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BEST PARISH MAGAZINE 2023<br />

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Serving Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye<br />

<strong>2024</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> John King Trophy and Gold Award<br />

Best <strong>Magazine</strong> of the Year 2018<br />

National <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Awards<br />

Best Overall 2015, 2020, 2022, 2023<br />

Best Content 2016, 2021<br />

Best Editor 2019<br />

Best Print 2018<br />

Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869<br />

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Church of St Andrew<br />

Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye<br />

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CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY


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Contents <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— New youth worker, 7<br />

— STAY, 8-9<br />

— From the organ bench, 11<br />

— Christmas Rendezvous, 11<br />

— Claude's view from the pew, 13<br />

— From the editor's desk, 13<br />

— Gaza war prayers, 15-17<br />

FEATURES<br />

— Charvil Charity's Kings Award, 19<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Epiphany, 21<br />

—around the villages<br />

— Sonning School, 22-23<br />

— Remembrance at Avery, 23<br />

— Beavers learning experiences, 24<br />

— Rotary and Camp Mohawk, 24<br />

— Sonning Art Group, 25<br />

— Charvil singing, 25<br />

— Sonning RNLI, 25<br />

— Sonning Show, 25<br />

— WI Quiz, 25<br />

— Age Concern centre reopens, 26<br />

— Raising £1,000 in Charvil, 27<br />

— Christmas wrapping, 27<br />

— Revolting children wanted, 29<br />

— Arts and Craft Fair, 29<br />

— Charity Race, 29<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Shofar, 30<br />

— Poetry Corner, 30<br />

HEALTH<br />

— Dr Simon Ruffle, 31-33<br />

HOME AND GARDEN<br />

— Potatoes and strawberries, 33<br />

— Clarice Cliff, 33<br />

Awareness, 34<br />

This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />

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<strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong> — <strong>The</strong> Epiphany<br />

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For the first time in living<br />

memory the St Andrew's<br />

Saltire was flown on the church<br />

tower for St Andrew's Day. <strong>The</strong><br />

last time this flag was flown<br />

was 50 years ago in Cathcart<br />

Old <strong>Parish</strong> Church, Glasgow.<br />

Picture: James Gilchrist who<br />

also provided the Saltire.<br />

EDITORIAL DEADLINE<br />

<strong>The</strong> editorial deadline for every issue<br />

of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is 12 noon on<br />

the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />

date of publication.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deadline for the February<br />

issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is:<br />

Saturday 6 <strong>January</strong><br />

at 12 noon<br />

YEARS<br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

BEST PARISH MAGAZINE 2023<br />

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Services at<br />

St Andrew’s<br />

Sunday 7 <strong>January</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Service<br />

— 4.00pm Choral Evensong followed<br />

by Tea in the Ark<br />

Sunday 14 <strong>January</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

Sunday 21 <strong>January</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

— 3.00pm Messy Church<br />

—Sunday 28 <strong>January</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30pm <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist with<br />

STAY and Sunday Club<br />

— 5.45pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />

Morning Prayer is held in church<br />

every Tuesday at 9.30am.<br />

Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />

held every Wednesday at 10.00am. Tea<br />

and coffee follows the service.<br />

Home Communion at Sonning<br />

Garden Care Home is held on the first<br />

Monday of each month at 11.00am.<br />

FASHION<br />

— What to do in the New Year, 35<br />

THE SCIENCES<br />

— Power, love and self-control, 36<br />

history, 37<br />

BOOK REVIEWS, 37<br />

PUZZLE PAGES, 38 - 39<br />

children's page, 41<br />

information<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— Local Trades and Services, 40<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers' index, 42<br />

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If you wish to view these archives<br />

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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

I once heard about a man who decided to make only New Year<br />

resolutions he could keep. He resolved to gain weight, to stop<br />

exercising, to read less and watch more TV, to procrastinate more<br />

and to never make New Year's resolutions again.<br />

Maybe he was onto something. Why torture ourselves when we<br />

so often don’t keep those resolutions for more than a week? What<br />

we need, of course, is not another resolution, but a revolution. We<br />

need a turning point in our lives. Like the wise men of old we need<br />

to catch a glimpse of a guiding light, and we need to follow that<br />

light to a new life in Christ.<br />

GLOWING WAKE<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is a scene in the film Apollo 13 where astronaut Jim Lovell<br />

is asked if he was ever afraid. He said that he had been afraid many<br />

times, but one time sticks out in his memory. He was returning<br />

from a combat mission and couldn't find his aircraft carrier. It was<br />

dark, and because they were under combat conditions, the carrier<br />

didn't have its lights on. His radio navigation equipment was of no use because they were under total<br />

radio silence to avoid enemy detection. In a last attempt to determine his location, he turned on his<br />

map light to see if he could calculate his position. Suddenly an electrical short circuit caused all of<br />

the lights to go out. It was then that he saw it. In the darkness, there was a luminescent glow. It was<br />

the glow of sea plankton that is generated by the wake of a ship as it passes through. All he had to do<br />

was follow this glowing sea plankton, like a 'highway' to the ship. He said, 'You don't know what will<br />

transpire to lead you home. If the map light had not shorted out, I would never have seen the glowing<br />

wake.'<br />

MEANING, PURPOSE AND DIRECTION<br />

This is the season of Epiphany. We celebrate this as the time when the wise men followed the star<br />

that led them to where the young child lay. It reminds us of the light Christ brought into the world.<br />

Christ has given us power over sin and death. Christ tells us who we are: 'Children of God and only he<br />

can give us meaning, purpose and direction'.<br />

In 1992 a friend of mine attended the Olympics in Spain. He told me that as he entered the<br />

stadium for the closing ceremony, he was given a packet of items, including a torch. After a thrilling<br />

programme, including Placido Domingo, all the lights were extinguished, and a hush moved over the<br />

vast audience. <strong>The</strong> entire stadium then began to be lit up as thousands of spectators turned on their<br />

individual torches. He described the scene as one of darkness to light, not because one person flipped a<br />

switch on some giant stadium floodlights, but because each member of the audience played their part<br />

by turning on their tiny, individual lights. It was a poignant and powerful moment that he told me he<br />

would never forget.<br />

For Christians that is surely our purpose in the New Year. As Jesus said to us, 'No one lights a candle<br />

and puts it under a bushel, but on a lampstand . . .' (Matthew 5:15)<br />

We are to move boldly into this New Year, because the light of Christ floods our hearts, giving us<br />

hope and wholeness, and then we are to shine our light so that others may know that the light of<br />

Christ still shines into our world. <strong>The</strong> darkness has not overcome it and never can.<br />

Happy New Year!<br />

Jamie


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When we invited Corinne, the newest member of St Andrew's children and youth ministry team, to introduce<br />

herself she was in her home country of America, so we are pleased to bring you . . .<br />

Corinne's letter from America . . .<br />

Hi everyone! My name is Corinne<br />

(pronounced 'KUH-rin') Robertson<br />

and I am the newly appointed<br />

female youth and children's worker.<br />

I am an American and traded the<br />

Rocky Mountains of Colorado for the<br />

River Kennet in Reading to be with<br />

my English husband, Matt.<br />

In 2017, I studied at the University<br />

of Oxford for six months during<br />

my undergraduate degree. I met my<br />

husband Matt while studying in<br />

Oxford.<br />

During my time there, I studied<br />

as a visiting student at the smallest<br />

college, Regent's Park, and took<br />

tutorials in food justice and political<br />

sociology.<br />

I received two degrees during<br />

my four years of study at Pacific<br />

Lutheran University, near Seattle,<br />

Washington USA, one degree in<br />

Environmental Studies and the other<br />

in Sociology.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se two degrees fostered my<br />

vocational call to care for others and<br />

our environment.<br />

LIVING INTO BELIEF<br />

I am the oldest of three, but<br />

recently gained three additional<br />

older step siblings as my mother,<br />

Amy, remarried and we formed a<br />

newly blended family.<br />

I'm grateful that my mother is an<br />

Episcopal priest and the rector of a<br />

parish in Denver, Colorado, because<br />

she is an example of living into her<br />

own beliefs and inspiring my own.<br />

I am a confirmed member of <strong>The</strong><br />

Episcopal Church — the American<br />

branch of the Anglican Communion<br />

— and look forward to broadening<br />

my faith within the Church of<br />

England.<br />

Growing up in a strong multigeneration<br />

female home, I am<br />

particularly excited about connecting<br />

with the women and girls within<br />

the parish and local schools, and to<br />

nurture the strong community that<br />

already exists here.<br />

COMMUNITY SERVICE<br />

I have a variety of experience and<br />

skills working with organisations in<br />

community service, education, and<br />

faith. I'm especially proud of the<br />

work I have done as a SEND teacher,<br />

programme assistant at a food bank,<br />

swim instructor, and childcare<br />

worker.<br />

In addition, my faith journey<br />

has been impacted by time I spent<br />

in community working and serving<br />

with <strong>The</strong> Episcopal Service Corps<br />

(Denver, Colorado, USA); Holden<br />

Village (Lake Chelan, Washington,<br />

USA); Locally Haiti (Colorado, USA<br />

& Petit-Trou-de-Nippes, Haiti); and<br />

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as a founding member of the Diocese<br />

of Colorado's youth mission trip<br />

programme (Colorado, USA).<br />

I'd welcome the opportunity to<br />

learn more about each of you and<br />

to share my interests and hobbies<br />

around cooking Mexican food,<br />

photography (including DSLR and<br />

black and white film), swimming,<br />

Hello Kitty, travel, discovering new<br />

music, and hiking.<br />

If you want to hear me go on<br />

about concert venues, ask me about<br />

Red Rocks near where I lived in<br />

Colorado. It's amazing!<br />

I feel grateful to be a part of the<br />

St Andrew's Sonning, Charvil and<br />

Sonning Eye community, and look<br />

forward to meeting many more of<br />

you as time allows!


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the parish noticeboard — 2<br />

STAY on Sunday<br />

St Andrew's Youth<br />

<strong>The</strong> STAY on Sunday youth only met once in<br />

November as we remembered those who had given<br />

their lives in war on Sunday 12 November at the<br />

annual Remembrance service.<br />

We continued our water theme and looked at<br />

how Moses didn’t drink any water or eat any food<br />

for 40 days while he was up Mount Sinai receiving<br />

the 10 commandments from God.<br />

We thought about where else we see the number<br />

40 in the Bible and what it represents. It rained for<br />

40 days and nights when Noah built the Ark and<br />

God flooded the earth.<br />

For 40 years the Israelites wandered around in<br />

the desert before reaching the promised land.<br />

Jesus spent 40 days and nights in the<br />

wilderness, was tempted by Satan, before starting<br />

his ministry of miracles and healing.<br />

We worked out that the number 40 often<br />

represents a time of testing and trial followed by a<br />

time of blessing and fruitfulness.<br />

STAY on Sunday also gave over 10 bags of items to<br />

the Woodley Food Bank (picture right) and we used<br />

a reverse Advent calendar to help guide the things<br />

to buy. This was a great way of getting the youth<br />

to think about those who have less and those who<br />

need our love and support at this time of year.<br />

STAY at Reading Youth Event, Wycliffe Church<br />

Following the successful Reading Youth Event last June at KVFC, the Reading Youth Wo<br />

young people again for an amazing night of ‘Life’s Big Questions’ with the guys from Re<br />

from London. We also had great fun playing opening games, including; head, shoulders<br />

games master calls heads, shoulders etc, and when they shout shoes the first player to g<br />

STAY on Friday<br />

At our weekly youth club<br />

we gave the young people a<br />

suggestion box and boy, did we<br />

get some cracking ideas about<br />

what they would like to have<br />

on a Friday night . . .<br />

Floodlights, Astro pitch,<br />

go kart track and boxing ring.<br />

All we need to do is get the<br />

funding and we are sorted. I’m<br />

obviously joking!<br />

We did also get some<br />

very practical and helpful<br />

suggestions such as; timed<br />

turns on the PS5 & Xbox, a<br />

wider selection of games, more<br />

organised games by the leaders<br />

and savoury snacks at the tuck<br />

shop.<br />

We also had some final<br />

thoughts to provoke their<br />

thinking, including:<br />

'I am me. And that should be<br />

enough, it always has been<br />

enough. I was the one who didn't get tha<br />

writer. I'm a person. And a good one at t<br />

realest people get treated the worst, but<br />

you that' - Tupac


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rkers gathered their<br />

boot, a group of apologists<br />

, knees and shoes. <strong>The</strong><br />

rab the shoe wins.<br />

STAY on Monday<br />

Our bi-weekly Monday night group met on the 6<br />

and 20 of November at the young people’s homes.<br />

We continued with our STIR cards where we looked<br />

at ‘does praying make you spiritual?’ and ‘what<br />

happens after this life?’. Both these questions<br />

sparked some healthy discussions and created<br />

space for the young people to think deeper about<br />

their faith and the hope they have in Jesus Christ.<br />

STAY in Schools<br />

Our schools work continued throughout<br />

November with weekly mentoring sessions and<br />

Remembrance assemblies at the two primary<br />

schools, the Wargrave Piggott School address on<br />

Remembrance, and plenty of governor support<br />

during the latest SIAMS (School Inspection for<br />

Anglican and Methodist Schools) inspection at<br />

Charvil and Wargrave Piggott School.<br />

As you can see, we had a great time in<br />

November with the young people of the<br />

parish and beyond. Please hold the young<br />

people in your prayers as many still suffer<br />

with poor mental health and also for those in<br />

years 10 and 11 who did their mock exams.<br />

email or text me for ideas, a chat or to<br />

encourage what we are doing<br />

t. And now I do. I'm an actor, I'm a<br />

hat.' – Matthew Perry. and…'<strong>The</strong><br />

they win in the end, I can promise<br />

Westy<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

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Why the organ is the<br />

King of Instruments<br />

By Richard Meehan, director of music, St Andrew's Church<br />

For people whose experience with keyboard instruments is<br />

mostly built around the piano, the most obvious difference is, of<br />

course, the pedals.<br />

In my teenage years, my approach to playing with pedals would be<br />

to glean a minimum of technique from my father and half a lesson<br />

from a wonderful Latin teacher named William Walls.<br />

I would apply this as best I could to the instruments and<br />

occasions when I was called on to play.<br />

I am quite sure that this involved staring intently at my feet as<br />

I improvised on film themes and pop hits of the day. Eventually,<br />

becoming more determined finally to learn the organ properly, I<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Rendezvous Christmas lunch<br />

proved to be as popular as ever and<br />

was enjoyed by all. A traditional<br />

Christmas meal was followed by<br />

carol singing and lots of friendly<br />

conversation (picture right).<br />

Rendezvous Lunch Club is open to<br />

everyone of all ages and meets on a<br />

Tuesday twice a month in <strong>The</strong> Ark at<br />

12 noon. <strong>The</strong> <strong>January</strong> lunches are on<br />

9th and 23th. All you need to do is<br />

book your seat in advance by calling<br />

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From<br />

the<br />

organ<br />

bench<br />

set out in adulthood to learn proper<br />

technique, and it was natural enough<br />

to start with the pedals.<br />

Pedalboards represent the<br />

fundamental challenge of playing the<br />

organ, in that every one is different.<br />

SWELL<br />

Older pedalboards tend to be<br />

arranged in straight rows, whereas<br />

newer ones are curved, and might<br />

include a few extra notes.<br />

A short pivoting pedal, the 'swell<br />

pedal,' is usually found in the centre<br />

of the board. It controls shutters to a<br />

set of pipes kept in a box which then<br />

allows for dynamic control.<br />

One’s heart tends to sink when<br />

presented with a console built<br />

before this mechanism was widely<br />

used. This involve trying to steer<br />

an awkward lever-and-ratchet<br />

mechanism with the outside of the<br />

right leg.<br />

Not all organ benches are<br />

adjustable in their height, and this<br />

can make life difficult in reaching up<br />

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and down. It is like trying to walk<br />

and finding the floor in the wrong<br />

place.<br />

New organists tend to find that<br />

if left to their own devices, the left<br />

hand and pedals will do the same<br />

thing as each other. New players will<br />

spend many hours practising this<br />

independence.<br />

As with many things, there comes<br />

that point when one day you realise<br />

that you have been doing this skill<br />

that once felt so difficult without<br />

even realising it.<br />

One of my many stock phrases<br />

is that '<strong>The</strong> bass has been the<br />

controlling voice in western harmony<br />

since 1550'. In other words, the lowest<br />

part is fundamental to the way music<br />

gets its 'meaning'.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se musical lines, though<br />

often simple, have a very powerful<br />

effect, and the organ pedal board<br />

being given over to the vital role is<br />

just one of many ways in which it<br />

earns its nickname as the King of<br />

Instruments.<br />

Keith Nichols


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Claude's<br />

view<br />

from<br />

the<br />

pew<br />

Seeing all the Baden Powell troops in church for<br />

Remembrance Sunday reminded of my scouting days.<br />

One of my fondest memories was loading up a trek cart<br />

to transfer all our equipment to a local campsite for the<br />

weekend.<br />

<strong>The</strong> cart was about six foot square with timber cart wheels<br />

around three foot in diameter and a long handle big<br />

enough for two scout leaders to pull. This was also assisted<br />

by the scouts who would help pull the cart by ropes<br />

attached to the side of the trek cart. <strong>The</strong> ropes would be<br />

pulled over the cart in order to stop the cart from going<br />

too fast.<br />

On one memorable occasion when we were ‘braking’<br />

the cart had been moving too fast for the accompanying<br />

scouts and left the leaders struggling to stop it.<br />

<strong>The</strong> situation was only resolved by applying a sharp<br />

turn to the left so that the cart would run into someone’s<br />

driveway bringing it to a safe but somewhat hairy halt. I<br />

don’t think the leaders were best pleased with the scouts<br />

leaving them to it!<br />

A 1936 Scout Trek Cart<br />

On another occasion, a pal and I were tasked with<br />

taking an empty cart back to the HQ. We decided that we<br />

would push it, rather than pull it. We soon found out to<br />

our cost why the ‘pull only’ rule existed. We lost control<br />

of the cart and it ran down Prospect Street in Caversham,<br />

eventually stopping when it collided with a limousine<br />

that was parked near the junction with Church Street and<br />

Gosbrook Road.<br />

It was our good fortune that the chauffeur took pity on<br />

a couple of wayward scouts and seeing that there was no<br />

significant damage, he waved us on. I suppose the whole<br />

thing would have been very different had the cart not<br />

been empty.<br />

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When wondering what I would say in this column,<br />

an email arrived announcing the winners of the 2023<br />

National <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Awards — we had won two<br />

awards: one for the best A4 magazine and the other was<br />

the top award, the Best Overall <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re has been a lot of discussion of late among church<br />

magazine editors about the demise of printed parish<br />

magazines. It is thought that their demise has been<br />

hastened by Covid when many churches turned to online<br />

'magazines', and it is thought that many are no longer being<br />

printed. <strong>The</strong>y have been 'replaced' by websites.<br />

However, my email from the competition organisers,<br />

revealed that almost 450 entries were judged. As a journalist<br />

for over 50 years it is satisfying to know that so many printed<br />

church magazines such as ours are still being printed.<br />

In reality, while websites are an amazing source of<br />

information, and hardly a day goes by without me using one<br />

to research a story, many experts tells us they will never be<br />

a replacement for the printed word. Indeed, some mental<br />

health specialists advise us to stopped staring at screens<br />

about an hour before we go to bed. Instead, they say, pick<br />

up a book, or a printed magazine, and read that. It will help<br />

your brain relax and you will enjoy a better quality sleep.<br />

AMUSING AND INSTRUCTIVE<br />

This year, our magazine clocks up 155 years of service<br />

to the parish of St Andrew's Church Sonning. In the first<br />

issue, <strong>January</strong> 1869, the founder editor, Rev Hugh Pearson<br />

explained the purpose of the magazine. He wrote: First to<br />

supply amusing and instructive reading of a general character,<br />

at the lowest possible cost. This was followed by a list of<br />

specific church related matters that would also, and still are<br />

included.<br />

Today, we abide by the objectives, and I am pleased to<br />

report that we will continue to make it available at the<br />

'lowest possible cost', namely free of charge! We can only do<br />

this, of course, if we are funded by local people, companies<br />

and businesses who are willing to advertise.<br />

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and if you are a reader, we ask that you support our<br />

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advert in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. And, of course, we hope that<br />

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— Our youth ministry; especially for Westy and Corinne<br />

— For all blighted by terrorism, especially in the Holy Land<br />

— For the Jewish community in this area<br />

— For Rev Kate Toogood as she<br />

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PARISH NOTICEBOARD — 5<br />

This month we again consider the ongoing war between<br />

Israel and Hamas, examine the connection between<br />

Hamas and the Islamic Republic of Iran, and hear about<br />

the difficult situation of Christians in Iran and Palestine.<br />

According to the US State Department, Iran supports Hamas<br />

with funds, weapons, and training. News broadcaster CNN<br />

obtained a document from Israeli officials that purports<br />

to be evidence that in the run-up to the 7 October attacks,<br />

Iran was seeking to provide technical training that would<br />

help Hamas produce its own weaponry. CNN could not<br />

independently verify the document’s authenticity but<br />

current and former US officials said it was ‘consistent with<br />

how Iran projects power throughout the Middle East’.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Telegraph defence and foreign affairs editor, Con<br />

Coughlin, reports that Iran’s threats to set the Middle<br />

East aflame if the Israelis continued their offensive were<br />

‘bluster’. <strong>The</strong> Iranians were not forewarned of Hamas’s<br />

plans of mass murder and, says Coughlin, were ‘piqued’<br />

about that.<br />

Soon after the attacks, Iran’s UN mission denied<br />

Tehran was involved. Iranian leader Khamenei said Iran<br />

and the various Islamist terror groups have no intention<br />

in getting directly involved in the war.<br />

Coughlin’s conclusion is that without Iran provoking<br />

a wider escalation Hamas has no chance of prevailing<br />

against the Israeli Defence Force (IDF).<br />

CHRISTIAN PEOPLE<br />

In Iran, anti-Israel sentiment is taken out on Iranian<br />

Christians. Iran considers both Christianity and Israel as<br />

‘agents of western influence’ in the Middle East.<br />

Lana Silk from the organisation Transform Iran says<br />

'<strong>The</strong> government considers Christians as people who side with<br />

what they call Zionist Israel, and the Christians pay a high<br />

price for how the government feels about Israel’.<br />

Last month we reported how Christians in Gaza<br />

may choose not to openly sympathise with sentiments<br />

of Zionism expressed by Christian communities in the<br />

West. We also reported how Palestinian Christian leaders<br />

refrained from expressing sympathy for the victims of<br />

the 7 October Hamas terrorist attacks, voicing concerns<br />

and criticism after Israel’s response and focusing their<br />

condemnation on Israel’s actions in the aftermath.<br />

News organisation France 24 interviewed churchgoers<br />

in Beit Hanina, a Palestinian neighbourhood in East<br />

Jerusalem, one of whom said, ‘I’m against killing. What<br />

Hamas did was terrible and I do not support it…But it’s<br />

very complicated because the people in Gaza, they didn’t do<br />

anything…It’s a group of people called Hamas who did that.’<br />

On 7 October, Christian leaders called for ‘an<br />

immediate cessation of violence’. Away from the cameras,<br />

some churchgoers were more outspoken about Israel. <strong>The</strong><br />

violence was blamed on ‘prolonged political conflict and the<br />

lamentable absence of justice and respect for human rights.’<br />

One said, ‘<strong>The</strong>y are living in an open-air prison and are<br />

the children of terrorism from Israelis against them…<br />

<strong>The</strong>y [Israel] made them be violent…Because they were<br />

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THE persecuted church by colin bailey<br />

Gaza war: Pray for a fair and peaceful outcome<br />

POLITICAL CONFLICT<br />

An Israeli rescue team soldier hugs a young girl who saw a missile<br />

launched by Hamas terrorists explode near her house.<br />

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suffocating them.’ Israel’s reprisals ‘outraged’ many in<br />

the congregation. But they feel they cannot speak out<br />

against Israel. So a reticence to criticism works both ways.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y report ‘increasing restrictions’ by Israeli authorities<br />

as well as ‘hostility and attacks by Jews’ putting their<br />

communities at risk.<br />

Local Christians are 2% of the population of the Holy<br />

Land. ‘We are Christians, yes, and we are also Palestinians…’,<br />

said one churchgoer in Beit Hanina, ‘…it is our land and<br />

we feel the same as any Palestinian living here…We can’t<br />

believe what’s happening in Gaza. And it really hurts us to<br />

see that all the sympathy is only with the Israelis and not the<br />

Palestinians.’<br />

Speaking in the UK’s House of Lords, Lord Verdirame<br />

KC on 30 October addressed the question of ‘the test<br />

of proportionality’, considering Israel’s response to the<br />

murderous Hamas terrorist attacks. ‘It does not mean’,<br />

he said, ‘that the defensive force has to be equal to the force<br />

that was used in the attack. Proportionality means that you<br />

can use force that is proportionate to the defensive objective,<br />

which is to stop, to repel, and prevent further attacks.’<br />

'From a legal perspective, it seemed to him,' Lord<br />

Verdirame said, 'that Israel’s war aims – the destruction<br />

of Hamas’s capability – were to him consistent with<br />

proportionality in the law of self-defence given what Hamas<br />

‘says, does, has done, and continues to do.’<br />

Footage of this may be found on the Facebook account<br />

of watchdog group UN (United Nations) Watch.<br />

MASSACRE<br />

<strong>The</strong> Executive Director of UN Watch addressed the<br />

remarks by UN officials about the 1,400 people massacred<br />

by Hamas against thousands of Palestinians killed in<br />

the aftermath. Neuer dismissed this ‘Dresden defence’<br />

as he referred to it. This had been the argument of the<br />

Einstazgruppen (Nazi death squads) at the Nuremberg<br />

trials which he paraphrased as ‘we may have done these<br />

killings but you the Allies you killed civilians when you bombed<br />

Dresden and other cities’. That argument, Neuer said, was<br />

‘wholly rejected’ by the Nuremberg court. <strong>The</strong> notion that<br />

the deliberate and purposeful killing of civilians was equal to<br />

the taking of civilian lives that is undesired, unintended, and<br />

unavoidable was ‘absolutely rejected’.<br />

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PARISH NOTICEBOARD — 5<br />

Gaza war<br />

‘Those’, he said, ‘are completely two different things’. He<br />

went on, ‘<strong>The</strong> essence of civilisation is to distinguish between<br />

those two and sadly at the UN we are seeing the scandalous<br />

Dresden defence being brought up again and again – to equate<br />

the purposeful, deliberate killing of civilians, which is a crime,<br />

equating with the taking of civilian lives that is undesired,<br />

unintended, but unavoidable. That should be rejected completely.’<br />

In Iran, Christian converts must meet in house churches.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Christian underground movement is growing. This is<br />

in part due to frustration with a repressive and ‘religiouslyrooted’<br />

regime, along with targeted missionary activity.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Iranian authorities see the organised house church<br />

movement as political opposition, threatening national<br />

security. It is forbidden for Muslims in Iran to convert to<br />

other religions. Converts do not have access to registered<br />

churches.<br />

Christianity has deep roots in Iran. According to the<br />

Iranian constitution, traditional Christian groups may<br />

practise their faith and organise family law matters in their<br />

Christian community. But apostasy from Islam is forbidden<br />

and punishable by death, although this has not been codified<br />

in the Iranian penal code.<br />

Previously, and under certain conditions, the government<br />

tolerated Protestant churches where members were Muslim<br />

converts; but almost all of those churches were closed by<br />

the authorities between 2009 and 2013. <strong>The</strong> Constitution<br />

specifies the death penalty for proselytizing and attempts by<br />

non-Muslims to convert Muslims as well as for moharabeth<br />

(‘enmity against God’) and sabb-al-nibi (‘insulting the<br />

Prophet or Islam’).<br />

<strong>The</strong> constitution states Zoroastrians, Jews, and<br />

Christians (excluding converts from Islam) are the only<br />

recognised religious minorities permitted to worship and<br />

form religious societies ‘within the limits of the law’.<br />

Let us continue to pray for Christians under the<br />

repressive regime in Iran, for them to be able to meet and<br />

worship, and for the similarly small percentage of Christians<br />

in the Holy Land and for all the people there living through<br />

the ongoing conflict,<br />

References and further reading<br />

Telegraph article: Hamas has lost the war. It may yet win the peace’:<br />

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/11/19/hamas-has-lost-thewar-it-may-yet-win-the-peace/<br />

Mission Network News article:‘Iran takes anti-Israeli sentiments out<br />

on Christians’: https://www.mnnonline.org/news/iran-takes-antiisraeli-sentiments-out-on-christians/<br />

France 24 article:‘Palestinian ‘Christians mourn “suffering” in Israel-<br />

Hamas war’: https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20231017-<br />

palestinian-christians-mourn-suffering-in-israel-hamas-war<br />

US Department of State 2022 Report on International Religious<br />

Freedom: Iran: https://www.state.gov/reports/2022-report-oninternational-religious-freedom/iran/<br />

CNN article: ‘Found document suggests Iran sought to help Hamas<br />

make its own weapons ahead of attack, sources say’: https://edition.<br />

cnn.com/2023/11/14/politics/document-iran-hamas-weapons/index.<br />

html<br />

United Nations Watch on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/<br />

unitednationswatch/<br />

United Nations Watch on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/<br />

unwatch<br />

Transform Iran: www.transformiran.com<br />

Article 18 on Apostasy in Iran: https://articleeighteen.com/news/12393/<br />

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Gaza peace prayer and appeals<br />

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<strong>The</strong> crisis in Israel and Gaza continues, so we are<br />

offering a list of some of the Christian UK agencies<br />

that are working in either Israel or Gaza, and who have<br />

launched appeals for help.<br />

Each appeal below has been adapted from the website of<br />

the agency concerned, and so they reflect their particular<br />

concern and emphasis. <strong>The</strong>y are in alphabetical order, but<br />

first, a prayer from Winchester Cathedral:<br />

Heavenly Father, we pray for the many people whose lives<br />

have been torn apart by conflict in Israel and Gaza.<br />

We pray especially for those who have died, those who are<br />

grieving, the injured and those now without food, shelter or<br />

medical supplies.<br />

Strengthen and support the work of all relief organisations.<br />

We pray also for those who have the power to bring peace.<br />

May they be touched by a spirit of compassion and kindness.<br />

Lord hear us as we pray in the power of your Spirit, through<br />

Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.<br />

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to: https://www.worldvision.org.uk/emergencies/middle-eastappeal/#donate


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My Cancer My Choices, a local<br />

charity based in Charvil, has<br />

been awarded <strong>The</strong> King’s Award<br />

for Voluntary Service. This is the<br />

highest award a local voluntary<br />

group can receive in the UK and is<br />

equivalent to an MBE.<br />

My Cancer My Choices (MCMC)<br />

provides complementary therapies<br />

and support to people living with, and<br />

beyond, cancer throughout Berkshire.<br />

Its mission is to empower people<br />

with cancer, enabling them to make<br />

active choices to enhance their wellbeing,<br />

as they come to terms with<br />

their diagnosis.<br />

Specialist therapists volunteer<br />

their time to offer a range of one-toone<br />

therapies — acupuncture, scar<br />

tissue, aromatherapy and oncology<br />

massage, art therapy, reiki and<br />

reflexology — and group therapies<br />

such as mindfulness and yoga. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

help manage the side effects of<br />

conventional treatment and improve<br />

mental and physical health.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se choices are offered from<br />

the time of diagnosis, and are not<br />

restricted by individual’s finances or<br />

cancer stage.<br />

<strong>The</strong> charity has 65 volunteers,<br />

with about half of them offering<br />

the therapies at four locations in<br />

Berkshire.<br />

In addition, the charity’s 'Meeter<br />

Greeter' volunteers regularly donate<br />

their time to welcome users with<br />

a cup of tea and to manage the<br />

bookings.<br />

<strong>The</strong> charity is supported by an<br />

experienced board of volunteer<br />

trustees, and a committee to raise<br />

the funds needed to run it.<br />

My Cancer My Choices’ founder,<br />

Mandy Barter, said, 'We are so<br />

proud to receive this award, which is<br />

in recognition of volunteers — both<br />

past and present — who are truly<br />

outstanding and who make a big<br />

difference supporting people with cancer<br />

in our community.<br />

'We could not deliver our service<br />

without our exceptional group of<br />

dedicated, caring, professional and hard<br />

working volunteers. This award is a<br />

wonderful acknowledgment of them.'<br />

<strong>The</strong> MCMC volunteers make a<br />

significant impact on the service<br />

user’s experience, as acknowledged<br />

by Claire Grove, who benefitted from<br />

the therapies, 'I can't stress enough<br />

how much of a difference the My Cancer<br />

My Choices volunteers make. From<br />

the greetings I got when I attended<br />

sessions, to the therapies I received, I<br />

felt embraced by everyone I met. <strong>The</strong><br />

gratitude I feel to those volunteers, as<br />

well as the ones who work behind the<br />

scenes to ensure therapy sessions are<br />

well organised and booked, and to the<br />

volunteers who fundraise for such a<br />

valuable service, is immense. <strong>The</strong>y all<br />

help make a very stressful and difficult<br />

time with cancer, more manageable.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y helped me feel more human and<br />

less like a patient.'<br />

<strong>The</strong> MCMC team also feel the<br />

benefits of donating their skills<br />

and time. 'When patients tell me how<br />

relaxed they feel after a massage or<br />

reflexology session, I know it is making a<br />

real difference to their well-being. I can’t<br />

think of any better way to use my skills<br />

and experience in oncology massage<br />

than to volunteer with My Cancer<br />

My Choices. It’s always a privilege to<br />

see the changes in patients even after<br />

one session. It is truly rewarding. As a<br />

volunteer with My Cancer My Choices,<br />

I feel recognised and supported as<br />

a valued member of the team, said<br />

Anne Thomas, an MCMC volunteer<br />

therapist.<br />

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King's Award for Charvil cancer therapy charity<br />

VOLUNTEERS<br />

REAL DIFFERENCE<br />

My Cancer My Choices was founded by<br />

Mandy Barter and Liz Lee in 2014<br />

MCMC was registered as a charity<br />

in 2015, and since then has supported<br />

over 2,000 people with cancer,<br />

delivering over 7,500 treatments and<br />

65 courses across Berkshire.<br />

Volunteers currently donate<br />

around 700 hours a month to help<br />

at the MCMC offices in Charvil,<br />

Deanwood Park (West Berks),<br />

the College of Integrated Chinese<br />

Medicine (Reading) and Bracknell<br />

Healthspace.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y also meet virtually to make<br />

the service accessible to as many<br />

people as possible.<br />

BUCKINGHAM PALACE<br />

My Cancer My Choices is one of<br />

only two organisations to receive<br />

this highly prestigious accolade in<br />

Berkshire this year. Nationally, 262<br />

local charities, social enterprises and<br />

voluntary groups around the UK will<br />

receive the award this year.<br />

Representatives of My Cancer My<br />

Choices will receive the award crystal<br />

and certificate from Andrew Try,<br />

Lord Lieutenant of Berkshire in early<br />

spring <strong>2024</strong>.<br />

Two volunteers from the charity<br />

will also be invited to attend a<br />

garden party at Buckingham Palace<br />

next summer.<br />

If you would like to support<br />

My Cancer My Choices through<br />

donations or by joining the volunteer<br />

team, there is more information at:<br />

https://www.mycancermychoices.org


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<strong>The</strong> life-changing 12th day of Christmas<br />

One thing that always strikes me<br />

about the Christmastide readings<br />

in the Bible is their briefness.<br />

Much of the traditions of Advent,<br />

Christmas and <strong>The</strong> Epiphany, such<br />

as the number of magi, their names<br />

and the time of their arrival, a<br />

description of the stable nativity<br />

scene we use, rather than an<br />

underground cave, and so on, are<br />

not found in the Bible. <strong>The</strong>y are<br />

changes and additions that add to<br />

the wonder of Christmas. Sadly,<br />

commercialism has smothered the<br />

original purpose of the 12 Days of<br />

Christmas.<br />

<strong>The</strong> visit by the magi and their<br />

'epiphany' only appears in the Gospel<br />

of Matthew. Yet God’s word in the<br />

Bible never becomes old news, there<br />

is always something fresh and new to<br />

be learned from every phrase because<br />

they are there for a good reason.<br />

Bible scholars tell us that the<br />

main purpose of Matthew’s gospel<br />

is to convince the Jewish people<br />

that Jesus is the Messiah who was<br />

promised in the ancient scriptures.<br />

It is about a Jewish King who is to<br />

save the Jewish nation. Jesus was to<br />

be the King of the Jews.<br />

Yet here, at the beginning of his<br />

book, Matthew includes the magi,<br />

wise men from the East, probably<br />

from the Persian area that today<br />

includes Iraq and Iran.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se men are clearly Gentiles,<br />

yet they had travelled great distances<br />

to worship the newborn King of the<br />

Jews.<br />

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Matthew’s Gospel, we find God<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Epiphany, or Three Kings Day, in Poland, is celebrated with spectacular parades<br />

revealing himself to be the God of<br />

all nations of the world — Jew and<br />

Gentile alike.<br />

<strong>The</strong> visit by the magi was clearly<br />

included in Matthew’s gospel for this<br />

reason, it is part of God’s revelation<br />

of his private plan for the universal<br />

church.<br />

This is one of the reasons why<br />

making time to study the Bible helps<br />

us to understand God better and so<br />

develop a stronger relationship with<br />

him.<br />

When we seek to do this with<br />

sincere determination as the magi<br />

did, we will find him. He is not<br />

hiding from us. He wants to have a<br />

closer more intimate relationship<br />

with each of us.<br />

In the UK, our Christmas<br />

celebrations officially end on the<br />

12th day, the day of <strong>The</strong> Epiphany<br />

— the word Epiphany means 'a<br />

moment when you suddenly feel that<br />

you understand, or suddenly become<br />

conscious of, something that is very<br />

important to you.'<br />

In many parts of the world<br />

the Epiphany has become a major<br />

Christian holiday celebration<br />

with grand parades and services<br />

attracting large numbers of people.<br />

Here, in the UK, it is generally<br />

a much quieter affair, with people<br />

going about their daily business of<br />

work and school as usual.<br />

YOUR SPECIAL DAY<br />

This year Epiphany officially falls<br />

on Saturday 6 <strong>January</strong>. How will you<br />

be marking this special day?<br />

If you are a committed Christian,<br />

make time to thank God for your<br />

own 'epiphany', the day that you<br />

committed yourself to becoming a<br />

follower of Jesus.<br />

If you have not yet committed<br />

your life to Jesus — or you are in<br />

need of a refresher — and would like<br />

to explore what it means to share in<br />

<strong>The</strong> Epiphany, see the Alpha course<br />

invitation on the left.<br />

Please remember, that after the<br />

magi found Jesus and worshipped<br />

him as God, they did not go back the<br />

way they came. Likewise, as we get to<br />

know Jesus and God our new way of<br />

life will be different from the old way<br />

that we leave behind us.


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AROUND THE VILLAGES — 1<br />

Community in action — part of Sonning School's<br />

personal development creative home learning<br />

<strong>The</strong> Autumn Term was filled with community events, writes head teacher, Phil<br />

Sherwood. As well as being in school, a large part of our work was completed by<br />

pupils as part of their creative home learning projects with the theme of ‘service’.<br />

Pupils conducted litter picks in our area, baked treats and held cake sales for<br />

charities, helped at local charities, visited care homes and much, much more. It was<br />

an impressive community effort and one that will help our pupils live out our vision of<br />

building strong foundations for the years ahead.<br />

Remembrance and St Andrew’s Day services<br />

Christmas in Sonning<br />

A key part of our Christmas calendar<br />

was the start of Advent and decorating<br />

our tree. Each pupil decorates their own<br />

bauble and places it on the tree as part<br />

of a big celebration assembly. We also<br />

wrote Christmas cards to our partner<br />

care homes, Signature at Caversham and<br />

Avery Sonning Gardens and delivered<br />

these before the Christmas break. We<br />

look forward to growing our links with<br />

the care homes in <strong>2024</strong>.<br />

We were grateful to welcome Rev Jamie and Richard Adams, Sonning Royal British<br />

Legion, to Sonning Primary for a special Remembrance Day service (above), while on<br />

Saint Andrew's Day (below) the school walked to St Andrew’s Church for our service,<br />

which was supported by Rev Jamie and Westy.<br />

Children In Need<br />

Being part of the<br />

national Children In<br />

Need event helped our<br />

children understand<br />

the importance of<br />

supporting others,<br />

making a difference and<br />

being part of something<br />

bigger than ourselves.<br />

We raised hundreds of<br />

pounds for Children In<br />

Need this year, and even<br />

had a visit from Pudsey!<br />

Inter Faith Week<br />

As a Church of<br />

England school, we<br />

have a Christian ethos<br />

which welcomes all<br />

religions or none. As<br />

part of celebrating<br />

diversity, we joined in<br />

with Inter Faith Week<br />

and learned about<br />

a range of different<br />

cultures and faiths<br />

within our school<br />

community.


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Ex-service men reunited at the Sonning Gardens care home Remembrance service:<br />

resident Sir Oscar Deville (seated) and (left to right) Grp Cpt Colin Pierce, president<br />

of Sonning Royal British Legion, Richard Adams, Sonning Royal British Legion<br />

standard bearer, and Julian Harman, from the Sonning Gardens maintenance team.<br />

Care Home residents remember<br />

More than 50 residents, family members and friends gathered for<br />

the annual Remembrance day service at the Sonning Gardens Care<br />

Home when they also joined in the nationwide 2 minutes silence.<br />

During the service everyone had an opportunity to remember their<br />

own loved ones who died fighting for the freedom we enjoy today.<br />

This personal act of Remembrance involved placing their poppy in a<br />

tray (see below) which was blessed and placed on a memorial table in<br />

the reception area. Poppies were also placed outside in the garden by<br />

a memorial olive tree that was planted during part of this service a<br />

few years ago. It is also an occasion when ex-service men and women<br />

enjoy being reunited to share their experiences.


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around the villages — 2<br />

Beavers enjoy local health and spirit visits<br />

1st Sonning-on-Thames Beaver Scouts have been learning health and spiritual matters from local experts. Healthy<br />

Eating was top of the agenda when they met Kate Voss. After hearing about why it’s important to eat healthily and<br />

the need to consume across different food groups, they put into action ‘eating the rainbow’ by making some fruit<br />

kebabs. Another visit was to St Andrew's Church where, as part of their Faith Badge, youth minister, Westy, help them<br />

to understand what the Christian faith is about. <strong>The</strong> Beavers currently have places available, so if you are interested in<br />

knowing more about Beavers, which meets 6-7pm on Thursdays, please contact Ann at waiting_list@sonningscouts.org.uk<br />

Rotary projector project support for Camp Mohawk<br />

<strong>The</strong> Rotary Club of Reading Maiden<br />

Erlegh (RCRME) has provided Camp<br />

Mohawk with a special projector for<br />

their sensory room.<br />

Camp Mohawk is the Woodland<br />

Trust Centre for children and<br />

young people with special needs<br />

and is situated in 5 acres of ancient<br />

woodland near Wargrave.<br />

SENSORY<br />

RCRME has a long association<br />

with Camp Mohawk and has<br />

supported it financially and with<br />

hands on help over the last 15<br />

years and often provided special<br />

equipment such as the projector<br />

which projects continually changing<br />

images onto the wall of the sensory<br />

room alongside several other images<br />

and activities for the children.<br />

It was handed over by members<br />

of the Club to Matthew Wood, the<br />

site and operations manager for<br />

the charity that provides a range of<br />

activities, facilities and natural space<br />

to encourage children with a variety<br />

Rotary Club members hand over the new projector for Camp Mohawk<br />

of special needs to play, socialise<br />

and learn in a secure and caring<br />

environment.<br />

Richard Nicholson, president of<br />

RCRME, said, ‘Camp Mohawk does a<br />

wonderful job helping children with<br />

special needs in our area and it is<br />

an absolute pleasure watching them<br />

enjoy its wonderful facilities as well<br />

as giving their parents a well-earned<br />

rest. We are always delighted at being<br />

able to help them’.


around the villages — 3<br />

Inner Wheel<br />

remembers<br />

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Chairman's Cup for poppy field<br />

On Remembrance Day, Margaret<br />

Adams, president of the Inner<br />

Wheel Club of Reading Maiden<br />

Erlegh laid a wreath at the<br />

Woodley Memorial in memory<br />

of those who made the ultimate<br />

sacrifice for the country.<br />

Inner Wheel, is a worldwide<br />

organisation for all women that<br />

was formed in Manchester between<br />

the wars and will be celebrating its<br />

Centenary this year.<br />

Stock taking<br />

Stock taking!<br />

Phil Mason<br />

Sonning Art Group's last Chairman's Cup of 2023 was won by Joan Gaines<br />

(left) who is seen receiving it from committee member, Jean Hutchinson.<br />

<strong>The</strong> cup was awarded for Joan's lovely watercolour of a field of poppies. After<br />

being closed for the Christmas season, the first <strong>2024</strong> meeting will be on<br />

Friday 5 <strong>January</strong> in Pearson Hall from 12.30pm to 3.30pm. If you would like<br />

find out more about this friendly group who welcome all artistic abilities,<br />

then go along to Pearson Hall on a Friday afternoon.<br />

<strong>2024</strong> DIARY DATES<br />

Sonning RNLI Glebe WI quiz<br />

After a successful year when Sonning<br />

branch of the RNLI, raised £5,688.73<br />

they are hoping to replicate this year by<br />

holding several more events in <strong>2024</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> annual music night is on<br />

Saturday 3 February in the Pearson<br />

Hall. Tickets, £20, include a welcome<br />

drink. Take your own food. Tickets<br />

from: David Bates, 0118 969 7376<br />

<strong>The</strong> summer garden party will<br />

be on Saturday 8 June, by kind<br />

invitation of Mr and Mrs D Haldane,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dower House, Pearson Road.<br />

It is hoped that a sea shanty<br />

evening will be held in the autumn.<br />

Sonning Show<br />

<strong>The</strong> date for next year's Sonning<br />

Village Show will be Saturday 14<br />

September. Now is your chance<br />

to get involved. If anyone has any<br />

suggestions for the classes please let<br />

Carole Collier know on 0773 405 0317<br />

Sonning Glebe WI will be holding<br />

a quiz on Saturday 17 February in<br />

Pearson Hall at at 7.30pm. Tickets<br />

are £8.50 per person, which includes<br />

a hot supper — take your own<br />

drinks. Maximum of 6 people<br />

per team or go along and be part<br />

of a team. More details from:<br />

sonningglebewi@berkshirewi.co.uk<br />

Charvil voices<br />

On Saturday 24 February, 2-4pm<br />

in Charvil Village Hall, Suzanne<br />

Newman will be running a fun<br />

singing afternoon for female voices<br />

with a medley of songs from <strong>The</strong><br />

Greatest Showman arranged for twopart<br />

choir. Songs include <strong>The</strong> Greatest<br />

Show, A Million Dreams, This is Me and<br />

Come Alive. <strong>The</strong> £12 fee includes music<br />

and light refreshments. To book:<br />

suzanneynewman@btinternet.com<br />

0118 934 0589


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around the villages — 4<br />

Twyford Age Concern Centre re-opens with<br />

new invaluable services for all the elderly<br />

<strong>The</strong> Age Concern Twyford Centre<br />

has been relaunched and is now<br />

providing a range of new services<br />

for the elderly.<br />

Over the last 25 years, the charity<br />

has supported hundreds of local<br />

members and their families. Through<br />

the generosity of local suppliers and<br />

charities, they have been able to<br />

update the Twyford Centre with new<br />

lighting, new chairs, new window<br />

blinds and a fresh lick of paint. And<br />

they have introduced a range of new<br />

services, including the Anne Greaves<br />

fully-equipped salon to provide<br />

hairdressing and chiropody, and an<br />

evening meals take home service.<br />

COMPANIONSHIP<br />

‘We are delighted to be able to<br />

provide these invaluable services<br />

and companionship in the heart of<br />

our local community,' said Patrick<br />

Heather, chairman of the board of<br />

trustees.<br />

'<strong>The</strong> new evening take home meal<br />

service for members attending the<br />

same day, is proving very popular',<br />

he said.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Anne Greaves Salon was<br />

officially opened by the Rt Hon<br />

<strong>The</strong>resa May, Member of Parliament<br />

for Maidenhead.<br />

NEW MANAGER<br />

A new centre manager, Alan<br />

Boyle, has been appointed and as<br />

well as the day-to-day running,<br />

he is responsible for developing<br />

relationships with Age Concern<br />

partners and the local community,<br />

and increasing membership.<br />

For the last 12 years, Alan has<br />

been a director of his own company.<br />

Since starting at the centre he has<br />

implemented many new systems to<br />

move from paper based to digital.<br />

He has also introduced new<br />

services for both members and nonmembers<br />

and is now focusing on<br />

obtaining funding for a new minibus<br />

to enable them to serve more of the<br />

surrounding community.<br />

He said, ‘It’s been a pleasure to<br />

meet our members and many of our<br />

volunteers, who not only assist as carers<br />

and relief cooks, but also those who<br />

provide the much-needed transport<br />

services for our members.<br />

'We really need more of these<br />

wonderful people especially as our<br />

membership is on the increase.'<br />

‘Outside the centre,' he added, 'I<br />

have a very busy family life. My wife<br />

and I have three children whom we love<br />

spending quality time with. My wife<br />

also works in the care sector as a nurse.’<br />

Alan is supported by the<br />

long-serving care manager, Debs<br />

Heffernan and an experienced team<br />

of carers, kitchen staff, drivers and<br />

volunteers.<br />

REJUVENATING<br />

'Today,' said Alan, 'we need your<br />

help to continue developing the centre to<br />

provide the best possible facilities and<br />

reach as many local people who need our<br />

services as possible.<br />

'Your donation will contribute to one<br />

of the many projects rejuvenating our<br />

centre.<br />

'Whether it be the funding of a new<br />

WAV — Wheelchair Accessible Vehicle<br />

— to reach those less mobile, or a new<br />

kitchen to provide warming lunches to<br />

our members.<br />

'Every donation makes an impact.<br />

'We are also always looking for new<br />

volunteers to join our friendly team in<br />

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the main hall, the kitchen or as drivers<br />

to bring members to the Centre.'<br />

INDEPENDENCE<br />

Age Concern Twyford & District<br />

is a registered charity (1163722).<br />

It aims to promote and maintain<br />

independent living for elderly<br />

residents in the local community.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Centre is in Polehampton<br />

Close opposite the library. It is open<br />

Monday to Friday and offers a freshly<br />

cooked hot daily lunch, evening<br />

take home meals, seated exercises,<br />

crafts, entertainment, carer support,<br />

chiropody and hairdressing services,<br />

and are Dementia friendly.<br />

CONTACT DETAILS<br />

AGE CONCERN CONTACTS<br />

Chairman: President: Patrick Lady S Heather Watt<br />

Centre Manager: Alan Boyle<br />

Care Manager: Debs Heffernan<br />

0118 934 4040<br />

Alan@ageconcerntwyford.org.uk<br />

www.ageconcerntwyford.org.uk<br />

@AgeConcernTwyford<br />

Age Concern Twyford Centre<br />

Polehampton Close<br />

Twyford, Reading RG10 9RP


around the villages — 5<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 27<br />

How to raise £1,000 silently in Charvil . . .<br />

Despite the sound of silence that filled Charvil Village Hall on the afternoon of 25 November when 64 players gathered<br />

for a Bridge Drive and tea held by the Inner Wheel Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh, they raised more than £1000 for<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cowshed, a local charity which provides support to people and children of all backgrounds in times of crisis.<br />

This is a special Centenary year for Inner Wheel. It was founded in the UK and is now a worldwide organisation, <strong>The</strong> local<br />

branch meets at Sonning Golf Club on the third Thursday evening of every month and welcomes new members to join in<br />

the fun, take part in activities, raise funds for charity and support the local community.<br />

https://www.innerwheelrme.org or iwcrme@gmail.com<br />

. . . after getting wrapped up for Christmas!<br />

Five members of the Inner Wheel Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh spent an afternoon happily selecting and wrapping<br />

Christmas presents for children referred to <strong>The</strong> Cowshed, a local charity which provides support to people and children<br />

of all backgrounds in times of crisis<br />

Cowshed is a compassionate and community-driven charity dedicated to providing support to individuals of all<br />

backgrounds during times of personal crisis. It offers good quality, cleaned, and ironed clothes and other essential items<br />

free of charge to those in need.


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around the villages — 6<br />

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the Inner Wheel and Rotary Clubs of Reading Maiden<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 29<br />

Wanted: revolting<br />

local children!<br />

Revolting children are wanted for a fun singing and<br />

drama workshopto be held in Charvil Village Hall on<br />

Saturday 2 March!<br />

Suzanne Newman and PJ Barnes are looking for<br />

children and young people between the ages of 9 and 18<br />

years to work on a selection of songs from Matilda the<br />

Musical.<br />

<strong>The</strong> session runs from 2.oopm - 5.15pm and will<br />

end with an informal performance. <strong>The</strong>re are 20 places<br />

available at £20 per person. For more information and an<br />

application form: suzanneynewman@btinternet.com<br />

Art and Craft Fair raises over<br />

£7,000 for local charities<br />

<strong>The</strong> Rotary Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh’s recent<br />

Reading Charity Art and Craft Fair was one if its most<br />

successful ever. It raised over £7,000 for local charities.<br />

It was held at Oakview, Leighton Park at the of October<br />

when 76 artists displayed their work along with 14 craft<br />

stalls — everything having been created by local people.<br />

Over 500 people visited the event and all the exhibits<br />

were for sale with the artists donating 25% of the sales<br />

price.<br />

<strong>The</strong> café made £900, and this will be donated by Inner<br />

Wheel to <strong>The</strong> Cowshed, which provides support to local<br />

people of all backgrounds in time of personal crisis.<br />

<strong>The</strong> bulk of the other money raised will be donated<br />

to the Feeding Communities initiative with the balance<br />

being distributed to local charities by Rotary. Feeding<br />

Communities is a project locally between <strong>The</strong> Thomas<br />

Frank Foundation and Leighton Park School to help reduce<br />

food poverty by providing free chilled or frozen meals for<br />

those in need. <strong>The</strong> recipes are created to provide a highly<br />

nutritious meal using the freshest of ingredients. Rotary<br />

will be distributing over 1,000 meals locally in <strong>January</strong>.<br />

Please remember your<br />

donations for the Woodley Food<br />

Bank and place them in the box<br />

just inside St Andrew's Church.<br />

Thank you!<br />

This is a fundraising event to raise funds for the<br />

Vestry Wall at St. Andrew’s Church<br />

Charity No: 1101944


30 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

THE ARTS<br />

Rev Michael Burgess begins a year-long series looking<br />

at great works of Christian music . . .<br />

‘Glorious the song<br />

when God’s the<br />

theme’<br />

<strong>The</strong> Shofar, or ram's horn, is one of the earliest known instruments.<br />

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Those words of the 18th century<br />

poet Christopher Smart remind us<br />

how faith and music have always<br />

gone hand in hand, faith inspiring<br />

the music and music expressing the<br />

faith. In this series we shall consider<br />

12 pieces of music inspired by the<br />

Christian faith, beginning from its<br />

roots in the Old Testament.<br />

Among the earliest references to<br />

music in the Old Testament is the<br />

Song of Moses and the Israelites,<br />

thanking God for Israel’s deliverance<br />

in Exodus.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is also the music of the<br />

shofar, the ram’s horn, proclaiming<br />

God’s jubilee in Leviticus.<br />

Hebrew music came into its own<br />

when performed in the temple. A<br />

small choir, using mostly strings<br />

and including a harp, would sing<br />

from the psalms, that incredible<br />

Poetry Corner<br />

Redeemer Revealed by Steven Rolling<br />

Matthew 2: 1-12 part. Tune: We Three Kings<br />

1. Three called Kings, they wise men were then<br />

Made their journey, travelling when<br />

Christ-child's star in the east they saw<br />

Come to worship, adore<br />

collection of 150 hymns of praise to<br />

God. All human life is found in the<br />

psalter, and inevitably they passed<br />

into Christian worship through the<br />

monastic daily office of prayer and<br />

praise. Possibly Psalm 23, <strong>The</strong> Lord is<br />

my shepherd, is the most loved psalm.<br />

THE VICAR OF DIBLEY<br />

St Francis of Assisi sang it on his<br />

way to visit the sultan.<br />

Most of us know the tune<br />

Crimond, while Howard Goodall’s<br />

setting became the theme music for<br />

<strong>The</strong> Vicar of Dibley.<br />

Leonard Bernstein’s setting of<br />

Psalm 23, the ‘Chichester Psalms,’ set<br />

six psalms in their original Hebrew<br />

for solo voice, choir and orchestra.<br />

<strong>The</strong> middle movement begins with<br />

a boy soprano, or countertenor,<br />

singing a beautiful melody to the<br />

opening words of Psalm 23.<br />

Bernstein’s melody has a bluesy,<br />

Jewish feel, and is accompanied by a<br />

harp, as we remember David playing<br />

the lyre.<br />

Suddenly the men’s voices<br />

interrupt the soloist’s song of trust<br />

with the words of Psalm 2, Why do the<br />

nations so furiously rage together?’<br />

But their outburst cannot halt<br />

the serene outpouring of the soloist<br />

which sounds out clear and strong<br />

amid the threat of war and division.<br />

<strong>The</strong> movement leaves us with<br />

the melody of Adonai ro-i in our<br />

heads and hearts, assuring us that,<br />

because the Lord is our shepherd, we<br />

need not fear, even in the darkest<br />

valley. Even when the world hurls<br />

the threats of Psalm 2 at us, God’s<br />

goodness and mercy will follow us all<br />

the days of our life.<br />

3. Precious gifts to Christ they did give<br />

Saviour, in whom all may now live<br />

Gold, frankincense, myrrh presented<br />

By star they to Him led<br />

Chorus<br />

Chorus<br />

O here be the Epiphany<br />

Christ revealed unto all, see<br />

To the Jews and to the Gentiles<br />

Here stay, contemplate a while<br />

2. Bethlehem, though you little town<br />

Noe be of an endless renown<br />

Chosen by God, in you be born<br />

His Son, redemption morn<br />

Chorus<br />

4. Guide us, Lord, that we too humbly<br />

Present gifts and selves to you, see<br />

Serving you in freedom, gladness<br />

Desiring you us bless<br />

Chorus<br />

5. Bright your light, you Light of the world<br />

At your Epiphany unfurled<br />

Sharing with others your gospel<br />

Light o’ercomes darkness all<br />

Chorus<br />

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HEALTH — 1<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 31<br />

Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . NHS v the World?<br />

As we move into <strong>2024</strong> let’s compare our NHS in 2023 with<br />

other countries.<br />

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?<br />

Listen to any talk radio or read any newspaper and you will<br />

receive verbal diet of anecdote and sad stories. Good news is<br />

no news.<br />

Comparing our data with other, comparable countries<br />

is important as we have nothing else to compare the NHS<br />

with except our own historical data. That data shows<br />

fewer doctors and nurses, beds, CT and MRI scanners and<br />

spending per patient, falling from 2012 onwards.<br />

This links with falling spending per person in other public<br />

services. However, does this mean we’re not performing<br />

against our neighbours?<br />

Pre-COVID waiting times in the UK for common<br />

procedures were hovering in the middle and efficiency<br />

was very good because the NHS was performing well with<br />

fewer resources than other countries. Post COVID that<br />

performance has fallen. This is a direct result of the resource<br />

provision; other countries have been able to catch up.<br />

<strong>The</strong> UK is very good at protecting people from financial<br />

costs and bankruptcy through medical bills. However life<br />

expectancy and deaths are performing less well; but may I<br />

refer you to last month’s article health and wealth are linked.<br />

In saying the above is not a call for a wholesale change to<br />

the funding or running of the health service. I quote:<br />

'<strong>The</strong>re is little evidence that one particular ‘type’ of health care<br />

system or model of health care funding produces systematically<br />

better results than another. Countries predominantly try to<br />

achieve better health outcomes by improving their existing model<br />

of health care, rather than by adopting a radically different model.'<br />

— <strong>The</strong> King’s Fund June 2023.<br />

According to <strong>The</strong> Organization for Economic Cooperation<br />

and Development (OECD), in 2021 we have lower numbers of<br />

doctors and nurses than our comparator countries (19 high<br />

income nations).<br />

We have high numbers of foreign trained nurses and<br />

doctors and our wages are on the lower side.<br />

Only New Zealand and Australia are more reliant on<br />

foreign born nurses and doctors than the UK. <strong>The</strong> UK recruits<br />

little from New Zealand and Australia but 25% of foreign<br />

trained staff are from the UK in New Zealand and Australia.<br />

In 2022 we saw nurses and doctors on strike. OECD 23<br />

show that nurses wages are just lower than the average<br />

worker with France, Finland and Italy being lower. GPs<br />

in Portugal and the UK have seen their wages fall against<br />

other countries and for specialists, Belgium join the UK and<br />

Portugal in letting their wages fall.<br />

RETAINING OLDER STAFF<br />

<strong>The</strong> UK reports the highest level of over 55s leaving the<br />

UK, medical profession or stopping seeing patients in the<br />

next 1-3 years with 67%<br />

At the same time OECD shows that Britons report<br />

higher levels of anxiety, lower levels of physical activity but<br />

mid range of self reporting of obesity than the comparator<br />

countries.<br />

OTHER RESOURCES<br />

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Japan has 166.7 CT and MRI scanners per million<br />

patients, the UK has 16.1. This is a little unfair as a<br />

comparator due to the manufacturing capabilities of Japan<br />

in this area, there is even a scanner housed in a petrol station<br />

in one area!<br />

<strong>The</strong> age of our scanners is in the middle of the pack<br />

based on surveys or the major medical imaging companies,<br />

Cannon, Fujifilm, GE, Philips and Siemens.<br />

BEDS<br />

Data for 2019 shows 2.5 general beds per 1,000 people and<br />

7.3 per 100,000 intensive care beds. Only Sweden has a lower<br />

number of general hospital beds and we are 14th out of the 19<br />

countries.<br />

DRUGS<br />

Our healthcare spend on medicines is the lowest in terms<br />

of percentage of healthcare spend. We spend 9% whereas<br />

Spain spends double.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is some good news in that. <strong>The</strong> buying capacity<br />

of the NHS helps and the tight control and regulation of<br />

medicines in the UK. But the access to medicines is quite<br />

restrictive in the UK.<br />

What this translates to is that prescribing is evidence<br />

based with high rates of more cost effective medicines being<br />

prescribed, especially in antibiotic spend and appropriate<br />

use. <strong>The</strong> UK was pretty good at licensing and introducing new<br />

medicines.<br />

Now that the European Medicines Authority is now in<br />

Brussels instead of London we will see if that performance is<br />

maintained.<br />

<strong>The</strong> National Institute for Health and Care Excellence<br />

(NICE) seems to drag its heels when approving new<br />

medicines and technology, especially where patients are<br />

waiting for new advances to come through, but it does mean<br />

TURN TO PAGE 33


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FROM PAGE 31<br />

HEALTH — 2<br />

Dr Simon Ruffle<br />

writes . . .<br />

. . . NHS v the World<br />

that the we get the best ‘bang for our<br />

buck.’<br />

One area where our more frugal<br />

approach to health spending is in<br />

administration. In the USA 8.9% of<br />

health spending is administrative, it is<br />

1.9% in the UK, with Japan, Sweden,<br />

Italy, Greece, and Finland being lower.<br />

It is always an easy trope to blame<br />

the managers.<br />

Since Covid, our outcomes for<br />

potentially avoidable deaths in terms<br />

of heart attacks and stroke has<br />

fallen in comparison, our hospital<br />

admissions for Asthma and COPD is<br />

higher although we’re pretty good at<br />

managing diabetes and heart failure<br />

with a lower percentage of patients<br />

requiring admission.<br />

WHERE ARE WE LEFT?<br />

<strong>The</strong> NHS is performing okay with<br />

the level of staff equipment and<br />

finance that it has.<br />

Reform of the NHS has been<br />

constant with 2012 being a massive<br />

(behind the scenes) shake up.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se reforms and austerity had<br />

not left the NHS in a stable position to<br />

cope with the Covid crisis and we have<br />

seen our performance levels fall since<br />

then as there was no ‘reserve.’<br />

Ask any business, it is people that<br />

are the most important components<br />

for a successful business.<br />

While we lose our professionals,<br />

replace them with cheaper less<br />

qualified people, allow our estates and<br />

equipment to age we cannot expect<br />

a recovery in patient experience and<br />

performance but the Kings Fund and<br />

OECD show us we are not spending<br />

enough per patient despite the overall<br />

spending being higher now than it<br />

was in 2010.<br />

THE CHALLENGE<br />

<strong>The</strong> health secretary’s challenge is<br />

enormous but looking to change our<br />

systems or add new styles of health<br />

provision form other models is not<br />

the way forward until we supply the<br />

scanners, staff and resources to the<br />

cost effective system we have already.<br />

HOME AND GARDEN<br />

Strawberries provide 100% of the<br />

recommended daily vitamin C<br />

amount in a single cup serving, and<br />

they also contain heart-healthy<br />

nutrients such as folate, potassium,<br />

fibre, phytosterols and polyphenols.<br />

A recent study has found that<br />

eating about eight of them a day for<br />

3 months can improve your mood,<br />

help your memory, and lower any<br />

symptoms of depression. <strong>The</strong> study<br />

was carried out at the University of<br />

Cincinnati’s Academic Health Centre.<br />

Perhaps it is the things that you<br />

eat with your strawberries that need<br />

your attention?<br />

Potatoes have also been a target<br />

of the 'anti-carb' brigade for probably<br />

long enough. An affordable staple<br />

food for centuries, they have fallen<br />

out of favour in recent times, amid<br />

the trend for low-carb diets.<br />

'<strong>The</strong> humble potato has been given<br />

a bad rap,' says Dr Duane Mellor,<br />

If you like colourful ceramics such as this lily vase,<br />

then you are probably familiar with the work of<br />

Clarice Cliff. Her glowingly vibrant plates, cups,<br />

teapots, and vases are world famous – and still loved.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong> 33<br />

Don't forget to include<br />

potatoes and strawberries in<br />

your garden plans for <strong>2024</strong>!<br />

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Strawberries and potatoes are probably better for you than you think, so<br />

don't forget to included them in your garden this year.<br />

a senior teaching fellow at Aston<br />

Medical School in Birmingham.<br />

'<strong>The</strong> truth is that potatoes contain<br />

a lot of vitamins and other nutrients<br />

that are important for good health.'<br />

he added.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se include vitamin C, vitamin<br />

B6, potassium, and choline.<br />

Potatoes also contain fibre,<br />

including resistant starch. This helps<br />

to feed the gut bacteria, which in turn<br />

has a wide range of health benefits.<br />

Both the skin and the flesh of<br />

potatoes are good for you. <strong>The</strong> skin<br />

provides fibre, and the flesh contains<br />

most of the vitamins and minerals.<br />

So, the healthiest way to cook<br />

potatoes is to boil or bake them in<br />

their skins.<br />

And like strawberries, it is<br />

probably the 'extras' such as butter<br />

and oil that you need to be more<br />

mindful about?<br />

Does Clarice Cliff have a place in your home?<br />

Clarice was born 125 years ago this month, on 20<br />

<strong>January</strong> 1899, in Tunstall, Stoke-on-Trent. Her father<br />

worked in an iron foundry, and her mother washed clothes to help feed their<br />

seven children. Clarice left school at 13 to work in the potteries, a job she<br />

enjoyed so much that, at 17, she joined A J Wilkinson in Newport, Burslem, to<br />

gain more experience. Soon she was modelling figurines and vases, keeping<br />

pattern books, and learning to hand-paint ware. She died in 1972 and some of<br />

her work can demand very high prices. <strong>The</strong> world record for a piece of Clarice<br />

Cliff is held by Christie’s in London, who in 2004 sold an 18-inch ‘charger’ in the<br />

May Avenue pattern for £39,500.<br />

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34 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>January</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

AWARENESS<br />

Are you aware of what you should be doing?<br />

Hardly a day goes by now that<br />

has not been claimed by someone<br />

as a special 'awareness' day.<br />

Many of them are for really good<br />

causes, while some are simply<br />

excuses to market and sell<br />

products and services, Here is<br />

a selection of some of the more<br />

worthy awareness days, weeks<br />

and month, and we have included<br />

some of the more traditional<br />

days when the Church celebrates<br />

a Saint or remembers religious<br />

events . . .<br />

DRY JANUARY<br />

Dry <strong>January</strong> is an annual health<br />

campaign that encourages people to<br />

abstain from alcohol for the entire<br />

month of <strong>January</strong>.<br />

Alcohol abuse affects a huge<br />

number of families. According to<br />

the NHS, 7.5 million people in the<br />

UK have an alcohol problem.<br />

Dry <strong>January</strong> is a voluntary<br />

challenge that has gained<br />

popularity worldwide as individuals<br />

commit to starting the New<br />

Year with a fresh, alcohol-free<br />

perspective.<br />

VEGANUARY WORKPLACE<br />

CHALLENGE MONTH<br />

This is a 31-day pledge that<br />

encourages work forces to try being<br />

vegan for the month of <strong>January</strong>.<br />

Staff are challenged to eat a purely<br />

plant-based diet for one month, but<br />

there is no reason why you can’t join<br />

in on your own at home!<br />

OTHER JANUARY MONTHS<br />

Here are some other <strong>January</strong><br />

Awareness months that you can<br />

find out more about on the internet:<br />

National Blood Donor Month,<br />

Cervical Health Awareness Month,<br />

Mental Wellness Month, and<br />

Poverty Awareness Month.<br />

WORLD BRAILLE DAY<br />

THURSDAY 4 JANUARY<br />

Created by the United Nations,<br />

World Braille Day has been<br />

celebrated since 2019. Its objective<br />

is to raise awareness of the<br />

importance of Braille as a means<br />

of communication in the full<br />

Thursday 4 <strong>January</strong> is World Braille Day<br />

realization of the human rights for<br />

blind and partially sighted people.<br />

Thursday 4 <strong>January</strong> is the birthday of<br />

Braille's inventor, Louis Braille. His<br />

gift brightens the lives of millions<br />

of people who are blind or visually<br />

impaired, and they benefit from his<br />

work every day.<br />

THE EPIPHANY 6 JANUARY<br />

A day celebrated by thousands of<br />

Christians around the world, while<br />

many churches will also celebrate it<br />

in their regular Sunday services the<br />

next day. (See page 19).<br />

BREW MONDAY 15 <strong>January</strong><br />

On Brew Monday Samaritans remind<br />

us to reach out for a cup of tea and<br />

a catch-up with the people we care<br />

about. <strong>The</strong> third Monday in <strong>January</strong><br />

is sometimes referred to as ‘the most<br />

difficult day of the year’. Samaritans<br />

say this is a myth and there is no<br />

such thing as ‘Blue Monday’ – we all<br />

have our good days and our bad days,<br />

and those aren’t for the calendar<br />

to decide. <strong>The</strong>ir answer is to have a<br />

conversation over a brew – and they<br />

add that you can do this any day of<br />

the week or the year!<br />

ST FRANCIS DE SALES<br />

24 JANUARY<br />

St Francis de Sales, ‘the Gentleman<br />

Saint’, is remembered in both Roman<br />

Catholic and Church of England<br />

churches on 24 <strong>January</strong>. He was born<br />

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on 21 August 1567 and died in Lyon<br />

on 28 December 1622, aged 55 years.<br />

He is known as ‘the Gentleman<br />

Saint’ because of his great patience<br />

and gentleness.<br />

He the patron of writers and<br />

journalists because of his extensive<br />

use of broadsheets and books in<br />

spiritual direction and in his efforts<br />

to convert the Calvinists of the<br />

region. He also developed a sign<br />

language to teach a deaf man about<br />

God, hence is also the patron saint of<br />

the deaf.<br />

BIG GARDEN BIRD WATCH<br />

26—28 JANUARY<br />

This is the UK’s largest garden<br />

wildlife survey. It was first held<br />

in 1979, and every year, around<br />

700,000 people take part. It is easy.<br />

You simply watch the birds in your<br />

garden or local park for one hour,<br />

record and report what you see. Find<br />

out more: https://www.rspb.org.uk/<br />

whats-happening/big-garden-birdwatch<br />

HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL DAY<br />

27 JANUARY<br />

Between 1941 and 1945, six million<br />

Jewish men, women and children<br />

were murdered by the Nazis and their<br />

collaborators. <strong>The</strong>ir attempt to murder<br />

all the Jews in Europe shook the<br />

foundations of civilisation. <strong>The</strong> day is<br />

also used to remember the genocides<br />

which followed in Cambodia, Rwanda,<br />

Bosnia, and Darfur.


FASHION BY HARRIET NELSON<br />

Happy New Year everyone! <strong>The</strong><br />

New Year brings resolutions, and<br />

for fashion, this can be a fun way to<br />

refresh your style and wardrobe.<br />

How about trying new trends,<br />

decluttering your wardrobe, or<br />

experimenting with different<br />

accessories?<br />

When it comes to New Year's<br />

resolutions, sometimes, we set out too<br />

ambitious or unrealistic tasks, making<br />

it harder to stick to them.<br />

Start with small, achievable goals<br />

you can build upon over time and feel<br />

great about.<br />

If you are looking for fashion-related<br />

New Year's challenges to kickstart<br />

your year, here are a few resolutions to<br />

partake in this year.<br />

How about a resolution for shopping<br />

your own wardrobe?<br />

Most of us will have clothes in our<br />

wardrobes that we don't use, or they've<br />

only been worn a couple of times before<br />

they're hung up and forgotten about.<br />

LOST TREASURES<br />

<strong>The</strong>re's no time like the present<br />

to switch this up. Searching into the<br />

depths of your wardrobes to find these<br />

lost treasures you have forgotten about<br />

is a refreshing discovery that can<br />

inspire you to create a new outfit with<br />

these lost items.<br />

Declutter your wardrobe and take<br />

some time to go through your clothes<br />

and get rid of items that you no longer<br />

wear or love. It'll help you create a more<br />

organized and curated wardrobe. Set<br />

yourself the task this year of having<br />

fun with what you wear, trying to<br />

incorporate new and old clothing items,<br />

and creating new outfits you love with<br />

the clothes you already have at home.<br />

You'll save money and be a part of the<br />

sustainable and vintage trend that<br />

keeps returning to fashion.<br />

Experiment with colours and go<br />

bold with your clothing choices this<br />

year! Another resolution could be to<br />

try and incorporate more vibrant and<br />

bold colours into your outfits. For the<br />

next 12 months, set yourself the task<br />

of having fun with what you wear. You<br />

don't have to follow the crowd with<br />

trends, but create your own styles! It<br />

would be boring if we all wore the same<br />

outfits daily. Make yourself unique and<br />

find a style that is all yours. Find your<br />

fashion and show it off, whether that's<br />

patterns or colours. <strong>The</strong>re are no rules<br />

other than simply wearing what feels<br />

right to you at the right moment.<br />

Another resolution could be to shop<br />

more sustainably by opting for ecofriendly<br />

and ethical brands. Whether<br />

it's making or clothing brands, there<br />

are so many sustainable options in the<br />

market for you to try.<br />

We all know that the fashion<br />

empire isn't the best at being ethical.<br />

We should always try to shop more<br />

sensibly, making the most of our<br />

current wardrobes and considering<br />

what purchases we do make.<br />

It's a wonderful way to support<br />

environmentally conscious practices<br />

and make a positive impact.<br />

TIMELESS<br />

Another resolution could be<br />

to invest in quality basic clothing.<br />

Consider investing in timeless,<br />

high-quality pieces that can be the<br />

foundation of your wardrobe.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se items will last longer and<br />

can be mixed and matched with<br />

various outfits. <strong>The</strong>se pieces will<br />

last a lifetime and will go with most<br />

outfits you already have. It could be<br />

purchasing some staple pieces that go<br />

with most outfits. For example, some<br />

Doc Martens; these boots are known<br />

for lasting forever and go with almost<br />

every outfit and style, as well as being<br />

practical outdoor footwear. Or perhaps<br />

purchase a proper woolly jumper that<br />

lasts all winter and won't go out of<br />

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Will you make a fashionable New Year resolution?<br />

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fashion and that you can wear year<br />

after year.<br />

Remember the power of accessories!<br />

Every outfit will only be complete with<br />

the perfect accessories.<br />

Make a resolution to experiment<br />

with accessories like statement<br />

jewellery, scarves, hats, or belts to<br />

elevate your outfits and add a personal<br />

touch.<br />

Jewellery is the best way to bring<br />

an outfit together. A pair of unique<br />

earrings or a simple necklace can tie<br />

your outfit together and make it look<br />

complete and well put together. You can<br />

change up your outfits in the simplest<br />

way and create new styles for the New<br />

Year. New Year, new you!<br />

What fashion resolutions will you<br />

try and commit to this year?<br />

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THE SCIENCES<br />

<strong>The</strong> science of power, love and self-control<br />

By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, Church engagement director at <strong>The</strong> Faraday Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge<br />

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It has now been four years since the<br />

Covid pandemic began to seep into<br />

Western consciousness. Dr Francis<br />

Collins, a leader in medical research<br />

in the United States, spoke early in<br />

the pandemic about his faith and his<br />

hope in God to help us through that<br />

time.<br />

He expressed the grief that so many<br />

were experiencing, and described an<br />

intensity of scientific work he had<br />

never experienced before.<br />

He also shared his conviction that<br />

he was in exactly the right place in<br />

2020 — serving God with science.<br />

Throughout the pandemic, he held<br />

on tight to the words of Paul in 2<br />

Timothy 1:7:<br />

‘For God gave us a spirit not of fear<br />

but of power and love and self-control.’<br />

POWER<br />

In 2 Timothy the apostle Paul<br />

encourages his friend to ‘fan into<br />

flame the gift of God’ that is in him.<br />

I am thankful that scientists like<br />

Francis used their own particular<br />

talents to understand this virus, and<br />

to help prevent or treat infection.<br />

<strong>The</strong> things they discovered are not<br />

just useful, but at times also display<br />

the beauty and wonder of God’s<br />

creation.<br />

LOVE<br />

Scientists show their love for God,<br />

for people and for the rest of creation<br />

through their work in the lab.<br />

One described his experiences to<br />

me: 'I study God’s fingerprints in his<br />

creation to learn more of him and<br />

the world he placed us in and to learn<br />

how we should take care of it and<br />

each other…I pray for inspiration and<br />

insight into how his creation works…<br />

and that he provides the opportunities<br />

to give the glory to him.'<br />

SELF CONTROL<br />

It is largely our own and others’<br />

selfish actions that can turn one<br />

animal’s friendly virus into our own<br />

species’ personal nightmare.<br />

Thankfully Jesus’ suffering, death<br />

and resurrection are the solution to<br />

evil.<br />

Our ultimate and certain hope<br />

is that one day all Creation will be<br />

renewed. We can also have hope<br />

that God is with us in our suffering.<br />

When we respond in positive ways<br />

to painful events, that is evidence<br />

that Jesus is alive and working in our<br />

lives.<br />

Science will not solve all our<br />

problems, but with God’s help and<br />

wisdom we can use the tools of<br />

science to serve him and love others.<br />

Jamais, Jamais,<br />

Jamais, Jamais,<br />

Jamais, Jamais,<br />

Jamais . . .<br />

Have you ever stared at a single<br />

word for so long that, suddenly,<br />

it looks very odd, and loses its<br />

meaning?<br />

It is a phenomenon known as ‘Jamais<br />

Vu’, and you can experience it if you<br />

try scribbling a single word around<br />

30 times, or for about a minute.<br />

Suddenly, it will look very peculiar.<br />

Researchers at the University of<br />

St Andrew's asked people to write out<br />

words, over and over again. About<br />

two thirds of them reported ‘Jamais<br />

Vu’, meaning ‘never seen’.<br />

One psychologist explained:<br />

'<strong>The</strong>re is something about repeatedly<br />

encountering the same word that<br />

causes your awareness of that word<br />

being a proper word to remain<br />

unchanged, while your subjective<br />

experience of encountering that<br />

word starts to go a little ‘off’.'<br />

‘Jamais Vu’ is often called a<br />

‘dissociative experience’ — where<br />

aspects of conscience experience,<br />

that normally work seamlessly<br />

together, break down.


History<br />

Was it really? . . .<br />

Hairpin bends on the Silk Road in Asia. .<br />

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. . . 700 YEARS AGO on 8 <strong>January</strong> 1324 that Marco Polo<br />

died. This Venetian/Italian merchant, explorer and writer<br />

is best known for his book <strong>The</strong> Travels of Marco Polo which<br />

detailed his travels along the Silk Road in Asia.<br />

. . . 200 YEARS AGO on 8 <strong>January</strong> 1824 that Wilkie<br />

Collins, British novelist and playwright, was born. He is<br />

best known for <strong>The</strong> Woman in White and <strong>The</strong> Moonstone,<br />

regarded as the first modern British detective novel.<br />

. . . 175 YEARS AGO on 13 <strong>January</strong> 1849 that the Colony<br />

of Vancouver Island was established. It became part of<br />

Canada in 1871.<br />

. . . 150 YEARS AGO on 25 <strong>January</strong> 1874 that Somerset<br />

Maugham, British playwright, novelist and short story<br />

writer, was born.<br />

. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 20 <strong>January</strong> 1899 that Clarice Cliff,<br />

British ceramic artist, was born.<br />

. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 21 <strong>January</strong> 1924 that Vladimir<br />

Lenin, Russian Communist leader, died. He was the<br />

architect and first head of the Soviet Union.<br />

. . . ALSO 100 YEARS AGO on 22 <strong>January</strong> 1924 that<br />

Ramsay MacDonald became Britain’s first Labour Prime<br />

Minister.<br />

. . . 80 YEARS AGO from 17 <strong>January</strong> to 18 May 1944 that<br />

the WWII Battle of Monte Cassino, Italy, took place.<br />

This Allied victory is regarded as the hardest-fought<br />

and bloodiest battle of the war, with around 250,000<br />

casualties.<br />

. . . 75 YEARS AGO on 10 Jan 1949 that RCA launched<br />

the 7-inch 45-rpm vinyl record, commonly known as the<br />

single.<br />

. . . 60 YEARS AGO on 11 <strong>January</strong> 1964 that the US<br />

Surgeon General published a report which concluded<br />

that cigarette smoking caused lung cancer and chronic<br />

bronchitis. This was the first official US government<br />

report on the health issues of smoking.<br />

. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 1 <strong>January</strong> 1999 that the Euro officially<br />

became the new currency in 11 European countries.<br />

BOOK REVIEWS<br />

Sunday - A History of<br />

Religious Affairs through 50<br />

Years of Conversations and<br />

Controversies<br />

By Edward Stourton, SPCK £29.99<br />

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Radio 4 listeners are familiar with<br />

Edward Stourton of BBC Radio<br />

4's Sunday programme. Here he<br />

chronicles over 50 years of current<br />

affairs on Sunday, in collaboration<br />

with BBC Producer Amanda Hancox. Sunday has crossexamined<br />

guests on everything from the Church's answer<br />

to the cost-of-living crisis, to the debate around female<br />

bishops; from the abuse within the Catholic Church, to the<br />

new wave of anti-Semitism. Not to mention the evolving<br />

debates on pertinent issues such sexuality, bioethics,<br />

nuclear weapons, and many more!<br />

Edward Stourton provides critical reflections on how<br />

religion has impacted some of the world's most epochmaking<br />

moments. <strong>The</strong> book also includes interviews<br />

with well-known leaders such as Desmond Tutu, Rabbi<br />

Jonathan Sacks and Enoch Powell.<br />

Sunday lies at the intersection of ethics, politics,<br />

and religion. It has featured hundreds of stimulating<br />

discussions, and is a testament to how religion remains a<br />

powerful force in the lives of most people, whether of faith<br />

or non-believers.<br />

Brighter Days - 12 Steps<br />

to Strengthening Your<br />

Wellbeing<br />

By Patrick Regan, SPCK £12.99<br />

<strong>The</strong> demands of modern living<br />

take their toll on all of us. Yet we<br />

can feel as though we’re the only<br />

ones who are weary, overwhelmed,<br />

or anxious. <strong>The</strong> truth is that we<br />

all have days where life feels too<br />

much. So this book is packed full of<br />

practical tips, on how to invest in your emotional, mental,<br />

physical and spiritual health, so that you can look forward<br />

to a healthier and more hopeful future.<br />

God Never Gives Up on You<br />

— What Jacob's Story Teaches<br />

Us About Grace, Mercy, and<br />

God's Relentless Love<br />

By Max Lucado, 10Publishing £11.30<br />

Ever wonder if you’ve gone wrong<br />

too many times for God to use<br />

someone like you?<br />

This is a book for members of<br />

the Lost Halo Society – for the<br />

strugglers among us and the<br />

fumbler within us. We are all of us part saint, part<br />

scoundrel. We mean well, but we don’t always do well. We<br />

have breakthroughs and breakdowns, often in the same<br />

hour. We need no reminder of our failures, but we could<br />

always use a refresher course on God’s perfect plan.


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PUZZLE PAGE — 1<br />

BIBLE CROSSWORD<br />

ACROSS<br />

1 Paul said the wrath of God ‘is being revealed from heaven’<br />

against this (Romans 1:18) (11)<br />

9 Go smite (anag.) (7) 10 ‘But — I have risen, I will go ahead<br />

of you into Galilee’(Matthew 26:32) (5)<br />

11 ‘Take and —; this is my body’ (Matthew 26:26) (3) 13 Type (2<br />

<strong>The</strong>ssalonians 2:10) (4)<br />

16 ‘Woe to those who — iniquity’ (Micah 2:1) (4)<br />

17 ‘How shall we — if we ignore such a great salvation?’<br />

(Hebrews 2:3) (6)<br />

18 Opposite of evens (4)<br />

20 Previously cited (Latin) (4)<br />

21 ‘<strong>The</strong>re is surely — — of God in this place, and they will kill<br />

me because of my wife’ (Genesis 20:11) (2,4)<br />

22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>The</strong>ssalonians were warned to keep away from every<br />

brother who was this (2 <strong>The</strong>ssalonians 3:6) (4)<br />

23 Beat (anag.) (4)<br />

25 To trouble or afflict (Job 16:3) (3)<br />

28 Part of a roof (1 Kings 7:9) (5)<br />

29 Attain (Job 5:12) (7)<br />

30 Insect noted for its gymnastic ability (Psalm 78:46) (11)<br />

DOWN<br />

2 Smell (John 11:39) (5)<br />

3 Lion’s home (Jeremiah 25:38) (4)<br />

4 ‘Jesus Christ is the — yesterday and today and for ever’<br />

(Hebrews 13:8) (4)<br />

5 Tidy (4)<br />

6 Made their home (Genesis 47:27) (7)<br />

7 <strong>The</strong>ir task was to carry the curtains of the tabernacle<br />

(Numbers 4:25–26) (11)<br />

8 Timothy’s was called Lois (2 Timothy 1:5) (11)<br />

12 <strong>The</strong> Lover likened the fragrance of the Beloved’s breath to<br />

these (Song of Songs 7:8) (6)<br />

14 Times Educational Supplement (1,1,1)<br />

15 Eight-tentacled sea creatures (6)<br />

19 ‘And lead us not into temptation, but — us from the evil<br />

one’(Matthew 6:13) (7)<br />

20 D.L. Moody’s legendary song leader, — D. Sankey (3)<br />

24 Rarely used musical note (5)<br />

25 ‘Your will be done on earth — it — in heaven’ (Matthew 6:10)<br />

(2,2)<br />

26 and 27 ‘<strong>The</strong> Lord Almighty will — them with a — , as when<br />

he struck down Midian at the rock of Oreb’ (Isaiah 10:26) (4,4)<br />

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to identify the verse. Good luck, and God Bless!<br />

Write your answers here . . .<br />

ANSWERS TO LAST MONTH'S FOOTBALL VERSE SEARCH<br />

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16 - Shelter (6)<br />

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19 - Large group of cattle (4)<br />

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can only appear once in a row, column or box.<br />

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December<br />

Solutions<br />

Wise Men and St Paul meet Jesus<br />

<strong>The</strong> Wise Men and St Paul were both<br />

on trips when they first encountered<br />

Jesus, but how different those trips were!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Wise Men, whom we remember<br />

on Epiphany (6 Jan) were seeking the<br />

One for whom the Star shone, and<br />

came to Bethlehem to worship him. St<br />

Paul, whose conversion we remember<br />

this month (26 Jan), was on his way to<br />

Damascus, seeking to kill those who<br />

worshipped Jesus. When the Wise<br />

Men encountered the Baby Jesus, they<br />

worshipped Him and gave Him gifts of<br />

gold, frankincense and myrrh. When<br />

St Paul, the proud, fanatical Pharisee,<br />

encountered Jesus, he fell blinded on<br />

the road, and then worshipped Him by<br />

giving Him the rest of his life. St Paul<br />

endured years of suffering and hardships<br />

in his work as the great apostle to the<br />

Gentiles. His mighty faith in Christ has<br />

kindled similar belief in many hundreds<br />

of millions of people down the centuries.<br />

CONVERSION<br />

SUFFERING<br />

ENCOUNTER<br />

SEEKING<br />

APOSTLE<br />

BLINDED<br />

KILL<br />

BABY<br />

WISE<br />

MEN<br />

TRIPS<br />

PAUL<br />

JESUS<br />

DIFFERENT<br />

EPIPHANY<br />

BETHLEHEM<br />

GIFTS<br />

GOLD<br />

PROUD<br />

ROAD<br />

SHONE<br />

STAR<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

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O N E R O U S A N V I L<br />

R C S I R E D<br />

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C M O C E A N U<br />

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