Building Bridges
Narrative profiles on migration by twelfth graders from Evangelisches Gymnasium in Mühlhausen.
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Building Bridges
Narrative profiles on migration by
twelfth graders from Evangelisches
Gymnasium in Mühlhausen
Introduction
In the autumn of 2023, students in Katrin Stedefeld's
twelfth-grade English class at Evangelisches
Gymnasium in Mühlhausen participated in a workshop
series about transatlantic immigration.
The project began with an examination of German migration to
the United States from 1816 to 1914. A special focus was placed on
John A. Roebling, a former Mühlhausen resident who immigrated
to New York and later engineered the Brooklyn Bridge, which
would become an icon of progress and innovation in the United
States. Building upon this shared transatlantic history, the
students turned their attention to present-day immigration to and
from Mühlhausen by engaging with members of the local
community and interviewing them about their unique
perspectives on this topic.
These interviews served as the basis for creating narrative profiles
that document the personal experiences of each interviewee and
provide insights into the challenges and opportunities presented
by immigration in their respective communities. Whether
migration occurred recently or generations ago, within or across
borders, across town or across the world, by choice or through
force, for a better life or for refuge: The narrative profiles that
follow offer a glimpse into the stories of change and movement
that shape the students' community today.
Two Countries,
One Person
Lukas Nestler interviewed Kusal about his family's
immigration story and about what it means to belong
to two different places.
Kusal was born in Sri Lanka, a South Asian island country located in the
Indian Ocean. But now, Kusal lives in Mühlhausen, a city in Germany. He
is nineteen years old and likes to exercise.
Kusal and his family immigrated when he was just one year old, with his
father taking on various jobs to secure their future. Kusal’s father
worked in a cucumber factory in Russia for three months before going
to Italy, after which he eventually settled in Germany and found work as
a dishwasher. His final move brought him to Mühlhausen to work in a
friend’s restaurant, and eventually he was able to bring his family to
Germany as well.
But why did they leave Sri Lanka? Kusal explained: “My father was
looking for a better job.” That’s one of the most common reasons why
people immigrate.
Kusal noted that Sri Lanka and Germany have significant cultural
differences, such as how people address one another and how people
interact with each other. He explained that in Sri Lanka, “you address a
woman as ‘sister’ and a man as ‘brother.’” He also shared that the sense
of community is more significant than in Germany. Kusal says that in Sri
Lanka, people live together like one big family. However, Kusal also said
that the infrastructure in Sri Lanka is lacking, with chaotic traffic and
broken roads. He added: “I don't want to drive there!" Kusal noted that
the legal system in Germany is also superior to that of Sri Lanka, citing
an example where gas station workers went on strike for better working
conditions, causing a massive traffic jam because no one could refuel
their car. In the end, an army group threatened the workers to stop
striking. Kusal said: “I don’t want to experience something like that.”
Since moving to Germany, Kusal has experienced some difficulties due
to his skin color. He has been the target of racially insensitive
comments. Once, in elementary school, he was eating a chocolate
muffin when someone said: “He’s eating himself.” Although that incident
was years ago, there have been others like that. Kusal said: “I got used
to people staring at me, but it sucks that they don’t see more than the
color of my skin.”
Despite these struggles, Kusal is optimistic about his future in Germany.
He plans to complete an apprenticeship, find a job, and enjoy his life. In
addition, he said: “It would be nice if my cousin could come to
Germany.” However, that won’t be easy, because there are many
regulations that must be followed.
When asked for advice for those who wish to immigrate to Germany,
Kusal suggests: “You should learn the language and have an open
mind.”
Lukas Nestler
Immigrating for Love
Andrea Plenert spoke to Josephine Marschall about
staying in touch with one's culture, even in a new place.
Would you move to a foreign country for love? Leave everything
behind and start over? Admittedly, this idea can sound very romantic.
But relationships do not always work out in the end — and then what?
Andrea Plenert came to Germany in 1982 when she was just 22 years
old. She had met a man who lived in Munich and wanted to visit him for
a couple of months. “If someone had told me that I would end up
staying here in Germany, I would have called them crazy,” she told me.
The couple got married and Andrea moved into her partner’s
apartment. However, they later split up and got divorced only a few
years later. Instead of going back home to France, Andrea decided to
stay and started studying in Göttingen.
Andrea said that it was not very hard to settle in there. Especially in
cities with universities, it is easy to meet new people. A lot of people
from different cultures live in Göttingen and they make the city
colourful and lively. The only condition is to be open minded. “If you try
new things, it can be really exciting,” she said. Andrea believes she was
lucky to end up in such a dynamic city like Göttingen.
According to her, setting foot in a smaller town would not have been as
easy. Something that took a lot of weight off her shoulders was the fact
that she was already able to speak German fluently. In the specific
region in France where she is from, multiple languages are spoken and
her maternal grandmother was from Germany.
Sometimes she regrets her decision a little bit: "I've got Heidi-
Syndrome, everything is way too flat here,” she says — but she can
laugh about it. Mrs. Plenert feels more at home in the south of
Germany, where there are more mountains. Staying in touch with the
culture, and especially with French food, is very important to her, so she
and her new partner visit France frequently.
She still lives in Göttingen, but said that in general, Germans still seem a
little bit strange to her. She misses the French way of living and the
“carefree lifestyle,” as she calls it. So occasionally, she brings a little bit
of the culture into her everyday life. In an anecdote, she shared that
she always leaves the last sip of a drink at the bottom of her glass,
because that is what they do in France.
To answer the question whether it was easy to get a visa, Mrs. Plenert
answered that once you are registered in a German city, you have
almost the same rights as a native, thanks to the European Union.
Despite all the little differences and strange things, she would not move
back to France. She started working in a special needs centre and said
she has found a sense of community there: “You get kind of attached to
‘your’ people.” She also mentioned that sadly, her parents and brother
have passed away, so she has no one to move back for and would not
want to anyways: “But it’s alright. I have found my life and my family
here in Germany. This is my home.”
Josephine Marschall
Living in Denmark in
the Future
Carolin Alberti told Eva Guthaus about her exchange
year in Denmark and how this experience shaped her
plans for the future.
“We have to appreciate this country more." This is a quote from Carolin
Alberti about her exchange year. She is a seventeen-year-old German
student and spent one year in Denmark from 2021 to 2022 via the
organization AFS Intercultural Programs.
In an interview, Ms. Alberti talked about her experiences, troubles, and
impressions from her year abroad. Of course, the language was a
significant issue, because it was completely new to her. She did not
know anyone, so in the beginning, “it was only myself,” she recalled.
Finding new friends was difficult as Ms. Alberti could only speak English,
making her “the special one." So it was up to her to approach others.
Another obstacle Ms. Alberti faced was problems with her host family.
As a result, she changed her host family twice due to issues that arose.
“Acceptance and openness to the people, the culture, in general the
new things are really important," she said. This is what the German
student learned first in her exchange year. She calls this “advice
number one” and considers it the most important factor she learned
during her exchange year. She also advised against having too much
contact with one's family to avoid homesickness and to become more
involved in the new experiences. Of course, “there are always bad
things you can experience," but despite the potential challenges that
come with living abroad, Ms. Alberti recommends remaining positive
and trying over and over again. Ms. Alberti loved her exchange year and
says she would definitely do it again.
During the year, she found lots of friends, learned much about Denmark
and the lifestyle there, and made many memories. While abroad, she
noticed that Danish culture puts a big focus on spending time with family
and enjoying the small things are important in life: “It´s called hygge," she
explained. Ms. Alberti also found that Danes are tend to be relaxed and
mostly positive about things, as opposed to Germans, who she thinks are
more structured. In her opinion, the health and education system is also
much better than in Germany. Overall, she explained: “I would rather
choose Denmark over Germany," an impression that sums up both her
exchange year and Denmark very well.
When asked how the exchange year affected her, she replied: “This year
had a bigger effect on me than anything else in my life." Various
completely new and different situations caused Ms. Alberti to grow so
much as a person. She learned to handle difficult situations and
developed new skills and personal traits.
She shared that she would definitely recommend doing an exchange
year, an au pair job, studying or living abroad, or something like that,
because you can only gain from the experience. Even if the year or new
part of your life does not go as you wish or planned, in every case you will
learn and earn something new – experiences, lessons, memories and
maybe even friends for a lifetime.
Ms. Alberti spent a year abroad to “come out of my comfort zone and
grow as a person," as she put it. However, she also talked about Pakistani
classmates that came to Denmark because of war in their home country.
There are several and different reasons for going to another country.
Some conditions are pushing people out of their country like war or
politics, and other reasons are pulling people to a country, for example
family members, or the ability to practice one´s religion freely.
Carolin Alberti changed in her exchange year so much – in a positive
way. In her opinion, life in Denmark could be much better than Germany,
because of the lifestyle and the attitude of the people there, the health
and education system, the beautiful nature of Scandinavia, and much
more. These are the reasons why she is firmly convinced: “I see myself
living in Denmark in the future”.
Eva Guthaus
Sometimes Work
is Beautiful
Marie Probst interviewed Mrs. Pollmeier about her
experiences working alongside seasonal agricultural
laborers.
Work can be difficult sometimes, but it can also be rewarding when one
can help others achieve greater freedom. When asked about her job,
Mrs. Pollmeier, a fifty-two-year-old employee of an asparagus yard,
shared, “If I can help others through my work, then I feel more fulfilled
and motivated to go to work every day.” During the summer, individuals
from different countries, particularly from Romania and Poland, come to
harvest asparagus at her workplace.
Mrs. Pollmeier finds her job particularly fulfilling when the seasonal
workers arrive in the summer. However, she admits that communication
with employees from other countries can sometimes be challenging
due to language barriers: “One of the hardest things about the
employees from other countries is that sometimes they don’t
understand me and sometimes I don’t understand them,” she explains.
Because of the language barrier, she has tried to learn some Polish and
Romanian, but she can only understand a few words in each language.
Fortunately, her boss can speak Polish fluently, so he translates
important information.
Mrs. Pollmeier works alongside immigrants on a daily basis at work. She
finds most of them pleasant to work with and appreciates the little gifts
they bring for her. However, there are some who refuse to work with
her, which can be challenging. Mrs. Pollmeier explained that workers
are paid based on the quality of the asparagus they harvest and how
quickly they do it, rather than by the hour. This incentivizes them to
work efficiently and can lead to higher earnings for those who work
hard. “One year, one went home with over four thousand Euros,” Mrs.
Pollmeier shared, while others have earned “only four hundred.” It
seems that this payment system is not widely known outside those who
work in asparagus harvesting.
Many immigrants who come here are often seeking better pay, though
not all of them earn less than in their home countries. Many of these
individuals do not have health insurance, which is often too expensive
back at home. They come to Germany because they can receive the
same health insurance as German citizens. At Mrs. Pollmeier’s
workplace, the workers are also given a place to stay for a minimum
amount of pay, and they must only cover their own food costs.
Mrs. Pollmeier not only helps immigrants with work-related issues, but
also with personal problems. She enjoys helping them in any way she
can. Alone, many workers might feel that their problems are too big to
handle. She has also kept in contact with several Polish workers when
they returned home and tried to help them with issues in their personal
lives. As a result, Mrs. Pollmeier has gained insight into why they chose
to move to Germany.
Sometimes, Mrs. Pollmeier thinks about quitting her job because of
difficulties with her other colleagues. But when she reflects on
everyone she has met over the years, she is reminded that her passion
for helping others outweighs any negative experiences. She is
committed to her friends, her job, and her love for assisting people,
making it an easy decision for her to remain in her current position:
“Working with people from other countries can be challenging, but I
love it. Sometimes my work is made beautiful because of them.”
Marie Probst
The Lucky Streak
Olivia Timmermann interviewed Hasan Yousef about
leaving Syria, seeking refuge, and building a life in
Germany.
Refugee boat. Balkan route. Refugee camp. Everyone has a clear
picture in mind while reading these words, because everyone knows
what they mean. In 2015, the great wave of refugees began and
thousands of fugitives from Syria and other Arabic countries arrived in
Germany due to the war in Syria. It was a dynamic time that left its mark
on many people, especially on those who experienced it, such as Hasan
Yousef. He is a 40-year-old Syrian immigrant from Damascus. Mr.
Yousef timed his journey right, seized the opportunity, and fled from
Damascus to Mühlhausen via the Balkan route.
Day by day, the unrest in Syria intensified and Mr. Yousef knew he had
to make up his mind soon. He said: “I didn’t plan my escape, it was kind
of spontaneous. It was that one night that I started packing only the
bare necessities. The next morning I woke up very early and left my
apartment. The moment I pulled the door shut, I knew I had closed it
forever.” Mr. Yousef had not told his parents or his siblings that he was
going to leave. He admitted that he felt fear, uncertainty, and doubt
because he did not know what to expect or what was going to happen.
The most difficult thing for him was leaving his family, not knowing if he
would ever see them again.
Mr. Yousef was aware that he had decided to take an uncertain and
unknown route. Germany was his destination and he “was ready to
leave everything in Syria to live in peace again, where my future would
be stable." On the question of how the journey went, his face became
serious. Mr. Yousef answered: “It was awful. The most frightful part was
the overloaded boat. We were crossing the Mediterranean Sea
between Turkey and Greece. No food and no water. We drifted on the
sea for days.” There were many other men, women, and even children
with him on the boat. The nights were hard and was constantly afraid
that the boat might sink. “The journey to Germany was like playing the
lottery, because no one knew what would happen. We were just ready
to die.”
Luckily, Mr. Yousef made it. He arrived in Germany and his new life
began. Many people, and the government, welcomed him and many
other refugees and tried to provide them with a good start in Germany.
But it was not that easy, and he was faced with difficulties. One problem
was his registration and all the paperwork that had to be done. Another
issue—the biggest challenge—was learning the German language.
Mr. Yousef said that he often felt depressed because he had lost nearly
everything. “In Damascus, I had my family, a good job, a flat and here I
had nothing," he explained. Fortunately, Mr. Yousef became integrated
into a group of German friends who helped him learn German, helped
with his first move into another flat, and assisted him with finding a job.
Today, he says that through the migration, his friends helped him to
trust and find himself again in order to rebuild a new life in a new
culture. He says is sure he had a lucky streak.
Olivia Timmermann
Broadening Our
Horizons
Jörg and Ramona Zimmermann told Laura Kolwa
about their experiences living abroad in Shenyang,
China.
If you had the opportunity to go to China to work there for two years,
would you do it? The Zimmermann family, who lives close to Munich,
was confronted with this question in 2012 and they embarked on the
adventure of going to China.
Jörg and Ramona Zimmermann studied in Freiberg before they moved
to Bavaria. There, Mr. Zimmermann worked in a foundry for BMW. China
had a big market for expensive car brands back then and BMW wanted
to expand to China with an engine plant. These circumstances gave Mr.
Zimmermann the opportunity to work in Shenyang for two years and
help build the engine plant.
Two years before that started, Mr. and Mrs. Zimmermann discussed the
plan and Mrs. Zimmermann agreed to move abroad. Then, they told
their kids about the idea and the family took a one-week-long “lookand-see”
trip to China, so they could explore and learn about the
culture through an intercultural training. After two years of preparation,
the family finally arrived in Shenyang in August 2014. Then, their new life
began. Mr. Zimmermann spent his days working at the foundry and Mrs.
Zimmermann organized their daily life and took a Chinese course. The
kids, Elsa and Volkmar, went to an international school, where Mrs.
Zimmermann later worked.
The family shared many things that surprised them in China. As one
example, Mr. Zimmerman said: “Chinese construction workers are
incredibly fast with building. If a road needs to be repaired, it happens
immediately and they work very efficiently.” Mrs. Zimmermann remarked
that there are many skyscrapers and huge malls in China: “When you go
to a store, you have to imagine Karstadt times ten," she said. There are
big malls for just one product and the stores are even open on
Sundays.
The Zimmermann family also described other differences they found in
China, such as transportation. “The cabs do not just stand around, but
are constantly driving. You just have to stand on the sidewalk and one
will come," said Mr. Zimmermann. Train journeys are also different than
in Germany, as security is a very high priority in China. Train tickets are
typically bought online, and before even entering the train station, the
passengers' tickets and passports are checked and the baggage is
screened. The Zimmermann family found that the trains were extremely
punctual and pleasant to ride. Plus, because of all the surveillance
measures, crimes rarely occur.
The Zimmermanns also found that the people in China are different
from most Germans. For example, Chinese families are often close-knit
and families usually do not invite others to their homes. Furthermore,
the Zimmermanns reported that many Chinese people wanted to take
photos with them because they looked so different and they had two
blonde children at a time when China still had a one-child policy.
As they settled in, the Zimmermanns enjoyed learning all about a new
culture. The only problem was communication. Chinese people do not
usually speak English, and Chinese is a hard language to learn. Mrs.
Zimmermann learned the basics in her Chinese class, but Mr.
Zimmermann did not learn Chinese. “There are four different ways to
pronounce a letter and that’s way too complicated for me," he said.
Even the same word can mean two very different things: "'Ma” can
stand for either a woman or a horse," Mr. Zimmermann recalled. But
restaurants in China often have pictures on their menus, so they could
still order food without speaking Chinese.
During their two years in China, the Zimmermanns did not only explore
Shenyang. They also visited Beijing, Shanghai, Bangkok, Seoul, Hong
Kong, Thailand, Cambodia, and the Philippines. By the time they came
back to Germany in 2016, they had many memories and had many
stories to tell. They say that those two years broadened their horizons
and that they have evolved as human beings. In February 2021, they
made the decision to go back to Shenyang for three years, beginning in
March 2023. This time, they will go without children and to another
district, so that they can get to know China anew after seven years
away.
Laura Kowla
From Ukraine to
Germany
Johanna Rösner wrote about Maria Plakntyna, who
fled the war in Ukraine to settle in Germany with her
sisters.
What is like to flee from Ukraine to Germany? In the early morning of
February 24, 2022, Russia started its war against Ukraine in an attempt
to occupy the country. Since then, many people have left Ukraine out
of fear and insecurity. Many of them come to Germany. So too did three
sisters named Maria Plakntyna, 21, Solomiya, 19, and Katja, 17. They came
to a small community in Mühlhausen.
Their journey began in February, when Maria visited her sister
Miroslawa, who had already been living in Mühlhausen for several years,
working at a hotel. The visit was a birthday gift from their parents, who
live in Lwiw, a city in western Ukraine that is home to around 700,000
people. Their mother works as an English teacher at a university, and
their father is an engineer, a background which has helped the family
settle in Germany as they can speak English very well.
After the war began, Maria´s parents stayed in Ukraine. Miroslawa joined
her parents in Lwiw because she wanted to help them, while Maria,
Solomiya, and Katja were sent to Germany for their safety. Miroslawa
found a family with a small farm in a nearby village who was willing to
take in refugees from Ukraine. The family also had three daughters who
were the same ages as Maria, Solomiya, and Katja. The sisters arrived at
the farm on April 6, 2022. They said of the experience: “We have found
a second family."
Later on, Miroslawa was able to find a new home for them in
Mühlhausen, and they moved into an apartment at the end of July.
Despite the challenges of being in a new country, the sisters try to lead
a normal life and work hard for a better future. Katja graduated from
online school and plans to study medicine online at a university in Kiev.
Maria is studying journalism online, too.
Every Sunday, the sisters attend church services, where they enjoy
singing and participating in organizing the service. Recently, they even
took part in a community excursion to Naumburg. Together with a
young woman, they create recitals with modern Christian songs in
Germany, English, and Ukrainian. The sisters have found joy in these
activities, saying that it has been a "very fun" and fulfilling experience
for them.
By building new relationships through the church congregation, Maria,
Solomiya, and Katja have lots of contact with others and have often felt
comfortable in their new home. While they are grateful for the
community they have found in Mühlhausen, the sisters still hope to
explore more of what Germany has to offer. They are eager to visit
larger cities and meet new people, as well as to continue their studies
and pursue their dreams. They can even imagine staying in Germany
and building a new life there. But above all, Maria and her sisters hope
to one day be reunited with their parents and celebrate Ukrainian
Christmas together in early January.
Johanna Rösner
Immigration to Latvia
Nastassja interviewed Mr. Werner about his decision to
move to Latvia and the importance of feeling at home.
This story is not about a grandiose person. Rather, it is a story about an
outwardly simple man named Mr. Werner. He grew up in a small village
in Thuringia with his older sister and deaf parents. His mother, who
provided the only real safe space in his life, died when he was a
teenager. In the view of this turning-point in his young life and the lack
of support from the rest of his family, he had to grow up independently.
Mr. Werner said of his past: “Knowing how hard life can be, which you
naturally only experience as an adult, came to me far too soon.” Mr.
Werner later moved to Munich and started building roads. He planned
where roads should be built and rebuilt and eventually founded his own
company.
Mr. Werner is an authentic person who often speaks his mind without
worrying about how he might appear to other people. Now, how did he
come into contact with migration? He sarcastically said that he “is
accidentally married to a Latvian woman.” This led him to discover and
appreciate the hidden beauty of Latvia. The decisive push factor that
brought him to Latvia was his dissatisfaction with Germany and
Germans. In addition, he was living in a cramped apartment with his wife
and two young children.
The young family moved after Mr. Werner’s wife, who studied
bioinformatics, secured a job in Riga, the capital of Latvia. Compared to
Germany, Latvia offered better property prospects, more scenic charm,
and fewer crowds. When asked about the major difficulties in the
immigration process and what his worries were, Mr. Werner shared: “The
positive point was that I did not have to adapt to the society, as it was in
West Germany. Learning the language and ongoing money troubles
were the biggest hurdles." An additional challenge was that Mr. Werner
still had work to do in Germany, so he had to commute back and forth
between Latvia and Germany for a long time. However, he now only
misses the good bread and Asian restaurants in Germany, as he can
find everything else he likes in Latvia, though on a smaller scale.
When asked about his perception of the Latvian mentality, Mr. Werner
explained that he finds Latvians more reserved, nature-loving, and
traditional than Germans. “Germans,” he says, “can be noticed from afar,
as they speak comparatively more and very loudly.” Mr. Werner
communicates in English most of the time, but he has one German
friend in his surroundings. His community has made him feel at home in
Latvia.
Community is by far the most important thing when we look back at Mr.
Werner’s biography. After facing the devastating loss of his mother in
his younger years and the challenges of commuting back and forth
from Germany to Latvia, Mr. Werner expresses gratitude for his
immigration to Latvia. While not every problem that he faced in the past
has vanished, the privilege of seeing his little sons all the time, living in a
beautiful environment, and feeling free at home is, as he puts it, “a nice
coincidence.”
Nastassja
A Young Person's Plan
Benjamin Duczek interviewed Franziska Graser about
her preparations to move abroad after graduating from
high school.
When discussing immigration, most people tend to focus on those who
have already moved to Germany. However, few pay attention to those
who are still planning to do so. This is exactly the case of Franziska
Graser, a 17-year-old student from Austria who is already planning her
move to Germany.
Franziska has never been scared by the idea of going abroad. She has
already visited many countries and even spent five months in Canada
in 2022. “You get to experience many different aspects on your
journey,” she said, sitting in front of a map where she can scratch off
the countries she has visited.
Franziska is already planning her next adventure: moving to Germany
after she graduates. When asked why she chose this country, she said
that it might be easier to adjust, as the culture is very similar to Austria’s.
“Of course, this will also affect the experience I’m going to have,” she
said.
The main reason why Franziska wants to move to Germany is her search
for more personal freedom. “I love my family, but I also need space for
myself and don’t need my life being interrupted due to little things,”
Franziska explains. She hopes that distance will help her achieve this
goal, but she also sees the move as an opportunity to meet German
friend’s she's made online and to see her boyfriend more often. Besides
that, Franziska hopes to study in Germany and set up a life there. “I
hope that I can manage to get started over there,” she shares. While
some people may view this as quite a big step for someone so young,
Franziska is determined to follow through with her plan.
As an Austrian, Franziska does not think she will encounter significant
difficulties in being accepted by the German community. “Due to my
origin, I won’t have it as difficult as immigrants from other cultures,” she
said when thinking about her fears for the future. “Hopefully, I won’t be
reduced to Austrian stereotypes,” she said laughing, as she explains
that many people think Austrians live in the mountains with their cows
and speak a dialect that no ‘normal’ person could understand. At the
same time, she hopes that she will not lose her slight dialect. “This is
something that defines me and belongs to me. It is really important for
me,” she explains.
Of course, there are risks that come along with such a big plan, but
Franziska tries to focus on the positive aspects. She recognizes that
while Austria and Germany are similar in many ways, there are still major
differences, such as in the legal system. “Before taking such a big step,
you need to educate yourself about the place you want to go,”
Franziska said, “and of course, you need to start saving money as soon
as possible.” For many people, the fear of being alone can be daunting.
But even for this situation, advises: “It is really important to go out and
get to know people. You will find friends who can help you fight the
loneliness.”
When asked about home-sickness, she shared that she will surely miss
things from her home. But Franziska plans to visit Austria often,
especially for skiing trips. “In this time, I can also escape the serious and
strict Germans,” she jokes.
Benjamin Duczek
An Aspiring Soccer
Player
Rishabh Malhotra spoke to Nathan Bomberg about
cultural adjustment, identity, and belonging.
Rishabh Malhotra, an eighteen-year-old Indian soccer player, came to
Germany in 2019 to make his dream come true: becoming a
professional soccer player in a major soccer league. Although born in
San Diego, California to Indian parents, his family moved back to India
when he was just three months old so his father could pursue a new job
opportunity. Throughout his childhood in India, Rishabh spoke English
at home and in school.
Rishabh has wanted to become a professional soccer player since he
was a little boy. To fulfill this dream, he moved to the boarding school
“Soccer City” in Lengenfeld, Germany, where he is currently the captain
of the B-Juniors team, playing as a midfielder.
In Germany, Rishabh sees better opportunities for success than in
India, due to the country’s major soccer league, the Bundesliga, which
has a worldwide reputation. When asked if he feels at home in
Germany, Rishabh answered that he does, but he also feels a
connection to the United States and India because his family still
resides there.
In Germany, there is often the belief that immigrants should fully
culturally adjust to the host country. When asked what he thinks about
that mindset, Rishabh said: “Immigrants are expected to leave behind
their previous identities and fully assimilate. I do not agree.” Instead, he
believes immigrants should expand their identity with German aspects
of living. He values respect for the law and human rights, and believes
that cultural adjustment should not involve the loss of identity.
Despite feeling at home in Germany, Rishabh is still not sure if he fully
belongs here. He sometimes lacks cultural context and has difficulty
understanding certain dialects.
When asked if being an immigrant has affected his life in Germany,
Rishabh said: “The majority of the people here are very polite, but there
are also a few racist people. I have even been called the n-word, only
because I have dark-colored skin.” Some other people have made fun
of his accent, but after nearly three and a half years in Germany,
Rishabh speaks very well. He is now nearly fluent German, a skill which
he is proud of.
When asked if he would like to obtain German citizenship, Rishabh
responded positively: “It would make it easier for me to come back to a
German league after I transfer to a club in England, for example.” So his
answer was a clear “yes.” Since his arrival in 2019, Rishabh has learned a
great deal about German culture, people, and improved his soccer
skills. With his hard work and diligence, he may become a well-known
soccer player in the future, seen on TV.
Nathan Bomberg
"Spanish has Always
Been my First Language"
Emily Rom interviewed Alejandra N. about how
language helps her stay connected to family members
abroad.
Eighteen-year-old Alejandra was born and raised in the United States,
but English is not her first language. Her family is from Mexico and they
immigrated to America.
Alejandra lives with her parents and two siblings. In an anecdote about
her mother’s migration story, Andrea shared that her older sister was
born in Mexico, but her mother had to leave her with her grandmother
when she moved to America at age twenty-three, seeking better
opportunities. In the US, she met Alejandra’s father, who is also from
Mexico, at a dance. Soon after, she found a job at a post office, while
her partner worked as a carpet installer. After the couple had saved up
enough money, they were able to bring Alejandra’s sister to the US.
Now, her aunts and uncles also live in America.
Alejandra was born in America, but keeps close ties to Mexico. Although
she learned English at a very young age, she said, “Spanish has always
been my first language and English my second.” In school, she had the
opportunity to take her elementary classes in both languages.
Today, her family is still faced with issues as they pursue the American
Dream. There is the constant fear of getting deported by the US
Immigration and Customs Enforcement, also called ICE. ICE tries to
prevent cross-border crimes and illegal immigration to the United
States. Alejandra shared that former president Donald Trump made
many racist remarks about Mexican people and even made plans to
build a wall at the American-Mexican border. “The policies and
comments made by people in power are something to be afraid of,” she
said.
The constant fear is not the only issue Alejandra talked about. She also
stated that if her parents were to leave the U.S., they would not be
allowed to come back. Once she turns 21 years old, she can help her
parents obtain passports so they can travel abroad. Alejandra said:
“They have been wanting to go to Mexico for a while and it’s always sad,
because I’m the one able to go, but they can’t go.” Alejandra has visited
Mexico twice. Once was for her birthday, but she had to travel alone
due to the issues with the passport. “I wish they could go with me.
Spending my birthday in Mexico without them was sad,” Alejandra said.
Even though Alejandra did not experience immigration herself, her
parents told her that it is very risky and difficult. She shared a piece of
advice for people migrating to the US: “Just try to stay safe.” Immigrants
are often tricked and can get into dangerous situations.
Ever since America was discovered, people have immigrated there to
start a new life. Even today, Alejandra knows a lot of people whose
families have generations of immigrants. In her high school were mostly
Hispanic and Asian students and she explained that they would often
celebrate their cultures within school events, for example by making
offerings to relatives who had already passed away on November 2nd,
the Day of the Dead.
Still, living in the US makes it hard for Alejandra to advance her Spanish
skills, but she says: “I’m thankful to have a family that speaks Spanish, so
I will never forget it.”
Emily Rom
A Star Shining in the
Dark
Celine Hill wrote about Iruni Weddikara's immigration
story, highlighting the resilience of people who seek a
better life.
A light shining in a dark place – being guided to a place far away. The
light lost its sparkle for a while after arriving. But it did not take long to
regain its strength to shine brighter than ever before. This seems to be
the story of Iruni Weddikara Aracchige, who left Sri Lanka to start a new
life in Germany.
Mrs. Weddikara immigrated to Germany seventeen years ago with her
parents and her little brother. After finishing elementary school in Sri
Lanka, she started high school after immigrating, and it was not an easy
time for her. Mrs. Weddikara had to deal with racist jokes and even one
attack. She recalls the other students making racially insensitive
comments, such as: “Look at her! Her house must have been burning!”
or “Do not eat my dog!” Despite these challenges, Mrs. Weddikara
managed to persevere with the support of her friends and classmates
showing interest in her traditions and culture.
After finishing high school, Mrs. Weddikara wanted to become a doctor,
but she soon realized that an apprenticeship would suit her better.
Shortly after graduation, she met her now-husband and father of her
two children. Looking back, Mrs. Weddikara said she is glad to have had
the opportunity to choose her own path, something that may not have
been possible in Sri Lanka. She values the independence and freedom
of choice that Germany offers. However, Mrs. Weddikara is grateful for
much more than that. The healthcare system, financial support, stable
government, and equal and supportive infrastructure—for example, the
clean streets, public transport, and 5G network—are some of the
benefits she has experienced in Germany.
Mrs. Weddikara says that in contrast, “in Sri Lanka corruption is like the
air surrounding us — it is all around politics.” She believes that the
government is controlled by money and the will to gain power.
Additionally, she noted that social policies concentrate on the cities,
leaving behind people who live in rural areas. These conditions make it
difficult for ordinary people to thrive. Especially now that she is
pregnant with her second child, Mrs. Weddikara feels calm and
confident about raising her baby in Germany.
Still, there are some things that she misses about living in Sri Lanka.
“Being close to your family, or being neighbors, has more importance in
our culture than what I have experienced here,” she mentioned. Mrs.
Weddikara also finds Germans to be more private, making it difficult to
establish close relationships. Moreover, she finds the immigration
process and conditions for immigration to be too bureaucratic,
particularly because of all the necessary paperwork and the time it
takes for the process to be finished. In her opinion, this can make it
challenging for immigrants to settle in Germany.
When asked about whether she would immigrate again, Mrs. Weddikara
stated that looking back, she would do it all over again — not only
because of the experiences she has had and the life she has built now,
but mostly for the sake of her children. She wants them to have the
safety, opportunities, and freedom that she has experienced in
Germany, and she hopes they will shine even brighter than she has.
Celine Hill
I Came, I Saw, I Lived!
Vincent Schubert shed light on inter-E.U. immigration
in his interview with Martin, who moved to central
Germany.
Martin, born in Slovakia, immigrated to Germany in 2011. Listening to his
words you realize that this person working at the professorship for
computer science in architecture at the Bauhaus-University in Weimar
has a calm character but seems to be very intelligent. The man wearing
big glasses has a young and friendly face. Is he happy to live in
Weimar? “Yes,” he says.
The pathway for his immigration to Germany was smoothed by his EUcitizenship.
In Slovakia he studied architecture, but after his final exams
he only found work as a programmer. “However, I thought that it’s kind
of a pity to study architecture for six years and then do something
completely different right afterwards,” Martin said. So, he started to look
for different opportunities somewhere else.
Being a student included in the Erasmus-program, Martin passed one
semester at the Bauhaus-University in Weimar. Since he already knew
there were some good opportunities, he asked Mr. Schneider, who
works at the professorship for computer science in architecture, if there
was work in this department. When Martin got the job, he traveled to
Germany by train. “Everything was super easy,” he said.
One of the main issues was the language. Although Martin had already
learned German at school, he needed a few months to get used to the
speed and common language phrases. Fortunately, many people at
university spoke English. At first, Martin did not know where to stay, so
he rented an apartment. “But then I was very fortunate and bumped
into someone who asked me to rent a free room in a shared flat,” he
said. In this way he got to know new people. “It was a very lucky
decision!” Martin believes, because then he got the opportunity to
make new social contacts.
Although the German bureaucracy did not cause any problems eleven
years ago, “right now everything takes an extremely long time," Martin
said. “I still have this feeling that nothing is working like it should.” Two
and a half years ago Martin applied for German citizenship, but he is still
waiting for it. Despite not causing any problems, as Martin comes from
an EU-state, if he had it, “it would feel like you are more part of the
country you live in,” Martin believes.
If you leave your homeland, you also must leave your family and your
circle of friends. Martin has a girlfriend who stayed in Slovakia at first.
During the first years. Martin visited his girlfriend every two or three
months and despite the big distance the relationship survived. Now
they live together in Weimar. Martin visits his family still living in Slovakia
just twice a year, but his relationship with them is still good.
Martin is happy to live in Weimar. “I really cannot imagine what I would
do back home," he said. He knows some people who had more
problems getting along in Germany, as some of his colleagues feel kind
of isolated in their new life. But Martin believes he knows the reason:
“Usually people who have wasted this opportunity to live with other
people, feel lonely, because then it’s pretty hard to find friends and to
start relationships.” For him the sharing of a flat with other people was
very important: “Everything was so much easier,” Martin concluded.
Vincent Schubert
The Light is Different,
Brighter
Hannah Schlegel interviewed Edgar Schlegel about his
experience moving from western to eastern Germany.
This text is about a life — part of a life. This profile is about a boy — a
boy who grew up. His name is Edgar Schlegel. This profile is about his
life story and his migration from West Germany to East Germany.
“The light was different, brighter,” he remembered, absorbed in his
thoughts as we sat together. Then he began to report. Edgar was born
in West Germany on July 15th, 1965 in a small village called Bretach
with a population of 1,500 people — so everyone knew each other. The
village was located in a valley near a small river and was surrounded by
fields, meadows with fruit trees, and a forest. Edgar recalls: “I lived in the
middle of the village, and it often smelled like fresh hay because there
were a lot of barns nearby.” When he thinks about his childhood, he
remembers that he went out with friends every day. “We met with about
thirty other children and played on the street, in the fields, and in the
forest. We played soccer, rode our bikes, went sledding, and played
hide and seek,” he said. Twenty years later, he now resides in
Mühlhausen, which used to be part of East Germany.
Edgar studied psychology in Heidelberg from 1992 to 1998. He met his
wife, Annett Schlegel, in 1999. He said: “At first it was very difficult here
in Mühlhausen. I worked in psychiatry. Almost all my colleagues came
from Göttingen.” When asked about what was different from West
Germany, he said he was immediately recognized in Mühlhausen
because in West Germany he had a different way of speaking German.
However, he soon adjusted to the new environment and now he likes
the way of living and speaking in Mühlhausen, as well as the
multicultural society.
When asked whether coming to Mühlhausen was the right decision,
Edgar answered: “I have a circle of friends, I know a lot of people. I have
my own medical practice. I’m politically interested and I’m in the district
assembly. I made music with a friend and we perform onstage. I’ve got
two wonderful children and a beautiful wife. I’m very happy about that.”
While he is happy with the decisions he has made, there are some
things he sometimes misses about his old life. The nature that
surrounded him in Bretach and the fact that he could open the door
and walk just three steps into the green are some of the things that he
longs for. He added: “I wouldn’t move into a city again.”
When asked about migration, Edgar believes that it is necessary: “On
the one hand, it is an act of humanity, and on the other hand, it is
important because of worker resources,” he said. He acknowledged
that Thuringia loses 12,000 residents every year because of the aging
population and the low birth rate. When asked if he thinks our society is
tolerant enough to accept this development, he answered: “No society
is tolerant enough for migrants. People are always afraid of things they
don’t know, like a foreign language, a different appearance, or clothing.
Any loss of control for us is terrifying.” He believes that society is
becoming less reserved about this topic, but the fact that people are
still afraid shows how long things like this last.
When asked if he would like to move back to Bretach, Edgar answered:
“Not at the moment, all my friends moved away and I don’t know
anyone. I would not rule it out. But right now, I’m here.”
Hannah Schlegel
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