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PARENTING SEX EDUCATION
hildren are more likely to speak about
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all the other trials of adolescence such
as anxiety, depression, relationships
and the use of drugs and alcohol, as
well as sexual issues once you able to
cultivate a trust relationship by keeping
the communication line open.
Make sure they are getting the right information,
be your child’s first source of information when it
comes to sex. Understanding the correct
information can protect them from risky behaviour
as they grow into adulthood.
There’s place of instilling your family values in the
kids-Sex education also helps to provide that
platform. For instance, if you happen to come from
a family that believes in sex after marriage, this can
be part of the discussions about sexuality but if on
the other hand, the subject has never been up for
conversation before now, there is tendency your
teenage child may not be receptive to the topic.
A child’s exposure to information about sex
should actually start early, avoiding it means you will
have little control over what and how they learn
about sex because, they would have picked one or
two stuffs from their peers, school and the internet.
This information can be incomplete and may be
incorrect and may also be demeaning or even
dangerous if not reviewed.
Agreed the media is full of sex and sexuality, it is
often depicted in the most sensational and superficial
sense for their target audience. Hardly before one will
read or see a realistic portrayal of relationships and
sexuality because of what they call ‘packaging’, fake
life. More often, stories around sex and sexuality are
just make believe, either without any context or without
any emotional or relationship component. And the risks
of sexual activity are often downplayed in the media.
It’s actually safe to teach your child sex education
than no sex education- Studies have shown that, more
children are being exposed to sexual images in the
media and the possibility of them indulging in
sexual behaviours at a younger age is very
high.
Actual sex education does not usually lead to
immorality since children who receive sex
education at home are less likely to copulate in
risky sexual act.
It pays to have healthy communications with
one’s children about sexual activity. In the long
run, it’s safer. It might not be easy or without
awkward moments seeing that most teens are
very private. You talking about sex early
increases the chance he/she will approach you
as a parent when in difficult or if dangerous
things come up and this will be worth
everyone’s time.
The role of parents can never be over
flogged and it’s important that you teach your
child that having sex is not a recreational game
to be engaged in before wedlock.
Logical effects of sex outside marriage are:
* Abortion
* Kids born out of wedlock
* Sexually transmitted diseases
And parents may not even be aware that the
child is struggling with depression due to issues
like invasive procedure such as abortion.
Children are a gift of life from God and
parents are granted stewardship of these
precious gems. Hence, it’s the prerogative right
of parents to work with trusted professionals
and institutions in building hedge around their
children who are vulnerable to sex molestation
and sexual abuse.
With unified effort, parents can build a safe
environment for their children such that they
gain wisdom and knowledge as they grow from
one phase of life to another.
PRO TIP: Whether well educated or not
educated, every father and mother or guardian
can be equipped with the right tools to teach
and impart moral values to his/her child- Our
kids need guidance, too many distractions
around that can lead them astray if not properly
steered in the right direction.
Things to Consider while
designing your bedroom
Bedrooms are more than just rooms. They serve as your personal sanctuary.
Whenever you return after a long day, it is where you recharge for the next one.
Keeping that in mind, bedroom decor ideas can help create a perfect haven.
Light
Lighting is one of the most important things to consider when designing or decorating
your bedroom. Do you have a lot of natural light in your room? What are the light
sources in your room? This will also tell you what window treatments you will need or
want and what other fixtures you will have
to install to illuminate the room.
Paint
Colours or paints can be used to express a
mood or feel in a room. A subtle touch
makes all the difference. A change in paint
colour changes the whole feel of the place.
The most popular bedroom colours are
neutrals or white. To promote a calmer
sleep, light or pale blue is recommended.
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bedroom light
Bed
A bedroom isn’t a bedroom without a bed, of
course. However, be sure to purchase your bed
only after seeing the bedroom, painting it, and
considering the lighting sources. Most
importantly, consider the room’s size. Whether
you want a glam bed, a rustic bed, a boho bed,
or a simple bed, go for it!
Window Treatment
Curtains or blinds? Or both? Window treatments
are a key feature of any bedroom decor.
Selecting the perfect curtain is something you
should do. A curtain can easily be changed,
updated, or mixed and matched. It does not
have to be expensive.
Seating
Often, I hear this, why do we need seats when
we can sit on the bed? That’s actually a good
point. However, if you have a room with ample
space and you choose to fill up the room, finding
a chair or bench would be a great solution.
Night Stand
Having a night stand next to your bed is more
than just bedroom decor ideas. It’s a great way
for added storage and when you have things you
always use, like phone, charger.
Closet and Storage
These are must-haves in the bedroom. If you
have a separate closet room where it’s more
than enough for your personal things, lucky you!
But for those that need more avenues for
storage, you can explore armoire, dresser, or
accessory mirror storage, hanging or floating
shelves.
side rug
curtains
night stand
closet