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In Loving Memory of the late<br />
DR. BENJAMIN<br />
FOLESON
BURIAL, THANKSGIVING AND COMMENDATION SERVICE FOR<br />
THE LATE DR. BENJAMIN FOLESON AT THE ACCRA RIDGE<br />
CHURCH ON FRIDAY, 13TH MAY 2022 AT 8:00AM.<br />
OFFICIATING MINISTERS<br />
Rt. Rev. Sampson K. Gyabeng<br />
Methodist Minister, ARC<br />
Rev. Andrew J. T. Odjawo<br />
Presbyterian / Coordinating Minister,<br />
ARC<br />
Rev. Canon Samuel L. Lamptey<br />
Anglican Minister, ARC<br />
VISITING MINISTERS<br />
Very Rev. Samuel Kofi Kankam<br />
Superintendent Minister, Kasoa Circuit<br />
Very Rev. Dr. Matthias Forson<br />
Methodist Church Ghana<br />
Rev. Paul Ngwintige<br />
2nd Minister, Bethel Society- Kasoa<br />
Rev. Dr. Rayford Alex Kwakye (Retired)<br />
Assemblies of God Church<br />
MUSIC DIRECTOR<br />
James Opoku Agyeman<br />
IN ATTENDANCE<br />
Tema Youth Choir<br />
PRE-BURIAL SERVICE<br />
1. Reception of Remains of the<br />
deceased for viewing<br />
2. Hymn MHB 427 (Through all the<br />
changing scenes of life)<br />
3. Prayer<br />
4. File – Past Hymns from Pre-<br />
Burial Hymn Book (20, 39,56, 27,<br />
32, 59, 21,10)<br />
5. Closing of casket by family<br />
Representatives.<br />
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BURIAL SERVICE<br />
1. Scriptural Sentences<br />
2. Purpose of Gathering<br />
3. Hymn MHB 679 (Pleasant are<br />
Thy courts above)<br />
4. Prayer<br />
5. Hymn MHB 896 (Now praise we<br />
great and famous men)<br />
6. Biography of the deceased<br />
7. Tributes<br />
8. Hymn MHB 602 (Father, I know<br />
that all my life)<br />
9. Scripture Readings:<br />
Frances Ellen Sankah<br />
i. 1 Cor. 15:20-26,35-38,50-58<br />
ii. John 14:1-6,27<br />
10. Hymn<br />
MHB 608 (Captain of Israel’s hope<br />
and guide)<br />
11. Sermon<br />
12. Affirmation of Faith<br />
13. Offering and Christian Charity:<br />
Melodies by Tema Youth Choir<br />
THANKSGIVING /<br />
COMMENDATION<br />
1. Hymn<br />
2. MHB 831 (Give me the wings of<br />
faith to rise)<br />
3. Thanksgiving / Commendation<br />
Prayers<br />
4. Notices and Acknowledgements<br />
5. Closing Hymn MHB 215 (The<br />
strife is o’er, the battle done)<br />
6. Prayer and Benediction<br />
7. Dead March in Saul<br />
8. Recessional Hymn<br />
MHB 830 (Hark! The sound of holy<br />
voices)<br />
INTERMENT<br />
1. Sentences<br />
2. Hymn<br />
MHB 975 (When the day of toil is<br />
done)<br />
3. Committal<br />
4. Vote of thanks<br />
5. Parting hymn<br />
6. MHB 914 (God be with you till we<br />
meet again)<br />
7. Benediction<br />
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Biography
Dr. Benjamin Kweku<br />
Fori Foleson was the<br />
grandson of the late<br />
Nana Adoko Ababio<br />
II, Omanhene of<br />
Mankessim traditional<br />
area. As a result he was<br />
a proud member of the Royal Pakasedo<br />
Nsona family and later in life was selected<br />
as Ebusua Baatan. His father was the late<br />
Nana Yanfo Asuako VII (T K Foleson),<br />
Omanhene of Agona Asafo.<br />
Born on 28 May 1941 at Ntronang, of<br />
the Birim North District, in the Eastern<br />
Region, he had a curious mind even when<br />
he was a toddler.<br />
According to his mother Madam Mary<br />
Sampson of blessed memory, young Ben<br />
asked many questions; he wanted to<br />
understand what his father’s friends spoke<br />
about. Possibly, that was the beginning<br />
of his eagerness and innate tendency to<br />
accumulate knowledge.<br />
Right from the start, Kweku was selfdriven.<br />
He was keen to enrol formally in school<br />
even before he was old enough for school.<br />
Fortunately, he had a head start over his<br />
contemporaries; Given that he was tall,<br />
he passed the ‘Philippino’ test’ easily and<br />
started school. His diligence and quest<br />
for knowledge propelled him to excel in<br />
elementary school. He was subsequently<br />
influenced to attend the prestigious<br />
Achimota school by his cousin the late<br />
W.S Parker and his aunt the late Mrs.<br />
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Susan deBordes (Nee Sampson), who had<br />
been old students of Achimota School. At<br />
the time most men in the family attended<br />
Adisadel College starting from his late<br />
Uncle J.H Sampson.<br />
Whilst at Achimota School, Ben was<br />
on scholarship till he finished A-Level<br />
because of his outstanding academic<br />
performance. After A-Level, he enrolled<br />
at the University of Ghana to study<br />
Biochemistry. Shortly after, he joined<br />
a group of students on a government<br />
scholarship to Germany to study Medicine<br />
in 1961. He studied at Bonn University<br />
from 1962 to 1968. He then continued<br />
with a Doctorate in 1969. Immediately<br />
after that, he decided to study Hygiene<br />
and Family Planning at the Liverpool<br />
School of Tropical Medicine to prepare<br />
him for practice back home in Ghana.<br />
Dr. Foleson was plunged into the world<br />
of work when he returned to Ghana in<br />
May 1970. He started work in Ho and<br />
then worked for a short while in Peki.<br />
After a year, he took over the Achimota<br />
Hospital where he worked until 1973.<br />
He proceeded to the Korle-Bu Teaching<br />
Hospital for further training till 1977.<br />
While at Korle-Bu, he learnt from<br />
Professor Aidoo and from Professor Addy,<br />
under whose tutelage he honed his skills<br />
in the science and art of medicine. In<br />
later years, he would recall that season<br />
as being the highlight of his professional<br />
development. From there he went on to<br />
establish a private practice which he ran<br />
successfully from 1977 to 1990.<br />
He also worked at Bank of Ghana, where<br />
he retired in 2001 as Director and Head of<br />
the Medical Department.<br />
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After his retirement, he consulted for the<br />
World Bank after which he made a career<br />
pivot to insurance consultancy, initially<br />
working for Metropolitan Insurance and<br />
later on for GlicoHealth. He subsequently<br />
became Chief Executive Officer of<br />
GlicoHealth. At his death, he was the<br />
Chairman of the Board of Directors of<br />
GlicoHealth and a member of the Starlife<br />
Board. He ultimately fulfilled his dream of<br />
being able to work till the end.<br />
Dr. Foleson’s life was not only about<br />
medicine, he enjoyed a good laugh and a<br />
good swig.<br />
Also an adventurist, he never shied away<br />
from trying new things - be it venturing<br />
into boxing promotion, setting up a band,<br />
running an auto mechanic workshop or a<br />
printing press, even forex trading, he did<br />
them all!<br />
Dr. Foleson was a stickler for structure<br />
and order. In all his dealings, he was very<br />
principled. He believed in and practised<br />
philanthropy, touching many lives in<br />
significant ways through his generosity. He<br />
had great respect for professionals and his<br />
fantastic sense of humor was not lost on<br />
people who first encountered him.<br />
Outside work, he took a keen interest in<br />
the affairs of his Alma Mater. He served<br />
on the Board of Governors of Achimota<br />
School from 1990 to 2000. He was also<br />
an active member of the Old Achimotan<br />
Association (OAA) and was elected as its<br />
president from 1996 to 2001.<br />
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Dr. Ben Foleson was a loving father. He<br />
left behind four (4) daughters; Bridget,<br />
Britta Nana Antwiwaa, Maame Esi and<br />
Nana Aba.<br />
Beyond his nuclear family, he was very<br />
committed to his extended family. In his<br />
late years, he sought peace of mind and<br />
peace with those who were close to him.<br />
From 2007, he spent almost every summer<br />
in Germany with family and the friends<br />
he still had from the years of studies in<br />
Bonn in the 1960s. Covid-19 interrupted<br />
his series of visits, but he lives on in the<br />
minds of those who know him and love<br />
him there.<br />
He also made peace with his God. When<br />
his days on this earth were fulfilled, he<br />
went on another trip; only this time to see<br />
his Heavenly Father.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mrs. Briget Sankah<br />
“He will wipe away all tears from their eyes. There will be no more death, no<br />
more grief or crying or pain. The old things have disappeared. Amen.”<br />
Rev.21 verse 4:<br />
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So hard, so difficult to find<br />
adequate words in this<br />
situation. Truly I lack<br />
the words but I must say<br />
something to bid my dad<br />
farewell as he bows to<br />
eternal glory.<br />
My dad has ended up being my hero in life<br />
and I am thankful. He was a good enough<br />
person to call him my dad. Your journey<br />
began with an entrance into this world and<br />
it’s ending with an exit from this world. My<br />
dad was an incredible man. He provided<br />
for his family and children. He was ever<br />
ready to give even if it will cause him some<br />
discomfort. I am grateful and I miss him<br />
every day.<br />
Today I am remembering my dad and the<br />
great memories we shared. He was one of<br />
a kind. Dr, as affectionally called by family<br />
and friends, was a good man and my<br />
greatest role model. I could call him back<br />
at any time and he always had a solution<br />
to my problems. Life without him is really<br />
different, but I am grateful I got to call<br />
him dad.<br />
Growing up, while every child was like<br />
“sweet mother”, mine was otherwise as<br />
in “sweet father”. He was my biggest fan.<br />
He taught me to be an independent and<br />
a strong woman. He was always in good<br />
spirits even until his sudden demise.<br />
When the call came through on that day,<br />
I was heartbroken. Everything around me<br />
became obsolete, because a great tree had<br />
fallen. I least expected it was going to be<br />
that soon. This is the time I need to be<br />
around my dad to experience retirement<br />
season but all the plans have been<br />
scattered. I have lost my most courageous<br />
and resourceful man.<br />
I never questioned if he ever loved or<br />
cared for me, because he made it so<br />
obvious. I still feel he is with me now.<br />
Dad, as mortals, if we focus on the pain of<br />
transition, you would miss its purpose.<br />
Poppi, Dr. Continue to rest in Abraham’s<br />
bosom till we meet again. Damirifa due,<br />
Poppi rest in perfect peace.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Britta Nana Foleson<br />
Beloved Father,<br />
Even though we had<br />
often been geographically<br />
far apart our hearts were<br />
always one.<br />
Our unquestioned<br />
intimacy caused a mutual understanding<br />
across the continents.<br />
Your intelligence and keen wit were<br />
impressive, your humour heartening.<br />
I will always remember our times together<br />
and keep the joy we had deep in my heart.<br />
I will always bear you in remembrance and<br />
that will continue to live within me and<br />
accompany me through life.<br />
Every time I‘ll look into a mirror I will see<br />
you— within me.<br />
I KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS WATCH<br />
OVER ME !<br />
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT<br />
PEACE !<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Maame Esi Foleson<br />
Dear Poppie,<br />
When I was born, you<br />
were Papi and I chose<br />
to call you Poppie.<br />
You were not only my<br />
father; you were my<br />
provider, my friend, confidante and my<br />
adviser.<br />
You were always my sounding board.<br />
You never judged. You would listen and<br />
ask how I felt about the situation and<br />
would share your opinion if you thought<br />
differently.<br />
When I was much younger, you taught<br />
me the art of questioning and making<br />
weighted choices.<br />
You were also my first personal finance<br />
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When I was much younger, you<br />
taught me the art of questioning<br />
“and making weighted choices.<br />
management teacher, yet you were always<br />
so generous. How many times did I have<br />
to tell you, ‘No thank you I’m okay with<br />
cash.’<br />
You positively affected the lives of<br />
others and it’s incredible to see just how<br />
boundless your reach has been.<br />
Poppie, I terribly miss the times spent<br />
together catching up on life. I miss your<br />
‘wicked’ sense of humour. You always laced<br />
our conversations with your humour and<br />
dry wit. Now I am beginning to realize,<br />
with your passing, just how naive I was<br />
before I was forced to confront death’s<br />
discourteous blow. This is by far the most<br />
painful, heart-rending and life-altering<br />
experience I’ve been made to endure.<br />
I take solace in knowing that you are no<br />
longer in pain and that suffering is no<br />
longer something you have to endure. Still,<br />
I would give anything to have you back.<br />
Thank you so much for your support over<br />
the years. You were an amazing father<br />
and I couldn’t wish for any other. You are<br />
absolutely the best and I thank God for<br />
your life.<br />
“I love you.”<br />
Those were your last words to me.<br />
I love you too, Poppie. Now and forever<br />
more.<br />
Rest well till we meet again.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mrs. Nana Aba Odartei-Laryea<br />
My Father,<br />
“Poppie”, as we<br />
affectionately<br />
called him, was<br />
an intelligent<br />
and kindhearted<br />
man who had a great sense of humor. He<br />
loved to tell jokes which made everyone<br />
around him happy. He was always ready<br />
to listen and I am forever grateful for his<br />
God-given ability to give the best advice on<br />
issues brought to his attention. Whether<br />
it was academic matters, career decisions<br />
or health related issues, you could rest<br />
assured that he would give you sound<br />
advice.<br />
One of the most important lessons I learnt<br />
from my father was to stay focused and<br />
work hard towards achieving my goals, and<br />
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“<br />
One of the most important<br />
lessons I learnt from my father<br />
was to stay focused and work<br />
hard towards achieving my goals<br />
this is something I will forever cherish.<br />
He loved his grandchildren dearly and it<br />
was always a pleasure to visit him with<br />
them. He always filled the toffee jar<br />
with their favorite sweets and enjoyed<br />
answering their many questions. Poppie<br />
was always the first person to call on<br />
special occasions to wish us well.<br />
Thursday, March 17th, 2022 is a day I will<br />
never forget. On that fateful day, my father<br />
and I walked together into the Korle-Bu<br />
Teaching hospital for his surgery. He was<br />
so full of life, and we chatted the whole<br />
day. He even explained the whole medical<br />
procedure he was about to undergo to me<br />
and showed me videos of how it would be<br />
done. Little did I know that he would not<br />
make it out of the hospital.<br />
On Sunday 20th March 2022, when I<br />
said “goodbye Poppie, see you tomorrow“<br />
before leaving his bedside, I had no idea<br />
those would be my last words to him.<br />
Rest in Perfect Peace “Poppie”, I know you<br />
are watching over all of us.<br />
May the road rise up to meet you, may the<br />
wind be always at your back, may the sun<br />
shine warm upon your face, the rains fall<br />
soft upon your fields and until we meet<br />
again, may God hold you in the palm of<br />
His hands. Amen.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mrs. Efua Kwakye<br />
Imet you for the first time when<br />
I was 9. You had returned from<br />
Germany to attend a funeral.<br />
On that weekend of the funeral,<br />
specifically the Sunday night,<br />
both our lives changed forever;<br />
I lost my dad who was your brother.<br />
Grandma took care of me since then until<br />
I completed middle school. You had again<br />
returned from Germany and was working<br />
at the Achimota School Hospital, so<br />
grandma brought me to you and you took<br />
me in as your own daughter and made sure<br />
I furthered my education by enrolling me<br />
into the Achimota Business College.<br />
I completed college and you were my<br />
first employer. You gave me a job as your<br />
secretary at the then newly established<br />
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“<br />
I take consolation in the Lord<br />
that it shall be well.”<br />
clinic at North Kaneshie (Folsfit Clinic).<br />
All this while, I was living with you and<br />
you took care of me until I was 26 and got<br />
married under your supervision.<br />
Papa, as I have always called you, you<br />
invited my family to your birthday party<br />
last year and it was all joy. You have been<br />
supporting me medically since your last<br />
birthday and I saw great improvement in<br />
my health.<br />
I will not forget 25th Dec 2021 as it was<br />
the last time we all gathered together<br />
as a family with you with us. A week to<br />
your sad departure, I had visited you with<br />
my husband on my usual check-ups and<br />
we left saying “thanks”, “goodbye” not<br />
knowing it was indeed a bye for eternity.<br />
Dad, where should I send the Lab results<br />
you requested for on our last encounter?<br />
Hmmmmm….<br />
I take consolation in the Lord that it shall<br />
be well.<br />
Papa da yie!<br />
Damerefa due!! Due ne amanehunu!!!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mrs. Freda Adadevoh<br />
It is with a heavy heart that I pay<br />
this tribute to my one and only<br />
uncle. I remember when my<br />
mummy died, you asked me not<br />
to worry at all because you knew<br />
your sister had left me in your<br />
care.<br />
I would have wished you stayed a little bit<br />
long, your departure saddens me but I’m<br />
comforted because your life has been well<br />
lived and the love and care you showed me<br />
and your grandchildren and even anyone<br />
who came close to you will continue to<br />
live in our hearts. May the good Lord give<br />
you a peaceful Rest. Rest well Dear Uncle.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Ama Yeduah Eshun<br />
Grandfather and a<br />
father.<br />
I still can’t come<br />
to terms with your<br />
passing. It’s been<br />
difficult to write a<br />
tribute to you. My heart is heavy and my<br />
eyes are filled with tears as I sit to write.<br />
I was not able to join the family visit on<br />
the 25th of December, I was also down<br />
because I was on admission. The last time<br />
I saw you was on the 15th of January,<br />
2022 at Auntie Betty’s funeral. You looked<br />
absolutely regal in your black funeral<br />
cloth when I saw you off to your car. You<br />
seemed very well and who would have<br />
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thought a few months down the line I’ll be<br />
reading a tribute to you.<br />
On February 5th at 4:50 you wrote to me<br />
and I quote “Good evening Dear. Haven’t<br />
heard from each other for a while. I am<br />
fine and trust it is also well with you and<br />
the family.”<br />
Throughout my life I ran to you with<br />
my personal concerns, you gave me<br />
meaningful advice and always helped<br />
me come up with a plan. Now who am I<br />
going to talk to on this issue? I can’t find<br />
anybody. You made me feel so special.<br />
When Daddy died, he told all four of<br />
us, “I am taking you all now as my own<br />
children.” In turn, we started calling you<br />
Daddy. He frequently told Afua and I “my<br />
daughters in whom I am pleased with”<br />
anytime we called. When I discussed<br />
an opportunity I had with him, he made<br />
inquiries overseas and got me a huge<br />
discount!<br />
I met Dr. Foleson when I was 18 years.<br />
Daddy took me to his clinic in North<br />
Kaneshie because I wasn’t well.<br />
He gave me 25 Cedis on my 25th birthday,<br />
and promised to double it each year after<br />
that.<br />
He told my daughter that he would get<br />
her a special gift for her 18th birthday this<br />
year because he is a May born too. She<br />
asked me, and I told her, sadly you are not<br />
here anymore.<br />
He was like a grandfather to me before<br />
Daddy died, and then became my Daddy<br />
when my father died.<br />
I have no words to explain the pain in my<br />
heart but I take consolation in the fact<br />
that you’re resting in peace.<br />
You did not have to lay down and suffer in<br />
pain.<br />
Rest well Daddy.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Grandchildren<br />
If you focus on the pain of<br />
transition, you will miss its<br />
purpose.<br />
Sometimes things happen that<br />
you are not prepared for, hard<br />
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blows hit you like never before.<br />
There comes a time when you lose that<br />
special person.<br />
That special person whose warmth and
hugs said “ I love you and you are precious<br />
to me.”<br />
That special person who unites his family<br />
and that special person whom we love<br />
dearly.<br />
Grandpa, as we called him, was a man<br />
of service, great will, honour and good<br />
countenance.<br />
Bringing us together annually for a<br />
celebration is something we are gonna<br />
surely miss you for.<br />
Although we loved him dearly we couldn’t<br />
stop death from touching him with his<br />
cold hands and make him stay.<br />
A golden heart has stopped beating and<br />
hard-working hands put to rest.<br />
Our hearts were broken by his sudden<br />
departure.<br />
We will always remember you Grandpa<br />
because there will never be another one to<br />
replace you in our hearts and forever will<br />
we love you.<br />
Poppi, as affectionately called was always<br />
ready to sacrifice, even if it will cost him<br />
some discomfort. Our birthdays aren’t<br />
going to be same without him. Grandpa’s<br />
messages always come first accompanied<br />
with momo alerts to climax the day. To<br />
everyone gathered here, we are mourning a<br />
great man with a fulfilled life but to us we<br />
are celebrating a great man with a life well<br />
lived. Former President Abraham Lincoln<br />
once said, “in the end, it’s not the years<br />
in one’s life that count but the life in the<br />
years. Although, Grandpa did numerous<br />
things in his life, one of the things that<br />
he has been proud of is raising such a<br />
beautiful and wonderful family. We will<br />
miss you, Grandpa. As we put you to rest<br />
this day, we’re happy that, you’ve shown<br />
us eternal love and happiness through the<br />
uncounted hugs and kisses you gave us. A<br />
life well lived is the greatest achievement<br />
we’re proud of as grandchildren<br />
Damrifa Due, Agyapa<br />
Rest well in Father Abraham’s bosom.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Sean<br />
Grandpa we loved you because you were<br />
such a good person.<br />
Thank you very much for all you did for<br />
us. You liked fish and you gave us our very<br />
own fish aquarium.<br />
I really loved it when you took your time<br />
and taught me how to play chess.<br />
Every time we came to your house you<br />
always had toffees ready for us thank you<br />
very much<br />
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.<br />
Tribute from<br />
Eileen<br />
Dear Grandpa , thank you for helping<br />
others as a doctor.<br />
I thank you for also teaching me how to<br />
play chess. I will always remember this.<br />
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Siblings<br />
“When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled<br />
with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for<br />
a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. But sing<br />
your death song, and die like a hero going home”<br />
Tecumseh (An Indian American Soldier / Orator)<br />
The above oratory about<br />
DEATH is a cliché,<br />
a truism about the<br />
phenomenon of death<br />
that is so palpable and<br />
real to all. Yet we are often<br />
oblivious of its seriousness until we come<br />
face to face with the inevitable reality<br />
of death itself and ask for a never to be<br />
granted wish of a second chance to live a<br />
little more time.<br />
The illuminating star is called to glory. We<br />
as brothers and sisters love and cherish<br />
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“<br />
In everything, give thanks; for<br />
this is the will of God”. This is<br />
our story and song.<br />
you so much. We were shattered and<br />
downhearted by the news of your death.<br />
The pain we feel is real and has left a mark<br />
on us. A vacuum has been created by your<br />
departure.<br />
We remember your good deeds, kindness,<br />
counselling, and your compassion in<br />
dealing with situations. Kweku Ofori, we<br />
will forever remember you. We know you<br />
are resting in the bosom of your Maker.<br />
“In everything, give thanks; for this is the<br />
will of God”. This is our story and song.<br />
Your siblings say;<br />
REST IN PERFECT PEACE<br />
DA YIE, DA YIE, DA YIE ONUAPA.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Elizabeth Sampson<br />
Oh Lord, I will honour and praise your name for you are my God.<br />
You do such wonderful things! You planned them long ago and now You<br />
have established them, Amen.<br />
Isaiah 25:1<br />
“T<br />
he evil that men<br />
do lives after<br />
them and the<br />
good is often<br />
interred in their<br />
bones.”<br />
For Julius Caesar, this was said about him<br />
and this should be said of most men and<br />
indeed women. We therefore set out first<br />
to look for the evil that our brother did.<br />
It was very difficult to find the evil that<br />
our brother did. We are not saying he was<br />
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“<br />
We are saying it is difficult to<br />
find evil in such a man who had a<br />
positive view of the world,...<br />
without fault or was perfect, because there<br />
is none perfect but God.<br />
We are saying it is difficult to find evil in<br />
such a man who had a positive view of the<br />
world, one who was always discovering<br />
something new and would explain it to you<br />
with such enthusiasm that you would get<br />
excited too.<br />
So many years ago, we lived at Kaneshie<br />
when a brilliant brother Doctor returned<br />
from Germany. He was sent to work at<br />
the Hospital of his former School; the<br />
great Achimota. It was during this time<br />
his mum, my daddy’s big sister came to<br />
welcome him back home and so brought<br />
him to our home to greet his uncle, my<br />
dad.<br />
We were excited to see him as our big<br />
brother, a medical officer who had come<br />
from Germany. Dr. Ben Kweku Fori<br />
Foleson. He also stayed behind Kaneshie<br />
Mothers Inn. From our home to his was<br />
about an 8 min walk. Very often my mum<br />
would ask me to send Paano (bread) to my<br />
late Aunties (Auntie Baafowaa Sampson,<br />
Mrs. Mercy Arthur) and continue to<br />
doctor’s home and send Auntie Anna<br />
Nana Sampson’s own as well. All of them<br />
were my daddy’s ( Dada Sampson) sweet<br />
sisters. They all received me with joyful<br />
hearts including Auntie Stella Awuradwoa<br />
Kesson. Dr Ben became my Daddy’s<br />
Doctor from Achimota Hospital to Korle<br />
Bu Medical Block, then to his private<br />
practice, Folsfit Clinic at North Kaneshie<br />
Point ‘4’ then finally to the Bank of Ghana<br />
Clinic till he went on Pension.<br />
You were Daddy Sampson’s (Uncle<br />
Kweku Amankwa Sampson) special and<br />
favourite Doctor not because you were<br />
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“...you were just a brilliant<br />
brother and that was universally<br />
acknowledged.<br />
his nephew but to him, you were just a<br />
brilliant brother and that was universally<br />
acknowledged. Thank you so much for<br />
taking good care of one of your favourite<br />
uncles till he was called to Glory.<br />
You were at Korle-Bu when I became a<br />
student Nurse. You were happy to see me<br />
come to train as a nurse. I had not seen a<br />
‘dead body’ yet so Dr Foleson decided to<br />
take the fear out of me one day. He asked<br />
my matron at ward “C” to kindly release<br />
me at break time, to come for tea, at his<br />
ward. Little did I know he was going to<br />
show me a dead body and take out the fear<br />
in me since I told him I had not seen one<br />
yet. Eiii!! I nearly collapsed on seeing the<br />
dead body.<br />
Meeting at Bro. Fareed Arthur’s for his<br />
daughter’s Traditional marriage was the<br />
last time we met. We talked nineteen to<br />
a dozen and laughed our heads off not<br />
knowing that was the last time we were<br />
saying goodbye to each other.<br />
If I knew I would have had it prolonged<br />
and laughed the more since the topics<br />
were about our Grandfather, the Late<br />
famous King of Mankessim and our great<br />
mums and Fathers who have passed on.<br />
That was some good history to listen to but<br />
we cut it off because it was getting late<br />
and our homes were far.<br />
All your daughters say a big thank you<br />
to an excellent daddy who took good<br />
care of them till they became full grown<br />
mosquitoes before leaving for eternity.<br />
Brother, rest and sleep well in the soft<br />
arms of God till we meet at the shiny<br />
shore. Bye for now, good night. Amen.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
The Board of Directors, Management<br />
and staff of Glico Healthcare Limited<br />
“When great souls die, the air around us becomes light, rare and sterile.<br />
We breathe, briefly. Our eyes, briefly, see with a hurtful clarity.<br />
Our memory, suddenly sharpened, examines, gnaws on kind words<br />
unsaid, promised walks never taken”<br />
Maya Angelou<br />
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The above quotation sums<br />
up what we in GLICO<br />
Healthcare have learnt<br />
about Dr. Benjamin<br />
Foleson. He brought his<br />
vast experience in health<br />
management to bear on our operations.<br />
He was a consummate professional and<br />
very passionate about his work. When we<br />
received the sad news on Sunday, 20th<br />
March 2022, that we had lost our beloved<br />
Board Chairman, Dr. Benjamin Foleson,<br />
it shocked us all. We are heartbroken, and<br />
his loss is deeply felt.<br />
While we mourn this great loss, we pay<br />
tribute and celebrate a well-lived life, a life<br />
committed to excellence at all levels.<br />
Dr. Foleson contributed immensely to<br />
making GLICO Healthcare Limited<br />
a leading brand in the private health<br />
insurance industry. He served the<br />
company in various capacities for an<br />
unbroken period of 18 years. Before<br />
being appointed as the Board Chairman,<br />
he had held several key corporate<br />
management and board positions in the<br />
company, including Health Consultant,<br />
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General Manager, member of the<br />
Quality Assurance Review Board, and<br />
coordinator of our Continuing Professional<br />
Development events.<br />
Dr. Foleson represented GLICO<br />
Healthcare on the Board of Directors of<br />
the Ghana-Canada Medical Centre, a<br />
private joint venture medical facility in<br />
Adjirigano, Accra. He brought to the Board<br />
his several years’ experience as a Corporate<br />
Director, a medical practitioner, and an<br />
administrator. He possessed extensive<br />
experience in health care financing and<br />
delivery.<br />
Dr. Foleson was a hands-on Board<br />
Chairman who inspired colleague<br />
directors, management, and staff to give<br />
their best in every assignment. Under<br />
his leadership, GLICO Healthcare won<br />
many awards, including membership<br />
of the prestigious Ghana Club 100. He<br />
supervised the company’s transition from a<br />
private mutual health insurance company<br />
to a private commercial health insurance<br />
company. His demonstrable commitment<br />
to the objectives of the company was<br />
admirable. He was never late to any<br />
scheduled meeting, and he always came<br />
well prepared. Dr. Foleson will also be<br />
remembered for his integrity, honesty and<br />
compassion for employees. He was not<br />
only big in stature but big at heart.<br />
He was a unique and rare person who had<br />
principles that influenced all his actions.<br />
While many of us may think we have<br />
principles, Dr. Foleson was one of those<br />
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are examples of someone who lived what<br />
he believed. He was a people person and<br />
always ready to serve others.<br />
The history of GLICO Healthcare and<br />
our joint venture partner, Ghana-Canada<br />
Medical Company, will not be complete<br />
without mentioning the great contribution<br />
of Dr. Ben Foleson.<br />
On 27th January 2022, Dr. Foleson<br />
chaired the first Board meeting of<br />
GLICO Healthcare of the year, and after<br />
the meeting, we exchanged our usual<br />
goodbyes. Little did we know that the<br />
goodbye that day was the last in the flesh.<br />
Goodbye Dr. Foleson, and may you rest<br />
peacefully in the bosom of the Lord!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Glico Holdings Ltd.<br />
The GLICO Holdings Ltd.<br />
has lost an industrious<br />
man whose passion for<br />
success and dedication<br />
to see things through is<br />
unquestionable. We will<br />
miss his “pressure” to see things done<br />
on time and his technical know-how for<br />
managing health schemes and operations.<br />
Dr. Foleson was a man of great knowledge<br />
in healthcare administration, a man of<br />
action and often got frustrated when<br />
things were not done according to his<br />
directions. His passion drove his actions<br />
and he would stop at nothing to see<br />
that the desired successful results were<br />
achieved; this, we will miss dearly about<br />
him. Our only consolation is the fact<br />
that he has impacted a generation of<br />
aspirational managers and staff who will<br />
continue his legacy.<br />
Dr Foleson first came to be part of the<br />
GLICO family in the year 2004 when<br />
the founder and the Executive Chairman,<br />
Dr. Kwame Achampong-Kyei needed the<br />
expertise of a technical team to develop a<br />
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usiness and implementation Plan for a<br />
subsidiary of GLICO Holdings, now called<br />
GLICO Healthcare Ltd., which became<br />
the first health insurance company in<br />
Ghana following the promulgation of the<br />
then National Health Insurance Act, 2003<br />
(Act 650). He was part of Aidoo Mensah<br />
& Associates Limited’s team that was<br />
contracted for this service.<br />
After the business’ take-off, Dr. Foleson<br />
was made to remain with the then<br />
Gemini Healthcare (a private mutual<br />
health insurance scheme), as a resident<br />
Consultant by Aidoo Mensah and<br />
Associates Limited to support the<br />
company’s management team in attending<br />
to the usual teething challenges of a young<br />
company. Dr. Foleson played many other<br />
roles including appointment to the board<br />
of Gemini Healthcare (now GLICO<br />
Healthcare Ltd.); a member of the then<br />
Quality Assurance Review Board of the<br />
Scheme; and the Board Chairman of<br />
the Company from 2015 when GLICO<br />
Healthcare Ltd (a private commercial<br />
health insurance scheme) was registered, a<br />
position he held and performed excellently<br />
until his sudden demise.<br />
Dr. Foleson worked tirelessly in all his<br />
roles to advance the values and mission of<br />
GLICO Holdings. His contribution to our<br />
business has been invaluable, as he added<br />
not only the weight of his decades of<br />
medical practice and business experience,<br />
but also his innate wisdom, integrity and<br />
unfailing commitment to the cause of<br />
GLICO Holdings and GLICO Healthcare<br />
in particular.<br />
Dr. Foleson was also kind, humble,<br />
compassionate and above all a gentleman.<br />
What we are today as a company, and what<br />
we are striving to become, is a tribute to<br />
him and the work he did for us over many<br />
years.<br />
The news of Dr. Foleson’s sudden death<br />
on 20th March 2022 was unbelievable<br />
because he was full of life.<br />
GLICO has lost a valuable asset, but we<br />
believe God loves him best.<br />
As Mother Theresa said, “the world is<br />
full of good people. If you can’t find one,<br />
be one”; Dr. Foleson was a good person<br />
personally and professionally.<br />
Dr. Foleson, we can only bid you farewell<br />
as your mortal remains lay before us.<br />
Dr. Foleson, rest in perfect peace and<br />
ascend into Higher Glory till we meet<br />
again!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Starlife Assurance Company Limited<br />
“For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a<br />
building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands.”<br />
2nd Corinthians 5:1 (NIV)<br />
Dr. Benjamin Foleson’s<br />
sudden demise came<br />
as a shock to the<br />
entire Company.<br />
Dr., as he was<br />
affectionately called,<br />
was appointed to the Board of StarLife in<br />
September 2006. He served on various<br />
Board Committees, the longest being the<br />
Board Audit & Risk Committee which<br />
he chaired for over a decade. He was<br />
instrumental in developing the Company’s<br />
Anti-Money Laundering Compliance and<br />
Enterprise Risk Management Policies<br />
and Programmes. Until his demise, he<br />
chaired the Board Governance & Strategy<br />
Committee and served on the Board<br />
Audit & Risk and Board Remuneration &<br />
Nomination Committees.<br />
Dr.’s dedication and commitment were<br />
noticeable by all who encountered him<br />
in and outside the Boardroom. Also<br />
noticeable was his attention to detail,<br />
fairness and flair for the correct use of<br />
the English language. He was punctual<br />
at meetings and actively participated in<br />
discussions, asking probing questions<br />
and making valuable contributions<br />
toward governance and operations<br />
of the Company, while ensuring all<br />
stakeholder interests were considered. His<br />
amiable demeanour encouraged friendly<br />
atmosphere even in challenging situations.<br />
With eagle eyes, he scrutinized every<br />
Report and Minutes and made valuable<br />
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“<br />
We cherish your selfless<br />
service on the Board, which<br />
has propelled the Company to<br />
remarkable heights within the<br />
insurance industry.”<br />
recommendations, which he regularly<br />
followed up until Management effectively<br />
implemented them. When he chaired a<br />
Board Committee, he ensured regular and<br />
effective meetings were held.<br />
Dr., after 16 years of service to StarLife,<br />
you leave us with a legacy of industry,<br />
diligence and excellence. You have created<br />
a vacuum that can never be fully filled.<br />
We cherish your selfless service on the<br />
Board, which has propelled the Company<br />
to remarkable heights within the insurance<br />
industry. You shall forever remain in our<br />
hearts.<br />
Ayekooo Doctor!!!<br />
Rest well in the bosom of our heavenly<br />
Father.<br />
May your gentle soul rest in eternal<br />
peace!!!!!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Bank of Ghana Pensioners’<br />
Association<br />
“Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on, says the spirit ,<br />
That they may rest from their labour and their work will follow them.”<br />
(Rev 14:13 NKJV)<br />
We have all<br />
gathered here<br />
because of<br />
the love and<br />
admiration<br />
we have for<br />
Dr. Benjamin Foleson. We are here to<br />
commemorate and celebrate a life that was<br />
generously granted him by the grace of<br />
God, our Creator, to serve humanity.<br />
The entire membership of the Bank of<br />
Ghana Pensioners’ Association joins the<br />
family of Dr. Foleson in this celebration<br />
of the life he lived so well and shared, in<br />
various ways, with us. Dr. Foleson was a<br />
hallmark of love and humility.<br />
Dr. Benjamin Foleson was employed by<br />
the Bank of Ghana as a Medical Doctor<br />
(Deputy Chief Manager) on 3rd April<br />
1991, in the Bank’s Medical Department.<br />
He endeared himself to management and<br />
the entire staff by his forthright manner<br />
and approach to his responsibilities. He<br />
was dedicated and very cooperative and<br />
dutiful. Indeed he loved his work and will<br />
forever remain in the hearts of the many<br />
patients he brought relief to. The Bank of<br />
Ghana and the medical profession has lost<br />
one of its gems.<br />
He was described as a competent director<br />
with a very high sense of responsibility. He<br />
was unassuming and related very well with<br />
both the high and low in the Bank who<br />
sought medical advice and treatment from<br />
him. He was the people’s doctor.<br />
Dr. Foleson retired as an Assistant<br />
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We are exceptionally blessed to<br />
have worked with Dr. Foleson as<br />
“a father, brother and a friend.”<br />
Director after 31 years of Service in the<br />
Medical Department. Spending 31 years<br />
in the service of the Bank means the prime<br />
of his adult working life was dedicated to<br />
this institution.<br />
Dr. Foleson’s dedication to duty was<br />
inspiring and unmatched. He had good<br />
interpersonal relationships and exhibited<br />
friendly love to all. It is remarkable that<br />
at the time the Bank had only a few<br />
doctors, but he was neither overwhelmed<br />
by the sheer number of patients he had to<br />
attend to on a daily basis nor did he ever<br />
complain about the workload.<br />
His professionalism calmed the nerves<br />
of patients he attended to no matter how<br />
agitated they were about their medical<br />
condition.<br />
Doc, may the Good Lord look favourably<br />
on your service to humanity and reward<br />
you with a peaceful rest in the bosom of<br />
father Abraham.<br />
You will be fondly remembered by the<br />
Bank of Ghana Pensioners for your loyal<br />
and dedicated service to the Bank.<br />
We are exceptionally blessed to have<br />
worked with Dr. Foleson as a father,<br />
brother and a friend.<br />
Doctor! Indeed it is painful for us to be<br />
here to bid you farewell. We are however<br />
grateful to the Lord that he lent you to be<br />
of service to his creation. You are finally<br />
leaving this earthly plane which is full<br />
of woes and tribulations to find a resting<br />
place in the bosom of God where you are<br />
assured of eternal rest in peace.<br />
Adieu, until we meet in the resurrection.<br />
FARE THEE WELL AND REST IN<br />
PERFECT PEACE!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Old Achimotan Association (OAA)<br />
“So teach us to number our days aright so we can<br />
apply our hearts to wisdom”<br />
Ps 90 : 12<br />
Akora Ben Foleson became<br />
OAA President in 1996<br />
and served 2 full terms to<br />
2001. He belonged to the<br />
1958 Year Group.<br />
Prior to becoming<br />
President, Akora Dr.<br />
Foleson had represented his Year Group<br />
regularly at the OAA Year Groups<br />
Representatives Committee Monthly<br />
Meetings during which he was known to<br />
have participated actively in discussions<br />
and made very useful contributions. He<br />
also took part in activities together with<br />
Akoras like Yaa Osei-Brimpong, Jeanberyl<br />
(Acquah-Moses) Dawson-Otoo, Akwesi<br />
Akompong and wife Auntie Aggie, Dr Yaw<br />
Osafo-Marfo, Ken Acquah and his wife,<br />
George Kwame Yeboah, Kwesi Erskine-<br />
Graham and his non-Akora partner, Mama<br />
Oye and many other Akoras who time and<br />
space cannot allow us to mention but<br />
are acknowledged and well appreciated.<br />
Akora Foleson’s collaborations led to<br />
the institution of some hallmark OAA<br />
events such as the Torchlight Procession<br />
which has become a very important<br />
entertainment segment Akoras and<br />
students celebrate together on the eve of<br />
the School’s Founders’ Day celebrations.<br />
Akora Dr Foleson became President of<br />
OAA when the new Secretariat was still<br />
going through its teething stages i.e.<br />
space, logistics, funding personnel etc.<br />
The Secretariat had to rotate temporarily<br />
from location to location. First in the<br />
office of the then OAA Secretary Akora<br />
George Yeboah at Asylum Down (Gh Pest<br />
Control) then to the next OAA Secretary<br />
Agyeman-Bempah’s Law Chambers at<br />
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America House, Tudu and finally to its<br />
current and permanent premises at the<br />
Staff Club House. When it finally started<br />
functioning from its present location the<br />
Secretariat most of the time had to be<br />
ran by only one or occasionally two staff,<br />
Akora Foleson would either call to share<br />
words of encouragement or at times find<br />
time out of his busy schedule as Director<br />
of Medical Services of Bank of Ghana,<br />
to come and check on any immediate<br />
problems the staff would be facing<br />
and how best to address them even if<br />
temporarily till a permanent solution was<br />
found.<br />
Akora Dr. Foleson exhibited great<br />
commitment to the cause of Achimota. He<br />
loved everything Achimotan to a fault and<br />
demonstrated so in many ways. He used<br />
his huge frame to advantage by galvanising<br />
Akoras young or old, present or prehistoric<br />
to gravitate towards everything good and<br />
achievable for Achimota. He brought a<br />
lot of awareness to bear on Akoras and<br />
outside donors towards the Achimota<br />
School Endowment Trust Fund (ASETF)<br />
He took his mandate as OAA President<br />
very seriously and was at times perceived<br />
as too strict. But he was fair and very jovial<br />
also and would gladly split a beer with you<br />
after some harsh scolding. And so it often<br />
happened that after heated exchanges at<br />
meetings he would invite everybody to the<br />
staff club house for refreshments where<br />
jokes and laughter would end the day and<br />
all would return home as brothers and<br />
sisters with Achimota remaining Mother<br />
ours.<br />
Dear Lord, Teach me to serve as you<br />
deserve, To give and not to count the cost,<br />
To fight and not to heed the wounds, To<br />
labour and not to seek to rest, To give of<br />
myself and not ask for a reward, Except<br />
the reward of knowing that I am doing<br />
your will. Amen.<br />
He confessed on a number of occasions<br />
that not only were these words in the<br />
School prayer humbling but they also gave<br />
him strength to keep going for Achimota<br />
in particular and mankind in general<br />
particularly in his vocation as a medical<br />
doctor.<br />
Akora Dr Ben Foleson would also confess<br />
that during his terms as President of OAA<br />
he was blessed to have a formidable team<br />
of Akoras in the OAA Executive Cttee<br />
who helped him steer affairs of this body<br />
which he loved with all his heart to some<br />
of its best years To mention but a few are<br />
the following Akora Sarah-Lynn Nunou<br />
Mansaray, Akora Harold Richardson,<br />
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Akora Kwame Osei Agyeman, Akora Yaa<br />
Osei- Brimpong, Akora Jeanberyl (Acquah-<br />
Moses), Akora Wereko-Brobbey, Akora Dr.<br />
Ntifo Akora Agnes Abutiate-Twumasi.<br />
Please forgive me if your name is left out.<br />
It’s unintended .<br />
Finally, we celebrate the band of Akora<br />
pilgrims that Akora Foleson worked with<br />
and have preceded him to the other side<br />
and may be welcoming him into their<br />
midst right now. Akora Dr. Osafo (Fears),<br />
Akora Vincent Hlomador, Akora George<br />
Yeboah, Akora Agyeman-Bempah, Akora ,<br />
are mourning your departure but we know<br />
they are high fiving you over there and<br />
probably splitting a beer with you for a<br />
good job done during your term of office.<br />
The torch you have passed on is burning<br />
brighter. The OAA Secretariat is now<br />
solidly established and has employed more<br />
staff. Smile, for your work here on earth is<br />
beautifully accomplished.<br />
Adios Akora Rest peacefully. May Mother<br />
Earth rest lightly on your mortal remains.<br />
School Song<br />
From Gambaga to Accra.<br />
From Wiawso to Keta<br />
We are brothers and our mother is our<br />
school!<br />
She would guide us all and each<br />
So to learn that we may teach;<br />
So to subjugate ourselves that we may<br />
rule.<br />
Chorus<br />
Play the game, shout her name<br />
Spread her fame afar<br />
She’s the head of all the host,<br />
She’s the school of whom we boast,<br />
She’s the glory of the Coast-Achimota!<br />
When our books are laid aside<br />
And we scatter far and wide,<br />
We remember with affection all we gained,<br />
How we learned to take our share<br />
In the life and labour there,<br />
Where the men of whom we are proudest<br />
of were trained<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Bethel Methodist Society<br />
They have come from tribulation,<br />
And have washed their robes in blood,<br />
Washed them in the blood of Jesus;<br />
Tried they were, and firm they stood;<br />
Mocked, imprisoned, stoned, tormented,<br />
Sawn asunder, slain with sword,<br />
They have conquered death and Satan,<br />
By the might of Christ the Lord.<br />
(MHB 820 Stanza two)<br />
Dr. Ben Foleson joined<br />
the Bethel Methodist<br />
Society, Kasoa in the<br />
year 2011. He was<br />
attached to the, Sofo<br />
Bible Class (James<br />
Class). He was a regular member at<br />
church and the Bible Class meetings. He<br />
was always on top of health related topics<br />
discussed at the Bible Class meetings<br />
being a Medical Doctor. He was a huge<br />
blessing to all brethren and the James<br />
Bible Class in particular.<br />
Dr. Ben Foleson did not allow his<br />
professional attainment to be a stumbling<br />
block to his service to God. He was God<br />
fearing, humble, approachable and very<br />
humorous. Always ensured that people<br />
around him were always happy and<br />
motivated.<br />
Although his membership at Bethel<br />
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“<br />
He was God fearing, humble,<br />
approachable and very humorous.<br />
Society was short, Dr. Ben Foleson<br />
impacted positively on the churches’<br />
activities and the lives of other brethren.<br />
As we bid you fare well, we are sure<br />
that you are resting in the bosom of your<br />
Maker.<br />
Rest well, brother Ben Foleson.<br />
Nantsew yie, dofo pa.<br />
The Lord be with you.<br />
Amen .<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Hildegard Foleson<br />
“The quest for knowledge and<br />
information has always been<br />
paramount in my life.”<br />
Dr. Ben Foleson 2020<br />
Ben and I got to know<br />
each other in 1962, just<br />
at the beginning of his<br />
Medical Studies at Bonn<br />
University in Germany.<br />
He fascinated me<br />
because he was such a hardworking<br />
student always busy studying to bring<br />
home to Ghana as much knowledge as was<br />
possible at that time. He felt responsible<br />
to give something back to his folk because<br />
he studied on a Ghanaian Government<br />
Scholarship. Consequently we, then,<br />
married and had a baby girl Britta Nana<br />
Antwiwa. We came back to Ghana in<br />
1970 immediately after he had finished<br />
his studies with an additional course in<br />
Hygiene and Family Planning in Liverpool.<br />
He worked in Ho, Achimota, Korle Bu<br />
Hospital, somewhere in the Western Part<br />
of Ghana, Tema, Bank of Ghana Hospital<br />
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and possibly others as well.<br />
Wherever he had to work, he gave his<br />
best. He worked hard and kept on asking<br />
questions those who knew better than<br />
him.<br />
He strongly believed that asking questions<br />
is the only way to learn and strive forward.<br />
Next to his love for studying, learning<br />
and working he was deeply rooted in the<br />
Ghanaian traditional culture. He was a<br />
proud Ghanaian, proud of his background,<br />
proud of his tradition, proud of his culture<br />
and proud of the family structures.<br />
I, being born and brought up in Germany<br />
during the second World War and<br />
thereafter, I was surrounded by people<br />
who thought and acted like racists which I<br />
couldn`t share.<br />
Being so close with Ben taught me<br />
TOLERANCE towards people of different<br />
background.<br />
Through him I learned to RESPECT every<br />
single person for what he is.<br />
He passed on the LOVE FOR HIS<br />
CULTURE to me, explaining chieftaincy,<br />
the stools, adinkra symbols and the rituals<br />
accompanying the diverse festivals.<br />
He taught me that FAMILY is not just<br />
mother, father and 2 to 3 children, but a<br />
system which you belong to and have your<br />
place in. You are not an individual alone<br />
and all by yourself, you are rooted and part<br />
of a group.<br />
Unfortunate circumstances separated<br />
us in 1973 and the rules of the German<br />
Government enforced a divorce so that<br />
I could have child custody. That was a<br />
deep cut in both our lives but years later it<br />
enabled us to practise FORGIVENESS.<br />
Since 2006 (interrupted by a few years)<br />
Ben and I have been in daily contact till<br />
his last day. We were convinced that your<br />
PEACE OF MIND with God, your life<br />
and your beloved ones prepares you for<br />
your end.<br />
His wish had always been to work till<br />
the end of his life. That was granted to<br />
him. The work for GLICOHEALTH and<br />
STARLIFE kept him busy till a few days<br />
before he passed away so unexpectedly.<br />
BEN, I THANK YOU FOR<br />
EVERYTHING THAT WE SHARED<br />
DURING THE PAST 60 YEARS.<br />
THE BOND OF LOVE STANDS<br />
ABOVE EVERY CHALLENGE LIFE<br />
MAY BRING.<br />
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT<br />
PEACE!<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Madam Stella Ewuradwoa Kesson<br />
A Tribute of Gratitude to A Good<br />
Father and Friend<br />
Ben, you were a father to<br />
many so I write this for<br />
everyone you touched<br />
in your lifetime. I thank<br />
God for giving me two<br />
wonderful young women<br />
through you. I thank you for encouraging<br />
me to set up Brainy Child Learning<br />
Centre. I thank You for all you ever did for<br />
me, you will forever be a memory in my<br />
heart and mind.<br />
May The Lord keep you safe in His bosom<br />
till we meet again. Amen<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Madam Regina Amakye<br />
“And merciful men are taken away,<br />
none considering that the righteous<br />
is taken away from the evil to come.<br />
He shall enter into peace: they shall<br />
rest in their beds, each one walking<br />
in his uprightness”<br />
Isaiah 57:1b-2<br />
Kweku, as I affectionately<br />
called him, was very dear<br />
to my heart.<br />
I had an encounter with<br />
him in 1958 at Achimota.<br />
Being with him wasn’t that easy. We had<br />
our ups and downs but through it all we<br />
never gave up on what we shared.<br />
He cared greatly about me.<br />
He visited frequently to check up on me,<br />
until there came a Pandemic (COVID 19)<br />
which restricted our movements to more<br />
Virtual visits and phone calls.<br />
He was very heartly, He neither neglected<br />
his responsibilities even until his very last<br />
breath.<br />
May his soul rest in Perfect Peace.<br />
Until we meet again rest well my dear.<br />
CHRISTIAN ASORE NDWOM 325<br />
verses 1 and 3<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mr. Francis Sankah<br />
My beloved father in-law wasn’t<br />
just an in-law but carried out<br />
his fatherly role to all.<br />
Despite the pain that lingers on<br />
in the core of my being, I have<br />
to try to let go. Time is precious, it’s never changing and<br />
waits for no one.<br />
I was sad to have heard about your death. Though you’re<br />
dead, your memories still live on. I thank God for the<br />
privilege he gave me to be his son in-law. You are gone<br />
but you will never be forgotten. I lost you but I did not<br />
lose you as a model of my wife’s life. I hope you find<br />
eternal peace and salvation you deserve. We will miss<br />
you now and forever. Rest in peace till we meet again<br />
Dr. Ben Foleson.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Mr. Ronnie Odartei-Laryea<br />
It was meant to be a routine<br />
procedure. I certainly did not<br />
expect to be writing a tribute; at<br />
least not this year; not just yet.<br />
When I received the call that<br />
morning, I thought it was to say<br />
you had recovered enough for the rest of<br />
us to come visit you in the hospital. No<br />
words can describe the shock I felt then<br />
and feel now, even as I write this. This<br />
June, we would have had the second of<br />
our quarterly one-on-ones. I have already<br />
bought the wine. I will cherish the few we<br />
had and try to live by the example you set.<br />
While we all try to come to terms with<br />
your sudden departure, we are somewhat<br />
comforted that you must be in a better<br />
place and that you lived a full and<br />
accomplished life, touching many along<br />
the way. I thank you for accepting me into<br />
your family and being a wonderful fatherin-law<br />
and granddad. I can still see Eileen<br />
bouncing on your belly and Sean focusing<br />
on the toffees. The aquarium you sent the<br />
kids will now be a “monument” to you in<br />
our home.<br />
You gave me the most important thing in<br />
my life and for that, I’ll forever be grateful.<br />
I wish you safe passage and good rest,<br />
Doc.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Her Honor Winnie<br />
Amoatey-Owusu<br />
Imet Dr. nearly a decade ago when<br />
I joined StarLife. He was a Board<br />
member and as the Company<br />
Secretary, our paths crossed<br />
many times in and outside the<br />
Board room. Dr.’s values of hard<br />
work, excellence, integrity, fairness and<br />
punctuality endeared me to him. Our<br />
bond grew even stronger when we later<br />
found out we were both Akoras. There<br />
wasn’t room for anything but excellence<br />
with him. I always looked forward to our<br />
meetings to review our draft Board Audit<br />
Committee Minutes. I recall an amusing<br />
occasion where Dr. gave me a score of<br />
85% suggesting there was more room<br />
to improve. I mean who does that? 85%<br />
should earn me an A in any exams! Alas,<br />
that was how he constantly challenged me<br />
to keep striving in my endeavors.<br />
Dr. became my go-to person when<br />
I needed seasoned counsel on any<br />
challenge. Over time, our relationship<br />
evolved into a father-daughter bond. I<br />
didn’t take any important life decision<br />
without first seeking his thoughts and I<br />
was always assured of his invaluable Godly<br />
counsel and support.<br />
His readiness to share in my most joyous<br />
moments is one of the things I’ll miss<br />
the most. When he met my dad at my<br />
wedding, he told him I was his daughter<br />
and he was proud of me. When I didn’t<br />
want to bother him so kept my children’s<br />
naming from him, he’d ask me later when<br />
I reported myself who asked me to take<br />
decisions on his behalf and I’d apologize.<br />
He was present when I was appointed a<br />
Judge!<br />
Although my work took me to the Ashanti<br />
Region, we constantly kept in touch.<br />
When cancer lost its way and visited<br />
me, Dr. was always there to support<br />
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“<br />
Thank you for the valuable<br />
lessons you taught me by deed<br />
and words, for cheering me on,<br />
and for the unconditional love<br />
you poured into me.”<br />
me in prayer and other means. I recall<br />
sharing with him how terrified I was<br />
at my first radiotherapy session, the<br />
longest 15 minutes of my life, and how<br />
he encouraged me through it. After my<br />
recovery when I resumed work, I visited<br />
him during my annual leave. I visited with<br />
my husband and children because Dr.<br />
was our father and grandpa. The last time<br />
I saw Dr. was on 28th December, 2021<br />
when I visited with my husband.<br />
Despite the pain I feel, I choose to wear<br />
a heart of gratitude, holding on dearly to<br />
the beautiful memories I have of you, and<br />
thanking God for making me find in you<br />
an awesome dad, mentor and confidante.<br />
Thank you for the valuable lessons you<br />
taught me by deed and words, for cheering<br />
me on, and for the unconditional love you<br />
poured into me. I miss you sorely.<br />
Dr., rest well in the bosom of our Dear<br />
Lord.<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Dr Hazel P. Berrard Amuah<br />
Iremember that day vividly…. It<br />
was in the GLICO Office Board<br />
Room, I had a meeting with the<br />
CEO Ms Afriyie Boachie and<br />
the Board Chair Dr. Foleson<br />
seated. I smiled and courtesied<br />
to greet him. I was very honoured to<br />
meet the noble Chairman who had been<br />
so instrumental in building the business<br />
and nurturing leaders. We exchanged<br />
formal greetings which quickly turned into<br />
pleasantries.<br />
It turned out that both Dr Foleson and<br />
my Dad trained in Germany and as the<br />
few black people there then, their paths<br />
had crossed. He spoke to my Dad on the<br />
phone for several minutes afterwards, they<br />
cracked jokes and right there I knew that<br />
Dr Foleson was not just the Board Chair of<br />
one of the businesses I had to partner but<br />
a father.<br />
He was tough, but equally very gentle,<br />
generous with counsel, humourous and<br />
very sweet. When I left the business we<br />
were in touch everyday. There was not one<br />
day “Daddy Doc” as I called him would<br />
not check on me and the kids. He was a<br />
very empathetic man. His kind nature was<br />
very sweet.<br />
We met for breakfast in January…. We<br />
chatted about his health, I was very<br />
concerned and we discussed his next<br />
review date and the surgery…. My heart<br />
wrenched as he described the pain he<br />
would experience and guess what, Daddy<br />
Doc was smiling as he narrated all these.<br />
What a man! We chatted about his 81st<br />
birthday and how God had been good.<br />
We spoke about my work, Daddy Doc<br />
counselled me and gave me his blessings.<br />
We hugged and said goodbye. I called him<br />
later and said we forgot to take a picture<br />
and promised to do so after his surgery…<br />
Review dates, surgery dates shifted a<br />
bit…. I got drowned in work…. I came<br />
from a meeting and found several missed<br />
calls from Ms Afriyie and other employees<br />
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“<br />
There was not one day “Daddy<br />
Doc” as I called him would not<br />
check on me and the kids. He<br />
was a very empathetic man. His<br />
kind nature was very sweet.<br />
from GLICO on my phone…. I stared at<br />
my phone…. My heart began to race, I<br />
called back, she didn’t answer…. I called<br />
some employees from GLICO…. I could<br />
not stop the tears from flowing down my<br />
face. Shocking, painful, sad but guess<br />
what, I know he is up there at the right<br />
hand of God free from pain and stress and<br />
enjoying life eternal.<br />
I thank God for such a wonderful father<br />
and friend. May his soul continue to rest<br />
in peace.<br />
Love, Hazel<br />
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Tribute from<br />
Pakesedo Nsona Royal family<br />
We have gathered<br />
here today<br />
because one<br />
of us, Dr. Ben<br />
Foleson, has<br />
been called to<br />
higher service by our Father who is in<br />
Heaven.<br />
The Pakesedo Nsona Royal family of<br />
Mankesim is in a state of deep sorrow<br />
as we mourn the departure of our<br />
Ebusua Baatan who may be described<br />
as the Patron of the Family. We are<br />
however consoled by the life he lived,<br />
the leadership qualities he exhibited,<br />
his genuine kindness and generosity to<br />
those who deserved his attention. Dr. Ben<br />
Foleson was steady and firm in principle.<br />
He encouraged us to live by the truth.<br />
Ebusua Baatan, you will forever remain in<br />
our hearts.<br />
May God receive you and keep you.<br />
Amen.<br />
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Appreciation<br />
The family of Dr. Benjamin Foleson<br />
expresses our gratitude for what<br />
you have done for us. Your words of<br />
comfort, encouragement and your<br />
incredible generosity has helped us<br />
through this season of grief.<br />
Thank you so deeply for all you have<br />
done for us.