August 2021 Monterey Bay Parent Magazine
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august 2021
FUTURE OLYMPIAN
IN THE FAMILY?
We have
answers to
Parents’
Questions
about
Sports
Last Chance
Summer Fun
Road Trip
Advice
A Weekend
in Sausalito
plus
Back to School
Advice
Don’t miss the Back to School Bash at Del Monte Center on August 14!
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Contents
august 2021
in each issue:
14 Father’s Day
Local dad, Rob Weisskirch
covers parenting topics from
a dad’s point of view.
24 Dear Teacher
Two long time teachers
answer your questions about
education.
16 Sittin’ on the Dock of the Bay:
A weekend visit to Sausalito. A
weekend spent in this sweet little
town is the perfect end of summer
refresher.
18 Camping in Mexico. Our “Grandma
Says” columnist took her new camper
for a week’s visit to Mexico. She
shares everything she learned in case
you’re considering doing the same.
by Tricia Vlasak
20 What to Do? What to Do? Last minute summer fun for
your family. by Ni Sun-Suslow
22 All-Star Answers to Parents’ Sports Questions. If you’re
dreaming of sports stardom (or a college scholarship) for
your child, we talked to a few experts to get advice.
by Lissa Carlson
27 Back to School Tips. Help your kids manage their emotions
with these three quick tips.
Notice the “smart links”
throughout this issue?
28 Out and About. Our top picks for August fun.
You can use them to explore extra
content. Position your phone
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on the cover
Dominic (13) and Anthony (11) Esquivel
are athletes that have benefitted
from the opportunity to participate in local
youth sports programs. They currently
play for the Monterey Bay Pirates travel
baseball league and have been involved
in youth baseball leagues since the age
of 4. Their mom Milda, is a local financial
advisor with Edward Jones. Their father
Enos is the General Manager at Asilomar
Conference Grounds. Enos has had the
pleasure of coaching the boys through a
large part of their baseball years.
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from the publisher…
Back to school! It’s hard to believe that we’re
entering another school year with the cloud
of COVID-19 hanging over us. The vaccines
certainly have been great news. Monterey
County has vaccinated over 70% of the
population 12 and above. Unfortunately,
the vaccine approval for children under 12
is still not expected until winter/early 2022.
That means kids (and teachers even if vaccinated) are going back
to school wearing masks. But the good news is that they ARE
going back to school. To help parents get ready, we are hosting
the Back to School Bash on August 14 from 10 am to 3 pm at
Del Monte Center in Monterey. This special event is sponsored
by Stanford Children’s Health, Del Monte Center, and Poptopia
Balloons. The first 300 children will receive a lunch tote, plus there
will be giveaways and goodies galore. Plus, Poptopia will have an
awesome balloon backdrop perfect for your back-to-school photos.
Please join us for a fun, informative day at Del Monte Center.
One thing you’ll notice about this issue are the QR codes sprinkled
throughout. All you need to do is hover over the code with your
phone, and you’ll get a pop-up link that will take you where you
need to be for additional info. Whether you’re using a code to
register your child for our Cover Kids contest (page 11), to sign up
for our newsletters (page 27), or to get additional events (page 28),
we’re hoping they will make things a little easier for you.
Happy back to school – enjoy your August!
Andrea Breznay/Publisher
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Contributing Writers
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lissa carlson
ni sun-suslow
tricia vlasak
rob weisskirch
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7Tips for a Winning Cover Kids Entry
Each year when our staff looks over the hundred-plus photos
we receive in our Cover Kids contest, there are always a few
standouts. The ones that catch our eye usually have a few things in
common: casual styling, great lighting, natural smiles, and simple
backgrounds.
If you’re planning on entering your child in this year’s contest
(see details to the right), here are seven tips that will help you
choose the best photo to enter. Best of luck to all entrants!
Face front. Be sure your child is looking directly at the camera. Eye contact is
1. essential, and we want to see your child’s entire face in the frame.
Keep it casual. Catch your child playing or when they’re quiet and involved
2. in an activity. Don’t try to dress them up, style their clothing, and expect a
relaxed photo.
Lighting is the key. Photos with dark shadows or with your child squinting
3. into the sun won’t portray them in the best light (pun intended!). Photos
taken during the “golden hour,” which
is the hour after sunrise and an hour
before sunset, offer the best lighting.
If you’re indoors, bounce light off
walls or put your child near a window.
Be sure to avoid backlighting, which
results in a photo where the child is
darker than the background.
Watch the background. A
4. simple beach, open grass at the
park, a hiking trail – all offer simple but
beautiful backdrops for a good photo.
Avoid busy street scenes, signs, or
crowded street scenes. And, definitely
avoid a bunch of distracting people in
the photo with your child.
Your child’s personality
5. should shine. A twinkle in the
eye, a little bit of a smirk, missing front
teeth, or a huge grin – little extras
make one cute kid stand out from all
the other cute kids.
In focus, please. Blurry and
6. low-resolution photos are pretty
much the worst offenders. We print
photos out to 5 x 7 to choose the
finalists. If we print your photo and
everything is fuzzy, we’ll have a hard
time telling what your child looks like.
Don’t take it personally. Every
7. year we have to make a choice,
and there are always kids we wish
we could choose. If your child isn’t
chosen, it’s not because they aren’t
adorable, it may be because we have
enough sibling groups or we need a
child of a different age. We try to vary
the models by gender, age, ethnicity,
city, and sibling groups that will work
for specific cover themes. We promise
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RETURNING
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Would you like to see your
children on the cover of
Monterey Bay Parent?
It’s time for our annual Cover Kids
Contest to find some of the cutest kids
in the area!
Enter a photo of your child, children,
or family before September 15.
A panel including Monterey Bay Parent employees, our
cover photographers, and representatives of our sponsors
will choose nine favorites from all of the entries.
• Each finalist will have a professional photo shoot and
appear on a cover during the coming year.
• Each of the nine chosen entries will receive a
$50 Del Monte Shopping Center gift card.
• All entrants will receive a children’s ticket
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Adventures
With Archie
Meet our new
Instagram Bloggers,
Beau and Archie Jackson
Q: Tell us about your family
A: I am a full time at-home dad. I
have a BFA in Studio Art and am a
professional watercolor artist. My wife,
Archie’s mom, Danielle, is a Labor
& Delivery RN in the CHOMP family
Birth Center. I grew up in Alaska
and Danielle grew up in Southern
California. We met at college on
the east coast. After exploring the
country together while Danielle was
a travel nurse, we found Monterey
and felt an instant connection to the
peninsula. It had everything we were
looking for in a home and we moved
here permanently two weeks after
visiting for the very first time in 2017.
We decided that this was where we
wanted to start a family and Archie
was born in August of 2018.
Q: Tell us about Archie,
what does he enjoy doing?
A: Archie loves playing outside, helping
cook in the kitchen, and reading books.
He can quote long passages from his
favorite books and likes pretending
to be different characters. He’s a big
fan of tractors, trucks, trains, and fire
engines. His current favorite color is
purple and he says he wants to be a
fire fighter when he grows up. Another
long term goal he is looking forward to
is turning 5 years old so he can have
chewing gum. He’s very friendly and
outgoing, saying hello to everyone
when we’re around town. He likes to
go tide pooling and look for starfish.
He always thoughtfully reminds me
to be careful not to step on the sea
anemones!
Q: how do you choosE
your activities?
A: I choose some activities based on
what’s happening seasonally, like trips
to farms for picking fruit or harvesting
vegetables. I choose other activities
based on Archie’s interests. One week
he said, “I want to ride a boat,” so we
headed down to El Estero and rode a
duck pedal boat. He’s been really into
trains for a while so we took him to
ride a steam engine at Roaring Camp.
I’m always trying to feed his curiosity.
Q. Where does your
inspiration come from when
selecting activities?
I follow a lot of local businesses on
social media to stay tuned in to what’s
happening on the peninsula. I like
to engage in as many local events
as possible. Fostering a sense of
community for my son is important to
me. I follow a few child craft accounts
on Instagram like kidscrafts101 to spark
activity ideas, and I’m a member of a
couple of Facebook parenting groups
like 1000 Hours Outside that are also
helpful for adventure ideas.
Follow us on Instagram to see each week’s edition of
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Use #adventureswitharchie to catch up on past posts
Each thursday, Beau and archie post about
a new activity to inspire your family
Q: What are some of your
favorite “family day”
activities with your son?
A: On my wife’s days off we like family
hikes at Point Lobos, Garland Ranch,
Soberanes Point, and Garrapata State
Park. We also enjoy beach picnics at
Asilomar and Lover’s Point.
Q: What do you hope to teach
your son by having these
adventures with him?
A: We provide him opportunities for
a broad range of experiences to help
him grow into a well-rounded person.
We front-load him with adventures
to feed his curious mind, and I think
so many more brain connections are
made with experiences involving all
the senses. A lot of our adventures
take place outside because I believe
nature is crucial for children’s physical
development and emotional wellbeing.
Creativity is something I really value.
Exposing our son to as much handson
learning as possible in a wide array
of activities will help cultivate his
imagination and encourage out-ofthe-box
thinking. Our goal is to help
him discover what he’s good at and
find his passion.
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Father’s day by Rob Weisskirch
Kids and
Road Trips
With summer in full swing, there is
still time for a family road trip. For
me, road trips are both nostalgic and
opportunities for new experiences
with my family. Recently, we headed
south to Los Angeles to visit relatives
we have not seen since before the
pandemic. I have learned lots of tips to
have a successful family road trip.
In preparing for the trip, it is easy
to cede the packing to mom. As a
dad, if you are not doing the packing,
I suggest you take charge of the incar
snacks. I have become responsible
for the snack bag (with consultation,
of course) and ensure a good mix of
healthy and less healthy treats, salty
and sweet ones, and novel snacks. To
make the long car ride less tiresome,
special, car-trip-only snacks help,
even if they are junk. This time, it was
special gummy candy, which was
doled out in intervals for all to enjoy.
I also loaded up the tablet with
movies and kid-appropriate TV
shows. I am not a fan of the electronic
babysitter, but on a long car trip, I
don’t see much harm in providing my
daughter with entertainment that she
doesn’t usually watch. We also limited
the amount of time watching the
screen to after lunch so that there was
an incentive for expected behavior. It
worked, and there was far less whining
as a result. Headphones are essential
for happy parents, and I have found
that the over-the-ear type is more
comfortable for most kids.
I want my daughter to see the
expanse of what California looks like
outside of our area. My wife and I
are veterans of long car trips with our
parents and recall many hours spent
staring out the window. We talked
about how the landscape of dry,
yellow hills, oak trees, and stray cows
was more of what California looks like
than the beachy coastline where we
live. As we drove, I pointed out the
neat rows of almond trees and the oil
rigs in the middle of the state so that
she would learn more about California.
I showed her the California aqueduct
and explained how the water travels
south to supply the residents. We also
talked about the range of temperature,
given the summer heat.
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As a kid, I remember being told to
wait to use the bathroom until another
exit or two (or more). I now do the
opposite. We take advantage of the
expected rest stops, stretch our legs,
and feel the difference in the climate.
I especially like this part of the road
trip. On our coastline, summer often
seems like a mythical creature. The
intensity of the heat is a novelty (for a
limited time). My wife and I both grew
up in hot places, so it is reminiscent
of our pasts. It is a new experience of
hunting for the shady spot, keeping
a drink handy, and being wary of
metal playground equipment for our
daughter. We also read the signs about
the region’s history, learning how the
Native Americans shaped the land and
the animals seen in the area (including
warnings of rattlesnakes).
In the past, I would have focused
just on getting to the destinations. This
time, we stayed in a reasonably-priced
Santa Barbara hotel on the way home
for two days. With the last year of
being at home, we felt like the benefits
of exploring somewhere new and
mitigating risks by wearing masks were
worth the detour. My family would
accompany my father on sales trips he
would take to the cities and towns up
and down California as a child. While
he was out drumming up business,
my mother would take my sister and
me to see what the town had to offer.
“As we drove, I pointed out the
neat rows of almond trees and the
oil rigs in the middle of the state so
that she would learn more about
California.”
We saw lots of historical sites, local
museums, playgrounds, or just enjoyed
the hotel pool. For my daughter, I want
her to know the diversity of places and
see the uniqueness of towns on the
way. Knowing we were going to travel
to Santa Barbara, I looked at what kidfriendly
activities were there. I planned
one major kid activity (the Zoo) and
then left the other time open to figure
out something else to do. We ended
up finding a great science museum
that offered fun for all of us.
Once we returned to the hotel,
we joined our daughter in the small
pool to be her playmates. As a family,
we rarely are in a pool together.
Fun was had as we chased each
other underwater, had splash fights,
and I threw my daughter up in the
air to land with cannonballs in the
water. As a dad, I would hope my
daughter would learn lots from the
Zoo and science museum, but it is
these activities that my daughter
will remember--the playful, relaxed
activities as a family.
For a successful road trip, you
need to set aside the expectations of
a rigid schedule and adopt the right
attitude of exploring what you see
along the way. Take the time to read
the posted information, try new foods,
and explore what is unique about your
destination. We don’t usually have
to watch carefully for rattlesnakes at
home, but we did on this trip.
Robert (Rob) S. Weisskirch,
MSW, Ph.D., CFLE is a Professor of
Human Development at California
State University, Monterey Bay and is
a Certified Family Life Educator. He
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elementary school aged daughter and
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A weekend visit to Sausalito
Sittin’ On the
Dock of the Bay
“The Dock of the Bay” by Otis Redding
is arguably one of the greatest pop
songs ever written. The song is filled
with emotion: peace, awe, and a little
loneliness. In the summer of 1967,
Redding was on a houseboat at Waldo
Point in Sausalito, California, when
he first began penning the lyrics to
“Dock of the Bay.” The first line he
wrote down was, “Watching the ships
come in and then I watch ‘em roll
away again,” after being inspired by the
sights and sounds of the San Francisco
Bay. Sausalito will do that to you.
Drive across the Golden Gate
Bridge or step off the ferry from San
Francisco into Sausalito, and you’ll
swear you’ve landed in a quaint
European city. The boutiques, art
galleries, scenic waterfront walks,
homes perched on the sides of the
hills, and boat-filled marinas give off
Italian coast vibes. It’s the perfect
destination for a short family vacation
or a romantic adults-only getaway (in
which case you have permission to
skip the Discovery Museum!).
WHERE TO STAY
There are a variety of options for
lodging in Sausalito. The familyfriendly
Cavallo Point is within walking
distance of the Bay Area Discovery
Museum and offers grand views of the
Golden Gate Bridge. The Casa Madrona
Hotel & Spa is a gorgeous landmark
on the National Register of Historic
Places. Most Sausalito hotels are of the
boutique variety, so if it’s a national
chain you’re looking for, you’ll have
better luck in Corte Madera (10-minute
drive) or San Rafael (20-minute drive).
WHAT TO DO
While you can easily enjoy a couple
of days in Sausalito without anything
more pressing on your schedule than
strolling the town and sitting by the
bay, here are a few places you may
want to explore:
Bay Area Discovery Museum. Located at
the foot of the Golden Gate Bridge on
7.5 acres of National Parkland, BADM
features exhibition spaces and daily
programs for children six months
to 10 years. A long, wide pathway is
centered between the two rows of
exhibition rooms so kids can roam
from one space to another. There are
outdoor play spaces, including BADM
Beach, which is surrounded by comfy
Adirondack chairs. Parents can relax
and take in the gorgeous view of the
Golden Gate Bridge while the kids play
with the sand toys.
Our family favorite was the bubble
garden. Giant tubs of bubbles and
various wands, including shovels with
dozens of holes, are available for kids
to fill the air with bubbles.
Advanced ticket reservations are
required due to limited capacity.
San Francisco Bay Model. The U.S. Army
Corps of Engineers Bay Model is a
working hydraulic scale model of the
San Francisco Bay and Sacramento-
San Joaquin River Delta System. While
the Bay Model is still operational, it is
no longer used for scientific research
but is instead open to the public
alongside educational exhibits.
The Bay Area Discovery Museum is one of
the best children’s museums in the state and
is suitable for children six months to about
ten years of age.
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The Army Corps of Engineers built the Bay Model in
1956-57 to demonstrate what would happen if the South Bay
were dammed (as had been proposed). Using simulated tidal
action, the Corps proved that the results would be disastrous
for the bay environment, and the plan was shelved.
The model is approximately 320 by 400 feet long. It
is constructed out of 286 five-ton concrete slabs joined
together like a jigsaw puzzle. Features that affect the water
flow of the San Francisco Bay and Sacramento-San Joaquin
Delta are reproduced, including ship channels, rivers, creeks,
sloughs, the canals in the Delta, fills, major wharves, piers,
slips, dikes, bridges, and breakwaters.
The model is located in the Bay Model Visitor Center at
2100 Bridgeway Blvd. in Sausalito.
Sausalito Boardwalk. Sausalito is a town made for walking,
and there’s no better place for a stroll than the Sausalito
Boardwalk. The term “Sausalito Boardwalk” is generally used
to refer to three different places in the town (only two of
which have wooden sidewalks.)
The Bridgeway Promenade is not specifically a
boardwalk but a road that runs through town. You’ll use
Bridgeway to get almost anywhere in Sausalito by car, but
it’s nice to take a walk or bike ride to check out the many
locally-owned boutiques and art galleries.
The Southern Boardwalk is near Sausalito’s Old Town.
This is the spot where you’ll have spectacular views
across the bay to San Francisco that will be the backdrop
for a gorgeous photo or ten. You’ll find plenty of shops,
restaurants, and galleries to explore. The Northern Boardwalk
stretches along the yacht harbors near downtown.
Schoonmaker Beach. This tiny beach is tucked away from the
tourist part of Sausalito and is perfect for safe wading and
fun sand play. You can even launch a paddleboard–it’s a
great, protected spot for learning! This little hidden beach
has a bathroom and easy, free parking.
Pick up takeout and have a beach picnic or step across
the parking lot to Le Garage, a French bistro housed in a
renovated garage for lunch. Open Tuesday through Friday
at 11:30 am, you’ll find indoor-outdoor seating and tables
overlooking the water. The food is delicious, the wine list
expansive, and they have a children’s menu.
Vista Point. Each year the Golden Gate Bridge attracts more
than 10 million visitors to its 746-foot tall towers, sweeping
main cables, and signature orange color. There isn’t a more
Instagram-worthy photo than one of the bridge with the San
Francisco skyline behind it, fog swirling around the base. The
perfect place to take that photo is Vista Point.
Right after you exit the bridge from San Francisco into
Marin, you’ll find the turn-off. Parking is usually readily
available even if you have to circle once or twice. Time your
stop for late morning, and you may be able to catch the fog
burning off against blue skies. Later in the afternoon, you
may luck into spectacular sunset skies.
While we can’t promise Sausalito will inspire you to write a
legendary song, we can promise that you’ll fall in love with
this lovely little city by the bay. Whether it’s your first visit, or
one of many, it’s a great choice for a laid-back weekend visit
–hopefully soon.
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Camping
in Mexico
Planning is key
for this vacation!
With COVID still a concern, many
families have chosen to choose
vacations that keep them off crowded
airplanes, out of busy hotels, and
a little more in control of their
environment. My husband and I are
part of that group!
I have had a travel trailer since my
early twenties and have been camping
my whole life. Until this summer, I
never had difficulty finding places
to camp, and usually without much
planning. When my kids were young,
we would hook up the trailer and take
out the Rand McNally Atlas (how is that
for a throwback!) and pick a place on
the map and take off for the weekend.
I discovered this past Spring that those
days are long gone. I began planning a
summer vacation for my husband and
me and could not find any camping
spots. I remembered that several
friends had told me they started
camping in Mexico, and I set out to
plan a camping trip to Mexico. This
being my first time driving into Mexico,
I learned some things along the way
that may help you if you are interested
in a Mexican camping vacation (or
even driving your vehicle to a Mexican
vacation destination).
RESEARCH IS KEY
When I began planning this trip, I
thought it would be an inexpensive
way to camp at the beach. I had met
people who talked about camping in
Rocky Point (Puerto Peñasco), Mexico.
Rocky Point is located 210 miles
southwest of Phoenix, Arizona, on
the Sea of Cortez (Gulf of California).
There is a stretch of beach with highrise
condominiums on it and, although
they would be considered inexpensive
on the California coast, they are pricey
for Mexico. I joined a Facebook group
for Rocky Point and started reading all
of the information shared there.
I chose a campground called The
Reef RV Park. The Reef is located at the
very end of a popular beach area called
Sandy Beach. Ocean-front camping
spots were just $40 per night, with full
hook-ups. The sites are roomy, and the
location is quiet and away from the
resorts further down the beach. There
is a restaurant/bar at the campground
with good food and lots of outdoor
seating covered by a thatched roof.
There is live music on weekends.
Making reservations was easy, and
you can pay by mail with a check or
through your bank’s bill pay system.
There is a requirement for
insurance on your vehicle and
anything you may be towing. I ended
up purchasing a policy through the
“MexPro” website. The policy was fairly
expensive–about $310 for five days.
MAKING THE DRIVE
As for crossing the border, technically,
you should have a passport to get
into Mexico and get back into the
U.S. However, this particular border
crossing (Lukeville on the Arizona side,
Sonoyta on the Mexico side) seems
fine with just a driver’s license. We also
had our expired passports and birth
certificates. However, I advise erring
on the side of caution and getting at
least a passport card.
When we crossed into Mexico,
a Mexican officer requested to look
inside the truck, including the glove
compartment and inside the trailer.
They just did a visual search, opening
only a couple of cabinets. After that,
they sent us on our way. Just a
reminder: firearms or ammunition are
not legal to bring into Mexico. If you
are planning a trip to Mexico, be sure
to review the U.S. Department of State
guidelines online. I had already been
warned to be careful not to speed in
Mexico and that while travel between
Arizona and Rocky Point is safe, it is
best to make the drive during the day.
PLANNING YOUR MEALS
You cannot take most meat, some
types of dog food, or fruits and
vegetables into Mexico. As a result,
we traveled with nothing other than
bottles of water and soda. There are
local groceries stores, including a
Sam’s Club. Rather than figuring out
what was okay and what wasn’t, we
chose to stop in Puerto Peñasco and
buy groceries and dog food.
TRAVELING WITH PETS
We did take our two dogs with us.
Animals should be up-to-date on
their vaccinations and be sure they
have been treated with flea and tick
preventative. To avoid any issues
about ownership, have a dated photo
of your animal on your phone that
shows proof of ownership.
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WHAT TO EXPECT AT
YOUR CAMPGROUND
We found the campground easily. Our
campsite was huge, with way more
than enough room for a 30-foot trailer
and a crew cab truck. We arrived just
in time for a stunning sunset. Our
vacation was at the beginning of
July, the onset of the hot and humid
weather for the area. It was about 90
degrees during the day with 70 and 80
percent humidity every day we were
there, in other words, very hot and
humid. After talking to other travelers
and locals, we learned that the prime
season to go to Rocky Point is during
the Fall and Spring.
ACTIVITIES
During our five-day stay, we spent a lot
of time swimming. You can drive your
vehicle right onto the beach at Choya
Bay, and it seems to be a popular spot
for locals. The water at Rocky Point
is quite warm, almost to the point of
not being refreshing. We spent time
fishing and chartered a private fishing
boat. It was inexpensive compared to
the U.S. They provide poles, bait, and
even filet your fish for you. Parasailing,
zip-lining, and jet ski rentals abound.
There are several places to rent offroad
vehicles, with plenty of places to
ride them. There are also boat tours
to “Bird Island” where you can snorkel
and kayak.
A WARNING
Our trip ended with a bit of trouble. We
had been warned about speeding, so
I was careful. However, heading back
into the border town of Sonoyta, the
speed limit changed quickly from 60
KPH to 40 KPH. I was pulling a trailer
and slowed down as quickly as I could
– but not quickly enough! I was pulled
over for going just under 50 KPH. The
officer took my license and issued me
a ticket, stating the cost for speeding
was 2000 pesos ($100). However, I
only had about $10 cash. We followed
the officer to several ATMs, all of
which were out of order. We finally
ended up losing the officer in traffic.
The officer still had my license. So, not
knowing what else to do, we located
the police station. I went inside and
told them what had happened. Long
story short, the Police Chief was called
to the station. In the meantime, the
officer dropped by the station and left
my license there. He ended up telling
me to drive safely and gave my license
back to me. That whole scenario
added a couple of hours to our trip
home and was pretty nerve-wracking.
However, I never felt in danger at all. It
was an interesting way to end the trip
and gave us yet another story to tell!
A LEARNING EXPERIENCE
Overall, I would say the trip was
enjoyable as well as a learning
experience. I would go back again
during better weather. And, unless
I had more time, I would not pull
my trailer again. I would love to try
camping on the Pacific Ocean side of
Mexico, maybe Rosarito Beach.
As more things open up and
travel returns to normal, I’m hoping
that camping will become just a little
less popular again. In the meantime,
stay safe, enjoy your time with family,
and use the tools available to make
whatever trip you take amazing.
tricia vlasAK
is a mother,
grandparent, and
wife. She works in
law enforcement
when she isn’t
writing about
parenting, hiking
with her dogs, or going on adventures.
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What to do? What to do?
Last chance summer fun!
As summer winds down, parents in Monterey and Santa
Cruz counties might be on the lookout for ways to
engage in last minute summer activities with their children.
Here is a list of choices for kids of all ages:
In Santa Cruz, check out the Seymour Marine Discovery Center
at 100 McAllister Way. Here kids can have fun with the
interactive displays, aquarium, family tour and arts and crafts.
For more information, visit https://seymourcenter.ucsc.edu/.
Also in Santa Cruz is Santa Cruz Main Beach at 399 Beach
Street. This beach boasts the best coastline in Santa Cruz.
There’s paddle boarding, kayaking, fishing and beach
volleyball for older kids, and plenty of sugary white sand for
toddlers to build sandcastles on or throw a ball around or
bury each other in the sand.
In San Lorenzo Park at 137 Dakota Avenue in Santa Cruz, kids
can play on the playground, visit the duck pond and feed the
ducks, throw a ball and play games on the grassy lawn.
The Santa Cruz Mystery Spot is a cool place to check out,
although school aged kids would get the most out of it. It sits
within the Redwood Forest. Take your family to the Mystery
Spot for some cheap family fun as you look through its
gravity-defying displays. After exploring the facility, you can
head outdoors and enjoy a scenic hike through the tall trees.
The Monterey Zoo is a fun place to visit at 400 River Road in
Salinas. Marina resident Anna Munoz likes to take her 8-yearold
son there as it is handicap accessible. They like seeing
the zedonk (a cross between a zebra and a donkey). She says
there are a variety of species at the zoo such as bald eagles,
birds of prey and primates such as lions, tigers and bears.
MY Museum at 425 Washington Street in Monterey is now
open with summer hours from Wednesday to Sunday from
10am to 12pm or 1 to 3pm. Reservations and masks are
required. Admission for children and adults is $10. Kids under
24 months are free. My Museum provides an environment
where curiosity and creativity flourish, while both children
and adults discover the thrill of lifelong learning.
Munoz also likes to take her son for picnics on the grass in
front of Colton Hall Museum at 570 Pacific Street in Monterey.
Across the street is Monterey Museum of Art boasting
outdoor metal sculptures.
Pacific Grove Library Youth Services offers many programs for
kids of all ages. The library is located at 550 Central Avenue
in Pacific Grove. Check their online calendar for events and
dates.
For a fun water activity, kids and their parents could go
kayaking at Elkhorn Slough at 2390 Ca-1 in Moss Landing.
Since golf is more of a grownup game, there is an alternative
for kids: disc golf. There is a course at CSUMB.
For more outdoor fun, one does not have to go far for a
fun camping experience. Locals can camp at Monterey Pines
RV Campground on Higuera Lane and also at Monterey
Veterans Memorial Park at 1200 Veterans Drive in Monterey.
Also, picking up supplies to make S’mores are a great treat
and fun for kids to make while camping.
Hiking is a great choice for kids and adults, given the variety
of parks in Monterey County. Here are a few choices for
getting your hike on:
• Toro Park is located at 501 Monterey-Salinas Highway 68
in Salinas.
Beaches, parks, hiking, attractions and more! we have great ideas for the rest of your summer!
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• Jacks Peak Park is located at 25020 Jacks Peak Park Road
in Monterey. There is a cost of $5 per vehicle
• Fort Ord National Monument is located at
Toro Creek Road in Marina.
• Pinnacles National Park is located in
San Benito and Monterey Counties.
Camping is also offered here.
• Garland Ranch Regional Park is located at
700 West Carmel Valley Road in Carmel
Valley. Garland Ranch offers several
different hiking trails, with both beginner
and more advanced trails. The
park also has a
Visitor Center with
maps and a park
model.
• Garrapata State Park is located at 34500
CA-1 in Carmel.
Hover your phone’s camera on
image to get contact info for all
of our suggestions.
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All-Star Answers
to Parents’ Sports
Questions
By Lissa Carlson
What’s the best age to start a sport?
This answer varies depending on
the sport and what you hope your
child will gain. Most experts suggest
anything before age 6 should be
focused on physical activity and fun,
with no score keeping. By age 7 and
8, kids have the skills necessary to try
team sports, while competitive sports
are best reserved for ages 9 and older.
The benefits of sports to a child’s
development are many: motor skills,
teamwork, physical activity, and even
improved vision.
We asked experts at the National
Alliance for Youth Sports (NAYS) as
well as an award-winning college
coach/recruiter to answer some of the
best questions parents have about kids
and sports. NAYS provides training and
guidance to youth sports programs
across the U.S.
Any guidance in choosing a sport?
Consider a child’s personality when
deciding on the right fit. You’ll want to
ensure your child has the abilities to
be successful and confident. Some kids
may welcome an aggressive outlet,
which sports can provide, while others
may not want the pressure of being
part of a team, Engh says.
In his experience with parents
over nearly 30 years, parents typically
want their kids to gain socialization
or learn about winning and losing.
“Generally, the last thing parents say is
they want them to be a great baseball
player,” he says.
Once you choose the sport, review
your options. “If you want your child to
learn and have fun,” Engh says, “make
sure the team you’re joining is about
learning and fun and not creating an
all-star team.”
For greater challenge, travel teams
and club leagues offer an elite level
of competitive play. These teams
require a commitment to travel, time,
and expenses beyond those found
in school or park and rec programs.
Some families find themselves working
around other family members and
duties to honor the team expectations.
Parents must review whether that
commitment works for their family
and if the benefits outweigh the
considerable investment. Additionally,
Engh cautions parents to consider
whether the added expenses and
commitments guarantee their child
any more playing time.
Make sure you look at the “fine
print” in any program, no matter how
innocent it may seem, Engh says.
Each program should have printed
guidelines for parents, including
expenses you can anticipate. Consider
“hidden” costs beyond program fees,
such as uniforms, shoes, competition
travel (gas, meals, hotels), etc.
Is it ever “too late” for kids to start playing a
new sport?
No, according to Hannah Dave, head
field hockey coach for the Wolves at
Newberry College in South Carolina.
Dave, who was named 2019 Field
Hockey Coach of the Year by Synapse
Sports, started playing field hockey her
freshman year of high school.
“I went to college with kids who’d
been playing since 6 years old, and
I started in high school,” Dave says.
“Starting early is going to be the best
for someone who really wants to go
to the next level, but I would say no,
it’s never too late. There will always
be different levels of participation
available.”
For the late bloomer, you might
consider a personal coach. John Engh,
executive director of NAYS, says the
use of private training is one of the
biggest changes he’s seen in the last
decade. It was discouraged prior to
that, but as kids have become involved
in sports at increasingly earlier ages,
private training can provide an older
child new to the sport a chance to get
up to speed. “The only caveat is know
who that person is because there’s
absolutely no one overseeing their
work,” Engh warns.
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Should we specialize in a single sport?
Most medical advice encourages parents to delay sports
specialization for as long as possible. The risk of overuse
injuries, not to mention burnout and performance pressure,
outweighs any advantages a young person might have
in focusing all their effort on one sport. In fact, versatile,
multi-sport athletes tend to be viewed advantageously by
recruiters.
Are there guidelines for how much a child should practice and play?
NAYS (nays.org ) makes the following recommendations:
• Ages 6 and younger: Limit practice and games to a
maximum of one hour per day, twice weekly.
• Ages 7 to 10: Limit time to one hour per day, three times
weekly.
• Ages 11 and older: Limited to 1.5 hours per day, three
times weekly.
Why do kids quit sports?
NAYS has studied this since the 1980s. The top reason kids
quit a sport is because it’s just not fun anymore. What makes
a sport no longer fun? Time and parent pressures, Engh
says, as well as greater self-awareness. The kid who thought
baseball was fun may see top kids on the team excelling and
become aware that they are not as good a player.
What’s a parent to do? You can try taking a break or
playing at a less competitive level, but ultimately, Engh says,
“there comes a time when you just have to let it go.”
We have a star athlete. What’s the likelihood of an athletic
scholarship?
The odds are slim – about 2 in 100 athletes – and most
aren’t a free ride. Check out ScholarshipStats.com for
current information on playing college sports and athletic
scholarships based on individual sports, from baseball to
water polo.
Engh advises parents to wait until high school before
deciding their child is surely destined for the pros. It’s
premature to base a child’s talent on play before then
(although he admits that recruiters for certain sports
consider those early successes). “Keep a clear head and
evaluate where they’re at in high school, when age gaps
tend to level out,” he says.
Should we invest in an agent?
That depends on the sport, head coach Dave says. It’s alright
if you don’t want to join a club league, yet it may require
you to be a bit more proactive in reaching out to colleges.
Finding someone who knows the college recruiting process
can be advantageous.
Engh agrees. “If your child is older than 15 and they’re
getting letters from colleges,” he says, “an agent is probably
not a bad idea.”
What’s always a big advantage in a recruiter’s eyes?
Supportive families, Dave says. “I do think it makes or breaks
how you coach, how you play,” she says. “I always want my
players to play for themselves first, but I also tell them they
need to play for those who are supporting them.”
Lissa Carlson, a writer of parenting topics for more than
20 years, sees the great benefits of sport participation and
admires families who commit to it.
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Did you know
that reading aloud
to children
helps them to . . .
VOCABULARY
1.BUILD
2.
INCREASE
COMPREHENSION
dear teacher by By Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts
Q: I know that it is important to read out loud to young
children. During the Pandemic, I have been reading a lot
to my younger children. Should I also have been reading
to my older children in middle school and high school?
At what age should you stop reading to children?
– Wondering
A: Your question is a concern of many parents. While many parents stop
reading to their children when they are able to read on their own, it is
very beneficial to continue reading to children even in their early teen
years. Research shows that reading aloud to school children of all ages
will definitely improve not only reading skills but also listening skills and
academic performance.
Unfortunately, the percentage of parents who read aloud to older children
drops drastically for children over the age of 5. This is way too early to stop
reading to your children. When surveyed, older children say that they enjoy
read-aloud time. In fact, children of all ages enjoy listening to a good story.
3.
IMPROVE
LISTENING SKILLS
4ḌISCOVER LONGER BOOKS
LIKE THE CLASSICS
6.
BROADEN
KNOWLEDGE
OF DIFFERENT
GENRES
5.
HELP
IMPROVE
DISCUSSION
SKILLS
7.
LESSEN TIME SPENT
ON ELECTRONIC
DEVICES
8.
PROMOTE
READING BEYOND
SCHOOLWORK.
Good readers succeed in school. Poor readers have far more problems with
subjects that require considerable reading. Help your children regardless of
their age to become active readers who are engaged with the printed page.
This is very important for your children’s ability to comprehend what they
are reading. The following questions will help you and your children talk
about the stories that you are reading to them:
• Do you think this story could really happen? Why? Why not?
• Did you think a certain event in the book was funny or sad?
• Would you like to be friends with a character in the book?
• If you were the major character in the book, what would you have done
differently?
• Would you like to be able to do something the hero of the book did?
Besides reading fiction to your children, be sure to include
interesting nonfiction works that
will add to their knowledge of
the world.
Parents should send
questions and
comments to
dearteacher@
dearteacher.com and
to learn more about
helping their children
succeed in school visit the
dearteacher website.
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What is happening in
classrooms this year?
SAFETY CONCERNS
There are still some unknowns about how your children’s
classes will look like when they return to them this month.
All schools in California, both public and private, are guided
by the CDPH Schools Guidance. This outlines what schools
should follow for the 2021-2022 school year. Everyone,
regardless of vaccination status, must wear masks while
indoors . Masks are optional outdoors.
CATCHING UP?
No matter what your children’s school will look like, it is clear
according to all the experts that most will not have learned
what they would have learned without the disruption of the
pandemic. This is especially true for those children who have
a special education diagnosis. Many were not able to receive
the accommodations that they were entitled to on their
Individual Education Plans (IEP).
It is very important this year for parents to attend Back
to School Night–whether online or virtual– to learn firsthand
how their children’s teachers are planning on handling
any learning deficiencies their children may have suffered.
There has been a wide variance in how much students have
learned in online programs. Teachers are potentially in the
dark about what their students learned last year because of
the lack of standardized testing data. For all of these reasons,
you really need to hear directly from the teachers what their
curriculum will look like for your children and how they plan
to close any learning deficiencies. It’s also important to know
what you will be expected to do at home to help your child.
RESOURCES
There are two things that can help you see where your
elementary and middle children currently are academically.
One is to determine their reading level. The San Diego Quick
Assessment test will provide you with this information. You
can find it online and on our dearteacher website. Two,
you will find helpful to know what your children should
have learned last year in most of their subjects. It is easy
to find this information. Just go to the State of California
education department website (www.cde.ca.gov), and type
in curriculum or content standards and the grade you are
looking for.
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BACK TO SCHOOL TIPS
Whether it’s your child’s first day of kindergarten or the start
of middle school, back-to-school season can bring a range
of feelings for the entire family. This year may be more
emotional as many families spent a large part of the past two
school years at home due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
“It’s important to remember that even in the best of
times, it’s normal for children to express feelings of sadness,
isolation or stress,” said Tyreca Elliott, from KinderCare
Learning Centers. “Learning how to address those feelings
helps us build self-confidence, resilience and independence.
Offering comfort, reassurance and assisting with problem
solving will help children learn and grow from stress in a
positive way.”
Consider these tips to help your children manage
emotions during the transition back to school.
PLAN AHEAD: The fear of the unknown can be
1. stressful. Children who aren’t able to clearly articulate
their feelings likely won’t be able to make the connection
between new, uncertain situations and their feelings. Instead
they may become overwhelmed by emotions, which might
look like more meltdowns, clinginess, or a variety of other
behaviors. Talk with your children about how they feel about
going back to school ahead of the first day of class. Ask
questions to help them determine why they feel particular
feelings when they think about school then work together
to solve potential issues. That could mean finding a way
to meet your children’s teachers ahead of time, whether
virtually or in-person, or practicing introducing themselves
to classmates.
BUILD A CONSISTENT ROUTINE: Routines can give
2. children (and adults) a sense of security and structure,
which in turn make it easier to cope with big emotions like
stress and anxiety. Try to stay consistent, and if you need
to make adjustments, talk them through with your children.
Make sure your children have opportunities to ask questions
about any changes to routines. They may need reassurance
before they’re ready to face something new.
CREATE SPECIAL FAMILY MOMENTS: As important as
3. routine is, it’s just as important to prioritize quality time
together. That could mean something as simple as Saturday
bike rides or Sunday morning pancakes. Plan a family outing
or special time together to celebrate completing the first
week of school. Family rituals and celebrations can give
children and adults something to look forward to.
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OUT & ABOUT Our top picks for AUGUST
8/3 FREE! Preschool Stories at Jewell
Park. Miss Mary and Barnaby
Bear will be reading stories
and singing songs. All ages
are welcome. However, the
content will specifically be
developmentally appropriate
for preschoolers. Presented by
Pacific Grove Library and held
weekly on Tuesdays.
www.pacificgrovelibrary.org
8/7, 8 Salinas Valley Food & Wine
Festival 2021. Main Street will
be filled with wine tasting stops,
food sampling stations, live
music, artist/artisan vendors, and
the opportunity to experience
world-class wines, craft beers,
and gourmet foods. Admission
to the main festival is free.
Purchasing a ticket includes
wine and beer tastings along
with samplings of culinary
delights from local chefs,
caterers, and restaurants.
salinasvalleyfoodandwine.com
8/7 FREE! 2021 Hiroshima-Nagasaki
Remembrance Day and Peace
Lantern Ceremony. This beautiful
and moving tradition honors
those who suffered the atomic
bombings in 1945. The event
starts at 7 p.m. with lantern
making and traditional Taiko
drumming by Shinsho Mugen
Daiko. Sundown will signal the
launching of the peace lanterns.
peacecentral.wordpress.com
8/14 FREE! Monterey Bay Parent
Magazine Back to School Bash.
Join us Del Monte Center in
Monterey as we celebrate back
to school!. Vendors will be on
hand with information about
preschool options, private
schools, medical care and much
more. The first 300 children
will get a free lunch tote from
Stanford Children’s Health.
We’ll also have an amazing
back to school themed balloon
installation for photos. Lots of
freebies and giveaways.
montereybayparent.com
8/15 70th Annual Pebble Beach
Concours d’Elegance. A tradition
going back over half a century,
the Pebble Beach Concours
d’Elegance is where the
world’s collector cars meet and
compete. Only the 200 best
collector cars in the world roll
onto the legendary 18th fairway
of Pebble Beach Golf Links.
pebblebeachconcours.net
8/23 FREE! We Create Art Festival 2021.
This is a week-long street and
public art installation in the
West End focused on bringing
two artists together on one wall
to celebrate and merge their
individual styles and create
unique public masterpieces for
all to enjoy. Twelve artists will
collaborate with each other on
six walls throughout Sand City,
over the course of a week.
wecreateart.com
8/28 FREE! Monterey Greek Festival
2021. You won’t be able to
resist the mouthwatering smell
of traditional Greek food. While
you’re munching on dolmades,
you can watch traditional dance,
listen to music and even learn
a little at a cultural lecture. Sip
a cup of Greek coffee while
you order that ever-popular
dessert, baklava. Then step up
to the stage yourself for a lesson
in Greek dance! A traditional
taverna will open in the evening,
serving Greek and American
beer, wine and ouzo.
montereybaygreekfestival.
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at MontereyBayParent.com/Calendar.
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*Home School Program – Grades TK-12
*Independent Study Program – Grades 9-12
*Fully Accredited by WASC!
*No Interdistrict Transfer Required to Enroll!
At Monterey County Home Charter School, students are given a
rich, individually designed, tuition-free education while studying in
a nonclassroom-based environment. Enrichment and intervention
classes, workshops, field trips, tutoring sessions, concurrent enrollment,
and weekly meetings with fully credentialed teachers give
students every opportunity to succeed.
For more information or to enroll, contact:
Monterey County Home Charter School
901 Blanco Circle, Salinas, CA 93912
(831) 755-0331 • www.mchcs.org
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MONTEREY COUNTY FAIR
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friendship
The path to
begins
in Monterey Bay Parenthood
The benefits of
membership:
• A supportive community
through our private
Facebook group
• Discounts for Monterey
Bay Parent events, contests
and giveaways, and early
access to tickets and
promos.
• Discount directory just
for members with offers to
local attractions, restaurants,
classes and more
• Special events just for
members and their families
JOIN TODAY Charter membership is just $35/year!
General & Cosmetic Dentistry
Vista Robles Dental Group
Offering:
• Family dentistry
• Pediatric dentistry
• Restorative dentistry
• Cosmetic dentistry
• Accepting new patients
• Courtesy insurance billing for
most dental insurances
Dentists Linda Martin
DDS and Esmeralda
Muñoz DDS, of Vista
Robles Dental Group
can give you a healthy
beautiful smile that you
can take pride in.
Modern cosmetic dentistry
techniques make it easier
than ever for you to have a
bright, even smile.
(831) 372-7548
www.montereybaydentist.com
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Stop Struggling
Start Learning
Located on 60-acre
campus just minutes
from Monterey Bay,
Chartwell School is
an indepedent day
school for students
grades 1-12 who think
and learn differently.
1:1 College Counseling
No more than 10
students per class
3:1 student teacher ratio
Project based learning
and monthly field
experiences
Chartwell School
2511 Numa Watson Road, Seaside, CA 93955
Tel 831.394.3468 chartwell.org
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