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South Woodford Village Gazette<br />

COMPASSION<br />

South Woodford resident Michael Walford-Grant is using his recent book<br />

publishing deal to raise funds for The Compassionate Friends, an<br />

organisation that supports bereaved parents<br />

In 2002, on a cold, dark <strong>Nov</strong>ember<br />

morning, my wife and I lost our beautiful<br />

boy, William. He was 13 years old, doing<br />

his paper round on his bike before school<br />

to save up enough money to go on holiday<br />

to Disney World in Florida. He was our<br />

only child. The loss was devastating. The<br />

memory of the policeman arriving at<br />

our front door at 7.30 in the morning will<br />

remain with me forever.<br />

Since then, my wife and I have rebuilt our lives,<br />

one slow, painful step after another. We have<br />

both experienced some very dark moments<br />

along the way.<br />

In 2017, I joined The Compassionate Friends<br />

as a helpline volunteer. The charity provides a<br />

range of support services for bereaved parents<br />

and siblings. I help most Monday evenings.<br />

Because all the volunteers have experienced<br />

the loss of a child, the parents calling the<br />

helpline really appreciate the fact that when<br />

they call, they get to speak to someone who<br />

has gone through something similar to them.<br />

The work is very satisfying, albeit emotional<br />

at times.<br />

Away from the charity, in <strong>Nov</strong>ember of last<br />

year, I signed an international book publishing<br />

deal with an American publishing house. I am<br />

not an author, so securing the contract was,<br />

and is, very exciting. I am an experienced sales<br />

professional, and after a career of working for<br />

companies, I decided to start my own sales<br />

consulting practice. One month before the<br />

pandemic hit, so not great timing!<br />

However, it is through this that I came up<br />

with the idea for the book Sales Unplugged:<br />

The Invaluable “Go To Guide” for Busy B2B<br />

Salespeople. It is a book of sales best practices,<br />

targeted at business-to-business sales<br />

professionals. It took about nine months to<br />

put together and draws upon a vast array<br />

of materials and experience, acquired and<br />

collated over a career spanning more than<br />

30 years. Part two of the book is a collection<br />

of stories and anecdotes, ranging from the<br />

dramatic to the funny to the deeply personal.<br />

The locations for the stories include Dublin,<br />

New York, Abu Dhabi and Austria, plus, of<br />

course, my home town, London.<br />

I am proud of my profession and passionate<br />

about giving something back after<br />

experiencing my loss, which is unlike any<br />

other type of bereavement. So, I am using my<br />

book to raise funds.<br />

The charity is always in need of money to<br />

enable us to continue to support bereaved<br />

parents and siblings with a comprehensive<br />

range of support services. My target is to raise<br />

£1,000 by the end of the year.<br />

If you would like to donate, and optionally<br />

acquire a copy of the book, it would mean a<br />

great to deal me. Thank you.<br />

For more information and to donate,<br />

visit swvg.co.uk/tcf<br />

To advertise, call 020 8819 0595 or visit swvg.co.uk

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