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Recovering from Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts 13

Exercise: Observing Your Own Ironic Process

This demonstration will take less than ten minutes, and it consists of

two parts.

Part 1

Set a timer for two minutes. Sit comfortably, close your eyes, and pay

attention to what you think, feel, hear, and smell. You may think about

anything you want— anything at all— except for one thing. Under no

circumstances should you think about carrots. Not the word carrot, not

the smell of carrots, not the taste. Nothing with carrots in it— no carrot

cake, no carrot salad, and certainly no Bugs Bunny! It might help to

stay away from the color orange as well. Now start the timer, and do

your best to keep your thoughts away from carrots.

After the timer goes off, ask yourself how well you did. Now, most

people will report that they failed to be completely free of carrots.

The effort to not think about carrots backfires. In fact, the effort itself

is doomed to failure. The more you try to rid your mind of carrots,

the more insistent the thought becomes. So trying not to think about

carrots is a form of thinking about them.

Part 2

In this portion of the exercise, you will set your timer for five minutes.

Your task is to try to keep your mind completely free of carrots for five

minutes. As in the first part of the exercise, sit comfortably and give

yourself permission to think about anything at all except carrots. Start

the timer, and each time you think of carrots, you must reset the timer

back to five minutes. Your task is simply to go five minutes without

thinking of carrots. Be honest! Ready, get set, go!

Now look at what happened. Most people report that they think

of carrots after just a few seconds, so they reset the timer. But then

it happens again, and the timer is once again reset. After a while,

the task starts to seem impossible. You become frustrated, annoyed,

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