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In Loving Memory of the late<br />

DR. BENJAMIN<br />

FOLESON


BURIAL, THANKSGIVING AND COMMENDATION SERVICE FOR<br />

THE LATE DR. BENJAMIN FOLESON AT THE ACCRA RIDGE<br />

CHURCH ON FRIDAY, 13TH MAY 2022 AT 8:00AM.<br />

OFFICIATING MINISTERS<br />

Rt. Rev. Sampson K. Gyabeng<br />

Methodist Minister, ARC<br />

Rev. Andrew J. T. Odjawo<br />

Presbyterian / Coordinating Minister,<br />

ARC<br />

Rev. Canon Samuel L. Lamptey<br />

Anglican Minister, ARC<br />

VISITING MINISTERS<br />

Very Rev. Samuel Kofi Kankam<br />

Superintendent Minister, Kasoa Circuit<br />

Very Rev. Dr. Matthias Forson<br />

Methodist Church Ghana<br />

Rev. Paul Ngwintige<br />

2nd Minister, Bethel Society- Kasoa<br />

Rev. Dr. Rayford Alex Kwakye (Retired)<br />

Assemblies of God Church<br />

MUSIC DIRECTOR<br />

James Opoku Agyeman<br />

IN ATTENDANCE<br />

Tema Youth Choir<br />

PRE-BURIAL SERVICE<br />

1. Reception of Remains of the<br />

deceased for viewing<br />

2. Hymn MHB 427 (Through all the<br />

changing scenes of life)<br />

3. Prayer<br />

4. File – Past Hymns from Pre-<br />

Burial Hymn Book (20, 39,56, 27,<br />

32, 59, 21,10)<br />

5. Closing of casket by family<br />

Representatives.<br />

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BURIAL SERVICE<br />

1. Scriptural Sentences<br />

2. Purpose of Gathering<br />

3. Hymn MHB 679 (Pleasant are<br />

Thy courts above)<br />

4. Prayer<br />

5. Hymn MHB 896 (Now praise we<br />

great and famous men)<br />

6. Biography of the deceased<br />

7. Tributes<br />

8. Hymn MHB 602 (Father, I know<br />

that all my life)<br />

9. Scripture Readings:<br />

Frances Ellen Sankah<br />

i. 1 Cor. 15:20-26,35-38,50-58<br />

ii. John 14:1-6,27<br />

10. Hymn<br />

MHB 608 (Captain of Israel’s hope<br />

and guide)<br />

11. Sermon<br />

12. Affirmation of Faith<br />

13. Offering and Christian Charity:<br />

Melodies by Tema Youth Choir<br />

THANKSGIVING /<br />

COMMENDATION<br />

1. Hymn<br />

2. MHB 831 (Give me the wings of<br />

faith to rise)<br />

3. Thanksgiving / Commendation<br />

Prayers<br />

4. Notices and Acknowledgements<br />

5. Closing Hymn MHB 215 (The<br />

strife is o’er, the battle done)<br />

6. Prayer and Benediction<br />

7. Dead March in Saul<br />

8. Recessional Hymn<br />

MHB 830 (Hark! The sound of holy<br />

voices)<br />

INTERMENT<br />

1. Sentences<br />

2. Hymn<br />

MHB 975 (When the day of toil is<br />

done)<br />

3. Committal<br />

4. Vote of thanks<br />

5. Parting hymn<br />

6. MHB 914 (God be with you till we<br />

meet again)<br />

7. Benediction<br />

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Biography


Dr. Benjamin Kweku<br />

Fori Foleson was the<br />

grandson of the late<br />

Nana Adoko Ababio<br />

II, Omanhene of<br />

Mankessim traditional<br />

area. As a result he was<br />

a proud member of the Royal Pakasedo<br />

Nsona family and later in life was selected<br />

as Ebusua Baatan. His father was the late<br />

Nana Yanfo Asuako VII (T K Foleson),<br />

Omanhene of Agona Asafo.<br />

Born on 28 May 1941 at Ntronang, of<br />

the Birim North District, in the Eastern<br />

Region, he had a curious mind even when<br />

he was a toddler.<br />

According to his mother Madam Mary<br />

Sampson of blessed memory, young Ben<br />

asked many questions; he wanted to<br />

understand what his father’s friends spoke<br />

about. Possibly, that was the beginning<br />

of his eagerness and innate tendency to<br />

accumulate knowledge.<br />

Right from the start, Kweku was selfdriven.<br />

He was keen to enrol formally in school<br />

even before he was old enough for school.<br />

Fortunately, he had a head start over his<br />

contemporaries; Given that he was tall,<br />

he passed the ‘Philippino’ test’ easily and<br />

started school. His diligence and quest<br />

for knowledge propelled him to excel in<br />

elementary school. He was subsequently<br />

influenced to attend the prestigious<br />

Achimota school by his cousin the late<br />

W.S Parker and his aunt the late Mrs.<br />

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Susan deBordes (Nee Sampson), who had<br />

been old students of Achimota School. At<br />

the time most men in the family attended<br />

Adisadel College starting from his late<br />

Uncle J.H Sampson.<br />

Whilst at Achimota School, Ben was<br />

on scholarship till he finished A-Level<br />

because of his outstanding academic<br />

performance. After A-Level, he enrolled<br />

at the University of Ghana to study<br />

Biochemistry. Shortly after, he joined<br />

a group of students on a government<br />

scholarship to Germany to study Medicine<br />

in 1961. He studied at Bonn University<br />

from 1962 to 1968. He then continued<br />

with a Doctorate in 1969. Immediately<br />

after that, he decided to study Hygiene<br />

and Family Planning at the Liverpool<br />

School of Tropical Medicine to prepare<br />

him for practice back home in Ghana.<br />

Dr. Foleson was plunged into the world<br />

of work when he returned to Ghana in<br />

May 1970. He started work in Ho and<br />

then worked for a short while in Peki.<br />

After a year, he took over the Achimota<br />

Hospital where he worked until 1973.<br />

He proceeded to the Korle-Bu Teaching<br />

Hospital for further training till 1977.<br />

While at Korle-Bu, he learnt from<br />

Professor Aidoo and from Professor Addy,<br />

under whose tutelage he honed his skills<br />

in the science and art of medicine. In<br />

later years, he would recall that season<br />

as being the highlight of his professional<br />

development. From there he went on to<br />

establish a private practice which he ran<br />

successfully from 1977 to 1990.<br />

He also worked at Bank of Ghana, where<br />

he retired in 2001 as Director and Head of<br />

the Medical Department.<br />

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After his retirement, he consulted for the<br />

World Bank after which he made a career<br />

pivot to insurance consultancy, initially<br />

working for Metropolitan Insurance and<br />

later on for GlicoHealth. He subsequently<br />

became Chief Executive Officer of<br />

GlicoHealth. At his death, he was the<br />

Chairman of the Board of Directors of<br />

GlicoHealth and a member of the Starlife<br />

Board. He ultimately fulfilled his dream of<br />

being able to work till the end.<br />

Dr. Foleson’s life was not only about<br />

medicine, he enjoyed a good laugh and a<br />

good swig.<br />

Also an adventurist, he never shied away<br />

from trying new things - be it venturing<br />

into boxing promotion, setting up a band,<br />

running an auto mechanic workshop or a<br />

printing press, even forex trading, he did<br />

them all!<br />

Dr. Foleson was a stickler for structure<br />

and order. In all his dealings, he was very<br />

principled. He believed in and practised<br />

philanthropy, touching many lives in<br />

significant ways through his generosity. He<br />

had great respect for professionals and his<br />

fantastic sense of humor was not lost on<br />

people who first encountered him.<br />

Outside work, he took a keen interest in<br />

the affairs of his Alma Mater. He served<br />

on the Board of Governors of Achimota<br />

School from 1990 to 2000. He was also<br />

an active member of the Old Achimotan<br />

Association (OAA) and was elected as its<br />

president from 1996 to 2001.<br />

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Dr. Ben Foleson was a loving father. He<br />

left behind four (4) daughters; Bridget,<br />

Britta Nana Antwiwaa, Maame Esi and<br />

Nana Aba.<br />

Beyond his nuclear family, he was very<br />

committed to his extended family. In his<br />

late years, he sought peace of mind and<br />

peace with those who were close to him.<br />

From 2007, he spent almost every summer<br />

in Germany with family and the friends<br />

he still had from the years of studies in<br />

Bonn in the 1960s. Covid-19 interrupted<br />

his series of visits, but he lives on in the<br />

minds of those who know him and love<br />

him there.<br />

He also made peace with his God. When<br />

his days on this earth were fulfilled, he<br />

went on another trip; only this time to see<br />

his Heavenly Father.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mrs. Briget Sankah<br />

“He will wipe away all tears from their eyes. There will be no more death, no<br />

more grief or crying or pain. The old things have disappeared. Amen.”<br />

Rev.21 verse 4:<br />

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So hard, so difficult to find<br />

adequate words in this<br />

situation. Truly I lack<br />

the words but I must say<br />

something to bid my dad<br />

farewell as he bows to<br />

eternal glory.<br />

My dad has ended up being my hero in life<br />

and I am thankful. He was a good enough<br />

person to call him my dad. Your journey<br />

began with an entrance into this world and<br />

it’s ending with an exit from this world. My<br />

dad was an incredible man. He provided<br />

for his family and children. He was ever<br />

ready to give even if it will cause him some<br />

discomfort. I am grateful and I miss him<br />

every day.<br />

Today I am remembering my dad and the<br />

great memories we shared. He was one of<br />

a kind. Dr, as affectionally called by family<br />

and friends, was a good man and my<br />

greatest role model. I could call him back<br />

at any time and he always had a solution<br />

to my problems. Life without him is really<br />

different, but I am grateful I got to call<br />

him dad.<br />

Growing up, while every child was like<br />

“sweet mother”, mine was otherwise as<br />

in “sweet father”. He was my biggest fan.<br />

He taught me to be an independent and<br />

a strong woman. He was always in good<br />

spirits even until his sudden demise.<br />

When the call came through on that day,<br />

I was heartbroken. Everything around me<br />

became obsolete, because a great tree had<br />

fallen. I least expected it was going to be<br />

that soon. This is the time I need to be<br />

around my dad to experience retirement<br />

season but all the plans have been<br />

scattered. I have lost my most courageous<br />

and resourceful man.<br />

I never questioned if he ever loved or<br />

cared for me, because he made it so<br />

obvious. I still feel he is with me now.<br />

Dad, as mortals, if we focus on the pain of<br />

transition, you would miss its purpose.<br />

Poppi, Dr. Continue to rest in Abraham’s<br />

bosom till we meet again. Damirifa due,<br />

Poppi rest in perfect peace.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Britta Nana Foleson<br />

Beloved Father,<br />

Even though we had<br />

often been geographically<br />

far apart our hearts were<br />

always one.<br />

Our unquestioned<br />

intimacy caused a mutual understanding<br />

across the continents.<br />

Your intelligence and keen wit were<br />

impressive, your humour heartening.<br />

I will always remember our times together<br />

and keep the joy we had deep in my heart.<br />

I will always bear you in remembrance and<br />

that will continue to live within me and<br />

accompany me through life.<br />

Every time I‘ll look into a mirror I will see<br />

you— within me.<br />

I KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS WATCH<br />

OVER ME !<br />

MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT<br />

PEACE !<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Maame Esi Foleson<br />

Dear Poppie,<br />

When I was born, you<br />

were Papi and I chose<br />

to call you Poppie.<br />

You were not only my<br />

father; you were my<br />

provider, my friend, confidante and my<br />

adviser.<br />

You were always my sounding board.<br />

You never judged. You would listen and<br />

ask how I felt about the situation and<br />

would share your opinion if you thought<br />

differently.<br />

When I was much younger, you taught<br />

me the art of questioning and making<br />

weighted choices.<br />

You were also my first personal finance<br />

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When I was much younger, you<br />

taught me the art of questioning<br />

“and making weighted choices.<br />

management teacher, yet you were always<br />

so generous. How many times did I have<br />

to tell you, ‘No thank you I’m okay with<br />

cash.’<br />

You positively affected the lives of<br />

others and it’s incredible to see just how<br />

boundless your reach has been.<br />

Poppie, I terribly miss the times spent<br />

together catching up on life. I miss your<br />

‘wicked’ sense of humour. You always laced<br />

our conversations with your humour and<br />

dry wit. Now I am beginning to realize,<br />

with your passing, just how naive I was<br />

before I was forced to confront death’s<br />

discourteous blow. This is by far the most<br />

painful, heart-rending and life-altering<br />

experience I’ve been made to endure.<br />

I take solace in knowing that you are no<br />

longer in pain and that suffering is no<br />

longer something you have to endure. Still,<br />

I would give anything to have you back.<br />

Thank you so much for your support over<br />

the years. You were an amazing father<br />

and I couldn’t wish for any other. You are<br />

absolutely the best and I thank God for<br />

your life.<br />

“I love you.”<br />

Those were your last words to me.<br />

I love you too, Poppie. Now and forever<br />

more.<br />

Rest well till we meet again.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mrs. Nana Aba Odartei-Laryea<br />

My Father,<br />

“Poppie”, as we<br />

affectionately<br />

called him, was<br />

an intelligent<br />

and kindhearted<br />

man who had a great sense of humor. He<br />

loved to tell jokes which made everyone<br />

around him happy. He was always ready<br />

to listen and I am forever grateful for his<br />

God-given ability to give the best advice on<br />

issues brought to his attention. Whether<br />

it was academic matters, career decisions<br />

or health related issues, you could rest<br />

assured that he would give you sound<br />

advice.<br />

One of the most important lessons I learnt<br />

from my father was to stay focused and<br />

work hard towards achieving my goals, and<br />

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“<br />

One of the most important<br />

lessons I learnt from my father<br />

was to stay focused and work<br />

hard towards achieving my goals<br />

this is something I will forever cherish.<br />

He loved his grandchildren dearly and it<br />

was always a pleasure to visit him with<br />

them. He always filled the toffee jar<br />

with their favorite sweets and enjoyed<br />

answering their many questions. Poppie<br />

was always the first person to call on<br />

special occasions to wish us well.<br />

Thursday, March 17th, 2022 is a day I will<br />

never forget. On that fateful day, my father<br />

and I walked together into the Korle-Bu<br />

Teaching hospital for his surgery. He was<br />

so full of life, and we chatted the whole<br />

day. He even explained the whole medical<br />

procedure he was about to undergo to me<br />

and showed me videos of how it would be<br />

done. Little did I know that he would not<br />

make it out of the hospital.<br />

On Sunday 20th March 2022, when I<br />

said “goodbye Poppie, see you tomorrow“<br />

before leaving his bedside, I had no idea<br />

those would be my last words to him.<br />

Rest in Perfect Peace “Poppie”, I know you<br />

are watching over all of us.<br />

May the road rise up to meet you, may the<br />

wind be always at your back, may the sun<br />

shine warm upon your face, the rains fall<br />

soft upon your fields and until we meet<br />

again, may God hold you in the palm of<br />

His hands. Amen.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mrs. Efua Kwakye<br />

Imet you for the first time when<br />

I was 9. You had returned from<br />

Germany to attend a funeral.<br />

On that weekend of the funeral,<br />

specifically the Sunday night,<br />

both our lives changed forever;<br />

I lost my dad who was your brother.<br />

Grandma took care of me since then until<br />

I completed middle school. You had again<br />

returned from Germany and was working<br />

at the Achimota School Hospital, so<br />

grandma brought me to you and you took<br />

me in as your own daughter and made sure<br />

I furthered my education by enrolling me<br />

into the Achimota Business College.<br />

I completed college and you were my<br />

first employer. You gave me a job as your<br />

secretary at the then newly established<br />

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“<br />

I take consolation in the Lord<br />

that it shall be well.”<br />

clinic at North Kaneshie (Folsfit Clinic).<br />

All this while, I was living with you and<br />

you took care of me until I was 26 and got<br />

married under your supervision.<br />

Papa, as I have always called you, you<br />

invited my family to your birthday party<br />

last year and it was all joy. You have been<br />

supporting me medically since your last<br />

birthday and I saw great improvement in<br />

my health.<br />

I will not forget 25th Dec 2021 as it was<br />

the last time we all gathered together<br />

as a family with you with us. A week to<br />

your sad departure, I had visited you with<br />

my husband on my usual check-ups and<br />

we left saying “thanks”, “goodbye” not<br />

knowing it was indeed a bye for eternity.<br />

Dad, where should I send the Lab results<br />

you requested for on our last encounter?<br />

Hmmmmm….<br />

I take consolation in the Lord that it shall<br />

be well.<br />

Papa da yie!<br />

Damerefa due!! Due ne amanehunu!!!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mrs. Freda Adadevoh<br />

It is with a heavy heart that I pay<br />

this tribute to my one and only<br />

uncle. I remember when my<br />

mummy died, you asked me not<br />

to worry at all because you knew<br />

your sister had left me in your<br />

care.<br />

I would have wished you stayed a little bit<br />

long, your departure saddens me but I’m<br />

comforted because your life has been well<br />

lived and the love and care you showed me<br />

and your grandchildren and even anyone<br />

who came close to you will continue to<br />

live in our hearts. May the good Lord give<br />

you a peaceful Rest. Rest well Dear Uncle.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Ama Yeduah Eshun<br />

Grandfather and a<br />

father.<br />

I still can’t come<br />

to terms with your<br />

passing. It’s been<br />

difficult to write a<br />

tribute to you. My heart is heavy and my<br />

eyes are filled with tears as I sit to write.<br />

I was not able to join the family visit on<br />

the 25th of December, I was also down<br />

because I was on admission. The last time<br />

I saw you was on the 15th of January,<br />

2022 at Auntie Betty’s funeral. You looked<br />

absolutely regal in your black funeral<br />

cloth when I saw you off to your car. You<br />

seemed very well and who would have<br />

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thought a few months down the line I’ll be<br />

reading a tribute to you.<br />

On February 5th at 4:50 you wrote to me<br />

and I quote “Good evening Dear. Haven’t<br />

heard from each other for a while. I am<br />

fine and trust it is also well with you and<br />

the family.”<br />

Throughout my life I ran to you with<br />

my personal concerns, you gave me<br />

meaningful advice and always helped<br />

me come up with a plan. Now who am I<br />

going to talk to on this issue? I can’t find<br />

anybody. You made me feel so special.<br />

When Daddy died, he told all four of<br />

us, “I am taking you all now as my own<br />

children.” In turn, we started calling you<br />

Daddy. He frequently told Afua and I “my<br />

daughters in whom I am pleased with”<br />

anytime we called. When I discussed<br />

an opportunity I had with him, he made<br />

inquiries overseas and got me a huge<br />

discount!<br />

I met Dr. Foleson when I was 18 years.<br />

Daddy took me to his clinic in North<br />

Kaneshie because I wasn’t well.<br />

He gave me 25 Cedis on my 25th birthday,<br />

and promised to double it each year after<br />

that.<br />

He told my daughter that he would get<br />

her a special gift for her 18th birthday this<br />

year because he is a May born too. She<br />

asked me, and I told her, sadly you are not<br />

here anymore.<br />

He was like a grandfather to me before<br />

Daddy died, and then became my Daddy<br />

when my father died.<br />

I have no words to explain the pain in my<br />

heart but I take consolation in the fact<br />

that you’re resting in peace.<br />

You did not have to lay down and suffer in<br />

pain.<br />

Rest well Daddy.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Grandchildren<br />

If you focus on the pain of<br />

transition, you will miss its<br />

purpose.<br />

Sometimes things happen that<br />

you are not prepared for, hard<br />

20<br />

blows hit you like never before.<br />

There comes a time when you lose that<br />

special person.<br />

That special person whose warmth and


hugs said “ I love you and you are precious<br />

to me.”<br />

That special person who unites his family<br />

and that special person whom we love<br />

dearly.<br />

Grandpa, as we called him, was a man<br />

of service, great will, honour and good<br />

countenance.<br />

Bringing us together annually for a<br />

celebration is something we are gonna<br />

surely miss you for.<br />

Although we loved him dearly we couldn’t<br />

stop death from touching him with his<br />

cold hands and make him stay.<br />

A golden heart has stopped beating and<br />

hard-working hands put to rest.<br />

Our hearts were broken by his sudden<br />

departure.<br />

We will always remember you Grandpa<br />

because there will never be another one to<br />

replace you in our hearts and forever will<br />

we love you.<br />

Poppi, as affectionately called was always<br />

ready to sacrifice, even if it will cost him<br />

some discomfort. Our birthdays aren’t<br />

going to be same without him. Grandpa’s<br />

messages always come first accompanied<br />

with momo alerts to climax the day. To<br />

everyone gathered here, we are mourning a<br />

great man with a fulfilled life but to us we<br />

are celebrating a great man with a life well<br />

lived. Former President Abraham Lincoln<br />

once said, “in the end, it’s not the years<br />

in one’s life that count but the life in the<br />

years. Although, Grandpa did numerous<br />

things in his life, one of the things that<br />

he has been proud of is raising such a<br />

beautiful and wonderful family. We will<br />

miss you, Grandpa. As we put you to rest<br />

this day, we’re happy that, you’ve shown<br />

us eternal love and happiness through the<br />

uncounted hugs and kisses you gave us. A<br />

life well lived is the greatest achievement<br />

we’re proud of as grandchildren<br />

Damrifa Due, Agyapa<br />

Rest well in Father Abraham’s bosom.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Sean<br />

Grandpa we loved you because you were<br />

such a good person.<br />

Thank you very much for all you did for<br />

us. You liked fish and you gave us our very<br />

own fish aquarium.<br />

I really loved it when you took your time<br />

and taught me how to play chess.<br />

Every time we came to your house you<br />

always had toffees ready for us thank you<br />

very much<br />

MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.<br />

Tribute from<br />

Eileen<br />

Dear Grandpa , thank you for helping<br />

others as a doctor.<br />

I thank you for also teaching me how to<br />

play chess. I will always remember this.<br />

MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Siblings<br />

“When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled<br />

with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for<br />

a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. But sing<br />

your death song, and die like a hero going home”<br />

Tecumseh (An Indian American Soldier / Orator)<br />

The above oratory about<br />

DEATH is a cliché,<br />

a truism about the<br />

phenomenon of death<br />

that is so palpable and<br />

real to all. Yet we are often<br />

oblivious of its seriousness until we come<br />

face to face with the inevitable reality<br />

of death itself and ask for a never to be<br />

granted wish of a second chance to live a<br />

little more time.<br />

The illuminating star is called to glory. We<br />

as brothers and sisters love and cherish<br />

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“<br />

In everything, give thanks; for<br />

this is the will of God”. This is<br />

our story and song.<br />

you so much. We were shattered and<br />

downhearted by the news of your death.<br />

The pain we feel is real and has left a mark<br />

on us. A vacuum has been created by your<br />

departure.<br />

We remember your good deeds, kindness,<br />

counselling, and your compassion in<br />

dealing with situations. Kweku Ofori, we<br />

will forever remember you. We know you<br />

are resting in the bosom of your Maker.<br />

“In everything, give thanks; for this is the<br />

will of God”. This is our story and song.<br />

Your siblings say;<br />

REST IN PERFECT PEACE<br />

DA YIE, DA YIE, DA YIE ONUAPA.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Elizabeth Sampson<br />

Oh Lord, I will honour and praise your name for you are my God.<br />

You do such wonderful things! You planned them long ago and now You<br />

have established them, Amen.<br />

Isaiah 25:1<br />

“T<br />

he evil that men<br />

do lives after<br />

them and the<br />

good is often<br />

interred in their<br />

bones.”<br />

For Julius Caesar, this was said about him<br />

and this should be said of most men and<br />

indeed women. We therefore set out first<br />

to look for the evil that our brother did.<br />

It was very difficult to find the evil that<br />

our brother did. We are not saying he was<br />

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“<br />

We are saying it is difficult to<br />

find evil in such a man who had a<br />

positive view of the world,...<br />

without fault or was perfect, because there<br />

is none perfect but God.<br />

We are saying it is difficult to find evil in<br />

such a man who had a positive view of the<br />

world, one who was always discovering<br />

something new and would explain it to you<br />

with such enthusiasm that you would get<br />

excited too.<br />

So many years ago, we lived at Kaneshie<br />

when a brilliant brother Doctor returned<br />

from Germany. He was sent to work at<br />

the Hospital of his former School; the<br />

great Achimota. It was during this time<br />

his mum, my daddy’s big sister came to<br />

welcome him back home and so brought<br />

him to our home to greet his uncle, my<br />

dad.<br />

We were excited to see him as our big<br />

brother, a medical officer who had come<br />

from Germany. Dr. Ben Kweku Fori<br />

Foleson. He also stayed behind Kaneshie<br />

Mothers Inn. From our home to his was<br />

about an 8 min walk. Very often my mum<br />

would ask me to send Paano (bread) to my<br />

late Aunties (Auntie Baafowaa Sampson,<br />

Mrs. Mercy Arthur) and continue to<br />

doctor’s home and send Auntie Anna<br />

Nana Sampson’s own as well. All of them<br />

were my daddy’s ( Dada Sampson) sweet<br />

sisters. They all received me with joyful<br />

hearts including Auntie Stella Awuradwoa<br />

Kesson. Dr Ben became my Daddy’s<br />

Doctor from Achimota Hospital to Korle<br />

Bu Medical Block, then to his private<br />

practice, Folsfit Clinic at North Kaneshie<br />

Point ‘4’ then finally to the Bank of Ghana<br />

Clinic till he went on Pension.<br />

You were Daddy Sampson’s (Uncle<br />

Kweku Amankwa Sampson) special and<br />

favourite Doctor not because you were<br />

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“...you were just a brilliant<br />

brother and that was universally<br />

acknowledged.<br />

his nephew but to him, you were just a<br />

brilliant brother and that was universally<br />

acknowledged. Thank you so much for<br />

taking good care of one of your favourite<br />

uncles till he was called to Glory.<br />

You were at Korle-Bu when I became a<br />

student Nurse. You were happy to see me<br />

come to train as a nurse. I had not seen a<br />

‘dead body’ yet so Dr Foleson decided to<br />

take the fear out of me one day. He asked<br />

my matron at ward “C” to kindly release<br />

me at break time, to come for tea, at his<br />

ward. Little did I know he was going to<br />

show me a dead body and take out the fear<br />

in me since I told him I had not seen one<br />

yet. Eiii!! I nearly collapsed on seeing the<br />

dead body.<br />

Meeting at Bro. Fareed Arthur’s for his<br />

daughter’s Traditional marriage was the<br />

last time we met. We talked nineteen to<br />

a dozen and laughed our heads off not<br />

knowing that was the last time we were<br />

saying goodbye to each other.<br />

If I knew I would have had it prolonged<br />

and laughed the more since the topics<br />

were about our Grandfather, the Late<br />

famous King of Mankessim and our great<br />

mums and Fathers who have passed on.<br />

That was some good history to listen to but<br />

we cut it off because it was getting late<br />

and our homes were far.<br />

All your daughters say a big thank you<br />

to an excellent daddy who took good<br />

care of them till they became full grown<br />

mosquitoes before leaving for eternity.<br />

Brother, rest and sleep well in the soft<br />

arms of God till we meet at the shiny<br />

shore. Bye for now, good night. Amen.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

The Board of Directors, Management<br />

and staff of Glico Healthcare Limited<br />

“When great souls die, the air around us becomes light, rare and sterile.<br />

We breathe, briefly. Our eyes, briefly, see with a hurtful clarity.<br />

Our memory, suddenly sharpened, examines, gnaws on kind words<br />

unsaid, promised walks never taken”<br />

Maya Angelou<br />

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The above quotation sums<br />

up what we in GLICO<br />

Healthcare have learnt<br />

about Dr. Benjamin<br />

Foleson. He brought his<br />

vast experience in health<br />

management to bear on our operations.<br />

He was a consummate professional and<br />

very passionate about his work. When we<br />

received the sad news on Sunday, 20th<br />

March 2022, that we had lost our beloved<br />

Board Chairman, Dr. Benjamin Foleson,<br />

it shocked us all. We are heartbroken, and<br />

his loss is deeply felt.<br />

While we mourn this great loss, we pay<br />

tribute and celebrate a well-lived life, a life<br />

committed to excellence at all levels.<br />

Dr. Foleson contributed immensely to<br />

making GLICO Healthcare Limited<br />

a leading brand in the private health<br />

insurance industry. He served the<br />

company in various capacities for an<br />

unbroken period of 18 years. Before<br />

being appointed as the Board Chairman,<br />

he had held several key corporate<br />

management and board positions in the<br />

company, including Health Consultant,<br />

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General Manager, member of the<br />

Quality Assurance Review Board, and<br />

coordinator of our Continuing Professional<br />

Development events.<br />

Dr. Foleson represented GLICO<br />

Healthcare on the Board of Directors of<br />

the Ghana-Canada Medical Centre, a<br />

private joint venture medical facility in<br />

Adjirigano, Accra. He brought to the Board<br />

his several years’ experience as a Corporate<br />

Director, a medical practitioner, and an<br />

administrator. He possessed extensive<br />

experience in health care financing and<br />

delivery.<br />

Dr. Foleson was a hands-on Board<br />

Chairman who inspired colleague<br />

directors, management, and staff to give<br />

their best in every assignment. Under<br />

his leadership, GLICO Healthcare won<br />

many awards, including membership<br />

of the prestigious Ghana Club 100. He<br />

supervised the company’s transition from a<br />

private mutual health insurance company<br />

to a private commercial health insurance<br />

company. His demonstrable commitment<br />

to the objectives of the company was<br />

admirable. He was never late to any<br />

scheduled meeting, and he always came<br />

well prepared. Dr. Foleson will also be<br />

remembered for his integrity, honesty and<br />

compassion for employees. He was not<br />

only big in stature but big at heart.<br />

He was a unique and rare person who had<br />

principles that influenced all his actions.<br />

While many of us may think we have<br />

principles, Dr. Foleson was one of those<br />

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are examples of someone who lived what<br />

he believed. He was a people person and<br />

always ready to serve others.<br />

The history of GLICO Healthcare and<br />

our joint venture partner, Ghana-Canada<br />

Medical Company, will not be complete<br />

without mentioning the great contribution<br />

of Dr. Ben Foleson.<br />

On 27th January 2022, Dr. Foleson<br />

chaired the first Board meeting of<br />

GLICO Healthcare of the year, and after<br />

the meeting, we exchanged our usual<br />

goodbyes. Little did we know that the<br />

goodbye that day was the last in the flesh.<br />

Goodbye Dr. Foleson, and may you rest<br />

peacefully in the bosom of the Lord!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Glico Holdings Ltd.<br />

The GLICO Holdings Ltd.<br />

has lost an industrious<br />

man whose passion for<br />

success and dedication<br />

to see things through is<br />

unquestionable. We will<br />

miss his “pressure” to see things done<br />

on time and his technical know-how for<br />

managing health schemes and operations.<br />

Dr. Foleson was a man of great knowledge<br />

in healthcare administration, a man of<br />

action and often got frustrated when<br />

things were not done according to his<br />

directions. His passion drove his actions<br />

and he would stop at nothing to see<br />

that the desired successful results were<br />

achieved; this, we will miss dearly about<br />

him. Our only consolation is the fact<br />

that he has impacted a generation of<br />

aspirational managers and staff who will<br />

continue his legacy.<br />

Dr Foleson first came to be part of the<br />

GLICO family in the year 2004 when<br />

the founder and the Executive Chairman,<br />

Dr. Kwame Achampong-Kyei needed the<br />

expertise of a technical team to develop a<br />

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usiness and implementation Plan for a<br />

subsidiary of GLICO Holdings, now called<br />

GLICO Healthcare Ltd., which became<br />

the first health insurance company in<br />

Ghana following the promulgation of the<br />

then National Health Insurance Act, 2003<br />

(Act 650). He was part of Aidoo Mensah<br />

& Associates Limited’s team that was<br />

contracted for this service.<br />

After the business’ take-off, Dr. Foleson<br />

was made to remain with the then<br />

Gemini Healthcare (a private mutual<br />

health insurance scheme), as a resident<br />

Consultant by Aidoo Mensah and<br />

Associates Limited to support the<br />

company’s management team in attending<br />

to the usual teething challenges of a young<br />

company. Dr. Foleson played many other<br />

roles including appointment to the board<br />

of Gemini Healthcare (now GLICO<br />

Healthcare Ltd.); a member of the then<br />

Quality Assurance Review Board of the<br />

Scheme; and the Board Chairman of<br />

the Company from 2015 when GLICO<br />

Healthcare Ltd (a private commercial<br />

health insurance scheme) was registered, a<br />

position he held and performed excellently<br />

until his sudden demise.<br />

Dr. Foleson worked tirelessly in all his<br />

roles to advance the values and mission of<br />

GLICO Holdings. His contribution to our<br />

business has been invaluable, as he added<br />

not only the weight of his decades of<br />

medical practice and business experience,<br />

but also his innate wisdom, integrity and<br />

unfailing commitment to the cause of<br />

GLICO Holdings and GLICO Healthcare<br />

in particular.<br />

Dr. Foleson was also kind, humble,<br />

compassionate and above all a gentleman.<br />

What we are today as a company, and what<br />

we are striving to become, is a tribute to<br />

him and the work he did for us over many<br />

years.<br />

The news of Dr. Foleson’s sudden death<br />

on 20th March 2022 was unbelievable<br />

because he was full of life.<br />

GLICO has lost a valuable asset, but we<br />

believe God loves him best.<br />

As Mother Theresa said, “the world is<br />

full of good people. If you can’t find one,<br />

be one”; Dr. Foleson was a good person<br />

personally and professionally.<br />

Dr. Foleson, we can only bid you farewell<br />

as your mortal remains lay before us.<br />

Dr. Foleson, rest in perfect peace and<br />

ascend into Higher Glory till we meet<br />

again!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Starlife Assurance Company Limited<br />

“For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a<br />

building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands.”<br />

2nd Corinthians 5:1 (NIV)<br />

Dr. Benjamin Foleson’s<br />

sudden demise came<br />

as a shock to the<br />

entire Company.<br />

Dr., as he was<br />

affectionately called,<br />

was appointed to the Board of StarLife in<br />

September 2006. He served on various<br />

Board Committees, the longest being the<br />

Board Audit & Risk Committee which<br />

he chaired for over a decade. He was<br />

instrumental in developing the Company’s<br />

Anti-Money Laundering Compliance and<br />

Enterprise Risk Management Policies<br />

and Programmes. Until his demise, he<br />

chaired the Board Governance & Strategy<br />

Committee and served on the Board<br />

Audit & Risk and Board Remuneration &<br />

Nomination Committees.<br />

Dr.’s dedication and commitment were<br />

noticeable by all who encountered him<br />

in and outside the Boardroom. Also<br />

noticeable was his attention to detail,<br />

fairness and flair for the correct use of<br />

the English language. He was punctual<br />

at meetings and actively participated in<br />

discussions, asking probing questions<br />

and making valuable contributions<br />

toward governance and operations<br />

of the Company, while ensuring all<br />

stakeholder interests were considered. His<br />

amiable demeanour encouraged friendly<br />

atmosphere even in challenging situations.<br />

With eagle eyes, he scrutinized every<br />

Report and Minutes and made valuable<br />

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“<br />

We cherish your selfless<br />

service on the Board, which<br />

has propelled the Company to<br />

remarkable heights within the<br />

insurance industry.”<br />

recommendations, which he regularly<br />

followed up until Management effectively<br />

implemented them. When he chaired a<br />

Board Committee, he ensured regular and<br />

effective meetings were held.<br />

Dr., after 16 years of service to StarLife,<br />

you leave us with a legacy of industry,<br />

diligence and excellence. You have created<br />

a vacuum that can never be fully filled.<br />

We cherish your selfless service on the<br />

Board, which has propelled the Company<br />

to remarkable heights within the insurance<br />

industry. You shall forever remain in our<br />

hearts.<br />

Ayekooo Doctor!!!<br />

Rest well in the bosom of our heavenly<br />

Father.<br />

May your gentle soul rest in eternal<br />

peace!!!!!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Bank of Ghana Pensioners’<br />

Association<br />

“Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on, says the spirit ,<br />

That they may rest from their labour and their work will follow them.”<br />

(Rev 14:13 NKJV)<br />

We have all<br />

gathered here<br />

because of<br />

the love and<br />

admiration<br />

we have for<br />

Dr. Benjamin Foleson. We are here to<br />

commemorate and celebrate a life that was<br />

generously granted him by the grace of<br />

God, our Creator, to serve humanity.<br />

The entire membership of the Bank of<br />

Ghana Pensioners’ Association joins the<br />

family of Dr. Foleson in this celebration<br />

of the life he lived so well and shared, in<br />

various ways, with us. Dr. Foleson was a<br />

hallmark of love and humility.<br />

Dr. Benjamin Foleson was employed by<br />

the Bank of Ghana as a Medical Doctor<br />

(Deputy Chief Manager) on 3rd April<br />

1991, in the Bank’s Medical Department.<br />

He endeared himself to management and<br />

the entire staff by his forthright manner<br />

and approach to his responsibilities. He<br />

was dedicated and very cooperative and<br />

dutiful. Indeed he loved his work and will<br />

forever remain in the hearts of the many<br />

patients he brought relief to. The Bank of<br />

Ghana and the medical profession has lost<br />

one of its gems.<br />

He was described as a competent director<br />

with a very high sense of responsibility. He<br />

was unassuming and related very well with<br />

both the high and low in the Bank who<br />

sought medical advice and treatment from<br />

him. He was the people’s doctor.<br />

Dr. Foleson retired as an Assistant<br />

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We are exceptionally blessed to<br />

have worked with Dr. Foleson as<br />

“a father, brother and a friend.”<br />

Director after 31 years of Service in the<br />

Medical Department. Spending 31 years<br />

in the service of the Bank means the prime<br />

of his adult working life was dedicated to<br />

this institution.<br />

Dr. Foleson’s dedication to duty was<br />

inspiring and unmatched. He had good<br />

interpersonal relationships and exhibited<br />

friendly love to all. It is remarkable that<br />

at the time the Bank had only a few<br />

doctors, but he was neither overwhelmed<br />

by the sheer number of patients he had to<br />

attend to on a daily basis nor did he ever<br />

complain about the workload.<br />

His professionalism calmed the nerves<br />

of patients he attended to no matter how<br />

agitated they were about their medical<br />

condition.<br />

Doc, may the Good Lord look favourably<br />

on your service to humanity and reward<br />

you with a peaceful rest in the bosom of<br />

father Abraham.<br />

You will be fondly remembered by the<br />

Bank of Ghana Pensioners for your loyal<br />

and dedicated service to the Bank.<br />

We are exceptionally blessed to have<br />

worked with Dr. Foleson as a father,<br />

brother and a friend.<br />

Doctor! Indeed it is painful for us to be<br />

here to bid you farewell. We are however<br />

grateful to the Lord that he lent you to be<br />

of service to his creation. You are finally<br />

leaving this earthly plane which is full<br />

of woes and tribulations to find a resting<br />

place in the bosom of God where you are<br />

assured of eternal rest in peace.<br />

Adieu, until we meet in the resurrection.<br />

FARE THEE WELL AND REST IN<br />

PERFECT PEACE!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Old Achimotan Association (OAA)<br />

“So teach us to number our days aright so we can<br />

apply our hearts to wisdom”<br />

Ps 90 : 12<br />

Akora Ben Foleson became<br />

OAA President in 1996<br />

and served 2 full terms to<br />

2001. He belonged to the<br />

1958 Year Group.<br />

Prior to becoming<br />

President, Akora Dr.<br />

Foleson had represented his Year Group<br />

regularly at the OAA Year Groups<br />

Representatives Committee Monthly<br />

Meetings during which he was known to<br />

have participated actively in discussions<br />

and made very useful contributions. He<br />

also took part in activities together with<br />

Akoras like Yaa Osei-Brimpong, Jeanberyl<br />

(Acquah-Moses) Dawson-Otoo, Akwesi<br />

Akompong and wife Auntie Aggie, Dr Yaw<br />

Osafo-Marfo, Ken Acquah and his wife,<br />

George Kwame Yeboah, Kwesi Erskine-<br />

Graham and his non-Akora partner, Mama<br />

Oye and many other Akoras who time and<br />

space cannot allow us to mention but<br />

are acknowledged and well appreciated.<br />

Akora Foleson’s collaborations led to<br />

the institution of some hallmark OAA<br />

events such as the Torchlight Procession<br />

which has become a very important<br />

entertainment segment Akoras and<br />

students celebrate together on the eve of<br />

the School’s Founders’ Day celebrations.<br />

Akora Dr Foleson became President of<br />

OAA when the new Secretariat was still<br />

going through its teething stages i.e.<br />

space, logistics, funding personnel etc.<br />

The Secretariat had to rotate temporarily<br />

from location to location. First in the<br />

office of the then OAA Secretary Akora<br />

George Yeboah at Asylum Down (Gh Pest<br />

Control) then to the next OAA Secretary<br />

Agyeman-Bempah’s Law Chambers at<br />

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America House, Tudu and finally to its<br />

current and permanent premises at the<br />

Staff Club House. When it finally started<br />

functioning from its present location the<br />

Secretariat most of the time had to be<br />

ran by only one or occasionally two staff,<br />

Akora Foleson would either call to share<br />

words of encouragement or at times find<br />

time out of his busy schedule as Director<br />

of Medical Services of Bank of Ghana,<br />

to come and check on any immediate<br />

problems the staff would be facing<br />

and how best to address them even if<br />

temporarily till a permanent solution was<br />

found.<br />

Akora Dr. Foleson exhibited great<br />

commitment to the cause of Achimota. He<br />

loved everything Achimotan to a fault and<br />

demonstrated so in many ways. He used<br />

his huge frame to advantage by galvanising<br />

Akoras young or old, present or prehistoric<br />

to gravitate towards everything good and<br />

achievable for Achimota. He brought a<br />

lot of awareness to bear on Akoras and<br />

outside donors towards the Achimota<br />

School Endowment Trust Fund (ASETF)<br />

He took his mandate as OAA President<br />

very seriously and was at times perceived<br />

as too strict. But he was fair and very jovial<br />

also and would gladly split a beer with you<br />

after some harsh scolding. And so it often<br />

happened that after heated exchanges at<br />

meetings he would invite everybody to the<br />

staff club house for refreshments where<br />

jokes and laughter would end the day and<br />

all would return home as brothers and<br />

sisters with Achimota remaining Mother<br />

ours.<br />

Dear Lord, Teach me to serve as you<br />

deserve, To give and not to count the cost,<br />

To fight and not to heed the wounds, To<br />

labour and not to seek to rest, To give of<br />

myself and not ask for a reward, Except<br />

the reward of knowing that I am doing<br />

your will. Amen.<br />

He confessed on a number of occasions<br />

that not only were these words in the<br />

School prayer humbling but they also gave<br />

him strength to keep going for Achimota<br />

in particular and mankind in general<br />

particularly in his vocation as a medical<br />

doctor.<br />

Akora Dr Ben Foleson would also confess<br />

that during his terms as President of OAA<br />

he was blessed to have a formidable team<br />

of Akoras in the OAA Executive Cttee<br />

who helped him steer affairs of this body<br />

which he loved with all his heart to some<br />

of its best years To mention but a few are<br />

the following Akora Sarah-Lynn Nunou<br />

Mansaray, Akora Harold Richardson,<br />

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Akora Kwame Osei Agyeman, Akora Yaa<br />

Osei- Brimpong, Akora Jeanberyl (Acquah-<br />

Moses), Akora Wereko-Brobbey, Akora Dr.<br />

Ntifo Akora Agnes Abutiate-Twumasi.<br />

Please forgive me if your name is left out.<br />

It’s unintended .<br />

Finally, we celebrate the band of Akora<br />

pilgrims that Akora Foleson worked with<br />

and have preceded him to the other side<br />

and may be welcoming him into their<br />

midst right now. Akora Dr. Osafo (Fears),<br />

Akora Vincent Hlomador, Akora George<br />

Yeboah, Akora Agyeman-Bempah, Akora ,<br />

are mourning your departure but we know<br />

they are high fiving you over there and<br />

probably splitting a beer with you for a<br />

good job done during your term of office.<br />

The torch you have passed on is burning<br />

brighter. The OAA Secretariat is now<br />

solidly established and has employed more<br />

staff. Smile, for your work here on earth is<br />

beautifully accomplished.<br />

Adios Akora Rest peacefully. May Mother<br />

Earth rest lightly on your mortal remains.<br />

School Song<br />

From Gambaga to Accra.<br />

From Wiawso to Keta<br />

We are brothers and our mother is our<br />

school!<br />

She would guide us all and each<br />

So to learn that we may teach;<br />

So to subjugate ourselves that we may<br />

rule.<br />

Chorus<br />

Play the game, shout her name<br />

Spread her fame afar<br />

She’s the head of all the host,<br />

She’s the school of whom we boast,<br />

She’s the glory of the Coast-Achimota!<br />

When our books are laid aside<br />

And we scatter far and wide,<br />

We remember with affection all we gained,<br />

How we learned to take our share<br />

In the life and labour there,<br />

Where the men of whom we are proudest<br />

of were trained<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Bethel Methodist Society<br />

They have come from tribulation,<br />

And have washed their robes in blood,<br />

Washed them in the blood of Jesus;<br />

Tried they were, and firm they stood;<br />

Mocked, imprisoned, stoned, tormented,<br />

Sawn asunder, slain with sword,<br />

They have conquered death and Satan,<br />

By the might of Christ the Lord.<br />

(MHB 820 Stanza two)<br />

Dr. Ben Foleson joined<br />

the Bethel Methodist<br />

Society, Kasoa in the<br />

year 2011. He was<br />

attached to the, Sofo<br />

Bible Class (James<br />

Class). He was a regular member at<br />

church and the Bible Class meetings. He<br />

was always on top of health related topics<br />

discussed at the Bible Class meetings<br />

being a Medical Doctor. He was a huge<br />

blessing to all brethren and the James<br />

Bible Class in particular.<br />

Dr. Ben Foleson did not allow his<br />

professional attainment to be a stumbling<br />

block to his service to God. He was God<br />

fearing, humble, approachable and very<br />

humorous. Always ensured that people<br />

around him were always happy and<br />

motivated.<br />

Although his membership at Bethel<br />

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“<br />

He was God fearing, humble,<br />

approachable and very humorous.<br />

Society was short, Dr. Ben Foleson<br />

impacted positively on the churches’<br />

activities and the lives of other brethren.<br />

As we bid you fare well, we are sure<br />

that you are resting in the bosom of your<br />

Maker.<br />

Rest well, brother Ben Foleson.<br />

Nantsew yie, dofo pa.<br />

The Lord be with you.<br />

Amen .<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Hildegard Foleson<br />

“The quest for knowledge and<br />

information has always been<br />

paramount in my life.”<br />

Dr. Ben Foleson 2020<br />

Ben and I got to know<br />

each other in 1962, just<br />

at the beginning of his<br />

Medical Studies at Bonn<br />

University in Germany.<br />

He fascinated me<br />

because he was such a hardworking<br />

student always busy studying to bring<br />

home to Ghana as much knowledge as was<br />

possible at that time. He felt responsible<br />

to give something back to his folk because<br />

he studied on a Ghanaian Government<br />

Scholarship. Consequently we, then,<br />

married and had a baby girl Britta Nana<br />

Antwiwa. We came back to Ghana in<br />

1970 immediately after he had finished<br />

his studies with an additional course in<br />

Hygiene and Family Planning in Liverpool.<br />

He worked in Ho, Achimota, Korle Bu<br />

Hospital, somewhere in the Western Part<br />

of Ghana, Tema, Bank of Ghana Hospital<br />

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and possibly others as well.<br />

Wherever he had to work, he gave his<br />

best. He worked hard and kept on asking<br />

questions those who knew better than<br />

him.<br />

He strongly believed that asking questions<br />

is the only way to learn and strive forward.<br />

Next to his love for studying, learning<br />

and working he was deeply rooted in the<br />

Ghanaian traditional culture. He was a<br />

proud Ghanaian, proud of his background,<br />

proud of his tradition, proud of his culture<br />

and proud of the family structures.<br />

I, being born and brought up in Germany<br />

during the second World War and<br />

thereafter, I was surrounded by people<br />

who thought and acted like racists which I<br />

couldn`t share.<br />

Being so close with Ben taught me<br />

TOLERANCE towards people of different<br />

background.<br />

Through him I learned to RESPECT every<br />

single person for what he is.<br />

He passed on the LOVE FOR HIS<br />

CULTURE to me, explaining chieftaincy,<br />

the stools, adinkra symbols and the rituals<br />

accompanying the diverse festivals.<br />

He taught me that FAMILY is not just<br />

mother, father and 2 to 3 children, but a<br />

system which you belong to and have your<br />

place in. You are not an individual alone<br />

and all by yourself, you are rooted and part<br />

of a group.<br />

Unfortunate circumstances separated<br />

us in 1973 and the rules of the German<br />

Government enforced a divorce so that<br />

I could have child custody. That was a<br />

deep cut in both our lives but years later it<br />

enabled us to practise FORGIVENESS.<br />

Since 2006 (interrupted by a few years)<br />

Ben and I have been in daily contact till<br />

his last day. We were convinced that your<br />

PEACE OF MIND with God, your life<br />

and your beloved ones prepares you for<br />

your end.<br />

His wish had always been to work till<br />

the end of his life. That was granted to<br />

him. The work for GLICOHEALTH and<br />

STARLIFE kept him busy till a few days<br />

before he passed away so unexpectedly.<br />

BEN, I THANK YOU FOR<br />

EVERYTHING THAT WE SHARED<br />

DURING THE PAST 60 YEARS.<br />

THE BOND OF LOVE STANDS<br />

ABOVE EVERY CHALLENGE LIFE<br />

MAY BRING.<br />

MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT<br />

PEACE!<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Madam Stella Ewuradwoa Kesson<br />

A Tribute of Gratitude to A Good<br />

Father and Friend<br />

Ben, you were a father to<br />

many so I write this for<br />

everyone you touched<br />

in your lifetime. I thank<br />

God for giving me two<br />

wonderful young women<br />

through you. I thank you for encouraging<br />

me to set up Brainy Child Learning<br />

Centre. I thank You for all you ever did for<br />

me, you will forever be a memory in my<br />

heart and mind.<br />

May The Lord keep you safe in His bosom<br />

till we meet again. Amen<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Madam Regina Amakye<br />

“And merciful men are taken away,<br />

none considering that the righteous<br />

is taken away from the evil to come.<br />

He shall enter into peace: they shall<br />

rest in their beds, each one walking<br />

in his uprightness”<br />

Isaiah 57:1b-2<br />

Kweku, as I affectionately<br />

called him, was very dear<br />

to my heart.<br />

I had an encounter with<br />

him in 1958 at Achimota.<br />

Being with him wasn’t that easy. We had<br />

our ups and downs but through it all we<br />

never gave up on what we shared.<br />

He cared greatly about me.<br />

He visited frequently to check up on me,<br />

until there came a Pandemic (COVID 19)<br />

which restricted our movements to more<br />

Virtual visits and phone calls.<br />

He was very heartly, He neither neglected<br />

his responsibilities even until his very last<br />

breath.<br />

May his soul rest in Perfect Peace.<br />

Until we meet again rest well my dear.<br />

CHRISTIAN ASORE NDWOM 325<br />

verses 1 and 3<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mr. Francis Sankah<br />

My beloved father in-law wasn’t<br />

just an in-law but carried out<br />

his fatherly role to all.<br />

Despite the pain that lingers on<br />

in the core of my being, I have<br />

to try to let go. Time is precious, it’s never changing and<br />

waits for no one.<br />

I was sad to have heard about your death. Though you’re<br />

dead, your memories still live on. I thank God for the<br />

privilege he gave me to be his son in-law. You are gone<br />

but you will never be forgotten. I lost you but I did not<br />

lose you as a model of my wife’s life. I hope you find<br />

eternal peace and salvation you deserve. We will miss<br />

you now and forever. Rest in peace till we meet again<br />

Dr. Ben Foleson.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Mr. Ronnie Odartei-Laryea<br />

It was meant to be a routine<br />

procedure. I certainly did not<br />

expect to be writing a tribute; at<br />

least not this year; not just yet.<br />

When I received the call that<br />

morning, I thought it was to say<br />

you had recovered enough for the rest of<br />

us to come visit you in the hospital. No<br />

words can describe the shock I felt then<br />

and feel now, even as I write this. This<br />

June, we would have had the second of<br />

our quarterly one-on-ones. I have already<br />

bought the wine. I will cherish the few we<br />

had and try to live by the example you set.<br />

While we all try to come to terms with<br />

your sudden departure, we are somewhat<br />

comforted that you must be in a better<br />

place and that you lived a full and<br />

accomplished life, touching many along<br />

the way. I thank you for accepting me into<br />

your family and being a wonderful fatherin-law<br />

and granddad. I can still see Eileen<br />

bouncing on your belly and Sean focusing<br />

on the toffees. The aquarium you sent the<br />

kids will now be a “monument” to you in<br />

our home.<br />

You gave me the most important thing in<br />

my life and for that, I’ll forever be grateful.<br />

I wish you safe passage and good rest,<br />

Doc.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Her Honor Winnie<br />

Amoatey-Owusu<br />

Imet Dr. nearly a decade ago when<br />

I joined StarLife. He was a Board<br />

member and as the Company<br />

Secretary, our paths crossed<br />

many times in and outside the<br />

Board room. Dr.’s values of hard<br />

work, excellence, integrity, fairness and<br />

punctuality endeared me to him. Our<br />

bond grew even stronger when we later<br />

found out we were both Akoras. There<br />

wasn’t room for anything but excellence<br />

with him. I always looked forward to our<br />

meetings to review our draft Board Audit<br />

Committee Minutes. I recall an amusing<br />

occasion where Dr. gave me a score of<br />

85% suggesting there was more room<br />

to improve. I mean who does that? 85%<br />

should earn me an A in any exams! Alas,<br />

that was how he constantly challenged me<br />

to keep striving in my endeavors.<br />

Dr. became my go-to person when<br />

I needed seasoned counsel on any<br />

challenge. Over time, our relationship<br />

evolved into a father-daughter bond. I<br />

didn’t take any important life decision<br />

without first seeking his thoughts and I<br />

was always assured of his invaluable Godly<br />

counsel and support.<br />

His readiness to share in my most joyous<br />

moments is one of the things I’ll miss<br />

the most. When he met my dad at my<br />

wedding, he told him I was his daughter<br />

and he was proud of me. When I didn’t<br />

want to bother him so kept my children’s<br />

naming from him, he’d ask me later when<br />

I reported myself who asked me to take<br />

decisions on his behalf and I’d apologize.<br />

He was present when I was appointed a<br />

Judge!<br />

Although my work took me to the Ashanti<br />

Region, we constantly kept in touch.<br />

When cancer lost its way and visited<br />

me, Dr. was always there to support<br />

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“<br />

Thank you for the valuable<br />

lessons you taught me by deed<br />

and words, for cheering me on,<br />

and for the unconditional love<br />

you poured into me.”<br />

me in prayer and other means. I recall<br />

sharing with him how terrified I was<br />

at my first radiotherapy session, the<br />

longest 15 minutes of my life, and how<br />

he encouraged me through it. After my<br />

recovery when I resumed work, I visited<br />

him during my annual leave. I visited with<br />

my husband and children because Dr.<br />

was our father and grandpa. The last time<br />

I saw Dr. was on 28th December, 2021<br />

when I visited with my husband.<br />

Despite the pain I feel, I choose to wear<br />

a heart of gratitude, holding on dearly to<br />

the beautiful memories I have of you, and<br />

thanking God for making me find in you<br />

an awesome dad, mentor and confidante.<br />

Thank you for the valuable lessons you<br />

taught me by deed and words, for cheering<br />

me on, and for the unconditional love you<br />

poured into me. I miss you sorely.<br />

Dr., rest well in the bosom of our Dear<br />

Lord.<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Dr Hazel P. Berrard Amuah<br />

Iremember that day vividly…. It<br />

was in the GLICO Office Board<br />

Room, I had a meeting with the<br />

CEO Ms Afriyie Boachie and<br />

the Board Chair Dr. Foleson<br />

seated. I smiled and courtesied<br />

to greet him. I was very honoured to<br />

meet the noble Chairman who had been<br />

so instrumental in building the business<br />

and nurturing leaders. We exchanged<br />

formal greetings which quickly turned into<br />

pleasantries.<br />

It turned out that both Dr Foleson and<br />

my Dad trained in Germany and as the<br />

few black people there then, their paths<br />

had crossed. He spoke to my Dad on the<br />

phone for several minutes afterwards, they<br />

cracked jokes and right there I knew that<br />

Dr Foleson was not just the Board Chair of<br />

one of the businesses I had to partner but<br />

a father.<br />

He was tough, but equally very gentle,<br />

generous with counsel, humourous and<br />

very sweet. When I left the business we<br />

were in touch everyday. There was not one<br />

day “Daddy Doc” as I called him would<br />

not check on me and the kids. He was a<br />

very empathetic man. His kind nature was<br />

very sweet.<br />

We met for breakfast in January…. We<br />

chatted about his health, I was very<br />

concerned and we discussed his next<br />

review date and the surgery…. My heart<br />

wrenched as he described the pain he<br />

would experience and guess what, Daddy<br />

Doc was smiling as he narrated all these.<br />

What a man! We chatted about his 81st<br />

birthday and how God had been good.<br />

We spoke about my work, Daddy Doc<br />

counselled me and gave me his blessings.<br />

We hugged and said goodbye. I called him<br />

later and said we forgot to take a picture<br />

and promised to do so after his surgery…<br />

Review dates, surgery dates shifted a<br />

bit…. I got drowned in work…. I came<br />

from a meeting and found several missed<br />

calls from Ms Afriyie and other employees<br />

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“<br />

There was not one day “Daddy<br />

Doc” as I called him would not<br />

check on me and the kids. He<br />

was a very empathetic man. His<br />

kind nature was very sweet.<br />

from GLICO on my phone…. I stared at<br />

my phone…. My heart began to race, I<br />

called back, she didn’t answer…. I called<br />

some employees from GLICO…. I could<br />

not stop the tears from flowing down my<br />

face. Shocking, painful, sad but guess<br />

what, I know he is up there at the right<br />

hand of God free from pain and stress and<br />

enjoying life eternal.<br />

I thank God for such a wonderful father<br />

and friend. May his soul continue to rest<br />

in peace.<br />

Love, Hazel<br />

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Tribute from<br />

Pakesedo Nsona Royal family<br />

We have gathered<br />

here today<br />

because one<br />

of us, Dr. Ben<br />

Foleson, has<br />

been called to<br />

higher service by our Father who is in<br />

Heaven.<br />

The Pakesedo Nsona Royal family of<br />

Mankesim is in a state of deep sorrow<br />

as we mourn the departure of our<br />

Ebusua Baatan who may be described<br />

as the Patron of the Family. We are<br />

however consoled by the life he lived,<br />

the leadership qualities he exhibited,<br />

his genuine kindness and generosity to<br />

those who deserved his attention. Dr. Ben<br />

Foleson was steady and firm in principle.<br />

He encouraged us to live by the truth.<br />

Ebusua Baatan, you will forever remain in<br />

our hearts.<br />

May God receive you and keep you.<br />

Amen.<br />

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Appreciation<br />

The family of Dr. Benjamin Foleson<br />

expresses our gratitude for what<br />

you have done for us. Your words of<br />

comfort, encouragement and your<br />

incredible generosity has helped us<br />

through this season of grief.<br />

Thank you so deeply for all you have<br />

done for us.

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