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Florida Letters for First Lady Casey DeSantis

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Dear <strong>First</strong> <strong>Lady</strong> <strong>Casey</strong> <strong>DeSantis</strong>,<br />

It is hard to put into so few words what a wonderful person Patrick “Quinn” Hofmann was.<br />

Quinn had one brother and three sisters. Quinn was a protector, the fixer, and the kindest<br />

soul you could ever meet! He loved life, his family, and he wasn’t prepared to die at age<br />

38. Quinn was an Army Iraqi War Veteran, who served his country with honor <strong>for</strong> 9 years.<br />

He loved the military life and the camaraderie that came along with it. Due to an injury<br />

while in Iraq, Quinn was offered a medical discharge. He was convinced this was the best<br />

<strong>for</strong> him. When he left the Army and began transitioning back into the civilian world, he lost<br />

the camaraderie he once had with his military family. He began a complicated and difficult<br />

journey to find that same sense of belonging; he wanted that unbreakable bond. Instead of<br />

friendship, time after time he fell in with the wrong crowd and relationships. Quinn had<br />

injured his back during his time in service and his injuries were considered inoperable and<br />

would worsen with time. He was prescribed a narcotic pain medication to help with his<br />

pain. A few years into the medication making his pain tolerable, stricter prescription laws<br />

were passed. The VA could no longer prescribe the medication he had become so<br />

dependent on using. He tried to deal with the pain, but he ended up turning to the streets<br />

to buy these street pills. With the back injury coupled with PTSD, he did not know how to<br />

function without a way of numbing himself. These drugs gave him the ability to exist in his<br />

own world without the stress, pain, and anxiety he felt without them. There were many<br />

sleepless nights <strong>for</strong> our family during his active addiction. We knew that he loved us, that<br />

he didn’t want to die -- but we also knew his addiction was more powerful than anything<br />

we were capable of fighting on our own.<br />

After an arrest <strong>for</strong> some stolen goods, I was able to get him into a court in this area called<br />

“VA Court”. This court was established to get veterans back on track. Eventually, as<br />

Quinn’s mother I pleaded with the VA Court to place Quinn into a residential rehab and<br />

work towards a recovery rather than just punishment time and time again. Luckily the<br />

judge agreed, and Quinn was placed in a 17-month residential program to get him into<br />

recovery called Pathways <strong>for</strong> Change. This was the miracle we were ALL waiting <strong>for</strong>!<br />

Now, let’s fast <strong>for</strong>ward. Quinn was clean <strong>for</strong> nearly 3 years after completing his program.<br />

He was healthy, he was clean, and his life was heading in the direction he always wanted<br />

it to. Everything was finally falling into place <strong>for</strong> him, and we were all so proud of him!<br />

There were bumps in the road, yes – because Quinn was still the fixer. In September<br />

2022, tragedy struck our family, and we lost Quinn’s brother to suicide. It was unexpected<br />

and Quinn took it very hard. He was seeing a girl who we later discovered was an addict.<br />

She saw this loss to get what she wanted. Just months be<strong>for</strong>e he died, we will never <strong>for</strong>get<br />

the day he closed on his own home; he was just so proud of himself and his<br />

accomplishment of his very own home! There were FaceTime’s with tours, lots of calls,

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