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South Woodford Village Gazette<br />
COMPASSION<br />
South Woodford resident Michael Walford-Grant is using his recent book<br />
publishing deal to raise funds for The Compassionate Friends, an<br />
organisation that supports bereaved parents<br />
In 2002, on a cold, dark <strong>Nov</strong>ember<br />
morning, my wife and I lost our beautiful<br />
boy, William. He was 13 years old, doing<br />
his paper round on his bike before school<br />
to save up enough money to go on holiday<br />
to Disney World in Florida. He was our<br />
only child. The loss was devastating. The<br />
memory of the policeman arriving at<br />
our front door at 7.30 in the morning will<br />
remain with me forever.<br />
Since then, my wife and I have rebuilt our lives,<br />
one slow, painful step after another. We have<br />
both experienced some very dark moments<br />
along the way.<br />
In 2017, I joined The Compassionate Friends<br />
as a helpline volunteer. The charity provides a<br />
range of support services for bereaved parents<br />
and siblings. I help most Monday evenings.<br />
Because all the volunteers have experienced<br />
the loss of a child, the parents calling the<br />
helpline really appreciate the fact that when<br />
they call, they get to speak to someone who<br />
has gone through something similar to them.<br />
The work is very satisfying, albeit emotional<br />
at times.<br />
Away from the charity, in <strong>Nov</strong>ember of last<br />
year, I signed an international book publishing<br />
deal with an American publishing house. I am<br />
not an author, so securing the contract was,<br />
and is, very exciting. I am an experienced sales<br />
professional, and after a career of working for<br />
companies, I decided to start my own sales<br />
consulting practice. One month before the<br />
pandemic hit, so not great timing!<br />
However, it is through this that I came up<br />
with the idea for the book Sales Unplugged:<br />
The Invaluable “Go To Guide” for Busy B2B<br />
Salespeople. It is a book of sales best practices,<br />
targeted at business-to-business sales<br />
professionals. It took about nine months to<br />
put together and draws upon a vast array<br />
of materials and experience, acquired and<br />
collated over a career spanning more than<br />
30 years. Part two of the book is a collection<br />
of stories and anecdotes, ranging from the<br />
dramatic to the funny to the deeply personal.<br />
The locations for the stories include Dublin,<br />
New York, Abu Dhabi and Austria, plus, of<br />
course, my home town, London.<br />
I am proud of my profession and passionate<br />
about giving something back after<br />
experiencing my loss, which is unlike any<br />
other type of bereavement. So, I am using my<br />
book to raise funds.<br />
The charity is always in need of money to<br />
enable us to continue to support bereaved<br />
parents and siblings with a comprehensive<br />
range of support services. My target is to raise<br />
£1,000 by the end of the year.<br />
If you would like to donate, and optionally<br />
acquire a copy of the book, it would mean a<br />
great to deal me. Thank you.<br />
For more information and to donate,<br />
visit swvg.co.uk/tcf<br />
To advertise, call 020 8819 0595 or visit swvg.co.uk