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The Christian Lifestyle Magazine, Issue 12

The Christian Lifestyle is a FREE tri-annual (three times per year-out in March, July and November) independent Christian publication and is not affiliated to any church. It is an evangelical tool, a platform to glorify God and share messages of hope, encouragement and triumph over the battles of everyday life. The magazine is distributed nationally through different industries and at most Christian events, conferences and is available in most of the major cities in South Africa. We tap into a range of features relevant to our daily lifestyle; including education, travel, marriage, parenting, finances, youth and so much more. It’s an exciting, eye catching read for all age groups and is available in both print and online digital formats. Our goal is for readers to engage with motivational, God-inspired content and come into a personal love relationship with Jesus Christ. We also want to offer businesses an opportunity to advertise their products or services through our targeted campaigns and strategies and by doing so giving them access to a growing readership. https://tclmag.org.za/

The Christian Lifestyle is a FREE tri-annual (three times per year-out in March, July and November) independent Christian publication and is not affiliated to any church. It is an evangelical tool, a platform to glorify God and share messages of hope, encouragement and triumph over the battles of everyday life.

The magazine is distributed nationally through different industries and at most Christian events, conferences and is available in most of the major cities in South Africa.

We tap into a range of features relevant to our daily lifestyle; including education, travel, marriage, parenting, finances, youth and so much more. It’s an exciting, eye catching read for all age groups and is available in both print and online digital formats. Our goal is for readers to engage with motivational, God-inspired content and come into a personal love relationship with Jesus Christ.

We also want to offer businesses an opportunity to advertise their products or services through our targeted campaigns and strategies and by doing so giving them access to a growing readership.
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ISSUE 12

FITNESS

Find your unique fit

and smash your goals

| AUGUST - NOVEMBER 2022 | ISSUE 12 |

WOMEN

Playing a key role

throughout history &

essential to God's

plan for salvation

TESTIMONY

Unshakable faith in

the midst of a rapidly

progressing cancer

MARRIAGE

For better and

for worse: Faith that

moves mountains

Y0UTH

Establishing your identity

in Christ is essential to

success in life

MEET MAGDA KLEYN:

"AS LONG AS THERE IS BREATH, THERE IS

ALWAYS CAUSE FOR HOPE"

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CONTENTS

AUGUST - NOVEMBER 2022

ON THE COVER

COVER STORIES

24 Be Intentional

10 Cover Story: Transgressing Boundaries,

Restoring Hope

18 Women: The Importance of Women in

Society

54 Unshakable faith in the midst of a rapidly

progressing cancer

40 Establishing your identity in Christ is essential

to success in life

60 Comparison is the thief of joy. Find your

unique fit and smash your fitness goals.

REGULARS

4 Contributors

6 Publisher’s Note

5 Editor’s Note

7 Have your say

8 What’s Trending

9 Prayer of Salvation

30 Pastoral Interview

48 Single, Celibate and

Content!

34 Book: The Spiritual Battle

for the Souls of Men

40 Youth: Establishing

your identity in Christ is

essential to success in life

59 Poetry

42 From Atheist to Apostle

50 Marriage: Faith that

Moves Mountains

38 Love Liya Brand:

Successful Entrepreneur at

Age 10

52 Education

20 Caroline Jordaan:

Spiritedly Artistic!

62 Recipe

65 Music

60 Fitness

66 Books

64 Movies

69 Local News

68 International News

GROWTH

24 Be Intentional

9 Prayer of Salvation

18 The Importance of women in

society

37 Our childhood experiences

vs those we establish for our

children as parents

60 Comparison is the thief of joy.

Find your unique fit and smash

your fitness goals

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PUBLISHER WeServe Media (Pty) Ltd

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We will contact you if we are interested in the

article. WeServe Media Group retains the right

to publish articles as per our selection process.

Writer’s guidelines are available upon request.

The views expressed in articles and letters are

the responsibility of the respective authors and

not necessarily the views of WeServe Media

and The Christian Lifestyle.

DERRICK

GROBBELAAR

(NAT DIPL.

THEOLOGY,

BCOM HONS)

I was born in

Kroonstad in the

Free State. My father was a farmer; therefore,

I spent my first eleven years of life on a farm.

My father is also a minister, and I am the

fourth generation of pastors in my family.

This despite the fact that I initially had no

desire to become a pastor. I graduated high

school in 1987 and attended BCom and

Honors courses at North West University.

I was working for eleven years prior to

entering the ministry full time.

CONTRIBUTORS

Meet some of our magazine’s amazing volunteer contributors! Want

to write for us? Email info@tclmag.org.za and we will send you our

writer’s guidelines.

Contributors: Juanita Zwavel, Claudene Sebolai, Tammy Lendore, Magda Kleyn,

Dini Pascal Abanda, Charlene Ainsley, Traci Townsend, Love Liya Brand, Kyle

Johnson, Jethro & Ornella Smith, Leeroy & Saadiqa Booysen, Jade & Ashwin

Marcus, Dr Fay, Leon & Thea Clemons, Caroline Jordaan, Cynthia Booysen, Esme

Adonis, Natashja Solomon, Derrick Grobbelaar, Dominique Adonis, Reinhardt

Van Der Westhuizen, Coach Simon, Nadia Rinquest, Yolanda Petersen

CYNTHIA CECILE BOOYSEN

I’m Cynthia Cecile Booysen, a wife to Marius

Booysen, married 12 years and mother of 3

beautiful children. I live in a beautiful Fisher

community of Hawston in the Overstrand. I am a

community development worker for Department

of local Government for 16 years. I am also an

entrepreneur and an ordained Pastor. I love

working with people. My passion is to see people discover who they are in

Christ; that gives me so much joy. My favourite Bible verse is Isaiah 43:1 “I

have called you by your name, you are mine.” I am a very easy person to get

along with, I enjoy good company, with people that invest in each other.

There aren’t many things that bother me, but when you talk during movies,

it does. I think it’s important to make the most of each day. Find your true

self and aid others in doing the same!

NATASHJA SOLOMON

I am from the beautiful community of Bishop Lavis.

My strength and passion lie in helping women and

children on a grassroots level. I try to bring about

a change in our communities as a whole through

projects, workshops, and facilitating discussions

about problems that women, children, and families

face. My pet peeve is being asked to do something

at the last minute, which I interpret as a sign of disrespect. I love bellylaughing.

I usually appear serious, yet I love to laugh until I can’t anymore.

I love dancing and singing in the car, something many people don’t know.

Life gives us many reasons to give up, and many of us have, but the

ultimate test is when we get back up and try again. Therefore, my favourite

Bible scripture is Psalm 46:10, which reads, “Be still, and know that I am

God.” To me, this verse signifies that in the stillness of our deepest being,

God is always with us, regardless of the circumstances.

ESMARELDA ADONIS

I was born in the Northern Cape but raised in

picturesque Hawston in the Western Cape. I have

been a Christian for thirteen years and adore every

moment of my walk with Christ. The sound of

chewing or slurping is particularly annoying to me.

I absolutely love Isaiah 43 and live by the quote

that “only a fool argues with a fool.” I can’t tell

jokes. I tried telling a joke once, but I laughed so hard that I never got to

the funny part. For me, it’s not fair to place the responsibility for a terrible

choice on one’s upbringing or other external factors once one has reached

an age of discernment. Whatever the case may be, you must be willing to

take responsibility for the results of your choices.

REMAIN

PRAYERFUL

While facing death, Jesus remained devoted

to prayer (Matthew 27:46). According to the

Bible, Jesus did not live in reaction to His

circumstances and difficulties, but rather in

response to the Father’s will. His devotion to

prayer was unaffected by His many hardships.

He prayed continuously. He prayed during the

final hours of His life. On the cross, He offered

prayer. His entire ministry was founded upon prayer. Jesus yearned for communion and

fellowship with the Father; may we have the same desire.

In Luke 18:1, Jesus shared a parable with his disciples that illustrated the importance of

their maintaining a constant prayer life and never giving up on it. This wonderful mystery,

that we are are in Christ and Christ is in us, was not only made known to Paul the Apostle,

but it was also spoken of by the Lord Himself when He said, “Abide in me as I abide in

you.”

Our prayers, as The Christian Lifestyle Magazine family are always spilling over into

thanksgiving for you. We are asking God to give you wise minds and spirits attuned to His

will so that you can acquire a thorough understanding of the ways in which God works.

We also pray that you will live well for Christ, making Him proud of you as you labour

and do the work He has called and equipped you to do. As you learn more and more

about how God works, you will learn how to do your work. We pray that you will have the

strength that endures the unendurable and spills over into joy. We thank the Father who

makes us strong enough to take part in everything bright and beautiful that He has for us.

I pray that the words of each person who contributed to this issue bring you comfort and

hope wherever it is lacking. Shalom!

EDITOR’S NOTE

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE

LETTERS

TURNING

Turning 40 brings about a level

of lifestyle changes that only

the 40+'s will understand.

Along with these lifestyle

changes comes a huge joy of

gratitude because one's life has

been spared for 4 decades.

I often find myself praying

for longevity because I have

more work to contribute

towards building the Kingdom

of God. But longevity comes

with keeping God's commands

in your heart according to

Proverbs 3 vs 1 and 2, "My son

(daughter), do not forget My

law but let your heart keep My

commands; For length of days

and long life they will add to

you."

Today I am happy to proclaim that the long life is found in Christ. When we are Born

Again we have a blessed assurance of Eternity. It is the Kingdom longevity that our

sovereign Father graciously offer us.

Friend, if you want to experience God's longevity page through our magazine to find the

prayer of Salvation that will lead you to your new you.

God bless

Juanita Fortuin-Zwavel

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PRAYER OF SALVATION

MORE COMMENTS FROM CRITICS AND FOLLOWERS:

So while he was attacking the law all these years, he was actually practicing the law? However,

many Christians justified the “tithe” by saying it was before the Law of Moses, however, so was

the Sabbath. So please tell me again why they honor one and not the other? Gullible Christians

will do anything to go against the laws of Yahuah!

Facebook: DrKenneth Howard

SO CREFLO DOLLAR FINALLY SAW THE LIGHT ,after HE BENEFITED FOR DECADES IN THE

SAME WAY ALL HIS COLLEAGUES STILL BENEFITS,but GOD.

Always been my stance on Tithing, however, I’ve never failed to give, as God purposed and still

purposes in my heart to give. WEW

Facebook: William Eugene Wildeman

Thank you for embracing the truth. This is one of the right things you have done since the

ministry began.

Facebook: Zebedee Forcados

CREFLO DOLLAR’S RECENT TEACHING ON

TITHING HAS SPARKED CONTROVERSY.

Dollar, a well-known televangelist and founder of the

Christian World Changers Church based in College Park,

Georgia, a suburb of Atlanta have admitted that his past

teaching on tithing was not correct in a sermon from 26

June 2022 titled, The Great Misunderstanding”.

He however said,” I won’t apologize because if it wasn’t

for me going down that route, I would’ve never ended up

where I am right now. But I will say that I have no shame at

all at saying to you, throw away every book, every tape, and

every video I ever did on the subject of tithing unless it lines

up with this.”

However, many have taken to social media platforms

to question the remorse of his admission. One such criticism is by David

Croteau, Dean of Columbia Biblical Seminary, South Carolina,” What if Dollar

had said ‘Get those books and tapes back to us, and we will refund you the

money? Maybe that would have been so impressive if he could have done

something like that.”

Croteau used the example of Zacchaeus who restored fourfold to those

whom he had over-taxed (Luke 19 verse 1-10). Zacchaeus restored to those

from whom he had taken. Creflo Dollar had not done the same.

The prayer of salvation/ sinner’s prayer is not a magic formula. Its

meaning is deeper than reciting mere words. The Bible teaches us

in Rom 10:9-10 that “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord’,

and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the death, you

will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are

justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and

are saved”. In other words it is an open confession of our belief in

the life, death, resurrection and ascension of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Moreover this confession is the activity of the heart spilling over

through the mouth. This is what the Apostle Paul means when he

said “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power

of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes: first to the

Jew, then to the Gentile” Romans 1:16.

Jesus Himself says in Revelation 3:20 “Listen! I am standing and

knocking at your door. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will

come in and we will eat together.” Maybe you are paging through

this magazine because someone invited you to check it out or you

just stumbled upon it as you surfed the internet. I do believe it is

not a co-incidence. If something in this publication resonates with

your spirit and inspires you do not hesitate to invite Jesus into your

world as he knocks on the door of your heart. There is nothing

more amazing than to fellowship with the King of kings. Below is an

example of a prayer to except Jesus’ invitation to a relationship with

God. You can also pray by yourself using your own words. There is

no special formula as long as you pray from your heart.

Prayer:

Dear Lord

I believe that you died on the cross for me to save me. You did for me

what I could not do for myself. From this day forward, help me to live

every day for you and in a way that pleases you. Thank you for not

giving up on me when I gave up on myself. Thank you that You know

the plans You have for me, to prosper me and not to harm me. Instruct

me and teach me in the way that I should go. Counsel me and watch

over me.

In Jesus Name

Amen

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COVER STORY

TRANSGRESSING

BOUNDARIES,

Interviewed by: Claudene Sebolai

Magda Kleyn, also known as

Sister Kleyn, hails all the way from

Petrusville, Northern Cape. She is

the only sister out of twenty boys,

so it’s no surprise that she’s been

dubbed the ‘Iron Woman.’ Sister

Kleyn always had a soft spot for

helping others, even as a young girl;

she dreamt of becoming a nurse.

Nevertheless, she ended up doing

much more than becoming the nurse

she had always envisioned herself as.

She takes an active role in society,

and she pushes for social justice

and development. Despite the

fact that she grew up on the Cape

Flats in a predominantly colored

neighborhood, her cultural identity

is a bit of a mix: “I was born to a

Xhosa mother and a Sotho father

but grew up on the Cape Flats.

Therefore, it is very clear that God

chose Sister Kleyn for a purpose that

goes beyond the confines of culture,

geography, society, and ethnicity.

Despite the fact that she has a

certificate for the 10th grade, Magda

continued her study at a higher level.

During this time, she also assisted

her mother on occasion when she

went out to earn a living by ironing

for other people. The foundation

for Magda’s strong work ethic and

her thought leadership is the idea

that students’ education should

encourage them to combine theory

and practice, which will allow them

to make meaningful contributions to

the world in which they live.

Her six children are named

Michelle, Victor, Henry, Brandon, and

Calvin, and she has nine grandkids

named Jude, Luke, Phoebe, Emily,

Connor, Keturah, Harper, and

Chelsea-Grace. In addition to being

a devoted supporter of the Stormers,

she is passionate about a number of

other topics, including community

development, substance abuse, and

domestic violence, and she enjoys

interior design. It is a privilege to be

able to get to know Sister Kleyn on a

more personal level as she opens her

heart to us and gives us a peek at

the woman that so many people look

up to and revere.

PROFESSIONAL LIFE: FROM

PASSION TO PROFESSION

It makes no difference where

you come from; what matters is

that you have a vision for your life,

that you tap into your God-given

purpose, and that you maximize your

potential. Magda Kleyn wears many

hats and discusses her professional

journey here. Hearing that Magda’s

desire to become a nurse was not

derailed by the fact that she only

completed high school through the

tenth grade is extremely motivating.

WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT JOB

TITLE?

In addition to my role as Chief

Executive Officer of Tehillah

Community Collaborative, I am also

an ordained Apostle, a qualified

midwife, a registered marriage

officer, and Chief Professional

Nursing Sister.

WHAT OTHER JOB TITLES HAVE

YOU HAD IN YOUR CAREER?

My career in nursing lasted for a

total of 47 years, during which time I

rose through the ranks to become a

Chief Professional Nurse.

WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO

PURSUE A CAREER IN THIS

PARTICULAR FIELD?

“AS LONG

AS THERE

IS BREATH,

THERE IS

ALWAYS

CAUSE FOR

HOPE”

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Spending time working with people

TO COME.” ~ PROVERBS 31:25

is something that I find to be very

Magda’s devotion to her ministry is

rewarding.

WHAT ARE SOME OF

THE MOST SIGNIFICANT

SUCCESSES YOU’VE ATTAINED

THROUGHOUT THE COURSE

OF YOUR CAREER?

commensurate with her dedication

to her professional life. Evidently, she

is not interested in the status quo,

in settling for mediocre standards,

outcomes, ideas, or vision, or in

engaging in minor conflicts. She is a

• The Premier’s award for the

woman in ministry, and the service of

Province of Western Cape

God has been ingrained in her from

Province: Adult Category

the day she was born. Following is a

• Old Mutual Sowetan Women’s

quote from Priscilla Shirer that sums

Award

up Apostle Kleyn beautifully.

• The Lions Club Woman of the

Year Award

“God’s plan for you is to move you

into a position of impact by infusing

Magda with her grandchildren

• Ward 26 Committee Award

you with truth and employing you

• The Mayoral Community

in prayer. You don’t need to be a

Award: Community Hero of the

Year

WHAT ASPECT OF YOUR JOB

OR THE INDUSTRY DO YOU

ENJOY THE MOST, AND WHY?

The ability to see the improvements

that are made in the lives of the

individuals I work with is by far the

aspect of my profession that provides

me with the greatest sense of

fulfillment.

WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER

TO BE THE SINGLE MOST

IMPORTANT LESSON YOU’VE

LEARNED THROUGHOUT THE

COURSE OF YOUR CAREER?

Through the years, I’ve gained the

understanding that as long as there

is breath, there is always cause for

hope.

WHAT GUIDANCE WOULD

YOU PROVIDE TO A YOUNGER

INDIVIDUAL SEEKING TO

ADVANCE IN THEIR CHOSEN

FIELD?

NEVER, EVER GIVE UP! In the

words of Joanna Gaines “Don’t quit,

and don’t give up. The reward is just

around the corner. And in times of

doubt or times of joy, listen for that

still, small voice. Know that God has

been there from the beginning—and

he will be there until . . . The End.”

MINISTRY: “SHE IS CLOTHED

WITH STRENGTH AND DIGNITY;

SHE CAN LAUGH AT THE DAYS

genius to do it. You don’t need to

learn ten-dollar words and be able

to spout them with theological ease.

You just need to bring your honest,

transparent, available—and, let’s just

say it—your fed-up, over-it, steppedon-your-last-nerve

self, and be ready

to become fervently relentless. All in

His name.” ― Priscilla Shirer

WERE YOU BROUGHT UP IN

THE MINISTRY?

Yes, I did spend my childhood in

a home where both of my parents

worked in the ministry as they

brought up my siblings and me.

CAN YOU DESCRIBE YOUR

CALL TO MINISTRY?

God’s words to Jeremiah (1:5) are

so true: “Before I formed you in the

womb I knew you, and before you

were born I consecrated you; I have

appointed you a prophet to the

nations.” Before I was even aware of

it, I had already started living out the

responsibilities of my calling. I gave

my life to Christ and was baptized at

Princess Vlei in Cape Town when I

was 12 years old. It was an incredible

experience!

COULD YOU TELL ME ABOUT

THE SPIRITUAL ACTIVITIES YOU

TRY TO INCORPORATE INTO

YOUR DAILY ROUTINE?

I don’t adhere to a specific

schedule, but I do have a continuous

dialogue with God. I try to point

others in the direction of Jesus

Magda receiving the Mayoral

Community Award

Christ. I am always making sure that

others are aware that they should

place their faith in God rather than

in me. Tehillah is the name of my

organization, and it literally translates

to “Highest Praise to God.” I make

it my mission to live up to the

standards set by the name of my

organization in everything that I

undertake.

HOW DO YOU RESOLVE

CONFLICTS WHEN THEY

ARISE?

I am renowned for being honest

and straightforward, and I approach

disagreement head-on because I

believe that no matter how difficult

the circumstance, there is always a

way to find a resolution.

HOW DO YOU MAKE SURE

Left: Addressing school children and creating awareness on social ills; Right: Handing out school shoes to children.

THAT YOUR MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH

IS ALWAYS IN GOOD SHAPE?

Through my relationship with Jesus Christ and the

quality time I spend with my family. Spending time with

one’s family can be beneficial in a number of ways,

including the development of one’s self-confidence, the

formation of a deeper emotional bond between members

of the family, the enhancement of one’s communication

skills, improved academic performance, and fewer

behavioural problems, as well as the provision of an

opportunity to form memories that are based on fun,

laughter, and being with one another.

WHAT HAVE BEEN YOUR FAVORITE AND LEAST

FAVORITE MINISTRY EXPERIENCES?

My favorite experience is watching other individuals

grow into their full potential as followers of Christ. It

breaks my heart to see people get hurt in churches, and

seeing people abandon the call that God has placed on

their lives is my least favorite thing.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE BIBLE

PASSAGES?

2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ,

he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has

come!” God said it that settles it! In my opinion, people’s

pasts are held against them in an unfair manner, and this

is very common.

ACCORDING TO YOU, WHAT IS THE MOST

PRESSING ISSUE FACING THE CHURCH TODAY?

Churches are unable to retain members and provide

spiritual guidance to individuals. After conversion, there

is not always a follow-up plan in place, and as a result,

some people find themselves returning to their previous

lifestyles.

CAN YOU TELL US ABOUT A TIME WHEN YOU

HAD TO LEAD A GROUP OF PEOPLE THROUGH

A DIFFICULT TRANSITION?

My work and ministry activities require me to lead

individuals through times of escalating substance

abuse and domestic violence on a daily basis. Not to

mention the challenge of guiding individuals through the

pandemic. My view is that there is a potential opportunity

to be gained from each and every crisis and that both

leaders and organizations are shaped by their experiences

in times of hardship.

PLEASE SHARE YOUR STRATEGIES FOR

OVERCOMING AND AVOIDING BURNOUT.

My 26 years of experience have equipped me with

the skills necessary to successfully balance my work

responsibilities, my family obligations, and my other

interests. I believe that when God continually reminds

me of His calling on my life, it serves to both refresh and

strengthen me.

WHAT HAS YOUR EXPERIENCE BEEN LIKE AS A

WOMAN IN MINISTRY?

It’s unfortunate that we still live in a day and age where

the presence of women in ministry is still stigmatized

and looked down upon. Throughout the years, there

have been some modifications made to it, but it is still

present. There is still the belief that women do not

belong in ministry and that they should not be given

the opportunity to speak up. It would appear that I am

a threat to males in ministry, but the upside is that I

am a mother at heart and soul, and this enables me to

successfully fulfill all of my numerous tasks without giving

any thought to people who don’t believe in me.

WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR WOMEN,

SINCE IT IS WOMEN’S MONTH?

When you finally come to terms with who you are and

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whose you are, not only will the game itself

change, but also your perspective on life in

general will. The understanding of one’s identity

is essential because, once obtained, it enables

one to pursue one’s predetermined path with

unstoppable fortitude and confidence.

TEHILLAH COMMUNITY

COLLABORATIVE: FORGED THROUGH

TOUGH TIMES NOT DEFINED BY IT!

YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT SERVING

YOUR COMMUNITY AND WORKING

HARD IN THE TRENCHES. HOW DID THE

VISION FOR TEHILLAH COME ABOUT?

(THIS INCLUDES THE CENTER AND THE

CHURCH)

In response to the suffering that I witnessed

in the community in which I had spent my

formative years, I established Tehillah in 1992.

The dream first consisted only of a soup kitchen,

but with God’s grace it grew to encompass

more. Not only did I experience domestic

violence as a child, but also later on in my

marriage. My history reflects this. My upbringing

took place in a neighborhood that is notorious

for its high rate of gang activity and widespread

poverty. Because of the stigma that is

associated with those who are rejected not just

by society in general but especially, tragically,

by the church, I felt driven to establish a church

of my own. Tehillah Ministries Extreme Oasis

is the name of our church because we are an

oasis that assists people who are going through

extremely difficult situations.

Today, Tehillah Community Collaborative is

composed of the following four Clusters: Social

Services Cluster, Health Cluster, Educational

Cluster, and Arts and Culture /Youth Cluster.

The motto of the organization is “embracing

change,” and Tehillah Ministries is a place

that welcomes everyone, where everybody is

somebody.

THERE ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE

OBSTACLES IN THE WAY OF ANY VISION.

WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED OUT, WHAT

KINDS OF CHALLENGES DID YOU FACE,

AND WHAT KINDS OF CHALLENGES DO

YOU FACE NOW?

Both then and now, we are faced with a variety

of challenges. However, the mentality of two

groups of people, the naysayers and those who

believe in the vision but don’t yet see it coming

to fruition, presents the most difficult obstacle.

The state of one’s finances is another significant

source of discomfort. Over the course of my

life, I have gained the wisdom to view obstacles

as opportunities for growth and development

rather than as obstacles in and of themselves.

TELL US ABOUT THE WORK YOU

ARE CURRENTLY DOING IN THE

COMMUNITY.

We offer a 24-hour holistic communityorientated

primary care service that entails:

• a safe haven called House of Magda

houses 140 people, currently homeless,

rejected frail people who are too young for

an old age home but too sick and frail to

stay on the streets,

• substance abuse center that can cater for

40 beds of which government funds only

9 beds a quarter but the rest is means test

dependant or free as substance abuse is a

major increasing concern,

• 75 Homebase carers who do 6000 home

visits a month, community care workers

specifically work with HIV Aids and TB

defaulters,

• Counselling and social services, medi-

mobile that delivers door-to-door

prescribed medication, and currently

they deliver 8000 – 9000 medication per

month, and this is done by a team of 12

specialized people.

• 4 community care workers who do wound

care,

• a church,

• early childhood development which is

specifically aimed at assisting the parents

or guardians who are government child

support grant recipients.

OUR PRESIDENT DESCRIBES GBV AS

A SECOND PANDEMIC. EXPLAIN HOW

YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS SUBJECT AND

WHY YOU ARE AT THE FOREFRONT OF

THE STRUGGLE TO END GBV.

I am a survivor of gender-based violence, and

at one point in my life, because of my severe

depression, the doctors told me that I will never

reach the age of 35 due to all of the trauma

that I was enduring; however, by the grace of

God, I am at the age of 65. Another person

who has triumphed over severe instances of

gender-based violence is my own mother. This

problem and this evil feel especially

close to home to me because I am

able to empathize with the people

who have been victimized by it. The

unfortunate truth is that children

are almost always the ones who

end up bearing the brunt of the

consequences of whatever action or

inaction was taken.

WHAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST

HEART-BREAKING INCIDENTS

YOU DEALT WITH IN THE

COMMUNITY?

It was the most heart-breaking

experience to have to tell a mother

that five of her daughters were HIV

positive. Also, telling a mother that

her daughter, who is 12 years old,

was raped by a neighbour who is still

living next door to them. Especially

concerning is the common practice

of family members deserting elderly

or mentally ill members of their

family at medical facilities.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE

REASONS, IN YOUR OPINION,

THAT WOMEN REMAIN IN

ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS?

In the majority of abusive

relationships, the abuser is also the

primary source of income. The victim

of domestic violence is of the opinion

that she will be unable to provide

for her children if she takes legal

action against her abuser because

doing so will result in the loss of their

household’s income. Unfortunately,

abused women are also stigmatized,

and many of them prefer to suffer in

silence rather than draw attention to

their situation.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU

GIVE SUCH A WOMAN?

Break the silence and seek

assistance, as it is possible for us to

collaborate with both the perpetrator

and the victim. If she does not

seek aid or have an intervention

conducted, the children will suffer,

presuming there are children

involved.

ARE VOLUNTEERS ACCEPTED

AT TEHILLAH, AND IF SO, WHAT

ARE THE STEPS TO BECOMING

A VOLUNTEER?

Volunteers are welcome to join

us, but before they can do so, they

will have to go through a screening

process and follow the guidelines

established by our organization.

HOW CAN INDIVIDUALS

SUPPORT YOUR WORK WITHIN

THE COMMUNITY?

By becoming an active stakeholder,

bringing their expertise to the

table, and providing support in the

form of both financial and in-kind

contributions. We have compiled a

list of requirements that is accessible

to anyone who makes a request for

it.

WHAT WORD OR SONG IS IN

YOUR SPIRIT THIS SEASON?

Echoing through my mind and heart

in this season is the song: “When I

remember what the Lord has done, I

will never go back anymore.”

CONTACT DETAILS

Tehillah Community Collaborative

No.196, 16th Avenue, Leonsdale,

Elsies River, Cape Town

Mobile No: 072 302 9638

Landline: 021 933 0990

Left: Feeding the community during Magda's 60th Birthday Celebrations; Right: Cake cutting with some clients at

the Safe Haven

I BELIEVE THAT

WHEN GOD

CONTINUALLY

REMINDS

ME OF HIS

CALLING

ON MY LIFE,

IT SERVES

TO BOTH

REFRESH AND

STRENGTHEN

ME.

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FOCUS ON WOMEN

WITH CURLSNCOFFEE

TELL US A BIT ABOUT NADIA RINQUEST.

I am a wife to Reuben and mom to our energetic 4-yearold

daughter Maeve! I became a Christian at the age of 16

and have been following Gods plan for my life ever since. I

have an Honours degree in Theology and a Master’s degree

in Economics and Policy Analysis. I worked in full-time youth

ministry for about 10 years and now I do my days work as

an economist. I am an avid Formula 1 supporter (go Red

Bull!), and love travelling. In my spare time I enjoy creative

arts like painting, visual journalling and all things craft such

as making clay earrings and crocheting! My other passion is

playing bass guitar, mostly in a worship band, and growing

my indoor jungle with more plants! My philosophy is to live

life to the fullest and have fun doing so!

HOW DID CURLSNCOFFEE COME ABOUT?

There is not a day in my life that goes by without my curls

and coffee. I mostly drink my coffee black, but there are

days that just call for a cappuccino! With that being said,

my little space on the internet erupted both naturally and

serendipitously. I never imagined that I would connect with

so many people who love their coffee strong and their hair,

natural. I created the brand on Instagram and Facebook to

connect with other ‘naturalistas’ and share about my love

and support for local businesses and local South African

products.

HOW LONG HAS CURLSNCOFFEE BEEN AROUND?

CurlsnCoffee has been around since 2017 as a lifestyle

blog. Since then, the brand has evolved from a natural

hair and coffee blog to a small creative and craft business.

During lockdown, I started experimenting with many

different crafts and teaching myself how to create new

products. I love making and selling my clay earrings and

crochet products online and I also host craft workshops

once a month where I share my craft knowledge with other

women to inspire and empower them to be more creative

and potentially start their own small business.

ANY HAIR ADVICE?

I always share three important tips for ‘curlfriends’ wanting

to wear their hair naturally:

Use good natural hair products free of sulphates and

parabens. As curly hair is naturally drier, using products that

contain sulphates and parabens, tend to dry your hair out

further. You want to hydrate and add moisture, moisture,

moisture!

Deep condition with once a week. There are specific deep

conditioners on the market, that are relatively inexpensive,

apply it to your hair and leave on for 20 minutes at least.

This will add protein to your hair and keep your moisturised.

Apply your products in sections after you wash your hair.

My curl routine involves applying a leave-in conditioner, curl

cream, a little bit of gel for definition and once my hair is

mostly dry, I seal the ends with an oil.

WHAT’S YOUR INSPIRATION TO FEMALES?

I hope that through the way I live my life, that I am able to

inspire other women to live their authentic lives! Whether

that means proudly wearing your natural hair, loving your

body or following your dreams, live your life in a way that is

a true reflection of who you are. And love yourself!

MY FAVOURITE VERSE

John 10:10 – ‘The thief comes only to steal and kill and

destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to

the full’ (NIV)

MY DETAILS:

YOU CAN FIND ME ON:

INSTAGRAM - @

CURLSNCOFFEEZA

FACEBOOK –

CURLSNCOFFEE

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FOCUS ON WOMEN

IMPORTANCE OF

by Derrick Grobbelaar

As South Africans, we celebrate women’s month

during August, with 9 August being Women’s

day. These celebrations may vary. To some, it is

just another public holiday, meaning we can do

what we feel like doing when we feel like doing

it. To others, it is a day to attend some political or

other meetings where speeches are made about

women, their rights, challenges, achievements,

and the abuse of women that is so evident in our

country. Yet to others, it is a day filled with all the

responsibilities of any other day.

Throughout history, women have played a vital

role in society. Since the earliest days, we read

how God has used women in various ways. Some

of the roles they played could be described as not

generally associated with women. Some would

describe it as roles more suitable for men.

One such old testament example we find in

Judges 4 Deborah’s story. She was both a

prophetess and was judging Israel at the time.

Not one of these roles was usually associated

with women at the time. Israel was suffering

at the hands of the Canaanites due to their

disobedience. When they called on the Lord,

He used Deborah. What Deborah did, was very

uncommon for women to do at the time. This

lady summoned Barak, one of the military leaders,

to go and attack the Canaanites. He was unwilling

to go without Deborah going with him. She

agreed. Can you imagine an army warrior hesitant

to go to war without women accompanying him?

Barak’s weakness of faith caused another

woman to step on the scene. She is a lot less

famous than Deborah. In fact, besides her name

appearing in four verses of Judges 4 and two

more times in Judges 6, we see nothing else of

this woman called Jael. While Barak was pursuing

the Canaanite army, Sisera, the commanding

officer of the Canaanite army, was fleeing by

IN SOCIETY

foot. On his way, Jael, what we would

call an ordinary woman, called him to her

tent. While he was sleeping, Jael killed

this suppressor of Israel by driving a peg

into his skull. The result of this heroic

act being Israel delivered form Canaanite

oppression. In the New Testament, we

read about various women such as Dorcas

and others, whose names were not even

mentioned, who played vital roles in their

communities. We also read that women

supported Jesus’s ministry in various ways.

The presence and influence of women

are pretty evident throughout our

communities. Today it is nothing different.

God is still using women in various roles

in society. These roles include prominent

roles in politics, science, engineering,

and business, to name but a few. These

women I would call the Deborahs of the

Old testament. Those who are known,

recognized, and celebrated. We thank

God for every one of them.

Our communities are, however, filled

with Jael’s. These are the infamous

women silently going about their business

every day. These are the women you will

not read about in the newspaper. You

will not see them on television. They

may not even have a personal blog, but

they are making a massive difference

in the lives of millions daily. They are

encouraging, healing, supporting, learning,

and comforting as only women can.

These are the unsung heroes of the day. You

will find them not only in various roles in our

communities, serving our communities. You will

find them caring for the sick and needy with

their own resources. You will also find a few at

home taking care of their own, and sometimes

even other children.

These women are the anchor and most

significant supporters and inspiration of some

of the world’s most powerful and influential

men. You will rarely read about them. You

rarely hear anybody singing their praise, but

these women keep households, communities,

and countries going.

Many men struggle to acknowledge the fact

that we need women. We need them in many

ways. Let us all recognize their immeasurable

value to this world.

May all woman realize their worth and

contribution to our world. Whether you are the

Deborah or the Jael, God values you highly, so

He paid for you with His blood.

THESE ARE THE

UNSUNG HEROES

OF THE DAY.

YOU WILL FIND

THEM NOT ONLY

IN VARIOUS

ROLES IN OUR

COMMUNITIES,

SERVING OUR

COMMUNITIES.

YOU WILL FIND

THEM CARING

FOR THE SICK

AND NEEDY

WITH THEIR OWN

RESOURCES.

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FOCUS ON WOMEN

WOMEN IN ART

of wildflowers dance in the wind. In these moments, time seems to

stand still. She savours the moment and then communicates it via

CAROLINE JORDAAN:

her art as a form of worship.

Her primary focus is portraiture and landscape, although

she also paints a wide variety of other topics in realistic oil

paint. She relishes the task of upholding the high bar set by

realism. As a professional artist, she accepts commissions and

ships worldwide.

Caroline got the idea for Curious Creations after what she

saw during her morning walks around Cape Town during

the 2020 pandemic, and after reading a book about the

industrious Proverbs 31 woman who “does something

with what is in your hands right now.” The collection now

includes approximately 100 hand-illustrated designs that are

unique, fun, and quirky. There is something for every heart

and occasion, from pastel-toned proteas to skateboarding

bulldogs and giraffes with scarves!

Birthdays and life should be celebrated and cherished. It’s the

aim of each card to bring a spark of joy into someone’s life.

For more information visit www.carolineart.co.za

Since she was a child, Caroline has

pursued her passion as an artist.

With a paintbrush in her hand, she

painted the walls, her legs, and her

sister as she grew up because she

was raised by an artist mother who

always had art supplies close at hand.

Her artistic talent was discovered

it is to be used to glorify Him. Her

prayer is that God will use her art

to help people encounter Him and

be ministered to by Him. Art is

powerful and it speaks in ways that

cross boundaries where words and

language fall short.

Caroline is awestruck by the

and has no rival. His magnificent

canvases span the heavens,

displaying brilliant colour and beauty

that no one can match. The same

hands created the tiniest little

flowers and creatures with the most

intricate detail—so small that we

easily overlook them. Her inspiration

ART IS

POWERFUL

AND IT

SPEAKS IN

WAYS THAT

CROSS

BOUNDARIES

WHERE

WORDS AND

LANGUAGE

FALL SHORT.

at a young age. She recognizes

magnificence of God’s creation in

comes when she sees the way

that it is a gift from God and that

nature. He is the ultimate Artist

sunlight illuminates leaves...or fields

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FOCUS ON WOMEN

WOMEN IN BUSINESS

identity and the likes.

LET THE REMNANT RISE UP!

I am under no disillusion that I have the solutions to any

May we effect change for generations to come.

CHRISTIAN

WOMEN IN

LEADERSHIP,

SOUTH

AFRICA &

BEYOND

of the above – I might have a few recommendations but

that is a far stretch from an actual solution that serves

our people – God’s people.

My conscience is stirred as I ponder these thoughts

deeply. Often finding myself thinking of ways to

implement Kingdom Principles in my everyday walk and

in business. I have been graciously granted platforms to

influence people around the world in very many countries

through my words and speech.

AM I SERVING GOD AS I SHOULD?

Are all of us serving God as we should?

May we walk in the path of truth – standing steadfast in

the surety of my favorite bible verse: “See, I am sending

an angel ahead of you to guard you along the way and

bring you to the place I have prepared for you.”

Indeed, we are pre-destined to a place and space

already prepared for each one of us.

What a PROMISE from our GOD of Glory!

Article written by: Dr (hc) Yolanda Petersen

Exodus 23:20 – “See,

I am sending an angel

ahead of you to guard

you along the way and

bring you to the place I

have prepared for you.”

I am then reminded of the sobering piece of scripture

– Matthew 25:29 “For to everyone who has more will be

given, and he will have in abundance; but from him who

has not, even what he has will be taken away”.

I always ensure that I end my talks, coaching sessions,

counselling sessions and business meetings on a positive

note. This is intentional and deliberate!

THERE IS HOPE AND TOGETHER WE CAN!

WHAT A PROMISE FROM

OUR GOD OF GLORY!

As a business woman, a

mother, sister, daughter and

friend in an ever changing global

climate, may that be socially,

economically or simply general

life – we all have that one

scripture verse that we cling to.

We embrace our preferred verse

with all our might in times of joy

and trouble and of course every

moment in between.

I have the privilege of serving

on a few international boards

– some in a global advisory

capacity and others as an active

director. I have also had the

immense honour of speaking

on platforms across the globe

on a multitude of weighty (but

very relevant) topics. At times,

I am invited as a panelist/

speaker, a plethora of times,

praise God, as the Chief Guest

Speaker representing our home

country, South Africa, tackling

issues such as the United

Nations Policy Implementation

Challenges and Opportunities;

World Researchers Summit

2022, International Women’s

Day, United Nations: Women,

Gender and Development

as it relates to the UN SDG

5, Women in Mining -SA,

Businessuite Women on Twitter

Spaces to name but a few. The

talks continue this month of

July 2022, again I am blessed

to represent South Africa as the

Chief speaker on two pertinent

topics.

As grand as all of this may

sound – the question I always

ask myself is: “How do I action

effectively and efficiently,

simultaneously acknowledging

that in ALL things the glory

belongs to GOD - Alone!

How do we go up against

a secular world, especially in

business and not lose our way?

How do we hold fast to our

Christian beliefs and operate

from a space of sound biblical

truth and sound theology?

Yes - these questions beg an

answer!

In my opinion it is becoming

increasingly more difficult. Fact!

As Paul Washer so aptly states:

“The lost world is not so much

gospel hardened as it is gospel

ignorant because many of those

who proclaim the gospel are

also ignorant of its most basic

truths”.

Should the current way of the

world surprise us as Christian

Men and Women in business? –

Absolutely NOT!

We are assured in Matthew

24:13 – “But the one who

stands firm to the end will be

saved.”

We are certainly living in

an era unparalleled, where

adversity is rife, human apathy

is at its highest. The diversion

from living a righteous, holy

and pure life is fading against

the backdrop of an exploitative

world view garnished through

social media, main stream

music (we could confidently

add current-day main stream

Christian music), literature,

education, economy, modern

family structure, gender mis-

My hope is that we use our God-given talents, skills and

abilities and prove to be faithful in what has been allotted

to us. May the grace bestowed and entrusted upon each

one of us increase and multiply to the advancement of

the Gods Kingdom.

May we be cognisant of the

SEASON GOD has us in! May

we trust that God can do

exceedingly and abundantly more

than we could ever envisage.

Understanding that there are

covenantal terms attached to

God’s blessing. Blessings HE so

lavishly longs to bestow on those

who love HIM and follow His

commands.

As Christian Women in

Business, in life and in

motherhood requires nonconformity.

Going against the

grain of the patterns of this world

is our saving grace. Growing

daily in Christian value and virtue

is key. Acute awareness of our

constant need for transformation

and the renewal of our minds,

grants us the peace the world so

desperately seeks.

I am too of the opinion that

sound discipleship in the modern

day church is needed.

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ENCOURAGEMENT

intentional

By: Dominique Adonis

KEYS TO BEING INTENTIONAL

ASK GOD TO HELP YOU SEE THE

BIGGER PICTURE

“I pray that the eyes of your heart may be

enlightened in order that you may know the hope

to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious

inheritance in his holy people, and his incomparably

great power for us who believe.” – Eph. 1:18-19

Seeing the bigger picture helps makes sense

of the pixel that is your life. When we can see

and understand it, the distortion of frustration

and discouragement gets moved from mountain

status to challenges that can be faced and

overcome. Ask God to help you see the bigger

picture as revealed in God’s word and watch

God put your life into perspective. Nothing like

proper perspective to catapult you from where

you are to where God calls you to.

DAILY

SCRIPTURES FOR

INTENTIONALITY

Philippians 3:12-14

1 Corinthians 9:26-27

Psalm 141:3

Proverbs 21:5

Galatians 5:16

Romans 12:2

1 Timothy 4:8

“I admit that I haven’t yet acquired

was intentional

UNDERSTAND YOUR PURPOSE

the absolute fullness that I’m

when He knit

“And we know that in all things God works for the

pursuing, but I run with passion into

you together in

good of those who love him, who have been called

His abundance so that I may reach

your mother’s

according to his purpose.” – Rom. 8:28

the purpose that Jesus Christ has

womb. “For

Not knowing your purpose is not detrimental.

called me to fulfil and wants me

you created my

Unfortunately, it trips us up every time. We

to discover. I don’t depend on my

inmost being;

literally get paralyzed thinking about how

own strength to accomplish this;

you knit me

we don’t know our purpose. The truth is…

however, I do have one compelling

focus: I forget all of the past as I

fasten my heart to the future instead. I

run straight for the divine invitation of

reaching the heavenly goal and gaining

the victory prize through the anointing

of Jesus.” Philippians 3:12-14, The

Passion Translation

It has been said that the road to

hell is paved with good intentions.

And while I can appreciate this

quote and the motivation behind

it, I feel the need to clarify that the

matter of heaven and hell is not

determined by intentions but by

faith (Eph. 2:8-9), so there’s that!

And that being intentional is more

than just the wishy-washy desire

to do or see something come to

fruition. Being intentional speaks of

taking deliberate action towards a

desired end or goal.

We all crave significance, we

want our lives to matter and that’s

because God created us on purpose,

for a purpose. You can say that God

together in my

mother’s womb.”

– Psalm 139:13 NIV

Your eye color, hair texture all the

way to your ethnicity, and gender

were carefully planned. There are no

mistakes with God. To your parents,

you might have been a mistake, but

you were in the mind of God long

before He created you. “Before I

shaped you in the womb I knew all

about you. Before you saw the light of

day, I had holy plans for you: A prophet

to the nations—that’s what I had in

mind for you.” – Jeremiah 1:5 The

Message

God works all things, including

your life, according to His purpose

and purpose is a powerful thing. Dr.

Myles Munroe said, “where purpose

is unknown, abuse is inevitable.”

Allow me to add.. “where purpose

is unknown or ignored, abuse is

inevitable.” Purpose determines

the function of a thing. A crystal

vase cannot be used as a cricket

bat, it will break because it was not

created for that purpose. And so we

sit with broken, hearts, minds, and

lives because we or someone else

operated outside of purpose. The

awareness and revelation of purpose

will cause us to be intentional, about

time, relationships, resources, and

opportunities.

An unintentional life accepts

everything and does nothing. An

intentional life embraces only the

things that will add to the mission

of significance.” – John C. Maxwell.

A passionate prayer life doesn’t just

happen, healthy habits can’t fall

from the sky. A successful career

and credibility will not happen

overnight and marriage is hard work.

All of life’s most important aspects

demand intentionality. God has

given us His Holy Spirit to empower

us, however, we must be intentional

about doing our part.

understanding God’s purpose is our handle on

understanding and accepting ours. Because

when we know and understand the purposes of

God we can trust His ways and His heart. Walk

in God’s purposes and watch Him entrust Him

with the details of your specific purpose.

BE STRATEGIC IN YOUR LANE

“Give careful thought to the paths for your feet

and be steadfast in all your ways.” – Prov. 4:26

It’s a mess out here as we compare the

vulnerabilities and weaknesses of our own lives

with the picture-perfect lives others are posting

on their social media platforms. Don’t get it

twisted we cannot compare apples to grapes.

The truth of the matter is that comparison is

the thief of joy. Who has God called YOU to be?

What has God blessed YOU with? What is God

calling YOU to do? Therein lies your superpower.

Once you’ve mapped out YOU.. you can be

strategic in your lane.

FULLY REPLY ON THE POWER OF THE

HOLY SPIRIT

“The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the

dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ

Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal

bodies by this same Spirit living within you.” – Rom.

8:11

QUESTIONS FOR

DEEPER RELECTION

• Which key areas in your

life require you to be

more intentional?

• What small changes you

can make to ensure that

you’re more intentional

and consistent in doing so?

Nothing defeats the purpose of the life God has called us

to like self-effort and its cousin, self-reliance. Do not make

the mistakes I’ve made in this area, it is time-consuming,

heartbreaking and an expensive lesson to learn, literally. Please

learn from my mistake and take the steps needed to fully rely

on the power made available to you through surrendering your

life to God’s Holy Spirit.

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SPORT

"MY CHILD

CAN’T PLAY

SPORT"

Over the years, if there is a phrase

that we have heard over and over

again it’s “my child can’t play sport”.

When asking parents why they

think this is the case, it normally

comes down to one of two options.

Either the parent does not consider

themselves sporty and therefore

classifies their child in the same boat

or they say something like “my child

just doesn’t like sport”.

SO WHY AREN’T MORE KIDS

PLAYING SPORT?

During our first few years on the

planet, all our learning starts through

movement. Young kids love to go

outside and play, so why are so many

children giving up playing sport

at a young age? Our suggestion is

because they are not introduced to

sport/play in the appropriate way for

their physical development and for

them to grow a love for sport and

play. Without this love for sport/play,

it becomes something they have to

do and not something they want to

do.

SO WHAT’S THE BEST

APPROACH TO MAKE SURE

OUR KIDS WANT TO PLAY?

When I was growing up, I wanted

to be a famous cricket player. I was

told by everyone around me that the

sooner I can do my 10 000 hours,

the better. The “10 000 hour rule”

suggests that in order to become

good at a single sport, you needed

to practice at least 10 000 hours to

become professional. But that was

20 years ago…

Since then, science has come a

long way. Although it seems quite

obvious that if you want to get better

at something you need to practice,

it’s not about how much you practice

but more about the quality of that

practice. Kids who pick a single

sport from a young age often get

burnout of the sport and give it up

after a few years (as they have lost

their joy to play the sport). Evidence

suggests that there is little proof

that specializing in a single sport

early on in life will give you any more

chance of becoming the best in the

world. Sampling a variety of sports

and growing as an athlete is the way

to go, if we want more kids playing

sport for longer.

THE SPORTS HUB PROGRAM

Using the Long Term Player

Development model found in the

South African Sports for life plan first

released by SASCOC in 2012, the

Sports Hub program was designed

by its founder Henk Oosthuizen. The

program uses the sport sampling

approach (also known as multi-sport

approach) to make sure that every

child can play sport. By making sure

that a child achieves their age and

stage specific physical development

goals, the program helps children

stay active for life. This happens

whether the child wants to pursue

sporting excellence, or simply

wants to play sport to remain active

and live a healthy lifestyle. The

program takes children from Play

ready (focusing on the fundamental

movement skills) to Sports and then

Match Ready (equipping kids to learn

sport skills and play the matches of

the sports that are popular in South

Africa).

EVERY CHILD IS IMPORTANT

We realise that each child is

different that if we want more kids

to continue playing sport for the rest

of their lives, we need to make sure

that each child gets individualised

attention. That’s why the Sports

Hub program promises parents that

their children will be in a group of no

bigger than 10 kids (to one coach).

Sports Hub coaches coach sport

specific skills which is important but learning attributes

like winning and losing are also a priority of the program.

Sports Hub coaches are qualified/trained and are a massive

part of why the program has been such a success. These

coaches love kids and get the best out of our program by

making it the highlight of the kids week.

HOW DID WE GET HERE?

In June 2014, Sports Hub started at a small school in

the Southern Suburbs of Cape Town. The goal was to

become the best foundation phase sports program in the

world, that young girls and boys would love. Since then,

the program has spread like wildfire, with more than 70

schools, 2000 kids and 14 franchises around the country

all choosing Sports Hub to help unlock the sporting

potential of the kids at their school. The team of Franchise

Owners and Coaches are out in the sun doing what they

love every day, as the program reaches more and more

children every day.

ADVICE FOR PARENTS

Let’s get more kids playing and loving sport again! Putting

pressure on your young kids to win when they are young

and not allowing them to find their own joy in sport isn’t

helping. Encourage them to try as much as possible and

find out for themselves which sport they enjoy (which

won’t necessarily be the one you enjoyed!) Do your

research on the activity which you are signing them up for,

making sure that it is in the best interests of their physical

development and that it’s something which will help them

grow a lifelong love for sport and play.

BUY A FRANCHISE

Sports Hub has Franchises for sale all around South Africa! To join the fastest growing

Foundation Phase Sports Program in SA, please make contact with us!

SIMON HOBBS

SPORTS HUB CO-OWNER

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PASTORAL INTERVIEW

two cars, and employment in my

field closed. We understood we were

going against God’s will.

God was telling us we weren’t

listening to Him. God wanted us

because we weren’t sold out. His

instructions were to serve the

people. So, after losing the house,

cars, suffering a miscarriage, and

being newlywed, we accepted the

DO YOU ENGAGE IN ON A

DAILY BASIS?

Due to the small size of the Dutywa

community, the church is active in

many, if not all, activities. We provide

spiritual care to the nearby schools

and the local prison. Our church

offers small groups for counselling

purposes, midweek services and we

do feeding schemes. By the grace of

died and resurrected for the church.

It is His duty; we are only stewards

of the Lord’s church. We spend time

alone as individuals as well. I (Jade)

spend time alone with my thoughts

and the Bible in prayer. My husband

also does this. As a pair, we share

time together. We communicate in

order to gain each other’s input and

ideas. Occasionally, we also spend

WHERE

YOU

CANNOT

SEE!

call to Saldanha Bay. While there,

God, our church is prepared to assist

time away with our children to

Ashwin was still in construction

those affected by natural disasters

recharge. We sometimes rejuvenate

and continuing his own business

in our town, whether it be clothing

with our kids. Working with different

PLEASE TELL US ABOUT

YOURSELF, WERE YOU

BROUGHT UP IN MINISTRY?

Ok, we are Jade and Ashwin

Marcus. Two God-loving people with

bubbly personalities. One a bit more

bubbly than the other, we will not

mention names.

Yes, we were both brought up in

ministry however, I (Jade) have a bit

of both worlds.My parents were both

estate agents whilst being leaders in

the Lord’s church. Ashwin’s parents

had been full-time for the last forty

years after his dad had decided to

leave his job as an almost train driver

to follow the call of God upon his

life. So yeah, we were both brought

up in ministry.

Interviewed by: Claudene Sebolai

How long are you married, do you

have children and what are their

names and ages?

We will be married for forteen

years, this year on December 27 th .

Blessed with two beautiful girls

Mphumelele aged ten and Siphokazi

aged seven.

HOW DID YOU MEET?

We both grew up in Pentecostal

circles, so I knew of Ashwin. I knew

about his dad’s church and attended

church conferences where I saw

him. He may not have seen me

(chuckling). As a young girl, I attended

conferences called “Saamtrek” and

saw a young kid (Ashwin) preaching. I

remember wondering, “What type of

youngster wants to be like the “groot

pastoor”?” Later, when we met, we

were instantly attracted to each

other. From day one, I knew he was

dedicated to God and His people. I

knew if I married him, I’d have to do

the same.

At the time of our marriage, I was

a student of arts and drama, while

Ashwin worked in marketing and

construction. After we were married,

we moved to Saldanha Bay, where

we were assistant pastors and

started a church. We juggled the call

to ministry as we navigated, feeling

we could do both as we listened to

God and did our own thing because

we were young and had no intention

of being in full-time ministry. But we

couldn’t do both. We lost our home,

activities, and God wasn’t happy

since He called us for Him, His

purposes, and His plan. A prophet

and friend told me she dreamed of

Ashwin preaching in a dry, strange

region as the people approached

closer. Before the dream ended, she

saw Ashwin preaching to masses.

On January 25, 2012, while I was

seven months pregnant with our first

child, we attended a conference in

Cape Town. The preacher summoned

us from the back. He predicted

something will happen in a few days,

which worried me as a 7-monthpregnant

woman. He stated it will

transform our life. Knees were weak.

On the 27th, two days later we were

on a flight to Transkei. Accepting

the call was easy but frightening.

Ten years later we can confidently

say that God was in it. Today we still

happily doing ministry in Transkei. By

God’s grace, help and sustenance!

WHAT SPIRITUAL PRACTICES

or food. God has enabled us. Our

church is making inroads in the town

of Dutywa.

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH

CONFLICT?

We maintain our neutrality. We

try to bring all sides together to

understand their perspectives. We

know this is God’s church and must

be open to new experiences to

win people. By God’s grace, we’ve

handled a lot of conflict in the last

decade and won people over. That,

I believe, is God’s heart in the midst

of conflict. I live by the principle that

we must love both God and people.

They complement each other. Prayer

and God’s Word help us resolve

conflict.

HOW DO YOU MAINTAIN YOUR

EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL

WELL-BEING?

The first step is to acknowledge

that God’s church is not ours, so that

there are no sleepless nights. He has

personalities will induce fatigue.

WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR

FAVOURITE AND LEAST

FAVOURITE EXPERIENCES IN

MINISTRY?

We love watching God transform

the lives of those who were once

hopeless and irreparable. We have

witnessed Him improve the lives of

others. This is extremely gratifying

and invaluable to us as ministers.

Losing individuals along the path

of leadership is our least favourite

experience. Even if you desire to

retain them with all of your heart,

strength, and power. We are aware

that seasons change and that

individuals move on to new pastures.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR

FAVOURITE BIBLE PASSAGES?

Ashwin’s is 1 Corinthians 15 v 58:

Therefore, my beloved brethren, be

ye steadfast, unmoveable, always

abounding in the work of the Lord,

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for as much as ye know that your labour is not in vain in

the Lord. Jade’s is 2 Chronicles 20 v 20: And they rose

early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness

of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshaphat stood and

said, Hear me, O Judah, and ye inhabitants of Jerusalem;

Believe in the Lord your God, so shall ye be established;

believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper.

WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE MOST PRESSING

ISSUE FACING THE CHURCH TODAY?

We believe that the role and relevance of the church are

being minimized. Covid has led individuals to assume that

they do not need the church or a pastor, while Hebrews

10:25 states that we must not overlook the meeting of

the saints. Possibly, you can survive without the church,

but it is highly doubtful because man cannot exist alone

on an island. We require one another for survival. The

church is the only institution that can provide us with

hope for the future, today.

YOU ARE PASTORING A HEALTHY AND VIBRANT

CHURCH IN THE EASTERN CAPE . WHAT

DIFFICULTIES DID LANGUAGE AND CULTURE

POSE TO YOUR WORK AND HOW DID YOU

NAVIGATE THESE CHALLENGES?

A challenge. Early ministry was difficult. But we’ve let

the people teach us and vice versa. Today, interpreters

make talking, preaching, and witnessing easier. It was

difficult with the interpreter at first since we weren’t

sure whether they were delivering the message as we

said it, but we’ve learned to trust them. The children are

fluent in isiXhosa and have been teaching us. My 1-year-

5-month-old started combining isiXhosa and English.

I’d pray to the Lord to help me comprehend what she

wanted. The culture differs. People are still entrenched in

their ways and customs, but by God’s help we’ve learned

how to instil Jesus’ culture.

FROM WHERE YOU STARTED TO WHERE YOU

ARE NOW, HOW HAS THE CHURCH CHANGED?

The church has grown. We’re a multiracial church, so

everyone can feel its beauty. Collectively, not alone,

we succeed. Worship services are multilingual. We

sing in Xhosa, Afrikaans, and English. We allow the

The book you are about to read is the most complete

work to date on spiritual warfare and the kingdom of

Satan. It is detailed and factual, not theory. For the

first time or maybe your second time, you will learn

the truth about the Dark Kingdom: its organization,

methods of operation and power.It is my sincere hope

that this truth will make you free and enable you to

effectively engage the Dark Kingdom in spiritual

combat. For too long the Church has been told by her

ministers that the devil does not have any power. But

then we feel the harsh wipe of reality when a child is

taken from us through death or a husband leaves for

another woman. We try to be spiritual giants, but the

lyrics and warning song from the world drops an

freedom of the spirit and welcome all nations. We

unforgettable melody into our minds and spirits. The

serve Ghanaians, Nigerians,

devil

Zimbabweans,

has great power

Congolese,

in these days in which we live.

Ugandans, etc. They feel free We have at our opened church. the You door can to him in our Churches and

express yourself in your own he language. has come God in to allowed sit by the us cozy to fire. The devil is

do it and worked through us. highly organized and he has enormous plans of

heartbreak and death for you and your family if you

WHAT WERE THE IMPLICATIONS OF THE

don’t know how to stop him. In this book you will learn

PANDEMIC ON THE CHURCH how to stop AND them HOW through spiritual warfare.

DO YOU NAVIGATE THE DIFFICULTIES THAT

COVID-19 MAY HAVE CAUSED?

We’ve buried several members since the pandemic

began. We had to be hands-on when individuals were

afraid to open their doors. My spouse buried nonchurch

members occasionally. He helped families when

no one else would and made Jesus renowned during the

pandemic. God’s grace saved us. We keep the vision alive

despite difficulties. Our church and community have been

supportive.

HOW WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE MINISTERS

THAT ARE EXHAUSTED AND FEEL LIKE

THROWING IN THE TOWEL? ESPECIALLY IN THE

POST COVID 19 CONTEXT

It is not easy, but we may say to our friends and

colleagues in the many offices, titles, and churches:

remember the journey. Always in my thoughts is the

song, “When I remember what the Lord has done, I will

never go back.” This nourishes us and keeps us going

because the path ahead is shorter than the one, we’ve

already travelled; maintain the promise. If God has

stated it, it will be done. God’s calling is irrevocable. He

has placed a calling on our lives as ministers, pastors,

and church leaders. This cannot be consumed on the

worst or the best of days. It endures forever. Seek out

sound advice and positive counsel. You can succeed

if you surround yourself with people who will inspire

you to persist. Keep covered. Sit at the feet of wisdom

and understanding and remain faithful to the call. It is

something that God has imposed on us. He who called

us is trustworthy. I usually recommend pausing but not

stopping. It is acceptable to take a break for a breath of

fresh air, but whatever you do, do not delay. Don’t stop!

ABOUT THE

AUTHOR

Brother DINI PASCAL ABANDA

We live in a day of exciting growth, when churches

are experiencing a new outpouring of the Holy

Spirit and new believers are being gathered in.

The challenge is clear. Christians need to be firmly

grounded in the truths of scripture, so that they

are equipped to give teaching and pastoral help to

new believer. Perhaps the most significant words

in the Bible are these by our Lord: “And you shall

know the truth and the truth shall make you free.”

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D I N I P A S C A L A B A N D A

The violent battle for the

Prayer Warriors

Br. Dini Pascal Abanda

Volume 1

ABOUT THE BOOK

The book you are about to read is the most complete

work to date on spiritual warfare and the kingdom of

Satan. It is detailed and factual, not theory. For the

first time or maybe your second time, you will learn

the truth about the Dark Kingdom: its organization,

methods of operation and power. It is my sincere

hope that this truth will make you free and enable

you to effectively engage the Dark Kingdom in

spiritual combat. For too long the Church has been

told by her ministers that the devil does not have

any power. But then we feel the harsh wipe of reality

when a child is taken from us through death or a

husband leaves for another woman. We try to be

spiritual giants, but the lyrics and warning song from

the world drops an unforgettable melody into our

minds and spirits. The devil has great power in these

days in which we live. We have opened the door to

him in our Churches and he has come in to sit by

the cozy fire. The devil is highly organized and he

has enormous plans of heartbreak and death for you

and your family if you don’t know how to stop him.

In this book you will learn how to stop them through

spiritual warfare.

John 8:32

Bro Dini Pascal is a Cameroonian and a commission

member of the Catholic Charismatic Renewal in

the Buea Diocese of Cameroon. He has been in the

renewal since 2009. He was elected the Catholic

Charismatic Diocesan secretary since 2015. He

has his calling in the deliverance and evangelical

ministry and has been traveling nationally and

internationally with the Divine message of the

Kingdom. He had a degree in Biblical studies at St

Augustine College Johannesburg South Africa.

Call/WhatsApp:0838941986

Email: dinipascal10@gmail.com



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As one studies physical warfare, it is obvious that one of the most

important ingredients of victory in battle is the ability to determine

the strengths and weaknesses of your enemy. Although not always

possessing superior forces or armament, the winning army in a battle

engagement usually possesses superior skills in the exploration

of enemy forces. This includes: strengths, weaknesses, type of

armament, possible strategies in warfare, etc.

Is not the same true for spiritual warfare. Should we not know what

are the strategies, power, types of organization of forces and other

vital information about the army that our sworn enemy the devil

commands?

These are vital truths which the Church needs to understand if we are

to wage the “good fight of faith.” The religious clichés – “Don’t worry

about the devil, he doesn’t have any power; greater is He that is in

you than he that is in the world; the devil doesn’t have any power

unless God gives it to him” – are not sufficient for victory in these

times of extreme warfare in which we live. The spiritual warfare in our

day is intense – a battle against God and His representatives on the

earth today, the Church.

Of course, we must not forget that power, like most other things is

relative. Compared to God, the devil and his kingdom do not possess

great power. However, compared to mankind in the flesh, the devil is

very powerful indeed. Without the presence of the sweet Holy Spirit

in our lives, we would be like a finely dressed soldier without any

weapons against the attack of the members of the Dark Kingdom.

But thank God for the Holy Spirit! Thank God for the Lord Jesus

our intercessor who is seated at the right hand of the Father and

“whoever lives to make intercession” for us in the Kingdom of God.

Thank God for our spiritual weapons!

Thank God for the precious gifts of the Holy Spirit and prayer. The

Lord has so graciously given these to us. But none of these weapons

will do us any good if we are not able to recognize the schemes and

attacks of the devil. What good would it do you to know what to do if

you cannot recognize an attack of the devil?

If you are in the ministry, you will recognize the work of the enemy

not only in your own church or ministry, but also among your fellow

ministers. Ministers are very distrustful of one another, jealous, and

quick to find fault with what a fellow pastor (Priest) or other minister

is doing instead of rejoicing that something is being done for God.

This is a problem that is recognized.

We realize it is wrong and that

the Lord wants unity in the Body.

What is the problem? Is it jealousy?

Pride? Selfish ambition? Yes, but we

must realize that these are only the

symptoms of the real problem. The

actual problem is our failure to both

see and counteract the spiritual

work of the devil, principalities,

powers, rulers of darkness and

wicked spirits in the heavenliest.

THE SPIRIT WORLD

DOMINATES THE PHYSICAL

It is well known among non-

Christians, that everything in the

spirit realm takes precedence over

the physical realm. The members

of the Dark Kingdom know that

everything is first birthed in the

spirit world. This is because

spiritual things are of a higher

order than are physical things. The

spirit world dominates the physical

world. This is one reason the Word

of God encourages us to develop

our- selves spiritually and to set our

mind on things above in the realm

of the spirit.

Whenever God calls a man or

woman to a specific task or ministry,

He births the ministry spiritually

first. They may not even be aware

in their physical body that this

“birthing” has occurred, but it has

already happened in the spirit

world. Consequently the devil,

being a spirit being, is alerted to

this spiritual birth. He goes about

immediately to destroy what God

has established in order to make

the ministry given to that person

be stillborn. This principle is also

reflected in Herod’s attempt to

destroy the Lord Jesus at birth.

Reflect on the parable our Lord told

of the Sower and you will also see

this truth.

Our inability to understand spiritual

matters and spiritual things has

hindered our whole understanding

of the Bible, especially the New

Testament and the ministry of the

Holy Spirit. What is the ministry

of the Holy Spirit now during the

Church age? How many things

can you list right now that are His

ministry? If you don’t know, how

can He be your Helper?

This great truth is borne out by

many scriptures. Perhaps the best

one for us to consider is found in

Acts. “And it came to pass, that,

while Apollo’s was at Corinth,

Paul having passed through the

upper coasts came to Ephesus:

and finding certain Disciples, He

said unto them, ‘Have ye received

the Holy Ghost since ye believed?’

And they said unto him, ‘We have

not so much as Heard whether

there be any Holy Ghost.’ And he

said unto them, ‘Unto what then

were ye baptized?’ And they said,

‘Unto John’s Baptism.’ Then said

Paul, ‘John verily baptized with the

baptism of Repentance, Saying unto

the people, that they should believe

on him which should come after

him, that is, on Christ Jesus.’ When

they heard this, they were baptized

in the name of the Lord Jesus. And

When Paul had laid His hands upon

them, the Holy Ghost came on

them; and they spoke with tongues,

and prophesied. And all the men

were about twelve.” Acts 19:1-7

Paul does not find fault with the

baptism of John because it was

from Heaven. He says it was a

baptism of repentance and in

the faith of the coming Messiah.

He goes on to speak of the faith

of those who heard John as

evidenced by their being baptized

into the name of Him who would

come after John, i.e., Jesus the

Messiah.

But Paul is not contrasting the

baptism of John with that of

Jesus as many have supposed.

He is contrasting the baptism

of repentance in water with the

baptism of the Spirit or the baptism

of (into) spiritual gifts. The Greek

text, pneuma hagion, is nearly

always translated as Holy Spirit,

but it does not always refer to the

Holy Spirit as we shall see later. It

can also mean spiritual gifts and

often does.

It is evident that Paul believed in

the doctrine of laying on of hands.

This was considered an elementary

doctrine of the early Church as

evidenced in Hebrews 6:1-4. The

early Church knew about and

practiced the laying on of hands

and Paul does so here in Acts by

laying hands on these twelve men.

“And when Paul laid his hands

upon them, the Holy Spirit came

upon them, and they spoke with

tongues and prophesied.” These

were the spiritual gifts they

received when Paul laid his hands

upon them. These gifts came from

the Holy Spirit.

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ABOUT THE BOOK

The book you are about to read is the most complete work to date on spiritual warfare and the kingdom of

Satan. It is detailed and factual, not theory. For the first time or maybe your second time, you will learn the truth

about the Dark Kingdom: its organization, methods of operation and power. It is my sincere hope that this truth

will make you free and enable you to effectively engage the Dark Kingdom in spiritual combat. For too long the

Church has been told by her ministers that the devil does not have any power. But then we feel the harsh wipe

of reality when a child is taken from us through death or a husband leaves for another woman. We try to be

spiritual giants, but the lyrics and warning song from the world drops an unforgettable melody into our minds

and spirits. The devil has great power in these days in which we live. We have opened the door to him in our

Churches and he has come in to sit by the cozy fire. The devil is highly organized and he has enormous plans of

By: Natasja Solomon

heartbreak and death for you and your family if you don’t know how to stop him. In this book you will learn how

to stop them through spiritual warfare.

I’m sure you’ll agree that we all want

to be the best parents we can be. We

all believe we have a lot of parenting

ideas. As parents, we have our own

hopes and dreams for our children.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

BROTHER DINI PASCAL ABANDA

We live in a day of exciting growth, when churches are

experiencing a new outpouring of the Holy Spirit and new believers

are being gathered in.

The challenge is clear. Christians need to be firmly grounded in the

truths of scripture, so that they are equipped to give teaching and

pastoral help to new believer. Perhaps the most significant words in

the Bible are these by our Lord: “And you shall know the truth and

the truth shall make you free.” John 8:32

Evangelist Dini Pascal is a Cameroonian and a commission member

of the Catholic Charismatic Renewal in the Buea Diocese of

Cameroon. He has been in the renewal since 2009. He was elected

the Catholic Charismatic Diocesan secretary since 2015. He has

his calling in the deliverance and evangelical ministry and has been

traveling nationally and internationally with the Divine message of

the Kingdom. He had a degree in Biblical studies at St Augustine

College Johannesburg South Africa and He is the leader of Catholic

Charismatic Renewal at the Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish in Brits

under the Arch dioceses of Pretoria.

THE SPIRIT WORLD DOMINATES THE PHYSICAL

WORLD. THIS IS ONE REASON THE WORD OF

GOD ENCOURAGES US TO DEVELOP OUR- SELVES

SPIRITUALLY AND TO SET OUR MIND ON THINGS

ABOVE IN THE REALM OF THE SPIRIT.

But then life happens, and things

spiral out of control, forcing us to

be the parent we don’t want to be.

We can become stuck in patterns

of responding to our children that

we don’t like, many of which we are

familiar with, without understanding

why. Our life experiences, like those

of our children, shape who we are.

Because parenting is so challenging,

we get our information about children

and parenting from a variety of

sources, including our own parents,

family, friends, child care, schools,

professionals, and the media. As

parents, we sometimes ONLY

repeat what we know. Most of

what we know comes from our own

experiences, specifically how our

parents raised us. Many of these

experiences, as painful as they are,

may have a long-term impact on

us. The attitudes and perspectives

we have about children, parenting,

and families are significantly shaped

by our early development in our

biological families. Knowing our roles

as parents and the impact we have on

our children’s future helps us succeed.

As parents, we may lose ourselves

from time to time due to triggers

caused by unresolved issues. Such

occurrences can lead to situations

that are harmful to both the child and

the parent. As parents, it is critical

that we do not allow our emotions,

particularly

negative

and toxic ones,

to steer us.

We don’t

want to instill

fear in our

children and

allow them to

create their own

little monsters.

We need to watch

our own behavior and

even our tone of voice as parents

because we are being watched by

small little eyes all the time.

I’d like to use this opportunity

to encourage parents to seek

forgiveness for their own childhood

traumas and to listen to their inner

child, who must first be healed. We

are able to be a more present parent

to our children as a result of taking

the time to work on ourselves first. In

today’s fast-paced world, we all know

that family life has become complex

and difficult to maintain; however,

there is always hope, and we must

keep it alive no matter what.

In my work as a parenting life coach,

I have met many parents who are

overwhelmed with the task of

parenting and who are susceptible to

the influence of others (I do not see

anything wrong in seeking advice but

some voices cause more harm than

good).

As

parents, I

believe we

have the

ability to

influence

and change

our children

to become the

best versions of

themselves. We can

do this by influencing

them through our words and actions

to become responsible adults. So, as

parents, we are the most important

people in the lives of all children, not

just our own. Our task is enormous

as we shape the next generation with

clear instruction from the word of

God as stated in Proverbs 22:6 “Train

up a child in the way he should go,

and when he is old he will not depart

from it.”

HERE ARE SOME HELPFUL

HINTS.

• Listening to your children while

maintaining eye contact

• Do not be distracted when

talking to your child

• Have fun by allowing them to

lead the play

• Mirror and reinforce good

behavior at all times

• Introduce new experiences

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ENTREPRENEURSHIP

Love Liya:

ENTREPRENEURSHIP AT

THE TENDER AGE OF TEN!

“Believe in Yourself, Know Yourself

and Use Your talent to Uplift Yourself”

Liya enjoyed playing with soft clay when she was five

years old. She began by sculpting dogs, miniature

food, ballerinas, and princesses, but her favorite

sculpture was a small chi wow. She had plenty

of time to practice during lockdown because her

mother was on maternity leave, and we spent a lot

of time together. Her mother recognized her talent

and decided to purchase polymer clay. She watched

numerous YouTube videos of American polymer

clay artists. Creative Rachel inspired her. Rachel is a

talented sculptor who creates cut miniature foods,

and a few resin charms. They too purchased polymer

clay, cutters, and other tools.

Liya began by mixing her own colors with chalk

pastels, adding her own designs to what she had

learned to make it her own. Then we decided to make

it into jewelry. We started an Instagram page to see how

people reacted, and I received positive feedback. She was

shy at first and didn’t believe in herself. Her confidence

grew as she worked on improving her skills. My advice

to young people her age is to believe in themselves,

get to know themselves and use their talents to better

themselves. We as a family assisted her in preparing for

her first market in January of this year. She has already

attended six markets this year. When she went to the

markets, she received a lot of positive feedback, and

she wants to pass that on to other kids her age. Living

in South Africa is difficult, but by pooling our resources,

we can build a stronger nation. Children, as they say, are

our future. We are South Africa’s future, and we have the

ability to effect change.

Assume that each of us starts a business that will

create jobs in our community. We can not only provide

a job but also encourage those who work for us to be

the best they can be. I know it’s not easy because we

don’t all have the same support system or resources,

but I also know that when you spread positivity, people

will be drawn to it and will help you in any way they can.

We’ve had family, friends, and strangers join us and offer

her assistance and support in a variety of ways. People

are eager to assist when they see potential in the next

generation.

Liya is ten, and her generation is known as the Alpha

Generation. They have a huge responsibility to help heal

our country. Growing up on the Cape Flats, I witnessed

many people struggle. When we see children begging at

traffic lights, it breaks our hearts. This was not intended

by God for our lives. When I see people struggling, it

breaks my heart because I know that God has called each

of us to a specific purpose. God has called us for such

a time as this. We have been chosen by God to make

a difference in our communities. All we need to do is

pray and ask for His assistance. An ear to hear him, eyes

to seek Him, and a heart to inquire of Him as to

why we were born.

We must be God’s light and salt. Complaining

about crime and poverty won’t help. We must

win souls and create jobs. We must empower

others. When we tap into God’s purpose, plan,

vision, and mission for our life, we will experience

transformation in ourselves and others. Daily

prayer is vital. He will guide us. God arranged

opportunities before we were born. Our names

are in the book of life. It’s best to obey God’s

voice and word, not your heart.

As a parent, I hope and pray that we can support

and encourage the next generation to be the best

they can be. To those small souls who are called

to be entrepreneurs; to be Kingdom builders. To

develop their vision and mission. By doing so, we

will make the world a better place.

Living in South Africa is difficult, but by

pooling our resources, we can build a stronger

nation. Children, as they say, are our future.

We are South Africa’s future, and we have

the ability to effect change.

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TEENS

“DO NOT

CONFORM ANY

LONGER TO

THE PATTERN

OF THIS

WORLD, BUT BE

TRANSFORMED

BY THE

RENEWING OF

THE MIND.”

(ROMANS 12:2)

By: Cynthia Booysen

We are living in an era when identity is a hot topic of discussion. How

we identify refers to not only how we define ourselves, but also how

we want the rest of the world to recognize us. As young people in

today’s culture, we are bombarded with images of what our identity

should look like. Our identity as Christians is first and foremost in

Christ Jesus, but how can we live that identity out? It all begins with

our daily pursuit of Christ. Conform your mind to Christ, and learn

and believe what God says about you. As the saying goes, “What you

believe, is what you become” “If then you have been raised with Christ,

seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand

of God. Set your mind on things that are above, not on things that are on

earth” (Colossians 3:1-2)

Young people frequently allow their experiences, mistakes, hangups,

and struggles to define them. Their vulnerabilities define their

identity. I recall a time when I was a young girl and struggled with low

self-esteem, an inferiority complex, and rejection. Growing up, people

told me I wasn’t good enough; they made fun of my dark skin, saying

I’d never amount to anything because of how I looked. My identity

and behavioral problems as a young girl were greatly influenced by the

labels I was subjected to when I was growing up. My flaws and what

other people had to say about me began to define who I was.

When I first received salvation, I struggled to believe what the Bible

said about me. I struggled for a long time to reconcile myself to God’s

word and how He sees me. Beginning in 2017, I enrolled in a series

of teachings titled “Renewal of the Mind,” and the Lord began to work

in my heart about renewing the way I think during that series. “Do not

conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by

the renewing of the mind.” (Romans 12:2)

Identity has a direct impact on our values and

self-worth. We evaluate ourselves based on

how well we perform when our identity is in our

success. Being a preacher, singer, artist, or dancer

are examples of performance-based identities.

We assess ourselves based on our abilities. I

used to work very hard in ministry and serve like

nobody’s business. I later realized that I valued

myself based on the applause I got from people,

and when I didn’t get a thank you or praise from

people, I based my value and identity on that

failure. When a person’s identity is not rooted

in Christ, they become like leaves on a tree that

blows in whatever direction the wind takes them.

We must teach our children the significance of

locating their identity in the only one who never

changes, God!

This is something I’ve learned as I’ve walked in

my transformed identity, and I believe it will help

you as well.

God created us on Purpose in His image –

Young people must understand that their mistakes

and hang-ups have no bearing on their creation in

the image of God.

God’s love does not fail, nor does it change

towards us- Psalm 136 :1 “Declares that the Lord

is good, and His Love never fails.

God genuinely cares about the details of our

lives- Young people need to be reminded of

Luke 12:7...to know that God is concerned about

even the smallest details in their lives. They must

understand that He loves them so much that His

concern extends beyond their ability to care for

themselves.

In Christ, our identity is solely based on Him

and His Love. Our identity determines the type of

person we will be and how we will treat others, so

it is critical for a young person to work on identity

issues as early as possible in life. The world says,

“Find out who you are,” but God says, “Discover

who I created you to be in Christ Jesus.”

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ATHEIST

toA P O

to

S T L E

“LEADERSHIP IS SERVANTHOOD”

By: Charlene Ainslie

My testimony is a colorful one, to

say the least. After years of being

a party girl and an atheist, the Lord

gently led me to him in 2015, and

on 7 June I fully surrendered my

life to Jesus. People often tell me,

“Charlene, if you got saved, there

must be a God.” I went from being a

menace to becoming a minister and

an atheist to becoming an apostle

serving my King and liberating the

captives from everything I had been

chained for.

From 2015 – 2019 I immersed

myself in the Word, worship

team, and life group leader. I

studied through SATS and then

the Lord guided me to CSSM

(Cape Supernatural School of

Ministry) which is the South African

counterpart of Bethel Supernatural

School of Ministry and I completed

2 years there under the leadership

of Prophet Sally Goodwin and the

team. By the grace of God, I was

ordained in 2019 via Kingdom

Ministries International, a ministry

established by the late and

legendary Apostle Alfie Fabe, who

was known for his inspirational

preaching, visionary leadership,

and global ministry establishment.

Apostle Llewellyn Williams and

the Fabe family continue to direct

this magnificent covering that I am

currently still under.

In October 2019, the Lord gave

me my first assignment: to put

together a crusade on the football

field in my hometown of Table View.

Everything about that crusade was

God-led, and six of the 52 churches

in the community partnered with me

to change lives and get the “church”

out of the building. That day, we

witnessed many miracles and many

connections where fellowship,

revival, and networking were

essential. During this time, I also

began holding Friday night meetings

called “Upperroom Nights,” where

we began to witness an increasing

number of miracles, signs, and

wonders. People were coming from

all over Cape Town to be immersed

in the Lord’s presence and set free in

deliverance.

“Then Covid Happened,” those

famous words that we will all

remember for a long time. I went

to Hermanus for a while to regroup

and hear what the Lord was saying

during those difficult times. We

learned how to connect outside of

the church building by using online

services and getting creative with

our connection and intimacy. It

compelled people to not only praise

the Lord in the building, but also

to BE the church outside the walls,

seeking his presence in the stillness

of our own spaces. After I returned

to Cape Town from Hermanus for

a brief respite, the Lord said, “It is

time,” and I resumed hosting the

Upperroom Nights. This time, I was

primarily focused on deliverance

as my ministry, and I was really

coming up against strongholds,

powers, and principalities that had

oppressed not only individuals but

entire communities. God never fails

to deliver, and many people were

saved, healed, and delivered during

this time.

As most seasons change and

evolve, so do I, and during this time,

the Lord revealed to me that He was

calling me to move into the office

of Apostle and continue working

with leaders in the community

and surrounding cities, as well as

connecting internationally with

leaders from countries such as the

Philippines, Uganda, Pakistan, and

the United States. We continue to

host online prayer, intercession, and

deliverance meetings to encourage

these five-fold ministers to walk

worthy of their callings, serving

Christ, and releasing captives.

Marketing and design have always

been a passion and skill of mine,

allowing me to collaborate with

various ministries and leaders to

edify the body and glorify God.

Our ministry extends beyond what

we do behind the pulpit and into

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everything we do. “And whatever you do or

say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus,

giving thanks to God the Father through him,”

says Colossians 3:17. So collaborating on a

marketing, design, and social media platform

is also part of my ministry. Here, I collaborate

with other Christian businesswomen and have

launched a project called Kingdom Connectors

- Rise of the Ruth Anointing. This focuses

on networking, partnering, and encouraging

women in business, and how, just as Ruth

learned from the other women in the wheat

field, we can work, grow, and inspire together.

If you want to join this group of women who

support women in loyalty and love, find us on

Facebook at @kingdomconnectors.

In the account of feeding the 5000, Jesus

said to his disciples, “You feed them” - he was

speaking spiritually and naturally because the

crowds were hungry. We need to feed our

community with bread as well as meet their

daily needs, so we have an initiative called

Buckets 4 Africa in which we partner with local

organizations that feed the communities. We

provide buckets of dry food and milk blend to

various NPOs and NGOs. There are numerous

ways to collaborate with this initiative, so

please contact us if you would like to learn

more about it and how you or your ministry

can help those in need. @buckets4africa

I look forward to working with all ministers,

leaders, and organizations who believe

their congregations or teams would benefit

from group deliverance. As Jesus preached,

healed, and ministered in public, he also cast

out demons, and we know He is the same

yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8),

so this is desperately needed in the body of

Christ today. Fear, trauma, anxiety, depression,

and other issues are on God’s mind. Let us be

revival rather than waiting for it. Please contact

me for any upcoming meetings, events, or

gatherings where my team and I can be a

blessing to those whom the Father desires to

heal. Let us wash each other’s feet because

leadership is servanthood.

Kingdom blessings

WWW.KINGDOMGROUNDMINISTRIES.COM

KINGDOMGROUNDMINISTRIES@GMAIL.COM

+27 71 628 2509

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Meet Lisa Craye, Executive Director of

Hands With Words, a Non-Profit Company,

established to love, serve and uplift the Deaf

into being a part of God’s Kingdom on earth!

Stay tuned for the next edition

of CLM, where Lisa will help

us understand more about the

Deaf, The SASL Bible Translation

Project and also of how God is

fulfilling not only the mission

but also the vision of Hands

With Words!

Did you know that there are at least 600 000 Deaf in

South Africa whose first language is South African Sign

Language?

Hands With Words is spearheading the South

African Sign Language (SASL) Bible Translation

Project, having released the first set of SASL

Bible passages in 2019 and preparing to

release the second set of Bible passages in

2023?



CELEBRATING SINGLENESS

SINGLE,

CELIBATE &

CONTENT!

By: Esmé Adonis

Thirteen years ago, I made a decision that would forever

define my season of singleness. Even though I didn’t

know how much of an impact this decision would

have on my life, I felt it was the right one to make at

the moment. We tend to believe that sex establishes

relationships; however, I grew tired of the lying, cheating,

and feelings of being used. Why are we not being

educated on the dangers of sleeping around? Because

of unplanned pregnancies, our young girls have to leave

school, our young men (the few who are responsible)

have to leave school and find work, and our parents have

to take care of our children. This generation is being

forced to grow up, and

the responsibilities leave

no room for children to

be children. The devil is a

whole big liar!

Children must be

established in their Godgiven

identities, and Godly

principles must serve as

their foundation; however,

we have left it to the

worldly system to tell them

who they are and teach

them about sex. Juanita Bynum says “we are not married

because we are not single”, meaning that we first need

to be delivered from the soul ties of all our previous

partners. When we have sex with someone, 2 people/

souls/spirits become one, but becoming one was only

ever meant for the marriage covenant.

I started dating someone, liked him, and shared things

with him. We started hugging and kissing, which led

to him touching me in an inappropriate way (which to

this day still angers me). I ended it because he wanted

to sleep with me and I didn’t want to break my promise

to God. Although I was lonely at times and craved

companionship, my relationship with God was never

LOVING GOD IS

WHAT MAKES

THE WAIT

WORTH IT.

jeopardized by it. I choose JESUS over any man, any day!

Three days of intense lust ensued (as we later

discovered he had a spirit of lust on him which then also

attached to me). God alone fought that battle for me. I

cried and begged God to take it away. Lust subsided but

lingered! Then one day, while randomly chatting with my

mentor, she suggested I watch NO MORE SHEETS by

Juanita Bynum. At one point, in the video, Juanita says to

the audience to find a tissue and start wiping themselves

down while declaring NO MORE (mention the person’s

name here). I decided to do the same as I felt led by

Holy Spirit. I started wiping myself down and declared

NO MORE, NO MORE, NO MORE. I cried out to God to

cleanse me and purify me and He

did exactly that!

Then Holy Spirit said to me,

HER TESTIMONY WAS NOW

MY DELIVERY. I pray my

testimony will be someone’s

deliverance in Jesus’ Name! A

certain scripture has been in my

life since the beginning of my

journey, and I never understood

why Father kept bringing me back

to it. Isaiah 54:5 Your maker is your

husband. I finally had my revelation

in December 2021. Father told me: HE is to remain, my

HUSBAND, as I am in covenant with HIM, as I still await my

husband here on earth. Meaning, that if I were to engage in

sexual activity, I would be betraying God, and I don’t want

to do that!

Being celibate isn’t a simple path. You need to be

grounded and committed. It takes faith, courage, selfcontrol,

and commitment. Loving God is what makes the

WAIT worth it. I’m sure that God honors and respects

our COVENANT just as much as I do. So, until I meet

my husband here on this earth, I will forever wear

my FATHER’S ring as a sign of our commitment and

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MARRIAGE

In a time when our lives felt

by God? The giant slayer wasn’t a man

serve your gods or worship the gold

completely out of control, with the

of weak faith since he followed God’s

item you’ve set up, oh king. Love it!

enemy relentlessly attempting to

heart.

Our God can save us, but even if not.

shape our thinking, I was reminded

You may suppose these Old

We won’t bow My God can answer

of a Proverbs verse that I treasure. A

Testament examples were hampered

my petition, but I’ll still trust Him if He

friend gave me a coffee cup with it

by sin. I did. So, let’s browse the New

doesn’t.

beautifully printed across the front!

Testament, shall we? Paul, who wrote

Prayer is a very powerful tool, and

What a good way to start the day!

most of the New Testament, prays 3

the Bible teaches that it is impossible

Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord

times for God to remove a “thorn in

to please God without faith! That

with all your heart, and lean not on

his flesh,” but God answers no and His

being said, our faith should be in

your own understanding.” Trust Him!

grace will carry him through (2

the One we’re praying to, not in the

FOR

BETTER

AND FOR

WORSE

My wife ran towards God rather

than away from Him as she wrestled

with Him to see things from His

perspective. She found peace and

breakthrough while reading the book

of Samuel and the account of Hannah,

who couldn’t have a child. 1 Samuel

1:6 says the Lord closed Hannah’s

womb, but she prayed and cried out

to Him, and He answered her prayer.

She gave birth to his plan and glory.

Samuel. A great prophet embraced

God. God knows best; trust Him. God

had opened my wife’s eyes to our

situation. We don’t use his methods.

He wants us to believe Him even

Corinthians

12:7-10). In

Gethsemane,

Jesus prays.

Jesus, facing

the agony of

the cross and

dying for the

sins of the

world, prayed

Matthew

26:29. “Father,

if it’s possible,

let this cup

pass from Me;

however, Your will be done!” Who

“OUR FAITH

SHOULD BE

IN THE ONE

WE’RE PRAYING

TO, NOT IN

THE THING

WE’RE PRAYING

FOR OR IN

THE PRAYER

ITSELF!”

thing we’re praying for or

in the prayer itself! We

can trust Him even if He

says no. Living faith is one

that is rooted in the Living

God. I’d like to encourage

you. Don’t rely on your

own understanding! Don’t

let misunderstandings and

disappointments influence

your thinking. The amazing

thing is that we can trust

Him even when the

outcome does not match

our prayers. I recall the

night after our friend’s baby girl died.

when we don’t understand. Because

could accuse Paul or Jesus of lacking

We stayed up all night praying and

Hannah believed in Him, God

faith? But God ignored their requests.

worshiping the Lord. We were hurt

reopened Hannah’s womb. Too often,

Let that sink in. Father’s plan, will,

and weak as a result of our ordeals,

By: Leeroy Booysen &

Jethro Smith

“Our faith should be in the One we’re

praying to, not in the thing we’re

praying for or in the prayer itself!”

At around 6 a.m., eleven months

into our marriage, I’m holding my

pregnant wife in my arms as she drifts

in and out of consciousness. Every

few minutes, I can feel her body go

limp between gut-wrenching cries

of agony. I’m praying nonstop, trying

not to think about the possibility that

she’ll cross over to the other side

and leave me sitting on the bedroom

floor, holding her limp body. After a

few days in the hospital, she returned

with a flat stomach and a deep, silent

sadness that I couldn’t solve or cure.

Her joy seemed to die that day, along

with our unborn child.

She didn’t get out of bed for a few

days after that. Days when she was

engulfed by darkness. She’d wake up

in tears and stay that way until sunset.

“God, why did this happen?” “Will

we ever be able to have children?”

“We are terrified! We don’t want to

go through that trauma again!” These

kinds of thoughts served as a

soundtrack for this season.

Days turned into weeks, then

months, and I wondered when this

period of deep mourning would end!

Will it ever end? My wife was now

dealing with nagging questions that

couldn’t be neatly answered. “Am I

sterile?” “Will I ever be able to have

children?” If this season wasn’t difficult

enough, a couple we really love in the

Lord went through something similar

and gave birth to a stillborn (we found

out we were pregnant within weeks

of each other and our kids were going

to grow up together). “But why, Lord?

We prayed! We intervened!” “Why,

Lord? Will it ever end?” Have you

ever wondered if God didn’t answer

your prayers because your faith

wasn’t strong enough? Or how about

another believer implying, “If only you

had more faith, if only you prayed

more!”

Our own opinions and

understanding can be so

dangerous that they can shape

and change our attitude toward

circumstances, people, and God

for better or for worse! How many

times have we attempted to fit this

complicated, wonderful life into a cute

little package that we can manage,

understand, and control? Can you

recall the last time you heard untrue

gossip about someone? Saying things

that sound good and spiritual but end

up betraying God’s image and heart.

This is exactly what Christians do

unknowingly when we begin to form

our own opinions that contradict what

the Bible teaches.

we blame our lack of faith for God’s

unanswered prayers.

We can deeply and unknowingly

hurt others in an instant simply by

implying, “God didn’t answer your

prayers because you lacked faith or

didn’t pray enough!” Could it be that

God’s will, plan, and purpose are

different from what I’m praying for?

To comprehend God’s ways, read

scripture. Jesus told His disciples

to pray for the Father’s will in Matt

6:9-13. John teaches that if we pray

according to God’s will, it will be

done. Moses, a man of faith, begs the

Lord to enter the promised land in

Deuteronomy 3:23-27. LORD says,

“Enough” “Don’t talk to Me about

this!” 2 Sam 12: King David begs God

to spare the child born of his sin with

Bathsheba. He fasts and cries. Later,

David wished to build a temple for

the Lord, but God refused. His son

builds the temple. David was denied

and purpose was different than their

own. In Daniel 3:17-18, Shadrach,

Meshach, and Abednego declare their

confidence. If tossed into the flames,

our God can save us. And He’ll save

us, oh king. If He doesn’t, we won’t

but we were able to trust Him, and so

can you!

It’s a decision you can make right

now that you’ll never regret! Trust

Him with all your heart.

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EDUCATION

YOU WANT PRACTICAL

TRAINING?

African governing authorities.

Not every student can

Some seminaries focus

afford to spend three years

exclusively on the academic

on campus, or just want some

side of theological education

foundational knowledge

but at BISA we believe the

so we offer a year-long

pleasant fruit of theological

Gap Year programme (non-

studies is to be seen in the

accredited) looking at

spiritual life of God’s people

Christian foundations and

and in their service to others.

applying them practically.

Consequently, BISA faculty

For mature students in full

DO YOU HAVE A DESIRE TO OBEY

GOD, TO STUDY, AND INSPIRE

HEARTS AND MINDS WITH

and students gather weekly

in fellowship groups to pray

together and have upbuilding

interaction. Every semester

also has a full “Quiet Day,”

time employment we offer a

part-time Christian Leadership

Programme (CLP), taught at

several venues across Cape

Town during evening sessions;

when the normally busy

the CLP runs over three years

class schedule is dedicated

and is non-accredited.

OUR HISTORY

During the early 1900’s in South

Africa, there were no Bible Colleges

in the country and theological

education was only available through

the public universities. A handful

of ministers in Cape Town were

concerned about this and set about

addressing the need for independent

theological education. They were

determined to establish a college

where the doctrines of the Bible

would be taught.

In 1923, they founded the Bible

Institute of South Africa (BISA).

The campus was initially situated

in Mowbray, Cape Town and just

before World War II the Institute

moved to its present day home in

Kalk Bay, Cape Town, where the

campus buildings still bear the names

of our great patrons: Marsh, Douglas,

Daintree and Kingon. In April 2023

the Bible Institute of South Africa

will celebrate its centenary – quite a

milestone for any institution and one

for which we give God all honour and

praise!

BISA’s aim then, was the same as

today; to equip men and women for

work in missions, ministry and the

market place. Students come to us to

learn ‘To Know Christ and to Make

Him Known’.

Using the Bible as their handbook,

students from many nations have

been prepared in the Word and in

practice for effective witness to

people with differing worldviews in

every walk of life.

BISA is interdenominational

(as in not linked to any church

denomination) with students

admitted from churches around

the world. It is common to have up

to a dozen nations and languages

represented on campus.

WHY STUDY THEOLOGY?

Have you ever listened to a Church

Sermon or a Christian speaker on the

web and wondered to yourself ‘Is this

what the Bible really teaches?’

Theology is an important topic to

tackle because we need the ability

to identify authentic voices in an

age where so many teachers claim

to have authority on what is right or

wrong.

At the Bible Institute we

teach the Bible as God’s trustworthy

and authoritative Word; it is always

at the centre of our curriculum

and training. Our method of study

and teaching employs a historic,

protestant and reformational

interpretation of scripture. We

believe that the Bible is God’s Word

revealed to men. We therefore

accept the trustworthiness of its

historical record, the authority of its

teachings, and the truth of all Christ’s

utterances it contains.

WHY CHOOSE US?

The Bible Institute has a rich

history of training men and women

for the ministry, both in theory and

in practice. Over the years, many

students have been equipped for

ministry in pastoral ministry and

church planting, in missions, as child

and youth workers, as women’s

workers, as counsellors, as educators

and in the general market place.

Using the Bible as their handbook,

students from many nations have

been prepared in practical theology

for effective witness to people with

differing worldviews, in every walk

of life.

WHAT’S OUR GOAL FOR YOU?

Our concern is more than just

to impart knowledge; we want to

take that knowledge and use it in

the development of the skills and

character that students will need

to be effective in their lives and

ministries.

Our goal is to help each student

develop a Christian world-and-life

view. We want each student to think

creatively and critically about the

issues they face in life and work. We

don’t talk down from an ivory tower

of high ideals; rather our training

helps the student face gospel issues

head-on when confronted by views

that are not Biblical.

to devotional meditation

on Scripture and prayer.

Throughout their studies all

students are required to be

involved in a ministry in a local

church which is evaluated as

part of their course. Every

year each fellowship group

goes on a ministry outreach

with one of the lecturers to

put into practice what they

have been learning. Spiritual

growth is encouraged in each

student not only through

ministry activities but also by

encouraging students to stop

and seek the presence of the

Lord.

STAFF

BISA employs full time, part

time and adjunct lecturers, all

of whom focus on academic

and practical application in

their teaching. In our Winter

School courses, held in July,

we host visiting lecturers who

are experts in their field. The BISA faculty is supported

by a team of dedicated support staff, many of whom are

former students.

CHOOSING YOUR BEST COURSE

The college has several hundred students involved in a

selection of courses. Our flagship course is the Bachelor

of Theology which is taught both on campus in contact

mode as well as by distance learning/online mode. Both

these B.Th. degrees are fully accredited with the South

The BISA Winter School

offers two weeks of intersemester

tuition held annually

in July. Winter School is open

to church leaders and workers,

offering subjects taught by

international academics and

researchers in their specific

fields.

ACCREDITATION

The Bible Institute of South

Africa NPC is registered with

the Department of Higher

Education and Training until

31 December 2022 as a

private higher education

institution under the Act.

Registration certificate No.

2018/HE08/002.

IN CONCLUSION

We believe the Bible to be

the verbally inspired, infallible

and inerrant Word of God. It is

complete in its revelation, final

in its content and absolute in

its authority. Students will

study and practically engage with the Word of God and

learn to handle and communicate it competently.

If you have a desire to obey God, to study and to

inspire hearts and minds with His Truth please give

us a call on 021 788 4116 or visit our website at

https://bisa.org.za/.

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TESTIMONY

where I can get the best services and

booked me for CT Scan for following

my Dr continued to manage my pain

Lord the only provider who has our

day, then Mamo, then Biopsy, then

very well. I underwent 6 rounds of

life plans at the palm of His hand,

brain can and the settlement was the

chemo in 4 months. Praise the Lord,

presented them with a wonderful

engagement of the Oncologist and

the cancer is not detected in any

Zonnezicht Lifestyle Living Durbanville

even then God showed up big time.

of the tests. I can walk, I am driving

where there was good services

My PA, PR daughter kept wonderful

myself around, I cook my own meals,

needed at the time like Health

communication between siblings, my

taking all precautions about my bones

Services on site, food management

friends, doctors and Mom My world

whilst doing exercises as well we are

team and incredible benefits that

stood still and the spiritual battle for

still jourbying with my Doctor with the

mean I am never alone. In a month,

my life began in earnest and by this

bones. He is so determined to take me

my kids and grandsons packed up

time my daughter was concerned with

back to the tennis courtmy favorite

my house, put things in storage and

moved me into my new sanctuary.

In the meantime, my daughter was

dissatisfied with the diagnosis of a

pinched nerve even though I was

going to physio every week, the

my mental faculties and

felt that Meds were

impacting me negatively

and that made her to

drive all the way from

George again to hold

“SURELY

GOODNESS AND

MERCY SHALL

FOLLOW ME ALL

sport, and I have been

given new life. BY MY

GOD. I'M FIRING WITH

ALL MY PLUGS IN THE

FIELD OF MY FATHER

WITH THE MINISTRY

By: Dr. Fay

pain was not getting better, and she

was uneasy about the degeneration

of my mobility. She spoke to my

physiotherapist who had already

expressed her dissatisfaction and

requested xrays to see what is

going on with my spine. The x-rays

showed that L1, L3,L5 vertebrae had

become osteoporatic and brittle and

conversations with the

Doctors face to face.

Within 2 days of her

arrival, she managed to

have me transferred to

another hospital that

works with my medical

aid and was also able

to engage with my new

THE DAYS OF MY

LIFE AND I WILL

DWELL IN THE

HOUSE OF THE

LORD FOREVER.”

(PSALM 23V6)

HE CALLED ME FOR.

When the diagnosis

became apparent,

the shofar blew, and I

requested prayer from

intercessors in my

wide network of prayer

warriors around the

world and they did what

a specialist intervention was required

oncologist regarding my meds. After

they like best, PRAYER. My spiritual

The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want. He maketh

me to lie down in green pastures, he leadeth me

beside still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth

me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow

of death I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy

rod and thy staff they comfort me. (Psalm 23v1-4).

These are the words of King David and these are the

words that became so true for me as I walked in the

valley of the shadow of death…cancer. It crept up on

me like a thief in the night that I never saw coming.

This is a victory story of the Goodness of God in my

life, how I have come to know the Lord as Jehovah

Rafa - My healer.

I, being an elderly mother of ten children turned 71

this last April, diabetic and asthmatic found myself

confronted face to face with an uncircumcised

Phillistine and right at Jobs situation of being

diagnosed Stage 4, Higher grade Cancer classified

as VERY AGGRESSIVE TYPE in November last

2021, after being aggressively attacked and dragged

closer to the grave by Covid 19 for a month in July.

The prognosis was not good and the doctors were

certain that I only had two possible outcomes, death

or permanently bed ridden but God had another

outcome…Cancer free.

After the deadly Monster corona virus still on my

recovery stages, September I started struggling with

excruciating and unbearable pain on my back that

crept fiery down my right leg. The Dr diagnosed

this as a pinched nerve and referred me to undergo

physiotherapy to help with the situation and the

physiotherapist immediately put me on a cruch.

The pain was so severe that it rendered me unable

to drive, unable to get out of bed and since I was

living alone at the time, this meant I wasn’t able to

do anything for myself. One of my daughters that is

based here in Cape Town contacted her baby sister

that lives in George and told her to come down to

Cape Town because my situation was not good.

My son in law came to drop my daughter and two

grandsons on my doorstep and she immediately

contacted her siblings to report that my situation was

not good. She took over the running of the house,

driving me to physio and and from that point took

over as my PA and Carer and a family PR at the same

time, getting involved in all consultations ensuring

that she spoke to the Doctors to understand what

was going on. Within a week my kids had decided

the time for me to live on my own was over and they

took a decision that I move to a retirement village

urgently. The medical aid plan I am on,

does not pay for specialists relating

to anything to do with the back. My

kids rallied together and decided

they would pay for the costs. On 15

November, one of my daughters took

me to the emergency room as the

pain had become unbearable and I

was admitted by a Neurosurgeon. For

the first time in over two months, I

was pain free. My pain was managed

so well that I was able to sleep

through the night. I was informed

that I might need surgery based on

the x-rays and a reference letter

from the orthopaedic surgeon, but

the neurosurgeon needed to run

other tests like MRI and the results

were a blow more especially to the

Surgeon and something funny was

my calmness and peace I had inside

and at that time I told myself that My

Jesus will never fail me, He is the only

Healer I know, I said very encouraging

words to the Doctor that let us fight

together, right there in disbelief he

having lost my mind for 2 weeks, I

started to feel like myself once more.

Dr Loots (my oncologist) and his team

have been incredible and been so

intentional about walking this journey

with us. My daughter was by my side

in the hospital from 7 in the morning

until 7 at night. After being bed

ridden in hospital for a month, I was

discharged and this was the beginning

of the fight for my life. I couldn’t walk.

couldn’t sit or turn on my own on the

bed, couldn’t get off the bed, was just

a log, black as a three legged pot thin

as a straight pin I had to use a bedpan

and wear a diaper. The cancer had

attacked my spine severely. All I could

do was ly in bed and commune with

my Father in heaven EVERY SECOND.

Palliative chemo was the only option

available to me and this was intended

to attack the cancer aggressively and

at the same time, the work began to

strengthen my bones that had become

very fragile. I did not struggle with

any side effects from the chemo and

parents, Papa Walter and Mama

Coleen Snyman were by my side every

single step of the way and visited

often in hospital and home after

discharge and spoke with me daily

via WhatsApp and phone calls all the

time. My Church praying feverently

as well I cried out to the Lord and

prayed without ceasing. I started

taking up holy communion every

evening at 18:00. This was my time to

take of His body that was broken for

me and drink of His blood that was

spilled for me so I can be made whole

both spiritually and physically. I felt

prompted to host a Prayer Connect ( a

program that I was doing before taken

down by the thief) to give thanks for

all He has done in March and to start

raising awareness on cancer, doing It

was a huge success. Then I was again

prompted by the Lord in my spirit to

host an online Talkshow and call it “BY

THE WELL WITH DR FAY”, I did not

have the energy or the resources, but

the Lord made it happen.

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TESTIMONY

POETRY

THROUGH

EYES

I once saw the world through common

eyes, As if the beauty was in disguise.

With fun and games at the top of my gaze

Testimony by Leon and Thea Clemons

For some time, Thea and I prayed for an economical car. We were trying to sell

two of our classic Mercedes cars to enable us to buy an economic car for more

than three years without success. All my life I have been a Mercedes enthusiast

and collector.

Tuesday 7 June 2021 a voice told me to look at the advertisements for the

3 series BMW in Auto Trader. I looked and saw the advertisement for a 2001

BMW 330i. Then I found a Car test for the BMW 330i in the December 2000

issue of Car and was highly impressed.

Wednesday morning, I phoned the dealership and spoke to the owner

personally. I went with my 1982 Mercedes 380 SE. The whole deal went as

I prayed for and to make a long story short: The dealership bought both my

1982 Mercedes 380 SE and my 1976 Mercedes 350 SE (which I failed to sell

for three years). At lunchtime on Wednesday 8th June, I went home in our

2001 BMW 330i fully paid, plus R30 000.00 cash in the bank. The 330i is now

our dream supercar: 0-100 km per hour in 6,7 seconds, top speed 250 kilos per

hour, and fuel consumption: average of 11 kilos per liter. (9,1 liter per 100 km.)

I praised God all the way home and I still praise God every time I drive or see

our BMW 330i.

No thought nor process about the deeper

beauty

For me it was just unruly.

Seeing life for what it was

Just chasing the next buzz

Then one day, as the flash of a powerful

lighting bolt,

the Lord Jesus came, took control and

brought me to a halt.

The veil was lifted

My heart was pitted

Then for the first time, I could see.

Many a thing, once believed to be

meaningless,

became the exact opposite, now

meaningful.

This eye saw birds in the sky

This ear heard words that rhyme

This nose smelled afresh the fragrance

of old This mouth tasted and saw the

goodness of God!

Life had new meaning

Meaning, creation had new meaning.

Colors were brighter

My body felt lighter

All this in a progression of time.

The earth smelled sweet

That led me to plant something to eat,

what a treat it was

that again proclaimed the glory and

goodness of God.

I want to take some time

To add to this rhyme my thankfulness to

God

Thank you YAHWEH for making me Your

son For breathing life into these lungs

For blessing me, for keeping me

For not deserting me.

Thank You that I can write this poem

To add my bit to make You known.

Let this bring You Glory

And be the beginning of my story.

BY: REINHARDT

VAN DER

WESTHUIZEN

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HEALTH

By Traci Townsend

It’s time to be your own, unique

self!

And if you are ready to start

your fat loss journey, but you

don’t know where to start or

you want some accountability

and guidance to reach your

goals, I’m here for you. Check

out my website https://

www.fitnesswithtraci.com/ for

information about my online

fitness and nutrition services.

Here’s what I need you to know.

You do not have to be perfect

to be fit. You do not have to be

a certain size to be fit. You do

not have to have a restrictive or

limited diet to be fit. In fact, I

believe, there is a unique fit for

each person, but what tends to

happen is we compare ourselves

to others. We compare our looks

to others and we compare our

habits to others. And I think we

compare ourselves to others

so much that we begin to lose

ourselves and undervalue who we

uniquely are.

I am also working on not

comparing my fitness to that of

others. It’s hard, but I’m working

on it and you can, too. As I’ve

grown in my fitness journey,

fitness has become about

understanding how movement

and nutrition affect my body

and the best way that I can

incorporate them into my lifestyle.

And I think that’s what everyone

should try to do - determine

how to incorporate movement

and nutrition into their lives

and recognize that it might look

different from someone else, and

that’s okay.

There was a podcast that I

recently listened to that focused

on weight loss and the messages

that society sends about larger

body sizes. In this podcast, Dr.

John Berardi and guests discuss

the biases held against people of

larger body sizes. This podcast

offers a variety of perspectives

on the topic and several things

resonated with me, especially

this statement, “...it means that

people make their own choices

about how best to meet their

own health and fitness goals and

that when they are doing so they

don’t have to stigmatize other

people on their weight or their

appearance.”

A coach can provide detailed

information about health and

fitness and support you along

your fitness journey. However,

you are the expert of yourself

and, as a team, you and your

coach can determine your own,

unique fitness goals. You know

yourself better than anyone else.

That’s all for now.

Stay focused and fierce friends!

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE

PERFECT TO BE FIT. YOU DO

NOT HAVE TO BE A CERTAIN

SIZE TO BE FIT. YOU DO NOT

HAVE TO HAVE A RESTRICTIVE

OR LIMITED DIET TO BE FIT.

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RECIPE

COOKING INSTRUCTIONS

INGREDIENTS:

Salt

Ground Black Pepper

Granulated Garlic

Baby Bella Mushrooms

2 Tbsp Butter

Red Onion , diced

Garlic , minced

1/2 cup Beef Stock

1 Tbsp Balsamic Vinegar

1 Tbsp Worcestershire

Sauce

1 Medium Baby Marrow

6 Portions of Ravioli

STEP 1

About an hour before you plan to pangrill the

Rib Eye Steak, take them out of the refrigerator.

Each steak gets seasoned on all sides with Salt

(to taste) , Ground Black Pepper (to taste) and

Granulated Garlic (to taste) .

STEP 2

Let the steaks rest turning about every 15

minutes. This gives the seasoning time to pull

a little moisture out of the steak allowing flavor

to penetrate the meat. It also helps the steaks

brown during cooking.

STEP 3

While the ribeyes are resting make the

Mushroom. Melt Butter (1 Tbsp) in a sauté pan.

Add Red Onion (1/2) and cook for 2 minutes

until onion starts to soften. Add the Garlic (3

cloves) and Baby Bella Mushrooms (1 lb) and

continue cooking for 2-3 minutes. Season with a

pinch of Salt (to taste) , Black Pepper ( to taste)

and Granulated Garlic (to taste) and reduce for 1

minute.

STEP 4

Pour in the Balsamic Vinegar (1 Tbsp) and reduce

for 3 minutes. Add the Worcestershire Sauce (1

Tbsp) and Beef Broth (1/2 cup) and reduce by ½

about 4-5 minutes. Turn off the heat and add the

remaining Butter (1 Tbsp) smooth out the sauce

and keep it warm for serving.

STEP 5

About 30 minutes before grilling set pan on high

heat. After 20 minutes the pan should be really

hot. Place the steak gently. Pan fry for 5 min

either side.

STEP 6

Fry ravioli on a low temp pan. Add it to the mushrooms

STEP 7

Remove the steaks from the grill pan and allow them to rest for

5-7 minutes before serving.

STEP 8

If you like your steak more done leave it on the grill pan for

additional time. 2min additional minutes for medium and 4 for

medium well.

STEP 9

Serve these ribeyes with the Mushrooms and Ravioli over the top.

Garnish with the Baby Marrow Ribbon and you good to go.

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MOVIES

MUSIC

FAITH-BASED

FILMS TO INSPIRE

BY: ELEVATION WORSHIP & MAVERICK CITY MUSIC

It should not come as a surprise that Netflix has quickly become the trend of

the day. There is no longer a requirement to wait in line at the cinema in order to

watch the latest release. Streaming services allow users to watch their preferred

television shows and movies from the convenience of their own homes with just

the push of a button. The following is a list of Christian movies that you can

watch on Netflix while you relax.

[Verse 1]

Will You be my light, when I

cannot see?

When I can’t take another step,

Lord, would You carry me?

got mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

(The Good Shepherd) The Good

Shepherd

(Leads me to the waters) Leads me

For the Lord is my shepherd and I

shall not want

[Refrain]

I’ve got everything that I need,

Your goodness and Your mercy

COME SUNDAY

When I’ve lost my fight, will You be

my strength?

to the waters

Hallelu (Halle, halle), glory

Is following me

Got everything that I (Hey, hey

Will You set me a table in the

hallelujah

hey hey) need, Your goodness and

presence of my enemies?

And He anoints me (Hallelujah),

Your mercy

[Chorus]

anoints me with His oil

Is following me

I shall not want, I shall not want

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

Got everything that I need (Yeah,

Oh my soul’s got a shepherd in the

(Now my cup is) Now my cup is

yeah), Your goodness and Your

valley and I shall not want

(Cup is running over) My cup is

mercy

I shall not want, I shall not want

running over

Is following me

‘Cause my cup’s running over,

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

Got everything (Hey) that I need

running over and I shall not want

I won’t fear, no, (Fear no) fear no

(Your goodness and Your mercy)

[Verse 2]

evil

Your goodness and Your mercy

A crisis of faith is never an easy thing to show onscreen; what could be

more internal than the struggle to understand one’s relationship with God?

Come Sunday is based on the true story of Carlton Pearson, a beloved

Oklahoma bishop — and favored protégé of evangelist kingmaker Oral

Roberts — whose cleaving from the Pentecostal gospel caused a deep

schism not only inside his own soul but in his marriage and large Tulsa

congregation as well.

HOLY EXPECTATIONS

A touching story about a young

woman who discovers she is

pregnant with her late husband’s

child. She turns to her faith for

guidance as she tries to navigate

this difficult situation. The movie

reminds us that God always has

a plan for us, even when we

can’t see it. Some consider this

film one of the best Christian movies on Netflix.

FAITH AND HOPE

Faith and Hope is a heartwarming

story about two best

friends who turn to each other

for strength during tough times.

Faith’s father is diagnosed with

cancer, and she turns to Hope

for support. The girls lean on

each other as they navigate

through this challenging time in

their lives. The movie reminds

us that Hope is always present,

even in the darkest of times.

I will lift my eyes to where my help

comes from

And I won’t be afraid of the

shadow ‘cause I’ve seen the sun

No, I will not stop, when the way

gets hard

‘Causе the green only grows in the

valley and that’s whеre You are

[Chorus]

[Refrain]

Oh yeah

I got everything that I need, Your

goodness and Your mercy

I got everything that I need, Your

goodness and Your mercy

Y’all say that

I got everything that I need, Your

goodness and Your mercy

Say

[Bridge]

And I got goodness and I got

mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

(I will dwell) I will dwell in His

house forever

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

(Hallelujah) Hallelujah

(Can we all say?) Hallelujah

(Hallelu) Hallelu, (Oh yeah, oh

yeah) glory hallelujah

(I got a new song to sing, say)

Hallelujah

(I got a new song to sing)

Hallelujah

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

[Verse 3]

And when this life is over, I’m

gonna live again

Gonna trade this cross for a

crown, no, this is not the end

And when You call my name, I will

take my rest

There’s a mansion in glory and

You’re gonna meet me there

(Your mercy) Is following me

Got everything that I need

(Your goodness and Your mercy)

Your goodness and Your mercy

Is following me

Got everything that I need

[Outro]

I got goodness and I got mercy

(Say y’all)

Hallelu, glory hallelujah

(If you don’t have anything else,

you got Your goodness)

(I got good-) I got goodness (Oh,

no no no) and I got mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

(I thought I lost everything, I

thought I lost everything)

But I got goodness, and, and I got

mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu

(I thought I lost it all, I thought I

lost it all)

SAME KIND OF DIFFERENT AS ME

International art dealer Ron Hall and his wife, Deborah, seem to have it all. But

their world is turned upside down when they take in a homeless man named

Denver. Despite their differences, the Halls and Denver develop a deep bond

that changes all of their lives forever.

Hallelu, glory hallelujah

I got goodness (Somebody say)

and I got mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu, (Glory) glory

hallelujah

(Say it again, I got goodness) I got

goodness (And I got mercy) and I

[Chorus]

I’ll be home in His presence

forever, I shall not want

For the Lord is my shepherd, in the

valley

For the Lord is my shepherd, when

I’m lacking

Glory hallelujah

(But I still got something that

matters)

(I got) I got goodness (Yeah) and I

got mercy

(Hallelu) Hallelu, glory hallelujah

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BOOKS

BOOK REVIEWS

BEAUTIFULLY FLAWED:

RECOGNIZING YOUR WORTH IN

THE SPLENDOR OF YOUR FLAWS

UNSHAKABLE FAITH:

OVERCOMING HINDRANCES

By: Liezel Snyman

The story captured within these pages will leave you gasping,

inspired, and hopefully changed! Liezel’s caring heart and

positive attitude are evident to anyone around her. She

truly uses her platform to make a difference in the lives of

women in need of grace, compassion, forgiveness, and new

beginnings. She is vulnerable enough to use her own past

pain to prevent the future pain of others. Her journey is

undeniably an inspiring story that teaches us our painful and

dark pasts can open doors to a hopeful future. Liezel Snyman,

is a loving mother, devoted wife, entrepreneur, life coach, and

author and with a bright smile, she invites you to explore with

her, the struggles of life, dealing with teenage pregnancy, loss,

secrets, adultery, effects of divorce, illness, confusion as well

as her journey into deliverance, autonomy, grace, freedom

and ultimately forgiveness. She believes wholeheartedly, that

the way to build deeper, authentic relationships is to allow

ourselves to be authentic. We need to see ourselves, the way

God sees us. He loves us with our flaws and all… Together we

can inspire, spread hope, and make a difference.

By: Christopher Roberts

I have written this book to help people exercise God’s

unshakable faith in their day-to-day living. Basically, I have used

some of my own experiences to help people recognise the

hindrances that can come into their lives; hindrances that set

themselves up against God’s will and purpose for their futures.

Some of these hindrances relate to specific troubles that can

come against you; religious observation, financial difficulties,

poor choice of friendships, and fear and confusion; to name a

few. I have therefore considered some of the attacks against my

own faith, throughout my Christian journey, and included them

in this book to help those who have faced trials of a similar

magnitude. It is my prayer that you will discover what stands

against your faith, ‘What hinders you’, so that so that you might

learn to overcome in all things in the precious name of Jesus, so

that you can exercise unshakable faith.

MORE OF GOD: A DISTRACTED

WOMAN’S GUIDE TO MORE

MEANINGFUL QUIET TIMES

By: Betsy de Cruz

This book will help you take small steps toward God and experience

more of His power and presence.

Many of us long to experience more of God in our daily lives, yet we’re

too distracted by a busy schedule, our own anxious thoughts, and

even social media to hear His voice. We can’t slow down long enough

to receive what God wants to give us.

Betsy de Cruz has learned that opening small windows to invite God

in can make a big difference in our day. In More of God, Betsy invites

us to a fresh sense of God’s presence as we rediscover:

•How spending 20 minutes with God leads to more peace and joy

all-day

•Ways to conquer distraction and grow our prayer lives

•Simple solutions to help us hear God’s voice as we read Scripture

•Creative ideas for making quiet time a delight instead of a duty

•Hope and help when life gets too hard to have a quiet time

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TANZANIAN

MYSTERY DISEASE

SRI LANKA IN CRISIS

#JusticeForJesse

TEENS DIE

AT TAVERN

On Sunday 26 June 2022, Twenty

Women’s month,

President Rajapaksa has fled to the Maldives. Protestors have

August of 2019, was

stormed the presidential residence after months of economic

two teenagers celebrating the

no reason to celebrate

crisis. Citizens had demanded the President resign as the country

end of exams died in an incident

for the women of South

is running out of food, fuel and medicine after corruption crippled

at a the Enyobeni Tavern in East

Africa, as it was rocked

the finances of the country which was further exacerbated the

London, in the Eastern Cape.

by some of the most

economic shut down of the Covid 19 pandemic.

The owner together with two

horrendous, brutal and

With rampant inflation, long queues of people awaiting fuel,

employees have subsequently

tragic murders in South

tensions reached boiling point leading to the mass street protests

been arrested and charged with

African history. The

which ultimately led to the ousting of a sitting President.

selling alcohol to minors.

spate of killings birthed

two life terms for murder, forty years for

The country is currently looking to the International Monetary

“We still don’t know what killed

a new movement known as Am I next? robbery, eight years for sexual assault

Fund (IMF) for economic assistance as citizens await solutions to

our children,” President Ramaphosa

Her death left a community reeling and three years for fraud.

the staggering problems and shortages with which they are faced.

said.”Families need answers, they

with shock and anger, a university in The accomplice, Tasliem Ambrose was

want to know what happened to

mourning and a family broken and sentenced to twelve years imprisonment

their children,”

distraught.

for two counts of robbery.

ROE V WADE

Many of the teens ranged

Now nearly three years later to the Outside the Cape High Court, Lance

The American Supreme

between the ages of thirteen and

month the Cape Town High Court Hess, the father of Jesse Hess said,”…

Court has overturned Roe

seventeen.

pronounced itself in the sentencing of our healing process will start now.” He

v Wade 1973 on 24 June

Community members say there is

the convicted murderer of Jesse Hess further expressed his relief that the

2022. The case established

a well-known problem of underage

and her grandfather, Chris Lategan. proceedings were over and the hope

the constitutional right to

drinking.

David van Boven, her cousin, was given that the convicted will not get parole.

an abortion.

President Ramaphosa addressed

“The Constitution makes

mourners at the funeral service of

CO-FOUNDER OF SOUTH AFRICAN SATANIST CHURCH

no reference to abortion,

The mystery disease has infected over a dozen

HAS SUPERNATURAL ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS CHRIST

the departed as he continues to

and no such right is

people, three of which have succumbed to

face several challenges including

implicitly protected by any constitutional provision, including the one the disease. Patients have presented with

Co- founder of the Satanic Church in place. I have met thousands of Satanists South Africa’s load shedding crisis,

on which the defenders of Roe and Casey now chiefly rely – the Due symptoms similar to Ebola or Marburg virus

South Africa, Riaan Swiegelaar, has told over the last three years and I’m not saying corruption and questions about

Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment,”

diseases namely, fever, headache, fatigue and

of his personal encounter with Jesus the intentions are bad, they are extremely large amounts of money reportedly

“It is time to heed the Constitution and return the issue of abortion bleeding, especially from the nose, according

Christ on a Facebook Video posted on 4 broken and extremely hurt… that’s the one found hidden in furniture in his

to the people’s elected representatives,” Justice Alito wrote.

to Tanzania’s chief medical officer, Dr. Aifelo

July 2022. He describes the encounter thing we all have in common,” he said. own game farm.

Justice Alito was joined by by four other conservatives. The three Sichalwe.

as having his heart overwhelmed with “I did this ritual and I opened myself up

liberal justices opposed the decision.

Preliminary tests have excluded Ebola and

the love of Jesus. He has subsequently and Jesus appeared and I was extremely

President Biden labelled the ruling as taking an “extreme and

Marburg viruses and have also tested negative

resigned his position and membership cocky and I said, ‘if you are Jesus, you

dangerous path.”

for Covid 19.

within the organization.

need to prove it.’ And he flooded me with

“It’s a sad day for the court and for the country,”

The WHO has warned that Africa is facing a

“I got involved with Satanism because at the most beautiful love and energy and

“The Court has done what it has never done before: expressly

growing risk of outbreaks caused by zoonotic

the time it resonated with me, being very I recognized it immediately because that

take away a constitutional right that is so fundamental to so many pathogens that have non-human origins and

broken and sad without realizing it. I think woman at the radio station showed it to

Americans.”

switch species and infect humans.

the reason a lot of people resonate with me. That’s how I recognized the love of

Satanism is they come from a very broken Christ.”

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