
PUZZLE PAGES, 38 - 39<br />
children's page, 41<br />
information<br />
— Church services, 3<br />
— From the registers, 3<br />
— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />
— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />
— Advertisers' index, 42<br />
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From the Registers<br />
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— Sunday 12 November, Albert John Atkins and Madeleine Lucy Scandrett
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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />
Dear Friends,<br />
I once heard about a man who decided to make only New Year<br />
resolutions he could keep. He resolved to gain weight, to stop<br />
exercising, to read less and watch more TV, to procrastinate more<br />
and to never make New Year's resolutions again.<br />
Maybe he was onto something. Why torture ourselves when we<br />
so often don’t keep those resolutions for more than a week? What<br />
we need, of course, is not another resolution, but a revolution. We<br />
need a turning point in our lives. Like the wise men of old we need<br />
to catch a glimpse of a guiding light, and we need to follow that<br />
light to a new life in Christ.<br />
GLOWING WAKE<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is a scene in the film Apollo 13 where astronaut Jim Lovell<br />
is asked if he was ever afraid. He said that he had been afraid many<br />
times, but one time sticks out in his memory. He was returning<br />
from a combat mission and couldn't find his aircraft carrier. It was<br />
dark, and because they were under combat conditions, the carrier<br />
didn't have its lights on. His radio navigation equipment was of no use because they were under total<br />
radio silence to avoid enemy detection. In a last attempt to determine his location, he turned on his<br />
map light to see if he could calculate his position. Suddenly an electrical short circuit caused all of<br />
the lights to go out. It was then that he saw it. In the darkness, there was a luminescent glow. It was<br />
the glow of sea plankton that is generated by the wake of a ship as it passes through. All he had to do<br />
was follow this glowing sea plankton, like a 'highway' to the ship. He said, 'You don't know what will<br />
transpire to lead you home. If the map light had not shorted out, I would never have seen the glowing<br />
wake.'<br />
MEANING, PURPOSE AND DIRECTION<br />
This is the season of Epiphany. We celebrate this as the time when the wise men followed the star<br />
that led them to where the young child lay. It reminds us of the light Christ brought into the world.<br />
Christ has given us power over sin and death. Christ tells us who we are: 'Children of God and only he<br />
can give us meaning, purpose and direction'.<br />
In 1992 a friend of mine attended the Olympics in Spain. He told me that as he entered the<br />
stadium for the closing ceremony, he was given a packet of items, including a torch. After a thrilling<br />
programme, including Placido Domingo, all the lights were extinguished, and a hush moved over the<br />
vast audience. <strong>The</strong> entire stadium then began to be lit up as thousands of spectators turned on their<br />
individual torches. He described the scene as one of darkness to light, not because one person flipped a<br />
switch on some giant stadium floodlights, but because each member of the audience played their part<br />
by turning on their tiny, individual lights. It was a poignant and powerful moment that he told me he<br />
would never forget.<br />
For Christians that is surely our purpose in the New Year. As Jesus said to us, 'No one lights a candle<br />
and puts it under a bushel, but on a lampstand . . .' (Matthew 5:15)<br />
We are to move boldly into this New Year, because the light of Christ floods our hearts, giving us<br />
hope and wholeness, and then we are to shine our light so that others may know that the light of<br />
Christ still shines into our world. <strong>The</strong> darkness has not overcome it and never can.<br />
Happy New Year!<br />
Jamie
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When we invited Corinne, the newest member of St Andrew's children and youth ministry team, to introduce<br />
herself she was in her home country of America, so we are pleased to bring you . . .<br />
Corinne's letter from America . . .<br />
Hi everyone! My name is Corinne<br />
(pronounced 'KUH-rin') Robertson<br />
and I am the newly appointed<br />
female youth and children's worker.<br />
I am an American and traded the<br />
Rocky Mountains of Colorado for the<br />
River Kennet in Reading to be with<br />
my English husband, Matt.<br />
In 2017, I studied at the University<br />
of Oxford for six months during<br />
my undergraduate degree. I met my<br />
husband Matt while studying in<br />
Oxford.<br />
During my time there, I studied<br />
as a visiting student at the smallest<br />
college, Regent's Park, and took<br />
tutorials in food justice and political<br />
sociology.<br />
I received two degrees during<br />
my four years of study at Pacific<br />
Lutheran University, near Seattle,<br />
Washington USA, one degree in<br />
Environmental Studies and the other<br />
in Sociology.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se two degrees fostered my<br />
vocational call to care for others and<br />
our environment.<br />
LIVING INTO BELIEF<br />
I am the oldest of three, but<br />
recently gained three additional<br />
older step siblings as my mother,<br />
Amy, remarried and we formed a<br />
newly blended family.<br />
I'm grateful that my mother is an<br />
Episcopal priest and the rector of a<br />
parish in Denver, Colorado, because<br />
she is an example of living into her<br />
own beliefs and inspiring my own.<br />
I am a confirmed member of <strong>The</strong><br />
Episcopal Church — the American<br />
branch of the Anglican Communion<br />
— and look forward to broadening<br />
my faith within the Church of<br />
England.<br />
Growing up in a strong multigeneration<br />
female home, I am<br />
particularly excited about connecting<br />
with the women and girls within<br />
the parish and local schools, and to<br />
nurture the strong community that<br />
already exists here.<br />
COMMUNITY SERVICE<br />
I have a variety of experience and<br />
skills working with organisations in<br />
community service, education, and<br />
faith. I'm especially proud of the<br />
work I have done as a SEND teacher,<br />
programme assistant at a food bank,<br />
swim instructor, and childcare<br />
worker.<br />
In addition, my faith journey<br />
has been impacted by time I spent<br />
in community working and serving<br />
with <strong>The</strong> Episcopal Service Corps<br />
(Denver, Colorado, USA); Holden<br />
Village (Lake Chelan, Washington,<br />
USA); Locally Haiti (Colorado, USA<br />
& Petit-Trou-de-Nippes, Haiti); and<br />
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as a founding member of the Diocese<br />
of Colorado's youth mission trip<br />
programme (Colorado, USA).<br />
I'd welcome the opportunity to<br />
learn more about each of you and<br />
to share my interests and hobbies<br />
around cooking Mexican food,<br />
photography (including DSLR and<br />
black and white film), swimming,<br />
Hello Kitty, travel, discovering new<br />
music, and hiking.<br />
If you want to hear me go on<br />
about concert venues, ask me about<br />
Red Rocks near where I lived in<br />
Colorado. It's amazing!<br />
I feel grateful to be a part of the<br />
St Andrew's Sonning, Charvil and<br />
Sonning Eye community, and look<br />
forward to meeting many more of<br />
you as time allows!
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STAY on Sunday<br />
St Andrew's Youth<br />
<strong>The</strong> STAY on Sunday youth only met once in<br />
November as we remembered those who had given<br />
their lives in war on Sunday 12 November at the<br />
annual Remembrance service.<br />
We continued our water theme and looked at<br />
how Moses didn’t drink any water or eat any food<br />
for 40 days while he was up Mount Sinai receiving<br />
the 10 commandments from God.<br />
We thought about where else we see the number<br />
40 in the Bible and what it represents. It rained for<br />
40 days and nights when Noah built the Ark and<br />
God flooded the earth.<br />
For 40 years the Israelites wandered around in<br />
the desert before reaching the promised land.<br />
Jesus spent 40 days and nights in the<br />
wilderness, was tempted by Satan, before starting<br />
his ministry of miracles and healing.<br />
We worked out that the number 40 often<br />
represents a time of testing and trial followed by a<br />
time of blessing and fruitfulness.<br />
STAY on Sunday also gave over 10 bags of items to<br />
the Woodley Food Bank (picture right) and we used<br />
a reverse Advent calendar to help guide the things<br />
to buy. This was a great way of getting the youth<br />
to think about those who have less and those who<br />
need our love and support at this time of year.<br />
STAY at Reading Youth Event, Wycliffe Church<br />
Following the successful Reading Youth Event last June at KVFC, the Reading Youth Wo<br />
young people again for an amazing night of ‘Life’s Big Questions’ with the guys from Re<br />
from London. We also had great fun playing opening games, including; head, shoulders<br />
games master calls heads, shoulders etc, and when they shout shoes the first player to g<br />
STAY on Friday<br />
At our weekly youth club<br />
we gave the young people a<br />
suggestion box and boy, did we<br />
get some cracking ideas about<br />
what they would like to have<br />
on a Friday night . . .<br />
Floodlights, Astro pitch,<br />
go kart track and boxing ring.<br />
All we need to do is get the<br />
funding and we are sorted. I’m<br />
obviously joking!<br />
We did also get some<br />
very practical and helpful<br />
suggestions such as; timed<br />
turns on the PS5 & Xbox, a<br />
wider selection of games, more<br />
organised games by the leaders<br />
and savoury snacks at the tuck<br />
shop.<br />
We also had some final<br />
thoughts to provoke their<br />
thinking, including:<br />
'I am me. And that should be<br />
enough, it always has been<br />
enough. I was the one who didn't get tha<br />
writer. I'm a person. And a good one at t<br />
realest people get treated the worst, but<br />
you that' - Tupac
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rkers gathered their<br />
boot, a group of apologists<br />
, knees and shoes. <strong>The</strong><br />
rab the shoe wins.<br />
STAY on Monday<br />
Our bi-weekly Monday night group met on the 6<br />
and 20 of November at the young people’s homes.<br />
We continued with our STIR cards where we looked<br />
at ‘does praying make you spiritual?’ and ‘what<br />
happens after this life?’. Both these questions<br />
sparked some healthy discussions and created<br />
space for the young people to think deeper about<br />
their faith and the hope they have in Jesus Christ.<br />
STAY in Schools<br />
Our schools work continued throughout<br />
November with weekly mentoring sessions and<br />
Remembrance assemblies at the two primary<br />
schools, the Wargrave Piggott School address on<br />
Remembrance, and plenty of governor support<br />
during the latest SIAMS (School Inspection for<br />
Anglican and Methodist Schools) inspection at<br />
Charvil and Wargrave Piggott School.<br />
As you can see, we had a great time in<br />
November with the young people of the<br />
parish and beyond. Please hold the young<br />
people in your prayers as many still suffer<br />
with poor mental health and also for those in<br />
years 10 and 11 who did their mock exams.<br />
email or text me for ideas, a chat or to<br />
encourage what we are doing<br />
t. And now I do. I'm an actor, I'm a<br />
hat.' – Matthew Perry. and…'<strong>The</strong><br />
they win in the end, I can promise<br />
Westy<br />
youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />
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Why the organ is the<br />
King of Instruments<br />
By Richard Meehan, director of music, St Andrew's Church<br />
For people whose experience with keyboard instruments is<br />
mostly built around the piano, the most obvious difference is, of<br />
course, the pedals.<br />
In my teenage years, my approach to playing with pedals would be<br />
to glean a minimum of technique from my father and half a lesson<br />
from a wonderful Latin teacher named William Walls.<br />
I would apply this as best I could to the instruments and<br />
occasions when I was called on to play.<br />
I am quite sure that this involved staring intently at my feet as<br />
I improvised on film themes and pop hits of the day. Eventually,<br />
becoming more determined finally to learn the organ properly, I<br />
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conversation (picture right).<br />
Rendezvous Lunch Club is open to<br />
everyone of all ages and meets on a<br />
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From<br />
the<br />
organ<br />
bench<br />
set out in adulthood to learn proper<br />
technique, and it was natural enough<br />
to start with the pedals.<br />
Pedalboards represent the<br />
fundamental challenge of playing the<br />
organ, in that every one is different.<br />
SWELL<br />
Older pedalboards tend to be<br />
arranged in straight rows, whereas<br />
newer ones are curved, and might<br />
include a few extra notes.<br />
A short pivoting pedal, the 'swell<br />
pedal,' is usually found in the centre<br />
of the board. It controls shutters to a<br />
set of pipes kept in a box which then<br />
allows for dynamic control.<br />
One’s heart tends to sink when<br />
presented with a console built<br />
before this mechanism was widely<br />
used. This involve trying to steer<br />
an awkward lever-and-ratchet<br />
mechanism with the outside of the<br />
right leg.<br />
Not all organ benches are<br />
adjustable in their height, and this<br />
can make life difficult in reaching up<br />
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and down. It is like trying to walk<br />
and finding the floor in the wrong<br />
place.<br />
New organists tend to find that<br />
if left to their own devices, the left<br />
hand and pedals will do the same<br />
thing as each other. New players will<br />
spend many hours practising this<br />
independence.<br />
As with many things, there comes<br />
that point when one day you realise<br />
that you have been doing this skill<br />
that once felt so difficult without<br />
even realising it.<br />
One of my many stock phrases<br />
is that '<strong>The</strong> bass has been the<br />
controlling voice in western harmony<br />
since 1550'. In other words, the lowest<br />
part is fundamental to the way music<br />
gets its 'meaning'.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se musical lines, though<br />
often simple, have a very powerful<br />
effect, and the organ pedal board<br />
being given over to the vital role is<br />
just one of many ways in which it<br />
earns its nickname as the King of<br />
Instruments.<br />
Keith Nichols
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Claude's<br />
view<br />
from<br />
the<br />
pew<br />
Seeing all the Baden Powell troops in church for<br />
Remembrance Sunday reminded of my scouting days.<br />
One of my fondest memories was loading up a trek cart<br />
to transfer all our equipment to a local campsite for the<br />
weekend.<br />
<strong>The</strong> cart was about six foot square with timber cart wheels<br />
around three foot in diameter and a long handle big<br />
enough for two scout leaders to pull. This was also assisted<br />
by the scouts who would help pull the cart by ropes<br />
attached to the side of the trek cart. <strong>The</strong> ropes would be<br />
pulled over the cart in order to stop the cart from going<br />
too fast.<br />
On one memorable occasion when we were ‘braking’<br />
the cart had been moving too fast for the accompanying<br />
scouts and left the leaders struggling to stop it.<br />
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turn to the left so that the cart would run into someone’s<br />
driveway bringing it to a safe but somewhat hairy halt. I<br />
don’t think the leaders were best pleased with the scouts<br />
leaving them to it!<br />
A 1936 Scout Trek Cart<br />
On another occasion, a pal and I were tasked with<br />
taking an empty cart back to the HQ. We decided that we<br />
would push it, rather than pull it. We soon found out to<br />
our cost why the ‘pull only’ rule existed. We lost control<br />
of the cart and it ran down Prospect Street in Caversham,<br />
eventually stopping when it collided with a limousine<br />
that was parked near the junction with Church Street and<br />
Gosbrook Road.<br />
It was our good fortune that the chauffeur took pity on<br />
a couple of wayward scouts and seeing that there was no<br />
significant damage, he waved us on. I suppose the whole<br />
thing would have been very different had the cart not<br />
been empty.<br />
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When wondering what I would say in this column,<br />
an email arrived announcing the winners of the 2023<br />
National <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Awards — we had won two<br />
awards: one for the best A4 magazine and the other was<br />
the top award, the Best Overall <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />
<strong>The</strong>re has been a lot of discussion of late among church<br />
magazine editors about the demise of printed parish<br />
magazines. It is thought that their demise has been<br />
hastened by Covid when many churches turned to online<br />
'magazines', and it is thought that many are no longer being<br />
printed. <strong>The</strong>y have been 'replaced' by websites.<br />
However, my email from the competition organisers,<br />
revealed that almost 450 entries were judged. As a journalist<br />
for over 50 years it is satisfying to know that so many printed<br />
church magazines such as ours are still being printed.<br />
In reality, while websites are an amazing source of<br />
information, and hardly a day goes by without me using one<br />
to research a story, many experts tells us they will never be<br />
a replacement for the printed word. Indeed, some mental<br />
health specialists advise us to stopped staring at screens<br />
about an hour before we go to bed. Instead, they say, pick<br />
up a book, or a printed magazine, and read that. It will help<br />
your brain relax and you will enjoy a better quality sleep.<br />
AMUSING AND INSTRUCTIVE<br />
This year, our magazine clocks up 155 years of service<br />
to the parish of St Andrew's Church Sonning. In the first<br />
issue, <strong>January</strong> 1869, the founder editor, Rev Hugh Pearson<br />
explained the purpose of the magazine. He wrote: First to<br />
supply amusing and instructive reading of a general character,<br />
at the lowest possible cost. This was followed by a list of<br />
specific church related matters that would also, and still are<br />
included.<br />
Today, we abide by the objectives, and I am pleased to<br />
report that we will continue to make it available at the<br />
'lowest possible cost', namely free of charge! We can only do<br />
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PARISH NOTICEBOARD — 5<br />
This month we again consider the ongoing war between<br />
Israel and Hamas, examine the connection between<br />
Hamas and the Islamic Republic of Iran, and hear about<br />
the difficult situation of Christians in Iran and Palestine.<br />
According to the US State Department, Iran supports Hamas<br />
with funds, weapons, and training. News broadcaster CNN<br />
obtained a document from Israeli officials that purports<br />
to be evidence that in the run-up to the 7 October attacks,<br />
Iran was seeking to provide technical training that would<br />
help Hamas produce its own weaponry. CNN could not<br />
independently verify the document’s authenticity but<br />
current and former US officials said it was ‘consistent with<br />
how Iran projects power throughout the Middle East’.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Telegraph defence and foreign affairs editor, Con<br />
Coughlin, reports that Iran’s threats to set the Middle<br />
East aflame if the Israelis continued their offensive were<br />
‘bluster’. <strong>The</strong> Iranians were not forewarned of Hamas’s<br />
plans of mass murder and, says Coughlin, were ‘piqued’<br />
about that.<br />
Soon after the attacks, Iran’s UN mission denied<br />
Tehran was involved. Iranian leader Khamenei said Iran<br />
and the various Islamist terror groups have no intention<br />
in getting directly involved in the war.<br />
Coughlin’s conclusion is that without Iran provoking<br />
a wider escalation Hamas has no chance of prevailing<br />
against the Israeli Defence Force (IDF).<br />
CHRISTIAN PEOPLE<br />
In Iran, anti-Israel sentiment is taken out on Iranian<br />
Christians. Iran considers both Christianity and Israel as<br />
‘agents of western influence’ in the Middle East.<br />
Lana Silk from the organisation Transform Iran says<br />
'<strong>The</strong> government considers Christians as people who side with<br />
what they call Zionist Israel, and the Christians pay a high<br />
price for how the government feels about Israel’.<br />
Last month we reported how Christians in Gaza<br />
may choose not to openly sympathise with sentiments<br />
of Zionism expressed by Christian communities in the<br />
West. We also reported how Palestinian Christian leaders<br />
refrained from expressing sympathy for the victims of<br />
the 7 October Hamas terrorist attacks, voicing concerns<br />
and criticism after Israel’s response and focusing their<br />
condemnation on Israel’s actions in the aftermath.<br />
News organisation France 24 interviewed churchgoers<br />
in Beit Hanina, a Palestinian neighbourhood in East<br />
Jerusalem, one of whom said, ‘I’m against killing. What<br />
Hamas did was terrible and I do not support it…But it’s<br />
very complicated because the people in Gaza, they didn’t do<br />
anything…It’s a group of people called Hamas who did that.’<br />
On 7 October, Christian leaders called for ‘an<br />
immediate cessation of violence’. Away from the cameras,<br />
some churchgoers were more outspoken about Israel. <strong>The</strong><br />
violence was blamed on ‘prolonged political conflict and the<br />
lamentable absence of justice and respect for human rights.’<br />
One said, ‘<strong>The</strong>y are living in an open-air prison and are<br />
the children of terrorism from Israelis against them…<br />
<strong>The</strong>y [Israel] made them be violent…Because they were<br />
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THE persecuted church by colin bailey<br />
Gaza war: Pray for a fair and peaceful outcome<br />
POLITICAL CONFLICT<br />
An Israeli rescue team soldier hugs a young girl who saw a missile<br />
launched by Hamas terrorists explode near her house.<br />
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suffocating them.’ Israel’s reprisals ‘outraged’ many in<br />
the congregation. But they feel they cannot speak out<br />
against Israel. So a reticence to criticism works both ways.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y report ‘increasing restrictions’ by Israeli authorities<br />
as well as ‘hostility and attacks by Jews’ putting their<br />
communities at risk.<br />
Local Christians are 2% of the population of the Holy<br />
Land. ‘We are Christians, yes, and we are also Palestinians…’,<br />
said one churchgoer in Beit Hanina, ‘…it is our land and<br />
we feel the same as any Palestinian living here…We can’t<br />
believe what’s happening in Gaza. And it really hurts us to<br />
see that all the sympathy is only with the Israelis and not the<br />
Palestinians.’<br />
Speaking in the UK’s House of Lords, Lord Verdirame<br />
KC on 30 October addressed the question of ‘the test<br />
of proportionality’, considering Israel’s response to the<br />
murderous Hamas terrorist attacks. ‘It does not mean’,<br />
he said, ‘that the defensive force has to be equal to the force<br />
that was used in the attack. Proportionality means that you<br />
can use force that is proportionate to the defensive objective,<br />
which is to stop, to repel, and prevent further attacks.’<br />
'From a legal perspective, it seemed to him,' Lord<br />
Verdirame said, 'that Israel’s war aims – the destruction<br />
of Hamas’s capability – were to him consistent with<br />
proportionality in the law of self-defence given what Hamas<br />
‘says, does, has done, and continues to do.’<br />
Footage of this may be found on the Facebook account<br />
of watchdog group UN (United Nations) Watch.<br />
MASSACRE<br />
<strong>The</strong> Executive Director of UN Watch addressed the<br />
remarks by UN officials about the 1,400 people massacred<br />
by Hamas against thousands of Palestinians killed in<br />
the aftermath. Neuer dismissed this ‘Dresden defence’<br />
as he referred to it. This had been the argument of the<br />
Einstazgruppen (Nazi death squads) at the Nuremberg<br />
trials which he paraphrased as ‘we may have done these<br />
killings but you the Allies you killed civilians when you bombed<br />
Dresden and other cities’. That argument, Neuer said, was<br />
‘wholly rejected’ by the Nuremberg court. <strong>The</strong> notion that<br />
the deliberate and purposeful killing of civilians was equal to<br />
the taking of civilian lives that is undesired, unintended, and<br />
unavoidable was ‘absolutely rejected’.<br />
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PARISH NOTICEBOARD — 5<br />
Gaza war<br />
‘Those’, he said, ‘are completely two different things’. He<br />
went on, ‘<strong>The</strong> essence of civilisation is to distinguish between<br />
those two and sadly at the UN we are seeing the scandalous<br />
Dresden defence being brought up again and again – to equate<br />
the purposeful, deliberate killing of civilians, which is a crime,<br />
equating with the taking of civilian lives that is undesired,<br />
unintended, but unavoidable. That should be rejected completely.’<br />
In Iran, Christian converts must meet in house churches.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Christian underground movement is growing. This is<br />
in part due to frustration with a repressive and ‘religiouslyrooted’<br />
regime, along with targeted missionary activity.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Iranian authorities see the organised house church<br />
movement as political opposition, threatening national<br />
security. It is forbidden for Muslims in Iran to convert to<br />
other religions. Converts do not have access to registered<br />
churches.<br />
Christianity has deep roots in Iran. According to the<br />
Iranian constitution, traditional Christian groups may<br />
practise their faith and organise family law matters in their<br />
Christian community. But apostasy from Islam is forbidden<br />
and punishable by death, although this has not been codified<br />
in the Iranian penal code.<br />
Previously, and under certain conditions, the government<br />
tolerated Protestant churches where members were Muslim<br />
converts; but almost all of those churches were closed by<br />
the authorities between 2009 and 2013. <strong>The</strong> Constitution<br />
specifies the death penalty for proselytizing and attempts by<br />
non-Muslims to convert Muslims as well as for moharabeth<br />
(‘enmity against God’) and sabb-al-nibi (‘insulting the<br />
Prophet or Islam’).<br />
<strong>The</strong> constitution states Zoroastrians, Jews, and<br />
Christians (excluding converts from Islam) are the only<br />
recognised religious minorities permitted to worship and<br />
form religious societies ‘within the limits of the law’.<br />
Let us continue to pray for Christians under the<br />
repressive regime in Iran, for them to be able to meet and<br />
worship, and for the similarly small percentage of Christians<br />
in the Holy Land and for all the people there living through<br />
the ongoing conflict,<br />
References and further reading<br />
Telegraph article: Hamas has lost the war. It may yet win the peace’:<br />
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/11/19/hamas-has-lost-thewar-it-may-yet-win-the-peace/<br />
Mission Network News article:‘Iran takes anti-Israeli sentiments out<br />
on Christians’: https://www.mnnonline.org/news/iran-takes-antiisraeli-sentiments-out-on-christians/<br />
France 24 article:‘Palestinian ‘Christians mourn “suffering” in Israel-<br />
Hamas war’: https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20231017-<br />
palestinian-christians-mourn-suffering-in-israel-hamas-war<br />
US Department of State 2022 Report on International Religious<br />
Freedom: Iran: https://www.state.gov/reports/2022-report-oninternational-religious-freedom/iran/<br />
CNN article: ‘Found document suggests Iran sought to help Hamas<br />
make its own weapons ahead of attack, sources say’: https://edition.<br />
cnn.com/2023/11/14/politics/document-iran-hamas-weapons/index.<br />
html<br />
United Nations Watch on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/<br />
unitednationswatch/<br />
United Nations Watch on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/<br />
unwatch<br />
Transform Iran: www.transformiran.com<br />
Article 18 on Apostasy in Iran: https://articleeighteen.com/news/12393/<br />
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Gaza peace prayer and appeals<br />
Praying at the Wailing Wall, Jerusalem Atm2003, dreamstime.com<br />
<strong>The</strong> crisis in Israel and Gaza continues, so we are<br />
offering a list of some of the Christian UK agencies<br />
that are working in either Israel or Gaza, and who have<br />
launched appeals for help.<br />
Each appeal below has been adapted from the website of<br />
the agency concerned, and so they reflect their particular<br />
concern and emphasis. <strong>The</strong>y are in alphabetical order, but<br />
first, a prayer from Winchester Cathedral:<br />
Heavenly Father, we pray for the many people whose lives<br />
have been torn apart by conflict in Israel and Gaza.<br />
We pray especially for those who have died, those who are<br />
grieving, the injured and those now without food, shelter or<br />
medical supplies.<br />
Strengthen and support the work of all relief organisations.<br />
We pray also for those who have the power to bring peace.<br />
May they be touched by a spirit of compassion and kindness.<br />
Lord hear us as we pray in the power of your Spirit, through<br />
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.<br />
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Christian Aid Appeal<br />
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My Cancer My Choices, a local<br />
charity based in Charvil, has<br />
been awarded <strong>The</strong> King’s Award<br />
for Voluntary Service. This is the<br />
highest award a local voluntary<br />
group can receive in the UK and is<br />
equivalent to an MBE.<br />
My Cancer My Choices (MCMC)<br />
provides complementary therapies<br />
and support to people living with, and<br />
beyond, cancer throughout Berkshire.<br />
Its mission is to empower people<br />
with cancer, enabling them to make<br />
active choices to enhance their wellbeing,<br />
as they come to terms with<br />
their diagnosis.<br />
Specialist therapists volunteer<br />
their time to offer a range of one-toone<br />
therapies — acupuncture, scar<br />
tissue, aromatherapy and oncology<br />
massage, art therapy, reiki and<br />
reflexology — and group therapies<br />
such as mindfulness and yoga. <strong>The</strong>se<br />
help manage the side effects of<br />
conventional treatment and improve<br />
mental and physical health.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se choices are offered from<br />
the time of diagnosis, and are not<br />
restricted by individual’s finances or<br />
cancer stage.<br />
<strong>The</strong> charity has 65 volunteers,<br />
with about half of them offering<br />
the therapies at four locations in<br />
Berkshire.<br />
In addition, the charity’s 'Meeter<br />
Greeter' volunteers regularly donate<br />
their time to welcome users with<br />
a cup of tea and to manage the<br />
bookings.<br />
<strong>The</strong> charity is supported by an<br />
experienced board of volunteer<br />
trustees, and a committee to raise<br />
the funds needed to run it.<br />
My Cancer My Choices’ founder,<br />
Mandy Barter, said, 'We are so<br />
proud to receive this award, which is<br />
in recognition of volunteers — both<br />
past and present — who are truly<br />
outstanding and who make a big<br />
difference supporting people with cancer<br />
in our community.<br />
'We could not deliver our service<br />
without our exceptional group of<br />
dedicated, caring, professional and hard<br />
working volunteers. This award is a<br />
wonderful acknowledgment of them.'<br />
<strong>The</strong> MCMC volunteers make a<br />
significant impact on the service<br />
user’s experience, as acknowledged<br />
by Claire Grove, who benefitted from<br />
the therapies, 'I can't stress enough<br />
how much of a difference the My Cancer<br />
My Choices volunteers make. From<br />
the greetings I got when I attended<br />
sessions, to the therapies I received, I<br />
felt embraced by everyone I met. <strong>The</strong><br />
gratitude I feel to those volunteers, as<br />
well as the ones who work behind the<br />
scenes to ensure therapy sessions are<br />
well organised and booked, and to the<br />
volunteers who fundraise for such a<br />
valuable service, is immense. <strong>The</strong>y all<br />
help make a very stressful and difficult<br />
time with cancer, more manageable.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y helped me feel more human and<br />
less like a patient.'<br />
<strong>The</strong> MCMC team also feel the<br />
benefits of donating their skills<br />
and time. 'When patients tell me how<br />
relaxed they feel after a massage or<br />
reflexology session, I know it is making a<br />
real difference to their well-being. I can’t<br />
think of any better way to use my skills<br />
and experience in oncology massage<br />
than to volunteer with My Cancer<br />
My Choices. It’s always a privilege to<br />
see the changes in patients even after<br />
one session. It is truly rewarding. As a<br />
volunteer with My Cancer My Choices,<br />
I feel recognised and supported as<br />
a valued member of the team, said<br />
Anne Thomas, an MCMC volunteer<br />
therapist.<br />
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King's Award for Charvil cancer therapy charity<br />
VOLUNTEERS<br />
REAL DIFFERENCE<br />
My Cancer My Choices was founded by<br />
Mandy Barter and Liz Lee in 2014<br />
MCMC was registered as a charity<br />
in 2015, and since then has supported<br />
over 2,000 people with cancer,<br />
delivering over 7,500 treatments and<br />
65 courses across Berkshire.<br />
Volunteers currently donate<br />
around 700 hours a month to help<br />
at the MCMC offices in Charvil,<br />
Deanwood Park (West Berks),<br />
the College of Integrated Chinese<br />
Medicine (Reading) and Bracknell<br />
Healthspace.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y also meet virtually to make<br />
the service accessible to as many<br />
people as possible.<br />
BUCKINGHAM PALACE<br />
My Cancer My Choices is one of<br />
only two organisations to receive<br />
this highly prestigious accolade in<br />
Berkshire this year. Nationally, 262<br />
local charities, social enterprises and<br />
voluntary groups around the UK will<br />
receive the award this year.<br />
Representatives of My Cancer My<br />
Choices will receive the award crystal<br />
and certificate from Andrew Try,<br />
Lord Lieutenant of Berkshire in early<br />
spring <strong>2024</strong>.<br />
Two volunteers from the charity<br />
will also be invited to attend a<br />
garden party at Buckingham Palace<br />
next summer.<br />
If you would like to support<br />
My Cancer My Choices through<br />
donations or by joining the volunteer<br />
team, there is more information at:<br />
https://www.mycancermychoices.org
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<strong>The</strong> life-changing 12th day of Christmas<br />
One thing that always strikes me<br />
about the Christmastide readings<br />
in the Bible is their briefness.<br />
Much of the traditions of Advent,<br />
Christmas and <strong>The</strong> Epiphany, such<br />
as the number of magi, their names<br />
and the time of their arrival, a<br />
description of the stable nativity<br />
scene we use, rather than an<br />
underground cave, and so on, are<br />
not found in the Bible. <strong>The</strong>y are<br />
changes and additions that add to<br />
the wonder of Christmas. Sadly,<br />
commercialism has smothered the<br />
original purpose of the 12 Days of<br />
Christmas.<br />
<strong>The</strong> visit by the magi and their<br />
'epiphany' only appears in the Gospel<br />
of Matthew. Yet God’s word in the<br />
Bible never becomes old news, there<br />
is always something fresh and new to<br />
be learned from every phrase because<br />
they are there for a good reason.<br />
Bible scholars tell us that the<br />
main purpose of Matthew’s gospel<br />
is to convince the Jewish people<br />
that Jesus is the Messiah who was<br />
promised in the ancient scriptures.<br />
It is about a Jewish King who is to<br />
save the Jewish nation. Jesus was to<br />
be the King of the Jews.<br />
Yet here, at the beginning of his<br />
book, Matthew includes the magi,<br />
wise men from the East, probably<br />
from the Persian area that today<br />
includes Iraq and Iran.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se men are clearly Gentiles,<br />
yet they had travelled great distances<br />
to worship the newborn King of the<br />
Jews.<br />
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Matthew’s Gospel, we find God<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Epiphany, or Three Kings Day, in Poland, is celebrated with spectacular parades<br />
revealing himself to be the God of<br />
all nations of the world — Jew and<br />
Gentile alike.<br />
<strong>The</strong> visit by the magi was clearly<br />
included in Matthew’s gospel for this<br />
reason, it is part of God’s revelation<br />
of his private plan for the universal<br />
church.<br />
This is one of the reasons why<br />
making time to study the Bible helps<br />
us to understand God better and so<br />
develop a stronger relationship with<br />
him.<br />
When we seek to do this with<br />
sincere determination as the magi<br />
did, we will find him. He is not<br />
hiding from us. He wants to have a<br />
closer more intimate relationship<br />
with each of us.<br />
In the UK, our Christmas<br />
celebrations officially end on the<br />
12th day, the day of <strong>The</strong> Epiphany<br />
— the word Epiphany means 'a<br />
moment when you suddenly feel that<br />
you understand, or suddenly become<br />
conscious of, something that is very<br />
important to you.'<br />
In many parts of the world<br />
the Epiphany has become a major<br />
Christian holiday celebration<br />
with grand parades and services<br />
attracting large numbers of people.<br />
Here, in the UK, it is generally<br />
a much quieter affair, with people<br />
going about their daily business of<br />
work and school as usual.<br />
YOUR SPECIAL DAY<br />
This year Epiphany officially falls<br />
on Saturday 6 <strong>January</strong>. How will you<br />
be marking this special day?<br />
If you are a committed Christian,<br />
make time to thank God for your<br />
own 'epiphany', the day that you<br />
committed yourself to becoming a<br />
follower of Jesus.<br />
If you have not yet committed<br />
your life to Jesus — or you are in<br />
need of a refresher — and would like<br />
to explore what it means to share in<br />
<strong>The</strong> Epiphany, see the Alpha course<br />
invitation on the left.<br />
Please remember, that after the<br />
magi found Jesus and worshipped<br />
him as God, they did not go back the<br />
way they came. Likewise, as we get to<br />
know Jesus and God our new way of<br />
life will be different from the old way<br />
that we leave behind us.
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AROUND THE VILLAGES — 1<br />
Community in action — part of Sonning School's<br />
personal development creative home learning<br />
<strong>The</strong> Autumn Term was filled with community events, writes head teacher, Phil<br />
Sherwood. As well as being in school, a large part of our work was completed by<br />
pupils as part of their creative home learning projects with the theme of ‘service’.<br />
Pupils conducted litter picks in our area, baked treats and held cake sales for<br />
charities, helped at local charities, visited care homes and much, much more. It was<br />
an impressive community effort and one that will help our pupils live out our vision of<br />
building strong foundations for the years ahead.<br />
Remembrance and St Andrew’s Day services<br />
Christmas in Sonning<br />
A key part of our Christmas calendar<br />
was the start of Advent and decorating<br />
our tree. Each pupil decorates their own<br />
bauble and places it on the tree as part<br />
of a big celebration assembly. We also<br />
wrote Christmas cards to our partner<br />
care homes, Signature at Caversham and<br />
Avery Sonning Gardens and delivered<br />
these before the Christmas break. We<br />
look forward to growing our links with<br />
the care homes in <strong>2024</strong>.<br />
We were grateful to welcome Rev Jamie and Richard Adams, Sonning Royal British<br />
Legion, to Sonning Primary for a special Remembrance Day service (above), while on<br />
Saint Andrew's Day (below) the school walked to St Andrew’s Church for our service,<br />
which was supported by Rev Jamie and Westy.<br />
Children In Need<br />
Being part of the<br />
national Children In<br />
Need event helped our<br />
children understand<br />
the importance of<br />
supporting others,<br />
making a difference and<br />
being part of something<br />
bigger than ourselves.<br />
We raised hundreds of<br />
pounds for Children In<br />
Need this year, and even<br />
had a visit from Pudsey!<br />
Inter Faith Week<br />
As a Church of<br />
England school, we<br />
have a Christian ethos<br />
which welcomes all<br />
religions or none. As<br />
part of celebrating<br />
diversity, we joined in<br />
with Inter Faith Week<br />
and learned about<br />
a range of different<br />
cultures and faiths<br />
within our school<br />
community.
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Ex-service men reunited at the Sonning Gardens care home Remembrance service:<br />
resident Sir Oscar Deville (seated) and (left to right) Grp Cpt Colin Pierce, president<br />
of Sonning Royal British Legion, Richard Adams, Sonning Royal British Legion<br />
standard bearer, and Julian Harman, from the Sonning Gardens maintenance team.<br />
Care Home residents remember<br />
More than 50 residents, family members and friends gathered for<br />
the annual Remembrance day service at the Sonning Gardens Care<br />
Home when they also joined in the nationwide 2 minutes silence.<br />
During the service everyone had an opportunity to remember their<br />
own loved ones who died fighting for the freedom we enjoy today.<br />
This personal act of Remembrance involved placing their poppy in a<br />
tray (see below) which was blessed and placed on a memorial table in<br />
the reception area. Poppies were also placed outside in the garden by<br />
a memorial olive tree that was planted during part of this service a<br />
few years ago. It is also an occasion when ex-service men and women<br />
enjoy being reunited to share their experiences.
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around the villages — 2<br />
Beavers enjoy local health and spirit visits<br />
1st Sonning-on-Thames Beaver Scouts have been learning health and spiritual matters from local experts. Healthy<br />
Eating was top of the agenda when they met Kate Voss. After hearing about why it’s important to eat healthily and<br />
the need to consume across different food groups, they put into action ‘eating the rainbow’ by making some fruit<br />
kebabs. Another visit was to St Andrew's Church where, as part of their Faith Badge, youth minister, Westy, help them<br />
to understand what the Christian faith is about. <strong>The</strong> Beavers currently have places available, so if you are interested in<br />
knowing more about Beavers, which meets 6-7pm on Thursdays, please contact Ann at waiting_list@sonningscouts.org.uk<br />
Rotary projector project support for Camp Mohawk<br />
<strong>The</strong> Rotary Club of Reading Maiden<br />
Erlegh (RCRME) has provided Camp<br />
Mohawk with a special projector for<br />
their sensory room.<br />
Camp Mohawk is the Woodland<br />
Trust Centre for children and<br />
young people with special needs<br />
and is situated in 5 acres of ancient<br />
woodland near Wargrave.<br />
SENSORY<br />
RCRME has a long association<br />
with Camp Mohawk and has<br />
supported it financially and with<br />
hands on help over the last 15<br />
years and often provided special<br />
equipment such as the projector<br />
which projects continually changing<br />
images onto the wall of the sensory<br />
room alongside several other images<br />
and activities for the children.<br />
It was handed over by members<br />
of the Club to Matthew Wood, the<br />
site and operations manager for<br />
the charity that provides a range of<br />
activities, facilities and natural space<br />
to encourage children with a variety<br />
Rotary Club members hand over the new projector for Camp Mohawk<br />
of special needs to play, socialise<br />
and learn in a secure and caring<br />
environment.<br />
Richard Nicholson, president of<br />
RCRME, said, ‘Camp Mohawk does a<br />
wonderful job helping children with<br />
special needs in our area and it is<br />
an absolute pleasure watching them<br />
enjoy its wonderful facilities as well<br />
as giving their parents a well-earned<br />
rest. We are always delighted at being<br />
able to help them’.
around the villages — 3<br />
Inner Wheel<br />
remembers<br />
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Chairman's Cup for poppy field<br />
On Remembrance Day, Margaret<br />
Adams, president of the Inner<br />
Wheel Club of Reading Maiden<br />
Erlegh laid a wreath at the<br />
Woodley Memorial in memory<br />
of those who made the ultimate<br />
sacrifice for the country.<br />
Inner Wheel, is a worldwide<br />
organisation for all women that<br />
was formed in Manchester between<br />
the wars and will be celebrating its<br />
Centenary this year.<br />
Stock taking<br />
Stock taking!<br />
Phil Mason<br />
Sonning Art Group's last Chairman's Cup of 2023 was won by Joan Gaines<br />
(left) who is seen receiving it from committee member, Jean Hutchinson.<br />
<strong>The</strong> cup was awarded for Joan's lovely watercolour of a field of poppies. After<br />
being closed for the Christmas season, the first <strong>2024</strong> meeting will be on<br />
Friday 5 <strong>January</strong> in Pearson Hall from 12.30pm to 3.30pm. If you would like<br />
find out more about this friendly group who welcome all artistic abilities,<br />
then go along to Pearson Hall on a Friday afternoon.<br />
<strong>2024</strong> DIARY DATES<br />
Sonning RNLI Glebe WI quiz<br />
After a successful year when Sonning<br />
branch of the RNLI, raised £5,688.73<br />
they are hoping to replicate this year by<br />
holding several more events in <strong>2024</strong>.<br />
<strong>The</strong> annual music night is on<br />
Saturday 3 February in the Pearson<br />
Hall. Tickets, £20, include a welcome<br />
drink. Take your own food. Tickets<br />
from: David Bates, 0118 969 7376<br />
<strong>The</strong> summer garden party will<br />
be on Saturday 8 June, by kind<br />
invitation of Mr and Mrs D Haldane,<br />
<strong>The</strong> Dower House, Pearson Road.<br />
It is hoped that a sea shanty<br />
evening will be held in the autumn.<br />
Sonning Show<br />
<strong>The</strong> date for next year's Sonning<br />
Village Show will be Saturday 14<br />
September. Now is your chance<br />
to get involved. If anyone has any<br />
suggestions for the classes please let<br />
Carole Collier know on 0773 405 0317<br />
Sonning Glebe WI will be holding<br />
a quiz on Saturday 17 February in<br />
Pearson Hall at at 7.30pm. Tickets<br />
are £8.50 per person, which includes<br />
a hot supper — take your own<br />
drinks. Maximum of 6 people<br />
per team or go along and be part<br />
of a team. More details from:<br />
sonningglebewi@berkshirewi.co.uk<br />
Charvil voices<br />
On Saturday 24 February, 2-4pm<br />
in Charvil Village Hall, Suzanne<br />
Newman will be running a fun<br />
singing afternoon for female voices<br />
with a medley of songs from <strong>The</strong><br />
Greatest Showman arranged for twopart<br />
choir. Songs include <strong>The</strong> Greatest<br />
Show, A Million Dreams, This is Me and<br />
Come Alive. <strong>The</strong> £12 fee includes music<br />
and light refreshments. To book:<br />
suzanneynewman@btinternet.com<br />
0118 934 0589
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around the villages — 4<br />
Twyford Age Concern Centre re-opens with<br />
new invaluable services for all the elderly<br />
<strong>The</strong> Age Concern Twyford Centre<br />
has been relaunched and is now<br />
providing a range of new services<br />
for the elderly.<br />
Over the last 25 years, the charity<br />
has supported hundreds of local<br />
members and their families. Through<br />
the generosity of local suppliers and<br />
charities, they have been able to<br />
update the Twyford Centre with new<br />
lighting, new chairs, new window<br />
blinds and a fresh lick of paint. And<br />
they have introduced a range of new<br />
services, including the Anne Greaves<br />
fully-equipped salon to provide<br />
hairdressing and chiropody, and an<br />
evening meals take home service.<br />
COMPANIONSHIP<br />
‘We are delighted to be able to<br />
provide these invaluable services<br />
and companionship in the heart of<br />
our local community,' said Patrick<br />
Heather, chairman of the board of<br />
trustees.<br />
'<strong>The</strong> new evening take home meal<br />
service for members attending the<br />
same day, is proving very popular',<br />
he said.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Anne Greaves Salon was<br />
officially opened by the Rt Hon<br />
<strong>The</strong>resa May, Member of Parliament<br />
for Maidenhead.<br />
NEW MANAGER<br />
A new centre manager, Alan<br />
Boyle, has been appointed and as<br />
well as the day-to-day running,<br />
he is responsible for developing<br />
relationships with Age Concern<br />
partners and the local community,<br />
and increasing membership.<br />
For the last 12 years, Alan has<br />
been a director of his own company.<br />
Since starting at the centre he has<br />
implemented many new systems to<br />
move from paper based to digital.<br />
He has also introduced new<br />
services for both members and nonmembers<br />
and is now focusing on<br />
obtaining funding for a new minibus<br />
to enable them to serve more of the<br />
surrounding community.<br />
He said, ‘It’s been a pleasure to<br />
meet our members and many of our<br />
volunteers, who not only assist as carers<br />
and relief cooks, but also those who<br />
provide the much-needed transport<br />
services for our members.<br />
'We really need more of these<br />
wonderful people especially as our<br />
membership is on the increase.'<br />
‘Outside the centre,' he added, 'I<br />
have a very busy family life. My wife<br />
and I have three children whom we love<br />
spending quality time with. My wife<br />
also works in the care sector as a nurse.’<br />
Alan is supported by the<br />
long-serving care manager, Debs<br />
Heffernan and an experienced team<br />
of carers, kitchen staff, drivers and<br />
volunteers.<br />
REJUVENATING<br />
'Today,' said Alan, 'we need your<br />
help to continue developing the centre to<br />
provide the best possible facilities and<br />
reach as many local people who need our<br />
services as possible.<br />
'Your donation will contribute to one<br />
of the many projects rejuvenating our<br />
centre.<br />
'Whether it be the funding of a new<br />
WAV — Wheelchair Accessible Vehicle<br />
— to reach those less mobile, or a new<br />
kitchen to provide warming lunches to<br />
our members.<br />
'Every donation makes an impact.<br />
'We are also always looking for new<br />
volunteers to join our friendly team in<br />
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the main hall, the kitchen or as drivers<br />
to bring members to the Centre.'<br />
INDEPENDENCE<br />
Age Concern Twyford & District<br />
is a registered charity (1163722).<br />
It aims to promote and maintain<br />
independent living for elderly<br />
residents in the local community.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Centre is in Polehampton<br />
Close opposite the library. It is open<br />
Monday to Friday and offers a freshly<br />
cooked hot daily lunch, evening<br />
take home meals, seated exercises,<br />
crafts, entertainment, carer support,<br />
chiropody and hairdressing services,<br />
and are Dementia friendly.<br />
CONTACT DETAILS<br />
AGE CONCERN CONTACTS<br />
Chairman: President: Patrick Lady S Heather Watt<br />
Centre Manager: Alan Boyle<br />
Care Manager: Debs Heffernan<br />
0118 934 4040<br />
Alan@ageconcerntwyford.org.uk<br />
www.ageconcerntwyford.org.uk<br />
@AgeConcernTwyford<br />
Age Concern Twyford Centre<br />
Polehampton Close<br />
Twyford, Reading RG10 9RP
around the villages — 5<br />
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How to raise £1,000 silently in Charvil . . .<br />
Despite the sound of silence that filled Charvil Village Hall on the afternoon of 25 November when 64 players gathered<br />
for a Bridge Drive and tea held by the Inner Wheel Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh, they raised more than £1000 for<br />
<strong>The</strong> Cowshed, a local charity which provides support to people and children of all backgrounds in times of crisis.<br />
This is a special Centenary year for Inner Wheel. It was founded in the UK and is now a worldwide organisation, <strong>The</strong> local<br />
branch meets at Sonning Golf Club on the third Thursday evening of every month and welcomes new members to join in<br />
the fun, take part in activities, raise funds for charity and support the local community.<br />
https://www.innerwheelrme.org or iwcrme@gmail.com<br />
. . . after getting wrapped up for Christmas!<br />
Five members of the Inner Wheel Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh spent an afternoon happily selecting and wrapping<br />
Christmas presents for children referred to <strong>The</strong> Cowshed, a local charity which provides support to people and children<br />
of all backgrounds in times of crisis<br />
Cowshed is a compassionate and community-driven charity dedicated to providing support to individuals of all<br />
backgrounds during times of personal crisis. It offers good quality, cleaned, and ironed clothes and other essential items<br />
free of charge to those in need.
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Wanted: revolting<br />
local children!<br />
Revolting children are wanted for a fun singing and<br />
drama workshopto be held in Charvil Village Hall on<br />
Saturday 2 March!<br />
Suzanne Newman and PJ Barnes are looking for<br />
children and young people between the ages of 9 and 18<br />
years to work on a selection of songs from Matilda the<br />
Musical.<br />
<strong>The</strong> session runs from 2.oopm - 5.15pm and will<br />
end with an informal performance. <strong>The</strong>re are 20 places<br />
available at £20 per person. For more information and an<br />
application form: suzanneynewman@btinternet.com<br />
Art and Craft Fair raises over<br />
£7,000 for local charities<br />
<strong>The</strong> Rotary Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh’s recent<br />
Reading Charity Art and Craft Fair was one if its most<br />
successful ever. It raised over £7,000 for local charities.<br />
It was held at Oakview, Leighton Park at the of October<br />
when 76 artists displayed their work along with 14 craft<br />
stalls — everything having been created by local people.<br />
Over 500 people visited the event and all the exhibits<br />
were for sale with the artists donating 25% of the sales<br />
price.<br />
<strong>The</strong> café made £900, and this will be donated by Inner<br />
Wheel to <strong>The</strong> Cowshed, which provides support to local<br />
people of all backgrounds in time of personal crisis.<br />
<strong>The</strong> bulk of the other money raised will be donated<br />
to the Feeding Communities initiative with the balance<br />
being distributed to local charities by Rotary. Feeding<br />
Communities is a project locally between <strong>The</strong> Thomas<br />
Frank Foundation and Leighton Park School to help reduce<br />
food poverty by providing free chilled or frozen meals for<br />
those in need. <strong>The</strong> recipes are created to provide a highly<br />
nutritious meal using the freshest of ingredients. Rotary<br />
will be distributing over 1,000 meals locally in <strong>January</strong>.<br />
Please remember your<br />
donations for the Woodley Food<br />
Bank and place them in the box<br />
just inside St Andrew's Church.<br />
Thank you!<br />
This is a fundraising event to raise funds for the<br />
Vestry Wall at St. Andrew’s Church<br />
Charity No: 1101944
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THE ARTS<br />
Rev Michael Burgess begins a year-long series looking<br />
at great works of Christian music . . .<br />
‘Glorious the song<br />
when God’s the<br />
theme’<br />
<strong>The</strong> Shofar, or ram's horn, is one of the earliest known instruments.<br />
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Those words of the 18th century<br />
poet Christopher Smart remind us<br />
how faith and music have always<br />
gone hand in hand, faith inspiring<br />
the music and music expressing the<br />
faith. In this series we shall consider<br />
12 pieces of music inspired by the<br />
Christian faith, beginning from its<br />
roots in the Old Testament.<br />
Among the earliest references to<br />
music in the Old Testament is the<br />
Song of Moses and the Israelites,<br />
thanking God for Israel’s deliverance<br />
in Exodus.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is also the music of the<br />
shofar, the ram’s horn, proclaiming<br />
God’s jubilee in Leviticus.<br />
Hebrew music came into its own<br />
when performed in the temple. A<br />
small choir, using mostly strings<br />
and including a harp, would sing<br />
from the psalms, that incredible<br />
Poetry Corner<br />
Redeemer Revealed by Steven Rolling<br />
Matthew 2: 1-12 part. Tune: We Three Kings<br />
1. Three called Kings, they wise men were then<br />
Made their journey, travelling when<br />
Christ-child's star in the east they saw<br />
Come to worship, adore<br />
collection of 150 hymns of praise to<br />
God. All human life is found in the<br />
psalter, and inevitably they passed<br />
into Christian worship through the<br />
monastic daily office of prayer and<br />
praise. Possibly Psalm 23, <strong>The</strong> Lord is<br />
my shepherd, is the most loved psalm.<br />
THE VICAR OF DIBLEY<br />
St Francis of Assisi sang it on his<br />
way to visit the sultan.<br />
Most of us know the tune<br />
Crimond, while Howard Goodall’s<br />
setting became the theme music for<br />
<strong>The</strong> Vicar of Dibley.<br />
Leonard Bernstein’s setting of<br />
Psalm 23, the ‘Chichester Psalms,’ set<br />
six psalms in their original Hebrew<br />
for solo voice, choir and orchestra.<br />
<strong>The</strong> middle movement begins with<br />
a boy soprano, or countertenor,<br />
singing a beautiful melody to the<br />
opening words of Psalm 23.<br />
Bernstein’s melody has a bluesy,<br />
Jewish feel, and is accompanied by a<br />
harp, as we remember David playing<br />
the lyre.<br />
Suddenly the men’s voices<br />
interrupt the soloist’s song of trust<br />
with the words of Psalm 2, Why do the<br />
nations so furiously rage together?’<br />
But their outburst cannot halt<br />
the serene outpouring of the soloist<br />
which sounds out clear and strong<br />
amid the threat of war and division.<br />
<strong>The</strong> movement leaves us with<br />
the melody of Adonai ro-i in our<br />
heads and hearts, assuring us that,<br />
because the Lord is our shepherd, we<br />
need not fear, even in the darkest<br />
valley. Even when the world hurls<br />
the threats of Psalm 2 at us, God’s<br />
goodness and mercy will follow us all<br />
the days of our life.<br />
3. Precious gifts to Christ they did give<br />
Saviour, in whom all may now live<br />
Gold, frankincense, myrrh presented<br />
By star they to Him led<br />
Chorus<br />
Chorus<br />
O here be the Epiphany<br />
Christ revealed unto all, see<br />
To the Jews and to the Gentiles<br />
Here stay, contemplate a while<br />
2. Bethlehem, though you little town<br />
Noe be of an endless renown<br />
Chosen by God, in you be born<br />
His Son, redemption morn<br />
Chorus<br />
4. Guide us, Lord, that we too humbly<br />
Present gifts and selves to you, see<br />
Serving you in freedom, gladness<br />
Desiring you us bless<br />
Chorus<br />
5. Bright your light, you Light of the world<br />
At your Epiphany unfurled<br />
Sharing with others your gospel<br />
Light o’ercomes darkness all<br />
Chorus<br />
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HEALTH — 1<br />
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Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . NHS v the World?<br />
As we move into <strong>2024</strong> let’s compare our NHS in 2023 with<br />
other countries.<br />
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?<br />
Listen to any talk radio or read any newspaper and you will<br />
receive verbal diet of anecdote and sad stories. Good news is<br />
no news.<br />
Comparing our data with other, comparable countries<br />
is important as we have nothing else to compare the NHS<br />
with except our own historical data. That data shows<br />
fewer doctors and nurses, beds, CT and MRI scanners and<br />
spending per patient, falling from 2012 onwards.<br />
This links with falling spending per person in other public<br />
services. However, does this mean we’re not performing<br />
against our neighbours?<br />
Pre-COVID waiting times in the UK for common<br />
procedures were hovering in the middle and efficiency<br />
was very good because the NHS was performing well with<br />
fewer resources than other countries. Post COVID that<br />
performance has fallen. This is a direct result of the resource<br />
provision; other countries have been able to catch up.<br />
<strong>The</strong> UK is very good at protecting people from financial<br />
costs and bankruptcy through medical bills. However life<br />
expectancy and deaths are performing less well; but may I<br />
refer you to last month’s article health and wealth are linked.<br />
In saying the above is not a call for a wholesale change to<br />
the funding or running of the health service. I quote:<br />
'<strong>The</strong>re is little evidence that one particular ‘type’ of health care<br />
system or model of health care funding produces systematically<br />
better results than another. Countries predominantly try to<br />
achieve better health outcomes by improving their existing model<br />
of health care, rather than by adopting a radically different model.'<br />
— <strong>The</strong> King’s Fund June 2023.<br />
According to <strong>The</strong> Organization for Economic Cooperation<br />
and Development (OECD), in 2021 we have lower numbers of<br />
doctors and nurses than our comparator countries (19 high<br />
income nations).<br />
We have high numbers of foreign trained nurses and<br />
doctors and our wages are on the lower side.<br />
Only New Zealand and Australia are more reliant on<br />
foreign born nurses and doctors than the UK. <strong>The</strong> UK recruits<br />
little from New Zealand and Australia but 25% of foreign<br />
trained staff are from the UK in New Zealand and Australia.<br />
In 2022 we saw nurses and doctors on strike. OECD 23<br />
show that nurses wages are just lower than the average<br />
worker with France, Finland and Italy being lower. GPs<br />
in Portugal and the UK have seen their wages fall against<br />
other countries and for specialists, Belgium join the UK and<br />
Portugal in letting their wages fall.<br />
RETAINING OLDER STAFF<br />
<strong>The</strong> UK reports the highest level of over 55s leaving the<br />
UK, medical profession or stopping seeing patients in the<br />
next 1-3 years with 67%<br />
At the same time OECD shows that Britons report<br />
higher levels of anxiety, lower levels of physical activity but<br />
mid range of self reporting of obesity than the comparator<br />
countries.<br />
OTHER RESOURCES<br />
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Japan has 166.7 CT and MRI scanners per million<br />
patients, the UK has 16.1. This is a little unfair as a<br />
comparator due to the manufacturing capabilities of Japan<br />
in this area, there is even a scanner housed in a petrol station<br />
in one area!<br />
<strong>The</strong> age of our scanners is in the middle of the pack<br />
based on surveys or the major medical imaging companies,<br />
Cannon, Fujifilm, GE, Philips and Siemens.<br />
BEDS<br />
Data for 2019 shows 2.5 general beds per 1,000 people and<br />
7.3 per 100,000 intensive care beds. Only Sweden has a lower<br />
number of general hospital beds and we are 14th out of the 19<br />
countries.<br />
DRUGS<br />
Our healthcare spend on medicines is the lowest in terms<br />
of percentage of healthcare spend. We spend 9% whereas<br />
Spain spends double.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is some good news in that. <strong>The</strong> buying capacity<br />
of the NHS helps and the tight control and regulation of<br />
medicines in the UK. But the access to medicines is quite<br />
restrictive in the UK.<br />
What this translates to is that prescribing is evidence<br />
based with high rates of more cost effective medicines being<br />
prescribed, especially in antibiotic spend and appropriate<br />
use. <strong>The</strong> UK was pretty good at licensing and introducing new<br />
medicines.<br />
Now that the European Medicines Authority is now in<br />
Brussels instead of London we will see if that performance is<br />
maintained.<br />
<strong>The</strong> National Institute for Health and Care Excellence<br />
(NICE) seems to drag its heels when approving new<br />
medicines and technology, especially where patients are<br />
waiting for new advances to come through, but it does mean<br />
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FROM PAGE 31<br />
HEALTH — 2<br />
Dr Simon Ruffle<br />
writes . . .<br />
. . . NHS v the World<br />
that the we get the best ‘bang for our<br />
buck.’<br />
One area where our more frugal<br />
approach to health spending is in<br />
administration. In the USA 8.9% of<br />
health spending is administrative, it is<br />
1.9% in the UK, with Japan, Sweden,<br />
Italy, Greece, and Finland being lower.<br />
It is always an easy trope to blame<br />
the managers.<br />
Since Covid, our outcomes for<br />
potentially avoidable deaths in terms<br />
of heart attacks and stroke has<br />
fallen in comparison, our hospital<br />
admissions for Asthma and COPD is<br />
higher although we’re pretty good at<br />
managing diabetes and heart failure<br />
with a lower percentage of patients<br />
requiring admission.<br />
WHERE ARE WE LEFT?<br />
<strong>The</strong> NHS is performing okay with<br />
the level of staff equipment and<br />
finance that it has.<br />
Reform of the NHS has been<br />
constant with 2012 being a massive<br />
(behind the scenes) shake up.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se reforms and austerity had<br />
not left the NHS in a stable position to<br />
cope with the Covid crisis and we have<br />
seen our performance levels fall since<br />
then as there was no ‘reserve.’<br />
Ask any business, it is people that<br />
are the most important components<br />
for a successful business.<br />
While we lose our professionals,<br />
replace them with cheaper less<br />
qualified people, allow our estates and<br />
equipment to age we cannot expect<br />
a recovery in patient experience and<br />
performance but the Kings Fund and<br />
OECD show us we are not spending<br />
enough per patient despite the overall<br />
spending being higher now than it<br />
was in 2010.<br />
THE CHALLENGE<br />
<strong>The</strong> health secretary’s challenge is<br />
enormous but looking to change our<br />
systems or add new styles of health<br />
provision form other models is not<br />
the way forward until we supply the<br />
scanners, staff and resources to the<br />
cost effective system we have already.<br />
HOME AND GARDEN<br />
Strawberries provide 100% of the<br />
recommended daily vitamin C<br />
amount in a single cup serving, and<br />
they also contain heart-healthy<br />
nutrients such as folate, potassium,<br />
fibre, phytosterols and polyphenols.<br />
A recent study has found that<br />
eating about eight of them a day for<br />
3 months can improve your mood,<br />
help your memory, and lower any<br />
symptoms of depression. <strong>The</strong> study<br />
was carried out at the University of<br />
Cincinnati’s Academic Health Centre.<br />
Perhaps it is the things that you<br />
eat with your strawberries that need<br />
your attention?<br />
Potatoes have also been a target<br />
of the 'anti-carb' brigade for probably<br />
long enough. An affordable staple<br />
food for centuries, they have fallen<br />
out of favour in recent times, amid<br />
the trend for low-carb diets.<br />
'<strong>The</strong> humble potato has been given<br />
a bad rap,' says Dr Duane Mellor,<br />
If you like colourful ceramics such as this lily vase,<br />
then you are probably familiar with the work of<br />
Clarice Cliff. Her glowingly vibrant plates, cups,<br />
teapots, and vases are world famous – and still loved.<br />
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Don't forget to include<br />
potatoes and strawberries in<br />
your garden plans for <strong>2024</strong>!<br />
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Strawberries and potatoes are probably better for you than you think, so<br />
don't forget to included them in your garden this year.<br />
a senior teaching fellow at Aston<br />
Medical School in Birmingham.<br />
'<strong>The</strong> truth is that potatoes contain<br />
a lot of vitamins and other nutrients<br />
that are important for good health.'<br />
he added.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se include vitamin C, vitamin<br />
B6, potassium, and choline.<br />
Potatoes also contain fibre,<br />
including resistant starch. This helps<br />
to feed the gut bacteria, which in turn<br />
has a wide range of health benefits.<br />
Both the skin and the flesh of<br />
potatoes are good for you. <strong>The</strong> skin<br />
provides fibre, and the flesh contains<br />
most of the vitamins and minerals.<br />
So, the healthiest way to cook<br />
potatoes is to boil or bake them in<br />
their skins.<br />
And like strawberries, it is<br />
probably the 'extras' such as butter<br />
and oil that you need to be more<br />
mindful about?<br />
Does Clarice Cliff have a place in your home?<br />
Clarice was born 125 years ago this month, on 20<br />
<strong>January</strong> 1899, in Tunstall, Stoke-on-Trent. Her father<br />
worked in an iron foundry, and her mother washed clothes to help feed their<br />
seven children. Clarice left school at 13 to work in the potteries, a job she<br />
enjoyed so much that, at 17, she joined A J Wilkinson in Newport, Burslem, to<br />
gain more experience. Soon she was modelling figurines and vases, keeping<br />
pattern books, and learning to hand-paint ware. She died in 1972 and some of<br />
her work can demand very high prices. <strong>The</strong> world record for a piece of Clarice<br />
Cliff is held by Christie’s in London, who in 2004 sold an 18-inch ‘charger’ in the<br />
May Avenue pattern for £39,500.<br />
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AWARENESS<br />
Are you aware of what you should be doing?<br />
Hardly a day goes by now that<br />
has not been claimed by someone<br />
as a special 'awareness' day.<br />
Many of them are for really good<br />
causes, while some are simply<br />
excuses to market and sell<br />
products and services, Here is<br />
a selection of some of the more<br />
worthy awareness days, weeks<br />
and month, and we have included<br />
some of the more traditional<br />
days when the Church celebrates<br />
a Saint or remembers religious<br />
events . . .<br />
DRY JANUARY<br />
Dry <strong>January</strong> is an annual health<br />
campaign that encourages people to<br />
abstain from alcohol for the entire<br />
month of <strong>January</strong>.<br />
Alcohol abuse affects a huge<br />
number of families. According to<br />
the NHS, 7.5 million people in the<br />
UK have an alcohol problem.<br />
Dry <strong>January</strong> is a voluntary<br />
challenge that has gained<br />
popularity worldwide as individuals<br />
commit to starting the New<br />
Year with a fresh, alcohol-free<br />
perspective.<br />
VEGANUARY WORKPLACE<br />
CHALLENGE MONTH<br />
This is a 31-day pledge that<br />
encourages work forces to try being<br />
vegan for the month of <strong>January</strong>.<br />
Staff are challenged to eat a purely<br />
plant-based diet for one month, but<br />
there is no reason why you can’t join<br />
in on your own at home!<br />
OTHER JANUARY MONTHS<br />
Here are some other <strong>January</strong><br />
Awareness months that you can<br />
find out more about on the internet:<br />
National Blood Donor Month,<br />
Cervical Health Awareness Month,<br />
Mental Wellness Month, and<br />
Poverty Awareness Month.<br />
WORLD BRAILLE DAY<br />
THURSDAY 4 JANUARY<br />
Created by the United Nations,<br />
World Braille Day has been<br />
celebrated since 2019. Its objective<br />
is to raise awareness of the<br />
importance of Braille as a means<br />
of communication in the full<br />
Thursday 4 <strong>January</strong> is World Braille Day<br />
realization of the human rights for<br />
blind and partially sighted people.<br />
Thursday 4 <strong>January</strong> is the birthday of<br />
Braille's inventor, Louis Braille. His<br />
gift brightens the lives of millions<br />
of people who are blind or visually<br />
impaired, and they benefit from his<br />
work every day.<br />
THE EPIPHANY 6 JANUARY<br />
A day celebrated by thousands of<br />
Christians around the world, while<br />
many churches will also celebrate it<br />
in their regular Sunday services the<br />
next day. (See page 19).<br />
BREW MONDAY 15 <strong>January</strong><br />
On Brew Monday Samaritans remind<br />
us to reach out for a cup of tea and<br />
a catch-up with the people we care<br />
about. <strong>The</strong> third Monday in <strong>January</strong><br />
is sometimes referred to as ‘the most<br />
difficult day of the year’. Samaritans<br />
say this is a myth and there is no<br />
such thing as ‘Blue Monday’ – we all<br />
have our good days and our bad days,<br />
and those aren’t for the calendar<br />
to decide. <strong>The</strong>ir answer is to have a<br />
conversation over a brew – and they<br />
add that you can do this any day of<br />
the week or the year!<br />
ST FRANCIS DE SALES<br />
24 JANUARY<br />
St Francis de Sales, ‘the Gentleman<br />
Saint’, is remembered in both Roman<br />
Catholic and Church of England<br />
churches on 24 <strong>January</strong>. He was born<br />
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on 21 August 1567 and died in Lyon<br />
on 28 December 1622, aged 55 years.<br />
He is known as ‘the Gentleman<br />
Saint’ because of his great patience<br />
and gentleness.<br />
He the patron of writers and<br />
journalists because of his extensive<br />
use of broadsheets and books in<br />
spiritual direction and in his efforts<br />
to convert the Calvinists of the<br />
region. He also developed a sign<br />
language to teach a deaf man about<br />
God, hence is also the patron saint of<br />
the deaf.<br />
BIG GARDEN BIRD WATCH<br />
26—28 JANUARY<br />
This is the UK’s largest garden<br />
wildlife survey. It was first held<br />
in 1979, and every year, around<br />
700,000 people take part. It is easy.<br />
You simply watch the birds in your<br />
garden or local park for one hour,<br />
record and report what you see. Find<br />
out more: https://www.rspb.org.uk/<br />
whats-happening/big-garden-birdwatch<br />
HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL DAY<br />
27 JANUARY<br />
Between 1941 and 1945, six million<br />
Jewish men, women and children<br />
were murdered by the Nazis and their<br />
collaborators. <strong>The</strong>ir attempt to murder<br />
all the Jews in Europe shook the<br />
foundations of civilisation. <strong>The</strong> day is<br />
also used to remember the genocides<br />
which followed in Cambodia, Rwanda,<br />
Bosnia, and Darfur.
FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />
Happy New Year everyone! <strong>The</strong><br />
New Year brings resolutions, and<br />
for fashion, this can be a fun way to<br />
refresh your style and wardrobe.<br />
How about trying new trends,<br />
decluttering your wardrobe, or<br />
experimenting with different<br />
accessories?<br />
When it comes to New Year's<br />
resolutions, sometimes, we set out too<br />
ambitious or unrealistic tasks, making<br />
it harder to stick to them.<br />
Start with small, achievable goals<br />
you can build upon over time and feel<br />
great about.<br />
If you are looking for fashion-related<br />
New Year's challenges to kickstart<br />
your year, here are a few resolutions to<br />
partake in this year.<br />
How about a resolution for shopping<br />
your own wardrobe?<br />
Most of us will have clothes in our<br />
wardrobes that we don't use, or they've<br />
only been worn a couple of times before<br />
they're hung up and forgotten about.<br />
LOST TREASURES<br />
<strong>The</strong>re's no time like the present<br />
to switch this up. Searching into the<br />
depths of your wardrobes to find these<br />
lost treasures you have forgotten about<br />
is a refreshing discovery that can<br />
inspire you to create a new outfit with<br />
these lost items.<br />
Declutter your wardrobe and take<br />
some time to go through your clothes<br />
and get rid of items that you no longer<br />
wear or love. It'll help you create a more<br />
organized and curated wardrobe. Set<br />
yourself the task this year of having<br />
fun with what you wear, trying to<br />
incorporate new and old clothing items,<br />
and creating new outfits you love with<br />
the clothes you already have at home.<br />
You'll save money and be a part of the<br />
sustainable and vintage trend that<br />
keeps returning to fashion.<br />
Experiment with colours and go<br />
bold with your clothing choices this<br />
year! Another resolution could be to<br />
try and incorporate more vibrant and<br />
bold colours into your outfits. For the<br />
next 12 months, set yourself the task<br />
of having fun with what you wear. You<br />
don't have to follow the crowd with<br />
trends, but create your own styles! It<br />
would be boring if we all wore the same<br />
outfits daily. Make yourself unique and<br />
find a style that is all yours. Find your<br />
fashion and show it off, whether that's<br />
patterns or colours. <strong>The</strong>re are no rules<br />
other than simply wearing what feels<br />
right to you at the right moment.<br />
Another resolution could be to shop<br />
more sustainably by opting for ecofriendly<br />
and ethical brands. Whether<br />
it's making or clothing brands, there<br />
are so many sustainable options in the<br />
market for you to try.<br />
We all know that the fashion<br />
empire isn't the best at being ethical.<br />
We should always try to shop more<br />
sensibly, making the most of our<br />
current wardrobes and considering<br />
what purchases we do make.<br />
It's a wonderful way to support<br />
environmentally conscious practices<br />
and make a positive impact.<br />
TIMELESS<br />
Another resolution could be<br />
to invest in quality basic clothing.<br />
Consider investing in timeless,<br />
high-quality pieces that can be the<br />
foundation of your wardrobe.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se items will last longer and<br />
can be mixed and matched with<br />
various outfits. <strong>The</strong>se pieces will<br />
last a lifetime and will go with most<br />
outfits you already have. It could be<br />
purchasing some staple pieces that go<br />
with most outfits. For example, some<br />
Doc Martens; these boots are known<br />
for lasting forever and go with almost<br />
every outfit and style, as well as being<br />
practical outdoor footwear. Or perhaps<br />
purchase a proper woolly jumper that<br />
lasts all winter and won't go out of<br />
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Will you make a fashionable New Year resolution?<br />
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fashion and that you can wear year<br />
after year.<br />
Remember the power of accessories!<br />
Every outfit will only be complete with<br />
the perfect accessories.<br />
Make a resolution to experiment<br />
with accessories like statement<br />
jewellery, scarves, hats, or belts to<br />
elevate your outfits and add a personal<br />
touch.<br />
Jewellery is the best way to bring<br />
an outfit together. A pair of unique<br />
earrings or a simple necklace can tie<br />
your outfit together and make it look<br />
complete and well put together. You can<br />
change up your outfits in the simplest<br />
way and create new styles for the New<br />
Year. New Year, new you!<br />
What fashion resolutions will you<br />
try and commit to this year?<br />
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THE SCIENCES<br />
<strong>The</strong> science of power, love and self-control<br />
By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, Church engagement director at <strong>The</strong> Faraday Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge<br />
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It has now been four years since the<br />
Covid pandemic began to seep into<br />
Western consciousness. Dr Francis<br />
Collins, a leader in medical research<br />
in the United States, spoke early in<br />
the pandemic about his faith and his<br />
hope in God to help us through that<br />
time.<br />
He expressed the grief that so many<br />
were experiencing, and described an<br />
intensity of scientific work he had<br />
never experienced before.<br />
He also shared his conviction that<br />
he was in exactly the right place in<br />
2020 — serving God with science.<br />
Throughout the pandemic, he held<br />
on tight to the words of Paul in 2<br />
Timothy 1:7:<br />
‘For God gave us a spirit not of fear<br />
but of power and love and self-control.’<br />
POWER<br />
In 2 Timothy the apostle Paul<br />
encourages his friend to ‘fan into<br />
flame the gift of God’ that is in him.<br />
I am thankful that scientists like<br />
Francis used their own particular<br />
talents to understand this virus, and<br />
to help prevent or treat infection.<br />
<strong>The</strong> things they discovered are not<br />
just useful, but at times also display<br />
the beauty and wonder of God’s<br />
creation.<br />
LOVE<br />
Scientists show their love for God,<br />
for people and for the rest of creation<br />
through their work in the lab.<br />
One described his experiences to<br />
me: 'I study God’s fingerprints in his<br />
creation to learn more of him and<br />
the world he placed us in and to learn<br />
how we should take care of it and<br />
each other…I pray for inspiration and<br />
insight into how his creation works…<br />
and that he provides the opportunities<br />
to give the glory to him.'<br />
SELF CONTROL<br />
It is largely our own and others’<br />
selfish actions that can turn one<br />
animal’s friendly virus into our own<br />
species’ personal nightmare.<br />
Thankfully Jesus’ suffering, death<br />
and resurrection are the solution to<br />
evil.<br />
Our ultimate and certain hope<br />
is that one day all Creation will be<br />
renewed. We can also have hope<br />
that God is with us in our suffering.<br />
When we respond in positive ways<br />
to painful events, that is evidence<br />
that Jesus is alive and working in our<br />
lives.<br />
Science will not solve all our<br />
problems, but with God’s help and<br />
wisdom we can use the tools of<br />
science to serve him and love others.<br />
Jamais, Jamais,<br />
Jamais, Jamais,<br />
Jamais, Jamais,<br />
Jamais . . .<br />
Have you ever stared at a single<br />
word for so long that, suddenly,<br />
it looks very odd, and loses its<br />
meaning?<br />
It is a phenomenon known as ‘Jamais<br />
Vu’, and you can experience it if you<br />
try scribbling a single word around<br />
30 times, or for about a minute.<br />
Suddenly, it will look very peculiar.<br />
Researchers at the University of<br />
St Andrew's asked people to write out<br />
words, over and over again. About<br />
two thirds of them reported ‘Jamais<br />
Vu’, meaning ‘never seen’.<br />
One psychologist explained:<br />
'<strong>The</strong>re is something about repeatedly<br />
encountering the same word that<br />
causes your awareness of that word<br />
being a proper word to remain<br />
unchanged, while your subjective<br />
experience of encountering that<br />
word starts to go a little ‘off’.'<br />
‘Jamais Vu’ is often called a<br />
‘dissociative experience’ — where<br />
aspects of conscience experience,<br />
that normally work seamlessly<br />
together, break down.
History<br />
Was it really? . . .<br />
Hairpin bends on the Silk Road in Asia. .<br />
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. . . 700 YEARS AGO on 8 <strong>January</strong> 1324 that Marco Polo<br />
died. This Venetian/Italian merchant, explorer and writer<br />
is best known for his book <strong>The</strong> Travels of Marco Polo which<br />
detailed his travels along the Silk Road in Asia.<br />
. . . 200 YEARS AGO on 8 <strong>January</strong> 1824 that Wilkie<br />
Collins, British novelist and playwright, was born. He is<br />
best known for <strong>The</strong> Woman in White and <strong>The</strong> Moonstone,<br />
regarded as the first modern British detective novel.<br />
. . . 175 YEARS AGO on 13 <strong>January</strong> 1849 that the Colony<br />
of Vancouver Island was established. It became part of<br />
Canada in 1871.<br />
. . . 150 YEARS AGO on 25 <strong>January</strong> 1874 that Somerset<br />
Maugham, British playwright, novelist and short story<br />
writer, was born.<br />
. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 20 <strong>January</strong> 1899 that Clarice Cliff,<br />
British ceramic artist, was born.<br />
. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 21 <strong>January</strong> 1924 that Vladimir<br />
Lenin, Russian Communist leader, died. He was the<br />
architect and first head of the Soviet Union.<br />
. . . ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 22 <strong>January</strong> 1924 that<br />
Ramsay MacDonald became Britain’s first Labour Prime<br />
Minister.<br />
. . . 80 YEARS AGO from 17 <strong>January</strong> to 18 May 1944 that<br />
the WWII Battle of Monte Cassino, Italy, took place.<br />
This Allied victory is regarded as the hardest-fought<br />
and bloodiest battle of the war, with around 250,000<br />
casualties.<br />
. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 10 Jan 1949 that RCA launched<br />
the 7-inch 45-rpm vinyl record, commonly known as the<br />
single.<br />
. . . 60 YEARS AGO on 11 <strong>January</strong> 1964 that the US<br />
Surgeon General published a report which concluded<br />
that cigarette smoking caused lung cancer and chronic<br />
bronchitis. This was the first official US government<br />
report on the health issues of smoking.<br />
. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>January</strong> 1999 that the Euro officially<br />
became the new currency in 11 European countries.<br />
BOOK REVIEWS<br />
Sunday - A History of<br />
Religious Affairs through 50<br />
Years of Conversations and<br />
Controversies<br />
By Edward Stourton, SPCK £29.99<br />
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Radio 4 listeners are familiar with<br />
Edward Stourton of BBC Radio<br />
4's Sunday programme. Here he<br />
chronicles over 50 years of current<br />
affairs on Sunday, in collaboration<br />
with BBC Producer Amanda Hancox. Sunday has crossexamined<br />
guests on everything from the Church's answer<br />
to the cost-of-living crisis, to the debate around female<br />
bishops; from the abuse within the Catholic Church, to the<br />
new wave of anti-Semitism. Not to mention the evolving<br />
debates on pertinent issues such sexuality, bioethics,<br />
nuclear weapons, and many more!<br />
Edward Stourton provides critical reflections on how<br />
religion has impacted some of the world's most epochmaking<br />
moments. <strong>The</strong> book also includes interviews<br />
with well-known leaders such as Desmond Tutu, Rabbi<br />
Jonathan Sacks and Enoch Powell.<br />
Sunday lies at the intersection of ethics, politics,<br />
and religion. It has featured hundreds of stimulating<br />
discussions, and is a testament to how religion remains a<br />
powerful force in the lives of most people, whether of faith<br />
or non-believers.<br />
Brighter Days - 12 Steps<br />
to Strengthening Your<br />
Wellbeing<br />
By Patrick Regan, SPCK £12.99<br />
<strong>The</strong> demands of modern living<br />
take their toll on all of us. Yet we<br />
can feel as though we’re the only<br />
ones who are weary, overwhelmed,<br />
or anxious. <strong>The</strong> truth is that we<br />
all have days where life feels too<br />
much. So this book is packed full of<br />
practical tips, on how to invest in your emotional, mental,<br />
physical and spiritual health, so that you can look forward<br />
to a healthier and more hopeful future.<br />
God Never Gives Up on You<br />
— What Jacob's Story Teaches<br />
Us About Grace, Mercy, and<br />
God's Relentless Love<br />
By Max Lucado, 10Publishing £11.30<br />
Ever wonder if you’ve gone wrong<br />
too many times for God to use<br />
someone like you?<br />
This is a book for members of<br />
the Lost Halo Society – for the<br />
strugglers among us and the<br />
fumbler within us. We are all of us part saint, part<br />
scoundrel. We mean well, but we don’t always do well. We<br />
have breakthroughs and breakdowns, often in the same<br />
hour. We need no reminder of our failures, but we could<br />
always use a refresher course on God’s perfect plan.
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PUZZLE PAGE — 1<br />
BIBLE CROSSWORD<br />
ACROSS<br />
1 Paul said the wrath of God ‘is being revealed from heaven’<br />
against this (Romans 1:18) (11)<br />
9 Go smite (anag.) (7) 10 ‘But — I have risen, I will go ahead<br />
of you into Galilee’(Matthew 26:32) (5)<br />
11 ‘Take and —; this is my body’ (Matthew 26:26) (3) 13 Type (2<br />
<strong>The</strong>ssalonians 2:10) (4)<br />
16 ‘Woe to those who — iniquity’ (Micah 2:1) (4)<br />
17 ‘How shall we — if we ignore such a great salvation?’<br />
(Hebrews 2:3) (6)<br />
18 Opposite of evens (4)<br />
20 Previously cited (Latin) (4)<br />
21 ‘<strong>The</strong>re is surely — — of God in this place, and they will kill<br />
me because of my wife’ (Genesis 20:11) (2,4)<br />
22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>The</strong>ssalonians were warned to keep away from every<br />
brother who was this (2 <strong>The</strong>ssalonians 3:6) (4)<br />
23 Beat (anag.) (4)<br />
25 To trouble or afflict (Job 16:3) (3)<br />
28 Part of a roof (1 Kings 7:9) (5)<br />
29 Attain (Job 5:12) (7)<br />
30 Insect noted for its gymnastic ability (Psalm 78:46) (11)<br />
DOWN<br />
2 Smell (John 11:39) (5)<br />
3 Lion’s home (Jeremiah 25:38) (4)<br />
4 ‘Jesus Christ is the — yesterday and today and for ever’<br />
(Hebrews 13:8) (4)<br />
5 Tidy (4)<br />
6 Made their home (Genesis 47:27) (7)<br />
7 <strong>The</strong>ir task was to carry the curtains of the tabernacle<br />
(Numbers 4:25–26) (11)<br />
8 Timothy’s was called Lois (2 Timothy 1:5) (11)<br />
12 <strong>The</strong> Lover likened the fragrance of the Beloved’s breath to<br />
these (Song of Songs 7:8) (6)<br />
14 Times Educational Supplement (1,1,1)<br />
15 Eight-tentacled sea creatures (6)<br />
19 ‘And lead us not into temptation, but — us from the evil<br />
one’(Matthew 6:13) (7)<br />
20 D.L. Moody’s legendary song leader, — D. Sankey (3)<br />
24 Rarely used musical note (5)<br />
25 ‘Your will be done on earth — it — in heaven’ (Matthew 6:10)<br />
(2,2)<br />
26 and 27 ‘<strong>The</strong> Lord Almighty will — them with a — , as when<br />
he struck down Midian at the rock of Oreb’ (Isaiah 10:26) (4,4)<br />
27 See 26 Down<br />
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that the unused letters in the grid spell out a relevant<br />
verse from the Good News Bible. You might even manage<br />
to identify the verse. Good luck, and God Bless!<br />
Write your answers here . . .<br />
ANSWERS TO LAST MONTH'S FOOTBALL VERSE SEARCH<br />
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Solutions<br />
Wise Men and St Paul meet Jesus<br />
<strong>The</strong> Wise Men and St Paul were both<br />
on trips when they first encountered<br />
Jesus, but how different those trips were!<br />
<strong>The</strong> Wise Men, whom we remember<br />
on Epiphany (6 Jan) were seeking the<br />
One for whom the Star shone, and<br />
came to Bethlehem to worship him. St<br />
Paul, whose conversion we remember<br />
this month (26 Jan), was on his way to<br />
Damascus, seeking to kill those who<br />
worshipped Jesus. When the Wise<br />
Men encountered the Baby Jesus, they<br />
worshipped Him and gave Him gifts of<br />
gold, frankincense and myrrh. When<br />
St Paul, the proud, fanatical Pharisee,<br />
encountered Jesus, he fell blinded on<br />
the road, and then worshipped Him by<br />
giving Him the rest of his life. St Paul<br />
endured years of suffering and hardships<br />
in his work as the great apostle to the<br />
Gentiles. His mighty faith in Christ has<br />
kindled similar belief in many hundreds<br />
of millions of people down the centuries.<br />
CONVERSION<br />
SUFFERING<br />
ENCOUNTER<br />
SEEKING<br />
APOSTLE<br />
BLINDED<br />
KILL<br />
BABY<br />
WISE<br />
MEN<br />
TRIPS<br />
PAUL<br />
JESUS<br />
DIFFERENT<br />
EPIPHANY<br />
BETHLEHEM<br />
GIFTS<br />
GOLD<br />
PROUD<br />
ROAD<br />
SHONE<br />
STAR<br />
CROSSWORD<br />
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L I C U H N O<br />
O N E R O U S A N V I L<br />
R C S I R E D<br />
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F O U G H T T N<br />
I A P O S J<br />
C M O C E A N U<br />
A V A I L L G L A B<br />
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